Seduce Her With Your Touch

Seduce her with your touch

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“The touch will bring will bring together you and a woman faster than hours of talking” Feniks


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Contents

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The author's note

I.1 scalation ! the the definition definition II.

Inner "ame

II.1 #cce$t you se%uality II.& #re you you ready for se% III. Two shittiest beliefs I(. )ow to escalate the touch efficiently I(.1 Shut u$ u$ and and act* act* I(.& +e consistent I(., It's -/* I(.0 Touch the woman. woman. It's what you seduce her for I(. Sto$ begging III.2 Isolate I(.3 4es$ond to her indicators of interest I(.5 -aturalness of mo6ement I(.7 Turn her on I(.18 Forget about “/hat will she think” I(.11 Tests ! get rid of her an%ieties (. Conclusion (I. +onus 19 The kiss (II. 1 +onus &9 Field 4e$ort 4e$ort :an account from a seduction; ! the model (II. & +onus ,9 Field 4e$ort 4e$ort ! Fast se% in less less than 18 minutes minutes (III +onus 09

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I.

The author's note

The touch is one of the most im$ortant and the fastest de6elo$ing senses : it a$$ears around the 5th week of a fetus' life;. 58= of an infant's contact with the surrounding world takes $lace through the touch. >sychologists? $harmacologists? cosmetologists? $hysiothera$ists make use of enormous $otential of the touch in their work hel$ing $eo$le get rid of both s$iritual and body $roblems. The touch hel$s to9 −

de6elo$ sight

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de6elo$ manual skills

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de6elo$ one's $ositi6e self image

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kee$ one's self@esteem high

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make somebody feel better

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lower the le6el of an%iety? stress? and insecurity

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kee$ oneself healthy

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establish closer relations between $eo$le

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communicate with other $eo$le

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soothe emotional and $hysical $ain

It's all about the touch

Anfortunately? the touch remains a taboo subBect in the society. /e are taught that touching $eo$le or oursel6es is wrong. Touching yourself can be good if it's a natural care about your body9 for e%am$le when you rub your acheing neck or your hands when you're cold. I think that if all $eo$le were taught that it's good to touch? then more of them would be ha$$y. I'm sure you know $eo$le who are always in a bad mood and com$laining. In 77= of cases they ha6e a touch deficit. #lthough in the beginning such a $erson may react in a negati6e way? the touch will do wonders for him or her. The touch touch is e6ery e6ery $e $erso rson's n's basic basic nee need. d. -otice -otice the $o$ul $o$ulari arity ty of ma massa ssage ge $arlours? renewal centers? dancing classes. They all gi6e $eo$le o$$ortunities to satisfy


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their need of $hysical contact with others while res$ecting social norms. ou're about to get to know the basic rules of efficient escalation of the touch :so@called kino escalation;. It's efficicent in the sense that it leads to a woman o$ening to you? thinking about you as her dream? and asking you for more. It is all based on my own e%$eri e%$erienc ence e so that that you you could could e%$lor e%$lore e the full $oten $otentia tiall of a ma man n ! woman woman $hysic $hysical al relationshi$. I based my method of seduction on the touch? male se%ual energy? and the right state of mind :so called “inner game”;. The rest is only a decoration. I lo6e the feeling I get when a woman gets e%cited and trembles under my touch. Showing you're interested in a straightforward way will sa6e you a lot of time. If she's interested? she'll follow you. If she's not? you can de6ote your time to other women.
Warning! I'm only gi6ing you a small fragment of my knowledge and e%$erience in the field of $hysical contact with a woman. ou can get the rest of it only during the worksho$s cause e6en the best $hoto $resentation cannot show the little details you'll disco6er taking $art in them. The more you learn? the more res$onsible you should become. If your attitude to women is negati6e then get rid of this e@book.

The author doesn't take res$onsibility for any damages that might result from abusing the techniDues or methods described in this e@book. -obody is allowed to use this $ublication for commercial reasons. It also cannot be offered as a bonus to any other $roducts or other com$anies' worksho$s? unless the author gi6es his $ermission. The author gi6es his consent to distributing this e@book for free. Its distribution by a third $arty will not bring any financial benefits to the author. )owe6er? the distributor is obliged obliged to kee$ the original original content of the book? which can be found found at www.feniks@ uwodEenie.$l?? and indicate its source. uwodEenie.$l Seduce her with your touch

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Charging any fees by $ersons who are not the authors of the book 6iolates the co$yright laws. The use of the book? or its fragments? for financial gains? can take $lace only if the author consents. #ny resemblance of the $laces? situations? names or e6ents to real ones is accidental. #ll attem$ts to identify them are $ointless? since all of them has beem modified in order to $rotect the $ri6acy of the $eo$le in6ol6ed and make their identification im$ossible.


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Escalation

of

the

touch/

Kino

Escalation – a way to establish a $hysical relation with a woman by way of touching her @ going through different stages in the $rocess from meeting a woman to ha6ing se% with her.


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II. Inner Game

It's the right state of mind. It forms the basis for the right use of the strategies and techniDues described below. /ithout $ro$er inner game you hesitate and hallucinate making all the methods totally useless. I always start working with a $erson with changing? modifying his beliefs. I'm ne6er r. -ice "uy when doing that? but I belie6e that's the only way to enable a guy to im$ro6e Duickly and reach his goals. It's the same thing as a gardener does9 he gets rid of the weed and tills the land in order to culti6ate it and make it fruitful.

II.1. #cce$t your se%uality ! a belief that will bring your relations with women to another le6el.

#re you $roud of being a man
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takes your $ants off and starts gi6ing you blowBob. /ould your res$onse be9 “retend that you're drunk and tell him something like9 “I find you 6ery attracti6e? and I'6e always wanted to slee$ with you? etc.” I doubt that his res$onse is going to be9 “I can't cause I'll feel guilty for destroying our friendshi$”. )e'll rather say9 “eah*** #t last*** Het's do it right now***” Hooks always comes first. nly after you get to know her better can you tell if she meets your standars of a good lo6er? a long term relationshi$ $artner? or a se% friend. ou may also sto$ seeing her at all. nly her body matters when you see a woman for the first time. It's natural. ou're not a member of the Sal6ation #rmy. The ca6emen used to take the most attracti6e women out of the enemy tribe's ca6e. -obody cared whether he hurts anyone's feelings. >eo$le ha6e always associated beauty with being healthy. It is why we sur6i6ed.

Stop fighting your masculinity

Stop fighting your body and it's natural needs.

ou tae responsibility for your children's life because it is you "ho chooses their mother.

#s soon as I acce$ted the fact that I a$$roach women because I'm se%ually attracted to them? I felt enormous relief and my relations with them became much easier. I lo6e se%. I can do it all the time. I lo6e it when a woman and I e%change the Seduce her with your touch

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energy of our bodies and souls. b6iously? I'm curious about the mental side of our relationshi$? and I'm 6ery $leased if it brings us e6en more satisfaction. )owe6er? I feel comfortable being a man? and the fact that I'll ha6e se% with a woman I meet seems natural. I'6e noticed certain $attern ! The more easy and straightforward I am when communicating my se%ual intention to a woman? the faster we get to the $hysical stage of our relationshi$ :kiss? touch? se%;. The last thing that comes to her mind when thinking about me is “a friend”. Sometimes women are sur$rised that I kino escalate so Duickly. In such situations I say something like9 −

“)ide your breasts. I can't focus on what you're saying*”

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“our legs are so se%y”

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“#re you aware of the fact that we'll ha6e se% ne%t time we meet”

She didn't go anywhere. She continued talking to me? gi6ing me more and more indicators of interest. Show your se%uality by your intentions? gestures? s$eech? non@6erbal communication? clothes? relations with women.

#hey no" it either "ay$ so "hy hide your intention%!

Stand in front of a mirror and say9 I'm a man and I lo6e women in e6ery as$ect of their femininity* I think that the source of the $roblem with escalating the touch lies in the conflict between desire and false asum$tions about se%.

Se& is good and healthy


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hands? but I won't Bum$ into his bed ! he'll think I'm easy ;. 4emember? if you won't do it? someone else will. Somebody who feels good being a man. 4ead my te%t “The fear of a$$roach” if you are still afraid of a$$roaching a woman.

