Slow Seduction

An Introduction To

Slow Seduction

A Special Report from Alpha Male Planner

An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner

Outline

1. The Difference Between Fast Seduction and Slow Seduction A. Fast Seduction Teachers (Ross, Mystery, and the rest) B. Some Problems with "fast seduction" C. Slow Seduction Teachers (Robert Greene, Brett Tate) 2. Three NEW Ideas In Slow Seduction A. Concentric Harems B. Simultaneous Slow Seduction C. Profiling 3. Bonus Section

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Chapter One: The Difference Between Fast Seduction and Slow Seduction

First, If you're in a hurry, SKIP THIS CHAPTER, and go right to chapter two. I have a very specific goal for this chapter. I want to orient you a bit to the current dating and seduction literature and systems, and show you how slow seduction is different from fast seduction. If you're not in a hurry, READ THIS CHAPTER. It will be well worth your time. I'm not interested here in the “soap opera” aspects of the dating and attraction community – why Mystery no longer associates with themysterymethod.com, what happened between Ross Jeffries and “the Bishop”, whether Papa and Tyler ruined Project Hollywood or not, what David DeAngelo's motives were when he started “Double Your Dating”, or any of that stuff. You can read Neil Strauss's book “The Game” to get a start on that stuff, and visit various forums to try to catch up on the time since the end of the book. In this chapter, I want to briefly account for the origins of modern attraction theory and give an overview of some of the main styles of attraction and seduction, highlighting some of the major works in each style. There is a lot of excellent material out there that you really should get ahold of and read when you get a chance. There are two main styles for wooing women I want to discuss here. The first we'll call “Fast” seduction, and the second is “Slow” seduction.

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A. Fast Seduction Teachers (Ross, Mystery, and the rest) If you engage in Fast Seduction, your goal is to spend very little time from the point at which you meet a woman to the point at which you have sex with her. Mystery claims that if you choose carefully, you can pretty much seal the deal with a woman within 7-10 hours of meeting her. Some brag that they have had sex with a girl within 30 minutes of meeting her, though they will admit that this is extremely uncommon. I have some misgivings about making speed such a priority, but I'll wait until the next section to share my misgivings. For the purposes of this chapter, the fast seductin teachers will be divided into two camps: Ross Jeffries's camp, and Mystery's camp. There are other ways to classify these materials, and other classifications might be better for certain purposes. For instance, you could distinguish between those who primarily teach “inner game” from those who primarily teach “outer game”. Or “night game” and “day game”. Or, . . . whatever. None of these classifications will be perfect, though, partly because none of the distinctions is particularly sharp, and partly because most experts teach at least a little bit of all of it. Ross Jeffries and Mystery are the most recent godfathers of dating and seduction. There were others who went before, but these two, relatively independently, founded two of the main modern schools of fast seduction. Ross came first. Ross is responsible for coining the term “speed seduction”. Roughly speaking, Ross teaches men how to use language to move women from the state of nervous stranger to the state of wanton lust. He teaches men how to use “weasel phrases" and descriptive language. And, generally, he teaches men how to take and lead the woman's imagination. He borrows many techniques from neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), though he often wants to distance himself from some of the excesses of NLP. Ross also teaches men how to adopt certain frames of mind when dealing with women so that men can keep the power in the relationship for themselves, and not give it unnecessarily to the woman. Some others coming out of the “speed seduction” school include J.D. Fuentes, Michael “Bishop” Emery, Swinggcat, Major Mark, and David DeAngelo (though each departs from Ross significantly at places, and each emphasizes different

