The Man’s Man’s Bible: 50 Essential Essential Tips Tips For Success With Your Mind, Body and Women By:Troofova By:Troof ova Reethin My goal with this book is simple, to provide a simple and down to earth guide that can be consumed by all men to ensure that they are able to get the most out of their experience here on this planet. This world can be very confusing and destructive to men, we all need some guidance and in this book I outline exactly how one can be successful with their mind, their body, women and ultimately anything they wish to do, it is only through knowledge that we can overcome and that is exactly what this book will arm you with; knowledge. If you have any questions comments or you want 1 on 1 private consulting, contact me at:
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Chapters 1.Mind is All 2.Physicality=Reality 3.Do it for the Right Reasons: Look Internally and not Externally 4. What Physique Is The Most Attractive? 5.Posture/Speech/Body 5.Posture/Speech/Body Language/ 6.Masculinity 7.Internal VS External Game 8.YOU are the Prize 9. Meditation 10. Sex Drive/Male Mother Need/Gynocentrism/Societal Need/Gynocentrism/Societal Pressures 11. Style And Grooming 12.ROI vs CPO: Don’t Put the Pussy on the on the Pedestal 13. What Should I Say: Leading The Herd 14.Bad Dates VS Good Dates 15.To Date Or Not To Date 16. Of Dread/Jealousy and Self-Respect 17. Don’t be Impressed, be Different 18. Curing Oneitis: Avoid the Cancer That is Romanticism 19. Subtleties: Eye Contact/Tonality And Dominance 20. Love Doesn’t Exist 21. Winning Arguments: Disarming Womanese With Amused Mastery 22. If you Fuck up Keep Rolling 23. Females Live in the Moment
24. Men are Disposable, but Women are Replaceable 25. When in Doubt: Escalate 26.When in Doubt: Dominate 27.Sexual 28. Anchoring 29. Attraction VS Affection 30.Don’t EVER Show Weakness to a Woman 31.Creativity/Unpredictability/Imagination 32.Text/Online Game 33.Stoicism/Calmness/Aloofness/Maintain Your Frame 34.Don’t EVER Take Advice From Women 35.Females Communicate Covertly 36. Humor 37.Abundance Mentality and Outcome Independent 38.Navigating Fit Tests 39. Putting it Together:Social Proof 40.Female Imagination and Intuition 41.Opening, Negging And EndGame 42. Don’t Use Passive Aggressive/Guilt/Shaming Tactics 43.Types of Women to Date VS Types To Avoid 44. Numbers Game Vs Rejection 45. Apply it to the World 46. Don’t Ever be Intimidated 47.Vagueness 48.Women=Professional Victims, 49.Love Yourself
50.Parting Thoughts 51.Bonus
1.Mind is All First and foremost, THE most important thing in success in ANY avenu e is going to be your mind. Your mind=EVERYTHING, understand this, this is one of THE greatest axioms you will be bestowed with and it is the foundation of Hermetics. Ok ok we get it the cliché of mind is everything has been worn down to an infantile stilt, have you anything new to say on the subject? Patience my dear Padawan, you will soon be a walking deity. The reason that the mind is so important is because there are TWO forms of creation and that is how ANYTHING comes to be in this universe. Before ANYTHING can come into the physical, it must FIRST be incepted in your mind. So what does this all mean? It means that WITHOUT your mind creating the possibility for something to even be, it is impossible for YOU to manifest it, it may manifest through an outside source, but at that point it is outside of your control and this book is ALL about YOU taking BACK the control you DESERVE. Here are two poisons that you will cease to feed your mind: 1.Negative self talk, if you have ANY doubts/anxiety or depression, you WILL overcome it, how? There are two techniques which I will suggest and both CAN work, it’s just a matter of finding what is best for you. You can either AMPLIFY it to over 9000 degrees and really feel that thought to it’s fullest manifestation and then let it go in place of a neutral/positive thought OR you instantly let it go and replace it with a neutral/positive thought. I.e “I don’t know if I will get that girl” Ok now picture yourself approaching her, picture her INSTANT revulsion at you, picture her telling you “eww GTFO you creep and NEVER talk to me or any of my friends again,” picture her hitting you with her purse and then calling the cops. The cops show up and start talking to you, they even write you some BS ticket. Now….let it go….that was it….gone. The stoics and Samurais used this technique where they would often picture their demise or their future going in absolutely THE worst possible outcome. This is something that is an awesome technique because seldom (ok pretty much never) does it ever truly go THAT bad and even if it does, guess what? You’ve mentally gone through this situation, so you will no doubt handle it better. The other method is a little simpler *thought* “I don’t know if I will get that girl”….”Fuck that shit, why do I need to think like that? How does it serve me?” *Pictures self 8 inches deep and her calling her sister to come back to your crib* Basically as SOON as you recognize that a thought doesn’t serve you, you let it go, you push it away, you CRUSH IT and you either just
move forward or you can even replace it with something ridiculously positive. Shoot for the moon and you’ll land with the stars…or some corny shit 2.External negativity and I want to be clear there is a difference between feedback and negativity. Negativity is DWELLING on something and continually bringing it up as a point. I.e “Hey bro, I think you should go to school because your business isn’t going to work because the market is saturated” <- That is feedback, now how much stock you want to put into that is up to you, BUT if the person CONTINUES to berate you with this point AFTER you’ve addressed/spoken on it, they could have an ulterior motive. You can tell advice apart relatively easily, the people who have failed or have never endeavored to do anything are THE worst people to give advice, they are bottom feeding CrabsInABucket motherfuckers and to be avoided like the plague. People who have succeeded are generally better because somewhere along the lines the concepts of success may have embedded themselves into them, however this isn’t always the case so you should still be weary of them. The people who have failed and THEN succeeded are THE best, BARNONE, as far as potential advisors, they have gone through the fire and they’ve been burnt, but they kept marching forward, pay reverence to these kind souls and listen for even if they give you a simple truth which you’ve heard 1000 times before, the way they phrase it could spark a new way of thinking. Naturally most people fall in the never have done anything and never will endeavor to do anything category, this usually creates a very cancerous personality, a lot of the external negativity that we receive stems from these three personality types: The Vampire. They feed solely off of negativity and they have a tendency to dump all their problems on you. They will whine, bitch and moan about THEIR issues ALL day to you, but God forbid you mention the tribulations you are going through. They couldn’t care less and they will instantly seek to bring the focus back on them. The Parasite. Whenever you are around them, there is a certain unease about things, while they may not dwell on a cer tain topic too much, they have a way of spinning things that isn’t so benevolent. When you leave them, you feel drained as if you just underwent an intense training session. Not only do you feel drained mentally, but emotionally you’ll feel as if the well has run dry. While not as draining as the vampire, they will leave you feeling worse about life in general and wondering why you ever spend time with them. The Guilt Tripper. They will try and make you feel bad about everything, they are vapid creatures themselves and will thus cling on to the drama and lives of others, they have nothing of substance to say about anything and will only try and make you feel bad about pursuing your dreams. They will try and make you feel as if you owe them something because they held a door for you one time 6 years ago. Spending time around them will erode your will and make you less sure of yourself. AVOID THESE THREE AT ALL COSTS. If you can entirely cut them out of your life, do so because life is FAR too short to waste with people who aren’t on the same page as you and willing to help out in the same way that you’re capable of.
Here are two potions that you will begin to feed your mind: 1.Positive affirmations, now I don’t just mean listening to some rain pattering or some tranquil type shit, I mean properly arming yourself through the use of any of the following: Motivational material of ANY kind, whether it be music/videos or books. You are what you eat and likewise your mind is the same thing, there is NO reason to ever put in garbage unless you’re ok with garbage coming out. Personally I’m a huge fan of EDM (Not sure what I like less, the acronym or the mainstream representation of this genre) Music can be absolutely crucial to setting and maintaining a good mood, here are some of my favorite studies on the impact that music has on us: http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/2710/20141023/music-boosts-self-esteem-soothesdepression.htm http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/1836/20140619/music-therapy-helps-stroke-patientsrecover-faster.htm http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2010/05/can-good-music-increase-pain-tolerance-and-de/ http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2010/10/can-the-music-at-the-gym-affect-your-workout/ http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/12/music-and-memory-5-awesome-new-psychology-studies.php http://www.spring.org.uk/2011/05/the-all-time-top-six-reasons-we-love-music.php http://www.spring.org.uk/2007/03/seven-ways-music-influences-mood.php http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/09/10-magical-effects-music-has-on-the-mind.php ANYTHING that helps reinforce whatever it is you’re trying to cultivate can be used. People have been SO programmed by the negativity I described above that it’s going to take some time to entirely rewire your mind, but brainwashing works both ways. People have a negative connotation because that is mostly what it has been used for, however if you were to take the same principles of: Repetition Continual consumption of it Non-allowance of ANYTHING counterproductive to your goal They will find that in time, things will begin to turn around for them, in the same way that you can be influenced negatively, you can be influenced positively, it’s just a matter of application. Guard the gate of your mind carefully, it will decide the quality of your castle. 2.Like a computer who has been infected by a virus, your mind simply won’t function optimally when it too has been infected, much like what you put in, you’re going to have to be VERY careful in WHO you hang out with. If somebody isn’t adding to your wellbeing or worse is they’re actually destroying it (whether it be passively or actively), this person is now like the
virus and you already know what happens to viruses that get on your computer….say hello to Mcafee motherfucker. Remember, tis better to walk alone than in bad company, but if you can’t find someone in person that is bout dat life, you can always find people with similar goals/mindsets and dreams online, so I would highly encourage you to reach out to people and see if you have that common spark/drive. It’s always good to have some people that are removed from your life and can give you an objective/unbiased point of view or just lend some support when it’s needed. While you shouldn’t ever entirely forgo the in person aspect of our reality, having people that are your friends, even if just linked through a computer can be just as beneficial and in certain ways, more beneficial than our in person relationships. Something simple you can create is a Skype group with like minded individuals and if everyone is on the same page, it can be one of THE most beneficial things out there for ALL involved. If you are coming out of a real bad place and all of this seems a bit daunting to begin with, just work on taking steps to neutrality. Going from one extreme to another is difficult to sustain and doing so may cause you to quickly relapse into that negative place, so bide your time, take things as slow as needed. If someone has been depressed to the point of wanting to do bad things ALL the time, it’s beneficial for them to spend even JUST 5 minutes in a neutral place because even that is a step in the right direction. So in summation, destroy/neutralize negative self talk and neutralize negative external influences, replace it with po sitive vibes and like minded fellas. Take your time, but hurry up and remember, mind=EVERYTHING.
2.Physicality=Reality This should go without saying, but to all of those that aren’t already lifting or not making time for their workouts, GET THE FUCK ON IT. Seriously, this is but a rational proposal. We ALL know the benefits of working out regularly, so I’m just going to rephrase this in a way that makes the choice of going to the gym even easier: If you could invest 3-4% of your week into something that improves EVERY aspect of your life; physically more aesthetic, mentally more clairvoyant and spiritually moving towards a YungDeity state, ALL while improving OTHERS’ perception of you, do you pull that trigger? Of course you do, you God damn beautician (excuse the Canadiana speak, it’s a good thing), even if you are in a pinch for time, I would invest at least 2 hours a week into physical selfimprovement and don’t give me the excuse that you have NO time because I’ve known hard laborers who put in 60+ hours a week into their work and yet were STILL consistent in not only making it to the gym, but actually making DAMN good progress. It CAN be done and if you KNOW that the pain: pleasure ratio is going to be worth it in the end, it makes sense to take action and to take that action NOW. If you are really strapped, you can always try a very basic program called Reverse Pyramid Training ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GF17q4Jqkss ) and follow that protocol, something is ALWAYS better than nothing. If you don’t have money for a gym at the moment, you can always reach out to others over Kijiji/Craiglist and see if anyone is willing to donate equipment, you’d be surprised at the goodwill of others, but without asking ye shall never receive. Regardless, at least SOME exercise is necessary and if all else fails, you can always do calisthenics at home or in a park: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=140521351 Some general lifting advice: Train all muscle groups AT LEAST once a week, optimally they should be hit 2-3x, but a very good/naturally gifted muscle group can be trained once a week. Above everything use progressive overload, but also incorporate drop sets/negatives/static work and other methods as needed and depending on how you respond. Moderate volume depending on the feedback and response you get from either going low/medium or high with it. Find the exercises that best yield hypertrophy and get stronger along those motions. If you are a complete beginner, I would suggest starting out doing 2 weeks of conditioning workouts done every other day: 100 pushups
100 squats 100 lunges 5 minutes of holding a plank If you want to add weight, you can always strap on a backpack and fill it with whatever adds weight. If you’re even more ambitious than this program, you can go to a park and add 50 dips and 25 pullups. NONE of these are meant to be done in ONE set, so do a comfortable amount, take a break and go again until you reach the number. Add 10 reps to each of those and 15 seconds to the plank each session, once you have done that, you should have built up your muscles a bit so they’ll be ready to go to the gym. A great beginner routine would be the following: http://www.muscleandstrength.com/workouts/jason-blaha-ice-cream-fitness-5x5-novice-workout If you have questions about HOW to perform lifts, I would suggest checking out these channels: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yS8yUgRMiy4&list=PLh6yhljKWsN8iB4dy_3AtuNztwXjVxzp https://www.youtube.com/user/CanditoTrainingHQ/videos?view=0&flow=list&sort=p Cardio is something that you’re going to want to do as well. The benefits are ample and when done correctly, it actually ENHANCES your weight training. You don’t have to spend hours on a treadmill or stair stepper doing tedious work, make it something fun, do something you enjoy, do it fast and do it hard. HIIT is the perfect way to get in some much needed cardiac work without the added time pressures that LISS often tends to cause. Who doesn’t have 5 minutes for 4-5 2030 second hardcore bursts at the end of a workout. Love your heart and it will lead you to the light. The third pillar is a proper diet, feeding the body is necessary for achieving success, not only as far as your training goes, but also in giving you energy to perform your daily tasks at an optimal level. Shoot for a few servings of fruits/veggies, a gram of protein per lb of bodyweight and fill in the rest of the calories with whatever makes you feel/perform best. Some general tips for those trying to lose weight: Don't go crazy with the deficit right away https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kw9ekkuEJI0 Don't go crazy with the cardio right away ECA/preworkout as needed, don't start with this right away Keep calories as high as possible and cardio as low as possible and don't adjust unless you stall Diet drinks/waldens farms/spices Fibrous veggies/egg whites are your friends
Other foods that will help you on your shredding quest: Arctic Zero Ice Cream (150 calories per pint!) Fiber one honey squares/chocolate cereal (80 cals per 30g) Fiber one wraps (80 cals per wrap) Fox's u-bet chocolate syrup (19 cals per 32g) Vermont (forget full brand name) butter flavored syrup/they have basic syrup too (30 cals per 60ml) Walden Farms marshmallow/chocolate dip (0 cals per 30g) Oscar Meyer Chicken Hot Dog (80 cals per link) Thousand island dressing (50 cals per 37?g) Zesty Italian Lite Dressing (15 cals per 32?g) Tomato Sauces help as a flavor adder to the egg whites (Ragu, Francesco Rinaldi)(some have like 70-80cals per 124-128g) Romaine, Baby Spinach Celery Sugar free jello 10cal Sugar free pudding 60-80cal Fudgesicle Fudge Pops 2 Bars (82.00g)=80 cals Quest bars <200cal +20g protein Almond MilkWalden Farms Blueberry Syrup (0 cals( Shirataki noodles (Miracle Noodles, Noodles.etc) 0 calories tofu shirataki 40 calories and 2g of protien per package Special K Cracker Chips (about 28 chips] 110 cal) Special K Popcorn Chips (about 28 chips is 120 cal) Fiber One Cinnamon Coffee Cake (90 cals) Total Whole Grain Cereal (3/4 cup serving - 100 Cals) Special K Brownie Bites =100 calorie Skinny Cow Caramel delights= 130 calories for 3 chocolate caramel squares Here are some of my favorite studies as to why regular lifting/cardio/diet control is necessary:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-2883944/Weight-training-leads-stomach-fat-runningcycling.html http://www.ergo-log.com/strongmenlivelonger.html http://www.ergo-log.com/fourhealthyhabits.html http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2012/06/can-you-bench-press-your-way-to-a-pay-raise/ People who exercise regularly make 5-10% more money. http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/10/20-wonderful-effects-exercise-has-on-the-mind.php
http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/08/exercise-can-improve-long-term-memory.php http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/1773/20140612/12-minutes-exercise-improves-attentionreading-comprehension-low-income-adolescents.htm http://www.ergo-log.com/muscle-mass-extends-life-expectancy.html http://richhabits.net/5-benefits-of-aerobic-exercise/ http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/2196/20140729/healthy-lifestyle-buffer-against-stressrelated-cell-aging-study.htm http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17132744 Lifting makes you smarter http://www.ergo-log.com/being-fit-dulls-pain.html
http://www.ergo-log.com/high-blood-pressure-get-fit-and-live-longer.html http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/2297/20140819/physically-fit-kids-beefier-brain-whitematter-less-peers.htm http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/2447/20140923/note-young-men-fat-doesn-t-pay.htm http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/2468/20140925/physical-exercise-protects-brain-stressinduced depression.htm http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/2479/20140926/junk-food-rots-brain.htm http://www.ergo-log.com/burningcalories.html http://www.ergo-log.com/exerciselong.html
http://www.spring.org.uk/2014/11/the-type-of-exercise-that-most-benefits-memory-reasoningand-mental-flexibility.php http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/2982/20141120/medium-amount-physical-activity-lowerrisk-parkinsons-disease.htm http://www.ergo-log.com/the-more-anabolic-hormones-your-body-produces-the-longer-youlive.html http://richhabits.net/lifting-weights-can-lift-your-iq/ Last but not least http://scienceblog.com/13670/muscular-men-have-more-flings-partners-affairs/ Finally, I want to talk about the importance of a thick neck, there is NOTHING more intimidating and masculine than a proper 16”+ neck and it should go without saying that you as a man should strive to be as masculine as you can be, if you’re wondering as to how one can go about building said neck, well it is fairly simple. All you really need is $15 to buy a neck harness and then googling neck harness exercises should be sufficient or if you can’t afford it, there are even bodyweight stuff you can do to get dat girth going (no homer). Don’t believe a thick neck greatly improves your appearance, simply take a look at the following photos: http://i.imgur.com/j0ejVyd.jpg http://i.imgur.com/93zZV16.jpg http://i.imgur.com/7pNlNCU.jpg http://i.imgur.com/Ls7WLDK.jpg
Regardless of how ugly your mug is, a thick neck will ALWAYS add to your physical aesthetics, so even if you’re not the most facially aesthetic man, this can be offset by acquiring a brute’s neck. If it’s really bad, then a thick neck coupled with a beard will do the trick. As a wise man once said “A thick neck will make the chicks peck” Honestly, I’ve had A LOT of hobbies over the years (Chess/Hockey/Language study just to name a few) and personally NOTHING has been as rewarding as the weight training/cardio and diet regiment. I can safely say that unlike other things I’ve done in my life, it has truly given me back a lot and made me 100% a better person. I genuinely feel as though EVERY human being should on some level engage in this activity, I understand that for some going to the gym 5x+ a week, counting every last macro and being sub 10% bf just isn’t feasible or even healthy, BUT to neglect your body in a way that desecrates it’s potential is a fucking joke and I believe that NO human being should do that. Of the 5 years I’ve been doing this seriously, there have been many ups and downs, injuries/setbacks and all sorts of external BS taking place, but regardless whether I was unemployed/employed/not having any bitches round/having a few broads on deck/friendless/running dat social game or whatever the case ma y be, I ALWAYS found myself
back in the gym and I ALWAYS got IMMENSE joy from it. Here are some of my favorite things that have come from the journey:
1.Getting that first stream of compliments, when you’ve never had it, it feels fucking AMAZING to have someone validate you in that way, but I’ll tell you what feels better….getting to a point where you don’t need it. Yes that comes, but getting there was something that took a while because at first when I started to hear others remarking on my physique, it was EXACTLY as I wanted it, but I realized something. I realized that it wasn’t EVER really about that, sure the compliments were nice, but I never wanted to be defined by looking good or being muscular, that was just an extension of who I am. The TRUE reward came in self-improvement, evolving myself, maxing out my avatar as best as I could, not so someone else could deem me as good, but so I can understand a powerful lesson: When bodybuild want, bodybuild get. That is to say that the more momentum you’ve built building your body, the easier it is to take that very same attitude and transplant it to another activity, and nothing teaches you persistence like the continual struggle of getting bigger/stronger/faster and leaner. 2.The pump, man this shit never gets old. I don’t give a fuck whether you’ve been in the gym for 2 weeks, 2 months or 20 years, this shit STILL hits you like “motherfucker! Who is that handsome swollen kunt staring back at me in the mirror?” Seeing your body blown up in it’s ultimate form (for the time being) serves as GODLY motivation to keep going and pushing through ANY sort of issues you may be having. I remember reading a quote one time from a great chess grand master and how he pitied people who didn’t play chess because they were missing out on a truly beautiful game, well….he can stick his rook up his ass and pick up a God damn dumbbell because this shit right here….this shit is FUCKING CASH! There are very few activities that give you such an immediate feedback, but not only feedback of you doing something right, you actually get to see your immediate potential in what you’ll look like with another 10-15lbs of muscle. Motivation comes in many shapes and size, but the pump…the pump is something TIMELESS #ChaseThePump 3.The people you meet because the gym is really one of THE best places to meet fantastic individuals. On some level EVERYONE there is trying to improve themselves and not only that, but sometimes you meet people who aren’t just on the path of physical gains, but mental and spiritual gains as well. Some of my best friends come from the gym and without the iron Gods, I would’ve never met them. Don’t be afraid to comment or compliment someone in the gym, sometimes we get so focused on our hard work, but we forget the impact we can have on someone if we just recognize theirs. If you ever struggle with body image issues and feeling as if you’re current physique isn’t alive, just watch the following: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aDUyal548IM
Control over the physical domain is AS if not MORE important than the mental, it is much more difficult to have a healthy mind if you don’t first start with a healthy body, there is absolutel y NO excuse for a grown man not doing at least SOME form of physical training: “No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.”
― Socrates
3.Do it for the Right Reasons: Look Internally and not Externally This is something that is important to note with ANYTHING in life, if you really enjoy something and it is a passion of yours, then do it and do it well, however let me save you a lot of empty chases right now: the only meaning there is in life….is…..wait for it…..the one you give it. That’s right, women, cars, money, a sick ening physique, NONE of these things on their OWN will bring you happiness unless you already have internal happiness. That’s not to say they can’t help or that they don’t bring happiness for a lot of people (they do for me), but I’ve seen a lot of people attain things that you’d think “Wow, that guy has it all” and yet they aren’t any happier than when they begin the journey, why? Because they still had the same insecurity/weakness and NEED that they did when they started, the only difference was that, now they had the external validation that they THOUGHT would bring them the internal peace and it just doesn’t work that way. This brings me to my next point, developing YOURself is going to be the ultimate reward from this journey because you are forever (not really, but yknow what I’m sayin), everything else will come and go, all things will come to pass (time fades everything, your money, your status, your physique), but what is ALWAYS going to be left behind is YOU! Place value in yourself and realize that while everyone SEEMS to be watching “Omg how much money does he have?” “Yo you think he’s getting mad gushy gushy wet wet?” “Man he’s 14% bf and definitely lacking in his serratus,” the reality is….no one really gives a fuck, yeah people will compliment and even “admire” you, but at the end of the day, what good are any of these things if you do not feel comfortable with yourself going to bed at night. Think of it like this, everyone has some natural talent or ability that they take for granted, why? Because it comes easy to them, so when person XYZ is blown away by it, to you, you’re just thinking “Really? That’s not hard, I didn’t even work for that,” meanwhile there are people who may bust their ass for an entire lifetime and still not eclipse that effort, but what they DO get out of it is knowledge….self knowledge which is the best kind. The self knowledge that while they weren’t the best, maybe not even upper tier, they gave it their all, they made progress and they pushed themselves through all the toxicity around them to attain what they could. Do it for the right reasons.
4. What Physique Is The Most Attractive? http://i.imgur.com/4DAfOU4.jpg Let's break it down once and for all because this question pop up so much. First let's define WHY a physique is attractive, a physique is attractive for a number of biological reasons, but most of all it shows that you have the time to go to the gym, it shows that you have good genetics to build muscle and be lean AND it shows that you have resources to do so: money to pay for food, a good schedule that allows you to do so and the time/effort to be able to do it. It is not necessarily the physique ALONE that is impressive, it is all the things COUP LED with it that we understand on a subconscious level that do so because EVERYONE wants a good physique, the only way to achieve that is either through deliberate consistent hard work (which is ALWAYS attractive) or good genetics (which again is ALWAYS attractive) or bot h (KING). What can be said for athletic, fit/ripped or fit and built isn't that THIS is what women want, but ON AVERAGE a guy with any of these physiques will have a great appeal to A LOT of women. Now before we talk about the appeal, let's establish that appealing to certain types of women is IRRELEVANT thus they are NOT part of the equation, there are some women who you would not want to smash and risk the chance of possibly mixing their DNA, the landwhales, the "I won't shave" shave feminists or just in general women who neglect a very important aspect of our existence here....the physical....the body. THEY=IRRELEVANT. For the rest of the women, the reason why these physiques will have great appeal is because it has enough mass to stand out from the general population and it's also way leaner than the average male. However what it needs is it has to have a place where it can be showcased (the beach/outdoors or places where you can wear less clothes) OR through online mediums such as facebook/insta/youtube. Essentially all the women that matter will at least want some muscle, some definition (desire for WHERE that definition is varies vastly) and this type of ph ysique isn't even close to being egregious. Now for the other type of women that prefer a bigger (fitness model or even NPC level bodybuilder) male or a huskier/fatter male it is still ENOUGH to have SOME impact, it may not be ideal, but depending on OTHER factors (which I'll get into later in the post) it is enough of a physique that it CAN'T be held against you since it is still way above the average male: http://cdn.theatlantic.com/newsroom/img/posts/Screen%20Shot%202013-1009%20at%2011.14.15%20AM.png As a side note, remember this: your competition will be FAR closer to the guy above than anything remotely resembling a decent physique. We move on to the environment factor. When discussing physiques you have to remember that a completely overlooked aspect is your IMMEDIATE ENVIRONMENT'S REQUIREMENTS. Aka you can take this guy to clubs in America, clubs in South America, clubs in Europe and
clubs in Asia and he will have VARYING results, BUT the one thing that will remain con stant (we are assuming this gent isn't a fuckwit) will be a HIGHER RATE THAN AVERAGE of success assuming that relative to the other males everything APART from physique remains constant. Different cities will prefer bigger guys (especially in America) and certain places w ill prefer slimmer/leaner physiques, i.e in certain Asian countries where 5'10 165 is towering over the average person and even the guy in the OP is pretty much going to be consistently one of the bigger guys in most social settings. So going past a certain point unless you really love the training/dieting aspect will NOT yield much if any extra results with women. What is most important to remember ABOVE EVERYTHING is that NOTHING ALONE matters in this world. Take a 10/10 face (let's say Brad Pitt in his prime no homo), give him a Zyzz physique, give him millions of dollars and put him in BUTTPHUCK GREENLAND and see how many bitches he pulls IF he sits at home all day, even though this guy may have EVERYTHING necessary to succeed, nobody knows it...thus it is IRRELEVANT. If you can't showcase what you've got, you may as well not have it at all or you will be GREATLY relying on the whims/desires of others to overtake them and force them into action, again this comes down to environment, in some places you will find you get approached more and in others you won't, this is in the micro in your day to day locations that you go through and the marco in your city/countries female attitude to approaching. At the end of the day, if you’ve got even just the athletic physique, you’ll be shooting at a much higher level than the gen pop goers, meaning that as long as you have decent exposure of that, you SHOULD be able to have a higher closing percentage. When you couple this with an adept understanding of psychology, body language and an iron mindset, you’ll be KING.
5.Posture/Speech/Body Language/ Just these three things can make a HUGE difference, what people often tend to overlook is that we’re ALWAYS communicating with others, it’s just that sometimes we communicate overtly and other times we communicate covertly. Your posture/speech and body language will either tell people you’re a king or they’ll let them know that you’re a peasant. They’ve done research and shown that psychopaths can instantly tell who is strong and who is a weak target just by the way they walk, upon first hearing this, you may be doubtful, but once you begin to understand these subtle cues, you’ll come to appreciate what a MASSIVE difference they make in your life. You’ll see who is displaying confidence, you’ll see who is displaying softness and you’ll see just how much of our communication is non-verbal. Speech, this one is fairly straight forward, but it is MADDD unde rrated by most. From now you will speak from your deepest tonality, meaning that right now you can test out three different formats, your highest pitch (beta), your regular pitch (neutral), your lowest p itch (alpha). It will take some time to reprogram yourself, but it is much worth it as the Halo effect is seen in EVERY aspect of our life, much like we look up to beautiful people (celebrities) as a society, we are more receptive to those speaking in a deeper tonality. Tonality is important, but some other things that can make a huge difference are: Mumbling, if you’re going to say something, say it with FUCKING conviction, otherwise don’t bother Ya know/uhhhs/umms, everyone uses these filler words, but even just becoming consciously aware that you’re using them will help you reduce them, notice that all the best and most respected speakers seldom if ever let these cancerous little terms slip out, even during live interviews. Up talk, don’t be ending your sentences like this ya know? Because this shit is royally annoying? Maybe you shouldn’t do it, not like this? Take your time with your words, pronounce things correctly or with some style (don’t be afraid to be slightly different) and appreciate that this is a p rocess. For a lot of people, we’ve had a lot of bad habits embedded deeply within us, through a weak ass society and a lack of correction we’ve slipped into this zone where we’re screwing ourselves over. It’s going to take time to turn things around, but you’d be surprised at how much more your thoughts are respected with just this small tweak. And remember:
http://www.news-medical.net/news/2007/09/26/30420.aspx A man's deep voice more attractive than good looks
Posture is HUGE, this is why they’ve found that even doing power poses can increase testosterone (albeit if only for a bit), but the basic gist of it is to stay open, take up space (lean back in chairs and spread your legs out), keep your chin up (eyes looking forward) and lead with your heart/penis. Think of it from back in our caveman days, would the caveman walking with his head held up high, his chest sticking out and his eyes on the prize (straight ahead) be the one who catches the most prey or the caveman stumbling along, looking down and hunched over? Pretty obvious that second caveman’s genetics won’t make it very long (if he isn’t eaten by his tribe for being a walking/talking roadkill). A good exercise to start the day is to spend 2-3 minutes power posing http://www.ryannagy.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/high-power poses.jpg. If you have rolled shoulders, misaligned hips or something that physically prevents you from assuming correct posture, I’d suggest looking into The Supple Leopard by Kelly S, it is a fantastic book that will help you correct structural issues you ma y have acquired over a lifetime of doing movements incorrectly and being forced in ergonomically incorrect positions. Until you feel as though you’re confident enough to begin your journey. The best thing about having good posture is that most people don’t and thus they actually undersell themselves as far as their height goes, by standing up STRAIGHT and looking ahead, you maximize what you’re working with. Body language, there is a good deal to cover so let’s keep it short and sweet: Dilated pupils=excitement, hence why staring into someone’s eyes can cultivate attraction (you’re watching for this cue) Open palms/hands=open to you and closed palms/hands=closed to you, same thing with crossed arms….not a good sign Slouching posture=uninterested Straight up posture/chin up=interested Rubbing neck=Tired of something or lying Rubbing eye/nose/face/mouth cover/collar pull/gulping/fingers in mouth=lying Feet pointed AWAY from you=they want to get away from you Feet pointed towards you=approval Sitting in a ready stance (think of a sprinter or someone in a semi lunge)=wanting to get away from the situation Leaning back/taking up space/raising the chin=confident/relaxed Adjusting cuffs/rubbing the wrist/elbow/squinting eyes=Nerves or the y’re feeling unsure Thumbs being shown as up=a good sign (keep your thumbs up and out if your hands should ever go in your pocket, ideally place them towards your penis)
Move slowly, gracefully and powerfully, you ever seen a tiger or lion acting like a jolted little puddy cat? Well maybe you have, but that’s not the sort of tiger or lion you want to be imitating. Move with purpose, but NEVER in a rushed manner. In action example:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TBpu4DAvwI8
Notice their demeanor, their movement, just the very VIBE they give off. This is enough to scare off one of the most badass animals in existence. If you ever feel unsure or anxious about a situation, think back to these alpha motherfuckers and the fact that they were facing possible death with this idea. Whatever your situation is, I’m sure it’s not as dangerous or scary as theirs. Hand shake with palm over the other person’s=you’re dominating, both palms meeting straight on=mutual respect, your palm under their’s=you are their bitch Mirroring body language is a good way to gauge rapport, you want to be the one in the lead (being mirrored), mirroring is a good way to build a subconscious agreement Signs a bird likes you: Hair flicking, limp wrist, any sort of posture/bod y tilt done to accentuate curves, rhythmic synching of movement (hers following yours), pouting of the lips, self touching, crossing her knees towards you, rubbing/caressing of an object, open wrist, glancing over her shoulder (usually coupled with droop y eyelids), pelvic/hip tilting when she walks/stands, knee pointing, playing with her shoes, putting her face on a platter, presenting her lips, head tilting, leaning into you, coming into your personal space Something that I encourage everyone reading this book to do is to practice facial expressions. It’s something that I learned when I used to act, but most people emote horribly, being able to make a certain type of face on command just gives you another tool that you can use within your interactions to create as you please. It’s unfortunate that we’re taught so much garbage in our schools yet something as useful as understanding body language and social dynamics is something that is entirely overlooked. When I first acquired this knowledge, the world changed because it became evidently clear just what sort of attitudes and mentalities everyone around me had, it became abundantly obvious what was taking place in conversations, even without listening to them and most of all, this level of self awareness helped me harness the power we ALL have to manipulate our environment for the better.
