Set It and Forget It Small by Eric Ho

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Set It And Forget It The Law Of Attraction ERIC HO

CHAPTER ONE

A lot of people look and stare at their bank balance. That is focus and in theory, what we focus on expands…but how come our bank balance does not expand? This is because we are hold-

ing on, this is an attachment and the laws of the universe doesn’t work on that principal.

How many times have we let it go? Let go of our attachment to the outcome and suddenly we see it in our lives. I experienced this for the first time in my career at the age of 24 in the steel industry where I put all the hard work in, with no expectation that it was going to have the monetary outcome that it did. Then all of a sudden, BOOM! I checked my bank account in astonishment, counting

the zeroes over and over while rubbing my eyes in total disbelief.

How many times does this happen within relationships? We

hold on so tight needing to find the right one, we keep holding onto that perfect outcome and nothing comes. The moment we

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let go of that thought the person appears in our lives in the most

unexpected places.

This phenomenon recently happened in another project I started

called the MM Revelation (www.mmrevelation.com). From just a simple thought of wanting to help people with their health and wealth I had no idea what this revelation would have resulted in. Low and behold, 8 weeks into starting the project we grew an idea into a community of over 1000 thought leaders and like minded individuals which generated over 3.5 MILLION DOLLARS…

While this may sound like a simple principle, the laws that are in place to allow this phenomenon to happen need to be practiced. That is the reason why I decided to write this short book so I can outline the 7 laws o the universe that need to be in your awareness

for this manifestation process to start working for you.

When I speak of laws, I mean laws. These laws are not adaptable, changeable, or influenced by opinion or choice. This is how

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the universe works and you choosing to not believe in it is ine too. However, you cannot deny that they are working in every moment o every day just like The Law o Gravity. We are governed by it and

we can only work with it.

Setting it:

The process of setting a goal, intention, or a desired outcome consists of the first 4 laws: Law of Intention Law of Clarity Law of Emotion Law of Focus

Forgetting it:

Forgetting it consists of the remaining 3 laws outlined within this book. Law of Detachment Law of Trust Law of Allowing

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CHAPTER TWO

The Law of Intention:

We need to have a goal in mind. As they say, a journey without a goal is like you getting into a car, driving in an unknown territory,

not setting your GPS and expecting to magically appear at your desired destination.

How do we go about setting a goal? 1. Think it: Everything starts from thought. Always remember

that there is nothing in this world, no thing that exists without thought. The chair you are sitting on now the clothes that you are wearing, the location you are at, everything in existence around you cannot be there if nobody put thought into it.

2. Write it down: Through Napoleon Hill’s decades of research into the minds o successul people he ound that the act o writing your goals down, solidiy the goal. Almost like taking some thought

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that is just up in the air and grounding it. The vibrational requency

is then set in stone.

3. Speak it: Words and vocalising all hold a vibrational requency.

When we speak it out it not only holds a vibrational requency that

runs through all the cells of our body, it also then transcends that higher vibration out to the Oneness of this universe. This means that your message is heard and allows the universe to respond to your vibration amongst all the other vibrations from the trillions of living cells around us.

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CHAPTER THREE

The Law of Clarity:

Clarity is power. This process holds two main functions. 1. To solidiy the goal, so that every step-by-step can be seen and

elt to create the vibrational path to take us to where we want to be.

2. Without clarity we do not have belie and are unable to activate the trust process o maniestation. Understand one simple principle,

belie leads to action, and action gives us results. Everything starts

from belief and without belief we would never take action, thus never attaining our results. So to build this belief we need to use

the process of chunking. To be able to take our big goal and break it down into bite sized step-by-step goals so we can clearly see the path in which will take us to our goal.

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CHAPTER FOUR

The Law of Emotion:

The universe does not answer to words but answers to emotions. Emotions are what creates strong vibrational frequencies, therefore getting the message out there.

