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”G ibe‗t mgfl deytcgea clrl dt dmm,‚ sdgi @rbib, ”stlp br stbel, krldtc br kbel. Ldrtc, dgr dei wdtlr dmm sllj dnnursli. Kut sb bur pdtc gs mdgi.‚ ”Wls, tcdt‗s sb,‚ sdgi ^dj. ”Dei wl scbumie‗t kl clrl dt dmm, g wl‗i febwe jbrl dkbut gt klbrl wl stdrtli. Kut G suppbsl gt‗s b`le tcdt wdy. Yl krdvl tcgeas ge tcl bmi tdmls dei sbeas, Jr. @rbib8 divleturls, ds G usli tb ndmm tclj. G usli tb tcgef tcdt tcly wlrl tcgeas tcl wbeilrum bmf b tcl stbrgls wlet but dei mbbfli br, klndusl tcly wdetli tclj, klndusl tcly wlrl lxngtgea dei mgl wds d kgt iumm, d fgei b spbrt, ds ybu jgact sdy. Kut tcdt‗s ebt tcl wdy b gt wgtc w gtc tcl tdmls tcdt rldmmy jdttlrli, br tcl bels tcdt stdy ge tcl jgei. @bmf sllj tb cdvl klle hust mdeili ge tclj, usudmmy’tclgr pdtcs wlrl mdgi but tcdt wdy, wdy, ds ybu put gt. Kut G lxplnt tcly cdi mbts b ncdenls, mgfl us, b turegea kdnf, bemy tcly igie‗t. Dei g tcly cdi, wl scbumie‗t febw, klndusl tcly‗i cdvl klle brabttle. Ql cldr dkbut tcbsl tcdt hust wlet be’ dei ebt dmm tb d abbi lei, jgei ybu6 dt mldst ebt tb wcdt bmf gesgil d stbry dei ebt butsgil gt ndmm gt d abbi lei. Wbu febw, nbjgea cbjl, dei ffleigea tcgeas dmm rgact, tcbuac ebt qugtl tcl sdjl’mgfl bmi Jr. Kgmkb. Kgmkb. Kut tcbsl drle‗t dmwdys tcl klst tdmls tb cldr, tcbuac tcly jdy kl tcl klst tdmls tb alt mdeili ge! G wbeilr wcdt sbrt b tdml wl‗vl wl‗vl dmmle getb2‚ ”G wbeilr,‚ sdgi @rbib, ”kut G ibe‗t febw. Dei tcdt‗s tcl wdy b d rldm tdml. dfl dey bel pdrt tcdt ybu‗rl bei b. Wbu jdy febw, br aulss, wcdt fgei b tdml gt gs, cdppy-leigea br sdi-leigea, kut tcl plbpml ge gt ibe‗t ibe‗t febw. Dei ybu ibe‗t ibe‗t wdet tclj tb.‚ ‚ [geas ’H.[.[.bmfgle , ’H.[.[.bmfgle , Yl Mbri b tcl [geas
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e H.[.[. bmfgle‗s Mbri b tcl [geas, @rbib dei ^dj fflei tcljslmvls ge tcl t cl jgiiml b de genrligkml tdml, de divleturl tcdt tcly just sll tcrbuac tb nbjpmltgbe, ebt febwgea ”wcdt sbrt b tdml‚ gt wgmm kl ge tcl lei. 4 Dt tcgs pbget ge ybur mgl, elgtclr ybu ebr ybur spbusl cdvl dey gild wcdt sbrt b stbry ybu cdvl mdeili ge. Yl stbry gs dkbut tb uebmi, kut hust ds @rbib dei ^dj darlli tb hbge tcl qulst, ybu just nbjjgt tb jdfl tcl trgp tbwdri rlnbvlry, rlnbvlry, ilspgtl ilspgtl tcl bkstdnmls dei rgsfs tcdt mdy dcldi. [ljljklr, ybu dei ybur spbusl cdvl sgaeli d nbetrdnt ds de geigndtgbe b ybur nbjjgtjlet tb tcgs prbnlss. G ybu cdvl ebt ylt sgaeli tcgs nbetrdnt, kbtc b ybu scbumi ib sb geigvgiudmmy dei tcle t cle rldi tcrbuac tcl tlrjs tbaltclr. tbaltclr. Ds ybu prbnlli tcrbuac Qllf Qllf ;, rljljklrgea tclsl lgact tlrjs wgmm kl nrungdm tb fllp ybu abgea. Fllp tcl nbetrdnt lmljlets sdnrli, klndusl Qllf ; gs dntudmmy vlry ignumt. Wbu wgmm igsnbvlr
slvlrdm wllfs ge tcgs t cgs nbursl drl cdrilr tcde btclrs, sb G‗j agvgea ybu d wdregea klbrlcdei8 Qllf ;, Qllf 0, Qllf 3, dei Qllf 4? drl tcl jbst ljbtgbedmmy trygea b tcl nbursl. Iurgea tcbsl wllfs, wcltclr ybu drl wdtncgea d vgilb, pdrtgngpdtgea bemgel, br getlrdntgea wgtc ybur spbusl, ybu wgmm fflei tcdt wl sllf tb clmp kbtc b ybu illple ybur ueilrstdeigea b tcl btclr dei tcdt wl ilsgrl tb lenburdal lvlrybel tb kl rldm wgtc ldnc btclr. G cbpl ybu cdi d ncdenl tb wdtnc sbjl b tcl t cl jletbr stbrgls bemgel. Klndusl tcgs arbup jlltgea gs dkbut ybu klgea dkml tb tlmm ybur stbry, mgstlegea tb tcl jletbr nbupmls scbumi agvl ybu sbjl gesgact getb tcl t cl prbnlss. @br sbjl b ybu, tcgs jdy kl tcl fflrst tgjl ybu‗vl rldmmy trgli tb tlmm tcl stbry. Wbu‗mm ebtgnl tcl jletbr nbupml wds ebt qugtl ds ljbtgbedm, prbkdkmy klndusl tcly‗vl klle tclrl, ibel tcdt, dei drl klybei tcl twb-yldr jdrf. Ebw tcdt ybu‗vl ybu‗vl lxplrglenli tcl cbpl b tcl jletbr nbupml wcb jdil gt tcrbuac tclgr bwe stbry, wl wgmm prlpdrl ybu tb tlmm ybur stbry, dei tcle tb dsf dei deswlr qulstgbes qulstgbes tbaltclr ge d pbsgtgvl, rdtclr tcde ilstruntgvl, wdy. wdy. [ljljklr, [ljljklr, dmtcbuac junc b tcgs wllf‗s wllf‗s jdtlrgdm gs igrlntli tb tcl t cl spbusl wcb wds uedgtcum, tcgs prbnlss gs d hburely br tcl twb b ybu tb t dfl tbaltclr. tbaltclr. Ge tcl tlmmgea b tcl stbry dei tcl dsfgea b qulstgbes, sllf tb jdgetdge ybur getlet getlet dei wgmmgeaelss tb wbrf tbaltclr.
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Qllf ; Abdms Ygs wllf klages sbjl b tcl nrungdm wbrf b ybur hburely’rlvldmgea tcl stbry b wcdt cds cdppleli ge tcl jdrrgdal kltrdydm. Wbu Wbu wgmm kbtc k btc nbjl getb tcgs lxlrngsl wgtc iglrlet ljbtgbes dei lxplntdtgbes. Yrbuac tcgs wllf‗s lbrts, ybu wgmm mldre tb8 •
Dpprlngdtl Dpprlngdtl tcl elnlssgty br tlmmgea dei cldrgea tcl stbry stbry b b gefflilmgty ds gt bnnurrli ge ybur jdrrgdal
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[lnbaegzl [lnbae gzl ybur bwe ellis dei ybur jdtl‗s ellis ge tcl stbry-tlmmgea stbry- tlmmgea prbnlss
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\eilrstdei \eilrstdei wcy ybu elli tb dsf qulstgbes dei cbw tb klst klst dsf tclj b b ybur jdtl
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Lxpmbrl tcl rbml b ljbtgbes ge tcl stbry-tlmmgea prbnlss
^llfgea Arbuei Xlrb Klbrl ybu nde klage tb rlkugmi ybur jdrrgdal, ybu fflrst cdvl tb alt ibwe tb arbuei zlrb. G rljljklr wdtncgea wgtc cbrrbr tcl bbtdal b tcl dttdnfs be tcl Qbrmi rdil Nletlr dei tcl _letdabe be 7/44. Ydt jbregea, G wdmfli getb tcl wdgtgea rbbj ge bur bnl dei wdtncli tcl pmdels y getb tcl tbwlrs dei tcl fflrl rbdr cgac dkbvl tcl ldrtc. Ebel b jy nmglets scbwli up tcdt idy klndusl lvlrykbiy wds amuli tb tcl nmbslst tlmlvgsgbe dei prdygea. \mtgjdtlmy, \mtgjdtlmy, tcl twge t wge tbwlrs lmm, igsgetlardtgea tb tcl arbuei ge d cual nmbui b iust dei ilkrgs. Qcle ybu sll sunc rukkml rbj kugmigeas t cdt mdral, ybu jgact tcgef, ”Qcdt ge tcl wbrmi2 Cbw nde tcly lvle klage tb nmlde tcdt jlss up2‚ Kut gt wds lvle wbrsl tcde tcdt. Yly wlrl drdgi, ylt stgmm cbplum, tclrl jgact kl plbpml stgmm dmgvl ge tcdt cual pgml b rukkml. Cueirlis b rlsnul wbrflrs dei vbmuetllrs mgtlrdmmy rljbvli tcdt rukkml bel cdeium dt d tgjl, sg`gea tcrbuac gt, tr ygea tb fflei deybel wcb jgact cdvl survgvli. ^gjgmdrmy, ^gjgmdrmy, ge tcl ddgr rlnbvlry prbnlss, tcl fflrst stlp gs tb sbrt tcrbuac t crbuac tcl rukkml. Wbu‗vl abt tb alt ibwe tb arbuei zlrb, klndusl uetgm ybu lstdkmgsc dmm tcl tcl trutc’wcdt gs rldmmy tclrl’gt gs elxt tb gjpbssgkml tb klage tb rlkugmi. lmmgea lmmgea dei cldrgea tcl stbry, stbry, dsfgea dei deswlrgea tcl qulstgbes’tclsl wgmm clmp kbtc b ybu pusc dwdy tcl rukkml dei sg` tcrbuac dmm tcl pglnls sb ybu nde rldnc arbuei zlrb dei stdrt tb kugmi dadge.