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An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner parts of Ross's system.) Now let's look quickly at Mystery. Mystery's mantra is “survival and replication”. He is the experimental evolutionary psychologist of the attraction and seduction community. He is also a tall, dark, mysterious magician with the charm of 5 men. Mystery has broken the seduction process down into stages. There are three main stages, with three sub stages in each main stage. A man under Mystery's tutelage is taught first to “spark attraction” then “build comfort”, and finally to “seduce”. Mystery frequently gives evolutionary rationales for the techniques he recommends, and he also provides ample anecdotal evidence. And, even though I encourage men to embrace "slower" seduction methods, I have incorporated Mystery's classification scheme directly into Alpha Male Planner -- because it's a very useful way to think about the process. Others coming more or less out of Mystery's school are Style (Neil Strauss), Lance Mason (at Pickup 101), and the folks at themysterymethod.com, such as Savoy, Sinn, Tenmagnet, and Future. Many techniques and routines are used in both kinds of fast seduction, and there is some overlap. I do not wish to entertain issues of priority. Ross surely invented some techniques, Mystery others, and some may have been invented independently by both, borrowed from the other without remembering, or borrowed by both from a common source. Any human being who has been involved in innovation knows how unclear issues of priority can become, even when all parties involved act with utmost integrity. The important thing for us is that there is a growing body of techniques for fast seduction, and the two camps are starting to merge to a large degree. The growing body of techniques include things like “negging”, bantering, telling stories, stealing the frame, controlling the frame, role playing, peacocking, using weasel phrases to embed commands, games, quizzes, cold reading, kino escalation, Amogging, “fractionation” (which is related to the “push-pull” or “pinch and pet” in other systems), and techniques for overcoming “last minute resistance”. I think a man interested in fast seduction (or slow seduction for that matter) would be remiss not to learn techniques from both schools. They can complement each other nicely. For instance, one might follow Mystery's classification scheme, and many of his techniques, while plugging in some of 5

An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner Ross's material and developing some of Ross's verbal skills. (Swinggcat and Bishop seem to have done this to a great extent, and to great effect). Fast Seduction Books, Audios, and Videos: I think there are a few works that are definitely worth your time and money, but this is from my perspective. You might place other works on the “essential” list, and I think there are many worth owning that are not on my short list. First, There's Mystery's classic book, The Venusian Arts Handbook. This is getting harder to find. Mystery has recently published another book called The Mystery Method, and you can get that on Amazon. Also, Nick Savoy, one of the main figures at themysterymethod.com has published a book called Magic Bullets, and this is excellent as well. It is firmly within the Mystery tradition, and goes beyond it at places. Second, Ross Jeffries's Basic Speed Seduction Home Study Course. This is very good, but you have to get comfortable learning in a “non-linear” manner. You really need to listen 3-4 times and organize things for yourself if you want to get a system out of it. That can be very worthwhile, though, as you'll undoubtedly add stuff from your own perspective in the process, and it will make it even more powerful for you. Third, Swinggcat has a great book called “Real World Seduction”, and there is an option to get an “audio” version. This is really an excellent piece of work. Swinggcat has an “aw shucks” kind of surfer-dude charm. (I think he sounds a lot like Keanu Reeves). It's very disarming, and makes it easy to learn from him. Swinggcat has a lot of material for you, but he is probably best known for emphasizing two particular concepts. First, he insists that you see yourself as the “prize” (and get her to see you as the prize, too, of course) -- that's his big “inner game” concept. Second, he advocates something called “push pull” -that's his big “outer game” concept. Excellent stuff. (BTW, Swinggcat has another product, "Sexual Connections", that is even better in my opinion.) Fourth, there's Michael “Bishop” Emery's “The Fire Of Seduction”. Bishop seems to have been marginalized to some degree within the seduction community, but I'm a big fan of his writings. FOS is an excellent book, from the same guy who wrote “Bishop's Journal”. In “Fire Of Seduction” Bishop seems to have abandoned some of the Ross Jeffries-style speed seduction techniques he used with marvelous success in “Bishop's Journal”. But one gets the feeling while reading the book that this is because he doesn't need women like he used to. Or, put another way, he can get all the women he needs without talking in poetic patterns (though he still does some of this, too). He seems to have arrived at a place where he can say, “hey, here's what I'm about, don't give me any crap, and you might be allowed to take an adventure with me.” And it seems to work. 6

