The Natural’s PUA Bible Introduction This is NOT a guide FOR naturals learning seduction. This is a guide to help everyone else get the attitude that NATURALS already have. This bible is a collection of a select few of the most helpful posts taken from various sources (mASF, sosuave, Bristol lair, etc.) without becoming overly large. In one of these articles, Maddash says that PickUp is 75% character and 25% tactics. This bible is a basic compilation of the knowledge and mindset you need for that 75%. They are not theories that you can “add” to yourself, they are mindsets you need to adopt. It is FAR from comprehensive, but it is meant to be this way. Eventually, once you get the major part of the attitude down, everything else will fall into place, and the details will take care of themselves. I don’t believe that saturating yourself with pickup information will help you. So I’ve kept the bible as short as possible, and left out things that weren’t really necessary, even though they were helpful (such as TD’s 25 point list). To use this bible, I suggest reading one article, and then don’t read anything else for a while, and go out and sarge a few times (using whatever method you prefer). Once you have internalized – not MEMORIZED, but actually think in the same wavelength as the article – go on to the next one. -Theron Lalla
[email protected] Above the Rules – page 2 I think most of the community is looking at PU all wrong, and this article sums up why. The guys who are VERY successful have this attitude Why 95% of guys will never become PUAs – page 4 A guideline on how NOT to be, and why. Be Like a Child – page 7 A great post about being “natural” – being your true self. Women Explained – page 11 Actually less about women and more about status. Alpha Attitudes – page 17 An article on attitude adjustment. The Creed – page 20 If “The Rules” was made for Alpha Men, this is what it would look like. The Truth about Women Revealed – page 27 Great tips on dealing with women RazorJack’s Natural Method – page 31 If all of the above articles could be made into a “method”, this would be it.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible ABOVE the “rules” by Krassus If you could choose... An author once compared himself to a stranger who approached a beggar that has been sitting on the same box for 30 years, asking people for money. He asked the beggar to look inside the box, but the beggar laughed at such a ridiculous request. "I've been sitting on it for 30 years, I know there's nothing in it!" But the stranger insisted and eventually, the beggar gave up. He opened the box and to his amazement, found it filled with gold coins. He's always possessed that which he has been seeking all these years. I'm not gonna lie to myself and say that I'm worthy of being compared to that author, but for your sake, I'll assume the role of the stranger. If you could choose to make getting women as easy or as difficult as you want it to be, what would you choose? Unless you've laid so many women that nothing but a big challenge excites you anymore, you'll choose to make it easy, painless and effortless. You'll choose to make it something you can do while you're going about doing other, more important things. Something that you don't have to focus on, study or make a big priority in life in order to excel at. The good news is that you have that choice. You've always had it. It's the box filled with gold. That's exactly what separates us from natural seducers: somewhere along the line they made the choice to make seduction easy, and we did not. The pure and simple truth is that getting women is precisely as easy or as difficult as you think it is. Read the last sentence again. This is why naturals can't really convey their methods to us. There are no methods. When you ask them about "what they said to get her," they look at you with a slight look of confusion, as if they're wondering why you'd even be interested in such a thing. Its like asking what toothpaste they used that morning or how many spoons of sugar they put in their coffee. What difference does it make? The teeth got brushed, the coffee got made, the girl got fucked. They're the simplest of tasks, anyone has the ability to do them, so why ask for advice on them? So once again, getting women is precisely as easy or as difficult as you think it is. It can be as easy breathing or as difficult as getting a PhD. That's because beliefs are infectious. If you believe that women you interact with have to be gamed, they'll pick up on your belief and go along with it. Subconsciously. See, if you believe that you have to work for it, you feel that you yourself aren't good enough for it. That there must be something more, some great skill to aid you. You feel inferior and that's what they'll pick up on. And they'll make you compensate, they'll make you have a great skill, or tons of money, or amazing looks... or they'll tell you to get the fuck out. They'll test you and resist you because you expect to be tested and resisted. Try asking a chick if the number she gave you as real (unlike the others, she'll presume) or if she'll pick up when you call (unlike the others, she'll presume), and see how far you get with her. The belief that women have to be gamed is the single biggest limiting belief of all. The sole existence of this entire community can be attributed to it. Dozens of complex theories have sprung up around it. The more people study them, the deeper the proverbial hole they've dug themselves into becomes. When they fail, they'll think its because their game wasn't good enough. In reality, it had a lot more to do with her than it did with them. But not knowing that, they'll study harder and harder. And when they succeed, they'll attribute their success to their game as well. In reality, they succeeded because they believed they could. Because they reached a point where they felt their game was good enough. Because they believed that it made them worthy, made them irresistible to women. In reality, its not the game that gets you women. Or the new set of clothes, or the great body, or the expensive car. Its the confidence you get from believing that whatever it is you have makes women want you. Its the effect of external factors on internal beliefs and nothing more. But what you have to realize is that your beliefs are already under your control. The power to change them at will is the gold inside the box you've been sitting on your whole life. 2
The Natural’s PUA Bible I guarantee you that if you can make yourself believe, really believe, that you're good enough the way you are, that you already have all it takes, and that you have to work for or prove nothing, your success rate will double. Hell, it'll probably quadruple! Because the grand sum of every single skill and technique discussed here from day one is lesser than the power given to you by that one simple belief. That you're the catch. The you're happy the way you are and content with yourself. That you've got a great life, with or without women. That you don't have to say or do anything out of the ordinary to get women. All you have to do is be there, and talk. And yes, "be yourself." But be a great self, be a powerful self, be a self that every chick would want. "Be yourself" was touted as the worst advice that could be given to an AFC. In reality, its the best advice, even if the critics weren't wise enough to recognize it as such. Make the choice.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible Why 95% of guys in the community will never become PUAs by RazorJack Howdy boys! I don't like to discourage anyone, but during the past few months, this board has just been wreaking AFCness, neediness and mental masturbation. Keyboard jockeys and armchair seductionists post way too much crap on this board. And the cycle just goes on and on. With this post I want to present some harsh reality to all the readers who still don't get it and why they don't get it. Then offer some insight on HOW to get it. 1. All right, the biggest problem I see is that guys don't understand that this is a LIFESTYLE. The majority of guys here think they just need to learn a couple of openers, attraction routines, AMOG lines and that's it. WRONG!!! Learning PU is just like learning a sport. Becoming a PUA can be compared to becoming an elite athlete. It takes YEARS of dedication, with the right coaching you can cut down that time, but it still requires HARD work! This is where a lot of guys get weeded out. These guys are not willing to dedicate themselves to learning PU. They lurk on the board once in a while for a few years, try a few things out but still don't get anywhere. Imagine a guy wanting to be a body builder. How far do you think he will get if he lifts once a month? If you don't dedicate yourself to the lifestyle, then you might as well not even begin. 2. Fears - Fear of failure, fear of success, fear of being looked down upon, fear of rejection, fear of the unknown, fear of women, etc. FEAR, FEAR, FEAR!!!! Fear is the next major hurdle I see for a lot of you PUA aspirants. If you're going to get past this barrier, you HAVE to put yourself in social situations you're gonna be uncomfortable in. Like approaching an HB in public and NOT worry about what everyone else around you will think of you trying to PU her. The best way to get over fears is to realize them for what they are: a self-created illusion! Here's an example. I was at a club teaching a student about chick behavior and showing him by pointing out examples right in front of him of such behavior. I was trying to show him just how much POWER he has as a man, especially as a PUA in a club. He then was talking about what if he saw an HB, approached her, opened and got shot down, and everyone in the club saw 4
The Natural’s PUA Bible it and would start making fun of him. Guess what I told him: FUCK THEM! What the hell can they do for you? Are they gonna give you a job? Are they gonna give you special favors like financial tips that no one else knows? Are they gonna make you rich? That's right! Who the hell are you trying to impress? A bunch of people in a club that can do NOTHING for you and that are already beneath you in social value. Social rules, society norms, etc. It's all a fucking illusion that women and AFC/beta men follow! Who the hell do you think makes the social rules and society norms in the first place? BINGO! It's the ALPHAs! Everybody follows them! You think these guys are worried about what the people around them think about them? Hell no, cuz the Alphas know that those people around them can do NOTHING for them. And their opinions don't mean shit. I can tell you that I've gone out to clubs with AFC friends. They watched me go into sets and get shut down. Then they all laugh and make jokes about it among themselves. Do you know why it doesn't bother me? Cuz it's like Bill Gates losing a bit of money on a bad business venture and all these people (that know NOTHING about business) making jokes about it among themselves. You think Bill Gates gives a shit about what those losers think? If you guys aren't going to get past these illusions, then you will get no where in PU. 3. Laziness - These are the guys that annoy me the most. They want pussy, but don't want to do the work. They are expecting some kind of magic pill that will quickly fix everything. If you are the guy that's telling yourself "I'm gonna learn as much theory as I can BEFORE I make my first approach", then this is you. You are deluding yourself. Theory is useless, if you aren't putting it to practical use and understanding when it works and when it doesn't. 4. One Dimensional Thinking - For those of you who are approaching and trying to PU, a lot of you will get frustrated and quit cuz you can't see the path to becoming a PUA. For almost every guy out there, starting on the road to becoming a PUA is a lot like being at the beginning of a maze/labyrinth. You don't where each path leads, you can just keep going until you run into a dead end, then back track and choose another path to see where that takes you. Wouldn't it be nice to see a path through the maze/labyrinth and out to the other side? 5
The Natural’s PUA Bible Well guess what? You can! I've been preaching this crap for a long time now, but it keeps going over so many heads and I see the same guys make the same mistakes over and over again. Those of you who don't play golf or music, just bear with me here: I saw an interview with Tiger Woods once. For those of you who don't know, Tiger Woods is predicted to be the greatest golfer that ever played the game. The interviewer was asking him about his swing and why he does certain things. Tiger Woods said that he doesn't think about what his swing look likes, what he FOCUSES on is his ball flight. He WANTS a penetrating ball flight that will bore through the wind and is going to be affected as little as possible by cross winds. His swing and technique is designed to achieve that goal, NOT the other way around! What do most amateur golfers do? They work on perfecting their techniques, hoping their swing will produce a good ball flight. As a professional musician, I learned a while back ago that the biggest difference between amateurs and pros is that amateurs work on perfecting their techniques and use that to make music. Pros think about the sounds they WANT and what they are trying to EXPRESS musically, then they DESIGN their technique to achieve their goals! So how do I PU compare to the majority of guys on this board? Most guys they run routines/gimmicks/scripts/etc and hope that they will work. When it doesn't, they think they did something wrong, try another routine/gimmick/script, read some more theory and try again, etc. Basically going through the maze/labyrinth, running into a dead end, back tracking, choosing another path until that one runs into a dead end. I decide what is I WANT from PU, how I WANT the PU to progress, how I WANT the chicks to behave and design my game to achieve those goals! I already know the path I'm gonna take before the very first step! Of course you should care about chicks, you should love chicks, just stop giving a shit about what they think of you and show them you're a sexual man without scaring them off!
