Some common's signs to recognize IOIs(indicators of interest) and IOD's(indicato rs of IOD's) credited to Art of SeductionRobert Greene. These aren't always 100% accurate but pretty close. So pay attention to her body language when ur out GA MING
I'M INTERESTED...............................DON INTERESTED...............................DONT BOTHER ME Sidelong glance(s)............................Never sneaks a peek Looks at you a few times...................Fleeting eye contact Holds your gaze briefly......................Looks away quickly Downcast eyes, then away.................Looks away, eyes level Posture changes to alert....................Posture unchanged Preens, adjusts hair, attire.................Does no preening Turns body toward you......................Turns body away Tilts head.........................................Head remains vertical Narrows eyes slightly........................Eyes remain normal Smiles.............................................Neutral, polite face Matches your posture........................Posture unchanged Eyes sparkle.....................................Normal or dull eyes Licks her lips.....................................Keeps mouth closed Thrusts breasts.................................Sags to de-emphasize breasts In Summary. Frequency of eye contact, the more the better. Amount of time she, o r he, holds your gaze, the longer the better. How she breaks off eye contact, do wn before away is great! Shine of the eyes, the brighter the better. Direction o f body, toward you, good, away, bad. Overall posture, erect and alert are good. Tilt of head, vertical is bad, increased tilt is great. Where the drink is held, high in front as a barrier, that's bad. Hand activity, clenched, squeezing or p inching is bad, open, caressing or stroking is great. Most of us are slightly af raid as well as somewhat excited in settings where social interaction is expecte d and required. So, most people do not sit or stand in an open posture. But, dur ing courtship, the more open the other person's posture is, the more open that p erson is to you and your advances. And, the more open you are, the more likely t he other person is to open up to you. PART 2 The Clear as Day signs a women is not interest but i bet some of u guys have exp erienced this and kept running away at the mouth all night long with no success KEEP TALKING.......................MOVE ON Alert, energetic.......................Tense, restless Pupils dilated..........................Normal or small pupils Gradually opens posture..........Posture remains closed Lowers drink...........................Keeps drink high Touches self gently..................Grips or pinches self Caresses objects.....................Squeezes, taps objects Crosses and uncrosses legs......Legs remain crossed Flashes of palm.......................Back of hand gestures Crossed legs steady................Swings crossed legs Dangles shoe on toe................Keeps shoe on Hands never touch face...........Touches face Touches you any reason......... Never touches you Feet firmly on floor................. Feet on edges or toes Loosens anything....................Tightens anything Leans forward.........................Leans away Steady hands, feet..................Tapping, drumming
In social settings, most of us start out in a closed, defensive posture because we're a bit apprehensive. A closed posture feels safe. When the
person you are talking with shifts to a more open posture, it signifies trust and comfort. That person is, literally, opening up to you and what you have to o ffer. It takes courage to open up to the other person. If you go first, she, or he, will usually follow your move from closed to slightly more open. Open up in, slo w, gradual shifts of posture. This simple knowledge should improve ur game greatly now get out there and Make it happen!!!!