An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner Along with a good manual, you get more of Bishop's famous journal entries. Fifth, there's J.D. Fuentes's “Sexual Key”. J.D. takes the NLP-type “speed seduction” languaging, and boils out some core elements that seem to make it easier to master the kind of communication involved in Speed Seduction®. If you use J.D.'s material, you will cause women from time to time to have an honest to goodness “deer in the headlights” look to them. Their breathing will change, and they will be in a pleasurable trance. You'll want to know some other techniques to take it from there, but it's a real trip just doing that. Sixth, David DeAngelo has some good material. He has the beginner book “Double Your Dating”, and he has many advanced materials, most in the form of videos. It's not clear that DeAngelo should be placed in the "fast" seduction camp at all, but he definitely came out of that camp, and still teaches many fast seduction techniques. There are many other excellent fast seduction products out there. Jon Alexander, Guy Gets Girl, Carlos Xuma's Alpha Male book, Juggler, etc. Fast Seduction Seminars I should note one other kind of fast seduction product. Seminars. There are two sources of seminars that I can highly recommend, because I have had some interaction with the staffs of the providers. First are the seminars offered at themysterymethod.com. Second are the seminars put on by Lance Mason and crew at Pickup 101. I have not taken a seminar myself, but I don't doubt their effectiveness. They are primarily for developing “fast game”, as opposed to “slow game”, but someone who is great at “fast game” is going to have a definite edge in “slow game” as well. At these seminars there is usually a bit of instruction coupled with “field trips”. These field trips can be on the street, or in a club, and the idea is to get practice approaching and talking with women under the watchful eye of a coach. If you want to be a legendary fast seduction artist, along the lines of Casanova or Don Juan, my advice is to start with a couple books like Mystery's “Venusian Arts Handbook”, and J.D. Fuentes's “Sexual Key” (or any of the others). Then take a seminar from themysterymethod.com or Pickup 101. Then practice approaching women a lot. Use the techniques at clubs, or in your every day life. Now, let's take a look at some of the problems with the Fast Seduction model.

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B. Some Problems with Fast Seduction: I have a few problems with the emphasis on speed. Here are a few of my complaints. When speed is the key, . . . 

. . . men tend to engage in more risky behavior and don't screen women for disease or mental illness. And it's not merely a private preference issue with me. I think more emphasis OUGHT to be placed on screening. We all have an interest in slowing the spread of STDs. You can't just pee on your end of the pool without it finding its way over to my end of the pool eventually.

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. . . men tend to treat women as mere sexual objects.

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. . . riskier social strategies are used that might burn bridges if used with women you know.

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. . . the focus tends to be on bars and night clubs instead of more ordinary meeting locations.

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. . . men are sometimes encouraged to use unnatural, and sometimes sneaky material (this is actually the least of my complaints).

Now, with that said, I think that even if you're interested in a slower, safer, more reasonable pace for wooing your women, the fast seduction gurus have a ton to teach you. And I would recommend reading most of the books mentioned above. Now, let's take a look at what I call "slow" seduction . . .

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C. Slow Seduction There is not nearly so much information on "slow" seduction, and that's too bad, because slow seduction is, in my opinion, even more fun than fast seduction. Though fast seduction skill always comes in handy even with slow seductions. Slow seduction seems somehow more satisfying to many men. Even if you can get a liquored up club girl into bed in 7-10 hours, sometimes it's more fun to play for a while -- with a quality woman. You don't let her have you for a while. You tease her. You try to drive her crazy for you. You see if you can get her to eventually lose all inhibition and literally attack you sexually at some point. Now that's fun! That's a more worthy kind of conquest. Much more satsifying in my view. A couple great books on the subject are Brett Tate's “The Professional Bachelor” and Robert Greene's “The Art Of Seduction”. Robert Greene's The Art Of Seduction is a fun book. Actually, I found it both fun and frustrating. He has these little red stories and quotes on the side of almost every page, so you can't just read the main text linearly without constantly having to decide when you want to read the red text. It's not that big a deal, though, you eventually develop a strategy and deal with it (I eventually decided to read the red text first, and then read the main text for a chapter). I suppose some people like the non-linear approach, but I'm not a big fan of it. I've also heard some say that Greene's book is a little repetitive, and that's probably true to some extent. However, the stories are truly golden. And they come from across the ages. After reading The Art Of Seduction you get a real sense for the universality of women and of the process of wooing them. I warn you, though. Some of the seductions in the book are extremely slow. Many of these men set their sights on one woman and work out masterful seductions sometimes lasting years. Now you've probably been warned against “one-itis”, and many of these men probably suffered from it to some extent. But you don't have to take your “oneitis” to an extreme. There's no reason you can't slowly and deliberately draw a particular “unattainable” woman into your web, as long as you don't make success with her your only goal. There's no reason you can't masterfully seduce that one woman who captures your attention like no other while attracting and dating

