tyler durden - foundations review notes:
hei everyone... i just recently made notes of the ENTIRE 8 hrs of foundations by tyler... tyler... so thought i'd put it up here if anyone is interested... hope its ok ith you rsd boys that i put it on here.. if not.. take the thread aay.. aay.. notes go from top to bottem..
!real social dynamics... foundations part " notes# $ never be reactive to any girl... gi rl... hatever she says or does during the pick$ up... % being un$reactive is a really big turn$on for oman....% so if she thros shit$tets... respond ith yeah&% cool.. $ oman tend to divide men into to categories (. the kinda guy ho doesent read too much into the interaction&% ho goes out and meets oman easly and all the time and ho thinks of it as a fun ay to release some tension.. ho is just having fun&% se) is not some kinda huge deal for him. its just to cement a moment. ". the provider guy&% the guy ho can take care of her... her... he'll take her for * months of dates before they have se) $ hen girls say... say... be yourself..% hat they really mean is i s bring her into you're orld& sho her hat u are about and let her make up her on mind. $ alays trust the process&% you built it for her $ i am the alpha and i am the boss of the venue... i do hat the fuck i ant and talk to ho the fuck i ant and if she doesent ant too talk to me... fuck her i dont care $ be illing to test yourself... yourself... and don't stop hen u hit a plateau or get into a lull.. you just got to push through that $ this is something here you ill have to push yourself out of your comfort +one..% and the more you can do that&% the more sucessfull you ill be at this $ cool guy thinking (. i ill built con,dence and social skills over a period of time ". i ill be a naturally attractive guy *. i ill become a better person from inside and out -. i ill commit to step out of my comfort +one and getting myself out there . i don't vie this as ork. its a fun thing $ even if its a rough night and you get pounded or get // all night&% it doesent matter cos this ill then thicken your skin an you ill learn for the ne)t time that you go out. $ ho to get good ith girls (. commit to going out * nights a eek ". commit to starting conversations ith )$number of oman each night
!tyler says (0 oman a night# *. learn ho to open conversations ith everyone !as you built con,dence&% people ill be more m ore and more receptive to you -. you learn ho to keep a conversation going $ you alays have to go through the process.. ,rst you learn to open and then you ill learn ho to go through all the processes up untill se)... but this takes time. $ ho to get good ith girls !naturals# (. you learn to physically escalate ". you learn about body$language& her body language& con,dence& humor& charisma and se)ual tension *. hen u start out u pick a default ay to start conversations& hook her attention !make observation of her#& create a vibe& get physical comfort& ask for a number& move venue's $ dont change you're personality just so you can pick her up... she ill sense the lack of congruerence !realness about you# $ to be really good ith i th oman you must really put your personality out there&% you must put it out there on the line.. its like put your head on the chopping board and kno it ill be ,ne $ hy do e go to nightclubs to learn ho to meet oman1 (. clubs have the number of girls that you need to practice !built momentum of talking to people to get into state# ". clubs have the number of girls that you need to hit state !state is talkative&% out of your head&% having a good time and being care$free# *. clubs make daytime seem easy !if u can do club$game&% daytime is a peace of cake# -. you can the learn attitudes and styles of interactions of social people !take a step up&% go a little bit higher then hat you used to $ about nightclubs !continued# (. you learn ho to hold court ". you learn ho to befriend befrie nd large groups of people *. you learn to handle social pressure !get used to girls having bitch$shields and ho to break those# -. you learn to out$alpha guys !just tool em back a little bit# . learn to handle funny logistical pu++les $ hoever has a stronger belief in themselfs ill a2ect the other person !kinda frame$controll idea... look at justus for this# $ con,dence !oman can tell a lot from these tools straight o2# (. voice !any sign of eakness in any of the belo and its not gonna go far&%make sure your voice is as strong as theirs# ". eye$contact !so much of thise game is in the eye$contact# *. body$language !girl ill look if your uptight or loose# -. touch !start touching people right from the start# . social skills !if the girl gi rl feels you are just having fun and seem high$value&% she ill ant to be part of that# 3. not putting up ith nonsense $ female femal e psychology
(. social conditioning !acts as if she does not like se)# ". lack of accountability !have se).. then it %just happened%& be the leader and guide the interaction through various stages# *. girls as choosers !girl observes your personality and once she is ready she ill choose you& sho her enough of yourself so that she ants it# -. change her mood&% not her mind !if you ant to change her mind get her giggling&% get her laughing and then re$suggest hat u said before in slightly other ay# . girls live in the emotion of the moment and backards rationali+e it 3. congruence tests $ beautifull girls have options&% a oman could reject (0.000 guys and have se) ith one out of (0.000 and still have more se) then the averige men me n just because she has sooo sooo many options so the guy ho is most di2erent and stands out from the hordes of other guys ho ant something from her is the one she ill end up ith $ female psychology !continued# (. secret society !there is a double standard that oman have f or one type and another type of guy# ". girl eye code !so as a s not to feel slutty and ratify feelings# *. hy girls are dran to clubs subconsciously !a club is just a giant happy state pumping venue for them# -. clubs as a revalidation venue . dancing as se)ual e)hibition $ female psychology !continued# (. dancing as a programming defensive all ". peer group jealousy 4 protectiveness *. validation -. the lifestyle of a professional hottie . buying temperature !as the emotions take over&% its canceling out the girls logic# 3. nancy friday %my secret garden% se)ual fantasies $ the biggest part of meeting oman is really simple&% its just about making them laugh but not in a clon ay !so true# $ a man is turned on like a light$sitch&% a oman is turned on like a volume knob. $ if a oman om an stays after u attempt something like a move or a kiss and she says no.. the only thing that it means is %not yeat% and you need to up her buying temperature ith jokes& stories. $ a oman is a lot more likely to move around the venue before bef ore leaving the venue together ith you&% she is probably p robably a lot more comftable going to restaurant near your house then straight there $ as she is getting to kno you... the emotion is taking over and the logic is going don.. she is getting to kno you and is feeling more attracted to you and then just escalate
