Contents Max the natural ............................................................................................................................. 4 1. Defining your new world ....................................................................................................... 4 1. What guy a girl wants ........................................................................................................ 4 2. Self assesment................................................................................................................... 5 3. Frames ............................................................................................................................... 6 4. How to feel good enogh .................................................................................................... 7 2. Social dinamics ...................................................................................................................... 8 1. Sex a society ...................................................................................................................... 8 2. Which to avoid, which to engage with .............................................................................. 9 3. Women an Alpha me ....................................................................................................... 11 4. Shit test............................................................................................................................ 11 5. hot girls reality................................................................................................................. 13 6. 3 pilar of seducción: atracction, arousal, conection ....................................................... 14 3. Building a solid foundation.................................................................................................. 16 1. How to overcome approach anxiety ............................................................................... 16 2. What do I say ................................................................................................................... 18 3. Becoming social ............................................................................................................... 19 4. Body language of a winner .............................................................................................. 20 5. Natural verbal game ººººººººººººººººººººº ................................................................... 21 Learn better and faster ....................................................................................................... 24 6 Physically .......................................................................................................................... 25 7. How to know if a girl like you .......................................................................................... 27 8. Rejection.......................................................................................................................... 28 9 Long lasting first impressions. 3 rules of intensity ........................................................... 30 10. Little beginner tricks ...................................................................................................... 31 11. Closing – getting her number ........................................................................................ 32 12. Setting up dates ººººº ................................................................................................... 34 4, Sharppening the skills.......................................................................................................... 38 1. Vibing: Irresitible interactions to make her attracted (arousal) ..................................... 38 2. When she doesnt wanna talk to you ............................................................................... 41 3. How to deal with her friends........................................................................................... 43 4.Natural state..................................................................................................................... 44 5. Overcoming any dry spell ................................................................................................ 46 6. Shittest ............................................................................................................................ 47
7. Other guys and how to deal with them .......................................................................... 49 8. How to get laid from dates ºººº ..................................................................................... 51 9. how to have a one night stand in the same night ºººº ................................................... 55 10 Working on your ego ...................................................................................................... 63 5. Mastering natural game ...................................................................................................... 64 1. How to pull to NOT your place ........................................................................................ 64 2. How to pull from day game ............................................................................................. 66 3. introducing the No game – passive attraction ................................................................ 67 4. passive attraction through others ................................................................................... 70 5. the social chameleon- perfect calibration ....................................................................... 72 6. Finding her blueprint + letting her chase you ................................................................. 74 7. learning from a newbie ................................................................................................... 76 8. the power of what you don’t say .................................................................................... 77
9. silent pulling + umbeatable pulling mindset ................................................................... 79 6. Sex. ...................................................................................................................................... 80 7. relationship manager. ......................................................................................................... 84 1. Beyond the one night stand – managing yo ur relationships .......................................... 84 2. finding the one – special girlfriend .................................................................................. 87 8. wingmanship ....................................................................................................................... 89 9- life style ............................................................................................................................... 91 1. The man in his prime life style ........................................................................................ 91 2. Social circle game ............................................................................................................ 94 Tinder .................................................................................................................................... 101 1. introduccion ...................................................................................................................... 101 2. Your pimp profile............................................................................................................... 101 1.profile ............................................................................................................................. 101 2. shit test .......................................................................................................................... 102 3. Text game analisys ............................................................................................................ 103 1. Cph stunner ................................................................................................................... 103 2. Rockstar chick ................................................................................................................ 104 3. Gym girl ......................................................................................................................... 105 4. austrian beauty ............................................................................................................. 106 5. italian girl ....................................................................................................................... 107 6. chode game ................................................................................................................... 108 7. arrogant hottie destroy ................................................................................................. 109 8. apocalypse opener ........................................................................................................ 110
9. its about her dad ........................................................................................................... 111 10. sexting ......................................................................................................................... 112 11. Romanian beauty ........................................................................................................ 113 12. Vegas showgirl-ten ...................................................................................................... 114
Max the natural 1. What guy a girl wants
Game is simple, but not always easy
Looks give you permission
Give yourself permission (como si te sintieras muy lindo
Leverage your looks
Do take care of your body, go to the gym, eat good, shows that respect yourself
Beta male behavior = mediocrity at best
Alpha male behaviour = rich guy behaviur o Has his goals o Not taking shit from people o Money does not count Nice guy vs asshole Never take girl advice from girl o They do not want what they want Característica o
He is a leader Hey lets watch this movie Where are we going?
Show your world
If you wanna join, fantastic
We wanna be part of something amazing Let them follow you Speaking up Suggesting things
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Humor
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Do not take yourself to seriously You always want to to hang out with the fun guy
He is social Invatation Friendly with people He does not judge He does not judge people Reflection of yourself Showing how insecure you are Be confident with yourself Stop judging He has goals Know what he wants He is bussy
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He is not waiting for a girl, she is for him He is unapologetic Set of values Act acording to them Perfectly fine with himself
He knows he is not perfect He is always in good moode Despite adversity Core confidence Win or not, i gonna learn Believe he is gona be fine not matter what He has his own reality Strong frame
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2. Self assesment
Where i am? o Shameless Where am i with women? / success with women o I had 4 girlfriends o Fuck just 3 girls o Social circle, introduced. How do i come across to people? o When i am confident, i am a leader o I feel leader when i know more or i am better in sthg o
En la facultad soy bastante timido What is my personality like? o Undercover leader o Timido o Introvertido o Perfeccionista, me gusta el order. o Pienso mucho What are my goals? o Recibirme o Viajar o Ser alguien que los demás admiren Short term o
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I , Leonel ale, will do everything in my power to get my life handled, to becomer better with women and better with people. I will listen to my excuses and then do it anyways. I wil take any setback as a valuable lesson and continue my journey to mastery to a better self, a me 2.0. I will do something i am afraid of every fucking day, giving up is not an option for me.
3. Frames
What you look through the world
Frame = the way you look at the world.
Be optimistic. World is easy, everybody is my friend.
Your frame is supposed to help you in your journey o Personal motivator o Wing man, motivates you
Ex bus you miss
Ex 2 girld at bus stop
Game frame: helpful with girls and people in general o New reality o I dont care of what people think of me o Do eye contact Personal frame: things you honestle like-dislike o Bounderies o Cosas que no te gustan o I dont want people in my life that Manipulate
Treat wrong animals and people Lier
I am attractive because: o Should be aware of what makes you a good person Video games, series, movies, art Sport Study Visión of my life .10 things .competitivo . .
. Call to action: set up your frame
4. How to feel good enogh
When you feel someone is out of your league
Get rid of any questions or throught that is asking you if you are good enough
Be aware of yourself, of who you are
Be aware of what you want, having ambition, havivng a purpose
There is no good enoght
Go your way o Nothing more attractive than someone than go his own way o Women has to be priority number 2 o Male energy Powerfull forcé Have his passion Your purpose as a man is to give love o Of term of your passion o No matter what bullshit, you still do it with love Umbrace the unknown. o Feeling capable of finding the way o Ok caos, come at me.
Umbracing failure True self condidence o It is not to think you will win no matter what o No matter what happens, i will be fine Overcoming hardship o Good for gaming Lower her standars o 9 or 10 Not a special game Not try hard Focusing of being instead of doing If you try hard, she is gonna feel
Girls will never fuck you because of your game, o She will fuck you because of you Stay in set, stay in the girld o Mistake: Skalation to fast Interest: if the girls is still there Premature ejection´ Stay in set
Why the fuck not, instead of am i good enough
1. Sex a society
We are ashame of our sexuality
Media think pick up is manipulation
Hugh separation beetwen love and sex
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Society is full of beta male o Society view of sex Madona – whore dinamics o Whores who sleeps with everybody o They are ladies who does not sleep
Female are being supressed
Suppression of female sexuality
Comercial
Porn
Sex is eveywhere
Girls archaic code: they love sex o Wants to fuck
o Socially condition, you cant have sex Beta male cant have sex themself
Learning the pick up gives you the chance to choice
Complete lost of fun
“confess” his love. As it is something bad
Redfifine 1. Sex: everybody likes sex a. Nothing to be ashame of b. Nothing brong c. Hooking up d. Doesnt matter color, gender e. Agree of having good time f. Madonna – whore g. Girls have both sides h. She has to make her feel ok with that i. Encourage to feel her sexuality 2. Love a. Based on sexual arousal b. Never if you havent had sex c. Not for being a needy d. Relationship should be the result of abundancy e. Not saving you for her f. Sexualy open player
2. Which to avoid, which to engage with
You always end up with girls with similar personality than you Low self esteem girls o Manipulation o Mostly use her sexuality o Reason why the manipulate is because their reality is such a bad image that they think everybody think the same. So, the unique way someone can like me is by manipulate me. o Agressive. Pasive agressive. You know what happen. o drama o starts a fight for no reason. She need the friction. o Validation. o When she have everything, she loose interest. o I dont feel it anymore, because she already has it. o Shit test No bonderies
Are you not a real man? Hot girls, very often, has low auto esteem Halo efecto. Proyect perfection They behave diferent with people Shit talk people behind their back Victim. Poor me poor me. Look at her relationships. How tight are they relationships Drog abusse, alcohol abusse. As form as escape. Validation. Love validation Seeking for compliments Full of pretty faces, where they get the likes. Beta male putting people down. You are funny. Except from you. Pum. They need validation. Ignore her
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Low self esteem + love sex drive (lse + lsd) o Worst versión o Rapped, abussed o Love validation o Makes you a chode. Dont do that. o Psycopatic behaviour They dont know what they are doing. o Dont get them in your life
High self esteem girls o She is not manipulate, if she is she benefits her and the person who manipulates o Good influence on you o She cares about their friend o Can a i help you? o She treats you well if you treat her well
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Low autoestime Treat shit. Treat well High autoestime Treat shit. Treat shit. Treat well. Treat well. Odio interrumpir. Entonces porque lo haces? No pude resistirme. If you wanna get laid dont say things like that. I am a virgin.