II. (re you ready for se&%

#re you a se%ually o$en man
/hat ins$ired me to writing this te%t was the course of e6ents in >roBect /roclaw & and ,. There I saw the enormous role of being se%ually o$en in the $rocess of seduction. It's original title was “Se% 6s. go”. Het's consider the basics9 1. go ! it wants to ha6e as much se% as $ossible. go is the core of being a man. &. Subconsciousness :men's and women's $rogrammed roles? se%ual blockades? feeling of guilt? im$ortant e%$eriences connected with se%? $ractice in se%? madonna@whore com$le%? etc.; influences man's se%ual life a lot. The Duality of your se%ual life de$ends on whether you coo$erate or fight with your ego.

6ery man wants to ha6e se%. +ut not e6eryone is ready for that. n one hand men want to ha6e lots of $artners? on the other their subconsciousness doesn't let them do that. Such situations take $lace when9 •

# women would like to make lo6e to a guy? but he thinks she's a whore and backs away

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# man notices signs showing that a woman is attracted to him? but he doesn't do anything about it

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#lthough he knows that he will be ha6ing se%? he decides to withdraw

First you ha6e to sort e6erything out in your head and get rid of your se%ual blockades to start

fulfilling your se%ual fantasies. ou ha6e to acce$t them as good? natural? and

healthy both for your body and s$irit. nce? during my $ersonal coaching I trained a man who ne6er had se% before. I sent him Seduce her with your touch

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to a woman who was making it clear she wanted to ha6e se% that day. # classy one. )e started a con6ersation with her. She went to the dance floor but after a while came back and took him to the bar. They had a chit@chat and she went to the dance floor again. I knew what it was all about so I went to him? e%$alained e6erything? and handed him a condom. The guy was shocked. )e thought that the first night would be a sim$le introduction? he'd Bust ha6e a few small talks? he wasn't $re$ared for that. )e didn't take ad6antage of this o$$ortunity but we identified the $roblem ! lack of e%$erience resulting in lack of self ! confidence when it comes to se%. )is ego wanted to ha6e a lot of lo6ers? but his subconsciousness wasn't $re$ared for that. If you want to ha6e a lot of se%? and do it in situations that the society doesn't a$$ro6e of because of their immorality? you really ha6e to like women. #nd you ha6e to be a guy who enables them to fulfil their dee$est se%ual fantasies. /e de6oted a lot of time to this s$here during >roBect /roclaw. In a sense it was a re@education in being a man. /e hel$ed e6ery $artici$ant disco6er his real needs and fully acce$t them. nly after that did e6eryone get the right tools.


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III.

#"o shittiest beliefs about establishing physical contact "ith a "oman.

Intimate distance

6ery time I read some some book about body language I come across information that there's something like intimate distance ! 8?0 m : or some other length? you'll soon learn it doesn't matter;. #nd e6ery time I do it I wonder who ga6e these $eo$le their di$lomas /hat for For making $eo$le frustrated and feeling guilty because of doing what's natural? good and healthy In theory? this distance is characteristic for e6ery human being. In $ractice? it's bullshit. Is there any intimate distance in a crowded bus )a6e your e6er measured the distance between you and a woman during a hot dance I doubt it. )n lots of occasions ha6e I $ro6en that intimate distance can really be found only in $seudo ! $sychological books. 6ery bit of the knowledge I teach during my worksho$s I e%$erienced in real life so I'll gi6e you $roof which will ultimately destroy all the false assum$tions concerning so@called intimate distance. esterday? :The day before these words were written; there was a situation which once again underlined my belief that there's nothing like intimate distance. I was dancing with a se%y woman I ha6e Bust met. e and a friend of mine are standing ne%t to the dance floor and ha6ing a con6ersation. 6erything that ha$$ens on the dance floor is natural for us. /e're not concentrating on beer but sim$ly on ha6ing fun. I notice )4 dancing. She notices me looking at her. )er dance is getting hotter? and she starts gi6ing me a challenging look in the eyes. I sto$ her? take her hand and start $ulling her off the dance floor. /e take a seat in a Duiet $lace and then she gets a chance to $resent herself in the best $ossible way : I chec if a "oman meets my e&pectations ! she's an intelligent? warm $erson;. /e're ha6ing a longer con6ersation and after a while her friends come. She takes me to the dance floor so that we could enBoy oursel6es. I lead her to the center of the dance floor so that her friends couldn't see us :she's with friends so I mae sure they eep good opinion about her;. She starts cuddling me. I can feel her hot? fragrant body. I'm touch her smooth skin. /e're looking in each other's eyes? it's Seduce her with your touch

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becoming more and more intense. I can feel her legs between my thighs as she rubs them against me during her licentious dance. I can see her getting e6en more horny as I grab her and lift into the air so that she could show me her beautiful breasts? neck? and long blonde hair. Suddenly? she turns. She starts rubbing me with her great ass : yeah? down thereG;; #nd then I felt sorry for those $oor? miserable $eo$le who'd written all that bullshit about intimate distances. )o$e they will enter the >A# :>icku$ #rtist; track one day ! I thought. /e'6e met a few days later.
6en a teacher

who hugs a crying baby may be $ercei6ed as a $aedo$hile... Kate+ %actly... nce? when I was working in a kindergarten? I took a child? $ut it on my la$? and suddenly I felt like a $aedo$hile... *enis9 It all restrains the need to touch which is natural for e6ery human being. /omen? for e%am$le? ha6e the natural ability to establish a connection during a con6ersation thanks to the touch. For e%am$le? one may say to another @ “#re you all right” and touch her at the same time : saying that? I touch her arm;.

( "oman doesn't lie to be touched by a stranger

)ow long time do you ha6e to s$end knowing her? before you get im$lied $ermission to touch her #re , days? 0 hours? 2 minutes and 11 seconds all right

Those who saw me $icking u$ a woman? know that I escalate 6ery Duickly. I am able to create an im$ression that we are an old cou$le during first few minutes of a con6ersation. Seduce her with your touch

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)er $ositi6e reaction to your touch de$ends on9 1. our attitude to a woman. I lo6e woman? my attitude towards them is 6ery $ositi6e? and I know that they can trust me. They can sense it? and for this reason acce$t my touch faster than they would do? if my only goal was to ha6e se% without res$ecting the other $erson's feelings and future. &. The way you touch her. ou will find more information about the touch escalation during my worksho$s. ,. Coherence9 whether you think and beha6e the same way. If you're incoherent? change your current $atterns of beha6iour? and beliefs.

Success ,iary – the base for your de-elopment +efore you start doing the e%ercises described below? create a “Success
It is di6ided into , $arts9

1. Seduction &. The touch :because it's a s$here I s$ecialiEe in? I se$arated it from others ; ,. worksho$s :ideas? organiEation;

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2. ther conclusions /ithout kee$ing this diary you will forget about lots of obser6ations which you could remember and use while working on your self ! im$ro6ement.

%ercise 19 1. "o to a swimming $ool or BacuEEi : focus on what you sense? what your body senses? the $ressure of the water as you swim? what the tem$erature is when you get out of the water? what you feel when you get goosebum$s. ou ha6e to know your body. Sto$ talking to yourself. Inner dialog ! off; 2.

 4 T. # round of chess will not do* Though it's a 6ery useful for your intellectual de6elo$ment? it won't im$ro6e your ability to touch.

,. Take u$ some dancing classes. ou can touch $eo$le within acce$table social norms there. >lus? there are women there? and you cannot o6erestimate contact with them. Hatin dances are 6ery fashionable nowadays. I know a lot of attracti6e women? who lo6e to dance salsa. I also recommend #rgentinian tango : I'6e taken u$ such classes myself; for , reasons9 •

it teaches you how to lead your $artner because it is u$ to A to lead her in e6ery as$ect of your life

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it hel$s to kee$ straight $osture : /alk with you back straight? because you $resent yourself in a better way. Check out +rad >itt in “Fight Club”.
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It gi6es you a great $icture of man ! woman relation? which relates to woman's natural instincts and is 6ery attracti6e to her on the subconscious le6el

0. Ase your entire body when taking to her ! use gestures? smile? make your body seem really ali6e? your face should e%$ress all the $ossible emotions. >resent yourself as an e%$ressi6e $erson. The mo6ement of your body has to be easy ! it shows that you're comfortable with your body. Stand in front of a mirror and do funny faces for 18 minutes.
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lot? $ractise it e6ery morning in front of a mirror? and whene6er you ha6e the o$$ortunity. Sim$ly stand in front of a mirror? think about something making you ha$$y and smile? e6en if it seems weird. Trust me. It will do wonders for you. There are a$$ro%imately 58 muscles in a man's face. In the beginning? an emotional state mirrors itself on a $ersons face creating a muscular $attern. Hater? this $attern influences your emotional states ! this way you get the emotional state your face “remembered”.

old

$atterns

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start

smiling.