!real social dynamics... foundations part * notes# $ congruence tests !shit tests# instead of responding logically& your strongest responses are (. to anser straighforardly but be visibly emotionally una2ected by hat they are trying to do ". to not anser at all as if hat they said as too far outside of your reality to process !just keep on talking# *. to cut of their thread by not responding and asserting a ne topic of conversation !snip and stack# -. to anser in the ay they ant but do something funny that is slightly di2erent . to jokingly call them for trying to step up !in breaking rapport kinda ay# 3. to joke that hat they said is playing up to earlier observations you made of them. !au you are a troublemaker# 5. to joke that they're too strong for you to handle and that they in !o.. you got me&% you in alright# 8. to playfully misinterpret hat they said !they tried to compliment 4 impress 4 come onto you 4 make em repeat themself# 6. to jokingly imitate them !hatever she said.. say it right back in a silly voice# (0. give them a eird look !if a girl says something totally eird to you&% give em a eird look and talk about something else# ((. ignore it !hen guys try and pull you into a role.. just ignore like you cant even hear hat they say# $ if a girl says something that is moving you aay from your target !the pick$ up#.. just ignore it !anser the 7uestion that you ould have ished to been asked# $ the best ay to deal ith a shittest is just to blo it of... the least reactive ay is the best because if you use the fancier techni7ues you come across as very reactive $ hen oman thro shittest at you.. thats a good thing&% its her ay of playing ith you !she is doing it cos she is curious and interested about you# so play ith her back $ as a man you need to have your on purpose in life outside of oman because then hen oman give u these tests they just bounce of o2 you& because u kno you can alays meet someone ne. $ its about having that natural personality that comes across to oman really ell and oman just happen to be attracted to you&% its just ho you are. $ elements of a solid pick$up that can consistently get you results
(. open !get the conversation going# ". hook 4 touch !di2erentiate yourself from other guys# *. touch !establish touching beteen you and the girl# -. vibe !share stories& shoot the shit& tease# . 7ualify !7ualifying her& hy u anna see her again& shoing her hy she ants to be a part of this # 3. number 5. venue change 8. se) $ ing rules !going out ith a friend# (. accomplishment intro& or joke merge of sap out !big up your friend before or after he comes in& big him up in cra+y ay is good.... ambassador for unicef1# ". joking around ith your friends and inside jokes !try and get her into this.... matt damon joke1# *. hen ing comes in after hook$point body$language toard him and greet e)tensivly -. then 7uikly catch him up to speed about hat you are talking about. % here talking about the ...... $ girls ant to go ith regular& cool guys ho are just having some fun... the girls dont ant to be the party& they ant to be let into the party !reallyy vital this one# $ if you and your ing are having a great time and your the life of the party...% the people in the club can see that and they ant in. $ if you are already shooting the shit ith your friend& hen you alk by a girl...% just tap her on her shoulder and she is in there right aay !remember casper and the guy at t' hart about his sister# $ hen its to guys and to girls there is a di2erent dynamic going on then hen its just one guy and one girl&% hen the girls buying temperature goes up the conversation ill split into one girl. one guy $ then hat ill happen&% girl eye$coding.. so if one of the girls is having fun and the other one isent&% you ill loose the set.. if one of the girls ants se) and the other one does not.. no se) $ the ay into a to on to conversation is one guy ill go in and arm it up.. and then friend comes in after hookpoint. another ay is to go in ith your friend.. if your already joking around this is highly e2ective $ alays ball$bust your friend...% hen a girl gives a phone nr to your friend say stu2 like... %dont do it& he's bad... dont do it% and ect $ hen speaking to girl she alays has to understand that you are having fun.. and yes you are enjoying her company and dran to her female energy... but if they here gone.. i'd have just as much fun $ girls have to look out for eachother&% because as the girls buying temperature goes up from alcohol and dancing... and they kno that if they dont cockblock some guy ho is not orthy.. her friend might go home ith someone she does not ant ant to end up ith. $ ith inging.. % if your proud of your friends then girls ill feel this... if you not proud of your friends.... girls ill feel this also. !sho a lot of
enthousiasm toards your ings 4 friends and girls ill ant to ,nd out# $ ing rules !continued# (. getting your ing in ith a " set %my friend is bored% ". to set dynamics ith " on " aproaches *. you and your friend tooling each other as a joke and ay to demonstrate value $ hatever it is that you have going on in your life... be enthousiastic about it&% but dont say it in a bragging ay. $ the major to ays that girls ill blo you out after bad girl eye$coding and them feeling uncomftable is %e have to go to the bathroom% or % e have to go dance% $ everything is feedback&% all rejection is learning as your modifying&% your never a victim&% every rejection is one step closer to success.... its ridiculous to care about rejection and its irrational and dumb $ opening single& double and groups of girls (. arm versus cold approaches !no eye contact is needed before approaching the girl is needed# ". orking the room vs sticking to one girl !girl ill get the feeling you do not ant anything from them&% so eject before they do and then re$open later.. leave on high$note# *. no eye contact is necesarry....% you just appeared -. get attention !tap her on the shoulder if she is not facing you or even hen she is alking by or hatever# . establish dominance ith your eye contact& voice !deep booming voice from your chest# and body$language !do not look don or act submissive# $ opening single& double or groups of girls !continued# (. keep talking untill they open up.....%no ay out rule% !keep talking untill something you say hits& do not orry about her reaction# ". structure opportunities to help them talk !give her a reason to talk to you# *. if girls ask you 7uestions do not let them take over and tool you -. if girls are seated then preferably either stand them up or sit don !alays try and get comftable as soon as possible&% otherise you'll loose value# $ start of your interactions ith higher energy and then sloly as you and the girl are getting to kno eachother better... take the energy back to a normal conversational level
!real social dynamics... foundations part - notes# $ if a conversation starter is too good.. it sounds rehearsed&% but if its just kinda loose and hatever.. its just a conversation and its great. $ after you sit don ith the group of girls just keep talking about hat you here saying... % if you then go from o2ering value from talking about cool stu2 to taking value !sooo.. hats up#.. you go rong there.
