My Notes from RSD's "Blueprint Decoded" Done in short-hand, which gets really pronounced at the end there. I'm posting this here in case my computer wipes or something. BEING, Not Doing Not Something You Do, Something You ARE! Deep, Identity-Level Change You Must Go Out Most People -> Walking Daze Lover/Provider Money Does Not Help! Looks Don't Mean Shit! Looks Do Not Help! 1% Sharper = Success Romance -> Rules Commonalities are Bullshit Friendship First Love -> Tactics (Dn Supp) -> Player -> Natural -> Love Women Want Guys That Stand Out Mass Confusion We Learn FAST! - Socially! - 1st-Hand Experience Jump Out The Window & Eat Your Own Shit Most Social Conditioning = Gu 3 Mechanisms of Social Cond. 1) How Certain They Are 2) How In Alignment They Are 3) Number of Other People "This Must Be True" Ideas, No Matter How Stupid, Can Spread Like Wildfire VALUE!!! - Helps Survive - Helps Make Kids - Helps Kids Survive - Gives Good Emotions Value = Magnet! W Makes Us Feel Gu? - Cultivate More Value! Does u Caveman Kn W He Looks Like? IMPORTANT QUALITIES - Decisive - Resourceful - Dominant - Fearless - Dictates Reality Sub-Communication
Man - Half-Second, Visual Cues Woman - Couple Hours, Behavioral Cues Light-Switch vs. Volume Knob Cues in Behavior Cues in How Others React to Me Eye Contact Vocal Tonality Body Language Sense of Individuality Playfulness Comfort Environment Boundaries Control Over Emotions Confidence to Say on Mind Grasp of Own Standards Sense of Entitlement Types of Things You Say Your Value is NOT Static Attraction is Straight-Forward Attraction Happens Within Seconds Abundance vs. Scarcity! The Way You Feel With a Nice Pair of Shoes is How You Should Feel ALL THE TIME! SHE'S Trying To Live Up To MY Standards Taxes Can Be Interesting! Spectatorism Living In Reaction Self Is Always Coming Through! Value & Rationalization - Survival - Reproduction - Makes Feel Good Backwards Rationalization VALUE COMES FIRST! Social Alliances Time & Energy Longevity of a Relationship - Dictated By The Value of It! RAS - Reticular Activation System Focus on: - Value - Threats Accept The World Owes You Nothing, Expect That In The Long Run, You'll Get Nothing More Than What You Should Value -> Warm/Cold End of Pool Anchor of the Conversation Value & Situation! Situational Confidence
Value Prompts You To Be More Attractive! Outside Your Head vs. Inside! - In The Moment vs. MicroMging Assume & Expect Everyone Is Your Friend! Express Your Personality Freely & Let The Chips Fall STAY OUTSIDE YOUR HEAD! Reactiveness - In Any Social Situation, One Person is Reacting More Than The Other - Heightened Emotional Response Based on Physical Contact - She's Analyzing How She's Taking Up My Space & Time Reacting is: - Handing Your Power Away! Maybe He's Just A Guy! You Can Just Do It! - Core Confidence! - I'll Have a Great Time! Core vs. Situational Value Everyone Enjoys a Good Vibe If You're Having Fun, That's Valuable My Personality Alone Is Enough Forever = Love Trance Word Love Is A Self-Hypnosis Good Feelings Should Be Able To Be Self-Generated Keep Things Healthy Don't Assume Don't Make Judgements You Don't Know Someone Yet Enjoyment Without Attachment Offer Value, Don't Self-Seek ----1-5^ -6 Identity Principles = Signposts Identity Relates You To & Separates You From Your Social Environment We're Always Processing The World Through That Little Seed In Our Mind That Is Our Identity We All Have That Perfect, Cool Guy Concept - We Just Don't Allow Ourselves To Be That Guy From a Social Perspective, Our Potential For Success is Unlimited Identity Can Help You Very Deeply ("I Know Who I Am") - Or It Can Hold You Back Glazed-Over Zombie Look If The Idea Goes Beyond Constraints Of What People Think They're Capable Of, The Idea Is Nixed "That's Not Me" Attitude A LOT of Identity is Arbitrary
