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WIKA AT KASARIAN

Deborah Tannen Tannen at Jesus Federico Fernandez  Deborah Tannen Propesora Propesora ng lingguwistika sa Georgetown University Siya ay manunulat ng maraming libro at artikulo tungkol sa wik at ang epekto ng pangkaraniwan g pag-uusap sa relasyon ng tao Siya Siya ay kila kilala la bila bilang ng maymay-akd akda a ng You Just Don't Understand Women Women and Men in Conversat Conversation ion (Ito ang libro na nagbigay n kaal kaalam aman an sa publ publik iko o tung tungk kol sa esti estilo lo ng komun omunik ikasy asyon on magkakaibang kasarian)  Jesus Federico Federico Hernande Hernandez z Si Propesor Fernandez Fernandez ay dating !air ng "epartamento ng #ingguwistika sa Unibersidad ng Pilipinas $ng %Pasok %Pasok sa &anga ('ika ng mga &akla) ay iprinisenta ni niya sa Sawikaan *+* sa UP "iliman noong ,uly  *+*. • •

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$. $yon kay /ann /annen en ang mga lalaki lalaki at babae babae ay pinapal pinapalaki aki s magkaibang kultura. Ito ang da!ilan kaya ang komunikasyo sa pagitan nila ay nagiging 0ross-0ultural na komunikasyon "a!il sila ay tumatanda sa magkaibang mundo nagbibiga daan ito sa pagkakaroon ng magkaibang estilo ng pag-uusa sa pagitan nila at ito ay kilala bilang genderlects. genderlects.

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meanw!ile invites a 4riend wit!out asking !is wi4e 6r be0ause to tell t!e 4riend !e must 0!e0k amounts to a loss o status. (74ten o4 0ourse t!e relations!ip is su0! t!at annoyed wi4e will rebuke !im later). 3. Ad#ice #s &nderstanding Sinasabi ni /annen na para sa karami!an ng mga lalaki an isang reklamo o daing ay !amon upang maka!anap solusyon. “When my mother tells my father she doesn't feel well, he invariably offers to take her to the doctor. Invariably, she is disappointed with his reaction. Like many men, he is focused on what he can do, wherea she wants sympathy.” 4. In'or$ation #s Fee"ings $ young man makes a brie4 p!one 0all. 8is mot!er over!ear it as a series o4 grunts. #ater s!e asks !im about it emerges t!at !e !as arranged to go to a spe0i60 pla0e w!er !e will play 4ootball wit! various people and !e !as to take t! ball. $ young woman makes a p!one 0all - it lasts !al4 an !ou or more. /!e mot!er asks about it - it emerges t!at s!e !as been talking %you know9 %about stu:9. /!e 0onversation !a been mostly grooming-talk and 0omment on 4eelings. You're Reading a Preview $yon daw sa kasaysayan ang mga alala!anin ng mga lalak ay itinuturing mas ma!alaga kaysa sa mga alala!anin ng mg Unlock full access with a free trial. babae. ;gayon ay maaaring ibaliktad ang sitwasyon na ito Download With Free Trial

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0omplain subse@uently. 74 0ourse t!is is a bro generalization - and 4or every one o4 "ebora! /anne oppositions we will know o4 men and women w!o e50eptions to t!e norm.

. Paniniwala ni /annen na ang mga babae at lalaki ay mayroon magkaibang estilo ng komunikasyon. Ito ay ang %ra!!ort,ta"k 9 babae at %re!ort,ta"k 9 naman sa mga lalaki. a. Aapport-talk3$ng mga babae ay gumagamit ng pakikipag-u upang mapalapit sa iba. b. Aeport-talk3 0. >etamessages3 "a!il sa magkakaibang intensyon sa pag-uus na mayroong resulta na $eta$essages   o mga impormasyo tungkol sa relasyon at saloobin sa mga tao na sangkot usapan.

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Use talk to assert t!eir independen0e. Sitting and talking is not an essential part o4 4riends!ip 8ear talk o4 problems as a re@uest 4or advi0e or !elp. Give orders as a way o4 gaining so0ial status. Use more small talk. 'omen Use 0onversation to negotiate 0loseness and intima0y.  /alking is t!e essen0e o4 intima0yD sitting and talking mean 4riends!ip. Speaking about problems is t!e essen0e o4 0onne0tion. Aule by 0onsensusD get t!e input o4 ot!ers to make a de0ision. Go in-dept! on a topi0. • • • • •

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I4 we believe t!at women and men !ave di:erent styles and t!at t!e male is t! standard we are !urting bot! women and men. /!e women are treated based on t!e norms 4or men and men wit! good intentions speak to women as t!ey would ot!e men and are perple5ed w!en t!eir words spark anger and resentment.

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$ng mga babae at lalaki ay mas gugustu!in na maintindi!an ang isa2t isa sa kanilang estilo da!il iniisip natin na nabubu!ay tayo sa pare!o mundo ng komunikasyon. $yon kay /annen kung pag-iisipan lang natin it at mag-aadHust tayo kung kinakailangan karami!an ng !i pagkakasunduan ay maaaring maiwasan.

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