Small Talk Tactic Free Report

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"Small Talk Tactics" How to Make Small Talk Sexy and Use it to Create Attraction in a Woman You're Interacting With…

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DearFriend, IhopeI IhopeIwasn wasn'tto 'ttoog ographi raphicin cinthe thestory storyabo above(b ve(buti utifIw fIwas… as…gob gobuyy uyyourse ourselfa lfaDr. Dr.Phil Philboo book, k, becauseI'mnottheguyto becauseI'mnottheguytohelpyou.) helpyou.) Unfortuna Unfortunatel tely,th y,theme ememory moryis isstill stillpret prettyv tyvivi ividin dinmymi mymind. nd.Ina Inamin minute uteI'm I'mgoi goingto ngtotel tellyo lyou u thestory…andIthinkyou're thestory…andIthinkyou'regoingto goingtolearnav learnavaluableles aluablelessonfromit. sonfromit. Andthen AndthenI'mg I'mgoing oingto togive giveyou yousom some"Je e"Jedi disecr secrets" ets"so sothat thatyou youneve neverfin rfindyo dyoursel urselfin finthe the samepositionIdid. samepositionIdid.Iwouldno Iwouldnotwishthatfee twishthatfeelingofunbea lingofunbearablehumilia rablehumiliationonanyone tiononanyone… … BeforeI BeforeIget getinto intothe thestor story…I y…Ijus justwa twantto nttolis listso tsomeo meofmo fmorec recommo ommonad nadvice viceyou youmay mayhav have e heardfrom"gurus"teaching heardfrom"gurus"teachingyouhowtoi youhowtoimproveyourco mproveyourconversations… nversations… Talkaboutsomethingyou'repassionateabout…   Lookfor Lookforthingsyouha thingsyouhaveincommo veincommon… n…       Makesmoothtransitions…


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       Letherdoallthetalking…          Avoidflufftalk…

I'mcallingBullshitonEVERYpieceofadvicelistedabove….And prettymuch75%oftheadvicebeingpawnedoffoncrafting conversationsthatgetyouLAID… conversationsthatgetyouLAID… Thesto Thestoryth rythatI atIref referen erenced cedatt attheb hebegin eginning ningof ofthi thisre sreport porthap happen penedf edfoury ouryear earsag sago… o… butitisstillcrystalclearinmymind. Ihadvi Ihadvisit sitedm edmyo yoldf ldfrate raternit rnity's y'sho house usein inhope hopesof sofsc scorin oringa gahot hotyou youngp ngpiec ieceof eof collegetail. Afterf Afterfinis inishin hingco gcolleg llegeI eIhad hadgon gonein eintoa toabit bitof ofa" a"slu slump" mp"with withwom women… en…and andwa was s desperatelyhopingthistrekbacktomyoldstompinggroundwoulddothetricktowards endingthedraught. Ihadal Ihadalsor sorecen ecently tlystu stumble mbledup duponb onbook ooksli slike ke"The "TheGam Game"a e"and" nd"The TheVen Venusi usians ansArt Arts s Handbook"soIwasprettyconfidentthatIwouldraidthatfrathouseofeveryhornycoed Icouldgetmygrubbyhandson. Theenti Theentiren renight ightmy mygam gameco econsis nsisted tedof oftwo two"ge "gears. ars."I "Inth nthefi efirst rstgear gearIw Iwasi asin"d n"danci ancing ng monkey"mode…tryingtoneggirls,demonstratemassivevalue,dothe"Jealousboyfriend-stealing-ring-around-the-Rosieroutine…"orwhateverelseIcoulddrawinto mymindfromrecentforumpostsandeBooksIhadread. Thesec Thesecond ond"gea "gear"t r"that hatIw Iwould ouldgo gointo intowou would ldbe" be"sin single glefoc focused usedrap rapport port"mo "mode. de.I In n thismodeIwouldfindsomethingIhadincommonwithagirl,andthenproceedtodrill intoituntilIsuckedthattopiccompletelydry. …Backto …Backtothe thegir girlwi lwitht ththeb hebunn unnyra yrabbit bbithan hands dstrok trokeI eIref refere erenced ncedear earlie lier… r… Ifirstcaughtag Ifirstcaughtaglimpseo limpseofherw fherwhenIw henIwasfill asfillingmybe ingmybeerupin erupinthekitc thekitchen.Sh hen.Shehada ehada MarisaTomeilikequalitytoherthatIfoundirresistiblycute. Inotice Inoticedth dthats atshew hewas aseati eatings ngsomet omething hing,so ,somy myPUA PUAinf infeste estedmi dmind ndimme immediat diately ely thought"NEGHER!" SoIsay SoIsay,"Y ,"Youm oumust usthave havesom someap eappeti petite, te,cho chowin wingdo gdowni wnina nafrat fratho house? use?" "


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Inthec Inthecutes utestli tlittle ttlevoi voice ceshe shesays says"Y "Yea, ea,Ic Icame amerig rightf htfrom romwor workan kandne dneeded ededtoe toeat at somethingbeforeIstartdrinking" Isa Isay, y," "Wh What aty you oue eat atin ing? g?" " Shesor Shesortof toffl flashe ashesme smesom someorg eorganic anichea health lthnut nutveg veggie giebar baror orsome somethin thing… g… This Thism mus ust tbe bem my ylu luck cky yda day… y… Ihadbe Ihadbeeni enina nahel helluv luvahe ahealth althcra crazem zemysel yself…s f…soI oIimme immedia diately telyfel feltth tthene eneedt edto o demonstratemysuperiorknowledgeofhealthfoodproducts… She Shere resp spon onde ded dju just sta as sI Iho hope ped! d! Soonwe Soonwewer wereth ethick ickint inthem hemidd iddleo leofa fapas passio sionate natecon conver versati sation onabou aboutou tourf rfavor avorite ite fruitsmoothies,yogatechniques,thebestorganicfibersupplements….Andthenwe touchedupontheHolyGrailofsimilarinterests…GaryNull. GaryNul GaryNullw lwasa asahea health lthgur guruw uwith ithacu acultl ltlike ikefo follo llowing wing…an …andw dwew ewere ereboth bothmem members bersof of thiscult. Ithough Ithoughtth tthatt atthis hisbasi basicall callys yseale ealedth dthed edeal ealfor forme… me… Wespen Wespentth tthene enexth xthour ourtal talking kingabo abouto utour urfavo favorite riteGar GaryNu yNullb llbooks ooks,q ,quote uotes,a s,and nd recipes…Weboth"scoffed"atalloftheotherpartygoerswhodidn'tshareour vegetarianideals…AndgleefullymadeplanstosomedaygototheGaryNullcenterin NYtogether. Whensh Whensheex eexcus cusedh edhers erself elfto togou goupst pstairs airsto tothe thebat bathroo hroomI mIbega beganas nasking kingmy myfri friends ends ifanyofthemhadacondomtheycouldspare.Iputoneinmypocketandwaitedforher tocomeback. She Shedi didn dn't 'tc com ome eba back ck.. Afterab Afterabout outtwe twenty ntymin minutes utesIg Igota otalit little tle"sic "sick" k"and anddec decide idedto dtoloo lookf kfor orher. her.I Istar started ted walkingupstairsandsawherchattingwithoneofmyfratbrothers... Thisguy Thisguywas wasan analc alcoho oholic, lic,dru drugus gusing, ing,wis wisea eass…w ss…whow howould ouldhav havela elaughe ughedat dather herif if shetoldhimshewasavegan…soIwasconvincedshe'dbebackdowntoher"soul mate"withinminutes. She never came. Afteran Afteranoth othert ertwent wentym yminut inutesI esIsta stalke lkedhe dherou routup tupsta stairs. irs.