I like to smile and I do it 6ery often. I often walk a street? feeling great? listening to some good music? and because of that I smile to myself? which increases my good state of mind e6en more. ou might be 6ery sur$rised with the influence gestures and facial e%$ressions ha6e on touching other $eo$le. normous. If you learn to feel comfortable in your body? and conseDuently e%$ress $ositi6e emotions? other $eo$le will feel like they need your touch as it can make them feel better.

Warning! #urn off your computer! If you're interested in seduction through the Intenet? gi6e yourself a break. Sitting in front of a monitor will not teach you interacting with real $e$ole. /hich do you $refer9 an hour of se%? or an hour of 6isiting dating sites and watching some women's $hotos +y ty$ing letters you don't learn to seduce. Cyberse% is not se%. ou ne6er know who's on the other side of the wire. +e an egotist. Think about the time you can sa6e. ou can get the $hone number 6ery easily but how much time will it take you to gi6e her enough comfort to make her want to meet you ou cannot “feel” a woman through the Internet? which leads to funny situations. I used to date through the Internet a few years ago ! I e6en had my own $rofile on a daying site :It's long goneG; ; I met a few girls. The funniest situation took $lace when the $icture of a girl was , $ound slimmer than its owner.

y starting seducing in the real "orld you sa-e your o"n life! Seduce her with your touch

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I. 0o" to escalate the touch efficiently

I.1 Shut up and act!

I'6e seen hundreds of men in clubs? who ke$t carrying a con6ersation and not doing anything? though a woman was sending indicators of interest. # woman shows her interest when she isolates you from friends? focuses on you. ou need to show your interest by touching her. +y focusing only on talking to her? without making any contact with her body? you will im$ro6e your 6erbal skills and the strength of your forearm : yeah? you know what I'm talking about9; ; The longer you wait with getting into her $hysical s$here? the more difficult it gets. +y a6oiding the touch? you $ut yourself in a sack called “a friend” and tie it from the inside. #nd there's no se% in this sack. The moment you unwillingly start touching a woman? e6en if you do it in the beginning of the first con6ersation with her? you $ut the relationshi$ in a different frame :the way something is $ercei6ed;. She gets more o$en and more willing to establish a $hysical contact with you. If you seduce a woman? touch her during the first minute of a con6erstation with her. -o matter if you're in the club or in the street @ do it* If you see a woman you find attracti6e a$$roach her? and the moment you start talking to her $ut your hand on her back :in the middle of it ! between her shoulder blades and her buttocks;.
I. e consistent

There's nothing like reBection? there's only feedback. ou don't fail? if you continue doing something until you succeed. ou're always a winner. ou are going to seduce her or learn something that will be useful in future. The source of the discomfort you feel when being reBected is in the fact that the area of the brain res$onsible for social ostracism is connected with the area res$onsible for


feeling

$ain.

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our brain tries to $rotect you? not knowing that you no longer li6e in a ca6e and the social rules are different. )as it e6er ha$$ened to you that she mo6ed back or looked as if she was going to kill you Took your hand away 4ela%. aybe her boyfriend was looking at you? or she needed a little more time to feel more comfortable. #s long as she doesn't go way and continues talking to you? e6erything is $ossible. #nd I really mean it* /hat's more? e6en if she's left you? you can try to a$$roach her one more time and say9 “I know what I screwed u$ ! let's start againG;” and continue seducing her.

*or the beginners. ( "ae up pill.

nce? during a rally I took $art in? one of the lecturers asked a woman sitting close to me @ −

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“/hat do you think if you kee$ meeting a man and he doesn't mo6e forward” “I think I'm loosing my time” @ she answered

# woman said she's loosing her time if a man doesn't touch her* In my o$inion? the ability to “$ull the trigger” is one of the most im$ortant in the whole seduction $rocess. I'6e seen many guys doing really great :they were getting lots of IIs; but they didn't do another ste$. The women left them? searching for some other guy for that night. Sometimes? I meet $eo$le dressed in >A#@Aniform in the club. They a$$roach e6ery woman there? but few of them are successful. They later take $hotos with girls they met at the $arty? but it's 6ery easy to notice that they'd known each other only for the time needed to take a $hoto. ou can tell that they are more e%cited with the sole fact of forming a community and going to clubs together? then with actual seducing and ha6ing se%. #nd after it's all o6er they make the folowing reflection9 “Something's fucking wrong? I didn't e6en kiss a girl. I ha6e to read another &888 $ages of materials? and e6erything will get better.” They used to dress u$ as Indians and cowboys? and now they dress u$ as seducers. To make things clear9 theory is good? if you try it in $ractice right away. Then you can relate it to real@life situations. If you don't do it? you act like a $erson who's eaten Seduce her with your touch

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so much that he has to throw u$. It's because you ha6e absorbed so much of this shit that the body cannot take it more? or you look like a $ig and feel ashamed to go out. +e careful about the Duality and the amount of what you “consume”. The mo6e forward :so@called “$ulling the trigger”; is? in my o$inion? only about heading in the direction of a $hysical contact with a woman. I don't consider selling any s$eaking routines a mo6e forward. If you don't touch you act like somebody sawing a branch he's sitting on.
I.2 It's 3)W!

ou'6e $robably been in a situation when? during a meeting with a woman? you thought “I should $robably kiss her? cuddle her now”? etc. ou didn't do it so the candles went off? the romantic music sto$$ed? and she asked you $olitely to lea6e her house. She was tired? and she had to get u$ early. If you want to a6oid this in future? you ha6e to trust your instinct. 6ery time you think “Should I touch her” your subconsciousness sends you a signal that you should do it. If you don't take ad6antage of all the natural o$$ortunities for touching a woman? you may be able to seduce her but it will take you ages to do it.
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# blonde is dancing in front of me : large? full li$s J$erfect for oral se%K? curly hair; in a lace blouse through which you can see black bra. nly one thing comes to my mind when thinking about her ! a healthy? attracti6e woman. She's dancing and blatantly looking into my eyes. #ll the time I look back. If I lose the eye ! contact it is only to ha6e some small talks with other women at the bar. I wanted to talk to them? $ractise con6ersation. Tell them a few 6ery interesting stories :did you belie6e thatG; ;. #fter about half hour I look at her again. I $oint at her and make a gesture to in6ite her. She a$$roaches me and then I whis$er to her ear9 “In moments like these? I wish I weren't

shy”. She turns around

and starts rubbing my crotch. I turn her around and we start kissing. The whole $rocess from the moment of $ointing at her lasted no more than ,8 seconds. ther $eo$le's faces >riceless* I could feel all the gaEes. The air almost sto$$ed. # layman $robably saw it this way9 there's a guy at the bar drinking a Buice? talking to $eo$le. Suddenly he $oints at a girl? she comes to him? he whis$ers something in her ear? and they kiss.

#fter the kiss9 Feniks9 /hat's your name (icky :&2 years;9 (ictoria. I hardly understand >olish? I'm from Akraine? I came to >oland , weeks ago. : #ctually? this is what I understood? and I'm not sure if this is what she really sayd because I don't s$eak Akraine? while her >olish is as fluent as my Chinese. The $oint is? she $robably didn't understand the first thing I'd said to her.; Feniks9 kG; (icky9 /hat about you Feniks9 Feniks

*or those "ho focus on "hat to say so much+ I understood no more than 1= of what she was telling me. The maBor $art of our con6ersation consisted of me saying “ok”:If I understood her; and “re$eat” :if I didn't;. I think she understood me a little bit better but not 6ery much. /e couldn't e6en talk in nglish. It was like talking to a  year old. Asing mainly infiniti6es. /hat about my o$inion o$eners /hat about all the routines )el$*** )el$*** 6en -HS wouldn't hel$ because she couldn't understand me and 6ice 6ersa. Seduce her with your touch

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Still sitting at the bar Feniks9 ou're 6ery se%y : it must me a keyword working in e6ery situation because she ga6e me a nice smile; I grab her ass and $ull her? we kiss again. I take her arm? and we go downstairs to the dance floor. There we do erotic dance for , minutes.

