// Om Sai Ram //
Study on Delay in Marriges
Marrige
Vivah or Marrige is a ceremony where a Boy and a Girl bound in Partnership to live life together , They accept each other physically and mentally . This union is not only important for their individual pleasure , satisfaction and growth even this is equally important for for family , society, country and human community because this reproduces further further generations. Ceremonies for for Marriages can be different which may depend on community of native where he/she lives lives in, but their mutual agreement to accept each other is suffeciant to bound them. Among the eight types of marriages which are described in Hindu Shastra Shastra bramha vivah is most acceptable and comman type of Vivah in modern days , and even this is understood as best kind of Vivah or marriage because here Parents of boy boy or Girl searches searches good and educated educated (atlease knowledgeable knowledgeable of one veda) match, after acceptance of match and his parents they perform perform vedic marriage in between the social social gathering. This concept concept marriage is mainly accepted by the intellectuals (That’s why why it is known as bramha Vivah). Everybody waits impatiently their children to grow and marry them timely but it doesn’t happens always , some some time marriages gets fails or that area becomes burden for the native and his parents, sufferings sufferings becomes becomes more panic when marriages gets delayed from the proper age of marriage. This doesn’t gives punishment to native only but this is more panic for for the parents.
Astrology behind Delay in Marriages :
First we discuss the planets or house of an individual horoscope which plays an important role in fixing up a marriage or giving timely marriage. Readers note here we are discussing only about the reason behind delays in marriages not about the length or quality of the marriages. This analysis can be bitter difficult to understand for all those reader who are not used to with astrology but regular reading of this can help them to understand this paper which may enable them remove hurdles in marriages of their daughters or sons. 1. Jupiter – A Responsible planet for giving peace of married life. A well Placed and strong Jupiter gives timely marriage and bless the native to enjoy a good married life. He is considered as a significator of husband in female horoscope. Jupiter aspacted by or conjoined with the melafic planets such as rahu, Saturn or mars is considered cursed (Shappit) which creates delay in its results. 2. Venus – Significator for Marrige /Spouse and love in one’s life and controller of 7 th house. Venus basically deals in romance, pleasure thru wife, love and happiness from wife so more stronger and well placed venus in horoscope gives more and more happiness in married life.
3. 7 th house and Lord of 7 th house of the Horoscope – 7th House and his Lord deals in marriage and spouse, his position is considered important in timely marriages. Melafic aspact on 7th houe or any connection of his lord with melafics (rahu, saturn or ketu) gives delay or disturbances in marriage. 4. UL (Upapada Lagna) – This is nothing but one of the 12 house of the horoscope , known as Image or Arudha of 12 th house , Counted by a specific method. He deals in quality of marriage. 5. Darakarak - This is again a planet of smallest longitude of individual horoscope who is known as temporary karak of spouse.
6. 9th House and Lord of 9th house of the Horoscope - In my opinion ninth house and his lord of any horoscope should be taken as main pillar of the chart. I feel not only in marriage , all the important areas of the life are controlled by this. You take any area start from journeys, Father, higher studies , Dharma or to Marriage , all are controlled by 9th house. Any melafic effect on this or on lord of this may gives delay in marriage. 7. Sun – Significator of Dharma and controller of 9 th house – Sun is the primary karaka of dharma hence understood as controller of 9th house , Any afflication on this by rahu (Accrding to old mythological stories on planets A Demon who is a cause behind the eclipse of sun , Saturn who is illegal son of Sun from his wife Chhaya who harms the image of the sun) or Saturn becomes the reason of distruction of dharma which gives delays in the marriage. Reader should note that here Saturn is karaka for 12th house (House of losses) so his connection with sun may becomes loss of dharma. Now we discuss on the combination and the planets who obstructs the performance of these planets and disallow one to get marry timely. These combinations are nothing but kind of curses , formed due to sins of past birth. 1. Ketu - He is a mokshakari planet , considered as a Sanyasi who is detached from the material world, Its connection with house of marriage or lord of that keeps the person away from the marriage. 2. Rahu – Rahu is considered worst melafic planet, he deals in theft and cheats. His aspact or conjuction with any planet causes the obstructions in fruits of that planet thru cheats and shocks, for example Conjuction of Venus or 7 th house lord with Rahu may gives shocks to native through marriage. 3. Saturn - A Planet responsible for giving punishments of past sins. Being a planet of long distance Saturn has nature to move slow, Saturn has nature for delaying the things or results. Any connection of Saturn with 7 th house or his lord creates delays in marriages. 4. 12th House and Lord of 12th House – 12th house of horoscope is known as ‘Vyay – Bhava’ i.e. house of loss , deals in any kind of loss, delays and
worries, Karaka of this house is Saturn and lord of this also considered melafic, He also deals in peace of married life / pleasure of bed any negative influence on it may cause delay for that.
