The Sexual Framing of Male-Female Interactions by Captain Jack http://www.getabeautifulgirlfrien http://www .getabeautifulgirlfriend.com d.com http://www.betheseducer.com
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My Story and How to Be Your Own Dating Guru Dear Friend, Even though we’ve never met I know a few things about you. I know you aren’t satisfied with the area of your life called, “Dating.” I also know you’re a man of action, and you’ve decided to do something about it. Which brings you to guys like me. I first started this journey in late 2004. I had just gotten a divorce. I was overweight. I had two young daughters and had been decimated when the economy tanked after 9/11. I was thrust into a world I knew almost nothing about. I met my first wife at 20 years old and got married a couple years later. I had never really dated. I only had a girlfriend for a few months in high school and then never had one until I met the girl I eventually got married to. Not exactly success, huh? But, I came across the dating community. Here were guys who were DOING something about it. I devoured everything I could. I went out, scared as shit, and failed HORRIBLY. Many times I went home having done nothing other than stand at the bar or club all night talking to no one but the bartender and feeling so outside of it all. A few times on the verge of tears out of frustration. I pressed on and on. Putting in several hours a night when I wasn’t scrambling to find work to pay my bills. Successes started trickling in. A phone number here, a date there. After more researching online I kept hearing about this guy named Mystery. I could tell something was different. He had
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My Story and How to Be Your Own Dating Guru Dear Friend, Even though we’ve never met I know a few things about you. I know you aren’t satisfied with the area of your life called, “Dating.” I also know you’re a man of action, and you’ve decided to do something about it. Which brings you to guys like me. I first started this journey in late 2004. I had just gotten a divorce. I was overweight. I had two young daughters and had been decimated when the economy tanked after 9/11. I was thrust into a world I knew almost nothing about. I met my first wife at 20 years old and got married a couple years later. I had never really dated. I only had a girlfriend for a few months in high school and then never had one until I met the girl I eventually got married to. Not exactly success, huh? But, I came across the dating community. Here were guys who were DOING something about it. I devoured everything I could. I went out, scared as shit, and failed HORRIBLY. Many times I went home having done nothing other than stand at the bar or club all night talking to no one but the bartender and feeling so outside of it all. A few times on the verge of tears out of frustration. I pressed on and on. Putting in several hours a night when I wasn’t scrambling to find work to pay my bills. Successes started trickling in. A phone number here, a date there. After more researching online I kept hearing about this guy named Mystery. I could tell something was different. He had
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a structure, a system, a Method. It looked and sounded amazing. Almost magical, and I wanted the Magic! So I took a bootcamp and learned directly from him. I wanted the Magic and I got it! But, it didn’t come without a lot of hard work. Taking the bootcamp was just the beginning. I worked on myself like a madman! I studied every major system out there. I posted for feedback. I posted for ideas. I reconstructed my Game Plan from the Ground Up nearly every 3-4 months. I created “Sticking Point Analysis” to help me bust through places where I got stuck. (It’s modeled after Eli Goldratt’s System described in his book, “The Goal.”) While I love Mystery’s work I began noticing certain things that no one else seemed to notice. I tested them out and discovered that many of the core assumptions I previously held were wrong. Over time I developed my own ideas, theories and tactics. I began to see the world differently. I got good. I mean real good. Better than I ever dreamed or imagined I could. In short, I became my own Pick-up Guru!
Now, I teach and coach in addition to having fun in my private life. While I do make money at it, I do it mainly to help other guys. Those rare men who, rather than whining, have taken action and decided to do something about their circumstances. My goal for you: is that YOU become your own Guru. I’ll help you every step of the way but YOU’VE got to do the work. I’ve made it as simple and fun as possible. Make it an Adventure. ~ Captain Jack ~
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P.S. For those of you who want to work through this guide with my help I have a special 4 week coaching program to help you. Here’s how it works, you do the ‘missions’ in this book and after each one you send a full writeup to me with any comments or questions. I’ll look it over and give you feedback that will speed your progress. Send an email to
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What Others Have Said About Captain Jack “Captain Jack's ability to engineer same night pulls is actually a little frightening.” – Future “CaptainJack is the best PUA who isn't already a guru. And better than every instructor I've ever seen from RSD, Juggler, PU101 etc.” – Sinn “Watching Captain Jack work is incredible. He's just this really laid back, normal guy, and then he talks to a girl, and then he's making out with her, and then they're heading o " to to his place, arm in arm. And then you think to yourself "how the hell did he just do that!?"” – Tenmagnet
“All but Captain Jack” by Steve Mayeda (aka El Topo) So Bar XXXXX it is. We head on over and it looks good right away. Man! Hot Girls Crazy! Totally packed! There were more hot girls than people at the three Bars we were at before. I walk around and see Kino Master. Then I see Captain Jack. Tribulus sees a bunch of other people that I don’t know. And like most all the other guys they are standing in a corner. All but Captain Jack. What a motherfucker man (I say this in the Miles Davis phrasing of ‘motherfucker’). He is fucking good. He was an instructor at my Boot Camp in Scottsdale and pulled twice when he was there.
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Tribulus is not around so I follow the other PUAs. We stand in a corner waiting for Captain Jack. It feels great hanging out against a wall with a bunch of guys acting cool. Let me tell you. Captain Jack comes up says something to me and then like a fucking pro opens an HB9 (note: that stands for hot girl with a rating of 9 out of 10). I have got to tell you, I really don’t get it. I watched the whole thing. CJ Saw the woman at the bar, walked up next to her. Looked her way slightly, looked away and opened. I have no idea what he said, but she opened right away. Kino (physical touching) right away. He says something else and has her locked in. Her boyfriend come over and summons her. She acknowledges him and then turns back to CJ. More kino, more kino and then the BF pulls her away physically. The club kicks us out. Captain Jack is still inside. All the PUAs and I wait for him. No one including myself open anything, and there is still stu " around us. After about 15mins CJ comes out with a girl. Tribulus finds me and says for us to go. I leave the other PUA wallflowers as the watch CJ in the midst. On the way back Tribulus tells me not to fall into the trap of becoming a wallflower. He’s right, it is one thing to watch someone who’s really good, but it is another to follow him around and take notes that will never see the light of day.