Feniks9 /hat should I do with you :I look dee$ into her eyes? as if I wanted to drill her down to the $anties; (icky9 I don't know9; : /hen a woman says something like that? smiles and looks sideways or downwards? I know she's e%cited and interested; Feniks9 Jes? you know 9; K @ I thought

Then we go u$stairs. I turn her around? touch her? kiss her ! I do whate6er I $lease. The women in a lounge ne%t to us almost choked with their beers seeing us doing all these things. In the checkroom? I try to communicate with her using gestures. Feniks9 e? you : I gesture with my hands trying to e%$lain that I mean se%;? ta%i?  minut? hotel : fortunately there's one in the city center;? will be back in an hour. y friend is waiting. (icky9 k . :She smiled and kissed me;? but I'm with a friend. I ha6e to tell her that I'm lea6ing? I ha6e her stuff. Feniks9 k. So I will tell my friend.

I took her from the club 1 minutes after we kissed ! without using any routines : stories created in order to make seduction $ossible;? without gi6ing her much comfort. /e both wanted the same. She didn't test me. She was with me between & and , a.m. lea6ing her friend. I must ha6e made her trust me with my body language and subcommunication. therwise she wouldn't go with me9; >ractise establishing $hysical contact all the time. It will hel$ you to sha$e your instinct. ou will ha6e more $oints of reference established through e%$erience.


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I.4 #ouch the "oman. It's "hat you seduce her for

Imagine that you're sitting ne%t to a woman on a sofa? and you're touching the great? smooth leather it is made of. ither you touch the furniture? or her. The choice is u$ to you. If you don't touch her? you won't slee$ with her. If you asked ! “/here should I touch a woman” my answer would be “6erywhere*” I consider a woman's body to be one great erogenous Eone. )owe6er? if we want to be really efficient you ha6e to follow so ! called “shadow rule”. Imagine a woman standing under a lam$? which shines right down at her. The $laces where shadows are created make the erogenous Eones. ou will find more information about this in the Internet. They will $ro6e that erogenous Eones and the shadow Eones are one and the same.

I.5 Stop begging

/ould you trust a doctor who asked you how to cure you I think not. Hikewise? a woman won't slee$ with a man who asks her for se%. She wants you to act like a male. #nd gi6es you chances to do it.
III.6 Isolate 7tae her in a safe place8

If you meet her in a club? be $re$ared for her com$any. If it's a street ! it's more sim$le. There's no $oint in a6oiding women's friends ! you ha6e to learn to deal with them. ake it all easier by making her friends :es$ecially her best friend; like you. )a6e a con6ersation with them. >resent yourself as a normal? rela%ed guy. It's im$ortant that you're sober in a club. 4easonable $ersons won't lea6e their friend with a drunk guy. The way you look is also crucial. s$ecially if it all ha$$ens 6ery fast and you don't ha6e Seduce her with your touch

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time to build your 6alue in a club. ou can escalate e6en if she's with her friends? ou can for e%am$le $ut your hand on her back? touch her leg with yours :if you're sitting ne%t to her;? or touch her arm in such a way to make her feel comfortable among her friends? but also to gi6e you basis for further escalation. Isolate her as soon as it's $ossible. Take her to a different $lace in a club :“ It's more Duiet o6er there. Come on? let's talk.” ;? another club? or to a cafe nearby : if you meet her at the street;. Isolate Duickly? but do it in a $redetermined $ur$ose. ou do it in order to escalate? not to talk. Annecessary con6ersation destroys the tension and causes $roblems. If she's in a larger grou$ of friends? it's always good to talk to them. ou need to assure them of their friends safety? for e%am$le by showing the $lace in the club you're going to take her to. Taking her to another $lace is also good way to make things more e%citing? for e%am$le during a date. -ew $lace L new energy. 9urrently$ I'm "oring on a ne" system$ "hich enables you to ha-e se& not "ith the "oman you're seducing but "ith her friend$ or sister "ho helps you do it. It's based on :9old approach; < approaching a "oman you don't no". I belie-e it "ill re-olutioni=e all the seduction philosophy 7it's being field tested no"8. ou "ill no longer need to seduce "omen – you'll feel lie they're asing for se&. I will gi6e you a few basic assum$tions that lie at the core of this new method9 1. # woman's life de$ends on se%. They are designed to ha6e se%. +ut because se% is such im$ortant to them? they care about he Duality of it? and of the se%ual $artner. /hat do you think is the reason why women :es$ecially those wanting se%; go together to clubs &. The way you talk about se% is 6ery im$ortant? you ha6e to use good 6ocabulary and ha6e the right attitude. ,. ou ha6e to ha6e the right mind set ! be a se%ually o$en and determined man. 0. ou ha6e to be able to understand the structure of a grou$ ! who's the most influential $erson. Thanks to being able to act according to these assum$tions? I had a threesome in , minutes :yes in , minutes;. I did it with women I hadn't e6er s$okoen to before. It was all Seduce her with your touch

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thanks to her friend who? after a short con6ersation with me? took me to her two horny friends waiting for me. -obody belie6ed me when I described this situation in one of the seduction forums. This account can now be found only in my embers nly forum. Summing u$? your imagination is your only limitation.

I.> ?espond to her indicators of interest

If a woman sends you indicators of interest? and gi6es you o$$ortunity to touch her? don't hesitate to do it. Het it ha$$en naturally. These are the e%am$les of indicators of interest sent by a woman9 −

$osing her body in a se%y way

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$laying with her hair or Bewellery

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breaking the eye contact :looking downwards or sideways? if she looks u$wards and shows you disa$$ro6al she's not interested;

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asking her friends to lea6e you alone

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com$lementing you

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asking you to re$eat something she didn't hear? but in a $olite way

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touching you “by accident”

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waiting for you

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following you

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looking at you if you go somewhere

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sto$$ing doing something when you a$$roach her

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asking “where are you going”

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asking for your attention

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getting closer to you

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widened $u$ils

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dee$er breath

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smiling ner6ously

)ere's the list of IIs. It's always nice to see her $laying with her hair? you can surely think “That's it*”. +ut let's shorten that list ! Is she talking to you @ If yes? she's interested. Seduce her with your touch

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I.@ 3aturalness of mo-ement

4emember that it's good to touch. It's my frame and I suggest you take e%am$le from me. /hat you're doing is good beacuase it gi6es her a gift ! masculine beha6iour. She feels great with the endor$hins released thanks to intereaction of two $eo$le interested in each other. #nd it is you who made it ha$$en. If she doesn't want to acce$t this gift? gi6e her a break ! nobody likes beggars. There are 2 billion of $eo$le all around the world? the maBority of which are women. our chances of finding a "oman delighted "ith you and your touch are G?E(#. ou can only win thanks to touching her. If she's interested in you? e6en the initial signs of disa$$ro6al can be o6ercome and made work for your benefit. #nd if she's not? you will sa6e a lot of time and energy which you'll be able to de6ote to other beautiful women. "i6e yourself time when you're learning to seduce. Focus on the general $rocess as a whole? and remember that e6erything you do brings you closer to the moment when touching becomes as natural as breathing. ou always win ! either you succeed or you learn something. It is thanks to all the e%$eriences I had with women ! both the nice and un$leasant ones ! that you're reading this e@book.

