The Simulator System How to Practice the Art and Science of Attraction With No Risk of Rejection By John Alanis The Kin of !et "em #ome to $ou
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7elcome to the Attraction Simulator System. On one hand, this system is going to be one of the shortest I8ve ever created5 but it might be the most valuable. Oh, I could stuff it full of fluff and filler to add bul9, and I could put lots of pictures in it to ma9e it pretty. :ut, I8m not really into all that. I8m into delivering information that wor9s, and what I am about to reveal is the most valuable method I8ve ever discovered for practicing attraction. On occasion, I survey my customers and subscribers. )eading over the results of my most recent survey, I noticed an interesting pattern% a #O/ of men were as9ing if there was a way for me to create a ;practice system< so they could try out all of their new s9ills without ris9ing re=ection. At first glance, that sounds unrealistic>how do you ;practice< without tal9ing to a real live woman which, would obviously ma9e it more than practice? /he idea of a software system that produces female ;avatars< programmed to interact with you is so far fetched as to be unrealistic, and in my mind a little creepy. Or a lot. After reading the survey, I was =ust about to simply tell the guys to go out in the real world, suc9 it up, and tal9 to women until they were no longer afraid when I remember something from my past, something that helped me hone my attraction s9ills dramatically. I hadn8t done it in @uite awhile because I8ve been so busy meeting women in the real world, but thin9ing bac9 on it, it gave me the s9ills to do so. #et me tell you a @uic9 story. 7ay bac9 in +444, a friend of mine discovered internet chat and instant messaging. IC had started it all, and soon enough AO# Instant Bessenger was all the rage. Chat rooms sprang up, and internet dating sites started to flourish. ow, my friend had a wea9ness for the ladies. e dated a lot of women, slept with a lot more, but he =ust couldn8t get enough. e met women on the street, in the office, everywhere you could meet them, he met them. :ut it was never enough for him>he always wanted more. /he other thing my friend li9ed to do was tal9. ell, he loved to tal9. Cell phones were =ust starting to ta9e off, and he didn8t have =ust one>he had two. e made a big show of always being on his cell phone, and sometimes would be tal9ing on two at once. I have no idea who he was tal9ing to or what about 2since he never seemed to ma9e any money3, but he sure loved to tal9. One day he came over, e!cited about a new online tool he8d found>IC which stood for I See9 Dou. Cute. e 9new I was in the mar9eting game, and came over to as9 me if there was an application for it. I loo9ed at it, and said it sounded li9e a fantastic way to waste time. e didn8t li9e that answer, but I was certainly proven right on that count>Instant Bessaging is an e!traordinarily effective way to waste time. By friend, however, was bound and determined to find some sort of use for Instant Bessaging. Soon, =ust li9e his cell phones, he had two, even three, different chat programs open on his computer at once. Once I caught him chatting with two people at once, while tal9ing on his cell phone.
I met him in +441, and we were actually roommates in +444 and '. And while the guy wasted a lot of time yammering on his cell phones and chatting on his instant messenger programs, he always found time for the ladies. A lot of time. e started bringing home two, even three new ones a wee9. 7hile none of them were going to win the Biss American "ageant, all of them were acceptably cute, fun, and se!y. 7hatever flaws my friend had, he was good at meeting women. One day he came home, bursting with e!citement, telling me about a new woman he was going to meet up with. e8d been tal9ing to her on his cell phone as he drove home from wor9, and wanted to show me a picture of her. 7e went over to his computer, and he showed me a picture of chun9y, but pleasant loo9ing blonde. ;ice,< I said. ;ow did you meet this one?< e got a gleam in his eye when he told me, as if he was about to spill a secret. e was. ;)emember that Instant Bessenger you said was a waste of time?< he began. ;Dep,< I said, ;and you seem to do @uite well wasting a lot of time with that thing.< ;Deah, yeah, but I finally discovered a use for this thing. I use it to meet women. #ots of women, and they8re pretty cute. Dou should try it,< he said. ow I was intrigued. At that time I hadn8t yet figured attraction out, and I didn8t meet nearly as many women as he did. I 9new he had a tric9 up his sleeve, and I wanted to see it. I as9ed him to show me, and his face lit up. e loved to show off, and in this case I was happy to let himEI wanted to 9now his secret. e turned on his computer, fired up AO# Instant Bessenger and went to an AO# chatroom, full of women. e watched for about minutes to see what the conversations were about, then he chose one and Instant Bessaged her. She didn8t respond. o worries, he went onto the ne!t one. And she did respond. ot only did she respond, she sent him a picture within ' minutes, and they were chatting away li9e old friends within . :ut he didn8t stop there. e did the same thing with another woman, then another. Soon enough, he was tal9ing to & women who8d sent him pictures within ' minutes. /hings were flying so fast he could barely 9eep up. I watched him for about + minutes, flabbergasted. Furing that time, he8d met & women, gotten their pictures, added them to his AO# Instant Bessenger contact list, and got them interested in him. I8d never seen anything li9e it. e chatted for + more minutes, loo9ed at his watch and said he had to get ready for his date. I as9ed him if he8d met her using this method and he said, yep, he had. $nbelievable.
