Secrets of Same Night Lays

T HE C HARMING ROGUE™ Presents:

SECRETS OF SAME NIGHT LAYS

By Adonis

The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    CHARMING ROGUE.COM™   

Published by the Adonis Method Limited Liability Company  Las Vegas, NV, United States of America  http://charmingrogue.com      Original Material Copyright © 2009 by Adonis and Adonis Method LLC      First Edition; Published February 200All rights reserved. No part of this  book may be reproduced in any form or by any electronic or mechanical  means, including information storage and retrieval systems, without  permission in writing from the publisher, except by a reviewer who may  quote brief passages for review. This book is sold subject to the condition  that it shall not, by way of trade or otherwise, be lent, re‐sold, hired out,  or otherwise circulated without the publishers consent in any form of  binding or cover other than that in which it is published. 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays   

 

 

Table of Contents  The 7‐Hour Rule ......................................................................................................................................................... 6  Reasons You Should Aim For SNL....................................................................................................................... 7 

Attraction Game.......................................................................................................... 9  Logistics .................................................................................................................... 12  Women Want Sex More Than You Do ............................................................................................................ 12  Inner Game ................................................................................................................................................................ 14  Getting SNLs Ultimately Comes Down To Logistics. ................................................................................ 15  Blow Me or Blow Me Out!.................................................................................................................................... 21  The 5 Objections ....................................................................................................... 23  The 5 Objections...................................................................................................................................................... 25  Storytelling ................................................................................................................................................................ 26  Playful Screening..................................................................................................................................................... 28  Random Scenarios..................................................................................................... 29  Women In Relationships Or Marriage ........................................................................................................... 29  You Are In A Serious Relationship................................................................................................................... 31  Vacations .................................................................................................................................................................... 32  Girls Met Online ....................................................................................................................................................... 33  Sexual Tension .......................................................................................................... 36  Jealousy Plotlines.................................................................................................................................................... 38  Arbitrary Boundaries ............................................................................................................................................ 39  Sexual Framing.......................................................................................................... 41  Cognitive Dissonance ............................................................................................................................................ 41  Frames To Set For SNL ......................................................................................................................................... 43  “We Don’t Count” .................................................................................................................................................... 44  Passive Acceptance/Compliance ..................................................................................................................... 45  Blame All Flirtations On Her .............................................................................................................................. 46  Qualification .............................................................................................................................................................. 47 

 

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“Why Are Vegas Girls So Friendly?”................................................................................................................ 48  “You Look Just Like….”.......................................................................................................................................... 49  Strawberry Fields ................................................................................................................................................... 50  The Sad Story............................................................................................................................................................ 53  Default Moves........................................................................................................................................................... 57 

Escalation.................................................................................................................. 62  Escalation By Movement ..................................................................................................................................... 64  Don't Make Out In The Venue............................................................................................................................ 64  Takeaways ................................................................................................................................................................. 66  Special Kino Escalation Moves .......................................................................................................................... 67  NLP‐Based Seduction................................................................................................. 69  CaptainJack’s Ring Finger Routine .................................................................................................................. 70  Ambiguities................................................................................................................................................................ 73  Sexually Charged Vocabulary ............................................................................................................................ 75  Closing Tactics ........................................................................................................... 77  “Le Chateau”.............................................................................................................................................................. 77  Avoid “The Bounce” ............................................................................................................................................... 78  “Skow!” ........................................................................................................................................................................ 79  Get Her Friends Permission ............................................................................................................................... 82  Baby‐Stepping .......................................................................................................................................................... 83  “I’m Not Going To Sleep With You” ................................................................................................................. 84  Objection Removal ................................................................................................................................................. 85  She Wants To Hook Up ......................................................................................................................................... 86  She Wants You To Drop Her Off At Her House........................................................................................... 86  Fear of The Empty Apartment........................................................................................................................... 87  Get Out There! .......................................................................................................... 90   

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays                      Warning: This book is NOT a beginner’s guide. If your game is such that you  cannot currently attract and seduce women consistently, this guide will NOT be  very beneficial for you. If you cannot already get women into bed in a  “reasonable” timeline, this guide will NOT be the magic bullet that instantly  transforms you into the Charming Rogue™ who can! I will, however, recommend  some excellent places to learn solid attraction game in a further section, so you  can get the fundamentals down and later put the additional techniques  described in this book into practice. For those that have solid fundamentals,  however, this IS the guide that will ensure you never have to leave the bar alone  again. 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays          Several months ago, a fellow Charming Rogue™ I had gone out with several times  had observed how frequently my nights ended in Same Night Lays (SNLs). He took  me to lunch one day to pick my brain on how I accomplished this with such  consistency.  At that point in time, I had not really thought much about how I was  able to get SNLs so frequently.  I was merely following the maxim I have oft been  quoted as saying:      “If you want to get the girl, you need to sleep with her as quickly as possible.”     I absolutely believe this maxim to be true. I have noticed that if I don’t get a girl into  bed within a week or so of meeting her, it rarely happens at all. I’m not saying this is  always the case, but in my experience (and in the experience of the Charming  Rogues™ I have discussed this topic with) this is more often than not true.     Getting SNLs is the ultimate form of obeying my above‐mentioned maxim. There  isn’t much sooner than getting a girl into bed the night you met her.    As a result of this conversation, I set forth to break down exactly what I do to  achieve this goal. This book is the result. 

 

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The 7Hour Rule    Mystery, from VenusianArts.com, is certainly a world‐class seducer and arguably the  greatest Charming Rogue™ in the world, so when he came up with the 7hour rule  for his M3 Model of Seduction, it was easy to take this rule as a given. The rule states  that it takes 7 hours with a woman to build enough comfort with her to have sex.    The 7hour rule seems plausible because some women do seem to need several  hours of comfort building using the M3 paradigm. However, the magical number of  hours necessary, 7, was derived completely arbitrarily out of Mystery’s experience  with seducing women at the time and doesn’t really have much bearing in actual  fact.    I have been getting Same Night Lays (SNLs) consistently for several years now so in  my experience and in the experience of other Charming Rogues™ who consistently  get them, the 7hour rule wouldn’t even make sense. Let’s say I go to a bar at 10 p.m.  and by 11 p.m. I meet a girl who has the logistics necessary for SNL. By the 7Hour  Rule, I would not be able to have sex with her until 6 a.m.!    This is crazy because by 6 a.m., I am off in a blissful post‐coital slumber, or I’m on  round 2 or 3 with the beautiful woman I have decided to share the night with. This is  not just my experience, but also the experience of any Charming Rogue™ who has   

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mastered the art of SNLs. So the choice is yours, heed the 7hour rule, and get the girl  somewhere down the line, or break it and get her that very night. It’s up to you.    Oh, and don’t worry about buyer’s remorse or “fool’s mate”, as Mystery referred to  the act of getting a girl into bed in under 7 hours that leads her to regretting her  decision to sleep with you: I have almost never experienced this even when getting a  woman into bed in under an hour.      This is not a book about One Night Stands where you get the girl into bed only the  day you meet her.  Follow my advice and you can sleep with this woman as many  times as you want to after the first night, if you’re so inclined.   

Reasons You Should Aim For SNL    Women of exceptional beauty and talent (i.e. the only women I go for) get  approached constantly and are consistently meeting new prospects. Wait too  long to sleep with her and the sexual tension and emotional value you have created  will likely dissipate or she will get involved with someone else.    You may have been doing great with her in the moment—she was attracted and she  wanted to have sex with you—but when nothing happened she went home to her 

 

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boyfriend or some other guy she’s been sleeping with and forgot all about you. If she  isn’t sleeping with anyone at the moment, she will likely meet another guy in the  very near future that WILL be able to get her into bed and she will—again—forget  all about you.    Sure you can create such a strong and compelling presence that she can’t wait till  you hang out later (and you will have to do this in many cases if her logistics aren’t  right, but more on logistics later), but I ask you: “What presence is more strong and  compelling than sweeping her off her feet and into your bed in the same night you  met?”    The moral here: Get her into bed quickly, or not at all. 

 

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Attraction Game    My focus in this book will NOT be to provide an actual structure for seducing  women. My strategies can be used to supplement any reasonable method. In fact,  before focusing on SNLs, you are better off focusing on the fundamentals first. On.ce  you can successfully pull girls using these fundamentals, you can add my tips and  tactics to accelerate the seduction process so you can go home with a girl every  night you go out!    Some methods lend themselves better to the additions I will suggest for getting  SNLs. If you have not read and applied the fundamentals in at least one of the  following books, I highly suggest you do.    Mehow: Get The Girl!®: This book is hands down the best book I have come across  for the challenging arena of night clubs, parties, bars, and lounges. I have seen more  guys accelerate their games using this book than any other book on night game.   In  short, if you want to learn how to game women properly in a night or party venue,  this would be the perfect primer.  I have recently supplemented this book with  Mehow: 10 Second Sexual Attraction. 10ssa, as it is called, reveals the true secrets to  Comfort and how “Attraction Game” and “Comfort Game” occur simultaneously. 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays        Magic Bullets: This volume by Love System’s Savoy is great because it gives a  sequential model for seducing women from first approach all the way to getting her  in bed: The Emotional Progression Model. Follow this model step‐by‐step and you  will easily construct a routine stack (for more of the best field‐tested routines from  the greatest Charming Rogues™ in the game, check out Love System’s Routines  Manual to see what other experts are using successfully and to help fill in your own  stack) that leads to her naturally chasing you and jumping into your bed.    The Attraction Code: For those who want to learn how to attract women  effortlessly and naturally, not to mention those guys who want to throw away their  routine “cheat‐sheet”, Vin DiCarlo’s Attraction Code is the answer. A lot of the  concepts contained in this eBook come directly from this master of structured  natural game. Using his methods you can attract and seduce women using nothing  more than your true personality in all situations.    Double Your Dating:  This Book is a classic! And for very good reasons. There is  probably no book more influential on seduction theory than Double Your Dating by  David DeAngelo. If you are just getting started learning how to meet and attract  women, Double Your Dating sets the perfect foundation for becoming a  Charming Rogue™.  This book covers everything A‐Z on what it takes to transform 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    your dating life into the one you have always dreamed of having. If you have read  nothing else on how to get girls, READ THIS ONE!    The Art of The Pickup:  For those who choose to learn visually, I highly  recommend The Art of the Pickup to learn the foundational knowledge necessary to  easily and flawlessly attract women.  The production value on this set is much  higher than your average video training program.  If you have ever wanted to see  examples of the type of material Charming Rogues™ are actually using in the field, I  would recommend supplementing The Art of the Pickup with The Art of the Pickup:  Tactics & Techniques DVD‐set.      The Underground Dating Seminar:  Brad P was recently voted the #1 Charming  Rogue™ in the world and with good reason: He delivers the goods.  This 12‐disc CD‐ set covers everything from approaching, following up, getting physical, and even  relationship management.  These CDs were recorded in front of a live audience.  I  have personally listened to the The Underground Dating Seminar multiple times  while driving and each time I pick up new pearls of wisdom to add to my game. 

