Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Training For Emotion Dysregulation Student Workbook Rachel Gill
Table of Contents TABLEOFCON ONTENTS
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PREFACE
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I NTROD ODUCTI ONTODBTPEER CONNECTI ONSSKI LLSTRAI NI NG
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SKILLS TRAIIG !"#RSE "$ER$IE% DBT 'EER !"DE "F !"D#!T +SREG#LATI" T)E BI"S"!IAL *"DEL F"R E*"TI" D +SREG#LATI" DBT %ISE *ID )AD"#T TI' !RISIS S#R$I$AL SKILLS )AD"#T . S TRATEG+ TRATEG+ %"RKS)EET ITR"D#!TI" T" TR"D#!TI" T" DIALE!TI!AL BE)A$I"R T)ERA'+ $IDE" . 0#I1 DBT DIAR+ !ARD / SETTI NG PERSONALGOALS&MAI NT AI NI NG MOTI VATI ON
S*ART G"ALS $ITALS SKILLS S*ART G"AL $ITALS %"RKS)EET DBT & LE$ELS "F $ALIDATI" )AD"#T DBT & LE$ELS "F $ALIDATI" %"RKS)EET DIAR+ !ARD %EEK 2 2
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COREMI NDFULNESSSKI LLS
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5%)AT6 SKILLS 5)"%6 SKILLS *IDF#LESS8 A DAIL+ 'RA!TI!E *IDF#LESS SKILLS %"RKS)EET DBT DIAR+ !ARD 7
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RADI!AL A!!E'TA!E #R T)E *ID T#R T)E %ILLIGESS %ILLF#LESS RADI!AL A!!E'TA!E RADI!AL A!!E'TA!E %"RKS)EET REALIT+ A!!E'TA!E SKILLS 0#I1 IDF#LESS T" %ILLIGESS . %ILLF#LESS %"RKS)EET *IDF#LESS T" L"$IG K IDESS IDESS DIAR+ !ARD %EEK 3 3 DI STRESSTOLERANCESKI LLSOVERVI EW 2
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ST"' SKILLS TRATEG+ + %"RKS)EET ST"' SKILLS S TRATEG A!!E'TS SKILLS A!!E'TS SKILLS %"RKS)EET I*'R"$E SKILLS )AD"#T I*'R"$E SKILLS %"RKS)EET *AKE A SELF:S""T)E K IT IT )"*E%"RK DIAR+ !ARD %EEK 9 9
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EMO MOTI ONREGU GULATI ONSKI LLS
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IDETIF+IG; LABELIG . F#!TI"S "F E*"TI"S * +T)S AB"#T E*"TI"S )"*E%"RK DIAR+ !ARD %EEK & & CHECK THEFACTSOFEMO MOTI ONALRESPON ONSES
!)E!K T)E FA!TS %"RKS)EET DIAR+ !ARD %EEK ( (
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"''"SITE A!TI" )"*E%"RK %"RKIG %IT) 'RI*AR+ . SE!"DAR+ E*"TI"S DIAR+ !ARD %EEK , , BEHAVI ORCHAI NANAL YSI S&SOL OLUTI ONS
DES!RIBIG LIKS . GEERATIG SKILLS S"L#TI"S )EAD T" 'RE$ET F#T#RE TARGET BE)A$I"R !"'IG A)EAD T" DIAR+ !ARD %EEK ABCPLEASESKI LLS
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AB! SKILLS 'LEASE SKILLS AB! 'LEASE )"*E%"RK DIAR+ !ARD %EEK /4 /4
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DEAR *A GI$E FAST %"RKS)EET DIAR+ !ARD %EEK // //
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DBTRESOURCES
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DBT S*ART ')"E A''S RE$IE%S
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GLOSSARY
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AP PENDI X
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DBTPEERCONNECTI ONSCONTACTI NFORMATI ON
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Preface %hen Dr< *arsha Linehan; the =oun>er Dialectical Behavior Therapy ?DBT@; recently came out aout her struggles in youth ith suici>e an> psychiatric institutionaliCation; having similar eperiences in my li=e; it cause> me to realiCe that ust as my mental health prolems coul> >estroy me; so coul> they e my re>emption< Thus; I as inspire> to =ollo Dr< Linehans vo to help others n> a ay out o= hell an> am on my ay to ecoming a DBT researcher an> practitioner so that I may learn an> teach others ho to uil> lives orth living through DBT ust as Dr< Linehans ork has >one =or me< Some may think that having the lael o= or>erline personality >isor>er ?B'D@ is a mark o= shame; >isparaging those ho ear the >iagnosis y the implicative nature o= the term or>erline itsel=; ut I can honestly say that receiving the >iagnosis o= B'D as one o= the est things that ever happene> to me< I alays kne >eep >on that there as more to my emotional health than ust the >epression >iagnosis I receive> at /7 then /3 at a chil>rens psychiatric ar>; an> then the slue o= therapists that treate> me eteen the ages o= /3:23< In =act; I as so appreciative hen I receive> the B'D >iagnosis that I >i> something that o=ten puCCles those aroun> me hom I tell my story< I sent the social orker that correctly >iagnose> me ith B'D a ouHuet o= oers an> a thank you car>< *y B'D lael is the key that unlocke> the >oor to DBT an> my path to recovery< I may have or>erline personality >isor>er; ut or>erline personality >isor>er >oes not have me; an> aove all; I am not ashame>< In =act; I am Huite prou> o= the har> ork I have >one< I ant people to kno my story so the orl> can see e ith B'D are not monsters; ho nee> to e controlle>; e are people in nee> o= support; compassion; an> treatments that ork< < Love an> kin>ness; Rachel Gill ?aka 'inki Tusca>erro@ DBT 'eer *entor; B'D 'eer A>vocate; email8ilove>tJgmail
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Introduction to DBT Peer Connections Skills Training Skills Training Course Overview This orkook is a comprehensive sel=:help orkook =or learning >ialectical ehavior therapy skills =rom a peer perspective< Session Time Management = !" #ours Per Session Hour 1
= Watching Videos, Reading
Hour 2
= Doing Homework, Discussion & Quizzes
$ Training Sessions = %& 'ours Core Mindu!ness "ki!!s Distress #o!erance "ki!!s $motion Regu!ation "ki!!s %nterersona! $ecti'eness "ki!!s Course Re'iew
( weeks 1 weeks ) weeks 1 week 1 week
Time for Completion 12 weeks or 30 hours
Weekl( Sessions Outline !ore *in>=ulness Skills / Intro>uction to The Bio:social *o>el; %ise *in> . TI' !risis Skills 2 S*ART Goals . $ITALS Skills . the & Levels o= $ali>ation 7 !ore *in>=ulness8 %hat an> 5)o6 Skills 3 Reality Acceptance Skills8 Turn The *in>; Ra>ical Acceptance; %illingness; Loving Kin>ness Distress Tolerance Skills 9
ST"' A!!E'TS an> I*'R"$E Skills
Emotion Regulation Skills & ( , /4
I>enti=y; Lael an> Function o= Emotions !heck the Facts o= Emotional Responses "pposite to Emotion Action =or #nustie> Emotions 'rolem Solving Emotions . Behavior !hain Analysis AB! 'LEASE Skills
Interpersonal EMectiveness // DEAR *A GI$E FAST Skills /2 DBT Skills Revie . 'ersonal 'eer Empoerment 'lans &
DBT Peer Code of Conduct / Group memers agree to >o the est they can an> to ork har> to >o etter< 2 Group memers agree that they have een in=orme> that this program is not oMere> in a pro=essional capacity; ut =rom sel=:i>entie> peers in mental health recovery< 7 This program >oes not mean to replace Hualie> mental health care services 3 Group memers agree to complete the course< 9 Group memers agree to allo their non:personally i>enti=ying in=ormation to e use> =or the purpose o= research an>or improving the course< & Group memers agree to keep >iscussions relate> to skills training an> ill e respect=ul in interacting ith one another< ( 'rolem ehaviors hether they e relate> to sel=:harm; sustance use; eating >isor>ers; etc< shall e re=erre> to generically in group as Target Be'avior or TB< , Group memers shall respect the privacy o= =ello memers an> ill not reveal to others outsi>e the group any in=ormation aout other memers that oul> violate privacy or trust< - Group memers shall re=rain =rom =rien>ing each other outsi>e o= group hile completing skills training in or>er to preserve the unity o= the group< /4 I= a memer has a prolem ith another group memer that cannot e resolve> >irectly; heshe ill >irect concerns to the group lea>er or co: lea>ers through the Lets talk =unction< // The group is a non:u>gmental space =or learning an> sharingN e use min>=ulness to practice a non:u>gmental stance toar> each other; the orl>; an> ourselves< /2 I= group memers =eel suici>al; they agree to seek help e=ore acting on urges< +ou agree to seek help =rom =rien>s; =amily; or y calling the =olloing numer =or the national suici>e hotline< /:,44:2(7:TALK ?,299@
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T'e Biosocial Model for )motion D(sregulation Emotion Dysregulation is a >ys=unction cause> y a transaction o= incompatile iological an> environmental =actors ithin the emotion regulation system< T he primary iological =actor is emotion vulnerability, hich consists o= Huick; strong; an> long:lasting emotional reactions< The environmental =actor consists o= an invalidating rearing environment , hich >oes not acknole>ge or teach the emotionally vulnerale chil> ho to manage intense an> or >iOcult emotions<
)motion D(sregulation *s! )motion +egulation 'eople ith emotion >ysregulation ten> to eperience emotions more intensely an> longer average people< !onsi>er the =olloing chart; hich shos a compare> to a person ith a more eMective system o= emotion regulation<
Generic example of how a person with emotion dysregulation may respond to an emotionally arousing event
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DBT Wise Mind #andout Everyo>y has a logical min> an> an emotion min>< %hich si>e o= min> oul> you say that you lean more toar>; the logical si>e or the emotional si>eP Do you trust the =acts or your gut in an important situationP
,ogical Mind - )motion Mind = Wise Mind The goal is rst recogniCe that oth states o= min> are eHually vali> an> then to strive to achieve a alance> perspective =or each state o= min> across situations so that you can learn to e eMectively rational an> min>=ul
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TIP Crisis Survival Skills Overview Temperature Intense 'hysical Action Pace> Breathing TI' stan>s =or Temperature, Intense physical activity, an> paced breathing< These skills ork y ay o= the o>yQs senses< In the case o= emotions; they are not simply 5in your hea>6 ut part o= a =ull system response< This means that hen an emotional eperience occurs; there is a mo>e o= action< These actions may occur ith or ithout our aareness< ?See Graphic Belo<@ For eample; hen angere> your circulatory system respon>s y increasing your rate an> raising your o>y temperatureN the o>y respon>s to the anger
)vent
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Bod( .uto +es/onse
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ithout conscious action< The i>ea ehin> the eMectiveness o= TI' skills is that ust as the o>y respon>s to emotions so >oes our emotions respon> to our o>y< ?See graphic elo<@ There=ore; the premise is that y tipping the o>y chemistry; so to speak; e can shi=t prolematic emotional responses< %hat is more; the =act that TI' skills reHuire little logical reasoning makes them easier to apply =or those ith limite> skills training< The =olloing page contains a han>out an> strategy orksheet< The han>out >enes each o= the TI' skills; generally an> then oMers eamples o= ho to apply them< The orksheet >irects you in ho to create a personal TI' crisis skills strategy an> apply it< +ou shall apply your TI' skills strategy the net time you notice you are ecoming emotionally >ysregulate>< +ou ill recor> your level o= >istress on a scale o= 4:/44 e=ore an> a=ter applying your )vent
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TIP Bod( +es/onse
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+educe )motion .ction 0rge
strategy< 1OT)2 If at rst you do not succeed in reducing your distress, adjust your TIP strategy as necessary until you nd the right plan that suits you best.