I.A #urn her on – ho" to dri-e a "oman "ild "ith desire

Se%ual state ! the feeling of desire? se%ual e%citement? se%ual tension? chemistry in her and your body. It makes e6erything get hot. It's the state you're in Bust before kissing a woman. ou always touch a woman? who's a li6ing creature who can subconsciously feel your emotions. ake use of that gift she recei6ed from nature. /hy do men become “friends with $enis” +ecause they don't show their se%ual interest*** They don't show that they want se%*** 6ery time you want to take the relationshi$ with a woman to a $hysical le6el start with se%ual 6ibe. ou'll fail if you don't do it. >icking her u$ by establishing emotional connection9 understanding? tenderness? long con6ersations about her boyfriends will get Seduce her with your touch

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you nowhere. Anless you $refer to beg her and ho$e that if you hel$ her with a broken sink she'll get e$i$hany and in6ites you to her bedroom. # woman who decides to ha6e date with me always has a feeling that e6erything may ha$$en. She feels that I'm a man who'll treat her like a woman. I let her know :right in the beginning; that I'm not her $ros$ecti6e friend with $enis? and I don't belie6e in friendshi$ between a man and a woman. I'm a man and I'm ok with that. # woman wants to gi6e her friends stories like9 “I forgot about whole wide world when he kissed me...” instead of “#nother kind guy who doesn't know how the things work...”. Summing u$? now you know that you don't ha6e to afraid of being horny ! you can use it for your benefit. I think that most $roblems connected with escalating the touch and $assing the se%ual state : the touch makes it easier; ha6e their source in the internal conflict many $eo$le ha6e ! the conflict between what they are su$$osed to do and what they really want to do. +e $roud of being a man ! of showing your se%ual interest to a woman. It's 188= better than si$$ing a beer all night long. Is there anything better a woman can get than a man who knows how to deal with her? who im$ro6es himself in many s$heres of life /e tend to forget that we're so 6aluable. I know that my offer is the best on the market. ither she takes it or not : If she doesn't? at least she doesn't waste my time;. I don't follow any $articular $atterns. I trust my instinct 6ery much. I think you can 6ery easily $ass the se%ual state e6en if you're in a large grou$ of $eo$le. +ut there's a condition9 the only $eo$le who know what's going on are you and her. ou need to construct a code of looks and gestures which only you and her understand. 4emember about isolation ! there's no se%ual comfort without it. ou are always able to talk to a woman in such a way that you can touch her face? her neck with your li$s :don't use your tongue yet; “by accident”? her ear? cheeks. >ositioning her in the right way makes e6erything easier. If you want her stand in a $articular way? Bust mo6e her. If your frame is strong? you always win. our confidence will destroy her lack of confidence. If you're in a grou$ you can always $osition yourself in such a way that others won't notice you caressing her hand? back? thighs or neck. It's an easy way to check if Seduce her with your touch

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she's interested in you. If she is? she will react in following ways9 −

she will sDueeEe your hand while you caress her

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her breathing will become dee$er

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she'll sto$ thinking rationally? won't be able to concentrate

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she'll ha6e sli$s of the tongue

ou can get some of these IIs e6en if you're with her friends. It's because se%ual e%citement is 6ery difficult to control :Sometimes it creates funny situations;. In such a case case? isolate her as Duickly as $ossible. ou can try the se%ual state on her? but only after isolation.

I ha6e two o$inions about “looking at the touching hand” thing9 −

if you do that while talking to her? and looking into her eyes :which is a must;? she cannot see it and it all becomes 6ery natural

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ou can look at your hand but do it like you were a $ainter who is Bust creating a master$iece. #dmire her body.

#he "ay of touching

It's su$$osed to be 6ery delicate touch. If you do it with your hand use the ti$s of your fingers? and touch her 6ery slowly and delicately. Warning!
Beading 7introduction8

/hile talking to women? I like to turn them around so as to face their backs. I like to hug them in this $osition. Thanks to that I ha6e an easy access to their necks? and e6ery :*; woman likes to ha6e their neck caressed. I like woman's body. I think it's a Seduce her with your touch

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master$iece? which influences my a$$roach to caressing it. I take great delight in being with a woman. I enBoy “tasting” and turning her on. She can feel it? if you really like what you're doing? or if your only $ur$ose is to check on different $oints to the “lo6e s$ot”. Warning! Forget about hickeys and co6ering her with your sali6a.

Bead her touch. Introduce her to your bodies' game.

>ut your hand on her leg? buttocks? chest ! the way stri$$ers do. ake her button your shirt? tie your tie? tie something around your neck? flick the dust from your clothes? sha6e you? $lay with your hair. These sim$le acti6ities build se%ual tension between a man and a woman.

isuali=ation

Imagine that you're ha6ing long wild $assionate se% with her. Het your imagination carry you away. The more attracti6e you find her the better. Such a 6isualiEation will hel$ you $ass your the energy of your se%ual desire to her. ou can imagine an energy ball which you are sending to her with your touch. ne of the tasks that I assigned the $artici$ants of >roBect /roclaw & and ,? was to think about se% all the time in the club. Their results were much better than with neutral state of mind.

Eye contact

Hook at her with desire.
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don't want to seduce her. #fter some time of $ractice? you'll aDuire an ability that I called “natural transmission of a se%ual state to a woman”. I do it automatically? through the look. I can talk to her about something com$leteley se%ually neutral? but because of the way I look at her I create se%ual tension. #fter the tension is build? one glance is enough for her to understand what it's all about. #nother way of creating the atmos$here of e%citement is to look at her mouth. 4emember about the “bermuda triangle”@ looking Duickly at her right eye? left eye? and the mouth.

Cse ata-isms

(ta-ism :in this conte%t; @

genetic conditioning. ur minds react

subconsciously to it? because we used to do it in the $ast @ before we e6ol6ed to humans. The e%am$les of ata6isms in man ! woman relations include9 unbuttoned shirt? buttoning shirt? sniffing one another? $utting hand on woman's neck? $laying with her hair :sticking fingers in it;? standing behind her? adorning one's body? long hair :women;? decolletage? bare legs? bare shoulders? bare back :women; tight $ants etc. # real life e%am$le. In the club. I'm ha6ing fantastic time with a woman. ou could really feel it. #t one $oint I sat at her? legs astride and ga6e her a dee$ look into her eyes. She became shy? tried not to look at me? smiled a little :“/hat on earth is he doing”; I started unbuttoning my shirt9 the 1st button the &nd button I whis$er to her ear9 @ es? it's really ha$enning* The ,rd button I take her hand and $ut it under my unbuttoned shirt. I ha6e ne6er seen a face looking the way her face looked9; /omen don't know what do do when they meet a man they ha6e always dreamed of. She started touching my crotch? but as soon as she realiEed what she was doing? she withdrew it. Shock9; f course she continued touching me and we s$ent the rest of the night together. In such Seduce her with your touch

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situation your $hysiDue is 6ery im$ortant. If your chest is com$letely flat? you'd better start working out.
#nother e%am$le. I a$$roach a woman in a bar and start sniffing her. She9 ”what are you doing” Feniks9 “I'm sniffing you” She9 “/hy” Feniks9 “I need to check your smell. aybe I'll ha6e to get used to it.”

reath

Talk to her in such a way? that she could feel your breath on her neck :the neck gi6es you great o$$ortunities to escalate the touch in a grou$. ou can? in a way? tele$ort yourself to the le6el of se%ual contact with her thanks to the neck;. 4emember that you ha6e to be careful9 don't $ant like a horse. It's enough if you e%hale the air naturally during a con6ersation. If you want to caress her in a more ad6anced way? you should $ut your mouth to her skin but lea6e some o$en s$ace. Then? if you suck the air? you'll create an im$ression of a $leasurable chill.

#he taling and the "ords

I won't gi6e you any routines. I don't use -HS :neurolinguistic seduction;? I didn't e6en try to study this method of seduction. It's not that I think it's e6il or not working ! I sim$ly find it unnecessary. I bet that e6ertbody who uses -HS would sto$ doing it? if he could seduce women with the touch.