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High self esteem + high sex drive o Keep that woman in your life o Pick up journey is to reach this girl one day o There are lots of them out there
3. Women an Alpha me
Women betalize mens who are Alpha o Excuse to break up Every women wants an Alpha male o They cheat in beta male
4. Shit test
Test you if you are are a Alpha male or a beta (betalization) Shittest underlying communication: o How well are you going to remain on your purpose o Hold the frame o Stay funny and be in a good mood Jealousy o We met the really cool guy o He is Smart and smell good Not afraid of competition You are good enough Not to be reactive
I am not sure about my feeling about you o Not be nicer or pay more attention o You should understand How can you be sure? Showing her high value Story telling to show value
Either them or me/ her or me/ your job or me o Please stay as independent as you are o Not sacrifícate anything o Say no o You are not gonna lose her You are a player o I love the way you are, stay that way o Not qualificated you o Comedy o I beg your pardom, i am a virgin o It doesnt mean i dont respect o I love being free o Not apologetic You say thay to all the girls o I dont worry, you and my mama o You are number 47 o How many times you see someone and want to know her stories You just wanna fuck me o I do to (traslation) o But i wanna make sure that you are gonna judge me o Not a big deal, natural sex o Not denying your sexuality o Look up at her. Yes of course i wanna fuck you. You are gorgeous.
Girls freeze outs o Goes to the bathroom o Not walk away o Stay there an open other people o Introduce to my new Friends let you wait for them o being annoying o doble question o NEVER ASK WHY SHE IS NOT RESPONDING o The natural doesnt care o More time to go to gym, go with Friends o Abbundance o Send something of low investment Dont text a question o Send something funny La del vodka
o Social media to let them know you are a amazing life She shows up late o To se how you react o Be late himself o After 15 min you can text o Aproach another girl
She dumps her problems on you o Not to be a therapy mode o Oh poor girld, give me a hug, Kiss her.
If the suggestion is better than yours, yeah no problem Real confort test o When she is intimidated by you o o
Full honesty Feel her secure
5. hot girls reality
hot girls are overwhelmed with boredom o all the guys do the same atracción. Show off o materials
compliments
put her in a pedestal
nobody is relax when he is talking to a hot girl
avoiding topics
not make fun of her
not challenge for the girls
girls love the challenge of the cool guy
validation overdose o every feedback is good o they get bored halo efecto o the more beautiful the more we proyect a perfect live on them
Hugh discrepancy between what people persive of her and what she think of herself Evert hot girls wants to be silly, be herself
She wants to be loved of who she is
Every hot girls is afraid of getting hurt
She is afraid of hurting the perfect image that is projected onto her o Scare to lose your imaged o Social status
Hot girls are seeking relatability
Massive competition among the hottest girls
More options, but not a good opción
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Not to be de boring guy Dont be the try hard Arousal instead of atracción Dont try to impress Spend extra much time Dont take it seriously There is no difference in the game with 9 and 10 See the litle girld inside her Asume equal value Challenge her
No pareces la clase de persona que hace eso Let her for the physicality
When she deserve it Dont take her too serously Dont take yourself to seriously Dont take the interaction to seriously Joke around myself and her
Confort first, sex later. Women Sex first, then relax. Men. Demostration of high value
6. 3 pilar of seducción: atracction, arousal, conection A balance from this 3. 1. Attraction a. Gives you the girl of the girl b. Easiest to omit c. You don need d. Helps you if you are a Rockstar e. Ex if he has tattoo f. Attraction is easy negligible i. Social proof ii. Situation value iii. Not always, only in situations iv. 2. Arousal a. Give you sex b. Key to the game c. Darle la mano a una que camina en la calle d. Based of the fact that a beta doenst recongnise de arousal i. Going out of the set e. Arousal takes time i. Only happen through time f. Step 1, take the pressure of yourself i. FFF fuck frame face 1. Sex is the most natural thing in the world 2. The more time I spend with the girl, more chances g. Step 2 the girls feel at ease with the situation h. Step 3 sexual arousal i. She need to feel confortable with her, with you, with the situation ii. Don’t pression her, give her time iii. Time iv. Social circle v. Familiarity 1. You prefer to watch the same movie because you should know what are you getting rather than a new movie 2. Cocacola vs yellow coca cola i. Avoid the set dying down i. Spice up the interaction 1. Expression a. I hate I love b. Edges not the normal of middle ground 2. Physically
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a. Scalation b. Not taking her or you too seriously c. Break the ice d. Two idiots hanging out Leading a. Ey go there Stand you ground in the face of her shit test Storytelling a. Convine emotion b. Give youself coolnes The biggest demuestra de interes que una mina te puede dar, she is still there When she is aggressive
3. Conection a. Is basically made youself human b. Trust to come with you c. Feelings d. Childhoods, good things about you childhood e. I never thought I would meet a girls this smart
1. How to overcome approach anxiety
With out fear
Any time a day
You would be able to take fucking action
Take responsibility You have to go out there and get Take the driver sit o Fear of talking: never go away Acecept and embrace approach anxiety Resist persist Let it happen, take the power from fear Transfer fear into excitement Go and act Excitement is not fear, is your body telling you are alive o Big excuse, there is other people Over estimated the shit out of them
We are the center of attention And if we do something wrong, everybody will look Exercise, busy street and clap People will look at you for a second They will go back to their life Other people don’t give a shit about you Warmup: start giving ramdom compliments Prove to yourself to talk to people Its totally fine to talk to people, people are just friends Warm up: the goldem phonecall Excuse me, its for you Accept the messiness/ awkwardness
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Embrace that, its gonna be messy for second or minutes Can I help you? Marry me Approach = open + calibration (in that order) Calibrate ahead
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She looks mean
She is busy
You cant see the future
Open and then you will see Talk to her Ego: expectations Wrong Pressure yourself The moment I said hi, I already won I dnt need her number, to have sex, just to say hi
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Missoportunity there gonna be a lot observe how a missoportunity leave away and you will never see her again create a leverage for yourself, when a missoportunity happen don’t expect to be extra hot, talk before stop scanning for hotness it starts in front of your door
warm up before nothing bad happens when you talk to people everybody is your friend call out your fear
you almost got it fear
fear try to fuck me over resistance means you gotta do it alcohol? You don’t wanna be dependent on something external if you do it at night is fine, but you wont be able to do it a 7am self confident
be a cool person
it is nothing you turn up, its something that is you
not when I overcoming my own fear
how = why
I wanna have the sex life I wanna have Call to action:
get out there and talk to people, do the clap exercise, approach minimun 1 hot girl
2. What do I say
The structure
Direct I wanna say you are pretty, most people Make your compliment relevant and different I love you style, you have to be congruent I love how the colours match with that I love the way you walk
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You are free
You love life I love the way you
Take the pressure of her
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Statement of emphaty I know this is weird, crazy Cold reading Connect to the compliment
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excuse me, do you like Donald trump excuse me, link it to her, don’t get stuck on the opener-make it relevant transition, or I bet you are day game, direct is better night game, indirect
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3. Becoming social
Becaming an easy to talk person
Becaming social
Start talking to people
Being interest in people
Every single interaction will get you better
Communication is the key of social pick up Take out your headphones, cell phones no more o Instead of asking question, made assumption o You wont bother people o You will give light to her day
Positive things
Reading a book, hey I like your books
While you are being social, practice implementing the natural traits of an alpha male
Be a leader o Group proyect o College at work o Nice and polite way what to do o o
Lets Why don’t we do this
Humour o Do you say this often to girls You and my grandma You are number 101
Being social o Invite people o To go to lunch o Say yes to invitation Be unapologetic o You are a player o o o
Be a cool alpha male Humor Strong reality
Don’t lecture other people with rsd unless they ask you
Stay at ease
People will respect you
People will like you, not for everyone
Open your eyes when you walk
Chin up, great everybody and loudly
Smile and people
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Respect even if they are stupid
Loud and clearly .
Do anything in your power to get better at this
4. Body language of a winner
Lean back, feeling good o Relax When I call a girl o Chilling out Eye contact o Communicate sensirness o Yes I am approaching you o Fuck yeah, me o He never care, he never apologise o Communicate honest o When you lie, you look away o Self confidence o When we listen something we don’t like, we lose eye contact o We can fake confidences, job, money, but we can fake realness Body language towards the girls o Standing or sitting at the bar Looking at the bar Not look at her Over your shoulder Open or close. o Square the fuck up when she is standing in the disco o Moving from a to b. move with her. Always ahead of her Do not follow Or at the same distance Walking with o NEVER GRAB HER O SOMETHING LIKE THAt
Gesticulation o Hands out of the pocket o It seems that you have a knife o Use your hands to help what you are saying o Ask friends where are you hands Position of advantage o Back to the wall o If she is there, it looks like you seem to be doing game on her
Be aware to check body language, and how you change your feelings
Call to action.
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4 rules of verbal game It not about what you say, its about how you say Paint pictures in your head Write songs in your heads
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Talk about you feelings I will never forget that picture when the first time I do The sunset reflected in the ocean Talk about the wind rushing When he resumes a movie, gives information When she resumes a movie, gives sensations
Talk about your passions o More excited o Personal development o Ex pull her with protein o Have you ever? o Whats your passion? o
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When you talk about your passion, you are doing a preview of how sex would be You have to talk in a passion way Cool pations Travelling Basketball Game Boca Series Movies Books
No filters o o o o o o o o o
You don’t talk with filters with you talk to best friends Is it cool?
May It look like I am stupid? NOOOOOOOOOOOOO I have enormous pennes syndrome If you thinks, this guy has an agenda Drop your notions, you will drop your filters YOU ARE NOW FREE When you are doing game you are free
Chain of associations o Powerful o Whatever the person has just said o o
You pick a world and say something with that word 0 logical coherence Have you ever listen to 2 girls talking on the phone 15 different topics in 5 minutes You will never know what you are going to say
I feel like a can talk about everything with you You never run out of things to say
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Study Psicology o Can you read my mind? o Sex and violence
Do you know that song?