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TIP Crisis Survival Skills #andout 3 Strateg( Works'eet Temperature Intense Physical Action Paced Breathing T!P"AT#" Do something that shits *our +od* temerature #ake a co!d "hower "!ash co!d water on *our ace, kee an ice ack in the reezer -se a an % it is co!d outside, go outside to !itera!!* coo! o #hink o other wa*s *ou can #%. *our +od* temerature
I$T$% P&'%ICA( ACTI)IT' Do something that gets *our +od* in'o!'ed in intense h*sica! acti'it* #he concet is that when emotions romt the +od* to resond automatica!!*, articu!ar!* in the case o ear or anger, the s*stem acti'ates 'arious chemica!s in the +od* !ike adrena!ine that reare *our +od* to act /uick!* .h*sica! acti'it* acts to e0end this energ* so that ro+!ematic urges to act hoeu!!* reduce Doing things !ike going to the g*m, c!eaning the house, or doing 1 uming acks are e0am!es #hink o other wa*s *ou can #%. *our +od*3s +od* chemistr*
PAC* B"AT&I$+ Remo'e *ourse! rom immediate distractions or a ew minutes to take ten dee s!ow +reathes 4ou cou!d a!so sa* Wise as *ou inhale then Mind as *ou exhale. #hink o another aced +reathing strateg* that ma* work or *ou 5 ke* oint to remem+er is that aced +reathing works +etter the !ess distressing cues there are in *our immediate en'ironment #o gi'e *ou some e0am!es o how to remo'e these cues, *ou might !ea'e the room to get awa* rom a con!ict whi!e *ou +reathe, turn o, and6or mute the te!e'ision, radio, or other distracting sounds % there is noise *ou cannot escae, !ike a +arking dog, tr* +!ocking it with white noise +* turning on a 'acuum or going into the +athroom and turning on the an
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7ow that *ou know what #%. ski!!s are, think o some wa*s *ou can #%. *our +od* chemistr* using each one o the ski!!s, 7e0t time *ou notice *our emotions are getting intense or *ou ha'e an e'ent that *ou need to aroach that is emotiona!!* arousing, a!* *our #%. ski!!s strateg* 5terwards, i *our strateg* is ineecti'e, adust *our strateg* and kee a!*ing them unti! *ou ind the tasks that work or *ou Before "ate *istress on a sca!e o 8 #%. "ki!!s 1 Wa*s % Can #%. M* Resonses with T!P"AT#"
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Introduction to Dialectical Be'avior T'era/( *ideo 3 4ui5 ISTR#!TI"S8 %atch the vi>eo !T Peer "onnections # Introduction to ialectical !ehavior Therapy by $achel Gill at http8youtu<eTB*&"+is! on +ouTue an> then complete the =olloing HuiC to revie key points< /< %hich item has DBT not proven to e eMective in treating; accor>ing to the researchP A
Suici>al Behaviors
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Binge Eating Disor>er
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Sleep Apnea
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Bor>erline 'ersonality Disor>er
2< The iosocial mo>el states that or>erline personality >isor>er is a result o= a genetically >etermine> emotional sensitivity comine> ith a socially invali>ating rearing environment< True False
7< %hich skills mo>ule is not a part o= the stan>ar> DBT skills training mo>ulesP A
Interpersonal EMectiveness Skills
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%ill 'oer Skills
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!ore *in>=ulness Skills
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Emotion Regulation Skills
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Distress Tolerance Skills
3< DBT stan>s =or Dialectical Behavior Therapy True False 9< Emotion *in> Logic *in> UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU< A
Best *in>
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Intelligent *in>
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Bor>erline *in> /3
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%ise *in>
&< *arsha Linehan originally create> DBT to treat UUUUUUUUUUUUUUU< A
Suici>al ehavior
B
Bor>erline personality >isor>er
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Eating >isor>ers
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Depression
(< An invali>ating environment means that its the parents =ault hen a person >evelops or>erline personality >isor>er< True False ,< The rst skills training mo>ule taught is UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU< A
Interpersonal EMectiveness Skills
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Emotion Regulation Skills
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Distress Tolerance Skills
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!ore *in>=ulness Skills
-< The name o= the clinical manual y *arsha Linehan that outlines DBT is !ognitive:Behavioral Treatment o= Bor>erline 'ersonality Disor>er< True False
/4< %hich o= the =olloing is not a =eature o= or>erline personality >isor>er A
Emotion >ysregulation
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!haotic interpersonal relationships
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Sel=:inurious ehavior
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*anipulative ehavior
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DBT Diar( Card $
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Happy 0-10
)o many >ays >i> you ll in your car>P 0-7
Date8 Ange Sham Sad Fear Guilt r e 0-10 0-10 0-10 0-10 0-10
Target Problem Behavior
U or A S%ill&uln otes8 UUrge "nten#i e## AA!tio 'ating ty n 0-$ 0-$
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Indicate Target !ehavior with % for %rge or & for &ction. $ate the intensity level as' /*inimal 2*il> 7*o>erate 3Stron 9Intense
Rate #rges 4:9
Skill=ulness Rating8
4 Di>nQt think aout using skills #rge to Huit Skills Training / Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use #rge to Huit In>ivi>ual them Therapy 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt "ther #rges8 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul 9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
Week $ DBT Skills Tracking Table Date8
Sun>ay *on>ay Tues>ay
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7oticed when % was in Wise Mind 7oticed when % was not in Wise Mind 7oticed when % was in $motion Mind 7oticed when % was in :ogica! Mind #emerature %ntense .h*sica! e0ertion .aced ;reathing
Setting Personal 6oals 3 Maintaining Motivation Be=ore e get into the core o= skills training; it is ise to egin y guring out hat your personal goals are in learning DBT skills< In other or>s; hat is it that you hope to achieve ith the skills you learnP +our goals are uniHue to you an> >eci>e> y you< *ost importantly; make sure that you set your goals accor>ing to hat you ant an> nee> not hat others say you shoul> ant an> nee>< For those ho are in a stan>ar> DBT program; personal goals ten> /(
to relate to prolem ehaviors< I= you are not sure ho to gure out your personal goals; DBT therapists ten> to use the =olloing hierarchy to target ehaviors in session accor>ing to their severity< +ou can use it to help you i>enti=y ehaviors you may ish to ork on hile you are in DBT skills training< DBT Be'avioral Targets #ierarc'( /< Behaviors that are li=e threatening or harm=ul 2< Behaviors that may inter=ere ith or >estroy therapy 7< Behaviors that aMect Huality o= li=e
Brainstorming Be'aviors I Want to C'ange 1
:ie #hreatening or
2 #hera* %nterering ;eha'iors
( ;eha'iors 5ecting Qua!it* o :ie
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SM.+T 6oals
*IT.,S Skills
S/eci7c Meaningful .c'ievable +ecordable
*alidate Self Imagine Take Small Ste/s .//laud :ourself ,ig'ten t'e ,oad
Timeline8based
Sweeten t'e Pot
SP)CI9IC : Smart goals are more specic than general< An eample o= a general goal is getting a o< To make this general goal more specic you might a>> hat o ant to get an>; perhaps; >escrie hat you nee> to get a o<
*alidate self V Acknole>ge the; 5I >onQt ant to UUUUUU;6 I>enti=y Emotional vulnerailities< IM.6I1) : Imagine you success=ully >oing each step toar> completing a goal or task as i= it ere a movie<
M).1I1690, : Smart goals have >eep personal meaning to enhance motivation an> persistence<
T.;) SM.,, ST)PS : Break >on a goal or task into clearly >etaile> steps
.C#)I*).B,) : Smart goals mean you have the means to achieve them<
.PP,.0D :O0+S),9 : Acknole>ge achievements hen completing steps success=ully toar> a >iOcult task or a goal
+)CO+D.B,) : Smart goals have recor>ale >ata or other i>entiale means to track progress<
,I6#T)1 T#) ,O.D : *anage overhelming tasks y taking small steps over time rather than procrastinating or trying to >o everything all at once<
TIM),I1) B.S)D : Smart goals have a clear timeline =or achievement<
SW))T)1 T#) POT : !reate motivation to ork on goals or complete un>esirale tasks y /-
coming up ith ays to rear> you along the ay<
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SM.+T 6oal *IT.,S Works'eet 7ame
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%7"#R-C#%<7" Fill in the following worksheet to help you figure out a SMART Goal to work on while in DBT Skills Training. f you need help! use the pre"ious handout as a referen#e !y %!A"T +oal % eciic What is the spe#ifi# goal that a$ going to work on%
!eaningu! &ow is $y goal $eaningful to $e%
Achie'a+!e Do ha"e the skills and $eans to a#hie"e $y goal%
" ecorda+!e &ow #an re#ord $y progress%
Time!ine8;ased What is $y ti$eline for a#hie"ing $y goal%
!y )ITA(% to %uccess )a!idate se! What $ight not want to do to work on $y goal%
Imagine i$agine and then des#ri'e a#hie"ing your goal step 'y step
Take "ma!! "tes Break down your goal into at least three steps ( list the$.
A !aud 4ourse! &ow #an you a#knowledge your gains toward your goal%
(ighten 4our :oad &ow #an you lighten your load while working on your goal%
%weeten the .ot &ow and when #an you reward yourself to i$pro"e $oti"ation%
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DBT < ,evels of *alidation #andout Level / $ali>ate y >emonstrating Interest8 •
Listen to and observe what you and others are saying, feeling and doing in an unbiased manner with complete awareness.
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Resist urges to interrupt others while they are speaking.
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Make eye contact.
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Ask questions that show you want to understand what you are hearing.
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Be genuine and non-judgmental. Remember important information.
Level 2 $ali>ate y 'araphrasing •
Accurately reflect feelings, thoughts, assumptions, and behaviors.
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Communicate understanding by restating information so that it is more coherent while keeping with the essence of the original conveyance. Be mindful not to be a “parrot” or repeat the shared information word for word
Level 7 $ali>ate y *in> Rea>ing8 •
Articulate thoughts, emotions, and/or behavior patterns not directly expressed.
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Verify the facts of a situation and intuitively reflect them in terms of how they relate to the difficulty of the situation.
Level 3 $ali>ate Base> on )istory8 •
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Recognize that every outcome has a cause and that for all responses there is a chain of events leading up to it. This is the opposite of minimizing problems and oversimplifying the ease of solutions, assuming that lack of will power is the cause of emotional suffering rather than a complex result of biologically based sensitivity combined with an intolerant environment
Level 9 $ali>ate Base> on !urrent Situation8 •
Articulate the ways in which a response is reasonable given the current situation.
