Dominant/Submissive Contract
I ____________, hereinafter referred to as submissive, do of my own free will, and being of sound mind and body, do hereby offer myself in consensual submission to ____________, hereinafter referred to as Master, for the period beginning at midnight on ____________ and ending at midnight on ______________.
This agreement may be terminated at any time before the above named date by either party only in the event of breach of contract. On the above named date this agreement will be reviewed, negotiated and rewritten or terminated. 1.0 submissive The submissive agrees to submit completely to the Master in all ways. There are no boundaries of place, time, or situation in which the submissive may willfully refuse to obey the directive of the Master without risking punishment, except in situations where the submissive's veto (see 1.1) applies. The submissive also agrees that, once entered into the Contract, their body belongs to their Master; to be used as seen fit, within the guidelines defined herein. All of the submissive's possessions likewise belong to the Master to do with as they see fit. Including, but not restricted to; all assets, finances and material goods. The submissive agrees to please the Master to the best of their ability, in that they now exist solely for the pleasure of said Master. The submissive will have their hair washed and brushed in the style Master prefers at all times. The submissive agrees to wear any and all clothing Master picks. The submissive agrees to answer any and all questions asked by Master freely, promptly, and to the best of their knowledge. They further agree to volunteer any information that Master should know regarding their physical or emotional state. Master agrees to never use this information to harm them in any way. The submissive agrees to address Master as "Sir" or "Master" unless otherwise directed. They agree to speak respectfully to Master at all times, including times not spent in a scene. Master may address the submissive in any way they so choose.
1.1 submissive's veto The submissive, where appropriate, holds veto power over any command given by the Master, at which time they may rightfully refuse to obey that command. This power may only be invoked under the following circumstances, or other circumstances agreed on by both Master and submissive: · Where said command conflicts with any existing laws and may lead to fines, arrest, or prosecution of the submissive. · Where said command may cause extreme damage to submissive's life. Such as losing their job, causing family stress, etc. ·Where said command may cause permanent bodily harm (see 4.0) to the submissive. ·Where said command may cause psychological trauma to the submissive (i.e.: a rape scene for a submissive that has been raped in the past.) 2.0 The Master The Master accepts the responsibility of the submissive’s body and worldly possessions, to do with as they see fit, under the provisions determined in this contract. The Master agrees to care for the submissive, to arrange for the safety and well-being of the submissive, as long as they own them. The Master also accepts the commitment to treat the submissive properly, to train, punish, care for the submissive, and use them as they see fit. Master agrees to learn what excites the submissive through exploration and communication and try to incorporate this into the relationship. Master agrees to furnish the submissive with a symbolic token of ownership. The submissive agrees to wear this symbol at all times, except when Master states to do so would be inappropriate or would non-contractually involve others. Master accepts full responsibility of the submissive. This includes but is not limited to their: survival, health, physical well-being, and mental well-being. 3.0 Scenes The submissive accepts full responsibility for informing Master of any real or perceived dangers or safety concerns, but also states that Master's decision will be final regarding these issues, with the proper explanation. Master agrees that the submissive will not be punished for respectfully stating these concerns. Master further agrees to listen to their concerns with a clear and open mind. Master shall endeavor not to inflict physical harm upon the submissive which might require the attention of someone outside relationship. The submissive agrees to accept the responsibility of using a safe word when necessary. They acknowledge that safe word is "________" and safe signal is "________". Master accepts the responsibility of assessing situations where the submissive calls safe word and will, to the best of
their ability, stop the activity entirely. Master agrees not to punish them for the use of a safe word. Thereafter the situation will be discussed calmly between Master and the submissive, find the problem and mediate a solution. Master agrees to furnish all toys such as vibrators, etc. and punishment implements such as crops and whips. The submissive agrees to clean and maintain all toys, have them available for Master's use at all times, and inform Master of any needed repairs or replacements. The Master and submissive will discuss and write out their soft and hard limits. They both agree to never violate these limits without prior negotiation or consent of the other. (Found in appendix). At the end of the play Master will remember the aftercare for both of them; it is an important part of a scene and will conclude play. (Link in the description of a good reference for aftercare.) 4.0 Punishment The submissive agrees and understands that any infractions of this agreement, or any act they commit which displeases Master, will result in punishment. The submissive will gracefully accept punishment and try to learn from it. They agree to assemble the punishment materials as ordered by Master and assume any position needed to accept the punishment. They understand that failure to comply with Master's orders will result in a more severe punishment. Master will inform slave that they are being punished when punishment occurs. Master will explain the reason for punishment either before, during, or following punishment. Master agrees to discipline only out of a desire to better the slave, and further agrees to never punish out of, or during, feelings of anger. 4.1 Rules of Punishment Punishment of the submissive is subject to certain rules designed to protect the slave from intentional abuse or permanent bodily harm (see 4.2). Punishment must not incur permanent bodily harm, or the following forms of abuse: 1. Blood may not be drawn at any time. Punishment must stop immediately if blood is drawn 2. Burning the body 3. Drastic loss of circulation 4. Causing internal bleeding 5. Loss of consciousness 6. Withholding of any necessary materials, such as food, water, or sunlight for extended periods of time.
