Concepts flawless natural: ♣ My game is a 10. Nothing short of it + a delusional sense of coolness (i am the coolest mother fucker on the planet) ♣ when you see that girl that you like," your first thought music always be " yes this is for me " if you ever wanna get rid of a dude say " who is this creepy man " ♣ Don’t let your state be determined by outer factors. The value you give to things is determined by you (table of destiny). That means that you determine who and what value you are. ♣ Even when she blows you off," step the fuck up and get that chick... do not take no for an answer ♣ picking up a girl is a celebration of you and her (your taking her on an adventure because she gets just as much out of it as you do) ♣ you guys should walk into a set like kicking the door down, that shows your dominance. ♣ The core essence of picking up girls is this "girls just want to be taken"
- Chode thinks of goal outcome, Pimp thinks… like a toddler. I.e. he doesn’t. o He is easily distracted, o He is easily excited o He is in a constant state of self-amusement o He is in the moment, always o He is tuned into his rhythm. He feels the groove. o He always wonders: “How can I make this fun?” In every situation ♣ Whatever life spits at him, No self-improvement, self-amusement! - Like a toddler, he is spontaneously love-struck by things he wants. I.e. chocolate, a cool car, a book or…. A woman. o This is done by tuning into the core-manly sexuality o This means also that he has a No 1 priority in life that is not woman/women. Men take care of and are passionate about work and war. Women instead take care of and are passionate about …men) - How to create core attraction between a man and a woman: o Pump the polar opposites between ♂ and♀ o Release the inner animal o Mantra: “ I am the coolest motherfucker on this planet ” o Make it fun. Invent reasons. I.e. because I breathe I am this cool freaking motherfucker… - Permission: o give yourself permission to be that dominant person. o you are the only one who can give yourself permission to be that flawless natural in the club," to be that cool guy," to be that guy who raises his voice ect. ♣ pickup is not about the girls at all," its a celebration of you (you should be saying " hei, join my party)... the girls and the place are just variables - All about woooo state (the quit little smile inside): o nothing else matter except what your doing completely in the moment o alcohol is great for a woooo state (just one or two drinks during the night," one at the beginning and one in the middle) o the feeling inside your body will actually dictate everything," the mind and body are intertwined into what we call state.... you change one," the other will follow.
- There are two ways to generate woooooo (physical): o when you first set into the club put yourself in the right frequency to put yourself into that higher state of being," also talk to the first person you see, doesent matter who it is o when you first walk into the club," go like woooooooo, (clap hands)... lets do this..... and that physically changes your state. - generate woooooo (mental):
o always think with every situation you occur " how can i make this fun for me" ♣ woooo frequency threshold takes about 20 minutes of action time for you to cross the threshold where its just on for the whole night. ♣ You have good looking bitchy girls, you have ugly looking bitchy girls," you have amazingly nice good looking girls and you have amazingly nice ugly looking girls," you never gonna know in advance ♣ with state... " sometimes when you approach girls, they are in a lower frequency state and your thinking you are getting blown-out, but maybe she is just nervous and frozen up so just keep on plowing
- When going out, Priority: HAVE FUN : o Let loose the inner child (grab at the moment what u want and what u need) o Get love-struck o Let loose the inner animal o Laser eyes o Be direct o Quickly befriend the set o Do not apologise, ever o Do not release the tension, ever o Cut useless threads o Set up the you and I bubble o Blame her for attracting you o Have her validate and qualify herself to you
♣ Going first: there is an nlp saying that says when you want the girl you are talking to to feel an emotion," you must first go into that emotional state and she will follow. ♣ this then also comes down to how you feel," if you will feel awesome with great energy she will feel that.... "if you feel you are in a yuch state, then she will feel that just as hard
- Your intent is too be felt: o You feel dangerous to her from the word " hey " (masculine, she should be a little frightened and surprised) o She is in imminent danger of being shagged outside behind the dumpster o If you do not show your intent then you will become mr entertainer guy, and you will entertain her all night and at the end... yeah this was fun," thanx.... pooofff, gonee o Full masculine dominance (it needs to feel to the girl that this happens all the time with this guy," this guy has what it takes to step up and take what he wants) o Lazer eyes and killer instinct to her.