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Acknowledge the value in the other person’s intuition regarding the matter Describe how the response makes sense in that it is effective for short-term gains.
Level & $ali>ate y Demonstrating Ra>ical Genuineness8 •
Act directly, ordinarily, and as if you are talking directly to an equal.
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Do not treat the other person as fragile, incompetent or like a child.
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Convey credibility through a natural flow of communication.
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peak in terms and language the other can sufficiently understand
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!se a warm communication style that shows interest, sincerity " respect.
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DBT < ,evels of *alidation Works'eet %7"#R-C#%<7" #he item in /uotes ater each num+er is an e0am!e o an in'a!idating statement #he second statement rerames in'a!idation into a 'a!idating statement 4our task is to igure out which o the si08'a!idation !e'e!s each ' a!idating resonse reresents 9ina!!*, i!! in *our answer in the !et co!umn #he irst answer is i!!ed in to get *ou started %n items )811, *ou wi!! additiona!!* i!! in *our own 'a!idating resonse as we!! as the !e'e! o 'a!idation it reresents (eel of )alidati on
Inalidating %tatement ,ollowed y a )alidating "esponse 1 4I don5t know why I hae to freak out eery time my oyfriend is a little late6
%t makes sense that *ou react so strong!* with ear when *our souse is !ate gi'en that, in the ast, *our caregi'ers wou!d !ea'e *ou sometimes or da*s without e0!anation 3 $o one eer listens to what I hae to say aout things76
When *ou ha'e something imortant to sa*, no one !istens 8
4There is no reason I should e so nerous6
#here is a!wa*s a reason *ou ee! the wa* *ou do whether *ou are aware o it or not 9
4I hate feeling sad76
%t sucks ee!ing sad and, unortunate!*, we must e0erience sadness in order to rocess the !oss o eo!e or things that are imortant to us :
4I5m sorry to ore you with all my drama6
% care and am interested in what is going on in *our !ie 11 4I need to think positie to get oer my prolems6 13 4I am too needy and dependent on others6 18 4I get upset oer stupid; little things6 19 4I should not feel this way6 1: 4ust a part of who I am6
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Diar( Card Week
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1otes2 Target Problem UUr U or A S$ill%ul Behavior ge "nten# ne## AA!t ity &ating ion
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4 Di>nQt think aout using skills / Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use them 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul 9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
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Core Mindfulness Skills Mindfulness is a quality of attention & awareness to the present. Watch the DBT Peer Connections Mindfulness skills training video on YouTube at http://youtu.be/J3pnmOucl_4
=hat %kills What to do to 'e $indful
&ow %kills &ow to 'e $indful
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=hat %kills Are What to do to 'e $indful
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)'ser"ing 'rings you into the present
Descri+e Des#ri'ing is putting words to what you noti#e .articiate *arti#ipating is 'eing present fully in whate"er a#ti"ity you are engaging in.
"serve Observing brings you into the present
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9ocus on o+ser'ing one thing at a time 7otice the e0erience o o+ser'ing without descri+ing it
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4ou can o+ser'e things inside o *ourse!
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"serve )'ser"ing 'rings you into the present When a thought comes a!ong •
>ust notice it, then
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Return *our attention to o+ser'ing
<+ser'ing inside •
"te +ack and watch *our mind
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"ee % a thought comes in
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7otice it
Descrie Des#ri'ing is putting words to what you noti#e •
4ou can descri+e things outside o *ourse!
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4ou can descri+e things inside o *ourse!
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4ou can descri+e thoughts too #he trick is to ut them into categories !ike
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Worr* thoughts
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Make sure *ou know the dierence +etween a thought and a act
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Descri+e on!* what *ou o+ser'e 2,
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Do not add to or su+tract rom what *ou see
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Do not make interretations !ike descri+ing urrowed +rows, ursed !is as anger 'articipate
Participating is being present fully in whatever activity you are engaging in •
#hrow *ourse! into an acti'it*
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;ecome one with the acti'it*
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:ose se!8consciousness in an acti'it*
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#OW Skills
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How to <+ser'e How to Descri+e How to .articiate
7on8udgmenta!!*
One8mindfull(
Means doing only )+, thing at a ti$e •
<+ser'e one8mindu!!*
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Descri+e one8mindu!!*
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What intereres with one8mindu!!*@ •
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7ot !iking the current moment *ou are in When the ast and the uture get in the wa*
#hree reasons to use one8mindu!!* 1 More eicient 2 5!!ows *ou to !i'e !ie to the u!!est ( Reduces suering
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-udging is o'ser"ing a fa#t and then adding an e"aluation of good or 'ad to it. ?now the distinction +etween •
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>-DA%7A Mar* said something not true on urose and she is +ad or !*ing D$"CR%;%7A Mar* said something not true on urose & there were conse/uences or !*ing
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>udging is a shorthand wa* to descri+e conse/uences •
7$A5#%V$ = B+adB
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>udging short hand sometimes conuses the dierence +etween8 •
>udging conse/uences as good or +ad
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>udging ersons as good or +ad
Prolems with >udgments •
>udgments make it hard to react to the rea! wor!d
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>udgments cause unending ro+!em emotions
"tes or reducing udgments 1 %s it a riorit* to reduce udging@ Do or do % not want to reduce udging@ 2 7otice udgments thoughts, actions, 'oice tone ( Monitor udgments +* counting them Remem+er do not udge *our udgingE F Re!ace udgments with conse/uences & know the dierence +etween udgments & acts
)Eectivel( ,ffe#ti"ely $eans doing what works "tes to +eing eecti'e G ask *ourse! 1 What are m* goa!s@ 2 What do % need to do to reach them@ 72
What gets in the wa* o +eing eecti'e@ 1 Wanting to +e right 2 7ot wanting to make the eort ( 7ot ocusing on *our most imortant goa!s
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Mindfulness2 . Dail( Practice To uil> mastery in min>=ulness; one egins y trying as many kin>s o= min>=ulness tasks as it takes to n> one that orks =or you< %hen you n> one or a =e skills that speak to your ise min>; you ant to start incorporating your tasks into >aily practice< A common min>=ulness task that many peers use in their >aily practice is oserving the reath min>=ully< This is a goo> skill to start ith ecause it can e >one anyhere an> it orks on the nervous system to encourage calming an>or relaation< 6etting Started wit' Mindfulness Tasks To help you get starte>; you ill rst rea> some eamples o= min>=ulness per skill an> then you ill either select one o= the eamples or come up ith your on tasks to complete the =olloing orksheet< Observe Tasks Describe Task Partici/ate Task F One8mindfull( Task 1on8Gudgmentall( Task )Eectivel( Task
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Mindfulness Skills Works'eet I1ST0CTIO1S2 Buil> yoursel= a ise:min>e> task list =or practicing min>=ulness< Descrie at least one task =or each o= the core min>=ulness skills< Fill in your tasks elo; accor>ingly< Then >o your task< Finally; come ack to your orksheet an> note any pleasant or unpleasant emotions; thoughts; or environmental inuences that you notice> hile you practice> your min>=ulness skills< I= the task you chose >i> not ork =or you; think o= a >iMerent task =or that skill; an> keep trying until you n> one that orks =or you< I>eally >o at least one purpose=ul practice a >ay<
!indfulness %kill
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*escrie !indfulness Task
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+ealit( .cce/tance Skills Watch the DBT Peer Connections Reality Acceptance skills training video on YouTube at http://youtu.be/LQmo3khTgRY =hen are "eality Acceptance %kills useful@ When ainu! e'ents haen and *ou cannot change them, so!'e them, or make them go awa*
+adical .cce/tance "adical Acceptance is accepting that 1 Rea!it* is what it is 2 $'er*thing has a cause ( :ie can +e worth !i'ing e'en when there is ain
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X .ain 7on85ccetance = "uering X %t is eas* to accet things *ou !ike X %t is hard to accet things *ou hate, disaro'e o , or that cause *ou a !ot o ain X #he higher the ain, the harder the accetance X % *ou want things to change, accet them, then change them X Rea!it* is a!wa*s changing and i *ou want to in!uence how it changes, *ou must irst accet it
Turn t'e Mind =hat is Turning the !ind@ %t is !ike wa!king down a road and coming to a ork where one road is acceting and one road is reecting and choosing to turn toward the acceting road o'er and o'er again
%teps to Turning the !ind 7otice anger, +itterness, anno*ance, a!!ing into the sea o IWh* me@J & when *ou are •
$scaing rea!it*
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;!ocking things out Hiding how *ou ee!
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2 Make an inner commitment to turn *our mind toward accetance 7(
( .ractice turning *our mind toward accetance o'er and o'er again
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Willingness =illingness is
X 5!!owing the wor!d to +e as it is X 5greeing to articiate in the wor!d as it is K 5cti'e!* articiating in rea!it* K What *ou need to o'ercome a threat
Willfulness =illfulness is
X "a*ing 7<, 7<, 7< K Den*ing K .ushing 5wa* K 5'oiding
%teps to Turning =illfulness to =illingness
1 5sk *ourse!, a L IWhat is the threat@J + L I What is the catastrohe@J 2 7otice and o+ser'e wi!!u!ness ( Radica!!* accet the wi!!u!ness F #urn *our mind towards wi!!ingness, accetance, and articiating in rea!it* ust as it is When it +ecomes diicu!t to Turn The Mind , adot a wi!!ing osture oen arms & a!ms, ha! smi!eE
6etting started wit' +ealit( .cce/tance Skills • •
9ind sma!! things to *ra#ti#e A##epting irst Write *ourse! a note that sa*s Turn the Mind , hang it somewhere, & ractice e'er* time *ou !ook at it 7-
7otice and o+ser'e Willfulness .ractice Willingness +* articiating in rea!it* • 5dot a Willing *osture oen hands, arms, ha!8smi!eE • Remem+er A##eptan#e is Diffi#ult and re/uires much time & ractice to +e eecti'e •
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+adical .cce/tance Radi c alac cept anc ei saboutac cept i ngr eal i t yoral l owi ngt hewor l dt obej us tasi ti s . Thi si sas i mpl ei deabutav er yhar dc onc eptt oputi nt opr ac t i c e.Al t houghwemaywi s h t or adi c al l yac ceptourd eepes t ,mos tpai nf ulex per i enc es ,i ti smor ewi s et os t ar twi t h s mal lt as kst hatar eeas i erf ory out oac ceptl i k emi s si ngy ourf av or i t eTVs howl as tni ght asoppos edt oy ourt r aumat i cchi l dhood.Theeas i ert het as ki s ,t hemor el i k ey ouar et o h av es u c c es san dt h emo r es u c ce s sy o uh av e ,t h emor el i k e l yy ouar et ou set h es k i l l agai nandbui l dmas t er y . Abo v eal l ,r ememberwedono tac hi e v er ad i c al ac c ep t anc e;we pr ac t i c er adi al ac cept anc e.