Let me know if I am to fast
I don’t need a boyfriend o o o o
Girlfriend Dogs? Whatvere you want I have it I am the black market
I do I speak filipinos o Speak something o Not right now jaja . How to DHV (demonstration of high value) through story telling? o Mostrate I have I cool life by storytelling o Little mention and talk about something else o Historia de kevin tirandose del auto Iba con un chica en el auto, rápido, para demostrar valor Lo ultimo que veo es la luz y los pies de el tirándose
Trigger words o Freedom o Love o Climax o Orgasm o Very strong emotional response o
Pauses o o
Echoing o o
Bassically make more impact in what you are saying Make sure you pause to make more impact
Intonation o Seeking for rapport o Go up with your voice at the end o NO o
In control
Repeating what you are saying Give you time to think NO
GO DOWN WITH YOUR ENTONATION o Bossy manner in a good mood Volume o o
Important Don’t get people a choice
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Authority Effort to listen to a person who have something to say
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Day game Everybody can hear you Instintevely low your voice NO I hope I don’t get caught No When you talk very quietly, she doesn’t know what he wants Volume Up Clear voice so she knows you are opening her In your perception you are talking loud, but you aren’t Singing lessons Proper breathing Use to voice Resperar con el estomaago, no con los pulmones, con el diafragma Call to action. Go out today Use dhv storytelling Talk about 2 of your passion today Tell a story using 1a 1b 1c Go share it
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Learn better and faster
First rule o You should never ask in the field o What I just did? No. you kill the momentum o Then when you are at home 5 seconds quick assessment o When is always Shit for a hour o What can I do to get better o Brief down At home Field report o Start writing what you did o 50 shades of max are reports o Diary, more private o What did I do well o What did I do bad o What I should do next time Share share share
Take educated guesses Make things epic o Is it epic yet? o Something cool can happen
One more approach
Soak up lessons like a sponge
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Physical scalation o Calibrate fast One thing only is physical scalation o CALIBR ATION Experience Tap on the shoulder Give her hand
Is she cool with it? o If not, stop it No response
Kiss and give you the chick
Go back
She want distance in between us o 1. Stop the fuck whatever you are doing. o 2. Take a step back o 3. Statement of empathy Oh sorry I am just in a good mood You show her that you know you went to fast Sorry en estados unidos no era asi o You dont know what to do if it doesnt work. now you know to whatever it happens so be free to scalate o 4. Stay in a good mood. Change of topics Accepted my request His confidence doesn’t depend on her reaction Neutral response
Tone it back, try again later
She doesent mind
Mind on the shoulder. She does not respond.
Yes response Stack it up
More and more physically as long as there is a yes
Hug you back
Scalate o o o o o
Tap tap Shoulder Hand Hug Kiss
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Touch you Pull Sex
This is how yes look like
Use physicality to ping
To know where you are The natural always assumes that she likes you Start listening to you gut feeling Wrong kiss, hug herr o Do it with everybody Practice everyday Feel cool and natural Call to action: o Start being physically o Arm in her shoulder
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7. How to know if a girl like you
She wont verbalize it
Don’t focus of what she says
Its very very very subtle o The sign that she gives you Specifically focus on the eyes o Look at the phone Use the dance as an excuse to look at her When she looks at your lips o Want to kiss you o It is a good sign Magicly ends up next to you Can I have a cigarette? o I don’t smoke
Eye contact
Position to show her boobs
Touch the hair
Cross his legs o o
Little nervous intimidated I am not leaving
Girls is touching you
Laugh and touch you
Hit you on the shoulder
Any physicality
When she laugh and you are not funny
The biggest interest a girl can give you is: she is still there o All you need Use physicality to ping where you are in the interaction o Be aware of those indicators, o But don’t wait for them, just keep do it
8. Rejection
Enjoy rejection Why does it hurt o When we are rejected, we feel pain o Thousand of year ago, in your tribu, if you were social rejected, you would die. o Need a group to survive o That is why it feel so painfull Prove yourself that nothing bad happens when you are rejected o Look at you hands o Look at your face o Grab your balls I am not hurt I am the same I am still a man You are not less of a man
Look at the rejection compilation o 1. Rejection will never stop, but you learn to deal with it Change your perception Self amuse Humour Not better way to deal with rejection Laugh about it Be always funny o 2. Use the rejection to open other girls I have been already rejected They see you don’t giving a fuck Something must be cool about this guy In the bus, rejected
She is totally gonna call me 3. Rejection is good for you Pain in progress
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Ex gym
Ex when you lose you are winning Destroy your ego
Ego is the enemy
Awesome, funny that’s why they are with you
Self confidence is gonna go down
Imagine ego as a balloon
Outside validatin
Roller coaster of emotions
Detauch your self confidence from you ego o How?
o From rejections Your self confidence has to be always the same o Flat line Still take that feedback from rejection
Care about it, later
every reference experience is valuable o reasons to do game basket o reasons not to do doesn’t exist basket o basket of feedback game is like a monster
grow in a good way
not in a bad way o depressed 5 seconds quick assessment
What should I do
Go back to a set True confidences come from losing and shameless self assessment
Aware of your weaknesses o Work on those weaknesses
Know your streng o Having faith in yourself Rute of confidence Call to action:
Crash and burn o Not allow to pull a girl o
Your goal is to get rejected Where you don’t go to often
You realice two things o It is hard to be rejected o I don’t have to be afraid of rejection o Don’t pay attention to little mistakes o Not so bad when it happens
9 Long lasting first impressions. 3 rules of intensity
Natural attractive man knows what he wants
He don’t break eye contact
He is unapologetic
Vocal proyection
2. Eye contact 3. vocalization 1. Squaring up o Stand in front of the girls o Yes, I am opening you o Need to be aware of calibration If she steps back Stay where you are Not go towards her o Walk with her Steps ahead o Stands at a bar
Chat over the shoulder Give some attention Go back Give some attention Until she pays attention to you
2. Eye contact. o The eyes gives you aways o To open Meatball sandwich Smile and tell her to come You can here Extend you hand
. Point at her Give my hand Open . Keep it despite the context
Vocal projection o You show that you are not apologizing o Don’t give them the opportunity not to listen you o With to pansa
Call to action:
10. Little beginner tricks
Prime of natural game is not to rely on them Remember her fucking name o It happens all the time o When you don’t remember o Your favorite word it is your own name
Not to look where is the cool people and the hot girls
Don’t look around
Middle on the dance club o Dance, don’t look around o Not needy o You are the fucking party If you wanna scan to approach o Move your shoulders o Not only your head The poke of truth o Poke her in the stomach o To know if she is fat On a date o Give a little challenge o Bring a pen o Paper o Draw something specifyc Eye contact with her, stare at her o Oh really me, o It never happen to me o That is cool that you wanna talk to you
11. Closing – getting her number
Getting the number o Your reality: o Taking something for her o Lets exchange number Two people agreeing to o 1 mistake Don’t leave the set o Number close on a high note
Inquire about her situation o Day game What are you up to by the way If she is in a hurry, number close as quick as possible
Its all about her emotions o Such abundance o Don’t expect miracles from number closing Numberclose on a high note If you see her being hesitating: statement of emphathy o I know this is totally crazy, we just met o I only stalk people on Tuesday o Say: mira hagamos esto. Yo te escribe algo estupido, si te parece gracioso me respondes con algo gracioso tambien. Qualifying her o Whats my name? o Oh if you dont know you are not getting my number o I am not sure if I can give you another chance o Girls love working on you o Are you fun right now, are you the same in the phone Discretion o Not infront of her friends o o o
Pressure I gonna say goodbay, you are cool (to a group) Turning her away from the friend
You are never see her again if you don’t number close
“I have a boyfriend” o o o o o
Last text Shit test Don’t flinch don’t react Yes he can watch. I am gay don’t worry. Oh yeah me too don’t worry She does not want to see like a slut
Don’t fucking ask o Can I have your number o o
Please say no Do not do that
Whats your number?
Don’t wait o
Give her the phone
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At the center
Make it a mutual thing o Next to her o I bet you don’t know my name o Put something funny besides her name Social media close o Fb o Snap o Instagram o Good profile o Girls love stalking Fucking work on facebook o Pay off o Don’t try hard Abc, always be closing o Get used to number closing to every girl o Stop waiting for the right moment o Many times that you do it naturally Do yourselfef a favor and do the actions
12. Setting up dates ººººº
Don’t expect miracles whennumberclosing o o
Men logics vs women emotions Emotions can change very quickly
Solidifyn the initial interactions trumps everythings o Text game suck o Voice messages Texting o
Solid interactions Get her back into the emotional state she was in, when you hang out Call back homour Inside joke Initial text should always be low investment Not a question NO HEY HOW ARE YOU, HEY REMEMBER ME? Don’t try to qualify you If she ask who you are, say leo. You are the only leo Any gift or meme Go straight for the meet up.
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What are you doing later?
Oh nothing
Cool lets meet after that Or I cant right now. Ok, what about the weekend
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Ideally you have social media working for you Do you always approach guys in the street/bus?
Your investment should always be less than or equal as hers o If she uses emoticos, you can use it o It is hard when she answers jaja o o o o
Don’t write parrafos When you ask, don use ?. just a punto. Don’t abbreviate Use nice language
What happen when she doesn’t reply o o o
NO be needy Keep sending her low investment things Use it as a ping Sending to all
Go for the date on a high note o Lean back o Smile into the phone
Have you ever being in Narnia? Do or do not, there is not trying
Wear something cool so we match
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The apocalypse call o Aren’t you spontenous? o I am busy You know iam rich, didn’t I tell you? Lets hung out
Why? Because I am funny and sweet You always get what you want from girls? My pardom, I am a virgin
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Call to action o Call at least one girls per day
Text game Nos encontramos a las 8 30, siempre y cuando no vayas borracha, no te quedes dormida, no traigas guardaespaldas, no vengas con tu perro, etc Excusa para pullear, tengo que llevar esto a casa, acompañame. Que estas haciendo? Dysney movies o Lets watch it, only if you bring ice cream
Me gusta duro y Parejo, (el ejercicio) o A mi también me gusta duro y parejo, el sexo
Lo que esta entre paréntesis tiene mas fuerza
1. Vibing: Irresitible interactions to make her attracted (arousal)
Law of state tranference o If you are having a good time, she is having a good time Traduccion: Buena vibracion Structure of verbal game: o Flatline talk Hello whats you name Where are you from How old are you Estudias o trabajas?