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Thatwas Thatwaswhe whenI nIpea peaked kedin inthe thedoo door,s r,sawh awherg ergivi ivingmy ngmybud buddya dyaha handj ndjob, ob,and andshe she turnedandlookedatmewithpityinhereyes,asiftosay,"You'rereallynice…butI'm heretoparty,nottalkaboutGaryNull…loser." Icouldn'tfigu Icouldn'tfigureitout reitout.Ibu .Ibuiltrapp iltrapport.Iw ort.Iwaspass aspassionate. ionate.Igoth Igothertalki ertalking.And ng.Andwe we completelyavoidsmalltalk.

Is"SmallTalk"YourM Is"SmallTal Is"SmallTalk"YourMissingLinkto k"YourMissingLinkto issingLinktoDatingand DatingandSeductionSu SeductionSuccess? ductionSuccess? ccess? k"YourMissingLinktoD issingLinktoDatingandSe atingandSeductionSu ductionSuccess? ccess? Nowyou Nowyoumay maybe berea really llycon confus fuseda edasth sthisp isprob robably ablygo goesa esagai gainst nstever everythi ythingy ngyou' ou've ve beentaughtbyvariousdatingcoachesandpickupartistsintheseductioncommunity. But hear me out… Ithink Ithinkwe wecan canal allag lagree reetha thatsm tsmall alltal talkis kisuna unavoi voidabl dable,r e,righ ight? t? Infact, Infact,my mycons constant tantne needt edtoav oavoid oidsmal smallta ltalk lk"at "atall allcos costs" ts"was wasse seriou riously slydetr detrimen imental tal tomysuccesswithwomen. ButI'm ButI'msay saying… ing…not notonl onlysh yshould ouldyou younot notav avoid oidit… it…but butyou yousho should uldEMB EMBRAC RACEIT EIT. . Embr mbrace acesm sma alltal talk k? Yes sir.

HowMastering"SmallTalk"CanTransformYourConversations andCreateSeriousAttractionWhenYou'retalkingtoWomen andCreateSeriousAttractionWhenYou'retalkingtoWomen Hereis Hereismy mytake take:A :Awo woman manwan wantst tstokn oknowt owthat hatshe shecan canhav havef efunw unwith ithyou youtal talkin king g aboutnothing.Shedoesnotwanttofeelthatwhen"GaryNull"talkends…you'llbothbe boredsenseless.Shewantstoknowthatthingswon'tgetweird,becauseyou'reafun guy. Andsma Andsmallt lltalk alkis iswhe wherey reyoug ougett ettode odemons monstrat trateal eallof lofthe theset sethin hingsa gsawom womani anislo slookin oking g for. But Buthe here rei is sth the eth thiing: ng: Smallta Smalltalki lkison soneof eoftho thoseth sethings ingstha thatca tcanei neithe therwi rwinyo nyouth uthega egame… me…or ordest destroy royyou you withinseconds. Ifyou' Ifyou'ren renotg otgood oodat atit… it…and andca cause useawk awkwar wardne dness, ss,unco uncomfor mfortabl tablesi esilen lence, ce,ort orthe he dreaded"interviewmode"…you'redeadinthewater. Butifyoucantu Butifyoucanturn"fluf rn"flufftalk" ftalk"intosome intosomethingth thingthatisfu atisfun,excit n,exciting,and ing,andplayful playful…thegir …thegirl l willbeputtyinyourhands.


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Thebes Thebestpa tparti rtissm ssmall alltal talkis kiscan canbe bemad madeFA eFARmo Rmorea reattr ttracti activew vewith ithan anamaz amazing ingly ly smallamountoftime,effort,orenergy. It’sth It’sthewa ewayth ythe"s e"small mallta talk" lk"is ispres presente entedth dthatm atmakes akesall allthe thedif differ ferenc ence. e.Say Say somethingoneway,andyouboreherbrainsout.Sayitadifferentwayandsheis imaginghavingyourbabies,rippingyourclothesoff, orgivingyouahandjobinadirty frathouse … … Hereisthemostimportantlessonyou'lllearnoncreatingattractioninwomen:

HowyouSayItMatters HowyouSayItMatters Bysayi Bysayings ngsomet omething hingin inasl aslight ightlyd lydiff ifferen erentwa tway,y y,youc oucant antran ransmut smutey eyour ourval valuef uefrom rom verylow…toveryHIGH. What Whatd do oIImea mean nby byt thi his s? ? Imeant Imeanthat hatover overthe theco course urseof ofac aconv onversa ersation tioncer certain taininf informa ormation tionnee needst dstog oget et passedbackandforthbetweenyouandthewomanyouaretalkingto. Thisis Thisisjust justthe thenat natural uralfl flowo owofa facon convers versatio ation… n… Evenif Evenifthe theguru gurustr stryto ytomak makeyo eyoube ubelie lievet vethat hatan anenti entirec reconve onversat rsation ioncon consis sistso tsof f these"stealthattraction"buildingtechniques…thecoldhardrealityisthemostwomen aregoingtocontinuallydirecttheconversationtowardssmalltalk(that'swhatthey know) …Soyou …Soyoucan canres resist istthis thisand andkee keeppl pplayin ayingt gthe" he"Gue Guessw sswhat hatId Ido…G o…Gues uesswh swhere ereI' I'm m from…"lameevasiveanswersthataregoingtoKILLattractionalotquickerthancreate it…. …Evenwo …Evenworse rseyou youcan cando dowha whatI tIdid didwi witht ththe" he"Gary GaryNul Null"g l"girl irland andgra grabon bontoo toonet netopic opic andbeatittodeathsoscaredtojumpbackintotheconversationwatersthatyouhold ontodearlifefortheonetopicthatyoubothhaveincommon…Icallthem"conversation lifeboats"…butironyis….Theywillsinkyoufast… …Oryou …Oryoucan canlea learnh rnhow owtot toturn urnyou youent entire irecon conver versati sation, on,sma smallt lltalk alkand andall all…i …into nto somethingthatisfun,playful,andsexy… Therear Therearea eahand handful fulof ofway waysto stoturn turnsma smallt lltalk alksex sexy,a y,andI ndIam amper persona sonally lly FASCINATEDwithfindingthesetechniques,methods,andopportunities. Letmesh Letmeshare areaf afewo ewof fmyf myfavor avorite iteway waysto stodo dothis thistha thatI tIdisc discove overed. red.