6.Masculinity What is a man? This is something that has been debated since the beginning of time and will continue to be contested until the final atom collapses back into itself and the universe begins anew. What I’ve personally come to realize is that there is no SPECIFIC requirement XYZ that you NEED to have in order to be masculine because for every man out there with that specific requirement, there is some shlub who has somehow attained it and he definitely is NOT an ything close to a man. Here are my commandments of masculinity: 1. Have a purpose. Plain and simple, have a FUCKING purpose. What is the point of merely existing? What is the point of closing your eyes at night and waking in the morning only to find yourself caught in some monotonous trap that you’ve fallen into because you followed the crowd? The ONLY type of man worth a damn is the man with a plan. It doesn’t have to be the best plan, it doesn’t have to be the most thought out plan, but you need a plan, you need a plan man. So IDGAF if your calling is to be the greatest chess grandmaster, if you want to be an unreal hardstyle producer or if you want to start a dance school. At the end of the day, we are ALL going to die, we are ALL going to suffer failures, we are ALL going to go through an IMMENSE amount of growing pains in our lives, but do we go through those things at the hands of others or do we sack up and say “You know what, if I’m going to be going through these things regardless, why don’t I AT LEAST go through them WHILE pursuing my dreams, WHILE going after my wildest desires and WHILE attaining my highest self?” Go after your purpose and don’t EVER let anyone or anything come between that. 2.Take action. The main thing I want people taking away from this book isn’t necessarily information piece XYZ or that you NEED to do number 22 or number 45, what I want you men to understand is that we ALL have potential, but unless we seize the day, it WILL slip away and today turns into tomorrow, but tomorrow never comes. Start that youtube channel, open up that shop, print those t shirts. If you have an idea, follow it through. The graveyard is the richest place on this planet, for in the graveyard we will find all sorts of things that never were, we will find brilliant inventions, we will find cures for diseases and we will find the most brilliant problem solvers of all time, yet we will also find that these things never were, why? All because somewhere along the line, this person gave into their fear, they stopped following their purpose or maybe they never started, but they let their fear dictate who they were and now look at them. Dusty old bones, full of green dust. Take action….Take action…..Take Action NOW! Let this become your creed. 3.Never give in. The world has a way of testing all those on the path to greatness, plain and simple, if you’re going to let others dictate YOUR reality, you’ll be living in theirs. Anybody that has ever accomplished anything has had to deal with people that not only passively disagreed with their path, but actively tried to deter them and if they give in…. well take a look
around, you’ll probably f ind yourself surrounded with people who gave in, but take a look up, to the stars, up above and you’ll find those courageous souls who dared push for more. The journey one goes on in pursuit of their purpose is the most rewarding thing in the world and NOTHING can replace that, not a steady job, not some sloot who would’ve leave you in a heartbeat if presented with a better opportunity and not any monetary reward you may extract from getting good at glitching the matrix. THE best moment you’ll feel is when you decide fail or succeed, you’re going after what YOU want because even if you fail, you still lived with more balls, you were still more of a man more than those other parasites. Don’t let a peasant’s opinion rattle a king. There will never be a universal agreement on what a man truly is, but one thing we all know is that much like you wouldn’t call someone a woman (maybe in strictly the literal sense) just because she has a vagina, you’re not a man or a man of substance just because you have a penis. R egardless of where your own definition falls, use these as a start point and you’ll be GOlDen!
7.Internal VS External Game Accept yourself, accept that while in this moment you may not be where you want to be, you have started on the right path and thus it is only a matter of time before you attain what you are after. The journey of self-improvement is long, difficult and often a rduous, but when you take the opportunity to cultivate yourself inwardly and externally, you will begin to reap the rewards very quickly. A great focus in this book is tying together these two pillars together so that you can have the FULL spectrum of masculinity unleashed. Much like a beautiful looking car without an engine or conversely the world’s best engine left outside of a car, having one without the other is fine, but if you REALLY want to get somewhere, you’re going to need both. The internal is STRICTLY for you, meanwhile external is both for you and the world. Developing both takes time and true perfection is illusive, although one will find great satisfaction in balancing themselves between the two. Do not let the world box you in and tell you that you are STRICTLY XYZ and that you will never be anything else, be who you want to be, but don’t let your drive be limited to one area. It is easy to fall into the trap of specializing, the problem is that the more you specialize, the more dependent you become on that skill. A good carpenter needs to know how to use many tools and likewise, the more you maximize ALL aspects of your being, the more you’ll be able to take advantage of ALL the benefits that come with this. The takeaway message is to strive to be the Renaissance man, the Renaissance man isn’t JUST a painter, he’s not JUST an actor, he isn’t BUT an athlete, he is all things to all men, why? Because he can.
8.YOU are the Prize https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MlzrC-B6n-M Your masculinity never has been and never WILL be defined by a woman. You are the prize, let me say that again, YOU ARE THE PRIZE, getting it yet? YOU ARE THE GOD DAMN PRIZE. This is something that I want you to repeat to yourself throughout your day until it gets ingrained in your brain as a default mentality. What do I really mean by this? I see a lot of guys when they go to job interviews or they go out to parties or worst of all, when they approach women, they INSTANTLY go into a qualifying mode, they begin to ask themselves how THEY can impress the OTHER party, they begin to wonder how they can behave to someone make other people confident in them and they begin this massive façade where they act like something they’re not. Yet when they DON’T get what they want, they ask themselves: why? I’ll tell you why because you were SUPPOSED to be the prize, but like an original Picasso painting sitting in a garage sale, you were unaware of your own value and you sought to pawn yourself off at the first offer you got. This is NOT how you get anywhere in life. The DEFAULT beliefs you have aka what is already embedded within will define how you interact with others and unfortunately most of us have had SO much negative programming from others, we’re not even sure of who we REALLY are. You are not your job, you are not your education, you are not your clothes, you are not the women you are with and you are not your salary, if you were, then what REALLY remains should those things get taken away? The problem is that most people are looking for external validation, they are constantly looking for something OUTSIDE of themselves to define them, “Oh if only I get desire XYZ, then I’ll be happy and feel good about myself” No motherfucker and even if you DO get it, you’ll probably fuck it up because you weren’t ready for it, you didn’t have the right sort of mentality necessary to sustain having a possession of high desire. What’s needed is an ALAMO mentality. An Alamo mentality is one of courage, it is one of bravery and it is one of never giving in. Think of a situation when you were outnumbered, think of a situation you were outgunned or just think of a simple situation where YOU overcame something. It doesn’t have to be massive, but it does have to be a tribulation that you felt was difficult, even if only for the time being. Think of how you felt before it, think of how you felt during it and think of how you felt after it. The flow chart of emotions usually goes: pe rformance anxiety, loss of time and space within the moment, completion of task, emotional relief. Now think of how much easier it would be if you could transcend the performance anxiety and get straight into the loss of time and space within the moment. Good news. You can, but it starts with ensuring that you are going into these situations with the right attitude. So next time you go into a situation that is going to challenge you, maybe it’s a job
interview, maybe it’s a social situation or maybe you’re just approachin g some rando broad. Think back to when you conquered that trial that you went through, then correct your breathing, make sure you take BIG DEEP BREATHS….IN….OUT….BIG DEEP SLOW BREATHS. Finally repeat to yourself about WHO is the real prize….YOU….YOU ARE THE PRIZE Next job interview: Ok this position is high paying, yeah they require a lot out of me, BUT I deserve it. I’ve put in the work and bare minimum I have a WAY better mentality than the rest of the applicants, look at them, do any of them think they’re the prize? Or are they another gold nugget covered in shit wrapping Next approach: Aite this bitch is decent, she’s a solid 7+, but so fucking what? She has insecurities too, she has issues she deals with and right now her life is going to get a WHOLE lot better because I am coming into it, she should feel blessed to be in my presence. I understand that some will question the legitimacy of this almost self-deluding t ype philosophy, but the proof is in the pudding: http://www.cbc.ca/news/business/narcissists-do-better-on-job-interviews-study-finds-1.2678526 Look, the reality is that you are who you are already, I’m not going to BS about that, maybe you’re a rad motherfucker or maybe you’re just on your way to becoming one. It is no doubt a process and one that never really truly ends, but let me ask you this: If you YOURSELF can’t be confident within yourself, how the hell can you expect others to convey the very belief you lack about YOURSELF? You can’t….and they won’t. Whether or not you’re confident in who you are doesn’t necessarily change where you’re at right now, BUT it does put your best foot forward. If you are confident right now and maybe you think, yeah ok ok be confident/fearless and the prize, but I don’t REALLY feel that way. BUT, if you manage to feel that way now, if you just suck it up and say “I’m gonna try this and see where it goes,” think of how much that f eeling is ONLY going to amplify when you start attaining those things that you’re after, when you begin to experience the self -growth from taking action, the self-growth from attaining mastery over your environmen t and the self-growth over finally attaining ownership what this world has strived SO hard to pervert: your mind and as a result your surroundings. Nao mais! From THIS moment on, you are CHOOSING to be who you want to be, you are making the CONSCIOUS CHOICE to decide how you’re going approach these situations and you are regaining that sovereignty that was taken from you.
9. Meditation Meditation, this subject to some may seem tooty fruity, but the truth is that not only is it now starting to be backed by science, but the overwhelming changes I’ve personally seen have helped me see the light as far as showing that meditation not only has a place in a regime for optimal performance, but it should be a regular staple. All meditation really is, is bodybuilding for the mind. You take the raw materials, you begin to mold them and overtime they take form, but unless you train the mind like the body, it too will stay weak. Meditation is crucial for building a wizard’s mind. There are two type that I recommends: The internal contemplative state, very good for finding peace, serenity, overcoming fear, depression, anxiety and worrying. It's essentially where you focus on your heart beating, your breath and try to limit external thoughts about anything, your primary focus is those functions. I have found this method very useful for grounding me in the present, the present being the ONLY thing that REALLY exists, the past is the past and the future hasn’t come, but the present is all there is to be truly done. The external manifestation state, very good for giving you confidence within your pursuit and a sense of purpose in helping to rewire dem neurons in a pattern that serves you. Visualize yourself achieving your goals and manifesting your desires. A good balance between the two is needed to get the most out of it, if you struggle with anxiety or fear a lot, then what you could is first work on controlling your breathing. You’d be surprised at how much of your life is dictated by the pace at which you inhale and exhale air, not only will it affect your heart r ate, but it also affects how your brain functions. So once you’ve laid down and worked on your breathing a bit, what you want to next do is begin to envision yourself in the situations that cause you to be afraid. Personally here are a few things that I LOVE to visualize when I meditate: Fighting, life nowadays is very tame and you seldom get into tussles, but picturing yourself trading blows with someone can evoke very strong feelings of empowerment and courage. When you get those feelings flowing through you early on in your day, it seems like the rest of it is a cakewalk, like “Boss, you’re bitching at me for not having this report done? Man I KO’ed George St Pierre this morning” Getting killed or being in a war, now now, this isn’t done to seem like some online ebadass meditating motherfucker, the purpose of these two specific scenarios and specifically the death and war aspect is that it makes you appreciate life THAT much more. It forces you to think and deal with the reality that there are currently A LOT of people out there that are dealing with
WAY harsher realities RIGHT THIS SECOND. This sort of objectivity is something that is crucial in helping us laugh at some of the first world problems we go through. Being with bad bitches and closing million dollar deals, if you can’t DIRECTLY practice something, then the next best way is through visualization and actually some argue that this may even work better: http://basketball.about.com/od/playingbasketball/ss/basketball-practice-andvisualization-techniques_3.htm Regardless, a bit of positive mental masturbation never hurt anyone. Feel free to visualize whatever goals and things you want to accomplish, these are just examples of things I’ve done in the past and it is in no way meant to be rules. If you struggle in certain situations or if there is something you want to improve, starting in your mind is a great place to commence that journey. As far as logistics go, you might be wondering if you need music, to be in a certain place, to burn incense or if you need to go to some “guru” to transplant knowledge? No, no, nope and fuck no, all you need is a comfortable place and to close your eyes and begin (aka ACTION), there is no one right answer as to how meditation is done and I would absolutely encourage you to experiment and find what works best for you. You might ask, but what does all this visualization REALLY get you? JUST the contemplation of your dreams and JUST THINKING about HOW to attain them does something for you. Most people don’t even really think about their dreams, yeah they might visualize them once in a while, but they do next to no regular visualization. They are simply hit by a wave of inspiration every now and then and for the next few hours they spend semi engaged in some far off land that they never venture to ever again, physically or mentally. One of my favorite things about meditation is how it rewires your brain for success. A recurring theme in this book is going to be being in control and staying calm and meditation allows you to practice just that. It is something so crucial because it PRIMES you for action and the correct kind too. Not only that, but just ENVISIONING yourself achieving/being something will no doubt help your subconscious realign itself so that the actions you take throughout your day have been taken from a start point that is confident and going after your goals. Correcting your mentality is huge and while it isn’t everything, meditating often will ensure that when you take action (remember ALWAYS TAKE ACTION), that you already KNOW what you want, now it is a matter of doing what it takes to attain it. Some of my favorite studies on the benefits of meditation: http://www.ergo-log.com/meditationlong.html http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/11/10-remarkable-ways-meditation-helps-your-mind.php http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/12/meditation-changes-how-genes-are-expressed.php http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/12/meditation-can-debias-the-mind-in-only-15-minutes.php https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XgNV_Zv5vaI&feature=player_embedded
http://news.harvard.edu/gazette/2002/04.18/09-tummo.html http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Research_on_meditation http://www.ergo-log.com/meditationlong2.html http://www.mdconnects.com/articles/1968/20140704/mindfulness-meditation-equipsindividuals-to-handle-stressful-situations.htm http://www.ergo-log.com/meditationhormones.html http://www.ergo-log.com/meditationlong2.html
A host of people talking about their experiences with meditation: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=143525223&page=1
10. Sex Drive/Male Mother Need/Gynocentrism/Societal Pressures It is very important for ALL males out there to realize where their desires stem from, the reason being is that what we’re TOLD to desire is multi-faceted in that there are many reasons we are TOLD to go after certain things. 1. Women and children are the best sort of consumers out there because both of them are insatiable/unreasonable and easy to manipulate and men are the best type of providers out there because they will drive themselves into the ground to serve others, all while being demonized as retarded imbeciles who are incapable of anything without their great matriarch queen, maybe being granted the occasional pat on the back in the way of a promotion, retirement or 2% of the year off of their monotonous work. This is the perfect balance to keep society chugging along because on one hand, you have a seemingly endless stream of resources and on the other hand you have people ready to chomp down on these resources and demand more. This keeps both parties moving and while objectively cancerous, this is something that tends to elude everyone in the current moment because everyone involved feels as though they’re moving towards some greater goal. “Masculine duty” (as is labeled by society) is all about service and service to others, if you as a men got married, had 3 kids, bought a house and 2 cars, worked for 30 years paying for all of this and all the miscellaneous trash you’d be coerced into buying, you would be looked at as a “Good Man,” however if you decided to deviate from this timeline, if you decided to pursue your dreams, work odd jobs, meeting women at your whim, dealing with people at your own accord and scraping by while you fervently went after your TRUE desires, you would be looked at as a “deviant” or a “weirdo” and shamed to no end. Society has no need for this man, he is not contributing in a way deemed “appropriate” nor is he consuming in a way that is deemed “necessary” for the continual perpetuation of the consumer culture. You are free….except if you want to express the ULTIMATE form of freedom and entirely opt out of just about everything, color within the boundaries and remember ….this is sanity. 2. So why do men continue to participate in something that is pretty evidently a bad deal when looked at impartially? Sex drive, plain and simple we ALL have a strong desire to continue to spread our genes and populate the world, BUT is the current male strategy THE best one to achieve that in maximizing not only the possibility of this, but also the landscape of the male’s life entering the institution of marriage? Following the script of graduating high school, going to college, getting a job and getting married at 26-28 and then beginning to pop out the kids while taking on a mortgage and car payments has gotten us THIS far, but is it REALLY optimal going forward?
I think anyone can see that in the current climate this model is entirely unsustainable, with over ½ of marriages ending in divorce (2/3 of them ending up being “unhappy marriages”) and with over 2/3 of them being initiated by women, there is a clear disconnect between what marriage used to mean and what it currently means. Nowadays a man can spend his entire life providing for a family in the most extraordinary fashion and STILL be extorted in a massive way : http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,20556666,00.html Mel Gibson's Ex Wife Takes Half His Estimated $850 Million in Divorce Settlement
Not only this, but things like POF/OKC/Tinder/FB/IG have all made cock abundantly available like never before, a woman nowadays doesn’t even have to leave the comfort of her own house to possibly meet a mate or even get a lot of positive attention. So not only are you liable to have your entire life flipped upside down by these women, they have less appreciation for you (due to the abundance of yous) AND even the odds themselves don’t favor you (http://i.imgur.com/7bDwvtk.png). A woman nowadays could probably within a few hours replicate what our grandmother would’ve had access to over the course of a lifetime (IF that) as far as potential mates and if she is really savvy and maximizes her presence on the internet, her IRL attention whoring and friendzoning your local schmoe, she can have EVERY male resource she could ever want at the source: Attention: FB/IG and her frienzoned loser male “chums” Money: FB/IG/POF/Sugar daddies/Part time escort, friend zoned males Sex: Tinder/dating websites, the cream of the crop at her local bar during “ladies night” She is free to ride the good ol Cock Carousel in her 20s and then settle down in her 30s. The good ol get fucked by the alpha and have the beta pick up the slack strat. So what is a man left to do? Acquire wisdom, know that as a man if you take care of yourself, your sexual market value won’t diminish much into your late twenties and early to mid 30s, at that point all the years of refining your physique, pursuing your passions and hopefully building up your network of wealth and contacts will have paid HUGE dividends. You (unlike women) are not working with a ticking biological clock, you will be just as capable (pretty much) at having children in your 20s, 30s and even 40s, so you should absolutely take advantage of this. Don’t even DREAM of getting married in your 20s, hell I would advise against it all together, but if you are keen on passing on your genetics, another ProTip to take advantage of is that your value as a Western Male is MUCH higher in places like South East Asia or Latin America, there female hypergamy works in YOUR favor and not only that, but the family courts aren’t set up (yet) to divorce rape you in the same way that they are in the West should things go array. I digress (just a bit), the male sex drive can be used to simply pass on genetics or it can be transmuted into something more. People like Nikola Tesla/Christ/Newton/Da Vinci and even a young Mike Tyson all put their sexual energy into their work, because the male sex drive is so
strong, when it channeled and channeled correctly, it can drive you to a new stratosphere. However if it is mismanaged and you wilt entirely to all it’s whims for you, you WILL pay the price. I will give you a personal example, I know a man named Porter, now Porter is a great guy, jacked, charismatic and fairly handsome, he is in his mid 30s and has very good big fish/small pond status aka he is very well known in the area and especially at his work. Porter has 4 kids from 3 different mothers and STILL tries to game broads every chance he gets, now despite the fact that he is making nearly 6 figures, he isn’t seeing much of the money and when he isn’t putting in 50 hours a week at the job, he is getting up at 2-3am in the mornings to tend after his newborn baby, he is driving his kids around from and to their mothers AND he is trying to also date. Now, let’s picture Porter with a bit of tact, let’s say he had just worn domers or actually kept it in his pants, what sort of life would he have now? Is his life better or worse for his choices? Was his sex drive used to fuel his greatness or was it used to chase momentary pleasures that ended up being lifetime chores? This isn’t to get on a soap box and tell you not to have sex or to ever get married, BUT in this day and age, you NEED to be doing things with tact, you NEED to be VERY aware of the consequences of your actions and you NEED to understand what drives you to not only desire these things, but to make moves on them. ONLY then, can you make a real choice based on REAL contemplation 3.Male mother need, this is something that is under discussed, but it is a very vital piece of the puzzle. The male mother need is something all of us males have within us and unless we become consciously aware, in this current climate where society is still pushing us in to relationships, our sex drive is as strong as ever (and being targeted by all sorts of advertising), we can be driven to feel really low about ourselves if we are without a woman. So what is it? All humans on some level pine for those childhood feels, when we are born, our mother is the first person we see, when we are growing up, we are taught to associate her absence with worrying times, she is the first woman that compliments/approve/loves us and simultaneously she also on some level plays a role in our discipline. All of our mothers have a profound effect on us, but this is something that continues having an effect, long after we’ve moved out of our parents house and even started a family of our own. We STILL continue to yearn for that very same approval/love and nurturing we received from our mother, long after our contact with her has become minimized and the ONLY way to address this is to first accept it and then seek to build our self worth up so that we are NOT hinging on any female to come into our lives and “save” us because 1.No such females exist 2.Females themselves don’t even want to do this, this desire within them is saved for their own children. 4. Gynocentrism. The final piece of the puzzle, society has been paraded as a patriarchy, but the REAL truth of the matter is that it’s been a covert matriarchy under the guise of a patriarchy because while women no doubt dealt with issues as far as what they were allowed to do with their lives, so too did the majority of males, EXCEPT unlike the females, the males were conscripted in wars, used as cannon fodder and forced to work back breaking jobs that often lead
to their deaths, oh but dem voting privileges (L-O-L, most men had next to no impact on the leadership that moved society forward apart from being licensed killers/workers and drones for these elite). It boils down to simple biology: A vagina has inherently more worth than a penis, for with just one penis, you could repopulate an entire world, with one vagina….well, this planet would probably nuke itself back to a primitive age. Thus it makes sense (even from purely a biological standpoint) that females are the worshipped/cared for and protected ones when it comes to the sexes. Society has and never will as a whole care about men, that’s why feminism has gotten so far in spite of statistics like these: Men are 97% of combat fatalities. Men pay 97% of Alimony Men make 94% of work suicides. Men make up 93% of work fatalities. Men make up 81% of all war deaths. Men lose custody in 84% of divorces. 80% of all suicides are men. 77% of homicide victims are men. 89% of men will be the victim of at least one violent crime. Men are over twice as victimised by strangers as women. Men are 165% more likely to be convicted than women. Men get 63% longer sentences than women for the same crime. Court bias against men is at least 6 times bigger than racial bias. Males are discriminated against in school and University. Boys face vastly more corporal punishment than girls. 60-80% of the homeless are men. Women's Cancers receive 15 times more funding than men's At least 10% of fathers are victims of paternity fraud. http://www.realsexism.com/ So for feminism to champion being about “equal rights” is laughable when you look at the shaming rhetoric they use on men and the “liberating” rhetoric they try to implant upon women.
Feminism as a whole is one giant shit test for society and due to the male desire to please the woman, we have collectively failed. Feminism never was about “equality,” it was about finding new ways to extort men and new ways for women to have even more control of society. Manipulation of men is enacted through playing weak, acting like she couldn’t do that “oh she’s just a girl” (when it serves her) and giving the man a false sense of self by using his ego against him. This is done through tying masculinity/honor and being a good man to anything that served her (being a “family man”/letting her stay at home while you slave away at a physically brutal job and showering her with gifts and attention), meanwhile anything that DIDN’T serve her was seen as feminine/loserish and any combination of weird/creepy and useless (NOT getting married/NOT paying for dates/NOT spending a ton of resources on women/NOT partying/NOT going out regularly). Something that most don’t understand is that the sexes have evolved AGAINST each other, meaning that women are fighting for a biological edge, while the men are doing the same. It is why women orgasm more with men who have more symmetrical faces, as an orgasm=higher likelihood of getting pregnant and her getting pregnant from this man with better features=better genetics for her offspring. http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/199601/the-orgasm-wars Yet, it was only three years ago that two British biologists, Robin Baker and Mark Bellis, tested the so-called upsuck hypothesis. They were building upon ideas articulated by evolutionary biologist Robert Smith, who suggested that since women don't have orgasms every time out, female orgasm favors some sperm over others. Baker and Bellis sought to learn just how female orgasms might affect which of a lover's sperm is used to fertilize a woman's eggs. Indeed, the hypothesized relationship between male symmetry and female orgasm proved to be true It is also why the male penis is shaped the way it is, the head of the penis is designed to scoop out competing male sperm from the vagina. The sexes are actually at war with each other trying to gain a slight edge in what ends up propelling the species to it’s highest capacity. These things culminate and it’s why women mostly look at men as accessories and nothing more, this is why they categorize and label ALL men: The Creep-The unattractive male who she feels is beneath her and thus must mock his attempts at getting laid, trying to shame and make him feel bad for EVER dreaming of leaving his SMV caste The friend-The somewhat attractive beta who is her emotional tampon and perhaps provides her other resources without the need to exchange sex for it The FWB-An alpha who she feels, she is lucky to have a bit of his time, she is willing to be his cumdumpster in hopes of one day converting him to something more (taming him)
The boyfriend-Usually a purple pilled man who understands some of the things I talk about in this book, but not to it’s depths, provides a decent mix of the FWB/friend The husband-Can come from the friend column, although not always, but if she was back in her early 20s, this is the sort of guy that wouldn’t get a sniff at her pussy. He only comes in when she tells the operator that she is ready to come off of the cock carousel (usually in her late 20s after her looks have started to deteriorate, she has fucked as many alphas as she can and she wants to now pass on her genetic matter) This is how men are looked at through the eyes of the matriarchy, they are not looked at as people with dreams/hopes and aspirations, they are labeled and extorted for all they’re able (or willing in the case of smart men) to give. Looking at these things can be a bit difficult to cope with in the beginning, but the more we understand our nature, the nature of women and the nature of society, the more empowered we are to TRULY decide what and who we want to be. The ONLY difference between the BEST and WORST chess players is choice or the perception of it, where the worst chess players lack the ability and foresight to see their best options, the grandmasters are able to not only make those moves, but also understand WHY they are the correct moves. My goal with this chapter is to awaken you to the true nature of things so that you yourself can actualize your REAL potential and NOT be conscripted in a way of life that is following some grand scrip that doesn’t serve you. Think free, be free and know thyself.
