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^fe ihterkhg, lbmlepts hmn kmteggeltuhg prbperty presemten km tfks fhmnobbd hre prbtelten hmn ihy mbt oe reprbnulen wktfbut periksskbm. © ?::1, ?::3, ?::6, ?::;, ?:8:, ?:88, ?:8?, ?:8<, ?:8>, ?:85, ?:81, ?:83 oy @hies ^fbihs Ohkgey/ Lbieny\pbrtz Gbs Hmceges.
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AB_ESB_N Lbmcrhtughtkbms bm oekmc segelten hs ybur tehi's ihmhcer! [bu fhve h very kipbrthmt rbge km tfe Lbieny\pbrtz Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue. [bur thgemts, emercy hmn emtfuskhsi hre essemtkhg abr essemtkhg abr ybur tehi hmn tfe Gehcue tb Gehcue tb sulleen. ^fe lbmtemts ba tfks ihmuhg wkgg prbvkne ybu wktf kmabrihtkbm, tbbgs, hmn knehs, out bmgy ybu lhm put tfei tb wbrd. ^fks yehr, ybu wkgg ieet ihmy pebpge wfb whmt tb fehr ybur knehs knehs hmn sfhre tfekr knehs wktf ybu. ^hde h aew ikmutes ikmutes tb rehggy shy rehggy shy feggb hmn cet cet tb dmbw tfese pebpge. ^bcetfer ybu hre h mew tehi, h tehi, h tehi ba gehners wfb wkgg thde fumnrens ba fumnrens ba pghyers hmn tfbushmns ba tfbushmns ba hunkemle ieioers tfrbucf h wbmneraug experkemle. Gkstem. ^hde lfhmles. Ghucf wfemever ybu lhm.
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Lbieny\pbrtz Gbs Hmceges whs abumnen km 8;66 oy Hrtkstkl Nkreltbr @hies ^fbihs Ohkgey ohsen bm tfe lbmlept lrehten oy Nkld Lfunmbw. Lfunmbw. Kt fhs skmle oelbie G.H.'s gbmcest-rummkmc gbmcest-rummkmc sfbw, pghykmc every weed ht Eg Zbrthg ^fehtre km Mbrtf Fbggywbbn.
^fe Lbieny\pbrtz Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue® whs abumnen km 8;6; wktf twegve tehis hmn bme lbhlf. Kt fhs crbwm tb oe tfe ghrcest teem kiprbv prbcrhi prbcrh i km tfe Umkten \thtes wktf ibre tfhm 3: slfbbgs phrtklkphtkmc. Kts purpbse ks tb suppbrt tfe wbrd ba tfe tfehtre enulhtbr wfkge ckvkmc vbkle tb tfe stunemt hrtkst. ^fe Gehcue ks hgsb h iehms ba aumnrhkskmc hmn lbipgeiemtkmc hm exkstkmc hrts prbcrhi. ^fe Gehcue fhs oeem aehturen km tfe Gbs Hmceges ^kies , tfe Brhmce Lbumty _eckster , tfe Gbs Hmceges Nhkgy Mews , tfe \hm Nkecb Umkbm ^rkoume , Nrhihtkls ihchzkme, Nrhihtkls ihchzkme, Fhrper's ihchzkme, Fhrper's ihchzkme, ^ehlfkmc ^fehtre hmn ^fehtre hmn ibre. L\z Gbs Hmceges (tfe prbnuler ba Lbieny\pbrtz) hmn Hrtkstkl Nkreltbr @hies ^fbihs Ohkgey fhve oeem fbmbren oy tfe Lhgkabrmkh Enulhtkbmhg ^fehtre Hssblkhtkbm wktf tfe Zrbaesskbmhg Hrtkst Hwhrn hmn egelten tb tfe Lhgkabrmkh ^fespkhms Fhgg ba Ahie. SFH^ [BU'_E ZH_^ BA
[bu're hobut tb `bkm tfbushmns ba pebpge wfb hre phrt ba bur b ur lugt. Se're `ust dknnkmc hobut tfe lugt, out ybu nb sfhre tfe shie phsskbm wktf qukte h aew pebpge. ^fere hre bver twb nbzem prbaesskbmhg tehis hrbumn tfe Umkten \thtes, pgus bme km Emcghmn. ^fere hre ibre tfhm 3: Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue® tehis hrbumn \butferm Lhgkabrmkh, hmn tfere hre btfer fkcf slfbbg tehis km btfer sthtes. Se've oeem hrbumn abr bver ?5 yehrs, ihdkmc tfbushmns ba pebpge ghucf, hmn ybu're hobut tb oe h phrt ba kt hgg. Se weglbie ybu kmtb tfe ahikgy hmn fbpe ybu yb u dmbw fbw guldy ybu rehggy hre. Sfem ybu wehr ybur sfkrt hmn thde tfe akegn, ybu represemt hgg ba us... km tfe lugt.
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Sfy nb we nb tfks tfkmc lhggen Lbieny\pbrtz2
Se put bursegves bm nkspghy km arbmt ba h oumlf ba pebpge we nbm't dmbw hmn rksd ahggkmc bm bur ahles. Sfy nb we nb tfks tb bursegves2 Oelhuse kt's aum, kt's aum, tfht's tfht's wfy. ^fere ks mbtfkmc ibre exlktkmc exlktkmc hmn persbmhggy augakggkmc tfhm tfhm pusfkmc ybursega tb tfe gkikt gkikt hmn sulleenkmc. ^fere ks mbtfkmc ibre rewhrnkmc tfhm tfhm tfe sbumn ba fhmns hppghunkmc. ^fere ks mbtfkmc mbtfkmc hs `bybus hs tfe tfe sbumn ba ghucfter. Se nb kt tb ihde pebpge aeeg cbbn. Lbieny\pbrtz ks hobut hobut rksd. Kt lhm hgsb iehm ahkgure. Out ibre kipbrthmt, kipbrthmt, kt's hobut nustkmc ybursega baa, pkldkmc ybursega up up hmn pusfkmc abrwhrn. Hgg wktf hm ehr-tb-ehr sikge bm ybur ahle. Se nbm't lhre ka hmy ba ybu oelbie hltbrs. Ka ybu nb, tfht's creht. Fbpeauggy tfe tfe tfkmcs ybu gehrm km L\z wkgg fegp ybu wktf ybur btfer nrhih hltkvktkes. Ka ybu nbm't oelbie hm hltbr, tfht's akme tbb. Mb ihtter wfht ybu nb hater ybu gehve tfe Lbieny\pbrtz Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue®, we fbpe ybu thde h aew tfkmcs wktf ybu0 umnerestkihte kts pbwer. ^fe hokgkty tb see tfe fuibr km every sktuhtkbm. Mever umnerestkihte
^fe lburhce tb rksd ahkgure. ^fe neskre tb try mew tfkmcs wktf hm bpem ikmn. ^fe wksnbi tb relbcmkze tfht nkverskty ks stremctf. ^fe wkggkmcmess tb shlrkakle abr tfe cbbn ba btfers. ^fe umnersthmnkmc ba tfe pbwer ba tehiwbrd. ^fe vkskbm tb set cbhgs hmn see tfei tfrbucf.
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^fe Lbieny\pbrtz pghyer ks hm hltbr hmn hm htfgete. Femle, tfe umkquegy umkquegy lgever, hmn nkaaklugt tb shy, "hltgete." ^fe Lbieny\pbrtz pghyer ks mbt h lbienkhm. Fe br sfe* sfe* meen mbt wbrry hobut oekmc aummy. ^fe pghyer meen bmgy pghy tfe chie. ^fe Lbieny\pbrtz pghyer ks mbt h sthmn-up lbikl. Fe nbes mbt wbrd hgbme. Fe nbes mbt stehg ablus. Fe pghys wktf h tehi, hmn hgg tfekr wbrd ks tehiwbrd. Sfem tfe pghyer tfkmds ba h ihtlf hs "cbbn" br "ohn" km teris ba fbw wegg fe pghyen, tfe pghyer fhs h prbogei. Sfem evhguhtkmc fks perabrihmle hater tfe ihtlf, tfe pghyer pghyer iust hsd fkisega ka fe lbmtrkouten tb ihdkmc kt hgg wbrd. ^fere hre ihmy whys h pghyer lhm nb tfks0 ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN deep h "yes" httktune tfe emtkre ihtlf. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN emlburhce fks tehiihtes. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN lbmlemtrhte bm tfe chie oekmc pghyen. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN oe kmvbgven km tfe ihtlf, evem wfem mbt pghykmc. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN shlrkakle abr tfe cbbn ba tfe tehi. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN shlrkakle abr tfe cbbn ba tfe ihtlf. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN shlrkakle abr tfe cbbn ba tfe sfbw. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN pghy tfe strulture ba tfe ihtlf oegkevhogy. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN lrehte tfe kgguskbm ba arkemngy lbipetktkbm. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN whmt tb wkm, out mbt lhre ht hgg h gg ka fks tehi gbses. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN mever thde fkisega tbb serkbusgy. ^FE HL^GE^E \FBUGN reieioer tfht Lbieny\pbrtz ks h ahikgy sfbw. Lbieny\pbrtz iust hgwhys oe nkrelten tbwhrn tfe gkcft hmn hwhy arbi tfe lymklhg, shrlhstkl br oktter. Se whmt tfe ahms ahms tb ghucf, out MB^, ka we lhm fegp fegp kt (hmn we lhm), lhm), ht hmybme's expemse. Se sfbugn aeeg aeeg cbbn hobut wfht we nb. Se sfbugn fhve aum aum bm tfe pghykmc akegn, akegn, pghykmc tfe chies hmn wbrdkmc tbcetfer tb lrehte h wfbge. OU^... Se nbm't fhve ibre aum tfhm tfe hunkemle. Se nbm't nb kmskne `bdes nurkmc tfe ihtlf. Se nbm't ghucf ht bur bwm `bdes wfkge bm tfe pghykmc akegn. ^hde wfht we nb serkbusgy, out mbt bursegves.
* ^b use "fe br sfe" bver hmn bver wbugn ihde abr very very lguisy styge. Sferever ybu see see wbrns gkde "fe" hmn "sfe," pgehse dmbw tfht we iehm abr kt tb reaer tb hgg pghyers km tfe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue®**, ihge hmn aeihge. ** Kt's hgsb cbkmc tb cet very tenkbus ka we fhve tb put tfe ® ihrd hater ehlf use ba tfe pfrhse "Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue." @ust hssuie tfht tfht tfe ihrd ks tfere.
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ZGH[E_ _EXUK_EIEM^\
[bu iust oe orehtfkmc. Kt nbesm‛t ihtter fbw thgg ybu hre, fbw oehutkaug ybu hre, wfht lbgbr ybu yb u hre, fbw iulf ibmey ybu fhve, fbw iulf ybu wekcf, wfetfer ybu‛re chy br strhkcft, br hmytfkmc egse ybu lhm tfkmd ba. Bmgy tfree tfkmcs ihtter0 C_HNE ZBKM^
Se hsd tfht hgg pghyers ihkmthkm h L hverhce. Sfy2 Oelhuse ybu neserve tb sulleen. ^fe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue ks aum, out kt sfbugnm‛t thde tfe pghle ba wfy ybu‛re ht slfbbg. Cet ybur hverhce sbgkn hmn tfem lbie but hmn pghy. [bu‛gg oe cghn ybu nkn hmn sb wkgg we. \^H[ LGEHM
[bu hre phrt ba h tehi. ^ehiihtes fhve tb regy bm hmn trust ehlf btfer. Fhve ybu ever oeem bmsthce wktf hmybme wfb whs nrumd2 Se fhve. Kt‛s mbt h okt aum br emterthkmkmc, hmn km kiprbv kt‛s nhmcerbus. \thy lgehm, mb nrucs, mb hglbfbg, br nbm‛t pghy. Se hre very serkbus hobut tfks. NENKLH^KBM
Zghyers hmn tehis meen tb oe nenklhten. [bu hre skcmkmc bm abr h yehr-gbmc lbiiktiemt. ^fks ks
mbt tfe pghle abr umnkslkpgkmen lghss lgbwms. Zghyers iust oe wkggkmc tb shlrkakle tfe tkie tb refehrse hmn httemn wbrdsfbps. Nbm‛t akgg ybur tehi wktf abgds wfb nbm‛t rehggy lhre. Sbrdsfbps wktf ybur lbhlf hre ihmnhtbry. Ka ybu ikss twb, ybu lhmmbt pghy km ihtlfes. [bur
lbhlf fhs tfe akmhg shy. [bu hre requkren tb httemn tfe chie lbmvemtkbms (Chielbm K hmn KK) hmn ybur weedgy refehrshgs, espelkhggy tfe bmes wktf ybur lbhlf. [bu wkgg mbt oe hpprbven hp prbven tb pghy hs h tehi hmn pghyer ka ybu fhve mbt httemnen wbrdsfbps hmn refehrshgs. [bu‛gg oe cghn ybu nkn!
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Nkaaeremt slfbbgs fhve nkaaeremt pbgklkes abr hunktkbms0 bmgy ^fespkhms, bmgy upperlghssiem, etl. Sfhtever ybur pbgkly, deep tfese tfkmcs km ikmn0 Oekmc nkaaeremt nkaaeremt ks cbbn. Gbbd ht kt hs h stremctf, mbt h wehdmess. \bie ba tfe oest tehis fhve oeem lrehten wktf bnn ihtlfkmcs. Aresfiem hre pebpge tbb. Kt's fhrn tb oe h Arbsf br h mew dkn. Evem fhrner tb nb kiprbv kiprbv wfem ybu nbm't dmbw hmyobny. Ihde everybme aeeg weglbie. weglbie. Kt's ybur `bo tb get pebpge dmbw kt's bdhy tb oe slhren hmn kt's bdhy bd hy tb ihde iksthdes. ^fe dkns wfb hrem't hgrehny tfe sthr ba tfe pghy br tfe quhrterohld br tfe "ibst kmvbgven" hwhrn wkmmer hre batem tfe oest tehi pghyers oelhuse tfey fhve ibre tkie tb ckve. Gbyhgty hmn ablus lhm oe very useaug. \bietkies kt's cbbn tb lhst pebpge `ust oelhuse tfey meen tfey meen kt. Kt's bmgy h sfbw. \tunemt ihmhcers sfbugn mbt oe tfe sbge nelkskbm ihders hs tb wfb cets bm tfe tehi. Kt ks fhrn tb `unce bme's peers, hmn stunemts wfb hre hunktkbmkmc ihy mbt oegkeve ybu lhm oe bo`eltkve. [bur hnvkser hmn/br lbhlf sfbugn phrtklkphte. ^fe tehi sfbugn oe kmlguskve, mbt h lguo abr tfe ihmhcers' arkemns.
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HOBU^ [BU_ LBHLF
[bu ihy mbt dmbw kt, out ybur lbhlf ks very cbbn ht wfht sfe nbes br sfe wbugnm't oe tfere. Nkn ybu dmbw tfht bur kiprbvksers fhve ibre tfhm 1:: yehrs ba lbiokmen kiprbv experkemle2 ^fht iehms ka tfey fhn oeem kiprbvkskmc "ohld tb ohld" tfey wbugn fhve sthrten oeabre tfe kmvemtkbm ba tfe slrewnrkver br tfe prkmtkmc press. press. ^fht's h gbt h gbt ba ba experkemle. ^fey dmbw wfht tfey're nbkmc. [bur lbhlf fhs prbohogy oeem km akgis br wbrden km tfe tfehtre br lbiierlkhgs. Bur lbhlfes fhve oeem bm Orbhnwhy hmn bm tfe rhnkb hmn km tegevkskbm serkes. ^fey hre prbaesskbmhg tehlfers hmn perabriers. \bie ba bur lbhlfes sthrten km tfe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue hmn fhve cbme bm tb pghy bm tfe Lbggece ^ehi, \umnhy ^ehi hmn Zrb ^ehi. ^fey dmbw wfht tfey're nbkmc. Sfem h lbhlf br h rea teggs ybu wfht chie lfbkle ks oest abr tfe sfbw, gkstem. Sfem h lbhlf br rea ckves ybu h perabrihmle br refehrshg mbte, gkstem. Sfem h lbhlf br rea wbm't get ybu perabri, gkstem. ^fey dmbw wfht tfey're nbkmc. nbkmc. ^fey're tfere tb ihde ybu gbbd cbbn. [bur lbhlf ks prbohogy hgsb bme ba tfe ibst lhrkmc pebpge ybu dmbw, sb nbm't oe harhkn tb thgd tb ybur lbhlf. ^fey're hgsb pretty aummy. HZZ_BQHG AB_ ZGH[
[bu ihy pghy km tfe akrst seiester ka ybu pghyen ghst yehr. Ka ybu hre h mew pghyer, evem ka ybu're bm h returmkmc tehi, ybu ihy mbt pghy umtkg selbmn seiester, hater ybu've lbipgeten abur wbrdsfbps wktf ybur lbhlf hmn fhve oeem hpprbven oy ybur lbhlf. lbhlf. ^fks wkgg ckve ybu embucf tkie tb gehrm wfht ybu're nbkmc sb ybu nbm't eiohrrhss ybursega. ^rust us bm tfks. Mb bme ihy pghy, evem returmkmc pghyers, umtkg ybur lbhlf hpprbves ybur tehi. ^fere ihy mbt oe embucf strbmc pghyers wfb hre returmkmc tb nb h sfbw km Bltboer. Br ihyoe ybu fhvem't fhn embucf prhltkles skmle returmkmc tb slfbbg. Br ihyoe ybu fhve mb tura br oemlfes br aghc. [bur lbhlf nelknes wfem ybu're rehny, hmn oegkeve us wfem we shy we bmgy whmt tb ihde yb u gbbd cbbn. [bu iust oe hpprbven oy ybur lbhlf . ^fere ks mb agexkokgkty km tfks. [bu fhve bur mhie bm ybur lfest, hmn we whmt ybu tb sulleen.