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It’sta It’staken kenmem memany anyyea yearst rstof ofind indthe these, se,ide identif ntifyth ythem, em,tes testth tthem, em,and andcrea createsy tesyste stems ms sothatIcanteachthemtoyouquicklyandeasily.Pleaserespectthetimeandeffortit hastakenmetofindthem… WARNING: WARNING: TheseareWeapons-UseThem WithExtremeCaution

Thisinf Thisinforma ormation tionis is"Jed "JediLe iLevel vel"tr "traini aining. ng.It It's 'sNin Ninjas jastuff tuff. . WhatIa WhatIamgo mgoing ingto totell tellyou youis isextr extreme emelyd lydang angerou erousf sforo oroneb nebigf igfatre atreason ason: : IT WORKS. Itworks Itworksso sowel wellth lthatY atYOU OUNEE NEEDto Dtobe beread readyf yforth orthere erespo sponse nseyou youar arego egoing ingto toget. get.I I saythisbecausesomanymenthathavestruggledwiththeirconversationswithwomen arenotusedtogettingapositivereaction…andtheyLOSETHEIRSHIT…whentheydo. Beread Beready…w y…when henyou youch change angethe theway wayyo youco uconvey nvey"sm "small alltal talk"y k"your ourconv convers ersatio ations nsare are goingtotakeonanentirelynewdimension. It'sre It'sreall allyqu yquite itelib liberat erating ing…an …andw dwhen henit itfin finall allysi ysinks nksint inthat hatyou youcan can makesmalltalk sexy …you'llquicklyrealizethatyouhavethegifttotalktoanywoman,anytime… …you'llquicklyrealizethatyouhavethegifttotalktoanywoman,anytime… …Andev …Andeveni enify fyoud oudon' on'tal talway waysge sgetth tthegi egirl( rl(Any Anygur guruth uthatt attells ellsyou youth thath athism ismetho ethodis dis 100%foolproofisLYINGtoyou)youwillALWAYSfindthatyouareabletohaveafun conversationwithawomanthatleavesthebothofyoubetterthanyoufoundone another…

OK,let'sroll! AlittleearlierItoldastoryabout Alittleearlier ItoldastoryabouthowagirlIhadspent howagirlIhadspenthourstalkingto…d hourstalkingto…ditched itched me….Togiveanotherguyshemetahandjob…withinminutes…. Answ Answer ert thi his squ ques esti tion on, ,FA FAST ST: : What Whatw was asM MY Yco conv nver ersa sati tion onm mis issi sing ng? ? Time'su Time'sup. p.He Herei reisw swhat hatmyc myconve onversa rsation tionwa wasmi smissi ssing: ng:

Sexuality Thesec Thesecond ondques question tionis is:W :Whyd hydidn' idn'tI tIrea realize lizethi this? s?


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Ididn' Ididn'tre trealiz alizeth ethisb isbecau ecauseI seIhad hadach achiev ievedm edmassi assiveR veRAPP APPORT ORTwi witht ththeg hegirl irl.W .Weha ehad d connectedonatopicsowellthatconversationwasliterallypouringoutofourmouths… And Andfo for rme met thi his swa was sAM AMAZ AZIN ING… G… Mythree Mythreebig biggest gestfe fears arsinc inconv onversa ersation tionsw swith ithwom womenh enhada adalwa lwaysb ysbeen een: : 1. Runningoutofthingstotalkabout 2. Awkwardsilences 3. Resortingto"boring"smalltalk Sothem Sothemere erefac factth tthatI atIhad hadavo avoide idedal dallth lthree reeof ofthe theseo seoutc utcomes omesled ledme metob tobeli elieve evetha that t Iwasachievingsomelevelofsuccesswiththisgirl. Butw Butwea eall llk know nowh how owth that atst story oryen ende ded…. d…. Here's why…

The#1MistakeMenMake MenMakethatPreventaConversationFrom The#1Mistake MenMake thatPreventaConversationFrom TurningSexual TurningSexual Thenum Thenumber berone onemis mistak takeme emenma nmake kethat thatpre preven ventst tsthem hemadd adding ingsex sexual uality itytoth totheir eir conversationis…. ….drum roll… FEAR FEARO OF FBR BREA EAKI KING NGR RAP APPO PORT RT Andw Andwhy hydo dow wef efea earb rbre reaki aking ngra rappo pport? rt? Becaus Becausew ewec econ onfus fuser erapp apport ortw with ithat attra tracti ction… on… And Andth they eya are reN NOT OTt the hes sam ame eth thin ing… g… We'veal We'vealles lestabl tablishe ishedth dtheI eIFUC FUCKED KEDUP UPthe the"G "Gary aryNul Null"c l"chick hickin inthe theear earlier liersto story… ry…no no moreusetalkingaboutwhatIdidwrong…. Let's Let'sta talk lkab about outw what hatI Is shou hould ldh have avedo done ne… …

Here'sHowToUseThisInformationto Here'sHowToUseThisInformationto TurnaConversationSexualRightNow… TurnaConversationSexualRightNow… Nexttim Nexttimey eyou'r ou'resm esmack ackin inthe themid middle dleof ofaco aconver nversati sationw onwith ithaw awoman omanyou you're 're attractedto,stopforamomentandconsiderwhyyou'retalkingtoher. AndI AndIdo don' n'tw twan antt tthe hebu bull llshi shita tans nswe wer. r. 


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I want the truth. Youare Youaretalk talking ingto toher herbeca because useyou youHO HOPEt PEthat hatyou youca canTA nTALKh LKheri erinto ntobec becomin oming g attractedtoyouinaSEXUALway... And you can… Buti Butin nord order erto tod dot othis his… …you you'v 'veg egot otto… to… BurnYourShipAndLeaveNoAvenueForRetreat… BurnY BurnYour ourSh Ship ipAnd AndLe Leav aveN eNoA oAven venue ueFo ForR rRet etrea reat… t… BurnYourShipAndLeaveNoAvenueForRetreat… Leav Leave eno noa ave venu nue efo for rre retr trea eat… t… Leav Leave eno noa ave venu nue efo for rre retr trea eat… t… Leav Leave eno noa ave venu nue efo for rre retr trea eat… t… Thismea Thismeanst nsthat hatif ifyour yourINT INTENT ENTION IONis istoc tocrea reatese tesexua xualat lattrac tractio tionin ninaw awoman omanyou you havetoPASSTHEPOINTOFNORETURN. Youha Youhave veto tobe bewi will llin ingt gtol olose osehe her… r…  IFAILE IFAILEDm Dmiser iserabl ablywi ywitht ththe hegirl girlin inthe thesto story ryearl earlier ierbec becaus auseI eIwas wasnot notwil willin lingto gtolos lose e therapportwehadestablished… …butwha …butwhatI tIshou shouldh ldhave aveest establ ablishe ishedwa dwasa saSEX SEXUAL UALIN INTEN TENT… T… Thefir Thefirstth stthing ingyou younee needto dtodo dothi thisis sisto toBRE BREAK AKRAP RAPPOR PORTwh Twheny enyous ousens enseth ethata ata womanisgettingtoocomfortablearoundyou… Sexual Sexualten tensio sionst nstems emsfr fromd omdesir esirem emixed ixedwit withun huncer certain tainty, ty,sus suspens pense,a e,and ndeven evenab abit it ofnervousness… Ifyou' Ifyou'rei reinth nthemi emiddl ddleof eofan anhour hourlon longco gconver nversati sationw onwith ithagi agirla rlabout bouthea health lthfoo food(o d(or r theYankees,ortraveling,oryourjobs)…thereisnotension,nouncertainty,no suspense… Yes,t Yes,ther here eis isco comf mfor orta tand ndra rappo pport rt… … But Butyo you' u've veg got ott to oBR BREA EAK KIT IT… … Sofori Soforinsta nstance nce,if ,ifag agirl irlhas hasgot gotten tentoo toocom comfor fortabl tablew ewith ithyou youand andshe shebeg begins insgoi going ng intoalongrantabouthowmuchshehatesherjob… Stop tophe heran ands dsay: ay:

“IfwekeeptalkingaboutthisI’mgoingtochargeyou200$anhourfortherapy.Do youhaveyourcreditcardwithyou?” youhaveyourcre ditcardwithyou?”