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The Natural’s PUA Bible Be Like a Child by Pook Rejoice! And be glad! All those frustrations, all those hesitations, the nervousness, the burning, the butterflies of unease, the confusions, and the errors that manifest itself when your mind says "Do this" and your body and personality do not follow- all of these can be washed away... forever. Yes, you thought yourself ignorant about women, so inexperienced, so confused, and you just seemed to be following an evil circle. Maybe you were like me, a super mega dork who slept through life until now. And, perhaps like I did, you read and reread all material on women and life you could get your hands on. But what if I told you that you were always a Don Juan at one point in time? And I do not mean in a specific situation or hour, I mean at one point in your life you KNEW EVERYTHING ABOUT WOMEN and handled them WITH PERFECT EASE, so perfect that it was 100% NATURAL and if anyone told you to view a website or books for 'information' you would laugh yourself silly! Wouldn't that change everything? Wouldn't you say to yourself, "Well! If I was the PERFECT Don Juan then I would try to remember how I THOUGHT and what I DID when I WAS that Don Juan rather than mine endless posts and books. After all, if I WAS a Don Juan, then I require only recollection NOT revelation." Go find a picture of yourself when you were a young kid (say at age 6). Look at him! He is smiling gleefully without a care in the world. He doesn't know he is going to turn into the sad adult that you are now. Hormonally, the only difference between you and your youthful shadow is that you are flooded in testosterone and in a state of chemical madness. Your youthful shadow knows better of the joys of life. It is no wonder parents find their offspring such a wonder as they reframe the dull life of bills, appointments, and responsibilities with the fire of youth. Yes, you say that you are an adult now. You have responsibilities such as bills and chores and work to do. You have no time for such nonsense. Or do you? I bet when you were a kid, you were a natural Don Juan. I bet you got all the girls in the sandbox. As a child, you knew how to treat women better then even though you are now an adult. Some of these factors include that you.... Knew girls and guys were different. Trendy intellectuals have this problem today! You KNEW there was MALE and FEMALE. Realized girls had cooties and could destroy a guy. This isn't too far off as girls can totally devour and destroy a man and his life. -Knew that it was improper to be girlish. You would (and ought to) get beaten up on the playground. Older people get an error in the brain called PHILOSOPHY that speaks bubble swelled words like 'relativity', 'revolution', freedom' and pop with the scent of rotten eggs of pious moralizations, bumper sticker arguments, and rambling dissertations. You knew, at an early age that YOU CANNOT FREE YOURSELF FROM GENDER. Girls were not to be taken seriously. After all, they are girls.
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It is the nice guy that takes the woman seriously in every and all things AND CANNOT SAY NO TO HER! Girls were to be guided, teased, because, after all, they were girls and, as such, tended to mess things up. You pulled their hair, made fun of their clothes... ...not because an internet guy named DeAngelo told you to do so, but because you knew instinctively that it was right and proper for you to do. As a boy, you would never leave the plans up to the woman. Oh, that would be awful! As a kid, you had to say WHAT you two were going to do, WHEN, WHERE, and sometimes WHY. You had to be direct. "Why do I need a plan, Pook? Why can't we do what SHE wants to do?" Because she has no idea what she wants to do. Example: "When do you want to come over?" "I don't know." "On Tuesday or Thursday?" "I just don't know." "How about Wednesday? Is that OK for you?" "Maybe..." "What about Tuesday or Friday?" "I dunno!" *aggravated* "Argh! I am coming to pick you up at 7:45 PM on Wednesday." *sweetly* "OK!" You did not get into serious talks with a girl. You did not turn her into Oprah. You did not try to impress her with how 'intellectual' you are. You probably hit her, cried "Tag!", ran off, and she would chase after you. You would get on the swings. You would push her off the slides. On the seesaw, you would try to fall as fast as possible to catapult her away. Everything you did with a girl was ACTION dates. Nice Guys try to cook the lady dinner. YOU wouldn't even DARE do such a thing when you were young. Now I know why some of my best dates are ones as simple as taking the girl to the park and run around like little kids. Action! Action! Action! As a kid you loved to sing. You loved to laugh. What do you do now? You are so uptight that you wouldn’t catch yourself dead singing outside your home. And what happened to that happy laughter that marked your childhood? Why are you taking everything so seriously now!? You had toys and loved to play with them. When the girls entered your sphere, you insisted on playing with YOUR toys. You would ride your bike at death defying speeds. You played with cranes and Tonka dump trucks. You LOVED firetrucks. When you grow up, your Hot Wheels cars turn into super fast sport cars (which you still drive at death defying speeds). Your cranes and dump trucks turn into the big ones and you still love the firetrucks. Compare this to the Nice Guy who does not understand the beauty of construction or get scared at the idea of firetrucks. There is a reason why women LOVE firemen You embraced your imagination. If you played with a girl, it was to be on your terms. You will not find a boy that says to a girl, "Whatever YOU want to do." I remember flicking caterpillars on girls (and they loved it!). You would point to the girl and go, "You are the detective and I am the cop." And then you pointed to others and go, "Look at these villains! Come, we must round them up!" And the girls joyfully played the part. What do you do NOW? "Let's go get dinner." BORING.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible You had one eternal enemy in childhood, boredom. Like a void, it encroached on you in school, ensnared you with a stupid trip with the parents, and enveloped you as you stepped on the school bus. You embraced every chance for play. If there is ONE thing a man must NEVER do to a woman, it is this: DO NOT BORE HER. Make her happy, make her angry, make her laugh, ANYTHING but bore her. That enemy, boredom, is back and women are looking for you to strike it down. Embrace your youth and live again for the first time. Even at your young age, you were aware of fashion. Your mother was perplexed at why you couldn't wear THAT shirt or put on THOSE shoes. You knew the importance clothes and appearance had. Nice Guys and chumps try to say nothing for appearance and say, "she will like me for who I am", and, with the same breath, ignore the chicks who do nothing appearance wise (big whale chicks, pimply chicks, and such) while getting shot down at the real women. When you were young, your father was a DEMI-GOD. You both feared and loved him. He could be playful when he wanted to. But, always, he was a SOURCE of STRENGTH, always confidant, and always seemed to know the solution to any problem you came across. This feeling of awe you thought of your father is the perfect definition of a MAN. When you strive to be that same towering figure, which seemed to have solutions to all problems, confidence for all troubles, know how for all messes, stability for all storms, women will react to you in the same way. It is said, "Women want to marry their fathers." But this phrase has been taken completely out of context. Women want to marry THAT guy, that MAN they knew when they were a little girl. You can only understand and become that man through the eyes of the young boy. Now some women will protest this advocacy of looking at women as little girls. This works especially well with the YOUNGER chicks (which is what most guys here want). This also solves a legal mystery: why were women from 1800s and down treated, BY LAW, as children? We know the answer now). (And I would say to women to treat men the same way. Women are most charming when they view us as boys.) "He, whom the gods love, grows young," said the ancient Greeks. Look at that picture of the young you! Now look in the mirror. The blazing light in the youth's eyes, the curiosity, and the wonders he saw at Nature and life, the joy he loved at any occasion! Are they still part of you? Look into the mirror. Is the same light in your eyes? If not, then you know what you need to do. You have come to the solution of your Don Juan troubles. Legends spoke of a Fountain of Youth that turns the old young. Conquistadors prowled continents hunting for this magical facet of Nature. This legend of the Fountain of Youth was like a psychological splinter in the minds of so many men, driving them across the world through dangers and storms to obtain such a treasure. But it was not in the world, it was in us. Who knew women are the key that seems to unlock all of Nature's mysteries? Doesn't this clear the stormy air of confusion? (especially with younger 'immature' women!) When you are with a woman and a thousand Don Juan philosophies and tactics come to thwart your peace, remember the kid that you were... and how he looked on life. Yes, she might be a twenty-something vixen. But underneath those milk-sacs and fat deposits that drive your chemicals mad, is a little girl. Rather than being nervous about some date, view the date as if you were seven years old. Everything becomes simple and fun (as it should be!). One thing is for certain, women go NUTS over a guy who keeps his boyhood charm as women want an ESCAPE. They do not want to hear your views on the world. They want to have the happiness and fun of their childhood back (as everyone does!). They will FIGHT for the rare men who truly live like this (this also explains the mystery