 

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Logistics   

Even though there are many different and complex models out there, pick up is  actually quite simple and can be broken down to the following 2 rules:    1) Possessing a rocksolid belief that she is attracted to you and wants  to have sex with you;    2) Being able to gain the logistics that lead to physical isolation, thus  allowing sex to naturally occur.   

Women Want Sex More Than You Do    The first thing you need to keep in mind is that women want sex more than you do.  This may be news to you, or you may have heard this from men who get laid  frequently, but this needs to really sink into the back of your mind.    Everything women do is in direct correlation to obtaining sex!    Women think about sex constantly, even when they think they’re not thinking about 

 

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it (e.g. they’re thinking about fashion, which is merely a means to acquiring more  sex). Women are genetically programmed to crave sex and though they may tell you  otherwise, their compulsion to obtain it is extremely high.    (Still Don’t believe me? Read Nancy Friday’s “My Secret Garden” and Robin Baker’s  “Sperm Wars”. If those books don’t convince you, nothing I can say ever will!)    Women are also hardwired to be “social climbers” and as such are always look for  the next step up in the social hierarchy. This is why they are almost always willing to  have sex with a new guy that may allow her better social status.    If a girl is in a nightclub or bar, she is there to get laid…period! She may say she is  there to dance. She may say she is there to drink and talk to friends. But the truth is  she could do any of these things at home or at her friend’s house…and for a lot  cheaper! She is at the bar all gussied up because she wants to get picked up and to  have sex with someone new!    If she wanted to have sex with someone she already knew, she could just go through  her phone and find someone. She could respond to any of the number of guys calling  or texting her offering to take her out. But she is in a club. Therefore, even if she  doesn’t admit it even to herself, she is there to be seduced by someone new. I am  going to teach you how to become this guy. 

 

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  In short:  Women love sex and are constantly looking for new guys to have sex with.  I  have found that reminding myself of this is sufficient to ensure I am following rule  #1.   

Inner Game    Even though I have explained how women want sex more than you do, some guys  have a hard time believing women want sex with them specifically.  If you are having  difficulty attaining the unwavering belief that she is attracted to you, I recommend  working on your inner game.      Inner game is a subject that falls outside the scope of this eBook. As I stated in the  warning: This is NOT a beginner’s guide.  If you are still reading this, I assume you  already possess a healthy level of confidence.  However, if you are not presently at  this level, I can recommend you check out the following programs to assist you in  attaining rock‐solid confidence:  1) The Authentic Man Program; and 2) Carlos  Xuma: Ultimate Inner Game.     

 

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Getting SNLs Ultimately Comes Down To Logistics.     If you can gain logistics at the end of the night, you can pull the SNL. If you can’t, no  amount of game will make SNL possible.  This is also why I never mind guys hitting  on girlfriends I have brought with me to the club or bar…hit on her all you want, but  at the end of the night, I control the logistics and if anything you have only spiked  her emotions which she will later transfer onto me in bed!    In order to find women with the logistics necessary for SNL, you need to always be  interacting with women. Most women will not fit the logistical criteria necessary  to ensure SNL, so you need to just get these girl’s mobile numbers and move onto  the next girl. Alternatively, she may meet the logistical criteria but get dragged off by  her friends to the dance floor.  You can still SNL her by texting her later if you have  her number.  Get her number early in the interaction.    There are 5 main logistical questions you must find out as early in the interaction as  possible:    “Who are you here with?/How do you all know each other?”    The first two questions are interrelated because women rarely go to the bar alone  (Note: If a woman IS at a bar alone, she is as strong a candidate for SNL as you can   

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find.  Start escalating the interaction!), so you need to find out who is with her and  what the relationship status between them is.    If she is at the bar with her boyfriend, it is going to be extremely unlikely that you  will be able to SNL her. It is not completely impossible to do, but you’re typically  much better off getting her number and continuing her seduction later. There will be  better candidates available.    Even if a girl is there on a “first date” with a guy she isn’t all that into, it is going to be  tricky to arrange the logistics to SNL her. Get her number discreetly and move on.    Always get in the habit of asking how everyone in the group knows each other. Often  the guys in the group are just co‐workers, friends, boyfriends of one of your target’s  friends, or just some guy who is unsuccessfully trying to game your target.    “How did you get here?”    You need to know what the transportation situation is. If she drove herself there,  you will be more able to pull her to your home later using the tactics outlined in this  book.    If she came with a bunch of her girlfriends, which is often the case on girl’s night, it 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    may be harder for you to pull her home that night (“We came together, we’re leaving  together!”), especially if she drove them. She may have to drop her friends off at  their houses at the end of the night or they may judge her if she leaves with a guy  she just met at the bar instead of leaving with them.    If she drove them, the best way to handle the logistics is to build extreme attraction  and comfort with her and arrange to meet up with her after she drops her friends  off. However, this is a risky move because she is likely to lose state while she is  dropping her friends off as she gets more tired, alcohol/drugs start wearing off,  friends talk her out of it on the drive.    This is why it is important to also attract her group of girl friends. Getting their  support will make it easier to pull logistics later. If they like you, they will not try to  talk her out of meeting up with you later while driving them home, or in the case  that she rode with one of her friends to the venue, they won’t mind her leaving with  you instead.    I like to get her friend’s permission to hang out with my target later that night. Say  something like, “Lisa and I like each other and want to hang out later tonight, you  guys are welcome to join us, but is it cool with you if she comes with me?”   Extending a “token invitation” for her friends to join also helps alleviate their safety  concerns for their friend and adds plausible deniability to our intentions to hook up 

 

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later. Most savvy women will not take you up on the offer to join and will give their  approval of you hanging out if you have won them over.    Approaching groups with guys and girls is great for SNLs. There is a much greater  likelihood that she drove herself there to meet up with her friends and co‐workers  than if she is there with only her girlfriends.  Get in the habit of approaching groups  with both guys and girls in it.      “What are your plans for later?”    This is as the closest thing to a secret code for “Do you want to fuck later?” a  Charming Rogue™ can use.    Best‐case scenario, she will ask you what you are doing later. This means she wants  to hang out with you later. This only happens on occasion, but if she says this  consider it a major green light to escalate the situation and get her home ASAP.    Most of the time she will say, “I don’t know” which is a neutral response and you  should still continue gathering information. If you play things right she is probably  open to hanging out later when she says this, but she may have to be somewhere  later and you need to know this. This is where I like to start prepping her for the pull 

 

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later.    For example, I like to pull girls back to my house to “smoke hookah” (Note: It is  typically best to have some excuse for bringing her to your house—besides to have  sex—to give her plausible deniability). I then start talking about “this new hookah I  bought with an ice chamber just beneath the bowl and it produces the coolest,  mellowest smoke I’ve ever had”. By gauging her response to this, I can get a read on  her interest in hanging out later that night.    Have something pre‐planned as a reason she should come to your house later, be it a  hookah, to listen to this incredible CD that will “change her life” (I recommend  something ambient and experimental like Sigur Ròs, The Twilight Singers,  Portishead, or Mogwai), or to play this totally dorky video game: Rock Band. Really  any reason will work, but you need to have something in place that you can start  prepping her with.    At this stage I wouldn’t invite her to join you in any of these activities, but by  bringing it up, you will now have a better gauge as to her interest and ability to hang  out later.      One thing to note, I like to bring up whatever excuse I want to bring her to the house  early in the interaction but not invite her to do it with me just yet. I do this not only 

 

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to plant the seed so later I can invite her but to also gauge as to her interest and  ability to hang out later.     It may seem a bit contrived if you bring all this up at the end of the night and try to  get her to go. But if you have planted the seed in her mind early, later when you  actually invite her, it will seem more natural for her to want to join you because you  haven’t acted needy by initially inviting her when you brought it up. It also gives her  the illusion that she has earned the privilege to join you because you’ve enjoyed  each other’s company for so long.    Occasionally she will say she has to go to bed early for whatever reason. She may  have to get up early for work in the morning, she may have to go to class, she may be  the “early to bed, early to rise” type, or she may just be saying she has to go to bed.  Tease her for saying she has to go to bed (“yeah you probably DO need some serious  beauty rest, goofball”), but find out her reasons. And that is why you need to ask the  next logistical question:    “What time do you have to get up in the morning?”    If she has to get up at 4:30 in the morning to go to work, no amount of game is likely  to persuade her to go home with you that night.  The later she has to get up the  following morning, the better. 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays     

Blow Me or Blow Me Out!    My style of game is geared so that I do not waste a lot of time on women that are not  going to go anywhere. Listen, anyone who claims they have a system that  guarantees you will get any girl, any time is full of shit. This just isn’t possible! Even  with girls who may legitimately want to hook up with you, there may be logistical  problems that prevent it from happening (i.e. she has to wake up early, she is at the  club with her new boyfriend, etc.).    There are few things worse when you are trying to obtain SNLs than being stuck in  what Charming Rogue™ Brad P refers to as the “20‐minute‐go‐nowhere‐set”.  The  one thing worse than that is the interaction that you spend your entire night on,  only to have her go home with her friends at the end of the night while you go home  alone.    You are much better off screening for logistics early in the set so you can know  which women are actual possibilities for SNL. I also like to screen for women who  are more sexually adventurous because these women are better candidates (I’m not  saying you can’t SNL prudish, sexually reserved women, but they may take more  work framing). 