Depression, Angst, Victim-Mindset = Luxuries!!! You Can Be Who You Want to Be! Madonna Versatility When You Know You Deserve It, Attraction is SIMPLE! & Auto! Being In Your Head Gives Away Power Looking At How Other People Are Reacting To Your Behavior Life is Too Short to Feel in Shitty States Angst Isn't Cool After 30 GO OUT! Start GOING OUT! GET OUT OF YOUR FUCKING HOUSE! - Clubs -- Shitload of Girls -- They Won't Remember You - Any Social Gathering Build Momentum Get Talkative Will Get SOME Receptivity - Increases Confidence This Effects Build Don't Clown / React To Them Be More Chill, But Draw Attntn Be High Energy, Don't Be Clown Can IMPROVE IN ONE DAY!!! Just go out! Do it tonight! Be PLAYFUL, Not An Asshole Interview Style SUCKS, WEAK 3 Tools - Storytelling (Drunk Bar Guy) - Cold-Reading (Gu Girl Face, Bad Girl Mannerisms, Dom Frd, You're Like Nancy Drew, You're Quiet, etc.) - Misinterpretation (Trust, Comfort, Connection...hitting) - Role-Playing (Straw Ring) Bond / Bozo Trying Being The Funnest Dude Drink By Side Clothing Doesn't Matter "No One Gives A SHIT!" Don't Be Bothered With Impermanece Got in the Game to Have CHOICE Build Tolerance to Social Pressure -> I HAVE THIS!!! - Principal - Police Keep My VOICE
Can You Get a Cop Laughing? When You're Making a Joke, It's About How YOU Feel Unconscious Incompetence Conscious Incompetence Conscious Competence Unconscious Competence Try HARD - The Let It Go Cycle of Internalization Girls Aren't Allowed to Look Slutty No One Has to Know Pick-Up is like Fingering Social Experiment Frame - There IS NO REJECTION! "Hey, What's Up?" SUCKS - AUTO 90/10 Rule - Keep Talking - 10% Her Illusionary Input Illusionary Input - Basic, Yes/No, No-Thinking Don't Ask Her to Think, Before You Convey Personality It is SO EASY to Beat Everyone It is SO EASY TO STAND OUT!!! Spitting Respect the Social Situation Review - GO OUT!!! - Eye Contact - Higher Value - Looks FOR YOU - Internal Attribution - Build State In - Open/90-10/Vibe/Playful - Isolate - Pull Home Dare - Roll Up on a Make-Out! Go Right In 1) Go to Gym 2) Get Cool Clothes 3) Identity-Level Change 4) Teasing/Playful Eye Contact Voice Body Language Cold Reading GO OUT & APPROACH!!! Exercise Social Muscles -Inspiration -Feedback
-Approaches Life-Changing OR WASTE!!! ---- ^ Audio Be CERTAIN! BELIEVES THIS GUY IS A PIMP! Go 20% FARTHER! WTF E C Chode Shit? Let's GO! Imprints Go First Social Feedback Determines Your Situational Identity - How Much Value? Mind Won't Let You State / Nimbus - Give Self Permission to Be Who You Are State = Confidence+ - Completeness - Surge of Steadiness - Everything Clicks - YOU are the Source of Gu Emotions i l Environment - Total Abundance - Nothing Can Go Wrong - Dn Care Out of State - Other People Source of Gu - Worried V Might Bother G - V Q Care State Subcommunicates Value! X N I State, Go Through L Motions Anyway, Q N Resist Resistence E An EMOTION!!! - Wish Reality Were Different Never Resist The Now Take Right Action *Taking Right Action = Muscle Bad Emotions are N Gu Reason N a Act Meditation - Static Happiness Rules Identity/Entitlement Criterion Rules to Allow State - Superficial Standards -- Looks, Money, Job - Alliances (Friend/Relations) - Competencies (Usefulness) - Role-Plays (Professional) ---Body Fat Example (12%/15%) --- 7^ Chode Crystal As you make friends, things get much better. Night Just Builds