$ u can sense the nature of the relationship of the people by e)amining the dynamic of the interaction& if the girl is having some fun. they met that night& likeise& if she looks bored of comftable ith the guy& they are dating $ hen you start a conversation and she %locks up 4 becomes uncomftable... you can then back of a bit 4 take a fe steps back hile you keep on talking to her $ if you open a girl in a % high trac % situation... % alays get her out of there as fast as possible... you go stand against the all& snap your ,ngers and motion and say % hei come here % $ opening single& double or groups of girls !continued# (. getting comfortable so you can ork !alays ,nd a comfortable position for yourself&% if you do not you ill loose value# ". engaging late comers !do not go backards& but pull her in and engage em 7uickly# *. reinitiating lost or interrupted approaches !go back in but talk about something else& dont reinitiate the same thread or reinitiate ith playfull stu2 like % i hate you % or % you and i ould not get along %# -. determining the relationships ithin the group !so ho do you all kno eachother# . getting alone time ith the girl !ith larger groups they usually ok ith it because they have more people to keep the conversation going# $ if you do hat you feel and you come from a position of realness&% you ill get a great result and that is alays ho your gonna get your best results cos there is gonna be a lot more poer behind that then a chess move $ opening single& double or groups of girls !continued# (. approaching girls facing the bar !go in say % hey guys % and in a tapping motion take the shoulders of both girls and pull em out& or get in like a edge beside em.. tap.. tap and make a % come here motion %# ". approaching girls on the move !either cla her into you& or tap em on the shoulder... another great ay is to just start talking and keep talking as they go by... keep your feet planted as they ill look if you follo em# *. approaching girls at a table !is a seat available1& is purse on the seat1# -. approaching girls alone ho ants to ,nd her friends !ok... here&% hold out your arm and you go and ,nd the friends together& hen u ,nd them also talk and joke around ith them# . approaching mi)ed guy 4 girl sets !at the beginning& only talk to the guy.. and the girl ill try and get into the conversation.. and just playfully keep pushing her aay# $ hooking a conversation (. stand out from other guys as 7uickly as possible !girls get approached countless times a night# ". add value to their night !a good thing that gives them a good e)perience to their night& make a comment about them& tell a funny story.... no intervie 7uestions& add playfullness# *. get them reacting to you for your on amusement !so that means no impressing girls ith stories or ect or entertaining her# -. cold$reading them
. teach them something of interest !you have a good girl face& but every once in a hile you make a bad girl mannerism& casper's longer ,nger routine# 3. playfull cold$reads !you guys are bad& you guys are ,esty& cra+y& you guys are the most evil girls in this entire place....% these ork really ell right after the opener# $ hooking a conversation !continued# (. future adventures projection !if i did not have to go i ould adopt you as my ne little sister&% e could go to greece and ear toga's and you could sell lemonade.. you'd be good.. you and her in dorky scenario# ". role$playing !my utrecht gf for the ne)t mins... see ho you do&% dance$ instructor for the ne)t mins.. ok sho me your moves# *. conspiracies !alk around the club and tell people you just got married.. she ill play along&% e are brother and sister.. do you think e look alike1# -. busting them on their mannerisms !hen she touches you to apologi+e& lean back.. and hen she does it again to apoligi+e.. do it again# . push 4 pull !your either one of the coolest girls i have ever met or your a total eirdo.. i havent decided yeat....% its a compliment ith a little tease after it to take it back# $ hooking a conversation !continued# (. elastic band snapback e2ect !its kinda like putting a funny lil challenge up and they ill come back at it... are u a good dancer1.. no i dont think your a good dancer9# ". dis7uali,cation !you kno hat.. iam a bad man&% iam evil.. iam the kinda guy your mother arned you about.. so atch out ok&% you kno hat i dont think e should talk more& iam bad for you# *. pimp talk !your talking se)y but saying something retarded# -. 7ualifying and challenging . silly games !l.a. vs nyc handshake&% handhitting thing&% thumbrestling thing# 3. imitating them or other people !their accents&% anything about them... its great cos hen u do that she knos she cant control you# $ hen you alk through the club&% do not be the serious.. % james bond % type guy cos everyone is doing that.. be the guys having fun&% be the guy that doesent give a shit and having the time of his life $ ith kino.. for e)ample ith hand$holding.. % sometimes you just ant to let go and she ill keep holding onto your hand.. and if she does not hang onto your hand&% then just let go of her $ touch !kino'ing the girl# (. pinging !if she likes you... this is great to test her bt... punch her and she ill punch back& poke her and she ill poke back# ". teaching something physical in nature !transition to it... hei let me sho you something# *. moving her around !spin her around&% or just grab them and physically move them&% but make it as they being led# -. poking !same as ith pinging# . high$,ving !good ay to see ho comftable a girl is ith you&% just do a
random high$,ve... if the girl likes you.. she ill respond enthousiastically&% if not.. then it ill be a eak high$,ve# $ touch !kino'ing the girl# !continued# (. tickling ". restling *. hair pulling -. neck$biting . slo don speaking 3. get closer 5. triangular ga+ing 8. back scratching 6. smelling hair (0. kissing
!real social dynamics... foundations part notes# $ hen she asks the typical % intervie 7uestions %.... give her a funny anser as to sho her that you are unlike any of the other guys she has interacted before... !hat do you do&% iam a dildo$model# $ be a little bit silly ith the girls&% sho them that you can not be catagori+ed and let her ,gure you out $ vibing ith the girls !building a conversation to have a great vibe ith her# (. be playfull ". tell funny or interesting stories *. teach her funny things -. ask her 7uestions and misinterpret her ansers !ho old are you1... "0.... au you look really young for -0# . deep and ide rapport !deep rapport is one topic and go deep and long into that speci,c topic&% ide rapport is talking about a million di2erent things# $ if a girl is acting out of character ith you and you call her on the phone and she is not in that mentaility she is not going to be receptive.... so try and keep her in character if u think you can only get a phone$close $ the ay to act around oman is to act as if you go out ith your friends
and you just shooting the shit ith them and just hanging out&% ith this you ill have a lot of success $ during vibing you have to learn to stop talking and see if she re$initiates the conversation a little bit....% one ay you can do that is just to look at her ith that e)pectant look in your eyes $ if you can just vibe ith the girl....% and not try and impress her in any ay& you ill see a lot of times that she ill just start asking you 7uestions... usually the standard intervie 7uestions on hich you can bust her. $ vibing ith the girls !building a conversation to have a great vibe ith her# continued (. make her ant to ,nd out more about you ". vibing versus giving advice or having a set purpose *. essence of nerds -. building energy in the interaction . knoing hen to pipe in and understanding hierachies $ in loud venue's you need to plo...% but in more 7uit places you can have a nice conversation easly....% in loud venue's just talk.. and talk.. and then give a generic compliment so it makes sense hen u go for the nr $ to be really good ith people in general....% you have to treat people you dont kno like old friends !assume attarction.. anyone thats talking to me likes me#... talk to them completely openly and freely& and not orry hat they think&% not trying to impress them and having a good time. they ill then pressume on an onconcious level that you can do that ith everybody... they are curious about ho you can do that and anna talk to you because of that $ there are to ays to be the anchor of a conversation&% one ay is to be the center of attention... but another ay is to have everyone 7ualify themselfs to you.. so to be the guy sitting there being the judge $ ith vibing... just have a lot of fun together... as much as you to can create... pull her into your orld&% into your reality.... that is a great form of vibing $ never play the reassuring game... % just try and move o2 o2 that topic as soon as possible... because if you are reassuring her you are breaking trust because your going by her orld vie $ the angles you anna have during pickup are....% iam not jugemental about se)....% iam just a guy to have fun ith....% $ commonalities you anna built are things like...% places e ould like to go or been too....% dont really go into the deep emotional connetion road as it slos things don $ 7uali,cation !7ualifying the girls# (. having a standard of hat you'll respond to so she ants to impress !if they are boring... maybe u anna keep talking to your friend and the girl ill ork harder to bring her best self to the table hen talking to you# ". curiosity frame !if something you ask comes from a genuine place of curiosity to ,nd out about her....%ask in curiosity tone of voice&% then your coming from a place of poer and realness# *. commonalities !you dont need to agree ith her on everything...% also let