That’s why so many people put up vision boards, make declara-

tions and speak out intentions everyday but wonder why they are not attracting the things they want. It is because the universe is not responding to the words or pictures but will always respond to emotions that are attached to the words and pictures. So what can we do?

Two simple ways for you to practice: 1. Visualise

Take yourself into the desired reality, the ‘as if’ state. As if it is all happening for you already. By putting yourself into a simple visualisation, bring in your senses. Smell it, hear it, taste it, feel it 17

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as if it’s happening right now. That will help build the emotional vibrations towards your goal.

2. Ask ‘WHY?’

Say your goal, ask yourself why you want it and keep asking, keep digging for that answer until you start building up the root reason as to why you want it, usually this will be down to fulfilling one or more o your core needs. This is what Tony Robbins reers to as the 6 basic human needs. The need or certainty, variety, growth,

love and connection, significance, and contribution.

Then finally, finish of by asking yourself ‘how would this make me feel?’ Then feel it! True Example (from my 24 year old self): I want an Aston Martin. Why? Because I like it! Why? Because it makes me feel good to have one! Why? Because I want to show people that I’ve made it! Why and how would this make you feel? 18


Because then I would feel important, feel special, feel like I’ve achieved in life. (SIGNIFICANCE) Now feel it, ‘as if’. Allow that emotion to build.

E-motion is Energy in Motion. What does this mean? It means

that when we get emotional about something it creates motion and drives us to taking action. And on an energetic level, I want you to see that emotion creates energy in motion. The energy is then

moving and connects with the entire movement of the universe

and becomes one with it. Thus connected and manifests what you want in life.

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CHAPTER FIVE

The Law of Focus:

Where focus goes, energy flows and results show. What we focus on expands. This is in every area of our lives and we must understand this law.

So many people say don’t put all of your eggs in one basket but yet if you look back in history, every success story came from

focusing on one goal only. Richard Branson may have over 400 businesses today but it all started from putting all of his focus on just one business ‘Virgin Records’ until it became a huge success and generating millions, then becoming self-suﬀicient. Only then did Branson divert his focus.

So many creative minds today say ‘I am the ideas person’ most o them don’t have results because all they think about is new ideas.

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Understand that by putting more of your time, money and energy into one thing, the more that energy focuses and expands. Just like when you take a magniying glass under the sun to magniy

the rays and focus it on paper, that focused energy expands and creates fire, the result.

Focus all of your thoughts, energy and action on one thing.

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CHAPTER SIX

Forgetting it: Law of detachment:

Now that you have the intentions set, the clarification and clarity of how to achieve it, the focus, energy and action in place, it’s time to let go.

How many times have you really wanted something so bad, you

hold onto the outcome, desperate to make sure it happens and it just DOES NOT HAPPEN?

This happens in business. You are desperate for money, you keep checking your bank account and you keep seeing little or no progress. This happens in relationships. You really want the person

you like to respond to you. You keep checking your phone and still no message. This happens with parenting. You have expectations or your child and the more you try to hold onto that outcome they rebel. But the interesting thing is this, it’s always at the times when

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you’re not thinking or ocusing on the outcome, all o the times you

have let go of expectations, the magic happens.

The money came into your bank account rom some other source

that you completely forgotten about. The guy finally messages you back, your kids get some proud results for you to see. This is

the part of law of attraction that a lot of people miss out on. Most

people believe it’s all about focus and continuous focus on the goal and thinking about it and visualising the outcome over and over in desperation and almost fear. These are one of the lowest vibrational frequencies that exist, whereas on the opposite side of the spectrum, the most powerful frequencies are that of Love and Peace. When we are at peace, we are most connecting to the source and everything around us.

We already know that we have the right strategies in place because we went through the whole process of setting the goal from thought into action. So now enjoy just ‘knowing’ that the outcome will be there, knowing without ego, knowing without ‘needing’ the

outcome. Let go!

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CHAPTER SEVEN

The Law of Trust:

The opposite of trust is fear.

On a physical level, ear stops action. On an energetic level, ear

is one of the lowest vibrational frequencies. Both does not work for us in obtaining our goals.