Exchange of information
Gets to know you
Contra, negative, interview mode
No emotional
boring Emotional spikes I love you I hate you What a lovely country It should includes both positive and negative
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If he is too positive he must have an agenda
It is weird when you are always in good mood Downside. You don’t know then finally So, do both Listen to your gut feeling If you are getting bored, spike it up If she starts looking around, spike it up If she looking weird because you are too funny, flat line Are you drunk? Are you high? Flat line Las minitas aman los payasos y la pasta de campeon. When she re asks, flat line. De que trabajas? Porno jajaja Negative emotional spike 1. 1Not try hard
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A 10, don’t pull it down too much
Make it very subtle o Are you a waitress? (smile) o Why are you so fat? 2. Look at her reactions 3. Calibrate Don’t be a beta male.
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Don’t be in the awful middle ground
o Spike. Take it too far and calibrate Statement of emphaty, to calibrate o Smart people, do what they are good at
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Really smart people, do what they are good at, but not for free
Shittestearla o Seguro sea el alcohol que no te deja pensar una Buena respuesta o They are drunk
Validation seeking girls o are you waitress
Revelance o Towards you You make me feel like…
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Towards her You look like… You have a style like..
Assumtions o
Intead of asking I bet you are from zona zur Spike it Stereotipes Encasillarla Making more funny de flatline
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If she looks like she is rich, is because she wants to be rich If she goes to the gym, tocarle el rollito o Taste how she react o Change of topic inmediately o .
Sexualiazation o o
Whats your favorite position Innocent way What kind of guys do you like
Don’t have a particular
Have a particular o You look like you like the bad guys o I bet you like small guys Make fun of her
The super romantic guy
Good looking guy
Make her superficial seguroTe gusta ese (señalar a uno feo.)
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La mina piensa como va a pensar que a mi me gusta ese feo Where do you live? Ow ow ow not so fast I bearly know you ey don’t check my out I am no a sex object
BUYING TEMPERATURE
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Arousal Is like bicicles in a big city, like trading Otro la calienta y vas vos y aprovechas.
2. When she doesnt wanna talk to you
Approaching is not always easy
It’s a law
It is the norm for a firl to give an automated firewall response upon your opening o She doesn’t know that you are normal, cool o She think you are a asswhole, drunk o Is he dangerous? o She may think you are a beta male o She doeset know you YET o I always do this to see if he is a cool guy, cruzarse de brazos o Body language, you are covering you with something o Is he real? Is he staying in a good mood? o KEEP eye contact Persistence = 100% + fun + statement of emphathy o Don’t be too persistence only. If you repeatedly get a no take it as it and let it go Can I help you? o Marry me
Instant date No more bitchy girl Don’t give a fuck that someone is watching you while you open
Estudias psicologia? o Can you fix me? I am a sociopath
Where are you going? o Stay with me I am nice
Statement of empathy o Take the pressure of the girl o He understand the situation o That mean he is a cool guy Qualify yourself o Alpha male o Accuse her from being superficial o You always talk to rich good looking guys o Don’t be apologetic
I hate to interrup o So why you do it? I couldn’t resist
Premature ejection o Nothing is coming from her o Leaving to early o STAY IN SET o o
COULD BE THE BOOK OF YOUR LIFE GIVE HER A CHANCE
PREMATURE EJACULATION, premature escalation o Not be overly fisically o How do I know she is into me?
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The alpha male if fully aware that she like you
Fff- fuck faith frame o The moment I say hi I already won o Take action, you are in environment of not loosing o The moment you approach, go home with more than you left o If I keep doing it, I will get results o TAKE THE PRESSURE OF YOURSELF o The beautiful of natural game happen o Wish her a good night Call to action: find a difficult set and approach her.
3. How to deal with her friends
Her friends are who decide if she can go with you It is important that the friends like you o 1. Understand that friends are not the evil They are there to protect
Her friends will automatically assume u r Drunk
Creep
Werido
Beta male Prove otherwise 2. We frame We are all here to have fun Not get hurt physically and emotional Max, great night with orgasm Min, she could lose her social circle They have abundance. They have fuck frame. Girls
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What does natural do? o Flieratious and qualifying with you girl o Light herarted and diplomatic with her friends So much abundance o Be friendly with her friends o You are not drunk weird Open the hot the girls or the group o Nice to meet you, are this your friends? o Keep an eye on the friends Include to the party What do you think o How do you know each other? Tinder? o What do you think about that? o Giving her artificial power
Telling my girl, why do you ignore your friend? Stay here to party with us? o Try to look sad Your friend look so sad, o She says nono, she is tired Where is your group? o Bueno te dejo y la agarras de la mano y volves. Friends coming in: active active active
I heart a lot of bad things about you (opener) Upon pulling o Friends like you since the start Me and jenny are going to go o Me and jenny decided o Sounds nicers that, Can I charge my phone? Can I use the bathroom? babystep
4.Natural state
Any state I find myself is just fine Takes the pressure of your shoulders o Opener, I don’t feel like I can take any number right now
Be congruent
Girls don’t like the perfect guy, o
they like the guy whos perfectly fine with himself
perfect guy puts pressure on himself and in the girl how I am feeling? o Self asses my feelings o Stress o Pressure o Agitated o Not good or bad Ok, I am fine. And that’s just fine Take the pressure of the shoulder
Am I learning something new tonight? o o
Environment of winning Always come back home
In-club meditation o Let yourself be Overwhelm with the estimules o The loudest, the people, the light o Listening, smelling, seeing and feeling, tasting Every single bit of the music The lights It slows down
Predefinition: state + acceptance + things you enjoy o Make out with that one o Approach the hot girls o
Role play Play the drums
Embrace your inner nerd o Excuse me, my guitar and start play o Former band State o o
Give myself permition Calibrate Statement of emphaty I am a nerd sorry
Natural state: o Acceptance o + taking action (things you enjoy) o
+ indifference threshold You are so accepting that you don’t care You accept the freedom of the game I don’t give a fuck + take more action
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= you are in the zone Welcome you are in the zone Welcome back Basically where you take a lot of action, you don’t think Negative vibration Fucking hate Pull it out Fucking mood Bad mood game
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Congruent Make out
It doesn’t mean validation
It’s a fun thing to do
Taking pictures with any people
Im sorry, is 50 pesos I am dick, iam sorry. Make out Call to action: go aout, don’t try to get in state, full assistance It is just fine. Pimp pimg have fun. Peace out.
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5. Overcoming any dry spell
Dry= sequia
All of a sudden you lost it all
Self confidence is down
The game looks like:
Fluctuations o o
If you keepwill going Tendency be up
Bad weeks o Learn from the low phases, o Learn and enjoy on high phases
As easy as that
Gives me time to process my game
Lean how to enjoy and realice is part of the game o EGO Self confidence as a line Ego is a baloom, below it. It doesn’t have to be like this
If it goes well self confidence goes up Detauch from the ego Your self confidence should always be steady It always has to be cool Dry spell makes you realice que el ego esta atado a la confianza Newbie excitement with me Intermediate levels Learning every day Fuck somebody That is my new level of success
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Put pressure on yourself
To get the same results every week
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Learn from the exciment and never lose it Nurture your inner newbie
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Never compares yourself to others Never compares yourself to others Never compares yourself to others Never compares yourself to others You got to be aware of stop comparing Be inspired by other He is rocking it He is an example why game works
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Don’t compare yourself in termns of results Only compare youself in terms of learning
Go to bed smarter everyday Do everything in your power to be better with women
6. Shittest
Shittest o o o o o
Don’t happen because the girl is mean
Every girl want to be love. She just wants to make sure the guy she is dealing with is an alpha male Shittest is betalization Any shittest is a good sign that she is interested She would never do it on a guy she is not interested Is because she doesn’t see you as a sexual threat if she doesn’t shittest you Base line of a hook: the girls is still there 2do version, shittest 3 versios, she demostrastes Advanced (aggressive) form of a hook= shittest Most shittest looks very logical We are not gonna have sex tonight You are not my tip We are lesbians Is that your pick line
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Not logic response What do I say?
It doesn’t matter
Its how you react
You don’t have be low guard Si le tiro mierda, va a cambiar su comportamiento?
Va a ser apologetic
Logical
Proceed in what he was intended to do Fake escalation windows She iniciates make out
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Is this guy going to change he behavior? Take my number
Intead of pulling her Lets have sex
Beta male, yes go right now
Alpha male, I don’t know. I am virgin Late night texting
She knows you get up early
Beta, goes
Alpha donts Passing a shittest: the alpha male not striving off his path Staying with your purpose
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Not taking her to seriously Be as a lighthouse Remain with a good energy High vibrations
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Real-test Looking as a shittest You are an alpha male Give her some security I need to know if he is reliable,
Show her there is a man
Gut feeling
Real test
I bearly know you o Passing real test o Open yourself up o Show vulnerability
Absoluty into you o Give her re-ensurance Talk about my childhood o Good remembers I am stupid I am sure you don’t want to hear more
7. Other guys and how to deal with them
Frame: we frame o Everybody’s my friend a weare all here to party o All incluiding me. o Part of the mass o One people, one world o Spread love fun good vibes and respect Giving value
Avoid being an easy target o Looking for easy target to act outside o Looking for a guy who is not good with girls o Man up Body language o Alpha male behavior o Speak loud enough o Don’t be apologetic o Lock in position, lean back and be a cool guy
Calibrate o If the girls is looking like for rescue o Don’t be a beta male Screen his relationship to the girl o Know who is from the girl o How they know each other o Don’t ask them Innocent By the way, How do you know each other
I just met him
The desperate friendzone guy (non-aggressive type) o Knows the girls for a lot of time o Being working for a lot of time o
She is not kind but of girl Bethat friendly avoid him.