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We talk about how good Captain Jack is. Tribulus says, ‘He’s doing the same stu " that we do, he just does it right.’ But man, it doesn’t look like it. I now realize that my minuscule success of number closes and dates are nothing. Yeah, I can open a set, get attraction, get comfort, but I got a long way to go. I have a new goal. I have got to get as good as Captain Jack. I have got to work at this thing. - El Topo
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Disclaimer This book will show you how to meet and attract a beautiful woman much faster than you ever thought possible. Using the ideas, theories, tactics and strategies I’ve been able to take MANY women home from bars and clubs the very same night I met them. I’ve done it with a startling amount of speed and consistency. It was FUN for a few years but now I believe the best chance you have for happiness and fulfillment is in a relationship with a beautiful woman of high quality. I thought having all that sex would make me feel better but it actually didn’t have that much e " ect on my overall happiness. I derive a lot more satisfaction from focusing on one beautiful, high-quality woman. I think serial monogamy provides the best opportunities for both your and her long-term happiness and health. That is my opinion after having had non-committed sex with several hundred women and often having 4-5 simultaneous girlfriends. However, the WAY I get a girlfriend now is basically the same way I would initiate a purely sexual relationship. The primary di" erence is in the AMOUNT of qualification I do beforehand (you’ll learn more about that later) and how much sexual tension I build before having sex. (Now I usually wait until I am SURE I want her as a girlfriend first). How you live your life is up to you. You can use this to do like I did and have lots of sex with lots of women if you want. I suggest serial monogamy though. The pleasure derived from it
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is far superior. And, if the relationships breaks down for any reason, just dust this guide o " and find another one! ~ Captain Jack ~
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Workability is the Measure The next sentence you read might be the most important in the entire book. The most important thing regarding the theories and ideas in this book is not whether or not they are true... it is whether or not they actually work! Workability is the real measure of this guide. Who cares if it is true if it doesn’t work? And, who cares whether or not it is true if it gets the desired result? And, everything in this has been proven to work again and again in every situation imaginable, in dozens of countries on earth by guys of all ages, shapes, sizes and skills. They all laud the amazing workability. Remember that as you read this. The most important thing is not whether you agree with the theory or WHY I say something works, but that it does work.
The Big Lie If you are not enjoying the success with women you desire there are really only a few things wrong. They are all fixable. But, before I list them out and show how we are going to solve them I want to tell you the real, core reason you are not experience the results you want. It is this: You have bought into a huge lie. I’m not saying there is some government agency promoting this lie and shoving it down everyone’s throats. I really have no idea where it came from, why it is here or why it still persists. I’ve proven it to be untrue. So have all of my students. But, once you understand it and convince yourself, no PROVE to "+
yourself, that it is a big lie you will benefit from the inequity in the dating scene it has created. This lie is actually what will make it possible for you to have outrageous and unheard of success because it obliterates your competition by keeping them out of the Game entirely. Or, causing them to do such stupid things that they rarely or never succeed. What is the lie? It manifests itself in various forms, here are a few examples: • Women are not as sexual as men. • A quality woman would not sleep with a guy on the first date (or 2nd or 3rd or whatever). • A woman wants to get to know the guy first, go on dates, get romanced, etc. • It takes a lot to turn a woman on. You find it in a common double-standard as well: If a woman has sex on a first date she is a slut. But, if a man has sex on the first date he is a stud. All of this above stu " is untrue. Women enjoy sex and want sex just as much as men do. Forget all the idiot psychologists who say otherwise. The big lie is that sexual urges exist independently as part of body processes. That is not true. When someone gets turned on, feels horny or feels attraction there has ALWAYS been some recent stimulus whether external (in their environment) or an internal copy of an external stimulus now stored in the mind. In addition to that, some people have made the decision to experience turn-on at certain intervals because they enjoy the kinesthetic feelings. Even this requires a mental action. It’s ""
simple enough. When they made that decision they also said “recall stored images/ideas/concepts of this type” and the mind provides them. This causes the stimulus and the person gets turned on. It might APPEAR spontaneous but even that is due to their early decision to periodically experience the mental stimulus. There really is only one di" erence in sex drive between men and women. Men ARE more likely to get turned on by sight and women are more likely to get turned on by a man’s behaviors, primarily communication behaviors. If men DO have more sexual thoughts than women it is only because there are more visual stimuli in the average man’s environment than male behavioral stimuli in the woman’s environment. When I use the term sexual I am talking about the feelings you experience as a result of the opposite sex. I am not only referring to sexual turn-on. If a woman makes you feel more “manly” that is part of the “sexual” I am talking about. It has to do with your sexual nature as a male (or hers as a female). Not understanding the “big lie” and the “only one di " erence” has caused men so much trouble. But, now, you should know that her sex drive can be stimulated by an outside source and it is stimulated by male behaviors, primarily communication behaviors. More on that later. But, first. this is from an article I wrote to readers of my “pick-up artist” blog, called Captain Jack’s Grande Adventures. It is one of the widest read and most popular dating blogs on the internet. The blog served as the home of my written record of my research into all aspects of dating. I’d go out and document exactly what I said or did each night at bars and clubs all across the United States but mainly in my hometown.
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I’d post new theories, ideas, experiments on the blog and get feedback. I’d share what worked and what didn’t. I’d even publish nearly word for word reports of my outings so other guys could dissect and learn from them. Here’s an article introducing one of my big breakthroughs. As I said in my “Disclaimer” I no longer have sex just for sex like I did then, instead preferring to get a long-term girlfriend in a monogamous relationship BUT I STILL do the things I’m teaching here -- I just delay sex and add a few things on to make her my girlfriend. Here’s the article:
Romance = Male-Female Sexual Tension Posted January 12, 2009 Women are starving.
I’m sitting in the bookstore right now and the Cafe points directly to the Sex, Relationships and Romance Novel section. There is an absolute STREAM of women going over there. Those sections are NEVER empty. Why? Women are literally starving for the male-female sexual dynamic. Now, that’s not the word they use for it. They call it ‘Romance.’ But, most men cringe and think of Romance as flowers, expensive candlelight dinners, chocolates and kissing her ass. It’s not that at all! And, women know that. Have you ever READ a romance novel? They are filled with sexual tension, secret sex liaisons, forbidden pleasures. I made my way through half of one and I swear nearly every character had sex with every other character by the midway point. I stopped reading.. I got it.