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The Natural’s PUA Bible why uneducated men often seem to do BETTER with women than many men with PhDs who are so 'smart' they intellectualized life out of existence). As we know, cell division error, aided by free radicals, accumulates errors throughout the body as time passes. A person of 80 obviously has more errors than that of 40. His tissues start to fail, making his organs fail, then entire organ systems collapse, until life is snuffed out. In the same way, our minds start out pristine and pure (that of the child!) and everything is playful, fun, and simple. But as time passes, philosophies and bitter memories accumulate. The diseased person looks at life only through the philosophical lens, living a life of past memories, and so his life decays and decays until there is no life within him. Pook hands you the chalice. Drink and pass the cup around. This water from the Fountain of Youth will wash away these errors, all those ‘frames’ your bitter memories eat at your mind. Drink to the girls that rejected you viciously. Drink to the ‘macho’ guys that beat you up in school. Drink to the chains of routines, errands, and appointments. Drink to your ambition, drink to your melancholy, drink to your loneliness. Drink to your heart’s content and pass the cup around. Your mind has now absorbed the blessed waters of the Fountain of Youth. You are now the light of the world! Your life is now young, fruitful, fun, easy, simple, and your body will reflect it as well. The world is now your sandbox. Rejoice! Many people get swallowed up in their vanity, all believing themselves 'brilliant' and 'smart'. They follow their philosophies unquestioningly and their lives walk on the quicksand of melancholy. But... they see the new you and it smashes all their philosophies to bits. They ask each other, "How can he be so happy? How can he be so ALIVE? Let us study him and we will write articles and manifestos on him." But you know the truth. Their ambitions have consumed them while you look on life with youthful eyes... ...and live in a Child's Paradise.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible Women Explained by Hitori Hitori came to mASF, read the manual, read some archives, thought about how they related to her real life experience, and wrote this post. This will give you a thorough understanding of how chicks act to gain and maintain social status. Chick logic makes sense. The Basic Principle Chicks act at all times to gain and maintain social status. This is more important to them than getting laid.
Qualities of High Status People They are admired and desirable All manner of people fit into this category, and to a certain extent it's cyclical; if you have high social value you're admired, and if you're admired you have high social value. On the other hand, there are all kinds of ways to be desirable and admired; hot chicks fit into this category, but so do politicians, rocket scientists, rockstars, PUAs, and rich men. In this category HBs have the upper hand. Evolution has engineered men to pick partners for health and beauty, so a nice set of tits WILL take you further in this world than a nice set of pecs. Go figure. They are relaxed and confident Confidence is VITAL to high social status. It doesn't matter whether you're confident because you graduated from the school of hard knocks or because you've had everything you ever wanted handed to you on a silver platter; if you're confident, you are relaxed in the knowledge that you can handle whatever life throws at you, and succeed at whatever you undertake. You'll vibe this confidence at the people around you, and it will be a powerful positive experience for them. HSE people will appreciate you, and LSE people will desire or envy you. Relaxation and confidence also means you're NOT NEEDY. This is good because needy men tend to come across as either pathetic or dangerous. They behave naturally This is what it means to 'be yourself', in the classic dating-advice sense. It doesn't mean burp and fart and be depressing if you feel like it. It means DON'T BE TRYHARD. I cannot stress this enough. Fake it till you make it, of course, by all means, but for God's sake MAKE IT. Socially intelligent people can -tell- when you are incongruent, and for women it's not just weird; it can actually be alarming. It implies that you're hiding something - possibly one of the more dangerous low-social-status traits like fear, volatility, or disdain for the unattainable. Their time and energy has value If you have high social value, you recognize that your time and energy ALSO have value. This means you're willing to cut off boring threads of conversation - even with desirable people - and that you spend your time doing things that are ultimately productive, either in fun-value or in other ways. If some HB wanders off 'to the bathroom' or 'to go dance' on you, you have run out of fun-value. Sorry, tiger. 11
The Natural’s PUA Bible They are socially intelligent If you are socially intelligent, you know the score. You can tell who is tryhard and who is not, who gets laid and who doesn't, what it means when two chicks eyecode each other, etc etc ad infinitum. You understand, intuitively, who has social status and who doesn't, and what's going on when two people flirt, and all manner of other things. THIS MEANS YOU DO NOT HAVE TO VERBALIZE IT. FEELING YOU NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT AS IT HAPPENS SHOWS YOU ARE *NOT* SOCIALLY INTELLIGENT. FIGHT THE URGE. This means no "You're flirting with me, aren't you?!"s, no "Your pupils are dilated... They say that means women are turned on...". HANDLE THESE PRONOUNCEMENTS WITH THE UTMOST CARE. People who recognize this shit with regularity _do not need to talk about it_. When you go to a football game with your buddies, do you all sit around going, "Look at that... He kicked the ball into the endzone! That means a goal, right? Awesome! He made a goal!" NO! YOU DO NOT. You know the score. The bad news about social intelligence is that if you are a guy most chicks, by and large, will have more of it than you. The good news is that it's an easy skill to acquire; all it takes is a willingness to observe people interacting and to TRUST the things you perceive this way. Most guys I know see many of the same things that women do, but because they don't (at first glance) have a clear logical framework to put them in, they ignore them as untrustworthy.
Qualities of Low Status People They seek approval and acceptance People with low social status suffer from a deficit of validation. Sometimes they legitimately don't get the recognition they deserve, and suffer from unwillingness or inability to reframe; other times it's because they're neurotic and LSE and no amount of validation will ever be enough. Unable to validate themselves, they seek approval and acceptance from other people. They are volatile and anxious The world is a frightening place when you don't know what's going to happen next and you don't know if you'll be able to deal with it, whatever it is. People without confidence react to this great, frightening unknown with a level of perpetual anxiety that they vibe at others. Driven by their own percieved helplessness and rage, they will explode with fits of anger, or display disproportionate fear; of women, of change, etc. They try to buy what they can't earn In terms of social status, this is very important. People who don't understand how to DHV will try to BUY approval. On ASF, this is known as supplication. It DOES NOT increase your social status or make you desirable to women. If it's clear you're trying to buy appproval, you will LOSE VALUE. A chick's reaction to a man she does not already find desirable supplicating for approval is about the same as YOUR reaction when you stop at a red light and some hobo goes to squeejee your windshield for dollars. Maybe you'll give him your spare change, sure but what if he was asking for sex? Would you bang him? I thought not.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible They disdain what they can't have People with low social status disdain what they can't have. Helpless to attain what they desire, they reject it preemptively instead. This means men who hate hot women. This means women who hate hot women. This means UGs who hate the idea of anyone getting laid. This means men who hate confident, competent men. They are NOT socially intelligent People with low social status are not socially intelligent. If you misuse or DON'T use kino, this is you. If you can't recognize an AI when it whacks you upside the head, this is you. If you don't know when to escalate, this is you.
