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Wkkn ;
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Wkkn ; \hmka Iatks
Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?=;
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igkr `omk tbk Baustai ikws hi Ukptk`dkr 46?6 wbki ht wos rkpartkm tbot o wa`oi roi avkr bkr busdoim whtb bkr eor iat aiek, iat twhek, t whek, dut ot ckost tbrkk th`ks. Wbki tbk pachek orrhvkm ai tbk sekik, tbk `oi wos uimkr tbk eor oim saai mhkm ra` bhs hijurhks. Wbki skorebhig ar tbhs ikws stary, H mhseavkrkm sbk wosi‘t wosi‘t tbk rst wa`oi hi Baustai ta usk bkr eor os o wkopai hi o ma`ksthe mhsputk. mhsputk. Khgbt ykors korchkr oiatbkr wa`oi roi avkr oim nhcckm bkr busdoim hi o pornhig p ornhig gorogk. Hi datb eosks, tbk wa`ki sohm ht wos –oi oeehmkit.‐ Wbktbkr prk`kmhtotkm ar iat, tbksk wkrk advhaus eosks a oigkr rui whcm. Iaik a us woit ta kim up hi tbk iothaioc bkomchiks tbot woy. woy. Ua tbhs wkkn, wk whcc ghvk yau sa`k taacs oim `ktbams, iat iat just ar eaitracchig oigkr, dut ar uimkrstoimhig ht oim baw ht warns. ]hs wkkn, os wk dkghi ta ommrkss tbk hssuk a oigkr, sa`k a yau `oy iat kkc yau ikkm ta warn ai tbhs taphe. Kvki h yau mai‘t dkchkvk ht‘s oi hssuk ar yaur rkcothaisbhp, oigkr eoi dk o prktty shgiheoit hssuk accawhig o dktroyoc, oim yau mai‘t woit oigkr ta dkea`k o mkstruethvk arek hi yaur `orhtoc rkcothaisbhp. rkcothaisbhp. Lar tbot rkosai, wk tonk oi kithrk wkkn ta dkghi ta caan ot oigkr oim baw ta nkkp ro`poit k`athais ra` sbrkmmhig sbrkmmhig tbk twa t wa a yau os o eaupck. Os wk dkghi tbhs mhseusshai, rk`k`dkr tbk eaitroet yau shgikm. Xau ea``httkm ta sokty oim ia bor`. Xau ork rkspaishdck ar yau oim yau‘rk ebaashig ta dk sok kiaugb ar us. Wk whcc pravhmk suggksthais ar baw ta nkkp tbksk dauimorhks hi pcoek hi tbk kvkit oigkr dkea`ks o pradck` ar khtbkr spausk. Nkkp hi `him tbot datb d atb tbk dktroykm dkt roykm oim uiohtbuc spausks ork chnkcy ta dk avkrea`k whtb oigkr oim kxpkrhkiek fflaamhig.
Gaocs lar Wkkn ; Wbktbkr ar iat yau eaishmkr oigkr oi hssuk ar yaurskc ar yaur spausk, uimkrstoimhig tbk myio`hes a oigkr hi aur k`athaioc chvks hs eruehoc ta eaithiuhig ai tbk potb ta rkeavkry. Wk whcc skkn ta kxpcark baw oigkr apkrotks, baw ht hs kxprksskm, oim baw ta eaitrac ht wbki mkochig whtb ht ra` yaur `otk ar yaurskc. ]k ommkm dkikt hs tbot
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tbksk snhccs whcc bkcp yau uimkrstoim oim `oiogk oigkr hi occ tbk t bk rkcothaisbhps hi yaur chk. Aur gaocs ar tbhs wkkn ork ta bkcp yau: •
Ckori ta skkn tbk uimkrcyhig k`athai dkbhim oigkr wbki ht suroeks
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Dkghi ta uthchzk taacs ta nkkp oigkr ra` mo`oghig ea``uiheothai ea``uiheothai oim bkochig dktwkki yau oim yaur `otk
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Tkeagihzk baw yau oim yaur `otk koeb kxprkss oigkr wbki ht orhsks
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Mhseavkr vorhaus woys ta datb uimkrstoim oim `oiogk oigkr iaw oim hi tbk uturk
;.? Ma yau lkkc oigkr hs oi hssuk lar l ar yau oim/ar yaur spausk1
☖ Xks ☖ Ia
;.4 Hl sa, wrhtk o ea``ht`kit ta put oshmk yaur oigkr hi armkr ta dkttkr
uimkrstoim ht sa tbot yau oim yaur spausk eoi bkcp koeb atbkr ckori ta mkoc whtb oigkr pashthvkcy.
;.5 Hl yau mai‘t lkkc oigkr hs oi o i hssuk, wbot dkikt `hgbt yau oim yaur spausk
rkekhvk lra` spkimhig th`k mhseusshig tbhs k`athai oim baw ht eoi h`poet pkapck oltkr o dktroyoc1
Wbot Hs Oigkr1 Oigkr hs oi kxprksshai a o mkkpkr k`athai rotbkr tboi oi k`athai hi htskc. Wk Wk eoi kxprkss `oiy kxprkss `oiy tbhigs”burt, pohi, hijusthek, mhsogrkk`kit, ar supkrharhty wbki wk kkc
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aur pkrsaioc rhgbts ork dkhig d khig vhacotkm”hi tbk ar` a oigkr. Xkt Xkt hi kvkry kvkr y eosk ht hs h`partoit ta hmkithy wbot k`athai tbk t bk oigkr hs kxprksshig.
]bk Vawkr al Oigkr Lar `ast eaupcks mkochig whtb himkchty, oigkr hs o vkry rkckvoit taphe. Oetuoccy, tbk pradck` hsi‘t tbk oigkr> ht‘s tbk kxprksshai a tbk oigkr. ypheoccy oigkr hs o skeaimory k`athai, `koihig ht hs tbk autworm kxprksshai kxprksshai a sa`k mkkpkr prh`ory k`athai. Ht hs tbk kquhvockit a turihig up tbk vacu`k ckvkc ai tbk uimkrcyhig k`athai hi bapks a dkhig bkorm. Dkbhim tbk vkhc a oigkr, yau `oy im kkchigs a guhct, hiomkquoey hiomkquoe y, kor, kor, burt, ar rhgbtkaus himhgiothai. Wk Wk uthchzk oigkr ta mkoc whtb `ark pohiuc kkchigs. Oigkr k`pawkrs us, `athvotks us, strkigtbkis us. Ht eoi kvki bkcp pratket us. Xkt oigkr eoi ocsa mkstray us oim tbask wk bacm mkor. Ht‘s iat uiea``ai, wbki wauimkm dy o cavkm aik, ta kkc o prh`oc rogk tbot hs pragro``km hita tbk eark a aur dkhig. Lra` tbk th`k wk ork dari, wk ork mkshgikm ta ikkm eaiikethai whtb atbkr bu`oi dkhigs. Vsyebacagheoc kxpcarothai bos hmkithkm tbhs ikkm os –ottoeb`kit.‐ Wk ikkm ta dk ottoebkm, eaiiketkm, oim tbk `ast ea`pkcchig a tbk eaiikethais wk skkn hs cavk. Hi oet, oeearmhig ta Uuk Jabisai, VbM, hi bkr daan Bacm @k ]hgbt , sbk `kithais o rkekit survky hi tbk [ihtkm Utotks oim Eoiomo wbkrk pkapck rotkm –o sothsyhig cavk rkcothaisbhp os tbkhr iu`dkr-aik gaoc, obkom a ioiehoc sueekss oim sothsyhig eorkkr‐ dkeousk –cavk mrhvks us ta daim k`athaioccy whtb o prkehaus kw atbkrs wba astkr us sok bovki ra` tbk star`s a chk.‐ ? Wbki wk ork odck ta k`athaioccy ottoeb os oi omuct, portheucorcy ta o ra`oithe portikr, wk bovk wbot Jabisai eoccs –o skisk a skeurk eaiikethai dktwkki ra`oithe portikrs ^wbhebP hs nky hi pashthvk cavhig rkcothaisbhps rkcothaisbhps oim o bugk saurek a strkigtb ar tbk himhvhmuocs hi tbask rkcothaisbhps.‐ Wbki skeurkcy ottoebkm, –wk uimkrstoim aurskcvks dkttkr oim chnk aurskcvks aurskcvks `ark, . . . ork dkttkr ot skknhig suppart”oim dkttkr ot ghvhig ht.‐? Eaivkrskcy, Eaivkrskcy, wbki tbot cavk ottoeb`kit hs dranki, tbot suppart, strkigtb, oim skcuimkrstoimhig hs mhsruptkm. Os Jabisai stotks, –Eaifflhet whtb oim basthck erhthehs` ra` cavkm aiks hierkosk aur skc-maudts oim erkotk o skisk a bkcpckssikss,‐ portheucorcy wbki tbk ottoeb`kit ta aur prh`ory rkcothaisbhp, rkcothaisbhp, aur `orrhogk portikr port ikr,, hs sbottkrkm. sbottkrkm. ? Aur vkry auimothai kkcs sbonki, sa ht‘s ia waimkr tbot mhstrkss oim oigkr orhsk. Hi ommhthai, –rkjkethai oim kxecushai trhggkr tbk so`k ehreuhts hi tbk so`k port a tbk drohi, tbk oitkrhar ehigucotk, os pbysheoc pohi. Hi oet, tbhs port a tbk drohi turis ai
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oiyth`k wk ork k`athaioccy skporotkm ra` tbask wba ork ecask ta us.‐ ? ]hs pbysheoc pohi rksucthig ra` rkjkethai, ar coen a ottoeb`kit, eoi ocsa ckom ta duhcmhig woccs ta pratket aurskcvks ra` urtbkr burt. Wk Wk eut aurskcvks ast ra` wbotkvkr ar wba`kvkr `hgbt eousk us `ark k`athaioc pohi, dut tbhs aicy ckoms ta urtbkr hsacothai. Hi tbhs k`athaioc voeuu`, wk rkvkrt ta o survhvoc `amk. Wk‘rk k‘rk ia caigkr kxpkrhkiehig chk, tbk gaam oim tbk dom, dkeousk wk‘rk wk‘rk just kxhsthig `a`kit ta `a`kit, ra` aik moy ta tbk ikxt. Kvkr iathek baw mhſteuct ht hs ta bovk o `koihiguc rkcothaisbhp rkcothaisbhp whtb o rkpthck1 ]ot‘s ]ot‘s dkeousk tbk rkpthchoi drohi hs aeuskm ai just aik tbhig”survhvoc tbhig”sur vhvoc (–ikkm oim kkm‐ ar –gbt ar fflhgbt‐). Tkpthcks mai‘t mai‘t passkss o ch`dhe systk` (tbk rkcothaioc port a tbk drohi) ea``ai ta `o``ocs. Bu`ois, bawkvkr, ma passkss o port a drohi eocckm tbk o`ygmoco, wbheb uiethais chnk tbk drohi a o rkpthck. ]hs p arthai a aur drohi hs aeuskm ai survhvoc oim eaitracs aur gbt-ar-fflhgbt rkspaisks oim hs hieopodck a dkhig rkcothaioc. ]hs hs o gaam tbhig h yau‘rk hi tbk waams oim o dkor ea`ks hita yaur eo`pshtk. Dut ht‘s iat sa bkcpuc h yaur o`ygmoco hs oethvotkm wbhck tocnhig ta o cavkm aik. Aiek trhggkrkm dy wbot‘s wbot‘s hitkrprktkm os o tbrkotkihig shtuothai, tbk o`ygmoco oethvotks aur sy`potbkthe ikrvaus systk`, wbheb hs chnk oi oeekckrotar ai o eor, oim wk ga tbraugb romheoc pbyshacagheoc oim psyebacagheoc eboigks. Hi ckss tboi o skeaim, tbk bkort rotk eoi ju`p ta avkr o buimrkm dkots pkr `hiutk oim wk ga hita chzorm `amk, ia caigkr eopodck a dkhig rothaioc ar rkcothaioc. Wk `oy kkc oim kvki caan hi eaitrac, dut aur prkraitoc eartkx (aur k`athaioc dronk systk`) bos just gaik `hsshig, sa wk ork iaw hi survhvoc `amk, whtb k`athais”iat aur rothaioc drohi”mrhvhig tbk hitkroethai. a ea`pcheotk `ottkrs urtbkr, aur `hims ork mkshgikm ta `hrrar aik oiatbkr. ]krkark wbki khtbkr spausk dkghis ta fflaam, tbk atbkr porty `ast chnkcy hs mksthikm ta accaw. accaw. Aiek tbk rkoethai dkghis, tbk aicy sacuthai hs ta turi ast tbk survhvoc `keboihs` oim `avk doen hita aur rothaioc `him. h`k-auts ork tbk `ast kstkethvk woy ta oebhkvk tbot gaoc. Wk whcc mhseuss tbk th`k-aut taac cotkr hi tbhs eboptkr. eboptkr. ;.= ;.= Mkserhdk o shtuothai (iat rkcotkm ta yaur `orrhogk) wbkrk yau kxpkrhkiekm
oi oigry rkspaisk ta k`athaioc fflaamhig.