11. Style And Grooming I’m not going to act like an expert on this because I’m really not. Some basic advice I can give is to focus on finding clothes that 1.Fit you well and somehow compliment whatever form you have 2.Flow well with whatever skin color you have, I’m going to link a color chart: http://www.young-stalin.com/images/13367284883128.jpeg Figuring out what clothes match your skin color is very important as it is another way to improve your clothing purchases without doing anything really. 3.Fuck name labels, what’s MOST important is how they look/feel and fit, spending tons of money to get laid begs the question “why not just find an escort at that point?” I’m not a huge fan of spending tons of money on clothes, but having a few nice threads that YOU feel confident in can go a long way in making you feel good and the better you feel, the better you’ll perform. What I want to stress is that if you lift and have a decent amount of muscle, you should be able to pull off just about anything, so clothing doesn’t have to be a huge priority because the work will already have been done. At that point, it’s just a matter of following the simple advice ab ove and you’re G2G. If you are interested in learning mor e, I would suggest these two youtube channels as I’ve found them to have a TON of very useful and practical tips: https://www.youtube.com/user/IamAlphaM https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmRfQHc3U4fV1-i8Ry1HmtA
12.ROI vs CPO: Don’t Put the Pussy on the Pedestal If you ever think a woman is “better” than you, ask yourself this: If you could transplant ALL of your knowledge into her body and have her do the same, who would be better off from the exchange? If you really think it wouldn’t be you, you got A LOT of work to do, so get to it Return of Investment vs Cost Per Orgasm. There are a lot of men out there that think relationships and women are INHERENTLY valuable, they could not be MORE wrong. The problem is that a lot of them are coming out of a place of yearning, they are not coming out of a place of abundance. After a certain point, you begin to realize that more or less AWALT (all women are like that) and that while some argue about the hallowed NAWALTs, generalizations exist for a reason. They are to act as a guideline for you to follow, now of course things can come in and entirely blow away the guideline, but that doesn’t make the guideline itself wrong, it just means there MAY be outliers. I.e “The sun will rise tomorrow,” this is a good guideline because we know that the sun probably WILL rise tomorrow, however this is a universe of possibilities, so TECHNICALLY the sun could NOT rise tomorrow as well. Getting back to the issue at hand though, most men think like the following “oh if I just got a gf,” some are more advanced “oh if I just got a hot gf,” others are bordering on genius “oh if I got a hot gf that knows her place” and some have ALMOST figured it out “oh if I got a hot gf that knows her place and adds value to my life.” The real winner above EVERYONE is the man who ISN’T thinking about ANY of this, his mentality is that of SUCH high abundance that this thought has been liquidated, it is something that has been absolved into his subconscious and it isn’t something that even needs to be contemplated anymore, why? Simple, he doesn’t NEED her, yep that’s right. Even a woman who adds value to his life. Would he like that value? Sure, who wouldn’t like to find a crisp $20 bill on the ground, but does he NEED her? Not at fucking all. He is the self-sufficient man of abundance. He can crush if he wants to, he may also spend the next 3 months in Siberia working on a serum that will help cure Alzheimer’s or he could buckle down and focus on his business for the next year, turning a paltry investment into millions, but whatever he does, he does with purpose/focus and great intent. He is NOT limited by the stipulations that he NEEDS to be in a relationship to feel happy, he is happy simply because he is. He has worked hard on his physique, he has worked hard on his passion of choice and he has the mentality of a God, he is what he is with or without that woman. Analogy: Quality=money, a quality woman is like finding $20 or $100 or $200 or even MORE money on the ground, it's awesome and you get a buzz from it, especially if it's A LOT of money, but you wouldn't count on your bank account being great based on the money you find on the ground, neither should you count on women to be anything more than a nice buffer to your life and hey if you can make enough money so that if you find a nice $20/40 bill on the
ground you can actually LEAVE it there because others will benefit more from it than you, I think THAT is the ultimate freedom.....being able to walk away from money/women because you have THAT much abundance in your life already. “But, but I’m just a dude reading a book, I haven’t cured Alzheimer’s, I don’t have millions and maybe my physique isn’t that hench…..MAYBE I haven’t even had a gf” Worry not young grasshopper, good things come to those who wait, but for now, understand this: NEVER put the pussy on the pedestal. Coming from a place of neediness will NOT solve your issue, you WILL get performance anxiety, you WILL be afraid and as a result you WILL fuck up opportunities and ALL because you didn’t control the controllable. Women are people too (as much as I hate to admit it), they shit, they make mistakes, they have insecurities/issues, they were once babies and one day they will get old and die. Once you’ve spent enough time talking to women, you will come to the understanding that the large part of the population embodies the AWALT philosophy, they do NOT add value to your life, as a matter of fact they are more a liability than an asset AND they’ll make YOU feel bad about it. So how does one become a Zen Devil May Care Master that doesn’t put the pussy on the pedestal? 1.The “Return on Investment vs Cost Per Orgasm” philosophy. Time=money and EVERYONE’S time is worth something, if it’s minimum wage, so be it, but EVERYONE’S time is worth something. If you spend $300 on clothes, $30 on gas, pay a $20 cover, buy $40 worth of alcohol over the course of 6 hours and because of this you manage to hook up with a sluzza, well you have now spent $390 + the money you could’ve made in those 6 hours, so let’s say around $440 for sex. Now how valuable/good that sex was is subjective, but understand that SO much of our society is based on getting laid and the funniest thing is that A LOT of men end up spending ALL sorts of money to NOT get laid AND they only do so because they’re told that is what they SHOULD be doing. So they’re essentially spending money to follow the crowd and NOT get results, meanwhile if they broke away from the crowd and invested their time/money and resources correctly, they could actually get better results and spend LESS money while acquiring MORE value. Before I came up in the game these hoes didn't show no love They see me in the club and used to treat me like a scrub They wouldn't holla 'cause my dollars wasn't swell enough I bet they change they mind when them 80 4's come rolling up They see that I'm a star, now they wanna sit in my car Now they wanna count my G's, smoke my weed and sip my bar now They used to love to me diss me, now they rush to hug and kiss me now
They telling all they friends when I leave how they miss me now 2.Get a job working retail or anything that will force you to talk to wome n/be around them. If you want to see estrogenic mood swings, how fickle women can be, how snarky and bitchy they act to each other and just how fucking ANNOYING their behavior is (and no that shit ain’t cute, that’s some WK type shit men say because if they caught one of their boys acting like that, they’d slap the shit out of him). That’s going to give you a completely new perspective on how inherently valuable a relationship and spending time with them TRULY is in that you’ll see your pedestalization of the pussy for what it really was, societal programming. The men who pedestal women the most are the ones with the least amount of women and this is ONLY done because of their lack of experience dealing with the female creature, once you’ve been around women enough, you see through their act and merely look at them as another human being, not as some golden beacon of light and certainly not as anything special. They are your everyday fallible, annoying and prone to emotional breakdown people. AWALT=default setting. 3.Understand OBJECTIVE beauty by studying what it ACTUALLY is: http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=160944261&page=1 http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=139142993 A lot of men prop up glorified 5.5/6s to these massive pedestals due to the fact that they are simply unaware of what a TRUE 7/8 looks like. A TRUE 7/8 will either have a very good combination of dat ass/dem teddies and a solid face or they will have a Godlike face with a solid body, just because a woman has 1 or two good features does NOT make her a 7/8. The more you understand what real beauty is, the more you’re able to see through the trickery of yoga pants, pushup bras and worst of all makeup: http://imgur.com/yH1ehvI You’re a puny meat bag floating on a grain of sand, relative to some stars you’re not even a grain of sand, you’re an atom. There is NO objective “goal” that you NEED to be doing, so invest your time as you please, stay objective my friends. If a woman has a man listed as an asset and he has her listed as a liability who is REALLY $#winning#$?
13. What Should I Say: Leading The Herd The greatest tip anyone will give you for gaming women: There is NO formula for “perfect game.” With the advent of all sorts of PUA trickery and tactics there is a belief that onc e you master latest and greatest technique XYZ, then and only then will she grant you a moment of her heavenly blessed time. FUCK THAT! YOU are the prize and SHE is qualifying herself TO YOU. <- That should be your premise in EVERY conversation with a woman. As far as conversation, it’s largely irrelevant as long as things are bein g moved forward. What a lot of men misconstrue is that they think that the topics have to interest her, WRONG. You yourself being the prize will NATURALLY be interesting, thus whether you are talking about The OC, quantum physics or evolutionary biology, women WILL respond as long as the other controllable variables are in place, i.e your body language, posture, physique, style, eye contact, tonality and intent. Have 1 funny story, 1 interesting story and 1 story of some sort of conquest/accomplishment you achieved and if you end up telling all 3 with no reciprocation from her and her own stories….you’ve got a dullard on your hands and there is only one way to deal with dullards…fuck em Conversations are a means to an end, as long as you can ask her some basic questions about her and her interests, use them to add sexual undertones and get her talking about herself (everyone loves to talk about themselves), you’ll be fine. Women are herd animals, thus as long as you are capable of leading the herd, it will happily come along with you. “Hey what’s up?” “Not much, just chilling, wbu?” “Not much, how was your weekend, whatd you get up to?” “Oh you know just bla bla bla (boring girl chatter) bla bla bla (more and more of it), u?” “That was really interesting, thank you for sharing (100% eye contact/deadpan face when you say this) I actually got into a fight at the circus” “Aha what?” “Yeah this clown bit my *wherever you have a scar*” “OMG you’re joking”
“On the bright side, I stole the magician’s wand, tell you what, link me your phone number and I’ll show you what it can do” Use open questions with a flare, asking questions isn't enough, remember you want to stand out from the chumps who have tried to game her. High school game: I.e "What do you think of this class?" Gay "Teacher is super lame and that kid smells weird eh?" <-Good "How are you doing this semester?" Lame "I'm looking for someone to cheat off of, you know anyone?" <-Better "What other classes you have?" Booorring "Have you taken the new interpretive dance class they offer here?" <-Yep Sexual innuendo? Check. Subtle neg? Check. Amused mastery? Check. Not giving a fuck about anything, being rude and still escalating to grab a #? Fucking right. Some more simple tips: Use metaphors and quotes. This helps you illustrate your point and it gives her something more than just whatever it is you’re trying to say to comment on. Actively listen, meaning that using her exact words to show you’ve heard what she’s said. Sometimes you can even flip what she’s said by just repeating it and adding an “eh?” at the end Have 1 funny story, 1 interesting story and 1 story of some sort of conquest/accomplishment you achieved Don’t be afraid of saying less than her, as a matter of fact, she SHOULD be doing the majority of the speaking. Being vague>being too descriptive (peaking her imagination). If your broad doesn’t respond to that, congratulations, she just eliminated herself and now you know not to talk to this vapid creature. A conversation should be a two way street, if she doesn’t make the effort, she is either retarded (welcome to 21st Century Western women) or she’s not interested, in both cases, you should either abandon ship or just escalate to see how far you can get. Make a decision, don’t feel bad and remember, YOU>HER, if SHE doesn’t see that, it will be HER loss.
14.Bad Dates VS Good Dates What is a bad date and what is a good date? When most men are first faced with this question, they will instantly begin to go over a list of the following: Where am I going to take her? Will she like what I’ve worn? Is the atmosphere of the location ok? Is she laughing? Is she having a good time? WRONG. This is the problem, this right fucking here, again this stems from a QUALIFYING mentality that will NEVER get you ANYWHERE. So why doesn’t the above matter? Because at the end of the day, she’s not going to fuck you based on what restaurant you took her to, what you wore, how good the service at Restaurant Derpina’s was, whether or not she laughed at everyone of your corny jokes or if she smiled and “had a good time.” What REALLY matters: Where are you most likely to have a good time? How does this place translate into your end goal (aka P in V)? What is your slated CPO vs ROI? Why does the above ACTUALLY matter? Because at the end of the day(te), women are FOLLOWERS, accept this. If YOU have a good time, she will naturally be drawn to this and have a good time herself, her enthusiasm/happiness will be based on how well you project those emotions, thus it doesn’t matter whether you take her to a 5 star restaurant or Arby’s, it’s all the same and guess what, if she’s ONLY willing to fuck you based on how much money you spend on her or how much money you have in general, you’re dealing with an expensive hooker, outsource the work and get a better result. What you DO want out of a location is ANY of the following: Are YOU guaranteed a good time? Does your location allow you two private time? Does your location provide any sort of element that could give her anxiety or make her afraid? Is there somewhere around there you can bounce to if shit gets boring (for you)?
Why does the above ACTUALLY matter? Because, what these allow you to do is that REGARDLESS of how shitty/boring or vapid SHE may be, you at least are guaranteed to have a good time. Not only this, but some locations are lame, i.e coffee dates, going to dinner or anything cliché. They are money pits, but they’re also not the sort of locations that lend themselves to escalation in that, it’s much easier to find a reason to grab her hand/tit/ass if you guys are walking through a park, out in nature, going to a haunted house, watching a movie at your place or ANYWHERE where there is SOME action aka ANYTHING that you think might give her dem tingles. In general you want SOMETHING to be happening, whether it’s conversation, whether it’s movement or whether you’re looking at something interesting, keep it moving forward. Above EVERYTHING, women want to be made to feel something (tingles), the most unhappy women tend to be the ones in the most objectively comfortable situations, i.e women tha t are pretty much free to do as they please, yet they lack the sort of spark that someone like Chad Thundercock could elicit out of her if he took her to the beach and pinned her down in the sand. Women love drama, women love action and ANYTHING that induces these things will be to your advantage. Move her around if shit is getting stale, look for places and things that force her to FEEL (remember, a woman doesn’t think as much as she FEELS). Everything you do is a means to an end, the location is one means to an end because it should help cultivate the sort of strong feelings (the darker the better), but the other means to an end is your ability to escalate. If the location in ANY way stunts, abandon and go to a different place. If the location is out of your way, doesn’t have backup locations near or just in general is undesirable for you for reason XYZ, DO NOT GO or reschedule to something that works better for you. By doing the above you demonstrate to her the following: That you do not pander to her and you place value on YOUR opinion above everything (most guys ask women, what do YOU want to do? Where do YOU want to go? Are you available on date xyz at time yxz?) That you have a strong capacity to lead and take control of ANY situation (Don’t bother ASKING her on dates, TELL her when/where to show up and what to wear) That you are not a boring herb cliché motherfucker (Most dates are naturally boring fo r women, even if she doesn’t end up doing anything with you, a unique location and you having a good time will stand out to her because most men are castrated shells of feminist egalitarian/qualifying horse caca) Classic last minute resistance: “Hey not sure if I can make it tonight” Either no response or “No worries, your sister (or best friend) seemed excited ” Hey let’s go do XYZ instead
“Nah” or “Be ready by 7” Always maintain frame. If she does flake on you, do NOT get all pissy and start moaning to her about how much you were looking forward to it or any other BS like this. Either a simple text letting her know to text you when she has more free time (if she seemed REALLY keen) or no contact whatsoever. DO NOT under ANY circumstance tolerate disrespect or a woman who doesn’t want to let a man lead, both of those things= a steel chair to your back aka INSTA DQ. If a date is ever boring or not what you had in mind, just escalate and go in for the kiss. You’ll get instant feedback if this girl is into you and you’ll forego wasted time, not to completely excuse game in all dating situations, but yall know the sor t of dry dates I’m talking about.
15. MGTOW: To Date Or Not (A Guide To Men)
First, I want to say to do whatever you want, I have no investment in the notion of people following my advice. What I say is merely my best attempt to align with the truth, however this is an extremely important lesson to understand: Everything is about odds and probabilities meaning that things can be generally a good idea or almost always a good idea, but seldom is it a complete and utter law. This is amplified when dealing with people due to the capacity for freewill and dynamic creation. My goal in this video is simply to outline the variables, what they’re worth and then let you subjectively weigh them while giving my subjective thoughts. The bottom line is this: when making choices, as long as you have the full spectrum of variables or as many of them as you can get, you will ALWAYS make a better choice than not having them. However you have to REALLY be willing to dig to get the FULL sense of things, which is why I admire MGTOWers so much. They are one of few TRULY courageous men willing to take the rabbit hole as far as it goes, regardless of where it leads and regardless of how scary it can be. This is risk management 101, you know your value, you break down the value of the externality. You factor in your cost aka how much you invest knowing your value aka how much you have and then you decide if the externality is worth the investment based on the risk if your investment goes bad aka a worst case scenario vs the reward if nothing goes bad and everything goes as planned. These things are at MGTOWs core what it is about, a rational proposition in risk management 101, so let’s get to it. Dating NEVER should be done for the sake of it, dealing with women in this day and age can have extremely high penalties meaning that if things end up in a worst case scenario your life could literally be ruined, thus you should NEVER do it for the sake of doing it. ALL you have in this world is the following: Your mind Your body Your time Your money Your resources Your freedom A woman can come between ALL those things, so always always always put those things first, IF you are going to date, remember: Women come along for the ride, they are not THE ride and you should never change your course for them. Your time is ALL you have in this world, by spending it with people you don’t like or
people that aren’t ADDING value to your life, you are committing the worst kind of suicide, the low key, quiet desperation type. Love yourself and put your self first…ALWAYS and remember the hierarchy of love: Love of self Love of his ideas/pursuits/passions Love from other men Love from children Love from animals Love from women
So if you’re going to date, you have to factor out what is important to you and how important it is to you. So let’s talk about companionship, personally I don’t value female companionship in the least. EVERY single quality a female companion has, there will be MANY men who do it better, I’ve met girls who were smart as in very smart relative to other women and a good deal of men, I’ve met women who were witty/funny relative to other women and a good deal of men and I’ve met women who were hard working relative to other women and a ton of men….that said men ALWAYS clown them in those categories when it comes to men just being better than them. So I don’t value humor/intellect with women in the objective sense in that I know that that sort of companionship is better and always will be with my boys. So the next aspect of companionship is cooking/cleaning/getting you gifts, I don’t need anyone to do any of these things for me nor would I want anybody cooking/cleaning for me as I enjoy those things….now the gift giving, that’s nice, but I don’t have anything I want per se. Don’t get me wrong, if you guys work for a Bugatti dealership and you wanna hook your boy up my PM box awaits…..But I don’t value that aspect of companionship either. The final thing to consider is that a woman’s love is conditional based on her respect of you, her respect of you is derived from your LMS (looks/money/status), but also and probably more importantly how well you lead/dominate and just give her the confidence that you’ll continue to provide those things. That is why I can’t take it seriously because I know that my boys will for the most part be there for me, but a woman….ehhh, transient at best and it SHOULD be transient. That is the way biology and nature intended it to be, a woman only has so much time available to her, you can’t possibly expect her to be interested in you unless she is benefiting from it in some way. This is why women don’t get friend zoned, if they get friend zoned, they have no problem going no contact and never speaking to you again…but if you do that to them you’re a cold hearted bastard….remember women will never hold themselves to the same standards they hold you.
ALWAYS keep in mind that if your chick is 6+, she has 100s of men at her disposal due to tinder/POF/OKC/FB/IG. Not only that, but her attention span has been drained from all these things and texting 100s of times in a day, so male attention is worth next to nothing due to the inflation of it (a woman nowadays can get within a day what a woman 50 years ago without any technology may get in a lifetime) and she has a harder time paying attention to you and what is happening as our society in general is in a constant mode of perpetual engagement and stimulus, meaning she’ll expect the same of you. Next up is sex, again how much you value these things is up to you and I’d always encourage people to do as they please as long as they’re not harming anyone, so value these things in your own way, but here is my take. Sex to me is whatever, beauty is whatever, I understand it objectively and this is usually how it goes. Most women are in the 4-6 range in the objective world, in person standards some of those chicks could be said to be a 7-8, but that’s only relative to what you see in person, not what actually is which are two different things. You’ll find a decent amount of alright chicks within this group as far as behavior goes because women are inherently red pilled about their looks which is why they use such trickery as: Makeup, pushup bras, implants, hair extensions, heels, yoga pants But God forbid a guy augments or improves his look s in anyway, that’s why a great shit test that women put men through is telling them not to lift and that they look fine the way they do. They don’t like the idea of you transcending your biology and improving yourself, remember the standards and how they hold themselves to them vs men….but they are also incredibly insecure that you’ll leave them for a better chick if you looks max, which is why I’m such a big advocate of lifting, being lower bodyfat, having a thick neck, speaking in your deepest tonality, having perfect posture, understanding body language and just in general being dominant as FUCK. These are things you can do to buck the gynocentric paradigm, not in the sense of needing female approval, but maximizing the halo effect so you have people more willing to help you out and do things for you as is ALWAYS the case if you look better as opposed to not. You also have more self-confidence due to looking better and thus you are able to better manifest the reality you desire because when you do take action (always be taking actions), you do so with 100% PURE conviction. Back to sex, the 4-6s are better people, the 7+s are obviously more attractive, but good looking finding a 7+ that is a decent person. Just as a note, the way my scale works is that 5 is plain, 6 has one or two decent characteristics, 7+ always needs to have a good face and an 8+ is a good face with a very good body, once a woman reaches 8+ she could be said to be many men’s 10 simply based on her niche and whatever their kink may be factor. I.e for me personally, there are certain types of women that will almost never be a 10, but they could be another man’s 10 and I may not even necessarily disagree with it, I would just rate them a 7-8. Back to the 7+s though. A relatively conservative estimate is that if we’re looking at women, well for the most part, you’re going to be looking at the 18-30 age group. I’ve been to universities where the 7+ barrier was something like 1 in 60-80 and this is JUST on looks, we haven’t factored in ANY
personality traits and with how truly rare that is, it wouldn’t be unheard of to go through 6-800 women before you find one that is even decent. Sound like good odds? But, this is NOT their fault or I should say entirely as we all have the ability to make choices, but women being even more of a herd animal/follower than men are much more susceptible to their environment and ask yourself the following: If you had the opposite sex constantly kissing your ass, how much self-improvement would you do? If you got positive attention for just existing, how humble would you be? If nobody ever challenged you your entire life, do you think you would be reaching for your potential? 7+s tend to be incredibly coddled and thus have major issues. The 7+s I speak of are what most guys in person would consider 9s/10s, so yeah, think of how much your average woman is pedestalled and then multiply that a few hundred times. These women not only have the attention I mentioned before, but they also get a ton of it in person. Always remember the inflation principle. Looks law is as follows: 4-6s can be good companions, but what do you care about companionship when it’s always better with a man? 7+s are obviously more aesthetically appealing, but they have their own set of issues The other thing is that I have been with/around enough women to become entirely desensitized to this beauty. There is nothing novel about it in the least, if anything I’ve come to expect it and that is the bar. Much like inflation of attention causes it to be worth less, same thing with physical beauty. It’s all up to you, for me I don’t value female companionship, sex has no power over me, I don’t get that eyes glazed over, mouth nearly drooling and simpy weakness when I see a pretty girl. Here’s what happens when I see a round ass booty or some perky ass tatas or maybe a symmetrically endowed brunette: Nice…. That’s it, I’m not enamored, I’m not overpowered and I’m certainly not bout to give my control over to something that is inferior to me in every single way. I am a master of my domain and this stays as such, I bend for no man and certainly for no woman. Unless I can see a way that this woman is going to open doors for me as in she has contacts or power that could help me, I couldn’t care less. “Ite you’re a 7+, but what about your mental aesthetics? How many books have you read? How many hobbies do you have? Do you practice self-mastery” Ha….pipe dream Mr.Truth…you’re essentially asking a creature that is NOT hardwired to be a driven gogetter and is hardwired to be a follower to supersede her own nature, to go against society and to strive for more. Does this sound like a rational expectation?
The other thing to consider with sex is that it does pose a potential risk and no this isn’t being paranoid because these things are all fun and games until it happens to you, it’s all fun and games till you cop an std, false rape charge, pregnancy or you just have to deal with some drama from a braindead cretin because you couldn’t keep it in your pants. Is that risk worth the reward of a temporary chemical rush or temporary approval from someone else? How much do you value that rush and how much do you value that approval? If you are going to hookup, if you are going to date, always do it with extreme care not only in choosing your partner but also by staying safe and rubbering up. But let’s talk about Love and the NAWALT: Men only fall in "love" when they think that's the best they can get (oneitis/poverty mentality) because why love something that is easily replaceable? The sort of love that most men WANT to feel for a woman is irrational because you wouldn’t love a Honda, the same way you love a Bugatti, you wouldn’t love tuna the same way you love a fine rib eye steak and you wouldn’t love a 5.5 who has slept with 15 partners, has no hobbies apart from Netflix/shopping and her besties the way you would love a 7.5 who has only had 3 partners, has hobbies like going to the gym, reading and learning about the world. But when you’re looking at what most men are “quote” falling in love with, which woman is it closer to? So where is the richness of the experience? Are they having a marvelous steak or are they eating plain old tuna…figuratively…and literally? So why should you EVER entertain their notion of love when you realize the realities of it? Women fall in "love" with men who either crush their LMS or dominate/lead them (or in their ideal scenario both), this is why we see such a high divorce rate in the West as despite marrying men, women do not even love them, not even in the way that women are capable of loving. Usually their LMS is close or the man is slightly bettering her, but where he fails is the domination and leading and she doesn’t just NOT love him, but she actually hates him which is why she is oh so fine in divorce raping and ruining him. Ironically both sexes don’t get what they want, but it is for different reasons. The man doesn’t get his unconditional love because that doesn’t exist within biology and if it did, it bread itself out of existence as those women were much less likely to survive due to the disposability of the man. Her man being much more likely to die at war/building the cities, places they lived in/hunting/fighting other men or in general doing dangerous shit to either impress her or to secure resources. So a woman NEEDS a cold and callous nature so that IF this happens, she is able to find another mate to provide for her and her offspring as if she doesn’t have that provision, there is a HUGE chance her genetics will end with her kids. So before we even address how many of THOSE women exist, let’s first establish that a NAWALT is an outlier. If she exists, we can all agree that she exists as an EXTREMELY small minority. Let’s also agree that we’re not talking about women who can be “NAWALTish” if they are a sub 5 rating because those women are irrelevant to men in the same way that unsuccessful men or ones lacking LMS are irrelevant to women. So here, I’m sure everyone can
agree that the percentage of women that fall under these categories is less than 1%, maybe even a tenth or a hundredth of 1%. Personally I’ve met women who meet these criteria, but again this does NOT make them a NAWALT and neither do any of the women that you might have in mind because meeting or spending a bit of time is NOT getting to the depth of their behavior and who they are as a person. In essence as the French say “les apparences sont trompuses” or appearances are deceiving in that A LOT of these women that you THINK are a certain way end up being the EXACT opposite, i.e who doesn’t know a MASSIVE whore who comes OFF as cute/sweet/innocent, but she’s been involved in gangbangs in 3 different continents, she’s taken miles of cocks and she even sucked a horse dick once (no beast). The problem is that often times the women who exhibit NAWALT characteristics are only doing so because they are trying to lure you in and because they understand that your LMS is higher than theirs, thus their looks/beauty alone is not enough to attract you, that is why they have to be extra sweet. So it’s very difficult to even say a woman is a NAWALT because women are just rational actors, there are women out there who could possibly under the guidance of the right man and if his LMS is high enough be a NAWALT, but does that make them a NAWALT for every man? Does that make them a NAWALT for the average beta 5/10 shlub? It is impossible to universally classify a woman as a NAWALT, but in an y case, if you do still engage with women know that NAWALTS only APPEAR to be so. Women are biologically hardwired to be irrational/fickle and not care about you. This is the nature of their survival and this is the nature of estrogen, so unless you have spent a year + with a woman in MANY dynamic situations I don’t care if she APPEARS to be a NAWALT. Appearances are deceiving, assume she is AWALT until she proves otherwise. This comes down to risk:reward, assuming AWALT is not just a sound strategy when you look at the odds, but if you are wrong, then great….you have a NAWALT, you haven’t lost anything. If you are wrong about a NAWALT….well most men have been wrong about their NAWALTs and look where that got them, you can just google most expensive divorces to find that out, also see false rape/domestic violence charges and paternity fraud. The point is that IF these women exist, they are extremely rare and even then, you don’t know if they are the way you THINK they are, so the question becomes: Is it practical to chase something that is extremely low odds? Would you be mad if you bought lottery tickets for years on end and didn’t win? Banking on NAWALT is a HORRIBLE proposition because at BARE minimum it is as Canadian MGTOW says: http://mgtow1.blogspot.ca/2014/10/the-horrendous-odds-in-online-dating.html 1 in 122 and personally when you factor in looks, a decent looking woman meaning at least a 6+ would probably be 1 in 5-600 if you’re also taking into consideration the personality traits that are desired. I’m going to link some Maxims to follow if you do engage in a long term relationship or dating in general, I don’t agree with them all,but here are some of my favorite ones:
Maxim #101: Compliments breed complacency. Critique breeds conciliation. A woman will never work as hard for a man’s approval as when his approval is most elusive.
If you do give compliments, make sure they are subtle, seldom given or backhanded. Women are so used to men worshipping them that NOT doing so makes you stand out. Maxim #70: Civilized, coddled chicks dig jerks.
Prioritize yourself and your life first, this sub communicates dominance and b eing better which is what you should be. Neg her as needed, some women need more negs, others less, but neg regardless, even if just cheeky/small negs Maxim #54: A woman’s happiness is inversely proportional to efforts to accommodate her demands. Corollary to Maxim #54: The more a woman’s demands are catered, the more irrational will her future demands become.
ALWAYS lead, make decisions and never put her in that position. A woman would rather the pain of being lead off a cliff than to deal with the dread of her possibly being responsible for this and then causing it. Maxim #44: There is a three month lag time between a woman’s vaginal prerogative and her words. Her heart gets the message long before you do.
You have a certain grace period if you betabackslide in the relationship and give her too much power or become too sentimental. If this happens, blow her off and just be short with her for the pendulum to swing back in your favor. Maxim #53: Love is when you’ve been granted a temporary reprieve from wondering if you can do better.
Loving transient relationships when you know you can always get them? I don’t think so, stay dominant. Game relevance: Beta males who think they can buy women’s love are sorely mistaken. Corollary: The comfort stage of game should not be neglected. Game relevance: The optimal game strategy is neither All Push nor All Pull, but Push and Pull working in concert to create delightful, tingle-generating uncertainty. Game relevance: Relationship dread increases emotional attachment.
She should see that you are desired, but there are times to make her feel desired as well. Being TOO dominant and not caring at all probably isn’t ideal for most LTRs, so you can moderate it as you please, but don’t EVER be afraid to drop a bitch. She needs you more than you need her.
#43: You rely on “pickup” lines to eventually discard reliance on pickup lines. When you’re happy with yourself, you’ll naturally attract women, no game needed. Ironically this could be taken as a message of MGTOW from a PUA site. Maxim 5: Charisma before silence, silence before self-incrimination. Always say less than needed with women Maxim #13: When the love is gone, women can be as cold as if they had never known you. Divorce rape anyone? Women initiate 2/3s of divorces anyone? Men are half the victims of domestic violence anyone? Women cheat at a higher and earlier rate anyone? Nuff said Maxim #27: Beyond beauty, a woman’s attractiveness to men is partly a function of her feminine vulnerability, or her ability to mimic feminine vulnerability. Corollary to Maxim #27: Men are turned off by overconfident, assertive, proudly selfsufficient women. Polarity principle, never be afraid to be a man. We are attracted to the opposite of us, look at what she is, she wants the opposite of that. She already has a vagina, she doesn’t need another one. Maxim #something or other: Never listen to what a women says she prefers in men; instead, watch what she does. “I never do this….I’m not like this….I’m not like the other girls” L -O-L Maxim #55: A man can shoot way out of his league if he acts as if he is the one occupying the higher league. Assume you’re better than her, even if you’re not, women are followers so she’ll follow suit Heartiste Maxim #70: Any son not explicitly taught about the ways of women by an experienced father will become more beta under the influence of his mother. Corollary to Maxim #70: A society of ascendent female academic, workforce, political and family influence necessarily emasculates its sons and masculinizes its daughters. Masculinity is the great good, it is desired so much by women that they try and become it and tie it to anything useful. Maxim #41: It’s never innocent fun. Watch her actions, always
Maxim #55: Less talking is always sexier than more talking. If you struggle to find something witty to say to a girl, stop trying. Flailing for the “right” words is approval seeking beta behavior that women can sniff from across a room. Corollary to Maxim #55: A grunt or aloof gesture trumps a try-hard, strained, verbose comeback. In short: don’t give a fuck Maxim #29: Once a girl knows she can get sexless intimacy from you, she will curse you with that for as long as you allow it to happen. Why are you in a relationship? To jerk off? You can do that outside of the relationship Maxim #204: Modern marriage is a waiver of liability that relieves wives of the responsibility to remain attractive to their husbands. Corollary to Maxim #204: The modern marriage waiver of liability does not extend to husbands, who must remain optimally attractive to their wives so long as the marriage is intact and the cost of failing in this responsibility is excessive. Why you should NEVER get married. Marriage is “I can get fat now” to women, don’t shame me I’m beautiful no matter what Maxim #101: For most women, five minutes of alpha is worth five years of beta. Maxim #102: For most men, five minutes of a younger, hotter woman beats five years of older, uglier women. Corollary to Maxim #102: A beautiful, slender older woman will be a better lay than a plain, fatter younger woman. Never feel bad for having standards, she has hers and you have yours. Maxim #59: We tend to defer to looks as a judgment of a man’s sexual market value because that is what is most easily observable given situational and time constraints, but a man’s looks are only one male attractiveness trait among many that account for his desirability to women. Corollary to Maxim #59: A woman’s sexual market value is more accurately judged solely by instant appraisal of her looks.