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Z_HL^KLE HMN [BU_ LBHLF
\et up h prhltkle tkie every weed. weed. Ka ybu nbm't prhltkle oetweem lbhlfkmc sesskbms, kt wkgg sfbw. ChieLbms hmn tfe prkvhte wbrdsfbps wktf ybur lbhlf rekmabrle rekmabrle hmn stremctfem stremctfem ybur sleme sdkggs. ^fese wbrdsfbps hre tb oe lbipgeten oy tfe emn ba Aeoruhry. Sbrdsfbps hmn Chielbms hre slfenugen km h lerthkm why abr h rehsbm „ tb lghrkay, rekterhte, prhltkle, etl. Httemnhmle ks ihmnhtbry. ^fht iehms every tehi ieioer iust lbie tb every tehi prhltkle ! ^fks ks mbt tfe tkie tb orkmc km mew stunemts. stunemts. ^ehlfers sfbugn dmbw tfks. Ka tfey nb mbt, pgehse tegg tfei. ^ehlfers sfbugn mbt oe ckvkmc ckvkmc extrh lrenkt tb hmy stunemt wfb wfb httemns. ^fks ks ybur tehi prhltkle, prhltkle, mbt hm bpem wbrdsfbp. _eieioer0 [bu're wbrdkmc tbwhrn h prbnultkbm. Ka tfe lbhlf fhs tb sthrt bver ht every prhltkle, prhl tkle, ybu're whstkmc fer tkie. [bur tehi aee prbvknes ybu wktf abur prkvhte sesskbms wktf h lbhlf. (Mew slfbbgs relekve h akatf wbrdsfbp tb sfbw ybu fbw tfe "sfbw" rums.) Ka ybu hre butskne tfe G.H. hreh, ybu wkgg oe hsden tb ounny up wktf bme br twb slfbbgs abr ybur lbhlfkmc sesskbms. ^fht ks, slfenuge ybur lbhlfkmc sesskbms bm tfe shie nhys hs ybur ounny slfbbgs. (Abr sbie slfbbgs, tfks ks hosbgutegy ihmnhtbry oelhuse ba ybur gblhtkbm.) [bu ihy slfenuge hnnktkbmhg sesskbms abr hm hnnktkbmhg aee. Lhgg bur baakle baakle abr prkles (see phce 11). [bu lhm ehrm hmn phy abr tfese tfese extrh wbrdsfbps hs ybu cb wktf tfe ibmey ybu ihde arbi ihtlfes, br ybu lhm pre-phy ka ybu wbugn gkde. Lbmskner akmnkmc h spbmsbr (phremt obbster crbup, gblhg ouskmess, ybur H\O) tb phy abr lbhlfkmc br ybur tehi aee. aee. [bu lhm put tfekr tfekr gbcb bm tfe ohld ba ybur sfkrt hs hm hnnen kmlemtkve! [bu lhm slfenuge hs ihmy sesskbms sesskbms wktf h lbhlf hs ybu whmt. \et up ybur prhltkle slfenuge slfenuge wktf ybur lbhlf ehrgy. Ka ybu fhve tb ihde h lfhmce, ckve ybur lbhlf ht gehst >6 fburs mbtkle. Ka kt's gess tfhm >6 fburs, ybur lbhlf fhs tfe rkcft tb mbt ihde up tfht wbrdsfbp. [bur lbhlf wkgg nb everytfkmc sfe lhm tb fegp ybu hmn tb oe hllbiibnhtkmc, out reieioer tfht kt thdes h gbt ba tkie hmn pghmmkmc pghmmkmc abr ybur lbhlf tb ihde kt hgg wbrd. Kt ks kipbrthmt tb fhve brchmkzen prhltkles. [bur lbhlf wkgg ckve ybu tfkmcs tb wbrd bm (h "prhltkle preslrkptkbm") oeabre ybur mext lbhlfkmc sesskbm (see (see Hppemnkx A). ^fe ihmhcer ihmhcer sfbugn brchmkze tfe prhltkles hmn ibst gkdegy kmlgune0 • hm emerckzkmc whri-up chie • h ablus exerlkse • h lfhmle abr pghyers tb nksluss lfhggemces hmn ckve ehlf btfer prhkse • sdkgg oukgners (exerlkses abr slemewbrd, sphle wbrd, gkstemkmc, etl.) • chies ybu meen tb wbrd bm • lgbskmc chie tb orkmc tfe crbup tbcetfer Exhipge0 8. Hibeoh ^hc ?. Oeep <. \fbrt nkslusskbm ba tehi cbhgs >. _evkew "HOH" 5. Sbrd bm Abrwhrn _everse, Lfhmckmc Eibtkbms, \lhmtrbm 1. Oummy Kt's oest tb prhltkle hs batem hs ybu lhm ehrgy km tfe yehr. Ihyoe twkle h weed. Br bmle hater slfbbg hmn bmle ht gumlf. \trkde wfkge tfe emercy hmn emtfuskhsi hre fbt!
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IHDE EHLF B^FE_ GBBD CBBN
^fere's h gbt cbkmc bm wfem we kiprbvkse bm sthce. Se try tb tegg stbrkes. Se Se try tb emterthkm. Se try tb thde lhre ba tfe hunkemle. Out ibst kipbrthmtgy, we try tb thde lhre ba ehlf btfer. Kt's lfhggemckmc (hmn nbwmrkcft slhry sbietkies!) tb nb wfht we nb. \b fbw nb we ihmhce2 Oy thdkmc lhre ba ehlf btfer. Se ihde ehlf btfer gbbd cbbn. H sthmn-up lbikl ks ablusen bm fer bwm perabrihmle. \thmnkmc sbgb km tfe spbtgkcft, kt's fhrn tb tfkmd ba hmybme egse. Out kiprbv ks nkaaeremt. Se're mbt up tfere hgbme--we're wbrdkmc tbcetfer tb kmvemt stbrkes stbrkes tb trhmspbrt tfe hunkemle hunkemle hwhy arbi tfekr nkaaklugt nhy. \bietkies ybu're tfe ablus ba tfe stbry, out ibst batem, ybu're mbt. \bietkies ybu're h whkter br h nbc br evem h tree! ^frbw ybur ecb but tfe nbbr, oelhuse tfht's fbw ybur tehi tehi wkgg sulleen. Ihde ybur phrtmers gbbd gkde rbld sthrs. Ckve tfei wfht tfey meen. \et tfei up tb sulleen. Oe tfere abr tfei wfem tfey nbm't dmbw wfht tb nb. Gkstem hmn whtlf wktf rhzbr-sfhrp ablus. Lrehte sbgutkbms. Lghrkay wfem tfkmcs cet lbmausen. Fegp ybur tehiihtes use tfekr umkque ckats tb fegp ybu "wkm." ^egg ybur tehiihtes wfem tfey nb h cbbn `bo. Oe cemerbus wktf ybur ghucfter hmn hppghuse. ^fey're aree! ^hde everybme's baaer gkde kt's tfe oest presemt ybu ever cbt. Hvbkn pbkmtkmc but pebpge's "iksthdes." ^fey fhppem hgg tfe tkie, hmn tfht's tfe aum ba kiprbv. Oe wkggkmc tb hohmnbm ybur bwm knehs abr tfe cbbn ba tfe stbry. Ihde kt ehsy abr pebpge tb thde rksds. \fhre. Hggbw ybursega tb gehrm arbi everybme bm ybur tehi.
Ka everybme ihdes ehlf btfer gbbd cbbn, tfe wfbge tehi wkms.
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HOBU^ \LEMESB_D
\lemewbrd ks tfe abumnhtkbm abumnhtkbm ba hgg bur "chies." [bu meen tb oe sure ybur ybur tehi umnersthmns tfe ohskls ba settkmc settkmc up h cbbn, sbgkn sleme oeabre ybu hnn hmy twksts. "^wksts" hrem't aum ka ka tfe sleme ks ienkblre. Nbm't oe harhkn tb fhve h refehrshg wktf wktf `ust strhkcft slemewbrd. slemewbrd. Br tb pghy "\tbry" wktfbut skggy skggy tktges hmn ahmthstklhg ahmthstklhg lfhrhlters hmn sktuhtkbms. sktuhtkbms. [bu'gg oe surprksen surprksen fbw cbbn kiprbv lhm oe wfem0 8. ^fe sleme fhs sphle tb orehtfe hmn hmn pghyers hrem't rusfkmc tb cet bm sthce. ?. Zghyers rehggy gkstem hmn gkstem hmn oukgn bm oukgn bm prevkbusgy ckvem kmabrihtkbm. <. \phlewbrd ks usen tb lgehrgy neakme tfe tfe "wfere." >. Sfb, wfht hmn wfere hre emnbwen kiienkhtegy sb tfht everybme (kmlgunkmc (kmlgunkmc tfe hunkemle) dmbws wfht's cbkmc bm. 5. \lemes hre ohsen ohsen bm skipge, lgehr lfhrhlters lfhrhlters wktf spelkakl "whmts." Ihde sure tfht we're whtlfkmc tfks sleme oelhuse tfks ks tfe ibst kipbrthmt nhy km tfe lfhrhlter's gkae. ^bnhy ks tfe nhy! Btferwkse, wfht ihdes kt wbrtf whtlfkmc2 1. \kipge, lgehr lfhrhlters wktf spelkakl "whmts" ihde evem oetter slemes wfem wfem tfe sleme ks ohsen bm tfekr reghtkbmsfkp . Ihmy pghyers ihde tfe iksthde iksthde ba tfkmdkmc tfht tfe sleme sfbugn sfbugn oe hgg hobut tfe succestkbm tfe rea cets arbi tfe hunkemle. Mbt sb. ^fere's h rehsbm kt's lhggen h "suc-cestkbm"--kt's ieregy h prbipt abr tfe sleme, sleme, mbt tfe tfe wfbge sfeohmc. Get's shy tfe succestkbm shys "nbc." H sleme tfht ks hgg hobut h nbc ks gkdegy mbt tb oe hs rklf hmn rewhrnkmc hs h sleme tfht abluses bm, shy, h lbupge cbkmc tfrbucf h nkvbrle hmn struccgkmc bver, hibmc btfer tfkmcs, wfb cets tfe nbc. 3. _eieioer tfe dey pbkmts0 pbkmts0 Sfb, Sfht, Sfere, Sfere, Lbmagklt, _esbgutkbm, ^hc. Hmn Hmn reieioer tb pghy! Se're pghykmc wktf ehlf btfer, sb fhve aum. \LEMESB_D! \LEMESB_D! \LEMESB_D!... ks tfe dey! Se hre hltbrs hmn stbryteggers.
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CHIEGK\^
^fe abggbwkmc gkst ba chies hre hpprbven abr pghy km ybur slfbbg. slfbbg. Se succest ybu sthrt wktf tfese hmn ghter hnn tb ybur repertbkre. repertbkre. [bu ihy lbie tb h prbaesskbmhg ihtlf hmn see chies tfht we fhvem't thucft ybu. ^fere hre tfree rehsbms abr tfks0 tfks0 8. \bie chies neihmn sdkggs tfht thde h creht nehg ba tkie hmn experkemle tb ihster. ?. Se wbugn gkde tb fhve tfe prb ihtlfes oe sbiewfht nkaaeremt arbi tfe F\G ihtlfes. <. \bie chies hre bme-`bde chies, hmn we wbugn rhtfer ybu nknm't pghy tfei oelhuse tfey usuhggy nbm't wbrd br bmgy wbrd bmle. Fbwever, ka tfere ks ks h chie ybu hre nykmc tb pghy, try kt km prhltkle hmn hsd ybur ybur lbhlf. Se nbm't whmt tb stkage ybur lrehtkvkty hmn emtfuskhsi. Fehn tb Fehn Chies
Sfht Hre [bu Nbkmc2 Zghycrbumn Nks \tbry Nbuoge Ogkmn Areeze Bo`elt Areeze 865 Nh Nbb _bm _bm ^bwm Ieetkmc Abur _bbis Oehstke _hp ^ry ^fht Bm Abr \kze Sfht [bu Cbt Nhmle Zhrty
Fey Shkter Expert Lfhggemce \wktlf Kmtervkew Hmytfkmc [bu Lhm Nb
\leme Chies
Eibtkbmhg \yipfbmy Abur \quhre _epghy Nr. Dmbw-Kt-Hgg Zghywrkcft Abrwhrn _everse Zkld-h-Zghy Ogkmn Gkme/Ogkmn \thce Nkreltkbms ^hc-tehi Ibmbgbcue
Ibvkmc Obnkes Oentkie \tbry Zhrhggeg Umkverse \lhmtrbm Lfhmckmc Eibtkbms Mew Lfbkle Nkiestbre Mbveg Zghywrkcft \gkne \fbw
^fere hre ihmy chies mbt kmlgunen bm tfks tfks gkst. [bu iust lfeld wktf h prbaesskbmhg lbhlf br rea oeabre pghykmc h mew chie. \bie chies skipgy nbm't wbrd abr bur abriht (oelhuse tfey lhmmbt oe slbren ehskgy, etl.).
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CHIELBM
^fe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue spbmsbrs twb spelkhg evemts nurkmc tfe slfbbg yehr0 CHIELBM K hmn KK
^fese hre tfe twb Lbieny\pbrtz "chie lbmvemtkbms" wfere tfe emtkre Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue wkgg chtfer tb gehrm gehrm tfe kiprbv gexklbm hmn hmn lhthgbc ba Fkcf Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue Gehcue chies. Chielbm wkgg oe h aum, exlktkmc hmn kmtemse nhy wfere tfe lbhlfes put ybu tfrbucf ybur phles hs ybu gehrm tfe chies wfklf hre essemtkhg tb pghykmc h Lbieny\pbrtz ihtlf. Fere's wfht ybu lhm expelt!
• Bme gblhtkbm abr hgg ba us tb chtfer. • H tehi obmnkmc experkemle. • H augg nhy (;0<: hi - > pi) wktf h gumlf orehd. • Neibs oy tfe lbhlfes hmn ahst-phlen chie "stunkbs" wfere ybu'gg cet tb try tfe chies! • H lfhmle tb kmterhlt wktf ybur aeggbw hltgetes, hl tgetes, oukgn arkemnsfkps hmn cet sbie "hwhy ihtlfes" fhppemkmc! • Sbrdsfbps abr tehlfers/hnvksers! • Hnvhmlen lbmlepts ht Chielbm KK. • Lbieny\pbrtz sfkrts hmn ierlfhmnkse hvhkghoge tb sfbw ybur F\G prkne hmn kiprbv pbwer! hmmbumlen, sb tfey lhm pghm. Ihde [bur tehi iust httemn! ^egg ybur tehis hs sbbm hs tfe nhte ks hmmbumlen, sb kt h tehi obmnkmc evemt. Zghm h pklmkl abr gumlf br cb tb nkmmer haterwhrn! Nbm't ikss but!
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\UIIE_ LHIZ Se fhve h lhip abr fkcf slfbbg stunemts, hmn tfks ksm‛t ybur brnkmhry lhip. Kt‛s `ust mbt. ^fere hre mb lhmbes. ^fere hre mb lhokms. Se fhve sfbwers. Zebpge lbbd abr us. Se ikcft ihde sbietfkmc but ba ihlhrbmk, out kt‛s nbuotaug.
Sfb lhm lbie2 Lhip ks abr stunemts wfb fhve lbipgeten tfekr aresfihm yehr ba fkcf slfbbg, up tfrbucf stunemts wfb fhve lbipgeten tfekr semkbr yehr. Hgg gevegs ba ba experkemle experkemle hre weglbie weglbie „ arbi zerb tb gbts.
Sfht ks kt2 Burs ks tfe oest lhip abr kiprbv trhkmkmc ka ybu‛re h fkcf slfbbg stunemt br hm enulhtbr enu lhtbr wfb wbrds wktf tfehtre stunemts. [bu‛re cbkmc tb ghucf „ h gbt. [bu‛gg whgd hwhy wktf sdkggs tfht wkgg oemeakt ybu yb ur emtkre gkae0 trust, lbmaknemle, lrehtkve prbogei sbgvkmc, tehiwbrd, ablus hm n tfe hokgkty tb turm lfhggemces kmtb cbgn. \kipgy, kiprbv sdkggs hre essemtkhg abr hmy hltbr, out hgsb abr hmybme wfb whmts tb sulleen. Hgg wbrdsfbps hre thucft oy prbaesskbmhgs arbi Lbieny\pbrtz, tfe gbmcest rummkmc sfbw km Gbs Hmceges. Evemkmcs hre akggen wktf nkaaeremt gkve sfbws, hmn tfere‛s pgemty ba tkie abr swkiikmc, sbller, sbatohgg, nbnceohgg, lghsskl lbieny akgis, hmn ihyoe evem ihlhrbmk hrt. (^fbse shie prbaesskbmhgs ihde up tfe lhip sthaa, hmn bur b ur rhtkb ba lbumsegbrs tb lhipers ks typklhggy 108 br oetter .) Zhst wbrdsfbps fhve kmlgunen kiprbv chies, nrhihtkl kiprbv, iusklhg kiprbv, \fhdespehrehm kiprbv, sthce lbioht, wrktkmc lbieny abr ghte mkcft thgd sfbws, wrktkmc lbieny abr tfe weo, lbiierlkhg lb iierlkhg hunktkbmkmc, puppeteerkmc hmn ibre! Se baaer slfbghrsfkps wfklf lhm renule tfe lbst oy hs iulf hs $8::. $8 ::. [bu lhm hgsb cet nkslbumts abr ehrgy reckstrhtkbm hmn/br abr orkmckmc hgbmc sbie arkemns arbi ybur slfbbg. Enulhtbrs wkggkmc tb hsskst bur lbumsegbrs lhm hgsb httemn ht h gbwer rhte. ^hgd tb ybur lbhlf hobut aumnrhkskmc knehs!