Case Study and Example - I ************************************************************* * * * * * * * 3 * 2 * LAGN * 12 * * * * KET * 1 * * * * * * * * * * SHAN * * GURU * * * * * * * * * * * * 11 * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * AL UL * * * * * * * * * 4 * * 10 * * * * * SU BUDH SHUKRA* * * * * * * * * * 5 * MANG CHANDRA * 9 * * * 6 * * 8 * * * * * 7 * * * * * * * RAH * * *
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Asc. Arise 28.54”, Sun 27.13”, Moon 20.30”, Mars 17.30”, Mercury 08.39” , Jupiter 14.39 “ AK, Venus 28.58” , Saturn (R ) 25.16” , Rahu ( R) 16.41”, Ketu (R) 16.41” This is a horoscope of a female native , who is 74 born. She married in Sept. -07 at age of almost around 33-34. She consulted me to know about the chances of her marriage, till that time she had became negative towards marriage and doubtfull that she will ever be able to get marry. After proper study Of chart I found her 12 th house is aspacted by two major melafics Saturn and Rahu, connection of sat and rahu with 12th house obstructing the fruits (Pleasure of bed , good married life) and causing the delay in marriage, Other side 7th house is occupied by 5 planets and forming causing Prvrajya Yoga (No Marriage at all) , But due to presence of Strong Venus and Mars in 7th house (strong desire for marriage) and aspect of Strong Guru ( peace of married life) on them and 7 th house as well I was sure , and even I assured her too that she will surely get marry soon.
Year 2007 Guru is transiting over the 8th house of her chart and aspacting her 12 th house and giving relief from the Saturn and Rahu , I was assured that she will marry in this year only, After performing some important remedial measures she got a good proposal and got married.
Case Study and Example - II ************************************************************* * * SHUKRA * * * * * 1 * MANGAL 12 * LAGN * 10 * * * * * 11 * * * * SURYA * * * * * * BUDH CHAND * * AL * * KETU * * * * * * * * * * 9 * * * * * * * * * GURU * * 8 * * * * * * * * * * * * * 2 * * 1 * * * * * * * * * * * * * RAHU * * 3 * * UL 7 * * * 4 * * 6 * * * * SHANI * 5 * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *************************************************************
Asc. Aqurise 09.30”, Sun 06.11”, Moon 22.18”, Mars 0.28”, Mercury 20.58” , Jupiter 09.46 “ , Venus 15.51 (R )” , Saturn 16.33” , Rahu ( R) 0.44” AK, Ketu (R) 0.44” Native of this chart is a 1977 born female and waiting for a good wedding proposal. As mentioned earlier this chart is real example of afflication of rahu and Saturn on sun , see how this curse has became major cause behind the delay in her marriage, karaka for 9th house and lord of 7 th house is sun placed in 3 rd house, reader see carefully sun is aspacted by rahu from 9th house and by Saturn from 6 th house (10th Drishty). Ninth house has became melafic due to presence of rahu and Mangal being Dispositor (Lord of house in which sun is present) of Sun is also very Weak in lagna and navmansa chart.
As remedial Part native has been advised to wear a Red Corel to strengthen Mangal and regular Abhisheka of Shivji (Every Monday) for removal of Curse from the Sun. After Nov 2007 Chances of marriage will be bright when Guru will be transiting over the Dhanu Rasi , 9 th house from the moon.