Why I don’t value female companionship, it’s always better with men and the only thing she can provide me is her looks (in pretty much all cases
Maxim #22: A woman with inflated self-esteem is a woman who will erroneously believe she is too good to date men normally in her league, unless steps are taken to bring her selfesteem back in line with reality. Corollary to Maxim #22: A dating market lopsided with unrealistically high self-esteem women will shrink the pool of men available to date and marry, with the consequence that women remain single longer than they would otherwise. Corollary to the corollary to Maxim #22: The most effective measure society can undertake to increase the incidence of marriage and the quality of married life is to stop artificially propping up women’s self -esteems. Don’t feed the monster by participating in this insanity. Maxim #1(a)(2): Men want to be turned on by their women. Women want to be proud of their men. A woman’s love is based on her respect of you, always lead, put yourself first and disregard her irrational opinions. /////////////////////// Maxim #48: The feminist loathing of male desire is at the root of all their complaining about men and the dating scene. Feminists, in their hearts, despise the freedom and longevity of male sexuality. And they particularly despise that freedom when lowly beta males attempt to exercise it. Creep/loser/weirdo are only hurled at men they think are below their SMV. They would NEVER say these things to a male of same or superior SMV, then he’s confident and going after what he wants Maxim #1a: Women desire men of better quality than themselves. The irony of dating, men desire women, but women need men more than men need women. Why you should never take it seriously or “fall in love.” Maxim #87: The more expensive or thoughtful the gift you give a girl, the greater the risk that she will subconsciously begin to think she is too good for you If you’re spending a ton of money to get laid, you’ll get better service and you’ll probably spend less money Maxim #19: Never take a woman’s word; a woman’s actions are the best interpreters of her thought. If talk is cheap, then women should be forced to give me money when they speak Maxim #80: The more cocks that have ravaged a woman, the less any one cock will mesmerize her.
Nuff said Maxim #20: Do not ever reveal the details of your finances to a girlfriend or wife. Avoid getting joint accounts. As a man, you must draw a line in the sand separating money from love. If she balks, dump her. The less women know about you, the better, the more she thinks there is a possibility you are batman the better CR Maxim #57: Never trust a woman’s adv ice on how to please women. Her advice is designed for alpha men she already finds attractive and from whom she seeks signals of attainability and commitment. Corollary to Maxim #57: A woman’s sex and relationship advice isn’t meant to help men; it’s meant to meant to distract men from what really works to turn women on. Don’t ask fish how to fish, always assume everything a woman says is a shit test or untrue, odds are saved time/money and effort with that default mindset CR Maxim #66: Half the battle of game is stripping a woman of her inborn self-entitlement complex. See it’s 2014 why are you still liking girls’ fb pictures video. This is also why fat/stupid/ugly and worthless women will bitch at their husbands for not doing more around the house, not making more money or not giving into capricious demand 4898, they would never apply those sort of standards to themselves, but they’re perfectly fine…err entitled to applying them to you. Maxim #666: When a woman has incentive to lie, she will choose lying over honesty EVERY SINGLE TIME. Don’t trust dem hoes Maxim #26: If a woman says the word “sex” in conversation with you or about you, no matter the context, it means she’s thinking about having sex with you. Women are very see through once you learn their tricks Maxim #44: Women will not hold it against you for trying to get into their panties on the first night. In fact, they will respect you more for your boldness and willingness to follow your manly desires. If you’re going to date, you may as well get something from it, otherwise you’re just spending time with a shitty/unfunny/stupid male friend who can ruin your life if they want to
Maxim #66: As men are becoming ever bigger pussies and betas in their dealings with women, they are losing the leverage to shape and push women’s child-like child -like and selfishly amoral political opinions in logical, just and long-term oriented directions. Just today, I saw a girl yell her father’s first name in a scolding manner because he was taking his sweet time getting eggs while I was waiting for him. Crazy times we live in, but THAT is closer to the average female attitude than anything. I couldn’t help but grin knowing I’ve avoided this mine field. Maxim #17: Be narcissistic. There is no greater divergence than that between a woman’s stated disapproval of male narcissism and the rapidity with which she jumps into bed with a male narcissist. Take care of yourself, prioritize yourself, she is fortunate to be with you, you are the prize Maxim #52: Girls need to test men for their grace under pressure. Breath deep, stay calm, be stoic, be confident, be bold, be beautiful Maxim #7: Your girl will thank you for your steadfast devotion to your belief in yourself. She may bitch about it, but she really loves it Maxim #8: Marriage is a social mechanism designed to exchange sex for indentured servitude. NEVER get married Maxim #328: Underneath the veneer of civilized discourse we act in ways that are brazenly self-interested in the short term.
Evo psyche comes into play in just about everything most people do. Remember that when dating or observing people. I’m also going to link a bunch of pictures that outline exactly how I would do LTRs if I did do them. I pretty much agree with everything ev erything in their, HIGHLY suggest going through them if you do plan on dating or engaging with women. Now for me personally, I KNOW that all women respond EXTREMELY well to dominant, in shape men that are game aware and conscious of female nature, however the question becomes? Do I essentially want to take on the role of a second father for her? Which is what all relationships inevitably boil down to if you are properly polarized pol arized towards masculinity and feminity aka NOT what the men and women of the world are, they’re the y’re more so androgynous quasi fem/masc weird mix-mesh of confusion where neither side gets what it wants because women think they want to lead and men think they are being a good man by letting her lead, hence why most relationships nowadays don’t work, neither sex knows their place. It just basically comes down to this for me, there is no escaping choice that is the only truth, you either do or you don’t, there are a re strategies to maximize fun, minimize risk and overall set up a
life that you get the maximum amount of benefit from. Now I can engage in said relationship and be relatively quote “happy/fulfilled” within it because I know how to handle the shit tests, her drama and just the female nature OR I could work on my LMS, improving my mind, improving my body, chasing after the things that mean MOST to me and I never lose out on women because as the old quote goes “you’ll lose a lot of money chasing women, but you’ll never lose women chasing money” and this extends to self -improvement -improvement of the balanced kind where you focus on the mental and physical and especially if this is coupled with other pursuits and hobbies. A woman seldom TRULY enhances your reality in the objective sense, she MAY depending on how much you value sex and her companionship, but by enhancing your LMS, improving your mind and body, I 100% guarantee guarantee you’ll ALWAYS have chicks on deck, at least in the sense that you will ALWAYS have more than if i f you prioritized women, put them first, pedestalled them and spent no time on the internalities aka your mind and body bod y aka the ONLY two things you own in this world. In the former, I will be challenged, but challenged in a way wa y that I think is obnoxious because I have no investment or care in any of the situations that may arise. I passed a shit test? Cool You’re in love with me? Cool You want to suck my dick daily? Cool You want to break up? Cool You cheated on me? Cool You got propositioned by a 6’3 NFL player with a strong 8 face? Bitch what are you crazy, go ride that pipe, he’s your ticket….although he’ll probably probabl y leave you because theres a thousand yous theres only one of him That is my level of fucks given 100% 1 00% dead serious, I just can’t take something that is not only irrational/fickle, but not only these but also one that is TESTING ME as in it wants me to prove myself to it… does it not realize it is inferior to me? Seriously in the sense of caring for it’s opinion or thoughts about me, whether it be positive or negative….L-O-L negative….L-O-L Fun is fun, but a LTR….probably not. In the latter which is, the pursuit of both physical and mental mastery. This is different. I understand that women for the most part get in the way of that because even ev en if there are a very ver y small number that DON’T get in the way or may even help you, to find a woman like that and one that is attractive aka an objective 7+ is….well you’re going going to have to sift through A LOT of women and this is VERY time consuming, thus it takes you away from your original goal. In the scenario where I pursue this, I maximize my m y freewill by creating a life of abundance that ANY woman would be happy to have a stake in, but I retain personal autonomy and happiness.
This is what makes me happiest and gives me the greatest personal satisfaction, my selfimprovement and helping others to do the same. The pursuit of truth and pushing others to do the same. To sum up, this is the finality: The cost aka my time aka my money even if I’m not spending much if any because time=earning potential and in general time=potential is NOT worth the value of her companionship which is always better in other men, it is also always more unconditional in other men, her beauty which in most cases isn’t as good as she thinks it is because men have pedestalled her away from reality and her sex which holds no special relevance to me in my life. It is no different than food/movies and video games. The risk as in potentially losing my freedom and this isn’t even a temporary freedom, this is a potentially lifetime freedom through an STD albeit I’ll give you this…it is an equal threat both ways, BUT where you have NO recourse of action is a false domestic violence/rape charge and pregnancy. Especially keeping in mind that women have shown in droves to be willing to fuck over a man, losing my freedom and essentially putting power into an irrational/fickle and amoral creature isn’t worth the reward because I don’t perceive anything she posses as special, something that I can’t acquire myself or in others, something that can’t be outsourced or something that I NEED. Thus giving her even an ounce of power over me is not something I would do and that is ALL she has in this day and age, power from the state, power from the police and power to choose your paternal destiny (we didn’t even discuss the possibility of a child that isn’t yours). She has NOTHING that I NEED and then you finally factor in that the woman that I WOULD have more interest than indifference in is a complete rarity, the investment of my time in women as a whole or searching for her is not one I can make nor recommend that others make in good faith. The odds are skewed and even if you DO find her, the reward isn’t THAT grand or something that is elusive to you and your own ability. Do what makes you happy, don’t let anyone shame you out of it, if you want to date/smash or indulge in women, go for it, but just be aware cost:value ratio and the risk:reward ratio and make sure you arm yourself with tons of game knowledge and an understanding of female nature so you can diffuse any bombs that may arise. DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY ALWAYS PRIORTIZE THE SELF LOVE THE SELF PUT YOURSELF IN #1 YOU CA N’T FAIL And I’ll leave you with two of my favorite quotes: Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his relationship over his highest purpose, he weakens himself disserves the universe.
Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose. Just this self-knowledge often relieves much pressure a man feels to prioritize his relationship when, in fact, it is not his highest priority. You will never have a greater or lesser dominion than that over yourself…the height of a man’s success is gauged by his self-mastery; the depth of his failure by his self-abandonment. …And this law is the expression of eternal justice. He who cann ot establish dominion over himself will have no dominion over others. ― Leonardo da Vinci http://imgur.com/a/Ojx1e https://cdn.rawgit.com/anonymous/b13a9d0df6aaea1e77b9/raw/584ce23d9e407baab4084773483 d7b85fde5bb0a/maxims.html
16. Of Dread/Jealousy and Self-Respect
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ixQbCXLUUj8 Experiment where baby animals are rewarded, punished, or a mix of both, for following researchers, their “mothers”. The researchers measured attachment this way, and while punishment leads to more attachment from baby animals to the researchers, a mix of both, uncertainty leads to the most attachment. “Guy Murchie called this the “Polarity Principle”: “stress, including the mental stress of uncertainty, in an ingredient in attachment or love and perhaps even manifestations of hatred (its polar opposite) somehow enhance love” The most valuable type of man is the man who can cheat, but doesn’t, but just the fact that he CAN makes him more attractive. If your girl doesn’t believe you CAN cheat on her, you’ve ALREADY lost. Dread…..the key to success within EVERYTHING. In whatever endeavo r you pursue, it is the dread that keeps things interesting and moving forward, either the dread YOU feel when you’re involved in it or the dread those around you feel. In any case, it is what makes things compelling and it is synonymous with competitive anxiety How does this apply to women and specifically relationships? ALL women want to be made to feel, it doesn’t necessarily matter if those emotions are “good” or “b ad,” (which is why women CLAIM they like nice guys, but their behavior says otherwise) what women revel in is some sort of drama, something they can talk to their gfs about, something they can say is out of a romance novel or something you’d find on the big screen. THE worst thing you can do to a woman is lead her through a passionless fling/relationship. So what needs to be done? It starts with understanding that this is NOT something that is ov ert, this is NOT something that is spoken about in explicit terms, as men we have a propensity to want to make things tangible and seen (how else would people know the girth of our cocks?)….no need here though. What is to be communicated (covertly) is that YOUR value>>>>>>>>>>hers, all fucking day and it’s not even close! Always be willing to walk away, a woman’s WORST nightmare is not necessarily NOT getting the man she desires, but the fact that she once had him, but somehow managed to botch it. Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all? Not in this case. Ask yourself this, if you KNEW right now that you could leave your job and EASILY get a job just as good if not better, how much bullshit would you take from your boss? A willingness to walk away demonstrates a VERY high level of self-worth/self-respect and ultimately….VALUE, after all once a businessman reaches a certain stature, he has SO many business ideas propositioned to him that he can’t possibly begin to invest or even help them all. The same willingness to walkaway ONLY comes from a place of abundance and shows (always show don’t tell with women) that she had BETTER stay in line because not only do you have those things, you’re also SELF-AWARE enough to extrapolate what they mean for you and her.
Another way is playing into the “Why are all the good man taken” psychology because this is the frame of thinking that supposes that if a man is taken, he must then be good and this is very easy to be turned into an advantage. If you find yourself in a relationship/fling, you not only have direct proof that you are desirable, thus halo effecting yourself, but you can now use this external desire (other women) to cultivate even MORE desire within your internal relationship (you and your woman). Nowhere is dread more evident than when you stop and question as to WHY women are so against prostitution yet these very same women would have you believe that being a whore is sexually liberating, you paying for the date is being chivalrous and that men oppress women by “sexually objectifying” them, but do they ever fuck with a man without any success in the Looks/Money/Status categories? All prostitution=is built in dread for women in society, as no w men and women both have a price on JUST how much sex is worth, thus they have actual competition for the retention of their mate and more competition would mean that they would have to step their game up. Raise your game suppress any competition? Look no further than corporate America for the strategy most used in these scenarios. Onto the dread… Subtle dread: Mentioning how weird your female boss/coworkers are around you and then when your cupcake asks you what you mean, you tell her never mind Say other women are smart, just that….smart and if she asks if you think she’s smart, answer “I don’t know sometimes” Don’t answer texts/calls on random days Having random bruises on your arms/back/shoulders/chest Ask her for her female opinion and then say “Are ALL girls super hands on, like do they ALWAYS try and grab you?” If she asks to elaborate, tell her you’re just curious (deadpan delivery is CRUCIAL and always seek to change the subject, if she really won’t drop it, tell her to stop being so jealous/overprotective) Subtle dread is a very slight way of demonstrating your value in a way that would make HER seem like she is paranoid if she got pissed off. Normal dread: Lifting, learning a new language, learning how to dance, working on your career basically ANY sort of self improvement that elevates your status even further….Bonus points if you start learning a romance language and every now and then you drop a sentence WITHOUT telling her what it means Talking to women in front of her, it doesn’t even have to be flirting, just her seeing you talking to them will give her that impression. Women are naturally incredibly prone to weak feelings of anxiety/fear AND they LOVE to compete for men, use this to your advantage
Light flirting and touching of other women, just joking around and tapping a woman on the shoulder or back as you pass her should will drive your bird crazy Leaving in the middle of the night Going out and not telling her where you’re going and not having your phone on you (or on at all) Liking pictures of models/bad bitches on Instagram, pointing out celebrities who are hot Buy red candles and roses, leave them around your house Looking at other women’s TNA in front of her Normal dread is necessary to some extent in all relationships. A coach that always yells has his voice lose it’s impact and is seen like a tyrant, a coach who never yells is seen as a pushover without the ability to lead, but a coach who yells at the appropriate time (with tact) is the one who garners respect behind his anger (as it is righteous). Nuclear dread. Nuclear dread isn’t to be used, unless the relationships is completely on the ropes or it’s almost entirely sexless. The amount of sex you two are having, shows you EXACTLY what she thinks of you and your relationship, tons of sex=tons of respect=tons of desire to keep you satisfied. Little/no sex=lack of respect=she thinks you can’t do better=she doesn’t really value the relationship. ALL women KNOW, they INSTINCTUALLY know what it takes to keep a man happy (it’s not exactly a mystery) and they KNOW how strong the male sex drive is, for her NOT to fuck you/suck you tons directly demonstrates that she believes you CANNOT do better and that she thinks of you as low value. Women understand the male nature and its need for sex and if she is undermining that by behaving like she doesn’t understand, just remember….she DOES, she just doesn’t respect you enough to think it applies to you and what’d we say about self -respect and prizes? Onto the dread: Get a new cologne, some new underwear and some new threads. Wear these things around her and act entirely oblivious to any mention of them Go no contact for a week….or two….or maybe even three Get some sex toys and leave them in your room Give yourself a hickey Flirt with her mom/sister and any female relative over the a ge of consent in your country Start kissing women on the cheek when you greet them Leave POF/OKC on your computer
Download Tinder on HER phone Remove anything she has in your room (bitches love to mark their territory) Each relationship is going to call for a different amount of dread, but it is something that is to be used in ALL relationships if you want to actually retain your mate and cultivate attraction. Relationships (and in extension women) are Amoral meaning that what you’ve been taught by society has NOTHING to do with ACTUAL relationship dynamics, so when one is navigating them, it is important not to get caught up in PC/blue pill dogma that is designed to induce failure of your masculinity. Keep your woman in a state of dread and a steady supply of head is what you will get. Takeaway message: A desired man is ALWAYS more desirable. You don’t (and shouldn’t) need to explicitly state this to have this be known and be WELL known by your bird.
17. Don’t be Impressed, be Different Women are so used to men bending to their every whim, they are used to be told they are a special snowflake, they are used to being told that they are funny and as a result their selfesteem…nah their EGO is inflated to a level su perseding rock stars. The ONLY way to stand out (and it’s ALWAYS good to peacock, even if your feathas ain’t that great, cuz u know mothafuckas always hate) is to do the opposite. If she tells a bad joke, don’t laugh, if she tells a shit story, let her know, if she’s being a rude kunt, laugh at her and say “oh cmon now, I know you girls have periods, but there is no need to behave like a wildebeest” The problem that men face is that they are SO worried what women think that they are afraid to let them know what THEY think (scarcity mentality) and the real irony is that pretty much always, what THEY think is more valid than what women think. They are just afraid of “making her mad,” oh poor souls if only you would take that spine transplant. Not only do women WANT to be made to feel, they WANT to see your convictions/your passions and ultimately your FRAME on display, why? Because this is the sort of behavior that is ONLY displayed b y men who have an abundance mentality and that means that their supply is low and their demand is high aka they are DIFFERENT. Being different is a matter of NOT GIVING A FUCK aka you’re going to say what you want to say, regardless of consequence and regardless if it’s going to make her “mad.”Protip: women can NEVER stay mad, they are merely riding the emotional roller coaster of peace and when they get them “maddest” or the ones they’re always mad at, are the ones they actually end up fuck ing) . That isn’t to say you become a loose cannon (Machiavellian tact is necessary aka picking your battles), but it is about personal integrity and RESPECT. The person who respects themselves has a low level of tolerance for societal norms, what the masses think and how others think they DESERVE to be treated. Why? Because they are different. Different in the sense that they talk how they want to talk, they dress how they want to dress, they have a tit for tat attitude (don’t fuck with me, I won’t fuck with you) and they meet people on their OWN terms. They have their guidelines that they adhere to and they bend to NO one’s will, ESPECIALLY not a woman. Different in the sense that wherever they go, the y STAND out, this doesn’t mean that they are extroverted ALL the time, this doesn’t mean they are loud and obnoxious, it means that they have a controlled aura of purpose about them. They are intense yet loose, they are hard yet kind, they are competitive yet helpful. The juxtaposition lies heavy with the different man because he is ALWAYS looking for ways to grow, he is not limited to the physical, nor does he stick to the mental, he COMBINES the two.
Being different just means you’re on the path of growth, it means you’re evolving on the daily…on the motherfucking DAILEEEEE, thus it is IMPOSSIBLE to pin you down because your constant growth makes yesterday’s opinion wrong and it makes today’s opinion in flux, only tomorrow’s opinion is right, but tomorrow never comes. Tis no measure of health to be well adjusted in a profoundly sick society- Jiddu Krishnamurti ALWAYS BE DIFFERENT.
18. Curing Oneitis: Avoid the Cancer That is Romanticism Black plague, typhoid, small pox and oneitis, some of the WORST diseases to befall man. Except oneitis still hasn’t been cured, but fear not The Good Doctor is here to provide the right kind of ail, so follow me if you please. Romanticism and oneitis are closely intertwined, without romanticism there could be no oneitis and why would society care about infecting the minds of young men around the world with this plague? $$$, that’s right, the MORE in love you are, the MORE you spend. http://www.cnn.com/2013/02/13/living/valentines-day-statistics-btn/ ;$130.97 -- The per person average estimated amount that people will spend on Valentine's Day. 224 million -- The estimated number of roses grown for Valentine's Day. 51% -- The percentage of people who buy red roses for this holiday. 64% -- The percentage of men who buy flowers for Valentine's Day. 36% -- The percentage of women who buy flowers for Valentine's Day. $18.6 billion -- The total spending that will be reached by Valentine's Day. $1.6 billion -- The amount people will spend on candy. $1.9 billion -- The amount people will spend on flowers. $4.4 billion -- The amount people will spend on diamonds, gold and silver. March 14 -- The day men give women romantic gifts in South Korea and Japan; women give men chocolate on Valentine's Day. $4.52 -- The average amount pet owners spent on their pets on Valentine's Day in 2012. 40.7% -- The percentage of people who will use their Smartphone to purchase Valentine's gifts. 85% -- The percentage of men and women who say sex is an important part of Valentine's Day. 6 million -- The number of people who expect or are planning a marriage proposal. 29% -- The percentage of people who will type a romantic text message. 145 million -- The unit amount of Valentine's cards purchased. 151 million -- The approximate number of cards that are exchanged on Valentine's Day. 1,400 -- Varieties of Hallmark's available Valentine's greeting cards.
http://www.ctvnews.ca/business/the-cost-of-falling-in-love-a-cool-45-000-study-finds1.1683276 According to a new study put out by RateSupermarket.ca, a website devoted to personal finance, falling in love in Canada costs an average of $45,151.88. A year worth of dates: $7,494.94 Engagement: $10,693.94 Wedding: $26,963.00 There is a HUGE interest in keeping men in this weakened/beta state where they look to their female Goddess and they can’t help but be amazed by her, why do you think we the radio/mainstream media spamming songs like these: Guess it's true, I'm not good at a one-night stand But I still need love 'cause I'm just a man These nights never seem to go to plan I don't want you to leave, will you hold my hand? Oh, won't you stay with me? 'Cause you're all I need This ain't love, it's clear to see But darling, stay with me Why am I so emotional? No, it's not a good look, gain some self-control And deep down I know this never works But you can lay with me so it doesn't hurt //// Why you gotta be so rude? Don't you know I'm human too? Why you gotta be so rude? I'm gonna marry her anyway Marry that girl Marry her anyway Marry that girl
Yeah, no matter what you say Marry that girl And we'll be a family Why you gotta be so Rude //// I like to think that we had it all We drew a map to a better place But on that road I took a fall Oh baby why did you run away? I was there for you In your darkest times I was there for you In your darkest nights But I wonder where were you? When I was at my worst Down on my knees And you said you had my back So I wonder where were you? When all the roads you took came back to me So I’m following the map that leads to you The map that leads to you Ain't nothing I can do The map that leads to you //// 'Cause all of me Loves all of you Love your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections Give your all to me I'll give my all to you You're my end and my beginning Even when I lose I'm winning 'Cause I give you all of me And you give me all of you, ohohHow many times do I have to tell you Even when you're crying you're beautiful too The world is beating you down, I'm around through every mood You're my downfall, you're my muse My worst distraction, my rhythm and blues I can't stop singing, it's ringing, in my head for you //// Take me on a date I deserve a break And don't forget the flowers every anniversary 'Cause if you'll treat me right I'll be the perfect wife Buying groceries Buy-buying what you need
You got that 9 to 5 But, baby, so do I So don't be thinking I'll be home and baking apple pies I never learned to cook But I can find a hook Sing along with me Sing-sing along with me (hey)
You gotta know how to treat me like a lady Even when I'm acting crazy Tell me everything's alright
Dear future husband, Here's a few things you'll need to know if you wanna be My one and only all my life Dear future husband, If you wanna get that special lovin' Tell me I'm beautiful each and every night
After every fight Just apologize And maybe then I'll let you try and rock my body right Even if I was wrong You know I'm never wrong Why disagree? Why, why disagree? I'll be sleeping on the left side of the bed (hey) Open doors for me and you might get some kisses Don't have a dirty mind Just be a classy guy Buy me a ring Buy-buy me a ring, babe Future husband, better love me right
The matrix is everywhere, its all around us, even now in this very room. You can see it when you look out your window o when you turn your TV. You can feel it when you go to work, when you
go to church, when you pay your taxes. It is the world that has been pulled over your eyes to blind you from the truth. What sort of men are likely to spend money on drinks at a bar? What sort of men are likely to go out and spend a ton of money on cars/clothes and jewelry? What sort of men are likely to whine and dine their girlfriend all the time? What sort of men are likely to spend money on an expensive engagement ring? What sort of men are likely to go full out and spend $50k+ on a wedding? Hmmm, could it be that under the guise of romanticism we have a hidden chimera that seemingly drives the world economy forward? Could it be that while under the spell of romanticism, men are much more likely to spend their money on bullshit that they don’t need, all because they feel it will impress women? Could it be that women controlling the spending power is nothing more than a way of saying that a man has oneitised himself? Oneitis GREATLY serves society seeing as it induces A TON of moneys being exchanged. How much money do you think the entire world would lose if tomorrow, ALL men held a collective strike in not spending ONE cent on ANYTHING related to dating/women? Can you say COLLAPSE? What drives men to work oil rigs? What drives men to want to be garbage men? What drives men to do grueling manual labor jobs where they are underpaid and overworked? What drives men to work soul crushing, body destroying, mind decaying jobs? Could it be that the power of pussy is what has REALLY driven this world to it’s current state? Not only does society have a vested interest in inducing oneitis, but so does nature, oneitis is as much pair bonding as it is something that society uses to it’s benefit. Pair bonding is crucial for raising a child as a child with a father is much more likely to survive than a child without one, thus even if the father doesn’t care for the child that much, if he pair bonds with the woman or if she can somehow induce this, the species has an overall greater chance of survival.
I digress though Oneitis not only robs you of your money, but it also robs you of your time (fantasizing) and most of all, your dignity (slaving away for the pussy). Oneitis is the belief that you’ll never do better and that somehow if you got this girl, SHE would make your life better. This is a faulty way of thinking for a number of reasons: 1.The ONLY person in this world that can make YOU happy is….YOU 2.Placing your bets on others, ESPECIALLY women is a surefire way to get burned 3.It COMPLETELY takes away YOUR power, you are saying that something externally is going to fix something internally What is the cure?
Stop….whatever you are doing STOP consuming ANY pop culture that perpetuates this, as a matter of fact throw out your TV, turn off your radio and block the ads on o n your internet. This shit is polluting your mind and if you haven’t h aven’t already tuned it out, NOW is the time to start because those are the tools of the matrix, that is how they embed this supplicating weakness deep de ep within, causing you to become nothing more than a weak/groveling mangina. Have hobbies, I cannot stress this enough. If you’re NOT getting better every day, that is you’re NOT getting bigger, you’re NOT getting smarter or you’re NOT meeting new people, then WTF are you saying with yourself? The reason why a lot of guys gu ys get oneitised out is because they’re fucking lames and they’re looking for something outside o utside of them to validate them. The MORE time you spend on self-improvement, growing YOURSELF YOURSE LF and reaching for YOUR highest level of achievement, the less time you’ll spend lamenting that you don’t have slut XYZ that is supposed to “cure” you of your ills. Picture your oneitis farting, shitting, taking dicks in her ass, takin g dicks in her mouth, getting creampied and doing ALL sorts of nasty shit, chances ch ances are….you’re picturing reality, the best whores are the well disguised ones. Oh and look at the following: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/06/03/porn-stars-without-make-up_n_3379731.html Cut the feelings off IMMEDIATELY, the SECOND you notice yourself daydreaming, fantasizing or BEGINNING to pedestal a chick, STOP and think of the above instead. ONLY hang out with people that make you feel strong, ONLY consume media that strengthens your resolve and ONLY listen to music that makes you feel like a God. Cut out ANY negative external impacts and remember YOU ARE THE PRIZE. Do you think the media and society have your best interest as a man? Do you see the amount of money that it would cost for a year of dating, is that shit worth it? Do you see how you are COERCED into having these feelings? Do you see the lyrics that are MASS PLAYED? Do NOT fall for the lies and indoctrination before you, retain your masculinity and NEVER give in to the FAULTY feeling of love, the ONLY good love is SELF LOVE. Or just hook up with someone else, that’s always a good way wa y to get over a woman, have a new one get under you
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19. Subtleties: Eye Contact/Tonality And Dominance There are many subtleties of attraction, often times you can better communicate your attraction towards a woman in a covert co vert way that embeds itself into her subconscious as opposed to the overt “I LIKEZZZ U”…Actually don’t EVER do that, overt communication is ONLY ever worthwhile if you’re 90% there aka if she’s dry dr y humping you, if your hand is down her pants or if she’s touching your fun stick. Here are some s ome subtle ways to communicate attraction: Eye Contact. You should be dominating the eye contact, meaning that she should be the one to look away first, this isn’t to say that you stare into her eyes like a madman, but if there is a standoff, DO NOT wilt first. It displays a lack of comfort in situations that APPEAR to be “awkward,” awkwardness doesn’t actually exist, it’s just our perception of what shou ld and shouldn’t be, a dominant man doesn’t d oesn’t have awkward moments, they’re merely fleeting seconds of time. time. From a purely biological standpoint, staring into each ea ch other’s eyes makes people “fall in love” because you’re looking for cues like the reciprocity of their gaze, their overall expression in the eye area and if their pupils dilate. http://psychologia.co/the-power-of-eye-contact/ A study conducted in 1989 19 89 assures that simple eye contact could make a person fall in love with you (Kellerman, Lewis, and Laird). In this study two opposite opp osite sex strangers were asked to gaze into each other’s eyes for two minutes, minut es, which in some cases, was enough to produce passionate feelings for each other. Eye contact is a powerful stimulator of love and affection. This is because when you look someone directly in the eyes, his/her body produces chemical called phenylethylamine that makes the person feel in love. This is why if you want to make someone fall in love with you, one of the first thing you should do is to look into his/her eyes. Tonality. You should ALWAYS speak in your deepest tonality, but ESPECIALLY around women, what you want to look for in them is what does their tonality sound soun d like? If their voice has gone to a higher, “sweeter” pitch, she is covertly communicating attraction Making women feel small/feminine. This can be done d one a number of ways, but b ut it is also why I stressed posture as well, women around a man they are even SEMI attracted to will show signs of submission (EVERYTHING comes down to domination and submission) and one way to induce this is to make her feel small/feminine. This can be subtly done in a number of ways: Picking her up off the ground when hugging her Moving her around/picking her up…use ANY excuse to touch and show her ANY strength Resting your arm on her shoulder After you shake her hand (give just a bit of a squeeze), tell her how small her hands are
Call her shorty (even if you’re only a few inches taller than her, if she busts your balls about your height, tell her short women aren’t allowed to talk about height) Tell her she has small wrists If a situation EVER arises where you can pick her up, carry her around, give her piggyback rides, carry something for her, pick up something heavy he avy around her, throw her onto on to something or just move her in anyway, TAKE TA KE THE OPPORTUNITY. Most women are completely oblivious into how attraction works and by and by behaving like a caveman, you’re unleashing a very primitive desire to be, oh how do they say it…. “Be swept off of their feet?” hmm… Contact and Moving Into Her Space. http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201202/how-flirt-and-seduce-touch part-1 • Williams and Kleinke (1993) evaluated the effect of different types of mutual touch (or no touch) on randomly-paired, opposite-sex couples. coupl es. Mutual touch was associated with significantly elevated heart rates in participants. Furthermore, touching increased desire, especially when it was combined with eye contact and the participant's own romantic outlook. • Studies by Burgoon and associates have also found that touch leads to feelings of attraction. Burgoon, Walther, and Baesler (1992) manipulated types of touch by having students participate in a problem solving task with a research assistant posing as a fellow undergraduate. Brief touches by the assistant led to an increase in the student's feelings of credibility, liking, and attraction towards them. • In two field experiments, Burgoon (1991) also established the various meanings conveyed through touch. After surveying 622 adolescents and adults, the author determined that touching conveys affection, receptivity, immediacy, and similarity, as well as dominance and informality. Furthermore, not all touch was equal in communication effect. While handholding and face touching expressed exp ressed intimacy, handshaking expressed receptivity and trust. Therefore, the more intimate and personal the touch, the greater the attraction that results. •
Hug them as a greeting and set a precedent for physical contact.