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;.; Baw mhm tbhs typk al rkoethai ostket shtuothais hi yaur `orrhogk dklark tbk
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;.< Baw eoi uimkrstoimhig tbk k`athaioc oim pbyshacagheoc ospkets al oigkr
bkcp yau mkoc whtb ht hl oim wbki ht `oy orhsk hi yaurskcl1
;.7 Baw eoi ht bkcp wbki ht orhsks or hsks hi yaur `otk1
Mkochig whtb Oigkr Hi o ckss ehvhchzkm warcm, tbk gbt-ar-fflhgbt rkspaisk nkpt us ochvk, dut hi `amkri th`ks, h ckl uiebkenkm, tbhs rkspaisk eoi eousk pradck`s. –Lhgbt ar fflhgbt‐ rkkrs ta oi oetuoc pbyshacagheoc rkspaisk ta moigkr. Vbyshacagheoccy Vbyshacagheoccy,, wk ork whrkm ar survhvoc. sur vhvoc. Wbki hi moigkr, moigkr, wk bovk o ioturoc rkoethai a bypkrorausoc os aur d damy amy prkporks ar pkrsaioc mkkisk ar kseopk. Wk kxpkrhkiek o durst a kikrgy oim oixhkty. Wbhck tbot pbyshacagheoc rkoethai hs uskuc hi th`ks a pbysheoc moigkr, ht eoi dk mhſteuct ta eaitrac wbki ht‘s oi k`athaioc hitkroethai whtb oiatbkr pkrsai. p krsai. ]k gbt ar fflhgbt rkspaisk hs rkqukitcy trhggkrkm ar eaupcks mkochig whtb himkchty. himkchty. Aur hihthoc rkspaisk `oy dk ta rui owoy ar cosb aut hi oigkr os o mkkishvk rkoethai. Dut bapkuccy aur hitkrioc ebkens oim docoieks nkkp oigkr ra` dkea`hig o mkstruethvk pawkr. Lareks Lareks sueb os cavk, ea`posshai, ea`posshai, rkspket, oim hitkgrhty eoi dk grkot docoiehig wkhgbts murhig sueb `a`kits. Os H sohm odavk, tbk oigkr hs iat tbk pradck`> ht‘s baw oigkr hs kxprksskm tbot dkea`ks pradck`othe. ?;6
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Mkochig whtb tbk K`athaioc Lcaam Wbki pkapck fflaam k`athaioccy, tbky cask pkrspkethvk oim ia caigkr bovk tbk odhchty ta eaishmkr baw tbkhr oethais ork h`poethig atbkrs. ]krkark tbksk hitkroethais ork chnkcy ta dk mo`oghig. Aiek wk ork trhggkrkm k`athaioccy, wk apkrotk ra` aur o`ygmoco, tbk rkpthchoi parthai a aur drohi. Hts prh`ory uiethai hs skc-pratkethai”–ikkm skc-pratkethai”–ikkm oim kkm‐ ar –gbt ar fflhgbt.‐ ]hs hs ik oim gaam h yau‘rk tryhig ta pratket yaurskc ra` chais oim thgkrs oim dkors, dut aiek tbk t bk o`ygmoco hs oethvotkm, bu`ois ork hieopodck a rothaioc tbaugbt. ]us, bovhig o uiethaioc, trusthig, `utuoccy sothsyhig hitkroethai whtb sa`kaik wba hs k`athaioccy fflaamkm hs h`passhdck. Tkgormckss a baw borm sa`kaik trhks, uithc tbk k`athaioc ckvkc eoc`s, tbkrk hs ia spoek ar rkosai. Dkcaw ork o kw suggksthais ar mkochig whtb tbot k`athaioc fflaam.
?. Utoy stkomy Wbki sa`kaik hs fflaamhig, aik oppraoeb hs ta bkcp bh` ar bkr kkc sok. O gaam woy ta stort hs ta stoy eoc`. ]k cost tbhig tbot‘s tbot‘s ikkmkm hs ar yau ta `oteb tbkhr k`athaioc hitkishty. –Utoyhig stkomy‐ `kois rkgucothig yaur k`athais ar rkushig ta kseocotk. ]hs hs iat iar`oc, ghvki tbk oet tbot wk ioturoccy rkoet ta pkapck orauim us. Wk bovk ta eaitrac aur ioturoc rkspaisks. Ht‘s iat tbot mhſteuct ta ckori. Occ ht tonks hs o chttck `kitoc eboigk a mhrkethai. H`oghik o shtuothai wbkrk sa`kaik dckw up ot yau. Eoi yau rk`k`dkr tbk sbaen ar oigkr oim tbk urgk ta cosb doen1 Iaw, histkom a tbot –ioturoc‐ rkoethai a oigkr, `kitoccy pheturk yaur dkmraa` pohitkm nu`quot aroigk, aroigk, oim try ta vhsuochzk baw tbask eacars ga whtb yaur kxhsthig urihturk. Ar skk h yau eoi mktkr`hik h 575 hs o prh`k iu`dkr. iu`dkr. Eoi yau kkc baw yaur `him ckts ga a tbot k`athaioc rkoethvhty os yau dkghi ta eaishmkr vhsuoc oim oiocytheoc pradck`s1 Dy ushig tbhs kxkrehsk wbki chstkihig ta tbk ottoens a sa`kaik wba hs roghig, yau eoi eaitrac yaur awi rkoethvhty. rkoethvhty. ]ksk bhgbkr ckvkcs a tbhinhig erkotk tbk odhchty ta eaithiuk apkrothig aut a yaur prkraitoc eartkx, rotbkr tboi `otebhig tbkhr oigkr. oigkr. Vutthig ai yaur k`athaioc turtck sbkcc hs or dkttkr tboi t boi kigoghig sa`kaik wba‘s fflaamkm hi oi hrrothaioc eaivkrsothai, oim ht eoi occaw yau ta hitkroet whtb bh` ar bkr whtbaut dkhig mkstraykm. mkstraykm.
Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?;?
4. @ohitohi eoc` ]krk ork atbkr woys ta bkcp o pkrsai wba‘s fflaamhig. Dkhig D khig eoc` oim saatbhig eoi ocsa dk o grkot osskt hi tbhs shtuothai. ry rkspaimhig wor`cy whtb tbk pbrosk –Xau‘rk rhgbt‐ tbk ikxt th`k yau kkc ottoenkm. Lar kxo`pck: –Xau‘rk o ea`pcktk psyeba, wby eoi‘t wk just dk maik whtb tbhs1!‐ –Xau‘rk rhgbt, H niaw ht‘s borm ar yau ta rkbosb tbhs.‐ –H‘vk tacm yau ?66 th`ks H mhmi‘t ma tbot.‐ –Xau‘rk rhgbt, yau bovk.‐ –Wby eoi‘t yau just gkt avkr ht1‐ –H uimkrstoim ht `ust dk pohiuc ar yau wbki tbhigs mrog ai.‐ ]hs `oy sauim tatoccy hrrkckvoit ta tbk eaivkrsothai, dut shiek sa`kaik wba‘s k`athaioccy fflaamhig hs hieopodck a dkhig rothaioc, ht maksi‘t `onk o wback cat a mhstkrkiek h yaur rkspaisk sauims hrrothaioc. Oim H eoi pra`hsk ht ekrtohicy warns dkttkr tboi jahihig tbk orgu`kit. Ht‘s iat ohr, oim dy bkcphig yaur `otk mk-kseocotk yau ork iat hi oiy woy kxeushig bhs ar bkr dkbovhar. Lcaamhig prkvkits oiy pragrkss ar oiy rothaioc eaivkrsothai, sa tbhs toethe hs occ odaut gktthig tbk` eoc` sa yau eoi sokcy kxht tbk eaivkrsothai. Ht Ht whcc ma odsacutkcy ia gaam ta kigogk whtb tbk` ot tbhs pahit, yau whcc im yaurskc up ot 5 O.@. gbthig hi ehrecks oim kkchig `ark mkspkrotk tboi wbki tbk orgu`kit dkgoi. Tk`k`dkrhig ta soy, –Xau‘rk rhgbt‐ hi o saatbhig taik eoi `kim `orrhogks oim mhsor` gbts.
5. Bkcp tbk` mk-kseocotk H yaur `otk hs whcchig, oiatbkr tkebihquk ar mk-kseocothig k`athais hs ta bkcp tbk` `avk ra` tbk o`ygmoco ta tbk prkraitoc eartkx. ]k so`k tkebihquk `kithaikm odavk wbkrk yau uthchzk vhsuochzothai ar oiocytheoc pradck`s whcc ocsa bkcp tbk oigry porty rkgohi eaitrac. eaitrac. O warm a worihig: mai‘t ottk`pt tbhs h tbk twa a yau bovki‘t ocrkomy mhseusskm ushig tbhs oppraoeb ta bkcp whtb k`athaioc fflaamhig. ffla amhig. Bawkvkr, Bawkvkr, h yau eoi bovk o rotha-
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ioc eaivkrsothai tagktbkr odaut odaut baw ta mkoc whtb tbk fflaamhig wbki datb a yau ork eoc`, tbki yaur `otk `hgbt ogrkk ta uthchzk tbhs oppraoeb ot tbk th`k ht‘s ht‘s ikkmkm. (onhig (onhig tbk th`k ta proethek wbki w bki tbhigs ork eoc` hs o gaam woy ta kisurk yau eoi datb ma tbhs wbki w bki aik a yau hs k`athaioccy fflaamhig.) Lar kxo`pck, h H‘` spkonhig whtb sa`kaik wba w ba‘‘s fflaamhig, H‘cc osn tbk` ta vhsuochzk tbkhr chvhig raa` nu`quot nu`quot aroigk. Ar h tbot pkrsai tkims ta dk `ark oiocytheoc, H‘cc osn tbk` ta eoceucotk tbk squork raat a 75 hi tbkhr bkom. Ht‘s o`ozhig ta woteb baw pkapck ork odck ta eoc` mawi oim `avk ai whtb o rothaioc eaivkrsothai.
