“7 BRUTAL ONLINE DATING MISTAKES THAT KEEP HOT WOMEN OUT OF YOUR BED” By Jake Vanen!"## www.jakevandenhoff.com www.jakevan denhoff.com
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-ey man, Are you frustrated frustrated with online online dating6 oes it seem like no matter what you try you just can7t get a response from the girls that you really want to be dating6 0f so, 0 can TOTALLY relate... relate... "etting women to respond to my emails was not something that came easily to me at all8 0n fact, %he first couple of months 0 started playing around with online dating 0 %%A&&Y sucked at it... "etting even an 9average: plain (ane type of woman to write back to me was like pulling teeth. 1ut ; as it turns out, this is actually an extremely common experience for guys who try online dating. 0n fact according to (uniper #esearch group< “ 071 071 "# 2en .!" *%y "n-&ne a*&n' '&3e ,) .&*!&n *!e #&%+* *!%ee 2"n*!+4 T!e 56 %ea+"n *!e+e 2en 'a3e T!ey .e%en8* 'e**&n' any %e+)"n+e4” 1ut, luckily for you... %hat other => of guys who who learn a few easy techni?ues get to date... A lot of women ; And in this short report 07ll show you how to move towards being one of the lucky = percenters8 You aren7t gonna believe how easy this is... You see, simply simply by +% making making these 7 2&+*ake+ you7ll 2&+*ake+ you7ll put yourself ahead of just about every guy in your town. -ow cool is that6 'ome of these mistakes have to do with the emails that you send to women...
92"%e "n *!a* !e%e: !e%e: 1ut in this report we will be focusing on mistakes that can occur in your online dating profile... 'ure, the emails that you send A#$ important... 1ut the fact is that your emails don7t need to be all that stupendous stupendous to get a response. response. Yep, if anything anything you are probably trying trying too hard, and and writing too much much in your emails, emails, so that is a problem that is relatively easy to solve.
More likely, its things in your profile that you aren7t even aware of that are causing girls to rule you out and not contact you... He%e8+ *!e -&*2,+ *e+* *" +ee .!e*!e% y",% )%"#&-e &+ .!a(k/ A%e !"* '&%-+ +en&n' y", ,n+"-&(&*e ,n+"-&(&*e 2e++a'e+; 2e++a'e+; 444I# n"*< n"*< .e '"**a '"**a #&= &*> &*> 'o without further ado here are are @ brutal online dating mistakes that that keep hot women out of your bed... ix these these and watch " " %-0+"' %-0+"' start to happen happen in your inbox8 inbox8
M&+*ake 56? $%ee)y P&(*,%e As you may have heard, heard, women do not not care as much much about looks as as men do... -owever, your picture is *!e #&%+* *!&n' *!a* any '&%- y", ("n*a(* &+ '"&n' *" -""k a* . And if she decides that you look even the slightest bit bit 9creepy: it7s it7s game over, you are ..A.8 ..A.8 %he problem is that most guys don7t understand what 9creepy: is to women. %hey think that their pictures are fine, or they make the excuse that 907m not very good looking...: 1.'. You don7t need to be a handsome man man to pull hot women women online... 1ut, 1ut, you can7t be creepy8 creepy8 -ere are a few things that will make you look like a creepy< •
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A fake smile ; Makes Makes you look like like a serial killerB killerB An emotionless emotionless expression expression ; Makes you look look like a serial killerB killerB A sad face ; self explanatoryB explanatoryB A picture that is too posed or looks looks like it was professionall professionally y taken; &ooks desperateB desperateB oing 9hover hands: with a girl in your picture ; Makes you look like a virginB
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3omen are usually usually much more more tuned in to these these sorts of things things than men, so so they are able to pick up on the messages that you are sending through the 9microexpressions: 9microexpressions: in your profile photos8 S"< @e +,%e *" ,+e a )!"*" .!e%e y", -""k a+ (""-< (a-2 an ("n#&en* a+ )"++&@-e4 ne good way to determine whether you look good and not creepyB in a photo is to post it up on hotornot which is a photo rating website.
M&+*ake 5? Ha3&n' A Ba Fa+!&"n Sen+e You absolutely absolutely don7t need to be a 9high 9high fashion: kinda kinda guy to attract women. women. -owever, -owever, if your style is outdated, sloppy, or screams 9nice 9nice guy: you can pretty much rule out getting any kind of response... 0 can7t tell you how many guys contact me saying that they have done everything that 0 outlined in my book, but that they still can7t get a date online... %hen, 0 take a look at there profile, and what do you know, dude is wearing pleated khakis and baggy green tshirt8 -ere7s the thing, the way that you dress communicates to women how you think about yourself, so it7s it7s a huge opportunity. opportunity. And the fact that that most guys dress dress like shDt works works out well for you, because a little bit of effort will put you far ahead of the competition. %his report is not long enough to go over how you should dress for every situation, but for your profile pics pics here are a few things things to keep in mind< mind< –
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A +-"))y -""k k&--+ a**%a(*&"n4 a**%a(*&"n4 A little stubble can make you look rugged. 1ut generally speaking speaking you want to look fresh and clean... 'o lose that pic of yourself you took with the webcam in your grey tshirt looking like you just rolled out of bed8 L"+e *!e *,=4 ressing up fancy in your picture makes you look like you are trying too hard to impress her, and it also gives her no idea what you dress like on a regular day. 'o only include a photo from a formal occasion if you are also using a few of yourself dressed down a bit. N&(e G,y L""k N" L"3&n84 0f L"3&n84 0f you look at most of the guys online they are all dressed the same. Average, boring jeans, sneakers, and a boring tshirt or polo... A look like this does nothing to spark attraction and subcommunicates subcommunicates the fact that your personality is probably as boring as the clothes you wear.