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Pat their hands or touch their shoulders to get their attention or make a comment.
• Take their hand or elbow to go with them to another location (e.g. moving seats, or rooms). • Even "accidental" touches, like grazing their arm reaching over them for something, has an influence on attraction. The responsibility for moving things forward falls on YOUR shoulders as a man, when you meet a woman, ALWAYS shake her hand, if you have a reason to introduce light touch, like touching her back when passing her by, touching her arm when you want to get her attention oh and if you
can find a VERY plausible excuse to touch her ass, graze her tit…go for it (just be weary of sexual harassment charges, if the bitch does get out of line, instantly dismiss it with 100% nonchalance, don’t EVER apologize or acknowledge it). Make sure you move into her space as well, this doesn’t have to be for the entirety of the interaction, but at some point, test the waters and see how she responds to you coming close to her. Attraction isn’t always as simple as meeting someone, hitting it off right away (whatever that means) and then going P in V a few hours late, most of the time it’s a little bit more difficult, however through the use of covert tactics, it’s A LOT easier to create that attraction and sub communicate your dominance. DOM is the way to be, DOM is the way for me, bitch I stay DOM like a master key.
20. Love Doesn’t Exist The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. — Robert Briffault LOVE DOES NOT EXIST. There are NO soul mates and what most people term as “love” is nothing more than a hormonal response to biological markers of youth/fertility and beauty or in the masculine case strength/vitality and speed. I.e broad clavicles and a narrow waist are attractive on men because they serve a purpose, wide clavicles=more room for you to carry things on your back and bigger lungs which=better capacity to run, a narrow waist=better strides and better running ability, cheekbones and squinty eyes are attractive because they keep things out of your eyes and cheekbones protect against strikes to the eyes, height is attractive because it allowed males to see more of their environment and prey and to reach higher things. On the female side, wider hips have been proven to= better health for your woman and child and tits/ass are just fat deposits, so she’ll have something extra to live off should a famine strike. Men have evolved to be bigger/stronger/faster, females have evolved to be smaller/weaker/slower to ILICT a yearning from the males to “protect” them through their neoteny aka bigger/more childlike eyes, smaller/more petite stature (why are so many men attracted to “petite women?”) and their smaller tear ducts biologically hardwiring them to be more pron e to crying:
http://www.foxnews.com/health/2011/05/04/river-men-women-shed-different-tears/ Women are biologically wired to shed tears more than men. Under a microscope, cells of female tear glands look different than men's. Also, the male tear duct is larger than the female's, so if a man and a woman both tear up, the woman's tears will spill onto her cheeks quicker.
Everyone is out to find the best partner to pass on their genetics with. That is the TRUE nature of “love.” Some may say that I’m being cynical, this is not my desire as much as it is to take away the ooohh —ahhhh mystique that surrounds the notion of love. I don’t deny that when you’re in “love,” you won’t feel great, but it’s ORIGIN is what people need to understand. The more you can understand WHERE it comes from, the better you’ll be able to handle it and most of all, you won’t pedestal it and make it out more than it is. Couple this newfound paradigm shift with your understanding of objective 7s/8s and now you are 100% FREE to navigate M-F interactions as YOU please. A woman’s “love” of a man is almost ENTIRELY based on her levels of respect and admiration for him, this means that a woman will NEVER “love” you if she doesn’t respect you. This also means that a woman’s love for you is ALWAYS conditional, so if you do manage to gain and then lose that respect, she WILL leave you IF she has the chance. Unless you are able to
continually provide her the tingles she so desires when you display your own desiarability, this will inevitably happen: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/4478040.stm Some couples may disagree, but romantic love lasts little more than a year Women view men as utilities. As sweet, cute and nice as your oneitis MAY seem, even if you two WERE to get together, she wouldn’t hesitate to leave you if she found someone better. Hence why women initiate the majority of divorces and why they have NO issue entirely ruining a man’s life emotionally, financially and mentally even if they were once “in love.” This isn’t a matter of “love,” it is a matter of what is best for her genetics, evolution and the species of human and mating with higher caliber mates will ALWAYS be more attractive (her biological clock doesn’t allow her to fuck around with her time, since she realistically only has 30 good years before things start going downhill fast). Your woman’s love is nothing more th an a transient feeling either onset by what you provide for her, how you make her feel or in some cases, the response your genetics (face/height/structure/mass) elicit out of her vagina and the availability of superior genetic specimens (other men). Even if a woman does like YOU, she has her depreciating vagina to think about and thus many women age 25-30 will break up with men because “it isn’t going anywhere,” IN SPITE of seemingly liking them. Women have evolved to be “fluid” in their love (able to adapt to whatever their environment calls for), so it doesn’t make much sense for a woman to grow extreme attachment to her man when you consider that for the majority of human history, men have been EXTREMELY disposable, dying in wars, dying while hunting, dying while building cities and dying while fighting for their ideals. If a woman herself lost the ability to attract and connect with other men AFTER her husband’s death (which was usually premature), how many women out there would essentially be culling off their own genetics? Ever wonder, why women are so quick to get over a man after they’ve broken up? Call it the war bride syndrome: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2044614/Sex-stormtroopers-How-French-women-fell Nazi-invaders-Second-World-War.html Previously unpublished pictures of French women cavorting and partying with Nazis have emerged, heaping fresh shame on the troubled wartime history of occupied France. Images show women kissing SS officers in bars and cabarets, posing in bikinis on the beach and enjoying strolls under the Eiffel Tower. http://rarehistoricalphotos.com/french-female-collaborator-punished-head-shaved-publicly-mark1944/ French women who befriended the Nazis, through coerced, forced, or voluntary relationships, were singled out for shameful retribution following the liberation of France. Th e woman photographed here, believed to have been a prostitute who serviced German occupiers, is having
her head shaved by French civilians to publicly mark her. This picture was taken in Montelimar, France, August 29, 1944. At the end of World War II, over 20, 000 French people accused of collaboration with Germany endured a particularly humiliating act of revenge: their heads were shaved in public. Nearly all those punished were women. This episode in French history continues to provoke shame and unease and as a result has never been subject of a thorough examination. For the majority of human history women have not had the capacity (desire) to provide for themselves and their offspring, thus if their man died or left them, they would need to get another one ASAP, to either procreate or pass on their genetics or to have someone provide resources for her and her children (cuckhold). You need to create respect within your woman because it is through the proxy of respect that she can begin to “love” you (albeit conditionally). So how is respect cultivated within a woman: 1.You have your OWN set of standards and your OWN ideas as to how things should be and you do NOT bend from them, they are LOCKED and SET IN STONE and if she steps outside of those boundaries, there WILL be consequences. 2.You naturally lead yourself and others, not to say you use a malevolent approach, but you are a leader, you know it, if they want to come with you on your journey, great, if not….GTFO 3.You demonstrate an ability that no matter what comes your way, your approach stays the same, you are consistent with your judgment and NOTHING wilts under pressure. Your woman should ALWAYS love you more than you love her, this is the recognition that your value>hers. In essence, you are showing a HIGHER value than her because as much as women champion this equality nonsense, when it comes down to it, they (or I should say the feminine ones aka the relevant ones) still want to be dominated in the same way they were back in our caveman days, which is why women who earn more are actually more likely to file for a divorce: http://www.forbes.com/sites/carolinehoward/2010/09/10/women-who-earn-more-more-likely-toget-divorced/ When push comes to shove, a woman IDEALLY would take a man that is better than her in EVERY quantifiable way, if not only for her hypergamy, but for the large part of human history, a woman’s “Look at what I accomplished” moment came from the quality of man she was with, for his accomplishments became hers. A man’s competition is tied to EVERYTHING and ANYTHING that can be measured and EVERY man participates in some way, a woman’s competition may go up to a few activities, but it really comes down to one and one alone: procuring a man of high status. Which is why women compare rings, they compare weddings, they compare houses, they compare EVERYTHING to do with their mate, whereas men seemingly compete their entire
lives and place GREAT care when it comes to their pursuits, whether it be art, sport, writing, cars or anything they’re going after. The irony is that when it comes to passing on their genetics, men seemingly place the least amount of care in understanding the female psyche, being extremely picky with their partners and finding women who aren’t utterly insane, but biological programming gonna biological programming. For the most part because of a minimal investment from the male side of things (literally taking 10 seconds of our time to make a baby), it has allowed us to be WAY sloppier with our selection as nature wants us to get in/get out and keep making more babies, however in the day and age of child support/alimony and divorce raping, there is GREAT care needed for a man NOT to get fucked over by women. In the past, a woman COULD fuck over a man, but at no time in human history did she have such an amazing support system from Big Daddy or as some call it The Government in that men are now IMPRISONED for not paying child support (even if financially impossible, meaning it’s set out at a way too high $$$ figure or even if they didn’t want the child support), women get by large part the MAJORITY of alimony (97%) and….THEY are the ones PUSHING for divorce. IF you are pursuing women, remember: Her respect of you=EVERYTHING, always SHOW that your values>hers and even if it technically isn’t the case, ACT LIKE IT IS (she’ll follow suit). A woman tries to turn a lion into a kitten and if she succeeds, she leaves him for another lion because she knows, if she was able to turn him into a kitten, he was never really a lion to begin with.
21. Winning Arguments: Disarming Womanese With Amused Mastery Winning arguments with a woman is actually very simple, so simple that once you apply this tactic, you’ll go 1000-0 and you’ll wonder how such a simple method could’ve ever slipped your mind. The key to winning an argument with a woman is….it is….laughter. Huh? Yep, it’s just THAT easy. ANYTHING she says that is clearly wrong…laugh….she tries to pitch an idea that you know won’t work….laugh…she tries to tell you how to behave…laugh…laugh…laugh. The key to amused mastery is laughter, laughter and the ability to dismiss what does not fly within your frame. The problem is that men and women speak different languages, men speak a language or rationality/reason and logic, Womanese is the exact opposite. Womanese is solely based on what she feels as in if she feeelllss that she’s right she’s simply not going to see it any other way, why? Because of her feelings, that’s why. The reason so many women continually win arguments is that men end up mirroring THEIR energy as opposed to the OTHER way around as in she should be mirroring YOUR energy if YOU want to be the leader of the relationship. If you respond to yelling and shouting or mirroring her bitchyness, you have lost. By responding to retarded arguments with anything OTHER than laughter or a dismissive nonchalance, you are simply put giving her argument too much credit. If someone asked you for money so they could fund a search party for unicorns, would you launch into a debate as to why it’s a ridiculous notion and you’re not going to invest a cent into it or would you simply laugh at the proposition? So why then when your gf makes requests for you guys to spend a weekend away at some bed and breakfast or how you guys should learn interpretive dance or how much fun it would be if you went on a double date with her and her gay best friend do you respond with anything BUT a cool gaze coupled with a few chuckles? As a man in a relationship, you double as a bomb diffuser and often times these arguments escalate into something substantial over seemingly nothing, why? Because YOU lost your cool her being the follower/herd animal that she is, she has NO choice but to follow in suit. The best approach is to remain calm and simply state your position or laugh it the fuck up. What it comes down to is leadership, you can listen to your first mate and let them present their case, but if it’s clearly ridiculous and you KNOW your first mate doesn’t function from a place of logic, you can simply dismiss it with a hearty laugh. NO ONE wants to be the person telling anyone else not to laugh and besides, if you’re happy/laughing, she can’t help but follow. If she wants to lead the relationship, she can go do that with someone else, there is no reason to let her get away with that in YOUR relationship, it is very apparent that YOU make the decisions and she is there to tag along. If she doesn’t like the captain of the ship, tell that bitch to walk the plank.
This goes for the world as well, too many men focus on explaining themselves, going over why they did this and what their thought process was, stop wasting your time explaining yourself or trying to argue with people who aren’t willing to listen. State your position, if you believe the person is capable of understanding or if there are others listening who could be swayed by your logic, feel free. If they are a knob and you KNOW that they won’t get it, you can laugh all the way to the bank or just say nah I’m out…. What is the best mastery? Amused mastery, stay amused
22. If you Fuck up Keep Rolling There is a massive misconception that the most suave, the smoothest motherfuckers out there NEVER mess up. WRONG. Fuck ups happen, they happen ALL the time, the major difference between someone who is “awkward” and someone who is “smooth” is that the smooth one is able to keep rolling when mistakes happen. THIS is what separates the boys from the men because the female creature being moment minded may make you feel as if you SHOULD care, but what is a moment? That was just a moment…and this…and this. Shit goes on and unless you are able to go on with it, you’ll get left behind in the dust. Even if a woman does get taken back a bit by whatever you’ve said, MAINTAIN FRAME, either quickly address it “Yeah that was weird, but you know the real thing about bla bla bla” or just keep going to the next topic. Her momentary display of whatever negative emotion she is showing is just that….MOMENTARY….unless, you allow it to be something more and make it to be something bigger than it was by DWELLING ON IT. A woman’s displeasure with you is a speed bump, if you take it with the right approach, it takes a second or two to get over and you’re through, but if you get out of the car, inspect the speed bump, question the speed bump, measure the speed bump, measure your car, the speed bump owns you. Fuck speed bumps. This can even be a strategy where you open with a nuclear opener “Hey, I’m NV, you want to fuck?” Now regardless of response, you’ve either saved yourself hours of work or she won’t even be sure if you’re serious and when you confirm that you are, she’ll probably just say “No” or “I’m not interested,” at that point you do the unthinkable (to her… remember we’re smart motherfuckers and there is method to our madness), “Alright, so what are you up to tonight?” Most girls will be in such a state of disbelief, they won’t be able to make sense of what just happened, so they’ll just answer and you ROLL ON. If she’s a bitch about it and blows you off, then she’s probably a massive kunt anyways and she just DQed herself and it gives you the opportunity to tell her “Whatever, you probably would’ve been a bad fuck anyways.” Michael Jordan has missed breakaway dunks, Garry Kasparov has made massive blunders and ALL your favorite athletes have fucked up majorly, it is their ability to keep going, to be calm in the face of a storm, to NOT give into their anxiety and the pain they feel inside that made them great. Roll on motherfucker…..ROLL ON!
23. Females Live in the Moment Women live pretty much PURELY in the moment, that is why you’ll have a woman tell you “we’re not having sex tonight” or “I’m never going to do anal” or “No you can’t put a frozen soda can inside me to defrost it” and then 2 hours later, you’ve got her butthole plugged with your dink and a coke waiting for you in her vagina. This is why you should NEVER take what women say as locked in stone or even seriously for that matter, she may actually mean what she says and most women do, but they mean it IN THE MOMENT as in it’s liable to change. The key for a woman is giving her the out of plausible deniability which is really their way of saying “Omgzz I don’t know what happened, I usually never do this on a first date, but you just had something about you.” Plausible deniability: “Can we go on a date?” WRONG “Let’s hang out” ding ding “Can I have a kiss?” WRONG “What’s that?” *She turns* *When she turns back towards you, go in for a kiss* or just straight up go for it at any time Right “Are we having sex tonight?” WRONG “I just got a new water mattress, come test it out” or “This bed is so comfortable, check it out” “Challenge for you: I got a custom made bed, most comfortable in the world” or just go for it In ALL these scenarios you gave her the technical “out” that she could say no, but at the same time she wouldn’t because the way you phrase it is SO much better going the second route. In the second route, you are taking control (ALWAYS a good thing) and you are making it SEEM like there is nothing “whorish” about the situation, so if anything happens she can always say “We just ended up on his bed, I don’t know what happened, I was just testing it out…he’s such a player.” A lot of guys think there is some “perfect” moment that arises when the stars align and Moses descends and says “Ok young one, slip it into her vagina,” unfortunately Moses’s schedule is pretty jam packed, so here is what you need to know: YOU create the moment. How do you create the moment? BY GOING FOR IT. ALL women want to be seduced and ALL women want to be “taken,” it’s just that society has told them to suppress this desire and it has taught men to suppress theirs, but why the fuck would two fertile single/ready to mingle meatbags spend time together if not to rub genitals? How you get to that stage is simply by staying in the moment, escalating throughout the date and then eventually taking affirmative action towards P in V. A woman will be as big of a slut as you allow her to be. In order to lower her inhibition, she MUST have the “Oh I don’t know why I did that, there was just something about him” excuse or DENIABLE PLAUSIBILITY (in the same way you had it with the compliments).
24. Men are Disposable, but Women are Replaceable Ratio: Unhappy single men: Happy single women, why? Men as a whole are disposable, but women as individuals are entirely replaceable. What I mean is that women are naturally programmed to be able to get over a man like…THAT, done, over, moved on. Doesn’t matter the time frame you were together, women have the ability to flick a switch and be over you like that, to be as cold as if they had NEVER known you (see divorce rape for a woman who is “over” a man she apparently once “loved”). Why has this come about? Men were the ones dying in wars, dying in fights, dying looking for food, dying fighting eventual food, dying building cities, dying working and just dying dying dying. Women that WEREN’T able to adapt after their partner or d esired mate passed away would have a lesser chance of passing on their genetics and the women who were INSTANTLY able to do so, would pretty much guarantee their DNA’s continuation. Also consider that the amount of time a woman has in her fertile stage isn’t even remotely close to a male’s (see fertility rate between the sexes), thus time is of the ABSOLUTE essence to her, so that whole mourning/crying/lamenting, yeah that sort of shit isn’t going to help her if her mate is dead and if they’ve already had children, she is STILL going to need resources for her and her offspring, thus her ability to attract a mate is absolutely paramount. <- That is the female strength (Machiavellian maneuvers coupled with “psychopathic” coldness, women are naturally Dark Triad AS FUCK). Now much like everything in the universe, there are two poles, as great of an advantage as this is. The advantage for men arises when they begin to see how similar in characteristics most women are (especially since they are followers) and thus it makes them entirely replaceable. Men tend to vary from black to white, most women are grey meaning that looking at their IQ, their earnings, their accomplishments, their scholastic pursuits, anything that can be quantified, MOST women fall within the median. The opposite is true for men, the median is the median because on one side you have a good amount of retards and on the other side you have a good amount of Gods with men scattered EVERYWHERE in between. In ALL relationships there are tradeoffs, understanding and appreciating the tradeoffs will help you avoid any “pain” you may feel from breakups or terminating contact with an ex because once you start cultivating value within your own life, you realize that for the most part, most relationships take the time and resources away from being able to grow that value and for what? A bit of pussy? Some affection here and there? Even if it’s a good relationship, there are still times when women can’t help but get on your nerves, so if it ever gets to be too much, think of your own value and walkaway. There is no need to “fall” for someone, there is no need to oneitis yourself, yes you are disposable, but she is replaceable.
Somewhere, sometime, your dime has had a man say “Skeet skeet bitch, gtfo it’s now your time”
25. When in Doubt: Escalate Assume EVERY girl you meet is down to fuck on the first date Escalation is the NUMBER ONE key to getting anywhere with women, whenever you’re with a woman, it is YOUR duty to push the boundaries and escalate. A lot of guys waste their time in the so called “friendzone,” protip: There is NO friendzone. All there is, is an area where YOU haven’t taken action to ensure that your relationship with Derpina takes the next logical step. So these men end up here and then they are left HOPING (because that’s all it is and all it EVER will be) that through some random event, they will end up “bonding” and then something more will ensue. The hilarious thing about this pipedream is that it’s NOT EVEN THOUGHTOUT, i.e when you’re dreaming about being a pro athlete, rich as fuck or just successful in general, even within your dreams, you’re going through some sort of plan where you take logical ste ps. You begin by working hard in the gym, then you practice your sport, you continue to do both, you get a mentor, you put in years and years of work and voila, you make it one day. A daydream about getting out of the friendzone looks more like this “Vagueness, vagueness, vagueness, you two are together somewhere at sometime, for some unforeseen reason, something (not sure what) happens and you two end up kissing and then you fuck and end up together.” The HOW/WHY/WHEN and WHAT causes all of this is never answered. If you ever find yourself in a position where your relationship with a woman can be considered in the friendzone, get out…..just stop paying ANY attention to her, unless you’re deriving some sort of benefit from the relationship, which in most cases men are nothing more than emotional tampon to get filled with her toxic vaginally charged emotional sewage. The ONLY way to turn it around as far as actually coming together is to demonstrate to her that you are a man of value, you do this by improving your physical appearance, gaining more knowledge, getting better friends than her, cutting her out of your life (if she doesn’t add value she has no place) and hitting on her mom/sister/friends because then the question in her mind isn’t “Why does Mike put up with my BS? Is he gay or something,” but “Why hasn’t Mike made a move on me, am I ugly? Am I too fat? Does he like my slut friend Jenna, he keeps hitting on all my friends, maybe he was just playing me, I should try and see if he’s into me.” So how does one escalate? Before we get into that, let’s establish that there is NO right moment, if you’re waiting for that perfect Disney scripted moment, you ma y as well jerk off and just save yourself the time, it’s not going to happen. I’m not saying to have no discretion or not have ANY patience, but it is important to understand that it is almost entirely YOUR job to get anything to happen between you and a woman. A woman will give you subtle cues, but the quickest way to learn if you got one of those is to JUST GO FOR IT. Going for it should be your default setting if you even THINK it might be on because even if it’s NOT on, you going for it demonstrates you have little to no anxiety, you’re not afraid of failure, you go after what you want and you’re
a leader. Things which are VERY attractive, so much so that even without the so called “spark” (nothing more than a BS blue pilled Disney term, don’t believe me? Ask your caveman ancestors how much “spark” they had in their relationships? How many fine Italian dates did they take their woman on? How many romantics evenings did they spend cuddling together locked in passionate gazes?…oh wait….and remember we have the same brains as them), those things on their OWN happening create attraction. Basic level of escalation Level 1: Solid eye contact Any form of touch, this includes handshakes, any sort of contact Any mention of anything remotely sexual Within 30 minutes of meeting for a date and can happen within first meeting ever if you’re interested Level 2: Sensitive touch (hand on knee/thigh/back), hug, moving her around Sexual innuendo in a covert way, basically sexualizing whatever is taking place i.e “I like that movie” “Is that the one where they get naked and have an orgy?” 2-3 hours into the date Level 3: Sexual touch/feel, hand on hand, kiss, light petting End of date, when you’re trying to close/escalate further Level 4: Last line before sex, hand down pants, putting her hand down your pants, necking “You’re going to be sore tomorrow” Level 5: If I need to spell out what you need to do here, you may need more help than a Kindle book. Women WANT you to go for it, they WANT to be seduced and if you’re not willing to do it, they’ll find someone else who will. Most of the time, the worst thing that can happen….nothing, she’ll decline and life will go on, unless you’re in California, in which case I’d avoid women all together. For the rest of yall, keep shit moving forward, use any excuse to touch (plausible deniability) and GO FOR IT. IF a woman is totally freezing you out after numerous attempts, do the following:
1.5-10 minutes of no speaking, no physical contact and outright ignoring her (unless she smartens up and starts coming onto you) 2.Pull out your phone and text someone (you don’t even have to text anyone), keep it away from her…slightly (have a smirk while you’re doing this), give another 5-10 minutes again while having NO contact with her 3.Tell her you’re leaving, if she asks where, say to hang out, if she asks you to stay, tell her it’s boring and start leaving. IF after all three of these she hasn’t made ANY attempt to make a move on you, you were wasting your time as frosty lips over there wasn’t gonna be doing nothing but practicing her celibacy vow with you.
26.When in Doubt: Dominate A woman would rather 5 minutes of alpha than 5 years of beta, the same way a young man would rather 5 minutes of young tight pussy rather than 5 years of old haggard pussy-Roissy Although recent research has increasingly focused on human sexual selection, fundamental questions remain concerning the relative influence of individual traits on success in competition for mates and the mechanisms, form, and direction of these sexual selective pressures. Here, we explore sexual selection on men’s traits by ascertaining men’s dominance and attractiveness from male and female acquaintances. On a large American university campus, 63 men from two social fraternities provided anthropometric measurements, facial photographs, voice recordings, and reported mating success (number of sexual partners). These men also assessed each other’s dominance, and 72 women from two socially affiliated sororities assessed the men’s attractiveness. We measured facial masculinity from inter-landmark distances and vocal masculinity from acoustic parameters. We additionally obtained facial and vocal attractiveness and dominance ratings from unfamiliar observers. Results indicate that dominance and the traits associated with it predict men’s mating success, but attractiveness and the traits associated with it do not. These findings point to the salience of contest competition on men’s mating success in this population. http://www.wellingresearchlab.com/uploads/1/3/5/7/13572010/hill_et_al._2013.pdf if you don’t take control, females will eat you alive, in that they’ll be forced to take control….dominate and lead…don’t be indecisive, women would rather deal with eating at a shitty restaurant than have to be the one that makes the choice POSSIBLY leading to that, they are estrogenic/nervous and self-conscious creatures…we are attracted to polarity aka the EXACT OPPOSITE OF US. What are women really attracted to? Men. Thanks Sherlock, now tell me though, what are they REALLY attracted to? I said men. Listen up you asshole, I downloaded your book, I may have even paid for it and now you’re telling me that women are attracted to men, fucking thanks tips, do tell us more. Ok, ok enough mucking about. Women are attracted to men, but what I really mean by that is that the feminine is attracted to the masculine aka opposites attract. so what is the opposite of estrogenic/nervous and self-conscious? Testosterone bruiting, calm and God like confidence. Modern society has tried to instill an egalitarian approach when it comes to relationships (bullshit trap), however what modern society fails to realize is that for 99.9% of human history, relationships had NOTHING to do with equality. The onus of establishing a successful relationship fell squarely on the shoulders of a man, hence why the parents of women would actually gift the GROOM assets as they understood that their daughter was going to be a liability. Our brains are still wired in that way and 20-30 years of feminist propaganda and blue pill programming is NOT going to undo that.