her sho you hy her opinion is cool and later hen you do ,nd commonalities it legitimi+es those# -. understanding and demonstrating authority in her orld !hen you understand her orld...% you understand her# . teaching her things that make her feel closer to you $ 7uali,cation is the one thing that reduces your :aking rate the most....% its the one thing that is very importend in every single pick$up. $ if she has the impression that she is a better person hen she is around you&% its going to result in her anting to be around you more... people dont value hat they dont have to ork for $ girls love a guy ho ill just speak his mind....% ho ill say hat he really thinks and ho is not trying to agreeable !hat.. you like apples&% i hate apples# $ 7uali,cation gives you a reason to call her the ne)t day&% 7uali,cation gives you a reason to get to kno eachother better $ 7uali,cation !7ualifying the girls continued# (. 7uali,cation and ho it makes you shoing intrest ok ". psychology behind 7uali,cation *. 7ualifying and then backpedding -. using the emotionally une)plained !if you cant ,nd anything you can 7ualify her on.... i feel good around you&% i feel comftable around you&% i anna hang out ith you more# $ 7uali,cation !7ualifying the girls continued# (. shoing her uni7ue value to you !henever a girl says something that truly impresses you... be impressed# ". giving your criteria and having her try to reach it *. misdirection !do you have a belly$button ring1. yes 4 no... good cos i cant stand hen girls dont have a belly$button ring 4 good cos i hate it hen girls have a belly$button ring# -. a good vibe is truly the best and most natural 7uali,er $ there are to real 7uali,ers... % the ,rst one is having standards !give them and she can ork toards shoing to you that she has those 7ualities.... frame it to her as in % hat i think is cool in a person %# $ phone numbers !getting them# $ !in breaking rapport tone#.... you kno hat1.. you're drunk aren't you1. e could have hung out and had fun& but you're drunk and you'll forget about me. are you drunk right no1... if i call&% ill you remember me $ you are either one of the coolest people i ever met&% or you are like a total eirdo. here you ever a fat kid in high$school1 reason i ask is you have these funny little things and i thought only a fat kid could develop that
!real social dynamics... foundations part 3 notes# $ venue changing
(. over hype herever you're going !giving her those logical reasons to do hat she emotionally ants to do# ". meet your friends !iam here ith some very cool people&% you anna join us1# *. meet ne people in the club !pretend like e just got married and then introducing her to other people in the club# -. take her to dance . take her to go get a drink at the bar 3. see di2erent parts of the club !over hype the di2erent other parts of the club and then take her there# 5. checking out a di2erent venue 8. go to an afterparty !do it at your on house if you have too# $ the more venue's you have been ith her...% the more e)perience she has ith you so you just also addressed your :aking problem as you have all these fun little e)periences together $ the best moment to venue change is on a buying spike.... % if you say something that is completely hysterical and hile she is cracking up laughing you say... come here&% you gotto see this its so cool or venue change $ venue changing !continued# (. go to eat ". go back to your house !give a fun or interesting reason to go there# *. go back to your room !give a fun or interesting reason to go there# -. get on your bed !give a fun& interesting& nonchalant or commanding reason# $ a great and dominant ay to get a girl into bed is to just thro her over your shoulder&% carry her like a caveman and thro her onto the bed. a lot of times a great ay to move things forard is to command them& just say it $ se) (. slo escalation !depending on the girl afcourse# ". teasing by moving forard and pulling aay !elastic snapback e2ect# *. dominance !some girls like dominance&% some girls dont so see hat orks# -. playing hard to get !jump into bed&% escalate a little bit.. get her hott and then jump out of bed and sho her your t$shirts 4 the vie or hatever# $ se) !continued# (. ash rinse repeat !if you move it forard and its not going forard&% keep going and try again later... if you try moving forard and she says %no no.. all it means is...% not yeat# ". not arguing ith token resistance *. stopping and joking around to make it not a big deal !tickle a girl&% blo and make funny noises on her belly$button.... remember the girl in i ndonesia at the hotel#... try and alternative beteen sillyness and going for it -. going for it hen its right $ one of the biggest things ith se) is... if the girl understands that she can leave at any moment and you dont care is she leaves....% she is going to feel a lot more comfortable ith the se) thing....
$ phone game !orking the phone# (. hen you call a girl you might feel apprehensive because you do not ant to loose the validation of her liking you previously ". reali+e that regardless of her reaction& it does not de$validate that you did a great approach *. also reali+e that she may have liked you in the moment but could have a million reasons not to see you again !boyfriend& too inconvienent& ect....# $ hen you get a girls number...% your basic emotion ill be not to call her number.... your mind tells you that you should not call her even tho it makes no sense at all $ phone game !orking the phone# continued (. the other reason you might feel apprehension is because you can not read her body$language or see hat she's thinking like you face$to$face ". that goes aay ith practice *. you never kno hich girls ill call back !just get the nr of every girl you meet... because sometimes even girls ho are not into you initially ill anna go lout# $ a good time to phone girls is beteen 5 and just before (0 at night&% but might also be the time hen every other chump calls them... % so test it out and see hat orks great for you $ hen you go to call girls on the phone that you met&% do to things ,rst... ,rst thing is to get into a talkative state on the phone !call some friends#.. and also make a little list of topics that you can talk about ith the girl $ the best ay to start ith the initial phone$conversation is to just launch right into a story and get her laughing&% do not start ith the usual... hei hats up&% ho you doing or ect. ith the story it ill arm her up for more convo $ never take anything personally on the phone&% just keep pushing fora rd ith the interaction... cool people never take anything personally&% and cool people alays have other people and other girls to go out ith. $ phone game !orking the phone# continued (. if you have trouble on the phone you can use hat you talked about on your last call to get your mouth moving ". sometimes its not a bad idea to just call and chat ithout suggesting a meet *. though trial$and$error& you ill eventually get a sense for hen a girl is up for a second meet& and you'll kno hen to suggest it. $ sometimes its also a great idea to just bring your friends out for a day " ith a girl....% have him 4 her or even another couple tag along ith the %date% for *0 mins so she can see you ith your friends and ect.. $ phone game !orking the phone# continued (. use the numbers of the girls that dont like you to ork on conversation skills ". take time out every once in a hile to call all your numbers *. its not a bad idea to keep your computer near by and have a brief ledger of each girl and hat you talked about $ !phone message to leave#.....% hei its tyler.. e met at ..... club&% it as
good talking to you& iam hanging right no by the pool rela)ing. give me a call back hen u get a chance.. seeya $ you need to have the % dont take it personally % mindset... also on the phone... as you never kno hich ones ill call you back and itch ones ont&% or hich one ill :ake you o2 and hich ones ont $ day "'s (. bring her somehere that you enjoy&% dont go out of your ay because of the girl !and make it a casual thing# ". dra her into your orld. make it cool !club je2y# *. a day " should be casual& and if you can do something fun that does not involve money then all the better !take her out shopping.. try out funny clothes together&% take her to a bar here everyone knos you# $ sometimes ith a day to.... % you can break %the rules % and still have success... its sometimes a bit illogical !hei you came to see me&% ill grab us a bit to eat# $ day "'s !continued# (. its ok if she brings her friends ". its ok if you bring your friends *. its a great idea to have her meet you at your house&% then leave and come back later -. have a repeatable plan that orks for you $ personality (. nice guy $ too supplicating ". macho guy $ too arrogant *. both are coming from a place of reaction and overcompensation -. good guy $ a good mi) beteen the to. you have a strong sense of ho you are. you do not let people alk all over you but your illing to be friendly to people $ being a friendly guy hen you go out anyhere is huge... talking to people everyhere you go is fantastic