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An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner other women at the same time. Brett Tate's book, The Professional Bachelor, is a very fun read as well. Tate has a Ph.D. In psychology, and has been traveling the world womanizing for over 20 years. He has a lot of insight into women. Tate gives some general advice and then gets to the core of the book. In my opinion, the core of the book consists of two chapters. In the first core chapter he explains certain role playing routines to run (some of these, like the “Dumb as a fox” routine can last for months, and can draw many women simultaneously into your net. The second “core” chapter profiles different kinds of women, and gives advice about how to game different women in different ways. This stuff works. Some women respond to “similarity” and others “difference”. You need to know which is which, or you'll be swimming upstream if you get it wrong. There hasn't been as much “slow game theory” as there has been fast seduction theory. But there has been some. One thing the “slow gamers” do more of than the fast seducers do is profiling women. This is a crucial skill that can be easily missed. Both Greene and Tate profile their targets with their own profiling scheme. And Tate's types are an integral part of the Alpha Male planner. In the next section I'm going to explain three concepts that are probably fairly new to most people, primarily because they apply more to slow game than to fast game. And they are made even more effective by the Alpha Male Planner tools.

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Chapter Two: Three NEW Ideas in Slow Seduction

I want to discuss three “new” concepts. The word “new” is in quotes because the concepts probably aren't really new, but they haven't been emphasized in quite the way I want to emphasize them. Part of the reason they haven't been emphasized is because they primarily “slow” seduction concepts, and most of the recent writing has focused on fast seduction. The three concepts are these: ●

Concentric Harems

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Simultaneous Slow Seduction

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Profiling

Let's take a look at each in turn.

A. Concentric Harems: DEFINITION: A man has a set of concentric harems when he has many women organized in the following way: 1.They are at various levels of involvement (see below) 2.They move progressively from outer levels to inner levels. 11


Among the levels for concentric harems are: interesting

stranger

acquaintance, mutual

attraction,

emotional some

physical intimacy,

sexual Long

connection,

relationship.

term relationship

In addition to these progressive categories, a man might have women in other categories (e.g., friends, x-girlfriends, and acquaintances with whom no further advancement is desired.) These are “outlying categories” and are not part of a man's system of concentric harems. A visual representation concentric harems appears on the next page :

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Concentric Harems Illustrated Figure 1: A set of concentric harems.

The reason the harems are “concentric” is because the categories more or less exhibit a “containment” relationship. Those who are at deeper levels (closer to the center) also count as members of shallower levels (closer to the periphery). (E.g, a woman with whom you have an emotional connection counts as an acquaintance, but the reverse isn't necessarily the case).

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An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner The containment relationship isn't perfect in practice. For instance, it's possible to have a sexual relationship without having an emotional connection, but the scheme works well enough, and is typical of most relationships. Typically there are more women in the earlier categories, and the process resembles a funnel. (Or kind of an upside-down funnel in the diagram above). More women will count as acquaintences than will count as having a mutual attraction relationship with you. There will be more mutual attraction relationships than emotional connection relationships, and so on. Alpha Male Planner allows you to know where in the process every woman in your realm is. And that helps you know which attraction, comfort, or seduction material to create for each. It would be very difficult to make the most of your concentric harems without a tool like Alpha Male Planner. And that's probably why the concept hasn't been taught much in the past. Now, the best thing about knowing the state of your concentric harems is the way in which it facilitates the wonderful practice of simultaneous slow seduction.