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Qcdt nbeelntgbe ib ybu jdfl wgtc tcl ”Arbuei Xlrb‚ gjdalry `r bj tcl dttdnfs be 7/44 dei ybur bwe sgtudtgbe klageegea tcgs LJ^ Bemgel nbursl2
;.; Qcdt gs tcl jbst ignumt ljbtgbe br bkstdnml ybu `dnl ds ybu klage tb
sbrt tcrbuac dmm tcl rukkml b` ybur rlmdtgbescgp tb alt tb gts arbuei zlrb2
;.> Qcy ib ybu klmglvl tcgs gs ybur jbst ignumt ljbtgbe br bkstdnml2
Hgasdw _uzzmls ge tcl Idrf G igsnbvlrli ge jy bwe jdrrgdal tcdt ds mbea ds G cgi wcb G wds dei cgi wcdt G cdi ibel rbj jy jdtl, scl nbumi elvlr rldmmy febw jl. Ge dnt, G mldreli tcdt gt wds gjpbssgkml tb rldmmy kl mbvli uenbeigtgbedmmy ds mbea ds G bemy nbeigtgbedmmy mlt jy wgl febw jl. Benl G klade tb tlmm clr jy stbry, stbry, tb rlvldm lvlrytcgea tb clr dei mlt clr febw dmm, scl tbmi jl, ”G usli tb tcgef ybu wlrl sbjlwcdt scdmmbw, scdmmbw, dei ebw G rldmgzl G bemy felw dkbut 9? plrnlet b wcb ybu rldmmy wlrl. G‗j ebt qugtl surl wcdt tb ib wgtc tcl btclr 0? plrnlet.‚ plrnlet.‚ Ydt‗s bel prbkmlj tcdt gefflilmgty ndusls’wcle ybu tlmm ybur stbry, ybur spbusl rldmgzls ybu drle‗t wcb cl br scl klmglvli ybu wlrl. Wlt dt tcl sdjl tgjl, nrdzy ds gt sbueis, jy wgmmgeaelss tb scdrl lvlrytcgea wgtc clr, tb rlvldm gt dmm, dei tb qugt trygea
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tb jdegpumdtl clr ky nbetrbmmgea tcl gebrjdtgbe dntudmmy klade tb nrldtl d slesl b sdlty br jy jdtl. Benl G mlt ab b nbetrbm, scl gjjligdtlmy klade tb rlnbaegzl tcl rlsplnt G cdi br clr. clr. ^cl felw G wbumi mlt clr jdfl tcl umtgjdtl ilngsgbe, dei tcdt wds gjpbrtdet. ^cl rldmgzli G wds trustgea clr wgtc tcl gebrjdtgbe. ^cl nbumi slesl jy trust ds G jbvli tbwdri clr. clr. Jdey nbupmls klageegea tcgs rlnbvlry prbnlss wdet tb febw cbw tcly wgmm lvlr trust dadge. [lkugmigea trust wgtc tcl t cl spbusl wcb curt ybu fflrst rlqugrls cgj br clr tb trust ybu wgtc tcl t cl stbry. stbry. Clrl‗s d vgsudm gmmustrdtgbe b tcl gjpbrtdenl b tlmmgea ybur stbry. Jy djgmy rldmmy, rldmmy, rldmmy mbvls hgasdw puzzmls. b jl, kga hgasdw puzzmls drl stupgi. Mgfl jy ardeifgis, G mgfl rldmmy sjdmm hgasdw puzzmls’tcl 4?-pglnl fgei. Jy djgmy mgfls tb wbrf tcl bels wgtc ;,??? pglnls. Bel sujjlr tcly igsnbvlrli d rldmmy getlrlstgea hgasdw puzzml, d ;,???-pglnl puzzml wgtc 4? lxtrd pglnls’be pglnls’be purpbsl. Yly wlrl dmm lxngtli dkbut tcl dnt tcdt tclrl wlrl 4? lxtrd pglnls. G, be tcl t cl btclr cdei, tcbuact, Qcdt typl b gesdel, ilvgbus, jdsbncgstgn sdigst wbumi dntudmmy nrldtl tcdt2 Lvletudmmy G abt rldmmy rustrdtli dei ilnmdrli tb jy djgmy, ”G‗j but b clrl. Ygs gs hust pmdge stupgi. stupgi.‚ G hust nbumie‗t nbumie‗t sll tcl pbget pbget b ebt febwgea wcltclr br ebt tcl puzzml pglnl G clmi ge jy fflealrs klmbeali ge tcl puzzml. Wlt ds G wdtncli tclj dt wbrf, G nbumie‗t clmp kut wbeilr dt tcl strdeal hby tcly cdi sgjpmy klndusl, ds tcly sdgi, ”Gt‗s d ncdmmleal.‚ Yle G cdi d dsc b krgmmgdenl. Qcdt g G tureli but tcl mgacts2 G tcly wdetli d ncdmmleal, tcle G‗i agvl tclj d rldm rue br tclgr jbely. Nbumi tcly wbrf tcdt hgasdw puzzml ge tcl idrf2 ^b ^b G klade gjdagegea wcdt gt wbumi kl mgfl br tclj tb kl dt tcgs kga tdkml wgtc tcl mgacts b tr ygea tb wbrf tcdt hgasdw puzzml ge tcl idrf. Benl tcly tcbuact tcly‗i tcly‗i abttle gt tbaltclr, dei tcle G tureli tcl mgacts be, ib ybu tcgef tcl puzzml pglnls wbumi kl fflt tbaltclr ds tcly wlrl getleili2 G ibe‗t ibe‗t tcgef sb, klndusl gt wbumi kl elxt tb gjpbssgkml. Ybsl wcb cdvl klle uedgtcum dei cdvl ylt tb rlvldm tcl stbry lxp lnt tclgr jdtls tb wbrf d hgasdw puzzml ge tcl idrf. Qcle tcly ncbbsl tb wgtccbmi gebrjdtgbe, tcl spbusl gs brnli tb nrldtl tcl pglnls b gebrjdtgbe ge tclgr jgei. B`le wcdt tcly gjdagel gs wbrsl tcde wcdt gs rldm. ^b ebt bemy drl tcly trygea tb wbrf d hgasdw puzzml ge tcl idrf kut tcly dmsb drl trygea tb wbrf d hgasdw puzzml ge tcl idrf wgtc lxtrd pglnls, klndusl tcl uedgtcum spbusl elvlr tbmi tclj wcdt rldmmy cdppleli. Bel b tcl arldtlst ag`s ybur jdtl nde agvl ybu’trust jl be tcgs’gs tcl dkgmgty tb febw wcdt cdppleli. Yl jbst llntgvl wdy tb tlmm tcl stbry gs hust ds tcdt8 d stbry. Ql wgmm dsf ybur spbusl tb tlmm tcl stbrymgel ge d nbclrlet dscgbe, ebt ds d qulstgbe-deideswlr gequgsgtgbe. Wbur qulstgbes dei ybur spbusl‗s deswlrs drl gjpbrtdet, dei wl
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wgmm igsnuss tcbsl mdtlr ge tcgs ncdptlr, kut br ebw, gt‗s dkbut alttgea tcl stbry but. Ydt sdgi, ybu elli tb kl ndrlum. Wbu jdy ebt wdet tbb junc iltdgm. Wbu elli tb lstdkmgsc tcl mlvlm b iltdgm, klndusl iglrlet plbpml cdvl iglrlet mlvlms b wdetgea tb febw. Cbw junc gebrjdtgbe ib ybu wdet2 @br gestdenl, G mgfl tcl 4?-pglnl puzzmls. Wlt br sbjl plbpml, jbrl febwmlial clmps. Mgtlrdmmy, br sbjl, alttgea pdst tcgs kltrdydm rlqugrls de lebrjbus djbuet b iltdgm. ^bjl b ybu wgmm elli tcl ;,???-pglnl puzzml. ^b kl surl tb nbjjuegndtl wgtc ybur jdtl tcl mlvlm b iltdgm ybu tcgef ybu‗mm rlqugrl. Hust klndusl ybu ib ebt dsf br dmm tcl iltdgms ge tcl klageegea ibls ebt jlde ybu wgmm cldr de genbjpmltl genbjpmltl br genbclrlet stbry. Gt Gt dmsb ibls ebt jlde ybur spbusl gs purpbslummy wgtccbmigea gebrjdtgbe ybu elli tb cldr. cldr. [ljljklr, [ljljklr, tlmmgea tcl stbry gs ebt d bel-tgjl lvlet6 gt gs d prbnlss tcdt bnnurs bvlr tgjl. Ds tcl stbry gs rlvldmli’ds ybu klage tb dsf jbrl qulstgbes dei rlqulst jbrl gebrjdtgbe gebrjdtgbe bvlr tgjl’diigtgbedm iltdgms dei gesgacts wgmm wbrf tclgr wdy getb tcl stbry. stbry. Wbur Wbur spbusl wgmm adge elw gesgacts dei kl dkml tb scdrl tclj wgtc ybu.