Competencies *** - "Hey, I'm Casimir" - If not, there's work to do Women Can Like Me Just For Me ABC -> Always Be Closing! Role-Play - Leaders - Followers - Work/Teaching - Dom/Non-Dom Roles Constantly Exchanging RSDNation.com Jamie Foxx Comedian Link Total Tune-Out of Other Guys Back to Core Confidence CORE VALUE - Rule for Allowing State Most Guys Chase Circumstances - Cause/Effect Gets Skewed I'm Going to MAKE These Clothes Cool Core Confidence BRINGS Relationships to You Authenticity is a Competency Authority Comes From Confidence First Layer = Flipping of Cause & Effect Need Reaction for Confidence, FLIP THIS!!! Core Confidence - Unshakable Conviction of Who You Are & What You're Entitled To - Allows You To Take A Charismatic Attitude That Gets People Reacting To You - Makes You A Person Who Can't Be Categorized, Having a Flexible Identity - Know What You've Been Through & Trust Yourself to Get By No Matter What - Value Own Opinion of Self More Than Value of Others - Acceptance in Any Situation Not a Threat to Well-Being - Know What Your Best Qualities Are, & Even If Others Don't Acknowledge Them, You Know They Exist - Know You Offer Real Value - Believe Life, Perspective, & Energy Have an Inherent Value, Whether Other People See It Or Not Good Enough is Good Enough Conflicting Realities Sense of Reality = Predictions Whoever Has The Strongest Reality Wins Reality Bubble! Stronger Reality, More 1st-Hd --- 8^ Who is Screening? Who is Trying to Impress? Tactics are like Band-Aid Solutions "P V Cook? Because X N, I'm Breaking Up M V"
"Are V Adventurous? Because X N, J Can't Hang Out M V" Who is Emotionally Affected By The Other Person's Acceptance? Who is Losing Their Concept of What's Cool, & Who's Unchanged Who is Changing The Way They Normally Talk in Order to Keep Up, & Who is Setting the Tone of the Conversation? Who Would Feel Like They'd Be Having Just Z Much Fun? Have Fun On Your Own Time!!! Self-Amused Individual Independence Don't TRY to Impress Act Through Own Intentions Negativity = Round Peg, Square Hole Are You Being Yourself? Be Self-Possessed Trust In Your Faculties! Don't Respond to Tests Aspect Vs. How It Affects You *Most Unwavering Certainty & Least Emotional Reaction People's Concepts of Realities are Generally Up For Grabs If You Believe It's a Shortcoming, It Is You Take a Woman Out, You Take HER Into YOUR Reality!!! C/I! - Take Her Shopping For You! -- & Making Chocolate Strawbs! Just Start Talking! Signs of a Weak Reality - Affected by Teasing - Upset by Blowoffs Four Pillars of Strong Reality - Who You Are (Status, Indent) - Values (Tastes, Humor, etc.) - Having Boundaries - How People Should Act Around You (Fun, Value-Offering) --- 9 ^ Boundaries -> Others & Self Living On Your Edge Age => Gloriousness The Older You Are, The More Bullshit You Have Seen --- 10 ^ You Are NOT Your Mind Your Mind Has Your PImPrint - Plane Instruction Manual Your Mind May Try to Block you From the Nimbus JUMP IN THE OCEAN!!!
