LOVE SYSTEMS STUDY Magic Bullets by Savoy Magic Bullets has been called the Bible or teaching men how to succeed with women. Written by the Love Systems President Nick Savoy, this book gives a step-by-step breakdown o how to approach, attract, build a connection and get intimate with the women you want. Make this the rst book to read as you improve your skills with women.
Daytime Dating by Jeremy Soul Te denitive resource on day game, Jeremy Soul’s Daytime Dating teaches you how to meet and attract women on the sidewalks, in coee shops and at the malls. I you’re too busy to go out at night, don’t enjoy bars or want to make ast connections, this book is the one you want to read. I recommend reading it beore taking a Day Game Workshop.
Te Ultimate Guide to ext and Phone Game by Braddock and Mr M Without a doubt, this guide is the most comprehensive resource on phone and text. It contains real examples o texts rom Braddock and Mr M, and it has breakdowns o how to deal with dierent types o girls. I you’re getting phone numbers yet lots o akes, the strategies in this book are something you need to read. Best book on any single subject out there.
Te Gentleman’s Guide to Online Dating by Derek Cajun A long time coming, Te Gentleman’s Guide to Online Dating gives real, proven strategies or getting girls o the Internet. Tis book is not some uy bookstore how-to book. You’ll get real chat logs, step-by-step setups or a prole that gets girls messaging you, plus there is Derek Cajun’s amous question game. Tis game alone is worth the price o the book in my opinion. See my ull review here.
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Beyond Words: Te Art o Body Language and Physical Escalation by Derek Cajun, Vercetti, Mr M, Keychain and 5.0 Great resource or guys who know the basics o pick up and want to take their game to the next level. On this DVD you’ll view tons o live classroom demonstrations and see the instructors speak. ips, tricks and secrets rom the world o theater, acting and years o experience by the best pick up minds in the business go into this top seller.
Social Circle Mastery by Braddock and Mr M Tis DVD set was created by two o the most well-connected men in the Hollywood and London night-lie scenes. All o the strategies are tried and tested, developed rom years o trial and error. I you’ve got decent game and want to develop a liestyle with coolest dudes and the hottest women, these DVD set the course.
Relationship Management by Savoy otally hidden gem. Tis DVD set has been around or a little while. I you have polished dating skills and are seeing multiple women, looking or a girlriend, riend with benets or even threesomes, Savoy lays it all out here. Bonus topics include a live Q & A session and the secrets to know i she’ll cheat on you.
Inside the Black Box: 11 Essentials by Love Systems Tis 13-hour DVD set contains the best speeches rom the 2010 PUA Super Conerence in Las Vegas. On top o that, there is extra video and lessons inserted by Savoy that you can use instantly to meet women. Tere really is something or everybody in this DVD set, and I’ve posted the a ull review o it here.
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Love Systems Routines Manual, Vol. 1 by Love Systems Te Love Systems Routines Manual – oers the very best and most eective openers, conversation starters, stories and routines rom all o the very best guys out there. Includes routines rom Savoy, Te Don, Mystery, Sinn, Brad P., Fader, Jeremy Soul, Mr. M, Braddock, Cajun, Captain Jack, Badboy, yler Durden and more!
Love Systems Routines Manual, Vol. 2 by Love Systems Tis the second volume o Rountines. Building on the knowledge contained in Routines Manual Vol. I, this book gives you even more brand new, concrete, action oriented tactics that you can go out and use with beautiul women tonight.
Love Systems Interview Series Subscription by Love Systems Each month you’ll receive an audio le containing a 60-90 minute interview with world-class Love Systems instructors and/or special guests. Each interview will be jam-packed with powerul strategies and tactics or meeting and seducing attractive women that any man can use.
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RECOMMENDED CLASSIC WRITINGS Te Attraction Forums contains all o the best posts rom past and present Love Systems instructors. You’ll nd my Nick Hoss classic writings there as well. Here are classic writings rom other instructors that I recommend:
BIG BUSINESS “Owning the Interaction” – About being unphased by tests and dead-end responses. Short and sweet.