B. Simultaneous Slow Seduction Simultaneous Slow Seduction is the practice of seducing multiple women at the same time over a period of days, weeks, and months. NOTE: You don't have to sleep with all of them. In fact, you shouldn't. It's nice to keep many waiting in the wings. Let's look at how this can work, and why it's so much fun. Take a look around you as you go throughout your day. You probably have many interesting strangers in your midst. Now if you think you have to take just one of those beautiful strangers from being a stranger to being in your bed in 710 hours, it can be a little overwhelming. But what if, instead, your initial goal is just to turn 10 of those strangers into acquaintances? You approach them with no other goal than to chat for 5 minutes and get them to the point where they would wave and say hi if they ran across you again. Think you can do that?

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When you keep your interactions less ambitious, you can move girls from your stranger harem to your acquaintance harem without much trouble. You also will have a lot of success, because you're not taking things very far. Another benefit is that you'll come off looking strong, because you will be able to determine when to cut off the conversation. Preferably, you will cut it off at a point where the woman is starting to enjoy the conversation. That will leave her wanting more. In fact, it really pays to master the art of “cliffhangers” when you are doing simultaneous slow seduction. Intentionally leave some of your best stories unfinished. Inject teasers into your stories and then let the women know you don't have time to tell them that “other” story. Soon you will have dozens of women in your world “wanting more”. You will also become very good at getting women to find you interesting, because you will be approaching them all the time with no fear. This provides a lot of benefit for you. Not least of which is social proof. Now when you go throughout your day you have beautiful girls saying “hi” to you, and maybe even stopping to chat for a few minutes. This says volumes to other women in the neighborhood, and makes it even easier to make acquaintances out of them. Now, let's suppose you have a few dozen women in your acquaintance harem. Perhaps even by accident some of those women will be attracted to you. In that case they are also in your “mutual attraction” harem. And you can also work on moving some of the other women in your “acquaintance” harem into your “mutual attraction” harem by bantering with them, teasing them, and running attraction routines on them. Just give them a little at a time, and always leave them “wanting more”. The benefit of mastering new material: One benefit of building up your concentric harems in this way is that it makes it easy to master new material. Suppose you craft a new attraction-oriented story, and you want to get it down. Well, since you have dozens of women in your acquaintance harem, you have dozens of women you can tell the story to. And with Alpha Male Planner, you can record which women you have told the story to, and jot down a few notes about how it went, and how you might want to change the story for even more effect.

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An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner Now suppose you've got 40 acquaintances, and 10 women attracted to you. Surely you can sit and have a more intimate chat with some of those women in your attraction harem. That gives you a chance to work on your “emotional connection” material, and move women into your “emotional connection” harem. The "Inner Game" benefit: Another benefit of doing simultaneous slow seductions with concentric harems is that it's great for your inner game. Suppose you have an emotional connection with 10 women, and you start trying to get some of them alone to embark on some physical intimacy. What's the worst thing that can happen? The first one says you are moving too fast and she just wants to be friends. No big deal for you. You have 9 other women waiting to spend more time with you. Eventually you move a woman all the way, and you have a regular sexual partner. And you can conduct the relationship on your terms, because you are in a position to insist on it. You are not needy. If they insist on getting jealous when you flirt with other women, or start taking your for granted, you can tell them what your terms are, and you won't flinch because there are plenty of women around willing to play by your rules. Again, Alpha Male Planner allows you to do all this very efficiently. And every once in a while you can click on the “view my harems” tab and survey your kingdom. That will give you a very powerful feeling. To do this most effectively, and to manage the largest funnel possible, you need specialized software to integrate your journaling and your planning. Let me summarize the benefits of using concentric harems to conduct simultaneous slow seductions: It

improves your inner game.