You WILL Mess Up! It's Okay! - Reminder of Why You Do Things the Way You Do Masculine Polarity Women Simulataneously Have a Strong and Weak Reality Congruence Tests - Strong - At Ease with Everyday Interaction with the World - Can Trust Him if Situation is Hectic - Can Have a Good Time When He's Around Two Things - Feel Strength d Your Reality - See You're Capable of Asserting Yourself Z U Man Prodding V a Justify Viself Saying Obnoxious Things to Make You Jealous or Insecure Being Cranky/Tantrumming Calling Your Worst Features Trying to Get You to Qualify Viself Accusing You of Things Playfully Blow Them Off! Who's Controlling the Rhythm of Conversation? Don't Worry About Mirroring Anyone, Gives Up The Lead!!! Man, Action---Girl, Reaction Stay Positive, Stay Upbeat, and Act Through Your Own Intentions Programming? NO! RSD? NO! Neediness/Lack? NO! Own Everything You Do, If You Don't Own It, It SUCKS!!! Be Authentic Chaos vs. Grounding Being Totally Fulfilled & Enraptured by the Energy of the Environment Dressing & Walking in a Way That Gets Attention Enjoying Whatever She's Doing & Not Scanning the Room Letting the Energy of the Environment Flow Through Her, Dancing for Hours on the Same Spot & Playing Mock-Bisexual With Her Friends Girls Follow Around the Warm End of the Pool Rarely Being the one to Call, Ask Out, or Reinitiate Conversations Unconsciously Learned Behaviors -> Be The Prize Losing Interest In Sex if She Comes out of an Emotionally Happy State Only Being Moved by the Energy She Likes the Most -> Better than What She's Experiencing Rewarding Good Behavior With Little Tastes of Physical Attention Do All Girls Have All These Behaviors? No! It All Makes You REACTIVE! Emotional Investment Makes You MORE Attached to the Outcome!
Makes You Backwards Rationalize, & Then Continues the Cycle! -- 11 ^ Flipping the Script - Not Having Sex - "Take my Phone#, I Won't Call You" Reward Her With Little Physical Attention then Pulling Away Too Much Feminine Polarity? What Masculine Polarity Things Are There? - Being At Home In The Environment!!! ("My House") - Everyone Here is My Friend! (Same Venue Can Effect This) - Carrying Yourself With TOTAL Confidence & Even A Playful Cockiness ("Swagger") - Being The Source of Grounding Energy & Asserting K W V H A Say E Funny, Interesting, & Worth Being Heard - Leading L Conversation I L Fun (Or WHATEVER) Direction V Des T A Go! ("W Are V Talking About C F, C E U Party!?") - Positioning Viself Z Already Chosen By EVERY Girl I L Environment, & YOU! Are Choosing L Girl V Like - "Hey, Who Are V? Now's Vi Chance!" - Be L Lord, It's MY Party! - Prince William / Harry! - Vu W V Des, & Take T! - Dn Give Power Away, Dn NEED! - Warm Blanket, Protected, Having Fun, & Challenged Women Des U RANGE D Emotions! Men H U Sweet Spot - Happy - Chill - Adrenaline - Getting Off We Think Women Crazy, They Think Us Rigid Draw State Fr Within Viself V P Feel Gu About Viself At ANY Point - Focus Vi Awareness Properly Slow Things Down, Breathe, Meditation, Chill, Relax, Slowwwwwww Down "FEEL GU! Be HAPPY!" Be Conscious, N Self-Conscious Fish Things Out, B Be Outside Vi Head V are N L Doer, "C E Happening Through Me" Alter Vi Physiology * V P Choose A Feel Gu At R!!! V Can't Feed Off D Reactions Social Conditioning Disconnects V Fr L Depth D Things - "W Q People Think D Me?" - "How Does C Affect Me?" Coolidge Effect - People Are Known a Get Sick d Having Sex M L Same Girl Over & Over - I L Long Term, V Can't Draw State Fr Her - It's An OUTPOURING D Energy - U Way a Cut Loose & Go Nuts People Are Just People Everyone E An Equal At Some Point She R Withdraw Al d Her IOI's a Pull Everything Out, & Crashes Vi State! A Achieve Polarity, Two Things