=. Ovkrt tbk pradck` whtb –bkortlkct‐ chstkihig Xau eoi ocsa try t ry ta ovkrt tbk pradck` octagktbkr dy skknhig ta uimkrstoim wbot tbk atbkr porty hs tryhig ta soy s oy.. Murhig oi hitkroethai, wk rorkcy chstki ta uimkrstoim tbk atbkr pkrsai. Histkom, wk chstki ra` o skc-ekitkrkm skc-ekitkrkm pkrspkethvk, kvocuothig tbkhr warms ra` –`y‐ pkrspkethvk oim eoceucothig baw ta rkspaim wbki ht‘s –`y turi.‐ Wk try ta uimkrstoim tbk` tbraugb aur chk kxpkrhkieks. ]k pradodhchty a trucy uimkrstoimhig tbk bkort a oiatbkr wbhck kvocuothig bh` ar bkr tbraugb t braugb tbk rkochthks a aur awi chk hs sch` ta iaik. Ma wk rkoccy woit ta niaw oim uimkrstoim tbk atbkr pkrsai, ar ma wk just woit tbot pkrsai ta niaw oim uimkrstoim us1 Ork wk eurhaus odaut baw bk ar sbk skks tbk shtuothai1 Ar ma wk skkn ta adtohi pkrsaioc vochmothai dy ocskcy dkchkvhig –`y pkrspkethvk hs tbk rhgbt pkrspkethvk, oim h yau eoi‘t eoi‘t oeekpt `y pkrspkethvk os trutb, tbki sa`ktbhig hs wraig whtb yau.‐ H yau ottk`pt ta arek sa`kaik wba hs fflaamhig k`athaioccy ta oeekpt yaur pkrspkethvk, tbki yau‘cc `ast chnkcy kxoekrdotk tbot k`athaioc fflaam. Ukc-ekitkrkm chstkihig ckoms ta strohikm rkcothaisbhps rkcothaisbhps oim `hsuimkrstoimhigs. H aur gaoc hs ta suppart aur `otk hi tbk bkochig praekss, tbki tryhig ta uimkrstoim dkark dkark tryhig ta dk uimkrstaam hs ksskithoc. Wbki chstkihig ta oi k`athaioccy fflaamhig pkrsai, ma wbot H eocc –bkortkct‐ chstkihig. [ichnk oethvk chstkihig, wbkrk yau `hgbt rkpbrosk wbot yaur spausk hs soyhig , whtb bkortkct chstkihig yau rkfflket wbot yau tbhin yaur spausk hs lkkchig hs lkkchig . Lar kxo`pck: Xaur spausk bos just rkturikm ba`k ra` warn. Xau h``kmhotkcy dkghi quksthaihig bh` ar bkr ai kxoetcy Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?;5
wbot tbky mhm, wbkrk tbky wkrk, oim wba tbky tocnkm to cnkm ta occ moy. moy. Xaur portikr `oy dkghi ta fflaam oim bkotkmcy osn, –Chstki, H‘vk ocrkomy oiswkrkm tbksk quksthais ar o `aitb iaw. iaw. Wbki whcc wh cc H stap dkhig puihsbkm1‐ Xau rkspaim whtb, –Xau kkc burt1‐ –Odsacutkcy,‐ bk ar sbk rkspaims, –H‘` warnhig borm ta `onk yau kkc sok, dut ht maksi‘t skk` ta dk warnhig shiek wk‘rk sthcc hi tbk so`k rauthik wk wkrk hi ai Moy ?.‐ Xau eaithiuk ta rkfflket yaur `otk‘s kkchigs dy rkspaimhig, –Xau kkc mhseaurogkm.‐ –Xks, dut H niaw tbhs hs bormkr ar yau tboi ht hs ar `k. H bapk yau‘cc dk pothkit whtb `k.‐ –H niaw yau‘rk yau‘rk tryhig oim H opprkehotk tbot, dut H sthcc ikkm ossuroiek tbhigs ork anoy. Hs tbkrk owoy H eoi drhig ht up whtb aut trhggkrhig yau1‐ Ot tbhs pahit, dy ushig bkortkct chstkihig oim tryhig ta uimkrstoim yaur spausk‘s pkrspkethvk, yau‘vk apkikm o eaistruethvk mhocaguk ar datb yau oim yaur `otk ai tbk rkochty a hitrushvk tbaugbts, oim yau‘vk yau‘vk nkpt bh` ar bkr ra` fflaamhig k`athaioccy.
;. [sk o pucsk woteb Oiatbkr thp wbki tbhigs ork aut a eaitrac hs ta ovahm eaivkrsothais eaivkrsothais wbki sa`kaik hs k`athaioccy fflaamhig. Wbki oi himhvhmuoc hs kxpkrhkiehig tbk prh`oc poihe erkotkm dy trou`o, tbkrk hs o pbyshacagheoc rkspaisk” tbot pkrsai‘s pucsk rotk h``kmhotkcy ju`ps ta avkr ?66 dkots o `hiutk. H rkqukitcy bovk eaupcks eaupcks wkor pucsk wotebks ot ihgbt ta `aihtar tbkhr bkort rotk. Whtb oi ocor` skt ot ?66 ? 66 dkots o `hiutk, tbky h``kmhotkcy niaw wbki aik a tbk` dkghis ta fflaam. Whtbaut tbk usk a tbk pucsk woteb, ht‘s mhſteuct ar tbk pkrsai wba hs fflaamhig fflaa mhig ta rkeagihzk tbkrk t bkrk‘‘s o pradck`. Hi oet, muk ta tbk cass a rothaiochty, rothaiochty, tbot pkrsai whcc dkghi dkgh i ta dkchkvk bk ar sbk hs `onhig `ark skisk tboi kvkr. Dut whtb tbk bkcp a tbk t bk pucsk woteb, datb porthks niaw tbot ht‘s th`k ar o –th`k-aut.‐ Aiek tbk th`k-aut hs trhggkrkm dy tbk ocor`, tbk eaupck bos ta tonk o 46-`hiutk drkon oim koeb `ust wrhtk mawi baw tbky tbhin tbk atbkr hs kkchig. ]k eaivkrsothai eaivkrsothai eoi
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dkghi ogohi ot tbk kim a tbk th`k-aut.
<. Vroy ]k odavk-`kithaikm suggksthais suggksthais ork just sa`k a tbk taacs tbot eoi bkcp whtb k`athaioc fflaamhig, dut tbky‘rk tbky‘rk ekrtohicy iat occ-hiecushvk. H‘vk pkrsaioccy auim proykr ta dk kxtrk`kcy bkcpuc. H proy tbot Gam whcc groit `k skc-eaitrac oim ea`posshai ar tbk atbkr porty. H proy ar tbk odhchty ta vhkw tbk pkrsai p krsai wba hs fflaamhig k`athaioccy tbraugb tbk kyks k yks a Gam. H proy ar tbk odhchty ta rkfflket Gam‘s cavk hi aur eaivkrsothai. H eaupcks ork ta survhvk tbk t bk trou`o erkotkm dy himkchty, himkchty, datb porthks p orthks ikkm ta warn ot dkhig rkspketuc. Kvki sa, tbkrk hs sthcc o straig chnkchbaam tbot aik porty whcc struggck whtb aut-a-eaitrac k`athais. Dut mai‘t dk mhseaurogkm. Ht‘s `ark tboi passhdck ta warn tbraugb tbk k`athais oim im o ikw eaiikethai. ;.2 Bos k`athaioc fflaamhig pcoykm o port hi yaur `orrhogk lar yau1
☖ Xks ☖ Ia Lar yaur spausk1
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Wbheb al tbk shx taacs chstkm odavk lar mkochig whtb oi k`athaioccy fflaamhig pkrsai ma yau lkkc waucm dk `ast dkikehoc lar yau oim yaur spausk hi tbk eurrkit pbrosk al yaur rkeavkry1 (Chst os `oiy os oppcy.)
;.?6 Al tbk taacs yau chstkm, wbheb taac ma yau ikkm tbk `ast bkcp ushig oim
baw eoi yau kstkethvkcy put ht ta usk hi yaur rkcothaisbhp1
Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?;;
]onk o ]h`k-aut Oeekpthig aur ch`htothais os bu`ois oim dkhig eaishmkrotk a tbask wk cavk hs ksskithoc h wk woit ta `ohitohi rkcothaisbhps. rkcothaisbhps. Tk`k`dkr, Tk`k`dkr, tbksk suggksthais oppcy ta datb tbk uiohtbuc oim tbk dktroykm spausk. Wbki oigkr ar k`athaioc fflaamhig dkea`k d kea`k mkstruethvk, th`k-auts ork ksskithoc ar pratkethig yaur rkcothaisbhp. rkcothaisbhp. Ogrkkhig ta uthchzk th`k-auts histkom a bovhig mkstruethvk hitkroethais whcc ea``uiheotk tbot yau eork ar yaur `otk oim tbk rkcothaisbhp. rkcothaisbhp. Tkom tbraugb tbk accawhig guhmkchiks ar tonhig o th`k-aut t h`k-aut wbki ea``uiheothai dkea`ks taa kxpcashvk dkeousk oigkr ar k`athaioc fflaamhig rkoebks o mkstruethvk ckvkc.
Wbki Khtbkr portikr eoi eocc o th`k-aut h o mhseusshai/orgu`kit mhseusshai/orgu`kit hs storthig ta kkc aut a eaitrac. @ast pkapck eoiiat tbhin eckorcy wbki t bky ork oigry, sa pastpaihig tbk mhseusshai uithc datb porthks p orthks bovk `avkm doen hita tbk rothaioc `him hs ikekssory h yau‘rk ta bovk oiy nhim a pramuethvk eaivkrsothai.
Baw **\KTX H@VAT]OI] ** ** a uthchzk th`k-auts, yau `ust rst mkvkcap yaur th`k-aut praekmurk. ]hs bos ta dk mkvkcapkm wbki yau‘rk datb eoc`. Lohcurk ta prkpork dkarkboim hs o guoroitkk ar mhsostkr. Bkrk Bkrk ork tbk pahits p ahits ta eaishmkr wbhck mkvkcaphig yaur pcoi:
?. O `utuoccy ogrkkm-upai shgioc lar tbk usk al th`kaut. Ht hs dkst ta bovk datb o vkrdoc oim iaivkrdoc (boim shgioc) woy a ea``uiheothig tbk ikkm ta tonk o th`k-aut. [sk tbk pbrosk, –H‘` tonhig o th`k-aut. H‘cc dk doen hi 56 `hiutks.‐ ]hs `onks ht aſtehoc. H yau yau ma iat usk tbk pbrosk –th`k-aut‐ –th`k-aut‐ yaur `otk wai‘t niaw tbot o prkvhauscy orroigkm ogrkk`kit hs dkhig eocckm hita oethai. ]k pkrsai wba tonks tbk th`k-aut hs tbk aik wba ckovks tbk raa`. Uoyhig –th`k-aut‐ hs o stotk`kit, iat o o quksthai. Ht hs o –ia `ottkr wbot‐ ogrkk`kit. ogrkk`kit. H yaur portikr soys –th`k-aut,‐ yau
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`ust ckt bh` ar bkr ckovk tbk raa` whtbaut urtbkr quksthais, stotk`kits, ea``kits, ea``kits, sbo`hig, ar dco`hig. ]k ogrkk`kit yau `omk whtb yaur `otk hs tbot t bot yau waucm stap tocnhig oim ckt bh` ar bkr ckovk tbk raa`. H yau eoiiat rkosaiodcy accaw yaur ogrkk`kit, tbki yau tbki yau ork aut aut al yaur awi eaitrac eaitrac oim oim pradodcy ikkm praksshaioc bkcp. Ia o`auit a soyhig, –H bk mhmi‘t ma tbot, tbki H waucmi‘t accaw bh` ar eocc bh`,‐ whcc justhy tbot yau drank yaur yaur ogrkk`kit. ogrkk`kit. H aik pkrsai eoccs ar o prapkr th`k-aut oim tbk atbkr portikr maks iat rkspket ht, tbki tbot portikr hs aut a eaitrac. Xau eoi‘t dco`k yaur woy dy soyhig, –Ht‘s anoy tbot H drank `y ogrkk`kit dkeousk (cc hi tbk dcoin).‐ dcoin).‐ Oiatbkr woy ta shgioc tbk ikkm ar o th`k aut hs ar datb a yau ta wkor o pucsk woteb whtb tbk ocor` skt ot ?66 dkots pkr `hiutk. H tbk ocor` gaks ast, tbki tbk th`k-aut t h`k-aut hs trhggkrkm oim tbkrk‘s ia orgu`kit os ta tbk vochmhty a tbk ikkm ar tbk th`k-aut.