!real social dynamics... foundations part 5 notes# $ the most important part in hooking comes from ho you are&% and by the ay that you carry yourself its ho they decide that they ant you to stay.... a lot of that comes from in:uctions from your voice&% your eye$contact&% your body$language... and especially your humor is gonna have a huge amount to do ith it... ho commanding you are. $ a lot of guys hen they approach are not thinking about hat they ant&% they are just hoping for that approval... just hoping that that girl ill be nice.... and if the girls can feel that in any ay they are going to move aay $ laughter is not a matter of content&% but more about status... if you have high$status.% and even if hat you say is not that funny... people ill still think and 4 or act as if it is $ hen you have a level of con,dence that a oman can feel that you are not leaning toards her emotionally in any ay and it dras her toards you. because ho you feel is a self fur,lling prophecy&% if you e)pect her to react ell and you are completely in your reality and not her's then your gonna get that much stronger reaction. $ hen you go out you must vie it as sociali+ing and to not have a strong outcome in mind or trying to get a reaction from anybodey.... iam having a good time&% iam enjoying myself and iam going to meet oman naturally $ in the pickup... one of the major parts is that you can say random things at random times and oman ill get sucked into that&% for instance you can just be talking and out of nohere say %you are so ,esty%... she ill ask.. buy hy1 you kno hy99... just launch into it directly. $ so tell me....% hich one of you is the boss in this friendship1.... or you can confuse them and say% she told me your the boss % $ in a lot of ays...% the art of meeting oman is the art of learning ho to convay your personality very very 7uickly so she can see di2erent 7ualities about you in as 7uick a time as possible $ you must ork on your conversation skills ith men and oman&% because usually around the people ho matter the most i.e. hot girls and cool guys.. % are usually the people ho you shut don around conversationally $ implementing a habit (. reali+e you're not cut from a di2erent cloth !hat they can do&% you can do also# ". you might not be that smart& but other people aren't that smart either *. hat one man can do& another man can do !hat are the actions that he did that i can follo to get on that path# -. don't ait for a girl to dump you. that is reactive . be proactive and create the habit before the problem occurs !have the series of habits in your life that can help you# $ implementing a habit !continued# (. come up ith a plan !eg go out * days a eek&% approach )$amount of
sets# ". make a choice just to get out there& even if conditions aren't ideal !hatever happens&% just go out anyay# *. just sho up !dont give yourself an e)use not to go out# $ implementing a habit !continued# (. progress feels directionless at times ". progress is like a j$curve. it takes a long time to get going& but once you get somehere you progress goes o2 the chart *. you must have blind faith that if you keep orking at it you ill get it -. get an idea of hat you ant . formulate a plan of ho often you need to sho up to get there !do i need more inner$game&% do i need a bootcamp... ect.. ect..# 3. accept that your ne activity is a part of your life for the duration of the time you've decided& and never decide based on emotions if you're going to sho up or not 5. dont orry if you're not getting results&% just stick to the plan ith blind faith& and make your criteria for success just to sho up 8. make it a hobby& look at all the details critically ithout taking advice dogmatically& and take then initiative to shift the focus of your training hen your intuition tells you that it might help $ make a plan of action...% rite it don and then commit to it also... also try and get it together ith other people so you stick and commit to it. $ here do you get your state from !state control# (. hen in$state... % people respond better to you... girls actually come and talk to you.... interactions :o better. hen your in$state& you are the person that you anna be&% and your acting in the ay that you anna act. ". hen you ,rst get good ith oman&% you ill ,nd ays to get yourself in$state hich are called %the armup sets%.... ,rst * approaches do not count and as you get talkative you get into state $ hen you fully come to a point here oman's approval does not matter to you&% hen you kno that you've talked to loads a oman&% you've had loads a great reactions in the past.. this one isent going to a2ect you one ay or the other... % thats going to make a huge di2erence for you. $ if oman are going to have se) ith a guy&% then she ill need discrection and a non$judgemental vie from your point. $ the concept of your identity and hat you deserve out of live ill alays a2ect you&% and in many ays ill also try and undermine hat you are trying to do... % as your mind alays looks for the easy ay out $ hen you go out a lot....% you kno that hen you hit %state% you can drop every techni7ue... hen you are so on you can look at a girl from across the room.% point and say %come here% and she ill come over ithout a hitch you can say %hats your name&% make out ith her&% thro her over your shoulder in literally seconds. $ di2erent ays to ,nd your state (. you have to think that you are alloed to be in state&% your alloed to dominate
". super,cial social standards !money&% having looks&% having a nice car outside# *. alliances !hen you have guaranteed acceptance because of ho you have around you or ho you have in your life# -. compentancies !guy ith a guitar in a club&% access to e)clusive parties&% access to anything people ant... henever you have something that people ant from you you ill feel in state# . role$plays !if you ing ith someone ho is better then you...% you ill ,nd yourself doing hat he's doing# compentancies $ as a guy if you indentify yourself as being non succesfull ith oman...% then your inclination ill be to see out lines&% routines that can allo you to take on a di2erent identity so that you can feel permitted to feel success because your gonna think that you are not enough and that you need to take on something else !like going in ith a guitar... cos you kno that you have something that people ant from you# $ core con,dence 4 identity...% you kno that you deserve it& you kno that you are entitled to it because its just ho you are. the core con,dence that does not depend on ho you look& having met anybodey else standards e)cept your on&% ho doesent depend on ho is in the venue ith u&% ho does not depend on if you have these cool stories&% doesent depend on if he's got someone else ith him ho looks up to you. its ho you are $ if you dont have the core$con,dence !like me# then you ,rst need to do a complete overhaul of your orld vie and ho you see and e)perience things. and if you over haul that then your game is 0; of the ay ,)ed. $ you have internal and e)ternal validation....% people ho are e)ternally validated are alays at the mercy of ho other people respond to them. on the other hand you have people ho's entire reality is determined internally they dont really care hat other people think of them. !just dont be a loud asshole tho# $ hen you go to a nightclub&% and there are all these cool people and you think that they are above you...% your state goes don. on the other hand if you go to a club full of (8 year old's that are all kinda dorky you might feel completely comfortable. the guy ith core$con,dence does not predicate his sense of reality on something e)ternal !other people around him# $ in each interaction..% one of the people is alays reacting more to the other person& and the person reacting the most is the one ith the loest social value and is less attractive to the other person. $ the guys that get girls have their on style&% their on ay of interacting and they do not try and live up to other people's standards.... they dra other people into theirs !especially not the tv or advertising standards# $ coolness being that you can play ith and bend social rules&% you dont conform or submit to social rules but you can play ith them.... you have a reportoire of humor and personal style. there are things about you that stand out and that are interesting and compelling& you have a sense of here you stand high$up.