Case Study and Example - III ************************************************************* * * * * * * * 8 * SHUKRA 7 * LAGN * 5 * * * * * 6 * * * * SURYA * * * * * * BUDH * GURU * RAHU * * * * SHANI * * 4 * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * 9 MANGAL * * * * * * 3 * * * * * * * * * * * * * * CHAND * * * * * * * * * * * * KETU 10 * * 2 * * * 11 * * * * * * * 12 * 1 * * * * * * * * * * * * * * *************************************************************
Asc. Virgo 29.23” , Sun 26.26, Moon 16.40”, Mars 21.36”, Mercury 15.42” , Jupiter 13.54 “ , Venus 28.29” AK, Saturn 14.56” , Rahu ( R) 18.29” , Ketu (R) 18.29” This chart belongs to the a female native born in Dec-80 , Some readers may not consider in delayed marriage case because these this has became normal to get marry around 30s but still major population of Indians considers 23-24 yrs as average age for marriage , so taking that in mind I am putting this case here. 7th house of her horoscope is aspacted by the Saturn and Rahu both but 7 th house has aspact of Guru also which is removing the evil effect of both the melafic planets. Longitude wise Saturn is bit strong as compare to Jupiter and both the
planets placed together , Native advised to wear Yellow Sapphire for powering Jupiter and keep fastings on Thursday, just after 3 months of advise She got a very good marriage proposal and before end this year she will be married.
Case Study and Example - IV ************************************************************* * * * * * * * * 10 * LAGN * 8 * * * 11 * * 9 * * * * * * * * * * RAHU * * GURU * * * * * * 7 * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * 12 * * * * * * 6 * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * 5 * * * * * * * * SHANI 1 * * BUDH * * * 2 * * * SHUKR * * * * 3 * 4 * KETU * * * * * MOON,SUN * * * * * * MANGAL * * *************************************************************
Asc. Sagittarius 17.11” , Sun 15.22, Moon 07.02”, Mars 15.41”, Mercury 08.28” , Jupiter 04.49 “ , Venus 29.00” AK, Saturn 28.13” , Rahu ( R) 09.23” , Ketu (R) 09.23” Native who belongs to this horoscope is March – 70 born , Even after getting engaged 10 years back she could not enjoy the marital bliss till today , i..e age of 37 years. 7th house of chart who is deals in marriages /spouse is directly aspacted by two major melafics Saturn from 5 th house and Rahu from 3rd house , Here Saturn is debilitated (neecha) and became worst melafic. Other side Venus and 7th house Lord mercury both are conjoined by the Ketu, Its not enough here UL and 2nd from UL are also playing very crucial role, UL is fixed in 4 th house which is sandwitched between Rahu and Saturn and forming PapKartari yoga thus became major cause for suffering on account of marriage, 2 nd house from UL
deals in Life of Marriage Lord of this house Mangal (Dispositor of Saturn) has also became debilaited and placed in 8th house (Accidents /Death) and not supporting her to initiate strongly for marriage (Weakness of Mangal gives lake of aggression and eagerness). Moon always considered a very most important planet in any females chart, he is responsible to give peace of motherhood is placed in a 8 th house which is the Marankaraka House for him. Even after all the negative placements aspact of Guru can turn the things to positive as he is aspacing the 7 th house but his weakness comparing to rahu and satun giving more and more delay in marriage. As soon the native came in contact she has been advised to wear a redcorel , yellow sapphire and a pearl with immediate effect. Alongwith this she has been advised to japa of Mahamrityunjay Mantra for removal the curse from the Guru due to aspact of Rahu on him and bondage of Man and Atma due to placement of moon and and Sun in 8th (12th from Atmakaraka Planet* Venus – *Atmakara is a personal planet with highest longitude in the chart who directly deals in all the affairs of Atma or Directly connected with the Atma, That’s why he keeps direct involvement in all the sufferings of the atma)
Best Remedy for All
Regular Japa of ‘Om Namo Narayanay’ and Puja of Narayana by the Parents of the Girls helps them in fixing up the marriages on time and gives them opportunity to serve narayana in form of their ‘Son in Law’ (Damad) . Pankaj Upadhyay, Indore http://www.pankajupadhyay.com
