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IS THIS FOR REAL? So you're texting the girl you're dating when suddenly you decide to ask: "So....what are you wearing?" The next thing you know, your woman starts explicitly sexting you and she....er....um...starts touching her thingy. Tee-hee. Unfortunately, not all guys were blessed with a sailor's vocabulary and the sexual confidence to get hot and heavy over text. That's why we diligently explored the phraseology of live phone-sex and cybersex workers to devise the perfect texting script especially designed to push the sexual envelope and give your woman a screaming orgasm via text. I know that might sound a bit unreal, but think about this.... Women are know to get incredibly horny while reading romance novels, right? And a lot of women enjoy reading them in bed or in the bath tub with dim lit candles and sensual music as they masturbate. That's why they call it “Chick Porn”. So, if she can “get off” on words on a page, wouldn’t it be even easier for her to climax from INTERACTIVE words on a phone with a guy she already sexually desires? The answer is YES. If she's a sexual adventurous girl who loves to get a little dirty via text and has no problem playing with herself (this is the vast majority of women) then she will be open and willing to let you wet, or shall we say “drench,” her sexual appetite. And the beauty is, if you are the shy type or are not 100% sexually confident, using this script will drastically increase your text-sex comfort level making you a more sexually self-assured man. .
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STOP Please understand that this is advanced training. So, before you relinquish all the textual ninjutsu that you are about unleash upon your woman, make sure you have already completed the entire Turn Her On Through Text course. If you skipped straight to this guide first, you will be doing yourself a disservice. You must have a clear understanding of how to text women and should already be advanced enough that you've utilized the Mini Orgasm texts learned in the Desire section of the Turn Her On Through Text System. If you don't have a clear understanding of how to trigger her sexual desire through text, then go back to the course and re-read the entire Desire section. You see, this guide builds upon the principles learned in that section and takes it one step further, building up an intense erotic sexual fantasy, peaking her sexual arousal and giving her an orgasm. So if you haven't mastered the Mini-Orgasm yet, make sure you do so before you take on the “real” orgasm.
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WHOM SHOULD YOU GIVE A TEXTGASM? You will be pleasantly surprised how many girls are total ready and willing to get flat out nasty with you over text. Women are highly sexual creatures that are aching to release their wild side with the right man in a safe, controlled context. So, you are welcome to use the techniques and following script in this guide on any woman you are texting. It can be someone you've just met, a girl you are casually dating, or your full-time exclusive girlfriend. However, generally speaking, it is easier and faster to give a girl an orgasm through text if she's already sexually comfortable with you. Meaning, you've already had sex with her. See, she will be much more open and willing to get sexual with you over text if she's already been sexual with you in person. So at first, I highly recommend you experiment with these tools and texts only on women that you are currently sleeping with. That being said, you can have success giving orgasms to women whom you have just met or whom you haven't even met in person yet, provided you offer a fun, safe, judgement free environment for her to explore her sexuality. Just be careful not to move too fast too quickly or it could scare her and make her think that all you want from her is sex.
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WHAT IS SEXTING AND WHY SHOULD YOU DO IT? The word “sexting,” believe it or not, is actually in the Websters Dictionary: “the sending of sexually explicit messages or images by cell phone.” Sending and receiving sexy pictures has already been covered in the Turn Her On Through Text course so there is no need to cover that here. But, why should you sext? Well.... • It is a safe way for a woman to explore her sexuality since she will be in the confines and security of her home, and she knows she can stop the sexting at any moment if need be. • It can be a fun way to explore someone's naughty side without the risk of embarrassment (if you go limp during sexting simply leave that “little” detail out). • If you can raise her arousal to the point of giving her an orgasm through text she will probably pounce on you and satisfy your every sexual desire the next time she see's you. • People are generally more open and take greater social risks when messaging due to the non-confrontational context it provides. People are basically more ballsy when they don't have to see the person face-to-face.
That should be enough reason why you should get your thumbs dirty with some sexting to really turn up the heat in your relationship.
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Before we get into the actual sexting script, there are a few crucial rules you must follow...
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RULE OF SEXTING Before you run off trying to give every girl in your little black book the orgasm of their life, there are a few very important rules to know:
#1: Make Sure SHE Is Comfortable Make sure your girl is in a private, safe, and relaxing environment, which will put her at ease and help her to open up about her fantasies. Make sure she is in a place where she can loosen up, has no distractions, and do “personal” things, wink wink, in privacy. You want her to be lying on her bed with the lights dimmed or maybe in her bathtub with bubbles, whatever makes her feel less vulnerable and more relaxed. If she is watching TV or do anything other than texting you then this will not work.