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Bydoin Bydoingth gthaty atyou'v ou'vebr ebroken okenrap rappor portfo tfora ramin minute uteand andthr thrown ownsom somesu esuspen spenseb seback ack intotheconversation…andyou'vesnappedher"he'ssuchaniceguy…"thoughtsinhalf. You'llo You'llofte ftenru nrunin ninto tothis thispro problem blemlat lateri erinth nthen enight ightwhe whenyo nyouwa uwantt nttoge ogetph tphysic ysicalw alwith ith awoman…andhavebuiltuptoomuchcomfortoverthecourseoftheevening…andnow itseemsthetensionisbroken…andakissseemsinappropriate... Break eaktthe rapp rappor ort… t… AdamLy AdamLyons onsonc onceto etold ldmea measto storyw rywher herehe ehehad hadag agirl irlbac backat kathi hispl splace aceand andshe she wouldn'tstoptalkingaboutanargumentshehadwithoneofherfriends….Hewas sittingtherethinking"howthehellcanIgethertoshutuplongenoughtokissher…" And Andhe heK KIC ICKE KED DHE HER RIINTH NTHE EHE HEAD AD.. I'vedo I'vedones nesimil imilart arthing hings…I s…IfI fIsen sense sethat thataw awoman omanhas hasbec become ometoo toocom comfor fortabl tablean eandI dI can'ttransitiontheconversationtosomethingmoresexual… I'll I'lll loo ook kat ath her era and nds say ay, ,""Don'tyouEVERshutup?" She'llu She'llusual suallyl lylook ookat atmel melike ikeI' I'vej vejustl ustlostm ostmym ymind… ind…  Butthe ButtheTEN TENSIO SIONG NGOES OESTHR THROUG OUGHth Hthero eroof… of….A .Andr ndrappo apport rtisb isbrok roken… en…and andfr from om thereI'llgiveheralittlesmile…thenlightlypushheraflirtyway…andsay" OH…DidIpiss youoff…" And Andno now wwe wea are reF FLI LIRT RTIN ING. G.

HowtoAvoidthisintheFirstPlace HowtoAvoidthisintheFirstPlace We'veal We'vealrea readye dyestab stablis lished hedear earlier lierin inthi thisre srepor porttha tthatyo tyourI urINTE NTENTI NTION ONist istocr ocreate eatea a sexualattractionwithher. Sol Solet eth her erk kno now wyo your uri int nten enti tion on… … Ifyou Ifyoudon don'tw 'twant antaw awoma omanto ntoget gettoo toocom comfor fortabl tablew ewith ithyou you…an …andbe dbegin ginjust justsee seeyou youas as afunguytotalkto…. Don' Don't tgi give veh her ert tha hat top opti tion on… … LET LETYO YOUR URI INT NTEN ENTI TION ONB BE EKN KNOW OWN… N… WhenI WhenIwas wastal talking kingto to"Gar "GaryNu yNull" ll"girl girlIn Inever eversa saida idanyt nything hingto tohint hinttha thatI tIsaw sawher heras as anythingmorethanagirlwithasimilarinterestinhealthfood.Sothatisthe"role"she gaveme…theguyshetalksabouthealthfoodwith… Ishould Ishouldhav havema emadea deasta stateme temento ntofi finten ntentea tearly rlyon: on:


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Anexampleofastatementofintentis: Anexampleofast atementofintentis: (ifsheflashesasmile) (ifsheflashesasmile)““Youhaveareally

sexyandmischievoussmile,likeyou’retotallyuptonogood.HahaIlikethat…” Or… "Thatthingyoujustdidwithyourhair…isdrivingmecrazy…Iactuallywasn'tpaying

attentiontoawordyoujustsaid…" Leavenoavenueforretreat … … Onceyou Onceyouint introd roduce uceas astatem tatement entofi ofinten ntentin tinto tothe thecon convers versati ationy onyou oucan canret return urnback back toSMALLTALK…becausenowunderneaththe"fluff"isanunderlyingTENSIONthatis building… Ijusts Ijustshar haredw edwhat hatis isprob probabl ablyth ythebi ebigges ggestmi tmista stakem kemenm enmake akeint intheir heircon convers versatio ations ns withwomen. Mostmen Mostmencli clingt ngtora orappor pport,so t,sounw unwilli illinga nganda ndafra fraidt idtobr obreak eakit… it…they theysu sucke ckever veryou younce nce ofsexualtensionoutoftheconversation… Bybrea Bybreakin kingra grappor pportan tandus dusing inga" a"stat stateme emento ntofi finten ntent"y t"youa ouareb reback ackont ontrack rackto toget get exactlywhatyouwantoutoftheconversation… Avoidth Avoidthe"r e"rapp apportt orttrap rap"an "andin dincre crease aseyour yourch chance ancesof sofsuc success cess… … Nowlet Nowletmet meteach eachsom someTA eTACTI CTICS CSfor formak making ingsma smallt lltalk alksex sexy… y… Ifyou Ifyouuse usethe thetac tactics ticsbel belowr owrigh ightof toffth ftheba ebat… t…you youdon' don'th thave avetow toworry orryabo abouth uther er misreadingyourintentions…oreliminatingsexualtension… Here we go…

Small Talk Made Sexy Technique #1:

Create Conversation Momentum By Using a "Role" Keep the Conversation Flowing, Make Her Laugh, and Build Sexual Tension… Answ Answer ert thi his squ ques esti tion on: :  Whatdo Whatdothes theseth ethree reetele televisi visionc onchara haracter ctersha shavei veinco ncommon mmon…( …(If Ifyou’ you’reu reunfam nfamili iliar ar withthemgotoYoutubeandwatchsomeclipsofthem)


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AriGold:(FromHBO'sEntourage) AriGold:(From Ari Gold: HBO'sEntourage) AriGold: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pVhIFhOT6xc DavidAddison:(fromMoonlighting) David Addison DavidAddison http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Uy2PqfnXGs BarneyStinson(fromHowIMetYourMother) Barney Stinson BarneyStinson http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yg9jjs-o35g

PerformingWithinaRole PerformingWithinaRole Whatthe Whatthese sethre threec echara haracter ctersha shavei veinco ncommon mmonis isthat thatthe theyar yareal eallpe lperfo rformin rmingwi gwithin thina a narrowlydefinedrole. Thismea Thismeanse nsevery veryfa facia cialex lexpres pressio sion,g n,gest esture, ure,ban banter terline line,or ,orbit bitof ofsmal smallta ltalkc lkcomes omes fromtheroletheyareplaying. Andasa Andasamem member berof ofthe theaud audien iencey ceyouc oucana analmo lmostgu stguess esshow howthey theyare aregoi goingt ngtore oreact act toasituation,orwhattheyaregoingtosayinresponsetosomeoneelse… …What …Whatdo does esth this ishav havet etod odow owit ithy hyou ou? ? InMelvi InMelvinHe nHelitz litzer's er'sbo bookp okpopu opular larbook book"Co "Comed medyWr yWritin itingSe gSecret crets" s"hes hestate tates: s:  "Humordoesn'tgo "Humordoesn'tgointoac intoacharacter haracter…itcomes …itcomesoutof outofacharac acharacter.Ac ter.Acharactern haracterneeds eeds atrademark…apredictablepointofviewthatdoesnotchange.Withoutashtickthe performerisjustareciterofjokes.Withitacomiccangetlaughsevenwithmistakes becauseinaway,theperformeristhejoke.Everysuccessfulperformerincomedyhas developedatleastonebasicandmemorablecharacter.Notonlydoestheaudience feelcomfortablewiththis,butthematerialiseasiertowrite."

