SCIENCE OF LOVE By John Baines “Corrupt Love” Summary
EVOLUTION OF LOVE YESTERDAY
Pure utilitarian function TODAY
Egoic, corrupt love FUTURE
True, divine, conscious love
CORRUPT LOVE Egoic, unconscious, disconnected mind version of love
Awakening into a conscious being
THE PROCESS TRUE LOVE Genuine spiritual love as part of the development of the awakened being
CORRUPT LOVE Corrupt love is a result of man not living in the divine truth of consciousness and/or being lost in his ego identity.
It is only through conscious awareness that corrupt love can be transcended within the human experience.
CORRUPT LOVE IS… All forms of corrupt love are simply egoic, unconscious psychological behavioural patterns. All egoic behavioural patterns, whether called love or not, come from fear. Corrupt love is therefore psychological patterns we call “love” but which are actually beahviours based on fear.
TYPES OF CORRUPT LOVE ! Ignorance
! Magnetic Drunkness
! Using Marriage
! Heterosuggestion
! Withholding Oneself
! Oedipus and Electra Complex
! Narcissism and Jealousy
! Diana Complex
! Amorous Human Automaton ! Symbiosis ! Vampirism
! Daydream Phantom ! Sado-Masochism
TYPES OF CORRUPT LOVE ! Compulsive Sexual Pleasure
! Making a Women a Sex Object
! Macho & Matriarchal Behaviour ! False Romanticism ! Social Substitutes
! Frigidity and Impotence
! Having Children
! Hysteria
! Artificial Obligations ! Loneliness and Anxiety
C AT E G O R I E S O F C O R RU P T L OV E ! There are 3 categories of Corrupt Love that all the types fall into:
Unconscious
Unbalanced
Programmed
! Most types of corrupt love are born out of being unconscious: •
When people are unconscious, they live in an unhealthy ego and are therefore at the mercy of a slew of negative psychological behavioural patterns
! When people are unbalanced in their masculine and feminine polarities, they are unable to connect with their sexual counterpart •
When this is combined with being unconscious, they are further subject to the psychological patterns that result from this unbalanced energy
! Programming happens as a result of social and societal conditioning that drives people to enter relationships for the wrong reasons
C AT E G O R I E S O F C O R RU P T L OV E UNCONSCIOUS
UNBALANCED
PROGRAMMED
Ignorance
Oedpius & Electra
Using Marriage
Withholding Oneself
Diana Complex
Heterosuggestion
Narcissim & Jealousy
Matriarchal & Macho
Artificial Obligations
Amorous Automaton
Frigidity and Impotence
Having Children
Vampirism Oedipus & Electra Symbiosis Daydream Phantom Sado Masochism Loneliness & Anxiety
False Romantiscism
IGNORANCE ! Humankind is largely still unconscious and is therefore unaware of what true divine love actually is ! True love requires total polarity between men and women ! Without awareness, men and women cannot attain this and therefore remain in ignorance
USING MARRIAGE ! Marriage is not evidence of true love; it does not mean that true love can’t exist within marriage but only that marriage does not mean that it does exist ! A form of corrupt love is therefore those that see marriage as an end goal, as opposed to true, divine love itself which does not need marriage to exist
WITHHOLDING ONESELF ! A transactional style of relationship ! When there is a dichotomy between the internal an external relationship ! Externally and physically there is an exchange; often where the woman gives her body and the man gives money ! Internally, though, there is no real divine connection or love
NARCISSISM & JEALOUSY ! Jealousy is a pure egoic reaction that originates from a fear frequency and is therefore not real love ! A jealous person is a true narcissist because to allow this emotion to drive decisions is to act in pure self-interest ! Psycho-analytically, narcissism is self-centeredness arising from failure to distinguish the self from external objects. This is the definition of pure ego. ! Someone in a purely egoic state can never connect with true, divine love.
AMOROUS HUMAN AUTOMATON ! Describes the partner of an extreme narcissist . ! The extreme narcissist is so deeply empty and so blindly connected to the external world for a definition of themselves, that they seek a partner to further define them, in that external world ! This person has been dubbed the “Amorous Human Automaton” because of the required robotic qualities to be a partner of an extreme narcissist.
HETEROSUGGESTION ! Describes the relationships that happen as a result of programming through: • Societal “expectations” and public opinion • Cultural indoctrination - customs and traditions
! These are relationships that happen because it is felt that they “should” happen (for whatever reason) not because of true love.
OEDIPUS & ELECTRA ! Individuals in these relationships are seeking a substitute for a mother or father ! This is an egoic behavioural pattern, normally through a conditioned childhood response which prevents the person from moving out of ego ! It can lead to many unhealthy issues mostly due to the parent-child style of relationship required to fulfill this conditioned psychological state
THE DIANA COMPLEX ! When a woman exhibits an exaggerated masculine energy ! Science of Love holds that men and women must be in perfect polarity and therefore any examples of unbalanced energy in either male or female are forms of corrupt love ! This is a form of matriarchal and/or macho behaviour ! These behaviours are often triggered by an ego that feels threatened.
VAMPIRISM ! Because the person is empty inside, they seek another to “suck” the life from another. ! This is a function of living in pure ego and not being connected to pure divine love internally.
SYMBIOSIS ! Where people find another person to fill the empty void inside themselves instead of seeking true divine love to fill themselves so they can then give properly to another in a relationship ! Describes an unhealthy dependence on the partner that is bred from fear and not love ! It can be due to extreme insecurity, sadist or masochistic tendencies, or living in an egoic personality pattern such as extreme shyness, ignorance, etc.
DAYDREAM PHANTOM ! Defines themselves completely through daydreams formed and fed by the external world ! They live in a false idea of themselves which eventually leads to intense feelings of disappointment – there are documented psychological disorders of this nature such as “Perfection Malfunction Disorder” ! Similar to those in symbiosis, the daydream phantom seeks “love” with another person to fill an empty void internally
SADO-MASOCHISM ! Is another example of an unhealthy egoic behavioural pattern that drives unbalanced relationships ! It is an example of a “symbiosis” relationship as described earlier
PSYCHOLOGICAL SEXUAL APPETITE ! Compulsive search for sex that ultimately drives behaviours, actions and decisions ! The definition of a man “ruled by his penis” ! Driven by indoctrination and programming from popular culture – therefore an example of Heterosuggestion
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