Sfem ks kt2 Lbieny\pbrtz lhip ghsts abr akve nhys (^uesnhy “ \hturnhy) nurkmc ghte @ugy hmn/br ehrgy Hucust. \pelkakl nhtes hmn kmabrihtkbm lhm oe abumn bm bur weo skte km tfe sprkmc0 lszgh.lbi
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FB\^KMC H IH^LF
Se emlburhce ybu tb fbst ht gehst bme ihtlf wktf h vksktkmc tehi. [bu ihy fbst hs ihmy hnnktkbmhg ihtlfes hs ybu gkde, br evem fhve ihtlfes wktf tehis `ust arbi ybur slfbbg. _eieioer, kt ks ybur respbmskokgkty tb oe km lbmthlt wktf tfe vksktkmc tehis. Cet tfei kmabrihtkbm ehrgy. [bu ihy ibve tfe ihtlf tb hmbtfer nhy br tkie ka sbiebme fhs h lbmagklt. Nb wfhtever ybu whmt, out oe h cbbn fbst. Akrst hmn abreibst, abreibst, oekmc h cbbn fbst ks oekmc lburtebus hmn weglbikmc. ^fere's mbtfkmc wbrse tfhm oekmc kcmbren km h pghle wfere ybu nbm't dmbw hmybme. _eieioer, kt's fhrn tb oe h vksktkmc tehi. Sfem ybu're tfe vksktkmc tehi, tfe hunkemle cemerhggy nbesm't gkde ybu iulf „ mbt oelhuse ba ybur perabrihmle, out oelhuse ba tfe "bppbskmc tehi iemthgkty." _EIEIOE_ ^FH^. Kt's bdhy ka tfey obb. [bu'gg wkm tfei bver bver wktf ybur lfhri! ybur lfhri! ^fe fbie tehi hgibst hgwhys wkms, hmn tfht's tfht's prbohogy tfe why kt sfbugn oe. Nbm't oe harhkn tb shlrkakle tb ihde tfe fbie tehi gbbd cbbn4 cbb n4 tfey'gg nb tfe shie abr ybu. Hs tfe fbst, kt's ybur `bo tb fhve tfe sthce set up hmn HM HUNKEMLE. Sbrd fhrn tb prbibte ybur sfbw. Hs tb fbw tb set up ybur sthce, ybu'gg cet nethkgs bm tfht km h lbupge ba phces. Zgehse deep km ikmn sbie cemerhg cuknegkmes hobut prbnultkbm vhgues . Hgtfbucf we treht treht L\z gkde h spbrtkmc evemt, kt ks km ahlt h tfehtrklhg presemthtkbm oy ybur slfbbg hmn sfbugn oe respelten hs sulf. Zgehse strkve tb fhve h prbaesskbmhg-gbbdkmc setup setup abr ybur hunkemle tb see--h ohldnrbp ba sbie sbrt, br ht gehst presemthoge lurthkms4 oemlfes br lfhkrs abr tfe pghyers tfht hre umkabri km hppehrhmle4 pre-sfbw iuskl4 tfht sbrt ba tfkmc. [bu wkgg oe ckvem h lfeldgkst tfht butgkmes tfe vhrkbus tfkmcs ybu'gg meen abr h ihtlf4 ht ybur akrst ihtlf, pgehse presemt tfht gkst tb tfe rea. Hs tfe vksktbr, kt's ybur `bo tb sfbw up ehrgy. "Bm tkie" ks tbb ghte. ^fks ks sbutferm Lhgkabrmkh, hmn ybu mever dmbw fbw trhaakl wkgg oe, sb gehve extrh ehrgy. Kt wkgg shve everybme stress. Everybme sfbugn reieioer reieioer tfht L\z pghyers hre mbt hggbwen tb yegg succestkbms. succestkbms. Zebpge wkgg tfkmd ybu hre settkmc up tfe tfe pghyers bmsthce hmn kt thdes tfe tfe aum hwhy arbi tfe hunkemle. hunkemle. Mb ihtter fbw quket tfe lrbwn, ZGH[E_\ \FBUGNM'^ [EGG \UCCE\^KBM\ SFEM ^FE[ H_E KM ^FE HUNKEMLE. ^fe shie ruge hppgkes ht hmy L\z sfbw--hmbtfer slfbbg br ht bur prb sfbws. Kt ks everybme's everybme's `bo tb ibmktbr tfe tfe hunkemle abr `erds. Sfetfer ybu hre tfe fbie tehi br h vksktbr, ybu hre respbmskoge respbmskoge abr hunkemle ieioers ieioers arbi ybur slfbbg. Ka sbiebme ks mbt oefhvkmc hpprbprkhtegy (km tfe hunkemle br bm b m sthce), hsd tfei tb stbp. Oetter yet, hsd hm hnugt. [bur prb rea br hnvkser wkgg fhmnge kt. Hater ehlf ihtlf, tfe reaeree reaeree wkgg wkgg fhve h mbte sesskbm sesskbm wktf tfe tfe pghyers. Everybme wfb phrtklkphten km tfe ihtlf sfbugn stkld hrbumn hmn oe phrt ba tfks sesskbm, wfklf wkgg thde pghle kiienkhtegy hater tfe ihtlf, oeabre oeabre tfe set ks struld br hmytfkmc hmytfkmc gkde tfht. Zhremts hmn arkemns ihy mbt httemn mbte sesskbms. Kt's everybme's `bo tb gbse hmn wkm crhleauggy. wkm crhleauggy. Hgg reaeree requests fhppem vkh tfe Cbbcge abri (see phce <5). ?8
BU_ SH_I-UZ \BMC HMN AB_IH^ ^HDE IE BU^ ^B \EE KIZ_BQ
^hde ie but tb see kiprbv ^hde ie tb L-\-P Ouy ie sbie pehmuts hmn sbnh pbp K nbm't lhre ka K ghucf tkgg K nrbp Hmn K'gg yegg but hgg iy succestkbms K fbpe K mever cet ohccen Hmn kt's FH, FH, FH FH FH FH Hs we ghucf tkgg we chc! AB_IH^
Zre-sfbw iuskl ht fhga-fbur _ea whri-up ^hde Ie But tb \ee Kiprbv (bptkbmhg) Qemnkmc (bptkbmhg, see "Qemnkmc" phce) Zghyer kmtrbs Mhtkbmhg Hmtfei (ht rea's nkslretkbm4 thgd tb ybur rea) Lbkm ^bss FEHN ^B FEHN (tehi vs. tehi--"Sfht Hre [bu Nbkmc2/Zghycrbumn Nks/Oehstke _hp" hre exhipges abr tfks rbumn) ^EHI LFBKLE / ^EHI LFBKLE ^EHI LFBKLE / ^EHI LFBKLE GH\^ LFHMLE Fhgatkie ^ehi Kmtrbs abr \elbmn Ihtlf FEHN-^B-FEHN ^EHI LFBKLE / ^EHI LFBKLE ^EHI LFBKLE / ^EHI LFBKLE GH\^ LFHMLE Akmhge Zbst-sfbw Iuskl ^fere ks mb rbbi rbbi abr kiprbveiemt km tfe abriht. Kt wbrds. [bu meen tb stkld tb kt sb tfht hgg tehis pghy tfe shie sfbw. \fbw abriht ks mbt mecbtkhoge . Zgehse ihde sure ybur telfs hmn hmmbumler hre ahikgkhr wktf tfe abriht.
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^fe Lbieny\pbrtz Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue lhm oe perabrien bm vkrtuhggy hmy type ba sthce, out tfere hre lerthkm kmexpemskve requkreiemts abr h sullessaug sfbw0 8. [bu wkgg meen ht gehst hm 6‛ x 8?‛ sthce/pghykmc sthce/pghykmc hreh. Ouy lfehp hrtkaklkhg tura (ht Fbie Nepbt, D-Ihrt, etl). ^fe tura sfbugn oe ht gehst gehst 6 aeet wkne oy 1 aeet neep (6‛ x 8?‛ ks knehg, out mbt melesshry). Uskmc wfkte nult thpe, lrehte gkmes gkmes bm tfe tura (see Hppemnkx D). ^U_A K\ _EXUK_EN. ?. [bu wkgg hgsb meen oemlfes, oemlfes, lfhkrs, stbbgs, br luoes abr tfe pghyers tb skt bm. Zbsktkbm tfei ht gehst ? aeet baa tfe akegn. akegn. [bu ihy mbt use lbulfes arbi bgn pghy sets. sets. ^fey suld tfe emercy emercy rkcft but ba ybur obny wfkge tfe btfer tehi ks perabrikmc. <. Ka pbsskoge, lrehte h slbreobhrn. [bu lhm use h lfhgdobhrn lfhgdobhrn br perfhps obrrbw arbi ybur htfgetkl nephrtiemt. Evem hm ehseg ehseg wkgg wbrd. >. Oe sure ybu fhve hm Hierklhm aghc hpprbprkhtegy nkspghyen (ibst lghssrbbis, hunktbrkuis hmn cyis hgrehny fhve bme). 5. Ehlf pghyer hmn tfe reaeree sfbugn fhve h aresf obttge ba whter. Se urce ybu tb ckve hgg b a ybur pghyers h re-ushoge, "perihmemt" obttge wktf tfekr mhie bm kt wfklf tfey lhm akgg hmn use km every sfbw. 1. [bu sfbugn lrehte h "sfbw ohc" „ h ohldphld akggen wktf hgg tfe tfkmcs ybu meen abr tfe sfbw0 • Ehlf tehi wkgg meen sihgg phns ba phper hmn pems. p ems. • ^fe rea wkgg meen orbwm crblery ohcs, h phn hmn h mn pem. • Ghptbp br sihrtpfbme wktf sfbw iuskl. • Zhper vemnkmc fhts, pehmuts, hmn pemmhmts ka ybur tehi ks vemnkmc. • Gkme-up sfeets abr tfe hmmbumler. ^fks ohc sfbugn hgwhys oe stblden hmn rehny. ^FE AKEGN IHMHCE_
\biebme iust oe tfe gkhksbm oetweem tfe reaeree hmn tfe arbmt ba fbuse. ^fks iehms tfht h sthce ihmhcer br fbuse ihmhcer (we lhgg tfks persbm tfe "Akegn Ihmhcer") wkgg kmtrbnule fkisega tb tfe rea upbm hrrkvhg hmn ihde sure tfe fbuse fbuse ks mbt bpem oeabre tfe rea rea hmn pghyers fhve lgehren tfe sthce. ^fks persbm iust hgsb h gsb kmabri tfe reaeree hmn tfe pghyers ht tfe abggbwkmc kmtervhgs0 <: ikmutes tb lurthkm 85 ikmutes 8: ikmutes 5 ikmutes Zghles (? ikmutes tb lurthkm)
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^fe abggbwkmc umkabri pbgkly ks ihmnhtbry.
• [bu iust wehr Lbieny\pbrtz-kssuen `erseys. Baaklkhg F\G umkabri `erseys hre sbgn km phkrs, bme ren, bme ogue, hmn ybu lhm ektfer purlfhse h aew phkrs abr tfe emtkre tkie, tfht everybme sfhres, br cet phkrs abr kmnkvknuhg pghyers. [bu brner tfese `erseys abr ybur tehi, br b r hs hm kmnkvknuhg, oy cbkmc tb tfks weoskte0 www.Lbieny\pbrtz\tbre.lbi. Ka ybu see see tfht bmgy lerthkm skzes hre hvhkghoge, km tfe "Lbiiemts" seltkbm ba ybur brner ybu lhm tegg us wfht skzes ybu'n rehggy gkde, hmn we'gg cet ohld tb ybu hs tb wfetfer tfbse hre hvhkghoge. ^fe ohlds ba tfese sfkrts hre oghmd, sb ka ybu wbugn gkde tb hnn ybur mhie, ybur spbmsbr's mhie, ybur slfbbg br muioers ybu lhm. ^fe sfkrt iust oe lgehm hmn wrkmdge-aree. Kt sfbugn mbt oe dmbtten, tken br lut. • Bm tfe obttbi fhga ba ybur obny, ybu lhm wehr `ehms br ihtlfkmc swehtphmts. Baaklkhg Baaklkhg oghld swehtphmts hre hvhkghoge ht Lbieny\pbrtz\tbre.lbi, out hre mbt mbt requkren. • Hgg pghyers IU\^ wehr htfgetkl sfbes. Mb shmnhgs, ohre aeet, agkp-agbps, obbts etl. • Mb lbstuikmc lbstuikmc ihy oe hnnen--cghsses, hnnen--cghsses, slhras, fhts, fhts, lhmes, lhmes, lhpes, rboes, etl. etl. ^fe bmgy exleptkbm wbugn oe abr h tfeien sfbw, sulf hs h ph`hih phrty br prbi sfbw. ^fese iust oe pre-hpprbven oy tfe tehi's lbhlf hmn lbiiumklhten wfem h reaeree request ks ihne. • Mb `ewegry, kmlgunkmc orhlegets, orhlegets, whtlfes, whtlfes, ehrrkmcs, meldghles, whtlf br whgget lfhkms, etl. • [bu lhm wehr ybur phmts hmy why ybu whmt whmt baa-sthce, out km L\z, mb shcckmc. shcckmc. Se nbm't whmt tb see ybur umnerwehr br ybur outt. Orkmc h oegt br wehr phmts tfht akt! • Gbmc fhkr bm obtf ckrgs hmn cuys sfbugn sfbugn oe tken ohld. Ihde-up sfbugn sfbugn oe mhturhg. • Ka tfere ks h type ba lgbtfkmc ybu wbugn gkde gkde tb brner, thgd tb us4 us4 Lbieny\pbrtz lhm fegp ybu lrehte hgibst hmytfkmc, kmlgunkmc swehts, tehi `hldets `hl dets hmn sweht sfkrts. ZGEH\E MB^E0 \tunemts wfb hre mbt hpprbprkhtegy nressen wkgg mbt perabri km Lbieny\pbrtz. ^fe reaeree wkgg ihde tfht neterikmhtkbm. Ka h reaeree nksquhgkakes h stunemt abr umkabri vkbghtkbm hmn kt lhmmbt oe lbrrelten, tfe stunemt wkgg mbt pghy. LGB^FKMC H^ Z_HL^KLE
[bu iust orkmc htfgetkl sfbes tb prhltkle. ^fe shie abbtwehr pbgkly hppgkes fere. Mb exleptkbms. Ka ybu hre km h sdkrt br btfer lgbtfkmc ktei tfht wbugn kipene ibveiemt br gkikt ybur hokgkty tb phrtklkphte, ybu sfbugn orkmc h lfhmce ba lgbtfkmc. Mb sumcghsses. ?>
OEAB_E ^FE IH^LF
Zghyers sfbugn hrrkve ht gehst gehst hm fbur oeabre tfe sfbw sfbw hmn fegp set up. Oe sure tfere ks ks h skcmkm sfeet. Ka sbiebme ks iksskmc, iksskmc, tfe ihmhcer sfbugn pfbme fki. Ka tfere ks h prbogei hmn tfe sfbw meens tb oe pbstpbmen br lhmleggen, lhmleggen, lhgg tfe rea kiienkhtegy. \bietkies tfe prb reas nrkve h gbmc why km rusf-fbur trhaakl hmn tfe sbbmer ybu lhm get tfei dmbw, tfe oetter. Everybme meens tb fegp set tfe sthce. Oe sure orbwm ohcs, phper hmn pems, etl. hre km pghle. Kt ihdes tfe sfbw gbbd very sgbppy tb stbp km tfe iknnge hmn fumt abr h orbwm ohc! Zghyers sfbugn orkmc obtf umkabri sfkrts. Zghyers sfbugn oe km umkabri tfkrty ikmutes oeabre tfe sfbw hmn sthy ohldsthce. ^fks ks tfe tkie tb cet ablusen hmn lbmlemtrhte bm ybur tehi's chie lfbkles. Oe rehny abr tfe rea wfem fe/sfe hrrkves. hrrkves. ^fe rea ks mbt tfere tb brchmkze ybur sfbw. Ka ybur tehi ks vemnkmc, ehlf pghyer sfbugn lfeld tfe prbps fe wkgg use km vemnkmc. Lhpthkms sfbugn ihde sure pghyers hre mbt vemnkmc vemnkmc tfe shie tfkmcs. Ka melesshry hsskcm vemnkmc vemnkmc kteis sb tfht pghyers hre mbt "pghykmc kt shae." ^ehis sfbugn whri up tbcetfer. ^fe rea ks mbt respbmskoge respbmskoge abr sthrtkmc sthrtkmc ybur whri-up. Zgehse oe brchmkzen hmn cet everybme tbcetfer hmn ablusen. NB MB^ CB BM \^HCE SK^FBU^ H SH_I-UZ. ^FE Z_B _EA
Ka ybu've hrrhmcen abr h prb reaeree, sfe wkgg hrrkve hs ehrgy hs pbsskoge, ibst batem fhga hm fbur oeabre sfbwtkie. Oe hwhre tfht tfe reas cemerhggy hre nrkvkmc arbi Gbs Hmceges, hmn ybur slfbbg's sfbw ihy oe slfenugen ht h tkie wfem trhaakl ks oruthg. Kt fegps us but kiiemsegy ka ybu pghm ybur sthrt tkie strhtecklhggy, trhaakl-wkse 4 lhgg us hmn we lhm ckve ybu gbts ba tkps bm tfks. Se meen hm eiercemly lbmthlt muioer --tfe legg pfbme ba tfe tehi ihmhcer br hnugt spbmsbr. Mbt tfe slfbbg pfbme, hs slfbbgs temn tb mbt hmswer tfe pfbmes hater > pi. Zgehse fhve bme br twb stunemts whktkmc km tfe phrdkmc gbt <: ikmutes oeabre tfe ihtlf tb creet tfe rea sb sfe nbesm't fhve tb whmner hgg bver lhipus trykmc tb akmn ybu. ^FE OEEZ
^fe reaeree wkgg lhgg abr "tfe oeep." oeep." Km tfks whri-up, tfe tfe pghyers put tfekr hris hrbumn ehlf btfer hmn htteipt tb shy "oeep" hs qukldgy hrbumn tfe lkrlge l krlge hs pbsskoge. ^fe cbhg ks tb whkt umtkg hm baaer ks ihne tb ybu hmn tfem phss tfe baaer bm tb h aeggbw pghyer wktfbut steppkmc bm ehlf btfer. ^fe oeep serves severhg severhg purpbses. Hs skipge hs kt hppehrs, hmn hs gkcftgy hs sbie pghyers thde kt, tfe oeep fhs h gbt tb nb wktf tkikmc hmn wbrdkmc wktf ehlf btfer. ^fe sbumn ks lbmsthmt hmn tfere ks mb rbbi abr `bdes nurkmc nurkmc tfe oeep. ^fe lbmlemtrhtkbm hmn ablus ablus ba tfe ihtlf oeckms fere. Gkstem, Gkstem, ablus, suppbrt.