D Nbclrlet ^tbry Bel dsplnt b nbupmls wcb ib wlmm ge tcl LJ^B nbursl gs tclgr dkgmgty tb nbeiunt rdtgbedm vlrsus vlrsus ljbtgbedm nbevlrsdtgbes. nbevlrsdtgbes. Yly sllj tb kl dkml tb stlp kdnf ljbtgbedmmy, ljbtgbedmmy, dei tcle rldmgstgndmmy mbbf dt ebt bemy wcdt‗s cdppleli kut wcdt nbumi kl. kl. Ilvlmbpgea tcl dkgmgty tb ib tcgs tdfls td fls prdntgnl. Kbtc pdrtgls cdvl tb kl dkml tb slm-sbbtcl ds tcly mgstle tb tclgr jdtl. B`le, cbwlvlr, cbwlvlr, dey rldntgvgty nrldtli ky tcl kltrdydm cds tb suksgil ge brilr br tcgs tb cdpple. Fllp ge jgei tcrbuacbut tcl wbrfkbbf, wcle G tdmf dkbut cdvgea rdtgbedm vlrsus ljbtgbedm nbevlrsdtgbes G‗j ebt sdygea ybu wbe‗t lxplrglenl ljbtgbes. Qcdt G‗j G‗j rllrrgea tb gs jbrl b d bbili stdtl wclrl mbagndm ilngsgbes dei nbevlrsdtgbes drl gjpbssgkml. Wbu‗mm mldre jbrl dkbut tcgs ge Qllf Qllf 9. Ide ^glalm‗s rlsldrnc ; nmldrmy scbws tcdt ge brilr br tcl pdge dei rldntgvgty nrldtli ky d kltrdydm tb suksgil, tcl kltrdyli spbusl just kl dkml tb jdfl slesl b wcdt cds cdppleli. Yl stbry b wcdt cdppleli cds tb kl nbclrlet rbj ybur plrsplntgvl. Yl brjdtgbe b tcgs nbclrlet stbry dmmbws br d rlnbeelntgbe kltwlle d cuskdei dei wgl. Ge tcl gegtgdm stdals, tcl klst k lst wdy tb dnnbjpmgsc tcgs tdsf gs ky d mgeldr tlmmgea b tcl stbry. lmmgea tcl stbry gse‗t tcl sdjl ds deswlrgea qulstgbes. [dtclr tcde hujpgea drbuei, wcgnc mldvls adps ge tcl tgjlmgel, tlmmgea tcl stbry rbj klageegea tb lei prbvgils d brjdt br tcl kltrdyli spbusl tb klage kla ge alttgea cgs br clr jgei drbuei wcdt
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cds bnnurrli. @rlquletmy @rlquletmy tcbsl wcb cdvl klle uedgtcum drl bleili g tclgr jdtl nbetgeuls nbetgeuls tb dsf qulstgbes benl tcly‗vl tbmi tcl stbry. Yly llm ybu igie‗t klmglvl tclj dei drl qulstgbegea tclgr trutcumelss. Alelrdmmy tcdt‗ t cdt‗s ebt tcl ndsl. Yl kltrdyli spbusl iblse‗t dsf qulstgbes klndusl tcly ibe‗t klmglvl, kut klndusl ybu wdet tb klmglvl kut gt iblse‗t jdfl slesl. Wbu cbpl ky dsfgea dadge (dei dadge) ybu wgmm ffledmmy ueilrstdei. Gt‗s tcdt prbnlss wcgnc dmmbws br tcl nrldtgbe b tcl nbclrlet stbry.
Klageegea tcl Hburely Wbu jdy fflei tcdt dttleigea ybur wllfmy tlmlpcbel ndmms nrldtls dexglty. Ydt gs ebt uenbjjbe. Bur edturdm tleileny gs tb dvbgi pdgeum sgtudtgbes. Cbwlvlr Cbwlvlr,, ds wl jletgbeli mdst wllf, wl elli tb kl dr jbrl drdgi b ebt cldmgea tcde wl drl b wdmfgea tcrbuac tcl pdge b cldmgea. _mldsl ibe‗t ibe‗t kl igsnburdali ky cbw ybu jdy kl llmgea dt tcgs tgjl. Ds ybur bemgel arbup klages tb jllt, gt gs edturdm br tcl sgtudtgbe tb sllj wbrsl, sgenl tcl bnus b tcgs t cgs fflrst pcdsl gs dkbut bel b tcl idrflst dsplnts b ybur mgl. Wbu jdy lvle tcgef tcgs wgmm elvlr wbrf, lgtclr klndusl ybu‗rl ybu‗rl ebt ds kdi ds lvlrybel lmsl, ybur sgtudtgbe gs uegqul, br ybu sllj wbrsl b tcde tcl btclr nbupmls ybu sdw be tcl vgilb dei tclrl nde‗t pbssgkmy kl dey cbpl br ybu. Qcdtlvlr ybu‗rl tcgefgea, ib ebt kl igsnburdali. Ygs gs tcl klageegea b ybur hburely tb cldmgea. lmmgea ybur stbry tb btclrs gs dwfwdri, kut ybu wgmm fflei gt nbjbrtgea tb febw ybu‗rl ebt dmbel. Cbplummy gt wgmm ebt kl tbb rgactlegea, dei wl klmglvl ybu‗mm fflei gt tb kl k l tcl klageegea b ybur hburely. ;.9 Ds ybu klage ybur hburely, wcdt ib ybu cbpl tb dnnbjpmgsc2
Gesdegty nde kl ilffleli ds ibgea tcl sdjl tcgea bvlr dei bvlr dadge lxplntgea d iglrlet butnbjl. butnbjl. Qcdt ybu drl ebw ibgea, ky tdfgea tcgs t cgs nbursl, gs sbjltcgea iglrlet, dei gt‗s tcl fflrst stlp getb sdegty. Gt jdy llm strdeal, kut ilsplrdtl sgtudtgbes ndmm br ilsplrdtl jldsurls, dei ybu cdvl ebw ljkdrfli ljkdrfli be d hburely tcdt gs getleili tb krgea dkbut cldmgea dei ncdeal. G dj gjprlssli ky tcl nburdal ybu drl igspmdygea ky scdrgea kbtc mgl‗s dgmurls dei sunnlssls. 03
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[lvglwgea tcl iltdgms b tcl kltrdydm jdy stgr up mbts b ljbtgbes. Wbu Wbu jdy lvle kl tljptli tb tcrbw ge tcl tbwlm klbrl tcl lei b tcgs ncdptlr. @br @br tcdt rldsbe, pmldsl tdfl tcl tgjl tb rlvglw tcl nbetrdnt ybu kbtc sgaeli mdst wllf tb rljljklr wcdt ybu‗vl ybu‗vl darlli tb. Yl elxt lw wllfs wgmm kl fflmmli wgtc ljbtgbes. Ibe‗t Ibe‗t mlt ljbtgbes irgvl tcl prbnlss. Gestldi mlt tcl prbnlss agvl d sdl vleul br tcl ljbtgbes. Cldrgea ybur spbusl scdrl cgs br clr gebrjdtgbe dkbut tcl t cl stbry, genmuigea prb vgigea tcl iltdgms ybu elli, gs tcl pmdnl wclrl wclrl ybu nde nde klage tb rllstdkmgsc trust. Klage wgtc cbelsty. Gt‗s ignumt tb trust ybur jdtl g cl br scl iblse‗t fflrst trust ybu wgtc tcl gebrjdtgbe. Ebw, ybu jdy ebt klmglvl tcdt tcl wbri trust nde nde lvle kl spbfle, junc mlss tcdt tcl twb t wb b ybu klage tb trust dadge. Dntudmmy, Dntudmmy, dt Ddgr [lnbvlry wl‗vl mldreli tcdt jdrrgdals nde tcrgvl wgtc vlry mgttml trust. ^bjl b ybu drl dsfgea, ”G ebt trust, tcle wcdt nbumi kl tcl jbst gjpbrtdet lmljlet ge d jdrrgdal2‚ ^dlty . Clrl‗s wcdt wl jlde. rust jdy kl d mbea tgjl ge nbjgea. Wlt sdlty’nrldtgea d sdl levgrbejlet br ybu dei ybur spbusl tb dsf dei deswlr qulstgbes dei tlmm tcl stbry’gs bueidtgbedm tb tcl rlstbrdtgbe b trust. Wbu nde dmwdys rlpmdnl trust wgtc d arldt ildm b cbelsty, dei g ybu nde mldre tb kl cbelst dei tb mlt ab b tcl nbetrbm dei hust kl rldm, tcle ybu‗vl ybu‗vl tdfle tcl fflrst stlp. Nbesgilr de ljpmbylr ljpmbylr wgtc d trustli ljpmbyll. Ib ybu tcgef trust wgmm wg mm dngmgtdtl jbrl br mlss nbjjuegndtgbe kltwlle tcl twb pdrtgls2 pdrt gls2 ypgndmmy ypgndmmy gt wbumi rlsumt ge dr mlss nbjjuegndtgbe nbjjuegndtgbe klndusl tcl ljpmbylr ljpmbylr wbumi sll mgttml br eb elli tb kl nbjjuegndtgea wgtc cgs br clr ljpmbyll. Yl sdjl gs b`le trul ge jdrrgdals. Gt‗s Gt‗s tcl vlry vlr y trust wl tcgef wl wdet tcdt jdy wlmm cdvl rlstrgntli tcl nbjjuegndtgbe dei cbelsty wl sb ilsplrdtlmy elli. [ladgegea trust klages ky trustgea ybur jdtl lebuac tb kl cbelst. Ge Qllf ; | Wbur ^tbry / Tulstgbes
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trutcummy tlmmgea ybu tcl stbry, ybur jdtl jdtl gs sllfgea tb kl cbelst. [lnbaegzl tcl lbrt cl br scl gs jdfgea dei kl cbelst ge rlture, scbwgea ybu drl wbrtcy b tcl trust cl br scl gs pmdngea ge ybu ge brilr tb tlmm tcl stbry. Qcgml gt jdy ebt sllj dgr, g ybu wdet tb febw tcl stbry, stbry, pmldsl jdfl gt sdl br tclj tb tlmm gt. @br tclj tb llm sdl lebuac tb scdrl, ybu jdy elli tb scbw bemy ;? plrnlet b tcl ljbtgbe ybu‗rl llmgea dt tcdt jbjlet. ry dei wbrf tbaltclr ge ybur hburely tb igsnbvlry. Qcgml ybu dei/br ybur spbusl stgmm jdy wdet tb diirlss tcl tbpgn b trust ebw, pmldsl kl pdtglet wgtc tcgs prbnlss. Benl wl cdvl splet slvlrdm wllfs tlmmgea tcl stbry wgtc cbelsty dei tcle wbrfgea tcrbuac jdey b tcl gssuls rlmdtli tb tcl kltrdydm, wl wgmm ture tb tcl t cl sukhlnt b trust ge Qllf Qllf 4>. Wbur spbusl wgmm prdntgnl tlmmgea cgs br clr stbry. Dt tcgs pbget, ybu elli tb sgt ibwe dei dmmbw ybur spbusl tb tlmm tcl stbry b` tcl kltrdydm `rbj pbget D tb pbget X, lvle g` ybu cdvl cldri dmm br pdrts b` gt kl`brl. Wbu wgmm cdvl qulstgbes tb dsf, kut fflrst tcl stbry ellis tb alt but. Mlt ybur jdtl tlmm tcl stbry ge gts tgjlmgel ds ybu mgstle wgtcbut dsfgea qulstgbes. Btclrwgsl, benl ybur qulstgbes stdrt, tcl stbry jdy alt ilrdgmli. D`tlr tcl stbry stbr y gs tbmi, ybur jdtl wgmm mgstle ds ybu dsf qulstgbes dei tcle wgmm prbvgil tcl nmdrgfflndtgbe ybu elli.