BONSAI “Sunk Cost Applied to Dating and Relationships” – I I had applied this earlier in my lie, I could have cut some bad relationships beore they turned bad.
BRADDOCK “Braddock’s Inner Game” - Nice reading list in here. Also, it helped me to ride through the on and o cycle o inconsistency when I started in cold approach. “Girl has a boyriend, but I know she likes me” - Don’t let the title ool you. Tis article’s underlying message can be applied to any hot/cold relationship. “Golden Rule o building a social circle” – Tis article came out as the Social Circle Mastery DVDs were being released. Te list o social circle rules to live by is a pretty gangster one that I can tell come rom other proven resources. I printed them out and put them on my bulletin board when I was networking in college. Tey work. “How do I date hotter girls? ‘Proximity is Power’ ” - I you want to date hotter girls, you have two choices: beat your head against the wall like I did or read this article. “Oneitus?” - Quit pitying yoursel and stop whining about your ex. She’s not coming back... or so it says here. “Q and A on Love” - I you’ve been dumped, this is worth a read. I you eel yoursel “alling in love,” this is worth two reads. NickHoss.com
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CAJUN “Advanced Body Language” Part 1 || Part 2 || Part 3 - Best body language articles out there, in my opinion. My non-verbals hit a new level aer implementing some o the stu mentioned in these posts. “Inner Game: Experience and Mindset” – One o the most underrated parts o building inner game is the trials by re you must go through to build it. Derek nails it here. I had a paradigm shi about aer reading the mindset part a couple o times.
DAHUNER “Belies – Gold” – Successul belies create successul thoughts create successul actions. “Desire = Lower Value” – Remember when reading this article that value is relative, not absolute… I you don’t understand what that means, come back to this one later. “How to Get More 10’s” – Tere are very ew guys in this business who get true 10s, like billboard model 10s… Dahunter writes this article rom experience. “Right Action, Right Emotion” – An integral concept to masculine control o the sel. Also very hard to do day aer day aer day. Start here to begin operating by this rule. “Sexual Hoops” – At damn near every bootcamp I’ve sat in on, the students are told to read this article when they get home. It gives a roadmap to turning things sexual. Classic, a must-read.
DAXX “Ingraining New Belies (Belies – Gold post by DaHunter Continued)” – I you think that you’re going to take a weekend bootcamp and then start dating 10s, you’re sadly, sadly mistake. However, this post lays the ramework o how to build the resquisite inner game over time to date hotter women.
FADER “Te Victim Mentality (How to Rewrite Our Stories and Change Our Roles)” – Tis is a required reading or beginners. I you sat down with Fader or a hal-hour, you’d be blown away by his ability to relate and empathize with your story. Tis article will help you write its uture chapters. NickHoss.com
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JEREMY SOUL “A Superior Way to Demonstrate Value” – I you read this one closely, you’ll see that this article is the beginning o what we now call “mastery topics” or day game. “Day Walking: Te Dierences between Day and Night Game” – Te beginners intro to day game and the most highly read day game article on AF. “Dealing With Jealousy, Envy and Other Bad Emotions” – Te mark o masculine maturity is being able to control your emotions. Jeremy is one o the most centred people I’ve met. Tis article is one that I continue to re-read. “Quality vs. Quantity in Love, Sex and Relationships” - How your standards change as your social skills improve. Tis one may only make sense i you’ve been going out or a while. “Stop Hanging Out with Unsuccessul People” – I only truly began to re-examine my social circle aer reading this article. Some real talk in here.
KEYCHAIN “Keychain’s Daygame Primer” – Good start to day game. Te trap o seeking reactions o o direct openers really resonated with me when I was beginning in day game.