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Romance = male-female sexual tension. Not that other shit we’ve been trained to think. Romance can occur anywhere. A bookstore, a sidewalk, an expensive restaurant, wherever. It’s not the environment, it’s the tension. If you make her feel feminine and sexy, she’ll WANT to have sex with you. And, there’s no better way to create that male-female sexual tension than with Sexual Framing. Mastering Sexual Framing will give you the absolute power to have sex pretty much whenever you want it. (It has NOTHING to do with dirty talk or being a creepy horny guy. It’s MUCH MUCH MORE than Strawberry Fields or Rings on Fingers, too. (Note: Those are conversation routines I use when talking to a woman.) Not only can you have a life filled with sex, you could easily use it to get a girlfriend. Or, have a few girlfriends at a time. If you were really perverted you could use it to create a Harem of chicks who basically act as personal assistants. (That’s right, they’ll run your errands and shit and ENJOY IT! Strange, I know but I’ve done it and so have countless others.) And, you can have these types of relationships without lying or drama. See, YOU set the rules by your frames. The problem is when you go around Gaming you have no friggin’ clue what Frames you are setting. Even worse, you have no idea of the Frames SHE is setting and you are unwittingly AGREEING to. Shit man, you could even use it to get married.. and, then, keep the marriage alive and spicy for years to come. Sexual Framing and understanding the female psychology of sex really decomplicates things. Do you feel meeting women is hard or draining or complicated or takes too much time? "%
Sexual Framing makes it easy. Once you get it you will look so smooth people will watch you and swear you’ve been good with women all your life. No one understands it better than I do and I can TEACH you how to apply it every day no matter where you are or what you’re doing. Shit, you can even apply it to business. About a month ago, I got 6 experts in the spiritual self-help field to hand me 4 detailed lessons for a new membership program for FREE because I understood their values and framed it so that if they DID NOT do it for me they’d be violating their values. And, the women? Well, they will be so relieved, so glad, so HAPPY that they’ve met a guy who REALLY GETS IT they will do pretty much anything you want. So, what exactly IS this Sexual Framing I’m talking about? In it’s essence it is using your words to convey to her several things which make a sexual relationship much, much more probable. The Big Lie makes it more powerful because she has SUPPRESSED her sexuality because she’s been told it is bad. This suppression requires her to put o " sex, to set up a bunch of rules around it and to make sure NO one views her as a slut. All of this gets in her way of having a good relationship and in YOUR way of initiating it. Therefore, we must remove the suppression, validate her sex drive, let her know we approve of it and let her know we think SHE is sexy. The easiest way I’ve found to do each of those is in this book. I’ve created word-for-word “scripts” for conveying them inside of a normal conversation.
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There is no hypnosis involved (gross!). Nothing about it is activating “secret” parts of her mind that make her unconscious and have uncontrollable sex urges. That is not only gross and unethical, it is wholly unnecessary and is not even the best way to do it. It is not dirty talk, although AFTER you get your conversation in a Sexual Frame then she often WILL dirty talk and be open to it from you after all. You’ve already demonstrated to her that you’re not judgmental. It is a very simple, straightforward and fun way to get both her mind and body’s sexuality unleashed from its societal suppression and aimed squarely at YOU, the one who has helped her liberate it! As I mentioned earlier, this guide will show you exactly what I say, why I say it, why I think it works and gives several examples of how I’ve used it in real life to get the girl. You’ll understand them so you can have a conversation and say similar things in the same way to get similar results. Further, I’ll show you how to get into a normal conversation so you get a chance to actually bring them up to the woman so they have the intended e" ect on her. But, before we do all that, would you like to read actual reports which detail my adventures where I used it successfully? Here are three. Don’t get too caught up in the “Routines” that I talk about. We’ll go into more detail on that later. In these reports I use their names so I don’t have to type out what they are. Most of the people I wrote these for on private forums already knew what the routines were. Instead, focus on the overall flow and structure of the interactions. Here are three reports for you to read.
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Lay Report: Too Smooth Part1: Last night I meet PlayerT and his hottie at the venue. Eye spy a 3 set (2 girls, 1 guy). As I'm walking over another guy pulls up behind my Target. Hmmm. Now, I'm 3 steps away and it has become a 4 set. My mind is calculating body language information with each step...she's NOT into the guy...at all. So, he gets totally ignored. I walk around him and open them as a 3set. The girl I’m targeting (my Target) backturns the dude. He looks at his other friends across the aisle like "what the fuck?" When dealing with the group you have 3 basic options. 1) Ignore them and game the girl. Cockblock city UNLESS the girl wants you so bad that she vetoes her entire group. This does happen but it is low probability and a hard way to work. 2) Neutralize them and wait for the opportunity to game her. This is higher probability than #1 and actually takes LESS energy (in the long run) than #1. 3) Win the group and have them GIVE her to you. This is the highest probability and is the most fun, too. It requires A LOT of focus and experience. It is the highest probability of all 3. But, being the lazy fucker that I am, I opened with #2 to gauge the group cohesion. After about 1 minute she was shining so I switched to #1. They BACKED AWAY from us when her attraction skyrocketed. Had they stood their ground or even chimed in, I would've moved back into #2 or #3 depending on their actions. I pulled her over to PlayerT and his hottie and intro'ed.
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I ran my routine called “Strawberry fields.” She starts biting her lower lip. Playing with her hair. Squirming in her chair. I take her to the quiet side and sliiiiide into that sweeeet Comfort Rhythm with her. She is giving me those dreamy looks and probably thinking I'm her prince. I'm giving her those dreamy looks (but I'm really microcalibrating and methodically building in "justification hooks" for her feelings so when she looks back on our little piece of time together she has REASONS to justify those emotions.) I'm also wondering what she looks like naked. Her friend calls and then comes over. It is time for them to leave. Awwww, just another hour under my spell and she would've surrendered totally to me. We give each other one of those long lingering hugs and I do a routine called “Almost Kiss.” She submits, but I'm a tease bypassing her lips and gently caressing her neck with my lips. She gives me a longing, lingering look as she is walking away. I saw HBWhiteShirt earlier and she gave me a quick hug. Again, she was stando%sh and said, "I'm going to get a drink" and left. After gaming the HB (code for Hot Babe) above I found her again. This time I was determined to solve the riddle. I found out that she felt weird because apparently that was her first Same-Night-Lay with a guy so she was freaking out when she saw me and "didn't know how to act around" me. I think if I could've talked to her mon, tues before seeing her that wed. it would have been OK when we saw each other. I patched things up quickly, got the CORRECT number from her and was in again. I took her to her place and did naughty, unspeakable acts with her.