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any $re@established $atterns. # real life e%am$le9 Feniks9 ou know what There are two little de$ressions abo6e the buttocks She9 eah... Feniks9 ou know what I'd do with you She9 -o... Feniks9 I would undress you and start caressing you with my tongue... Slowly in the beginning? around those little s$ots? and then slowly... Close to your s$ine... ? u$ to the neck : you can demonstrate it to her by licking her neck;. It lasts only a minute? two with the kisses? but the FFCT is great. ou can't beat that* +ut you still need to ha6e $hysical contact with a woman. ou ha6e to be honest and sincere when doing that. The tone of your 6oice is also 6ery im$ortant here. u ha6e to talk slower than usually. ou can $ause to build u$ the tension. /hen talking about se%? think about se%? and your 6oice will get the characteristic se%ual 6ibe. ou don't ha6e to talk all the time? and make her enBoy the con6ersation. "et used to the silence. It's a natural way to build u$ the tension you need to seduce a woman. #s usual? when seducing a woman? it is you "ho creates the tension 7for e%am$le by using silence; $ and it is you "ho releases it 7through a kiss? se%;. Ase the silent $eriods during your con6ersation to create natural chemistry between you and her. #s it gets Duiet? you get great o$$ortunity to touch her? look into her eyes? look at her full red li$s. Warning!
Intimacy

Treat intimacy as your ally. The faster a woman gets used to you and your touch the better. It is why I always say that the right touch makes the best method of seduction. Sit or stand ne%t to her? so that your bodies are touching each other. Choose $laces that enable you to do it? for e%am$le cafes? #s soon as you choose the right $lace @ where you and her are isolated from the rest of the $eo$le @ sit Seduce her with your touch

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ne%t to her? not in front of her. It hel$s. If you use all the techniDues I'6e listed so far and she doesn't res$ond with se%ual e%citement check her $ulse. She's $robably dead.

I.1D *orget about :What "ill she thin about me% What if she taes her arm% What if ...7you can put other e&cuses here8%

#re these thoughts hel$ful or not Thinking about $roblems causes $roblems. Thinking about solutions brings solutions. Thinking about all these things will influence your subcommunication? and the woman will feel that you want to touch her but you're afraid to do it.
I.11 #ests – get rid of her an&ieties

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with tests. /omen ha6e an%ieties because of the influence of the social $rogram? and because men they'6e met so far weren't able do deal with them $ro$erly. )ere's a chart that shows you the tests in general way. The basic rules you should stick to when getting rid of women's an%ieties concerning the touch are9 −

$ositi6e attitude to a woman. She can sense it if you're e%$ectations towards her are ok? and then she can trust you

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look at what her body communicates? don't concentrate on what she says

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calibrate ! learn to read her body language and what she subcommunicates

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8= of logical thinking? 188= of emotions ! don't worry about reasonable thinking? like for e%am$le9 “I'm sure nobody sees us”

Woman's an&ieties “Sto$ touching me *”

Suggested reaction “I see you're not in a good mood today ”

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“ou're right but I can't hel$ it. I get carried away e6ery time such a beautiful woman is ne%t to me ” “eah? you're right. Somebody may see us ”

“y boyfriend M my friends are looking”

“k? let's go somewhere else”:grab her arm and take to a more comfortable $lace;

She doesn't say anything? Bust $ushes your It usually means that she agrees to ha6e hand away

se% but she's telling you9 a; easy? not now b; not here ou should do your own thing


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Women thin$ say$ feel$ and act differently.

The following article will hel$ you deal with women's tests and doubts. y e%$erience with women made me draw a conclusion $resented here. There was one situation which really made me think that way. In one of the $laces I a$$lied for Bob? there was a woman who was 0 years older than me. She wanted to teach me the Bob? but she was a bit annoying when doing that. /hen I got a bit ner6ous I said @ I'll handle it :thinking fuck off ;. She got angry and cut me off with her body language. #fter a few months she told me that she thought ! k? you dick ! but she felt strong se%ual attraction to me. #s we dated she showed she's a hard one ! gi6ing me shit tests all the time : I ha6e se% e6ery time I want blah bla bla ;. I res$onded by looking at her like a little baby waiting for the show to end. I didn't like her beha6iour ! I thin my time is -aluable. There was a $unishment ! I ignored her for three months ! I didn't e6en res$ond to te%t messages containing se% $ro$ositions. /hen we met after , months she was humble like a little lamb. She in6ited me to her $lace and we s$ent , nights in a row ha6ing se%.

# few e%am$les9 Shit test – woman's way of checking if you're really the great kind of guy you a$$ear to be or you're Bust an ordinary loser $retending to be one. )er test may be $ercei6ed as an II. If you want to buy shoes? you ha6e to try them on. nce? when I was Dualifying her :checking if a woman meets my standards;? I said ! ou're such a daddy's girl. @ y daddy's dead ! she res$onded. #s it turned out later? her dad was ali6e? and doing great. It was Bust a shit test. )er body lanuahe showed that she's interested in me ! her $u$ils widened? she looked at my mouth now and again? but she also shit tested me.

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obBect :make her $regnant and lea6e her alone and defenceless in a Bungle full of wild beasts;. She's communicating you something. She wants you to $ro6ide her with a good e%cuse? so that her mind could acce$t you? e6en though the sociobiological conditioning tells her to watch out.

B? :last minute resistance the last barrier you ha6e to o6ercome before ha6ing se% ! she doesn't want to be $ercei6ed as easy by you and herself; ou're sure that you're going to ha6e se% but suddenly she says9 @ /e shouldn't :meaning “
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want to earn something? you $ut yourself in a 6ery difficult situation.

Bac of response < it's when you stand firm no matter what. -othing can destroy your confidence. It's the best way to $ass all the shit tests. The lesser you do the better. I'll gi6e you a good e%am$le. Thanks to my lack of res$onse I made lo6e to a woman 18 minutes after meeting her. It's only a fragment? you'll find the rest in the end of the e@book. She says9 −

N I'm sure you do it e6ery saturday

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N )a6en't you catch anything :Feniks9 “-o? I'm a big boy.”;

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N I ha6e a boyfriend? a few actually : Feniks9 “k” O no Budging? no emotional res$onse;

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N /hen was the last time you'6e had se%

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...etc. etc.

I res$onded mainly by saying “k” or “es” but without hesitating. She was looking in my eyes all the time? but I ke$t saying “k” and ne6er looked downwards. I didn't show a tiny bit of emotion or of being Budgemental :for e%am$le by saying9 how can you ha6e a few boyfriends* JI think it was a lie ! her body language showed itK;. The 78= of my res$onces was saying “yes”. ?emember @ -o matter what she does you stay firm.
The red hair :&5;9 /e're not going to fuck. Feniks9 There are many other ways to ha6e good fun.

To make it clear9 lack of res$onse doesn't consist only in saying “k”. It's all about being confident about what you're doing? and where it leads to. ou need to beha6e like a $arent? who remains indifferent to his child's silly beha6iour? but kee$s carrying out $reestablished $lan. To really understand it? is to concentrate on “why” it is working? not “how”. #s soon as you understand “why”? you'll sto$ following other $eo$le's ad6ice blindly. It will enable you to ada$t their techniDues to your own style. ou should always Seduce her with your touch

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think and act on your own. I don't want you to co$y me. I want you to make the most of all the information contained in this e@book.

. 9onclusion ou ha6e Bust learned all the rules that go6ern my relations with women. It is thanks to them that I'm successful. I trust that you won't abuse the knowledge I'm gi6ing you. If you decide to make use of it? then congratulations. ou'll also become successful. If you ha6e any Duestions concerning escalating the touch? or you want to im$ro6e your relations with women? or other as$ects of your life? feel free to get in touch with me.

e@mail9 feniks.$uaPgmail.com O05 37& 05 018 facebook $rofile9 htt$9MM$l@$l.facebook.comMFeniks>A# my $olish website9 www.feniks@uwodEenie.$l my english website @ soon


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I. onus 1+ #he iss

Some $eo$le say that as soon as a man and a woman kiss for the first time? she knows what ty$e of relationshi$ they're going to ha6e. )a6ing this in mind? it's reasonable to $ay some attention to the the kiss. 4ead this te%t and learn to be a man whose kisses become something women will dream about. I take it for granted that you remember about such basics as kee$ing mouth hygiene. In order to $rotect yourself? and your $artner? against any infections it's good to use some $ills killing bacteria in your mouth. Consult your $hysician and ask him to hel$ you choose the right ones. ou should also take care of your li$s @ you may use some s$ecial cream that will $rotect them from getting dry. It's better to start kissing her only with your li$s :without the toungue;. This is the safer o$tion which enables you to find the way of kissing that will be good for both of you. There are some women who don't like to ha6e their mouths $enetrated with a man's tongue. There'll be an o$$ortunity for this tooG; It's good to rela% the muscles in your face ! it's easier to adBust to each other. She kisses the way she wants to be kissed. It's also her way of showing you how she wants her body to be caressed. #dBust yourself to her.
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#he closer you are to releasing the tension – "ithout actually doing it – the more you build it up.