 

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  I like to go sexual but flirty right up front. True, this may blow you out with a lot of  women, but if done properly, it will only blow you out with the kind of girl who is  not as likely to SNL with you. If your goal is SNL, why waste your time on this type of  girl?    For bars that close at 2 a.m., you really need to be building deep comfort and  connection with your target by 12:30 a.m. to effectively pull off a strong SNL. Don’t  waste your time trying to game girls that aren’t going to be strong candidates for  SNL. Get to the bar early and start screening for SNL candidates immediately. Any  girl you’re interested in that doesn’t meet the logistical criterion, get her number so  you can game her later, and move on to the next girl. 

 

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The 5 Objections    Let me preface the following statement because it may sound semi‐misogynistic at  first glance. I love women! There are few things more fulfilling to me than to  experience a woman wrapped in the throes of ecstasy. I do not judge women for  their sexual behavior and get very irritated by those living with Victorian Era views  of female sexuality.  I believe women (and men too) should be able to explore their  sexuality to the fullest, free from judgment and social repercussions.    Now, that I’ve said that, I will say this: Women are genetically programmed to  crave having a dick inside them—any dick! This is why they love sex so much as  was previously mentioned. A dick feels amazing inside her because the woman is  being rewarded with incredible pleasure for fulfilling her evolutionary duty of  potentially passing on her genetic code by having a dick inside her—even in an age  of birth‐control where this may not be necessarily very likely.    (Note: Women are also genetically hardwired to collect as much semen inside them  as they can. Don’t be stupid. Always wear a condom, especially if you are doing a  lot of SNLs. It amazes me how frequently women will try to convince guys not to use  a condom—she’s on the pill or it doesn’t feel as good—but don’t listen to this. 

 

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Getting a woman pregnant or contracting an STD can have life‐altering effects that  can be prevented simply by wearing a condom.)    Now I know what you’re thinking, “If that were actually true then why AREN’T  women sleeping with every guy they come across?” My first response to that is,  “You’d be surprised how many women ARE sleeping with any guy when the logistics  are right.” But the real answer to the question is this: While a woman is hardwired  to crave sex, she is also programmed to have a set of objections to engaging in sex  that have been instilled in her through social conditioning. This social conditioning  is often stronger than her genetic hardwiring. These objections are present to keep  her safe (at least in her mind).    So let’s get into how I actually use all these ideas to get SNLs. First off, the recurring  thought pattern going through my mind when I’m interacting with a woman is this:  “Given that this woman wants to sleep with me (she is, after all, genetically hard‐ wired to want that), how can I get the logistics necessary to make this happen?”    If you have asked the above‐mentioned questions, and she is a suitable candidate for  SNL, then the next step is to inoculate her against her logical objections to sex. You  need to assist her past the “consequences” she thinks she faces if she does have sex  with a guy…and there are only a few of those!   

 

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The 5 Objections    1) She may get pregnant    2) She may get an STD    3) She thinks you will fall in love too quickly and stalk her    4) Social consequences (i.e. her friends/coworkers/people she  doesn’t even know that are observing may find out & think she’s  a slut and then her social value might plummet)    5) She thinks that you will not be able to have a relationship or  friendship with her in the future if you hook up too quickly    [Credit for this list goes to seduction expert Vin DiCarlo and the many women that  helped him figure this list out.]    So what can we do to inoculate her against these “real” objections? Although, I’m a  big proponent of attraction happening on a physical/emotional level, these  objections occur mainly on a “logical” level. As such, verbal game IS effective against  them. You can subtly communicate to her through storytelling and such that she   

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    doesn’t need to worry about these consequences with you and she will be left with  nothing but her inherent desire to have sex.    The first 2 objections are kind of tricky because they can lead you down  conversational threads that will turn a woman off (poopy diapers = not sexy;  Chlamydia = NOT SEXY!). It’s the 21st century so women typically know about  proper condom use, so you can either just assume that they’re aware that these  consequences are silly fears, or, as I like to do, tell a story that subtly implies your  rule on using condoms (once again, you do have that rule right!?).    I tell the story of this crazy girl who I kicked out of my bed after she tried to (notso)  subtly pull off the condom I had just barely put on before I entered her….I elaborate  on this story a bit, but the underlying implication is that condoms are a MUST!  That being said, let’s turn our attention to the other 3 objections and the main  methods I utilize to neutralize them. The first I already mentioned–storytelling; the  second, playfully screening her for these qualities.   

Storytelling    Think of a story for each objection that will subtly demonstrate that the objection  isn’t a concern for the two of you. For example, for Objection #4, I like to talk about 

 

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my religious sister’s friends and how they can’t seem to keep quiet about things:    “I mean sure, I hooked up with one of them and it happened quite naturally,  despite all her religious indoctrination against having sex. But what was  strange, and I find this happens quite often with women, is a few days later I  received a call from another friend who apparently talked to the girl I slept  with about our little tryst…and now SHE wanted to hang out….and then I got  another call and another…and then I get a call from my sister saying how  disappointed she is that all her friends won’t stop talking about me and what’s  been happening between me and her friends…I did end up ‘hanging out’ with a  lot of these girls, but to this day my sister is reluctant bring any of girl friends  around me. I don’t understand why women have to tell everyone they know  about what happens between the two of us. I mean, I don’t go off telling even  my best friends about this kind of thing…even though I might have 1 or 2 really  good stories to tell *wink*”    So what I’ve done with this story is communicate to her that what happens between  the two of us, stays between the two of us. Our relationship will be discreet. I don’t  want to give you any more examples because I want you to start thinking about your  OWN stories you can tell that will inoculate her against her logical objections to  having sex. (If you are unsure if your stories will work, email me your stories at  [email protected] and I will give you personal feedback on them.) 

 

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Playful Screening    The other way to screen is what actually comes more naturally for me: I naturally  love to banter. I love the back and forth energy of push/pull between me and a  woman so what I will do is playfully disqualify the girl for having one of the traits  that would cause her to object.    Examples: “You’re the type of girl that would fall in love with me instantly and be  camping out in my bushes peaking into my window with your camera all night, aren’t  you? No? Good, you better not be otherwise I’d have to walk right now” (for Objection  #3);    ‐OR‐    “You’re one of those girls that just uses guys and leaves them…I can tell by that look in  your eye you’re going to take me home, have crazy sex with me, and then never call me  again…I don’t want to feel cheap like that…” (for Objection #5)    Again, come up with your own ways to playfully accuse her of doing these things  and she will know that these objections will not be the case with the two of you  unless she takes responsibility for these objections (which she won’t). 

 

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Random Scenarios   

Women In Relationships Or Marriage    What I am about to say may be controversial, but I am going to say it anyway. When  a woman tells me she has a boyfriend or husband, inside my head I hear her zipper  going down. From experience, I have always had an easier time seducing a woman  in a serious, committed relationship than the random “available” girl in the bar.    I used to think this was the case because I possessed a stronger skill‐set for  attracting women. I thought it was because I had an uncanny ability to blow out her  boyfriend or husband with tools like Straw Man Technique (I’m not going to address  Straw Man Technique in this eBook, but if you are curious about how to really  handle AMOGs and the boyfriend/husband objection, read my blog post: Straw Man  Technique Finally Unveiled). But this is only part of the reason.    Upon further reflection of this trend, I realized that a girl in a “committed”  relationship is in a natural situation that automatically address Objections #3, #4,  AND #5.  Here’s how:     

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Objection #3: She has told you she is in a relationship and if you are cool  about that fact, she can assume you’re not going to do something silly like  stalk her or call her all the time afterwards.    Objection #4: By accepting her relationship and being cool with it, you  subcommunicate discretion and this is not only attractive, but she will know  she doesn’t have to worry about your ruining her reputation because you will  keep your tryst secret.    Objection #5: She will not have to worry about the possibility of a future  relationship, because she is already in one. If in the future, she wants to have  a relationship with you, she can cross that bridge when that time comes.    A final reason for why SNLs are easier is because by being accepting of her  relationship situation you are almost imperceptibly demonstrating subtle  dominance that she has not experienced in many guys—especially her boyfriend or  husband. I can almost guarantee he cares about other men in her life, but you don’t  give it any more than passing acknowledgment.    So go ahead, be the kind of guy she has read about in romance novels and embody  her fantasy of being swept up in the moment of passion she has secretly always  wanted. 

 

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You Are In A Serious Relationship    This is another situation that may seem a bit counter‐intuitive prima facie, but it  works for similar reasons as her being in a relationship:    Objection #3: She doesn’t have to worry about you going crazy for her too  quickly.  You already have an awesome girl that is exciting, beautiful, and  great in the sack.    Objection #4: If anything happens, she knows you’re going to keep quiet  because you won’t want to risk being caught cheating on your girlfriend.    Objection #5: No chance of losing a potential relationship, because there is  NO chance to begin with and she knows this up front.    A final reason why telling a girl you already have an awesome girlfriend accelerates  SNLs, is what I call the “Elimidate Factor”. Years ago, I observed the Elimidate Factor  from watching the cheesy dating TV show, Elimidate. The premise of the show was  that 4 girls (or 4 guys, depending upon the episode) were placed on a date with 1  guy (or 1 girl, depending on the episode—I found the 4 girl/1 guy episodes far more  entertaining) and each round one girl was “elimidated”. The show would end with  one guy and one girl based on whom he liked best at the end of the show.   

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  It was always amusing to me because the women would fight and do the craziest  shit to impress the guy, no matter how big of a tool the guy truly was. Women are  naturally competitive with each other and if nothing else, they don’t want to lose to  another girl. It was not uncommon for a girl who was eliminated to trash‐talk the  same guy she was just moments ago trying her hardest to impress.  

Vacations    It is no big secret that people on vacation tend to hook up more frequently than they  might otherwise. I think there is something to be said about why. I live in quite  possibly the biggest adult tourist destination in the country, Las Vegas. I can say  that this is quite possibly one of the easiest cities in the world to get laid, if you  know what you’re doing.    A huge contributing factor to this is the constant flow of tourists here. A common  theme in romance novels is the plight of two people that share a connection but fate  places them in a situation where they are separated for any number of reasons the  author can imagine. When you or her meet while either one or both of you are on  vacation you create this same dynamic. Exciting, for sure, but also tragic. This  bittersweet mix is incredibly alluring and deeply ingrained in the female psyche.   