- Using your emotions (the fury threshold): o Use misfired approaches to generate the fury inside and use that on your next approaches (you are running away from me," you cant do that... i'll be sad)
♣ if you think that making our in the bar is a big deal, then she is going to think its a big deal... if you think going home with her on the first night is a big deal, then she will think its a big deal - Openers from the fault of timmy: o Hei whats up," iam gabriel. o Hei i thought you where absolutely adorable," so i just had to meet you. o Hei i thought you guys looked cool," i just had to meet you. iam gabriel o Guys iam sad," i need a kiss (just a quik one.. just a quik one... look in the eyes.... look in the eyes) o Hey i need a date tonight o Hey whats up," iam gabriel... you know what, i thought this girl over here was a cutey and i had to meet her," is that ok with you guys? o Tap, Tap.. i choose you (point at the girl)... you know," you know," (all smilling and bright)... come here, what is your name?
♣ (out of all the girls in this place,") I choose you (demonstrates that you are the taker to the girl, this can be said in a serious way at the start, middle, wherever) - Getting physical with girls: o With getting physical the most important part is thinking instead of what do i do," think " what do i want " o With physical escalation, the longer you wait to touch her the weirder it gets for her o A few ways to get physical right of the bat is obviouslly shake the girls hand when you meet her," but also always do a lil salsa spin when u meet her o The claw (claw on the arm to pull her in and the claw on shoulder) o When with girls," always get close to em (get in real close with your whole body," step into her space)... but when she pulls back, also pull back for a second.. and then get close again - The bubble of you and I is Made up of : o the roles that you and her playing (gf for the next 5 mins, dance-instructor, body-guard ect) o You have to change the roles from random dude meets random girl to something which will actually help you pick her up.... the stuff that you talk about. o An example would be if if you would go up... hi iam emily," oh.. no, no,no... i once dated a girl named emily," she was trouble... are you like her? ect.. ect.. (are u fun and adventarous like emily?) o these things are ways to move the interaction forward," say if you just got her nr... you can text her like," hello emily nr 2, i like this emily better" or something like that.
- The bubble of you and I is Made up of : o Dominance and Playfulness o Sticking to both at all times. Head for true north. o Then isolate. o Announce to her and her friends that you are married now o Grab her hand, swing it, aren’t we cute? o “I’m borrowing/taking my wife/gf/etc for a few minutes of private time” o Leading her around the venue
- What to talk about in the bubble: o Commonalities – music, movies, preferences, etc o The environment – Other people, the club, etc o Personal info – name, occupation, age, origin, etc o Make these emotionally engaging by turning them into bubble topics o Commonalities – You’re my rocker gf / We’re a movie star couple o Environment – How/where we met will make a great story on our wedding o Personal stuff – My Chicago gf/ my trophy wife/ etc o Blame her for being lovestruck (here iam trying to enjoy the night with my friends and your dragging me away, why do you do this to me) o “Why do you do this to me?” o “I’ll pursue you harder than anyone else ever” o “I’m from Chicago” – “Nooo I need an LA gf, but you’re here for two weeks, it’ll do” o “I have a bf” – “he can do our taxes” / thats ok," iam not the jealous type o Lets get married," ive decided. you and me are getting married now (walk her around the venue," hei guys we just got engaged," this will be my new wife) o Ok where married," so what do we do when we are married (and you can kiss her there)," so doesent that look like where getting married? o Lets have a date," when?.. right now!. o You live in london," great i need a london playmate... why?," oh my old is gone now. you can be my little london playmate and we can go on adventures together tonight / towmorrow. o ok your gonna be my new girlfriend for the next 5 minutes," alright come here... its on. / or " so do you wanna be boyfriend / girlfriend (said in a funny joking kinda way) o ok your gonna be my new italian gf for the next 5 minutes," can i come back to italy with you?