Don’t let him lead
Speak louder than him He is gonna take advantage of any shittest Isolate her Let his beta male behavior works in your favor
Contrast to your personality Friendzone: Provides rides, dinners
The desperate friendzone guy (aggressive type) o Keep it very low key o Avoid o o o o o
Make him believe that you are the fun guy Negatives vibes Focus on the girl Let her beta male behavior works on your favour Elbows, of sorry men your elbow, like I am sorry
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Never hit back He wants to show his masculinity by his aggressiveness Isolated her
The big brother guy o No sexual interest o He already has a date o Be friend to this guy o Respect them o Treat her little sister well o How much is the beer here How much he says
Omg to much. Is he – chris – that you been talking about? He can end up being you wing man
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The ramdon guy she just met o We just met o Focus on the girls o Don’t give her any chance of thinking o Louder o Don’t give the guy any chance ITS LOUD HERE o Elbow movement o Don’t be the third weel
Avoid confrontation o The guy who is more reactive is losing his alpha male behavior o Go back always to the girl Guys who wants to get into fight o To the outgoing guys o Because they don’t have the guts to do it Kiss her. That it is all you are gonna get from tonigh (closer) o You want to be the guy who ends up with a girl not the one go get into a fight
Do not underestimated the power of a re-approach o Pimp with other girls meanwhile o Let her watch doing that o Come back
Get away from scarcity-mindset thinking o Beta male has o Don’t be the friend o I don’t know how to get into girls o There is a infinite amount of girls out there PENSAMIENTO DE ESCASES ABBUNDANCE
Cuando pienses que “este es especial” pegarse. Lets go back to say goodbye (closer)
8. How to get laid from dates ºººº
Easier than in the same night o More chill o Good amount of time on dates o Enjoy dates o 1on1 time Building a date In a previous chapter. Two day rutine. o Number close. o 2nd day Close with a kiss, make out rd o 3 day
1 day rutine o Have sex on the very first date
Girls go to a date to get fuck right away
Try to pull
If there is no sex in the first day, at leats you gonna try
MOST IMPORTANT PART OF A DATE
LOGISTICS LOGISTICS LOGISTICS o The closer to my place o Easy to have excuses o I am already going that way o I need to pick up a jacket o Live on the center. Choose something that is closed by o That is the best café have you ever seen Excuse. Go to the best place. Its close. Oh lets go to eat pizza in my place MINDSET: she is coming to meet you, she is already interested in you o Chill, take the pressure of yourself, of her o Ideas?
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Bring it to your wolrd You are making this date epic, not the date itself You are the reason why this date is epic. It don’t have to be a perfect date Yogurt or protein to my face, max 5 star restorant, she has to pressure on how she must behave NOT IN THE FIRST DATE Don’t want to pressure You are the date
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Divide de dates in 2 parts o 1. Activity Going shopping
Buy something to you Excuse, give me female advise Bring it home real quick (closer) Grosery shopping
She feels safe
Shopping dates
Choose and outfit for me and you for me
She picks up the best
You pick up the worst and its funny Toy which represent your childhood
You don’t have to buy anything Going to the park Meet at the library Play uno cards
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The winner gets a drink, paga la cuenta
. 2. Chilling Cafes Home
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Pinging for the date Bring a pen. Give her a little task Bring strawberrys.
Can you bring your snacks?
Change for 15 minutes de date to check if she is coming
Don’t ask if she is going. When the girls is late
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Shit test
Gonna be late and see how you react
Ideal thing, you are late
Natural life style, you are busy
Approach a new girls if she is late
Omg, never again, five minutes late and he is with another
girls Don’t be to pushy
Relax, she is there to meet you
Date logistics
Talk to a group, to people o Its fine but the drinks are on you o Or you have to clean my dishes
What is she ups to If she has the day off Or I am meeting a friend in a hour And hour to pull How to proceed with the date
Being p hysical Sit next to her, not in front or across Easy to physicality Put the jacket in the chair and sit in the sofa with her (excuse) Pull first
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Rather than make out before
Seeding the pull o Excuses Anything Usually know whats up He forgot his wallet (excuse) I am hungry o Do that step back before she does it Only if you promise to be cool Only si te portas bien seed o Haven’t you seen that movie? o Haveng seen that pictures? I show you later o Remember, lets watch that movie now. o Understand her social pressure She knows she is going to her house. She understand. She needs a reality where is fine to be at your house. The spontaneous frame o Crazy day crazy night o Invite direct to your home If you have a good interactions before
Starcraft and weed
Netflix and chill
Do you cook?
We are not gonna have sex tonigh o Pardom me, I am a virgin o Good sign o She is already thinking o Wants to protect herself o Take the pressure of her o A last text Respond with humour Oh yeah that’s cool we are not going to do anything you don’t want I can go out and jerk off I don’t care End up having sex
Once at your place. o Light is on. o Show her around o Open every door Make feel confortable o you have folks room o offer her a drink o music avoid akward music hey whats your favorite song o have cool shit at home balcony
peluches giratiempo
escalation o she is at your place o it might be akward o she is still there one room no where to sit but the bed if you have a chair
sit on the chair
sit up on me and tell me your favorite song cosquillas push her away like a game do escalate calibrate iniciate the make out
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sex is part of the fun o let her escalate on me
9. how to have a one night stand in the same night ºººº
premier league of natural game
how to walk out as a winner
warm up o the longer the more difficult o begins in front of your house talk to people o in the bus, metro, subway, street o say hi to the driver o take advantage of everything to warm up o in the disco, talk to the first set open hey whats up I ve just arrived
Frame: its possible to take a girl home o Always it is possible o Has to be part of your reality Frame: sex Is not a big deal o Be reflective on how you behave Frame: the we frame o Here to party o Have fun o Meet new people o Get to know new people The mindset quadrangle o 1. The moment I said hi, I already won Think in the entire night Its true, overcome my fear I am learning I put myself in a situation where sex can happen
Everything else is a bonus Takes the pressure of you The girls doesent feel pressure 2. I move my feet faster than my brain can think Physically Approaching anxiety Don’t think Don’t give the time to think The power to think bulshit The more you train yourself, the quicker Throwing the kid into the water Force youself into the situation
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3. Any state I find myself, it mood is just fine Not always the fun
It is cool to be fun But not force Chill You get the allowance of feel better
Ask yourself how are you feeling
Pressure
Exited
Scare o o
Be congruent Be aware to you feelings
4. What can I do to give me a good time o Your responsibility to have a good time o If you are not having fun is your problem o We are not used to do We go to the phone
Fb
Youtube Giving yourself the fun Be creative Like in school when there was no cellphone
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The structure of the night o 3 half 1st beginning People are coming in
Analise what people are thinking
No party yet
Like first year of school
People need to be warm up o What to do in the first half 1. Be social.
To reach social momentum
Work on it to reach that state
Talk to anybody
Merging merging
2. Maximun numberclose Get to know a girl
She is aveliable
Logistic
Don’t try to make out
Don’t try to pull
Like watching porn o Wants to see what else is there Lets hang out later o Text you later o You probably will not see her again
3. Push your own buttons Find things you always like
Hive five The night is a marathon run, not a sprint Balance your energy for the all night. Bring gum. Eat well before.
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2nd half of the night o o o o
Love is in the air People making out with each other Feel the energy Party
1. Comit to a girl +
2. Instant escalation if you feel like it
BE more risky
Instant make out girls
Hughs
Screening for availability.
She has a boyfriend
Fiancé
Choose the single girl
Don’t ask if she has a boyfriend o o
Girls logics If she has may say she does not have
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If she does not have, she may say yes to see how you react
Are you married? o No. why not? I haven’t met the one. Single. My and my boyfriend are waiting.
When was your last relationship Let your wingman ask to the friend o Ask for him Behavior is important o o o
Being physical Hands Hughs When she does not have a boyfriend
Screening for logistics
3 questions o 1. How are u here with Want to knows about her friends Number or amount of friends
Jackpot, alone. Ten friends from work. Ideal. No close group. Difficult logistics. Number close
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2. Where do u live Ideal. Around the corner. Worst. 1 hour outside. Catch a train.
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What are you doing tomorrow Spend the night
3 stages of ever pull o 1. Decide. Screening thing to choose. You should like it enough Standar high She like you. She is still there.
Available
Logistics
I am gonna pull her no matter what
Pokemon choose. How well are you going to execute the decision. 2. Commit. There is gonna be some shit. Inevitable Friends coming in Cock blocking you Loosing phone No with public transport. Use a cab. If you are decided, it is gonna work. Do not change your mind 100%
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3. Babystep Extra rules. 1. Don’t ask Don’t ask if you want to go home.
Lets go outside.
Lets go get something to eat
Oh it is closes
Oh here is my home 2. Don’t wait
Elbow.
Take her hand
Go
Don’t wait as it is question Time constraint 3.
Lets go outside for 5 minutes Really quick 10 per cent commitment
4 components of every pull o 1. Vibing Having fun Good energy Good conversation o 2. Confort. Rapport Girls trusting you You are alpha You are sociable You are a person who can trust Talk about your passions o 3. Chasing- she feels likes she deserves coming with you Know the game come in Every girls want to change the guy Commits to the guy Earn the privileged she is coming with you Female ego You are cool. I like you. BUT. Not sure about her. She get a room to choose. You are worth 200 dolars Why does it work?
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People are more in to their own ideas
Rather than push push push They end up hook 4. Give her space Every time she invest. Back off Hot girls are not used to that Let her talk Get confortable with the akward silent She start investing She likes toFight for your attention Finally who gives me a chance to invest too Once you are in the pulling The spontaneity frame- it just happened Construct your reality that sex is sthg beautiful Rape the gift of sex in paper to look nice Excuse: here is to expensive, lets go home that is cheaper Lets play Mario game. Can you cook? I have pizza Watching a movie Weed Any excuses that works
Examples.