We can be certain that if we were able to have 100% belief in the process that there will be a lot more action and thereore much

more likely to get our results. However for most people the 100% belief isn’t there. Some people say it is there, but I believe that it is just on a conscious level. However, the other 90% o which belongs

to our subconscious is fearing, and doubting.

Let me give you an example:

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Since I was asked to be a Shark on US T.V show Shark Tank 2 years ago, so many people have been coming to hear me speak at events all around the world wanting to pitch their business idea to me in need or investment. One common dialogue would sound like this and you may be able to relate with this on a personal level.

“Hey Eric, I have an amazing multi-million dollar idea and I think you will love it.” “Oh really? Why do you want to tell me about it?” “Because I need an investor for it.” “Oh, so if I’m hearing right it’s not really a million dollar idea,

because it is lacking the most crucial part of starting a business which is the investment.”

“No Eric, you don’t understand the idea is amazing and I’m certain it would work.” “Wow, that’s great! So my advice is this. If you are certain that it will work then I don’t think you should include me in the deal, because if you do you will need to give me a high percentage of your business. If you know and are 100% certain that it will work

then you should keep the 100% for yourself.” “But I need the investment for it.” “Very simple. Go take a loan, go remortgage your house, go sell your car and all of your belongings, go take out every credit card

loan you can possibly apply for, go borrow from all of your friends and family. And then when you put all of this in your business and

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keep it all to yourself and I have no doubt you will be able to pay

all debts oﬀ.”

Don’t tell me that if you were 100% certain of the outcome you wouldn’t do that? The biggest problem is that you are certain when

you want to risk my money but when you need to risk your own money then you are no longer certain about your idea!

Every opportunity that I have dived into myself, until today I have never been 100% certain. There is always risk. But then again i we don’t take action we are even more at risk. Risk that we never even lived or tried. So where does trust come rom and how can we build that trust to be able to be at peace and allow or the universe

to work its magic?

2 main places: 1. Master the form and flow with the formless. This is one of the key principles I teach at my signature event

Super Power LIVE. People always say just flow in life, be yourself! But the problem is ‘we only flow with what we know.’

I what we know is ear, by being ourselves, we low and attract

more fear. The things we don’t know, everything outside of our awareness, we cannot possibly flow with. For example, if 7 years

ago you were to say to me “Eric, go up and speak on stage, just be yourself and flow with it.” Number one, being the shy boy growing 27

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up I would have never gone up and would have freaked out with just the thought of it. If I proceeded, and gone up anyway, I would have been all over the place.

The reason why I am now able to do 72 shows a year, sharing the stage with great leaders like Richard Branson and James Caan without fearing, is because I first Mastered the Form! This is explained in my upcoming book called “Master The Form and Flow

With The Formless”. Like everything in lie we don’t get what we preach we get what

we practice. So, the way to build your trust in a certain situation is to have played the game a thousand times beore. But understand and accept one thing, that i you have never played the game beore,

it will be uncomortable. Accept that this is part o the process and

the journey of your own personal growth. The magic is outside of our comfort zone. So feel the fear and do it anyway. Understand that the more we do, the easier this trust in the process will become

going forward. To activate peace, just breathe.. (Just Breathe, third book in the series)

2. The question really is, what and who are we to not trust? If

we start understanding creation and that everything that is, and has been created is by that o an ininite power that is much greater

than you, me, and everything around us then who and what are we to say that we have control.