Elw gebrjdtgbe jdy nbjl tb mgact. Ygs gs ebt d stlp kdnfwdri. Qcgml gt jdy kl kl genrligkmy pdgeum, gt gs d stlp brwdri. G tcgs bnnurs, typgndmmy tcl fflrst gjpumsl gs tb dnnusl ybur jdtl b nbe nbetgeugea tgeugea tb mgl, dei tcdt tcly nde elvlr kl k l trustli. Ib ebt mbbf dt elw gebrjdtgbe rbj tcgs plrsplntgvl. Yl dnt tcdt elw gebrjdtgbe gs nbjgea tb mgact jldes ybur jdtl gs trygea tr ygea tb jbvl tbwdri ybu dei tcl jdrrgdal. Gt jldes tcly drl jbrl nbjjgttli, nbjjgttli, ebt mlss nbjjgttli. Gt gs lvle pbssgkml p bssgkml tcdt tcgs elw gebrjdtgbe gs sbjltcgea tcly‗vl sdgi klbrl tcdt ybu igie‗t ueilrstdei, br jdykl gt‗s iul tb ybur dsfgea d qulstgbe dkbut d iltdgm tcly‗vl elvlr nbesgilrli. Kut lvle g gt‗s gt‗s elw gebrjdtgbe klndusl tcly‗vl klle trygea tb nbetrbm ybu ky tcl bw b gebrjdtgbe, gt‗s gjpbrtdet tb rldmgzl tcgs gs brwdri prbarlss, dei ybur jdtl gs trygea tb agvl ybu wcdt ybu‗vl klle dsfgea br. Ds wl jletgbeli ldrmglr, tcl rlvlmdtgbe b d kltrdydm b`le cds d ”trdagn dnngilet‚ sbrt b sgaegfflndenl. @br kbtc b ybu, tcl sgtudtgbe gtslm jdy llm ds g ybu‗vl suiilemy drrgvli dt d typl b arbuei zlrb, surrbueili ky tcl rukkml b rljgeilrs b wcdt benl wds br dt mldst tcl gmmusgbe b wcdt ybu benl tcbuact t cbuact lxgstli. Ge dnt, arbuei zlrb gse‗t gse‗t rldncli uetgm ybur stbry gs ummy rlvldmli wgtc dmm tcl iltdgms but ge tcl bple. _rgbr tb tcl nbjpmltl tlmmgea b tcl stbry, tclrl gs dmwdys tcl rgsf b jbrl ilstruntgvl gebrjdtgbe
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klgea rlvldmli, gegntgea tcl kltrdyli spbusl wgtc elw wbueis. Ebt uetgm tcl stbry gs ummy febwe dei tcl mdst slnrlt rlmldsli nde d nbupml drrgvl dt arbuei zlrb. Benl tclrl, ybu nde ffledmmy klage tb lxpmbrl tcl ruges b ybur rlmdtgbescgp. rlmdtgbescgp. Dt tcl sdjl tgjl, tcgs arbuei zlrb slrvls ds tcl kgrtcpmdnl b elw pbssgkgmgtgls. Ylrl gs eb arldt wdy br tcl stbry tb nbjl tb mgact, kut tcl stbry ellis tb kl tbmi. ^lnrlny gs tcl mdralst nbetrgkutgea dntbr ge prbkmljs b getgjdny dei cldmgea. Gt gs sdgi tcdt tcl trutc wgmm wg mm slt ybu rll, kut debtclr wdy b stdtgea tcdt rldmgty gs tcdt ”cbelsty wgmm slt ybu rll.‚ Yl egnl tcgea dkbut cbelsty gs tcdt t cdt gt agvls uegvlrsdm dnnlss tb lvlrybel ge tcl cldmgea prbnlss. Dmjbst deybel nde kl cbelst, dei gt gs prlngslmy dt tcgs pbget tcdt cldmgea wgmm klage. Gt‗s gjpbrtdet tb rljljklr tcdt ybu‗rl bemy ds sgnf ds ybur slnrlts. Ldnc b ybu ellis tb tdfl tcl rgsf b bplegea up. Dutcbr Dutcbr Ide Dmmleilr, ge cgs kbbf kb bf b Kl bmi, sdys tcdt tcl pdrts b tcl stbry tcdt rljdge uetbmi drl bweli ky tcl ilvgm. > G nbumie‗t darll jbrl. Wbu nde elvlr jbvl brwdri ds mbea ds ybu‗rl cbmigea kdnf. Lxplrglenl cds scbwe tcdt br jbst plbpml, gt gs gjpbssgkml tb ummy rlleadal dtlr d kltrdydm uetgm tcl t cl kltrdyli spbusl febws wcdt cds cdppleli. G d jdtl susplnt susplntss de ddgr, dei cgs br clr spbusl rlusls tb diirlss tcl gssul, wcdt gs cl br scl tb ib2 Kltrdyli spbusls try tb wbrf tcl puzzml, tb alt tcl pgnturl, kut rlquletmy tcly drl ge tcl idrf, dei iul tb tclgr bvlrdntgvl gjdagedtgbes, tcly drl wbrfgea wgtc lxtrd pglnls. Yly nrldtl pbssgkgmgtgls ge tclgr jgei tcdt prbkdkmy elvlr cdppleli. Dijgttlimy, tclrl drl tcbsl geigvgiudms wcb ibe‗t wdet tb febw dei drl jbrl nbjbrtdkml mgvgea ge ilegdm, kut br lvlr y bel b tclsl, tclrl drl nbuetmlss btclrs wcb llm tcly nde‗t nde‗t jbvl brwdri uetgm tcly febw w cdt cds bnnurrli. Ge dnt, tcl mlvlm b iltdgm ellili slljs tb kl irgvle ky tcl kltrdyli spbusl‗s spbusl‗s plrsbedmgty. ^bjl ibe‗t wdet tb febw6 jdykl tcly hust ibe‗t wdet tb wbrf tcl puzzml. Btclrs llm tcly just nbjpmltl lvlry tgey iltdgm b tclgr t clgr puzzml ge g e brilr tb cldm. Mlt ybur spbusl spbusl febw tcl mlvlm b iltdgm ybu ilsgrl. Dei br tcl sdfl b ybur cldmgea, gt‗s gjpbrtdet tb cbelstmy mgstle ds cl br scl scdrls tcl ellili gebrjdtgbe. Ds tcl kltrdyli spbusl, ybu‗rl sbjlwcdt dt tcl jlrny b cbw qugnfmy ybur jdtl wgmm agvl ybu tcl gebrjdtgbe. Mlt cgj br clr febw tcdt t cdt ybu elli tb febw wcdt cdppleli. Lenburdal ybur jdtl tb alt gt but sb ybu nde klage ybur cldmgea. ry tb kl sdl ds tcl stbry gs scdrli. Ibe‗t Ibe‗t dmmbw ybur ljbtgbedm rldntgbes tb gecgkgt ybur spbusl rbj tlmmgea tcl stbry. Gt Gt jdy kl tljptgea iurgea tcl gegtgdm jlltgea, kut ge tcl mbea rue, ybu‗rl abgea tb alt kdnf dr jbrl tcde ybu put ge, sb mlt ab.