ne of the things I do with my mouth? while I could do it with my hands? is kissing her erogenous Eones ! the neck? the chest? the inner side of thighs ! and the other way round. Start delicately? a$$ly more $ressure later on. #s most things in the world ! the kiss has its own rhythm. Find your and your $artner's common rhythm.
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II. 1 onus + *ield ?eport 7an account from a seduction8 – using earlier described methods of escalating the touch – the odel

To show you how e6erything I write about works in $ractice? I'll tell you a story. nce? in the club? I got a $hone number from an astonishingly beautiful woman without using any sentence or $attern. #fter that I ke$t escalating the touch? making her hotter and hotter? and thanks to that I disco6ered that there are no rules nor limits? and you can do whate6er you wantG@; I'm gi6ing you this account for two reasons9 −

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I a$$lied the same knowledge I gi6e guys during my worksho$s e and at are ha6ing good time in one of the best clubs in /arsaw. +oth of

us $erfectly know what's it all about ! we are aware of the game and of the im$ression we make since we said hello to the bouncers and came inside. The moment we're a$$roaching the bar a waitress sto$s us and suggests taking a table reser6ed for somebody else. They're also aware of the game? and know that some tough com$etitors ha6e Bust arri6ed. It's a common belief that $eo$le come to the club to $ay for a chair or 6odka ! it's nonsense. >eo$le come to clubs to $ay for social 6alue. 4emember that. /e start collecting $hone numbers right in the beginning. +ut it's not our goal today :they are a bit different...G; /e get a lot of IIs from the women $assing by. -e%t to the bar? & meters away from our table? there are two girls. ne is a ra6ishing S)+ :su$er hot babe ! undoubted 18M18; ? the second one is )+5. # whole army of men a$$roaches them ! they try to $ick them u$? buy them drinks. The )+5 starts dancing on the bar. ee$ing to the rule ! e different than any other guy ! we're ignoring them for now ! timing is e-erything. The )+18 is taking $ictures of us? and smiles to us. She tries to draw our attention to her. +ut we don't react. nly for now. Suddenly? our eyes meet. I'm looking at her Bust the way a male looks at a female. #nd the time sto$s. I smile? I can feel the intense communication we're ha6ing on the subconsciouss le6el. It is a 6ery basic? $rimiti6e le6el of se%ual energy. )er look is becoming more and more blurred? her $u$ils widen... as if she was in trance... #fter a Seduce her with your touch

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moment she looks downwards... +ut I know that the game has started. # moment later her friend a$$roaches me She sticks a $iece of $a$er into my hand and says9 @ this is my sister's $hone number. It was the 18's $hone number and it wasn't her siterG; I call her 1 minutes later. *FF the rules – you should do e-erything that can mae you successful. e and my friend are changing clubs. /ould you like to Boin us @ I asked Finally? we decided to meet at a restaurant in the market$lace where we could talk in comfortable conditions. n the ne%t day? "osia :that was the beauty's name; calls me? using a different number? to make sure that I come. I ensured her about it? and said that I'd wait no longer than 1 minutes. She a$$ears , minutes before the e%act time of our a$$ointment. It's easy to notice that she's $ut a lot of effort to look se%y to me. I say hello? shake her hand? $ull her towards me and kiss her cheek. She kisses me back. This way of greeting is natural for me. She can feel that I'm a confident man who knows what to do when he meets a beautiful woman. y frame :the way I see reality; dominates. #he stronger frame al"ays "ins. Then I lead her touch ! I take her arm and $ut it under mine. I say ! ou ha6e to learn how to beha6eG; /e look like a cou$le. Instead of gi6ing her logical e%$lanations I gi6e her o$$ortunity to9 −

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be $ercei6ed as my girlfriend. I $ut her in “my girlfriend” role right in the beginning. I gi6e her identity which determines s$ecific bea6iour. She's in my reality. #nd I'm a leader here.

/hile we're walking? I ask her , Duestions? thanks to which I'm able to check if she meets my standards of a woman I can get more intimate with. 4emember that you deal with another human being? se% is only an addition. It may be fascinating but still? it remains an addition. The answers to the Duestions that are im$ortant to you form a good base for a relationshi$ that can be beneficial to you. I listen to her carefully and check if her answers are clear and $lausible? whether they are coherent with her body language? I $ay attention do the micro gestures she makes? the energy she is sending and com$are it to my Seduce her with your touch

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standards all the time. Such an attitude re6erses the hierarchy of man@woman relations. -ow? you choose. ou can always ha6e a beautiful body but I belie6e you want something more if you are reading this book. #fter we lea6e an riental restaurant? I choose a $lace where we can really feel comfortable. I sit ne%t to her. #here should be no obstacles such as a table that di-ides you$ -ery loud people at the table nearby$ a place near the entrance "here you can e&pect lot of people passing by. # candle would be a welcome addition. Then I ask her about her e%$eriences with men. @ It can't be your first date. I wonder what your rules concerning dating areG; :she broke almost all of them during our date; tell me about them now? this way we'll sa6e a lot of time. "osia9 # man shouldn't cross certain $hysical barrier during the first meeting. I'6e had different $ro$ositions. Some guys e6en suggested se% on the first date etc. Feniks9 k? close your eyes. She grumbled a little? closed her eyes and o$ened them Feniks9 It's such a $leasure to meet you for the second time ee$ asking Duestions she has ne6er heard before. +e genuinely interested in what she does. #sk her about what you really want to know. She'll a$$reciate it. #t the same time? kee$ checking her. 4emember that it is really you who's the most 6aluable asset on the market. Is there anyboby who's better than a guy who de6otes his time? energy? and money to im$ro6ing himself and his relations with women She starts doing mirroring – co$ies my body language. It's an indicator of interest. I adBust. It makes communication easier. If you also do mirroring as far as the body lanuage and the way of communication :the $ace and the way of talking; are concerned? you'll understand each other in a better way? no matter the circumstances. I build u$ se%ual tension ! I kee$ telling her that I find her 6ery attracti6e? $oint at different $arts of her body? and tell her what I would do to her if we were alone. )er reaction $ro6ed that I should kee$ going. "osia9 Sto$ it or I'll ha6e to go :I could see she's not going anywhereJshe said that because of the way women are brought u$ in our society ! they are ad6ised to $retend that they are offended in such situations? e6en though they aren't? or they will be Seduce her with your touch

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$ercei6ed as easy onesK but she couldn't admit that what I tell her? the way I tell her that? the way I $lay with her body and cuddle her turns her on su much. Feniks9 k? do what you want? I won't ask you to stay. I'6e made a choice to be here ! you're a free $erson and you can do the same.: #o get a "oman$ you ha-e to be "illing to ris losing her. It al"ays "ors but only if you really are prepared to ris losing her; /hat she thinks about all that is ha$$ening is not that im$ortant. /hat really matters is the o$inion you and other $eo$le will de6elo$ about her. /e go out of a nice cafe. It's natural to hold woman's hand. I'6e noticed that after a woman kisses she usually wants to establish some sort of $hysical contact? like holding hands? cuddling during a walk? etc. #s we walk she kee$s saying9 “ I hate you? I hate you...” The e6ening is warm? the sky is clear and beautiful? so we take a walk to a $ark nearby. /e meet her friends on our way. Small talking. /e kee$ going but make $auses for $assionate kisses e6ery now and then. #here's a day in e-ery "oman's life "hen she doesn't care about "hat other people thin about her. It's up to you to mae her spend that day "ith you. ou're a great kisser? I hate you e6en more ! she ke$t saying things like that o6er the course of the whole e6ening. /e sat on a bench. She started $laying cat@string again @ she mo6ed back e6ery time I tried to kiss her. I know the rules of the game? I can wait? I ha6e all the time in the world. ost men $ush too hard? they want to go though such situations as fast as $ossible. +ecause of that they get ner6ous. ost women $ercei6e their ner6ousness as agression and an indicator of low 6alue. If you remain calm? she'll follow you. y being confident you let things happen naturally – "hether you'll ha-e se& in 5 minutes$ or the ne&t day$ is not important "hen compared to the -alue of this e&citing e&perience. The lack of interest that I showed her $ro6ed to be the best thing I could do. -e%t? I ke$t escalating the touch.  steps for"ard$ 1 step bac"ard. /e s$ent the rest of the warm e6ening enBoying each other the way $eo$le sitting on the bench in a $ark can do.