- Keeping the bubble alive: o Net theory - when something gets caught in your mental net you fokus on it," and can fuck up your pickup (girl would say... go away you," yeah anyway so what was i saying) o Pinball of positivity - accepting and re-directing the energy of a conversation to where you want it to go. if a girl bring up something negative to the conversation you pinball it back positively to her like for instance when she says she cant do something or go somewhere (breaking rapport: WAIT.. wait... wait.. wait... wait.. wait... ok lets go) o Pounding of passion - to ignite the spark back or if the conversation isent going that well. hei... WAIT.. wait... wait.. wait... wait.. wait..." have you ever been fired from a job (she answers).. ok cool, have you ever got anymore fired from a job (she answers), have u ever spiked a guys drink in a nightclub (she answers), ok what is your favorite color (she answers)... ok good enough," we're getting married now
- The power of the bubble: o The bubble makes you that sex worthy guy o Why a you and me bubble," to really make it a you with me and not a you versus me scenario. see it as this," she gets as much out of it as you do
- One word bubbles (dearest / sweetheart / honey / love): o Hello love," just a tea thank (to starbucks girls)
- How to be dominant: o Cut threads that do not concern you and her. o Be dangerous. You’re not safe to be around. Know this, don’t display it consciously. Don’t appear dangerous, know you are dangerous. o Laser eyes. The world around you disappears. o Focus. She is in your reality. There is nothing in your reality other than her and you. o Plow. Persevere. You’re not a quitter. You’ll pursue her to the end of the world and beyond. You’re lovestruck. Madly lovestruck. - How to be playful: o Always ask: how can I make this fun? o Blame her for attracting you o Enjoy it! o Be spontaneous. Take a thought, any thought, and run with it. And put it in the you and me bubble o Be sexual. Check her out. o Playfulness is helped massively by using your range of animation.
♣ If you ever wanna get rid of a dude say " who is this creepy man " - Cherish box of doom (beware of cherishing in the night): o Beware of not putting the interaction into a role of actual boyfriend / girlfriend instead of fun and adventure in the night," cos you will have extreme troubles pulling the girl home that night. o Entertain no thoughts of a future relationship with her untill after sex," iam here for fun in the moment o Look at these guys," most guys like to have sex like this," like you'll take them home and they will all be like lovey with you," cherishing in the night.. they will come up," look at you and lay you down and make love to you. (breaking rapport).. me," fuck that. iam here for real sex," fun, adventure.
- What to do with amog's, bfs: o Plow, befriend, then o Create a secret bubble o Meet me at the bathroom/smoking area/etc o Then: I’m so in love with you
- Communication:
o Expand your range of animation. Both towards TR (Trying for rapport) and BR (Breaking Rapport). Know how and when to use which. o BR: Barrage of questions. Interrupts her frame. Mindset: WFT are you doing on my planet? o In TR, everything is UP. Your shoulders are up, your voice is raised, your eyebrows are up, you look up to people (literally and figuratively), etc o In BR, everything is down. Your shoulders are down, your voice is an octave down, you (figuratively) look down on people, etc o when she says something you want to break of, you can answer with " what are you talking about this for," where in a nightclub... lets party!!. "
♣ Don’t try (game) to be lovestruck, BE lovestruck (natural)
- Whatever she says, pinball it back positively: o “You say this to all girls” – “Yes, dearest, but I only love you…” o “I’m not your type” – “Aww, sweetie, I love your concern for me…” o “I have to feed my hamster now/talk to my friends” – “[BR]Anyway, honey, our honeymoon…”
- If you run out of things to say: o Check her out. Refuel your sexual animal. Mentally bend her over. Whatever comes to mind then… word it in bubble frames. “I’m just checking you out”. o wauw," you look so hot.