 

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Further, when you or her meet while on vacation, this situation naturally alleviates  objections #3, #4, AND #5 mentioned above. She doesn’t have to worry about you  stalking her afterwards because you will not be around each other after and she  doesn’t have to worry as much about losing social value in front of her friends  because they may never find out. To top it all off she doesn’t have to worry about the  losing the option of having relationship with you because that won’t even be  possible due to the distance between you.    And let’s not forget the fact that one of you is leaving soon will justify acting on your  desires to hook up quickly. If you or her is on vacation, seize the opportunity  because it is naturally the perfect situation to pull a SNL.   

Girls Met Online    Although most of this book has been spent talking about women met in night venues  like bars and clubs, I have recently begun playing with online game. I have found  that women met over the Internet on sites like myspace and facebook are easy to  close rapidly if you sexually frame them through online messages and texts.    I have a near 100% close rate on women I meet online (who are attractive when I  meet them in real life…I quickly ditch those who I meet that are not up to par— 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    women tend to post their most flattering pics on their profiles so sometimes “what  you see, is NOT what you get”), and almost every close happens within a few hours  of meeting in real life.    It is very easy to sexually frame women online and if you can intrigue them enough  to get them qualifying themselves to you, these can be amongst the easiest women  to SNL.    I use online game to supplement my night game, day game, and social circle game—  NOT as a substitute for going out and doing approaches. The thing is, if you can’t  close a girl in real life, you will not be able to do it with women online. You may be  able to convince a girl you are a high value guy over the Internet, but if you are a  creepy Internet lurker when you actually meet up, she will not sleep with you.    I also don’t spend very much time doing online game. I have too much other stuff  going on in my life (and so should you). I recommend spending no more than 15‐20  minutes per day on online game.    The cool thing about online game is you can cast a much wider net. Girls you might  never see in a bar (because they don’t like going to bars, don’t have the time to go  because of work or school, or because they are not quite old enough to legally enter  one—18 to 21 year old women) almost assuredly have a myspace or facebook 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    profile.    This book is not intended to teach online game, but I will be tackling the specifics of  my brand of online game that almost assuredly ends in SNL in an upcoming volume  (so keep checking for updates on CharmingRogue.com). In the meantime, you can  check out excellent programs like Window Shopping For Women and Online Pickup  Secrets for more information on how to meet and attract women online. 

 

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Sexual Tension    Sexual tension is a requisite for any SNL. There has been a lot of discussion as to the  meaning of sexual tension and what causes it. I have devised a definition and  method for creating it that seems to be functional in all my attempts for SNL.    Sexual tension is, simply put, a heightened sense of controlled arousal in the absence  of overt sexual intent (Credit: Vin DiCarlo) –OR‐ sexually charged conversation with a  neutral internal state.    Experience demonstrates this to be true. Ever hung around someone who was in an  intensely bad mood and eventually found yourself feeling lousy too? Internal states  are contagious, for lack of a better word. And women are more susceptible to  picking up internal states than men because they are wired to perceive all levels of  communication, especially the non‐verbal ones.    As stated previously, women love and crave sex. If you cannot give her sexual  satisfaction, you are worthless to her on this primal level. But you can  subcommunicate that you can give her the sexual experiences she craves by  presenting a controlled sexual arousal while having neutral conversation. 

 

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  A trick I do while interacting with a woman is to talk about normal topics, while  imagining the back of her head throbbing up and down as she gives me the most  amazing blow job of my life. She will perceive this on a subconscious level and  become aroused herself. Doing this also has an affect on your inner game. It’s hard  to feel anything but confident and alpha as you are imagining her sucking you off  like she has never wanted anything else in her life as badly.    The corollary to the above means to gain sexual tension is also true. If you are going  to go sexual in words with her, you absolutely must be in a neutral state internally.  If she perceives you to be sexually charged internally as you discuss sexual topics,  she will deem you creepy, sexually needy, or just a plain, despicable perv.    A lot of my game includes going sexual or saying sexual things. The average guy  doing this would just creep women out, but this is because when they are saying and  doing these things, they are also internally aroused. When I go sexual, my internal  state is neutral.    This demonstrates that I have control over my sexuality. Most guys become aroused  as a reaction, not as a choice. For me and other Charming Rogues™, arousal is a  choice! When women perceive this ability (and she most certainly will!), it builds  intense sexual tension. 

 

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  She will think, “How can this guy be so internally unaffected, when he is obviously  talking very sexual with me? He must be the Charming Rogue™ I have been looking  for!”   

Jealousy Plotlines    Another important aspect to building sexual tension is to introduce what are  referred to as Jealousy Plotlines. If you are following the rule I told you earlier, you  will be constantly interacting with different women. Jealousy Plotlines are created  when a woman sees another woman interested in you. A Sure‐fire way to guarantee  sexual tension is to bring a few girls that are interested in you into the same  interaction.    If you have 2 or 3 girls vying for your attention, things will escalate very rapidly  with the girl of your choice (typically the more attractive one who has the logistics  necessary for SNL…Remember, even the girls that are not candidates for SNL can aid  you in seducing the ones who are, and you can get the non‐candidates into bed  later!).    Always bring other girls you have met throughout the night into your interaction 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    with SNL candidates to fuel sexual tension. This is the “elimidate factor” I talked  about earlier in action.  Use it to massively fuel sexual tension.   

Arbitrary Boundaries    Sexual tension is built upon the boundaries between what you desire and what is  currently the case. Earlier I referred to talking neutral but being in a controlled  aroused state. This creates the boundary necessary to fuel sexual tension.    Another way to build sexual tension is to create arbitrary boundaries. You can do  this by saying things such as, “It’s too bad we’re in a bar right now, because if we  weren’t I would throw you up against that wall, and start making out with you  passionately…but we’re in a bar so no chance!” Remember to maintain a neutral  internal state while delivering this sort of statement.    Get into the habit of creating arbitrary boundaries to why you shouldn’t get sexual  and the sexual tension will become so strong she can’t help but get really excited  and turned on.    Other Examples:   

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    “It’s too bad we just met, because otherwise we would probably sneak off into  the nearest bathroom, have wild, passionate sex, and then come back out here,  enjoy our cocktails, and have witty conversation as if nothing happened…but  we just met, so that’s not possible.”    “It would be totally rude of me to imagine you and I have the kinkiest sex ever  since we’re just barely getting to know each other, so I definitely will NOT be  doing that at all….Now what were you saying again?”    Come up with as many of your own ways to create arbitrary boundaries and pepper  your conversation with them. Notice how easily sexual tension is created when you  make these comments. 

 

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Sexual Framing    Sexual framing is the process of creating a scenario where the woman can feel free  to behave sexually without feeling any negative emotions typically associated with  doing so. Properly done, sexual framing will cause a woman to feel good about her  decision to get sexual with you very quickly. There are a variety of tools you can use  in order to sexually frame a woman, and they will be discussed in this section.   

Cognitive Dissonance    To understand Sexual Framing, a working understanding of the theory of Cognitive  Dissonance is necessary.  Cognitive Dissonance is caused when a person holds two or  more conflicting or contradictory beliefs about the self. When this is experienced, it  causes a person so much discomfort that they will typically rationalize one belief  away. For example, a woman you have approached and attracted suddenly finds  herself wanting to go to bed with you, but this conflicts with her idea of being a good  girl or at least not a slut.     (Note: The term “slut” is a construct created by women to use as a weapon to  lower other women’s social value. I have no misogynistic intentions in using this   

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word. As previously stated, I believe women should be free to engage in any sexual  acts she so desires without judgment.)    She then rationalizes that going home with you was “meant to be” or “fate” and  therefore it is permissible for her to act on her impulses. Her cognitive dissonance  has been removed.    Cognitive Dissonance is also why proper escalation is so effective. If she is  complying with each of your escalations she will often possess two conflicting  beliefs: 1) Things are rapidly getting more and more physical and intimate; and 2)  only an “easy” or “slutty” girl would allow rapid escalations to happen with someone  they don’t really like. In order to abet her cognitive dissonance, she will rationalize  to herself that she must really like you because she is definitely not easy or a slut.    Sexual Framing, again, is a set of tools that can help relieve a woman’s Cognitive  Dissonance. The following tools are by no means all‐inclusive (I don’t think every  tool that could be used has yet been codified) but are examples of what I use to  Sexually Frame a woman infield. Feel free to email me with your tactics for doing so  at [email protected].   

 

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Frames To Set For SNL    You will want to set the following frames on every girl you plan to SNL. The  beautiful thing is that women already ARE all of these things, you just need to give  them the necessary permission to behave this way. Sexual frames you want to set  include:    • Sexually aggressive when she is with someone she really likes or is  attracted to  • Adventurous  • Spontaneous  • Goes for what she wants/Does what she feels like doing  • Great in bed  • Keeps secrets  • Has a naughty side she wishes she could act on more often  • Does the craziest things when she knows she won’t be judged for it  • Frequently incredibly horny  • Open to new experiences  • Loves the romance and excitement of things happening quickly/ Want  to be swept off her feet  • Uninhibited  • Craves new sexual experiences   

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  This is by no means a definitive list, but it is more than a sufficient amount of frames  to use in your efforts to SNL her.  Also, you must set the frame for yourself that you  are not judgmental when it comes to a woman’s sexual behavior. 

   “We Don’t Count”    One aspect of female psychology can be best explained by using the metaphor of the  car dealership. It is common knowledge that a car loses most of its “value” the  moment it is driven off the dealership lot in possession of its new purchaser.  Women also tend to view their sexuality in these terms. In a woman’s mind, she  loses value for every new guy she sleeps with, but after she has slept with him she is  free to sleep with him as many times as she likes without incurring any more “value  loss”. (Note: I am not asserting that a woman actually loses value for each new guy  she sleeps with, but reflecting a woman’s internal psychology of the situation.)    In order to maintain her value, women will attempt to keep their number of new  encounters low. However, to relieve cognitive dissonance, women will backwards  rationalize many sexual encounters as not counting for any number of reasons: e.g.  “I was drunk that night, so it doesn’t count”, “I was on the rebound, so it doesn’t count”,  “I met him in Vegas, so it doesn’t count”, etc.   