Practice Ti/s for +adical .cce/tance /< 'ain on:acceptance SuMering 2< "serve i= you are Huestioning or ghting reality ith statements like; It is not =air< It shoul> not e this ay< 7< Remin> yoursel= that =or etter or orse reality is hat it is< 3< 'ractice accepting ith the hole sel=< ?*in>< o>y< an> spirit@< Be creative in n>ing ays to involve your hole sel=< #se accepting sel=: talk; ut also consi>er using relaation< *in>=ulness o= your reath< )al= smiling an> illing han>s hile thinking aout hat =eels unacceptale; prayer; going to a place that helps rings you to acceptance; or imagery< 9< 'ractice opposite action< List all the ehaviors you oul> >o i= you >i> accept the =acts< Then act as i= you have alrea>y accepte> the =acts< Engage in the ehaviors< That you oul> >o i= you really ha> accente>< &< !ope ahea> ith events that seem unacceptale< Imagine elieving hat you >o not ant to accept< Rehearse in your min> hat you oul> >o i= you accepte> hat seems unacceptale< (< Atten> to o>y sensations as you think aout hat you nee> to accept< ,< Allo >isappointment< Sa>ness< "r grie= to arise ithin you< -< Acknole>ge that li=e can e orth living even hen there is pain<<< /4< Do 'ros an> !ons yoursel= resisting practicing acceptance< 3/
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+adical .cce/tance Works'eet I NSTRUCTI ONS: Fort hi shomewor kt as k ,y ouar egoi ngt opi c ksomet hi ngt hatc aus esy oudi s t r es s .I tc an beas i t uat i on,ani dea,apl ac e,any t hi ngt hatex i s t st hatc aus esy oupai n.Tr yt opi c k s omet hi ngt hati sonl ow endofdi s t r es ssi nc ewewantt os t ar ts mal l .Forex ampl e,y ou mi ghtpr ac t i c eac cept i ngt hati t sac l oudydayort haty ouhav et owai ti nl i neatas t or e. T r yt op i c ks o me t h i ngt h aty o ua r el i k e l yt oh av es u c c es swi t h .Onc ey o uh av ec h os e n y o urac c ept anc et opi c ,ans werqu es t i on1andr e vi e wt her es toft heques t i onss oy o u k no w wh att op ayat t en t i o nt owh i l ee ng age di nt h ep r a c t i c e.Wh eny o uh av ec ompl e t e d y o ura cc ept anc et as k .( Ho wl ongy o upr ac t i c ei supt oy o u.Thenr ec or dy o ure x per i enc e us i ngt hewor k s hee tasy ourgui d e.
1 .Onas c al ef r o m0 1 00 ,wh ati smyl e v el o fa c c ep t a nc eBEFOREpr ac t i c i ng Ra di c a lAc c e pt an c e?
2 .Cr ea t eaRad i c al Ac c ep t a nc ema nt r at h aty o uc a ns a yt oy o ur s e l ft h ath el p sy o u t ur nt o war dac c ept anc e.Fore xampl e,y oumi ghts ay . “ Theonl ywa yt ol etgoof s uffer i ngi st oac c epts uffer i ng. ”or“ Idon’ tl i k ei t ,buti ti swhati ti s . ”or“ Pai n+ No na c c ep t a nc e=Su ffer i n g. ”
3.WhatPr obl em t hought scameupi fany?
4.Whatbodys ens at i onsdi dInot i c ewhi l epr ac t i c i ngr adi c al ac c ept anc e?
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5.Whatemo t i onsdi dInot i c ewi t hi nmy s el fa sIpr ac t i c edRadi c al Ac c ept anc e?
6.I fy o uha v eahar dt i mepr ac t i c i ngRadi c al Ac c ep t anc e,whatdoy o ut hi nkgo ti n t h ewa y ?
A 7 .Onas c a l ef r o m0 1 00 ,wh a twa smyl e v e lo fa c c e p t a nc e FTER pr ac t i c i ng Ra di c a lAc c e pt an c e?
8 . Myde ep es tt h oug ht s ,f e el i n gs ,o ro t h erc omme nt sIwa ntt os h ar ea bo utt he homewor k.
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+ealit( .cce/tance Skills 4ui5 1. The higher the pain a situation causes, the harder it is to radically accept the situation. a. True b. False 2. Once you accept something, you will always accept it from that day forward.
a< True < False 3. Practice _________________. Notice ________ a. %ill=ulness; illingness b. %illingness; ill=ulness c. %ill=ulness; ill=ulness d. %illingness; illingness . Pain ! non"acceptance # _____________ a. Distress b. SuMering c. Bor>erline personality >isor>er d. Ra>ical acceptance $. %adical acceptance and forgi&eness are the same thing a. True b. False 1. Turning the mind is li'e coming to a for' in the road where one side of the road is acceptance and the other is non"acceptance and choosing to turn your mind toward acceptance o&er and again.
c< True >< False 1. (hich of the following is not a reality acceptance s'ill)
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< Turn the *in> c< Ra>ical Forgiveness >< otice %ill=ulness *. (hen starting out with radical acceptance it is wise to start with _____________ a. The things you ant to accept the most b. Things that others ant you to accept c. Easier things to accept d. )ar>er things to accept
1. The __________________ the pain, the __________________ the acceptance. a. )igher; easier b. Loer; har>er c. Loer; higher d. )igher; har>er
1. +ou must first accept a problem before you can begin to sol&e it a. True b. False
Anser Key8 /:a 2: 7: 3: 9: &:c (:c ,:c -:> /4:a
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Mindfulness to Willingness 3 Willfulness Works'eet Radica! accetance sounds eas*, +ut accetance in itse! is not a erect state #hereore, accetance is not a means to an end, +ut rather a ractice that we must continue throughout our !ie
%n the second set o +o0es, think o current situations where *ou wou!d !ike to work on wi!!ingness6wi!!u!ness Descri+e what *ou wi!! do to cu!ti'ate wi!!ingness and what things wi!! he! *ou notice wi!!u!ness
Current %ituation =illingness %trategy
Current %ituation =illfulness %ignals
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,oving ;indness Loving:kin>ness is a reality acceptance skill that e use to acknole>ge reality hile cultivating uncon>itional compassion< In practicing loving: kin>ness; e consciously an> intentionally sen> arm ishes to ourselves an>or others using a personal chant; script; or >ialogue that e say alou> or internally as e practice Huiet min>=ul reathing< 'racticing loving:kin>ness reHuires us to e in ise min>< As e =ocus on the target o= our ell ishes; e let go o u>gments; epectations; an> >esires< In the =olloing min>=ulness eercise; e ill start ith loving:kin>ness y sen>ing it to ourselves< "nce you ecome to =eel more com=ortale using the skill; you can a>> others to your loving kin>ness practice< The key is to start ith people that you elieve it ill e easy to sen> ell ishes to an> ork your ay up to those that it may e har>er to sen> ell ishes< Also; I= you n> it too >iOcult to start ith yoursel=; you may egin ith a pet; your chil>; or anyone else that your ise min> suggests< Be=ore you start; on a scale =rom /:/44; please rate your >istress level Pre/aring to Practice ,oving ;indness /< Get seate> in a com=ortale position ith your =eet plante> at on the oor 2< 'lace your right han> over your heart ith the palm open; presse> gently on your chest 7< Fin> a single place to =ocus your gaCe; usually looking =orar> an> slightly >onar> 3< Take a =e >eep; slo; stea>y reaths in an> out through your nose 9< Focus on your reath to ring you into ise min>< ,oving ;indness Scri/t "TE8 riting your on script is also an option an> encourage> i= you ant to personaliCe your loving kin>ness practice to e more meaning=ul to your on DBT path or your spiritualreligious orientation< 3(
ISTR#!TI"S Say the =olloing script alou> or to yoursel= Huietly as you reathe >eeply an> min>=ully =or 7:9 minutes or as long as your in> min> suggests (ay I be happy # (ay I be healthy # (ay I have peace (ay I be loved # (ay I )now )indness # (ay I love and be )ind to myself
A=ter you nish; on a scale =rom /:/44; please rate your >istress level
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4 Di>nQt think aout using skills / Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use them 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul
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ISTR#!TI"S8 Fill in the name o= the month< Then eneath each eek>ay; ll in the >ate< Sun>ay *on>ay Tues>a %e>nes>a Thurs>a Fri>ay Satur>a y
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Distress Tolerance Skills Overview Watch the DBT Peer Connections Distress Tolerance skills training video on YouTube at http://youtu.be/pkzpXrYXdKQ
;): POI1TS What is the function of distress tolerance skills?