#2: Make Sure YOU Have No Distractions If you are sending naughty text messages while you are doing your taxes chances are you won't really be all that into it. She will probably be able to tell, and chances are it just won't work. Furthermore, your texts should be sent as quickly as possible. Do not take too much time texting her back. If there is a lull between your texts, you risk lowering her horny meter from 9.5 back down to 0. You must keep the ball rolling very quickly here. So make sure you are somewhere with no distractions so you can focus on using your phone to give her the utmost sexual pleasure. 7
#3: Always Embellish So you're lounging around in sweats and a stained T-shirt and haven't taken a shower in three days. But, as far as she's concerned, you're wearing a lumberjack outfit with an axe thrusted over your shoulder. Offer detailed descriptions, whether it's her patent leather boots or your white sweaty tank top that you just ripped off with your bare hands. Dramatization works wonders.
#4: Be Enthusiastic Enthusiasm goes a long way. Women want to feel like you're enjoying the sexy texting just as much as they are and that you're really into the fantasy. Tell her how much you are enjoying whatever it is you’re telling her that you are doing to her. She wants to know that you are satisfied in the fantasy as well.
#5: Do Not Joke Around If you are a naturally funny guy who loves to joke around, you may be tempted to break the sexual tension with a joke. I know how tempting it can be to make a joke, but at all cost stick to the fantasy. This means, no jokes about how big your johnson is. No calling her private parts by any immature names. Humor will just ruin the fantasy and cause you to appear childish. Keep it sexual and save the humor for another time.
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#6: Do Not Freak Out She wants to do what?!? There is the possibility that not everything she texts will be something you're totally up for. But, even if she texts you something bizarre, be careful to not sound shocked or mock her. Just go with the flow so she won't feel judged. For example, if she says she wants you to stick it in her butt and typically that's not something you are super fond of, well, just go with it anyways. Remember, this is a fantasy, not real life. However, if you are really uncomfortable with what she's texting (most women have wildly dirty imaginations), it's more than fine to steer the fantasy towards something you enjoy.
#7: Get Graphic The descriptive language that you use should be no-holds-barred. There's no room for coyness here. Using colorful euphemisms can really heighten the down-and-dirty factor of your conversation. If you're not the potty-mouth type, do try to find "grown-up" words that you're comfortable with. “Pussy” is much better than the straight-laced “vagina” or the degrading “dick-hole” or “cunt”. And, “cock” is much sexier than the anatomically correct “penis” or the childish term, “one-eyed-monster”.
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#8: Take The Lead Women are incredibly turned on by a man who knows how to take the lead and tell her what to do, how she's feeling, and what happens next. And, women want to also know what you like, because they get turned on even more when you're turned on. Feel free to tell her what you're imagining her doing to you; it's about your fantasies too.
#9: Get Her To Touch Herself When things start to heat up, it is your job to tell her to start touching herself. Believe it or not, she will not know to do this unless you instruct her to do so. Text her something as simple as, “Do me a favor I want you to start rubbing your pussy. Will you do that for me?”
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INITIATING SEXTING Initiating sexting should be fairly easy and straight forward for you since you are already accustomed to sending fun, playful and semi-erotic texts. After all, you've been applying all you've learned from Turn Her On Through Text right? The idea here is to use the Mini-Orgasm text that you learned in the chapter on Desire in T.H.O.T.T., and simply build upon it. Keep escalating the fantasy to the point of graphic textual intercourse, in which you describe everything you are doing to her (sex, oral sex, anal, etc.) and everything she is doing to you. Here are a few other texts you can use to get the ball rolling:
Matt: “I can't stop thinking about.....:)” Ashley: “what hun?” Matt: “All of the things I am going to do to you tonight” Ashley: “I like the sound of that....what did you have in mind? ;)”
Matt: “Stop....:)” Gail: “???” Matt: “...distracting me with that gorgeous body of yours. If you were here right now I would....:)” Gail: “mmmm go on ;)”
“What are you wearing right now?”
“If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?”
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“I’m imagining I'm with you right now…:)”
“I’m trying to sleep, but I can’t stop thinking about all the things I would do to you if I were with you right right now.”
“Do you believe in kiss and tell? Cause I want to kiss you and do things to you and tell you all about it.”
“I’m lying in bed and bored. Do you want to play Simon Says?”
“What do you want me to do to you after our date tomorrow?”
“Wanna play a game with me?”
“Do you want to come over and watch porn on my 60 inch flat screen mirror?”
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THE SCRIPT Finally, here it is, the text by text script to get her aroused and horny. I encourage you to use this as a guideline to help foster your own creative juices. Without further ado....
Matt: “What are you doing right now and how can we make that more sexy? :)” Karen: “Just lying in bed ;)” Matt: “I’m in my bed too, but I can’t stop thinking about all the things I would do to you if I were there with you right right now.” Karen: “What would you do to me?” Matt: “Imagine I'm right there with you in your bedroom. There's soft music playing on the stereo and candles on your dresser and night table. I'm looking up into your eyes, smiling.” Karen: “Mmmm I wish you were here” Matt: “Picture this: Me, taking my clothes off, piece by piece. Do you you want me to strip you and kiss your body, or rub your body with scented oils?” Karen: “I want you to strip me and kiss my body!” Matt: “Imagine how it would feel if I take your neck and began kissing it softly. I reach back undoing the clasp of your bra and slowly slide it off your body. The air caresses your breasts. Your soft breasts are rising and falling, as you breath harder and harder. Your nipples are erect for me as you arch your back.” Matt: “Oh baby. You just want to feel my tongue all over you isn't that right.