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays      A Charming Rogue™ will frame the sexual encounter as “not counting” for any  reason he can concoct, so she doesn’t have to do it later. The funny thing is almost  any excuse will work. I have used the excuse, “You have a husband, so we wouldn’t  count,” and had it work brilliantly. In fact, the more illogical the reason is, the better.  You’re not trying to logically convince her of this. Rather, you are giving her the  excuse she is going to be looking for later anyway. This shows that you are clued in  to women’s psychology. Let her know beforehand that you are savvy to women’s  psychology and give her the reason she will be searching for as to why you don’t  count.   

Passive Acceptance/Compliance    Throughout any interaction with a woman, I am constantly building passive  acceptance and compliance. I do this by saying things such as, “If you don’t stop  being so cute, I will be forced to hit on you later.” Most of the time, she will just say  “OK!” if you have built any attraction with her. But even if she says, “No. Don’t do  that!” and still continues interacting with you she has passively complied with your  suggestion.    In fact, short of her just getting up and walking away, she has accepted your frame. 

 

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Statements like this are best used if you say you are going to do it later, e.g. “If you  keep talking to me, I’m going to be forced to try to get you into bed later.” You’re  saying that you’re not trying to get her into bed now but at some undisclosed time in  the future you will be trying to get her into bed. If she continues the interaction, she  has passively accepted this role.    In all your interactions with women, sprinkle in as many statements as you can that  get her to passively comply and accept that you will be sleeping with each other  later. As long as she doesn’t end the interaction she has accepted and complied with  your suggestions and will feel like she was an active participant in making the  seduction happen.   

  Blame All Flirtations On Her    I am a notorious flirt. I can’t help it. Something about being with a woman that I am  attracted to makes it near impossible for me to NOT flirt with her. But I always  blame these flirtations on the girl. You can take this really far too. I will often say  stuff like, “Here I am trying to have a normal conversation with you, but I keep  sneaking glances at your tits. It’s your fault! Stop making me do this!” As mentioned  above, make sure your internal state is neutral when saying things like this.   

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  Other Examples:    “I should really go home and get some work done, but something about you just  makes me want to stay here and flirt with you all night. Stop doing that to  me…if we keep this up I will never accomplish anything more in life because you  will keep making me flirt with you.”    “You make me think such dirty thoughts. Do you have some kind of voodoo  powers? Stop doing that to me, you naughty girl.”    “I don’t know what it is about you, but you keep making me imagine our future  together doing silly things like going grocery shopping together and helping  you pick out sexy lingerie at Victoria’s Secret and stuff. Stop doing that to me. I  don’t want to be thinking that kind of stuff right now.”    Come up with your own examples of this. I find the best flirtations like this arise  spontaneously in the interaction. Flirt with her, but always blame her for every  flirtation as if you are the victim in all of this. 

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One of the easiest ways to frame a girl is to simply qualify her on any of the above  mentioned things, e.g. “Looking at you at face value you look like a really nice girl, but  I detect a naughty side.” (she will almost always start giggling in recognition).     –OR    “I tend to get along best with adventurous women, are you adventurous? Tell me about  your last adventure.” (This overtly asks for her to qualify herself on this level).     –OR    “It’s funny because I don’t think I’ve ever met a girl who didn’t claim she gave the best  blow job in the world, but most girls give just average blow jobs….” (this one will  compel her to qualify herself as giving amazing oral sex).   

“Why Are Vegas Girls So Friendly?”    One of my favorite ways to initiate a conversation is by asking questions that frame  a woman to behave just the way you want her to behave. Here is an example of one  of my favorite openers: “I want to know… why…. girls…in Vegas (substitute this  with whatever city you happen to be in) are soooo…..fucking….FRIENDLY?” 

 

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“You Look Just Like….”    A simple way to frame a girl is to tell her she looks like or reminds you of someone  who has the qualities you want to frame her as having, e.g. “You look just like me of  my friend, Tara. Tara is so cool. She is always up for trying new things at the drop of a  hat, she can keep a secret, and boy does she have a naughty side.” 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays      Now when you say this kind of stuff, you haven’t said that the girl you are talking to  actually possesses these qualities but since you have compared her to someone she  reminds you of, her unconscious mind will accept that she must also have those  qualities and will start to conform to the description.   

Strawberry Fields    Games and such can also be used to frame women sexually. A now infamous  example of this is the “Strawberry Fields” Routine. I first learned this little routine  years ago (I believe it was from Charming Rogue™, ManiacHigh) and initially  thought it was kind of silly. But after seeing it used repeatedly to great success by  former Love System’s Coach, CaptainJack, I changed my mind about it.  CaptainJack  is notorious for his ability to pull SNLs, and this seemingly silly routine is one of the  games he routinely uses to frame his targets as uninhibited sexually‐charged  women.    Tell her she seems fun and you want to give her the Strawberry Fields Test. She will  become very curious and say “ok”. The routine goes as follows:    Charming Rogue™: “So you're walking along and you come across a 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    strawberry field. How high is the fence around it?”    Target: “Ummm….6 feet.”    Charming Rogue™: "Hmm...." [Look at her like you are sizing her up]    Target: “What? Tell me!”    Charming Rogue™: "Ok, you sneak inside. How many strawberries do you  eat?"    Target: Looks like she is thinking..."8"    Charming Rogue™: "8! Seriously!? Wow! Oh my god! I would never be able  to take you home to mom!"    Target: "What! WHAT!?" [She will typically start pawing at you here.]    Charming Rogue™: "Ok, last question. What about the farmer?"    Target: "He doesn’t have to know.”   

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    Charming Rogue™: [Shakes head and looks amazed] "Wow!"    Charming Rogue™: "Ok, here's what it all means. The fence means you have  high goals and high aspirations. The strawberries stand for your sexual  appetite."  [Shakes head again] "You're sooooo baaaaad! Most people say one  or two! You want 8! wow!"    [At this point she will start giggling uncontrollably.]    Charming Rogue™: "The farmer means you don't care about the sexual  situation as long as no one finds out"    [She will again start giggling and squealing.]    At this point your job is done. The frames have been set and she loves you for it.  Just remember, her actual responses don’t matter. Use this “test” to frame her as an  uninhibited sexual woman every time, i.e. she says she eats one strawberry, you say  most girls don’t eat any, OR she says the farmer stands there and watches her eat the  strawberries, you say she doesn’t care what anyone thinks about her in sexual  situations, even if they DO catch her in the act.   

 

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The Sad Story    This story is originally an ancient Japanese tale that was adapted by legendary  Charming Rogue™, Style (aka Neil Strauss, author of the New York Times Bestselling  Book, “The Game”), as a story to tell girls. I’ve found that when I tell women this  story, it causes them to instinctively become more eager to pursue the opportunity  of being with you. Adapt this story to your particular situation and tell it to your  target and she will naturally start wanting to take the opportunity to pursue you  more rapidly.      The story goes as follows:    Once upon a time in Las Vegas (change this and the streets to whatever city  you happen to be in) there lived a boy. He woke up one day and decided to  walk down The Strip to the Wynn Casino to play poker, heading North.    At the very same moment, there was a beautiful, young girl who wanted to go  Window‐shopping the Miracle Mile Forum in Planet Hollywood Casino. She  began walking there, heading South. As luck…or fate…would have it, they  were both walking on the same side of The Strip.     

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As they walked closer and closer towards each other, they became in viewing  distance of each other. Each noticed the other, as people often do. As each  drew closer, they got this tingly feeling inside that there was something very  special about the other one.    It turns out, they’re feelings were right. This boy was the 100% perfect boy  for her. He was compatible with her in each and every way, as if they were  born to be together. She was also the 100% perfect girl for him in every  single way. The chances of two people meeting who are completely 100%  perfect for each other is next to nil, but it is these special moments that  stories are written about.    They watched each other as they walked closer and closer towards each  other. Soon they were 20 feet away, then 10 feet away, then 5, then 2 then 1.  With each step they could feel their hearts beating faster and faster. And as  they passed each other, they felt a surge of emotions in their tummies as if  they were riding the roller coaster at the New York, New York.    And as they passed each other, the boy knew he had done something wrong.  So he stopped in his tracks and turned around. Strangely enough, she had  done the exact same thing and their eyes met, and they laughed.   

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    A conversation was struck, awkward a bit at first because they didn’t yet  know each other, but before long they were conversing as if they had known  each other for years, like they were meant to know each other. The could feel  an incredible connection growing between them. They talked and talked and  before you know it, the sun was going down and the lights of The Strip were  going up.    And that’s when doubt started to cross their minds…    “I feel kinda strange about meeting you on The Strip like this…It’s just not  normal!”    The girl nodded in sad agreement. “I have an idea,” she said, “Why don’t we  go our separate ways and if fate will have us cross paths again, we will get  married that very day.”    The boy reluctantly agreed and they returned to their homes. The next day,  they each fully expected to see each other again. The girl spent extra time  getting her make up just right. The boy put on his best clothes. They each  booked extra appointments and ran errands all day to give fate as many  opportunities for them to run into each other. But they didn’t see each other.   