Them Themat ater erial ialis isea easi sier ert tow owrit rite… e… Thinkab Thinkabout outthe thesig signifi nificanc canceof eoftha thatst tstateme atementf ntfora oramin minute. ute. Thebig Thebiggest gestpro proble blemmo mmostme stmenf nface acewit with"s h"small malltal talk" k"ist isthat hatthey theyfin findth dthemse emselves lves continuallyrunningoutofthingstosay,orturningtowards"boring"conversationtopics, especiallyearlyonintheconversationbeforeyou'vebothbecomecomfortablewith eachother. Butwha Butwhatif tifIt Itold oldyou youtha thatyo tyouc ucant antake akeany any"b "borin oring"t g"topic opicand andtur turni nitin tintoa toafu funan nand d exciting,flirtatiousconversation…Andhaveanendlesssupplyof"conversational material"bytakingonaroleofacharacter… Whythisworks… Why this works… Whythisworks…


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Thinkab Thinkabout outthe thethr threec eechara haracter ctersli slisted stedabo above… ve…the theset sethre hreech echarac aracter tersar sareFU eFUNto Nto watchnomatterwhattheyaretalkingabout. Thisis Thisisbeca because usehum humora oractua ctually llyflo flows wsmore morefro fromth mthech echarac aracter, ter,the theres respons ponses, es,and and thenaturalinteractionthanfromthejokes.Thismeansthatyoudon'tneedtoconstantly bethinkingofhilariouslinestomakeherhavefun…infact,thefunstemsfromthe characteryouareplaying,andyourcharacter'sinteractionwithher. Thecharacterwr Thecharacterwritesitse itesitself... lf...onceyo onceyougetthe ugetthecharact characterdown erdownthenall thenallthefun thefunnystuff nystuff takescareofitself. Andthis Andthishum humor… or…thi thise sexpec xpectati tationo onofh fhumor umor…c …creat reatest estens ension. ion.An Andas dasyou youcon continu tinueto eto buildupthetension…thenrelease…buildup…thenrelease…youslowlybegintocreate SEXUALTENSION… But Butyo you une need edt to och choo oose set the her rig ight htr rol ole eto tod do oth this is…. …. Thesec Thesecond ondreas reasonI onIcho choseA seAriG riGold old,Da ,David vidAdd Addiso ison,a n,andB ndBarny arnySti Stinson nsonis isbec becaus ause e theyplaycharactersthatworkwellforBANTERINGwithwomen. Eachof Eachofthes thesech echarac aracter tersdi sdispl splaya ayasli slight ghtdeg degree reeof of"me "mental ntaldom domina inance" nce"ov overt erthe he peopletheyaretalkingto.Andthecombinationofmentaldominanceandbantering= ATTRACTION. Whenyo Whenyouch uchoos oosea eacha charact ractery eryouw ouwant anttoc tochoos hoosea earol roleth ethata atallow llowsyo syouto utocre create ate attraction.Andcertainrolesworkalotbetterforthat.Herearesomeexamplesofroles thatgenerateattraction: • • • • • • • • • • • •

Youaredominant,sheiscute Anassumedpositionofauthority Anassumedpositionofa uthority Herjudge,coach,orconsultant Thevictimofherseduction Thecoldguy Theneuroticallyselfishguy Ahighmaintenancechick Ahighmaintenancechic k Mimickingher TheDevilonhershoulder Exaggeratedlycheesypickupartist Heradultsupervision Sheisusingyouforsex

Eachof Eachofthes thesero eroles leslist listeda edabov bovewo eworks rksowe owell llbeca because useits itsort ortof ofelev elevates atesyou youas asthe the guywho"getsit."


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Andthe Andthemere merefa factt ctthat hatyou' you've veassi assigne gnedyo dyourse urselft lfther herole, ole,dis display playsth sthaty atyou ouare arethe the oneincontroloftheconversation…andyou'recallingtheshots. Inamin Inaminute uteI' I'mgo mgoing ingtos toshow howyo youex uexactl actlyho yhowto wtous useth ethese eserol rolest estoMA oMAKES KESMAL MALL L TALKSEXY…butfornowIjustwantyoutounderstandthepurposeoftherole… …therolewritesitself...onceyougetthecharacterdownthenallthefunnystufftakes …therol …therolewr ewrites itesits itself elf... ...onc onceyo eyouge ugetth tthec echara haracter cterdow downth nthena enallt llthef hefunny unnystu stuff fftake takes s careofitself… careofitself… Thisrol Thisrolese esetst tsthe" he"fra frame" me"for forthe theent entire ireconv convers ersatio ation. n.Eve Eventh nthough oughyou youwil willmo lmovin vingin gin andoutofthisrolethroughouttheconversation…itisALWAYStheretousewhenyou sensetheconversationneedssomerejuvenation… Whattodo… What to do… Whattodo… Therear Thereareth ethree reegen genera eralru lrules lestot totakin akingon gonar arole: ole: 1. Assumetherolerightfromthesta Assumetheroleri ghtfromthestartoftheconversation rtoftheconversation 2. Owntherole/becongruent 3. Andknowwhentodrop Andknowwhentodropit it Basical Basicallyy lyyouw ouwant anttoe toexert xertful fullco lcontro ntrolov loverth erthero eroley leyout outake akeon. on.Ri Right ghtfro fromth mthe e beginningyouaresortofsaying"thesearetherulestoourconversation…"Thisis CRITICALLYIMPORTANT…youmustestablishyour"characterrole"earlyon youmustestablishyour"characterrole"earlyon…ifnot,it youmustestablishyour"characterrole"earlyon willbeweirdifyoubustintoitafter30minutesof"normal"conversation…. Andthen Andthenyo youwa uwantt nttoo oownt wnther herole, ole,and andbe becong congrue ruenti ntinit nit. .This Thismea meansy nsyouD ouDON' ON'T T backdownifshe"shittests"you.Youdon'twaitforherto"approve"thegameyouset… youjustgorightintoit. Andfin Andfinally ally,yo ,youmu umustk stknow nowwhe whento ntodro dropit pit. .Ats Atsome omepoi point, nt,afte afterat rattrac traction tionhas hasbee been n created,therewillcomeapointwheretheroleshouldonlybeusedverySPARINGLY… becauseifyouneverdroptherole…she'llnevergetfeeladeepersenseofconnection withYOU. HowtoTakeaRoleandUseitRIGHTNOWintheRealWorld…. HowtoTakeaRoleandUseitRIGHTNOWintheRealWorld…. HowtoTakeaRoleandUseitRIGHTNOWintheRealWorld…. OK. Here Hereis isa ach char aract acter erpra practi ctice ceexe exerc rcise ise: : Imagine Imagineap aparti articula cularty rtypeo peofc fchara haracte cterth rthaty atyouc oucanw anwork orkwit with…. h….  Pick Picko one neo offth these eseth thre ree: e: 1. AnOverlyConfidentPlayboy 2. AHighMaintenanceWoma AHighMaintenanceWoman n MakeSmallTalkSexy.com