4.2 Permanent Bodily Harm Since the body of the submissive now belongs to the Master, it is the Master's responsibility to protect that body from permanent bodily harm. Should the submissive ever come to permanent bodily harm during the course of punishment or in any other related activity, whether by intention or accident, it will be grounds for immediate termination of this contract, should they so desire. Permanent bodily harm shall be determined as: ·Death ·Any damage that involves loss of mobility or function, including broken bones. ·Any permanent marks on the skin, including scars, burns, or tattoos, unless accepted by the submissive. ·Any loss of hair, unless accepted by the submissive. ·Any piercing of the flesh which leaves a permanent hole, unless accepted by the submissive. ·Any diseases that could result in any of the above results, including sexually transmitted diseases. 5.0 Others The submissive may not seek any other Master or lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the Master's permission; to do so will be considered a breach of contract, and will result in extreme punishment. The Master may accept other submissives or lovers, but must consider the submissive's emotional response to such actions and act accordingly. Under no circumstance should the Master allow such actions to unbalance the submissive emotionally, or allow such actions to result in ignoring the submissive. The Master may give the submissive to other Masters, provided that the submissive agrees and the rules of this contract are upheld. In such a situation, the Master will inform the new Master of the provisions stated herein, and any breach by the new Master will be considered a breach by the Master as well, subject to all rules stated in this contract.
6.0 Secrecy All physical evidence of the agreement will be kept in total secrecy, except where both Master and submissive agree. Any violation of this clause shall be cause to terminate this contract, should the injured party wish it. The materials and physical evidence shall be kept under lock and key in a place acceptable to both parties. 7.0 Alteration and Termination of Contract This contract may not be altered, except when both Master and submissive agree. If the contract is altered, the new contract shall be printed and signed, and then the old contract must be destroyed. This contract may be terminated at any time by the Master or the submissive. Upon termination, all physical evidence of the agreement, including this contract, will be destroyed, and all materials and belongings shall belong to the Master, to be shared or kept as they see fit. The submissive, owning nothing and having agreed to give up all worldly possessions and body to the Master, shall once again own their body, but nothing else, unless the Master decides to give back their possessions.
Submissive's Signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to give everything I own to my Master, and further accept their claim of ownership over my physical body. I understand that I will be commanded and trained and punished as a slave, and I promise to be true and to fulfill the pleasures and desires of my master to the best of my abilities. I further understand that I can withdraw from this contract at any time. Name: _________________________ Signature: ______________________ Date: __________________________
Master's Signature
I have read and fully understand this contract in its entirety. I agree to accept this submissive as my property, body and possessions, and to care for them to the best of my ability. I shall provide for their security and well-being and command them, train them, and punish them as a submissive. I understand the responsibility implicit in this arrangement, and agree that no harm shall come to them as long as they are mine. I further understand that I can withdraw from this contract at any time. Name: ________________ Signature: _____________ Date: _________________
---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------BEGINNING OF SENSITIVE CONTENT. THE APPENDIX WAS PUT TOGETHER TO HELP GET IDEAS OF WHAT WOULD BE A KINK, SOFT LIMIT OR HARD LIMIT.
APPENDIX Possible Limits:
-Age Play
-Anal Sex
-Anal plugs
-Arm & leg sleeves (arm binders)
-Aromas
-Asphyxiation
-Beating (soft)
-Blindfolding
-Being bitten
-Breath control
-Breast bondage
-Branding
-Breast whipping
-Cages (locked inside)
-Caning
-Chains
-Chastity belts
-Chauffeuring
-Choking
-Clothespins
-Cock worship
-Collars (worn in private)
-Competitions (with other subs)
-Cuffs (leather)
-Cuffs (metal)
-Dildos
-Double Penetration
-Erotic Dance (for Master)
-Examinations (physical)
-Exercise (forced/required)
-Eye contact restrictions
-Face Slapping
-Fantasy Abandonment
-Fantasy rape
-Fear (being scared)
-Fisting (vaginal)
-Following orders
-Forced masturbation
-Forced nudity (private)
-Forced Servitude
-Gags
-Hair brush spankings
-Hair pulling
-Hand Jobs (giving)
-Harems (serving w/other subs)
-Harnessing (leather)
-Harnessing (rope)
-Having food chosen for you
-Having clothing chosen for you
-High Heel Wearing
-Hoods
-Housework (doing)
-Human puppy dog
-Humiliation (private)
-Hypnotism
-Ice cubes
-Immobilization
-Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage
-Kidnapping
-Kneeling
-Leather Clothing
-Leather restraints
-Lectures for misbehavior
-Licking (non-sexual)
-Lingerie (wearing)
-Manicures (giving)
-Massage (giving)
-Massage (receiving)
-Medical scenes
-Nipple clamps
-Nipple weights
-Oral/anal play (rimming)
-Orgasm denial
-Over the knee spanking
-Orgasm control
-Outdoor scenes
-Pain (mild)
-Phone sex (serving Dom)
-Prison scenes
-Public exposure
-Punishment scene
-Pussy whipping
-Riding the "horse" (crotch tort)
-Rituals
-Religious scenes
-Restrictive rules on behavior
-Rubber/latex clothing
-Rope body harness
-Scarification
-Scratching - getting
-Scratching - giving
-Sensory deprivation
-Serving
-Serving as art
-Serving as furniture
-Serving as a maid
-Serving as waitress
-Serving orally (sexual)
-Shaving
-Skinny dipping
-Sleep deprivation
-Sleep sacks
-Slutty clothing (private)
-Spandex clothing
-Spanking
-Speech restrictions (when/what)
-Spreader bars
-Standing in corner
-Suspension (upright)
-Suspension (inverted)
-Supplying new partners for Dom
-Swallowing semen
-Swapping (with one other couple)
-Swinging (multiple couples)
-Tattooing
-Teasing
-Tickling
-Triple Penetration
-Uniforms
-Verbal humiliation
-Vibrator on genitals
-Video (recordings of you)
-Water torture
-Waxing (hair removal)
-Wearing symbolic jewelry
-Whipping
-Wooden paddles