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"I approach every woman as a potential mistress." -- Aristotle Onassis Part 2: I meet up with PlayerT and PlayerJ at the venue. PlayerT is with his usual HB10 and PlayerJ is all over her friend (who I passed on a couple weeks ago – about a 6). Naturally I’m feeling that I should have a honey fawning all over me. I scan the room...not much here as it is Sunday night but definitely some talent to work with...HBWhiteShirt (see LR: Zen of No-Game etc, etc) just came in but I’ve already had her about 3 times now so she’ll be a last resort. I notice a group turn towards me out of my peripheral vision, slowly scanning that direction I notice the girl from Part 1. I had texted her once before but never set anything up because she was working. Then, I had my daughters for 10 days in a row preventing me from going out for any Day2s (a second date after you meet a girl). It is a 4 set, 2 guys, her and her friend. Hmm...The guy obviously likes her...she seems mildly interested in him but she is giving me AIs (Approach Invitations - keeping and holding eye contact encouraging you to come talk to them). I decide it is time to pass by. She waves, I smile and head right past her to the bar. I turn back around. I re-open her directly (why not, have talked with her before, number closed and she is giving AIs). The guy leaves after 30 seconds never to be seen again. Having already been in comfort with her I did little more than be a funny, entertaining guy with heavy doses of kino (physically touching that has sexual overtones).
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This girl REMEMBERED the entire previous meeting. She recited almost every single conversation topic. I was amazed. CJ: “Wow! You have an amazing memory.” HBJLoBooty: “I have a selective memory...I only remember things that impress me. CJ: * smiling * “Oh yeah?” HB: “Yeah, you made quite an impression.” rd th I kiss closed her in the bar after her 3 or 4 blatant IOI (Indicator of Interest) AND when she stared up at me with lips half open and eyes surrendering to me... I interspersed our time together with trips back to the table where PlayerA and PlayerJ were sitting, leaving her in order to fractionate and make her wonder a bit if I’d be back. I walked her out to her car and we started making out near the back bumper. Here’s where my improved social awareness skills are turning would-be objections into lays. HBJLoBooty: “Where are you parked?” CJ: “Over there. Take me home, I’ll have a friend of mine bring me back to my car in the morning.” She starts going “mmmmm” as if she’s hesitating and about to voice an objection. In the past, I would’ve just stood there and waited for her to say something. Not now. I let go of her and walked to the passenger side and hopped in. She stood back there for a second like “WTF?” and then came in the car and started driving. Ha ha...
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Got her to my place, got her comfortable and escalated to full monty. ~ Captain Jack ~
End of Lay Report: Too Smooth Sorry for all the jargon! If you ever see a word or phrase you don’t quite understand please jump to the glossary immediately so you know what is going on. If you read closely you can see all of the major phases of a successful pick-up. There’s FINDING her, approaching her, meeting her, getting her attracted, getting her sexually attracted and getting her to agree to go with me back home. But, almost ALL of the first part of the interactions were structured so I could do two things: Strawberry Fields and Almost Kiss. Those two routines unleash that suppressed sexual desire and get her to attach them to YOU. Notice how she thoroughly remembered our meeting even thought it was from weeks ago? That’s how powerful this stu " is. Here’s another one.
LR: CaptainJack Shows Catholic Schoolgirl De-Light March, 2006 Get to the venue about 10:20 and there is a HUGE friggin' line and I'm pissed because I like to start early. Dan W. and Jason show up and we wait forever to get inside. I think we rolled in about 11:15 or so. Dan and I are heading to the bar because after all that waiting and getting rained on, I need a shot of patron. (Note: I do not recommend drinking, especially for beginners as you’ll need all of your brainpower to focus.) #"
The place is packed and filled with hot girls. Sweet. As soon as Dan and I hit the bar a girl comes over and starts grabbing my scarf and kinoing me hardcore. I'm a bit taken aback because it happened so fast. HBTeacher: blah, blah, blah, love your scarf thingy, blah, blah CJ: Cool. I like it too HB: Oh, I'm sorry. CJ: For? HB: You look scared or something. I don't mean to get you in trouble with your girlfriend. CJ: Girlfriend? ** Geez, I need some Patron, quick ** Naw, I'm just scared of drunk girls with beer bottles on St. Patrick's day. That's pretty scary. You never know what they are gonna do. HB: ** shocked look and then smiles ** I just talk to whoever I want...blah, blah, blah CJ: Yeah, that's the way it should be. I turn back around and Dan hands me the shot and I tell him that he has to finish his beer before I finish my shot but I'll give him a head start. We laugh. Cheer our drinks and then I blast it down. Ok, time to run proper game on HBTeacher. I see her looking for her friends and walk back up to her. HB: I'm looking for my friends. CJ: Your friends? They are having fun. Let's go outside. I start her outside and it takes FOREVER to get out there.