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3. TheDevilonherShoulder Onceyou Onceyou've 'vepic picked kedone oneof ofthe theabo above vechar characte acters, rs,get getint intouch ouchwit withho hhowth wtheyw eywoul ould d respond,react,whatsortoffacialexpressionswouldtheymake,whatwouldtheirvoice tonesoundlike? Asyour Asyouread eadthi this,s s,spen penda daminu minute tegett getting ingins inside idethe themin mindof dofthe thecha charac racter teryou you've 've chosen.BecomehimforasecondwhileIwalkyouthroughthisexercise… YourReactionStemsfromtheCharacter… YourR YourReac eacti tion onSt Stems emsf from romth theC eCha hara racte cter… r… YourReactionStemsfromtheCharacter… Now,how Now,howwou woulde ldeach achchar characte acterr rrespo espondt ndtoth othef efollo ollowing wingthre threeth ething ings? s? 1. Sheaccidentallytouchesyourass 2. Shedropssomething 3. Sheasksyoutobuyheradrink NowIw NowIwant antyou youto tobet bethef hefirst irstch charac aracter ter…an …andr drespo espondt ndtoea oeach choft ofthe hethre threeth ethings ings. . Andthenbethesecondcharacter…and Andthenbethe secondcharacter…andrespondtoeachofthe respondtoeachofthethreethings….Andfinally threethings….Andfinally bethethirdcharacter…andrespondtoeachofthethreethings. Doth thisr isriight ghtno now! Donotk Donotkeep eeprea readin dingun guntil tilyou' you've vefin finish ishedt edthis hisexe exercis rcise… e… Alright… I'mgoi I'mgoingt ngtoju ojustg stgoth othrou roughs ghsome omeexa example mpleso sofh fhowy owyouc oucoul ouldha dhave veresp respond onded ed completelydifferentlyforallthreeofthesesituationsplayingthethreedifferent characters… REMEMBER:Sheknowsyou'replayingarole…soit'sperfectlyacceptabletobe REMEMBER REMEMBER cheesy,exaggerated,andtopushtheenvelopealittle…. Her:(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforaliving? Her: Her: OverlyConfidentPlayboy:(Staringdownatherhandthatjusttouchedyourleg)I Over Ov erly lyC Con onfi fide dent ntP Pllayb ayboy OverlyConfidentPlayboy knowthatmoveyoujustdid…(Givingherthe"I'montoyou"look)it'soneofmy favorites….The'casuallygropethelegwhileaskingaseeminglyinnocentquestion' ShouldIgothroughthecharadeofanswering…ordoyouwanttojustdroptheselittle gameswereplayingwitheachother…. Her:(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforaliving? Her: Her: AHighMaintenanceWoman:Ohmygod!! AHighMaintenance AHi AHigh ghM Mai aint nten ena ance nceWo Woman:Ohmygod!!Howdareyoutouchmyass. Woma man n Howdareyoutouchmyass.I'mnot I'mnot AHighMaintenanceWoman AHighMaintenance Woman Woman somedimestoregigolothatyoucanjusthaveyourwaywithhoney…


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Her:(accidentallytouchingyourass)So,whatdoyoudoforaliving? Her: Her: TheDevilonHerShoulder: The Devil on HerShoulder: HerShoulder:Just…slowly…put…yourhandbackonhisass…hewon't TheDevilon notice…justdoit…leanoverandshowhimsomecleavagewhyyou'reatitto…

MoreExamples…. MoreExamples…. Her:(droppinghercellphone) Her: OverlyConfidentPlayboy:Youarejustmakingsureyoutakeeveryopportunityto Over Ov erly lyC Con onfi fide dent ntP Pllayb ayboy OverlyConfidentPlayboy showmethegoods…aren'tyouhoney?Idoadmit…Iappreciatetheeffortyou're puttingintothiswholeseductionthing…mostgirlsdon'ttrythishard… Her:(droppinghercellphone) Her: Her: AHighMaintenanceWoman:Ohplease…DONOTt AHighMaintenance AHi AHigh ghM Mai aint nten enan ance ceW Woman:Ohplease…DONOTthinkyou'regoingtot Wom oman an: : hinkyou'regoingtotrickme rickme AHighMaintenanceWoman: AHighMaintenance Woman: Woman: intolookingatyourass….IamNOTthatkindofguy. Her:(droppinghercellphone) Her: Her: TheDevilonHerShoulder:He'slooking…juststaybentoveralittlelonger...maybe The TheD Devil evilo on nH HerS erSho houl ulde der: r: TheDevilonHerShoulder: throwyourhairbackabit…andthenmakeacutesystatementabout'howtipsyyouare…' Canyou Canyousee seehow howtak taking ingont onther heroll ollof ofach achara aracter ctermak makest esthin hingsi gsinter nteresti esting… ng… …andallowsyoutointroduce …and …anda all llow ows syo you uto toi int ntro rodu duce ce sexytopics sexytopics Doyous Doyouseeh eehowm owmuch ucheas easier ieriti itisto stocom complet pletely elytra transf nsform ormthe thevib vibeof eofsma smallta lltalk? lk? Andcan Andcanyou yousee seehow howEA EASYi SYitis tistoA toALWAY LWAYSK SKNOW NOWWH WHATT ATTOS OSAYw AYwhen henyou you're 're playinga"role?"Youjustsaywhatyouimagineyourcharacterwouldsay… Justto Justtoill illustr ustrate atethe thedif differ ference ence…us …useon eoneof eofthe theabo abovee veexamp xamples les(He (Herd rdropp ropping ingher her phoneortouchingyourleg)andimaginehowyouwouldhaverespondedifyouwere justbeingYOU…. Youprob Youprobably ablywou would ldhave havejus justan tanswe swered redher herstu stupid pid"wh "whatd atdoy oyoud oudof ofora oraliv living" ing" questionandcontinuedalongaBORINGconversation… …Butthe …Butthe"ro "role" le"you youwer werepl eplayin ayingal gallowe lowedyo dyout utoIN oINSTA STANTL NTLYad Yadds dsome omespic spicea eand nd sexintothemix… Sonowy Sonowyouc oucans anstill tillans answer werher herques question tion…bu …butyo tyouw uwere ereable ableto tomak maketh ethesa esame me pieceofsmalltalk…SEXY.