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[bur sfbw iust fhve iust fhve pre-sfbw iuskl. Zre-sfbw iuskl sfbugn sfbugn oeckm fhga hm fbur fbur oeabre tfe sfbw. sfbw. ^fks sfbugn oe sbie sbie cbbn bgn Hierklhm ihrlf iuskl iuskl è gh @bfm Zfkgkp \bush br "@bld _bld"-styge iuskl. Ka lbggece ihrlf sbmcs hre tbb bgn-ahsfkbmen abr ybu, tfem put tbcetfer h segeltkbm ba pbp-rbld sbmcs tfht hre upoeht hmn aum „ tfe dkmn pebpge ikcft skmc hgbmc tb. _eieioer, ybur hunkemle kmlgunes phremts, crhmnphremts, tehlfers, hmn gkttge orbtfers hmn sksters. Fere ks h shipge gkst ba sbmcs tfht fhve tfe rkcft aeeg abr bur sfbw0 ‗HOL’ (@hldsbm 5) ‗Gbve _bggerlbhster’ (Bfkb Zghyers) ‗Nhmlkmc Xueem’ (HOOH) ‗Gbve \fhld’ (^fe O5?'s) ‗^hde Bm Ie’ (H-Fh) ‗Iii Obp’ (Fhmsbm) ‗Lrhzy Gkttge ^fkmc Lhggen Gbve’ (Xueem) ‗K Skgg \urvkve’ (Cgbrkh Chymbr) ‗Everyobny Nhmle Mbw’ (L+L Iuskl Ahltbry) Hs ybu lhm see, tfese hre bgner sbmcs wfklf pghy wegg tb h wkne neibcrhpfkl. [bu lerthkmgy lhm pkld mewer sbmcs, out oe sure ybu use tfe "rhnkb enkt," sb tfere hre mb expgklkt gyrkls! Iuskl wkgg set tfe tbme abr tfe ihtlf. ^fe vbguie sfbugn oe `ust `ust hobve tfe geveg ba tfe lrbwn. Hs tfe mbkse kmlrehses, kmlrehses, smehd up tfe vbguie. ^fks cets pebpge emerckzen abr abr tfe sfbw. ^fe iuskl sfbugn stbp wfem tfe rea lbies km (hmn sthrt up hchkm nurkmc tfe vemnkmc ka ybu're nbkmc vemnkmc). Sfem tfe hmmbumler sthrts sthrts tfe tehi kmtrbs, ahne but tfe pre-sfbw pre-sfbw iuskl (hmn, ka ybu've cbt sbie, ahne km tfe ^ehi Kmtrb iuskl). Hs abr iuskl lues wktfkm tfe ihtlf ktsega0 we emlburhce ybu tb fhve useaug iuskl lues rehny, kmlgunkmc ^hde Ie but tb \ee Kiprbv, ^fe Mhtkbmhg Hmtfei, lghp sbmcs hmn skmc-hgbmcs, rhp oehts, etl. Ka ybu whmt sbie (lrehtkve lbiibms) sbumn lues hgbmc tfe hobve gkmes arbi us, eihkg us ht fsgJlszgh.lbi fsgJlszgh.lbi hmn hmn we lhm eihkg ybu sbie akges. Z_BC_HI\
[bur sfbw iust use h prbcrhi. Se prbvkne bme abr ybu (see Hppemnkx @), hmn ybu lhm nbwmgbhn kt arbi tfe F\G weo skte0 lszghfsg.wbrnpress.lbi ^fks prbcrhi teggs ybur hunkemle hobut tfe abugs hmn tfe sfbw. Kt ckves tfei tfe wbrns tb bur whri-up sbmcs. [bu lhm hgsb hnn ybur bwm kmab tb tfe ohld tb prbibte ybur uplbikmc ihtlfes br tfehtre prbnultkbms. Ka ybu hre uskmc pghyer mkldmhies, tfey sfbugn oe prkmten km tfe prbcrhi, mbt hmmbumlen ht tfe oeckmmkmc ba tfe ihtlf.
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^fks ks h trugy wbmneraug wbmneraug phrt ba tfe sfbw, out ks bptkbmhg. Kt rehggy ckves tfe aeeg aeeg ba tfe ohggphrd hmn gets tfe pghyers fhve sbie bme-bm-bme lbmthlt wktf tfe hunkemle. hunkemle. Mbt hgg slfbbgs fhve vemnkmc km tfekr ihtlfes4 kt's up tb ybu tb nelkne ka ybur slfbbg whmts tb vemn br mbt. Hs tfe rea ogbws tfe wfkstge ht tfe emn ba tfe whri-up sbmc, we sfbugn fehr "Zehmuts!" mkle hmn gbun hmn lgehr. H vemnbr emters emters nurkmc tfe wfkstge hmn sthrts tb segg pehmuts. pehmuts. _ehggy. ^fks sfbugn oe abggbwen 8: selbmns ghter oy twb vemnbrs seggkmc pemmhmts, bme seggkmc ren hmn bme ogue. [bu lhm ihde tfese pemmhmts but but ba lbmstrultkbm phper br ouy tfei arbi us. ^fese kteis sfbugn oe sbgn "strhkcft," iehmkmc oe ahkrgy serkbus hobut kt. Qemnbrs wehr phper abbn servkle servkle fhts gkde tfe cuys ht tfe gblhg ourcer pghle. ^fe rest ba tfe vemnbrs sfbugn sthccer tfekr emtrhmles ht gehst tem selbmns hphrt hmn lhsuhggy strbgg bm. KA EQE_[BME EM^E_\ H^ BMLE, K^ SKGG AEEG GKDE HM H^^HLD. ^hde ybur tkie. ^ry tb thgd tb pebpge. Ka ybu yegg ybur pktlf ht tfe tbp ba ybur gumcs, ybur ybur `bde wkgg oe bver hs sbbm hs ybu sthrt. ^hgd tb ^hgd tb pebpge. ^fks ks ybur lfhmle tb whri tfei up kmnkvknuhggy. [bu iust sthrt tfe vemnkmc wktf "pehmuts." [bu sfbugn abggbw kt up wktf "pemmhmts" br hmbtfer strhkcft ktei, gkde pbplbrm br prbcrhis. Hmy `bde ktei iust oe bme tfht tfht lhm oe "sbgn." Shgdkmc hrbumn sfbutkmc h pum ksm't hs aummy hs ybu ikcft tfkmd. _eieioer, ybu fhve tb esthogksf tfe rehgkty ba tfe vemnkmc oeabre ybu lhm ihde aum ba kt! Ka ybu wbugn gkde phper vemnkmc fhts, ybu lhm purlfhse tfbse ht h stbre gkde \ihrt hmn Akmhg. Qemnkmc kteis sfbugn oe abr shge, mbt `ust vksuhg pums. pums. Exhipges ba kteis0 Ihge Obmnkmc „ thpe cuys tbcetfer wktf ihsdkmc thpe. Arkemnsfkp „ prbikse tb oe h oest arkemn, baaer tb whsf tfekr lhr, ckve tfei h gkttge ohldruo, etl. Sbbn „ `ust lhrry hrbumn h sihgg obhrn. _ehgkty Lfeld „ lhrry h sihgg ikrrbr. ikrrbr. \fbw pebpge tfekr reageltkbm reageltkbm hmn hsd ka everytfkmc ks bdhy. Kle Lrehi „ hsd abr ?5 lemts hmn tfem slrehi. Lhgkabrmkh _hkskm Dhobos „ _hkskms bm h stkld wktf wktf relkpe lhrns. Use h pbt fbgner. Agbss „ lhrry agbss hmn hsd tb see tfekr teetf. kteis--nbm't cet stuld wktf h ahvbrkte. Oe lrehtkve. Nbm't segg baa-lbgbr kteis. Lfhmce kteis--nbm't
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Hm hmmbumler lhm hgsb hnn tb tfe aum. Se hre prbvknkmc ybu wktf _ea hmn Zghyer kmtrb kmtrb sfeets (see Hppemnkles F hmn K) tfht ybu lhm pfbtblbpy hmn use bver hmn bver abr ybur ihtlfes. ^fere hre severhg rehsbms wfy tfe kmtrbnultkbms hre sb kipbrthmt tb tfe sulless ba tfe ihtlf. Nbme prbpergy, tfey lhm orkmc melesshry emercy emercy kmtb tfe ihtlf. ^fey hre hgsb h dey abr settkmc up tfe pghyers tb fhve h prbper sfbw. ^fey hre phrt ba tfe pghyers' ablus. Zghyers sfbugn lbmlemtrhte bm wfht tfey hre nbkmc hmn mbt bm fbw tfe hunkemle ks rehltkmc. refehrse. Nbm't tfrbw h mew pghyer km tfe hmmbumler seht hmn MB^E0 [bur hmmbumler iust refehrse. hssuie fe lhm nb kt. ^fe hmmbumler iust oe hm experkemlen tehi ieioer. Hm hmmbumler lhm dkgg h dkgg h sfbw wktf h pbbr perabrihmle! Fere hre sbie tkps bm hmmbumlkmc0 8. "Cbbn Evemkmc," etl. sfbugn sfbugn oe crhmnkbse hmn "ohggphrdy" (mew wbrn!). ^fe "hf" hmn "bf" sbumns sfbugn sfbugn oe stretlfen stretlfen but. Hgg ba ybur hmmbumleiemts sfbugn sbumn nrhihtkl hmn exlktkmc. ?. Mb ihtter wfht, nb mbt kmterrupt kmterrupt tfe rea. rea. <. Sfem kmtrbnulkmc tfe tfe pghyers, tfe hmmbumlkmc hmmbumlkmc ba tfekr mhies sfbugn sfbugn hgibst oe gkde skmckmc4 very stretlfen-but vbwegs hmn vhrykmc pktlfes. Kipbrthmt0 h pghyer sfbugn mbt oe sthmnkmc ht tfe ohld ba h ghrce hunktbrkui wfem fks/fer mhie ks hmmbumlen, hs kt tfem thdes tbb gbmc tb cet up bm tfe sthce. ^fe hmmbumler hmn tfe pghyers sfbugn lbbrnkmhte tfkmcs tfkmcs sb tfht h pghyer ks `ust obumnkmc bmtb tfe sthce wfem fks/fer mhie ks spbdem. Hs sbbm hs tfe pghyer fhs hldmbwgencen tfe lrbwn, tfe hmmbumler sfbugn shy tfe mext mhie „ mb meen tb whkt umtkg tfe pghyer ks sehten. Hmn tfe mew pghyer, wfbse mhie ks mbw oekmc spbdem, meens tb oe obumnkmc bmtb tfe sthce. >. Sfem hmmbumlkmc tfe slbre slbre oetweem chies, ihde kt okc hmn nrhihtkl. Nbm't whkt abr tfe rea tb hsd abr kt. @ust `uip km hmn hmmbumle kt hs sbbm hs kt ks lgehr wfb wbm tfe chie. 5. Zrhltkle nbkmc nbkmc vblhg sbumn eaaelts wktf tfe iklrbpfbme. ^fks thdes prhltkle. Oe sure ybu hrem't tbb gbun. [bu sfbugn hnn tb tfe hltkbm, mbt lbver kt up. Ka ybu nelkne tb fhve sbiebme nb vblhg sbumn eaaelts, get vksktkmc tehis dmbw sb tfey hrem't surprksen. Neib obtf hmmbumlkmc hmn sbumn eaaelts abr tfe rea oeabre tfe ihtlf. 1. Lfeld sbumn gevegs oeabre tfe sfbw sb tfht ybu dmbw fbw tfe sfbw sfbw wkgg sbumn. 3. Ka ybu hre mbt uskmc hm hmmbumler, oe sure tb tegg tfe rea. 6. Use hpprbprkhte iklrbpfbmes hmn equkpiemt. Ka ybu nb mbt fhve fhve h iklrbpfbme, lbbrnkmhte wktf tfe rea sb tfht tfe hmmbumler lhm oe bm tfe sthce. ;. Lfeld wktf pghyers (espelkhggy vksktkmc pghyers) hmn tfe rea bm fbw tb lbrreltgy prbmbumle tfekr mhies.
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ZGH[E_ MKLDMHIE\ \bietkies kt's aum tb use "mkldmhies" abr pghyers oelhuse kt's h lbiibm prhltkle km spbrts. Abr exhipge, "\uchr _hy" _bokmsbm whs h ahibus obxer. obxer. Kt sbumns "htfgetkl." [bu lhm lrehte mkldmhies abr ybur tehi, tehi, tbb. ^fey're aum tb lfeer. Abr exhipge0
@hies "Orukser" Ohkgey Durt "\fbwtkie" \lfbgger Hmny "CbCb" Cbgnoghtt Ihrd "^fe Ibgeihm" Ibfegmktzdy ^fese hre Lbieny\pbrtz pghyers wfb use hggkterhtkbm tb lrehte h aum mhie. \bietkies pghyers pghyers ihde h pum bm tfekr ghst mhies, gkde0
@eaa "Mbm-Nhkry" Drhier Drhier Lfrks "Okc Hmn" ^hggihm Mhmly "Hgwhys tfe Orknesihkn, Mever tfe" IlOrkne Mbtkle fbw gbmc Mhmly's ks. Qery aummy, out gbmc. gbmc. Ka every pghyer bm ybur tehi whs tb pkld bme gkde tfks, tfey wbugn lehse tb oe aummy. Mkldmhies hre mbt melesshry. Fbwever, ka ybu whmt tb pkld mkldmhies, fere hre tfe cuknegkmes0
• [bu iust deep tfe shie mhie hgg yehr. Mhies sfbugn oe pghlen km tfe prbcrhi, out sfbugn mbt oe hmmbumlen oy ybur Qbkle oelhuse tfey hre batem umkmteggkckoge hmn sgbw nbwm tfe sfbw. • Qhry tfe mhies bm ybur tehis sb tfht mbt hgg ba tfei hre gbmc hmn pummy. Fhve sbie vhrkety. Kt's h gbt ibre aum tb yegg "Cb Orukser!" tfhm "Cb Hgwhys tfe Orknesihkn Mever tfe!" • Nbm't pkld mhies tfht hre "km `bdes"--km btfer wbrns, `bdes bmgy ybur tehi br arkemns wkgg umnersthmn. • Nbm't ever pkld h mhie tfht ks h nbuoge emtemnre abr sbietfkmc tfht sfbugn oe h Orbwm Ohc. _eieioer, ybu nbm't meen tfei ht hgg.
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^FE _EAE_EE'\ _BGE [bur tehi sfbugn try tb fhve h stunemt rea abr tkies wfem h prb rea ksm't hvhkghoge. ^fe phces tfht abggbw wkgg hsskst ybu. Se wkgg fbgn stunemt rea wbrdsfbps ht Chielbm KK.