$ social strategies (. value givers !someone ho o2ers value not ith favors& not ith entertainment but someone ho o2ers value ith their presence and their individuality# ". value takers !doing things to get approval or a reaction from other people&% or that people ill be indebted to you# $ the reason that you care hat other people think of you can only come from one place&% and that is insecurity... it comes from a position of scarcity and insecurity because otherise you ouldent care about it so much !real social dynamics... foundations part 8 notes# $ hen girls start asking you if you are a player !thats a shit test bt#... it means that your going in the right direction. !are you a player... smile.. hy& you buying1# $ ith store clerks to close em ell for the nr and ect.... you can say stu2 like %you kno hat.. i gotto go and you gotto do hat you gotto do&% if e erent so busy people e could have hung out more $ the shorter the pickup..% the more non commital and non$threatning you anna make the phone nr e)change. $ hen you in a co2ey bar or something simillar open you ant to be 7uite loud as that other people can hear you too..% and that not only the girl but the entire room ill respond to you&% and then hen you stay fokused and normal in that situation and remain unpressured and unsti2eled to people's reactions.... % thats here a great boost of attraction ill come from ith the original girl your talking too. $ same situation ith busses or trams&% hen you get into the thing just start immediately joking ith the driver !you ill see everyone looking#... and as you alk on you kinda strut 4 :aunt it. you notice everyone is looking and they see it also&% you make a little joke ith one person. and then you can decide hat girl to sit beside.. she ill either open you or you say one little thing like %hats up% and bang you've got attraction $ o2ering value is about adding to the room and about dictating the vibe around you&% hen you approach a oman and you joke around ith her... it has to be the case that its something that you like to do. hen you do that and hen you're joking around ith that girl she knos its real. $ in any social interaction& there are * spaces.. you& other person and that empty emotional space in the middle here both of your value dangles. say you ould look a a hot girl&% she has alays got that value of se) dangling in front of you. but hat is interesting is that if you are completely una2ected by that person's value !for girls its se)# and interact ith her as a person then you have a far higher chance of that person liking you $ a good ay of thinking especially for nebies in the seduction game is that if the girl is talking to me&% its on... its really as simple as that. $ alays have a better anser ready to her 7uestions of shittests&% does not matter sometimes if its a retarded anser !if you believe it.. it doesent matter#. $ take on good healthy habits like going to the gym&% building a social circle..
building a live. these are the things that are going to contribute to your general happyness.... you do this for yourself and the thing ith oman ill be a part of that overall picture. $ the positivity challenge for " eeks you ill only allo yourself to dell on a negative thought for *0 seconds and then you cut it o2... % hile your doing this&% vie everyone in a positive ay.. no matter hat obscure positive 7uality that person has inside him..% make sure that you see this and decide to focus on the positive in them. hen you vie everyone in a positive ay your orldvie changes to assume that everyone sees you that ay
My Notes On The Julien World Tour Webinar
Hey guys! Just watched the Julien World Tour webinar this morning and thought I would share my notes with those who missed it and/or are just interested. Thanks again to Julien and crew for taking the time to record and answer questions today! If for some reason you dont want this content "osted# I a"oligi$e and feel free to take it down% Re-frame things to make them more relatable to the girl &oca'&ola "olar bear analagy( )oda is nasty chemicals and sugar that is bad for your health# but when your watching the &oke "olar bear commencial it frames the e*"erience of drinking &oke as looking ha""y and fun! Be relatable by being aware of her goals +our goal( To fuck.,'''- Her goal( To not look like a slut How to re-framing a "fuck-buddy" - o girl is going to want to say yes to Would you like to be my fuck buddy0 12e'frame1 this into Would you like to be in a relationshi" in "rogress0 Make the girl think shes special and different I dont usually talk to anyone like this# I actually really like you Don't always be so stubborn 'If you lo3e "hysics and kee" talking to he about that but she just doesnt get it mo3e on to another to"ic -If your trying out some mo3e 4e* s"in handshake5 and she wont do it# mo3e on. 6ont get so stuck if she doesnt com"ly to one thing7 8e ada"ti3e. Go easy at the beginning of the night its really !ust practice #onser$e your energy Ha$ing a "%tate #rash" is like hitting turbulence while flying 9 noobie will freak out 4:h my god What do I do This shit sucks5 9n ad3anced guy will be like 4&lick# click# adjust this# adjust that# ok and were
good!5 Memory is state access dependent If youre in a bad state youre going to remember all of the shitty reference e*"eriences you3e had. ;ise'3ersa with being in a good state &hile in the slippery slope of "%tate #rash" <. Ha3e blind faith that you will sna" out of it. =. >ollow a "rocess he process (ulien's ) mantras ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ? * heres nothing to win nothing to loose 'There is no doing well just do to do. 9ct for the sake of acting. + he more , do the less the en$iromnet does to me '+oure either reacting to the en3ironment# or the en3ironment is reacting to you. 'If you stand still# you are on the recie3ing end of the en3iroment and will s"iral downward. ')T9TI& ?? 6@9TH 4write this on your hand to remind yourself5 JA)T 6: ):B@THIC. Don't force it let it arise 6o something# but do it at a congruent "ace. 4o"en girls saying I ha3e a state crash oir im sad or I used to be sad# but im a little less sad now5 ) How can i make myself laugh. Thats your goal. Thats the key to success ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? /pen and talk to fucking e$eryone #ommitting to a set 'This ha""ens toward the end of the night
'>irst "art of the night# just building leads 'Drogressi3ely ha3e longer and longer sets ')econd "art then you commit '+ou ha3e to ha3e long interactions ':nce you commit# stick to the girl you committed to 46ont fall into grass is always greener syndrome5 'stick to the decision you3e made 0lant the seed 11111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111111 Cirl says shes going to * "lace later tonight% %tep *
:h thats cool! I ha3e a friend who li3es near there. I think hes throwing a "arty later. 1Eater on in the night1 Hey were going to the same area lets s"lit a cab his con$eys2 34 ,t's not completely out of the blue B4 5ou made it relatable to her 4)he has a logical e*cuse that shes not acting like a slut5 %tep + Try to find a logical e*cuse to let you use her a"artment &an i use your bathroom 4Dlant the seed before hand. 16uring cab ride1 Ban i need to "ee! Ban my friend with the after"arty is not answering his "hone# thats weird# anyways...blah blah5
?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? 3lcohol is retarded 'Dicku" is basically doing "ersonal de3elo"ment on steriods. '+our working on the drunk you# not your sober self. Work on your sober "ersonality. 8e who you wanna be at# work# with friends# all the time instead of just when drinking. %till interact with women while in a relationship '6ifferent le3els 4just flirting# or Dulling# or make it relatable to the girl youre dating5 Ha$e a gf and want to sleep with other girls 6do this from the start of the relationship42
I lo3e you# I lo3e you i wanna be with you# e*clusi3ly with you. I wanna marry you# ha3e children with you# grow old together# die and go to hea3en together# B7 2ight now in order to really e*"lore and know who i am / become who i am# i ha3e to go talk to other women / get this out of my system. If we are e*clusi3e right now it would feel forced and you shouldnt force lo3e right0 I dont want "ent u" resentment# look at so and so cou"le# I dont wanna be like them. I want us to last fore3er. his is something , ha$e to do for "us" 48rame2 Its something you H9;@ to do# not something you want to do5 4Its like youre adding on more coke'a'cola "olar bear5 o get better at pickup 'Co out e3ery day! FGmin minumum. 'Coing out only on the weekends and you will loose the momentum. 'Its not something that you go do its something thats a "art of your being# that you are all the time.