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Turn the Conversation Into a "Game" and Allow The Back and Forth Interaction Take on A Life of Its Own Didyou Didyoueve everam ramuse useyo yourse urself lffor forhou hoursj rsjust ustthro throwin winga gaten tennis nisball ballaga against instaw awall alland and catchingitasitbouncedbacktoyou? Ornot' Ornot'ste steppin ppingon gonthe thecra cracks cks'as 'asyou youwal walked keddow downa naside sidewal walk? k?  Ortried Ortriedtop topass assas asman manyca ycarsa rsaspo spossib ssiblew lewhile hiledri driving vingon onahi ahighwa ghway? y? Orsiti Orsitinyo nyourd urdesk eskand and"rat "rateth ethedo edoabi ability lity"th "theg egirls irlsin inthe thecla classr ssroom oomwit withyo hyou…w u…while hile yourprofessorflounderedthroughatortuouslecture? Ify Ifyou ouh hav ave edo done nea any nyo of fth thes ese… e… …You'vefoundTHEGAMEtomakesomethingboringfun …You've foundTHEGAMEtomakesomethingboringfun foundTHEGAMEtomakesomethingboringfun …You've Wedo Wedoth this isal allt lthe hetim time… e…be becau cause sega games mesar are efu fun! n!

"Findingthegame" "Findingthegame" Everyin Everyintera teractio ctionyo nyouha uhavew vewith ithawo awoman manhas hasthe thepot potenti entialf alfora oragam game…a e…ando ndonce nce youfindthatgame…whatwaspreviouslyatypical,boringconversation,turnsinto somethingthatyouapartof… Either Eitheras aste team ammat mates esor orco compe mpeti titor tors… s… Justfi Justfinds ndsome omesim simple plethin thingin ginyo youri urinter nteracti actiont onthat hatyou youcan canmak makein eintos tosome omesort sortof of contest,andseewhocanoutduetheother. Everybo Everybodye dyenjoy njoyspl splayin ayingga ggames mesbec because ausethe therul rulesa esares resimpl implean eandcl dclear. ear. …Andju …Andjustl stlike ikeplay playing inga" a"role role"…t "…these hesegam gamesm esmake akecomi comingu ngupw pwith iththi things ngstos tosaya aya wholeloteasier…becausetheconversationspringsfromthegame… BeforeI BeforeIgo goint intoso osome meexam examples plesof of"ga "games mes"yo "youc ucanp anplay lay…le …let's t'sjus justex texamin amines esome omeof of thereasonstheyaresoeffectiveatmakingsmalltalksexy… Whydo"games"worksowell… Whydo"games"worksowell… •

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Makesbringinganelementof"sexuality"intotheconversationmucheasier Focusestheconversationonfeeling,emotions,andobservations…ratherthan facts

Thetru Thetruthi this…S s…SMAL MALLTA LTALKM LKMUST USTTAK TAKEPL EPLACE ACE…t …there hereis iscer certai tainin ninfor formati mationt onthat hat needstobepassedbackandforthbetweenyouandawoman… …butjustlikesi …butjustlikesittingthr ttingthroughab oughaboringlec oringlecture,s ture,stuckintra tuckintrafficon fficonthehigh thehighway,ort way,ortaking aking astrolldownthestreet… SMALL SMALLTA TALK LKca canb nbe eMAD MADEF EFUN UNby byf find inding ingth the egam game… e…

WhataretheGames? WhataretheGames? Basica Basicall llya yany nythi thing ngca can nbe betur turne nedi dinto ntoa agam game… e…. . Buttom Buttomake akethi thisco scooki okiecu ecutter ttersim simple plefo foryo ryou…I u…I'm 'mgoin goingto gtoli lists stsome omeof ofthe themore more popularonesthatsomeoftheworld'sbestPUAsuseonregularbasis. Eachone Eachoneof ofthe theseg segame amesar sarede edesign signed edtoe toelic licitem itemotio otionso nsouto utofth fthew ewoman omanyo youar uare e talkingto…andcreatethefeelingofrapportandATTRACTION. …hereareafewofthefavorites… …her …here ear are ea afe few wof oft the hef fav avor orit ites es… … …hereareafewofthefavorites… Theimp Theimporta ortantt ntthing hingto toreme remember mberis, is,jus justli tlike kewhen whenusi using nga"r a"role" ole"yo youMU uMUST STNOT NOT explaingames.Justjumpintothem.Startwithfunandhighenergyandgetdeeperand moresincere.

ThreeQuestionsGame ThreeQuestionsGame Asyou' Asyou'ret retalk alking ingtoa toagir girlju ljustb stbegin eginthi thisg sgame… ame…  You:"We'regoingtoplayalittlegame." Her:"OK,whatkindofgame?" You:"It'sreallysimple.Wejusttaketurnsaskingeachotherquestions...butthereare rules." Her:"Suchas....?" You:"1.)Everyquestionmustbeanswered.2.)Noquestioncanberepeatedand3.) Yougofirst." "So,Iw "So,Iwant anttok toknow nowmor moreab eabout outyou you…Wha …What’s t’s…y …your ourfav favorit oriteic eicecr ecream eam?Mi ?Minei neisB sBen en andJerry'sCookieDough…" MakeSmallTalkSexy.com

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Tradeth Tradethree reeque questi stions onsback backand andfor forth. th.You Youask ask,she ,sheans answer wers.T s.Then hensh sheas easks ks question,youanswer. Startwi Startwithv thvery erycomm commono onorv rvery eryfun funstu stuff ff(ex. (ex.“w “what’ hat’syo syourf urfavo avorite riteice icecre cream?” am?”)a )and nd bepreparedtoshareyourownanswertogetitgoing. Secondq Secondques uestion tiongoe goesa salit little tledee deeper per,li ,likef kefond ondchi childh ldhood oodmemo memories ries. . Thirdqu Thirdquest estion iongod godeep, eep,lik likelo elove, ve,rel relatio ationsh nships ips,etc ,etc. . Sinceit Sinceit's 'saga agame, me,she shewi willh llhardl ardlybl yblink inkane aneye yewhe whenyo nyouas uask k"Wherewasthemost unusualplaceyouhadsex?"  Youjust Youjustsor sortof tofgiv giveh ehera erasmi smirkt rkthat hatsay says," s,"Yea YeaI Ijust justbro brought ughtit itther there…" e…" Unlesss Unlessshei heisco scompl mplete etepru prudes deshe' he'llf llfollo ollowt wthep hepath athyou youcarv carved. ed.  Canyou Canyousee seehow howmuc muchea heasier sierit itwas wasto tointr introduc oducese esexual xuality ityint intoth othec econve onversa rsation tion underthepretenseofagame? Everyti EverytimeI meIuse useit itthe thegirl girlbri brings ngsups upsomet omethin hingse gsexua xualw lwithi ithin5 n5ques question tions. s.

Fascinationgame/ILikegame Fascinationgame/ILikegame Thisisanotherexcellentwaytoshareinformationinawaythatisfunandcreatesa playfulbackandforthvibebetweenthetwoofyou… I'm I'mfa fasc scin inat ate edby dby.... .. I like… Remember Remember,st ,starts artsmall mall.D .Don’ on’tgo tgofor forthe theimm immedi ediate atedee deepto ptopics pics.G .Geth etherta ertalkin lkingfi gfirst rst andgetdeep. Ex.“Yo Ex.“Youkn uknoww owwhat hatIr Ireall eallyl ylike ikeabo aboutN utNYC? YC?The Thebes bestpi tpizza zzain inthe thewor world. ld.You Youkno know w whatImean?WhatdoyoulikeaboutNYC?” Thenonc Thenonceyo eyou're u'rewar warmedu medup…" p…"Il Ilike ikegir girlsw lswhoh hohave aveaki akinky nkysid side…" e…"  Itisal Itisallab labout outthe the"VI "VIBE" BE"tha thatgo tgoesb esback ackand andfor forthb thbetw etween eenyou youand andthe thewom woman. an.  Insteadoftirelesslytryingtocreateadeepsenseofrapport…simplyfocusontheback andforthvibethatisoccurringbetweenthetwoofyou. Yourint Yourinterac eractio tionsh nshoul ouldbe dbethe thecen center terof ofatte attenti ntion…. on….NOT NOTthe theTO TOPIC PICbei beingd ngdisc iscusse ussed. d. I repeat: Yourinteractionwiththewomanshouldbethecenterofattention…notthe .  topicbeingdiscussed topicbeingdiscusse d d.