Transfer of Status These are general principles of things that will increase your social status. If you don't have any in the first place, these -will not work-, I repeat, -will not work-. They require a steady foundation of at least moderate coolness. With that said... You Gain Status When: Your worth is recognized and appreciated The higher the social status of the person appreciating you, the more status you gain. This is key. KEY KEY KEY KEY. Get out a highlighter, use it on your computer monitor if you have to. Remember this. THIS IS WHY SOCIAL PROOF WORKS. Not only that; if you establish high value, women WILL RISK LOSING VALUE to gain your approval. They'll gamble. They'll chase you. This is also why, in those instances when you overqualify and DHV the fuck out of some poor HB7 until she locks up, you MUST qualify her. If you do not qualify her, you are obviously not recognizing and appreciating her genuine merit - there is NO REASON for someone as cool as you to take a legit interest in her. You are using her as a blow-up doll that moans. The higher your social value, the more women will want you to recognize and appreciate them. If you're a sufficiently cool PUA, women will try to snag you for an LTR _even if they're not looking for an LTR otherwise_, just for the implicit social proof you provide. This is purely social reflex. More to the point, of course, they'll hook up with you. People seek your approval When people qualify themselves to you, or visibly try to impress you, they are being TRYHARD. But what this says to someone who knows the score is that you have social value. You are worth impressing; more, to LookAtMeLikeMeDude, you are worth losing status to impress. You display competence naturally When you DHV without being tryhard, you gain cool-points. This isn't rocket science, and should not require explanation. 13
The Natural’s PUA Bible You cement someone's position beneath you There are, essentially, three ways of cementing someone's position beneath you; you can give them the carrot, give them the stick, or give them both at once. For any of these to work, you must have the social status to back them up. This doesn't create something from nothing; it broadens the divide that already exists. It's possible to display higher value than someone by being nice; if they seek your approval and you grant it, or call them 'cute' or other nice-but-diminutive-nicknames, or act - more generally - in a parental sort of way. Also included here is genuinely helpful advice, on fashion or food or PU. It's possible to display higher value than someone by being cruel; you can call them out on their flaws or their lowstatus behaviors easily enough. There is a danger, here, of seeming to snub because you envy. Envy implies uncoolness. Finally, there exists the backhanded compliment or subtle snub. You out-AMOG some guy like he's one of your best pals, and on the surface it's all in good fun, but his value plummets and yours soars. Likewise, if you neg some chick or use TD's Elastic Snapband Effect, her value -insta-drops- and because women are driven to maintain social status, she will immediately hop-to to get it back up. It's not about getting laid; the IOI, in this case, is all about value. You IMPLICITLY display social intelligence IMPLICITLY. In other words, you THINK LIKE A CHICK. You eyecode. You AMOG-destroy. You are part of the 'Secret Society'. Here I'm going to back up on everything I've implied so far and say the reverse; it's possible to explicitly display your social intelligence and make it work. HANDLE WITH CARE, though. This is DANGER, WILL ROBINSON. If you don't have the value to pull it off, you'll look like a creepy presumptuous loser. If some chick is clearly trying to qualify herself to you, or transparently DHVing, or even just struggling for your attention, you can neg-qualify her in the following manner, playfully: "It's okay, you don't have to (do that/try hard/whatever) to get my attention. See?" Throw an arm around her, kinohug her. The first time a guy did this to me, it hit me like a -bomb- of insta-hotness. By doing this, you simultaneously A) drop her value relative to yours, B) grant her attention from a position of power, and C) show you know the score. You screen If you screen people who are attracted to you, you increase your relative value. This is why women maintain that NO WOMAN EVER DELIBERATELY GETS LAID with a man who is not wildly attractive and high-status. But WE know that of course women get laid on purpose! It's not like that HB8 you did over the weekend tripped, fell, and landed on your dick. If someone CHASES you, their status is lower than yours. This is why you say, "Want to come over and look at my stamp collection?" rather than, "Want to come over and have sex?". SLUTS CHASE. Chicks with value are accustomed to screening. It's important for her to maintain the illusion that she did not INTEND to fuck you, in order to maintain her social value. A good way to display social intelligence is to understand and accommodate this. This is why explicitly acknowledging the seduction process is dangerous: if it's out on the table, out loud, that you're trying to fuck her
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The Natural’s PUA Bible and she -goes along with it anyway- she LOSES FACE because she's been UNMASKED as a co-conspirator in your getting laid. This is where chick logic comes from. I'll write another post on it, sometime.
You Lose Status When: You show outcome-dependence When you show that you are outcome-dependent, you LOSE FACE. By demonstrating outcome-dependence, you make it clear that you aren't having fun (which high-status people do, remember) - instead you are gambling your time and status in the hopes of pay-off in the form of sex with this chick who you clearly regard as COOLER THAN YOURSELF. You are acknowledging her value. She is the prize. Do not pass go. Do not collect 200 dollars. You try to buy approval You supplicate. You imply that you don't know how to legitimately display your own worth, so you need to resort to trying to buy the approval of those you are implicitly acknowledging as being higher-value than yourself. If she wasn't cooler than you, why would you care what she thought? Your position is cemented as below someone You are out-amog'd. You are treated in a diminutive way. Some chick gives you bad relationship advice and you eat it up without critical thinking. This is all explained above, in the 'gaining status' section. You chase Chasing is a _gamble_. Chasing is aggressive pursuit. It can succeed, sure - but it allows the other person, the higher-status person, the chas-ee- the ability to screen. They choose, you don't. SLUTS CHASE. Women will avoid being labelled 'sluts' at all costs because they are at the BOTTOM of the social totem-pole, with the WBAFCs. Sluts in the traditional sense are women whose need for validation is so great that they have gambled away all their buying power trying to fill it. A woman who is perceived as slutty has a hard time finding quality ass because quality ass is likely to screen _her_. She is a LAST RESORT FUCK. Not only that, but other women (and men) on their way up the social ladder will step on her, on the way. They will use her to reinforce their own superiority. The 'slut' is a lightning-rod for the 'cement someone's position as below you' method of gaining status. Sad, but true.
What this means for the PUA For the PUA, this is GREAT. This is WONDERFUL. Why is this great for the PUA? Because the PUA has -worked- for his social status, and he knows how he got it. It was not delivered by the stork along with a nice set of tits, or trim and shapely thighs and a button nose; no, he's invested field work and sweat and other bodily fluids in getting good, and he is -good-.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible Thus he can work women in ways that women are not equipped to work him. Consider the following analogy; who's better off, a self-made millionare or a lotto winnner? The self-made man! Why? Because he knows the value of his money, and how to invest it and make it grow. Some of this seems ruthless; be aware that women aren't thinking about it, when they do it. For most women, this is all pure instinct.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible Alpha Attitudes unknown author If you set up the frame that she is ALREADY attracted to you, and act in every way congruent with that frame, then it almost becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. Watch your thoughts, they become your words; Watch your words, they become your actions; Watch your actions, for they become your deeds; Watch your deeds, they become your character; Watch your character, it becomes your destiny! Always assume that she will fuck you! It's generally agreed that it's a good idea to always have a positive attitude, but take it one step further. ALWAYS ASSUME the BEST possible situation. I suppose "Make the Ho Say No" is the physical manifestation of this.
Using ASSUMPTIONS to lead her state The most important part of a PU is leading HER states, and very little has been said on this subject. The ONLY way to lay a girl is to get her to feel sexually attracted to you, but there are certain steps you have to LEAD her through to get there. If you ASSUME her state as being positive, and conductive to your being able to proceed with the PU (ie. her state is that she is attracted to you, etc.), and you ACT AS IF she ALREADY feels this way, then you can create a frame based on this perception and draw her into your reality. If you set up the frame that she is ALREADY attracted to you, and act in every way congruent with that frame, then it almost becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy. If you talk, act, kino, use body language, etc. that is completely CONGRUENT with the FACT that she wants you, if you ACT AS IF she already wants you... then she will begin to feel that way. There's a psychological term for this that I can't remember right now, but it is similar to the "fake it till you make it" idea. So, for example, let's assume that you've approached a HB and are demonstrating value, alpha characteristics, etc. as per TFM... Your PU is going well, but doubt starts to creep into your mind... "Is she attracted to me? Am I making progress?" How should you deal with this? First, break your own state and reframe the situation. Change the defeatist frame of "I'm unsure of her attraction." to the winning frame of, "She is attracted to me already." We all know to do this by now, I hope. So, how to let HER know about this new frame and draw her into your reality? Simple. ACT AS IF. Start talking to her like you would if she was attracted to you (since, in fact, in your reality she already is!). Start TOUCHING her (kino) AS IF she were already attracted to you. Start using body language that sends out signals that she is already attracted to you. Be CONGRUENT in every way with this new frame, and ESPECIALLY with KINO, and you CAN draw her into your reality.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible One great example of reframing that I can use as an analogy is Maniac's post about missing a date and REFRAMING the situ. when he called her. He did a total reversal and REFRAMED as if SHE was the one who had gotten the date time wrong. ("No, we weren't supposed to meet last night at 8:00, I have it right here in my schedule, it's tomorrow night", etc.) and made HER apologize since he had, by being confident, congruent and assertive, drawn her into his reality. You can do the same thing with ANY frame you want... use this to deal with shit tests, flakes, etc. Let me take this ANOTHER step further and relate it to the progression of her states during a PU. Here is a typical progression of the states she should go through during the PU: Approach (gain interest), Attraction, Rapport (optional), Sexual State, Close I say that Rapport is optional because experience will tell you that some girls don't even WANT to get to know you before you fuck them, although it is important in other ways.