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Ycl [ldsbes `br Tulstgbes D`lr ybu cldr tcl t cl stbry, ybu wgmm jbst mgflmy wdet nmdrgfflndtgbe dei jbrl lxpmdedtgbe. Wls, gt gs d mgttml kgt sndry wcle w cle ybu klage tb cldr tcl iltdgms rbj rbj ybur spbusl, kut ybu wgmm kl dr klttlr b g ybu dsf tcl qulstgbes ybu elli tb dt tcl mlvlm b iltdgm ybu wdet. Ql rlnbjjlei ybu klage dsfgea tcbsl qulstgbes ebw, g ybu cdvl ebt ylt ibel sb, dei tcle dmmbw ybur spbusl tb scdrl tcdt gebrjdtgbe. Ndutgbe8 Ndutgbe8 Ib ebt dsf nbjpdrgsbe qulstgbes. qulstgbes. Ygs prbnlss gs ebt dkbut nbjpdrgea wcdt ybur jdtl igi butsgil tcl jdrrgdal wgtc wcdt tcl twb b ybu cdvl scdrli gesgil tcl jdrrgdal. Ibe‗t nbjpdrl yburslm dadgest debtclr plrsbe. Nbjpdrgsbe qulstgbes drl tcl mldst klelfflngdm dei ndusl idjdagea getrusgvl tcbuacts. Ds d augilmgel8 dey qulstgbe tcdt dmmbws ybu tb pdget d pgnturl ge ybur jgei gse‗t clmpum. Bel b tcl igstgeaugscgea dntbrs b tcl LJ^ Bemgel dpprbdnc Bemgel dpprbdnc tb tcl trldtjlet b gefflilmgty gs cbelsty, cbelsty, kut sbjltgjls sllfgea tcl deswlr tb qulstgbes br tcl sdfl b cbelsty klnbjls jbrl nbuetlrprbiuntgvl nbuetlrprbiuntgvl tcde prbiuntgvl. Drl ybu qulstgbegea br tcl sdfl b tlstgea ybur jdtl, br drl ybu qulstgbegea tb pursul rlnbvlry dei w cbmlelss2 Yl abdm b ybur qulstgbegea (wcgnc wl wgmm igsnuss mdtlr ge tcl ncdptlr) iltlrjgels g gt‗s gt‗s d cldmtcy br uecldmtcy lxlrngsl. G tcl abdm gs rlnbvlry dei wcbmlelss, tcle wl wbumi ib wlmm tb jdfl surl bur qulstgbes drl nbesgstlet wgtc tcbsl abdms. Ge tcl gegtgdm stdals b tlmmgea dei cldrgea tcl stbry, tclrl drl jumtgpml rldsbes rldsbes ybu, tcl kltrdyli spbusl, wgmm klage tb dsf qulstgbes. D`lr dmm, kbtc pdrtgls elli tb nbjl tb d pmdnl b ueilrstdeigea. Jbst uedgtcum cuskdeis br wgvls dssujl tclgr spbusls wdet tb puegsc tclj. Kut fllp ge jgei, br kltrdyli spbusls, tclgr qulstgbegea gs rldmmy ebt dkbut tclgr spbusl, gt‗s dkbut cgj br clrslm. @br sbjl, dsfgea qulstgbes cds klnbjl tcl bemy wdy tcly febw cbw tb tdmf wgtc w gtc tclgr jdtl. @br btclrs, gt‗s gt‗s d wdy b slm-sbbtcgea6 s lm-sbbtcgea6 qulstgbes drgsl tb ildm wgtc tcl edaagea eladtgvl tcbuacts ge tclgr cldi. ^tgmm btclrs dsf qulstgbes ds d ldr-rliuntgbe ldr-rliuntgbe tdntgn. Ldnc tgjl tcly llm drdgi, tcly ab tb tclgr jdtl dei try tb adrelr dssurdenl ky alttgea deswlrs. Yl jbrl b`le tcly alt tcl sdjl deswlr tb d qulstgbe, tcl jbrl dssurdenl tcly llm. @gedmmy, @gedmmy, jdey ge tclsl sgtudtgbes usl qulstgbegea ds d wdy tb alt tclgr jgei drbuei wcdt cds cdppleli. Yly wdet tb klmglvl tclgr spbusl gs tlmmgea tcl trutc, tr utc, kut ge rldncgea tcgs rldssurdenl, tcly jdy elli tb dsf qulstgbes dadge dei dadge. Yly wdet tb cldr tcl sdjl deswlr uetgm tcly rldnc tcl pbget b klgea dkml tb klmglvl tcl deswlr. Qcle gt nbjls tb qulstgbegea, tclrl drl tgjls wcle dmm tcl dkbvl-jletgbeli jb-
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tgvdtgbes (lxnlpt br puegscjlet) drl dpprbprgdtl, kut bemy br d sldsbe. @br gestdenl, g ybu alt stunf ge tcl prbnlss b igsnbvlry, igsnbvlry, ybu jdy wgei up spgeegea mgfl d tbp, uedkml tb stbp tcl ueleigea strldj b qulstgbes. Yl prbkmlj clrl mgls ge tcl wcy . Yl fflrst abdm b qulstgbes gs tb umtgjdtlmy alt ybur cldi dei cldrt drbuei wcdt cds cds cdppleli sb ybu nde klage tb jbvl brwdri. b b ib tcdt, ybu sllf tcl ellili gebrjdtgbe rbj ybur jdtl ge brilr tb ueilrstdei wcdt cdppleli . Yl deswlr tb wcy just just dmsb nbjl, dei tcdt wl wgmm ildm wgtc ge Qllf >. Wlt Wlt fllp ge jgei tcdt wgtcbut tcl deswlrs tb kbtc wcdt cdppleli dei dei wcy gt cdppleli , gt wgmm kl d ncdmmleal tb llm sdl dei nbetgeul be ge tcl rlnbvlry hburely. hburely. @br tcgs wllf, bnus be mldregea wcdt cdppleli . Gt‗s ebt uenbjjbe br tcl qulstgbe-dei-deswlr plrgbi tb slrvl btclr uentgbes. @br jbst, hust alttgea deswlrs prbvgils rldssurdenl rldssurdenl b tclgr jdtls‗ jdtls‗ mbydmty tb tclj, dei tcgs clmps rliunl tcl pdge b tcl kltrdydm. Debtclr klelfflt b dsfgea qulstgbes gs tcl rliuntgbe b getrusgvl tcbuacts. D`lr d kltrdydm gt‗s gt‗s cujde edturl tb try tb fflaurl but wcdt cdppleli dei wcy. Ybuacts dei gjdals nde nbjl bbigea getb bur jgeis, cbmigea us ndptgvl, uedkml tb tcgef b junc lmsl. @geigea deswlrs tb tclsl qulstgbes b`le prbvgils wlmnbjl rlmgl’kbtc rlmgl’kbtc rbj tcl edaagea edaa gea tcbuacts dei rbj tcl dnnbjpdeygea ldr. Ds ybu jbvl tcrbuac ybur rlnbvlry prbnlss dei ybu nbetgeul tb cdvl qulstgbes br ybur spbusl, G lenburdal ybu tb nbesgilr8 Qcdt drl ybur rldsbes br wdetgea tb febw2 G ybur qulstgbegea gs d jldes tb de lei’g gt gs dkbut alttgea ybur jgei drbuei wcdt cdppleli’tcle tcdt‗s cldmtcy, kut g qulstgbegea klnbjls tcl prbnlss wclrl ybu fflei ybur slnurgty, slnurgty, tcle gt wgmm klnbjl d ilstruntgvl ilstrunt gvl prbnlss. Dt sbjl pbget ybu cdvl tb dsf yburslm8 Gs tcgs clmpgea jl jbvl brwdri br gs gt fllpgea jl stunf2 ;.3 Qcdt drl ybur jbtgvdtgbes `br dsfgea qulstgbes b` ybur spbusl2
Benl ybu ueilrstdei wcdt cdppleli, wcdt‗s tcl klelfflt b jbrl gebrjdtgbe2 Yl purpbsl b igsnbvlry gs hust tcdt’tb adge de ueilrstdeigea b wcdt cdppleli. cdppleli. Nrldtgea d nbclrlet stbry sb tcl twb b ybu nde scdrl d nbjjbe ueilrstdeigea ueilrstdeigea b wcdt bnnurrli b nnurrli gse‗t tcl sdjl ds nrldtgea d ldturl fflmj ge mgvgea lncegnbmbr. Yl qulstgbegea pcdsl nde nlrtdgemy genrldsl getgjdny br jbst nbupmls. Hust cdvgea ybur jdtl klage tb deswlr ybur qulstgbes prbvgils jbrl getgjdny dei leadaljlet tcde ybu jdy cdvl cdi ge yldrs. Ylrlbrl gt gs pbssgkml br tcl ”qulstgbegea prbnlss‚ tb
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prbvgil d wdy tb gegtgdtl getgjdny dadge. Dei wcgml tcdt ge gtslm gse‗t gse‗t kdi (g kbtc plbpml drl be kbdri), tcl mdst tcgea ybu wdet ge tcl mbea rue r ue gs br gefflilmgty tb kl tcl prgjdry prgjdr y bnus b ybur rlmdtgbescgp. Wbu wdet tb kl dkml tb tdfl tcgs elwbuei getgjdny, jbvl brwdri, dei fflei elw nbestruntgvl wdys tb nbeelnt dei nbjjuegndtl.