Inceptionalizing the mindset o Give the girl a compliment o You would idealy want to have o Omg you are so spontaneous o Omg you are so adventerus o Why? o Basic human nature not to dessapoint Omg are you such a smart kid They don’t say you have to go to school and dothis and that o Pretty and spontaneous
Occupying her mind, keeping the vibe up o Keep chating o Keep the vibe o If there is silent she is gonna hear slut o Is this the right thing? o Keep having a good time o Any ramdom shit Llamarla como si fuera un gato, algun ruido
Chick talk- give her that space o One minute to talk to her friends o Mantein her social status o And that her friends r ok o Text your friends and tell them that we are going to be back in 20 minutes o Give her friends your number Doing the state back before she does it o Slut defense o Take the pressure of o Only if you promise to be nice o Only if you are cool o Doi it before she does it o Only if you don’t steal me o We are not going to have sex I am with the period o She is very well aware, this is to be social ok
3rd half of the night o Going home o Caos o Embrace the chaos o Instact pull Drop logic o Girls are horny and confused o Don’t ask NEVER do you come to my place? o 1. Eliminate creepiness You have to make sure to not categorazice as a creepy Eye contact Speak conhierence
Not as a drunk
Excuse me girls, sorry to interface Not physically
Elbow move or take the hand
Do not grab them 2. Float net to the girl one or two step ahead casually talk by the shoulder walking in her direction give them distance if she need take the pressure of yourself you should think I can think value to them
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become a better man 3. Babystep yourself Walk one block Get into the cab Babystepping myself Get into the door
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Girl mentioning sex in the pull You just wanna have sex with me
Don’t denny
Aknoledge it
Don’t be apologetic
Don’t be a beta male 1. Yeah sex is cool, what? Don’t you like sex?
2. Validation. Coalification. Yeah but I am not sure with you, we lack conection 3. Change the topic. Don’t be vulger you have just say sex
Make outs: before or after the pull? o It depends o o o o o
Where you are in the journey Man to women To go out from the friendzone If you are not sure, make out Making out, there gonna be a sexual tension.
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If she looks to your lips, read the signs
Not making out to her o Slut defense Too obvious if you have just make out o If you don’t kiss her, you are in your head o She wants to know how does it end, like a movie o Ego of the girl, she wants to be sure you like her
The magic elbow move o Conforatable for the girl o Like scorting her o Like a ser o Powerfull o Sociabily approve o Lets you move her, to lead Be my guest
Pulling the triger moves o Exiting the club with her o Important to lead hard here o Get in the cab o Don’t give her choice Real test or shit test
I understand if this is so expontaneuos The loss of an alpha male o I don’t want to go with you. o Ok, good night o When she overreact Ok, I will pick up my jacket and we go
Enter your place o Keep chating in the way home o Music in your place o Keep the energy up o Show her every room o Eating something, having a drink Help her as an excuses even if she doesn’t touch it Something fast
Beer Sorry this is messy
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10 Working on your ego
Ego grows with your success
Detach ego from you state
The bar will grow with every success
Pressure
Loose and don’t feel pressure
. Don’t fall into the validation trap o Hey I am climbing in the social leader Dot brag to your friends o Don’t say hey I fuck another one
Don’t try to force your friends in game
Don’t judge other people who are not in the game
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When they are ready, help them
Negative energy o Start eliminating negative energy things Stop counting your lays o It is not gonna help you o
o Write it down Stop levelling newbie, intermediate, advanced
The enemy of mastery is “good enough” o o
Always learn more Keep working like when you are a newbie
Wingman o Old school perspective from newbies
Every seduction, every interaction starts from zero o Start from scratch over and over again Abundance o Physical abundance comes and goes o Dry spell Mental abundance is what accounts, what remains Game should always be a humbling experience o Humble man o Lots of expierence Call to action: be shamelles, write down what you still need to work on and what you are grateful for
1. How to pull to NOT your place
Live with your parents
Bad logistics
Don’t live in the center
How to pull to her place
Screen the girl properly o Ideally mindset: Spontenuos Horny Adventurous o How spontenous are you Power of words Commitment to her o I am feeling quite adventurous spontenous o I feel that you are adventurous
Pull to a friend’s house o o o
Pretend is your house I am taking care of his apartment Temporally living there
Pull to a hotel o Money o Scort kind athing o Take the pressure of the girl o Not mention the money My company pay it o Don’t make her feel o Excuses Robb the mini-bar
Sometimes I don’t go to my home Stepback before she does
Only if you promise not to break anything
Pull to her place o Where does she live o How far o She lives alone? What area do you live, BY THE WAY Ohoh it is 10 minutes aways from here ( guessing) Oh I bet you live with your parents/cats/roommate
Crazy cat ladie Those logistics not of a sudden
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Are you a good cook? Maybe later you can cook something to me Only if you don’t poison it Too difficult, go to other girls Depends on the part of the night
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You are messy You don’t care
Babystepping to her place Better at the 3rd part of the night Also works on the day date o I cant find my keys o My parents don’t pick up o Oh can I stay until they get home? o Can I use the bathroom? o My cell die, can I use the charger?
have a nice excuse to get into her house o talk about adventures pull to the car o easiest thing ever o bring her home o check out the view give me a ride
sexual in public spaces o babystepping is key o lead o lead to a place where sex can happen o the same as going to a cab the moment or not return
2. How to pull from day game
Diference between day game and night game o 1st diference: Day. They have shit to do.
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They don’t expect that
Night. Social interaction
Statement of emphaty I know this is weird
Say you don’t sell anything
I couldn’t resist
Don’t worry I am not a policeman
Fun
100% Day logistics What are you doing right now Bus she may leave in 30 seconds
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Close number By the way, where are you going
Your main priority should always be to pull o If logistic let it Pull her o
More babystep
Mindset: it is possible Instant date o Gets you away the guy from the street o Get the spontaneous guy o Ideally ramdon café o Let share the walk o Let sit up here really quick I have 20 min to quick coffe I am going to the gym My friends Is always late
Spontaneity frame o Funny frame o It was only 10 minutes My friends just text me o Baby steps I am hungry Let me show the city
Plan b. number close o You can already make plans right there o I have something to do anyway o I know we just met o But o Let see if you are fun by message too
3. introducing the No game – passive attraction
Mastering natural game section
1st change the world, understand sex is normal and good
2nd structure to hold on to, to get the reference experience
3rd core of the game
My game is good enough
I am good enough
Why no? why the hell no? why the fuck no?
Mental abundance
The no game-game.
Pre-sumarize: the natural’s motto: o 1. I trust that I am good enough for the girl, because why not? Fuck Yeah, me o 2. I am condifent that I will be okay does not matter what
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3. I have been through a lot Nothing can throw me off,
I am happy that I am on my journey 4. The fuck faith frame
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Slow down and let passive attraction works for you o The biggest wingman are Time The venue
Time- you best wingman o Because he is being around o She knows him o The girls feels confortable with him she feels confortable with me – arousal familiriaty virus safe choice from work or school she gets the validation from everyday example, coke cola because I know it the other could be better but you go to the thing is familiar to you
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the bubble phase o a good pick should look like o good game looks like both of you hanging out o the chances of getting laid are pretty good lmr- last minute resistence stay in set. As easy as that. o You don’t need any sign that she likes you
Indicators of interest o Eye on eye o The natural waits for a sign of dis-interest Ideally never comes You know the interest is there o The natural understands the shit test
Not real resistance. Talking resistance o Lets go o She says no o While she walks with me o Shhhhhhhhhh o Elbow movement Real resistance o No. where. What are we doing. o She is tenced o Not is time to lead o Is time to make her feel good and safe o Hang out with her o Be my guest o Give her confort o o o o o o
She needs more time Understand how to deal with that 1 minute It is 5 minutes from here Don’t embarrass me in front of my friends My sister
There are extraverted girls and introverted girls o They don’t give you anything o He is not giving me there o And he is still there o He is still trusting that he is good enough When they ignore you, 2 minute talking o 5 minutes aways o Adventure o Only if you are cool The power of the re-approach o He trust himself to much to come back o She is going on purpose so you can follow her o The signs are sutiles What the fuck is pui ei. PA o Good ways to come back So any way, tell story Come with another girl
Approach in difficults situations o 1 girls dancing in the vip o 1 girls dancing with guys o Undercommunications: holy shit he doesn’t care o This guys has balls, knows what he wants o The approach itself is enough o Speak loud o Better than whistle I can make her night better o Difficults situations are good for you o You are responsible for you o 10 seconds to do Every girls just wants to be loved o Self love is always be reflected on how you judge other people o Self on your confidence so you don’t judge people o If you don’t judge people you will have possitve energy Physicality o 1. Be physical Your move doesn’t depend on her reactions o 2. Calibrate Means he understand the underline communications High value sign o 3. Make her deserve your physicality Back up in the last second You let her work on it You are not giving her all the attention Passive attraction She doesn’t want to know the end Climax Female ego is strong
Why is he isn’t kissing me
Phantom escalation o When she is about to make out o You say noooo You are too young Too short o Dick move o Chode her
Fff – fuck faith frame o Is gonna be sex in the end no matter what o
4. passive attraction through others
Passive attraction o Use the venue for you o Let others give you social prove o Bringing people into your life Two best wingman o
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Stay in set Re approach Fff fuck faith frame
Venue
Think that you are by default
Beta
Drunk
Weird Scarsity in cool guys, In good options Those will help you Eye contact
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The we frame o Feel so good on his journey o So much love, he wants to share in the best possible way o If he had a bad day, he is feeling good with it Approach anxiety o o
Good verbal and loud Coherence sentences He is able to calibrate Re approach He doesn’t try to impress me, he cant be a beta male He stay in set, he cant be a beta male He has social prove
Is totally ok to talk to others Nobody is gonna do you harm
Upon entering and exiting: chat up the bouncers Shake hands o Remember their names o When you get in and when you get out o o Thank you o Red bull o Great them o Bar tender o Don’t try to fuck them, become your friends o Get friendly with the venue o Let the venue work for you
first half of the night o talk to everybody o passive attraction o everybody knows you o say hi to you o popular guy the hub o o o
old school pick up social prove circle bring back in 10 minutes with 2 girls cant be creepy because I am already with two girls net worker not to keep them entertaint
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girl bouncing o easier hookable girls o o
very open
5. the social chameleon- perfect calibration
Natural is an expert in calibration By doing, by the call to action 3 stages of natural calibration o 1. Me. Congruence
You cant deny your feelings You should know how you feel Girls don’t like the perfect guy They like the normal guy No more mask You feeling the way you are feeling How I am feeling?
