The way of the superior man
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Stop hoping for a completion of anything in life Every moment waited is a moment wasted, and each wate moment degrades yours clar ity of purpose. Live with an open heart even if it hurts Know your real edge and don't fake it Always hold to your deepest realisation Live into your depth Never change your mind just to please a woman Lean just beyond your edge Your fear is the sharpest definition of your self. Fear needs to become your fri end so that you are no longer uncomfortable with it. Own your fear, and lean jus t beyond it, in every aspect of your life. Enjoy your friends' criticisms Find your purpose - make your talents gifts to the world Don't get lost in tasks and duties Raise yours eyes, see to the horizon Stop hoping for your woman to get easier She cannot move you because you already are what you are with or without her. A woman's word is her true expression in the moment. Praise your woman freely It's always better to focus on the half full part Tolerating her leads to resenting her A superior man sees his woman's moods not as a curse, but as a challenge and an amusement. Don't analyze your woman 90% of women's problems are that they feel unloved If you try to fix her problems it will make it worse On of the deepest feminine desires in intimacy is to be able to surrender and re lax. Stand unshaken by the chaos Don't force the feminine to make decision Let yourself be attracted to women, feel the vibrations, learn to magnify and su stain your desire, receive her vision as a blessing
Embrace her whole feminine power, dark and light. Sexual passion involves a clear polarity between your masculine core and your wo man's feminine energy. Stop wanting everything from her(as in reason or discipline or trustworth) Remember your priority and decide what you want to do. Chose a woman who chooses you, but first determine whether she plays hard to get What she wants is not what she says She will test you to see if you're strong enough to bypass her wish and do what' s right Her complaint is content free She doesn't really want to be number one priority Your excellent track record (in the relationship) is meaningless to her She wants to relax in the demonstration of your direction You are always searching for freedom A woman is turned on by your capacity to "kill" Receive the feminine energy from everywhere around you, feel its rejuvenating to uch upon you The purpose of sexual desire is creation. Feel the creativity, the art of enjoyi ng a fine woman Never allow your desire to become suppresed or depolarized 43 Use her attractiveness as a sligshot through appearance Ejaculation should be converted or consciously chosen Breathe down the front Breathe through your whole body, remove all blocks Pay particular attention when u do this randomly during the day what parts are t ightened DO that to others, see if it works see if u can untense them Pervade through women with your breath 46 Ejaculate up your spine Instead of tensing ur muscles as you become sexually stimulated learn to relax t hem When you notice your breething getting faster and shallow, show it down and deep en it When you notice your belly tight and your chest hard, open your belly and soften the area around your heart Then learn to feel your partner more than your sensations during sex; feel throu gh your partner as if your partner was a doorway into a vast open space of energ y, light and awareness Generally, during the day, your inhales should feel like they are drawing energy down the front of your body, filling your belly and genital region, up from you r pelvic region, up you spine into your head
Exercise contracting the regio between the anus and the genitals Intimacy is the primary arbiter in a woman's life and a secondary purpose for me n A woman can be your most thorough judge You are responsible for the growth in intimacy, for its direction; the woman is responsible with its energy Woman get lost in their moods, you are their wake up call A superior man slices through the bullshit and demands authenticity and humor, g rowth and practice in the intimacy "You could meditate until you're blue in the face, but it won't work, if, when i t conies down to it, you'd rather masturbate, read the newspaper, or watch TV th an cut through your addictions, discipline your daily life, and give your gift f rom your deepest, most blissful source. The quality of your intent and the consi stency and depth of your application determine the results of your direction in gifting - as well as your capacity to guide your woman's life into greater happi ness and bodily surrender into love" Restore your purpose in solitude and with other men