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'o one gets out of here ali3e 'o matter what you do your not taking your accom"lishments with you when you die 'othing matters# once your dead youre gone fore3er '&hoose a "ath in life thats engaging and that kee"s you feeling ali3e. 6o what turns your mind on# whats interesting to you. '6o things to gi3e not to take4 lea3e a legacy to hel" others not one for your ego5 'Take res"onsibility# no one gi3es a fuck about you. @3eryone feels like they still ha3e their "arents and that someone is going to console them. o one is coming to fi* your life. +oure not a unique case. )omeone else in e*istance has already had your "robelm# "robably worse and still made it through it '@mbrace life and just enjoy the ride ?????????????????????????????????????????????????????? How to handle loud clubs '+ou cant half ass it# +ou ha3e to offer more fun. Bore intensity.
'+ou dont ha3e to dance to talk to girls dancing. Talk ='F minutres# hook then bounce her off the dance floor# talk more get logistics# then send her back to the dance floor
How to deal with bitchy girls on their period9nerds girls9nice girls9ect 'Treat all girls as the same. 'If you go u" acting like the girl is going to be stuck u"# then she will start acting like that. 4self fulfilling "ro"hecy5 'Co u" to her and assume she is fun/cool/ama$ing and she will ha3e to li3e u" to that assum"tion. Making a girl feel special not !udged '8lame the emotionally une*"lained I just really like you# we ha3e an awesome connection# its so weird idk why i feel this way ':"en u" to her 4Interaction isnt only focused on her# focused on yourself too5. '+ou ha3e to become hooked as well. 'In the middle of the interaction Its weird# youre actually really cool ')hare a story starting it out like :h this story is kinda nerdy# and i usually dont tell anyone this but... ::B7,;D 3 %/#,3; #,R#;<= '6ay = with hot girls and then "ut them in the friend $one 'Then hang out with them going out# going to "arties ect. and go with them to "ick u" hotter girls 19ctually goes out1
Notes of all four of Tyler's "Truth about success" videos
Hey guys# I took notes while watching the Truth about )uccess 3ideos that Tyler "ut out. Thought I might share them with you. I think it could come in handy if you "refer to read in stead of watching/listening. :r# if you already watched the 3ideos and want a quick refresher of the main "oints. To make sure youll get most out of this "ost# I "ut the links to the 3ideos in the "ost as well. )o you can watch the whole 3ideo if my notes arent sufficient. 4@6IT( I cant yet "ost links# so I "ut just "art of the url there5 & ruth about success - 0art * Why to ne3er ski" a training( When you ski" one day# you know you will ski" the ne*t as well. If today is not a con3enient day to go to the gym# there will ne3er be a con3enient day. When I make the decision to# I will stick to that decision. 8ecause when I fail in that decision# I fail in my larger scale goals. When you ha3e a shitty job# still do it
can. +ou do that by "ushing your comfort $one and to lo3e what you do. Whate3er e*cuses your brain comes u" with# are irrele3ant. 4This is the first world# we ha3e so much "ossibilities!5 Bake sure that all desires are lined u" towards the same goal. Taking action and getting new e*"eriences will kee" you getting closer to a "erfect understanding of the world. This wil hel" you to 3iew the world as it is 4reality5. The journey hel"s you get grounded and be in the moment. Boti3ation is an art# learning this art is needed to "lay at the big boys le3el. :nly you yourself wants you to succeed# no one has sym"athy for you. If you ha3e a dream# then you can choose to find your own moti3ation and use it. +ou must burn the boats. Dlay to win. Throw your hat o3er the fence. +ou ha3e the "ower to transform# to become something else. If you want to become someone who canLt be tired down# you must be able to become something else than you are right now. +ou must go to any length to transform. 6onLt o3erestimate the im"ortance of networking( no one is going to hel" you. +ou got to do it yourself. )uccess is a slow "rogress of doing the right things 4habits5. TH@ ;I66+( +T slash watch03?JCjDEeB@ME@
ruth about success - 0art + Bake sure you ha3e a bigger "lan for yourself
)uccess is challenging to obtain and fleeting when you ha3e it. )uccess is something that has to be earned and re'earned. 6onLt try to minimi$e time and effort# it will cause failure. 6uality :n the one hand# you must ha3e faith that things will work out and that bad things that ha""en# in the end are hel"ing you. :n the other hand# ne3er forget to take action. >ailure is the default if you donLt ha3e rational "aranoia towards failure. +ou must ha3e the rational "aranoia for failure. )uccess is being focussed on what you want# not on what you not want. 4What gets attention# grows5. When you fuck u"# take lessons from it and correct course afterwards. Ea$iness is a 3ery addicti3e habit. >or that reason# the natural urge to minimi$e time and effort has to be su"ressed. It is also 3ery hard to get away from# because la$y "eo"le will always rationali$e their la$y habitual and emotional addiction. In other words# they lie to themsel3es.