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Let go o control and just trust. Trust in what? You may ask, trust in that greater power, the thing that created you me and everything

around us, call it God, call it the universe, call it the Big Bang if you wish. Whatever you name it there is one thing that we can’t deny, is that its power is far greater than any human being. We think we have the power to control…but how? It doesn’t matter how much we play it sae, we cannot even be certain what is going to happen in the next moment. Or that our physical being will still be in existence

in the next moment. How many time have you seen people who hold on and try to control or fight for a situation and the outcome is opposite to what they wanted? In fact the biggest problem that most people have with The Law of Attraction is not with not being able to attract the things they want in lie but that they don’t realise they are attracting everything they don’t want in lie. The opposite

of trust is fear. When we fear we think and we apply emotion to it. That is manifestation in the works. So we don’t really have a choice but to trust. A great saying by Gabby Bernstein is, “in every situation we have when we are feeling uneasy or indecisive, ask yourself one question, if you could choose to listen to the teacher of fear or the teacher of love right now which one would you listen to? Take a deep breathe in and listen to what love would tell you

to do or how love would teach you to feel. Just trust.”

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CHAPTER EIGHT

And finally.. The Law of Allowing:

Understand and know that everything is exactly the way it is supposed to be. Come to acceptance that this is the ultimate reality. We have no choice over this matter. What is, is. So what does this mean?

Now that we have set our intentions, understand our plan of action, put our action in progress, let go of our expectation of the outcome and trust there will be 2 main attractions that will come our way.

1. The negative: the things we don’t want in life. Allow. Understand yin and yang, the world of duality is what we live in. We cannot have light if we don’t have darkness. Everything that happens in life and has happened has happened for a reason. The key is 31

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behind the attitude you have when you respond to it. Do you see problems as pain, or do you see challenges as a path for you to grow and become a bigger version of yourself? When negative or unwanted situations occur in our lives, see the positive light at the

end of it. Focus on the positive not the negative as what we focus on expands. Practice the power o non-reaction, don’t ight, accept and allow that this is part o the path that takes us to exactly where

we are supposed to be.

2. The positive: this may seem apparent to what we should do in the positive situations is to celebrate and enjoy but one of the

biggest problems I see with people and The Law of attraction is not that they haven’t attracted what they want but is that when they’ve attracted it they can’t see it to accept it. At Super Power LIVE

I talk about how ‘Selling is Serving’. If you have a great product or service or something that you really believe can change someone’s

life, the only way for you to change their lives is to sell the thing to them. If they don’t buy into it, you cannot possible serve them.

Let’s say or example, you had some miracle alkaline water that could help prevent diseases or recoup someone’s health, even i you

recognise someone in need of it, if you can’t sell the idea to them they will never be able to drink and benefit from this opportunity. But the biggest problem is that most people resist against selling, therefore resisting against being served. Opportunities that come our way are the result of the attraction sequence that we put out to the universe. But the way opportunities can be brought to us through the human form is through another human being selling to us. Therefore, if we hold negativity behind being sold to, we will 32


always resist and reject the response of the universe to what you once asked for.

The final point is to understand that the Law of Attraction will work or you and will deliver what you ask or but the real question

is, are you open to receiving it? This may sound like an obvious action but is also the biggest problem I see with people and you may be able to relate to this.

I was brought up in the UK in a Chinese culture. And the Chinese

have their interesting culture when it comes to paying for food in restaurants. When I was younger my mum and dad would always teach me the importance of giving. And so every time we go to eat they would fight to pay for every auntie and uncles bills around us. And this ighting or the bill will happen every time. And there’s something with giving and receiving. The dominant givers would

always win. But the interesting thing is this, the dominant givers while satisfying their need for contribution a lot of the time start to see a lack in their lives. I remember in a car journey home one

day when I was 10. I was sat in the back listening to Mum and Dad talking in frustration about an uncle that never pays for the bills. Perspective is an interesting thing, because from my perspective that uncle always tried to give and ight or the bill it’s just Mum and Dad never allowed that to happen this complaining about the lack.

If you are one who knows that you really enjoy giving but not such a good receiver, then come to this awareness and be at peace

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cannot have i you do not receive. I whenever you give to someone and you eel happy then why are you stopping others rom satisy-

ing that need for contribution. But most importantly why are you stopping energy in low. What comes in must go out and what goes

out must come in. Allow everything to be the way it is supposed to be. Allow for creation, allow for manifestation allow for energy in flow and allow the universe to work its magic.

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