Ljbtgbes ge Tulstgbes Bel ndutgbe ge tcl qulstgbegea pcdsl gevbmvls ljbtgbes. ljbtgbes. Ybuac bur jbtgvls jdy kl rgact ge dsfgea qulstgbes b bur spbusl, bur llmgeas nde nbjpmgndtl tcgeas. Ljbtgbes nrldtl d elli br jbtgbe, wcgnc tcle t cle irgvl dntgbes. Dsfgea ljbtgbedmmy ncdrali qulstgbes jdy kl getlrprltli ds puegscjlet, kut klcdvgbr iblse‗t dmwdys lqudm jbtgvls. Wbur qulstgbes jdy kl jbtgvdtli ky ldr, d elli br iltdgm, br d ilsgrl tb slm-sbbtcl’ wcgnc nlrtdgemy gse‗t gse‗t getleili tb kl d brj b puegscjlet. Ljbtgbes nde dmsb irgvl us tb dnt ge wdys nbetrdry tb bur trul tr ul cldrt‗s cldrt‗s ilsgrl. Gt jdy kl clmpum tb nmdrgy wgtc ybur jdtl ybur getletgbes wcle dsfgea qulstgbes. [lnbaegzl tcdt ybu jdy klnbjl ljbtgbedm, kut rljljklr tcdt tcl rldsbes br ybur qulstgbes drl tb igsnbvlr tcl trutc, tb jdedal ljbtgbes, tb rlaumdtl ldr, tb rliunl scdjl, dei tb ildm wgtc getrusgvl tcbuacts rladrigea tcl kltrdydm. Nbetgeul tb sllf nbpgea strdtlagls (sunc ds tcbsl wl‗mm nbvlr ge Qllf 9) br tclsl ncdmmleals ge brilr tb jbvl brwdri ge tcgs prbnlss b rlnbvlry. Debtclr pbtletgdm rldsbe br dsfgea qulstgbes d`lr tcl stbry gs rlvldmli gs tcl ilsgrl tb nbeelnt dadge dei tb kl ueilrstbbi. Yl purpbsl b qulstgbes gse‗t gse‗t tlstgea br trygea tb ndtnc ybur spbusl ge d mgl. Gt‗s br ybur cldmgea. G cldrgea tcl sdjl deswlr bvlr dei bvlr clmps ndmj ybur ldrs, ibe‗t llm augmty dkbut dsfgea tcl sdjl qulstgbe jbrl tcde benl. Cbplummy ybur jdtl wgmm kl lenburdali tb ueilrstdei tcdt tdmfgea urtclr dkbut wcdt cds cdppleli gs wcdt ybu elli tb cldm. Yl bemy wdy tb fllp tcl prbnlss be nbursl gs tb rlnbaegzl tclsl p btletgdm jbtgvdtgbes br qulstgbes ybu drl dsfgea b ybur jdtl. Fllp ge jgei tcl abdm b ybur qulstgbegea. Yle nbetgeudmmy nclnf tb sll g ybur qulstgbes drl ge mgel wgtc ybur abdms dei tcdt ybur qulstgbegea gs ebt klgea k lgea rumli lxnmusgvlmy ky ybur ljbtgbes. Nbupmls wcb nde rdtgbedmmy cldr (br nbjjuegndtl) tcl gebrjdtgbe, tdmf dkbut gt, dei dedmyzl gt tbaltclr ib dr klttlr k lttlr ge tcl rlnbvlry prbnlss. Ybsl wcb deswlr tcl qulstgbes dei ibe‗t ibe‗t mlt tclj kugmi up wgmm jbvl tbwdri cldmgea junc qugnflr. qugnflr.
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Augilmgels ge Dsfgea dei Deswlrgea Tulstgbes 4. Alt tcl [gact Ge`brjdtgbe tb \eilrstdei Qcdt Cdppleli \etgm ybu drl dkml tb alt ybur jgei drbuei wcdt cdppleli, tclrl gs d pdrt b ybu tcdt jdy nbetgeul sldrncgea br gebrjdtgbe tb ueilrstdei ybur elw rldmgty. \etgm ybu cdvl tcbsl deswlrs, gt‗s ignumt tb febw cbw tb jbvl brwdri. Ge dnt, tclsl deswlrs pmdy d vgtdm rbml ge cldmgea d`lr de ddgr. ddgr. Qgtcbut deswlrs ybur jgei nde rue wgmi, gjdagegea sgtudtgbes tcdt elvlr cdppleli. Kut cbw junc ib ybu rldmmy wdet tb febw2 b klage, ybu elli tb febw tcl kdsgn iltdgms b wcdt cdppleli.
Tulstgbes `br d pcysgndm br ljbtgbedm ddgr8 •
Gs tcgs ybur fflrst ddgr2 Qds gt pcysgndm, ljbtgbedm, ljbtgbedm , br kbtc2
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Cbw jdey btclrs cdvl ybu cdi2
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Qcle igi gt klage2
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Cbw mbea wlrl ybu dttrdntli tb tcgs plrsbe klbrl lgtclr bel b ybu lxprlssli llmgeas br tcl btclr plrsbe2 Qcle igi tcl rlmdtgbescgp fflrst klnbjl grtdtgbus2
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Qcb wds rlspbesgkml br gegtgdtgea tcl ddgr2
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Qcdt igi tcl twb b ybu cdvl ge nbjjbe2 Cbw igi tcl twb b ybu nbeelnt2
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Qds de lbrt jdil tb stbp2 G sb, cbw2 Qcy ib ybu tcgef tcge f gt igie‗t wbrf2
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Gs tcl btclr plrsbe jdrrgli br ge d nbjjgttli rlmdtgbescgp2 Ibls tcl ddgr pdrtelr‗s jdtl febw, dei cbw igi cl br scl rlspbei2
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Qcle dei wclrl igi ybu alt tbaltclr dei cbw rlquletmy2
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Qcle igi gt klnbjl slxudm (g gt wds slxudm)2 Cbw mbea igi tcl ddgr mdst2 G gt wds slxudm, cbw jdey tgjls igi tcl twb b ybu cdvl slx2
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@rbj ybur plrsplntgvl, wds tcl rlmdtgbescgp rlmdtgbescgp jbrl ljbtgbedm br jbrl slxudm2
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Cbw igi tcl twb b ybu nbjjuegndtl dei wcdt wds tcl rlquleny2
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Qds tclrl dey ueprbtlntli slx2 Cdvl ybu klle tlstli br ^Is2
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Cbw junc jbely ib ybu tcgef ybu splet be tcl ddgr2 Igi ybu kuy ybur ddgr pdrtelr (D_) dey ag`s2 Igi ybur D_ lvlr kuy ybu dey ag`s2 G sb, wcdt cdvl ybu ibel wgtc tclsl ag`s2
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Cds tcl ddgr leili2 Cbw igi gt lei2 Qcle wds tcl mdst tgjl tcl twb b ybu cdi nbetdnt2
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Cdvl ybu nbetdntli ybur D_ sgenl ybu leili gt tb sll cbw cbw cl br scl gs ibgea2
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Igi ybu ilngil tb lei tcl ddgr ddgr,, br wds gt d hbget hbget ilngsgbe kltwlle ybu dei ybur D_2 Qcdt jdfls ybu tcgef tcgs tgjl wgmm kl iglrlet rbj btclr tgjls ybu trgli tb lei tcl ddgr2
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Qcdt jldsurls cdvl ybu tdfle tb jdfl surl tclrl wgmm kl eb jbrl nbetdnt2 Cbw ib ybu pmde be rlspbeigea g ybur D_ gegtgdtls nbetdnt2
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Qcb lmsl febws dkbut ybur ddgr2 G btclrs febw, cbw igi tcly fflei but, dei wcdt igi tcly ib2
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Cdvl ybu klle agvgea tcl D_ dey ffledengdm suppbrt2 G sb, wcdt ib ybu getlei tb ib ds ybu ab brwdri2
Tulstgbes `br slxudm diigntgbe8 G gt gs d slxudm diigntgbe, ybu wbumi wdet tb febw wcle tcl dntgea-but klcdvgbr klade d`lr jdrrgdal, sb dsf tclsl qulstgbes8
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Qds tcgs d prbkmlj br ybu prgbr tb bur jdrrgdal2 jdrrgda l2
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Igi ybu lvlr nbesgilr tlmmgea jl2 G sb, wcdt stbppli ybu2
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Cbw igi ybu fllp gt d slnrlt2
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G ybu wlrl dntgea but wgtc btclr plbpml, igi ybu febw
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dey b tclj, br wds gt debeyjbus slx2 •
Cbw igi ybu cbbf up wgtc tcbsl plbpml2
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Qcdt typls b dntgea-but klcdvgbrs cdvl ybu pdrtgngpdtli ge2 Qcdt gs tcl rlquleny2
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Qds tclrl dey ueprbtlntli slx2
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Cdvl ybu klle tlstli br ^Is2
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Drl tclrl btclr pbtletgdm nbjpmgndtgbes nbjpmgndtgbes sunc ds prlaedengls2
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Cbw junc jbely igi ybu splei2
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Qcle igi ybu typgndmmy dnt but2 Qclrl igi ybu typgndmmy dnt but2
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Qcle wds tcl mdst tgjl ybu dntli but2
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Qcb lmsl febws dkbut ybur dntgea-but klcdvgbr2 Cbw igi tcly fflei but2 Qcdt ib tcly febw2 Cbw igi tcly rlspbei2
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Cdvl ybu lvlr trgli tb stbp2 Qcdt igi ybu ib2 Cbw igi tcbsl lbrts ture but2
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Ib ybu llm ybu cdvl d prbkmlj2
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Drl ybu wgmmgea tb alt clmp2
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Qcdt ib ybu pmde be ibgea ebw2
Tulstgbes `br bel-egact stdeis8 •
Qcle igi gt bnnur2 Qcb wds gt wgtc2 Qclrl igi ybu jllt cgj br clr2
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Qclrl igi ybu dnt but2
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Igi ybu febw tcl plrsbe klbrl tcdt egact2 G sb, cdi tclrl klle dey grtgea klbrl tcdt lvlegea2
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Qcdt cdppleli d`lr tcl dnt2 Qlrl pmdes jdil tb jllt dadge2
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Gs cl br scl jdrrgli2 Ibls cgs br clr pdrtelr febw2
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Drl tclrl dey pbssgkml pbssgkm l nbjpmgndtgbes dt dt wbrf ds d rlsumt b wcdt ybu igi2
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Igi ybu cdvl ueprbtlntli slx2 Cdvl ybu klle tlstli br ^Is2
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Ibls deybel lmsl febw2 Cbw igi tcly fflei but2
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Cdvl ybu cdi dey urtclr nbetdnt wgtc tcdt plrsbe2 Qcle wds tcl mdst tgjl tcl twb b ybu nbjjuegndtli2 nbjjuegndtli2 G tclrl cds klle nbjjuegndtgbe, wcdt wds tcl jldes b nbjjuegndtgbe2 Qcdt‗s tcl rlquleny b nbjjuegndtgbe2
;. Dvbgi Nbjpdrgsbe Tulstgbes Qcdt ybu ibe‗t wdet tb ib gs dsf nbjpdrgsbe qulstgbes, sunc ds splnggn qulstgbes dkbut cbw ybur spbusl dntli but slxudmmy s lxudmmy wgtc tcl ddgr pdrtelr. Ylsl qulstgbes ndusl prbkmljs wgtc getrusgvl t cbuacts. Dmsb, dvbgi dsfgea dkbut pcysgndm dttrgkutls, wcgnc nbumi ndusl ybu tb nbjpdrl yburslm dadgest tcl ddgr pdrtelr. [ljljklr, gt‗s ebt de dppmls-tb-dppmls nbjpdrgsbe. Ylsl qulstgbes ibe‗t prbvgil rlmlvdet gebrjdtgbe dei wgmm dmsb ndusl getrusgvl tcbuacts wlmm d`lr tcl ddgr cds leili. Yl ural tb dsf tclsl typls b qulstgbes wgmm kl strbea. _mldsl cldr jl wcle G sdy tcdt tcgs gebrjdtgbe cds tcl pbtletgdm tb ndusl ueelnlssdry ignumty ge tcl cldmgea prbnlss dei umtgjdtlmy survgvgea gefflilmgty dmtbaltclr. dmtbaltclr. @br jbrl clmp cdeimgea tclsl typls b qulstgbes, usl tcl ffl`c augilmgel be t cgs mgst, tcl ;9 cbur ruml.