- Entertainment - Reality Disruption These CANNOT Be L Basis - "I'm U Hot Girl" - "You're L Next Guy Tonight K Puts Me O U Pedastal" - "V Need My Validation, Sex, & Approval" - "I'm Too Hard a Get, Feel Free a Entertain Me X V Like" * V & J Would N Get Along Push Her Away "How Am J Even Talking a V Right Now?! Go! Go, Get Out D Here! Wait...No...Come Here..." W Did V Q Before V Met Me? Button-Pushing & Pushing Away Can't Last, It Doesn't STICK! Instead d Spiking, T Sits --- 12 ^ Proactive Social Strategy vs. Reactive Social Strategy Proactive = Series d Habits K Handle Vi Problems Automatically Reactive = Short-Term Emotional Response A U Larger Problem People Like Authenticity - Dn Change Who V Are A Accommodate G - Some Small % D L Time, Someone Might Be Pissed Reactive -> Performance Anxiety Approach Anxiety E Performance Anxiety Acting Through Vi Own Intentions E Like U Magnet When Trying a Get U Reaction, She's Moved Away Man = Action Woman = Reaction Most Guys Overestimate How Gu W We H A Say Has A Be TRUST How Q We Get A Where Things Just Work Through V 1) Knowledge - Understand C Works, So V R Try T! 2) Lower Vi Standards F Viself When Approaching, H Nothing I Vi Mind, Just FEEL Gu! Swagger Two Core Principles 1) W J H A Say E Valuable, PURELY Because T Comes Fr Me! 2) W J H A Say E Interesting, Because She E Interested I W J Find Interesting "Let's Vu X She's Cool" "Let's Expand Out L Party" "Let's Ask Her U Question" Man's Greatest Asset is Thinking - EXCEPT I MEETING WOMEN! - It's Vi Greatest HINDRANCE! N Thinking U Step Ahead E Cocky Stay M L Tension, Dn Diffuse T Child-like, J Vu-J Take! Challenge Her
- Let Her Play At Holding Vi Attention & Where Vi Boundaries Are Dn Think D W A Say Next, Just Listen *Dn Judge G *Dn Interpret G *Dn Compare G *Dn Label G --- 13 ^ Faculties Focus Them!!! No Longer U Need A Reference Sense D Self Based O Past Events Forget About Useless Past Evts No Matter W Happens, Vi Mind R Be Presented M L Right Action Exactly When V Need T TRUST!!! Trust Viself! Be L Coolest, Most Badass Kid O L Block V R N Get I Vi Own Way or Block Viself L Flow R Be There TRUST VISELF!!! It's N U Belief, It's An Understanding V Dn Think D L Words, V Allow G A Arise BEING NOT DOING!!! Be L Intermediary Dn Stretch F An Outcome BE HAPPY! Dn Need a Be Nervous Calling, Because You're Reaching F An Outcome Going Out E OFFERING D Value, N U Taking D Value V Are N Vi Life Situation *Ayn Rand - L Fountainhead - Atlas Shrugged V P Merge IA Any Environment There's U Certain Way D Walking Through Life That's More Natural X You're Here A H Fun, & I U F Environment, MERGE IA T! *Walking Through L World M Ease -Core Confidence -Strong Reality -Acting Through Own Intentions -Masculine Polarity -Being Present L World E U Light Place Move M L Current D L World, & N Against T V P H Fun No Matter W Dn Attach My Identity A Anything