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On the way, a few other chicks touch my scarf. This is the value of wearing some unique, interesting clothing item that no other guy will be wearing, gives you more opportunities. One guys says some shit. He appears to be about 7 feet tall. Bald with a goatee. I immediately think of that song "Jump Around" by "House of Pain." GoateeGuy: This is a pussy tail! CJ: What? ** making them repeat always takes a bit of mustard o" of their bullying attempt ** GoateeGuy: The scarf, that's a pussy tail. CJ: Cool man. ** As I continue dragging the girl towards the outside patio. ** Captain Jack does not need an Irish ass-whipping...especially not when the night starts o " so good. I get the HB outside and lock-in against the wall. (Note: “lockin” means you get somewhere and get settled in a way that makes it appear that the girl is leaning into you and interested. When other girls in the bar/club see it they view you more as an attractive male because a girl has shown attraction to you). She immediately goes into qualifying herself. (That means she is telling me how great she is, haa. This is an attempt to show she’s “qualified” for my level of attractiveness. How’s THAT for turning the tables?) Turns out she is a teacher - has been single for a few months now. CJ: A teacher? oh, god! HB: What? CJ: Every teacher I've met has been soooo bad! HB: Well, yeah! We have to be good all week around the children so when the weekend comes... CJ: It would never work out between us... HB: Why? Why? ** putting her hand on my chest **
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CJ: You'd always be trying to steal my attention...I'd be trying to steal your attention... HB: ** laughs ** blah blah blah I run strawberry fields. After the interpretation she says, "That is SOOOOO True! Omigod! How did you know all that!" HBTeacher: "I have to have sex like 3 times a day!" CJ: "3 times! I'd be worn out. You'd kill me! My back, my knees..." HBTeacher: "No. No. Once in the morning...once when I get home...or just twice that night." CJ: "Oh, I see. So you just space it out. Cool. We can do that." ** ha ha, I'm fucking sneaky. ** I run the Question Game Routine. Craziest place she's had sex...the beach. My favorite place to have sex...swimming pool. HBTeacher: Nooooo. It makes the girl raw. CJ: "That's not my problem." ** she laughs ** HBTeacher: "Where do you like to take girls to hang out." CJ: "Straight to my place." HBTeacher: "No for real. Where would you take me." CJ: "Straight to my place." HBTeacher: "ha ha, I'm not that easy..." blah blah blah Now, I keep thinking, "Ok dude, time for the kiss close" but she just keeps yapping and I get sidetrack like 3 times. Finally, we decide to look for her friends. SHE number closes me and makes sure I call her to make sure I got the number right. Which is interesting. I've noticed NOW that when I don't go for the number close and they bring it up, they'll often make me call them so they can store my number. This has happened a lot lately but never used to happen. #%
I talk to the other PUAs for awhile and then we decide to get some more gaming done. Another chick looks at my kick-ass scarf that I bought for $5 at Wal-greens and opens me with a negative comment... HBIrish: "What ever you were thinking when you bought that....you shouldn't have." CJ: I laugh..."You're a good girl, trying to act bad." She looks shocked and then recovers. HBIrish: "No, it's the other way around. I'm Irish, we're all bad." CJ: "Cool. I've heard irish girls have bad tempers...." HBIrish: blah, blah, blah I move on because I'm not interested. I'm talking to Dan W. and I point out a 3-set with two cute brunettes. One is about an HB8...the other LOOKED like an HB8 from a distance but when I got close she turned out to be a 7. I tell Dan W. what the situation is about how the HB7 is sort of feeling left out...and it's a good opportunity to go over there. About that time I notice that best opportunity open up so I roll in. CJ: “Do you guys think David Bowie is hot?” HBCatholic: "Who's that?" From there I move her outside patio. We vibe a bit and she tells me she's Catholic and I tell her that all Catholic girls are bad. That every Catholic girl I've known has loved bondage and kinky stu" . She AGREES! Chat with her...make her sit in my lap...get the Kino going very strong.
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I notice Matt and Dallas Shaguar and wave them over and we chat for a bit in front of HB. I take her back inside and sit down in a booth with her. I start the Question game. Gets sexual really quick. ** Mystery's Kiss Close Routine ** CJ: "You want to kiss me, don't you." HBCatholic: "No." CJ: "Oh, I didn't say you could. You just looked like you had something on your mind." HB: * laughs * I start talking about something else and we chat for another few minutes. Dan W. walks by and says, "Her friend is looking for her." I nod. She is talking on the phone to said friend. Her friend mentions getting something to eat and she has a guy with her. So, it is 4 of us now. When I get up from the table, I am surrounded by people. Matt, Dan W., two of Matt's friends and one of Matt's FB's (I think). I am getting introduced and people are talking to me about my archives (a collection of reports like these on the internet) and so forth and I'm trying to pay attention and meet people while simultaneously making sure the Bounce goes through. (A bounce is a move from one location to another, in this case, from the club to IHOP). We head to IHOP. I consider switching Targets. Her friend is better looking and more bubbly. My girl is being kind of cold for some reason. (Note: I actually had a date and make-out session with her friend a few weeks later.)
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They go to the bathroom and when they come out something has changed. She is a little more snuggly to me. She drops her friend and the guy o " at their car. I do the hooka speech. She says it sounds really cool. I tell her..."Let's go now. I have one at my place." HBCatholic: "Ok!" We leave my car in the parking lot and come out here. She was awesome in bed, except she kept on saying stu " like, "Spank me daddy! Harder daddy!!! I've been a baaaaaad girl!" Kind of on the edge for me. The last thing I want to think about during sex is family members. Afterwards she told me that she masturbated TWICE before going out that night. TWICE! And, that she didn't think she was going to come during sex because of that. She also told me that her friend was on a mission to get laid that night. Then, she asked me if I had any toys. ~ Captain Jack ~
End of LR: CaptainJack Shows Catholic Schoolgirl DeLight March, 2006 You’ll notice that this was a girl that I met THAT night. And, she was a very, very pretty girl. You should see many similarities between this one and the previous one, even though the previous one took place in two meetings and this one took place in only one. The “routines” I used sexualized the conversation without it seeming weird or resulting to outright dirty talk which is unlikely to work. Remember, it has to take place as part of a CONVERSATION. Dirty talk is one way. But, when I tell her that a choice she has made reflects that she has a high sex drive
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LR: Sinn Has Only 4 Lays This Month Posted at January 11, 2007 (NOTE: Sinn was my wing man at the time and we would travel the country to di " erent cities and teach guys how to interact with women. We would have friendly competitions about how many women we had sex with up to that point. I was using the title of this report to taunt him in a way as part of that competition ha.) I’m on Bootcamp in Scottsdale. The venue we roll to doesn’t have many sets. I’m getting irritated because I want to open. I help a few students out and give them as much feedback as I can. I finally open a set around midnight. It’s a semi-cute girl with braces. I open her because she has one of those bodies you can just punish. Two Part Kiss Routine hooks. (This means that it gets her interested so she is also invested in the conversation. It is not just me yapping away. She is contributing.) She turns to face me. I lock in. I start teasing her about her braces. It’s really on so I decide to parade her through the venue. (This is simply putting the girl on your arm and walking around the place so OTHER people see you do it.) It turns out she is their with her mother and aunt. Her aunt is eating some 26 year olds face. I tell her that I have 2 condoms in my wallet and we should drop them o " with them. I move her around and get locked in against a rail. Strawberry fields. Jealous ex deletes my numbers. She then moves into
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Comfort with me by asking me what I do, where I live etc. She tells me she has a 6 year old son. I run First Child Brings Surge of Ambition Routine. I try to kiss but she rejects. Hmmm, this is weird. It’s EXTREMELY ON. I’m thinking it’s cause her mom is there. I move her again to build social proof. I open another cute girl (a little chubby). Two part kiss Hooks. We’re in attraction. I tell her it will never work out between us. I run jealous ex deleted my numbers routine. She tells me her BF just broke up with her a day or two ago. I change the subject to something I can’t remember. Her two friends come in and I have them introduce me to her. She likes me but I’m trying to trade up. I saw her later trying to catch eye contact but I was in set. I had one or two other sets: one of the girls ignored me, the other opened really well was really hot and started dancing on me but I had already decided to open this Brunette with awesome long hair, a thin body and nice boobs. It’s about 1:20 or so.. Two part Kiss Routine. Trust Test. Spin. Lock in. It’ll never work out between us. CJ: How’d you get here? HBHolland: I drove everybody. I’m the designated driver. CJ: That sucks. I’m within walking distance so I can drink as much as I want! HBHolland: I wanna drink too! CJ: Hotels have alcohol.