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involves lower social risk in every day contexts. (You don't want to “shit in your own bed” by using aggressive night club techniques in the coffee shop you always go to). It

provides immense Social Proof.

You

can be more picky and avoid the women who pose higher psycho and disease risks. You

can quickly build your routine stacks, and get new material down quickly, because you know which women in your realm are at a stage 16

An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner where your new material would be appropriate. You can practice “downstream” material without having to go through a whole seduction every time. You

will start to see every woman in your realm as being in your harem in one way or another. This gives you an almost “God-like” selfconfidence. In fact, every once in a while you should just survey every woman in a public place, and say to yourself under your breath “you're in my harem, baby, whether you know it or not. You're mine.” You

can select the path of least resistance, and plan to meet the women who seem most ready to move to the next level. Now, let's take a look at a third key concept for slow seduction:

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C. Profiling The third “new” concept is that of improving your game and your profiling skills simultaneously. In order to illustrate the importance of this, consider the following chart. Number Of Approaches You Can Convert Out Of 1000 Profiling Ability (percentage of bad bets you can rule out ) Poor (1/1000) Game: (percentage of Good (1/100) blind approaches you could convert) Great (1/10)

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50%

90%

1

2

10

10

20

100

100

200

1000

Figure 2: number of approaches you can convert out of 1000. This is an artificial example meant to illustrate the relationship between your ability to profile women and your skills as a general seducer. I don't really want to quibble about the exact numbers. Suppose your game is either poor (in which case you can convert only 1 in 1000 blind walkups), good (in which case you can convert 1 in 100 blind walkups) or great (in which case you can convert 1 in 10 blind walkups.) Now those numbers might seem low, but consider what I mean by “blind”. Blind approaches are the situation when you have absolutely no profiling abilities. This is unrealistic. We all have some profiling abilities to start with. But to illustrate, just imagine a case where you have no profiling ability whatsoever. You don't have the ability to assess the situation or the woman at all. So you will approach nuns, pregnant women with their Black-Belt-in-Jiu-Jitsu husbands, girls in bible studies, old ladies, normal single girls, as well as the occasional lonely girl in a night club. In the boxes are the number of successes you will have after approaching 1000 women. In the case where you are blind, and have no ability to rule out any “low probability” women or situations, you will convert 1 approach with poor skill, 10 approaches with good skill, and 100 approaches with great skill. 18


Now consider what happens when you add in the ability to rule out low probability women and situations. That is when you stop hitting on the nuns, and get more picky about which kind of women you approach. With “Good” profiling skill you are able to rule out as low probability, let's say, 50% of the women and situations. So you never approach these women in these situations. You don't waste your time. Now, if you make 1000 approaches, you will convert 2 with poor skill, 20 with good skill, and 200 with great skill. And with “excellent” profiling skill, let's say, you can rule out 90% of the women and situations as being low probability. You can always tell what kind of woman responds to approaches in certain situations, and so on. Now, even with poor skills, you will convert 10 approaches. With good skills, you will convert 100 approaches, and with great skill, you will convert all 1000, because you have perfect profiling skills (you know which kinds of women will respond to you), and you have perfect game. Now, if that's not clear, go back and re-read it, because I'm about to tell you the important part of all this. Notice what happens if you ONLY work on your general skills, or you ONLY work on your profiling ability. If you work only on your general gaming skills, and not on your profiling ability, and you get really, really good, you will get 100/1000 women you approach. (only 10%) If you work only on your profiling ability, and not on your skills, you will convert 10/1000 approaches. (only 1%) If you work on both at the same time, developing great game, and perfect profiling ability, you can get to the point where you convert almost every single approach you make. Here's a dirty little secret. The pickup gurus who talk about converting “5 for 5” don't just have great game; they also have great profiling skills. They can walk into a room, size up the women in it, and pretty much know which women will fall prey to their charms. In other words, they probably wouldn't be 5 for 5 approaching only nuns one after another as they randomly walk out of mass -- though don't be surprised if they get 1 or 2 :-) But profiling doesn't get talked about much. Part of it is because you can't help but get a little better at profiling as you get better game and more experience. We just naturally start profiling to some degree.