I'm running my fingers through your hair. Now I'm nibbling your ear.”
Karen: “You are getting me so fucking turned on Matt! I want you so bad!” Matt: “I love the feel of your smooth skin under my lips. Your scent is intoxicating. Just thinking about you is making me so hard.” Matt: “Now, I want you to do something for me right now. I want you to slide your hand down your panties and start rubbing your clit. Do that for me right now and then picture what I am about to do next....” Karen: “You are so bad! Ok I will...” 13
Matt: “Do you want me to suck on your erect nipples or rub my hard cock against your body?” Karen: “I want to feel your hard cock! My hand works its way down to your crotch a n d b e g i n s t o f o n d l e y o u r h u g e , s w e l l i n g b u l g e . ”
Matt: “Oh yeah I'm so hard for you. And you are so wet for me. Rubbing your sexy body makes me so horny. You know you do that to me, don’t you?” Karen: “I'm pulling up your shirt and kissing your chest. I'm moaning softly.”
Matt: “That feels so good. Right now I want to taste you and feel you even more. Do you want me to lick your wetness or tease you with my my stiff hard cock?” Karen: “I want to feel your huge cock. I'm pulling your pants down and rubbing your hard tool.” Matt: “You know exactly how I like it. I’m rubbing my big hard cock over your body. OMG! I’m oozing all over you.” Matt: “You like that, don’t you. Do you want me to eat your delicious pussy or ease into your wet crevice?” Karen: “I want you to lick my naughty little pussy” Matt: “Oh baby, you taste so fucking good. I could lie with you all day and eat you up. Your pussy tastes so delicious it drives me crazy. I’m so ready to come, but I’ll wait for you, my sweetness.” Karen: “That feels so good I'm throwing my head back in pleasure.” Matt: “I'm so turned on for you right now. I’m circling kisses around your deliciously wet pussy. I can feel the beginning of your orgasm clench against my tongue. Mmm, you are so tasty, baby. You are so gooooood.” Matt: “I’m taking your mound in my mouth and swirling my tongue around your clit... Oh, honey, I want to taste a mouthful of your gooey sweetness, and you are heating me up. I love the way you gyrate your hips against my tongue.” Matt: “I can feel your body quivering, begging me for more. Each flick of my tongue brings you closer and closer to your orgasmic explosion. Cum for me, baby...” Karen: “OMG I'm so close” Matt: “Do you want my hard cock into your sweet little pussy?” Karen: “Yes!” Matt: “Oh baby, I love rubbing my hard cock against your body. I rub the tip of my erection around your wetness. Your horniness takes over as you grab my hard dick and pull it inside of you, rubbing my erection against your lips, mixing your juices with my precum into a miraculous lubricant. I push my hard cock inside of you, and you gasp in delight.” 14
Karen: “Give it to me!!!!” Matt: “Pumping hard, I can feel your body thumping against mine. You love taking my length and we’re both about to go over the edge! Ohhh baby, you’re making me cum!” Karen: “Oh my god Matt you seriously just made me cum. I'm shaking right now!” Matt: “Good girl :)” Matt: “But I think you want more in person. Meet me at ______ at ____ pm to take this live. I can hardly wait. See you soon, lover.” Karen: “I will be there....and I won't be wearing any panties ;)”
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CONCLUSION So now, with a little practice, you will be able to give a woman an orgasm, or at least get her incredibly turned on, through text. This is a great power to possess. Uncle Ben once said, “With great power comes great responsibility.” So I want you to only use this new power for good, not evil. Make it a rule that you always leave every woman you encounter better off than you found her. If you live by this rule life will always bring you amazing relationships that allow you to further grow and better yourself as a truly attractive man. My intention with this guide is to turn you into a better lover so that you can give women the sexual adventure they so desperately crave. Remember, women are just as sexual as men (I actually believe they are more sexual than men). So do not judge a woman for wanting sex, even with a guy she just met. Do no judge a woman for the number of men she has slept with, even if it is number is higher than yours. And, do not judge a woman for her sexual experiences, even if she’s done things or wants to do things that are beyond what you are willing to do. Create a safe and loving context for a woman to express her sexuality and you, my friend, will reap the rewards. Trust me. I hope you enjoyed this guide. I wish you an amazing sex life full of beautiful fantastic women whom you can fulfill their deepest, darkest, dirtiest fantasies via text AND in the bedroom. Live With Courage And Be The Attractive Man
Matt Artisan, Your Personal Dating Coach www.TheAttractiveMan.com 16
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