4. Datb porthks bovk ta ogrkk ta mhskigogk oltkr o th`k-aut hs eocckm. ]krk hs ta dk ia accawhig tbk portikr port ikr wba eocckm tbk th`kth `kaut. Om`httkmcy Om`httkmcy tbhs hs mhſteuct. Lar sa`k, tbk aicy woy tbky skc-saatbk hs dy whtbmrowhig oim praeksshig tbk hiar`othai hi armkr ta mhseuss tbk taphe. Atbkrs ikkm ta nkkp to cnhig ta gkt rksacuthai ta rkmuek tbkhr strkss. Wbki tbhs boppkis yau‘rk ot erass purpasks, dut rkeagihzk tbot ht‘s sthcc ikekssory ta usk th`k-auts h yau woit ta pratket yaur `orrhogk.
5. ]bk eaivkrsothai kims wbki tbk th`k-aut hs eocckm. Mai‘t try ta gkt hi tbk cost warm. Xau‘cc bovk oi appartuihty cotkr ta ea`pcktk yaur mhseusshai.
=. Wbki eocchig o th`k-aut, tbk laccawhig ikkms ta dk ea``uiheotkm: • ]ot yau ogrkk ta accaw tbk th`k-aut th`k-aut prataeac. Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?;7
• ]ot yau ogrkk ta dkghi ogohi ogohi hi 56 `hiutks. `hiutks.
;. Wbot ta ma murhig tbk 56 `hiutks: • ry ta im sa`ktbhig sa`ktbhig kcsk ta aeus ai, sueb sueb os rkomhig o daan ar rkomhig yaur Dhdck. • Ma iat tbhin odaut wbot yau‘rk yau‘rk gahig ta soy wbki yau ea`k doen tagktbkr. • Mai‘t Mai‘t adskss adskss odaut odaut baw baw oigry yau yau kkc kkc ot ot tbk atbkr pkrsai pkrsai murhig tbhs th`k. Totbkr T otbkr,, ht‘s ht‘s o th`k ta eaac mawi sa s a tbk mhseusshai cotkr eoi dk `ark pramuethvk.
<. [pai rkturihig ta tbk mhseusshai: • Dkghi dy stothig tbrkk tbhigs yau opprkehotk opprkehotk odaut odaut yaur `otk. • Koeb pkrsai pkrsai prkskits prkskits bhs ar ar bkr sacuthai ta tbk pradck`, oim tbk atbkr pkrsai p krsai chstkis whtbaut hitkrrupthig. • Datb pkapck aeus ai wbot ospkets a tbk sacuthai whcc warn (rotbkr tboi aeushig ai wbot wai‘t warn). • agktbkr, agktbk r, ebaask ports a datb sacuthais tbot whcc `onk datb porthks sothskm. • [sk –H‐ stotk`kits. Dk fflkxhdck oim caan ta ea`pra`hsk. Chstki ta skk h yau eoi uimkrstoim baw yaur `otk hs kkchig oim ea``uiheotk ea``uiheotk yaur uimkrstoimhig. • Mai‘t: • Laeus ai –occ ar iaik‐ sacuthais • Dk rhghm dy aicy dkhig apki apki ta yaur sacuthai (k.g., –`y woy ar tbk bhgbwoy‐) • Erhthehzk tbk atbkr atbkr pkrsai ar bhs ar bkr hmko
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Kxprksshais al Oigkr Oigkr eoi dk vhkwkm ai o eaithiuu` ra` oggrksshvk ta posshvk-oggrksshvk. posshvk-oggrksshvk. Wbki oigkr hs kxprksskm whtb tbk hitkit ta burt oiatbkr, yau dktroy yaurskc oim `avk owoy ra` yaur bkort‘s bkort‘s mkshrk ta dk o eorhig oim cavhig himhvhmuoc, h imhvhmuoc, ia `ottkr baw tbot oigkr hs kxprksskm. Datb kxtrk`ks eoi eousk bor` ta tbk atbkr.
?. Oggrksshvk Oigkr ]k hitkit ta burt oiatbkr eoi dk kxprksskm tbraugb oggrksshai wbki yau oet whtbaut eorhig baw yaur oethais ork ostkethig atbkrs ar wbki yau oetuoccy try ta hitkithaioccy burt oiatbkr pkrsai. Oigkr hs oggrksshvk og grksshvk oiyth`k ht hs kxprksskm hi o woy tbot hs eaitrory ta cavk. cavk. ]ot‘s tbk sh`pck woy ta uimkrstoim ht. ]k gaoc hs ta dk cavhig, dut oggrksshvk oigkr eoi kxprkss oi uimkrcyhig k`athai whtb (?) oi hitkit ta burt, ar (4) whtbaut rkgorm a baw tbot kxprksshai a oigkr h`poets tbk atbkr pkrsai. Datb woys ork kquoccy dom, kquoccy eaitrory ta cavk. Whtb oggrksshvk oigkr, yau kkc mrhvki ta oet hi woys tbot ork pradodcy eaitrory ta baw yau trucy woit ta dk. H‘vk `kt vkry kw himhvhmuocs wba prakss woithig woithig ta dk oi histru`kit a mkstruethai hi tbk chvks a atbkrs. Totbkr, Totbkr, `ast a us bapk ta dk o dcksshig ta atbkrs. ;.?? Mkserhdk baw yau‘vk lkct wbki yau‘vk cosbkm aut oggrksshvkcy hi oigkr
taworm o pkrsai yau eork odaut hi o `oiikr tbot wos eaitrory ta wbot yau woitkm ta ma.
Ua wbot gaks wraig1 Lar sa`k, tbkhr rkspaisk mkrhvks ra` tbkhr dkchk systk`. Ua`k pkapck `oy dkchkvk hi –oi –oi kyk ar oi kyk, oim o taatb ar o taatb.‐ ]ki mkstruethvk oigkr hs justhkm, kvki ikekssory, ta rkstark tbk docoiek a ohrikss. Dut dy kxoethig rkvkigk ai atbkrs, yau wauim yaurskc oim dkea`k o chttck ckss bu`oi hi tbk praekss. –]ky burt `k, sa tbky mkskrvk ta dk burt hi rkturi. Ht‘s o `ottkr a justhek.‐ ]k `ki wba fflkw tbk pcoiks hita tbk Warcm romk Ekitkr oim tbk Vkitogai ocsa tbaugbt tbhs
Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?;8
woy. woy. ]ky mhm wbot tbky tbaugbt t baugbt wos rhgbt oim just, dut ht wos oi oet tatoccy vahm a cavk oim ea`posshai. H yau ecoh` ta dk sphrhtuoc oim kkc tbot mkstruethvk oigkr hs justhkm oim yau oet ai tbot oigkr, tbki yau drkon tbk aik ea``oim`kit Jksus govk eaiekrihig rkcothig ta atbkrs”–Cavk koeb atbkr.‐ Lar atbkr pkapck, tbk rothaiock ar oigkr hs iat hi dkchkvhig –oi –oi kyk ar oi kyk‐> ht‘ ht‘s tbkhr awi dom bodhts. ]ky ikvkr ckorikm tbk t bk ikekssory snhccs a baw ta eaitrac tbkhr avkrwbkc`hig kkchigs a oigkr> tbkrkark tbky occaw tbkhr kkchigs ta rkkcy spkw aita tbask orauim tbk`. U a`k `oy oetuoccy kkc tatoccy pawkrckss ta eaitrac tbk h`pucsk ta wauim oim ta burt. Lar tbksk pkapck, oigkr `oy bovk dkea`k oi ommhethai. Uthcc atbkrs ork aicy rkspaimhig tbk woy atbkrs trkotkm tbk` korchkr hi chk. Tkgormckss a tbk rkosai, ht hs iat anoy. Ht `oy skk` justhodck ghvki chk‘s ehreu`stoieks oim tbk burt tbot t bot bos dkki pkrpktrotkm, p krpktrotkm, dut ht‘s ht‘s iat. Mhſteuct os ht `oy dk, mkstruethvk oigkr ikkms ta dk d k eaitracckm. Ogohi, hi khtbkr eosk, oigkr hs iat tbk pradck`. Ht hs oi kxprksshai kxprksshai a mkkpkr, mkkpkr, prh`ory k`athais. Wba waucmi‘t waucmi‘t dk burt oim oigry h dktroykm, schgbtkm, ar rkjketkm dy o cavkm aik1 Dut oigkr ikkms ta dk kxprksskm osskrthvkcy iat iat oggrksshvkcy. oggrksshvkcy. Laccawhig dktroyoc, tbk trutb ikkms ta dk spanki, dut ht ikkms ta dk spanki hi cavk, iat hi o t a rogk whtb tbk hitkit ta mkstray. mkstray. ]krk hs ia gcary oim ia usk hi ottoenhig o `otk wba bos tonki rkspaishdhchty ar o post wraig oim wba hs tryhig ta `onk o`kims. Ht `oy bkcp drhig `a`kitory rkchk ta tbk ottoenkr, ottoenkr, dut hi tbk t bk caig rui, ht ckovks datb porthks kkchig k`pty oim ocaik. Ia o`auit a tarturk whcc dk suſtehkit ta stap yaur pohi, dut tbk tarturk yau hifflhet whcc wh cc ckovk yau wauimkm oim sbonki. ;.?4 Wbki yau‘vk dkki ottoenkm hi oi oggrksshvk `oiikr dy yaur spausk,
baw bos ht `omk yau lkkc1
Xau `oy dk osnhig, –Baw eoi H kvkr dk whtb sa`kaik wba bos dktroykm `k1‐ ]ot‘s o grkot quksthai. Bawkvkr, tbk oiswkr whcc ikvkr dk auim hi ts a rogk. Xau `oy ucth`otkcy ebaask iat ta dk whtb tbk aik wba dk?<6
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troykm yau. Oim yau `oy iat bovk tbk oiswkrs ta tbksk quksthais ar o wbhck. Bk ar sbk `oy ohc ta oeekpt rkspaishdhchty ar wbot bos boppkikm, ar `oy ckovk yau kkchig uisok. Xaur `otk `oy ebaask ta odoimai yau, ckovhig yau ia ebahek. Xau `oy bovk cast tbk mkshrk ta dk whtb tbk`. ]ksk ork occ passhdck autea`ks, dut h yau eaithiuk ta rkspaim whtb hitkgrhty, baiar, baiar, rkspket, oim cavk, tbki ot tbk vkry ckost, wbki occ hs sohm oim maik, yau whcc bovk yaur awi skc-rkspket oim chk hitoet.
4. Vosshvk-Oggrksshvk Oigkr Ot tbk atbkr kim a tbk eaithiuu` hs posshvk oggrksshai. Ht `oy iat caan chnk oigkr, dut tbk oethai tonki hs sthcc eaitrory ta cavk. O gaam kxo`pck a posshvk-oggrksshvk dkbovhar `oy dk hgiarhig oiatbkr pkrsai wbki yau niaw bk ar sbk waucm chnk ta kigogk yau. Dkeousk yau‘rk oigry, oi oethai hs hitkithaioccy tonki ta burt tbk atbkr. Vosshvk-oggrksshvk oigkr `oy dk trhggkrkm wbki sa`kaik hs oethig hi o woy tbot yau skk os torgkthig yau, ar kvki just dkhig uiohr ar oiiayhig. Xau tbki `avk hita eaitk`pt. Xau wai‘t ghvk tbk` wbot tbky woit ra` yau dkeousk ht‘s yaur dkst sbat ot gktthig doen ot tbk`. Kvki `ark, pkapck wba ork posshvk-oggrksshvk whcc ocwoys `onk tbk`skcvks caan hiiaekit oim `onk tbk atbkr pkrsai skk` ot ouct. H yau ork dkhig posshvk-oggrksshvk, posshvk-oggrksshvk, yau `onk tbk atbkr porty woht, `onk tbk` poy, oim puihsb tbk` dy dcaenhig wbot tbky woit. Hi tbk praekss, yau dco`k tbk`. Datta` chik: yau‘rk `om oim yau woit ta zhig tbk atbkr pkrsai, dut yau `onk yaurskc caan hiiaekit hiia ekit hi tbk praekss. Lar histoiek, wk bom o echkit ot aur eauiskchig ekitkr wba olkr imhig aut odaut bkr busdoim‘s ostohr wkit aut oim daugbt o droim-ikw Joguor whtbaut bkr busdoim‘s niawckmgk os o woy a posshvk-oggrksshvkcy kxprksshig bkr oigkr ot bh`. Wbki bk eairaitkm bkr, sbk hiiaekitcy rkpchkm, –Dut yau tacm `k ta ga aut oim im o ikw eor.‐ Advhauscy bk mhmi‘t hitkim ar bkr ta spkim $?66,666. Ubk mhm sa`ktbhig ta burt bh` ioiehoccy oim tbki dco`km bh` ar bkr oethais, tbkrkdy ovahmhig oiy pkrsaioc rkspaishdhchty. rkspaishdhchty. Oiyth`k o spausk dkghis ta spkim uihcotkroccy uih cotkroccy,, `onhig ioiehoc mkehshais tbot bk ar sbk niaws whcc mrhvk tbk `otk erozy, ht‘s oi kxprksshai a oigkr.
Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?
Bkrk ork o kw woys posshvk-oggrksshvk oigkr `hgbt dk kxprksskm hi o rkcothaisbhp rkcothaisbhp tbot hs sthcc rkeavkrhig ra` tbk pohi a himkchty, himkchty, dy khtbkr spausk: • Eutthig ast skx • Kxeksshvk sbapphig • Iat ea`hig ta ta dkm ot ihgbt wbki yau yau niaw yaur `otk woits yau ta • ]k `ushe yau pcoy ai tbk romha hi yaur yaur eor • ]k vacu`k vacu`k yau woteb \ (khtbkr taa caum ar taa sal) • ]k pragro`s yau woteb ai \ • ]k pragro`s yau ckt yaur yaur nhms woteb ai \ • Dkhig cotk ai ebhcm-suppart poy`kits • Iat rkturihig rkturih ig pbaik eoccs ar rkspaimhig ta k`ohcs, h ht‘s ht‘s maik whtb tbk hitkit ta zhig yaur spausk • Ua`kth`ks sh`pcy dkhig erhtheoc • Wonhig up yaur `otk `otk koeb th`k yau ea`k ta dkm (dut ecoh`hig ht‘s bhs ar bkr ouct ar gahig ta dkm taa korcy) Hi dkhig posshvk-oggrksshvk, yau‘r yau‘rkk iat odaut ta ghvk tbk atbkr pkrsai p krsai wbot bk ar sbk woits rkgormckss a tbk east ta yau, dkeousk yau woit ta burt bh` ar bkr. ;.?5 Baw bovk yau oim/ar yaur spausk kxprksskm oigkr hi o posshvk-
oggrksshvk `oiikr1
;.?= Baw mhm tbhs oppraoeb `onk yau lkkc hl ht wos mhrketkm ot yau1
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;.?; Baw mhm yau lkkc odaut mahig tbhs ta yaur spausk hl yau wkrk tbk aik
oethig hi o posshvk-oggrksshvk `oiikr1
5. Osskrthvkikss ]krk hs o bkoctby apthai dktwkki tbask twa kxtrk`ks> ht‘s ht‘s eocckm dkhig osskrthvk. osskrthvk. Whtb osskrthvk ea``uiheothai, tbk trutb hs spanki hi cavk. Xau ea``uiheotk ea``uiheotk yaur oigkr hi o woy tbot hs eaishmkrotk. ]k hitkit hs iat ta burt. Totbkr, tbk uimkrcyhig kkchigs ork ea``uiheotkm ea``uiheotkm eckorcy dut whtb eaishmkrothai oim whtb cavk. ]k kxo`pck dkcaw mhspcoys tbk tbrkk mhstkrkit typks a oigkr.
Uhtuothai: Xaur spausk hs 46 `hiutks cotk oim mhm iat eocc ta ckt yau niaw. niaw. ]hs trhggkrs tr hggkrs k`athaioc fflaamhig.
Oggrksshvk Tkspaisk: Tkspaisk: –Xau‘rk just oi hiskishthvk jkrn! Xau ikvkr tbhin a oiyaik dut yaurskc yaurskc ! ]hs hs wby H‘cc ikvkr trust yau!‐
Vosshvk-Oggrksshvk Vosshvk-Oggrksshvk Tkspaisk: Xau Xau mai‘t grkkt yaur spausk ot tbk maar os usuoc> histkom yau rk`ohi hi tbk nhtebki whtb yaur doen ta tbk maarwoy, doighig pats oim pois os yau mro`otheoccy caom tbk mhsbwosbkr. Wbki yaur spausk osns h yau ork AN, yau rkpcy whtb o thgbt-chppkm –Lhik,‐ ar rk`ohi shckit octagktbkr.
Osskrthvk Tkspaisk: –H kkc mhsrkgormkm oim uih`partoit wbki yau mai‘t eaitoet `k h yau ork gahig ta dk cotk. Hi tbk uturk, H‘m chnk ht h yau‘m eaishmkr tbk trhggkrs tbot ork skt ast wbki H bovk ta waimkr wbkrk yau ork oim eocc `k histkom.‐
Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?<5
;.?< Wbkrk ai tbk laccawhig eaithiuu` ma yau locc hi tbk woy yau kxprkss
oigkr ta yaur spausk1 Oggrksshvk -------------- Osskrthvk -------------- Vosshvk-Oggrksshvk Wbkrk ai tbk laccawhig eaithiuu` maks yaur spausk locc hi tbk woy bk ar sbk kxprkssks oigkr ta yau1 Oggrksshvk -------------- Osskrthvk -------------- Vosshvk-Oggrksshvk
@oioghig Oigkr Iaw tbot wk‘vk wk‘vk mkikm oigkr oim suggkstkm woys ta `ohitohi sokty whtbhi yaur rkcothaisbhp, ht‘s th`k ta dkghi ta kxpcark woys a `oioghig oigkr. Datta` chik: ia aik eoi `onk yau oigry. H o` tbk aik tbot bos ta tonk rkspaishdhchty ar tbk eaitrac a `y oigkr, iat `y `otk. `otk. H o` tbk aik wba mkehmks wbot typk a pkrsai H woit ta dk rkgormckss rkgormckss a tbk porthks hivacvkm ar `y ehreu`stoieks. ehreu`stoieks. Ht dkghis dy tonhig `y awi pkrsaioc hivkitary, tary, rkvhkwhig `y rkoethais, oim mktkr`hihig h `y rkspaisks ork cavhig ar mo`oghig. Ma H `ohitohi oi otthtumk a eaiekri ar oiatbkr pkrsai, ar skk atbkrs os adjkets tbot H ikkm ta `oiogk oim eaitrac1 ]k rst stkp, h H rkochzk oigkr hs o pradck`, hs ta tonk pkrsaioc rkspaishdhchty. Ht‘s h`passhdck ar sa`kaik hi mkihoc ta dkghi tbk praekss. Wbot accaws ork suggksthais ar oigkr `oiogk`kit. Os yau ga tbraugb tbhs skethai, `onk iatks oim hmkithy wbheb strotkghks yau dkchkvk waucm warn dkst hi yaur shtuothai. Wbki yau ork ihsbkm, ea`pcktk ea`pcktk tbk oigkr `oiogk`kit `oiogk`kit ogrkk`kit ot tbk kim a tbhs eboptkr oim shgi ht. ]hs hs yaur ea``ht`kit ta dkghi ommrksshig tbhs hssuk. Aik ioc pahit: Wbot pkapck soy hi o stotk a oigkr hs iat trutb. Lor taa alki, o busdoim ar whk whcc tonk warms spanki hi o t a rogk oim ecoh` tbhs hs baw tbkhr `otk trucy kkcs. Torkcy hs tbhs tbk eosk. Wbki pkapck ork kxprksshig k`athais tbraugb oigkr, oigkr, tbky hierkosk tbk t bk k`athaioc vacu`k dy `onhig autrogkaus stotk`kits stotk`kits oim ea``kits. H `y whk soys, –Xau ikvkr eckoi tbk nhtebki,‐ H niaw sbk maksi‘t dkchkvk H ikvkr bkcp bkcp hi tbk nhtebki. Wbot sbk hs soyhig hs tbot H mai‘t mai‘t eckoi tbk nhtebki rkqukitcy kiaugb. H yaur ebhcm serko`s, –H botk yau,‐ oim cotkr ea`ks hi oim soys, –H cavk yau,‐ waucm yau tbki eocc yaur ebhcm o chor oim mkiy bhs cavk, stothig tbot bhs truk kkchigs wkrk rkvkockm hi tbk `hmst a rogk1 H ekrtohicy bapk iat. Os yau mkoc whtb tbk kckvotkm k`athais
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stk``hig ra` oi ostohr, nkkp hi `him tbot wbot hs dkhig sohm hs kxoggkrotkm oim iat ikekssorhcy rkfflkethvk a yaur `otk‘s truk kkchigs.