 

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The next week was spent in a similar manner, but they still didn’t meet again.  A month passed…then a year. And they started to rarely think of each other.  They had given up hope on reuniting and began to date other people. They  met people of varying degrees of compatibility. Some 25%, some 50%, and  even as high as 73%, but never the perfect match that they could have  enjoyed.    But they each got married to decent matches, had kids, and as the years  passed by, they forgot about that special moment on The Strip. And they  grew old, and their spouses passed away. One year, a particularly nasty bug  was going around, and he caught it.    He went to the hospital to be treated. He was recovering nicely when he  decided to go for a stroll around the hospital. So he got up and pushed his IV  bag down the hall heading North. At that moment, he saw a woman  approaching him, Southbound. It was the same girl, he had met years ago,  but now he didn’t recognize her.    They approached each other getting closer and closer, just as they had that  fateful day on The Strip, and they felt those same strange stirrings inside  them, but this time they couldn’t understand why. And they just passed each  other without looking back. This was the last time they would ever see each 

 

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other.    Ok, so this story is a bit heavy. It can only really be used if there has been a lot of  attraction and comfort built. When you tell this to a girl, she will almost always say,  “Wow….that’s a sad story!” To which you reply, “I don’t think it’s a sad story at all. I  think it is just a tale to remind us that fate gives us amazing opportunities from time  to time and you have to just take them. Once fate gives you what you’ve always  wanted, you can’t just turn it down or push it away and assume fate will give it to  you again later. That would be like buying the winning lottery ticket and ripping it  up thinking you can just win it again later. You have to take the opportunity when it  presents itself!”    After this story, you need to transition into something light, fun, and playful or it will  get way too intense. But this story properly told has always created an intense  feeling of urgency and connection that is important in getting SNLs. 

  Default Moves    If you are ever seemingly stuck or don’t know where to lead the interaction next, I  have 3 default moves. 1) Make up some ridiculous role‐play that the two of you   

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Sweetstuff, SassyAss, Sugar, and Venus.  However, I am not afraid to use any other  name that comes to mind when I see her and talk to her for a bit.  The more silly or  cutesy the name, the better.    The name Venus, from the list above, creates the illusion of a relationship because it  references a famous couple:  Venus and Adonis.  If you have a name that can be tied  into a famous couple, such as Brad, you can call her Angelina (if Brad Pitt and  Angelina Jolie are still together at the time of your using this) as a pet name and it  will set the frame that you are two have been in a relationship for awhile.      Don’t have a name that can be tied into a famous couple?  You can always steal them.   You can call each other “Bonnie & Clyde”, “Romeo & Juliet”, “Barbie & Ken”, etc.  Just  use a little more role‐playing to create the names.    An example of this is my Bonnie & Clyde Routine:   “You and I would have so much  fun together.  We should totally steal a shitty, old green Buick and take it on a cross  country crime spree—Bonnie & Clyde style—and we will steal all the Jelly Shoes for  you and put them in the trunk, cuz I know you love them so much!  And then we will  steal all sorts of canned meat products and give them to the poor, cuz I sure as hell  am not eating that crap!  Besides, we will be too busy drinking champagne and  eating strawberries off each other’s naked bodies…”   

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    This kind of role‐playing frames your interaction as that of a couple.  Now you can  refer to each other as Bonnie & Clyde the rest of the night, and it will be like you’ve  been together for years.  (Note:  This one also adds in a mischievous element that  will also cause her to want to get into other “trouble” later in the interaction.)    Qualify Her: Any time you can get a girl qualifying herself to you, she has to  backwards rationalize to herself that it must be because she likes you. You will  probably never see a woman trying to demonstrate to a vagrant on the side of the  road what makes her special. She only does this when she likes the person she is  doing this for and wants to gain his approval. Even if a woman doesn’t initially like  you, if you can get her to start qualifying herself to you, she will be forced to  backwards rationalize this behavior as being because she must really like you.    In order to get SNLs, I like to get her to qualify herself on being very sexual, e.g. “You  seem like a total prude, I’ll bet you lay there like a dead fish in bed.” ‐OR‐ “You know  it’s funny, I’ve never met a girl that didn’t say she gave the best blowjob in town, and I  do like blow jobs, but the sad truth is, most girls are merely ok at it.”    These sorts of statements delivered when she is properly attracted will compel her  to qualify herself sexually to you. Which will cause her to 1) think of what sex with  you will be like and 2) backwards rationalize that she must really want to have sex  with you because she wouldn’t bother qualifying herself sexually to a guy she didn’t 

 

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want to get into bed with.    These kinds of qualifications are very big hoops for her to jump through, so it is  often best to use them after you have qualified her on other things like, “what she  has going for her more than her looks”, or “Why are you special?” But used when  there is a little charge between you, these sexual qualifications will kick things into  high gear. Always respond to her attempts to sexually qualify herself by saying, “I  will be the judge of that!” This exhibits dominance and heavily implies that you will  in fact be getting sexual.    Move Her:  I will explain this one further in the following chapter on Escalation, but  I have found that if I can move a girl 2 or 3 times throughout the venue, I can almost  assuredly SNL her if the other logistics are in play. Moving a woman requires you to  demonstrate dominance and done properly gets more Kino compliance. Get in the  habit of moving her throughout the venue several times throughout the night. It also  creates a time‐distortion effect in her mind. She will think back on all the different  places you have been throughout the night and it will make it seem like she has  known you a lot longer than you actually have. You have so many memories of you  in different places, after all. When she follows these leads, she will be more  acquiescent to follow your lead to your house later.  Moving a girl is also an excellent  test for attraction; if she’s not attracted, she won’t move with you. 

 

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Escalation    You cannot get SNL (or any lay for that matter) if you are not escalating; and you are  always better off over‐escalating than under‐escalating. Under escalation tends to  lead her to believe you are timid, not dominant, lack confidence, or perhaps not  sexually attracted to her. These are not good adjectives to have attached to you if  you are trying to seduce her.    When escalating, always err on the side of over‐escalating. Will you get blown out  by over‐escalating on occasion? YES! But often the girls that do blow you out are not  good candidates for SNL. Moreover, if you are escalating you are more than likely  exhibiting warm dominance, confidence, and that you are sexually attracted to her.  Even if she rebuffs you in the moment, this display is often enough to keep her  interested for when you escalate later.    Kino (Kino is just jargon for touching and physical compliance) escalation in the  venue is necessary and I recommend you start touching girls as soon as you start  talking to them. At some point, you will have to touch the girl if you are going to get  her into bed. The danger in waiting to do so is that it sets off alarms in her head that  say, “What changed?” If you’ve gone 30 minutes without touching her, she will most 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    certainly wonder why all of a sudden you are touching her. So make sure you start  kino‐ing the girls immediately (Note: Mehow PureKino™ is perfect for opening with  kino; learn it in Mehow: Get The Girl!®).    You obviously can’t start by grabbing her tits. There is a progression you need to  follow from least intrusive (like elbows and shoulder) and eventually ending on  most intrusive (any sexual touching). Also, note that you do not want to escalate to  sexual touching in the venue.    Any kino escalation more than discreet hand‐holding and a few special moves I will  discuss later have a tendency to kill sexual tension in the club. Follow the advice  below and you will properly escalate every time.    The interesting thing about Kino Escalation is that you can actually seduce a woman  using no other tools. Proper Kino Escalation demonstrates warm dominance and  compels her to comply with your direction. These elements are essential in any  seduction.    As an experiment, I set out to use nothing but Kino Escalation to seduce a woman.  I’m talking no routines, no standard game, just neutral talk and Kino Escalation. I  met this cute brunette from London in Los Angeles on “Holiday” while walking  down Hollywood Blvd. I approached and had to keep reminding myself that I was 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    only working on Kino Escalation and that I would use no other tactics. Sure enough,  after a few hours, I had successfully isolated her to my room (at a ratty hostel, no  less) and had sex with her…All using only Kino Escalation.    The best place to learn about Kino Escalation is from Vin DiCarlo’s Kino Escalation  Ladder. Since it is somewhat difficult to write about, I have provided a link to one of  Vin DiCarlo’s instructors, Orleans, explaining the intricacies of the DiCarlo  Escalation Ladder HERE.   

Escalation By Movement    As previously stated, Kino is about compliance and dominance, both traits women  are hardwired to be attracted to. So another form of escalation is merely moving  her throughout the venue, for the same reason: it exhibits compliance and  dominance.   As I said in the Default Moves Section, if you can move a woman 2 to 3  times throughout out the venue, you can more than likely move her home as well.    

Don't Make Out In The Venue    Many amateur lady’s men pride themselves on being able to make out with girls in a 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    bar or nightclub. Sure this is initially pretty gratifying, but I am not into making out  with girls in a bar, I am into getting laid. If you are as well, I strongly advise against  making out with girls in the bar if you want SNL.    You might be thinking, “Well, if she’s willing to make out with me here in the bar,  then surely she will want to continue this later and want to come home and climb  into bed with me, right?” Occasionally, you may be able to make this happen, but  more often than not, this will kill the sexual tension and demonstrate to her (and  most likely her friends) a lack of discretion. By making out with her in public, she  knows that her reputation will always be at stake because you are not discreet. In  short, you are demonstrating that objection #4 IS something she will have to worry  about if she gets involved with you.    Another problem is making out with a girl in a bar provides too much validation up  front. Women LOVE being validated in Nightclubs; validation is one of her primary  conscious reasons for being in a bar. If you give her too much obvious validation, she  may feel she has already “won the game”, and not be open to SNL later. She will  simply move onto the next guy that will pump her full of validation. Don’t be the guy  that just gets club make‐outs, be the guy that takes her home that night!    She also loses plausible deniability in her mind if she makes out at club. She knows  where it is heading…and so do her friends! 

 

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Takeaways    After all this talk about escalation, it may seem funny that I now bring this up, but  the escalation isn’t the most important part of the seduction.  What’s more  important is the Takeaway.    Takeaways are what actually fuel the seduction.  You must do several of them in  each interaction to get a woman chasing you.  Read my article, The Importance Of  The Takeaway, for a more in depth look at why you MUST use takeaways with the  girl.    There are several types of takeaways you can do.  You can let go of her while Kino  escalating, you can back‐turn her when she says something you don’t like, you can  leave to “go talk to your friends” or to “go to the bathroom”, or you can stop telling a  story she’s really into hearing until she tells you a joke, and the list goes on.    Make sure you get her chasing your by incorporating takeaways into every  interaction. 