Agitated
Scared
Honor
Energetic
Pressure
Drop the mask, it is me. Expressing your body language We can fake a lot but we can fake realness 2. The girl. Verbally. You are able to calibrate Spikes Flat talk Physicality if it is ok or it no Arousal Realiavility Discover her blue prints 3. The environment.
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Outside calibration Friends Hole energy of the club
1. Numberclosing in front of her friends. No. o High pressure for the girl o Beta male o You are lower value 2. But aware of the surroundings o Kick out o Patovicas o She will never defend you o Friends come in
The hand come in They take them If you see the friends arm cross Talk to them The girls wants to rise in social status
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We frame. Fast approaching vs slow approaching o Move foot faster than brain o You don’t need fast approach anymore If she is walking. Follow her.
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Wait for a better moment. There is not a perfect moment. When you can approach at any time, think. First you have to be able to approach anytime A newbie it is a excuse.
Call to action: go out expand awareness of other people
6. Finding her blueprint + letting her chase you
Give the girl space to invest o Girls wou ant to invest o Girls want to chase you o Self confident o Give her time to react, to respond Advanced form of calibration o The girls will tell you what you ideally have to do How she is reacting with everything you do with her o Vigilant, be aware one of the blueprints
Compliance testing the girl o Small things than a pull o Then more more more o You wanna gather yes, and less no. o An advance guy doesn’t wait for a yes, wait for a not and he back up I am bad for you (closer) o I cant kiss you I don’t know you that well (chase)
Vacuum o Give her extra time to invest o Invest on girls is like a fire o Fuego con las rocas = self amusment o Un poco de fuego = girls investing o Agregando pasto al fuego = vos investment o FIREEEEEEEE o o o o o
Give her space and time Position of advantage Push a little so she can invest He is cool with the silence Once you have sence of free from outcome Look at her and smile and wait she invest.
Strong reality o Talking about Things you like o Be unapologetic o Not be seeking from rapport o You are cooler, you are totally fine with yourself Only when you do this, it works to wait
How many guys have you talk this night? She says, I am a good girls o You, I like bad girls o Just the opposite o Too boring
qualification o Are you rich? Why no? o Estas becada? Why not?
Spread love
Good vibes, give people a good time, give value
After make out o She say something “you don’t like” o We are done, nice to meet you, o Don’t give her hand o If she leaves, fight for me Count until 10, until she invest, position of advantage o They try to invest o But they really don’t know how to invest Validation o Text every day o Give validation o Then taking it from her o This is so hard, like loosing something o Giving a lot to the girl, and then take it away from her Taking away attention, validation o Say please o She doesn’t say it o Ok bye o Look away Show me that you like me
I don’t do that in public Oh more private
Ok lets go
Reflect your inner girls o The better girls you go for
7. learning from a newbie
As newbie you are excited for any lessons Keep padding yourself on the shoulder, dude o Keep expand your horizont Get back to the “anything goes” mentality
Be open to learn from newbies o Never be too good not to learn from new guys
8. the power of what you don’t say
The power of words
The power of suddlenness
The underline communication
By the way… o o o
What are you up to Where do you live Oh you know each other It is not important to me (underline communication)
How spontaneous are you? How adventurous are you? o Don’t ask a yes or no question o Humans being tends not to disappoint Actually o I am actually kind of nerd o I am giving you information (underline communication) Cani be honest with you? o I actually enjoying it o o
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This is he being real (underline communication) You are special
I am 24 Oh.. I see I study this.. Oh.. I see (underline communication) the girls who are validation seeking will pay attention Taking validation away
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(underline communication) you are not special Darker path Negative emotional spike
Oh that is what every girl says o Everyone wants to be unique The power of your face o Expressions o Weird face (underline communication) o Look away o Laugh when she talk about her passions Patetic Or I think this is really cool
Negative energy, it is gonna fuck you over
Silent opening o When you are in the zone o Make the eye contact o Hold eye contact o Smile o Say her to come As a dick Normally o Come here o Hi, whats your name? Positive energy
9. silent pulling + umbeatable pulling mindset
Because you can trust in yourself you can do it
No matter what you are gonna be alright
Eye contact o Shake your head o (underline communication) be in your head o She is not good enough o Tell her to come o Cover her with a towel, a jacket Make out
My life is already awesome.
This night is already epic.
BUT I wanna see where this can go
Should be a big part of your life Never forget the humor when escalating o Always fun o Jock around and escalate Take the pressure of yourself o
Take it easy and chill Lmr-last minute resistance o When it is too fast o Avoiding, how? Screen. Down to fuck or meter
How much is she searching for sex
Why is she going out, on a date o Be nice to her friends o Never gonna said is to get fuck o Why are you doing late? I don’t know the night is young Important that she chase you
You are cool, but I am not sure yet… Instead of push push push
Do the step back before her
Only if you promise Sponteanuos frame
You are spontaneous and pretty o People don’t like to disappoint Keep the humour upon scalating Calibrate We are not going to have sex tonight Not to be sluty To see how you react
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Good sign It is already in your head
Yeah don’t worry we are not going to do anything you don’t
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Lets chill and relax
If she leaves, you can jerk off o Free from outcome You truly don’t care. Full abundance thinking.
the freeze out o music o candle o she doesn’t want to scalate o o
silent music turn on the light never ever be butt-hurt
ok its fine. NO. I forget to do this or that
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With a smile in you face She is horny Take the tension 1. Fully pull yourself away from her 2. Be in a good mood 3. Make her scalate again
She start or
Come back to bed
Last resource: talk to her o Need logical assurance o I have a boyfriend I wont tell anybody I wont judge you o Just talking
The gentleman escalator o Oh it is ok to make out o Be kind while you escalate or make out o He doesn’t care when she says no Means abundance Know socially context
The frame for sex o Maddona-slut complex Both sides Sex is natural o It is something mutual o You are giving something to the girls o You are not taking nothing
Non judgemental vibe o For avoiding lmr o In case we have sex, we are not tell about it o Story telling 1. Talk about a female friend
My good friend powerful women
Everyone respect her
She says, I gonna to have sex with her
I have respect for her
She admits she likes sex
True feminist
Have the strength to not worry about what society think 2. Talk about a story of yourself
One night stand
Great conextion
Beautiful respect for her o Chodes presumes sex o Don’t presume sex, is from betas
The speech o Sex is natural o Everyone does it o Parents do it o Everyone watch porn I totally understand if you have bad experiences If two people like it
Never get butt hurt
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There should be no reason why those two people are not supposed to have fun together
Make her cum o 1st rule. Relax. Take the pressure of yourself Arousal can happen better First time she is nervous Hard to come with strangers o 2nd. Be dirty Let yourself go Things that turn me on Knows what to do Focus on your pleasure o Take the lead o Take it easy, don’t rush things o Fucking braw o Music helps a lot o Avoid negative things and give her compliments o She likes to be dominated o Fuck faster or slower o Pulling her hear
When you cant get hard o Erections is like a state o When you try to force is not gonna happen o Chill o Relax o Breath o Lick her, finger her, turn her back o Do not apologise o Laugh How to make her squirt o Girls bearly knows it o They don’t know they even can o Similar to pis o But it is not o Don’t worry it is really hot 1. Arousal, she should be wet 2. Massager her clitoris 3. Make sure she is hidratada 4. Basic movement
2 fingers
Come her movement
Inner sealing of her pussy
Move your arm up
A lot of power
Pussy tensing up
Wetness coming from the girl Push her down so she feels more Don’t worry babe just let it go
How to lick pussy o Focus on the clitoris o Make out with her pussy o Hole area around Getting feedback o What do you like the best How to last longer o Round 2 o Fuck her again o o
Pc training. When you don’t want to pis. Interrump the pis at least 3 times
1. Beyond the one night stand – managing your relationships
Friend with benefits Play along with the natural laws o Makes girls attract to you Free stallion frame o o o
You want to be known as the player guy That is what he does Part of him
Have a non-judgemental actitud o Never talk about who you fuck o Respectful o Only if people ask it It is not a big deal
Always be fun and have a good time with her o Chill and enjoy o Fuck o Fun o o
Never be apologetic o Yeah I love sex o It is pretty cool Easiest way to make her come back o Fuck her well o It makes you feel well o Take the pressure of yourself Don’t become needy o They become needy because of the logic o
Movies, sex, activities Never say I am lonely do you wanna come
Don’t come back to be a chode
Every relationship is an ongoing and mutual seduction process o She will always seduces you o You will always seduces her o Emotions tend to change o Seductions is a emotion o Send a picture about she like o Send her a joke you were laughing o Girls leave somethings on purpose o Give her that space to chase you Trick
Let them text you that they go home fine If she is not so response in the text, don’t go for the meet up yet
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Managing expectations Don’t label her Keep it simple Always be focus on fun You can give her compliments o What are we?