MR M “Comprehensive Guide to Attraction” – Such a solid roadmap to the dierent types o attraction. Tis one will benet intermediate/advanced guys who know when it is the right time/place to pump certain types o attraction or the beginners who want to know the dierent types. “Guide to Qualication” – I’m linking to this article not only because Jim gives a solid analysis, but also because there is a link to a great article written by Sinn years ago that I learned a lot rom. Sets are won and lost in qualication, and i you’re getting akes, you’re qualication probably needs work. “INNER GAME – Te Secret o Attractive Reactiveness” – I you want to get good, you need to know the proper way to react during conversation. Natural game stu. “ruth About Routines - Revealing the Natural’s Way o Being” – Jim shoots it straight about whether or not routines work, and i and when you should use them. NickHoss.com
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NICK HOSS “Common Day Game Mistakes” - I wrote this article while lying in bed one night answering a student’s day game question in the Love Systems Lounge. I just kept thinking o the most common things I see guys do wrong when I teach them day game. It’s a must or day game beginners and my most popular. “Does Eye Contact Matter?” – Eye contact can be difcult to hold i you’re not used to it, but it’s probably not as big o a deal as you may think. “How to build Pre-Selection and Social Proo with 9s and 10s” – Tis is as close as you’ll ever come to seeing me write a eld report (which are pretty much non-existent nowadays anyway). Don’t let the title ool you, the concept will work with any woman in the bar; it just happens to be a little more pertinent to meeting the hottest women. (I don’t make the rules!) “How to Maximize your Facebook Prole” – I got insanely good at utilizing Facebook or passive social proo while in university. College guys will benet rom this the most, but everybody who uses Facebook will get something out o it. “Indirect Day Game vs. Direct Day Game” – Tere are times you should go direct and times you should go indirect. I outline them here and give examples you can use as openers. “Nick Hoss’ Mixed Set Openers” - Tere is so much outdated and contradictory advice on how to open mixed sets. I you have a little balls and use these tips, you’ll have no problem busting into sets that have guys in them. “Putting Social Circle Mastery into context” – You run social circle game dierent depending on what context you are in. Te same principles apply, but you utilize them in dierent ways. Tis article breaks down the dierences between SCM or clubs and SCM or more casual contexts. “Te Guide to Proper Cold Reading” – Cold reading isn’t difcult, but many guys misunderstand how to complete a cold read properly. I simpliy it in this article. “ransitioning rom a Direct Opener” - Tis answers a very common question rom both day and night game beginners.
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SARLIGH “Liestyle Design: Integrating Your Interests into your Liestyle” – Jesse gave a great speech at the 2011 Super Conerence on this topic. A stepping stone to building a great liestyle.
ENMAGNE “I don’t want a relationship right now” – I you have ever wondered how to properly rame a non-committed relationship this is the way to do it. Great understanding o emale psychology. “Rock Solid Inner Game!” – I’ve always respected Chris because he, like me, detests the superhero marketing within the industry that always tells guys they need to do more o this and more o that. Tis article proves that i you enhance your best sel, you’ll succeed most o the time and never all o the time. Honest, rereshing, beore its time. “Te Video Camera” – Aer reading this article, my condence around people shot up quite quickly. You’d be surprised how many people are sel-concious.
VENURE “Q&A Session with Venture: Same Night Lays” - Tis was made a classic post aer Project Rockstar 2011. Andy does a ridiculously comprehensive public Q & A on SNLs, his specialty. Tese are Lounge quality answers and I picked up a ew things rom it or sure.
VERCEI “Approaching the Mixed Set – Keys to Success” – My avorite article by V, and it’s my deault way to open mixed sets.