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Thisis Thisiswher whereI eIhad hadcom complete pletelyb lyblow lownit nitin inthe theear earlie lierst rstory. ory.I Imad made"h e"healt ealthf hfood" ood"and and "GaryNull"thecenterofattention.Whenthecenterofattentionshouldhavebeenthe playfulbackandforthinteractionbetweenthetwoofus. Whatif Whatifthe theint intera eractio ctionw nwith iththe the"Gar "GaryNu yNull" ll"gir girlw lwent entlik liketh ethisi isinste nstead? ad? Me:I Me:Ili like keP Pean eanut utbut butte terf rfrui ruits tsmo mooth othies ies Her: Her:I Ili like keGr Grah aham amCr Crac acker kerZo Zone neba bars rs Me:(hi Me:(highf ghfivi ivingh ngher) er)Met Metoo… oo…Ia Ialso lsolik liketa etaking kingspo spontan ntaneous eousroa roadtr dtrips ipstow toweird eird obscure places. Her:Oh Her:Ohyea yea…We …Well llIli Ilikep kepeopl eoplew ewatch atching ingont ontheb heboard oardwal walka kandl ndlaug aughing hingata atallo llofth fthe e freaks. Me:Wel Me:Well,I l,Ilik likeha ehavin vingse gsexon xonthe thebea beachw chwhile hilethe thefr freaks eaksare arewal walkin kingon gonthe the boardwalk. Her:I Her:Ilik likes esexa exafte fterco rcoming mingbac backfr kfroma omarea really llytou toughw ghwork orkout outatt attheg hegym… ym… Doyous Doyouseeh eehowc owcreat reating ingag agame ameallo allows wsyou youtoe toelev levate atethe thecon conver versati sationt ontoa oasex sexual ual level…withinminutes. Whenyo Whenyoupu uputso tsometh mething ingin inthe thecon context textof ofa" a"char characte acter"o r"or"a r"agam game"t e"thew hewoman oman's 's defensegoesdownandshefindsherselfplayingalong…BECAUSEIT'SFUN. Remember Remember,a ,awom womani anisou soutlo tlookin okingto gtohav havef efun. un.An Andqu dquite itefra frankly nkly,mo ,mostgu stguysa ysare re boring,lame,andincapableofholdinganengagingconversation(IknowbecauseI usedtobeoneofthem)sowhenawomanmeetsaguywhocancreatearelaxed playfulness…she'llinstantlyrecognize"thisguysdifferent"andshewillfollowyourlead. Yes,s Yes,she hewa wants ntsto tofo follo llow wyou yourl rlead ead… … Sheju Shejust stne needs edsto tobe bes sure ureyo you' u're rego goin ingt gtot otak akeh eher erdo down wnan anen enjo joyab yable lepa path th… …

RolePlaying RolePlaying Whatisaroleplay? Itiscr Itiscreati eatinga nganim nimagin aginary arysce scenari narioan oandpe dperso rsonas nasthat thatthe thetw twoof oofyou youcan cancar carryo ryout ut together. Let'ssayyou're Let'ssayyou'retalking talkingtoagirl toagirlandyo andyoutellhe utellherthatyo rthatyou'regoi u'regoingtoI ngtoItalynext talynextweek… week… andshesaysjokingly"canIcome…" Instead Insteadof oflau laughi ghingi ngitof toff… f…you youwou woulds ldsays aysome omethin thinglik glike: e:


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"Yea,I "Yea,I'll 'llhid hidey eyoui ouinmy nmysui suitca tcase… se…Wh Wheny enyoug ougett etthere hereyou younee needto dtobe bemy my paparazzi.I'mgoingtogiveyouacameraandyoujustneedtofollowmearoundthe entiretimesnappingpicturesofme….AndpointatmelikeI'msomeonefamous.Then youcansellthepicturestoalocaltabloid-andwecanusethemoneytotakeayacht downtogambleinMonaco.OfcourseI'llwinduplosingyouinapokergametosome Iraniansheik…" Yousee Youseehow howyou youjus justto ttookt okthis hisabsu absurds rdsitua ituatio tionan nandke dkeptm ptmakin akingit gitmor moreab eabsurd surd.. ... . Yet,itw Yet,itwasp asplayf layful, ul,itp itproba robably blyhad hadher hergig giggli gling… ng…and andit itproj projecte ecteda dafu future turewh wheret erethe he twoofyouwereinItalyandMonoco. It's t'sve verrys ysimple… Starta Startastor storya yabout boutaf afanta antasyw sywith ithyou youand andher her.L .Leth etherf erfill illin insome somedet details ails,an ,and d togetheryoucreateafungamewitheachother. Andfor Andforgod godsak sakes… es…Don Don'tb 'tbeaf eafraid raidto tointr introduc oduceso esomes mesexu exualit alityin yintot tother herole olepla play… y… that'sthewholepoint…

SoThereYouHaveIt SoThereYouHaveIt Someof Someofmy myfavo favorite riteway waysto stoadd addfu fun,p n,playf layfuln ulness, ess,an andse dsexual xuality itytoy toyour oursmal small l talk…andincreaseyourattractivenessintheeyesofthewomanyou'reinteractingwith MASSIVELY.Andwhatisgreataboutallofthetechniquesmentionedisthatyoudonot needtochangewhatyoutalkabout…justthewayyoupresenttheinformation. Nowit’ Nowit’stim stimef efory oryout outogo ogoand andimp impleme lementt ntthese hesetec techniq hniques, ues,and andget getsom some e RESULTS.Takemywordforit…

STARTNOW! STARTNOW! Takeactionrightnow.Don’twait.Dosomethingwithwhatyoujustlearned immediately,soyoustartusingitAUTOMATICALLY.Usethesetechniqueseveryday, andsoonyou’llfindthatyou’recreatingthesortofvibethatwomencraveandyouwill almostbeabletoseetheattractionglisteningintheireyes… Andi Andify fyou’ ou’re rein inter terest ested edin inge getti tting ngth the eult ultima imate tetr train ainin ingi ginc ncre reati ating ngfu fun, n,f flow lowin ing, g,an and d attractiveconversationsthenconsidertheConversationEscalation:MakeSmallTalk ConversationEscalation:MakeSmallTalk Sexyprogram.Itjustmightbeyourtickettothesuccessyou’reseeking. Sexyprogram ConversationEscalation:MakeSmallTalkSexy isaprogramthatIwillbereleasingina limited"beta"quantityoverthenextweek.Theprogramisdesignedtotransformyour


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conversationskillsandhelpturnyouintoamasterconversationalistthatengagesand attractswomanyou'retalkingto.

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