e left for his date, and I was left to ponder. Could Instant Bessaging really have a productive use? I decided to give it a try myself, but not after until he came bac9 from his date. I half e!pected him to come in and tell me she was a beast, or a transvestite or something weird. :ut nope, he came bac9 2late3 with a big grin on his face, proceeding to tell me how wild and crazy she was. Famn. I had to try this for myself. So, he sat down with me, showed me how to set up AO# Chat, told me how to find a chat room, then opened up a conversation with a woman, getting her picture in less than ' minutes. She was hot. /hen he stood up with a big grin and said, ;she8s all yours champ, ta9e it from here.< So, I did. I opened a few chats with a few different women, and got several pictures within ' minutes. It was surreal. I wasn8t brave enough bac9 then to meet any of them in person, but I had fun chatting with them. I did it for about a wee9, then realized it was a big time waster, and stopped doing it. In '+ he got a new =ob, and we went our separate ways. I lost touch with him, spending my time focusing on my own businesses and pro=ects. :ut I still wasn8t very good with women, even though I8d discovered that attraction was a learnable s9ill. About that time internet dating really too9 off, and almost every dating site had a built in chat feature. Dou could loo9 at a woman8s profile, see if she was online, and chat with her then and there. Batch.com had a chat function 2since disabled3, Dahoo Bessenger came into vogue, and AO# Instant Bessenger was still going strong. I got pretty good at writing online profiles, and started getting more serious about meeting women. It was a s9ill I really wanted to learn because I wasn8t very good at it bac9 then. So, I decided to master internet dating. I got several emails from women interested in my profile, but when I called them or met up with them, things weren8t very good. I was nervous, I couldn8t thin9, I didn8t 9now what to do or say, and the dates were not fun. 7hat should I do to solve this? Suddenly I remembered my friend8s strategy% IB chat. So, using what he taught me, I started chatting with women on dating sites. I8d email them on a dating site, and if I got a response I8d simply say, ;ey, you have Dahoo messenger, easier to chat on there?< Bany did, or some other instant messenger programs. And a funny thing happened. /he more I chatted, the better I was on the phone and in person. I thought of things to say faster, I 9ept the conversation going, and my mind was @uic9er. /hen it struc9 me. Instant Bessenger was the perfect, no re=ection training tool for learning the s9ills, and they rhythm of attraction. /here was an unlimited supply of women to chat with. Dou could say anything you want, with no fear of personal re=ection>if she didn8t li9e you, she =ust went away.
Dou could test sayings, conversational themes, and you could steer the conversation anyway you wanted. ot only that, you could tal9 to multiple women at the same time, training your brain to thin9 @uic9ly enough carry on two, three, even four conversations at the same time, all with different themes. /his was powerful stuff, and I realized it was the ultimate, no re=ection way to ;practice< attraction, a real world simulator. Gven better, if you hit it off with a woman, you could meet her in person and ta9e things from there, and I met a lot of them in person. After awhile, I got so good at it, I @uit doing it. 7hy? :ecause I had the confidence to meet women in the real world, the confidence to call a woman, the confidence to carry on a conversation because I 9new what she was going to say. I8d already had the conversation a million times on Instant Bessenger, so I 9new what to do and what to say. Instant Bessenger was my ;training wheels,< and it served me very well. And when I too9 the training wheels off, I didn8t fall down or stumble, I rode li9e a pro. It filled in the gap between theory and real world application, and it is the perfect attraction simulator, especially in this day and age. /hin9 about it. 7hen my friend started with IC the internet was in its infancy. /here wasn8t broadband, wasn8t social media, and the internet was still considered ;weird.< Online dating was viewed as something only desperate people did, and way more men than women were on the internet. And yet, my friend still met two to three new women a wee9 with it, using what we would consider anti@uated technology. /hin9 about the internet today. Gveryone has broadband, and can send huge files bac9 and forth with ease. Gveryone8s on Haceboo9. /here8s /witter. /here8s S9ype. Internet dating is considered perfectly normal and customary, with match.com and earmony spending huge amounts of money on tv advertising. And, Instant Bessenger is more popular than ever. Dou still have AO# Instant Bessenger. Dou have Dahoo Bessenger. Dou have /witter. Dou have S9ype. Dou have Haceboo98s Instant Bessenger. "lenty of Hish has an Instant Bessenger. Instant Bessenger is everywhere, and it8s the best way I8ve found to simulate attraction. It used to be you8d open different chat windows using the same Instant Bessenger. ow, you can literally chat on AO# Instant Bessenger, Haceboo9, Dahoo, and "lenty of Hish all at the same time, with different women. I8ve done it, and it darn near gets overwhelming. So, let8s tal9 about how you can create your own simulator system so you can learn the art and s9ill of attraction at a blistering rate. Hirst off, if you haven8t been through Secrets of atural Attraction yet, I highly recommend you read it. Also, I highly recommend listening to the other four attraction
