The Art of Talking Dirty With Women

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Talking Dirty With Woman

Quick Legal Stuff Disclaimer: This document contains tips and strategies, and advice that, regardless of my own results and experience, may not produce the same results (or any results) for you. I make absolutely no guarantee, expressed or implied that by following the advice below you will improve your Love and Sex life, as there are several factors and variables that come into play regarding any given person. Primarily, results will depend on how confident you are, if you take action and elements that are beyond your control.

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Contents Quick Legal Stuff ................................................................................................. 2 Ground Rules of Talking Dirty ............................................................................ 5 Definition Talking Dirty....................................................................................... 5 Dirty Talk Do’s .................................................................................................... 6 Read her an erotic story..................................................................................... 6 Swear................................................................................................................. 6 Speak in a different language............................................................................ 6 Dirty Talk don’ts .................................................................................................. 7 Don't mention family ........................................................................................ 7 Don't talk about other women ........................................................................... 7 Don't use clinical or childish terms................................................................... 7 Here is a Step By Step Procedure to help you talk Dirty to your Woman........... 8 Step One- Communication is the Key .............................................................. 8 Step 2 – Her comfort level ................................................................................ 8 Step 3 – Get out Your sexy Voice..................................................................... 8 Step 4 – Check your Moods.............................................................................. 8 Step 5 – Experiment Some More ...................................................................... 9 Step 6 – Get Feedback....................................................................................... 9 Step-By-Step Plan of Talking Dirty in Bed. ...... Error! Bookmark not defined. Definition Talking Dirty in Bed......................................................................... 10 Types of Dirty Talking and what you can use ................................................... 10 Soft-Core Dirty Talk ....................................................................................... 10 Hard-Core Dirty Talking................................................................................. 11 Dirty Talking Process......................................................................................... 12 6 Amazing Techniques of having mind blowing sex........ Error! Bookmark not defined. Definition............................................................................................................ 14 Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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6 Tips to Amazing Sex you should try............................................................... 14 Break the Routine............................................................................................... 18 Step by step Procedure of what you need to do. ................................................ 19 5 Techniques to Arouse you Woman ................................................................. 22

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Ground Rules of Talking Dirty Talking dirty is the way to go when it comes spicing up your sex life or even fulfilling your sexual fantasies , if you have not tried talking dirty before you should be aware of certain do’s and don’ts and ground rules of dirty talking. Communication is very important in any relationship, dirty talking plays a very important role in your sexual relationship and helps fulfil you sexual fantasies and also make your woman go wild in bed. Many men are conservative when it comes to dirty talking and are either stunned when his woman asks him to talk dirty, therefore it is necessary for every man to practice talking dirty and always be prepared. Learning the ground rules of dirty talking will make you aware of what your woman wants and what her fantasies are. If you are not well prepared you are going to mess up an open invitation by your woman and she might have a wrong impression about you.

Definition Talking Dirty Dirty talking is an art form in itself which stimulates your sexual relationship, drives you woman crazy in bed and also fulfils your sexual fantasies. The basic principle of dirty talking is communicating effectively with your woman about your sexual desires and fantasies and she does the same with you. Communication is the key here because asking for a sexual fantasy can be misunderstood by your woman that she is not good enough for you. So it’s important you follow a procedure and enjoy your sexual experience


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Dirty Talk Do’s

Read her an erotic story This is one of the most amazing ways to spend the hour. There are many good erotic books and writers but it can be difficult finding a one she would like. A good place to check is the erotic section of a woman’s magazines they usually have good erotic and fantasy stories. Avoid choosing a men’s magazine she can be offended and might find it cheap. In reading to her, you can practice your dirty voice and it’s also a fun way to spend time together, whether it leads to sex or not.

Swear Dirty words are used all over the world and are a part of our culture used as a form of expression. This is the main reason swearing is an important aspect of dirty talking in your bedroom. The bare-bones filth of the words spurs on the rawness of the act you are performing. It can also bring out another side of us. If your woman is sweet and polite by nature, expressing her dirty side in bed can be a real buzz for both of you.