To help you get through a crisis ithout making it orse<
W'at is a crisisH A situation causing intense emotionalphysical suMering that you cannot imme>iately in the moment it occurs<
#ow do distress tolerance skills workH y teaching you eMective ays o= >istracting an> soothing yoursel= hen overhelme> ith emotionsthoughtsevents
#ow is distracting diEerent from avoidingH Distracting is a skill use> hen a prolem you cannot solve right no is causing you >istress< .voiding is attempting to hi>e or escape >istress cause> y a prolem you coul> solve i= you approache> it<
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STOP Skills
Stop hat you are >oing Take a step ack "serve the situation 'rocee> eMectively Introduction n >ialectical ehavior therapy ?DBT@ skills training; the ultimate goal is to learn an array o= use=ul skills an> apply them to prolems in or>er to gure out hat skills ork est =or you< Through this process; over time; you ill come to replace prolematic emotional responses ith more eMective ones; re>uce emotional suMering; an> hope=ully increase your capacity to eperience oy< )oever; hile the process o= skills training is a clearly gra>uate> process o= steps that procee>s =rom one mo>ule to the net smoothly; the real course o= change; hen it comes to automatic emotional responses; is >iOcult; ongoing; an> certainly not a straight line< First; e all have >iMerent styles o= learning< A>> to that the uniHue circumstances o= our environments; hich inclu>e varying =actors o= social support; stressors; an> our aility to control stressors; an> you can see hy uil>ing skills mastery is not so straight=orar><
+ationale The reality is that to change emotional responses reHuires >aily commitment to making steps toar> personal goals an> hen there are situations that cause you to step ack an>; perhaps; not use skills or act on urges to >o prolematic ehaviors; you get ack into ise min> an> commitment to your DBT path as Huick as possile so that you continue to make progress< This care=ul alancing act o= >etermination toar> change an> acceptance o= onesel= =or ehavioral slips is calle> >ialectical astinence< In practicing >ialectical astinence; ST"' skills are a use=ul set o= skills that aim to help you re>irect your attention an> action hen you n> you are ecoming emotionally >ysregulate> an>or have a slip in target ehavior<
#ow to .//l( STOP Skills To help you uil> a personaliCe> ST"' skills plan; rst you ant to i>enti=y =actors that you can recogniCe in the moment that signal to you that you are either getting close to or are outsi>e your in>o o= tolerance; hich is the point here you ecome so emotionally >ysregulate> you regress into past patterns o= prolematic responses< These =actors comine> >ene your s)ills brea) down point. I>enti=ying =actors ?o=ten calle> triggers@ can e actions; 92
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! W#.T TO DO TO M.;) S0+) :O0 STOP W#.T :O0 .+) DOI16H et; >escrie ho you can act to take a step ack =rom the situation net time you notice you are eperiencing the AB!EF signals you liste><
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.CC)PTS Skills Act i vi t i es
Do at least one pleasant activity a >ay to help increase your likelihoo> o= eperiencing oy; an> to create an opposing =orce to unpleasant emotions<
Go =or a alk !lean your house 'lay a vi>eo game Do gar>ening Listen to music %atch a movie
'lay Sports %rite a 'oem Rea> an enoyale ook !all or visit a =rien> Do your DBT homeork
Go in>o shopping
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Cont r i but i ng
Do $olunteer orkN make or >o something nice =or someone elseN give something to someone ithout epecting anything in return Compar i sons
!ompare your li=e to those less =ortunate than youN !ompare yoursel= no to a time hen you ere orse oMN %atchrea> aout others suMering< Opposi t eEmot i ons
Do something that prompts the opposite emotion you are =eeling< For eample; i= you are sa>; you might atch a =unny movie< Pushi ngaway
'ush the >istressing situation aay =or a hile< Imagine a all eteen the situation or putting your pain into a o an> up on a shel= out o= your sightmin>< Thought s
Distract yoursel= =rom the >istressing situation temporarily y counting the colors you see; shapes; people; trees; or anything
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.CC)PTS Skills Works'eet ame8
Date8
Therapist8
%n the o!!owing chart i!! in *our own 5CC$.#" tasks or each ski!! #hink a+out what ma* +e useu! to *ou in reducing *our distress when o'erwhe!med #hen during the week when *ou e0erience distress, note *our !e'e! o distress on a sca!e rom 81, a!* *our task and rate *our distress !e'e! again using the same sca!e Record *our distress !e'e!s to get an idea o how we!! each task worked % it did not work, kee tr*ing new tasks unti! *ou ind one that works or *ou
Acti'ities
Distress Before 81
Distress After 81
Contri+uting
Distress Before 81
Distress After 81
Comarisons
Distress Before 81
Distress After 81
motion oosites
Distress Before 81
Distress After 81
Pushing awa*
Distress Before 81
Distress After 81
Thoughts
Distress Before 81
Distress After 81
%ensations
Distress Before 81
Distress After 81
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IMP+O*) Skills #andout
Imager( Imagine a relaing scene; coping ell; hurt=ul emotions >raining out you like ater =rom a spout< The i>ea is to use your imagination to transport you to a place o= calmness<
Meaning Fin> or create meaning =rom your pain y =ocusing on ho hope can come =rom pain=ul situations<
Pra(er "pen your heart to a higher eing or poer hether it e the Great Spirit; Go>; Allah; Go>>ess; Tao; your %ise *in>; or hatever spiritual connection you may i>enti=y<
+elaation Try tensingrelaing your muscles one group at a timeN stretch min>=ullyN massage your neckN take a hot ath or cool shoer
One t'ing at a time Focus your entire attention on a single task; ringing your min> . o>y aay =rom multi:tasking to atten> to every >etail o= hatever process you are >oing
*acation atch your =avorite T$ shoN Go to the park . lounge in the grass an>or turn oM your phone =or a >ayN Go camping =or the eeken>N take a nap ith a so=t lanket
)ncouragement !heerlea> yoursel= ith statements like; 5I can get through this<6 5I am >oing the est I can<6 5This ill not last =orever<6 "ther8 9-
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Date8
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Distress Before 8 1
Distress After 8 1
Meaning
Distress Before 8 1
Distress After 8 1
.ra*er
Distress Before 8 1
Distress After 8 1
Re!a0ation
Distress Before 8 1
Distress After 8 1
Distress Before 8 1
Distress After 8 1
Vacation
Distress Before 8 1
Distress After 8 1
$ncouragement 8
Distress Before 8 1
Distress After 8 1
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Sel=:soothe ith the Senses %orksheet Sig't %atch the sun rise or setN got to a local art shoingN get your nails >oneN light a can>leN get a novelty light "ther8
Sound Listen to soothing music or nature soun>sN sing your =avorite songN play or learn to play an instrumentN >onloa> a min>=ulness ell app =or your smartphone "ther8
Taste suck on a piece o= har> can>yN che your =avorite avor o= gumN uy yoursel= a small gourmet treat< sip a cup o= hot chocolate or ice> mocha; sloly "ther8
Touc' 'et your >og or catN hug someoneN take a ule athN have a massage "ther8
Smell Light a scente> can>le; incense; ear your =avorite per=ume or cologne get some =resh oers =or home "ther8
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Make a Self8soot'e ;it #omework Fin> a small asket; purse; o; etc< an> ithin it place at least one soothing item per sense ?sight; soun>; Taste; Touch; Smell@< Keep it in a convenient place here you can Huickly get to it in a crisis<
!y %elfDsoothe .it Items
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W o= Days >i> you lle> car> 0-'
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Target otes8 U or A S%ill&ulne## (ood Hap UUrge Ang Sha Sad Fear Guilt Behavior "nten# er me 'ating 0-10 py AA!ti AA!tion on ity "unda* Monda* #uesda* Wednesda* #hursda* 9rida*
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Indicate Target !ehavior with % for %rge or & for &ction. $ate the intensity level as' /*inimal 2*il> 7*o>erate 3St 3Stro ron n 9Int 9Inten ense se
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4 Di>nQt think aout using skills
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/ Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use them 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul
#rge to Huit In>ivi>ual Therapy "ther8
9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
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)motion +egulation Skills Identif(ing ,abeling 3 9unctions of )motions Watch the DBT Peer Connections Introduction to Emotion Regulation skills training video on YouTube at http://youtu.be/RkP5dCowv90
M(t's about )motions #omework I1ST+0CTIO1S2 or each myth about emotions, thin' of and write in an opposing statement that challenges the myth. The idea is to build awareness to myths and new dialectical perspecti&es.
/< I =eel =eel this this ay =or no reaso reason< n< Every em emotional re response has a ca cause an> a =unction< 2< I shoul> shoul> not pay attention attention to pain=ul pain=ul emotions emotions<< 7< #npleasant #npleasant emotions emotions come =rom =rom not thinki thinking ng positive< positive< 3< I shoul> shoul> not =eel =eel the the ay ay I >o< 9< Emotionally Emotionally sensitiv sensitive e people people ust like like to cause >rama< >rama< &< 'ain=ul 'ain=ul emotions emotions come come =rom lack lack o= ill ill poer poer<< (< Emoti Emotion ons s are are >um >um<< ,< Epressing Epressing emotions emotions is is a sign o= eakness eakness<< -< There There is a right an> an> rong ay to =eel =eel in every every situation situation<< /4 =eel aout things etter than I >o< /2one etter than regulating emotions< /7
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/9 alays =ollo my heart< /&<<
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Diar( Card Week < 1ame2
)o many >ays >i> ll car>P 07
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Mood Hap Ang Fea Sha Guil Sad 0-10 py er r me t
Target Problem UUr 1otes2 U or A S$ill%ul Behavior ge "nten# ne## AA!t ity &ating ion
%unday
!onday
Tuesday =ednesd ay Thursday
,riday
%aturday
Indicate Target Behavior with U for Urge or A for Action. Rate the intensity level as:
+ate Interfering 0rges
Skillfulness +ating
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4 Di>nQt think aout using skills / Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use them 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul 9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
#rge to Huit Skills Training #rge to Huit In>ivi>ual "ther8
DBT Skills Training Tracking Tale Skill Practiced
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Tuesda Wednes T'ursd Saturd 9rida( ( da( a( a(
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C'eck t'e 9acts of )motional +es/onses Watch DBT Peer Connections Check the Facts Emotion Regulation skills training video on YouTube at http://youtu.be/_TbHNtKd2_Q The =olloing tale provi>es a list o= emotions an> =actors to help you >etermine hether an emotional response an>or its level o= intensity is appropriate an> ts the =acts oi= a prolematic situation<
!T": The Intensity and duration of an e#otion is $usti%ed &y:
)o likely it is that the epecte> outcomes ill occur )o great an>or important the outcomes are 9ear 7ts t'e facts w'en2 r +our li=e or that o= someone you care aout is threatene> a e 9 +our health or that o= someone you care aout is
.nger 7ts t'e facts w'en2
r e g An important goal is locke> n . +ou or someone you care aout is attacke> or hurt
Disgust 7ts t'e facts w'en2 t Something you are in contact ith coul> contaminate you s u g Someo>y hom you >eeply >islike is touching you or s i D love> one
)nv( 7ts t'e facts w'en2
( v Another person or group gets or has things you >ont n ) have that you ant or nee>
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!heck the Facts o= Emotional Responses ?continue>@ ( s u o l a e
ealous( 7ts t'e facts w'en2 A relationship or thing in your li=e is very important an>
>esire> y you An important relationship or thing in your li=e is in
>anger o= eing >amage> or lost Someone is threatening to take a relationship or thing e v o ,
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%ho or hat is love> >oes things or has Hualities that you value or a>mire Loving the person; animal or oect enhances the Huality o= your li=e or o= those you care Loving the person; animal or oect increases your chances
Sadness 7ts t'e facts w'en2 •
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+ou have lost something or someone irretrievaly Things are not the ay you ante> or epecte> an> hope> them to e<
S'ame 7ts t'e facts w'en2 •
+ou ill e reecte> y a person or group you care aout i= characteristics o= yoursel= or your ehavior are ma>e pulic
JJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJJ 7ts t'e facts w'en • • • •
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C'eck t'e 9acts Works'eet ame8
Date8
Therapist8
Instructions8 Think o= a time in the past eek hen you ha> an emotional response that you >i> not ant< #se this eperience as your gui>e to ansering the =olloing Huestions; hich are a step:y:step gui>e =or helping you check the =acts accor>ing to DBT< To get the est eMect; ll out this orksheet hile you are in ise min>; especially i= you are ne to skills training<
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%hat is my S#DS level o= >istress right noP -ubjective %nits of istress -cale rates #
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%hat is the response to the emotion that I >o not think as eMective in the situationP
3< %hat is the prompting event that lea>s up to the unante> emotional responseP
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)o >oes or >oesnQt my emotional response or its intensity t the =acts o= the situationP -ee *motions That +it the +acts handout as a reference if needed0
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%hat are my interpretations; thoughts; assumptions; an> u>gments; i= any aout the situation; others; or meP
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%hat is the orst that coul> happen i= I oserve my emotion ithout u>gment; resistance; or acting upon the urges it may cause to arise in meP
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%hat is the orst that can happen i= I act on the emotional urges; u>ge mysel= or others or suppress my emotionP
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%hat is my S#DS level o= >istress ?4:/44@ no a=ter checking the
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Diar( Card Week ? 1ame2
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Mood Hap Ang Fea Sha Guil Sad 0-10 py er r me t
Target Problem UUr 1otes2 U or A S$ill%ul Behavior ge "nten# ne## AA!t ity &ating ion
%unday
!onday
Tuesday =ednesd ay Thursday
,riday
%aturday
Indicate Target Behavior with U for Urge or A for Action. Rate the intensity level as:
+ate Interfering 0rges
Skillfulness +ating