Dkghi dy Hmkithlyhig Vrh`ory K`athais Tk`k`dkr, oigkr hsi‘t tbk pradck`. ]k vost `ojarhty a tbk th`k, oigkr hs iat oi k`athai hi oim a htskc. Ht hs o `oihkstothai `oihkstothai a o uimkrcyhig prh`ory k`athai. Ua`k U a`k atbkr k`athai rhsks, oim dkeousk k`athai rkquhrks `athai”sa`k nhim a oethai”tbot oethai ea`ks aut hi oigry dkbovhar oim/ ar warms. Wk mai‘t eaitrac, iar eoi wk kvkr eaitrac, tbk ehreu`stoieks tbot `hgbt kvank oigkr, dut wk ork odck ta eaitrac baw wk kxprkss ht. kxprkss ht. a soy oigkr hs dom waucm dk cumheraus. Ot th`ks, oigkr hs `ast oppraprhotk, sueb os mkkimhig o ebhcm (ar sa`kaik kcsk) ra` o bor`uc ehreu`stoiek. Ai tbk atbkr boim, `ast ehreu`stoieks ork iat odaut mkkimhig oiatbkr ra` pkrsaioc moigkr. Histkom, Histkom, tbk ehreu`stoieks rksucthig hi oigkr ork alki oi kxprksshai a oiatbkr k`athai. ;.?7 Hi wbot woy(s) bovk yau skki oigkr os oi kxprksshai al oiatbkr
uimkrcyhig k`athai hi yaur rkspaisk ta yaur spausk laccawhig tbk dktroyoc1
;.?2 Wbot k`athais mhm yau rkoccy bovk tbot wkrk prh`ory oim bhmhig uimkr
tbk oigkr1
;.?8 Hi wbot woy(s) bovk yau skki oigkr os oi kxprksshai al oiatbkr
uimkrcyhig k`athai hi yaur spausk‘s rkspaisk ta yau laccawhig tbk dktroyoc1
Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?<;
;.46 Wbot k`athais ma yau tbhin yaur spausk rkoccy bom tbot wkrk
prh`ory oim bhmhig uimkr tbk oigkr1
]bk G.H.L.]. G.H.L.].4 H‘vk dkki ushig Mrs. a` a` & Dkvkrcy Tamgkrs‘ tkebihquk ar `oioghig oigkr dy hmkithyhig tbk uimkrcyhig kkchig, oim bovk auim ht vkry uskuc. H yau pucc doen tbk eurtohi a oigkr, ihik th`ks aut a tki yau whcc im tbk prh`ory k`athai. ]k woy ht wos kxpcohikm ta `k hs ta grod `y tbu`d. ]k aur rk`ohihig igkrs rkprkskit tbk –ghl‐ tbot H‘` gahig ta ghvk tbk atbkr pkrsai. G”Guhct: ]k rst igkr hs guhct hs guhct . Koeb th`k H gkt pucckm avkr
ar o troſte vhacothai, H gkt oigry. Guhct hs alki tbk k`athai dkbhim oigkr. H osn `yskc, –O` H guhcty a sa`ktbhig oim gktthig oigry ot atbkrs wbki H rkoccy mhm sa`ktbhig wraig1‐ H”Hilkrharhty : H sa`kaik maks sa`ktbhig tbot `onks `k kkc
hiomkquotk ar `onks `k kkc mhsrkspketkm, tbki typheoccy H‘cc gkt oigry. Osnhig `yskc h tbhs hs wbot oetuoccy boppkikm whcc alki rkvkoc tbot hilkrharhty hs hs tbk prh`ory k`athai. L”Lkor : ]k tbhrm igkr rkprkskits lkor rkprkskits lkor . H wk ork orohm, wk
whcc alki kxpkrhkiek oigkr. Ht‘s aur ioturoc woy a pratkethig aurskcvks, dut dut h H ma iat rkochzk tbot kor hs tbk prh`ory k`athai, tbki H whcc dk adchvhaus ta tbk rkoc pradck`. H ikkm ta osn `yskc h tbkrk hs sa`ktbhig H kor. kor. ]”]rou`o/Burt : ]k ioc igkr hs trou`o ar trou`o ar burt. Wk occ
bovk pohiuc kvkits hi aur chvks. Ua`k U a`k a tbksk kvkits bovk ckl costhig seors. H o shtuothai orhsks tbot t bot rksk`dcks o shtuothai hi wbheb H wos burt korchkr hi `y chk, tbki H‘cc rkqukitcy rkspaim hi oigkr. H `oy dk tatoccy uiowork os ta wby H‘` bovhig o `o?<<
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jar rkoethai ta o skk`higcy skk`higcy hishgiheoit kvkit. kvkit. H H eoi rkeagrkeagihzk `y burt, tbki H eoi mkoc whtb tbot rotbkr tboi tbk oigkr. Wbki yau kkc yaurskc gktthig oigry, ht hs bkcpuc ta rkpcoek tbk t ruk k`athai ar tbk warm oigkr . H ocwoys kkc mhstkrkitcy h H‘` odck ta soy, –H kkc sa hiomkquotk wbki yau ma tbot,‐ rotbkr tboi –Xau `onk `k sa `om.‐ Just rkpcoek tbk rkoc k`athai dkbhim tbk oigkr oim kvkrytbhig whc c eboigk. ;.4? Wbheb al tbk G.H.L.] G.H.L.].. k`athais ma yau lkkc bovk `ast rkekitcy dkki tbk
prh`ory k`athais uimkrikotb yaur oigkr1
;.44 Wby ma yau tbhin ht wos mhſteuct ta om`ht tbk prh`ory k`athai oim koshkr
ta rkcy ai oigkr histkom1
]brkk Oppraoebks ta @oioghig Oigkr ]krk ork tbrkk woys ta `oiogk aik‘s oigkr”dkbovharoc, eagihthvk, oim sphrhtuoc. Lar `oiy `oiy a us, ht whcc tonk to nk occ tbrkk ta dkghi ta eaitrac tbhs kxprksshai a k`athai. Ht hs h`partoit ta uimkrstoim tbot ht hs h`passhdck ta sh`pcy –gkt oigkr aut.‐ H wos rohskm whtb tbk uimkrstoimhig tbot h H eaucm just gkt `y oigkr aut”drkon aut”drkon kiaugb pcotks, pcotks, ykcc caum caum kiaugb”tbki H waucm sa`kbaw rkckosk occ `y oigkr, oigkr, dut tbot hs iat tbk eosk. Oigkr dkgkts d kgkts oigkr. ]k oigrhkr H gkt, tbk `ark eopoehty H whcc bovk ar oigkr. H‘` iat h`pcyhig tbot wk sbaucm baorm, bhmk, ar hgiark aur oigkr, dkeousk tbask oppraoebks ocsa wai‘t warn. Oggrksshai whcc ikvkr rkckosk ar mkstray tbk oigkr. ]krkark, oigkr bos ta dk `oiogkm hi hi armkr ta dk odck ta kxprkss ht hi o pramuethvk `oiikr. Ckt‘s kxpcark tbk tbrkk woys ta `oiogk oigkr.
?. Dkbovharoc Wbot wk ohc ta uimkrstoim odaut tbk dkbovharoc ospket a
Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?<7
oigkr hs tbot oigkr maksi‘t mrhvk aur dkbovhar> rotbkr, aur dkbovhar mrhvks oigkr. oigkr. H yau tonk o tkopat cckm whtb wotkr oim pcoek ht ai o fflo`k, ht whcc kvkituoccy dkghi ta wbhstck. Aiek ht dkghis ta wbhstck, h yau tonk ast tbk chm, wbot ma yau im1 Utko` oim wotkr. Dut h yau tonk tbk so`k tkopat oim rk`avk ht ra` tbk fflo`k oim ckt ht sht ta eaac, wbki yau apki tbk chm, wbot ma yau im1 Just wotkr. ]k aicy mhstkrkiek dktwkki tbk twa stotks hs tbk fflo`k. ]ot‘s kxoetcy baw ht hs whtb oigkr. ]k fflo`ks uimkrikotb aur oigkr ork tbk dkbovhars a dkbovhars a oigkr. ]ksk dkbovhars mrhvk aur oigkr. Lar kxo`pck, oigkr maksi‘t eousk tbk rohshig a tbk vahek> tbk rohshig a tbk vahek kseocotks tbk oigkr. Oigkr maksi‘t eousk tbk praoihty> tbk praoihty mrhvks tbk oigkr. H yau woit ta `oiogk oigkr, yau `ust dkghi whtb eaitracchig tbk dkbovhars. ;.45 Dkcaw hs o chst al oggrksshvk oim posshvk oggrksshvk dkbovhars tbot eoi
mrhvk oigkr. Toin tbk` hi armkr al tbk dkbovhars dkbov hars yau ork `ast chnkcy ta mhspcoy wbki yau ork oigry. Tohshig yaur vahek [shig praloihty ]brawhig tbhigs/sco``hig maars ar mrowkrs Gahig –bhstarheoc‐ (drhighig up post shtuothais yau‘vk bom whtb tbk atbkr pkrsai rotbkr tboi mkochig whtb tbk shtuothai ot boim) Vbysheoc praxh`hty (hitrumhig hita tbk atbkr pkrsai‘s spoek) Io`k-eocchig Boim gksturks Laccawhig (eaithiuhig ta ga wbkrkvkr tbk atbkr pkrsai hs gahig kvki os tbky try ta gkt owoy lra` yau) Tkskithig tbk mk`oims al atbkrs Mkchdkrotk praerosthiothai Hitkithaioc `hstonks Uhckit ]rkot`kit
;.4= Baw eoi rkeagihzhig tbksk dkbovhars hi tbk luturk bkcp yau `oiogk
yaur oigkr1
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4. Eagihthvk Hi k`athaioccy hitkisk shtuothais, wk erkotk starhks hi aur `hims odaut aur ehreu`stoieks, oim wk rorkcy stap ta kvocuotk tbksk starhks. Wk Wk gkikroccy dkchkvk wbot aur `hims tkcc us oim oeekpt tbask odrheotkm starhks os odsacutk trutb. Wbki oi kvkit aeeurs, `y `him whcc hitkrprkt tbot kvkit, oim tbot hitkrprktothai whcc mktkr`hik baw H kkc. Lar histoiek, h sa`kaik ea`ks up oim tkccs `k H‘` o jkrn, `y kkchigs `oy ar `oy iat dk burt. Ht whcc mkpkim ai baw H hitkrprkt tbk rk`orn. H tbk pkrsai wba tkccs `k H o` o jkrn hs o pothkit p othkit ra` o `kitoc basphtoc, tbki H `oy tkcc `yskc (`y eagihthvk uimkrstoimhig), –Bk maksi‘t kvki niaw `k,‐ oim sa H just skk bh` os erozy. H H skk bh` os erozy, erozy, H eoi sokcy ossu`k tbot wbot bk bos sohm bos ia trutb. ]us, H‘` iat chnkcy ta bovk oiy ikgothvk k`athais odaut dkhig eocckm o jkrn. Dut h `y whk eoccs `k o jkrn, tbki H tkcc `yskc ht `ust dk truk, oim tbk k`athaioc eaiskqukiek whcc dk burt ar somikss. Uo`k `kssogk, dut twa mhstkrkit hitkrprktothais rksuct hi twa mhstkrkit k`athaioc rkoethais. Wk ork uiowork a tbk vost `ojarhty a aur tbaugbts. Oim o bhgb pkrekitogk a aur tbaugbts, kvki up ta 86 pkrekit, ork odaut `koihigckss tbhigs, oitoshks tbot whcc ikvkr aeeur. Hi armkr ta usk aur awi tbhinhig os o `kois a `oioghig oigkr, tbk rst tbhig wk `ust ma hs dkea`k `ark owork a wbot wk ork tbhinhig. Wk `ust `ust dk prkskit hi aur awi tbaugbts oim hitkithaioc hi adskrvhig aur awi tbhinhig. Wk eoi usk –h`porthoc spketotar‐ `himucikss, wbkrk wk stkp doen oim ckt tbk tbaugbts fflaw, tbki kvocuotk wbot wk‘rk tbhinhig. 5 Wbki tryig ta osskss yaur awi tbhinhig hi tbk rkeavkry praekss, yau yau eoi ocsa usk taacs chnk tbk Vyro`hm a rutb ra` Wkkn =. ]hs hs h`partoit, dkeousk wbki ht ea`ks ta `oioghig oigkr, ht‘s h`pkrothvk tbot yau dkghi ta eaitrac yaur eagihthais (wk‘cc eocc tbk` –outa`othe tbaugbts‐). Wk occ bovk o tkimkiey ta mhstart rkochty whtb aur outa`othe tbaugbts oim tbkrkdy kseocotk aur oigkr dy paar tbaugbt praekssks. Wk eoi‘t dkghi ta eaitrac aur eagihthais h wk mai‘t mai‘t ckori ta rst rkeagihzk aur tbaugbts. Wkkn ; | Oigkr @oiogk`kit ?<8
;.4; Chstkm dkcaw ork tbk `ast ea``ai eagihthvk (tbhinhig) mhstarthais tbot
kseocotk oigkr. Vut o ebken dy tbk aiks yau tkim ta usk hi yaur awi tbaugbt praekssks. Wk eocc tbksk –mhstarthais‐ dkeousk tbky rkprkskit pottkris al tbhinhig tbot mhstart rkochty, rksucthig hi hierkoskm oigkr.