L Ground E Stable, L Sky E Above Me, J Am Breathing, J P Navigate L Complexities D L World Z J Would M Just L Basics D Facts J Dn Get Stuck, Whine, Or Anything Like K J Go Forward M L Flow D L World J Dn H A Follow Along J P H Fun When It's Time A H Fun Most People Are N Having L Most Fun I L Club Most People Build Their Foundation O External Factors V Dn H A! V P Just Be U Guy! Being Successful M Women Becomes an AFTERTHOUGHT! J P Become Self-Forgetting = Conscious B N Self-Conscious C Foundation Makes People Look A V Z U Source D Grounding Egy Most Guys Dn Walk Through L World M Ease, Wilted BEING, NOT DOING! Internalization There's U Glass Wall Bearings K Make Vi World Make Sense = Map = Reality View d Who V Are View d W Other People Think View d W's Possible I L World Makes Vi World Make Sense, Gives V U Sense D Bearings Success Barrier Z Long Z Vi Concept D Reality Keeps V Alive, K E Al K Matters! X T Kept Me Alive So Long, T E "Gu Enough" 1) Doubts V Can't Q T 2) L Nauseous Feeling V Are Going Backwards I Vi Understanding D L World 3) Instinct K People Might N Accept L New V Go M W V Kn, Trust Viself --- ^ 14 Strength of Reality: How Firm V Are I Vi Beliefs Delusional Confidence -> Blindspots Allow State to Keep Up, Pull Her Into Reality Response Junky -> Reaction-Seeker is Totally Socially Calibrated, Can Be Shy...OR...Total Branched Scenarios. Blow-Outs Happen Because State Drops The "THIRD" Guy -> Can Vu L Negative Feedback, B T Dn Matter or Affect Vi State: Blend D Both Rigidity Vs. Adaptability "Be Water" Flexible Belief Structure Reorder Perception A Preserve L Map L Map E N L Territory ^ /\ ^/\
/ \/ \ Vi Mind Doesn't Care X V Hate Vi Life! Plant Uprooting Itself X V H U Provider-Male Social Strategy, V R Feel T E U Waste D Vi Time 2 Different Types D Guys K Get Laid U Lot - 1) Leader D Men - 2) Wandering Nomad Leader D Men E Dominant & Has U Harem Australian Girls Like American Accents Different Gene Pool Makes Women Respond W V Think D Other People E U Reflection D Viself X V Think V Are U Chode, K E U Success Barrier 10 Approaches, 9 D G Are Great 10 Approaches, 2 Gu Ones *Focus O L Positives - Positive Feedback Vu L Best I Viself, Cut Viself Slack, Vu L Best I Others! --- ^ 15 Internalization: Having Something Such K V Never H A Think About T Again Anticipated Responses - Assumption Q J Like Myself? Would J Hang Out M Someone Like Myself? X J Saw U Guy Like Me M U Really Attractive Girl, How Would J Feel About K? When V Believe U Girl P Like V Just F V Less-Attractive Girls Think V H An Agenda, Think V Are Toying M G, Etc. Self-Fulfilling Prophecy Dn Be Ethan Hawke! L Gu Ones Should N Be Treated Specially! Girls Put Up Fronts BECAUSe Guys Are Stupidly Judgemental & Full D Double-Standards! Assume Everyone I L World E Vi Friend! People Are Always Trying A Reaffirm Their Reality "Take L Fucking Lenses Off" *"Hey, V Seem Friendly" Compliment Her O Qualities She Hasn't Cultivated Yet! V Dn Come Up M Vi Identity O Vi Own V Are Shaping L Identity K V Des Laugh T Off When People Are Condescending Toward V Stab-Self Motion, "Ouch..." Only Acknowledge L Reality V Des
Jealousy / Insecurity E Giving Vi Power Away - "He Thinks I'm Doing T Anyway..." However, V Q H A Establish Boundaries --- 16 ^ Flinching / Retreating IA Vi Mind Doubting Viself Opposite D Anticipated Responses V CANNOT FLINCH! X V Retreat IA Vi Head, They R N Work! When V Are I L Science Lab, Be U Scientist...When V Are Out, Be U Person! Offering Value Kn K M Every Social Interaction, V H Some Value K V P Offer When V Are Calling K Girl Over, V Are Doing So A Offer Value A Her "Close" Implies Sale, Does N H L Equality Mindset I T Be Pure D Heart T's N Lying, T's