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HBHolland smiles real big. I run Rings on Fingers Routine. I picked her up and put her on the bar. This drove her attraction levels through the roof. Jealous Ex Deleted My Numbers. Hookah TB. Strawberry Fields Routine. (She said 100! strawberries.) It’s really on. I get her number and figure I’ll try to get her to meet up with me later. Closing time at the bar. Sinn has texted me that he just closed his 4th for the month so my 5 lays are by no means safe. We’ve been shit talking on a level commensurate with a Boxing match. I know I have to step up. It is making us work hard. It is making me concentrate. It’s good. At 2:35 am I text her “Hi sexy lady” She texts back about 3:05 “where you at?” I tell her I’m eating but going back to the hotel. She texts something about being happy I talked to her. I text back “mmmm... I wanna see you” She agrees to come and get me. She gets there and we start making out by the pool. We get to the hotel room. I try to pull her into the shower but Sinn is in the bed with one of his peepers open so he can get a look at her. She laughs and says we need to let him sleep and to come to her place. We leave and drive back to her place. On the drive: “First Child Brings Surge of Ambition” I start dirty talking her. She’s loving it. $+
We get to her place and I discover that she has lingerie under her outfit. Nice fake boobs. Sex twice. Sleep. Sex in the morning, too. On the way back to the hotel in the morning I debrief her. She tells me that I was so dominant and interesting that she got extremely turned on because most guys are too soft and weak. ~ Captain Jack ~
End of LR: Sinn Has Only 4 Lays This Month Are you noticing a pattern? All of these have the same basic structure and the most important and e " ective parts of the interactions are standardized routines that I’ve designed (or borrowed from others) that create specific e " ects. They are designed to let her know this is a sexual interaction and it’s ok. This guide will teach you that structure and how to construct those ‘sexual framing’ routines. (Or, you can simply adapt mine for your use).
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How to Use This Guide You’ll get the absolute BEST results by actually going out and trying this stu " . Don’t worry about the results at first. The first thing is to just get out of the house and be social. There are “missions” in here for you to go out and do. They will train you in the skills you need to get good at meeting and attracting women so you can get the girlfriend or wife of your dreams. In addition, they will help you to internalize the ideas and theories. This is not a book to simply read. It consists of missions. If you only read the book you will not improve your love life. If you read it and do the missions, some of them over and over again, you WILL experience a tremendous increase in your love life. No one who has applied a fair amount of action can say they have not improved a great deal. By the time you go through all of the missions in this book you should be a man who can go into any social situation and take your best possible shot to initiate a male-female sexual relationship. Basically, that means you can make her into your girlfriend or even your wife, if that’s what you want. That does NOT mean you will have to wait for sex. I’ve found that if done properly sex is the easy part. Most of my best girlfriends came from women who I met and had sex with that very night. I don’t necessarily recommend this any more. But, it was part of my learning and growth process to get extremely good at starting sexual relationships in as short a time as possible. Now that you’ve seen an overview, let’s get down to the nittygritty!
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I’m very busy right now and I don’t have time to call so that’s why I’m writing you this letter. You know, mom, not only are you responsible for my very existence, you are also the nourishment that has made my life sparkle.
I’m under a lot of stress right now and for some reason, I started thinking about you. It has occurred to me that maybe I haven’t let you know recently how much I appreciate you and how much I love you.
I especially like remembering you and remembering all of those times you took care of me when I was too little to take care of myself. Anyway, I’m going to make it a point to see you just as soon as I can and then you sign love, and your name.
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Every person I know has a mother that is superior to you in every positive way imaginable. You are nothing more than a wrinkled up old bitch and as far as I’m concerned, the biggest waste of skin God ever created.
Speaking of God, as the good Lord knows, you’re certainly not too mentally swift either. So just in case your low IQ keeps you from understanding what I’m trying to say, let me make it perfectly clear.
Eat Shit and Die.
Please don’t call or write me. I have no inclination whatsoever to communicate with you ever again. Reluctantly your son or daughter,
P.S. dad sucks too.
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Basic Structure: The Game Plan As you saw in my my reports these interactions follow the same basic structure. I am going to reveal that structure and show you how having a set Game Plan which includes Routines will help you get the girl. First, you have to FIND the women. And, since you are just learning you want to find LOTS of them. Why? Well, think of it this way. If you wanted to get good at Golf but you only went out and hit one ball a day, how good do you think you’d get? Wh
In fact, would you ever have ANY hope in getting good? No. Because you are not getting enough practice and the results you are getting are not happening in a small enough frame of time for you to notice the patterns you need to in order to increase your situational and social awareness. The easiest way to get lots of practice is to go where there are lots of available, single women all in one place. That almost always means bars and nightclubs. I hate them. I despise them. At times they’ve been fun but for the most part I don’t like them. I don’t like alcohol. I don’t like smoke. I don’t like loud music. I cannot dance, either. But, at a bar or club, I can talk to 20 women in one night if the place is packed. So, we are going to say you should plan on spending 2-3 hours per night at a bar or club with enough women in it so you can talk to 8 to 15 groups. The more the better. Especially at first. Once you get good you can meet women anywhere you want. Until then, you’ve got to practice and that means talking to a volume of women. Then, you are going to need to know what to say first to “Open” the group for a conversation. From there you’ll need enough material to talk to the group with until you can find an opening to playfully TEASE the girl you want. Once she starts showing some interest and engagement you’ll then need material to hold a conversation, turn it into a malefemale sexual dynamic, melt her heart so she feels strong emotions about you and then close for a future date.