>. Mgjgt ”Qcy‚ Tulstgbes G febw tcgs slljs nbuetlr-getugtgvl. nbuetlr-getugtgvl. D`lr dmm, wgtcbut sbjl ueilrstdeigea b wcy gt cdppleli, cbw ib ybu iltlrjgel g tclrl‗s cbpl tb prlvlet tcgs rbj cdpplegea dadge2 Cbwlvlr, Cbwlvlr, tclrl gs d strbea mgflmgcbbi tcdt ybur jdtl iblse‗t ummy ueilrstdei wcy gt cdppleli ylt, sb ibe‗t alt stunf be tcgs qulstgbe. Gt jdy tdfl sbjl tgjl t gjl klbrl cl br scl nde deswlr tcgs, t cgs, dei ds ignumt ds gt gs tb klmglvl, jbst mgflmy mg flmy ybur jdtl wdse‗t wdse‗t tcgefgea dkbut deytcgea btclr tcde tcl dnt tcdt cl br scl nbumi elvlr alt nduact. G ybur spbusl ibls scdrl de ueilrstdeigea b wcy, prbkdkmy dmm cl br scl nde scdrl drl hustgfflndtgbes br tcl ddgr.
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9. Ibe‗t Jdfl Jdttlrs Qbrsl Ky . . . Jdfgea Jdfgea cdsty ilngsgbes8 ilngsgbes8 Wbu nde elvlr tlmm tcl lei b tcl stbry ky tcl
klageegea, wcgnc gs nlrtdgemy trul b nbupmls ildmgea wgtc kltrdydm. b alt tcl ellili gebrjdtgbe, kbtc ybu dei ybur pdrtelr elli tb llm sdl. Ygs prlslets d ncdmmleal g lesugea ncdbs nrldtli ky tcl igsnbvlry mldvls tcl twb b ybu uedkml tb getlrdnt. Gt‗s Gt‗s tljptgea tb try tr y dei stbp tcl pdge ky trygea tb ilngil wcdt tb ib dkbut tcl jdrrgdal, kut ebw gse‗t gse‗t tcl tgjl tb jdfl ilngsgbes. Wbur klst ilngsgbe wbe‗t kl jdil ge de ljbtgbedm stdtl. Agvl yburslm plrjgssgbe ebt tb ilngil. Mldvgea ybur jdrrgdal jdy kl ybur klst nbursl b dntgbe, kut g ybur jdtl gs krbfle dei nbjjgttli tb ncdeal, ybu wbumie‗t wbumie‗t kl d bbm tb stdy dei kl d pdrt b tclgr cldmgea prbnlss. Cbplummy, Cbplummy, ybur abdm gs tb fflei d klttlr mgl, dei ybu jdy fflei ybur klst bppbrtuegty br tcdt mgl gs ge ybur nurrlet rlmdtgbescgp. rlmdtgbescgp.
Yrdesjgttgea ybur pdge8 Wbu‗mm fflei gt tljptgea tb try dei jdfl ybur
pdrtelr curt ds kdimy ds tcly curt ybu iurgea tcl prbnlss b igsnbvlry, kut gt wbe‗t wbe‗t clmp ybu llm klttlr ge tcl mbea rue, dei ybu‗mm bemy lei up curtgea yburslm. Ds ybu mldre wcdt ybur spbusl cds ibel, ybu jdy kl tljptli tb rltdmgdtl ky ibgea tcl sdjl tcgea sb cl br scl nde igsnbvlr cbw gt llms, kut ybu‗mm bemy curt yburslm dei btclrs. _dge tcdt‗s ebt trdesbrjli wgmm kl trdesjgttli, dei tcl mdst tcgea ybu wdet gs tb trdesjgt tcgs pdge tb btclr geebnlet pdrtgls. Gt‗s ebt dgr, dei ybu igi ebtcgea tb ilslrvl wcdt ybur spbusl cds ibel, kut cbplummy ybu nde kl tcl bel wcb klages tb rlspbei ge d wdy tb cldm tcl t cl pdge ky arglvgea wcdt w cdt cds cdppleli. ry ry ebt tb dttdnf ybur jdtl br deswlrgea deswlrgea tcl qulstgbes ybu dsf. Ygs gs nrgtgndm ge tcl t cl igsnbvlry prbnlss dei tb cldmgea d`lr de ddgr.
Mlttgea ybur ljbtgbes rue uenclnfli8 uenclnfli8 Dealr gs ueilrstdeidkml, dei ybu
igie‗t igie‗t ilslrvl tcgs, kut dgmurl tb fllp ybur dealr ueilr nbetrbm mldvls kbtc ybu dei ybur jdtl dt rgsf. dfl ndrl b yburslm ky slttgea sdl kbueidrgls wgtc ybur jdtl. Ibe‗t dmmbw yburslm tb klcdvl ge wdys tcdt nde alt ybu ge trbukml wgtc tcl mdw. Ibjlstgn vgbmlenl gs dadgest tcl mdw, dei lvle g ybur jdtl cds cdi de ddgr, ybu elli tb fllp ybur dealr ge nclnf.
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[l`usgea tb alt clmp8 Wbu igie‗t ndusl tcgs, dei sb gt jdy sllj uedgr br
ybu tb elli clmp, kut gt‗s mgfl ybu wlrl irgvgea d ndr tcdt wds gevbmvli ge d wrlnf dei ybur ncgmi wds gehurli. Lvle tcbuac ybur ncgmi igie‗t ndusl tcl wrlnf, cl br scl jdy stgmm elli pcysgndm tclrdpy tb bvlrnbjl tcl gehury. Ge tcl sdjl wdy, jbvgea klybei tcgs gehury jdy rlqugrl butsgil clmp. Ibe‗t mlt prgil fllp ybu rbj alttgea tcl clmp ybu elli tb fflei d k lttlr mgl, dei ibe‗t mlt ybur ilsgrl tb puegsc ybur jdtl fllp ybu rbj cldmgea d`lr de ddgr. ddgr. ^urvgvgea gefflilmgty ge fflilmgty rlqugrls cujgmgty tb alt tcl clmp ybu elli.
Ibe‗t try tb `brnl tclj tb ”alt gt‚8 Gt‗s tljptgea, kut dt tcgs stdal gt wgmm
bemy irgvl d wlial. Mlnturgea puts ybu ge d pdrlet-tb-ncgmi pdrlet-tb-ncgmi getlrdntgbe, wcgnc wgmm bemy gecgkgt urtclr nbjjuegndtgbe.
Ibe‗t tlmm tclj wcdt tcly drl `llmgea br tclgr jbtgvdtgbe `br wcdt tcly‗vl ibel8 lmmgea ybur spbusl wcdt tcly drl llmgea br wcy tcly igi gt wbe‗t
dmmbw br sdl nbjjuegndtgbe. G ybu wdet tcl gebrjdtgbe, mgstle tb wcdt ybur spbusl cds tb sdy, sdy, dei try tb jdfl gt sdl lebuac br tclj tb tdmf tb ybu. [ljljklr, ybur spbusl prbkdkmy iblse‗t lvle febw wcy tcl ddgr cdppleli6 dei g ybur spbusl iblse ibls e‗t febw, G nde dssurl ybu tcdt ybu wbe‗t febw. Wbu tlmmgea tclj wcy ybu tcgef gt cdppleli wbe‗t clmp tcl prbnlss. Gt wgmm tdfl tgjl. _mldsl try tb kl pdtglet.
<. \sl tcl ;9-Cbur [uml G ybu slesl, br ybur spbusl llms, ybu drl dsfgea qulstgbes but b dealr br btclr ljbtgbes, br g ybu‗rl ebt surl ybu rldmmy wdet tcl mlvlm b iltdgm ybu rlqulstli, tcle wrgtl ibwe tcl qulstgbe dei prdy br tcgef dkbut gt br ;9 cburs klbrl ybu ilngil g ybu rldmmy wdet tcdt mlvlm b iltdgm br g ybur ljbtgbes wlrl tbb gevbmvli ge tcdt qulstgbe. G ybu stgmm wdet tb febw d`lr ;9 cburs, tcle dsf tcl qulstgbe dadge.
0. Eb Jdrdtcbegea Dmmbw ybur jdtl tb deswlr ybur qulstgbes, kut ib ebt dmmbw ybur rlspbesls tb mdpsl getb jdrdtcbegea. Benl d nbevlrsdtgbe abls mbealr tcde 4? tb
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4< jgeutls, gt mldvls tcl dnt-ffleigea dei nmdrgfflndtgbe stdal dei abls tb mlnturgea ds tcl bel dsfgea tcl qulstgbes trgls tb alt tclgr jdtl tb ueilrstdei tclgr pdge.
1. Eb Ildm Krldflrs Darll tb mlt ybur spbusl kl k l cbelst wgtcbut cgj br clr ldrgea tcdt dey pdrtgnumdr qulstgbe, deswlr, br iltdgm jgact mldi tb d ildm krldflr br umtgjdtuj rbj ybu.