- Rhythm 10 till 2: o At ten o'clock when you meet a cute girl and you have the intent and you have the bubble of love, she will not be ready to go home with you yeat cos she is here to enjoy her night first. o The perfect split in the beginning of the night is 50% wooo and 50% intent," that happens from around 10 till 11'ish... you hit her up in the first few minutes then stuff happens," you will talk to her friends," you will talk to your friends, you will chill out during the night an so will she... but u will still show a bit of intent towards her throughout the night. and then at the end of the night at that magical window which is i recon between 1 and 3ish where she is ready to go somewhere else thats where you will ramp up the intent to pull up to 75% intent but still have that 25% woooo and fun always. (breaking rapport voice, claw her in)... hei come here," time to go... time to go... where, adventure ofcourse. (be vocally dominant)
- Harmony win / win: o It has to be a situation at the end of the night where she wants to be with you," just as much as you want to be with her. o She will win when she see's that against all odds you will still go for it, then she will be able to see that you both win. and that should be your purpose.
- Do not: o Neg o Tease o Be lonely o Trying for rapport o Unrelaxed (tight) o Requiring her consent o Listen to her o Ask for permission/feedback. Not “we’ll marry, right?” but “we’re married. Do you want three kids or five?”
- Mindsets: o I am the coolest motherfucker o I am kicking with my buddies
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I’m having fun. Whatever I do. I am a man. I get lovestruck. I am sexual. I would not dream of apologizing for it. Ever. I am a man. I play to win. Naturally. I’m a choser. I’m a taker. Sex is not a big deal. Nothing really is. Except my priority no1 (work & war) Women (well, the whole world around me) exists for my amusement. Naturally. What else could it be there for? …_Always_keep_the_tension_...
- Extractions out of the club / bar: o lets get some fresh air - Phone & text & email: o Hey," give me your number.. maybe we will hang out sometime. o Get her to punch her number into your phone. Hand her the phone. You got a number? o Her mindset: “Thank god, he’s finally calling”. Anything else is just plain weird. o My mindset: “Why aren’t we having sex yet? What’s wrong with you?”
♣ She’s not calling back? Something wrong with her. Weird. - On call: o Make the connection, o Fuck around, o Be ambiguous or just plain incomprehensible o Keep the bubble going - Timmy's text message vault of glory: o Your my new text-message gf for the next 5 minutes (one of the bubbles) o Awww. Now we are broken up, its not you its me. was fun though o Awww. Now i kinda miss you. we should hang out - but just as friends, cause now we've broken up
- Last resort txt: “Fuck you or ”your shit" or "what are you wearing": o Elicits emotions, which is good. BR. o Then call – yeah, how else was I supposed to get in touch with you? Anyway, I’m just hanging out… - Email: o Less is more o Disrupt her frame. BR o Re: The coolest you ever met hangs out with rocker/glam/elf/sarcastic chick… o Don’t think logically. They don’t. o Grammar isn’t sexy o Push for meetup asap - Women generating eco-system: o Club (Go to the same club for a month. Get to know the staff. The promoters and DJ’s too. Pump your value!) o Cafes (Go to yelp.com. Find cool places. If you read books, go there to read, NOT starbucks..though that works too) o Become a regular. Pump your value! - Language: o Make things cool. I.e. car=chariot, home=palace, club=the zone, etc. Thereby you can prize things. Pump your value! o Juice maker/blender/musical instrument/cool spots in the city/anything. ♣ Let it be known that you do cool shit, which you prize through abovementioned language. Pump your value! - Myspace, facebook, orkut and ect: o Keep it private
o Add all girls you know o Post good, funny, well-written bulletins that have value, i.e. interesting o Make short comments. “Hilarious”. “Love that pic”. Give a chance to respond, and just plant the seeds. - random things to do and say in random situations from the method: o when for instance there is a cute girl in the plane sitting close by you," you can take a pen," piece of paper write something cute on there and throw it at her and do little 2nd grade notes exchange