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RECOMMENDED ARTICLES “Adopt a Philosophy o Abundance” by DeadEyeDick. Te Attraction Forums – My dating lie opened up when I learned how power an abundance mindset can be; so did the other areas o my lie. A concept key to success. “Carbeau does Day Game Seduction” by Carbeau. Lie With Soul – I’ve read surprisingly ew FRs in my time, but I lapped up everything when learning day game since there wasn’t much out there. Carbeau is a ormer LS instructor and this in-depth FR o his provides incredible detail o a day game approach and what ollows. Originally rom the Lounge. “Clarity and Purpose – Making Sure You Know What You Want” by Sheri. Te Attraction Forums – Ironically, you’ll increase your success i you narrow down your ocus. I you’re looking to date a certain type o woman but aren’t nding her, read this one. “Connecting the Dots (by Steve Jobs) & Introducing Nick Hoss” by Jeremy Soul. Lie with Soul – Tis article resonated me particularly well, mostly because it is written about me and how I became a Love Systems instructor! Te original speech is denitely worth a read i you’re going through disappointing times. “Direct Qualiying… which meanders into a Field Report” by Savoy. Te Real Savoy – Te bulk o guys in pick up are beginners, so there are tons o articles or newbies. However, there are ew advanced ones out nowadays. Tis is a good one or intermediate guys looking to amp up their qualication skills. “Flaking Never treat somebody like a priority when they treat you like an option” by enmagnet. enmagnet’s Blog – A solid, o-cited post about what level o investment to approach your dates with. You’ll save yoursel a lot o anguish and akes by reading this one. “Focus on Fundamentals” by Sinn. Te Attraction Forums – Ironically, we don’t teach routines anymore, but this old school article by Sinn highlights a common problem I notice with boot camp students. For the new guys. “Future’s Big 10, Part 8: Everything I say is Right, and Everything is going According to Plan” by Future. Futuristic Words – Although he probably doesn’t remember it, I had a 15 minute phone call with Future in 2010, and it was this piece o advice that helped me realize I didn’t have to be perect when talking to women.
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“Inner Game” by Savoy. Te Real Savoy – I’ve always liked this short one ull o reminders. “Kill Beatrice” by Future. Futuristic Words – Best written article in the industry. Read once. Read twice. “Microcalibration” by Sinn. Te Attraction Forums – Sinn used to be thee lead instructor o LS beore my time. I learned a lot rom reading his stu. Tis article is old school, but it does break down the hard-to-break down topic o calibrating. “[Dating Coach Braddock] On Going Supernova” by Braddock. Braddock’s Blog - Tis post echoes the sentiment that a lot us instructors live by, and the liestyles we are working on. Always liked Braddock’s inner game stu. “Playing Hard to Get” by yler Durden. Te Attraction Forums – Another good one or new guys. It should produce some “ah-ha” moments when you think about your past successes. “Social Vibing” by yler Durden. Te Attraction Forums - One o my all-time avorites about how to just be a chill dude during conversations. “Supernova” by Dahunter. Te Attraction Forums – Want to know the one thing nearly every LS instructor is working on right now??? Click it. “en Uncomortable ruths” by Lucier214. Te Attraction Forums – New guys should denitely have a look at this one about the acts o dating and sex. It’s real talk and all true. “Te Most Important rait o Being an Alpha Male” by Sheri. Te Attraction Forums Sheri was one o the original LS instructors. In this article, he explains that the most dominant guys are leaders and sociable. “Te Price o Mastery” by Future. Futuristic Words – Future dishes some real talk about what it takes to reach a level o mastery and some o the unorseen social hurdles that can pop up along the way to it. “Value and Active Disinterest” by yler Durden. Te Attraction Forums – Read this with a grain o salt since it’s pretty old school, but there is some gold about how high value people inherently act in high value venues. “Value Sub-communication” by Sinn. Te Attraction Forums - We have tons o products on subcommunications, but this was the article that introduced me to how they work. As such, I now always think “What am I subcommunicating?” not “What am I communicating?” NickHoss.com
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“What Makes a Great Dating Coach” by Braddock. Braddock’s Blog - I you’re going to do live training read up on this article. Tere are some many charlatain, small-time operators out there. Do you research. “Why ‘Nice Guys’ are ofen such LOSERS” by Heartless Bitches International - Somebody sent me this article to check out. Usually I disregard stu outside o the PU industry, but man, this one really nails it dead on. itle says it all. “Why You Don’t Have Advanced Game... Yet” Part 1 || Part 2 || Part 3 || Part 4 || Part 5 by Nick Hoss. Braddock’s Blog – Maybe my avorite writing and its not even on my blog! Once you reach a certain tipping point on the path to getting great, you’ll be stuck at the oasis o being good. It’s a tricky and rustrating place to be at, and i you eel you’re stuck at 7s and 8s, this article will help you move up. “2011 Up to Date Community and Guide” by Surreak. Te Attraction Forums – Tis should be a required reading or every newbie! Written by one o my ormer mini-seminar attendees who knows what he’s talking about. “25 Point Checklist o things NO to do” by yler Durden. Te Attraction Forums – New guys will get a lot o value out o this one. Te undamentals always ring true.