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4 Di>nQt think aout using skills / Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use them 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul 9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
#rge to Huit Skills Training #rge to Huit In>ivi>ual "ther8
DBT Skills Training Tracking Tale Skill Practiced
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Tuesda Wednes T'ursd Saturd 9rida( ( da( a( a(
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O//osite to )motion .ction Use o''osite action when your e#otion does not %t the facts Watch the DBT Peer Connections Opposite Action training video on YouTube at http://youtu.be/hmvDk-zUcMY
9ear is2 is2 r T'e O//osite .ction for 0nGusti7ed 9ear a e 9 Do hat you are a=rai> o= >oing over an> over again •
r T'e O//osite .ction for 0nGusti7ed .nger .nger is2 is2 e g n Gently A$"ID person you are angry ith ?rather than 5 •
t T'e O//osite .ction for 0nGusti7ed Disgust Disgust is2 is2 s u g s *"$E !L"SE< Eat; >rink; stan> near; or emrace hat you i D =oun> >isgusting< •
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T'e O//osite .ction for 0nGusti7ed )nv( 0nGusti7ed )nv( is2 is2 • • •
Inhiit >estroying hat the other person has Do the "''"SITE o= envious action urges !"#T +"#R BLESSIGS
0nGusti7ed ealous( is2 is2 * T'e O//osite .ction for 0nGusti7ed ealous( s u o LET G" o= controlling others actions ! a S)ARE hat an> ho you have in your li=e e > • •
is2 e T'e O//osite .ction for 0nGusti7ed ,ove is2 ' o : A$"ID the person; animal or oect you love •
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"pposite to Emotion Action Use o''osite action when your e#otion does not %t the facts Watch the DBT Peer Connections Opposite Action training video on YouTube at http://youtu.be/hmvDk-zUcMY
Sadness is2 is2 s T'e O//osite .ction for Sadness s e n Get A!TI$EN approach; >o not avoi>< d a Do things that make you FEEL !"*'ETET an> sel=: " con>ent< e T'e O//osite .ction for S'ame is2 m a h hen your ehavior does not violate your on moral values " • •
t T'e O//osite .ction for 6uilt is2 ! i u A %hen you 1I22 34T be reecte> i= =oun> out
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O//osite .ction #omework
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I$%T"#CTI-$%/ 5ter re'iewing the oosite actions handout or emotions that do not it the acts think o a time in the ast ast week where an emotiona! emotiona! resonse or its intensit* intensit* did not it the acts o the situation Make sure to choose a situation that is a !ower !e'e! trigger 9or e0am!e it is +etter to start with something !ike *e!!ing at a customer ser'ice reresentati'e o'er the hone than *e!!ing at a souse or imortant !o'ed one 5ter *ou determine a situation, use it as a reerence to i!! out the worksheet
What is the emotion % am e0eriencing that does not it the acts or intensit* o the situation@
What action urges does the emotion cause within me@ e0am!e I5nger makes me want to *e!!JE
What cou!d % do seciica!!* to act oosite to m* emotion@ "ee handout or reerenceE
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What What can can % do do to ra ract ctic icee usin using g oo oosi site te act actio ion n to m* m* emot emotio ion n this this wee week@ k@
5ter 5ter rac racti ticin cing g oos oosite ite action action this this week, week, did m* emot emotion ion go u, u, down down,, or sta* the same@ $motion %ncreased
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Wh* Wh* do do % think think the the emo emoti tion on went went u, down down,, or or sta sta*e *ed d the the same same@@
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Did % do the oosite action a!! the wa*@ % not, what do % think got in the wa*@
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Working wit' Primar( 3 Secondar( )motions
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The easiest ay to gure out hether you are eperiencing a primary or secon>ary emotion is see hether the emotion ts the =acts an> that it is appropriate in level o= intensity< I= your emotion ts the =acts it is usually a primary emotion; i= it >oes not t the =acts it is usually a secon>ary emotion< #se the =olloing ochart to help you gure out hat emotion regulation skills to use =or primary an> secon>ary emotions< %hat is the emotion I am eperiencingP UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU .S;
Does the emotion t the =acts an> is it appropriate in level o= intensityP
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Secon>ary Emotion
Solutions Solutions
: Ra>ically Accet the Emotion : Act on Emotion; : *in>=ulness to !urrent Emotion : Accept !onseHuences Grace=ully
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Ra>ically Accet the Emotion !hange Thoughts to Fit Facts "pposite Action 'rolem Solve
%as my emotion a primary ?ts =acts@ or a secon>ary emotion ?>oesnQt t the =acts@P
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%hat solution >i> I use =or my emotion an> hat as or as not help=ul aout itP ,/
Diar( Card Week @ 1ame2
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Mood Hap Sa Ang Fea Sha Guil 0-10 py d er r me t
Target Problem UUrg 1otes2 U or A S$ill%ul Behavior e "nten# ne## AA!ti ity &ating on
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!onday
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,riday
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+ate Interfering 0rges
Skillfulness +ating
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4 Di>nQt think aout using skills / Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use them 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul 9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
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DBT Skills Training Tracking Tale Skill Practiced
Sunda Monda Tuesda Wednes T'ursd Satur 9rida( ( ( ( da( a( da(
5cted oosite to 5nger 5cted oosite to 9ear 5cted oosite to "adness 5cted oosite to "hame 5cted oosite to Aui!t 5cted oosite to >ea!ous* 5cted oosite to 5nger
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Be'avior C'ain .nal(sis 3 Solutions 7ame
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%7"#R-C#%<7" .ick a recent situation where *ou engaged in a ro+!ematic +eha'ior #hen read the /uestions and answer each item according!* Do a +eha'ior chain ana!*sis reera+!* right ater engagement #he ke* is to make sure that *our distress !e'e! is !ow enough to access wise mind and not re8engage
1 What ro+!ematic target +eha'ior am % ana!*zing@ 2 What was the intensit* !e'e! o the target +eha'ior on a sca!e rom 181@ ( How !ong did the target +eha'ior !ast@ 5ro0imate !ength o timeE F What romting e'ent in m* en'ironment set o the +eha'ior chain@
What 'u!nera+i!it* actors were in m* en'ironment and me@
) What short8term re!ie did % get rom engaging in the target +eha'ior@
N What are the !ong8term conse/uences i % continue to do #arget ;eha'ior@
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Describing ,inks 3 6enerating Skills Solutions ISTR#!TI"S8 In the le=t column; enter the letter representing hat type o= link the ehavior is in the chain ?See elo<@ Then in the right column; >escrie the link ehavior in >etail< Belo each link >escription; rite in a skill you coul> use in place o= the prolematic ehavior< Repeat the process =or each link in the chain<
'ossile Types o= Behavior Links8
A Action B Bo>y sensation Event F Feeling
#*e o :ink ABC,
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#*e o :ink ABC,
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(ink 1 Descrition
Descri+e what ski!! *ou cou!d use instead o ro+!ematic !ink and how to a!* it
(ink 2 Descrition
Descri+e what ski!! *ou cou!d use instead o ro+!ematic !ink and how to a!* it
(ink 3 Descrition
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D;# "ki!!
#*e o :ink ABC,
D;# "ki!!
#*e o :ink ABC,
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#*e o :ink ABC,
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#*e o :ink ABC,
Descri+e what ski!! *ou cou!d use instead o ro+!ematic !ink and how to a!* it
(ink Descrition
Descri+e what ski!! *ou cou!d use instead o ro+!ematic !ink and how to a!* it
(ink 8 Descrition
Descri+e what ski!! *ou cou!d use instead o ro+!ematic !ink and how to a!* it
(ink E Descrition
Descri+e what ski!! *ou cou!d use instead o ro+!ematic !ink and how to a!* it
(ink 9 Descrition
Descri+e what ski!! *ou cou!d use instead o ro+!ematic !ink and how to a!* it
(ink F Descrition
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Descri+e what ski!! *ou cou!d use instead o ro+!ematic !ink and how to a!* it
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Co/ing .'ead to Prevent 9uture Target Be'avior %7"#R-C#%<7" %n this section, strategies or re'enting uture target +eha'ior are generated #hen the* are a!ied the ne0t time an urge to engage in the +eha'ior arises Read each /uestion and then answer according!* using the inormation *ou recorded in *our ana!*sis 1 How can % reduce m* 'u!nera+i!it* actors in the uture@
2 Wa*s to re'ent the romting e'ent rom occurring again in the uture@
( What harm did the target +eha'ior cause@
F What are m* !ans to reair, correct and6or o'er8correct the harm caused@
What are m* deeest thoughts and ee!ings % want to share a+out the e'ent@
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(on / Tue# / ed / Thu r#/ Fri/ Sat/ ( Indicate Target Behavior with a U or A )Urge*Action+ Rate the intensity level as $=Minimal %=Moderate >=Stron "=Intense
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7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help
/ Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant
3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul
2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt
9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
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Intensit( of 0rges &8 " #rge to Huit Skills #rge to Avoi> )omeork
ISTR#!TI"S8 Fill in the name o= the month< Then eneath each eek>ay; ll in the >ate< *ar an in the o =or each >ay that you practice> a liste> skill< Sun>ay *on>a Tues>a %e>nes>a Thurs>a Fri>ay Satur>a y y y y y
.ro+!em "o!'ing ;eha'ior Chain 5na!*sis Aenerated "o!utions 5!ied "o!utions
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.BC P,).S) Skills 1atch the corresponding -)ills Training 5ideo on 6ouTube at the following 2in)
http8youtu<egoH%0L[",3 .BC Skills .ccumulate 'ositive Eperiences Buil> *astery Cope Ahea> o= Time =or Emotional Events
.ccumulate 'ositive Eperiences !uild a 2ife worth 2iving 3ow7
S'ort Term2 Do pleasant things that are possile no ,ong Term2 *ake !hanges in your li=e so positive events ill occur more o=ten< •
Increase pleasant events that cause pleasant emotions
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Do one pleasant activity each >ay
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Do things that make you =eel competent
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!reate a >e=ense against helplessness an> hopelessness
!e mindful of pleasant experiences •
Focus attention on pleasant moments as they happen
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Re=ocus attention hen prolematic thoughts arise
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'articipate an> Engage Fully in the eperience
!e unmindful of worries •
Re=ocus thoughts o= the pleasant eperience en>ing
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Re=ocus thoughts o= >eserving the eperience -4
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Let go o= epectations aout the pleasant eperience
Buil> *astery •
Do at least one thing each >ay to uil> a sense o= accomplishment
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'lan toar> success over =ailure
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Do something >iOcult; ut achievale
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Gra>ually increase the >iOculty over time
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I= the rst task is too >iOcult; >o something easier
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Cope Ahea> o= Time =or Emotional Events •
I>enti=y a situation that is likely to cause overhelming emotions
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Deci>e hat skills you ant to use in the situation
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Imagine yoursel= coping eMectively in the situation right no
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Rehearse coping eMectively y role playing ith therapist=rien>peer
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Rehearse ith ne prolems that may come up
P,).S) Skills treat Physical
I,lness )at Balance> *eals .voi> >rug misuse Sleep Balance> )ercise Regularly
Treat 'hysical Illness • • • •
Take care o= you physical health See a >octor hen nee>e> Take me>ications accor>ingly Rememer that eing ill causes increase> emotional vulneraility
Eat alance> *eals • • • • •
Do not eat too much or too little Eat regularly an> min>=ully Stay aay =rom =oo>s that aMect emotionality Eat =oo> that have omega:7 =atty aci>s See a nutritionist i= necessary
Avoi> *oo> Altering Drugs • • •
Stay oM illicit >rugs Stay aay =rom alcohol use me>ications as or>ere> y prescrier
Sleep Balance> • •
Figure out ho much sleep you nee> a night to =eel reste> Sleep accor>ing to a consistent sche>ule\I= you have sleep >iOculties; plan a sleep sche>ule . stick to it
Eercise Regularly •
Eercise at least a little every >ay -2
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Try to uil> up to 24:74 minutes o= >aily eercise !onsult your >octor i= you have any special health consi>erations
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.BC P,).S) #omework / 'leasant Thing A Day %eekly %orksheet "unda* Monda* #uesda* Wednesda* #hursda* 9rida* "aturda*
/ Skill a Day to Buil> *astery %eekly %orksheet Monda* #uesda* Wednesda* #hursda* 9rida* "aturda* Monda*
*y 'LEASE Skills Daily Routine %orksheet #reat %!!ness
What #an do daily to ensure treat or pre"ent illness%
$at ;a!anced Mea!s
&ow $any Meals a day &ow $any sna#ks a will ha"e% day will ha"e%
7otes 5'oid Drugs
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&ow $any ti$es a week will exer#ise! for how long! and doing what%
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4 Di>nQt think aout using skills / Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use them 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul 9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
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Accumulate 'ositive Ep< Sleep Balance> Buil> *astery
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Inter/ersonal )Eectiveness Skills Interpersonal ffectieness %kills are a road ma or getting what *ou want through eecti'e communication and ma* +e +etter remem+ered +* the acron*ms *A"; !A$; +I); ,A%T
Re!ationshi $ecti'eness
<+ecti'e $ecti'eness
"e!8resect $ecti'eness
*escri+e
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0ress Assert
A ear Conident $egotiate
Interested )a!idate as* manner
A o!og*8ree %tick to Va!ues Truthu!ness
" einorce
->ectie ffectieness G *A" !A$ "ki!!s *ou use to communicate non/udg$entally ( effe#ti"ely.