Eagihthvk Mhstarthais ☖ Occ-ar-iatbhig tkr`s: Xau skk tbhigs hi dcoen-oimwbhtk eotkgarhks. Hl yaur pkrlar`oiek loccs sbart al pkrlket, yau skk yaurskcl os o tatoc lohcurk. Ar hl sa`kaik kcsk‘s pkrlar`oiek loccs sbart al pkrlket, yau skk tbk` os o tatoc lohcurk oim tbk k`athaioc eaiskqukiek hs oigkr. ☖ Avkrgkikrochzothai: Xau skk o shigck ikgothvk kvkit os o ikvkr-kimhig pottkri al mklkot. Ocwoys oim ikvkr ork tbk warms uskm ta prapkc tbhs mhstarthai. ☖ @kitoc ctkr: Xau phen aut o shigck ikgothvk mktohc oim mwkcc ai ht kxecushvkcy, sa tbot yaur vhshai al occ rkochty dkea`ks mornkikm, chnk tbk mrap al hin tbot mhseacars tbk kithrk dkonkr al wotkr. ☖ Mhsquochlyhig tbk pashthvk: Xau rkjket pashthvk kxpkrhkieks dy hishsthig tbky –mai‘t eauit‐ lar sa`k rkosai ar atbkr. Hi tbhs woy, yau eoi `ohitohi o ikgothvk h`ogk al yaurskcl ar atbkrs. ☖ @him rkomhig: Xau ordhtrorhcy eaiecumk tbot sa`kaik hs rkoethig ikgothvkcy ta yau, oim yau mai‘t datbkr ta ebken tbhs aut. ☖ Lartuik-tkcchig: Xau oithehpotk tbot tbhigs whcc turi aut domcy, oim yau lkkc eaivhiekm tbot yaur prkmhethai hs oi ocrkomy kstodchsbkm loet. ☖ @ogiheothai (eotostrapbhzhig) ar `hih`hzothai: Xau Xa u kxoggkrotk tbk h`partoiek al tbhigs (sueb os yaur awi gaal-up ar sa`kaik kcsk‘s oebhkvk`kit) ar yau hioppraprhotkcy sbrhin tbhigs uithc tbky oppkor thiy (yaur awi h`pkrlkethais ar yaur spausk‘s mkshrodck quochthks). ]bhs hs ocsa eocckm tbk –dhiaeucor trhen.‐ ☖ K`athaioc rkosaihig: Xau ossu`k tbot yaur ikgothvk k`athais ikekssorhcy rkfflket tbk woy tbhigs rkoccy ork: –H lkkc ht, tbkrklark ht `ust dk truk.‐
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☖ –Ubaucm‐ stotk`kits: Xau try ta `athvotk yaurskcl whtb –sbaucms‐ oim –sbaucmi‘ts,‐ os hl yau bom ta dk wbhppkm oim puihsbkm dklark yau eaucm dk kxpketkm ta ma oiytbhig. –@usts‐ oim –augbts‐ ork ocsa astkimkrs. ]bk k`athaioc eaiskqukiek hs guhct. Wbki yau mhrket –sbaucm‐ stotk`kits taworm atbkrs, yau lkkc oigkr, lrustrothai, oim rkskit`kit. ☖ Codkchig oim `hscodkchig: ]bhs hs oi kxtrk`k lar` al avkrgkikrochzothai. Histkom al mkserhdhig yaur krrar, krrar, yau ottoeb o ikgothvk codkc ta yaurskcl: –H‘` o caskr.‐ Wbki sa`kaik kcsk‘s dkbovhar ruds yau tbk wraig woy, yau ottoeb o ikgothvk codkc ta bh`: –Bk‘s o causk.‐ @hscodkchig hivacvks mkserhdhig oi kvkit whtb coiguogk tbot hs bhgbcy eacarkm oim k`athaioccy caomkm. ☖ Vkrsaiochzothai: Xau skk yaurskcl (ar atbkr pkapck), os tbk eousk al sa`k ikgothvk kxtkrioc kvkit lar wbheb yau (ar tbky) wkrk iat prh`orhcy rkspaishdck. a dkghi octkrhig yaur oigkr ra` o psyebacagheoc pkrspkethvk, yau bovk ta dkghi ta kch`hiotk tbk mhstarthai. a a ma tbot, t bot, wk rkea``kim yau uthchzk tbk accawhig kxkrehsk. [shig [shig o jaurioc a sa`k nhim, wrhtk mawi koeb th`k yau gkt oigry oigr y, oim tbki ga tbraugb tbk chst a eagihthvk mhstarthais. Aiek yau im tbk mhstarthai tbot oppchks ta tbot spkehe shtuothai tbot draugbt artb oigkr, oigkr, tbki wrhtk mawi tbk trutb. Lar histoiek, h H gkt oigry dkeousk a tbk stotk a `y sai‘s raa`, H `oy tkcc `yskc, –Bk rkoccy sbaucm nkkp bhs raa` phenkm up.‐ ]ot hs o –sbaucm stotk`kit‐ stotk`kit‐ oim tbk rothaioc rkspaisk waucm dk ta rk`avk tbk –sbaucm‐ eaiekpt ra` tbk stotk`kit. (–H whsb `y sai waucm nkkp bhs raa` phenkm up.‐) Wbhck tbk mhstkrkiek `oy skk` s`occ, tbk k`athaioc eaiskqukiek hs bugk. H‘` gahig ta dk or ckss oigry h H just –whsb‐ `y sai waucm phen up bhs raa` vkrsus –Bk –Bk sbaucm phen phen up bhs raa`. raa`.‐ [shig [shig o –sbaucm‐ –sbaucm‐ stotkstotk`kit `onks oi odsacutk aut a sa`ktbhig tbot hs rkoccy just o prkkrkiek.
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;.4< Hl yau‘rk mkochig whtb oigkr, tbki uthchzk tbk tk`pcotk dkcaw oim dkghi ta
mhsekri tbask tbaugbts lar yaur sonk oim o im lar tbk sonk al atbkrs. Nkkp yaur rkearms hi o jaurioc. Mohcy Tkearm al Eagihthvk Mhstarthais Motk & ]h`k
Wbot boppkikm, wbkrk, oim wba wos hivacvkm
]bk truk k`athai oim hts hitkishty
Eagihthvk mhstarthai tbot prkekmkm tbk k`athais
Tothaioc rkspaisks ta outa`othe tbaugbts
5. Uphrhtuoc Cost dut iat ckost hs tbk sphrhtuoc ospket a `oioghig oigkr. oigkr. ]hs `oy dk tbk `ast pawkruc oigkr-`oiogk`kit oigkr-`oiogk`kit taac a tbk tbrkk. Wbot eousks us ta cask aur eaac1 Lrkqukitcy, ht‘s tbk oet tbot tbhigs orki‘t gahig tbk woy wk tbhin tbky –sbaucm.‐ Wk gkt oigry, pusbhig pusbhig oim sbavhig, tryhig ta gkt tbhigs ta turi aut os wk –niaw‐ tbky sbaucm. Wbkrk ma wk gkt tbhs eaiekpt a –sbaucm,‐ oim wby ma wk tbhin wk ork sa gaam ot mkehmhig wbot sbaucm boppki1 Hi Gkikshs 5, tbkrk hs oi hitkrksthig mhocaguk dktwkki Kvk oim tbk skrpkit. Bk dkghis dy quksthaihig tbk gaamikss a Gam. –Mhm Gam rkoccy tkcc yau tbot yau eaucmi‘t kijay occ tbk grkot tbhigs bkrk hi tbk gormki1‐ g ormki1‐ Ubk rkspaimkm dy soyhig, –Ia, oetuoccy Bk sohm wk eaucm ma wbotkvkr wk chnk kxekpt kot ra` tbk trkk t rkk a tbk niawckmgk a gaam oim kvhc.‐ = H‘vk ocwoys waimkrkm, waimkrkm, wbot wos tbhs trkk wk wkrk iat ta ?74
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kot a1 a 1 H dkchkvk d kchkvk ht hs tbk trkk a –jumg`kit.‐ –jumg`kit.‐ Ht hs wbkrk wk pcoy Gam oim mkehmk baw tbhigs sbaucm dk”oim tbot, `y rhkims, hs o moigkraus tbhig ar us `artocs. Ht‘s Ht‘s iat tbot Gam G am wos tryhig tr yhig ta spahc aur gaam th`k> rotbkr Bk wos tr yhig ta pratket us ra` sa`ktbhig tbot eaucm mkstray us. Dkeousk aiek H dkghi ta pcoy Gam oim H mkehmk wbot‘s wbot‘s gaam ar dom, tbki H cask shgbt a Gam oim H surrkimkr `y pkoek. ]ki H eoi‘t dk boppy ogohi uithc tbhigs turi aut tbk woy H niaw tbky niaw tbky ork suppaskm ta. Xkt os o `krk `artoc, wbot o` H rkoccy gahig ta dk odck ta ma ta eboigk tbhigs1 Uuppask `y dass hs o pohi hi tbk rkor oim H poss jumg`kit oim soy `y dass ar sa`ktbhig bk‘s maik hs dom. Dy posshig jumg`kit ai `y `y dass, H‘vk H‘vk surrkimkrkm surrkimkrkm `y pkoek oim oim boimeustkm `y bopphikss ta `y dass. Iaw H eoi‘t dk boppy ogohi uithc khtbkr `y dass eboigks ar H gkt o ikw dass. Uh`hcorcy, Uh`hcorcy, h `y nhms orki‘t wbot H woit oim H mkehmk tbot‘s dom, iaw H‘vk put `y pkoek hi `y nhms‘ boims, oim H‘` iat gahig ta dk odck ta dk boppy uithc tbky eboigk”oim h tbky‘rk rkoccy aut a eaitrac, tbot `hgbt tonk o shgiheoit o`auit a th`k. ]hs pcoykm aut hi `y awi chk wbki `y ?<-ykor-acm mougbtkr gat prkgioit. H quhency posskm jumg`kit dkeousk H nikw tbot wos dom. A eaursk, H nikw kxoetcy nikw kxoetcy baw tbk wback tbhig ikkmkm ta turi aut. Dut bovk yau kvkr trhkm ta eaitrac o ?<-ykor-acm1 ?<-ykor-acm1 @y bopphikss wos tbki thkm ta wbot sbk mhm, oim sbk‘m ocrkomy pravki sbk wosi‘t gahig ta ma wbot H woitkm. Ua H mhm kvkrytbhig whtbhi `y pawkr ta gkt tbhigs ta turi aut tbk woy H nikw tbky nikw tbky sbaucm. Dut yau niaw wbot1 Occ a `y kstarts wkrk uskckss. Hi oet, H ioccy bom ta oek tbk oet tbot H wosi‘t wosi‘t Gam oim H mhmi‘t mhmi‘t kvki niaw baw tbhigs ikkmkm ta turi aut. ]ki Gam, hi occ a Bhs gaamikss, taan tbk warst tbhig tbot eaucm boppki oim `omk ht tbk dkst tbhig, dkeousk tbot‘ t bot‘s wbot Gam hs gaam ot. Hi yaur rkeavkry praekss, yau whcc im ht mhſteuct ot th`ks ta skk wbot Gam eaucm dk mahig ta drhig artb oiy gaam hi yaur eurrkit ehreu`stoieks. ehreu`stoieks. Ht `oy kvki skk` just tbk appashtk. Xkt Gam‘s mkshrk hs iat ta bor` us, dut ta bkcp us bkoc oim
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kxpkrhkiek rkkma`. ]hin a ht chnk tbhs oiocagy ra` Ckk Lohtb.. –H`oghik o dkor hi o trop Utradkc‘s daan O daan O Eosk lar Lohtb t rop oim o buitkr wba, aut a sy`potby, woits ta chdkrotk bh`. Bk trhks ta whi tbk dkor‘s eaimkiek, dut bk eoi‘t ma ht, sa bk bos ta sbaat tbk dkor ucc a mrugs. ]k dkor, bawkvkr, bawkvkr, tbhins tbhs hs oi ottoen oim tbot tbk buitkr hs tryhig ta nhcc bh`. Bk maksi‘t maksi‘t rkochzk tbot tbhs hs dkhig maik aut a ea`posshai. ]ki, hi armkr ta gkt tbk dkor aut a tbk t bk trop, tbk buitkr bos ta pusb bh` urtbkr hita tbk trop ta rkckosk tbk tkishai ai tbk sprhig. H tbk dkor wkrk sk`heaisehaus ot tbot pahit, bk waucm dk kvki `ark eaivhiekm tbot tbk buitkr wos bhs kik`y wba wos aut ta eousk bh` sustkrhig oim pohi. Dut tbk dkor waucm dk wraig. H dkchkvk Gam maks tbk so`k ta us sa`kth`ks, oim wk eoi‘t ea`prkbkim wby bk maks ht oiy `ark tboi tbk dkor eoi uimkrstoim tbk `athvothais a tbk buitkr. buitkr. Os tbk dkor d kor eaucm bovk trustkm tbk buitkr, sa wk eoi trust Gam.‐ ; Wbot H‘vk ckorikm hs ta iat jumgk oim try t ry ta eaitrac ehreu`stoieks. H ikkm ta ckt Gam mkik tbk ehreu`stoieks, ehreu`stoieks, rotbkr tboi cktthig tbk ehreu`stoieks mkik Gam (h.k., –Baw eoi o cavhig Gam occaw tbhs1‐). H try ta skk Gam hi kvkrytbhig oim rkeagihzk tbot Bk‘s iat aut a eaitrac oim Bk maksi‘t ikkm `y bkcp. Ht Ht wos hivocuodck ar `k ta rkochzk tbot Gam hs `ark tboi eopodck a boimchig oiy shtuothai, oim Bk kvki k vki niaws dkttkr tboi H ma baw tbhigs ikkm ta turi aut. Wbki H mhseavkr baw ta rkeagihzk Gam hi tbk ehreu`stoieks, ehreu`stoieks, oim oeekpt tbot Bk eaucm dk mahig tbhs, H eoi kxpkrhkiek pkoek. pk oek. ;.47 Wbot ehreu`stoieks hi tbk post (dkshmks tbk `orhtoc dktroyoc) eouskm yau
ta try ta eaitrac tbk shtuothai1 Wbot wkrk tbk rksucts1
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;.42 Hl yau rkochzkm tbki tbot Gam wos `ark eopodck al boimchig tbot
shtuothai oim yau ckt ga al eaitrac, wbot boppkikm ta yaur lkkchigs odaut tbk ehreu`stoiek1
;.48 Hl yau mhmi‘t ckt ga al eaitrac, wbot ma yau tbhin `hgbt bovk dkki
mhstkrkit bom yau trustkm Gam whtb ht histkom1
niaws wbot hs gaam hs iat ]k odhchty ta trust tbot Gam trucy niaws wbot kosy ta gohi, dut ht hs wkcc wartb ht. E aishmkr tbk accawhig acn tock: ]krk wos oi acm `oi hi Ebhio wbask w bask barsk roi ast. Occ tbk vhccogkrs sohm, –]ot‘s dom,‐ ta wbheb bk rkpchkm, –H mai‘t niaw wbot‘s gaam ar dom, aicy Gam niaws.‐ ]k ikxt moy, wbki bhs barsk rkturikm bovhig phenkm up twa `orks hi tbk `auitohis, occ tbk vhccogkrs sohm, –]ot‘s gaam,‐ ta wbheb tbk acm `oi rkpchkm, –H mai‘t niaw wbot‘s gaam ar dom, aicy Gam niaws.‐ ]k ikxt moy, bhs sai kcc, drkonhig bhs ckg. Occ tbk vhccogkrs sohm, –]ot‘ –]ot‘s dom,‐ dut tbk acm `oi rkpchkm, –H mai‘t mai‘t niaw wbot‘s gaam ar dom, aicy Gam niaws.‐ ]ki tbk ikxt moy, moy, wbki oi or`y eo`k tbraugb tbk vhccogk oim mrolkm occ tbk yauig `ki wba wkrk cotkr nhcckm hi o dottck tbot so`k moy, occ tbk vhccogkrs sohm, –Iaw yau ioccy bovk ta om`ht tbot ht wos gaam yaur sai drank bhs ckg ar bk‘m dk mkom iaw.‐ a wbheb tbk acm `oi rkpchkm, –H mai‘t niaw wbot‘s gaam ar dom, aicy Gam niaws.‐ < Oim ai tbk stary gaks.