_eaereekmc ks h very kipbrthmt phrt ba tfe sfbw. H ihtlf lhm gkve br nke bm tfe emercy ba tfe rea. Ka ybu lfbbse tb fhve fhve h stunemt rea, pgehse reieioer... reieioer... ^fe reaeree ks tfe prkie IBQE_ ba tfe ihtlf. ^fe reaeree sfbugn oe emterthkmkmc hmn em`byhoge, out sfe ks mbt nbkmc h sthmn-up rbutkme. ^fe reaeree iust fhve tfe rea speelf ieibrkzen. ^fe reaeree wkgg fhve tb ‗nehg wktf’ ahms bllhskbmhggy. ^fe reaeree iust lbmlemtrhte bm tfe emtkre ihtlf tfe emtkre tkie. ^fe reaeree fhs h very lfhggemckmc `bo... \uppbrt ybur rea! Z_BAE\\KBMHG _EA\ (HMN IU\KLKHM\)
Hs hgwhys, ybu lhm fkre bme ba tfe prbaesskbmhg prbaesskbmhg Lbieny\pbrtz pghyers tb rea rea abr ybu. Kt's up tb ybu. ^fe hnvhmthce ba h prbaesskbmhg reaeree ks tfht sfe sfe batem fhs ibre lbmtrbg tfhm h stunemt rea. \fbugn ybu nelkne tb fkre h prbaesskbmhg rea, rea, pgehse ckve us hipge mbtkle (tfht iehms requestkmc h rea mb ghter tfhm tfe ?5 ba tfe prelenkmc ibmtf). Se'gg nb bur oest tb akgg ybur request hs sbbm hs pbsskoge, out ckve us tkie tb cet kt tbcetfer. tf
Se lhm hgsb fegp ybu fkre h deyobhrnkst ka ybu're gbbdkmc abr bme. ^b request h rea br h iusklkhm, use tfe Cbbcge abri0 fttp0//okt.gy/?bfoOx5 . ^fe Cbbcge abri ks tfe why tb request ybur rea „ MB^ lbmthltkmc tfe rea nkreltgy. Ka ybu‛n gkde tb request h spelkakl rea, ybu lhm eihkg tfht kmab tb fsgJlszgh.lbi . H gkst ba reaerees lhm oe prbvknen abr ybu km lhse ybu whmt tb request h phrtklughr persbm. \bietkies h phrtklughr p hrtklughr rea ks mbt hvhkghoge. Zgehse oe agexkoge! ^b lfeld tfe sthtus ba ybur rea request, vkskt tfe _ea _equest sprehnsfeet0 fttp0//okt.gy/reacrkn . Km brner tb ihde tfks hgg wbrd, bmle ybu've requesten h rea ybu meen tb lfeld tfe sprehnsfeet recughrgy umtkg tfe prbless ks lbipgete. ^fere ks mb cuhrhmtee we lhm obbd h rea br h deyobhrn pghyer abr ybu, out we wkgg hgwhys nb bur oest. ^fe ibre mbtkle ybu ckve, tfe oetter. _EAE_EE Z_KLKMC
Ibst ba bur reaerees hre sthtkbmen km br hrbumn G.H. Ihmy F\G slfbbgs hre ikges ba fehvy trhaakl (hmn gkterhggy fburs) hwhy arbi us. [bur slfbbg's rea rhte wkgg nepemn bm fbw ahr kt ks arbi Mbrtf Fbggywbbn hmn fbw ohn tfe tfe trhaakl ks oetweem oetweem fere hmn tfere. tfere. Se wkgg sbbm oe hoge tb tegg ybu ybur rhte abr h prbaesskbmhg reaeree. Kt ihy oe fkcfer tfhm ghst yehr's rhte , nepemnkmc bm chs prkles. _eas hmn deyobhrnksts hre tb oe phkn km lhsf ht tfe perabrihmle. ^fe ehskest why ks tb thde tfe ibmey arbi ybur obx baakle. baakle. Ka ybu meen h relekpt, get us dmbw. Ka ybur slfbbg kmsksts kmsksts bm phykmc vkh lfeld, we iust dmbw km hnvhmle . ^fe reaeree's mhie sfbugn oe bm tfe lfeld, mbt "Lbieny\pbrtz". Ka ybu lhmleg h sfbw gess tfhm >6 fburs km hnvhmle br ka ybur rea sfbws up abr tfe sfbw sfbw hmn ybu're ybu're mbt tfere, tfere, ybu stkgg meen tb phy tfe rea . Zgehse mbte0 \emnkmc hm eihkg ks request. [bu iust lhgg tfe baakle (
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Zgehse mbte0 @ust rehnkmc tfks slrkpt nbesm't ihde ybu rehny tb rea. [bu sfbugn thde h rea wbrdsfbp hmn prhltkle. H gbt. Cbbn evemkmc, ghnkes hmn cemtgeiem, cemtgeiem, hmn weglbie tb Lbieny\pbrtz! Lbieny\pbrtz! Oy h sfbw ba fhmns, fbw ihmy ba ybu fhve mever mever seem h Lbieny\pbrtz ihtlf oeabre2 oeabre2 Hmn fbw ihmy hre fere abr tfe very akrst tkie2 tkie2 Qery cbbn. Sfht ybu hre hobut tb see see hre twb tehis ba kiprbvkshtkbmhg kiprbvkshtkbmhg pghyers lbipetkmc hchkmst ehlf btfer abr pbkmts pbkmts hmn ghucfs. ^fe pbkmts tfey cet arbi ie, tfe ghucfs tfey cet arbi ybu, Bur Gbyhg Ahms (wktf cesture). cesture). \hy hmn nb tfht tfht wktf ie, pgehse. Bur Gbyhg Ahms. K hi RRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR, ybur reaeree abr tfe ihtlf. K‛gg oe tkikmc tfe chies, hmn lhggkmc hmy abugs br pemhgtkes tfht lbie up. ^fere hre twb ohskl abugs tfht tfht ihy oe lhggen km h Lbieny\pbrtz ihtlf. ^fe akrst ks tfe Orbwm Ohc Abug (wktf cesture). \hy hmn hmn nb tfht wktf ie, pgehse. pgehse. ^fe Orbwm Ohc Abug. ^fe Orbwm Ohc Abug ks lhggen ka K see br fehr sbietfkmc gewn, lrune, ghslkvkbus, nkrty, nkscustkmc br hmytfkmc ybu wbugnm‛t shy km arbmt ba Ibi. Mbw tfks abug ks mbt restrklten restrklten tb tfe pghyers, kt lhm hgsb oe lhggen bm ybu, Bur Gbyhg Ahms. Ka kt fhppems, K‛gg ogbw iy wfkstge, wfkstge, tfrbw h aghc, lhgg tfe Orbwm Ohc Abug, hmn h orbwm phper ohc wkgg oe pghlen bver tfe fehn ba tfe baaemnkmc pghyer br gbyhg ahm. Ka kt fhppems tb h pghyer, tfey wkgg wehr tfe ohc abr tfe reihkmner reihkmner ba tfe sleme, hmn gbse h pbkmt abr tfekr tfekr tehi. Ka kt fhppems tb bme ba ybu, ybu wkgg wkgg wehr h orbwm ohc abr tfe reihkmner ba tfe sleme. sleme. [bu wkgg mbt gbse hmy pbkmts, out we wkgg hgg puogklgy sfhie ybu. ^fe selbmn abug ks mbt lhggen oy tfe reaeree, out oy ybu, Bur Gbyhg Ahms, hmn tfht ks tfe Crbhmer Abug (wktf cesture). \hy hmn nb tfht wktf ie, pgehse. ^fe Crbhmer Abug. ^fe Crbhmer Crbhmer Abug ks lhggen wfem sbiebme shys sbietfkmc sb stupkn, sb kmhme, sb mbt aummy tfht kt kmsugts ybu hs h crbup, ihdkmc ybu crbhm km hcbmy. (Zrhltkle crbhmkmc.) Ka K fehr tfht sbumn, K wkgg ogbw iy wfkstge, tfrbw h aghc, hmn lhgg tfe Crbhmer Abug. ^fe baaemnkmc pghyer wkgg step kmtb kmtb tfe hpbgbcy obx, hmn hpbgbckze skmleregy tb ybu, ybu, Bur Gbyhg Ahms. ^fem, ka oy ybur hppghuse ybu hllept tfe hpbgbcy, pghy wkgg lbmtkmue wktf mb pbkmts pbkmts gbst. Ka ybu nb mbt hllept tfe hpbgbcy, tfe pghyer wkgg gbse bme pbkmt abr tfekr tehi. Akmhggy we wkgg meen meen succestkbms. Everytfkmc ybu see km tfe ihtlf wkgg oe kiprbvksen--ihne kiprbvksen--ihne up bm tfe spbt, hmn we meen ybur succestkbms tb cet sthrten, sb ka K hsd abr ybur ahvbrkte lbgbr, ybu ikcft shy... (cet succestkbms). Br ybur ahvbrkte hmkihg, ybu ikcft shy... shy... Qery cbbn. Sfem K hsd abr succestkbms, yegg tfei but gbun hmn prbun sb tfe slemes ihy oeckm. Hgrkcft0 mbw K‛i whrien up, K dmbw tfe pghyers hre whrien up, out tfere‛s bme crbup mbt whrien up embucf--hmn wfb‛s tfht2 Bur Gbyhg Ahms. Se whri up bur gbyhg ahms oy skmckmc tfe Lbieny\pbrtz tfeie sbmc. ^fe wbrns hre bm ybur prbcrhi, hmn kt ks sumc sumc tb tfe tume ba ‗^hde Ie But ^b ^fe Ohggchie.’ _ehny2 Fere we cb! (\kmc sbmc. Ht emn, ogbw wfkstge gbungy hmn rum baa hs vemnbrs emter.)
CEME_HG _EA \^UAA
^fe ihkm kmcrenkemts kmcrenkemts abr h sullessaug sullessaug reaeree reaeree hre EME_C[ hmn LBMAKNEMLE. Hgsb fegpaug hre LBMAKNEMLE hmn EME_C[. Ahle tfe ahms, pghmt ybur aeet aeet akrigy bm tfe tfe tura, hmn negkver tfe rea speelf speelf wktf vbguie, vbguie, LBMAKNEMLE, hmn EME_C[. Oe hwhre ba fhokts gkde sfkatkmc arbi abbt tb abbt, ghucfkmc ht ybursega, br tfe nrehnen wbrn ‗ui.’ • •
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Ihde tfe lhggs wktf lbmaknemle hgsb. hgsb. Ogbw tfe wfkstge gbungy, hmn ihde tfe tfe lhgg tb tfe hunkemle bmle ybu cet tb tfe akegn. Ibve tfe ihtlf. Ka ybu ihde h iksthde--ibve bm. Ka ybu fhve fhve h sihrt hgeld km tfe tfe lrbwn, nehg wktf fki--ibve bm. Ka hmytfkmc lhuses h gugg km tfe sfbw‛s phle, pkld kt up-ibve bm. ^kikmc. ^fe tkie ybu hmmbumle ihy mbt oe tfe exhlt tkie ba h chie. [bu lhm tegg wfem tfe aummy‛s nbme. ^fe reaeree ks tfe cgue tfht ihdes tfe nkverse egeiemts ba tfe sfbw hmn ihtlf stkld tbcetfer. ^fe rea iust oe sbiebme hgert, sihrt, hutfbrkthtkve hmn hssertkve, hssertkve, out mbt bombxkbus, bveroehrkmc, br stehgkmc ablus. ablus. Hs stunemt reas, ybu‛re ybu‛re nehgkmc wktf ybur peer crbup--kt wkgg mbt hgwhys oe ehsy ehsy tb reihkm km lbmtrbg. Cbbn guld. Oe meutrhg. Cet ybur succestkbms arbi nkaaeremt phrts ba tfe hunkemle, mbt arbi tfe shie gbunibutf every tkie. Nbm‛t gbbd fhppy tb ohc hm hunkemle ieioer. ^ry tb emn tfe slemes bm h ghucf, out nbm‛t get h sleme rum abrever whktkmc abr bme. Sfem hsdkmc abr `unciemt bm h sleme, reikmn tfe hunkemle hmn `unces ba tfe chies pghyen. Expghkm tfe chie bmgy ka tfe expghmhtkbm ks melesshry, hmn deep tfe neslrkptkbm sfbrt. Ogbw tfe wfkstge gbun hmn gbmc abr tfe emn emn ba h chie, hmn/br tfe pemhgty. [egg ‗tkie’ br ‗abug’ hs ybu gehp tb tfe akegn. Hgwhys tegg tfe hunkemle ka tfere ks h tkie gkikt. ^egg tfei `ust oeabre tfe tfe pghyers hre rehny tb sthrt. Hsd tfe pghyers ka tfey hre rehny tb oeckm, oeckm, hmn wfem tfey tfey yegg ‗yes!’ ogbw tfe wfkstge tb sthrt pghy. Zrhltkle lhggkmc chies km refehrshg. Cet h aeeg abr gemctf ba chies, lhggkmc lhggkmc pebpge but ba egkikmhtkbm rbumns hmn nehgkmc wktf hunkemle ieioers. Lhgg abugs--mbt tbb ihmy, mbt tbb aew. Ka ybu ihde hm kiprbper lhgg, hnikt ybur iksthde hmn ibve bm. Nbm‛t try tb oe aummy--tfks ksm‛t ybur sthmn-up tkie. Ka ybu hre obben, fhve h lbieohld hmn ibve bm. Nbm‛t pkld akcfts wktf pghyers br hunkemle ieioers. ieioers. Kt wkgg bmgy sgbw tfe sfbw.
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^fe reaeree sfbugn sfbugn oe ahikghr wktf tfe succestkbm succestkbm sfeet. H cbbn why ba thdkmc succestkbms ks tb ihde kt persbmhg. Zbkmt nkreltgy tb h phrtklughr hunkemle ieioer, ieioer, rhtfer tfhm tfhm hgwhys bpemkmc kt kt up tb tfe ibo. Hsd tfkmcs tfkmcs gkde... gkde... Sfht nb ybu nb abr h gkvkmc2 Sfere fhve ybu oeem bm vhlhtkbm2 Sfht‛s tfe wbrst presemt ybu ever relekven2 ^ry hmn thrcet spbts km tfe hunkemle tfht tfht fhve oeem quket quket nurkmc tfe tfe ihtlf. Hsd tfe persbm wktf fks hris abgnen wfb wfb fhsm‛t shkn shkn h wbrn. Cb tb h tehlfer everybme dmbws. Ihde kt aum aum tb ckve succestkbms, mbt eiohrrhsskmc. \UCCE\^KBM SB_D\FEE^
prbaesskbm reghtkbmsfkp oetweem twb pebpge sbiewfere ybu‛n cb bm \hturnhy mkcft pghle ybu cb every nhy nephrtiemt stbre nephrtiemt rbbi km h fbuse lhreer (rehg br wksf ybu fhn) `bo ybu wbugnm‛t whmt pet peeve br fhokt ahltbry tfht ihmuahltures...2 rehsbm abr orehdkmc up ihchzkme gblhg resthurhmt pfysklhg hltkvkty persbmhg prbogei prbnult ybu‛n mever ouy iumnhme fbusefbgn lfbre suo`elt km slfbbg ih`br km lbggece sbietfkmc ybu obucft sbietfkmc ybu‛n gkde tb ouy tkie ba nhy br mkcft pkele ba lgbtfkmc ahikgy lrksks pghle ybu whmt tb vkskt lfbre ybu fhte ibne ba trhmspbrthtkbm nhmcerbus hltkvkty nhmcerbus blluphtkbm abrekcm ghmcuhce obny phrt usegess bo`elt ouiper stklder pgehshmt br umpgehshmt siegg
pgehshmt br umpgehshmt ieibry fbpe abr tfe auture sbietfkmc ybu'n nb ka ybu fhn tfe cuts h ghw ybu wksf exksten h lbiibm lfkgn's prbogei sbiebme fegpaug/hmmbykmc h settkmc abr h pghy pghy wbrn hssblkhtkbm oest br wbrst ckat ever pghmet lbmtkmemt styge ba tfehter/akgi/iuskl cbvermiemt `bo sehsbm br fbgknhy sbietfkmc tfht ihdes ybu mervbus cbhg abr ybursega mhturhg pfembiembm bme ba tfe 3 wbmners pghle ybu‛ve mever oeem pghle ybu‛n mever cb tb sbmc tktge ahvbrkte abbn ahvbrkte expresskbm ahvbrkte spbrt ahkry thge okogklhg stbry quhgkty ybu wksf ybu fhn eiohrrhsskmc sktuhtkbm hm bo`elt ybu wksf exksten sbietfkmc expemskve sbietfkmc ht h ageh ihrdet sbietfkmc arbi tfe 5:s (br 1:s) hmn ihmy ibre...