http://www.spring.org.uk/2013/12/connectivity-the-difference-between-mens-and-womens brains.php Male brains (top) show greater connectivity front-to-back, while female brains (bottom) are more connected across the hemispheres. http://www.webmd.com/balance/features/how-male-female-brains-differ Researchers reveal sex differences in the brain's form and function. Today’s men are demonized for being men, for being loud, for having opinions, for having tons of energy, for having a desire to get shit done and for the occasional scuffle. They’re told to pipe down and shut up, they’re diagnosed as if there was something wrong with them http://www.esquire.com/features/drugging-of-the-american-boy-0414 By the time they reach high school, nearly 20 percent of all American boys will be diagnosed with ADHD. Millions of those boys will be prescribed a powerful stimulant to "normalize" them. A great many of those boys will suffer serious side effects from those drugs. The shocking truth is that many of those diagnoses are wrong, and that most of those boys are being drugged for no good reason — simply for being boys. Meanwhile on the opposite end of the spectrum, women have (as they’ve always been) been told they’re perfect/smart and strong for no other reason than they’re women. Even look at something as simple as TV programming that help propagate these false notions. The best examples of this are The Simpsons and Everybody Loves Raymond, both which feature similar scenarios (at least in the overall sense of things). In both families: The father is actually very successful in that homer is a nuclear power plant safety inspector, Ra y is a head writer at a big newspaper Both of their wives are stay at home moms They both have three kids, live in a nice house with their own cars/driveway and lawn By all stretches of the imagination, both men and families are pretty well off, yet in BOTH series’ the men are portrayed as failures and nothing more than walking punch lines, meanwhile the women are portrayed as saints who somehow manage to keep things together for everyone, in spite of providing a service that is nothing more than an over glorified maid. The misandry is very evident and something deeply embedded within both shows. This is why I think children and a lot of young men were drawn to wrestling because it was the one place where men were allowed to be men, loud, intense, angry, treating women as they pleased, jacked out of their minds, not giving a fuck and being themselves aka having their own gimmick/style. In a strange way, the WWE/WWF/WCW/TNA probably did more for men than a lot of their very own fathers, in raising them to learn about masculinity, team work, comradery, friendship, having a goal and the hard work that it takes to get there. This is the exact opposite at what most tv shows
teach and portray men as, you’ll find that in most shows men are always at the butt end of jokes and the females are always coming out looking like Goddesses. Look at commercials. http://www.bakadesuyo.com/2011/03/do-tv-commercials-portray-men-as-inept/ A sample of 477 commercials featuring domestic chores that aired in a week of primetime television programming on all of the broadcast networks was analyzed. Among the key findings: Male characters’ performance of chores was often humorously inept as measured by negative responses from others, lack of success, and unsatisfactory outcomes. Pretty much ALL aspects of society are hell bent on pussifying and DESTROYING your masculinity. So how does one take back what is rightfully theirs? Control and decisiveness, a woman COULD make the same decisions as you, she COULD come up with answers as good as you, she COULD exert the same decision making process as you, but there is A LOT more that goes into that, then just she COULD because we all know the story of Ifs and Buts. Women face a lot more anxiety, depression and fear in their day to day lives (it’s just the nature of estrogen vs testosterone, hence why ALL the most successful women are higher in T: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-athletes-way/201310/testosterone-fuels-bothcompetition-and-protectiveness http://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/ruthless-women-have-extra-testosterone-scientistsshow-1776769.html ), for a woman the pain of eating at a bad restaurant doesn’t begin to come close to the anxiety she feels when it comes to the notion that SHE caused that (she chose it). So ANY chance you have to take control, DO SO: A decision needs to be taken? Take it She’s being a bit rude? Push her playfully You can initiate any sort of touch? Yep Hugging her? Don’t just hug her , pick her up off the ground Play wrestling? Pin her down and hold her there Driving somewhere? You’re driving You even THINK she’s cold? Don’t ask her, put your jacket around her Disagree with her? Don’t be afraid to let her know She’s throwing an estrogenic hissy fit? STAY IN CONTROL, if you have your shit together, she WILL follow, if you start throwing a tantrum alongside, she will onl y escalate it further She’s being a bitch? You don’t have to take that, either tell her to stop behaving like a child or leave
You NEVER have to take her bullshit, don’t EVER think you do (qualifying mindset), if you stay in control and dominate through showing control of your emotions, control of your logic and control of your response, she will have an IMMENSE level of respect for you and while she’s still going to shit test you, be a bitch and throw hissy fits, when she comes down she WILL apologize (usually with a blowjob, as I said, women KNOW what men want and if she respects you, she WILL give it to you). Par t of a woman’s safety within a man is not JUST the physical, but the emotional and mental too, she has to know that you can handle her (what’s that famous overdone Marilyn Monroe quote?) and the problem is that most guys can’t. Picture this scenario, you’r e a dog and you go up to a bitch, she barks loudly at you, now you can do as the other men do and tuck your tail between your legs wimpering away or you could do as the DOM males do, you bark back and she keels overs to your masculinity. This chapter was mostly about relationships, women, but dominating does NOT stop there, much of what I talk about in this book when it comes to women extends to the world. Do NOT be satisfied with having control over your relationship, have control o ver your mind (read/learn new languages/meditate), have control over your bod y (diet/lift/cardio), have control over your finances (spend as YOU please, buy what YOU want and work however/whenever YOU want) and just do YOU. These are things that ALREADY demonstrate domination and give you HUGE leeway with her if you should ever beta backslide. Your value should actually be high, yes you can use techniques to make her THINK that and she will probably even buy it if your frame is impeccable, but being the real thing>>>>>fooling someone you are that thing. Take control and dominate your fucking life. The most erotic moment for a woman is feeling that you are Shiva, the divine masculine: imperturbable, totally loving, fully present, and all-pervading. She cannot move you, because you already are what you are, with or without her. She cannot scare you away, because you already penetrate her in fearless love, pervading her heart and body. She cannot distract you, because your one-pointed commitment to truth will not bend to her wiles. Feeling this hugeness of love and freedom in you, she can trust you, utterly, and surrender her testing in celebration of love. The Way Of The Superior Man
27.Sexual Attraction is based on polarity meaning that we look for the OPPOSITE within the other sex, women look for strength/leadership and charisma, meanwhile men look for submission/reliability and modesty. Women will seldom, if ever be the ones to show overt sexual desire, this is going to YOUR job. Women want to be desired, they want to be yearned after, the best way to engage a woman isn’t to express this desire, it is to SHOW her this desire. Being sexual is absolutely necessary, but tact is even more necessary. Like any aspect of life there is overt and covert methods to be used, personally I think overt references i.e direct references or overly crude jokes are just distasteful (yes I know, I’m such a sensitive soul), specifically when you’re dealing with women that aren’t whores, yeah if you’re dealing with hoes and she’s super sexualized to begin with, she’ll respond, but the sort of girl that isn’t a whore will get her back up against the wall right away and get that sloot shield activated. However if you use tact and you GRADUALLY turn up the heat (throw a frog in boiling water and it jumps out, gradually turn up the heat on a frog sitting in water and it dies), she’ll have her inner sloot activated, all women have a desire to be kinky sluts that get dominated by a man (why do you think romance novels/50 Shades of Grey is so popular?), but it HAS to be by a man, meaning that, they WILL test you, but if you can retain your frame, you will reap the benefits. Women want to be seduced, but the seduction has to follow some sort of rhyme/reason, as a good rule of thumb, you want to slip in one reference of any kind for every hour you’re with her and this doesn’t have to be limited to even making an actual reference with your words, this is something that can come down to your facial expressions, it is something that can come down to your smile or should I say grin (always grin, grinning>smiling and if you’re wondering wtf is the difference, picture your face after seeing a good movie (smile) vs the difference between seeing two playboy playmates scissoring in your bed and saying “come join us”), it is the way you move, it is the way you touch her and it is even the way you think (yes we on dat law of attraction time). The gist of things: Establish touch early (hug is always best when greeting) Drop a few subtle/low key comments: “Hated that movie, the soundtrack felt like it was a prelude to a cheesy 80s porno” “How do you like it?” “What sort of style are you into?” “Did it feel good?” Just generic questions that can be used on just about any topics to implant some not so PG thoughts Escalate to touch when possible If she pulls back, pull back even more, while domination is key, I’ve found that freezing out can work just as well aka aloofness…i.e you’re making out and she tells you to slow down…you keep going…she says it again, ok cool, you stop entirely, turn on the tv and sit in silence or you
can even outright leave or kick her out, if she’s not responding to your escalation, don’t waste your time. Walking away or just the threat of it can actually cause the exact result you desired….you’ll quickly see exactly where she’s at because her next move is either going to be prefacing P in V or P in M or maybe even P in A. If you want the best example of a dominant/sexual man watch the movie Vicky and Cristina Barcelona. In it, you will see in field demonstration of EXACTLY the vibe I’m talking about.
28. Anchoring Anchoring: Something that reminds her of you. This could be anything, it could be your clothes, your car, your style, your hair….whatever, what one needs to know about anchoring is that anchoring really comes down to being different. The more different you are, the more you’ll stand out and the more likely she is to have things to anchor back to you. This gives her a reason to spend more time thinking about you and the more reasons she has, the more likely it is that she will. This is part of the reason women leave stuff at their boyfriend’s house, coupled with the fact that they want other women to be aware that he is dating someone. The perfect gift. Gifts are a PRESENT, do not EVER use them in place of attraction nor should you be CONSISTENTLY giving them. A well timed random gift with meanin g>>>>>consistent gift giving on “special days” Some men like flowers….Lol. Other men give chocolates….cmon bruh and some even give gifts more expensive than both of those combined….escorts>>>. THE best gift that I’ve found is something simple, something inexpensive, something that tells her about you, something that juxtaposes you and something that shows you’ve paid attention to her (men battle for pussy, women battle for attention), so what has ALL these qualities and THEN some? Crystals. What? Yep, a crystal. You can get these at your local metaphysical shop (google “metaphysical shop in location XYZ”) or you can even order a bunch online. They vary from 25 cents to $1-2 dollars being incredibly cheap, but where they REALLY win is that ALL crystals have “spiritual properties” and while I won’t deb ate whether or not any of these things are necessarily true, from a minimalistic standpoint, it’s just a cool looking rock. The great thing about them is they don’t break your bank, you can get one for ANY purpose, you can use them to juxtapose you as in hopefully you’re lifting and somewhat of a hench bitch, thus showcasing another layer to you. I’ve yet to have anything that isn’t a GREAT response from it, not even neutral…crystals are ROCK FUCKING SOLID! Bitches love spiritual shit too, in their own minds they’re all some mystical Godiva who’s allure men can’t resist. Protip: Don’t give the gift right away and if she’s being a kunt don’t even bother giving it to her all together, if you’ve built good attraction the ol “Oh I forgot, I got you something” in the middle of a date if you’re running out of things to say can be a great way to re-spark the convo and build upon the established attraction. Anniversaries: 1 year and that’s it. No celebrating ANY kind of other anniversary because this’ll set her expectations WAY too high and what society has women’s expectations at an all-time high? How’s that working out for you Western kunts? A woman will ask for everything and then some:
A department store was opened to sell Husbands. The store had 6 floors.
Now the rule was you could purchase any husband from any floor, but once you went up to another level you could not go back down, but to exit the store.
A lady entered and the sign on the first floor said 'men with a job', she went up to the next level which read 'men with a job and likes kids'.
Impressed she then went up another level where the sign read 'men with a job, likes kids and has a romantic streak', she liked the sound of that, but proceeded to the next level where the sign read 'men with a job, likes kids, romantic and good looking'.
She was really impressed now but went on to the fifth floor where the sign read 'men with a job, likes kids, romantic, absolutely gorgeous, and enjoys helping around the home'.
Now this the lady was very impressed with that, but still she went on up to the sixth floor, and there on the sixth floor was a solitary sign which read...
You are the 3,450,701 woman to visit this floor, this demonstrates how women are impossible to please. Thank you for visiting the Husband store. Have a nice day.
Directly across the road from the Husbands store was another
department store that sold Wives. And, similar to the Husbands store, this store had 6 floors where you could purchase a Wife on any level, but if you went up a floor you couldn't go back down and had to exit.
So, a bloke walks into the store and on the first floor reads the following sign: "Women who like sex".
Impressed the guy goes up to the second floor where he meets a similar sign, but this one reads: "Women who like sex and are rich."
No man has ever gone to the third floor.
Notice that the women who are most pleasant tend to be immigrants who’ve had WAY less than your average Americana bimbo, notice how much more they smile, notice how much nicer they are to men in general and notice the LACK of entitlement, why? Well they’re still women, so don’t get it twisted, they CAN become like the Western whores, but it’s just that their default mentality is one of very minimal expectations as they’ve seen what a REAL struggle is, thus they are much more receptive to generous gestures. You want to apply the same logic to your gf, women are very fluid in everything they do, meaning that they WILL adjust to you and YOUR standards, as long as you maintain your frame. If SHE wants to celebrate something, fine, you’ll tag along, but you will NOT give into her capricious demands of 1 month, 3 month, 6 month etc etc fucking bullshit etc demands. If she tries to guilt you about it, how her friends have this or how you NEED to do it, look her dead in the fucking eyes and tell her “I don’t care about your friends, if you want to do something, go ahead, I do not bend.” She may flip out and call you an asshole, but deep down, she just gained respect for you as a man. Why? Because you have your boundaries (you have a plan), you stick to them (unafraid to be consistent), you don’t give into her bullshit (women’s bullshit is like the world/society’s bullshit, it’s just there to test if you’re forreal) and you’re communicating an abundance mentality by showing her that your decisions are yours alone. ALL marks of a great leader and who doesn’t want to get behind a great leader? I’ll tell you who does, the herd animals….and what did we say about women and herd mentality? Protip#2: If you forget a big date of importance, it really doesn’t matter, remembering SMALL things i.e what she once said was her childhood movie and bringing her that when she’s sick or how she said she always wanted to go to country XYZ and you getting her some gift to do with
that country at random time XYZ>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>forgetting the big things. Women instinctually understand that men have worse memories when it comes to this stuff, so as long as you’re not ENTIRELY oblivious to everything and you keep a few crucial factoids in your memory (elephant memory is ACE), you’ll be G2G. Actually, don’t be afr aid aid to forget a few things every now and then because when you DO remember the small things, this will give you great juxtaposition.
29. Attraction VS Affection A woman should occasionally be babied to show her the man had affection, but beyond that should be treated firmly-Malcolm X Attraction=alpha Affection=beta Now, in a relationship you’re going to need a mixture of the two, an ideal ratio is anywhere from 60-40 to 80-20, 80-20, it’s going to vary from woman to woman, however you ALWAYS want attraction to be higher than affection. Attraction is cultivated through the following: World dominance Pursuing your hobbies/passions Flirting with women Making people laugh Decisiveness Leadership No anxiety Cold/calculative/consistent decisions Calmness in the face of a storm ANYTHING that is masculine. Affection is: Buying her chocolates Writing her a poem Cuddling her after you blow your load Being “romantic” Pretty much anything that ISN’T masculine Each woman is different, some women don't need much affection at all, thus you can keep it 7030, 80-20 or even a bit higher, others need a bit more so maybe coming down to 60-40 could do the trick. Attraction is ALWAYS king (never go 50-50 or below) because when you have enough
of it, you can get away aw ay with anything, the problem is that if you NEVER show any affection, you're really not juxtaposing your attraction.
The problem with that is that eventually eventuall y you become too predictable and this loses it's charm because all women have cravings to both be dominated, but also be cared for/showered with attention. At the end of the day, as long as you stay on top of your hobbies, your growth and your domination of the world, she'll never be too pissed for you being an ahole, but a well timed affection move can be huge if you care about the relationship, AS LONG AS you have attraction established. EVERY relationship is built FIRST on attraction and THEN affection, meaning before you can “love” her in the way wa y those cheesy ass beta movies try and brainwash b rainwash you into, you must FIRST ravage her like the filth that women love to read i.e romance novels/50 n ovels/50 Shades Of Grey. If you EVER doubt that this book is legit, I would tell you to go read one of the more popular popu lar romance novels, see what it says and ask yourself “why do women LOVE these sorts of books b ooks so much?” Then shoot me an email and tell me how right I was. Actually, fuck it, I’ll do your research for you cuz I’m just nice like that:
http://www.amazon.com/Stepbrother-Dearest-Penelope-Wardebook/dp/B00NVY6JPC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1413297598&sr=81&keywords=step+brother Description: You're not supposed to want the one who torments you. Bitch please, torments??? Give me a fucking break. The female mind is a funny thing, this is why most girls have stories about how they were abused/”tormented” by their ex bf because they live in the moment, they can’t objectively say what is taking place. While they’re in the relationship, he’s making them feel so many things, he’s one of a kind, there’s something about him and when they break up, he was a manipulative asshole who tormented them
When my stepbrother, Elec, came to live with us my senior year, I wasn't prepared for how ho w much of a jerk he'd be. DOM game at work, Womanese double speak at work, incestuous weirdo fantasies running their course.
I hated that he took it out on me because he didn't want to be here. I’m sure he did, he probably didn’t even notice you and was blunt as fuck because he had dat abundance mentality. I hated that he brought girls from our high h igh school back to his room.
Social proof, a desired man is ALWAYS more desirable. “Why are all the good men taken?” But what I hated the most was the unwanted way my body reacted to him. Females are PROGRAMMED to want to be dominated (feminine ones or the only ones worth a damn), they are PROGRAMMED to feel the wa y they do towards guys like Elec (Even his name gives him standout/difference powers) and it bothers them due to feminist propaganda of equality, but this is something that is deeply embedded within ALL women.
At first, I thought all he had going for him were his rock-hard tattooed abs and chiseled face. But things started changing between us, and it all came to a head one night. Looks and body game….lift/get a thick neck, be 8-12% bf. Enjoy step sister vagina (ok maybe don’t….or do, do you bruh, I ain’t bout to playa hate)
Then, just as quickly as he'd come into my life, he was gone back to California.
It had been years since I'd seen Elec.
When tragedy struck our family, I'd have to face him again.
And holy hell, the teenager who made me crazy was now a man that drove me insane. I had a feeling my heart was about to get broken again. FEEL….FEEEELIINGGGSS….there you go, women want to be made to feel, this woman ADMITS she is probably going to end up having BAD feelings from this, but the rollercoaster she’s going to go through in feeling both the good and bad feelings tells her to go for it IN SPITE of her KNOWING it’s going to end badly. ALWAYS MAKE EM FEEL, whether it’s good/bad/sad/happy/passionate/jealous/angry….ALWAYS MAKE EM FEEL
30.Don’t EVER Show Weakness to a Woman Men are success objects in that nobody gives a fuck about you if you don’t have success in one of the major 3: Looks/Money/Status. Women=sex objects in that their value is greatly diminished the uglier they are. The greatest lie: egalitarianism works. Women do NOT hold th emselves to the same standards they hold men, it’s why your girl can be as whiny as a child, as bitchy as a fortune 500 CEO and as weak as a malnourished child, yet if YOU were to display those VERY same characteristics you would get NEXTED. Don’t EVER, under ANY circumstance show weakness to a woman, no matter HOW MUCH she begs and pleads you to be “vulnerable,” she does NOT want it (women communicate and live in the moment, so her words will ALWAYS be transient). Don’t EVER talk about your emotions, your challenges or your suffering to her, she will NOT be able to do anything for you, it will passively communicate your anxiety (anxiety=anti-masculine serum) and she will NOT pity you for it. Not only are you NOT getting any comfort from letting her know these things, she will actually think worse of you for it because she already suffers from those very same flaws (estrogen is a hell of a drug) and she does NOT want someone as a partner who has the same issues. Look at how women hold themselves (they don’t) and then realize that they expect the EXACT OPPOSITE of you aka to be a pillar of strength, notice how women refer to men as her “rock,” what is a rock like? Big, strong, unmovable, consistent and tough. Meanwhile what do men want in a woman? Soft, caring, sweet, kind and flexible (dat male mother need) AKA the EXACT opposite. This is why you should NEVER be the first one to say “I love you” in a relationship, it is her pleasure and it is her way of giving herself over to you, a man saying I love you first is like a girl being the one asking for anal…RED FLAG. The ONLY time it is ok to talk about hardships or challenges is if you’re talking about how you overcame them or if you’re talking about how you’re going to overcome them. This can actually be a good thing, but lamenting and whining over them will NEVER EVER serve you. What is the biological basis of all of this? Ask yourself, how would a man’s weakness or “vulnerability” EVER serve him when it came to dealing with wars/famines and hunting? It wouldn’t, but not only would it NOT serve him, it would disserve him in that he would be in a WORSE state for having those feelings or that mentality than if he were to do without it. Attraction is based on our biology aka the things we’ve evolved to find attractive, so if you’re ever wondering about an action or inaction and how it would/wouldn’t serve you, take yourself back a few thousands of years and reframe it within that context. In summation:
She doesn’t make you nervous She doesn’t give you butterflies You don’t feel anxious or worried about anything You’re not being overcome by emotions You’re not losing your frame over mindless bullshit The ONLY people that will be there for you are maybe close family and a few of your boys. On one hand one could say that NOT expressing these things is a recipe for disaster, I’ve found that it’s ONLY made me stronger because it’s made me realize that only I can truly help myself and it’s made me channel all those unwanted emotions towards something greater, towards my lifting, towards my writing, towards my passions because that is the TRUE wa y these demons are exercised. Through not letting them get to you and then even taking them and turning them into a positive, you’re achieving modern day alchemy. The alchemist is the most feared man for he has the capacity to turn anything into something.
31.Creativity/Unpredictability/Imagination “Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited to all we now know and understand, while imagination embraces the entire world, and all there ever will be to know and understand.”
― Albert Einstein
Creativity is one of the most important characteristics for success, not just with women, but in life. Why? Because it is with creativity that you can navigate your way out of ANY situation. So what is creativity exactly? Creativity is a compilation of knowledge and ideas in a way that is applicable to whatever your pursuit is. In this case, creativity can be tied to your humor, your demeanor and your very being. Creativity is what allows you to create the difference between you and others and to TRULY stand out in a positive way. As a result of your creativity, you will demonstrate an unpredictability which will give YOU plausible deniability because if shit ever hits the fan and you need an out, you can always play the troll card since people will come to expect your difference. One of THE best things you can hear people tell you is “I can’t tell if you’re being serious or not” because there are NO tells on you, not your face, not your body language and not even your words. You have become an ambiguous entity, you have the ability to shift in and out of focus, you have become the ULTIMATE social chameleon. Let me give you an example of running unpredictable game:
At my last job, at times I was extremely stoic and composed, to the point where people were convinced I was involved in some not so legitimate activities outside of work. Now this gave me tons and tons of leeway as being able to avoid pointless chatter and stupid conversation, since people were apprehensive to even talk to me at times. However what this allowed me to do was to juxtapose this by being even slightly friendly with people and because they had me penciled in as XYZ, when they say me doing even a bit of YXZ, they couldn’t believe it and they were much more appreciative of it. This also saved me much flak from the superiors because my demeanor APPEARED to be the pinnacle of professionalism (I should send those kunts a copy of this book eh?), but this also allowed me to spin ANY mistake I made as a “learning experience” or into something that was going to be useful for me. Needless to say, they stayed impressed because of the way I was able to creatively spin things that could easily be taken as negatives (and rightfully so).
Cultivate some unpredictability with the following: Learn an accent and then randomly bust it out. Personally I’m usually one to speak fairly proper, so I juxtapose it by stuntin on some hoes and dropping some ebonics Change something about your appearance. Wear some different clothes, wear some jewelry, do your hair differently….whatever, just change it up some way some how. Move with purpose, this gives your strides and movements MUCH more power, so when people see you approaching, they INSTANTLY turn on “qualifying mode.” This also let’s you do a flashy pimp walk every now and then for comedic effect. Breathe deep and let your lungs, expand as you inhale. When you laugh, laugh loud, this should be juxtaposed by the fact that you’re usually unimpressed and if jokes aren’t funny (most people’s aren’t), you’re not on e to give pity laughs/smiles for the sake of it A well cultivated imagination allows you to do this, this is why it’s SO important to branch out your interests and consume as MUCH different material as possible, whether it’s watching cartoons, then watching documentaries on the most successful in the world, then watching Dave Chappelle do stand up, then watching sports and then finishing off with some Seinfeld. Anything and everything that gives you a glimpse into someone else’s mind can be useful in that it expands yours and allows you to etch in more edge to your character. The best kind of characters are ones with edge.
32.Text/Online Game There is so much mystique/question and wonder surrounding online game, but I’m here to break it all down once and for all. Online game is A LOT different from IRL game because regardless of what you do, these chicks will have ALL sorts of game (usually whack/cheesy or outright disgusting) being thrown at them and this will inflate their value to something WAY higher than their ACTUAL value is. The other problem is that because of this, these chicks will PERCIEVE themselves as having more options than they actually have. Women not being the greatest decision makers to begin with, they will undoubtedly hamster their way out of situations which are actually objectively good for everyone. The biggest thing to understand is that even if you’re above average, running online game is usually a challenge and you WILL need to run numbers game regardless because the flake ratio online:IRL is worse. With that said let’s get into some basics:
1.ALWAYS BE CLOSING. Everything you say is a means to an end, your opener, your follow up and everything beyond that are just said to secure her number, so if it ISN’T helping you do that, do NOT say it. Another simple way to always be closing is to ASSUME attraction, meaning that you ASSUME she is attracted to you. I.e meet a girl at the bar, your first text should be something specific: Do you always hookup with (characteristic about yourself)? You need to learn to hold your liquor better Hopefully, you’re still alive from last night Too many guys think they CONSTANTLY need to be reintroducing themselves, once you have the number, you have confirmation that you’ve done something right, so keep pushing the boundaries for ward and assume she remembers you. If she shit tests you that she doesn’t, don’t get all flustered and give into her frame, give her a hint and tell her to think hard (insert neg about her outfit/behavior or whatever you can come up with) 2.KISS: Keep It Simple Stupid. If you don’t have her number within 10 exchanges, you are wasting your time, so many guys sit there and write back and forth with broads, thinking it’s getting them somewhere, it’s just wasting your time, in general 4-6 texts/exchanges is about the sort of ratio you want to be working with online for getting a number 6-8 is getting up there, but if she’s a bit cold to start off with, show some patience
8-10 is pushing it, if the bitch isn’t a dime, don’t engage in this sort of behavior Keep texts AS short as possible, display AS much aloofness as possible and keep things moving forward. You don’t need to reply to all of her texts, also use the golden rule: take 2x as long to text back. It’s a good idea to leave her hanging and let he be the last text most of the time, you can initiate, but let her finish. 3.Escalate. There is no point in making things longer than they need to be, within the FIRST opportunity you see to strike and get a number, GO FOR IT, if she’s apprehensive, then you can either game on, reassure her (Oh relax, I’ve only been to jail a few times) or just ignore. By going for it, you’re already separating yourself from the field of chumps. 4.Content? Content is to be simple, straight forward and to the point. Make an observation about her attire, her environment, her sign….whatever, it doesn’t matter, as lon g as it’s different, there’s humor to it and it has a sexual undertone. Don’t write her long ass essays how you’re kindred spirits because you like gay band XYZ and you have the same favorite movie, oh and your signs are extremely compatible. Women have filters where they NEED to place men in categories and the large majority of men who write her long exploits and quips are usually dweebs. The shorter, more to the point and blunt that you are, the more you’ll stand out and the more you’ll give the hollowed mysteriiooousss vibe. BE DIFFERENT. Post number acquisition sample: “S it’s your best Tinder match” (I usually go with this as an opener, assumptive language=always good) “Oh really?” (Typical sloot putting up the shield right away, can’t act too excited right?) “Yep” (Don’t be afraid to one word text birds, they’re so used to guys trying to qualify themselves to them, they’ll appreciate a bit of a frame, even if it’s just thr ough text) “What are you up to” (Always come back around because if they don’t, they really weren’t THAT interested to begin with) “Mischief, you?” (Simple, to the point) “Lol you’re trouble eh? Not much, trying to study for my exam tomorrow” (Now we’re getting somewhere) “You’ll find out. What year are you?” (Preface and fluff talk) “Oh is that so? I’m 3rd year and you?” “Already graduated. Yep, we’re grabbing drinks tomorrow” (Flipped question order to put the important shit last, also telling NOT asking her) We ended up grabbing drinks, back to my place, some kino and a movie later and it ended up being a biologically educational night for all.
Honestly, my suggestion is not to waste too much time online and if you are going to use online game, don’t invest too heavily in the result as it tends to be very hit and miss. If you do go online, have a sense of humor with it, neg bitches, escalate at the FIRST opportunity, keep the texts short and sexually charged, don’t use too many hahas/lols/lmaos/emoticons unless it’s a wink face at the end of it, tell them what you’re doing, be DOM and don’t take ANY shit from them because chances are if they’re fickle online, they’ll ONLY be worse IRL. As far as text goes, just be straightforward/laconic and get to the point, at the end of the day, if you think she’s going to come around to going out with you/fucking you based on some witty texts….bad news for you I have bro. Keep it classy.
33.Stoicism/Calmness/Aloofness/Maintain Your Frame Calmness/Maintaining Frame. Women already have one vagina, they don’t want another one. YOU are the one that is emotionally IN CONTROL….at ALL times. Every man at some point in their life has either been hooked on a woman or experienced some sort of “heart break,” now when you step back and look at things objectively, you quickly come to realize how silly your behavior was in those situations. However what is easy to see is that you were swayed by MANY things, but logic was usually left out. You were swayed and moved by the whims of your emotions, maybe you cried or maybe you got angry, regardless the result wasn’t good. Either you became destructive towards others or you became self-destructive. You acted and channeled this emotion in entirely the wrong way, but THE biggest mistake you made was in GIVING IN to it. We ALL have a choice, the choice in HOW we react, do you allow yourself to be bullied by emotions/feelings and ultimately weakness that does not serve you OR do you take an alternative approach? It is VERY important that in the face of adversity you stay calm because when it comes down to controlling your mentality, it is something that will trickle down into other things around you. The calmer you are, the more people will put their faith in you. The more you’re able to maintain your frame, the more people will look at you as a leader.
I want to be VERY clear that being calm does NOT mean being MEEK, there is a HUGE difference between meekness and calmness. You can 100% put your foot down in a way that’s calm/controlled and get’s the desired message across, at the same time, you can yell/make a massive scene and throw a hissy fit and have your ENTIRE message could be lost, as it’s not so much the message, but HOW you present it. Nearly ALL Male-Female interactions are a battle of frames, do you allow her to impose HER frame on you (wrong) or do you use your DOMstetics to impose YOUR frame on her (right)?
This approach will allow you to approach your situation much more objectively and without the strong emotion which lets you make an impartial decision. This is why when Navy Seals go into battle or are engaging their enemy, their heart rate actually goes DOWN. They understand that nerves and jitteriness will NOT serve them, what WILL serve them is ice running through their veins. 3 very simple methods for staying calm
1.Breathe DEEP. The more your breathing is under control, the more your heart rate will be under control, the more your mind will be under control, the more YOU will be under control. 2.Visualization. If you can’t actually be in the situation that’s going to challenge you, visualization is the next best thing because it lets you train yourself in a way that doesn’t actually harm you. 3.Watching the situation. If you can find clips of the situations that you’re going to be facing, then seeing how others navigate them can be extremely helpful. How does this apply to women? Women want to feel safe with their man, however this isn’t limited to JUST physical safety. Something that is very overlooked is the EMOTIONAL safety. Women throw tantrums, they whine over small things and sometimes they even have complete breakdowns being reduced to tears. What they want to know above everything is that you KNOW how to handle them because they KNOW they are followers and they KNOW that if YOU are strong, they can muster the same capacity, but if you are WEAK, it’s going to be MUCH harder for them to pull themselves out. Women understand that their emotions and estrogenic outbursts are a weakness, this is why they hate it so much when men try to “fix” them, they understand that they’re unstable and bitches at times, they don’t need you to try and figure out WHY. They need someone who is going to listen and weather the storm, but this is a seasonal storm meaning that it WILL roll around again and again and again. There is nothing to “fix” (unless you want to pin them with test and turn them into a rational creature) as much as there is something to weather. One of THE best things a woman can tell you (if you care about her in the least) is that she feels SAFE with you because what she’s essentially saying is that your frame is UNBREAKABLE. It’s embarrassing to her that she behaves how she does at times, but she appreciates that instead of being a hot head and losing your cool as well or being a beta white knight and pandering to her ridiculously capricious whims, you stay cool and you point her back to the right road. Once the polarity principle is understood, everything becomes much easier for us men, but because so much equality blue pill garbage is shoved down our throats, we come to believe that we NEED to be emotional, that we should express our “feelings” and do other egalitarian type fuckery. What is necessary above all is a calm/stoic approach to EVERY situation your girl throws your way because it’s not so much HOW she is testing you or on WHAT she is specifically testing you on, it is your RESPONSE that is going to dictate your success. There are two general responses that you can use in just about every situation:
1.Stern mode. Telling her to stop acting like a child, telling her you don’t tolerate that sort of behavior or just outright walking out of the situation and saying you’ll discuss this when she’s ready to behave like an adult.
2.Loving mode. You just grab her and hug her, telling her it’s going to be ok. She may try and fight it at first, but remember, she’s just a weak broad and you’re a strong motherfucker. If she keeps struggling out of the hug, tell her in a latin accent “YOU CANNOT FIGHT MY LOVE” Either or works, but in BOTH situations you’re demonstrating a SUPERIOR frame be cause REGARDLESS of response, you are NOT tolerating her behavior and you are showing that it has NOT affected you, nor will you allow it to. Depending on your personality, you can lean on one or the other, but they both have their place.
34.Don’t EVER Take Advice From Women , Don’t EVER take advice from women about women, women are not only NOT self -aware, but most of them will try to passively sabotage you. Why? Because unlike men, women DO care about the male’s natural inclinations and they understand that if THEY can influence him, he is NOT the sort of man that they would want to be led by. Women instinctively understand A TON about how to control and manipulate men and this is just another tactic they use, this is why as men we have ALL heard the classic advice:
Just be yourself!!!! “Oh just be yourself and you’ll find someone great” This is literally THE biggest pile of garbage given to men since they actually began taking jobs as garbage men. Why? This piece of advice is tied to SO much ambiguity 1.