Hard work brings you back to reality again and again. It is hard to tell lies and rationali$ations to yourself when you are in constant action# and therefore you are closer to reality when you do so. +ou must ha3e some humble a""reciation to what you achie3e and want to achie3e. +ou know you can do it# but also that it is not easy. The right way to do things and the wrong way to do things( usually# gradual "rogress is the kind of "rogress you want. The Nmagic "illL solutions ha3e so many downsides. >or instance# if it is easy to get the results that you want by using a magic "ill'method# it is "robably also 3ery easy to lose it again. +ou must be an e*ecutor. If you say you will do something# and then a "roblem occurs# find a solution to the problem 9nd then do the thing you said you would do within the deadline. >o e?cuses= Cet out of your comfort $one. Why0 8ecause "ressure is needed to grow. 2ead good books# so you know what to do when bad shit ha""ens. @3en when you are in "ain# you must know that it is somehow a lesson that will hel" you grow and become a better "erson. The "ath to success is a narrow road. TH@ ;I66+( +T slash watch03?J2;Oon+dA
ruth about success - 0art Deo"le who work hard# usually are 3ery "assionate. They work not for the money# but for the flow state that they get out of it. P different mind'sets(
<. By life sucks# the world sucks =. )ome "eo"le do 3ery well# but my life sucks F. I am awesome# other "eo"le suck Q. We are awesome 4we? my "eergrou"5 P. We are awesome# and the world is awesome 9nother im"ortant "aradigm( When I gi3e all my success away or lose it# it is okay because I can achie3e the same le3el of success again. Bost successful "eo"le are 3ery willing to hel" others# because they are in the le3el P mind'set( the world is awesome. 9nd they are not scared that others will get better or as good as they are# because they know that they can achie3e the same success that they
ha3e again. 8ecause a lot of "eo"le who are successful are willing to share their knowledge# you can study success easily. Bost successful "eo"le write books about their success! '' Bainstream media s"read an idea of endless "ossibilities e3en for mediocre "eo"le who donLt "ut any effort in becoming a better "erson. This is a false belief! '' 9nother false belief( I cannot make an im"act. I can make an im"act on major e3ents# but most "eo"le think you canLt because our brain can not take u" more than
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9lso major business owners sometimes ha3e a headache. 9lso di"lomats make silly jokes sometimes and then laugh about it alone.
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With the same "eo"le# you want to see how they made a list of things to do# how they checked of certain things# how they made a small goal and then a bigger one# how they "ersisted when something seemed 3ery hard to do. This way# you see that you are in essence the same# but you beha$e differently. '' )tudy failure just as well as success )tudy failure so you know it 3ery well. Cet to know the uni3ersal "rinci"les of failure and success. )urrender to them. &hoose a roll and then "lay it as good as you can. It is actually sim"le.
+ou must belie3e in abundance. Trust your faculties. There is abundance of ideas and energy. Cood e*am"le( be a good ti""er. The world is not a scarce "lace. Ci3e abundance# and in the end you will gain abundance. What you "ut in to it is what you get out of it. ThatLs also why you must work hard. 9t first when you work hard you think( this sucks# it doesnLt make me ha""y. 8ut when you do it for two or three months# you will like it and it is no big deal anymore. This is the same thing with eating good food. When you taste some cra$y healthy salad for the first time# you think( this tastes shit# it wonLt make me ha""y. ILd rather die a few years earlier and be ha""y then to eat this shit. 8ut when you eat healthy for two or three months# you will like it. 4This is growing into a flow'state5. When you make a habit out of something# you start to like it and look forward to it. This is a uni3ersal "rinci"le of life. Deo"le who fail are not aware of this or they know it but are not willing to "ut the effort in that is needed to make something a habit. @*am"les of uni3ersal "rinci"les( ' Work to gi3e# not to get ' 8ecome "resent to the moment# donLt get stuck in your head TH@ ;I66+( +T slash watch03?mMBai2Hjc
ruth about success - 0art ) Ase your time to hel" you grow. Ase time to reach goals. If you ha3e commuting time# use it effecti3ely by listening to audio books.
When you come home from work# go to the gym and do a workout 4or go for a run in the "ark5. @at healthy. Cood foods are( s"inach# broccoli# kale# turmeri c# rosemary# oregano# basil. +ou can buy Nem chea" at the farmers market 4way chea"er than go to wholefoods5. Then# after working out and eating healthy# s"end time working on whate3er goal you ha3e. If this is "ick'u"# make sure you go out e3ery night. If the goal is to write a book# then write e3ery night. If the goal is to learn >rench# then listen to >rench hi"ho" e3ery night and figure out the meaning of each word. 9fter doing that# make sure to get good slee". 6onLt forget that e3erything is intertwined. If you donLt get enough slee" today# it might affect your beha3iour the ne*t day. Baybe you donLt work out because you donLt feel well. ow because you donLt work out# you start to feel bad about yourself. 9nd because of that# when you go out# your game sucks 4girls see that you feel bad about yourself/ha3e low self'esteem5. )o reali$e that e3ery choice you make in one area of your life# affects other areas in your life as well. ''
6rugs# tele3ision and boo$e are all e*am"les of short term ha""iness. +ou smoke a joint and feel good for a minute. e*t minute( not anymore. +ou watch some show on T; and will ha""y for a minute. e*t moment( not anymore. What can bring long lasting ha""iness( feeling ha""y about yourself. When you do e3erything in your "ower to become a better "erson# when you work on yourself and on your goals# thatLs when ha""iness is long4er5 lasting. In the end life is not easy# not fair. )ome "eo"le ha3e unfair ad3antages# others donLt. ItLs not fair# but donLt bitch about that. 9cce"t it. @mbrace it. 9nd go with it. 9bout unfair ad3antages( 9lmost e3erybody has unfair ad3antages# but e3erybody has them in different areas. +ou ha3e to find out what your unfair ad3antages are# and if you do that# you focus on those. +ou should "lay to your strengths. In general# "eo"le can become 3ery good in only one or two things. Tylers unfair ad3antages 4as an e*am"le5( •
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44444444444!!!!!!!!!!!!4444444444######### Tyler on what women really want but will never admit% irls are testing you. @he sends you something& you must kno hat to respond. @omething funny. $e able to mentally and emotionally dominate over her. Care less than her. $Gack of reactiveness $e the fucking Caveman ho got the meat and the fur and the heap of bitches sucking titties $To get a girlfriend& hang out a lot $Horget e)cuses 4444444444!!!!!!!!!!!!444444444########## Todd t try to make anything special& I don>t try to be overly ama+ing. I just try to be (0; cooler than the normal guy and have a fairly normal conversation and then I pepper in little statement of intent& I pepper little attempt to escalate& depend ho is it received. I either escalate more or I back o2 and go back to normal conversation. There is a continuous cycle& this inevitable cycle here I don>t make massive mistakes& I don>t give girls a reason to reject me or blo me out and then I gradually and inevitably move it forard and never backard. MI just let you say something etty enough to repeat& I just ant etty conversation. It just can>t happen if there>s no se)ual dialogue. Gook good sets and see hat happen. Gook really bad sets and see hat happen. Gook the e)treme cases and Gearn. Ao great or Huck up royally. Todd and a girl They sense game at miles and miles aay. Intense. uys can>t be normal until they have se) / lot. Lersistence is @e)y. elieve in your level of C/N but not your level of C/N>T. =hatever the level you>re at this is FO. /ny girl is attainable giver the Right circumstances. Lain is a fundamental part of the game.
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