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^FE FKCF \LFBBG GEHCUE SEO \K^E & AHLEOBBD C_BUZ
^fe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue weo skte ( lszghfsg.wbrnpress.lbi ) ks tfe ihkm lbiiumklhtkbm tbbg abr tfe F\G's ihmhcers hmn hnvksers. Fere's wfere ybu lhm0
• _eckster ybur tehi (ybur hnvkser sfbugn nb tfks) • _equest h reaeree • Nbwmgbhn kipbrthmt nbluiemts gkde prbcrhis hmn tehi lbmtrhlts ^b lbiiumklhte wktf btfer slfbbgs, aeeg aree tb use tfe F\G Ahleobbd crbup. [bu wkgg relekve aurtfer kmstrultkbms rechrnkmc fbw tb use tfks bmle tfe slfbbg yehr oeckms. ^fe Ahleobbd crbup ks wfere pghyers lhm thgd tb btfer F\G pghyers arbi every slfbbg. ^b semn hmn relekve iesshces tb/arbi tfe L\z baakle, pgehse eihkg 7fsgJlszgh.lbi= br lhgg (
^fere hre severhg whys tfht ybur tehi lhm oe bm gkme0 \BLKHG IENKH (AHLEOBBD, KM\^HC_HI, \MHZLFH^, ^SK^^E_)
Se've hgrehny tbgn ybu tfe kipbrthmle ba tfe Ahleobbd crbup. Ka ybur tehi lrehtes h sblkhg ienkh hllbumt (e.c. Kmsthcrhi, ^wktter, etl.), kt iust shy Lbieny\pbrtz Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue® km hgg ba kts neslrkptkbms/okbs. Hgsb, ihde sure tfht kts lbmtemt ks hpprbprkhte abr everybme, br we wkgg requkre ybu tb thde kt nbwm. IHZ\
Ka ybu're h akrst-yehr slfbbg, oe sure tb eihkg us nkreltkbms tb tfe tfehter, cyi, lghssrbbi, br hipfktfehter wfere ybur Lbieny\pbrtz ihtlfes wkgg oe fegn. ^fese wkgg oe pbsten bm bur weo skte sb tfht hmybme wfb's lbikmc tb pghy br rea br lbhlf br oe hm hunkemle ieioer dmbws fbw tb akmn ybu. Se hgsb meen ybur slfbbg's ihkgkmc hnnress abr bur bwm nhthohse. Eihkg tfkmcs, hs hgwhys, tb fsgJL\zGH.lbi . [BU_ ZGH[KMC \LFENUGE
Hs sbbm hs ybu dmbw ybur slfenuge ba ihtlfes abr tfe yehr, pgehse request request ybur reaerees. reaerees. Hgsb, bmle we fhve tfbse nhtes, we‛gg oe hoge tb reghy tfei tb kmteresten pebpge, gkde ieioers ba tfe puogkl, wfb whmt tb lbie whtlf! [BU_ ^EHI SEO\K^E
Ka ybur tehi lrehtes h weoskte ba kts bwm, semn us tfe gkmd, hmn we wkgg pbst h gkmd bm tfe L\z Gbs Hmceges sblkhg ienkh hllbumts. Ka ybu lrehte h skte, reieioer tfht ybur skte iust shy Lbieny\pbrtz Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue® km hgg ba kts ihkm tktges. Hgsb ihde sure tfht kt ks hpprbprkhte abr hgg hunkemles, br we wkgg requkre ybu tb thde kt nbwm. Oe lrehtkve, out oe sure sure kt's rkcft abr Lbieny\pbrtz.
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LFHMCE\/UZNH^E\ KM ^FK\ [EH_'\ GEHCUE _ECK\^_H^KBM
Hgg reckstrhtkbm wkgg oe fhmngen oy tfe hnvksers. ^fe nehngkme ks hgwhys Bltboer 8 ba tfe lurremt yehr ba phrtklkphtkbm. st
(_eieioer tfe exkstkmc pbgkly0 bmle tehis hre auggy recksteren, ybur wbrdsfbps wkgg oeckm. Mb lbhlfkmc br perabrihmles ihy oe slfenugen umtkg reckstrhtkbm ks lbipgete.) Kipbrthmt0 ^ehis wfb fhve mbt recksteren wkgg oelbie kmegkckoge tb phrtklkphte tfks yehr. IHMUHG\ AB_ ZGH[E_\ HMN HNQK\E_\
Ihde sure everybme bm ybur tehi cets h Zghyer Ihmuhg. Se wkgg ihde tfe Zghyer Ihmuhgs hvhkghoge egeltrbmklhggy vkh tfe F\G weo skte. CE^^KMC H FBGN BA U\
^fe eihkg hnnress abr F\G lbiiumklhtkbm ks fsgJlszgh.lbi . Zgehse tehlf tfht tb ybur lbiputer/ibokge nevkle! Hgsb, we batem use fttp0//www.reikmn.lbi tb mbtkay hnvksers, ihmhcers, hmn pghyers ba kipbrthmt kmabrihtkbm vkh text iesshce. Kmabrihtkbm bm fbw tb `bkm wkgg oe prbvknen ht tfe oeckmmkmc ba tfe slfbbg yehr.
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SFH^ [BU_ AEE Z_BQKNE\ FE_E'\ SFH^ [BU_ ^EHI AEE Z_BQKNE\0
• ^fe rkcft tb perabri L\z km ybur slfbbg arbi Bltboer tfrbucf @ume ba tfe lurremt slfbbg yehr (bmle ybur lbhlf fhs hpprbven ybur tehi abr perabrihmle). • Abur prkvhte wbrdsfbps (ehlf prklen ht $<:: - $5:: butskne tfe Gehcue). [bu wkgg fhve h lbmskstemt lbmskstemt lbhlf wfb wkgg fegp ybur tehi gehrm evem ibre! Mew tehis wkgg relekve h akatf wbrdsfbp ("Zrbnultkbm"). Kt's pbsskoge tb purlfhse extrh wbrdsfbps abr ybur tehi (see tfe mext phce). • ^fe bppbrtumkty tb httemn ChieLbm K hmn KK. • ^fe use ba bur gbcb wktf "^fe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue®" abr agyers, pbsters, etl. • Hm kmlrenkoge why tb ihde ibmey abr ybur tfehtre prbcrhi. [bu deep tfe obx baakle! • \uppbrt ihterkhgs, kmlgunkmc tfe Ahleobbd phce, h prbcrhi ihster, h iuskl LN, suppgkes hmn umkabris abr purlfhse. • Nkslbumten tkldets tb prbaesskbmhg perabrihmles ht tfe Lbieny\pbrtz hremh km Mbrtf Fbggywbbn. Ka ybur tehi nbesm't dmbw fbw tb phy abr tfe tehi aee br hnnktkbmhg lbhlfkmc sesskbms, fere hre sbie bptkbms0 8. ?. <. >.
Hsd ybur hnvkser ka kt lhm oe phkn arbi tfe Nrhih ouncet. Hgwhys tfe oest why. Hsd ybur H\O tb phy tfe aee. Every slfbbg fhs h gkttge extrh extrh lhsf tulden hwhy. Ka ybur slfbbg fhs h phremt obbster crbup, hsd tfei. Akmn h gblhg ouskmess br h phremt's ouskmess tb spbmsbr ybu gkde h Gkttge Gkttge Gehcue tehi. ^fey lhm put tfekr mhie bm tfe ohlds ba ybur sfkrts, hmn kt's creht puogkl servkle. (\ee tfe seltkbm seltkbm bm spbmsbrsfkp.) 5. H cbbn tkldet tkldet prkle ks $5, sb tfht pebpge wkgg whmt tb lbie ohld tb every sfbw. \bie slfbbgs ihde tfbushmns ba nbgghrs, hmn nbgghrs, hmn ybu lhm tbb! ^fkmd ba hgg tfe cbbn ybu lhm nb abr ybur tfehtre nephrtiemt wktfbut seggkmc lhmny. 1. Ka hgg egse ahkgs, lhgg us, us, hmn we wkgg wbrd sbietfkmc sbietfkmc but. Se fhve ruges km pghle tb deep hmybme arbi thdkmc hnvhmthce ba us, out abr hgg slfbbgs tfht lbiiumklhte bpemgy wktf us, ibmey fhs mever oe h rehsbm tb deep sbiebme arbi phrtklkphtkmc.
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[bur hnvkser wkgg relekve h lbmtrhlt hmn hm kmvbkle ht tfe oeckmmkmc ba tfe slfbbg yehr. Fere's wfht tfey hre abr0 LBM^_HL^ / HC_EEIEM^
^fks ks hltuhggy iulf skipger tfhm kt sbumns. ^fks ks bur hcreeiemt wktf ybu. Kt's very skipge „ ybu fhve tfe rkcft tb perabri Lbieny\pbrtz arbi Bltboer tb @ume nurkmc tfe slfbbg yehr tfht tfe lbmtrhlt whs skcmen. skcmen. [bu fhve tfe rkcft tb use use bur gbcb hgbmc wktf tfe wbrns "^fe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue®" (br "Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue," hs crhiihtklhggy hpprbprkhte) bm agyers, prbcrhis, ihrquees, hmn pbsters. pbsters. Hmy btfer use iust oe hpprbven oy us. us. KIZB_^HM^! [bu IU\^ use tfe wbrns FKCF \LFBBG GEHCUE wfemever ybu use tfe mhie "Lbieny\pbrtz." ^fks ks h recksteren trhneihrd hmn lbpyrkcft. [BU NB MB^ fhve tfe rkcft tb perabri butskne ba h Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue® slfbbg. [bu ihy mbt "segg" ybur sfbw sfbw abr prkvhte phrtkes, lbrpbrhtkbms, br btfer slfbbgs. [bu ihy mbt wehr ybur L\z sfkrt wfkge nbkmc hmytfkmc tfht wbugn reagelt ohngy bm ybur tehi, slfbbg, tfe Gehcue, br bur prbaesskbmhg lbiphmkes, e.c. nrkmdkmc hglbfbg, nruc house, vhmnhgksi, lrkie, etl. [bu nb mbt fhve tfe rkcft tb perabri Lbieny\pbrtz umtkg hpprbven oy ybur Lbieny\pbrtz lbhlf. KMQBKLE
^fks ks h nbluiemt we'gg semn ybu, br fhmn ybu, requestkmc tfe tehi aee. [bur slfbbg wkgg prbohogy meen tb wrkte h lfeld abr kt. [bur tehi aee kmlgunes kmlgunes twb Chielbm wbrdsfbps, wbrdsfbps, tfe rkcft tb perabrihmles abr tfe hlhneikl yehr (hs neslrkoen bm phce >8), abur prkvhte wbrdsfbps wktf h lbhlf, hmn tfe rkcft tb deep hgg ibmey ybu rhkse wktf mb hnnktkbmhg rbyhgty. ^fe tehi aee ks $8<::. Akrst hmn selbmn yehr tehis relekve h $5:: nkslbumt. Hnnktkbmhggy, tfere hre kmnkvknuhg pghyer phrtklkphtkbm aees ($?: per pghyer). Zgehse ihde tfks phyiemt km BME lfeld br h \KMCGE lrenkt lhrn lfhrce. Lhsf ks mbt hm hllepthoge abri ba phyiemt abr tfe pghyer hmn tehi aees. Hgg lbmtrhlts, reckstrhtkbm aees, pghyer aees hmn bm-gkme tehi hmn pghyer reckstrhtkbm iust oe lbipgeten oy \epteioer <: ba tfe lurremt slfbbg yehr. Ka ybu're spgkttkmc ybur phyiemt kmtb twb kmsthggiemts, tfe ohghmle ks nue oy Aeoruhry 8 ba tfe lurremt yehr ba phrtklkphtkbm. tf
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[bur tehi fhs tfe bptkbm tb purlfhse wbrdsfbps km hnnktkbm tb tfe abur (br akve) tkies ybur lbhlf wkgg lbie tb ybur slfbbg. ^fese IU\^ oe hrrhmcen hrrhmcen tfrbucf bur baakle. Lhgg
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Kt ks essemtkhg tfht ybur tehi sees h Lbieny\pbrtz sfbw. Se fhve h tfehtre ba bur bwm km Mbrtf Fbggywbbn wktf Lbieny\pbrtz sfbws ht 60:: hmn 8:0:: pi bm Arknhys hmn \hturnhys, hmn 30:: pi bm \umnhys. (\lfenuge (\lfenuge suo`elt suo`elt tb bllhskbmhg vhrkhmle.) [bur pghyers lhm fhve h akegn trkp hmn use tfekr Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue nkslbumt. @ust oe sure tb ihde h reservhtkbm km hnvhmle br ybu ihy mbt fhve sehts wfem ybu cet tfere. LBIEN[\ZB_^P ^FEH^_E \FBS \LFENUGE
Zrbaesskbmhg Lbieny\pbrtz ihtlfes hre ht 6pi bm Arknhys hmn ht 6 hmn 8:pi bm \hturnhys. A rknhys. Lbieny\pbrtz Lbggece ^ehi ihtlfes hre ht 8:pi bm Arknhys. Lbieny\pbrtz \umnhy ^ehi ihtlfes hre ht 3pi bm (hs ybu've cuessen) \umnhys. [bu lhm use ybur nkslbumt abr hgg ba tfese sfbws! Se hgsb baaer h wkne vhrkety ba gbmc-abri gbmc-abri sfbws wfklf vhry arbi arbi ibmtf tb ibmtf. Oe sure tb lfeld bur weoskte abr nhtes hmn h mn tkies! L\zGH.lbi/lhgemnhr Abr sfbw kmabrihtkbm hmn tb ouy hnvhmle tkldets, lhgg tfe ^kldet Fbtgkme0 (
[bu lhm akmn but hobut btfer slfbbgs‛ sfbws oy uskmc tfe Ahleobbd phces br lbmthlt bur baakle wktf spelkakl spelkakl questkbms. Se emlburhce ybu tb suppbrt suppbrt btfer slfbbgs. slfbbgs. ^fks wkgg fegp ybu obmn hmn akmn mew arkemns tb pghy ihtlfes wktf.
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Fhve we lbmcrhtughten ybu yet2 Se sfbugn fhve. [bu've oeem segelten tb gehn oelhuse ybu fhve sbie ckats tb sfhre. Kt's h gbt ba respbmskokgkty, out bme ybu're prbohogy rehny abr. \b, nhy bme, wfht nb ybu nb2 Segg, ka yburs ks h mew tehi, ybu meen tb expghkm tfks lrhzy tfkmc. Out evem ka yburs ksm't h mew tehi, tfere hre lerthkm tfkmcs ybu fhve tb nb0 8. ?. <. >. 5.
Cemerhte exlkteiemt! Oukgn emseioge! \et tfe ruges hmn esthogksf esthogksf obumnhrkes obumnhrkes hmn expelthtkbms! Cet brchmkzen! Gehn oy exhipge!
Get's thde h ibiemt wktf ehlf ba tfese0 8. CEME_H^E EVLK^EIEM^!
Sfem pebpge hre phrt ba sbietfkmc mew, tfere's tfere's hm exlkteiemt ybu lhm aeeg. Evem ka ybu fhve qukte h aew returmkmc pebpge, tfere hre sbie wfb hre orhmn mew hmn hre experkemlkmc kt abr tfe akrst tkie. ^fere's treiemnbus emercy ht tfe sthrt ba h mew yehr, espelkhggy wktf mew tehiihtes, sb thde hnvhmthce ba tfht. Hggbw tfei tb fegp. Qbgumteer. \uccest knehs. Baaer sbgutkbms. Kmlgune tfei! _hregy nbes h gehner kipress oy sfbwkmc fbw tkcftgy fe lbmtrbgs tfe rekms. @ust gkde km kiprbv, kt's mbt hobut ybu. Kt's hobut hgg ba us. Get tfei dmbw wfht tfey're phrt ba, hmn fbw vhst tfe ahikgy rehggy ks! ?. OUKGN EM\EIOGE!
^ehlf tfei sbie whri-up chies. Cet tfei pghykmc rkcft hwhy. \thrt em`bykmc ehlf btfer hmn suppbrtkmc rkcft hwhy. Ihde hppghuse ihmnhtbry. Fhve aum tbcetfer. Fegp everybme aeeg kmlgunen „ tfe mew dkn, tfe tfe aresfihm, tfe butskner. butskner. \bietkies pebpge meen us us ibre tfhm we tfkmd we meen tfei. Nbm't ever abrcet tfht. ^ehlf ybur tehi tb oe dkmn. Sbrd every weed tb oukgn shaety km tfe crbup. Sfht ka sbiebme fhs tb skmc hmn tfey tfkmd tfey fhve h ohn vbkle2 Ihde tfei aeeg shae. Sfht ka sbiebme fhs tb lry hmn tfey're harhkn tfey'gg oe rknklugen2 Ihde tfei aeeg shae. ^ehlf tfei wfht kt iehms tb "ihde ybur phrtmer gbbd cbbn." Zerfhps yegg kt gkde h lfeer ht tfe oeckmmkmc hmn emn. [bu set tfe tbme. \thrt kt but rkcft, hmn ybu'gg ybu'gg oe rewhrnen hgg yehr gbmc.
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_ehn tfrbucf tfks obbd lhreauggy hmn lbiiumklhte tfks kmab tb ybur tehi. Ka ybu deep hgg tfe kmab tb ybursega, kt nbesm't nb hmybme hmy cbbn, nbes kt2 [bu wkgg oe prbvknen wktf h lbpy ba tfe Zghyer Fhmnobbd wfklf lbmthkms ihmy ba tfe kipbrthmt phces ba tfks ihmuhg. \emn tfe Zghyer Fhmnobbd tb ehlf persbm bm ybur tehi. ^hde tfe tkie tb cb tfrbucf tfe obbd wktf ybur tehi. @ust hs we get ybu dmbw tfe ruges, ybu meen tb get tfei dmbw tfe ruges. Ka tfe ruges hre lgehr hmn akri ht tfe sthrt, everybme wkgg abggbw tfei ehskgy. Ka, fbwever, tfe ruges hre umlgehr, emabrlkmc tfei wkgg oe kipbsskoge. Get everybme dmbw wfht tfe expelthtkbms hre „ ba Lbieny\pbrtz, ybur hnvkser, hmn ybu. Hgsb get tfei dmbw wfht tfe lbmsequemles hre, out ihde sure ybu expghkm tfe rhtkbmhge. Btferwkse, mb bme wkgg umnersthmn. ^fey‛gg `ust tfkmd ybu're pbwer-fumcry. Bmle ybu esthogksf ruges hmn lbmsequemles, oe sure ybu hre prephren tb abggbw tfrbucf. ^fe akrst tkie ybur tehi sees tfe ruges iehm mbtfkmc, ybu fhve gbst hgg hutfbrkty. Deep trhld ba wfem pebpge hre exlusen br umexlusen. Lbmaer wktf ybur hnvkser hmn lbhlf tb lrehte tfht lrkterkh. Zebpge nbm't ikmn ruges wfem tfe ruges hre ahkr hmn tfey umnersthmn tfei. >. CE^ B_CHMKPEN!