0nstead your best bet is to pick a celebrity who you think is cool and then copy their style. (ust grab one of those trashy tabloid magaEines and see what the guys who are dating the hottest women in -ollywood -ollywood are wearing wearing and find an outfit outfit that looks cool cool to you. SIDE NOTE/ Many NOTE/ Many guys don7t want to 9change: themselves to attract women, women, and they try to bitch to me about about how women should should like them for for who they are... are... 0 can7t fully address what is so wrong with that way of thinking here, but suffice to say, if you want hot women, women, and you aren7t aren7t getting them now ; then you are going to need need to change things up a bit8
M&+*ake 5C? U+&n' $-&(!e+ In Y",% P%"#&-e !sing cliches shows a lack of creativity, and intelligence. %ake a look at what other guys write in their profiles. %hey all say the same thing over and over again. 0ts mind numbing, and it makes girls want to hit the back button... -ereFs one of my favorites< “I'm just looking for someone that I can have a great time with, no matter what we're doing. Whether it's going going out for the night, or just in watching a movie on the couch couch together.” Arrrgh8 o you you know how many many people use this line in their profiles6 profiles6 3e all want want a partners partners we can have a great great time with, someone someone to go out with and and stay in with too, too, 3%6 "oing out for the night is not descriptive. 3hat is he going to do once he goes out6 $at dinner at ApplebeeFs6 As boring as that sounds, talking talking about how much you love eating the nachos at Chili7s still beats just saying you like 9going out for the night.:
M&+*ake 5? E=)%e++&n' Ne'a*&3&*y 0t should be obvious that no girl wants to read a bunch of negative, depressing crap in a guys dating profile... 1ut yet most guys still find a way to work some unpleasantness into their profiles. ften, this negativity takes the form of CM/&A0+0+" CM/&A0+0+" and coming across as jaded or 9unlucky in love:... And this is some stuff that will make any woman want to run for the hills8 "uys complain about the bar scene, they complain about getting dumped, or their jobs, or not having any luck with these types of things, many even complain about having to fill out the profile itself8 G 0t7s !+1$&0$*A1&$. Complaining Complaining shows that you blame others for your position in life, it makes you look immature and negative, itFs repellent. $verybody has things that they donFt like, but leave those things out of your profile. You want to focus on positive things in your profile, so find another outlet to vent your negativity.
M&+*ake 5? Ta-k&n' A@",* Se= "etting laid, or getting into a romantic relationship with a woman are logical goals, or reasons for using online dating... 1ut don7t start your interactions off talking talking about this kind of stuff or you will come across as desperate desperate and overeager. overeager.
Any sexual talk talk in your profile profile is a very bad move because because it is not directed directed at her in particular... particular... You are just putting it out there for the whole world to see. 'o hold back on that. You don7t want her her to see you as some some sort of dog in heat heat that7s ready to hump hump anything anything that will hold still. still. 'ome guys think that they should include 9sexy talk: in the emails that they send women after they get a response because they believe that they need to 9set a sexual frame:... And while 0 agree that setting a sexual frame early on is important 0 recommend waiting waiting until you get her on the phone and then doing this very subtly so as not to set off any alarm bells.
M&+*ake 5? L&+*&n' An Ina))%")%&a*e A'e Ran'e &isten, 07m the first guy to tell you that dating younger, even M!C- younger women is aokay and not something something you should feel you need to hide... at all. 1!% ; 0f you are HI year old man and you list JKIL as the age range for women you want to date that7ll turn off women women of all all ages. 3hat does that say about you that you you refuse to date women women your own age6 0t makes you look look immature and like you are just looking for a young firm body to use as your sex toy... You7ll do much better listing ages ages ILHI and then you you can '%0&& contact contact the really really young girls, and they7ll respond better to you when they are below your specified age range8 07ve had numerous clients test this theory out and they always get better results by raising their age range.
M&+*ake 57? N" $a-- T" A(*&"n %he last sentence of your profile is extremely important because it can either make or break you... 0t7s the last thing a woman will read in your profile 0f she gets that farB so it7s really important to take advantage of this opportunity to spur her on and make her want to respond to you. 0n marketing, this is referred to as your C%A or 9call to action:. 0t7s where you tell the customer or in this case the girl, what you want her to do next. 0f you were writing an advertisement you might say something like< 9on7t hesitate, grab this amaEing deal right now and change your life forever...: 0n this case, when you are trying to get a date rather than a sale you might say something along the lines of<
“If you've read this far then you ro!a!ly want to date me... "# $o send me an email and we can chat and see a!out otentially setting something u%” 'mooth and low pressure... (ust tell her what you want her to do. 0f you skip this line your profile will just seem like an essay about yourself that leads to nowhere.
$"n(-,+&"n444 nline ating is not 9hard:... 0t7s probably %-$ $A'0$'% and most efficient ways for you to meet and date many new women each and every week of the the year. 3hen 0 was 9going 9going hard: online online 0 was going out with with new girls = or H nights nights a week, all from from one simple profile 0 posted on one dating site. ver the past few years 0 have been helping other guys go from being totally dateless to having a complete control over their dating lives. nce you have a polished profile up, there is no work involved... You can just kick back and the girls will start lining up wanting to date you. 0f this sounds like a fantasy, or like something you7d like to have happen in your life then $-&(k He%e *" 3&+&* 2y .e@+&*e ; %here7s another free report and a somewhat shocking shocking video that explains explains $*$#Y%-0+"... $*$#Y%-0+"...
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