Speak in a different language I f you think English is the most romantic language on earth then you are wrong. It is by no means the worst sounding, but something like French, Italian or Portuguese sounds so much better. These languages sound different and the words are elegant and a pleasure to hear. Speaking words of a foreign language during sex can be really amazing. Keep in mind, however, that telling her you can’t wait to buy a new dishwasher in Spanish is not going help you in anyway -


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- unless, of course, you have a thing for dishwashers. So, keep the topic sexy so that you stay in the mood as well.

Dirty Talk don’ts

Don't mention family Never talk about her family or your s this is strictly out of bounds, really, do you want to be discussing the in-laws while you make love? Probably not. Don’t mention anything about her super-sexy younger sister either or she'll pull the plug on the whole lovemaking shebang.

Don't talk about other women Don’t bring up the topic of other woman unless she specifically requests it, otherwise it could make her feel very insecure. And insecurity is not a known aphrodisiac. It is quite possible that your partner may want to hear you talking filth about another woman. It may turn her on to know that other women want you and that you want them. It comes back to the raw factor, which is useful in many ways, but understandably, can be a bit much for some people. To be on the safe side, just steer clear of the topic unless asked otherwise.

Don't use clinical or childish terms Clinical terms will sweep the sexiness out of any passionate moment. Calling your manhood an erect penis kills the moment with images of high school sex education. At this point in time, it is of no use to either of you, unless you’re role playing, of course. This applies to all parts of the anatomy, with the possible exception of the term "breasts.” Immature terms can include things like “hooters” or "jugs;” they’re just not the sexiest word options. Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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Here is a Step By Step Procedure to help you talk Dirty to your Woman. Step One- Communication is the Key Remember communication is the key to having great sex and many couples still ignore this step. The first thing you need to do before you want to introduce dirty talking into your lovemaking process, Ask your woman in a casual conversation that if you spoke filth into her ears when you made love to her what would she do? Or have you spoken dirty before? By asking these questions in a casual conversation you have definitely got her thinking about it, she might even discuss the possibility of talking dirty during sex with her girlfriends Step 2 – Her comfort level If she is not comfortable with the idea of talking dirty, I suggest you drop it for the time being and try asking her again later in a few weeks time, this does not mean she hates Dirty talking it’s just that it is something new and she is not ready, so be patient. 95% of the time woman agree and enjoy talking dirty, so if she agrees then you are on your way. Step 3 – Get out Your sexy Voice Now that you have got the green signal, speak to her in your sexiest voice that can be low and deep squeaky or a breathy whisper or just your normal talking voice, just play around and see what works. The benefits of using a sexy voice is the next time you’re on the phone with her and you speak in the same voice, her mind will automatically associate that voice and hopefully excite her. Step 4 – Check your Moods Make sure the both of you are in a mood, the best time to dirty talk is while having sex. For dirty talk to work effectively don’t skip the foreplay and Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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whisper a couple of phrases in her ears to test the waters and see how turned on she gets. The best way to start talking dirty is by simply relaying what you are doing at the time and how good it feels, don’t go on and on about it can be a turn off. Just try saying stuff like “It feels so good inside of you” “ I love how my ____ feels, when you do that” Step 5 – Experiment Some More Try to keep the subject matter of what you say varied; you do not have to sound like a broken record. Once she is more comfortable talking dirty during sex you can introduce role paying the next time, you will be surprised to see her swearing at your. Step 6 – Get Feedback This is an important step and you need to know if she like your dirty talk during sex, do not discuss how good or bad you were during sex. Try asking her casually while watching TV or while she is making dinner. Ask her what part of the dirty talking she liked the best and tell her what you liked the best, keep the conversation light hearted and fun. Follow this step by step instructions use some variations see the mood and you will gain more confidence.

Step-By-Step Action Plan of Talking Dirty in Bed. Having a plan on how to talk dirty is definitely going to put you in a different playing field with your woman. If you try to talk dirty to your woman without knowing what she likes and dislikes you will just make her very uncomfortable Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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Study your woman closely see what arouses her ask he in a general conversation what she would like you do in bed and give her exactly that. Trying to surprise your woman with dirty talk in bed is a bad idea especially if you have not done it before and if you are not sure if she is ready for it. So always be prepared avoid surprises unless and until she is really comfortable with talking dirty in bed. Follow a spontaneous set pattern mentioned in this book and you are going to drive your woman crazy in bed. One small mistake can turn her off and you won’t be able to enjoy the moment.