acceleration systems so you can understand how women thin9, and how they ma9e decisions about men. In summary of those systems, women loo9 for authority and intelligence in men. /hey are biologically programmed to feel attraction for men they 9now can protect them and produce superior offspring. 7hen a woman is in the presence of a man with both of these characteristics, she feels what women call ;chemistry.< If this feeling is present, women will do anything to be with a man, if it8s not, they will do anything to get away from him. Bale behavior creates the feeling of chemistry in women, and what you are doing in the simulator system is learning that behavior and getting immediate feedbac9 from women. Dour goal is to transmit authority and intelligence via what you type to the woman you8re chatting with, so she8ll feel chemistry for you. 7hat women loo9 for in a man that tells them he8s intelligence is ;@uic9 thin9ing.< In other words, do you have a @uic9 comebac9 for something she says, do you have a spin on words that ma9es her laugh, or a saying that activates her imagination. Bost men don8t. /hey8re dull witted, slow and boring. Dou want to be fast and @uic95witted. 7hen you are, a woman pegs you as intelligent, and chemistry begins to form. 7hen you are starting out with Instant Bessenger, you want to start with one woman and see how long you can 9eep the conversation going, what topics you can steer it to, what reactions you get from her and so on. :ut here8s where it gets interesting, and I mean really interesting. As you get comfortable chatting with one woman, you8ll want to initiate a second chat with another, different woman and carry on two different conversations with two different women at the same time. 7hen you do this, something magical starts to happen. Dou start to thin9 faster. Dou start to ac@uire the ability to ;divide your mind< so you can carry on two totally different conversations at the same time. 7hen you master tal9ing to two women, then move onto three, then to four. Hour was usually the most I could handle, but I got up to five a few times. 7hen you8re tal9ing to this many women, the action is fast and furious. Dou have to fly from one conversation to another, responding @uic9ly so each woman thin9s you8re still engaged. Dour mind starts to wor9 at a faster level. Soon, instead of thin9ing about what to say ne!t, it8s on the tip of your tongue. /hen you start coming up with multiple responses at the same time. Dour mind wor9s in parallel instead of se@uential. /he more you do this, the more female ;chat friends< you8ll ac@uire. Some of them will be sedate, some of them funny, some of them very naughty. Dou8ll 9now you are well on your way to mastering the s9ill of attraction when you can carry on four completely different conversations at once, with one being about the weather, one being about your day, one being funny comebac9s, and one being naughty. 7hen you can do that for an e!tended period of time,
9eeping all the women engaged and laughing, you are well on your way to mastering the art of tal9ing to women. Dou will soon start to notice something else, especially when you tal9 to a new woman% after awhile, all the conversations are the same. Sure there are specifics that pertain to each woman you8re tal9ing to, but for all intents and purposes the conversational ;flow< is the same. Dou stop thin9ing consciously and start acting subconsciously. In fact, you 9now what she8s going to say before she even says it, and your mind has several comebac9s ready to go. /he more you do this, the more female friends you8ll ma9e online, and the more women you8ll have to chat with. 7hen you login, they will often initiate chats with you, because you are entertaining where most men are boring. 7hen you8re chatting with all these women, e!periment with different things. "ush the envelope at times to see how they respond. :e a nice guy to one woman, a =er9 to another, a lady8s man to another, and so on. /he ones you insult will go away. ow, your purpose is not to deliberately insult women, your purpose is to try new things so you can find your own attraction groove and style. Dour attraction groove and style is what you will ta9e out into the real world with women, and you can find it using this simulator system. 