This is KEY You can use this tool, of assuming her state, to LEAD her through these steps. Let's say that you've just approached, you are getting at LEAST signs that she is interested in you, that you've gained her attention. The NEXT logical step is attraction. You want her to feel attracted to you. So, you set that frame as if it were already true, and ACT AS IF she is attracted to you. Be confident. TOUCH her like she WANTS to be touched. (Example: Put your hands around her hips, hug her, etc... whatever you normally do AFTER you've put her in an attracted state.) Be congruent (meaning don't change your pacing too quickly, don't be apologetic if it SEEMS like she isn't into it, etc. You can TRANSITION from state to state by ASSUMING her NEXT state. If she's attracted and you're going for rapport, ASSUME rapport and act as if she's already there... and draw her into that reality... Continue this through the whole state progression, and watch your PU times get lower and lower.
PUA Aura What is the PUA aura? I've been thinking about it, and the vibe that I aim to put out. positive energy quiet confidence someone people would WANT to be around comfort in own skin pauses to build up anticipation for jokes, etc. no fear that talking slow will lose attention of girl or group no fear of "awkward pauses".. let's them linger if he wants rarely laughs at own jokes or C&F comments, while others laugh makes statements, does not ask questions until someone has earned that level of rapport totally in control with absolute security of positive end result knowing confidence/smile/breathing peaceful look, like from "Meet Joe Black", but with an ultra bad-ass 18
The Natural’s PUA Bible cocky/confident/playful an unlimited ammunition of bad-ass C&F lines ability to switch gears without warning.. "You're silly... goof.............. (change tonality to sexual) I want to see you." does not look around at other people, or look concerned or threatened by anyone else.. very much in internally-centered
Alpha scale! I think its because girls DETECT when you've HEDGED the opener and conversation with overly cocky shit, to protect yourself from rejection. It's called BOLDNESS VS. CONFIDENCE. SCALE: -MACHO GUY (overcompensates by being too bold – what most guys initially assume being “alpha” is) -GOOD GUY (doesn't qualify himself, but isn't mean to cover up – just relaxed, the TRUE “alpha”) -NICE GUY (overcompensates by being too nice) Be the good guy. A little cocky, cool sense of humour, but not trying too hard. Trying too hard to be macho/bold is beta because its overcompensating insecurities
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The Natural’s PUA Bible The Creed by Maddash
I make no excuses for my desires as a man. I move through this world without apology. I like to satisfy women. I don't need any particular woman, I am not needy. Women are abundant. I do not supplicate to women because they find it unattractive. Rejection is a good thing. The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid. I learn something every time. Every rejection becomes a brick in my palace. I do not dwell in the past. The past can not be relived, good or bad. I have a wide range of options in how I choose to react to other people. The choice is mine.
Attitude – Part 1 Desire You have to want this more than ANYTHING. If you don’t, there’s no point in going on. Confidence/Cockiness/Arrogance Confidence says – Hey, I’m something pretty special that’s worth a close look. I know this based on my preparation, skills, and past successes. Cockiness says – And I’m so confident, I can walk right up to you and have a good chance at winning you over. Oh, and while I’m a nice guy, I’m not worried about what I say to you or messing up. If you thought the ball was in your court, think again. Arrogance says – You are inferior, if you don’t give in to me, you are an idiot. Confidence is great. A little cockiness is sometimes attractive. Arrogance is not. If you present her with the Publisher’s Clearing House check and she slams the door in your face, then move on. Guess what? You still have the check in your hands! Give it to some other fine woman who appreciates it! Confidence is not something you think about, it is the way you are. It is a state of mind, a character trait. Ideally you feel so good and natural about it that the word "confidence" never pops up in your mind. The only way to develop confidence is to talk to as many HBs as possible, without any intention of PU. Talk to them, say ‘hi’, say ‘are you having fun?’, say ‘Hi, are you the sort of person I should get to know better? Yes? Why?’. Then walk away. That WILL build CONFIDENCE.
Alpha Male The alpha male is dominant. He’s not an asshole. He’s the guy who chooses women. He’s having fun and he’s confident. The alpha male isn’t a condescending jerk. Model the alpha male. What are his qualities? To me, an alpha male is: Is “The Man” 20
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Hard to please Unemotional, slightly serious. Gives smiles and laughs as rewards. Talks slowly, deliberately. Enunciates. Doesn’t ask for things. Is not afraid that others might not like him. Yet, is likable. Is busy … … and ends conversations, dates, etc. They are not ended for him. Is comfortable hanging with hot women. outgoing uninhibited forward risk-taking Motivated to pick up The alpha male doesn’t ask permission. And he doesn’t give options.
Persistence Keep trying. If you give up easy, this isn’t for you. You are moving forward on the path to Fulfillment. The only reason you are moving forward is because you are trying. Mistakes mean nothing in the end! If she rejects you, she has taught you something. There is no failure, only learning. Try multiple girls, you will get blown out. Keep working on the same one until you crash and burn, then NEXT her. But remember: persistence = desire = strength stalking = neediness = weakness. Work every day at this!
Patience Keep trying. There will be plenty of failures. You are pushing past the edge of your comfort zone. You are living 100%, unlike most guys out there who have learned “their place”. Never think about how long it will take. Do not worry about results. Just keep pushing past the edge, and the edge will move farther and farther away. One day you will be a different person.
Humility Don’t hold on to your bad habits out of pride or a need to be right. Take criticism graciously and if it’s valid, accept it. Think! If something isn’t working for you, analyze why and try to find the right solution. Try again until you get it or find a good reason to give it up. Awareness 21
The Natural’s PUA Bible Watch her reactions to your words and body language. What is she feeling? What is her body language saying? What are the feelings behind the facts she presents to you?
Attitude – Part 2 Humor, Playfulness, Fun and Comfort You should be in a relaxed state – have fun with the pickup. Just talk to her, don’t be anxious or edgy or force things. Your sense of humor will rub off. You are going to get blown out a LOT. Get used to it. Enjoy it. Collectedness Never get stressed out, discombobulated or worried that things aren't going right or perfect. Always remain calm, relaxed and reactive in positive way to any challenges. Always act in a slow, calm, powerful manner. Don’t react when she gets mad, just smile and chill out for awhile while she steams. When you talk to her again, just keep smiling, don’t act like a dick, but don’t supplicate to her either. If you didn’t do anything wrong, then there’s no need to apologize for anything. Imagine One day, you will have your choice of the women that you desire. Imagine this day, savor the feeling, feel the confidence flowing through you, and then see yourself picking up beautiful women. At the same time, forgetting what confidence is, forgetting the “rules”, not thinking about it – just doing it. Cajones All of this means nothing if you don’t go out there every day and try it. Try again and again. Have fun with it, just play around. The people around you aren’t looking down at you – they are envious of you, that you are so outgoing and free. They wish they could do what you are doing. Imagine yourself picking up a girl in a restaurant in front of 10 astonished people! Diamonds and Gold Women like diamonds (romance, dinners, etc). Men like Gold (sex). If two people come together, and she demands all the diamonds and never gives any gold, then he’s going to walk away unhappy. Same goes for her. So never give the diamonds without getting some gold in return. The Law of Requisite Variety If Person A has X reactions to a situation and Person B has X+1 reactions, Person B will control the situation. Therefore you must anticipate as many reactions to your routine as possible, in order to guide the outcome of the situation. NEXT should be the very last resort when you are stumped. Basics – Part 1 Smile Practice smiling. Find other alpha males and emulate the way that they smile at women. Smile at crowds. Most guys walk around in a crowd with scowls on their faces, or at best, a blank stare. Think about it – if you are the alpha male, if you have your choice of women in the crowd, you are going to be a pretty happy guy. On the other hand, don’t take it too far. Your smile should be animated and definitely not constant. Don’t freeze it on your face.