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RECOMMENDED AUDIO AND VIDEO AUDIO “10 Game Audio” by Braddock and Mr M - Want the 9s and 10s Interview Series or ree? Here ya go. Great ino, hal the length o the 9s and 10s IVS. “Advanced Day Game - Audio” Part 1 || Part 2 || Part 3 || Part 4 by Nick Hoss and Stryker Stu on here you won’t hear elsewhere. You have to be able to hold down sets to use this one. “Appearance and Wealth” by Nick Hoss - Real content rom a day game mini seminar about the titled subjects and their importance in meeting women. “Day Game Approach Q & A” by Nick Hoss - I answer some o the most common questions I receive. Tis is rom a New York mini-seminar. “Day Game Beginner Audio” Part 1 || Part 2 || Part 3 || Part 4 || Part 5 || Part 6 by Nick Hoss Tis is a one-hour call or guys who are new to day game. Gives an intro to mini-seminars too. “Day Game Mindsets” by Nick Hoss - Tis one has become an inner game avorite o day gamers. “Dating Coaches Interview” by Future and Braddock - I you’re having rough nights, think club girls are air-heads or are trying to have more un, this interview puts things in perspective. “Introduction to the Love Systems riad Model” by Nick Hoss - I recorded this or the 2011 PUA Super Conerence. I you don’t know what the riad is, watch this. It’s step one to success. “Love Systems on College Game Pick Up” by Nick Hoss - Straight rom a college game mini seminar. Tis is my own spin on college game, recorded only months aer I nished college. “PUA 9s and 10s Game” Part 1 || Part 2 || Part 3 || Part 4 by Nick Hoss and Helicase - Helicase is one o the ew instructors in the community who can consistently get 9s and 10s. We dediced to combine orces to give 9 and 10 ino that you won’t nd in previous material.
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VIDEO “Nick Hoss Day Game Ineld Video” by Nick Hoss - Watch me get a phone number rom a pretty Swedish girl... with commentary breaking down how I do it. “Nick Hoss Client Day Game Phone Number Ineld Video” by Nick Hoss - My client Matt rom Project Rockstar gets a girls phone number. Tis video rst shows his words then has a breakdown by me just like on a program. Tere is also a written breakdown aerward in the post. “Nick Hoss Client Direct Day Game Video” by Nick Hoss - My client Adam gives a really smooth direct opener and witty transition in this one. It’s a solid example. Tere is also a written breakdown aerward in the post. “PUA Cajun Pickup Interview Advanced – Part 1” w/Cajun. Mark Sparks. Te Mens Room V - Derek Cajun talks about throwing in (sexual) statements o intent or “SOIs” in this video. Inserting these into my game sling-shot most o sets into qualication. “enmagnet and Cajun’s Low Budget Podcast - On Approach Anxiety” by enmagnet and Cajun - Te guys break down the reality o approach anxiety and give strategies to overcome it.
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FREE ADVICE Love Systems Dating Advice (i.e. Past Love Systems Insider newsletters) - Tese are some o the most polished articles a newbie could read. Love Systems Youube Channel - We have a plethora o videos on here. Savoy gives tons o quick tips and there are videos o past current instructors ineld approaches. Uncensored: Te real story o Te Real Savoy by Savoy - Savoy made an e-book o all his best blog posts. I like reading the old stu. Nice resource written by a legend o this business. @LS_NickHoss - Nick Hoss witter - I’m constantly tweeting one-line tips. It’s a real rave amongst my clients.