7hen you interact with women in the real world, you8ll be much @uic9er with your wit that other men because you8re used to tal9ing to four at a time. One on one, women will seem slow to you, and you will seem fast to them. Dou will have trained your mind for @uic9ness, something few other men will ever do. "retty e!citing stuff, huh? I8m going to give you the best sites to use in a few minutes, but I do want to give you a word of warning, first. /his simulator system can be powerful, but it can also be addictive. )emember what I said in the beginning about Instant Bessenger being a great way to waste time? It is. Dou can blow hours a day on it if you8re not careful. Dou don8t want to fall in the trap of chatting with women, and leaving it at that. Dour purpose is to find your own attraction groove, and get good at responding to women. Dour purpose is to train your mind to thin9 @uic9ly so you always have the right thing to say to the right woman at the right time in person because you 9now what she8s going to say ne!t. ow long will this ta9e you? /hree wee9s from start to finish is sufficient. If you spend two 2maybe three3 hours a day, chatting with multiple women at the same time, you will be very, very good in three wee9s. :ut after that, it8s time to move on. After three wee9s are up, you want to start tal9ing to these women on the phone. It8s simple to do so>you =ust say, ;hey, my fingers are sore from all this chatting, let8s tal9 on the phone.< She8ll either say yes or no, and then you tal9 to her on the phone. Bost will say yes. Sadly, you can8t tal9 to & women at the same time on the phone. :ut you can tal9 to three women bac9 to bac9 to bac9. Dour goal is to now get comfortable tal9ing on the phone to women, translating the s9ills you developed with instant message into real, live voice
conversations. Des, the first one or two will feel a little aw9ward, but after that, it becomes second nature. /hen you8ve made the transition from chatting via instant messenger to tal9ing to women who you 9now are interested in you 2if they8re not, they won8t tal9 to you3. After you get comfortable tal9ing on the phone with women, the ne!t step is to simply meet them in person and continue the conversation there. Dou8ll be a little nervous the first few times you do it, but after that it becomes second nature, and you8re =ust as @uic9 and witty in person as you are in online chat. /he trap you do O/ want to fall into is simply staying with Instant Bessage chat. /here comes a time when you want to leave it behind, and only revisit it on occasion to 9eep your s9ills fresh. Fon8t get suc9ed into for months on end>you are using it for a purpose and that8s to hone your newfound attraction s9ills in a very forgiving environment. O9, so where8s the best place to start chatting online? www&%lentyoffish&com is great because it8s free, and there are a ton of women with profiles you can chat with. 7hen a woman8s online, the letter ;instant message< appears under her picture, and you can start a conversation with her by simply referencing something in her profile. "lentyofHish 2"OH3 doesn8t have the best technology around, but if a woman will chat with you there, odds are she has Dahoo Bessenger or AO# Instant Bessenger. Batch.com used to have an IB function, but they removed it. :ut you can still email women, get responses from them, then simply say, ;ey, let8s chat on Dahoo or AO#.< Some will, some won8t, but if you as9 enough of them, soon you8ll have more than you 9now what to do with. Haceboo9 is another great place to chat, because you8re chatting with friends. Bany times women will approve you as a friend if you 9now someone they do, and then you can initiate a chat based on what they say in their Haceboo9 profile. eep in mind women are naturally chatty creatures. /hey love to chat, love to tal9, love to gossip, and are happy to indulge you. If one doesn8t want to tal9, there are two others who will. Just 9eep as9ing. Another place to initiate IB conversations is in chat rooms. If you go to (oogle and search on ;dating chat rooms< you8ll find all 9inds of options. Some are weird, some are normal, but if you loo9 around long enough, you8ll find plenty. ere8s a tric9 my friend used to use many years ago to get a woman in a chat room to send over her pic. e8d instant message her and say, ;(5rated pic attached5trade?< e8d usually get a response with a picture and then he8d start chatting. One reason this wor9s so well is because women constantly get pictures of men with their pants off. /hey are sic9 and tired of it, so when a woman sees ;(5rated pic< she 9nows she8s tal9ing to a man who understands women don8t li9e penis pictures. She appreciates it, puts you in a better category and is happy to chat with you.
/here is one other use for Instant Bessaging as a form of attraction simulation. If you ever feel li9e you8re a bit rusty in the real world or the phone, ;off your game,< or you =ust want to try some far out angle you8d never use in the real world until it was tested, Instant Bessenger is the best place to do so. Bost of the women you8ll never meet in real life, and they8re =ust pi!els on a screen. So, put the simulator system to wor9, and watch your attraction s9ills increase dramatically in a very short period of time. On with the fun,
5John Alanis /he ing of #et Kem Come to Dou
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