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I don’t want you to get overwhelmed. This is actually simple once you know what to do. However, it DOES require practice. Lots of practice. In your game plan you’ll have the following routines which correspond to the structure of meeting and attracting a woman. Step Step Step Step Step Step
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Find A Woman You Are Attracted To Open the group she is in with a standard opener Tease her Start a conversational Theme Tease her again Continue the theme or start a new one
Step 6a: Ask how they all know each other to make sure she is not someone’s wife or girlfriend. If she is available, then... Step 7: Shift your focus to your Target Step 8: Ask her a Qualifying Question Step 9: Get into a one-on-one conversation with her by telling her friends you are going to borrow her for a few minutes. Step 10: Sexualize the Conversation (Sexual Framing of MaleFemale Interactions!) Step 11: Run a HeartMelter to get her feeling a connection to you. Step 12: Sexualize more. Step 13: Do a TimeBridge (that means set up a date for later that week right then and there... DO NOT just get her number and have to call her to set up later). Step 14: Talk to her more about anything at all for a few minutes before taking her back to her friends. Now, it’s time for a mission. Ideally, you’d go and execute this mission BEFORE reading the rest of this guide. That’s how I feel you’ll get the best results. I must stress that the ONLY way to get good at this is to actually go out and do it. Reading will accomplish little for you! d`
Mission #1: The Newbie Mission with Standard Openers Back in 1998, Mystery started posting on a newsgroup called alt.seduction.fast. He hoped to find men who were actually out meeting women who he could swap notes with so he could get better. His ultimate hope was that he could find some guy who was MUCH better than him so he could learn from him. He soon crashed head on into the reality that not only was he the best in the group, most guys hardly even TALKED to women. To combat this he created what he called, “The Newbie Mission” and invited everyone to do it. Most of the guys didn’t. They wanted more information, more ideas, more theories or they wanted to beat ONE approach to death by constantly analyzing it. Opening a group up for conversation is a skill and any skill requires practice. I want you to go out and approach 50 groups in one week. The purpose here is to get you used to opening a group, delivering a routine and gracefully exiting. That’s it. Pick a group with a woman you think you might be interested in. You look at them, start talking, continue talking and when you’re done, you exit. Do NOT drink. Not even an ounce. If you are scared, that’s ok. Whatever. So you’re scared. Ok. So what? Do it anyway. They have no idea how scared you are. Just go and do it.
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For this, you’ll need a standard opener. I’ll give you two. One is better for groups who are all female. The other is for groups that have one or more males in it. Those two will be all you need. Opener 1: David Bowie (all female group) You: Do you guys think David Bowie is hot? (Or instead of hot you can say attractive) Girls: Yes/No/Who? You: My niece, she’s in her late teens, is infatuated with him. Has a huge poster on her wall. It’s a mystery to me. Girls: Blah, blah, blah. You: Ok, nice talking to you guys. And, then you’re o " to do it again! Don’t complicate this... it is simple. Just go do it, ok? Don’t over think it. Don’t worry about what they’ll say. None of it matters. This is about YOU getting better at a skill... the SKILL of starting a conversation and running a routine. That’s it. Opener 2: Malibu Black Snuck Up on Me (mixed set) You: Any of you like Malibu rum? Group: blah, blah, blah. You: I was on a date and this girl kept ordering them for us and I was like “Ok, this has no alcohol I can have a few of these.” Plus they were really good so I just kept drinking. Shit, was I wrong! All the sudden I could hardly focus my eyes! I found out later from the waitress it was Malibu Black -- that’s double the alcohol as regular Malibu. Stay way from that stu " .
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Group: blah, blah, blah. You: Ok, nice talking to you guys. And, you’re done. Now, don’t worry about these not being true. You can make up something similar that is true if you want, just don’t stray too far. I’m not advocating lying. You DO NOT need to lie to get a girlfriend or a date. But, you aren’t trying to do that now. Right now you are merely practicing a skill and that’s the skill of opening, not getting a girlfriend. In the future, when you are really trying to get a girlfriend you will know enough to create your own “routines” taken from your real life experiences. After each night you go out I want you to write down what happened. I want you to write down as much of the conversation as you can. I want you to write down what you observed and put a date on it. The reason you’re doing this is to help your recall AND to keep things in your awareness so you can begin to notice patterns. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT! Please, please, please do it.
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Mission #2: Teases and Themes I LOVE teasing girls! They get so funny. A lot of times they’ll start acting like little spoiled kids. So hilarious. Here are a few of my teases:
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I say one of these after she says something, no matter what it is. Make sure you SMILE when you say it, too. And, don’t let it become the subject of the conversation. You want to move on right after that. CJ: Ok, who brought their little sister to the bar? CJ: Is she always like this? You can dress her up but you just can’t take her anywhere. (Mystery used this in front of me on a bootcamp and the girl who had previously seemed annoyed by his presence was suddenly incredibly attracted to him. I’ve used it hundreds of times since then and had the same reaction.) CJ: “Umm, Note to self – DON’T date this girl” and laugh and smile REAL BIG because this can be taken harshly. The key as I said above is to say it playfully while smiling real big and then MOVE ON. Now, what are you going to move onto? One of your favorite conversational themes. Mine are: places in the city I like to go to and why, traveling all over the world, adventures I am going to do in the future or have done (Scuba, spear fishing, boating), UFOs and ghosts are they real?) I could talk about any of those for quite a while. So, for this mission you want to open, tease, get into a conversation with the group about one of your themes. You might not tease during the opening conversation, you might get into a theme first. Either way, make sure you get in a tease before you exit the group. Of course, don’t make the tease the LAST thing you do.