"elationship ffectieness G +I) "ki!!s *ou use to communicate resect to and or others
%elfDrespect ffectieness G ,A%T "ki!!s which *ou use to communicate resect or *ourse!
Describe Descrie the situation an> hat it is you ant or nee>< In using this skill; the key point to rememer is that you stick to only the =acts an> relay them non: u>gmentally
)/ress This skill re=ers to epressing your =eelings; thoughts; an> opinions aout the situation you ill have alrea>y >escrie>< In >oing this; it is ise to egin your statements in a manner that promotes active listening< This is achievale y using 5I6 statements as in 5I think6 or 5I =eel6 an> likeise avoi>ing statements that egin ith 5+ou6 or 5They6 hich imply lame -(
.ssert %hen communicating; it is essential to state eactly; clearly; an> as simply as possile hat it is you ant< For eample; instea> o= saying; 5The rule is not =air<6 Being assertive; one might say; 5To make the rule more =air; I suggest e >o thisUUUUUUUU<6 The key to assert is to state your reHuest plainly in a manner that is rm; ut respect=ul; an> non:u>gmental<
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+einforce Be prepare> to oMer reasons that support your point o= vie an>or reHuest< 'oint out the enets o= supporting your reHuest or point o= vie<
Mindful Be aare o= the potential emotional eMects o= the or>s you choose an> re: >irect =ocus hen >iscussions >ri=t aay =rom the topic at han> or take on a negative or personally >irecte> ton
.//ear Con7dent Sho con>ence in ho you communicate y using eye contact; speaking calmlyclearly; no>>ing aOrmatively hen others are >escriingepressingasserting their concerns; an> a>opting a illing posture ?sitting =orar> attentively; avoi>ing crossing arms; oMering open palms; smile<@ Appearing !on>ent encourages others to take your ants an>or nee>s more seriously<
1egotiate %hen there are competing points o= vie; proposals rarely n> acceptance ithout negotiating the >etails< Be illing to compromise< Be open; eile to a>ustments; an> even etter to come prepare> ith alternative solutions<
6entle Be respect=ul; kin>; an> courteous< Re=rain =rom accusatory language< For eample; rather than saying; 5+ou make me ma><6 Try; 5I am angry ith you<6 Also; another help=ul tip is to use and here you oul> normally use but ; especially hen criticiCing others< ote the >iMerence in tone in the =olloing eamples simply y changing one or>< 5I hear hat you are saying; but you nee> skills<6 5I hear hat you are saying and you nee> skills<6 I= you are going to vali>ate; use the or> and to link opposing perspectives< The goal is to treat oth your on an> the other personQs point o= vie as eHually important an> orthy o= >iscussion<
Interested Sho others interest y using eye contact; aOrmative no>>ing; an> not interrupting others hen they are speaking interest you< In replying; reect --
ack hat has een sai> an> i= your opinion is not epressly aske>; make sure others agree to hearing it e=ore oMering<
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*alidate Acknole>ge others =eelings an> opinions y reecting them ack non: u>gmentally< For eample; i= your =rien> says 5I hate i>iot >riversN they give me roa> rage]6 +ou oul> vali>ate their eperience y saying something likeN 5I can see that you are totally =rustrate> y other peopleQs >riving<6 The most important thing to rememer is that the goal in vali>ation is to acknole>ge hat is true or vali>< +ou >o nee> to necessarily agree; encourage; or approve particular =eelings<
)as( Manner 'resent a eile an> calm >emeanor hen the situation is tense< The more calm attentiveness you sho to others; the more likely they ill e com=ortale; receptive; an> illing to communicate ith you<
9air Be =air an> oective in your conclusions< I= you are going to criticiCe another; make sure your opinions arrive y atten>ing to alancing =acts rather than relying on personal pre=erence or emotions< Even i= you =eel strongly; resist the urge to regar> your =eelings or point o= vie as more important< !onsi>er other peopleQs nee>s an> ants in a>>ition to your on< Strive =or reciprocity in relationships; that is eHually giving an> receiving in relationships<
./olog( 9ree !onsi>er the =olloing statement< 5I am sorry; ut I have to >isagree ith you<6 I= you >escrie; epress; an> assert yoursel= appropriately an> accor>ing to your personal values; unnecessarily apologiCing simply ecause your point o= vie may not match that o= those ith hom you are communicating only serves to eaken the appearance o= sincerity hen a true apology is arrante><
Stick to :our *alues Kno hat your personal values; ethics; an> morals are an> >o not compromise them =or the sake o= avoi>ing conict or appeasing others< )oever; it is ise to keep an open min>; respect others values; an> hen it comes that you =eel the nee> to Huestion values; stick to your on as they are the only ones you are empoere> to manage<
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Trut'fulness Stic Stick k to the the =act =acts s an> avoi avoi> > eagg agger erat atin ing; g; emel melli lish shin ing; g; or mak akin ing g u>gmental u>gmental statements< statements< Rather than saying; 5)e as totally ru>e<6 Re Restate state your assumptio assumption n =actually =actually<< 5)e 5)e ke kept pt interr interrupti upting ng others others hile hile they ere ere speaking<
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!indful/ ;e mindu! o en'ironmenta! 'u!nera+i!ities, *ours & others emotions Choose words careu!!*
Appear confident/ -se direct e*e contact head high, shou!ders +ack, arms uncrossed, a!ms oen
D).+ M.1 6I*) 9.ST
1egotiate2 Be egotiate2 Be illing to compromise i= there is unillingness to meet the specics o= your reHuest<
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)/ress your thoughts . =eelings aout the prolem8
.ssert; ssert; reHuest precisely hat you ant >one in or>er to the prolem8
+einforce; einforce ; state the enets o= =ullling your reHuest
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Instructions2 %se %se this this wor) wor)sh shee eett to crea create te a plan plan for for e8ec e8ecti tive vely ly re9u re9ues esti ting ng someth something ing you want want or need need from from someon someone e where where the situa situatio tion n is uncer uncertai tain, n, emotionally arousing, and:or susceptible to con;ict.
*A" !A$ +I) ,A%T =orksheet HContinued +entle Descri+e wa*s *ou can communicate gent!*
Interested How can *ou show the other erson *ou are interested in what he6she sa*s@
'a !idate others emotions@ )alidate How can *ou 'a!idate
asy !anner Descri+e wa*s *ou can communicate with an eas* manner
,air/ What is air to *ou in this situation
Apology ,ree/ Descri+e what *our urge to ao!ogize might +e in this situation
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%tick to )alues/ What are *our 'a!ues in this situation@
Trut'ful2 %hat are the =acts you nee> to stick toP
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Diar( Card Week $$ ame8
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4 Di>nQt think aout using skills / Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use them 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul 9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
#rge to Huit Skills Training #rge to Huit In>ivi>ual Therapy "ther #rges8
*BT %kills Tracking Tale ISTR#!TI"S8 Fill in the name o= the month< Then eneath each eek>ay; ll in the >ate< Fill in the rst letter =or the skill you practice> the o =or each >ay that you practice>< Eample D Sun>ay *on>ay Tues>ay
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"unda* Monda* #uesda* Wednesda* #hursda* 9rida* "aturda* Indicate Target !ehavior with % for %rge or & for &ction. $ate the intensity level as' /*inimal 2*il> 7*o>erate 3Strong 9Intense
Rate Inter=ering #rges 4:9
Skill=ulness Rating 4 Di>nQt think aout using skills / Thought aout skills; >i>nQt ant to use them 2 Though aoutante> to use skills ut >i>nQt 7 #se> skills; ut they >i>nQt help 3 #se> skills . they ere help=ul 9 Di> not nee> skills; ut practice> them
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DBT +esources DBT Smart P'one .//s +eviews http8ilove>ttapps
%ith the a>vent o= >igital in=ormation an> the orl>i>e e; the orl> o= psychotherapy an> society in general continues to look =or ne an> use=ul ays to incorporate >igital technologies into our every>ay lives< )ere the =ocus is specic to smart phone applications ?An>roi>; i"S(; etc<@ that aim to incorporate aspects o= >ialectical ehavior therapy ?DBT@< To >ate; a variety o= sai> applications can e >onloa>e> =ree an>or =or a mo>est price on the market ?either y e; iTunes; an>or Google 'lay@ an> ne ones are certainly on the ay< Each app presente> an> >iscusse> elo inclu>es >onloa> links; >eveloperQs summariCe> >escriptions veratim; an> my personal revie notes =olloing ?highlighte> in re>; ol> type@< This list means to provi>e a general overvie o= availale applications ith user notes an> is provi>e> purely =or your re=erence< #serQs are in=orme> to use the liste> applications at their on >iscretion an> are aare that the in=ormation provi>e> herein >oes not mean to replace therapy provi>e> y Hualie> mental health pro=essionals<
:Rachel Gill aka 'inki Tusca>erro DBT 'eer !onnections Foun>er
O/timism 9+)) KWindows Mac OSL iP'one Web "ptimism apps are sel=:tracking applications; >esigne> to help you increase your un>erstan>ing o= all the things that aMect your mental health< The apps act as a springoar> to >etect patterns in your health an> >evelop //2
strategies to proactively manage >epression; ipolar >isor>er; an> other mental health con>itions< ^ote8 This seems to e the most eile FREE so=tare =or managing a Dialectical Behavior Therapy ?DBT@ Diary !ar> an> skills tracking >igitally in that it provi>es synchroniCation across >evices an> the e; oMers graphical inter=ace =or vieing skillstarget ehaviors over time ?Fig< B@; provi>es a customiCale remin>er =unction; an> has clinician management option to allo =or collaoration an>or sharing reports ?Fig< !@ that may e sent to sel=; therapist; etc< accor>ing to user pre=erence< In my case; I have a eekly report sent at (pm the night e=ore my in>ivi>ual session to my therapist so she may have my >iary car> on han> e=ore I arrive =or t'era/(!