Definition Talking Dirty in Bed Following a Plan when talking dirty in bed is essential especially when you new to it, because, this will help you arouse you woman to the right intensity for some mind-blowing sex and fulfil your sexual fantasies. Dirty talking in your bedroom works on an important principal of studying your woman and her sexual needs. Everything you do should be done respectfully and in control. Don’t talk to her in a way that she feels disrespected or taken for granted.

Types of Dirty Talking and what you can use Soft-Core Dirty Talk Although we all refer to bedroom talk as dirty talk amid sex, there are two levels to it: The soft and the hard. If your woman likes to call your penis sexy names other than the same old four letter word, by all means think of different ways to say what she like to hear. Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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The following are only a few examples of what she may want to hear:

1- Do you want me to slide my throbbing member into your sweet portal? (After she answers yes) How would you like it? 2- The thought of you wrapping your hot mouth around my pulsating rod drives me crazy. 3- I love when you spread your thighs for me; open up and let me devour your juices.

Of course, with time you will come up with many creative words to replace vagina, penis, fellatio, cunnilingus, and the like. Never let her get away with yes and no replies. Ask her specifically what she wants from you, what she imagines you doing, and how she imagines you going about it. As well, some women might find this kind of talk sappy. So listen to the language she uses and if she gets graphic, then move on to... Hard-Core Dirty Talking It is known to many of us that many couples when during the act of lovemaking are known to yell out the kinkiest, if not nastiest phrases known to man. So you can get nasty and fill in all of the following gaps with some of the most vulgar language you can think of.

If you want to scream and yell or get close to her ear and whisper it lightly, that's up to you. But for the sake of giving you ideas, here are a few things you could say in the heat of the moment (not for the faint of heart):

1- I want to [fill in verb] you with my hard [fill in noun] until you [fill in verb] Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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all over me. 2- I want you to suck my stiff [fill in noun] while I suck on your throbbing [fill in noun]. 3- (Put her up against the wall and put your hand up her skirt) do you like it when I stick my finger inside your wet [fill in noun]? I've been waiting all day to bend you over and [fill in verb] you deep and hard.

Dirty Talking Process Step 1 – Slow and Steady I strongly suggest that you start slowly, it’s better to be safe than sorry, in the beginning use tame lingo such as “I’ve been waiting to get inside you the whole day” see how it goes and step it up a notch to the cruder lingo in time. With woman you can never generalise and assume that she means when she refers to naughty language. Step 2 – Let her Dominate Try assuming a different role in the bedroom let her be the dominant partner you submit to her, this will give you more clues as to what she means when she dirty talks and what her sexual fantasies are. You want directions and she is the only one who knows the route. Step 3 – Be Respectful Always be respectful to your woman and make it known to her that you are just living a fantasy with her, and you don’t really mean she is a “bitch” or whatever you called her during lovemaking. Step 4 – What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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Whatever happens in the bedroom should stay in the bedroom do not swear at her in public or make lude remarks when having dinner unless she asks you to do so.


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6 Amazing Techniques of having mind blowing sex Sex is the main motivation in any relationship; you cannot just survive by loving each other. In today’s busy and stressful world just having normal sex is not good enough. Have a great sex life can have more benefits than one, its considered a good stress reliever and also decreases aging. Unfortunately many people do not have a great sex life because they don’t make an effort to do so. If everyone just followed these 5 tips from this chapter they will not only have a great sex live but also fulfil their wildest fantasies.

Definition These 5 Amazing techniques are going to teach you how to keep your woman and yourself hot for some time to come. Also it will help you to have some of the most passionate sex ever. These techniques work on a simple basic principal of experimenting and doing things differently. It is not always easy to maintain a good sex life and balance it with your personal and work life; it takes some time and effort to reap the rewards of good sex. Having good sex doesn’t mean sitting for hours and hours and frolicking, it can be simply sitting and doing something a little different just for a change.