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An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner But there's no reason to have to re-invent the wheel, when others have learned a ton about women already. You can accelerate your progress if you consciously try to improve your profiling skills simultaneously with improving your general game. And if we all share our profiling observations with one another, we will collectively amass and codify more profiling knowledge than any one individual could on his own. Start paying attention to the types of women who respond to different kinds of approaches and routines. With some, you will just want to rule them out altogether, in any circumstance. With others you will want to learn how to match your approach to the woman and the situation to maximize your chance of success. To get started, pick up Tate's book and Greene's book, and start practicing profiling women according to the schemes they give you. And please note that AMP codes routines by stage of seduction AND type of woman. This allows you to develop along both dimensions simultaneously, so maybe you can even get to the point where you almost never miss. AMP comes loaded with Tate's types, but you can tag your women with your own profiling scheme if you prefer. I predict that eventually a consensus scheme will emerge from the community, and then seduction science will really take off. If you want to learn more about concentric harems, simultaneous slow seduction, and a planning system that makes it all work like a charm, please visit http://www.alphamaleplanner.com Thanks. Sincerely, T.P.

BONUS SECTION Here are some of the ways the Alpha Male Planner can help you with fast seduction and slow seduction: How AMP helps with Fast Seduction Here are some of the ways the Alpha Male Planner will help you with fast seduction: −It

will facilitate practice. If you learn a new opener or story, for instance, 20

An Introduction to Slow Seduction -- from Alpha Male Planner you can practice it on all the women you know, and keep track of who has heard it and who hasn't. Even if you plan to use it in night clubs, you can still practice during the day with the women who happen to be around. −It

will allow you to find new routines. The routine database is already large and is growing. It is fully searchable, and is organized in very useful ways. Find routines by: The

stage of the seduction you are in

The

kind of woman you are with

The

style of seduction you are conducting

How

highly the community has rated the routine

Custom Who

tags and reviews

the author of the routine is

etc. −It

will allow you to find routines that others have used with success. For every public routine you can see which other AMP members list that routine in their repertoire. There is also a section on the page that tells you “Members who list this routine also list these routines:” followed by a list of the most common routines used by members who use the routine you are considering (a la Amazon.com). −It

allows you to record all the things that happened on day one, so you can prepare for your “day twos”. −It

also gives you resources to plan for day two. You can plan which routines to run, find new routines, etc. −You

can review your own field reports to notice patterns and develop your game, or you can read other members' field reports to learn and get inspiration from them. −You

can get help from others and give help to them. As long as you're not going for the same woman, it's always a win-win when you help another alpha male with his game and he helps you. −You'll

almost certainly want to keep some of the girls in your life, and AMP will help you manage your growing harem. 21


- And more. How AMP helps with Slow Seduction −It

gives you all the same functions that help with fast game, PLUS . . .

−It

allows you to have short interactions with women over many days and keep track of your progress with minimal fuss. −It

allows you to work many women in this way simultaneously.

−This

allows you to build “concentric harems” of women in your life. Then you can just gently nudge a few women per day a little closer to your inner-most harem – the “inner sanctum”. You are like a massive black hole slowly sucking many women at once in your direction. They orbit gently for a while before being sucked in and utterly consumed. −You

can look at your concentric harems visually to facilitate big picture thinking and planning. −You

still draw from the same large database of routines, and still plan for each woman the same way, but you only have to plan one step at a time if that's how you're playing the game. −This

encourages you to often leave on a “high note” instead of lingering too long. −You

might make better decisions about women, because you give yourself more time to rule out women who are trouble, instead of allowing yourself to get swept up in your own fast seduction. −You

will be able to produce very interesting field reports – many at the same time, in fact. And AMP will keep all the individual stories straight and integrate them with the routines you've used. That's something you really can't do very well with a paper and pencil journal. −And

so on . . .

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