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]k trhen ta `ohitohihig aik‘ aik‘s pkoek hs ta ckori ta skk Gam hi occ tbhigs oim iat mkekhvk yaurskc hita tbhinhig tbot yau niaw wbot hs dkst. Xau mai‘t niaw wbot‘s gaam ar dom”aicy Gam maks. ;.56 Wbot ma yau tbhin ht `kois tbot –aicy Gam niaws wbot‘s gaam oim dom‐1
;.5? Baw eaucm tbhs oppcy ta yaur rkcothaisbhp whtb yaur spausk hi tbk
oltkr`otb al tbk dktroyoc1
Oiatbkr grkot kxo`pck a tbk sphrhtuoc oppraoeb ta `oioghig oigkr hs Nhig Movhm hi 4 Uo`ukc ?<. Aik a bhs sais wos ckomhig o rkvacuthai ogohist bh` oim ea`hig ta nhcc bh`. Iaw, `ast a us waucm poss jumg`kit oim mktkr`hik tbot wos o dom shtuothai. a `onk `ottkrs warsk, o rkcothvk a tbk prkvhaus nhig, Ubk`kh, bom dkki iurshig sa`k skrhaus rkskit`kit kvkr shiek Movhm bom dkki oiahitkm nhig. Os Movhm wos ckovhig Jkrusock`, Ubk`kh eo`k aut oim dkgoi tbrawhig raens oim eurshig Movhm. Iaw, Iaw, hi tbask t bask moys, hisucthig o nhig wos oi outa`othe mkotb skitkiek. Ht just sa boppkikm tbot Movhm‘s damyguorms wkrk rhgbt tbkrk oim tbky turikm ta Nhig Movhm oim osnkm ta dk ghvki tbk baiar a whphig aut tbhs mhsrkspketuc jkrn ra` kxhstkiek. Uurprhshigcy Movhm just sohm, –Utkomy, –Utkomy, `ki, tbhs eaucm dk Gam. Gam `hgbt dk tkcchig Ubk`kh ta ma tbhs. Ckovk bh` ocaik.‐ Dy iat posshig jumg`kit oim histkom skknhig ta skk Gam hi h i tbk ehreu`stoiek, Movhm wos odck ta `ohitohi bhs eaac oim bhs pkoek, p koek, oim eaiskqukitcy bk mhmi‘t mhmi‘t ma sa`ktbhig bk waucm cotkr rkgrkt. 7 Hi `y chk, H‘` H‘` tryhig ta ckori baw ta ckt Gam mkik tbk
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ehreu`stoieks rotbkr tboi cktthig tbk ehreu`stoieks mkik Gam. H woit ta skk Gam Ga m hi occ tbhigs oim niaw Bk hs warnhig occ tbhigs ta Bhs gaam. H‘` iat ikorcy s`ort kiaugb ta niaw baw tbhigs ikkm ta turi aut. H try iat ta soy tbhigs chnk –Baw eaucm o cavhig Gam occaw tbhs ta boppki1‐ Histkom H soy, soy, –]hs eaucm dk Gam,‐ ar –Gam eaucm dk hi tbhs,‐ oim dy mahig sa, H `ohitohi o chttck a `y soihty. H ikvkr woit ta ga doen ta tbk t bk pcoek wbkrk H‘` sa prhmkuc H dkchkvk H niaw wbot hs dkst. H ekrtohicy bovk `y prkkrkieks, dut H woit ta rk`ohi apki ta atbkr passhdhchthks, Iat tbot H wai‘t pahit aut wbki sa`kaik hs mahig sa`ktbhig wraig, dut olkr stoimhig up oim spkonhig tbk trutb hi h i cavk, tbk kim rksuct hs Gam‘s eocc, dkeousk H ekrtohicy mai‘t niaw wbot‘s gaam ar dom.
]bk Kim Tksuct Occ tbrkk a tbksk oppraoebks”uimkrstoimhig oppraoebks”uimkrstoimhig tbk dkbovharoc eaiikethai, mkihig tbk eagihthvk mhstarthais, oim rkeagihzhig tbk sphrhtuoc trutb tbot Gam niaws wbot hs rhgbt”ork h`partoit hi ckorihig ta `oiogk oigkr. oigkr. Ckorihig baw ta usk tbk` whcc ocsa bkcp yau uieavkr tbk prh`ory k`athais uimkrikotb oigkr oim occaw yau oim yaur `otk ta `avk dkyaim tbk mkstruethvk pawkr a oigkr ta im o potb a bkochig oim p atkithoc rkstarothai.
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;.54 Dkcaw hs oi oigkr `oiogk`kit ogrkk`kit. Oltkr rkvhkwhig tbhs wkkn‘s
eboptkr oim vhmka, yau oim yaur spausk sbaucm shgi tbk ogrkk`kit os port al yaur ea``ht`kit ta solkty hi yaur rkcothaisbhp os yau eaithiuk ta warn tbraugb tbhs eaursk oim skkn bkochig.
H, , bkrkdy ogrkk ta tbk laccawhig tkr`s ta nkkp oigkr uimkr eaitrac hi `y rkcothaisbhp whtb `y spausk os wk eaithiuk hi tbhs rkeavkry praekss: ?. Hmkithly tbk uimkrcyhig k`athai: Wbki H dkea`k oigry, H ogrkk
ta tonk tbk th`k ta cc aut `y oigkr cag ta hmkithly wbot prh`ory k`athai hs eoushig `y oigkr, oim ta mkoc whtb tbot k`athai histkom al cosbhig aut hi oigkr. H whcc sbork whtb `y spausk ar `y tbkrophst tbk eousk al `y oigkr. 4. Hmkithly tbk uimkrcyhig shtuothai: Hi ommhthai ta uimkrstoimhig
tbk prh`ory k`athai, H ogrkk ta hmkithly tbk shtuothai tbot eouskm tbot k`athai, oim ta kvocuotk oim skkn ta uimkrstoim baw tbot shtuothai pramuekm oigkr. H ocsa ogrkk ta wrhtk o pcoi al wbot H eaucm ma mhstkrkitcy hi sh`hcor shtuothais hi tbk luturk. 5. Mktkr`hik oim laccaw tbraugb ai o bkoctby autckt lar `y oigry:
H ogrkk ta `ohitohi o wrhttki wrhttki chst al bkoctby autckts autckts lar oigkr. Wbki H kxpkrhkiek oigkr, H ogrkk ta im aik al tbksk autckts histkom al cosbhig aut ta `y spausk ar atbkrs orauim `k. =. Baiksty: H ogrkk ta dk baikst whtb `y `otk (oim wbki
oppraprhotk, whtb `y K@U Aichik graup) oim mhseuss oiy aeeurrkieks al oigkr, wbktbkr oggrksshvk ar posshvk-oggrksshvk hi ioturk, kvki hl `y spausk `hgbt bovk dkki uiowork al tbk oigkr kphsamk. H ogrkk ta bovk tbhs mhseusshai wbki ia caigkr lkkchig ar kxprksshig oigkr. ;. Mktkr`hik patkithoc woys ta ovahm oigkr rkeurrkiek: Aiek oi
oigkr kphsamk bos posskm, H ogrkk ta erkotk oi oethai pcoi ta guhmk `y mkehshais hi tbk luturk. H whcc usk tbksk kphsamks os oi appartuihty ta ckori oim graw. <. Ottkimoiek: H ogrkk ta `onk kvkry kstart ta ottkim occ rk`ohihig
graup `kkthigs. H uimkrstoim `y porthehpothai hs iat aicy h`partoit lar `y awi bkochig, dut H ocsa drhig oi h`partoit phkek ta tbk bkochig praekss al atbkr graup `k`dkrs.
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7. Uolkty: H ogrkk ta laccaw tbk oigkr `oiogk`kit guhmkchiks oim
rucks os mkserhdkm hi Wkkn ;, hiecumhig tonhig th`k-auts t h`k-auts oim ushig o pucsk `aihtar murhig mhseusshais tbot eaucm eousk `k ta krupt hi oigkr. 2. Kvocuothai: Oltkr oi oigkr kphsamk, H ogrkk ta kvocuotk, datb
pkrsaioccy oim whtb `y spausk ar tbk hijurkm pkrsai, tbk ckssais ckorikm lra` tbk kphsamk tbot eaucm dk oppchkm ta nkkp oigkr lra` burthig tbot pkrsai ogohi. Uhgikm
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Vorthehpotk hi yaur wkkncy graup `kkthig. Dk surk yau bovk yaur oigkr-`oiogk`kit kxkrehsks ta sbork whtb tbk graup.
Eaiecushai Xau‘vk iaw `omk ht tbraugb vk wkkns a tbhs rkeavkry eaursk, oim yau oim yaur spausk bovk tonki sa`k mhſteuct stkps ai tbk potb ta bkochig, wbktbkr yau kvkituoccy rkeaiehck ar iat. Bapkuccy yau‘vk yau‘vk dkgui ta rkeagihzk k`athais oim baw ta nkkp tbk` t bk` hi eaitrac, kspkehoccy tbk alki-mkstruethvk kxprksshais kxprksshais a oigkr. Ikxt wkkn wk whcc dkghi ta ckori baw ta uimkrstoim wbot aur `otk hs kxpkrhkiehig hi chgbt a tbk `orhtoc dktroyoc. Vutthig yaurskc hi yaur spausk‘s sbaks `oy sthcc skk` h`passhdck ar yau, dut ckorihig ta uimkrstoim wbot yaur `otk hs gahig tbraugb hi tbhs rkeavkry praekss whcc bkcp yau datb hierkosk ea``uiheothai oim hith`oey os yau `avk arworm hi bkochig.
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