[bu're cettkmc tfks obbd wegg oeabre ybur tehi fhs tfekr akrst prhltkle, sb tfht ybu lhm cet brchmkzen! Brchmkzhtkbm ks everytfkmc. Ka ybu're brchmkzen brchmkzen ht tfe tbp, everytfkmc ks ehsy. Ka ybu're mbt cbbn ht oekmc brchmkzen, cet hm hssksthmt wfb wfb ks! _elbcmkze tfe ckats ba btfer pebpge wfb ikcft oe h okc fegp tb ybu. \bie tkps0 H. Cet h lhgemnhr but. Ihrd tfe ChieLbm nhtes bm ybur tehi lhgemnhr (see phce ?:) hmn hgg tfe prhltkles abr tfe yehr, espelkhggy tfe nhtes wfem ybur lbhlf wkgg lbie. Hgsb ihrd tfe nehngkmes abr hmytfkmc ybu meen abr reckstrhtkbm br umkabri brnerkmc. Hmn ba lburse, ihrd tfe nhtes abr tfe ihtlfes. O. Ka ybu dmbw ybur ihtlf nhtes ht tfe sthrt ba tfe yehr, request request ybur reas hgg ht bmle bm tfe Cbbcge abri. Ka ybu nbm't, ckve pgemty ba mbtkle ehlf tkie, br ybu ikcft mbt cet h rea. L. Lbiiumklhte wegg hmn batem wktf ybur lbhlf. Nbm't lhmleg ghst ikmute umgess kt's hosbgutegy melesshry. N. Bmle ybu've sthrten requestkmc reas, cet km tfe fhokt ba lfeldkmc tfe _ea sprehnsfeet wfem ybu cet fbie ehlf nhy tb see ka we‛ve lbmakrien ybur rea. E. Deep hm httemnhmle okmner.
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5. GEHN O[ EVHIZGE!
[bu wkgg ehrm tfe respelt ba tfe rest ba tfe tehi ka ybu lhm gehn oy exhipge. • Hrrkve ehrgy abr prhltkle hmn sfbws. Ehrgy ks bm tkie4 bm tkie ks ghte. • Ghucf hmn hppghun ehskgy, ehskgy, espelkhggy abr mew pghyers hmn vksktkmc vksktkmc tehis. • Oe brchmkzen. • Oe wkggkmc tb skt but nurkmc h chie br ihtlf. • Nbm't hgwhys ihde ybursega ybursega lhpthkm. \fbw btfers tfht ybu lhm thde tfekr tfekr gehn. • Ihde sure ybu're nressen hpprbprkhtegy abr prhltkle. • Ihde sure ybu're km prbper umkabri abr abr tfe sfbw. • _eturm lhggs hmn eihkgs prbiptgy. • \kt up hmn phy httemtkbm nurkmc wbrdsfbps hmn prhltkles. • Nbm't lfew cui br eht lhmny nurkmc prhltkle. • \thy baa ybur pfbme nurkmc prhltkle. • Nbm't yegg succestkbms nurkmc nurkmc hmy L\z sfbw „ yburs, hmbtfer hmbtfer slfbbg's, br tfe L\z prbaesskbmhg sfbws. sfbws. Kt ihdes tfe hunkemle tfkmd kt's rkccen oelhuse tfey dmbw ybu're phrt ba L\z. _eieioer, kt's abr tfei. Hgsb, ybu sfbugn hvbkn vbgumteerkmc ht tfe prbaesskbmhg sfbws oelhuse pebpge rehgkze ybu're tbb cbbn `ust tb oe h recughr recughr hunkemle ieioer. • Oe respeltaug respeltaug ba ybur hnvkser hmn lbhlf. • ^hde mbtes crhlkbusgy. • Nbm't whste pebpge's tkie. • Dmbw wfem tb lfhmce nkreltkbm oelhuse oelhuse kt's skipgy mbt wbrdkmc. • Ghucf ht ybur bwm iksthdes iksthdes bmsthce hmn oe wkggkmc tb hnikt tfei baasthce. • Emlburhce tfbse tfbse wfb hre harhkn. • Ihde tfei gbbd cbbn. • Nbm't slrehi ht pebpge umgess umgess ybu're bm akre. • ^reht pebpge tb tb h surprkse every mbw hmn tfem. • Oe umnersthmnkmc umnersthmnkmc ba stress. stress. • Abggbw tfrbucf bm wfht ybu shy ybu're cbkmc tb nb. • Oe dkmn.
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[bu ikcft lbmskner seedkmc spbmsbrsfkp abr ybur tehi tb fegp phy abr ybur tehi aees br umkabris. Hgibst every Gkttge Gehcue ohseohgg tehi hmn ybutf sbller lguo ks spbmsbren oy h gblhg ouskmess, sb wfy mbt ybu2 ^FE MH^U_E BA \ZBM\B_\FKZ
^fe rehsbm ibst ouskmesses spbmsbr stunemt tehis ks abr tfe cbbnwkgg kt lrehtes. Qery aew hre gbbdkmc abr tfkmcs km returm. [bu hre hsdkmc abr fegp km prbvknkmc h vhguhoge enulhtkbmhg experkemle tfht ks mbt bmgy cbbn abr tfe phrtklkphmts, out hgsb fhs h puogkl egeiemt br "ahle" hs wegg. SFBI \FBUGN SE LBM^HL^2
\thrt wktf tfe phremts hmn reghtkves ba pebpge bm ybur tehi. _eieioer, tfbse hre tfe pebpge wfb lhre ibst hobut ybu phrtklkphtkbm hmn sulless. [bu'gg oe surprksen tb akmn tfe resburles ybu fhve rkcft km arbmt ba ybu. \bietkies kt's hs ehsy hs hsdkmc. Ibst hsdkmc. Ibst ghrce lbrpbrhtkbms hgsb fhve ihtlfkmc ckat prbcrhis, sb ka ybu lhm akmn hm kmnkvknuhg tb nbmhte fhga tfe ibmey, tfekr lbiphmy wkgg nbmhte tfe btfer fhga. Ka ybu sfbugn rehlf h nehn-emn wktf pebpge bm ybur tehi, gbbd hrbumn hrb umn ht mekcfobrfbbn ouskmesses hmn see see wfb hgrehny spbmsbrs Gkttge Gehcue br sbller tehis. ^fey wkgg batem fhve pghques bm tfe whgg. [bu ikcft try0 lbaaee sfbps • ohroers • kmsurhmle lbiphmkes • crblery stbres • nephrtiemt stbres gkde ^hrcet, Shg-Ihrt, hmn D-Ihrt • rehgtbrs • fhkr shgbms • fhrnwhre stbres • hutb sfbps • hutb nehgers • servkle-brkemten ouskmesses ouskmesses gkde egeltrklkhms, pguioers, lhrpemters nemtksts, br b brtfbnbmtksts rtfbnbmtksts Z_BNUL^ ZGHLEIEM^
Evem oetter, try ouskmesses wfere ybu lhm baaer "prbnult pghleiemt," wfklf iehms akmnkmc lrehtkve whys tb aehture tfekr prbnults br servkles km ybur sfbw. Kt ckves tfei extrh expbsure hmn lhm ckve ybu hnnktkbmhg "areeokes," hs wegg. \bietkies, tfey wkgg nbmhte kteis tb ybu evem ka tfey lhm't ckve ybu lhsf. ^fks ks lhggen "km-dkmn" nbmhtkbm. [bu ikcft try lbiphmkes tfht prbvkne0 nrkmdkmc whter • pehmuts • htfgetkl lgbtfkmc gkde swehts, `hldets, sfbes • spbrts nrkmds • sbat nrkmds • htfgetkl lguos/cyis • spbrts equkpiemt • lhmny • fbt nbcs • spbrts tehis, gkde ikmbr gehcue ohseohgg br fbldey • pfbtbcrhpfy • pkhmb/brchm lbiphmkes • prkmtkmc
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_eieioer, ihmy ouskmesses spbmsbr wktfbut expeltkmc hmytfkmc km returm. Ihmy fhve ouncets abr kt, sb tfey expelt tb expelt tb spemn kt. Fbwever, ybu lhm baaer baaer sbie tfkmcs km returm tfht btfers lhm't0 • • • • • • • • •
tfekr ouskmess ouskmess mhie prkmten prkmten bm tfe ohld ba ybur umkabri sfkrts tfekr hnvertkskmc km ybur prbcrhi ka ybu fhve rbbi, baaer tfei tfei hns km tfe prbcrhis abr ybur slfbbg's pghys hs wegg hm hnvertkskmc ohmmer km ybur "hremh" hm hmmbumleiemt hmmbumleiemt ht ehlf ehlf perabrihmle perabrihmle hldmbwgenckmc hldmbwgenckmc tfekr tfekr spbmsbrsfkp h thx nenultkbm nenultkbm ka tfey nbmhte nkreltgy tb ybur slfbbg br nrhih nephrtiemt nephrtiemt aree tkldets tb sfbws ht ybur slfbbg h reserven phrdkmc sphle abr ehlf sfbw tfe lfhmle tb fegp tfe hrts, wfklf fhve fhve suaaeren suaaeren sb ihmy lutohlds km tfe tfe ghst tem tem yehrs. ^fe hrts hre stkgg trykmc tb akmn tfekr why ohld kmtb tfe slfbbgs. Nbm't umnerestkihte tfks seggkmc seggkmc pbkmt! • fbpeauggy, gbts ba expbsure abr tfekr prbnult br servkle. Get tfei dmbw fbw ihmy stunemts hmn hnugts httemn ybur sfbws. ^fbse pebpge ikcft oe tfekr mew lustbiers. • h phrtkhg spbmsbrsfkp spbmsbrsfkp „ get tfei spbmsbr bme seiester, br lb-spbmsbr wktf btfers. btfers. [bu lbugn segg $8:: spbmsbrsfkps ka kt's ehsker hmn `ust hn`ust wfht ybu baaer km returm. Ba lburse, ybu'gg ckve tfei h aew btfer tfkmcs tfht y bu nbm't tegg tfei hobut hfehn ba tkie0
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h tfhmd-ybu getter skcmen oy ybur hnvkser perfhps h `ersey `ersey skcmen oy ybur wfbge tehi kmvkthtkbms tb ybur "bpemkmc" h pghque wktf ybur tehi‛s pfbtb pfbtb tfht ybu lhm fhve ihne kmexpemskvegy ht hmy trbpfy sfbp hm kmvkthtkbm tb spbmsbr ybu hchkm mext yehr
^fht's qukte h nehg. Nelkne wfht ybu whmt tb baaer hmn wbrd but vhrkbus pbsskokgktkes oeabre ybu ieet wktf pbtemtkhg spbmsbrs. Oe pbgkte, mklegy nressen hmn nrbp km tb see tfei. Ka tfey lhm't see ybu `ust tfem, hsd abr hm hppbkmtiemt. Kt's oetter tb hppehr km persbm, evem ka kt iehms ybu fhve tb lbie ohld. Kt's h gbt ehsker tb shy "mb" bm tfe pfbme tfhm kt ks tb reskst mklegy nressen tfehtre stunemts wktf puppy nbc eyes.
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IH^E_KHG\ [BU IKCF^ U\E ^B SBB H \ZBM\B_ SEO\K^E
[bu lhm hgwhys semn tfei tb tfe Enulhtkbm seltkbm ba tfe weoskte. Bur weo hnnress ks0 www.L\zGH.lbi XUB^E\ A_BI ENULH^B_\
‗[bu hre mbt tehlfkmc kiprbvkshtkbm hs iulf hs ybu hre tehlfkmc tfe sdkggs ba tfkmdkmc, trustkmc hmn lhrkmc, hgg ba wfklf oukgn sega-esteei. Kt ks tfe oest kmvestiemt km nrhihtkl enulhtkbm tfht K fhve ever ihne abr iy stunemts.’ Ohrohrh Cbbnwkm, Ehcge _bld Fkcf \lfbbg ‗K lbugn cb bm abr fburs teggkmc ybu hgg tfe tfkmcs tfese stunemts gehrmen. Ba lburse, ka tfey fhn dmbwm tfey were cbkmc tb gehrm hgg tfks, tf ks, tfey mever wbugn fhve skcmen skcme n up abr tfe tehi.’ Dhye Lbx, Upghmn Fkcf \lfbbg ‗^fe oest 'oy-prbnult' ba bur phrtklkphtkbm whs tfe stunemts' relbcmktkbm hmn hpprelkhtkbm abr tehiwbrd. Sfem tfe hunkemle hppghunen, tfe wfbge tehi aegt gkde wkmmers! Iy stunemts lhie fbie arbi every ihtlf aeegkmc gkde 'sthrs.'’ L.@. Abss, Okrikmcfhi Fkcf \lfbbg ‗Km bur `burmey tbwhrn h ibre iugtklugturhg hrts prbcrhi, Lbieny\pbrtz whs bme ba tfe lbrmerstbmes ba bur nephrtiemt.’ _bokm \fhre, Qhm Muys Fkcf \lfbbg ‗Se bverwfegikmcgy aegt ybur wbrdsfbp whs h pbsktkve experkemle abr hgg kmvbgven.’ \ushm Shthmhoe, Lerrktbs Lbiiumkty Lbggece ‗Kt ks h aum why tb gehrm hmn terrkakl abr tfe stunemts.’ Chk @bmes, Enulhtkbmhg ^fehtre Hssblkhtkbm ‗K fbpe ybu dmbw fbw iulf ybu hre hpprelkhten hmn ybur thgemts hppghunen. ^fhmd ybu hchkm abr sfhrkmc ybur spelkhg thgemts wktf hgg bur stunemts.’ Lkmny Gkttge, LH Enulhtkbmhg ^fehtre Hssblkhtkbm ‗[bu see tfese pretty cutsy dkns up tfere puttkmc kt bm tfe gkme, mbt lhrkmc wfht pebpge hre shykmc, hmn kt's kmspkrkmc. Hgg ba tfei wkgg prbohogy oe nbkmc sbie pretty ih`br tfkmcs km tfekr gkves oelhuse ka tfey lhm nb tfks, tfey lhm nb hmytfkmc.’ \feryg Obne, \hm Nkecuktb Fkcf \lfbbg Hlhneiy ‗^fe akrst tkie K shw h chie, K whs `ust stummen. Kt whs sb hihzkmc wfht tfe dkns lbugn nb. K `ust tfkmd kt's hm kmlrenkogy ihcklhg gehcue.’ \ferry Lboem, Hcburh Fkcf \lfbbg
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XUB^E\ A_BI ^FE Z_E\\
‗Km tfe Lbieny\pbrtz Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue , kt's gkcftmkmc wkt, kmspkren kiprbvkshtkbm k iprbvkshtkbm hmn umahgterkmc umahg terkmc sfbwihmsfkp tfht wkms.’ Brhmce Lbhst Ihchzkme ‗^fe ahst-crbwkmc kmtrhiurhg hmn kmter-slfbbg pfembiembm ks dmbwm hs Lbieny\pbrtz, h fhrn-abucft, lbipetktkve tehi chie tfht orkmcs tfehtre kmtb tfe abrearbmt ba dkn lbbgnbi.’ Lrehtkve Nrhih Ihchzkme ‗Km Lbieny\pbrtz, umgkde ihmy spbrts, tfe aum hmn persbmhg crbwtf chkmen arbi kiprbvkshtkbmhg telfmkques hre ibre kipbrthmt tfhm luttfrbht lbipetktkbm.’ Brhmce Lbumty _eckster ‗Hsd hmy fkcf slfbbg stunemt wfb's experkemlen Lbieny\pbrtz, hmn ybu're gkdegy tb cet tfe shie hmswer0 ‖[ehf, tfht ks rehggy lbbg.‛’ Nrhihtkls Ihchzkme ‗Bme creht hspelt ba tfe brchmkzhtkbm ks kts kmskstemle bm lgehm hmn dkmn fuibr.’ Lhgkabrmkh Enulhtkbmhg ^fehtre Hssblkhtkbm Mews ‗Fkcf \lfbbgers cet rehg-gkae oemeakts arbi Lbieny\pbrtz.’ Gbs Hmceges ^kies ‗^fe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue oukgns lbmaknemle, emlburhces gkstemkmc sdkggs hmn lhgis aehr ba puogkl spehdkmc. Kt hgsb fegps teems gehrm tb oe hpprbhlfhoge hmn sbgve prbogeis.’ Nhkgy Mews ‗Lbieny\pbrtz fhs h `byaug abggbwkmc. \tunemts sfhre sehts hmn spkgg kmtb tfe hksges tb `hi hchkmst tfe whggs tb wktmess tfe ibmtfgy ihtlfes wfere stunemts ohttge tb wkm tfe ibst ghucfter.’ \hm Nkecb Umkbm-^rkoume O_BLFU_E\
Se fhve vhrkbus dkmns ba orblfures hmn agyers km bur baakle. Ka ybu tfkmd tfere's sbietfkmc tfht wbugn oe fegpaug tb kmlgune, ckve ck ve us h lhgg. GE^^E_\
^fe phces tfht abggbw lbmthkm sbie getters tfht ybu ikcft lbpy hmn prbvkne hs phrt ba ybur pktlf. ^fese kmlgune getters arbi phremts, stunemts hmn tehlfers.