We are CONSTANTLY changing, thus what REALLY is “yourself” in the truest sense?
2. If we are seeking to be something MORE than we are right now, then what does this current self have to do with anything? 3. If “yourself,” the current one has gotten you THIS far and this HAS NOT been adequate relative to your goals and desires, what makes you think that STAYING in this current state is going to change the result in the future? The very definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. So why do women spout this awful meme? It is a PASSIVE shit test because what men fail to understand about this phrase is that it is pretty much telling you to revert to WHATEVER your natural state is/was, thus if you are naturally alpha “just be yourself” is the best thing you can tell that man, although he wouldn’t need to be told anything and thus it would be useless to say, as he’s going to do what he wants to do anyways. However when you say that to a beta, you’re just reinforcing his negative habits and because he is more likely to actually listen to a woman’s advice, he is doomed for failure. Now this brings up the question of how much of our society is set out to program us to be supplicating weirdos and it’s very evident that there is a MASSIVE effort into culling the male spirit. It is well understood that if the males are controlled and if the females are “empowered,” not only is the current control system more likely to remain in place (weak men don’t question shit), but the money that is spent haphazardly isn’t just the money that females make, but because these men are so pussy whipped, now their resources get taken too. If you ever DO consider taking advice from a woman, ask yourself the following:
Has a woman EVER given you spot on advice? If she DIDN’T have a vagina, would you listen to her advice alone? If most women don’t hang out or even like other women, what grants this one supreme understanding? What is her experience level with this activity? The advice hierarchy is as follows: Those who haven’t tried Those who have tried and succeeded Those who have tried and failed Those who have tried, failed, tried again, failed and kept on trying until they succeeded How many women have done cold approaches? How many women have spent any time EVER trying to seduce a woman or hell even a man? How many women have dealt with rejection and just once, but over and over again? How many women have studied even ONE B IT of game? You can’t POSSIBLY expect a fish to understand ANYTHING about being a fisherman, the fishes entirely reality is based on the faulty premise that bait just HAPPENS to float to it because it’s a special little fishy and then because it has earned it (in it’s own mind), it takes the bait and everything after that is just magical for everyone. Don’t take advice from fish: http://imgur.com/ZeZ0iko http://imgur.com/a/eDTyb
35.Females Communicate Covertly Women do not communicate like men, as men we tend to say what we mean and mean what we say, with women you have to be WAY more attentive to the overall vibe of things because while the masculine spirit is one of overt expositions, the female is on e of COVERT communication. What this means it that above EVERYTHING, you will need to watch her ACTIONS as opposed to her words because your masculine bias can delude you into thinking that because she SAID something, she is going to take action behind that or that she actually means it. Women live in the moment, her words are those of an oracle, it may or may not come to fruition and they may or may not have meaning behind them. Positive covert communication: A woman you’re NOT seeing remembers things about you, i.e you bring subject matter XYZ and she remembers something you said about it in the past. This is a very good sign because it shows that you’re on her mind and she values what you’ve said. It is a sign of interest because female interests are usually what is SOLELY relevant to her, whereas we as males have a craving of knowledge in general, women have a craving for a different type of knowledge….knowledge that IMMEDIATELY is useful to her, thus she is covertly communicating interest A woman you’re NOT seeing is bringing up sex in any way. Even if she says you’re gay, she’s thinking about YOUR sexuality. Anything that signifies that you o ccupy any space in her mind=good thing Your gf buys you things, gift giving is always a good sign because it means she is SO into you that she is thinking about you OUTSIDE of your time together. Your gf initiates sex and asks you if it’s good for you, again showing EXTREME interest in what YOU care about, so much so that in HER moment of ecstasy, she is just as concerned how it is for you Your gf gives you random blowjobs, EVERY woman understands the power of the male sex drive and they ALL understand that men WILL stray. They can’t control us, but making sex and good sex more readily available to us is the best that they can do Your gf takes EVERY opportunity to do things for you, whether it’s cooking, cleaning or anything that she can do to immediately help you Negative covert communication: Flaking, but not only flaking, flaking without rescheduling. This shows that you are on the backburner, she feels as though she is the prize and you can wait on her. Gf NOT doing what I’ve said above, withholding sex, not cooking/cleaning for you, not initiating sex, not giving you any gifts. Women instinctively KNOW they bring less to the table
as far as relationships go, if she can’t even do the minimal expectations of a woman, that shows you EXACTLY what she thinks of you as a man aka a man who doesn’t deserve these things or worse off she thinks you WON’T be able to get them elsewhere Consistent flir ting with other guys, now I will say that if you’re dating a decent bird (7+), it’s to be expected that she is going to get hit on and that she’ll maybe even flirt back a bit. However if your woman is consistently flirting back in an overt way, this is a HUGE red flag and you need to NEXT her ASAP. Consistent attention whoring on social media, i.e if your chick has an active facebook/Instagram/twitter that she uses to post selfies, you’ve got yourself another Americana whore, so downgrade to a fuckbuddy (if that). WATCH HER ACTIONS. Women ARE (as much as they’ll deny it afterwards) aware of what they’re doing and the underlying implications, so you need to watch them very closely. If her underlying actions come from a place of disrespect, you can either shift your attention to self-improvement and dread, you can downgrade her to a fuckbuddy or you can outright drop her all together. Your response is up to you, but don’t EVER overtly communicate with her about the situation, this undermines your masculinity in boxing you to a place of qualification and it gives her ALL the power. Situations: Not having enough sex “Honey I feel as though we’re not having enough sex and this is really bothering me because my WRONG Get to building your muscles, focus on your career, spend more time reading books/playing video games/out with friends, withdraw attention (this including text/online communication), be short with her, let her catch you looking at other women (this can be a go to strategy for just about any issue) RIGHT See her flirting with someone at a party “Babe I was really upset when I saw you flirting with that man over there, I wish you wouldn’t do that” WRONG Find girls to flirt with in the party and don’t stop even if she comes over RIGHT She texts that she can’t make it tonight
“I’m really upset when you said you couldn’t make it for our date, I was really looking forward WRONG (if you ever want to troll using this line, it can be made into a RIGHT by simply texting her “wait Is this NOTHERNAME?”)
“Ok” Text her the next day “No worries” or don’t text her at all
RIGHT
36. Humor Having a good sense of humor is paramount to success in life, I want to differentiate between a stooge and someone who is capable of making people laugh. A stooge is someone who HINGES on others, his wellbeing and sense of self is determined by the reactions and feelings of others. The stooge is NOT something you want to be, I’ve been there in the past and while it does in a sense give you social proof as far as people willing to laugh at your jokes more, the line becomes too blurred between who is the real joke. People will subconsciously be able to tell where your jokes come from, do they come from a sense of amusement and wit or do they come from a place of qualification and need? This is why I NEVER make self-deprecation jokes and I would suggest against it, unless you have massive social proof already in the bag. Others will make fun of you regardless, you don’t need to make their job any easier. The only take self-deprecation is ok is if someone is trying to steal your thunder and you KNOW they’re going to be doing a joke, then if you beat them to the punch, you’re taking their power away from them. If you’re saying “B- but I’m not funny,” WRONG. Everyone is funny, I used to be a class clown and because of it I got to see a lot of different types of humor, but EVERYONE has their own sense of it, it’s just a matter of finding and mastering it. If a skillset doesn’t come naturally to you, you’r e going to need to work on it, but everyone can get good at something (relative to the general population). Two books I suggest on the topic are Stand Up Comedy by Judy Carter and Comic Insights, both of these books have very good information as far as writing, telling and delivering jokes. What people overlook when it comes to joke telling is the delivery, timing can be just as if not more important than the joke itself, just recognizing that an opportunity to be funny has arisen is crucial in allowing you to concoct a lulzy offering. If you’re not naturally funny, then training your brain to come up with jokes is going to be absolutely necessary. Once you begin to engage your mind in the frame of thinking that creates jokes, you’ll find that your own sense of humor will naturally begin to flow. As a simple exercise, challenge yourself to find something funny in random situations throughout your day, all humor is, is an observation about something/someone or some past/future occurrence. It’s not overly complicated and because most people’s sense of humor is very primitive in that they find simply saying something louder or quoting stupid ass fucking movies as funny, you’ll be ahead of the curve. Start forcing yourself to see the humor within every situation, much like a muscle, the more you practice being funny, the better you’ll get at it. The other thing you can do immediately is start to watch comedians and begin to understand their mindsets and how they write. Some of m y favorite comics are Bill Burr, Patrice O Neal, Jim Jeffries and Mitch Hedberg. The more time you spend engaged in that type of thinking, the better your own humor will be and thus the more you harness the female’s biological drive to
procreate with men with good brain power (that’s all that humor is, just a demonstration that you have a healthy/functioning brain as you’re able to use it creatively). Side note: Leaving on a laugh. This is a very good strategy that can make you seem funnier than you are, it’s something I practice pretty frequently because it ingrains a certain image into people’s minds and the more something becomes established, the more leeway you’re going to have because of it. You can use this for smart remarks/witty remarks or any sort of impression you’re trying to leave, just display the characteristic and then dipset.
37.Abundance Mentality and Outcome Independent You define YOU. Don’t ever be scared of going nuclear in a situation with a girl, if you have developed yourself to your highest level or if you’re working towards that, it will ONLY be HER loss. Abundance Mentality: When you have an abundance mentality, you are able to navigate and create within every situation as you please. You are displaying yourself in the way YOU want to, as opposed to displaying yourself in a way that you think will make OTHERS approve of you. It comes down to NOT GIVING A FUCK because the more fucks you give, the more likely it is you’re going to be OVERLY invested in the result and for what? We’ve already established that YOU are (or should be) the prize, so even if you aren’t the prize, having more time by yourself will just allow you to grow until you are. Outcome independence. Outcome independence is the recognition of your own inherent worth and the value YOU bring to others in their life, in this life, you can’t base your worth on the external. Base your worth on things you can work on aka things you can fix because at the end of the day, there is A LOT outside of your control. Abundance mentality and outcome independence are the recognition of this, it is the recognition that as long as you’re working on yourself, as long as you’re getting bigger/stronger/faster, as long as you’re making them mental gains and as long as you’re endeavoring to reach for your Apex Form….that’s ALL you can do. The more abundance you appear to have, the more scarce you become, the more outcome independence you appear to have, the more experienced you appear to be. People want something that is QUALIFIED as good (experience) and especially IF it is scarce (abundance mentality). It is MUCH better to start out weak and train yourself to be strong because you will ALWAYS remember what it’s like to be weak, you will remember the feeling of scarcity and the lack of self-esteem because of it and when you begin to improve yourself, you will start noticing the changes and once you get to your desired goal, you will have the FULL benefit of reaching that goal, alongside with the contrast of knowing what it’s like to be on the EXACT opposite end of the spectrum. The rich man has all the money to satisfy his hunger, but no hunger itself, for he has never felt the pangs of an empty belly. The poor man has all the hunger in the world, but no money to satisfy it. The rich man who started out as a poor man will forever remember the hunger pangs, but now that he has acquired the resources to satisfy his hunger, he will enjoy his feast THT much more.
38.Navigating Fit Tests Assume EVERYTHING a woman says is merely a fit test With this as a default mindset, you will find dealing with women MUCH easier simply due to the fact that you won’t find yourself wrapped up in Womanese double speak which makes ALL men look like herbs because it gets them to qualify themselves to her. If you notice a woman is fit testing you and I define it as a FIT test and not a SHIT test because the connotation that a shit test has, a shit test implies that something negative is taking place, when in reality, if a woman is testing you…it is ONLY a good thing. In that, she wants to test your masculinity and she wants to see what your frame is like, she is essentially testing you to see how you would handle her. Most women are used to a man that either immediately keels over or an awkward momo that doesn’t know how to respond, so he responds as he thinks any man should, by either giving into her request or by addressing it with logic, wrong and wrong. Here are some simple methods to use: Push it back on her, you take whatever she’s said and you flip it back on her, NEVER get caught up in HOW you do it, it’s a matter of doing it more than an ything. In this day and age, she will have become SO used to awful responses, that just by giving her a guided response in the right direction, she will set you apart. “You’re awkward” //// “Takes one to know one” “If I’m awkward you’re the queen of awkward” “Whatever weirdo/creep” (calling women weirdos/creeps is the GOAT because they are SO used to hurling that insult at men, remember women are 100000000x more insecure than you) “You seem like a player?” “Seem?” “Define player” “Aren’t you a girl?” Agree and amplify, fairly straight forward, take her concern/question/comment and amplify it to the ten thousandth degree. “Why are you always so mean?”
//// “You make an easy target” “I have no heart” “Stop being such a pussy” (nothing like calling women pussies) Dominate, plain and simple, this can be done by ENTIRELY superseding what she said, it can be done by ignoring her or it can be done by dropping the subject entirely:
“He’s never had a girlfriend” //// “Bitches ain’t shit” *Glance over at her….smirk….don’t say anything* “Know your place” (CLASSIC, telling women to know their place is antidote to everything if you ever run out of lines because we ALL know what it means, but you have GODLY plausible deniability with it, not like it really matters, but HR feminists are always out trying to cockblock a ninja) Finally the no inhibition destroy everything option where you pretty much let her know, you’re not tolerating any of her shenanigans, could be any of the following “Suck it bitch” “Shut it slut” “Fat” It’s very important when you’re using ANY of these tactics that you respond with 100% IRON FEARLESSNESS because the testing may amplify, but ALWAYS remember:
1. Women have a STRONG desire to be made to “feel,” it’s why they love soap operas, it’s why they read romance novels and it’s why they are so drawn to drama, they are FEELING creatures and if you can provide that, even if it’s in a way that you think “there is NO way she would like that,” you have to be cognizant that you’re dealing with a LIFETIME of blupill/mangina/white knight programming. 2. She may begin to test you even more, her amplification of tests is ALWAYS a good thing because it means she is more seriously considering you as a mate, if you find a woman is busting your balls frequently, she probably wants you to make a move.
3. Respond with assuredness because while every comeback may not be 100% ace, you’ll naturally get better at it over time and JUST the fact that you’re displaying your frame to her is something that is attractive. If you’re ever doubting how you should respond to a woman, ask yourself how you would respond if a child did the same thing….you now have your answer.
39. Putting it Together:Social Proof I can appreciate for somebody that has never read about ANY of these things, doesn’t lift, doesn’t do any form of dieting, is coming coming from an entirely detrained state not only o nly physically, but mentally and masculinity wise, it IS a process and I want you to understand that deprogramming yourself from the awful neural patterns that society has ingrained into your brain is going to take time. However, JUST in having this knowledge, you are SO far ahead of the majority of men (and women) that just by getting the majority or even SOME of it right, you are headed for the path of success, but learn to appreciate the journey because THAT is the TRUE reward. You ARE going to face shaming (see: http://i.imgur.com/lGilLdE.jpg not necessarily for the response, remember what I said about arguing with Womanese, but for what the shaming will look like) and people trying to keep you down, there is no doubt about this, do not pay them attention, do not give them your time and if their behavior ever gets g ets malicious enough, do what it takes to make them understand that you won’t tolerate it. People don’t want want you to be strong, everyone wants you to be a subservient weakling that carries out what they’re told to do without EVER questioning as to WHY they’re taking that action, so naturally you’re going to face A LOT of flak if you’re trying to turn the tide against people who were once in control of you. Whatever you do, DO NOT give in because a lifetime trying to stand up even if you don’t end up standing up entirely is a better life than one spent unhappily unha ppily on your knees. If I had to shortly sho rtly sum up what I’ve said I’ve said in this book it would be as follows: 1.Lift, have good posture/a thick neck, be 8-12% bodyfat, make eye contact with people, strong handshakes, breathe deep ALWAYS 2.Push your boundaries, stay positive, meditate, always be cracking jokes 3.Take action, action, don’t be indecisive, dominate and do whatever the fuck you want to 4.Tease women, don’t take their shit, meet them on your own terms, let them ride the roller coaster of emotions (make em feel) 5.Don’t allow anyone to define you, YOU ARE THE PRIZE, sur round round yourself with good people/music 6.Don’t buy society’s bullshit, question everything (even me and this book), DOMINATE 7.Do your best to expand your mind daily, read as much as possible, watch as many interesting videos as possible and do at least 30 minutes of mental self-improvement, it adds up 8.Tis better to walk alone than in bad company, don’t be scared of solitude, low inhibition no fux given is needed to get through this world
9.Never put the pussy on the pedestal, women aren’t magical, self -love -love is the best love you’ll feel 10.YOU are God, YOU are God, YOU are God Social proof. Social proof is having your very own lobbyist, social proof is THE best wa y to have others do your bidding for you. Through the strategies I’ve listed in this book, book , you will naturally be elevated to a higher status than others, with it will come more responsibility, but you will be able to enjoy a bastion of benefits, in order to retain them going forward, here are some simple tactics to retain your newfound kingdom: 1.Court 1.Court attention, whether negative or positive, it’s better to have people talking about you as opposed to not. Having an image>having no image. 2.Don’t correct overly positive beliefs, if someone is painting you in a brighter light than is even true, allow them to do so 3.Endeavor to be on good terms with all, reach out to people in your immediate circle and do them a small favor or give them a small gift, they will be more likely to reciprocate in the future should you need them 4.If you’re going to be in a war with someone, be prepared for full out battle, do what it takes to win and don’t stop short until you’ve achieved what you desire 5.You can offer up a piece of information that is framed as “confidential” to get people to open up, doesn’t have to be tr ue ue 6.Don’t share weaknesses/failures, unless you’re reframing how you overcame it, nob ody likes whiners/losers (avoid them yourself, they’ll only drag you down) 7.Your mind is yours, but use tact when communicating controversial ideas, everything you say sa y can and will be used against you, it’s better to be silent than to divulge too much 8.If a favor is asked of you, look at what this person can do d o for you, NEVER do favors out of a feeling of “obligation” 9.Plan everything, from every conversation, to why wh y you’re you’re having it, act with conviction or don’t act at all. 10.If word needs to get out about something, find the blabbermouth (usually a woman, sometimes a gay man and occasionally a beta) and tell them the information You are going to fuck up, relax, deep breath, when going through a MASSIVE transformation, there WILL be growing pains, but stick with it and I promise you, your newfound attitude will pay off.
40.Female Imagination and Intuition Female Intuition, let the great debunking continue, continue , another myth perpetuated ever forward (I got you Max) is the myth of female intuition. Female intuition does NOT exist, the only thing “intuitive” about women is that their brains have evolved to be able to read body language easier and most people being very transparent, they are able to get very quick reads on them. Women as a whole are also more likely to spout whatever comes to mind “Oh you look so sad today” “Wow look at mr smiles, did you get laid this weekend?” “You seem mad at me” and on and on and on. Men tend to give into the female frame really easily, so they’re used to being told they’re right because most guys think “I look sad? Wtf, I’m not sad…..or maybe I am, hmmm why am I sad? Oh yeah”….”Yeah Slootina, I’m very sad because yesterday I missed the bus bus to my favorite strip club. “ With an enhanced ability to read body language, an aptitude to take wild guesses and weak men without frames who give into the female’s frame, they would APPEAR APP EAR to be more intuitive….they are not. Her imagination will be your greatest gift. Women are naturally insecure and they have a desire to make ALL men they the y find attractive as mysterious. <-- Keep that tidbit in your pocket for future use, a woman tends to think the world is out to get her, she has a magical capacity to create situations seemingly out of nothing (I.e modern day da y feminism). Guy texting=Who’s the slut he’s cheating on me with? Guy goes out=He must be banging my best friend Guy goes to the bathroom during a movie=Probably that whore we saw standing in line Guy tells her he loves her=does he really mean it? Note: These are ONLY believable if you court mystery and create attraction This is why vagueness (as long as it isn’t too blatant) is your best friend, men that “open up’ to women are the biggest fools around, but around, but they do so because they actually believe that it’s going to help them. It won’t. Her imagination>reality. This is why dread game works so well because on the outside looking in, we can ALL see it for what it is, however through her subjective lens that makes you mysterious/suave/desired (you must be mysterious/suave/desired if you seduced her!!! She’s such a special snowflake after all) that also amplifies these situations THAT much more, your goal should just be NOT to destroy this. Don’t tell her where you’re going, don’t take your phone with you and don’t don ’t tell her when you’re coming back If you’re busy, you’re busy….it’s JUST that, not “I’m busy baking bakin g cookies with my friends, I will be doing so from 12:25:36 until u ntil 2:51:01, afterwards I will be free the entire night and if you
can’t do anything, I will be playing video games and masturbating thinking about the woman I Do random things at random times, I.e a text with ZERO context and ZERO meaning should be thrown in, if she questions it, move on and hold frame. Look off into space, ponder for a while, look her in the eyes and say “You know….nevermind,” move on and hold frame. Ask her opinion on “spiritual” topics like karma, afterlife, God (good move to do if you aren’t “spiritual”), anything that juxtaposes who you are, is out of the blue and takes her on a loop=good. A woman’s imagination is her gift to you, use it well. Protip: If you ever get injured, make up a better story than saying you rolled your ankle playing Frisbee with your boy at the park or just be vaaggueee as hell.
41.Opening, Negging And EndGame Openers. This is something that comes down to preference and style, you’re going to need to find what works for you, but the majority of your work will have already been done at that point. What I mean is that whether it’s in person, your style, your posture, your body, your vibe will either be on point or they won’t, whether it’s online, your profile, your pictures, your description will either be G2G or they won’t. So it’s not so much what you say as much as it is how you convey it. Online, I take a get in/get out approach meaning that everything is done in the shortest fashion possible. Goal=get her number, how am I going to do that? Humor aka demonstrating a healthy brain, negging aka demonstrating an abundance mentality, underlying sexual vibes aka demonstrating that I’m not ashamed of my desires and assumptive language demonstrating self confidence. Not necessarily in that order or NEEDING to do all of them, but this is the general matrix of attraction. IRL is the same thing with more contact, eye contact and humor. People overcomplicate it though, she’s either attracted to you or she isn’t, how much time is this thot worth? Because at the end of the night, she COULD in spite of all your “Godly game” reject you, if the vibes are right aka she’s paying attention to you and FULLY engaged in the conversation, if she’s mirroring and following you, if she’s laughing at your jokes (if she’s attracted she WILL laugh) and if you’ve done your job above, you’ll be in. Some basic openers: Tell her to hold something for you “Hi I’m….I wanted to come talk to you”, I want do differentiate between the CAN I talk with you and I WANTED to come talk with you, one puts too much emphasis on her and the other demonstrates your ability to go after what you want Have 2 observations about the environment ready, 2 observations about her, 2 negs and 2 stories ready. Don’t make openers be some end all be all thing, get through it and roll on. Perfect body language, eye contact, deep voice and confidence>>>>>memorized lines. Negging. Women like to push their luck, so it’s good to let them know you don’t play that, but you don’t do this by saying “Excuse me miss, you’re busting my balls too much, I’m starting to get quite offended, would you kindly stop?” Instead be proactive and drop some of the following: Call women weird/awkward/creeps, a quick way to flip the script on their little word monopoly and establish that you’re not afraid of calling THEM out Give them pet names, call them short, call them little girls, call them children
Ask them do you even questions. Tell them a random factoid and if they don’t get it drop the “do you even computer science/biochemistry/sports (whatever your topic was)?” When they say no… *rock eyebrow* “What the fuck is wrong with you?” “Who are you again?” “I am God, know your place peasant” “Huh?” “IT DOESN’T MATTER WHAT YOU THINK” “Thanks, when we want to know a retarded opinion, we’ll come back to you” “Do you know who I am”…”No who?” *Shake your head and walk off* End game. If you’re trying to seal the deal, you’re probably going to be getting some last minute resistance, this is entirely normal, but it’s pretty easy to overcome with plausible deniability: 1.If you’ve given her the crystal, tell her you got this apparently magickal tool at the metaphysical shop and you need help testing it out 2.Tell her you have a small cat and you want to show her 3.Tell her you want to play her a song, when you get back to your room, loudly say “FUCK…I lost my recorder” If she asks more details about XYZ, tell her she’ll find out. Once she gets back to your room, you should have clothes/books on all chairs, so the bed is the only option for her to sit on. Hopefully I don’t have to tell you the last part, but if you get in trouble at that point, shoot me an email and I’ll come and whip out your cock my damn self.
42. Don’t Use Passive Aggressive/Guilt/Shaming Tactics Push-Pull. Simple tactic, its building attraction and showing affection, you need to balance the two, but you need to be cognizant of your CURRENT strategy and where you stand overall. Nobody eats only salty food and nobody eats only sweet food, the universe is about finding your own perfect balance. You’re always going to be relying on attraction, but if you want more space, then feel free to show a ton of affection (love letters/sappy love texts/cuddling and kissing too much) which will make your girl fall back (and be a bit repulsed) and ultimately give you the space you desire (push). If you keep that up, you’ll destroy the relationship, so now is the time to do without contact/focus entirely on your self-improvement endeavors and live your life (pull). This’ll again rejuvenate your woman’s attraction for you and overall keep her guessing as to who you REALLY are “I don’t know, sometimes he’s so sweet, but other times he’s so cold uhhggg I can’t figure him out.” Passive aggressive shaming tactics. Don’t EVER try and use passive aggressive shaming tactics on women, there is nothing that makes them lose respect quicker for you than you TRYING to make them feel guilty over something. Don’t make snide little remarks to her about something you don’t like “What do you care about me all of a sudden” “Go flirt with your other boyfriend some more” “Yeah we’re totally having enough sex.” Unless you’re in a long term relationship where compromise and communication can be more necessary, just withdraw attention and focus on anything that amuses you because at the end of the day, women are VERY self-aware when it comes to their behavior around men, so pretty much everything they do is calculated. The more they respect you, the less they’ll take certain risks of making you mad, the less they respect you, the more risks they can afford to take. Respect being based on attraction, attraction being based on your capacity to be a man: drive to complete your mission independent of her. No contact. Once a relationship is over, she may as well have departed to another dimension, she is nothing to you, you will delete her off of ANY format you can reach out to her through. You will NOT dwell on her, you will throw out/give back any of her shit and you will start hitting on new birds and focus ENTIRELY on your life/hobbies and passions. NO FUCKING CONTACT. Be honest, but be coy. Much of what I’ve written needs to be taken as a RELATIVE teaching depending on how much attraction you’ve built, how much affection you’ve shown, how much social proof you have and how much attraction she has communicated with you. If you have a girl that is literally eating out of you hand and she explicitly asks you what she can do to make you even happier, you can tell her explicitly to do XYZ, i.e learn to cook, start lifting, learn the sex position the twisted tarantula…whatever, but in most cases, you should avoid telling her what NOT to do “Don’t hang out with sloot friend XYZ (why does she have a sloot friend to begin with?), don’t flirt with other guys (why is she flirting with other guys and why are you catching her doing this? Why are you communicating jealousy and lack of abundance?) and don’t go out to parties and drink a ton (does a chick that does this REALLY respect you or is she starting at a default sloot mentality?). Tell em what to do, don’t tell them what NOT to do, this
just gives them ideas, the “do not” dos should NATURALLY be implanted in their minds by their own accord and desire to keep you happy because if it stems from YOUR mind, it’s only a matter of time before she does the exact thing you told her not to, since she never fully understood WHY she shouldn’t do it, she just didn’t do it (Hi legislated laws trying to be principles).
43.Types of Women to Date VS Types To Avoid Feminists. It should go without saying, but let us reiterate, feminists are the spawn of S atan. If a girl considers herself a feminist, be prepared for the ultimate whirlwind of solipsism, insanity and possible rape accusations. A girl who self-identifies as a feminist may as well be telling you she has a penis chopping fetish, stay away. Girls with rape and abuse stories. You’re damned if you do and you’re damned if you don’t, meaning that IF her story is true, she is carrying baggage no doubt and that is not something you want to take on. If her story isn’t, she is just trying to get you to feel sorry, which is even sicker and shows you the sort of depths she’s willing to plunge to just for a bit of your emotion. Girls with tats/tons of piercings. Bad fucking news, all of them, apart from the unusual tendency to ask for anal and have kinks, they are almost as crazy as our feminist friend. Except unlike the feminist, their insanity isn’t under the guise of something else, it’s just out there and in your face. A girl who even uses the term self-harm. No just no. Party Girls. If a girl is or has been a “party girl” (or in/has been in a frat), there is a good chance she’s seen more cocks than your great uncle the farmer. Future beta bux wife with one legitimate child and one cuckholded child, she will work HR for her daddy’s company. Girls with whore/guy friends. You are the sum of your three closest friends, if a girl keeps company with whores, she too will be a whore herself, not a matter of if, it’s a matter of when. Same thing if she pretends to be “one of the boys,” double speak for her getting slut shamed by her girlfriends (coupled with their fear of their boyfriends cheating with her), thus b eing relegated to only male companionship. Single moms. There is a reason the insult of being a “bastard” used to mean something, society instinctually understood the importance of a male role model for a child (http://thefatherlessgeneration.wordpress.com/statistics/ ), her child will always come first and you will inevitably play second fiddle while being forced to be designated dad. Damaged women. If they’re over 30, if they’re overweight or if they talk about death/abuse/life struggles within your first meeting, DON’T BOTHER as these women are always more trouble than they’re worth and the word “damaged” isn’t exactly a word that you use to signify worth. Whores. Don’t date them, whores=bad, no….NO Girls who you can give a shot Girls with good relationships with their father. If a girl has a good relationship with her father, chances are, she understands boundaries, not being an attention whore, proper male attention and
she’ll respond better to positive game (won’t need a ton of negging, just light teasing, won’t need a ton of dread, just subtle dread and will be pretty straight forward) Girls that are religious/conservative. Now they can be VERY hit and miss, but ON AVERAGE they do better than the regular Western bimbo, more points if she regularly attends her church. Immigrants. If a girl has lived in another country (not a Western cultured country), she’ll be more likely to understand what REAL problems are and what is true suffering. Just watch out as they can be very trying at times, so your game will need to be on point (especially with Eastern European women). Introverted/shy girls. Again hit/miss, but ON AVERAGE, they won’t be as big of whores as the overly extroverted girl. At the end of the day, they’re all still women and thus people, so don’t put the pussy on the pedestal and treat them like anything more. They can all let you down and they can all crush your heart, stay in control.