6 Tips to Amazing Sex you should try 1. Do it in a new Place. Having sex in a new place is definitely going to be exciting, there are millions of places you can have sex other than your bed, try driving down Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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to a place where it will be a bit risky, try a public place but it should not have a lot of people. Or move to a different room in your house and try doing it when the others are in the house or try doing it in someone else’s home, you can try whatever tickles your fantasy and make it exciting for both of you. 2. Use a Cock Ring. Once you get an erection the cock ring slows down the blood flow and your erection will last longer. A hard cock stimulates a woman’s insides and she enjoys it. Cock rings are not very expensive and are a pretty good looking male sex toy to have. Cock rings help you maintain your pace without faltering for better sex. 3. Try different Positions You probably know a few positions that bring her to an orgasm and that is great, but you need to try different positions, new positions need a reasonably high level of arousal time in your lover, so take your time and strike a new pose. If you have read the Kamasutra you will be aware that there is no limit to the number of ways you can have sex so use your imagination, Try this out the next time you will be amazed to see what happens by simple changing the location example Try doing it on the washing machine or a bean bag, or a table etc. 4. Dirty Talking Dirty talking during sex has been used for centuries and will continued to be used, because it has something other sex plays don’t have, it has Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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words. Our brains are our biggest sexual apparatus as soon as we hear something sexy the brain receives the signal and we fell emotions, start imagining and there is a rush of blood to the right places in our body. For good sex start out with neutral Dirty talk topics such as “How you feel inside her” “How you are enjoying the act and what you would like to do with her next” Don’t get carried away dirty talking can be daunting at first if you are not used to verbalizing during sex, but you just have to practice. 5. Play a Game Get out a pack of cards and play strip poker. This may seem like something you have done in college, but adult strip poker is a good way to get your woman naked. Once you both are naked or almost naked, you can start the fun part. A lose means the other person (i.e. winner) gets to choose what action is performed on them by the loser. Keep a time limit of 1 minute on the said action, this means you are playing a prolonged game of seduction. After a while you both will want to be the winner and loser. The best part of playing a game is you would end up asking for something in a certain way that you have not done before, it may be a little filthy but will definitely lead to great sex. 6. Tell Her Your Fantasies


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As I said earlier communication is the key in any relationship, so try telling her your fantasies, because this can be a very conducive form of sex play. This will also help you know each other a little more. Keep it light in the beginning you don’t want to throw her in the deep end with fantasies about people you both know or a real fetish you’re not sure about. Fantasies can be used in the form of a game for better sex. Try to keep it sexy and exciting.


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How to make you Good and decent Girlfriend Wild and Naughty You will be surprised to see how good girls can be wild and naughty if you know how to lead her there. But this has to be done at the right place and time or it will backfire. Good girls also have naughty fantasies but are shy to speak about it, but once you get them in the zone you will be surprised to see what they want and also what they are willing to do. If you don’t lead her to speak about her fantasies she might never do it on her own and you will never know her sexual desires and what drive her crazy. Woman crave being naughty in bed but are shy and scared to do so. It’s important you communicate with her and lead her to reveal her fantasies. Remember your girlfriend could be into some pretty wild stuff but she might be worried that you’ll think she is a pervert. And you might have the desire to try some new things but fear she might think you are a weird. So the key is effective communication, the next time you are spending a intimate moment with her, don’t be shy to ask her if she has any fantasies and thought of doing different stuff (mentioned below). But before you do that you need to follow the following steps first.

Break the Routine Before you try anything new in your sex life with your woman to get the naughtiness out in her it’s important you break your normal day to day routine. If you both watch TV everyday for 3 hours, try breaking the routine by going for ice cream, if it is cold outside try playing cards instead. By breaking the daily routine it will leave you both open to fresh thoughts. Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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Nobody wants to do the same thing week after week it will get very boring. Breaking the routine will help you both keep an open mind and body, so when it comes to trying new things in your sex life you both are more open to it.

Here are a few points you need to consider before we get on to the procedure. 1. Take it slow, first just try speaking to her about her fantasies, sometimes it takes a girl days before she actually is ready to do it.

2. If any one of you or both of you have had a stressful day, then don’t suggest any energetic activity, because you won’t have the energy to do it.

3. Trying new thing is good but don’t get her out of her comfort zone and make her do something she is not comfortable doing, this can be damaging.

4. Make sure that the atmosphere around you is conducive to the new and interesting things you are going to try.

5. Do make an effort with your appearance; if you want your woman to try something new make sure you’re well groomed. She should not feel that she is the only one having to make all the effort.