Flirting Slow Down, Dn Flinch, Just Fully Believe I Viself Trust I U Foreign Set D Bearings Baby - Mental Crises (Learning A Walk) 1) Learn L I's & Out's 2) Gathering Experience / Evidence 3) Fully Trust I L Bearings 4) Internalization / Assumption V Q T Naturally V Are I L Moment V Never H A Think About T Again T's N U Bomb! Strangers Are Actually Friendly! V Dn Kn K V PN Be U Big Pimp Newbie's Paradox - Contact Lenses, Flinching - Keep Doing T Every Day, T Gets Much, Much Easier He'll Initially Get Negative Feedback: Eye Explodes Like L Death Star *Fully Assume W V Q E Going A Work *Be Indifferent A L Odd Times T Doesn't Dn Make T U Big Deal, No False Sense D Superiority Telling Someone He P Walk Through U Wall: Dipping Toes I L Pond Ego Defense Mechanism Understanding, N U Belief Getting Out D L Newbie's Paradox *L Half-Way Pt. Between Fear & Total Belief E Indifference V P Gather U Lot D Reference Experiences F Indifference - T Doesn't Matter W People Think D V
V Cross L Indifference Threshold: Harmonious Ting D Letting Go D L Outcome, Loss D Neediness Confidence Communicates K V Are Successful M Other Women (Pre-Selected) Pummel Vi Brain M So Many Reference Experiences K T Scrambles & Fries "NO! KEEP GOING!" Stifled A Unstifled L Indifference Threshold P Be Crossed VERY Quickly Stifling - Voice Range, Space Range, Approach Time/Space Limitations Yelling Voice Exercise Unstifles People Z V Change Environments, V Subconsciously Get Stifled Unstifle Viself Once Every 5 Minutes - Start A Sing *"J Need A Cross L Indifference Threshold Z Quickly Z Possible" 1) Get I L Nightclub 2) Cross L Indifference Threshold Nerd:Goth :: Me:Champion! (~12-18 Months...2 Yrs A Fill I L Gaps, Keep Going Out) Microbehaviors Start Coming I Vi Mind Starts RAS'ing L Microbehaviors D Really Cool Guys --- 17 ^ How Q We Cross L Indifference Threshold Quickly? Quickly Shift State IA Desing A Q Something *V Need A Be L Outside Force! Cartoon Retarded Imitation Game: Lion, Crocodile, Toaster, Rooster, Rhinocerous, T-Rex, Tornado, Cow, Hippo, Elephant, YELL MORE! Infringes O People's Airspace Get OUT D CHARACTER Quickly Unstifle Main Goal: Q Something Out D Character & Expand Out L Energy Time & Space V Are Taking Up Be Consistent A W V Perceive E Vi Identity We Are Trying A Be Congruent We're Al Confined By Our Egos When We're Unstifled, We P Lead Others A Be Unstifled I U Nightclub, V R Become Restifled 4 Zoolander Guys, Clapped & Yelled & Took Over L Club Pre-Unstifle Gains Lordship L Club P Get O Top D V, Or V P Get O Top D L Club Unstifling -> Indifference -> Total Belief Reference Experiences Guys Learn About Being Social, Then Get U G/F & STOP! Bad! Logic E Often U Vibe-Breaker Socializing & Vibing E An End I Itself
Emotional States Are Addictive Memory E State-Access-Dependent Cause-Effect Mix-Up When V Are I U Negative State Logical Convo E Linear Vibing E Quick-Wit Association Thoughts Are Just Sort D Floating When V Are Vibing L Thoughts ARISE L Value I U Nightclub E Fun V P Condition Viself Toward Positivity V Dn H A Qualify Viself Two Most Important Bearings 1) Girls P Like V Just F V 2) Sex E U Natural Consequence D Chemistry & An Inevitability Sex Cements U Moment / Blows Off Steam, N U Big Deal T Just Happens When V Are Building Up Anticipated Responses, Most Guys Can't Q K, So Why P J? Addiction A Chasing Reference Experiences E U Gu Thing, B N L End Goal Drop Chode Friends, Gain Pickup