44. Numbers Game Vs Rejection Alpha/beta. I’ve used these terms a lot, it is not out of a belief that XYZ is ALWAYS alpha or that XYZ is ALWAYS beta, these are moreso terms that are used for the sake of imparting information, they merely act as simple all-encompassing terminologies that are eas y to understand. EVERYTHING is contextual and just about ANYTHING can be pulled off with the right frame, get ya mind right and the rest shan’t be a fight. Numbers game vs rejection. Unless you are extremely well endowed when it comes to looks/money/status, you’ll probably face some or even a fair deal of rejection, this is pretty normal. There are even times when a girl will reject you as she stands to gain more by rejecting you and acquiring “status” from this rejection than having to deal with you potentially joking or not being serious about being with her. It’s all par for the course and it’s entirely up to you how much of it is worth it relative to your goals and tolerance, but know that rejection is something that pretty much ALL men face at some point in their life. Understand the environment. Environmental knowledge is very important in actualizing your potential within the moment, how you approach women at a bar is going to be different than how you should approach women should you choose to do it throughout the day, it’ll even be different at different parts of the night. That said, standing out is ALWAYS a good thing, so seek to differentiate yourself from the other men in the environment and just by running DOM(ination) game you’ll be ahead of the pack. Apologies. You don’t get many with women, after EVERY apology your word becomes cheapened a bit, during a long term relationship you get 3, so use them wisely. The difference between the alpha and the beta isn’t so much in WHO they are, it is the opposing beliefs of WHOSE frame comes first, with the beta, his woman’s frame comes first and that seldom changes, with the alpha HIS frame comes first, but he is still willing to consider his woman’s frame and he is open to making a concession here and there. I hate you, you’re a jerk, you’re an asshole, prick. Like music to my ears, this is what you WANT to hear from a woman because while the way YOU define those words/phrases may be negative, remember, the female mind is one of a solipsist nature meaning that if you ever actually were able to get her to describe EXACTLY what she means with those terms, you’d come to find out that they’re actually VERY positive things. Prick=I think I’d give you a BJ on a first date Jerk=You respect yourself too mu Asshole=I hate how hot you make me feel I hate you=I love you Silence.
There is this misconstrued concept going around that talking more=better, this is NOT the case, if you have something to say and it is of value, go ahead, BUT even still, if you talk too much it cheapens your words. Erring on the side of silence is a good axiom to start with because that way you won’t inadvertently say something (once something is said it CANNOT be taken back) and when you DO say something, people will listen up. Fear not the silence, for those that blink first are the ones that lose. Silence when with a girl helps cultivate tension, tension=sexual in nature if she’s attracted to you. Learn to find comfort in the silence, it’s not without reason that the phrase “silence is golden” exists. Women should want to qualify themselves to you, they should want to pick you apart, they should wonder “what is he thinking about,” they shouldn’t be thinking “Jesus Christ, will this guy shut his lips, he’s worse than my girlfriends and those whores yap more than Obama at a drone convention”
45. Apply it to the World One of my major hopes in writing this book was not only to help men overcome the hurdles they face with women, but to better arm them in facing the world. The very same lessons you’re given when it comes to dealing with women can be applied to dealing with the world:
You dismiss Womanese in the same way you dismiss negativese You dominate your woman in the same way you dominate the world (completely) You don’t show weakness to your woman and you don’t show it to the world (nobody gives a fuck) You are unmoved by her insistent BS in the same way you are unmoved when the world knocks you down, when the world catches you with a surprise tantrum and in the same way the world might one day turn your life upside down, you remain…unmoved You continually strive to push the boundaries for more, in the same way you would with your girl, you are unsatisfied until you’re at the level YOU are comfortable with and even then…..You are CONSISTENTLY advancing, better than yesterday not as good as tomorrow You understand your own nature and you understand her nature, you understand the nature of the world in that it’s a cold place that ONLY cares about the end result and whatever best achieves that, you align yourself with the laws of the universe and learn to use them to your advantage You see through her double speak and her momentary madness in the same way you see through the lies sold to you by the government, by corporations and by the world You calculate what people’s value is to you knowing what YOUR value is to them and you are unashamed for discarding useless leeches You are multi-talented, in the same way you juxtapose your behavior with your woman, the world cannot pin you down, it cannot box you in and it sure as hell can’t define you, you are more than a label You are unattached, you do not catch oneitis nor do you buy into romanticism when it comes to women because you understand the fragility of it all, you are unattached to your possessions, to your car, to your house and to anything you hold “dear,” you cherish it in the moment, but you understand it is all fleeting You value YOURSELF above everything, above your women, above your job, above money that you make, NOTHING compromises you meaning that if something goes against YOUR creed, if it goes against YOUR will and if it goes against the duty you have TO YOURSELF…YOU DO NOT DO IT, for you are a SOVEIRGN being that bows to no man
46. Don’t Ever be Intimidated Don’t ever be intimidated. EVERY challenging aspect of life comes down to this question: Have you done enough up until that point to prepare for the challenge before you? There is nothing to EVER worry about, you either have or you haven’t. If you have, then your only decision should be: how confident should I be? Oh yeah….on the ten thousandth level and one. If you haven’t, well you may as well be confident as fuck as well because an overabundance of confidence never hurt anyone, your skill won’t depreciate due to overconfidence, but it may depreciate if you are UNDER confident. This goes for everything in life, job interviews, women….whatever, there is NO reason to ever be intimidated by anything or anyone. Do not give into your fear, it will stop you from being able to listen to your heart-The Alchemist Common interests. You don’t need common interests to get along with anyone, not men and DEFINITELY not women. Most women inevitably end up taking on their man’s interests (followers gonna follow) because if their man is a maven, it doesn’t matter if he’s a maven with the guitar, if he’s a maven under the iron or if he’s a maven with a skillet…bitches love mavens. What matters is that you convey your passion and that you live within it…FULLY….never giving it up for anyone or anything. Stay true to you Breakups/breaks. If a woman EVER says she wants a break or to breakup, it’s over. First let’s address breaks, all a break means is that she would like the opportunity to fuck other guys….guilt free. That’s it, if a woman is TRULY in love with you, she would get a queasy feeling at JUST the thought that you guys would spend a week apart, let alone an indefinite period of time. Wanting to breakup is this x100, never EVER beg for a woman to stay because even if she does, her respect for you is dead and without her respect, you may as well be in an open relationship as she’ll be treating it as such. Don’t grovel, don’t reason, don’t be passive aggressive. “I want a break” or “I want to breakup” What shall you say? What shall you expound? How do you overcome this? …………. “O
K” “OK” See you later bitch As far as dumping women, it’s pretty simple, do it over text. Women have endlessly tried to shame men for doing this because if a man dumps a woman, usually she fucked up bad and they know that the ONLY way they can hope to retain this man is through an emotional outburst coupled with sex, this can only be done in person. Your relationship is either over or it isn’t, being the decisive/confident motherfucker you are, you should ALREADY be decided, thus nothing she says/does or tries could convince you otherwise. If you have to breakup, do it over text, delete/block her number and move on.
47.Vagueness Compliments breed complacency, critiques breed conciliation-Roissy If you EVER decide to compliment a woman, you’re going to need to understand a few things. There are TWO types of women, women worthy of compliments (hardly any) and women that aren’t (pretty much all), take a look at the following: http://imgur.com/0G7nMQH http://imgur.com/wy7pV1B http://imgur.com/XZWGIgV http://imgur.com/5PAkhwJ http://imgur.com/0QIc9m8 http://imgur.com/UAJJWk9 ALWAYS keep in mind that if the women ABOVE are getting compliments and you’re hitting on a girl that’s but a 6, how many compliments do you think SHE has gotten? Male thirst has reached a critical mass, this is the reality of the cyber world we live in, it has unleashed the male sex drive in the most disgusting way (and ironically least self-serving) possible. If a girl has an Instagram/facebook/POF/OKC or twitter, chances are she has been inundated with fuckboi messages since the inception of those accounts. When you compliment a girl, you have to consider the following: 1.What is the compliment even doing for you? Aka how is the next sentence going to help you go P in V? 2.Do you believe that she hasn’t heard this before? If she has, then why associate yourself with hive minded regurgitation? Are you complimenting her just because she’s a special snowflake or has she shown some sort of behavior that you wish to reinforce? 3.What sort of people do you think have told her things like these before? Do you believe they would fall into the weak supplicating males who are trying to qualify themselves to her or the other way around? Compliments are (mostly) useless in that whatever attraction was ALREADY there isn’t enhanced in any way, it is merely confirmed and even then, why would you want to relinquish your power when a woman’s imagination is going to do more for propping you up to some high standards than your cheesy pick up line could accomplish.
The real problem with compliments is that almost always they come from a place of qualification as opposed to a place of abundance and abundance mentality is key. So what is one to do in place of compliments? Use OBSERVATIONS because being attentive is INFINTIELY more attractive than being a simp. I.e “Quite the dress” “Haha you like it” “It’s def one of a kind” “Uhh, is that good or bad?” “We’ll see” *Walkaway* /// “New hairstyle?” “OMGZ yeah I totally changed bla bla bla” “Looks….interesting” “What do you mean” “Like if I went up to your barber and was like I’ll have what she’s having, I wouldn’t not be sorry if he didn’t give it to me” *Walkaway* //// Some of my favorites: *Rock eyebrow raise, neutral expression* “Girlll what you really bout doe?” *Blatantly look at her tits or ass” “Das wassup” *Look her in the eye with a sneaky expression* “Damnn, you dun really know doe” The key to everything I’ve said above is that it’s very vague, it’s unique (at least relative to my environment, do what’s unique to yours), it’s stupid as fuck (bitches love dumb shit), it juxtaposes me because my speech is usually pretty fucking proper and what is the key is WALKING AWAY. A lot of guys tend to have this tendency where they linger, they
liinnnngeerrrr meaning they just stick around for too long. Dropping a well-timed vague verbiage and then walking away has great power behind it because it shows not only do you not care about societal norms of compliments (be DIFFERENT), but it also leaves her wondering wtf you were thinking (giving her an anchor back to you). The entire premise of a compliment is to cultivate attraction, it fails to do this because you’re left looking for a reaction, a reaction that is usually something like “Uhh thanks” or “Yeah it looks good right?”, it is very see through what you’re trying to do (remember women get complimented all the time, do you REALLY want to be associated with the majority of men who have said similar things to her?) and it ENTIRELY takes away your power. Mind fuck her and make the exit. The difference between the generic compliment and the vague language is that one RETAINS mystery while the other is an open book for EVERYONE to see. The covert one separates you from the crowd in that even if it doesn’t work, it STILL stands out WAY more than the same “you’re gawwjuuss” “u boootiifulll” she’s heard a thousand times before and failing while being one of a kind>failing using the same old strategy. It comes down to the fact that seldom if ever do direct compliments work, meanwhile indirect compliments play on ALL the positives of a compliment (noticing something good about the other person and commenting on it) without any of the negatives (direct compliments strip you of your power, place you with a weak group of people and are usually uncreative). Really the ONLY times direct compliments work: If you have a massive amount of social proof in that you’re a celebrity or it is WELL established you are higher in value than her and is either subconsciously (or even better: consciously) known by everyone If you’ve been called an asshole 5+x, if she’s playfully hit you 3+x and if she’s scratched/pinched you at least once If she has made a difficult change and it is something you wish to commend (lost weight, improved her appearance, went all out to buy you something/cook you something or fuck you somehow) Why do compliments work in THOSE scenarios and not others? Because the JUXTAPOSE you, in that the first scenario you’re juxtaposing your power (status) that you wield b y showing kindness. I.e if Chris Rock came over to your house and asked to play video games with you, you’d be pretty damn excited because you understand the value of his time, his obligations and you know he’s a great time. Whereas if some random guy you don’t know tried to do the same, in spite of the fact that he might be funnier, have more money and even more status within a given field than Chris Rock, it comes off as weird and wtf is his dealish because he doesn’t have the same SOCIAL PROOF. In the same way, if you’ve been called an asshole and been playfully hit/pinched, you have built up frustration and hopefully actual anger within her, thus her DEFAULT belief about you is one
that dictates that you come from a place of abundance (hence why you’re able to be cold and meeeeaannnn to her) and that you say what’s on your mind, regardless of consequence. So in this scenario, a compliment contrasts these characteristics heavily and it allows her mental hamster to get to spinning in wondering “wtf is his deal,” thus beautifully beginning to craft some epic narrative in her mind how you’re “misunderstood” or how she “can’t figure him out.” Not only ensuring that you’re now seen as mysterious, but she will also be intrigued by the prospect of figuring you out. Finally, reinforcing and rewarding good behavior, most male compliments are NOT stemming from this place, but on the off chance that you meet a woman who is going above and beyond to satisfy you, after making her work….throw her a bone. Be an onion, once she peels the layer, have another….and another….and another, but do NOT be a banana
48.Women=Professional Victims, Women will NEVER hold themselves to the same standards that they hold men to, the sooner you understand this, the more time you’ll save not going with the typical male argument of “But YOU did this,” so what? Your standards are different than hers and hers than yours. Women have always been the primary victims of war. Women lose their husbands, their fathers, their sons in combat-Hilary Clinton There is strength in weakness. I know as men you might be saying WTF are you talking about, my boy Billy is the epitome of a fuckboi and he gets his shit pushed in on the reg by everyone around him. Well Billy is a man and thus he is held to a different standard. Women and men are NOT held to the same standards and the way a female projects her strength is through her weakness. She cannot OVERTLY control men and she KNOWS this, her only means of exerting control over you is through PASSIVE coercion. She can do this through a number of strategies: 1.Crocodile tears, women are trained from a very early age to cry when things don’t go their way (as this usually gives them attention/resources and a man to make things better), but they also learn to time it and to time it well to maximize the amount of attention and affection they get from it as if they have an aware father, he won’t stand for their outbursts. They’ve even evolved to have smaller tear ducts (allowing them to secrete water from their eyes easier) and to have bigger eyes (to be cuter). Always assume that your woman’s tears are fake because in most cases they are…Cry me a river….cry me a fucking river 2.Shaming you in any way, telling you that isn’t what a real man would do or that isn’t what Jenny’s boyfriend would do and how YOU need to man up and do what she tells you. L-O-L @ a woman defining masculinity…ha ha ha bitch you funny. If you really want to know how valid your woman’s words are, picture a child saying them to you, would you take that child seriously? Apply that same logic with your girl. 3. Making you feel bad, saying how YOUR behavior is making her feel awful and how poorly you’re treating her. Incorrect, it is your REACTION to my behavior that is making you feel bad and if I’m treating you that poorly, you know where the door is. Women r ide the emotional rollercoaster and like all rollercoasters, there will be highs/lows/twists and turns, but at the end everyone gets off and moves on to another ride. ALWAYS do what you think is right, regardless of any shaming or mentioning of her damaged feelings that your gf puts forth. These are ALL ways of testing you, seeing if YOU are secure within your own behavior. She KNOWS if she can influence you, then others will be able to as well and thus you are not a
worthy leader. Don’t ever mistake a woman’s shaming or emotions for ACTUAL logic, YOU are the one in control and YOU are the one doing the leading. If you shrug it off, so will she.
49.Love Yourself Self love is THE best love you’ll receive as a man, every other love and admiration you receive is ENTIRELY conditional, self-love is the ONLY unconditional and PURE love that you’ll feel. Learn to admire yourself, begin to push yourself and if you can only love yourself .1% more than you did yesterday, that’s fine as long as you’re ALWAYS moving forward. This world is harsh as fuck, people act like they care, but very few actually do. People have their own issues, they have their own struggles and they’re caught up in their own existential crisis, it isn’t fair for you to burden others with your issues and expect them to fix you for you. It starts with you and it finishes with you. The way you parent a boy is much different than how you parent a girl, with a boy you want to build up his ego, make him confident, even make him OVER-confident, the world/women and others will be there to try and tear him down. BUILD HIM UP. If you haven’t had the fortune of having a positive masculine figure that has helped build you up, it’s all good, this IS something you can do for yourself. A woman may inherently have more value than you, but that doesn’t mean that your destiny hinges on something you can’t control. Most men start as penny stocks and can rise all the way to a blue chip stock if they do their due diligence, that’s the great thing about being a man is that while you have to deal with some very cold realities, you also have a MUCH greater capacity to overcome them and make something of yourself. Two of my favorite examples of overcoming AWFUL situations are 50 cent and Jay Z, both of them come from broken homes where they didn’t have the best male role models around, they both come from poverty/crime stricken neighborhoods and they both blew up through their rap endeavors. However what sets them apart from many of the other rappers who went through the same issues is that they DIDN’T rest on their laurels, they DIDN’T say this is enough and they NEVER sold themselves short. Today 50 and Jay both are WAY more than just rappers, they have their own clothing lines, their own books and their own branding. They should both serve as an example of just what is possible when you harness your masculine energy, put your nose to the grindstone and do WHATEVER it takes to overcome, however EVERYTHING starts within. If you are having a hard time coping with your reality, here are three simple methods you can use to realize that self love: 1.Objectivity, whatever struggles you’re feeling, no matter how bad it is, in spite of what others tell you….someone out there probably has it worse, think of that guy, think of his struggles…think of how real shit must be for him. Often times our problems are of the first world kind and there is something to be said for at LEAST being that fortunate that we have time to pontificate the things we do.
If you can’t find the courage to do this for you, think of your ancestors, think of the struggles they went through, hunting/gathering, fighting for their lives, being d amn near mauled by some saber-tooth type mothafuckas….think of how AMAZED the y would be to enter this world, think of the o pportunity you have to create, even now you’re reading words from someone you’ve never met, may have never even heard of until now and I am COMMUNICATING AND SCULPTING your mind (hopefully in a positive way). This shit is INSANE when you really think about it. Tomorrow, you could wake up, find a new passion in finance and make a milli or who knows, maybe you’re a talented musician and you’ll get on dat national TV time, whatever it is….realize that in front of you lies a GREAT opportunity to take advantage of the technology we’ve developed, but first you must master you. Remember your ancestor’s struggles, think of those less fortunate and appre ciate just the chance you have been granted by being alive HERE and NOW. 2.Acceptance. If you’re depressed you’re living in the past, if you’re anxious you’re living in the future, if you’re in the present you will find peace-Based Lao Tzu People tend to dwell on what they can’t change and because they can’t change it, they spend a lot of time mentally masturbating over this, this ruins the moments they have (the now) and then they end up subsequently worrying about the future. INSTEAD of perpetuating this mindless stupidity, compose yourself and take a deep breathe. As a wise investor once said “What separates the good traders from the bad is that the good know when to admit they’ve made a mistake and once they do, they ADDRESS it.” Dwelling and worrying does NOT actually change anything, if it anything it makes things worse. ALL you control is the now. Accept that what’s done is done and what’s yet to come hasn’t come yet, so your only bet is to put 110 into here/now and get set. The more you learn to live in the moment, the better off you’ll be because you’ll actually be working towards something, you’ll focus your energy on what you CAN change. Procrastination is like masturbation, at first it feels good, but in the end, you’ve only fucked yourself. Accept where you’re at, realize that ANY mistakes you’ve made should just be looked at as an opportunity to learn, nothing more, nothing less, realize that the ONLY thing left to do is to compete as hard as you can, give it the best that you’ve got and leave it ALL on the floor here…and now….starting after this very word. 3.Focus Focus is the key to life. The more we can direct our focus in an area that allows us to reap benefits, the more we secure our future because the REAL secret to our future is….it’s in our habits aka what we’re CURRENTLY doing.
Whenever you’re feeling down, have a GOTO list of 3 things that you like about yourself and don’t give me this bullshit that you can’t come up with three, of course you can, don’t sell yourself fucking short. Have a list of three things that you like about yourself and look at it constantly, to remind you, in spite of all the negativity and in spite of all the pain you may feel at times, you’ve got some redeeming qualities and there is no reason to ever get TOO down. Tide comes in, tide goes out, the universe works in polarity. If you’re at a low point, shift your focus and realize that your ONLY move is to go UP, if you’re at a high point, enjoy the God damn ride because nothing lasts forever. Hatred is a strong feeling, it is what drives humans to do both incredible good and incredible evil, it has fueled many revolutions and it can create great beauty when channeled in the right way. Hating yourself won’t change anything, it will make you weaker and when you do snap out of it, you’re NOT getting that time back. If you do ever feel that burning sensation, that looming dread, take it and make something of it. Some of my most inspired and transcendental moments have come when I felt those very emotions myself, but there comes a time when you must move on. You must move past these feelings toward the self because overtime they will drag you down and the more time you spend fighting yourself, the less time you have to fight the cancerous system that caused these feelings to arise. Some say love is the answer, yes love is the answer, but before we learn to love the world, we must learn to love the self. We have given ourselves enough tough love, now is the time to right that ship and unleash your inner beast. Love yourself brothers
50.Parting Thoughts I hope you’ve found this book of use and if you haven’t well…. fuck you….just kidding (not really though), it’s been quite the process in undertaking this project. Something that writing this book has taught me is the importance of showing up, I’ve made an effort to write every single day, no matter what, come writer block or come an outpouring of enchanting lyrical charm. The end goal is what has kept me going, I don’t like talking much about myself as I feel it diverts the attention from the real message here, but I’ll tell you how I came to write this book. I’ve been fortunate enough to have a lot of time in my life to reflect on my own behavior and for better or worse, I’ve been left to my own devices. That is to say, I seldom had people there for me when I needed them, so most of my time was spent looking for answers through other parties. I never had a positive masculine influence in my life, so I knew if I ever built myself to the point where I understood what I was talking about, I would take it upon myself to give back to people who find themselves in a similar predicament. The main goal I had with this book was to take all the knowledge I’ve acquired, some through reading, others through experience and quite a bit through failure and make it an easy to consume book that lays it all out. When the masculine spirit is unleashed, it is something that can transform the world, but one must be willing to hone it, work on it daily and really STRIVE to build their mind/spirit in the same way they build their body. I really have a strong desire to see a massive shift in the world, in the following: The governments The corporations The way we educate people The systematic mind control Our societies And I used to spend a lot of time thinking about how I should fix THEM, I pontificated as to how I could change things for the better and I wanted to make a difference, that was before I learned the truth, the truth being: How can one change the world if one cannot change themselves?
I realized that the Hermetics were right “As Above So Below,” so I knew that if I eventually was to triumph over ANY of these institutions, I must first get to triumphing over the self. I realized that I in a way I am just as much a part of the system that perpetuates these things and that the
ONLY way forward was to begin to build myself up, so that I can then influence them in the same way I influenced myself. So that’s what I did, I began to read as much as I could, I began to train as much as I could and I tried to grow as much as I could in every single possible outlet that I had because of that I was able to see the true nature of people in that society as a whole is very vain and how you look impacts the way people perceive you HUGELY, but not only that, but IF you have weak behavior, people WILL try and rook you. Life doesn’t actually get any easier the older we get, we just become better at glitching the system and for those that refuse, life continually becomes more and more challenging. Not necessarily because the world is continuing to get harder, but more because of one’s refusal to learn, there is a saying in Portuguese “Aprender de amor ou aprender de dor” Learn through love or learn through pain One must learn to love the truth, in spite of what it is, in spite of how painful it may be to face because at the end of the day, we ALL have been blessed with the great gift of life and it is up to us to take advantage of it and live it to the fullest. You don’t have to be a painter You don’t have to be a bodybuilder You don’t have to be a world leader All you have to do is be you, but not just this “I love myself no matter what” you, the “I love myself no matter what, BUT I’m going to strive to improve my looks, I’m going to strive to improve my mind and I’m going to do my best to become a God” you. Objectively speaking, you’re a meat bag sitting on a grain of sand floating through space, there is NO one GREAT good that you need to experience here, there is no ONE amazing mission that you need to complete, it’s all up to you. You avoid choice A or you avoid choice XX, but the only thing you can’t avoid is choice itself because that is what this world is about, it is about the choices that we make and the freewill we exert. I was always searching for a way to exert maximum freewill and knowledge of truth allows one to do just that: Exert MAXIMUM freewill ALL of it can be horrendously empty or fantastically meaningful, depending on your perception, so no matter what once you are able to set your own standards and overcome the stipulations that others have set for you, THAT is when you have TRUE freedom. Freedom to create as you please Freedom to opt in or out Freedom to associate/paint/lift/dance/feel like a God/dominate and conquer
Just today, somewhere in the universe there is a star that is BILLIONS of times your size just exploded and it has in an INSTANCE had more of an impact on the universe than ANYTHING you or ANYONE on this planet has ever done. Keep reminding yourself that next time someone says “Bro you NEED to do this/Son you NEED to do that/Friend you NEED to go after this”….bitch you are SO fucking inconsequential to anything and everything, you don’t even know…so really, who the fuck are YOU to tell ME what I NEED to do with my time here? YOU are the greatest good, focus on what makes you happy, dominate and KEEP FUCKING LEARNING. That’s what I spent the past 5 years doing and while I dealt with injuries/heartbreak/loss of friends/loss of faith and even a bout of depression, I’m still chea talking to to you, I’m still trying to get better and I STILL made sure to post up and spit that real shit. Never forget who you are, value the truth and try and share the love.
51.Bonus 1.If you’re ever about to blow your load, push out your stomach, this prevents it from happening 2.Everything in life is to be moderated, food, exercise, reading, spending time with people, porn, masturbation and sex 3.Self-control is one of the greatest rewards in the world because only you know about it, but that’s the only person that really does need to know about it 4.Clubbing for the most part is a scam, avoid until you have maxed out your looks or have decent status 5.No gag reflex: Close your left thumb in your left hand and make a fist. Squeeze tight. 6.Keep your social media semi active and don’t unfriend people unless they are absolute skids, unfollow them if they are annoying though 7.Networking is everything, spend at least 30 minutes a week networking (emailing, keeping contact or approaching people) 8.Write down 5 new ideas everyday, it could be invention ideas, book ideas, blog ideas, business ideas, whatever it doesn’t matter. Even if your ideas suck, by the end of the year you’ll have 1700+ ideas, so odds are…you’ll have a few brilliant ones in there 9.Don’t ever let a woman come between you and a male friend…EVER 10.Watch Hockey, it’s the GOAT sport 11.Step out of your comfort zone: learn a new language, learn MMA and learn a new dance. These three can unlock many new opportunities for you 12.Don’t let age hold you back, wherever you’re at in life, strive for more and even if you feel that you started “too late,” remember this: that 18 year old jock with all the knowledge in the world is as perishable as you are, that is to say you could live to 120 or you could die tomorrow, the only thing you control is yourself and subsequently your knowledge, wherever you’re at…strive for more 13.Make one video or blog post per week, this is something feasible for the tightest of schedules and by the end of the year, you’ll be a better writer/speaker for it 14.If someone is well accomplished in something, always ask them for advice, if anything, they may repeat an axiom in a way that you hadn’t heard before that opens your eyes up to a new world 15.If a woman refers to you primarily as nice, sweet, kind and friendly….run 16.Don’t ever apologize for your desire or finding certain type of women beautiful, this is your genetics and DNA expressing itself, do not go against nature
17.Don’t get married if you live in a Western country or if there are any misandric penalties against you, at best you don’t get fucked, at worst you become a female’s whipping boy. A wise man once said “Did you know Einstein got divorced? I feel like THAT is what they should ask you before you get married, not, do you love this person? Not, do you think you’ll stay together forever? Not, do you think you guys are soul mates?.....ARE YOU SMARTER THAN EINSTEIN?” 18.When watching movies, identify positive/negative traits within the males and learn from them 19.Don’t watch TV (unless it’s sports or you can mute/avoid commercials) 20.Tit for tat=life, if people don’t reciprocate In what you put forth, remove it until they do so or until they are removed from your life 21.Dismiss that which does not serve you, whether it’s people’s ideas, people’s desires or people themselves, people are either a pulley to something great or an anchor to the depths of oceans, avoid anchors 22.Emotional investment should be kept to a minimum with almost all people, this isn’t cynicism as much as it is practicality (odds), most people WILL let you down. If a person is extremely emotionally invested in you, you can reciprocate a bit, but ALWAYS BE IN CONTROL 23.Playing the odds tends to work out better than playing hunches, but don’t be afraid to play a hunch every now and then 24.Fighting in the 21st century is pointless, in most cases you’ll either end up behind bars, getting your ass kicked and this isn’t to assume you’re not a badass motherfucker because even if you are, people don’t fight with honor anymore, their friends will jump in, they will kick in the groin and they will pull hair, you could end up stabbed or shot and in 99% of cases it isn’t worth it. 25.Stand up for yourself, yes I make it a point to say that after number 24, just use tact and know your environment. Don’t instigate violence (start it), but if worse comes to worse, be prepared to finish it. 26.If someone says something ridiculous, amplify it to the thousandth degree to truly own them. This is just as effective as disarming them with logic, logic being more of a go to when you’re in front of a crowd and amplification being more an interpersonal tool 27.No is the most powerful word in the English language, use it well 28.Stay hydrated and drink water throughout the day 29.Don’t chase after the American dream, it died a long time ago 30.Women will try and make you weak, you will be more likely to give them what you have and you will be less likely to cheat on them, ALWAYS have your own space, ALWAYS have your own hobbies and ALWAYS spend periods of time away from her (ironically time apart often does more for most relationships than too much time spent together)
31.If you ever doubt that your value>a womans, consider the following, a conservative bet is that she spends 1 hour per day, doing her makeup, logging onto facebook and watching tv. These are nothing activities that are literally cancer to the mind/bod y, over a year she will waste 15 days on them and this is a CONSERVATIVE estimate 32.If you think you are OWED anything in this world, consider the idea that a beta is OWED sex and affection because he is a woman’s bitch boy when she wants him. Do you think he is owed ANYTHING? That is how the world feels towards you 33.Men age like wine, women age like milk. A man’s biggest price is paid when he is in his teens and early 20s, after that, should the man be striving to reach his apex masculinity, it’s smooth sailing. A woman’s best time is in her teens and early 20s, after that, it’s all downhill. Come 30+, the tables have entirely flipped for both sexes, men must endure. 34.Squint your eyes, clench your jaw and have a relaxed close mouthed smile in pictures 35.Avoid cults where there are masses agreeing on something that is very arguable 36.It’s lower than you think 37.Don’t direct your anger at women, the government, religion or any specific group. Instead take it and use it as fuel to drive you in your self-improvement, only once you overcome yourself will you be able to surmount any massive institutions 38.The best revenge is simple: live a good life, the people who try and get you down will ONLY succeed if they have an everlasting effect, you triumph over them in the same way that you do over their ideology, showing them how temporary (if not entirely transient) their ability to effect you is 39.Your emotions=strongest fuel there is, if you ever feel a SUPER strong emotion, wait….observe it….channel it, whether it be into art/writing/lifting it doesn’t matter, if you feel a STRONG emotion, look for a way that you can bring to light in a way that benefits you as Carl Jung said “We do not become enlightened by admiring figures of light, but by making the dark conscious” 40. Spirituality is fine but neurology/biology is more relevant. Most people are more programmed by their biology and their brain, even if we are to posit that a soul exists, it’s very evident that most people’s behaviors can EASILY be explained by looking at our history and the brain. Study those two things carefully and you have unlocked the keys to understanding humanity. 41.Whiteknights/pussy beggars and betas will always be the REA L enemy of men for they are the ones that go out of their way to side with women, to be subservient to women and to pander to every one of their most disgusting desires (of course nothing sexual…oh no) in hopes that being a good slave will one day grant them access to the golden vaginal crevice. Through their nonstop pandering, they inflate the woman’s ego to a stratosphere higher than