Tonality Way too many guys have monotone voices, speak too quietly, or too quickly.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible Practice slowing down your voice, inserting interesting pauses in your sentences. Practice talking less but saying more. Practice slightly modifying the tone of your voice up or down (slightly is the key word here). Know what you are going to say before you say it. Don’t say Um.
Kino Stage 1 of kino is using your hands to briefly touch her to establish rapport and intimacy. Be gentle, don’t grope your target. This is best taught by example … I like to start off a story by saying something like … “oh, get this (tap her gently on the shoulder) … the funniest thing happened to me today…” Practice timing your light brushes with the emotions you raise in your routines. If you mention sex in a story (“and so-and-so said to her, what if I were to kiss you right here?”) then touch her in a certain spot. This is anchoring an emotion to a peculiar touch. Later, you can touch her there to induce the emotion (works better over time). Mystery likes to brush a woman’s hair with his hand. Style likes to grab the back of their neck and put his fingers through her hair (later stage, if you do this 2 minutes after meeting a girl, it will generally get you in trouble. Unless you are Style.) Stage 2 is push and pull kino. This is where you put your hand around her waist and gently push her away to “punish” her (for example, if she gives you a shit test) and pull her in to “reward” her for good behavior. This is very subtle stuff, but you can practice it for weeks and never stop learning new things.
Other stuff: Touch as much as possible. When greeting a girl for a date, you MUST get a kiss on the cheek and a hug. Push and Pull her. Rock her. Push as a subtle neg/retreat. Pull her close. Eye Contact This was very tough for me to learn. Go out, and practice making and sustaining eye contact with strangers. It is very unnatural at first. Some women seem born with an innate ability to stare down a stranger. Practice until you can out-stare a strange girl at a bar. Don’t creep anyone out. Staring should be seductive, interesting, light and playful. The eyes convey emotion. EC is not merely a mechanical exercise. Again, this is something that is best learned by watching someone who is good at it for a few minutes. Always make eye contact, except when discussing something “bad”, like her boyfriend. Maintain eye contact until she looks away. She must smile, or say hello, or look away. Mirror Mirroring builds rapport, but takes a little practice to seem natural. Watch boyfriends and girlfriends in conversation and notice how they mirror each other. Practice mirroring. One key mirroring move is to notice the direction that your target’s feet are facing when they are talking to you. If her feet are facing 90 degrees, there’s no rapport. As you involve her in conversation, her feet and toes (and thus, her body) will begin to point in your direction. If you have her completely facing you, that’s an IOI. This becomes a more advanced trick later. When talking to your girl, use kino to shift her body towards you and keep on with your routine. This will suddenly shift her into rapport with you. I do this when I read a girl’s palm … “oh sure, I can read your palm” (grab her far hand with one of mine and pull it over, turning her towards me) … “oh, it says you’re a virgin, is that right?” (stupid joke disguises fact that I removed the body block and opened her up to rapport).
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The Natural’s PUA Bible Stay Sober Drinking dulls your edge and makes you appear stupid. Cultivate an outgoing, charming, and humorous personality while sober. More than one drink generally doesn’t help. It will bring down inhibitions, but too quickly leads to sloppiness of body and mind. If you just want to drink with the boys, then don’t try to PU at the same time.
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Supplication Supplication literally means to humbly ask for something. Avoid supplicating to women. The best way to have her fulfill her requests is to influence her so that she wants to do them. Once you demonstrate to a woman that she can manipulate you, she loses all sexual attraction for you and designates you as a pawn. Hand in hand with this is apologizing. Rarely apologize for your actions.
Never Argue Arguing is unattractive. Find ways to agree with what she says. If she’s disagreeable, punish her with a takeaway or a NEG. If she continues to be disagreeable, find another set. Your Problems Don’t bring up your problems, it’s unattractive. Almost as important, don’t discuss her problems with her – if you discuss her problems, you become one of them. Be Vague and Mysterious Women respond positively to the Unknown. Do not reveal too much about yourself!!! Avoid answering questions about work, age, your astrological sign, even your name for as along as possible. She will fill the details in with her most desired traits. Respond with a smile. Anchoring This is advanced Kino. Watch for the emotions you are eliciting in her. When she’s happy, touch her on the elbow. When she’s horny, touch her on the knee. When she’s excited, touch her neck. Do this three times for each spot. Then the feeling is anchored there. You can also anchor with verbal expressions (see “So how much do you like me NOW?”) Embedded Commands/Patterns You might not make use of this for awhile, but you need to know what it is for when you’re ready. As stated above in “Supplication”, never explain yourself or try to convince a woman of anything. Instead, embed what you want them to think/feel about you in your speech. Sometimes, it is indirect (“so if you were to meet an ambitious, successful guy who respects you and treats you like a princess, then you would get pretty turned on, huh?”), sometimes direct (“So you think I’m pretty funny, you keep laughing at what I say. So then, you must think I’m pretty interesting, too?”). 24
The Natural’s PUA Bible Patterns can be quite powerful and if done properly, she will end up internalizing what you tell her. A sign of success is when she repeats your phrases back to you, sometimes days later. This is related somewhat to suggestive speech, such as poetry and short stories.
NEGs A NEG is not an insult. It is a statement intended to subtly undermine her self-esteem while covering your tracks with a grudging compliment. You are teasing her. The effect is to show disinterest. Smile when you give NEG her. This works amazingly well on 9’s and 10’s. It doesn’t work so well on 7’s and 8’s and should be generally avoided with them. NEG’ing takes some practice to know when and how much to do it. Everyone makes mistakes and blows sets doing it, but after awhile you’ll get great at it. NEG her if: She has a bitch shield She is incredibly hot Her interest level is dropping off These are all good NEGS if she starts testing you: “I bet you have a real cute side somewhere. You just don't show it..” When she responds to something, say, "Oh, so you're one of THOSE...." (Afterwards, you can say "now I see what I'm dealing with.") If she resists this neg, use the NL9 line: "Oh, so then you are one of those people who don't like to be categorized." “Are those nails real? No. Well they still look good, I guess.” “Is that your real hair? It looks neat, it’s like a waffle.” “Weren’t you wearing that dress the last time you were here?” (if she answers no, then: oh, must’ve been some other girl them. Looks better on you though!) “Oh … sick … you just spit on me!” “You blink a lot” “Look … your nose wiggles when you talk … that’s really cute!” “I don’t think we should get to know each other.” “Why?” “You are just too nice of a girl for me.” “Do you find that your bitchy behavior makes people like you more?" These are good negs that are safer to use on 8’s. They are meant to tease her a little. I think I loved you *pause* before you turned out to be such a freak. (smile) I like you better when your silent!(smile) For such a pretty girl you sure are mentally disoriented! Or if she is talking about something I pretend I’m searching for something on her body. Then if she goes : "what? " I say : where is your button so I can shut you off.. you are silly (with a smile). Don't you think we are going to get married young lady if you keep on being so silly. Dumb NEGS: When I see her I go like "oh no! not her again" (and pretend I don't want to see her) (Everyone does this one, avoid it. I’m just mentioning it so you don’t do it) BIG NEGS: (Use in case of emergency only): Well, at least you’re lucky enough to have a good body.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible No really, I’ve seen uglier girls. So are you a bitch to everybody, or just people cooler than you? So are you drunk or just plastered? Remember: the purpose of a neg is not to insult. It is to show disinterest by being inadvertently critical, while at the same time demonstrating a good personality. It is teasing, flirting. These are not NEGs: “Bitch” “Lesbian”
Challenge Provide a challenge for women... this is very important. Just like men, women need challenge and they need to feel like they are working for something. It increases your value in her eyes if she's had to work hard to get you and to keep you. (Thanks in10se) Scarcity Scarcity increases value. Don’t answer every phone call, don’t see her every day, don’t be available every day. Be busy and unavailable, let her wonder what you are doing! Jealousy Never ever show jealousy. Encourage her to talk to other guys. Tell her that “you two” would make a cute couple in a trailer somewhere. Ask if you can come to the wedding and laugh. If you begin to get jealous, she has a hook into you that she can control you with! This is a very dangerous thing with a 10. Good Luck, guys. Remember this is about rebuilding your personality and becoming a better person than who you are today. 75% character + 25% tactics.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible The truth about women revealed unknown author I wasn't a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant. I grew up watching Disney cartoons, I believed in romance and "true love conquers all" etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, "for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer" etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are "liberated" (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser instincts) this is mostly no longer possible in today's society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible. I'd like to point out that I am not a misogynist...I love women. But I AM a sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well. I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well-adjusted, good-looking (8+ on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and welladjusted as women can be - most women have issues.) But that's not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach.) Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to women on the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes, I can usually have sex with them right there in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn't flake, I WILL fuck her that next day. Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn't change in the slightest if she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won't feel guilty when I fuck her because now it's "my fault." Sometimes she hides it from me until after I've fucked her, then she admits it. I can't tell you how many times I've been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her phone rings and she's on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most - loyalty - is just not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women don't say "word is bond;" women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That's why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc. I must be really good looking, right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I'm maybe a 7. I don't work out (though I'm not fat or anything.) In fact I didn't have any success with women until I was in my early 20's. That's when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid... I was willing to face rejection a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn't get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then. Then pretty often. Then downright consistently! I'm in my early 30's now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn't have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have license to be rude bitches in social