Friends, Drop Some Pickup Friends To Regain Depth Can't Completely Stop Or V R Lose L Skills Unhitches Self Fr Vi Old Identity U Path D Excess P Lead A Wisdom False Self Tends A Appear Being U Chode E Easy Some People Get Lost Needing Validating Reference Experiences Dn Strive F Perfection, Some D My "Old Self " P Come Through When V Are Pissed Off & Unhappy, V P Change Vi Conditions Or Change Vi Focus "T Didn't Work" There Are Two Ways A Be Really Pissed Off 1) N Getting W V Des 2) Getting W V Des One D L Things People Q E Create An Identity, & People Like V BECAUSE D K Identity So, Vi Unconscious Mind Says "X J Des A Get Love, J Need A Keep Playing These Power Games & Stuff" When People Admire V F L Quality D Getting Better & Better, T Starves Real Self-Esteem By Feeding L Ego Completely V're N Doing Something Because V're Acting Through Vi Own Intentions, V NEED A Q T - K Gives Vi Power Away Ego Vs. Self-Esteem --- 18 ^ Confidence & Feeling Gu About Viself E U Default State V Are Born M Self-Esteem, H T Z U Child, T E Self-Sustaining Ego E U Rational Construct K We Substitute F Self-Esteem
L Ego P Be Argued Z Being More Real Than Self-Esteem Because T E Rational Happiness E Vi Default State Z U Kid, V H Self-Esteem At Some Point, We Become Wounded & Disconnected Fr L Tribe So Then, Vi Mind Comes Up M Reasons F Why V P Feel Gu About Viself Ego E Based O Separateness & Differences - Looking F Logical Reasons A Feel Confident L Ego E, By Nature, False L Ego E Like U Little Grain D Sand Ego E Made Up D Logical Evidence, People's Opinions, Rationalizations, Comparisons Life E About L Unknown L Ego Tries A Shelter Us Fr L Unknown We P View L World Z An Arena F Heroism We Dn Kn Anything, So Our Mind Makes U Context Instead D "J Des A Meet My Potential," "J Des A Be L Best" L More Personal L Wound, L More Universal L Wound L Ego E U Black Hole, Sucking I Reference Material L Ego E Like Syndrome Fr L Incredibles When V Lose Control & H U Sense D Frustration, "How Am J N Going A Die?!" Are We Doing T Out D Lack, Or Because D Right Action *Happiness E NOW Dn Forget About L Journey L Result E Anti-Climactic! L Result P Never Be Z Gu Z L Doing Offering Value A Others E L Most Glorious Thing V P Ever Q Whenever V Are Operating Through L Ego & Self-Seeking U Reaction, K E Taking Value Vi Only Criteria F Success E K V Go Out There & Be Genuine *When V Are Just Offering Value, K E An Attractant *Taking Value E U Repellant *There E 1 Me Humans H U Socially-Created Reality *Offering Value & Self-Amusemt Walk Up & Try A Self-Amuse Say Things K V Find Funny She Desz A Kn W V Find Interesting & W V Find Funny When V Bring Her IA Vi Party, K Means So Much A Her When V Are Bringing L Party, She's Interested When V Are Trying A Get IA Her Party, She's Repelled
Being Authentic >>> Social Chameleon Approach M U Full Cup Vs. An Empty One Presence E Contagious V P Provide Her Centeredness Brutal Woundings Are NOT! Vi Identity Because We Al H G! *Accept Vi Gu & Vi Bad When V Stop Looking At L Surface Level D People, When V P Look Past K, V Become Comfortable I Vi Own Skin Dn Get I An Ego-Feeding-Frenzy K R Burn Out, Because T E Reaching Z Kids, We Come I Z Social Beings We Grow & Become Better, B Lose Our Ability A Feel Gu Anything V Think E Bad About V, Mout Self-Esteem, E An Embarassment M Self-Esteem, Vi Flaws Are Just Endearing Quirks, They Make V Cool & Awesome L Self E Always Coming Through