Step by step Procedure of what you need to do. 1. Play a Dress Up Game Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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I am not talking just of the sexy red and black frillies here. I am talking of proper sexy fantasy costumes of maid or nurse outfit, male or female stripper outfit, policeman or fireman uniform. In fact ask her to pick up a fantasy character she would like to see you in and you do the same with her. This will not only spice up the sex but also help you understand each other’s fantasy.

2. Try out Light Bondage Bondage does not have to be with whips chains and a mask. Light bondage can just be a power game. I tie you up so I have the power, you tie me up and you have the power. This can be simple as knotting her panties around her wrist with the bed post so she is at your mercy. Sheets and under ware do well, you don’t need handcuffs and ropes but these are always nice to make a suggestive gift. Keep the ties firm but not too tight that it becomes uncomfortable.

3. Going to a strip club together. This is a brave thing for many woman to do, but today’ wonderful modern woman are ready to try new things. So your woman might just be delighted to come to a strip club, of course this is not with your drooling and horny mates, it should only be you and her.

Most of the woman admire other woman’s hot body and also wish that they could dance like that. Yes woman envy woman and it is an arousing experience for females to watch other females being sexy. You just need


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to keep you hands to yourself and make sure you pay sufficient attention to her like a gentleman.

4. Video Recording the Act You can make your own dirty sex tape; it is a very sexy way to spend intimate time with your lover watching it. This is not easy and it takes a lot of trust faith and courage.

So if she agrees make sure you don’t abuse her trust and faith in you. That means don’t show your mates, don’t sell it on the internet or speak about it to anyone unless you have permission to do so.


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5 Arousal techniques every Man Should Know If you want to engage your woman in some mind numbing sex you will need to arouse her to get out the animal in her. Now some woman wants their man to slam them against the wall and rip their under ware off. Others may just like it softer with a soft kiss on her neck and then as you slowly inch down towards her thighs, you basically need to figure out what your woman wants.

5 Techniques to Arouse you Woman

1. Kiss and lick her Thighs and back I have said this many times and I will say it again, you will be able to arouse your woman a million times more if you simply head to her sexualised parts. A great move here is spreading her legs and using your tongue to inch your way up slowly so long as you don’t touch her vagina. This way she will ache if not beg you to touch it.

2. Erotic Movies We all know that men a visual, but we are under the wrong impression that woman aren’t. The next time you are heading to the shower, tell your woman you want to show her something and put on an erotic movie. Let her watch it while you’re in the washroom, by the time you get out chances are she will be waiting with her legs open with her hands between them.

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If you want to arouse her and create some excitement even before your meet her. Call her up during the day and fill her in on what you have been thinking of, what you dreamt about or what you want to do with her that night. This will excite her and will begin the foreplay.

4. Use Blindfolds Try blindfolding her if you want to drive her to the depths of her sexual excitement. When you seal her sense of sight the other senses get heightened, she might just become bolder in her actions and sounds because she can’t see.

5. Dress Well Always dress and smell well, you don’t have to put a three piece suite every day, just dress up smart and carry yourself with confidence this will arouse her vision, which will serve to arouse the rest of her.

Remember there are many techniques of arousing your woman, this usually happens in the minds. Sometimes a nice wet kiss will arouse her so keep trying different things and see what turns her on the most.


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20 Phrases to Talk Dirty in Bed 1. You look really sexy when you do that... 2. I'm dripping wet and gagging for you 3. You make me so horny 4. This is going to be the filthiest night of your life 5. It drives me wild when you look at me like that 6. I'm gonna lick you until you scream 7. I'm naked and I'm touching myself... 8. Fuck me now! 9. I want you to touch me here... 10. You can have me any way you want 11. Put your big, hard cock in my mouth 12. You taste so good 13. I'm your sex slave for the evening 14. Tie me up and touch me slowly 15. Get the camera! 16. Fuck me like a porn star Talking Dirty With Woman – What Woman Crave Of http://www.playersdatingsecret.com ©2008 All Rights Reserved

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17. Pound me into oblivion 18. I want to rub my pussy all over your face 19. Spray your juice all over my tits 20. No-one has ever made me come as hard as you

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