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Mission #3: Qualify Her and Secure a Future Date By now, you should feel like you are pretty good at opening and getting into a conversation. If you don’t feel that way then I suggest doing “mission #2” over again. Remember, you are gaining a SKILL. It is silly to move onto a higher skill when you do not feel comfortable in a lower-level, foundational skill. Remember earlier when I said that really beautiful women get treated di" erently? How they’re always getting their ass kissed? In most men’s eyes they are qualified to be their sexual partner just because they are beautiful. That should not be true for you. She should have MORE than just her good looks going for her. You want to make that clear to her. That will also set you apart from all other desperate men who are constantly kissing her ass. You do this with a Qualification Statement. But, you’d only do this after first checking if she’s married or there with her boyfriend. It’s the polite thing to do and will save you lots of trouble. So, before this you want to ask, “How do you guys know each other?”
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If it turns out she is not with her boyfriend or husband THEN you can move into Qualifying her with one of the statements below, or one you make up. (You’d use only ONE of these examples). CJ: You’re cute. What else do you have going for you besides your looks? (a variation of Mystery’s more complex and lengthy routine) CJ: What do you want to be when you grow up? And, don’t say Princess! CJ: What do you do in life when you’re not out at bars hitting on ridiculously semi-handsome guys? (gesturing to myself) Don’t take what she says too seriously. In fact, many women will lock up. They’ve probably NEVER been asked this before. If she can’t say anything or kind of locks up just say something like, “That’s ok. I have a good intuition about people. I think you have substance.” At this point, if you haven’t already invited her to an area away from her friends do so. Remember, the principle we covered earlier that said WHO else around could hear the conversation modifies it’s e" ects? You don’t want her worrying about what her friends are going to think/say about what you’ve said or what she said. So, either right before or right after Qualification you should try to get her away from her friends for a bit. How? CJ: “You seem interesting. Let’s go over there and chat for a minute.” If she says yes, then look at her friends and say, “I’m going to borrow your friend for a few minutes. We’ll be right over there if you need us.” df
If she says no, don’t get flustered. She might not be ready yet. Fine, it’s ok. At this point, qualify her if you haven’t already... or, if you have then tease her a lot more as you discuss one of your themes. After you ask her the Qualification question, if she does happen to say something interesting then reward her on it. Woman: “Well, I’m really nice!” CJ: “That’s great! If more people were nice Earth would be a better place. That’s interesting.” Woman: “I’m a good kisser!” CJ: “Hm... Ok, let’s find out!” (That has actually happened MORE than once. You can also be a little more suspenseful and say, “We’ll see. Give me another example.” Then, after she does that you can say, “I’ve been thinking about the first one too long” then move in for the kiss.) Now, you want to go back to or use again one of your themes for a few more minutes before you do the next thing. NEVER just get her number. If you get her number all you are doing is buying an opportunity to chase her into a date. Set it up then and there while she is experiencing your MAGIC! You’ll have better chances. Trust me. What I do is have something setup for later in the week that most people would be interested in. CJ: “Hey, my friends and I are going to meet up to Sunday night to see this new band play at xyz place. You should come along.”
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This is called a TimeBridge because you are bridging between NOW and a future date when you will see her again. The fact that you are talking about your friends relieves some pressure of a one-on-one date. Giving her what you will do makes it more real in her mind. Telling her were does that as well and saying “you should come along” also relieves the pressure that it is going to be a long, intimate, one-on-one date with a lot of pressure. If she says, “yes” then you trade numbers with her and go back to a normal conversation for a few minutes. You do NOT want to end o" right when you get her number! Do Mission #3 on 50 sets! That doesn’t mean you have to TimeBridge 50 sets.. it means you OPEN and get as far as you can through the mission for each set.
Mission #4: Sexualize the Conversation Ok, by now you should’ve gotten a few lovely ladies to talk to you one-on-one. Further, a few of those should have agreed to meet you a few days later for a date! If that’s not the case don’t fret. What we are about to do will help you. If you were not able to get women to agree to be with you one-on-one or you are not at all confident you can do it well then go and redo Mission #3 for another 50 sets. If so, then, let’s move on... this is the FUN part! What we want to do is follow Mission #3 all the way until you get her alone but BEFORE you ask for the TimeBridge you are going to sexualize things a bit. This WILL IMPROVE the amount of numbers you get as well as the number of women who actually show up for the date.
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You’ve got her alone. You have qualified her. The conversation is going well. Now let’s sexualize it. CJ: “Hmmm... I want to find something out. Have you ever taken the Strawberry Fields test?” Girl: “Ummm.. no, what is it?” Now, you and her stand up if you’re not already standing. You stand next to her and gesture out in front of you like you’re pointing out a field. CJ: “You’re walking around and you come across a strawberry field. How high is the fence?” If she has any hesitation at all just say, “Show me with your hands how high.” CJ: “Ok, you get over the fence, how many strawberries do you eat?” Girl: 5! (or, whatever number) CJ: “Oh my god! Five! Wow!” (while shaking your head) The girl will usually go “what? what? why are you surprised?” or something like that. Don’t answer her. Just press on. CJ: “Ok, what about the farmer?” No the girl will say something like, “What about him?” or “Did he see me?” or “Is he good looking?” CJ: “Wow! First 5 strawberries now this?!” It doesn’t really matter because the overall interpretation will always be the same. X`
CJ: “Ok, here’s the interpretation. The fence has to do with your goals. You set them high but not so high you can’t reach them. That’s good.” CJ: “Now, the strawberries! I still can’t believe this... you said five.. oh my god... well, that has to do with your sex drive. Most people say two! And, you said five! You’d have me handcu" ed to the bed I’m sure!” They will usually laugh or say it’s true or say something like “for the right person!” or similar. CJ: “Ok, the farmer. The farmer has to do with society’s rules and regulations regarding relationships, you said, “What about him?” that means you do your own thing in that area forget what society says! That is good.” That right there accomplishes these things: You’ve complimented her on your goal setting, you’ve told her she has an above average sex drive, you’ve told her she doesn’t care what others think about that and said that is a good thing. See how that would make her feel MUCH better regarding her sexuality!? It does. It’s the closest thing to magic I’ve ever seen. After this go back to normal conversational themes for a few minutes. But, throw in something like this: “You know, I like what you’re saying but sometimes it’s a little hard to concentrate because I think your eyes are really sexy.” I’m serious.
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