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OPTIMISM SO9TW.+) DBT DI.+: C.+D S)T0P I1ST+0CTIO1S2 #owever t'ere is a catc' to using t'is software as a diar( card! T'e interface must be manuall( con7gured wit' DBT s/eci7c data elements /rovided and arranged according to (our own /reference! T'is took me some time to 7gure out t'roug' trial and error! I contacted t'e develo/er about creating a function for savingNdistributing user tem/lates w'ic' ma( be included in future u/dates! T'is software is recommended for advanced com/uterNmobile a//lication users! #owever t'e good news is t'at all m( 'ard work is summed u/ in t'e screens'ot below! K9ig! . w'ic' will surel( cut (our set u/ time to a minimum! /
Go to 'tt/s2NNwww!o/timismonline!comNregister!/'/ an> register ith the esite< This allos you to ll in your >iary car>; receive remin>er notications; an> synchroniCe your >ata across >evices< For eample; I can ll in my car> on my computer; synchroniCe >ata; then open the app on my i'hone an> the >ata I entere> through my computer ill sho up on my i'honei'a>< ?An>roi> version is un>er >evelopment; accor>ing to the >eveloper<
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Go to 'tt/2NNwww!7ndingo/timism!comN an> >onloa> the so=tare =or your computer ?%in>os; *ac "S@ to your >esktop or other relate> =ol>er<
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"pen nely installe> so=tare =rom your programs start menu ?%in>os@ or applications =ol>er ?*ac@
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In the main screen; click the !#ST"* utton in the !"RE DATA; then STA+ %ELL STRATEGIES; TRIGGERS; an> S+*'T"*S; respectively renaming each section an> customiCing >ata accor>ing to screenshot elo ?FIG#RE A@ =rom my so=tare conguration<
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Breat'e+ela 9+)) KiP'one and .ndroid is a portale stress management tool; hich provi>es >etaile> in=ormation on the eMects o= stress on the o>y an> instructions an> practice eercises to help users learn the stress management skill calle> >iaphragmatic reathing< Breathing eercises have een >ocumente> to >ecrease the o>yQs _ght:or:ightQ ?stress@ response; an> help ith moo> stailiCation; anger control; an> aniety management< Breathe2Rela can e use> as a stan>:alone stress re>uction tool; or can e use> in tan>em ith clinical care >irecte> y a healthcare orker 1ote2 T'is is a must 'ave 9+)) mobile a// for an(one wit' a smart/'one w'o wants to 'el/ manage t'eir stress! .s a DBT related a// t'is software will 'el/ (ou build mindfulness to breat' b( /roviding (ou guided breat'ing instruction wit' visual gra/'ics and audio t'at (ou can customi5e to t'e second according to (our own in'aleNe'ale c(cle! T'is a// is 'ig'l( recommended for t'ose wit' aniet( Panic andNor PTSD related s(m/toms
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Bowls .ut'entic Tibetan Singing Bowls 9+)) KiP'one Onl( Sirl your ngers sloly aroun> the e>ges o= the ols to create eauti=ul me>itative harmonic tones< Tap the ols; gongs; ells; an> tingsha cymals to a>> >epth an> variety to your music< E% Feature] Recor> an> save your masterpieces an> play them ack hile relaing or me>itating to ring peace to your min>; o>y an> soul< #se this app =or me>itation; music; relaation; an> personal ell:eing< 1ote2 In DBT grou/ skills training sessions t(/icall( begin wit' a mindfulness /ractice t'at ideall( utili5e a tibetan singing bowl t'at is ta//ed % times to signal t'e start of a mindfulness /ractice and $ time to signal t'e end of a mindfulness /ractice! T'is a//lication is great for t'ose w'o are leading mindfulness /ractices and are looking for a 9+)) digital alternative to /urc'asing an e/ensive Tibetan singing bowl! T'e audio is ecellent and nearl( indistinguis'able from t'e aut'entic bowl sound!
Mindfulness Bell 9+)) KiP'one and .ndroidrings perio>ically >uring the >ay; to give you the opportunity to hol> on =or a moment an> consi>er hat you are currently >oing; an> in hat state o= min> you are hile you are >oing it< Accor>ing to the 1en Bu>>hist teacher Thich hat )anh; this is an eMective means o= >eveloping min>=ulness<
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1ote T'is is a great 9+)) a//lication for building mindfulness! I like to set t'e timer to go oE randoml( and /eriodicall( t'roug' t'e da( to remind me to take a mindful moment to be /resent and breat'e dee/l(! T'e audio is 'ig' Qualit(!
DBT +eview 9+)) KiP'one onl(*anage your emotions an> improve your relationships ith DBT Revie; a personal:use DBT tool< This app as >esigne> as a learning a>unct =or people learning DBT or orking ith a DBT therapist< The =our categories o= skills are covere>< The app is ase> on *arsha LinehanQs 5!ognitive:Behavioral Treatment =or Bor>erline 'ersonality Disor>er6 ?/--7@< This app is not recommen>e> =or anyone un=amiliar ith DBT skills an> is not a sustitute =or therapy<
1ote2 T'is is a 9+)) DBT skills review a//lication for t'ose w'o are in t'e /rocess of skills training and are still building (our descri/tive knowledge of individual skills! .lt'oug' not as com/re'ensive as DBT Self8'el/ t'is is a decent 9+)) alternative!
DBT Diar( //-
R>!AA KiP'one and .ndroidhelps you keep a >iary o= your >aily urges; emotions an> skills use>< "ne o= the challenges o= keeping a >iary it is easy to =orget the eact >etails o= events hen you are lling out your >iary at night or e=ore a therapy session< The DBT Diary app solves this prolem y helping you keep a >etaile>; accurate >iary throughout the >ay; at the eact time o= each event; herever you are; y using your moile >evice<
1ote2 T'is is a DBT diar( card a//lication t'at oEers com/re'ensive data tracking! #owever t'e interface is not all t'at user friendl(! If (ou are willing to take t'e time to customi5e (our software I recommend using O/timism w'ic' is muc' more eible and 'as man( more o/tions for trackingNs'aringNmanaging target be'aviorsNDBT skills use!
DBT Diar( Card and Skills Coac' R>!AA KiP'one and .ndroid%hat DBT Diary !ar> has to oMer V Skills< L"TS o= them< It can e your Huick re=erence to your skills so that you >onQt have to carry aroun> your ook or in>er< Every skill is >escrie> in rea>ale language to help you un>erstan> them easily an> itQs all ust a Huick tap aay V Emotions< All the 5asic6 emotions are presente>; again ith >escriptions an> eplanations a Huick tap aay V Behaviors< The most troulesome are pre:loa>e> V !oaching< I= you kno you nee> to use a skill ut canQt think o= hich one or canQt rememer ho to choose; use the app< The coaching can e your virtual therapist< V !omplete customiCaility< Are you orking on something >iMerent or >o you have a >iMerent un>erstan>ing o= a particular skill or emotionP !hange it< ItQs that easy< +ou are not e>>e> to the ay itQs presente> in the app< ItQs all completely customiCale V -// skills< 'ut your emergency skills a tap aay< V Email<
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1ote2 I 'ave not /ersonall( used t'is a//lication so 'ave no additional info to oEer ot'er t'an t'e develo/ers /rovided descri/tion above! If (ou 'ave used t'is a//lication /lease s'are (our review wit' readers in t'e comments section!
DBT Self8'el/ R@!AA KiP'one and .ndroidis a tool that helps you manage overhelming emotions; reak >estructive impulsive ehaviors; navigate relationships an> cultivate min>=ulness< It contains skill >escriptions complete ith rationale an> practice tips that ill enale you to >evelop an> practice the nee>e> skills< The skills are ase> upon the principles an> skills taught in Dialectical Behavioral Therapy skill classes< The app can e use> in conunction ith psychotherapy or as a stan>alone sel=:help intervention as the skills can e implemente> into many situations an> settings<
1ote2 T'is is a com/re'ensive DBT skills review a//lication for t'ose w'o are in t'e /rocess of skills training and are still building (our descri/tive knowledge of individual skills!
DBT A$$ 9+)) K.ndroid onl(%ith this app; you ill Huickly get a ran>om >istress tolerance skill to >o< In a>>ition; =or each mo>ule; *in>=ulness; Emotional /2/
!ontrol; *anage relationships; an> Distress tolerance; are the skills represente> an> tutorials =or these< !ontains over /94 >iMerent suggestions on skill eercises< There is also the opportunity to create your on crisis list so you ill alays have it ith you< An optional mo>ule =or vali>ation has een a>>e> as >esire> y participants< The application is >esigne> in collaoration ith the participants in DBT treatment< Dt//2 can never replace pro=essional help; ut can serve as a tool =or DBT training<
1ote2 T'is a//lication /rovides reference to DBT skills! T'is a// oEers minimal information alt'oug' it could be made more useful wit' some added eEort from t'e develo/er! If (ou are looking for a DBT reference tool t'at is 9+)) and are not big on com/re'ensiveness t'is a// is for (ou!
DBT2 Inter/ersonal +elations'i/ Tools R>!AA KiP'one onl(Buil> a Der on the spot] All the help you nee> to instantly make one on the spot< Save the DEAR*AQs you make along ith priorities an> loa> them up henever you ant] V An Intensity !alculator to help you gure out eactly ho you shoul> ask =or hat you ant; or say no to others< V An Interpersonal *yth !hecklist< "ver time; keep track o= ho the myths you have in your hea> change] V A $ali>ation 0uiC< Do you kno ho to give vali>ation to yoursel= an> othersP #se this HuiC to get Huick =ee>ack on >iMerent scenarios so you learn ho to give vali>ation right aay] V Trouleshooting to help you hen you try to get hat you ant; ut still canQt] V Beauti=ul 'hotography<
1ote2 T'is is a good a// for t'ose of (ou teters wit' fast 7ngers and it would be a useful a// for /eo/le w'o are good at t(/ing if it were a deskto/ a//lication! T'e tool as afar as it references DBT skills does a good Gob of sta(iung in line wit' t'e skills learned in t'e Inter/ersonal )Eectiveness Skills module! T'e downside is t'at t'e interface lacks automation and reQuires mostl( tet entries /22
w'ic' can be tedious on mobile devices! If (ou want to kee/ (our inter/ersonal skills at arms reac' at all times t'oug' it is wort' t'e 7ve dollars!
DBT )motion +egulation Tools R?!AA KiP'one onl( %ith Eight DBT Tools8 #n>erstan> *y Emotion; Emotional *yth !hecklist8 Short Term )appiness Tool; Long Term )appiness Tool; "serve . Descrie Emotions; "pposite Action !alculator; $alues . 'riorities; *anage Etreme Emotions; Tips to use on the spot; an> a numer =or the ational Suici>e 'revention )otline<
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