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A_BI H ZH_EM^
@ust whmten tb lbipgkiemt ybu bm Gbchm‛s weed weed ht Lbieny\pbrtz Lhip ghst weed. Fe lhie ohld very emtfuskhstkl hmn lfhrcen up. Fks akrst evhguhtkve lbiiemt whs, ‗Kt whs very very lbbg. K‛i aeegkmc aummker every ikmute.’ Kt whs hgsb mbthoge tfht fe mever aegt tfe meen tb lhgg fbie. K tfkmd tfht iehms fe aegt kt whs h suppbrtkve hmn exlktkmc emvkrbmiemt. ^fks phst weed fe whs ht Oby \lbut lhip. Bm tfe why tb tfe lhip, fe pghyen tfe ? LNs ba Lbieny\pbrtz ahlugty fe fhn purlfhsen. ^fem, ht lhip, fe nkn sbietfkmc fe fhn mever nbme oeabre--fe vbgumteeren vbgumteeren tb gehn h serkes h sdkts abr ?:: \lbuts hmn hmn hnugts. Fe gen tfei km ? nkaaeremt kiprbv chies fe fhn gehrmen ht ybur lhip. ^fem, oy weed‛s emn, fe abumn tfht tfe sthaa fhn kmtecrhten bme ba tfe chies kmtb tfe lgbskmc lereibmkes. Fks ibtfer hmn K hre extreiegy pgehsen wktf tfe prbcrhi ybu fhve nevegbpen. Gbchm gbbds abrwhrn tb phrtklkphtkmc mext suiier. Zgehse aeeg aree tb use us hs h reaeremle abr hmy phremts wfb ikcft fhve auture questkbms hobut Lbieny\pbrtz. @ki Ehrmest A_BI H FKCF \LFBBG GEHCUE ZGH[E_
K hi shngy mb gbmcer bm tfe Eg \ecumnb \ecumnb L\z tehi hs K fhve crhnuhten. crhnuhten. Kt wkgg oe bme ba tfe aew aew tfkmcs tfht K ikss ikss hobut fkcf slfbbg. K wkgg espelkhggy ikss tfbse lrhzy Arknhy mkcft mkcft ihtlfes wfere iy stbihlf whs upskne-nbwm hmn hmxkbus tb ihde sure everytfkmc wemt sibbtfgy... ^fhmd ybu abr tfe trhkmkmc, tfe cbbn tkies hmn tfe ghucfs. K fhve iet h muioer ba wbmneraug pebpge, wfb K mbw lbmskner iy lgbse arkemns, tfrbucf Lbieny\pbrtz hmn tfe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue. ^fe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue prbcrhi tfht ybu baaer ks umgkde hmy btfer hmn K aeeg prkvkgecen tb fhve fhn tfe bppbrtumkty tb fhve oeem h phrt ba kt. Hchkm, K wkgg ikss kt. ^fhmds hchkm abr everytfkmc, Lfrkstbpfer Zbkry A_BI H ZH_EM^
[bu hgg hre hwesbie hmn K tfkmd tfks ks bme ba tfe oest prbcrhis tfht ks km fkcf slfbbgs tbnhy! _bokmihrke IlLgeiemt Zhremt ba twb Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue stunemts Iksskbm Qke`b Fkcf \lfbbg
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A_BI H FKCF \LFBBG GEHCUE ZGH[E_
^fks ks Nhm _htfhus arbi tfe Sestghde Fkcf tehi. K wemt tb tfe ghst ? yehrs ba suiier lhips hmn fhn h oghst. K whmt ybu hgg tb dmbw tfht iy akrst yehr tfere lbipgetegy lfhmcen wfb K whs. K whs h sblkhg turtge umtkg iy `umkbr yehr4 hater rehggy kiierskmc iysega km tfe L\z pfkgbsbpfy K whsm't harhkn tb ihde iksthdes. Zebpge were sb lbmausen oy iy lfhmce ba persbmhgkty bver tfe suiier. L\z lfhmcen ie arbi hm knge whtlfer kmtb h gehner. Sfem K tbbd lfhrce ba tfe tehi iy semkbr yehr, tfe tehi crew tb < tkies kts brkckmhg skze. ...K `ust whmten ybu hgg tb dmbw wfht ybu fhve nbme abr ie, tfe pebpge arbi hgg tfe btfer slfbbgs hmn lhip hgsb. [bu hgg chve ie tfe crehtest ckat ever4 kt‛s sbietfkmc tfht K lhm‛t neslrkoe...^fhmds hchkm. Zvt. Nhm _htfhus A_BI H FKCF \LFBBG GEHCUE HNQK\E_
^fhmd ybu, tfhmd ybu, tfhmd ybu sb iulf abr fegpkmc Hcburh's L\z :>-:5 slfbbg yehr emn wktf sulf h ohmc! Bur pghyers hmn tfekr ahikgkes hmn tehiihtes fhn hm hosbgutegy ahmthstkl tkie... [bu dmbw tfere's mbtfkmc K wbugnm't nb abr hmy ba ybu4 ybu've emrklfen iy gkae kiiehsurhogy (Lbieny \pbrtz lures lhmler) hmn lfhmcen tfe gkves ba sb ihmy dkns. Kt ks h prkvkgece tb whtlf ybu wbrd ybur ihckl hmn tb whtlf tfht ihckl wbrd bm tfbse dkns lgbse up hmn persbmhg. \ferry Lboem A_BI HMB^FE_ FKCF \LFBBG GEHCUE ZGH[E_
K `ust whmten tb nrbp ybu h gkme hmn tegg ybu K cbt kmtb ULGH! K'i why puipen hmn wkgg ibst gkdegy oe cbkmc tfere km tfe ahgg. K `ust whmten tb tfhmd ybu/@hies/everybme bver ht L\z oelhuse K'i pretty sure Lbieny\pbrtz ks tfe rehsbm K cbt km. Iy crhnes were pretty cbbn cbb n hmn h mn iy \H^s were bd, out K ohregy fhn hmy lbiiumkty servkle br hmytfkmc gkde tfht. K nkn wrkte iy persbmhg sthteiemt esshy hobut Lbieny\pbrtz tfbucf, thgdkmc hobut fbw iulf kt's lfhmcen iy gkae hmn ihne ie kmtb wfb K hi. H gbt ba pebpge arbi iy slfbbg wktf why oetter crhnes, lbiiumkty servkle, hmn testkmc slbres nknm't cet km tb ULGH, out K nkn hmn K'i pretty sure kt's oelhuse tfey were kipressen oy iy esshy hmn iy kmvbgveiemt km tfe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue. K `ust whmten tb tfhmd ybu cuys abr fhvkmc sulf hm hwesbie prbcrhi hmn oekmc sulf creht iemtbrs tb ie. K'i (akmcers lrbssen) gbbdkmc abrwhrn tb wbrdkmc wktf hgg ybu cuys km tfe auture km bme why br hmbtfer... Hchkm, tfhmds abr everytfkmc. BL's mewest lbggece stunemt, Nhmmy "Ohlbm" _klder
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HZZEMNKV H
IHMHCE_'\ HL^KBM ZGHM0 Z_HL^KLE\
Nhys/Nhtes/^kies abr prhltkle
Lbhlf's mhie
Nhys/Nhtes/^kies abr lbhlfkmc sesskbms
Cbhgs abr tfks yehr
^fkmcs we ikcft try nkaaeremtgy tfks yehr
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HZZEMNKV O
IHMHCE_'\ HL^KBM ZGHM0 _UMMKMC I[ ^EHI
^fkmcs K fhve tb nb tb cet brchmkzen
Knehs abr oukgnkmc emseioge abr iy tehi
^fkmcs K ikcft meen fegp wktf
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HZZEMNKV L
IHMHCE_'\ HL^KBM ZGHM0 \FBS\
Nhys/Nhtes/^kies abr sfbws
^fkmcs K meen tb nb tb cet us rehny abr prbnultkbm
Zebpge bm iy tehi wfb fhve spelkhg spel khg sdkggs tfht wbugn oe useaug
Shys we lhm oe h creht fbst tehi
^fkmcs K ikcft meen fegp wktf
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HZZEMNKV N
IHMHCE_'\ HL^KBM ZGHM0 Z_BIB^KBM
Shys K lhm prbibte iy tehi Hltkbm0
Sfb0
Nhte abr lbipgetkbm0
Lrehtkve prbibtkbms we ikcft try
\pelkhg sfbw knehs
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HZZEMNKV E
IHMHCE_'\ HL^KBM ZGHM0 KMAB_IKMC I[ ^EHI
^fkmcs K meen tb nb abr iy tehi Ckve iy tehi pghyers tfekr fhmnobbds fh mnobbds hmn cb tfrbucf tfei Kmabri tfei ba Chielbm nhtes hmn ihde pghms mbw abr tehi obmnkmc nhys ^hde brners abr umkabris hmn nksluss umkabri pbgkly \et httemnhmle pbgklkes Esthogksf lbhlfkmc nhtes abr tfe yehr wktf iy lbhlf Sbrd wktf iy hnvkser tb ihde sure we hre recksteren hmn phkn abr oy Mbveioer 8st, ?:8:. Ihde sure K hi recksteren bm tfe F\G F \G Lfht Obhrns Ihde sure iy tehi umnersthmns fbw tfe Lfht Obhrns wbrd hmn tfekr kipbrthmle Ieet wktf iy hnvkser tb nksluss tfe yehr hmn fbw we lbbrnkmhte wktf btfer tfehtre hltkvktkes Btfer tfkmcs K lhm nb tb ihde sure iy tehi dmbws wfht's cbkmc bm
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HZZEMNKV A
\HIZGE LBHLF'\ "Z_HL^KLE Z_E\L_KZ^KBM"
lbieny spbrtz spbrtz FKCF \LFBBG GEHCUE ®
LBHLF'\ Z_HL^KLE Z_E\L_KZ^KBM
Nhte0
Umtkg we ieet hchkm, fere hre whri-ups ybu ikcft use0
Exerlkses0
Chies tb prhltkle0
^fkmcs tb ablus bm0
Hnnktkbmhg Mbtes0
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HZZEMNKV C
GBCB\
Se fhve hm baaklkhg F\G gbcb tfht ybu lhm use use tb ihde pbsters, agyers, etl. Kt ks hvhkghoge egeltrbmklhggy arbi us, km lbgbr br oghld hmn wfkte4 eihkg us ht 7fsgJlszgh.lbi= tb request h @ZEC hmn/br ZNA. [bur tehi lhm fhve, hmn ihy hgrehny fhve, h verskbm ba tfe baaklkhg baaklkhg gbcb tfht lbmthkms ybur slfbbg‛s mhie. Ka ybu nbm‛t hgrehny fhve tfht, get us dmbw hmn hmn we‛gg ihde bme abr ybu hmn eihkg kt tb ybu. _eieioer, ybu IU\^ use tfe wbrns "Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue®" br "^fe Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue®" km lbm`umltkbm wktf tfe use ba hmy gbcb, br wktf tfe wbrn Lbieny\pbrtz.
"Lbieny\pbrtz" hmn "Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue" hre prbtelten trhneihrds.
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HZZEMNKV F
_EA KM^_B \FEE^ (#8) AB_ HMMBUMLE_
Cbbn evemkmc ghnkes hmn cemtgeiem, hmn weglbie tb tfe Lbieny\pbrtz Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue! Zgehse weglbie ybur reaeree,
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(Hater tfe rea whris up tfe hunkemle, sfe wkgg ektfer trhmsktkbm kmtb vemnkmc br kmtb tfe pghyer kmtrbnultkbms abr wfklf ybu wkgg use Hmmbumler \feet #?. Oe sure ybu lbbrnkmhte wktf tfe reaeree sb ybu dmbw fbw kt's cbkmc tb wbrd.)
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HZZEMNKV K
ZGH[E_ KM^_B \FEE^ (#?) AB_ HMMBUMLE_
(Use hater tfe rea whri-up hmn vemnkmc)
Bmle hchkm, weglbie tb tfe Lbieny\pbrtz Fkcf \lfbbg Gehcue! Mbw fere hre tfe sthrtkmc gkmeups abr tbmkcft's akrst/selbmn ihtlf oetweem0 hmn Akrst, get's weglbie tfe (Mhie #8) (#?) (#<) hmn tfe lhpthkm, Mbw get's weglbie tfe (Mhie #8) (#?) (#<) hmn tfe lhpthkm, Get's weglbie ohld tbmkcft's reaeree,
!
(Akrst ihtlf, bptkbmhg0) Mbw pgehse rkse hmn `bkm us km tfe skmckmc ba bur Mhtkbmhg Hmtfei.
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HZZEMNKV @
Z_BC_HI
^fks phce bmle lbmthkmen h shipge ba tfe prbcrhi ybu lhm use ht ybur slfbbg's ihtlfes. Mb ibre! Mbw kt's hvhkghoge abr nbwmgbhn ht tfe F\G weo skte0 lszghfsg.wbrnpress.lbi HZZEMNKV D
^U_A NKHC_HI
Ouy fehvy-nuty tura wktf lhrpet-styge ohldkmc. Ka ybu ouy tfe gkcftwekcft stuaa tfht's super lfehp, pebpge wkgg wkgg sgkp hmn ahgg. ^fe fehvker stuaa wkgg ghst abr yehrs. yehrs. [bu lhm hgsb use hltuhg lhrpetkmc hs gbmc hs kt's gbw-pkge hmn tfe rkcft lbgbr wktf mb phtterm. [bur tura sfbugn oe 6' x 8?' ikmkiui. Ka ybu fhve h ghrce sthce, ihde kt 8?' x 81.' Ouy wfkte nult thpe br lgbtf thpe tfht ks ht gehst 8.5 kmlfes wkne tb ihrd ybur tura. Hgsb use tfe thpe tb rum hrbumn tfe ence ba tfe tura tb "sehg" kt sb kt wbm't lbmtkmuhggy arhy. Sfem ybu rbgg up ybur tura tb put kt hwhy, agkp kt bver akrst sb tfht ybu're rbggkmc tfe creem skne but. ^fht why wfem ybu ghy kt but hchkm, hc hkm, tfe emns wbm't "lurg" up. Fere's fbw ybu sfbugn thpe ybur tura0
Hpbgbcy obx ks hpprbxkihtegy ?.: aeet squhre. ^fks ks tfe nbwmsthce ence ba tfe tura. Ahle-baa gkmes (abr chies gkde "Sfht Hre [bu Nbkmc2") hre hpprbxkihtegy ?aeet gbmc. Baa-skne gkmes hre hpprbxkihtegy 1 kmlfes km arbi ehlf skne (tfese hre prkihrkgy abr sfbw).
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HZZEMNKV G
Z_BNUL^KBM LFELDGK\^
FEHQ[ NU^[ ^U_A SK^F ^HZEN IH_DKMC\ H\ KMNKLH^EN KM HZZEMNKV D. UMKAB_I OEMLFE\, LUOE\ B_ LFHK_\ AB_ OB^F ^EHI\. HIE_KLHM AGHC HZZ_BZ_KH^EG[ NK\ZGH[EN. \FBS IU\KL FH\ OEEM L_EH^EN. OGHMD HMMBUMLE_ \FEE^\. \FBS OHLDZHLD/OHC SK^F ZEM\, ZHN\, O_BSM OHC\, QEMNKMC \UZZGKE\. ^EHI FH\ ABGGBSEN UMKAB_I CUKNEGKME\.
OEAB_E EHLF ZE_AB_IHMLE0 HMMBUMLE_ FH\ _EFEH_\EN. OGHMD HMMBUMLE_ \FEE^\. AKEGN IHMHCE_ H\\KCMEN. Z_BC_HI\ AB_ HUNKEMLE. SH^E_ AB_ ZGH[E_\ HMN _EAE_EE. \FBS FH\ OEEM Z_BIB^EN. HGG \^HAA H\\KCMEN0 FBU\E \^HAA, LBMLE\\KBM\, OBV BAAKLE, ^ELF L_ES.
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HZZEMNKV I
LBM^HL^ \FEE^
^fe abggbwkmc hre kipbrthmt muioers abr ybu. Lbieny\pbrtz Baakle Lbieny\pbrtz ^kldet Gkme
Zgehse mbte0 Gehvkmc h iesshce ht bur Baakle muioer hmn/br semnkmc us hm eihkg ks tfe tfe ahstest why tb cet h respbmse ka ybu fhve hm urcemt sktuhtkbm. Ka ybu meen tb eihkg @hies, Ennke, br \hrhf4 ybu lhm rehlf tfei ht fsgJL\zGH.lbi. Abr rea requests, lbmthlt us tfrbucf tfe Cbbcge abri, wfklf lhm oe abumn ht lszghfsg.lbi lszghfsg.lbi .
Lbieny\pbrtz Gbs Hmceges weoskte0 www.L\zGH.lbi Lbieny\pbrtz\tbre0 www.Lbieny\pbrtz\tbre.lbi ^hgd tb us ka ybu whmt ybur tehi's weoskte gkmden tb bur weoskte! LBIEN[\ZB_^P IHKGKMC HNN_E\\0
Lbieny\pbrtz 6:<< \umset Obugevhrn #5:1 Gbs Hmceges, LH ;::>1 LBIEN[\ZB_^P'\ ^FEH^_E HNN_E\\ (NBM'^ \EMN IHKG FE_E)0
Eg Zbrthg ^fehtre 5?1; Ghmdersfki Ogvn Mbrtf Fbggywbbn, LH ;81:8 ZH_DKMC AB_ BU_ ^FEH^_E0
^fere ks aree street street phrdkmc hgg bver tfe hreh hreh hater 1pi4 hs hgwhys, rehn tfe skcms lhreauggy. [bu lhm hgsb phrd abr aree km tfe Ietrb _en Gkme sthtkbm gbt, h ogbld mbrtf ba tfe tfehtre bm tfe ehst skne ba Ghmdersfki. ^b cet tfere, cb up tb Luipstbm hmn hmn turm rkcft4 hater h ogbld turm rkcft rkcft kmtb tfe sthtkbm gbt.
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