 

 

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Special Kino Escalation Moves    There are a few Kino moves that are a Charming Rogue’s™ secret weapons to being  able to subtly turn a woman on and get her thinking sexually…and you can get away  with doing them in the venue! You will not be able to do them right up front, but  within a few minutes in the interaction if you have been properly escalating, they  will seem innocent, yet they will give her a sexual charge.    1) Hair Pulling: Pulling a woman’s hair from the nape of her neck exhibits a  strong dominance and releases pleasure hormones in her brain, even if it  might hurt just a bit. To do this, just reach your hand up the back of her  spine to the base of her scalp, grab a good amount of hair as close to the  scalp as possible, and pull. (Note: A lot of really attractive women wear  hair extensions and will not appreciate it if you rip them out because they  are expensive…if you feel tiny bead‐like objects in her hair, DON’T PULL  HER HAIR). A good hair pull with strong eye contact will subconsciously  feel far more intimate than a kiss to her…and yet by doing so, you have  turned her on more and avoided the rookie blunder of making out with  her in the bar or club.    2) Ass Smacking: There is something about smacking a woman’s ass that  gets her excited. Perhaps it is because it causes an age regression to a   

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NLPBased Seduction    NLP‐based seduction is such a vast topic that I couldn’t possibly teach it completely  and properly in this eBook. I will, however, say that it can be used for some  astounding results. In fact, most experienced Charming Rogues™ that are routinely  getting SNLs are secretly using NLP to varying extents.    The learning curve on NLP‐based seduction is extremely steep and it only works in  certain contexts and with certain women. But if you are ready to supercharge your  seduction powers, I highly recommend adding in some NLP once you can  consistently pull without using it.     The best source I have found to learn NLP‐based is still Ross Jeffries’ Speed  Seduction®.  Get his newly revised Speed Seduction 3.0 home study course to learn  the cutting edge of NLP‐based seduction currently available.    Another excellent source for a more “edgy” style of NLP‐based seduction is Vince  Kelvin.  He has a near endless list of training programs including my  recommendations of The Seduction Mastery Home Training System DVDs and the  Power Pickup CD Series. 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays      Proper timing, vocal inflection and strong subcommunications are necessary to use  NLP effectively, but since I have brought this subject up I will share a few examples  of how NLP can be used to seduce women quickly.   

CaptainJack’s Ring Finger Routine    CaptainJack’s modified version of the Ring Finger Routine contains a little bit of NLP  in it. Use this after you have attraction and are building comfort with your girl.    First, grab her hand, look at it curiously, and say, “Hmmm….interesting….”, then  throw her hand away. She will almost always say, “What? What’s interesting!?”  When she does continue as follows:    Charming Rogue™: "Oh nothing…You can just tell a lot of things about a  person by what fingers they wear rings on."    [At this point you look away and go silent. Doing so will bait her to invest in  going down this conversational thread].    Target: "Tell me! Tell me!" or "What do mine mean???" 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays      It doesn’t really matter what fingers you use to mean certain things since this is a  structure set up to frame your target in the ideal light for a SNL, but CaptainJack  likes to keep the rings the same for all girls. Since most girls will have at least a  couple of rings on you can modify this to work for just about any girl. CaptainJack  uses the pinky finger to be the “keeps secrets” finger and the right ring finger to be  the “sexually aggressive when you are with someone you like” finger. (The left ring  finger means she’s “sexually submissive”—she did get married after all). Start  looking at what fingers women are wearing rings on and you may be surprised how  often they are on these fingers anyway.    Charming Rogue™: "Wearing a ring on your pinky means you can keep a  secret. That's why people pinky swear and why guys in the mafia wear pinky  rings."    If she is not wearing a pink ring just say "Since you’re not wearing a ring on  your pinky, we'll have to pinky swear before we share any deep, dark secrets..."  and lock pinkies with her.    Charming Rogue™: [Look at her other ring, which is very often on her right  ring finger or one of her index fingers. Whichever finger it is on point to it.]  "This one means that when you find someone you are really attracted to 

 

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[subtly point at yourself with your thumb or index finger to anchor yourself  as “the someone she is really attracted to”] you feel absolutely comfortable  getting sexually aggressive with this person” [point to yourself again].    Due to social conditioning, women often have it in their heads that guys only want  prim and proper women. She may start trying to qualify herself as not being a slut.  Do yourself a favor and do not let her say anything after you deliver this part of the  routine or else you are going to have to do some serious comfort work later. Her  silence after this will implicitly confirm the suggestion you made. Immediately  continue.    Charming Rogue™: “And when someone wears a ring on this finger [twisting  the ring around your finger—make sure you switch it to a different finger  than the ones you have used on her if necessary) it means this person [subtly  point to yourself] is NOT judgmental. They don't have all of the hangups about  life, love, and relationships that so many people do."    With all of these anchors in place you can now subtly twist the ring on your finger  every time sexual comments are mentioned in your conversation and she will be  unconsciously reminded that you are not judgmental of her.    [This routine also helps to reinforce your inoculations that you have made against 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    Objection #4 mentioned above.]   

Ambiguities    Ambiguities are a tool used in NLP that can easily be learned and put into use. A  simple category of ambiguities to use is DoubleEntendres.        Examples of Double‐Entendres include:    • “You know how I like it.”  • “You want to go down there?”  • “Let’s do it.”  • “I want you to come with me.”  • “I can tell you’re a warm person deep inside.”  • “I’m going to give it to you.”  • “We’ll come together.”  • “You’re a fast girl.”  • “I love how you open to me.”  • “You can feel it deep inside you.” 

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    • “I know how bad you want it.”    The brain processes all meanings of words and phrases and then chooses which is  most appropriate and brings that meaning to your conscious awareness.  Unconsciously, however, ALL meanings are processed and understood. As  mentioned in the section on Sexual Tension you want to use these phrases in  conversations that are NOT sexual in nature to build sexual tension.    For example, while building comfort you may reveal how she believes that she had  to grow up before she was ready to (an excellent cold read to give a woman, by the  way, because most women believe this to be true about themselves). You can then  respond, “You can feel it deep inside you, can’t you?” There is nothing sexual about  this conversational thread, but her unconscious mind will still process the sexual  meaning.    Traditionally in NLP, ambiguities are marked out by lowering your voice slightly  when using them. Personally, I don’t think this is completely necessary and the  emphasis may make things more obvious and you will come off sounding sleazy.    Start peppering your conversation with as many of these Double‐Entendres as you  can. Get in the habit of using them where appropriate in conversation and she will  unconsciously feel the sexual tension building naturally. 

 

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Sexually Charged Vocabulary    The above principle also works on words that have a sexual or sensual charge to  them. Words such as:    • Wet  • Thrust  • In and out  • Up and down  • Coming  • Hard  • Arouse  • Pleasure  • Prick  • Deep  • Throbbing  • Lick  • Desire  • Ecstasy  • Touch 

 

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  An example of how these can be used in an innocent story is:     “I was at Universal Studios in Orlando last summer and it was raining all day. I  mean it was really coming down. It was so wet! So I was walking around  soaking, when I saw this roller coaster that I all of a sudden had this intense  desire to ride. But as I was waiting in line I could feel this sensation deep inside  me, this kind of tingly feeling. The feeling of both danger and safety coming  together at the same time. I was looking at this huge thing and I was initially  scared, but I knew it was safe to ride this because the ride would be closed  down otherwise. Anyway, I got on, and to my surprise this roller coaster was  not like most roller coasters where there’s this long, slow climb to the top. This  one thrust forward so hard it nearly took my breath away, and the next thing I  knew I was going down screaming in ecstasy as my heart was beating faster  and faster….”    I think you get the idea. Just use words and descriptions that could be interpreted as  sexual in contexts that are obviously not and her unconscious will still process the  sexual meanings. 

 

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Closing Tactics    All right, so you’ve found a girl who meets the logistical requirements, you’ve  attracted her, inoculated her against her logical objections, framed her sexually, and  have escalated as much as you can in the club, it’s time to get her out of the bar and  into your bed.    The first thing you need to have in order is an excuse to take her to your house that  provides plausible deniability (Remember how you planted the seed for this early in  the interaction?). Few women will say yes to a direct offer to take her back to your  place for sex, but they will go to smoke hookah, or listen to a CD, or whatever. Give  her one of these reasons, and perhaps over‐sell it a bit (e.g. “I want you to hear this  CD by The Twilight Singers. It is the most chill, but intoxicating CD I’ve ever listened  to…It’s actually been permanently stuck in my CD player for 6 months now…It will  change your life!”).   

“Le Chateau”    Another thing I like to do and many other expert seducers have done is to give their  place a nickname. My current nickname is “Le Chateau”. Instead of inviting a   

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woman back to your place, an invitation that women almost instinctually or  habitually feel compelled to deny, you invite her to “Le Chateau”. “It’s this hot after hours spot where the booze pours freely all night (you do have booze at your house  don’t you? If not, get some—even if you don’t personally drink alcohol!), they play  the absolute best music and people have been known to dance till the sun comes up,  you can even bowl there (to justify this, I have the Nintendo Wii Bowling), and if you  really behave, they will even let you slip into the hottub (I have a hot tub, but you  could just turn your bath tub into the “hot‐tub” if you needed to).”    Come up with a nickname for your house and come up with a description of it that  sounds like it could be an after hours spot.     Don’t go overboard and make it sound too much like it is another club. The key to  this is to make it sound fun and provide her with just enough plausible deniability to  go. You can even later tell her, “Le Chateau is just my place, goofball.” By this point,  her instinctual urge to deny the opportunity will be abetted.   

Avoid “The Bounce”    A lot of seduction models advocate what is called “The Bounce”. Instead of taking  her home, you take her to a late night diner or something. I don’t mind a little bar‐

 

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hopping as a bounce if there are some chill bars in the very near vicinity because her  energy will stay up because you are still partying. But I think it is a waste to go to  places like a late night diner. What often happens is she gets tired, she gets full from  eating, she steps out of fun, party mode, and any alcohol or drugs in her system start  wearing off and she begins to crash. All of these things will kill her desire to hook up  that night. So skip the bounce and just get her to your place.    Another way to do this is to go for the false bounce. A lot of cities have the afterhours  club and you can bounce her to one of these, but they don’t tend to open for an  hour or so after the regular clubs close down and you need to bring your own booze,  typically. So you’re going to need to stop by your house and grab the necessary  booze and wait the time till the venue opens. Voila! She is in your house…and I  wonder what you two could do to kill the time? Execute properly and you won’t  even have to go to the after‐hours, unless you really want to!   