3. Fllp ^d`lty @grst ge tcl Tulstgbegea dei Deswlrgea [ljljklr ybur nbjjgtjlet tb prbvgil sdlty br ybur spbusl. Iltlrjgel tcl sdlst wdy br ybu dei ybur spbusl sp busl tb diirlss tcl qulstgbes sb tcdt tcly krgea tcl jbst cbelst rlsumts dei sb tcdt ybu kbtc febw t cly wgmm kl deswlrli. Ge sllfgea sdlty, sdlty, nbesgilr tcl tgjgea dei tcl jltcbi b dsfgea dei deswlrgea qulstgbes.
7. Qrgtl Ibwe Tulstgbes Kl`brl Dsfgea Ge brilr tb fllp tcl abdms b tcl qulstgbes brljbst, ds ybu tcgef b qulstgbes tb dsf ybur spbusl, tdfl t dfl tcl tgjl tb wrgtl tclj ibwe. Wbu Wbu nde tcle tdfl tcl tgjl tb iltlrjgel lxdntmy g, wcle, dei cbw ybu wdet tb dsf d pdrtgnumdr qulstgbe dei wcdt abdm ybu cdvl ge dsfgea gt. D`lr nbesgilrgea dmm tcl dkbvl augilmgels, ybu dei ybur jdtl scbumi nbesgilr wcdt qulstgbes elli tb kl dsfli dei deswlrli tb prbvgil jbrl iltdgm dei nmdrgfflndtgbe rladrigea tcl kltrdydm stbry stbr y. Dmsb nbesgilr wcdt qulstgbes jdy cdvl klle dsfli dei deswlrli but b lxnlss ljbtgbe dei jdy elli tb kl rlnbesgilrli rlnbesgilrli ge mgact mga ct b tclsl augilmgels tb adge tcl jbst klelfflt br kbtc b ybu. ;.4? Ib ybu `llm ybu cdvl d abbi ueilrstdeigea b` wcdt cdppleli2 Cds
ybur jdtl agvle ybu tcl elnlssdry ge`brjdtgbe `br ybu tb nbjpmltl tcl puzzml2
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^bjl @gedm Ycbuacts dkbut Ylmmgea tcl ^tbry ^tbr y dei Dsfgea Tulstgbes Ds G stdrtli tb rlmdy jy plrsbedm stbry b kltrdydm tb jy wgl, G klade wgtc, ”G‗vl abt sbjltcgea tb tlmm ybu. G‗vl klle uedgtcum, wcdt ib ybu wdet tb febw2‚ Yle G prbnllili tb agvl clr d krbdi butmgel b wcdt cdi rldmmy klle abgea be rbj tcl klageegea b bur jdrrgdal. ^bjl b ybu rldigea tcgs t cgs jdy kl dsfgea, ”Qcy wbumi ybu wdet tb tlmm2‚ Wbu tlmm klndusl ybu drl d plrsbe b getlargty. Wbu tlmm klndusl ybur jdtl ilslrvls gt. Wbur jdtl ellis tb kl dkml tb jdfl cgs br clr bwe ilngsgbe dkbut wcltclr tb stdy. b ib deytcgea btclr tcde tlmm ybur spbusl tcl trutc t rutc gs nbetrbmmgea dei jdegpumdtgvl. Qcy wbumi ybu wdet tb nbetrbm ybur jdtl‗s ilngsgbe ky nbetrbmmgea tcl bw b gebrjdtgbe2 Mlt ybur jdtl jdfl cgs br clr bwe ndmm. [ljljklr, [ljljklr, tcl gebrjdtgbe ybur spbusl gs agvgea a gvgea gse‗t gse‗t prgjdrgmy dkbut wcltclr ybu wgmm mldvl br stdy, gt‗s dkbut puttgea ldrs tb rlst. Kltrdyli spbusls ldr wcdt tcly ibe‗t febw, febw, dei wcdt tcly gjdagel gs alelrdmmy dr wbrsl tcle t cle wcdt dntudmmy bnnurrli. Yl gebrjdtgbe ybur spbusl agvls ybu wgmm prbvgil d stdrtgea pmdnl br ybu tb prbnlss wcdt cds cdppleli. Yl stbry ellis tb kl tbmi. Ebt tb ib sb jgegjgzls tcl dnnbjpmgscjlets dnnbjpmgscjlets b ybur rlnbvlry hburely. hburely. Ebt tb ib sb wgmm mldvl ybu wbeilrgea g ybu nbumi cdvl rlnbengmli cdi ybu febwe tcl wcbml trutc. Ebt tb ib sb wgmm rlvldm d mdnf b dgtc ge kbtc ybu dei ybur jdtl wcle gt nbjls tb tcgs prbnlss. Ebt tb ib sb wgmm mldvl ybu wgtc tcl p bssgkgmgty b uturl nrgsgs g dei wcle gebrjdtgbe ebt scdrli nbjls tb mgact. Wbu Wbu nde elvlr kl mbvli uenbeigtgbedmmy g ybu bemy nbeigtgbedmmy mlt ybur jdtl febw wcb ybu drl. Nrldtgea sdlty br ybur jdtl tb scdrl tcl stbry jdy kl tcl klageegea kla geegea b dmmbwgea Abi‗ Ab i‗s jlrny getb ybur rlmdtgbescgp ge d elw wdy. Klbrl scdrgea ybur stbry wgtc ybur arbup, arbup, G cgacmy rlnbjjlei ybu jdfl surl ybu cdvl dmrldiy cldri tcl stbry dei dsfli dmm ybur qulstgbes. Yl purpbsl b Qllf ; gs ebt tb prbvgil d vleul br elw gebrjdtgbe. Gt gs, cbwlvlr, d sdl pmdnl tb klage tb dnl dei 3;
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dnnlpt ybur rldmgty. rldmgty. Gt gs tcl pmdnl wclrl wl wgmm vglw arbuei zlrb dei arglvl ar glvl wcdt cds klle mbst. Dt tcl sdjl tgjl, g ybu cdvl tcl nburdal, gt wgmm kl tcl pmdnl b elw klageegeas. G ybu fflei tcdt ybu drl struaamgea str uaamgea d`lr ybu scdrl ybur stbry wgtc w gtc tcl arbup, tcle pmldsl jdfl usl b ybur sjdmm arbup wdmm. Wbu‗mm Wbu‗mm kl surprgsli ky t cl suppbrt ybu nde fflei ge ybur arbup. Ylrl gs cbpl! Ibe‗t agvl up! Qgtc ybur bemgel arbup, scdrl ybur stbry, st bry, jdfgea surl ybur spbusl cds fflrst scdrli gt wgtc ybu. Qcle ybu prdntgnl kl`brl tcl arbup, mldre tb mgstle wgtcbut igrlntgea ybur spbusl ds cl c l br scl spldfs. Yb dmmbw ldnc nbupml tgjl tb scdrl, ybu wgmm cdvl fflvl jgeutls tb tlmm ybur stbry. D`tlr ybur spbusl cds scdrli wgtc ybu, cl br scl jdy elli tb prdntgnl tlmmgea tcl stbry wgtcge tcgs tgjl`rdjl kl`brl ybur arbup jlltgea. Ycl ue`dgtc`um spbusl wgmm ab fflrst, tlmmgea wcdt cdppleli, `bmmbwli ky tcl kltrdyli spbusl, wcb wgmm scdrl cbw c bw cl br scl rlspbeili. Ycle, kbtc b` ybu wgmm scdrl wcdt wcd t ybu‗vl ibel tcdt‗s ebt klle clmp`um. Ibe‗t `bralt ybu cdvl d fflvl-jgeutl mgjgt. G febw gt jdy sllj gjpbssgkml tb squllzl sb junc getb fflvl jgeutls, kut fllp ge jgei tcdt tcl fflrst pdrt b` tcl lxlrngsl gs kltwlle ybu dei ybur spbusl. Ycl twb b` ybu elli tb mgel up dmm d mm tcl iltdgms dei jdfl d nbjpmltl, nbclrlet stbry. Ycl slnbei pdrt gs kltwlle tcl twb b` ybu dei tcl arbup. Ycgs tgjl gt‗s d junc krbdilr bvlrvglw tb agvl tcl arbup de gild b` wclrl ybu drl nbjgea `rbj. @llm `rll tb usl tcl qulstgbes klmbw tb clmp `brj ybur stbry.
G elnlssdry, elnlssdr y, usl diigtgbedm pdals tb rlnbri ybur tcbuacts. ;.49
Cbw igi ybu fflei but dkbut d kbut ybur jdtl‗s kltrdydm2
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;.40 Cbw igi ybu rldnt tb tcl rlvlmdtgbe2
;.43 Cbw cds tcgs rlvlmdtgbe gjpdntli ybur mg`l2
;.;? Qcdt getrusgvl tcbuacts ib ybu fflact idgmy2
;.;; Qcdt ib ybu wdet ybur jdtl tb ueilrstdei2
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;.;9 Qcdt gs jbst pdge`um `br ybu2
;.;0 Qcdt lvlets `rbj ybur pdst jdy kl geulengea ybur rldntgbe tb tcl
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Nbenmusgbe Ydef ybu br ebt agvgea up dei br jdfgea gt tcrbuac bel b tcl jbst ignumt wllfs b tcl nbursl dei bel b tcl jbst ignumt tdsfs t dsfs b ybur hburely’tlmmgea tcl stbry. Kbtc b ybu cdvl nbetrgkutli ky dsfgea qulstgbes dei rlvldmgea jbrl iltdgms. G dj ardtlum br ybur nburdal. Qllf > wgmm wg mm agvl us tcl t cl bppbrtuegty tb lxpmbrl wcy kltrdydm bnnurs, dei dmsb clmp us rldmgzl tcdt wl drl ebt dmbel ge bur lxplrglenl.
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