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The Natural’s PUA Bible situations... in fact I understand and appreciate that behavior now.) But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyone's wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn't know they had a man until after I fucked them. Look, I'm not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. I'm just saying, I've spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I hate knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there's really no going back. I didn't want to believe these things... but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate the dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents...but I could *never* vote for a woman to be president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later. Here's an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman's having sex, doesn't that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn't men be having just as much sex as women? NO...because most men hardly get laid, or if they do, it's because they "got lucky." But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! It's evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions.) Women want the top man...so the top man fucks lots of women. That's right - the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! Heh. You might say, "But...but...I'm so nice! I'm a nice guy!" Guess what? That's like a fat chick saying, "But I'm so smart!" As if those things have anything in the world to do with sexual attraction! I'm going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of dollars on all those whores out there without getting any play. (You bitches know exactly what you're doing, and I'm on to your game!) Don't be sexually judgmental in any way. A woman's worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't find out.) Don't get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to trust that you can handle that. It's ok (and necessary) to occasionally put your foot down...just make sure she knows you are fully in control of yourself. Don't let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It's just like dancing - women hate a man who can't lead. When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something from them - like sex. (And they're right.) It's important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly don't believe you want something from them. They should feel like you are about to leave at any second.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible DON'T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don't show off. Don't talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest. Don't ignore her friends. A woman values her friend's opinions more than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this way! Women are very different!) To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Don't just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching you...playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that "I can't believe you just said that" look, do NOT back down, do not say "Oh I'm just kidding" or anything like that. As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don't take it seriously by giving it some logical answer! That's right...women lose interest if you take them seriously!!! It's crazy but that's how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what she's saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head will spin. She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if you've kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Don't make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I'm shy or insecure about something. I know it's fucked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect. Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Women don't like to feel like you are with them only because you can't do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know. Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the better. Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn't have to feel like it was "her fault." Make it YOUR fault. Make it "just happen." She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don't get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in. BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or not... because that is the logical thing to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)... because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically 'impart' to the chick! One more thing...many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don't listen to them, THEY DON'T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed. If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock star. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to fuck them and then dump them on their ass - because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That's why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to fuck them and dump them - because those are the men that they gravitate to. Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their shit. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will cheat on him with an exciting fun guy like me. (But who wants to fuck some old chick in her 30's? That's what beta males are for! Heh) Hey, don't blame me - I didn't make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do :-)
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The Natural’s PUA Bible Razorjack’s Natural Method Wassup Playas! Before I go on to the way I look at the Art of PU and seduction. There's a couple of things I want to get across. Will this method work for everyone? I have no idea, I've never taught it to any one, I just know that it works for me. This method is something I developed for myself after alot of field experience, crash & burns and trial & error. But I do believe it can work for anyone because the implementation of the Razorjack Method is conformed to the PUAs personality and set of beliefs. Is Razorjack Method a unique method? I think so, or maybe it isn't but I haven't found anything like it. Judge for yourself. Background: I am what I would call a semi-natural PUA. In my pre-ASF days I had decent success, I was getting my share of the action but I wasn't getting it consistently. I mainly relied on my looks and although I could get lots of 7s and a few 8s, 9s and 10s were pretty much impossible. After I discovered ASF, I tried and failed miserably with SS. MM worked fairly well but I was getting alot of flakes. Now don't get me wrong, it wasn't MM that was getting me flakes, it was my implementation of it. I just couldn't keep track of all the steps, the state the target was in, when I should go into the next step, etc. Again this has nothing to do with MM, I'm sure it's a great method. It's just that I'm an impatient bastard and it was taking me too long. :) I also tried Juggler's method and GWM, but neither of them felt like a complete method. Again, it has nothing to do with Juggler's method or GWM, it was my implementation of it. I think a big reason why I couldn't use these methods was because I'd never seen them in real life, only read about them and tried them out in the field the way I thought they were supposed to be used. Another reason why I decided to find a method that was suited to my own personality and set of beliefs was the realization that I could never be as good as Ross Jeffries, Mystery, Juggler or Gunwitch using their methods. So after analyzing my game (or lack of game :)) and ALOT of soul searching I came up with Razorjack Method.
I. Razorjack Method - Introduction: The Razorjack Method is more a set of beliefs and a frame of mind than an actual structured method. This is because I think the Art of PU and seduction is fluid and dynamic rather than structured. Even though you will see similarities from one PU to another they're never completely the same because not every person is the same. That is why as a PUA you must be fluid, dynamic and adaptable to the situation. It is then this set of beliefs and frame of mind that actually steers the PU/sarge/seduction. I found that the biggest advantage of the Razorjack Method is that it helps the PUA think beyond the PU and once you start to think beyond the PU, the close/sex is no longer a big deal, it's just a matter of fact. This may be hard to grasp, but try to think of it like this metaphor: Suppose you want to raise you annual salary by $10,000. Now $10,000 sounds like a lot, but it's only half of $20,000. So if you aim for $20,000 and work hard to get it then $10,000 doesn't seem like such a big deal any more. Another advantage I found was that Razorjack Method is not bound to a linear set of steps. This can also be a disadvantage, but the advantage is that the PU/sarge/seduction becomes very dynamic, fluid and spontaneous. 31
The Natural’s PUA Bible Using this method I've had sarges that were like 5 hours of talking before the close, I've had one sarge that could only be described as GWM on the dance floor where I didn't say more than 10 words before the close, another sarge where I didn't talk to the target more than 5min but kinoed her for 1 hour while talking to her friend before closing, etc. One more thing before I get into the actual method: Razorjack Method is not for beginners, armchair seductionists or PU theorists. Razorjack Method requires that you have some field experience, a decent PU toolbox and that you have a good idea about who you are as a person.
II. Razorjack Method - The Mindset Like mentioned previously, Razorjack Method is more a set of beliefs and a frame of mind than an actual structured method. So let's get started! Imagine that you work for an elite fashion model agency. It's your job to go out and recruit new talent, tomorrow's top female supermodels. Ok I know you're getting a hard on now, but try and pay attention. :) Ok, now your office is full of hot women that would be willing to do anything for you just so you would pick them. When you are trying to discover the next supermodel how would you act in front of all the hot candidates in your office? Do you think you would have to ask for sex or would it just come as part of the job? Would you go around trying to impress the candidates or is it the candidates' job to try and impress you? Knowing that there are 200 hot and willing women in the room, would you try and come up with some clever sneaky way to sex one of the candidates or would you just tell her "let's go"? I know you're thinking that this would be a dream scenario and impossible for ordinary guys. I agree, it would require a tremendous amount of luck to get a job like that. But it doesn't require anything to adopt that frame of mind. This is the core essence of Razorjack Method. Those model candidates would flock to the recruiting agent because he is the only one who could give them what they've dreamed of. Razorjack Method is based on the idea that the PUA KNOWS he has something of such rare quality that women would flock to him without hesitation. If you don't believe you have anything of such rare quality than you should stop right here, Razorjack Method is not for you. You'd be better off with one of the other methods.