“Skow!”    A great tactic I have used several times, I learned from Jefffy of Real Social Dynamics.  I’m unsure of the spelling, so bear with me on that. The tactic is called “Skow!”, a  contraction for “let’s go” said all as a monosyllabic word while dragging her towards  the exit. So you’ve told her about playing Rock Band (or whatever reason you have 

 

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concocted for going to your place) and the time is right to leave, just grab her by the  arm and yell “Skow!” and start heading for the door.     This exhibits the type of warm dominance that women find incredibly attractive and  if you’ve done this while her buying temperature is high enough, she will be  compelled to go with you right then. And don’t be afraid to say “Skow!” multiple  times on your way out to reconfirm your dominance and that you are leaving.   

Setting Up A Meet Up For Later      This is a tactic I am only giving in the full version of the book.  A majority of  methods encourage you to aim for what is known as a D2 or Timebridge.  This is just  jargon for setting up a meeting or date in the future.    This is an acceptable strategy for methods that don’t focus on getting SNLs and for  eventually getting the women who don’t fit the logistical criteria for getting the SNL.    But there is a far more powerful use for this tactic.    Here’s how you want to use this tactic to ensure the SNL.  You want to prep her for a  future meet up where you will be doing exactly what you plan on using as an excuse 

 

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to pull her to your house.  Then set an actual time and place you are going to do this  together.  Once again, I like to use the example of smoking hookah.  I will prep her by  mentioning the hookah, then later set up a time on a future date when we are going  to get together and do it.  It’s typically best to say that a bunch of your friends like to  get together and do it on weekday like Tuesday or Wednesday.  This makes it low‐ pressure and easier for her to agree to the future meet up.  You’re probably wondering, “How is this a tactic for getting SNL?”  Well, the secret  is, I’ve only actually gone on the future meet up a very small number of times.  What  you are doing is alleviating her fear that if she hooks up with you too quickly, she  won’t ever see you again.    If you have the future meet up firmly set up, she will not experience this concern.   Then all you have to do is pull her back to your place to do exactly what you set up  to do in the future that night.  This is the true power of setting up the future  meet up!  You will notice a drastically higher compliance rate in getting a woman  back to your place by just implementing this strategy effectively.     

 

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Get Her Friends Permission    The best thing to do when actually leaving the venue is to just have the girl tell her  friends she is leaving for any reason she can make up (assuming there are no  transportation problems for the rest of the girls if she leaves). Then you can just  leave from the venue.    Sometimes, however, it may be necessary to get the friends permission to take her  away. If you have run solid game, her friends already like you. I like to prep them  early on by saying things like, “Your friend and I like each other…Are you cool with  that?” This tends to force them to be complicit with her seduction. So later in the  night when you and your girl are leaving, you can just say, “Hey, is it cool if I kidnap,  Breanne. We are going to go get some coffee to sober us up.” Because they like you  and have already consented that they don’t mind that you like each other, they will  feel obligated to say it’s cool with them.    Make sure you tell them you are going to do something innocent. This demonstrates  savvy and further demonstrates that Objection #4 is not going to be an issue with  you.   

 

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BabyStepping    Often times a woman will not just go with you to your house so you need to do what  is referred to as baby‐stepping. Say she rebuffs your invitation to go to your house  and smoke hookah, you can get her to do some intermediary steps to eventually get  you to your place.    I know most guys love to get as close of a parking spot to the venue as possible, but I  advise against this for a few reasons. The first being that the time spent walking to  the sets can be used to make “warm‐up” approaches. My first few approaches of the  night tend to be a bit less than smooth but after the first few, the awkwardness  subsides. I just need to get into talkative, approach mode. Why not do this BEFORE  you enter the venue?    But the more important reason is that at the end of the night I will tell my target that  I parked far away and can she give me a ride to my car. Almost no girl will refuse  this request and she will drive you to your car.    When you get to your car, you can then say, “You know I’m a little drunk right now, I  don’t know if I should be driving right now. Can you just give me a ride home so I  don’t have to get a DUI tonight. I live really close.” Say you live close even if you live  far away. I know of expert seducers that use this line even when they live 45   

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minutes away. Distance is a relative thing anyway. A 45‐minute drive is close  compared to a cross‐country expedition. Often the further away you actually live,  the better, she will be more inclined to want to stay awhile if she has driven a half  hour to get to your place.    Some guys may be worried about leaving their car, but you’re going to be getting  laid, who cares about your car!? Get it in the morning or after you’ve hooked up you  can have your girl drive you back to it that same night, because you have now  sobered up!    While in the car ride it is important to keep spiking her emotions and her buying  temperature. Awkward silences on the car ride will kill the mood and she will just  drop you off and leave. In the silence, she will start thinking logically about what  she is about to do, and this may cause her to not want to hook up because she wants  to preserve the self‐image that she is NOT a slut. To avoid this, all you have to do is  keep the interaction fun and playful during the entire drive and she will definitely be  excited to come in and do whatever excuse you’ve concocted to get her inside.   

“I’m Not Going To Sleep With You”    You will often hear women utter these words before she leaves the club with you or 

 

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when you get her in your house. The only response you need, “I believe you  believe that.”    Here’s the deal, “I am NOT going to sleep with you” is pretty equivalent of her saying  “I AM going to sleep with you.” This is because by uttering this she is demonstrating  that she is in fact thinking about sleeping with you. A woman often feels like she  needs to say these things so that you don’t view her as a slut, to provide her with  plausible deniability (“I told him I wasn’t going to sleep with him”), and to relieve  herself of the responsibility of the actions that are certainly going to happen. Any  time you hear these words, smile on the inside, you are almost assuredly getting  laid.   

Objection Removal    A question I like to ask is, “What would have to happen in order for us to have sex?”  This question gets her to aid in her own seduction. Any objections she feels like she  has to having sex with you, she will tell you how to get around it. Get her talking  about this and take care of any objections she may currently possess. And you’ll be  surprised how often a woman will say, “nothing, let’s go” –OR “We would need to be  somewhere private.”   

 

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Another sneaky thing about this question is that it implies that you ARE going to  have sex. You just need to get rid of any last objections to sex before it happens.   

She Wants To Hook Up    I have a near 100% “close rate” when I get a girl to my house after meeting them that  very same night. If a girl is coming to your house to after a night at the club, it is  because she wants to hook up! Plain and simple. Girls don’t really tend to go to  some guys house in the middle of the night after partying to just hang out. She just  doesn’t want to be responsible for the sex. This is why you have to give her a  different reason why you are going to your house. This gives her the plausible  deniability she requires to avoid feeling like she is a slut.    I’m not going to give you any actual mechanics in this eBook for how to actually seal  the deal, because I think it is completely straightforward. Just keep leading the  interaction until it occurs. For an example I use to close girls, read my article,  Guitar Hero Gets Me Laid.   

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Some women are more comfortable having sex in their own homes. Although it is  often more difficult to ensure SNL at her place, because you won’t be able to control  all logistical factors in her home (you are not master of this domain), you definitely  should proceed anyway. You’ve put all this effort in already, may as well follow  through. You are still dominant and can lead the interaction to sex.    If you get to her house and she just wants to be dropped off and go in alone, don’t let  this happen. Tell her you need to use the bathroom and then you are in her place.  Be dominant, have her give you the tour, and tell her you really need a drink or  something. Keep moving things forward and make things happen.   

Fear of The Empty Apartment    So you went out, interacted with as many women as you possibly could, screened  for logistics, but now the night is over and you didn’t pull any women back to your  place.  Is it game over?  No!  Several years ago I was watching the movie, Rodger Dodger, when the idea for this  tactic came to me.  The protagonist of the film had a tactic he used to find girls for  SNL.  He would go to a bar right before last call and allow “the fear of the empty  apartment” to do the work for him.   

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I agree with the principle, but disagree with the tactic.  What you will often see at  bars and clubs right before and right after last call is what I refer to affectionately as  the “Last Call Scramble”.  Everyone kicks their attempts to hook up into turbo‐mode  because they are just about out of time.  First off:  Don’t be this guy!  Leave the bar BEFORE last call to avoid reeking of the  desperation the Last Call Scramble will bestow upon anyone still making attempts to  hook up that night.  Trust me on this.  These attempts are more often than not futile.   You will most likely just look desperate and pathetic, and her friends will cock‐block  even harder than normal (Remember: “We came together…and we are just about  to leave together!”).  But…  The principle still holds true.  Because women love sex and that is why they are  going to the bar in the first place.  There truly IS a “fear of the empty apartment”.   No woman wants to be the “undesired” woman that went home to feed her cat and  go to bed alone.  She wants to be the woman having pornstar sex with the  awesome guy she just met.    So how to deal with this conundrum?  Remember how I told you to get ALL the numbers for girls who didn’t meet the  logistical requirements?  Well now you’re going to use them.   

 

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The Charming Rogue™ Presents:                                         Secrets of Same Night Lays    What you’re going to do is send a text saying “Hey sexy (or if you gave her a  nickname, use that instead)… What are you doing?”  If she responds with anything to the effect of “Nothing” or “just at home”, invite her  over!   It will probably amaze you how often she will take you up on this offer now  that she is home alone, wishing she was with someone, AND her friends are no  longer there to judge her or block her.  (Note: You can also use this tactic to pull off a “doubleheader” if you are feeling  extra‐frisky that night.  Just do the above after the girl you initially brought home  leaves your place. I once did this 3 times in one night in a Viagra‐fueled frenzy.)               

 

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Get Out There!   

Now you have the tools necessary to pull SNLs consistently.  I can’t stress enough  how important it is to actually get out there and start putting this into action!  Start integrating the tools, tactics, and techniques I have taught you in this book into  every interaction  .  Keep this information in the back of your mind every time you interact with women.   Focus on one or two of the techniques each time you go until you gain mastery over  it.  Then go on to another tactic.  Soon you, too, will be taking a woman home with  you every night you step foot in a bar or nightclub.    Feel free to email me your questions, success stories, or any comments or additions  you would like to make about this eBook. I can be reached at  [email protected]. I look forward to hearing from you and good luck.   

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