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Hypnotize Anywhere! Nathan’s Notes...
Materials “Rapid Street Hypnosis” printed version “Conversational Hypnosis in Action” book (yours to keep!)
Rules of Learning •
Confusion is Good!
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Different is why you’re here!
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Make the most out of the fact that you are here
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Learn > Observe > Imitate > Adapt
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Chill – have fun!
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The Three Boxes Box 1: Street Hypnosis
Box 3: Inner Game
Box 2: Conversational Hypnosis
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Most fun
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Most useful
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Most important
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Popular
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Popular
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Most versatile
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Useful
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Most coveted
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Least popular!
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Most simple
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Least understood
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Most debated / controversial
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Everything Comes Back to This!
Box 1: Street Hypnosis See “Rapid Street Hypnosis”
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Understanding Hypnosis (most don’t!) o
Influence of the subconscious
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Communication
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Achieving a goal
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Creating a context in which your goal is inevitable – ie induction / formal process.
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No one gets hypnosis! Certainly not a ‘magic state’ but powerful process of influence
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AND a supercharged belief system that Street Hypnotists both battle and work with
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The Hypnotic Bind... (it’s hypnosis because they think it’s hypnosis...)
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Why do it?
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Fun
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Practice
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Understand techniques
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Promotion – Jeff S story – discovery and brain pirate
The Process o
Intro => Induction = > Deepener = > Awaken
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Training wheels!
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Don’t be bound by this
Safety / “Wake Up” o
Three criteria
Resume “normal” state – energetic, outward focused
Completely remove all suggestions given (except in therapy)
Leave feeling happy / relaxed etc
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You cannot get stuck in hypnosis BECAUSE there’s no such thing!
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Stay with them, stay firm and stay relaxed.
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Learn and practice awakener
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Abreactions
Avoid regression / therapy unless you’ve been trained (so don’t do regressions just for fun)
Stay calm – avoid touching
9 Words – scene fades and you tend to your breathing
Subconscious mind has revealed to you information before you’re conscious mind is ready to deal with it. Your subconscious mind will now keep this info safely stored away until you’re ready to deal with it.
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Physical safety – roads and crowds
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Feel good principle
Pre-Talk / Expectation o
You don’t need to lecture!
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Create expectation and set the frame.
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Learn and practice
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Essential: Run the show!
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Frame control – elegant and relaxed. Not combative. You are the “Doctor” – the expert.
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The “sceptic” –
Story – tip of the tongue etc
Story from your experience
Demo
“Would you consider yourself open minded?”
Relax!
The “challenger”
Avoid!
Or reverse – “prove to me that you have the imagination to be hypnotized!”
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The “afraid” / control freak
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hypnosis gives YOU the power... Just like being fascinated by a movie etc
Inductions / deepeners o
Go through formula in book, walk through arm drop
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Do step by step with ‘wake up’
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Relax about timing etc!
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Do step by step with deepener and wake up
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Fractionate with different inductions and wake ups
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Expect it to succeed
Hypnotic Phenomena o
Creating a belief and a reality
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YOUR reality must be stronger than theirs
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Speak with utter conviction
Tell them something that is 100% true “your hair is black”
Tell them something that is controversial but might be true / or is subjective “Obama is great etc.”
Tell them something that is false BUT say it as if it were 100% true “You are an elephant”
Do this 10 times with different made up sentences – practice increasing the conviction – convince yourself that it’s true (cycle through nouns if need be!)
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Remember no such thing as “hypnosis” so nothing is unique to the hypnosis process – just applications of belief and imagination
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Explain each with reference to everyday equivalent
Ideo-dynamic – handshake, blink
Amensia – “tip of the tongue”
Hallucination – Wallet / Friend
Catalepsy – Daze, stuck, relaxed.
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Go through formula in book, demo with hand stick
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Do it!
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Then demo is arm levitation – slightly different as no challenge – just progress.
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Talk about adapting.
Power Induction o
Demo with magnetic hands
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Do – step by step with wake up
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Do step by step with deepener and wake up
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Do step by step with deepener, phenomena and wake up
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Switch deepener around
Rocket Launch Techniques o
Change / positive piggy backs off the phenomena
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Stick example
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Magnetic Hands Feeling Exercise
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Feeling good as those hands come together
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Let those feelings was over you
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1,2 3 keep those good feelings as you come back to the room, feeling wonderful...
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Do this
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THEN come up with a new one!
Questions / Extras?
Day 1 end
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Box Two: Conversational Hypnosis See “Conversational Hypnosis in Action”
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Fundamentals – Inner Game!
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Rapport, four “secrets”
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Disraeli, Gladstone and Victoria
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Stephen Covey
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Bernard Baruch
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That rapport feeling
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“Always be the calmest person in the room” Marcus Oakey –
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This does NOT mean the most boring!
How You Talk – Voice o
“This is my nose” exercise
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Breathing
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Conscious speaking
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Emote!
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Do simple induction / wake up with conscious speaking
How you Act – Body Language o
Act happy / sad / confident / unconfident / arrogant
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Get up, walk around, talk like the above!
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What do you notice?
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The Silent Story of Body Language
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What to Say...
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Hypnotic Language Patterns
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Double Bind
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Bind
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Presupposition
Awareness- notice, realize, find, discover
Time
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Embedded commands
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Cause – effect, because, causes, which means, therefore...
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Do induction with one over and over again!
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Then another...
Storytelling
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You are your story
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Transformational metaphor
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Exaggerate
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Tell a mundane story and blow it out of proportion!
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Find analogies in your life or stories you know for...
Fear / lack of confidence
Learning something new
Getting excited!
Solving a problem
Leaving your comfort zone
Beliefs and Questions o
Go through the five questions
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Meta Model
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Meta-muddling
Principles of Influence – Cialdini o
Reciprocity
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Liking
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Authority
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Commitment and Consistency
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Social Proof
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Scarcity!
Questions / Extras?
Day 2, 2-3pm. Break.
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Box Three: Inner Game •
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THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THE PROGRAM o
Everything comes back to this
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It’s all too much to get consciously...
Three new friends o
Fear
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Failure
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Confusion
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Most people run from these!
But these are the “sign posts on the path to success”
Another “partner:” Contradiction o
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All maps / models will be imperfect
Goals o
Talked about over and over again for a reason...
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BUT – Oscar Wilde and the Artistic Life
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Seneca and Poverty
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SO goal -> feeling -> value exercise
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Magnetic Hands feeling exercise – you do it!
Paradigm shift o
Do to Be
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Idea => Goal => Task => Belief => Identity
The Power of States o
Go there first
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Everything is ‘state dependant’
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Blank slate – put it all aside
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Then step into the state
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Practice with – calm, rapport, happiness
The Ultimate Quick Fix o
Instant gratification => laziness
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Long term goals => change, impossible, daunting
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So – skip to the end!
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Take practice!
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“It takes time to do things quickly...”
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Think independently!
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Always question
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Always keep learning
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Don’t believe a word anyone tells you until you’ve seen it for yourself
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And accept that YOU are always changing.
HAVE FUN – it’s easy to forget this, so don’t!
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