III. Razorjack Method - Implementation So what is this rare quality that I'm referring to? Well I can't tell you, only you can answer this. Remember earlier where I mentioned that my method is conformed by the PUA to his set of beliefs and personality, well this is it. This is not easy, it takes time and alot of soul-searching. You have to find out exactly what your beliefs are, what your best and worst qualities are, what your reality is, etc. This is a lot harder than it sounds, because as humans we tend to change and evolve. OK, now that I've filled your head with plenty of abstract information, let me explain what my rare quality is and how I acquired it(at this moment in time, it may change sometime in the future): In order for me to find out what kind of person I am, I had to ask myself some questions. I suggest anyone wanting to learn Razorjack Method do the same and be COMPLETELY honest here, DO NOT MENTAL MASTURBATE! 1. Why would any chick want me? (Make a list here explaining why) 32
The Natural’s PUA Bible 2. What do I have that she would want? (Make a list here with all your qualities) 3. What am I willing to give a chick that I want? (Make a list of things that YOU like doing and that you know chicks would also enjoy) 4. How would I treat a chick that I let into my life? (Make a list of the special treatment a chick can get from you if you let her into your world) 5. Are the qualities I have valuable to me? (I hope you can answer, yes, b/c if they're valuable to you then they can also be valuable to others) 6. Knowing that I have these special qualities (from question #2), who is the most important person in my life? (You should know the answer to this one) 7. Now that I know how special I am, who would get more out of a PU, me or the chick? 8. Knowing that the chick would have a lot more to gain than me out of an interaction, would ANY and ALL chicks be lucky to have me in their lives? 9. Knowing that ANY chick would be lucky to have me in their life, if she doesn't realize this then is there something wrong with me or is this particular chick too stupid to realize just how lucky she is? 10. Knowing that I'm as valuable as a Ferrari on the car market, do I need to convince anyone to drive a Ferrari or does the Ferrari sell it self? If this chick doesn't realize how lucky she is, do I need to convince her she's making a mistake or do I give the 11 hotter chicks, standing behind her (that would LOVE to have me in their life), a chance? 11. Now that I have something valuable for EVERY women in the world, what qualities should she have in order for me to let her in my life? (make a list of the qualities you want in a woman) 12. What are the rules people have to follow in order to stay a part of my life?(make a list of the rules women or anyone for that matter must follow in order to have you in their lives) There are probably 1000 more questions to list here, but you get the idea. I found out that I am a very generous person towards people that I feel deserve my generosity. So my mindset is that I am giving a rare gift to any woman I PU. I know what you're thinking: "well what the hell is your rare gift, Razorjack?" Well since I'm a generous person, here it is: My rare gift is my reality, my world. My reality consists of free love to any one I let in. This includes not just good sex, but incredible sex where I would actually like to make a woman's fantasy come true. In my reality there is mutual respect. No one is judged or accused in my reality, this means that women are free to tell me their most erotic fantasies without me accusing them of being sluts or perverts. I love to pleasure and spoil women, like giving sensual massages and cooking romantic dinners for them. I love being intimate with women, doesn't just have to be sex. I love to make women feel good. I will always listen and try to help the women in my world whenever they would need it. I genuinely care for and love all the women in my life. They can get love and intimacy from me whenever they want (if I have free time). Just like in the real world, there are rules in my reality. I don't let just anyone in, women have to qualify in order to enter my world. I will not tolerate manipulation or disrespect by anyone in my world. Violation of these and other rules will result in first a warning and then being ejected out of my world if violations persist. It only took a few minutes to type my reality in to the computer, but it took me several months of constant 24/7 soul-searching to figure out what my reality is. Now I don't know if you see it, but to me this gift is priceless. What woman would not want this for her self?
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The Natural’s PUA Bible IV. Razorjack Method - Three Step "Structure" This is a PU structure or steps that I follow but it's kept very general in order for the PU to remain fluid and dynamic. Step 1: Project your Reality Mastering this step will probably take more time than mastering the others but you only have to do it once. Once you've mastered this step, the sarge becomes so much easier and the rest of the steps flow smoothly and effortlessly. This step consists of basically adopting the mindset discussed earlier. You have to really believe that you have a rare gift/quality that has incredible value to all women. Once you start to KNOW it then you'll notice a HUGE improvement in your game. Knowing that you have a rare quality/gift will change your attitude, posture, body language, etc and you'll never supplicate again. Believe me women will also notice this. Step 2: Give the Target "a sneak peak" of YOUR Reality This is where you invite the target into your reality for a sneak preview of what it would be like to be with you. This step is really easy. If you've done the soul-searching than you know what qualities you have and what things are important to you. This is what you talk about with her. Now you have an endless amount of topics to discuss with your target. Inviting the target into your reality doesn't have to be verbal either, it could be with your body language, your attitude, the way you dance, whatever. This is what keeps the PU fluid and dynamic. Step 3: Qualify the Target This is where you qualify the target to find out if she meets the requirements you listed in question #10. During this step is usually when she'll start to ask me questions or wanting rapport as we say on mASF. The way I do it is I giver her more and more rapport as she meets more and more of my qualifications. V. Razorjack Method - Utilization This section will deal with how you use the mindset to tackle real world PU problems. Like I stated earlier the mindset is what steers the PU/sarge/interaction. A. Openers: Openers really don't matter, if you consider that the chick is lucky that you even approached her. Open with whatever and move on. Remember that you're giving her a chance to prove that she's worthy enough to have you in her life. B. Attitude, Body Language, Alphaness, etc: If you truly believe that you are valuable and have special qualities then it will ooze out of every pore of your being. It's like the difference between a rusty Buick and a brand new Ferrari. The Ferrari, even with the engine turned off just screams AWESOME. If you were selling a rusty old Buick then you would need to push that car onto to others in order to convince them to buy it. If you're selling a Ferrari, you don't need to convince anyone that the Ferrari is an awesome car, people not only can see it, they KNOW it. You need to be that Ferrari! C. Topics of discussion: A lot of newbies here ask "What should I talk about?" You know what you're values are, what your reality is, what your world is, what you're looking for in a woman, etc. This is an endless pool of resources for discussion topics. D. Attraction: I don't use push/pull or any other attraction tactics, I believe the reality I'm projecting does all the attraction for me. I use a bit of C & F and C & P but in very small amounts. I just happen to be a good-looking guy, so maybe this
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E. Rapport, Trust & Comfort, Connection building, etc: There's been a lot of debate on this issue. I personally just assume rapport, trust & comfort, etc. I don't think about this at all. I know that I'm a trustworthy and reliable person and that any chick would be lucky to be with me. I'll answer what she wants to know about me if she meets my qualifications. So I see no need to worry about this part. F. Shit tests: This is the part of the sarge I enjoy the most, but I don't get that many shit tests anymore, since I started using my method. Whenever I do get a "shit test" I pretty much blow it out of the water. Again it's all steered by my mindset. IMO if a chick is "shit testing" me then she either doesn't believe that I'm the REAL DEAL or she needs a reason to allow herself to be attracted to me. The way I pass "shit tests" is real simple. If I have an answer to her shit test then I'll answer it. For example: HB: Don't think I'm going to have sex with you tonight. RJ: We've been talking for about 5 minutes and you're already thinking about sex? (said playfully) Wow you must really be attracted to me! (evil grin) BTW I don't have sex with just any chick, she has to qualify first. Here is where I would talk about sex and start to qualify her. If it's "shit test" that I don't have an answer to then I'll do anything from a takeaway, to flirting with other chicks or just down right ignore the shit like it's completely beneath me to answer stupid questions from a silly girl.
G. AMOG destroying: This is also another part of the sarge that I really enjoy. What's funny is that since I reached the PUA level with my method, I almost never get an AMOG disrupting my sarge. It's almost like they know I'll blow them out before they even get their game going. It's all about remembering how rare your qualities are and how valuable that is to the chicks. If we use the car analogy again, it's like you selling your Ferrari and have the customer completely interested, then some used car salesman comes and tells your customer to buy a kit car Ferrari look-alike imitation with no warrantee or guarantee of quality. It would be beneath you to even compete against the used car salesman, because you have 10 other prospecting customers standing in line waiting to buy your Ferrari. With this in mind, my preferred method of AMOG destroying is to befriend the AMOG as soon as he comes in and before he even gets his game started, I'll start to flirt with other chicks and give the target the impression that I'll leave her ass for someone else if she even gives the AMOG the slightest bit of attention. The chick will blow out the AMOG almost immediately. Any of the AMOG destroyers on this forum will also work.
H. LMR, ASD: I never get problems with LMR and ASD anymore. Again I think it has to do with my mindset. I realize that I am so valuable and complete the way I am that I don't NEED sex. It's not a numbers game for me anymore. I don't see the chicks as sluts or sex objects, so I'll never treat them like sluts, matter of fact they know that they can be as slutty as they want around me and I'll only enjoy it, never judge them. I never rush the sarge, so the chicks know that I don't need them when I have others that are willing to be with me. Matter of fact they know that they need me more than I need them. So no LMR or ASD.
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The Natural’s PUA Bible I covered everything I could think of, but I'm blind to a lot of details and really suck at explaining PU theory because I am somewhat of a natural. If there's anything that's unclear just ask and I'll try to explain it as best I can. Comments, feedback, and flaming :) is always welcome. -Razorjack
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