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Epilogue

# few weeks later I was 6isting one of the more $o$ular $ortals to watch some 6ideos? and suddenly I saw her in one of them. She didn't mention she worked as a model.

II.  onus 2+ *ield ?eport – *ast se& in less than 1D minutes. )nly for (dults

I went to a club last weekend. I went alone? thinking “come what way? I'm o$en to e6erything”. I always carry a condom in my $ocket :you should always be $re$ared;. I went there and waited for something interesting to ha$$en. I won't gi6e you details about e6erything that ha$$ened that night? though things were interesting. +ut here's the essence. To feel the atmos$here of this F4 I suggest you listen to CraEy Town's “>layers”. The whole F4 is in the atmos$here of >roBect /roclaw. If you're going to come to the ne%t >roBect /roclaw? this account will surely moti6ate you. The whole $rocess ! from meeting a woman to ha6ing se% with her ! lasted no more than 18 minutes. Quickly? dynamically. -o $roblems. I took a seat on a bar stool. She was sitting ne%t to me. #ttracti6e woman with red hair. I look at her? she smiles. I smile. /e look at each other. The game has begun. Feniks9 Is my face dirty /hy are you looking at me this way G; :smiling? in a rela%ed manner; 4edhead :&5;9 -o9; /e had a chit chat that lasted no more than a minute9”
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She starts rubbing my crotch more and more intensi6ely. /e look in each other's eyes? at li$s. Then we kiss. )er tongue is S looooooooooooooooooong. She's a great kisser ! her kiss is 6ery intensi6e. I came at that $oint and there was no se%9M

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/e danced and kissed for no more than & minutes. Then I grabbed her arm? $ressed her against the wall and continued kissing. I $ut my leg between hers and started rubbing her crotch ! in order to stimulate her clitoris. 4edhead9 /e're not going to fuck today. I'm not that kind of girl :or something of that sort; Feniks9 k? let's do it tomorrow. 4edhead9 -o. -either tomorrow. Feniks9 k. Het's go to the club nearby. 4edhead9 /hy Feniks9 4ela%? I won't fuck you there. 4edhead9 +ut my friends are here. Feniks9 ou'll be back in a moment. She ke$t saying something like I'm sure you do it with e6ery other girl . I admitted ! why Duarrel I took her hand and headed towards another club. #s we were walking? she ke$t addressing me using my name? but I can't remember hers. I must ha6e missed it while she introduced to me. n our way to the club I $ress her against the wall? kiss her? rub her $ants so as to stimulate her clit. I tell her she's a great kisser :She9 I like it the hard way ;. I really admired her. It's im$ortant that you e%$ress your admiration in such situations ! se%ual abilities are 6ery im$ortant sur6i6al skills so if you com$lement her on them? she will o$en faster than she would if you mar6elled at her fa6ourite colour? or iberoamerican literature. +adboy has a nice saying9 “If you teach a girl to do a good blowBob? you also teach her some 6ery im$ortant sur6i6al skill.” : I heard it during his worksho$ in Croatia;. /e enter another club. It's crowded. /e s$ent no more than ,8 seconds on the Seduce her with your touch

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dance floor. It's now or ne6er ! I take her hand and head towards ladies' room. It's always better to choose ladies' room because men's room are usually more dirty and there are lots of drunk guys there. /hen I recall this situation? I know that I had the best state of mind I could ha6e had. I was cool? calm and collected. It all came naturally. -o inner dialogues. ar6elous. I sto$ her in the corridor se$arating the ladies' room from the rest of the club? and turn her on. She says9 −

N I'm sure you do it e6ery saturday

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N )a6en't you catch anything :Feniks9 “-o? I'm a big boy.”;

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N I ha6e a boyfriend? a few actually : Feniks9 “k” O no Budging? no emotional res$onse;

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I res$onded mainly by saying “k” or “es” but without hesitating. She was looking in my eyes all the time? but I ke$t saying “k” and ne6er looked downwards. I didn't show a tiny bit of emotion or of being Budgemental :for e%am$le by saying9 how can you ha6e a few boyfriends* JI think it was a lie ! her body language showed itK;. The 78= of my res$onces was saying “yes”. ?emember @ -o matter what she does you stay firm.
Then I o$en the door from the ladies' room. It's a good club ! it's clean and tidy? the clients are ok. ne of the bo%es is locked. # woman stands in another one but she's lea6ing. I gi6e her a “get out? you know what's it all about” look. She understood e6erything and $olitely e%cused herself. I lock the door. The lock is 6ery solid : unlike my game;. I $ress her against the wall. The bo% is large and s$acious ! as if designed for that kind of stuff. Seduce her with your touch

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4edhead9 /e're not going to fuck. :Should I treat it as an II in futureG;; I $ut my hand on her crotch. She gets e6en more e%cited. I unfasten my $ants and $ut her hand in it. She starts gi6ing me a handBob. I unfasten her $ants and start fingering her. She's 6ery tight. I don't know how I managed to get in u$ to this day. 4edhead9 )a6e you got a condom ui= time!! /hat does Feniks do if a girl without $anties ask if he has a condom −

negs her :-ice nails? are they real;

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#nd the right answer is... C* I take the condom out of my $ocket? but she says9 If you don't do a girl e6ery saturday then what do you need the condom for : F..k* It's wrong to ha6e a condom? and it's wrong -T to ha6e one 9<; I stand there? with a condom on my $enis :sic*;? my $ants down my ankles? and she says that she's a white collar worker and ne6er does such things. Then she asks9 @ /hat do you do  Feniks9 I do trainings... 4edhead9 /hat kind of trainings Feniks9 oti6ation trainings...: I don't know why this idea came to my mind ! I laughed like a drain in front of my la$to$;. #nother $roof for the belief that women like to ha6e se% with social status. I turn her around and take her from behind. I lo6e the moment a woman grabs my $enis and sticks it into her 6agina. She's like an animal. )er ass is great? she smells great? I lo6e the way she bends o6er. /e're done. /e talk and kiss a little. Somebody wants to come in. 4edhead9 I ha6e ne6er fucked a stranger in a toilet. Feniks9 Think of me as a gift. 4edhead9 eah? I ha6e ne6er had such a great $resent for my birthday.R /e kee$ on talking? I think the to$ic was this situation. I'm not sure. Iwas $utting my $ants on. First things first. 4edhead kee$s telling9 ”I'm a white collar worker.” Seduce her with your touch

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Feniks9 I'm sure you look se%y in it. 4edhead9 :smile; Feniks9 k? let's do it this way9 you're going back to your friends. I'll stay here and won't come back there? so that nobody noticed what ha$$ened. >romise me that you won't tell anybody about what ha$$ened here. 4edhead9 ou're really good. )a6e a good fun and do another one.

#s we were lea6ing the bo%? both of us sweaty : at one $oint we thought that maybe the lock had stuck;? we noticed about 5 girls Dueueing u$. The look of their faces was $riceless. ne of them was only able to say ! uh lala*** ne last kiss :she a$$reciated me ! she said “thank you”9;; and she disa$$eard somewhere in the crowd. I stayed and drank a $inea$$le Buice :6ery funny...;. I was really e%hausted because of her. It's always better to ha6e too little than too much. I knew that I had to continue leading and it was u$ to me to se$arate us. It should su$$osed to be a great ad6enture ! not a difficult con6ersation between two $eo$le who had se% few minutes after they met. /hat's more? an interesting thing ha$$ened. Asually I'm 6ery tired after se%? but this time I was full of energy. The interchange between the two of us must ha6e been $erfect. That night I had only , hours of slee$ but I felt great the ne%t day. #s I went back to the club where I met 4edhead we e%changed looks and smiles with the guy in the cloakroom. )e knows what it's all about ! he saw me with different women many times. I tell him I'm going to a different club. The guy9 #nother oneG; Feniks9 ou know? $eo$le should beha6e in a certain way. -ow I cannot go back there because her friends could understand e6erything and eat her ali6e. I want her to feel comfortable. The fact that I changed clubs is 6ery im$ortant here. S) didn't ha6e to be afraid of her friends.


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