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MAINSTREAM RESOURCES MOVIES Doors, Te, starring Val Kilmer. 1991 - I’m an insane Jim Morrison an, and you can learn a lot about body language rom watching him on stage. However, most o his clips on Youube are quite short or have him humping a microphone. Tis movie gives great scenes o him poeticizing and sexualizing his presence. (Te real Jim Morrison sel-taught all o his stage moves.) Fight Club, starring Brad Pitt and Edward Norton. 1997 - I’ve watched this movie no less than 25 times through the metaphor o pick-up as ghting. I you weren’t an English major (like me), picture your current sel as the narrator, played by Edward Norton, and your uture sel as yler Durden. Te movie goes rom the narrator (that nagging voice in your head that keeps you in your comort zone o conormity) being a wuss pushed around by the world to being the selreliant alter ego, yler Durden. By the end, he reachesnatural balance. It’s an inner game transormation played out.
BOOKS Bly, Robert. Iron John. 1990 – Splendidly written book by a ormer U.S. poet laureate that metaphorically traces the cycle a man must go through in order to “let down his golden hair” and embrace true masculine essence. Te cornerstone book o the mythopoetic men’s movement o the early nineties... It’s easy and un to read. I couldn’t put it down. Carnegie, Dale. How to Win Friends and Inuence People . 1936 – Absolute classic on building social connections. Can serve you well when working on your comort game, but it’s more o a must or understanding how to build long-term rapport with people. Deida, David. Te Way o the Superior Man . 1997 – BUY HIS BOOK. Beore any other book tangental to game, buy this one. Te 21st century depth o understanding Deida has on this sub ject is unreal. I always recommend guys buy this book aer my seminars. Dispenza, Joe. Evolve Your Brain. 2006 – A lot o science goes into this book o how the brain works. I ound it interesting that we can slowly pave the (neuro) pathways our thoughts take. Science backing up theory abounds in this one. Dyer, Wayne. Pulling Your Own Strings. 1978 – Tis book is all about boundary unction. Good or beginners and good to read again when you reach higher levels o game.
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Dyer, Wayne. Your Erroneous Zones. 1976 – Back beore Wayne Dyer turned so, this book shook the oundations o the sel-help industry. Tis is another one that helps you kick your own ass. Ferrazzi, Keith. Never Eat Alone. 2005 - Jeremy Soul turned me on to this one. Great book about building social connections. It’s as relevant to game as it is to business. A more intermediate/advanced read. Gallwey, W. imothy. Inner Game o ennis . 1973 – Tis is the book that coined the term “inner game.” As an athlete, it really resonated with me, helping to prove that you are not your results and other basic NLP talk applied to any skillset. Give it a gander. Gladwell, Malcolm. Blink. 2005 – I’d actually recommend this one along with Te ipping Point and Outliers. Blink more than covers the concept o thin slicing. It’s not a necessary read, but it will be one o the most enjoyable and engaging on this page. Hill, Napoleon. Tink and Grow Rich. 1937 – Te original sel-help book. It’s a good starter that I’ve read through a couple o times. Te story behind how the book came to ruition is a testament to its message, and the anecdotes are priceless. Keen, Sam. Fire in the Belly . 1992 – “A man must know where he is going and who is coming with him. I he get’s those two things out o order, he is in trouble.” Another gem out o the mythopoetic men’s movement, this is a therapeutic read and has some good advice littered throughout. Leonard, George. Mastery: Te Keys to Success an Long-erm Fulfllment . 1992 – Tis book has kind o become orgotten, but it made a lot o sense to me and really claried the importance and necessity o plateaus in the learning process as a means o attaining true mastery in any discipline. Maltz, Maxwell. Psycho-Cybernetics . 1960 – Maltz was a plastic surgeon who noticed that his patients dispositions didn’t change aer surgery — they still elt low sel esteem, despite their exterior problems being xed. From there, he wrote this book that teaches you how to reprogram the mental programming holding you back. A must or beginners.
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Nick holds the title o being voted the op Instructor at the 2011 PUA Super Conerence. He is also one o the ew experts in Day Game and Night Game. He’s also added new innovations to day game workshops, keeping Love Systems easy to learn and simple to use. Nick believes that with enough practice, anybody can become procient with dating. Check out his ull biography here. NickHoss.com
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