Give her honesty
Let her go that there is a lot besides her
Sub-communications
I hug them. You are a such a good girl. o You are an amazing girl. But listen o You are chasing a relationship and I cant give that to you o I am sorry. I cant. I like my freedom. Not planning to get one o But I fucking love hanging out I love that look. Yes give me that look
If you don’t wanna to hang out and chill, you can go I understand
The true is that the more freedom you give her The more she knows you are a high value guy The more she wants to buy you Giving a good time and keep it simple Giving the pleasure of having sex with you
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Balance between rapport and attraction o Exclusive and fuckbuddies o Always have both o Open yourself sometimes Rapport o You should do it more with the fuckbuddies o When she knows you are an alpha male o You can open yourself up sometimes o When she ask to you open up, give it to her o You become more vulnerable Girls will always test you They just want to make sure you are an alpha male Be a little bitchy
Male female energy
Male energy: Bringing energy and love to the world
Like to come back from war to the girls arms
Abundance in the mindset o When you have fuckbuddies o
The less you care in the club
When girls call you out o Oh you are fucking other girls? o 1. Don’t be apologetic o 2. Also make it reliable Tell her why you like her When friends call you out o You are manipulated
Dude I am fucking jealous
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Undercomunication 1. Don’t be apologetic
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2. Don’t over compensate
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It is negative energy Get them out of your life
When I am scared, take action
2. finding the one – special girlfriend
Monogamy o Sex with one person for the rest of your life o Promoted o There is no monogamy. We are primates.
Monogamy is not in any species instead of human beings
You love your girlfriends, but you feel like crabbing other women
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Finding the one.
Its choosing her. o Come from adbundance o Not necesarely the hottes one o Ideally a girls you get along with o High self autoestime o Like sex o Ideally she is bisexual, so she can join you Managing expectations o Hey you, your positions as my queen is not in danger o o o o o
Nothing you have to be worry about Nothing can change what I feel for you I love you because, you are such an amazing girl Sex is not a big deal If you wanna have sex with other, you should let her do the same
The more freedom you give a woman to walk away, the more she wants to stay with you Frame: she is fucking those nerds, those chodes Hot girls reality o Abundance of choices o Abbudance of fear to choose the right chose
Social condition size: she will be you queen.
As a long you remain as an alpha male. Important that she is high autoestime
Other option: you are in an exclusive relationship o you can cheat sex. Tension for us. Bad lier. Be free make sure she is very very awesome o fuck very well love o o
are you really in love with her or are you in love with the longing for love (feeling with her) dry spell the game is to hard it comes from scarcity
not from abundance love should not be painful o I cant stop thinking of her. Not love. o I need her in my life. Not love. o I cant live without her. Not love.
come back stronger. Get over. Learn from it.
Love should be something wonderfull
You shouldn’t use love to buy her
Love means: you are having fun with you. I will love to keep having fun for you
How to get a wingman o Be the kind of person you want in your life o Stop searching value on a wingman Post on your local inner circles on facebook o Go out o Motivate others o Get better Knowledge on others habits o Physical o Poker o Teach you something teach you the other Logistics o Apartment in the center o Car
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rsd inner circle -buenos aires
natural facebook group
don’t ask or demand to be your wing man o offer value to be the wingman
your friends o I try to make my chode friends o You cant do that for them o They have to want themselves o Get them drunk o Talk to girls o Introduced them
Lead by example, don’t try to convinced them
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Learn for everything
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You can learn for a newbie who has never talk to a girl Wingman rules Talk to each other before going out o 1.The guy who approach the set is the guy who choose the girls But don’t take it to much It is about opening, not seeing o 2. Wing him, wing him Going to talk to the fatty until he pull the hottie o 3. Never make a fun of him, unless is a code If he had a bad night Instead, motivated him Pick him up until he gets out
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4. Don’t ego. You shouldn’t be doing this.
Lets try this next time We both wanna be better with game
How to game in set, with your wingman o Push each other Do it o Give each other permission, than doing for yourself o Get to know each other What are you doing What your job What is cool about you? o Approach in itself Open alone Not two shy guys together Then the wingman comes in When they are open
Laughs, when she thinks you are the cool guy DLB body language Don’t make fun of your friend Don’t stave your friend
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Screen for your wingman’s girls availability o Those are having a good time, is she single?
Two and two o Ideal But as a wingman you want him to pull Crossgaming o I don’t trust your friend who is with my friend o Those girls should be cool with coming with you o And letting her friend going with your wingman In set communication o Who’s target o Head movement Touch ears
Left
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Upon pulling o Communicate Texting Are you texting each other?
The groups they are sending porn Open communication Lets go have dinner
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Merge girls in Open another girls Introduce them Building in each others jokes We are brothers If he is older, he is my dad
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1. The man in his prime life style
Own you fucking life
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Expansion faces Penetrate in the world
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Contraction faces Chill Settle down Acepte
Get out there and create the best expansion phase that you have ever seen in your goddamn fucken life o 1. Set clear goals Dream big, make it ridiculous
A world where everything is possible What does it take to get there?
Open mind
Good relationchips
Good communications What is the very first step?
Start reading books
Accumulate knowledge Be bought in, believe for 100%
World is fare
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Fuck that “I am not ready yet”
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Do it anyways You are ready when you do the thing you have fear Start letting go 1. Let go friends that drog you down Choose to hang out with people who want to grow up
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The question Is this bringing me further in my life?
Drop anything that is not
You can recover from hustling and play video games o watch series, but not always Rybrym: respect your body, respect your mind Cook yourself Eat healthy Mentaly sharp Commit to myself Work out Resistance
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Cardio Enjoying pain To much in common with game
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Meditation Respect your mind Stop thinking You cant stop thinking Meditate, a break from your brain Physically floating
Sit down. Fit together
Straight spine
Hold your hands
Should be confortable
Open eyes, looking at a white wall
Or close eyes o Be aware of emotional sensation about my body o Accept those feelings o A ghost that comes thow you Don’t forget to focus on breathing deeply and slowly o o o o o
Become aware of your thoughts: nurture positivity, cut out negativity o No thank you to those things you don’t want o Like it is your house o Feed nurture positivity o Moraleja de los lobos. Va a ganar el que vos alimentes Frames: o
Accepting your thoghts Being at the moment Past or future 20-15-10-5 minutes Keep your mind at rest
Mindset of your mind
Be open minded o Give your brain new challenges o
Read No fucking time is gonna be wasted Resting (contraction phase) o Back to your expansion phase o Tomar impulse para saltar mas alto o Listen to body Don’t hate yourself when you rest
Love yourself when you are rocking and when you are sleeping o Sleeping just when you need it Resting is productive too Cheat day, every month o Celebrate with fast food o o
No work all day No gym
Cold showers o From beginning to the end o Wake you up o Show your body who is the boss o First the head o Shorter showers o Your body will say no, and you do it o It will help you to reach girls The human mind is the most powerful force in the universe o You are unstoppable Make yourself a little bit uncortable every day Seek motivation and inspiration o Motivation on youtube o Help me
Having goals
Having friends
Autobiographies o Show you that they could success
Continuous repetition of your goals o How=why o Repeat your goals o Visualize them o The same with my frames o Flame is always burning
Read stories, read reports To fap or not to fap? o Talk to girls instead of fap o No other chance But I have a job o Organice your time o o o o o
Go to school Work out Work Go out Eat well
Call to action o Create a excel shit Reading Pick up No fap Gym Eating clean
Meditation There has to be continuity
2. Social circle game
Game for the hole life
Take the more benefit if you play the long term
Social circle and social prove
Work is social
College is social
Impact on your carreer o Popular o People want to hang out with you
Also in the clubs Long term relationships o Amazing stily in his life
Go early to scan the class
Talk to the people, give some colour to their lifes
They are happy that somebody take the lead o You are gonna do this o Massive social prove/proof o Not movements towards the girls o Who are you? Elevator o I forgot my jacket/phone there o Bring the girl into the elevator o Go out o Make out
80% non sexual
20% escalated verbaly and sexualy
The power of social game
Concepts o Inner circle Personal you and your buddies
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Girlfriend Picture her como el pulgar Los 4 dedos son el inner circle Cut a lot of Friends at first They have to be social Have the same vibe The same mindset Friends or your best friends Still in touch with them External circle Friends of your friends People you know
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Bubble Extra social circle Gente que voy a la cancha You need the Alpha Cool with themselves
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The more the better The more quality The chodes
You have to respect them
Shy
Crushing on someone else
In the group o At least a 7, girl o You dont want a bitch o Carismatic girls Do not fuck her She is a diamond Friendzone her
Treat like if she is your sister Organicer Organice things Barbecue Studying Happenings If you do not have the time to do it Groupies Perfect to get laid They are hot Don’t have a bond with the circle If they talk shit about you it wont afecct you As much as possible Other guys Don’t invite Non judgemental actitudes Fatties Treat them as good as possible You are my friend I respect you Have really hot girl friends Wingman Couples Relationships You can cut them because they have girlfriends If you have too many couples the party goes down Sit them separated
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10 rules of a social pimp o 1st farmer instead of a hunter Long term game Where you wanna go In the background While going out you are still with other women
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2nd be a connector Community Your job to introduce them They would really appreaciate It is a big thing to ask for help for some people We don’t have this approach anxiety rd 3 be a mentor Offer advised to everyone who may need it Help them in anything Improve this social reach Vibing a mentor 4th be a student Let people teach you You are not an arrogant He is willing to learn Be reflected They will be willing to help you 5th be a leader Most of the time Don’t be arrogant If the group want another thing is ok Lets go You don’t have to bethe ceo But you have to influenciate But you don’t take the last decision But don’t EVER SAY anything is fine to me th 6 helping hand Be there The better you are at helping people Has to much impact Leverage your social prove 7th be a good entertainment Don’t drop your problems My credit cards are wrong They don’t want to hear about your problems Has a good vibe, good energy 8th be a good listener You are there for everybody Give advice Try to read people If you feel that someone feels bad Step forward 9th be reliable
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Keep your word If you don’t, people will know that th 10 be a defender Alpha male Shy girls
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Beta males Chodes You have to defend them They are insecured Very big part of being a leader
Goal. Be the most popular guy o You will probally fail 1. You have to be the most popular IN THE NICH o Understand which social environment you fill in
Game momentum
2. Have diferent enviroments
3. Make a toxic list o Review o Write down their names o Lines about them o What I did wrong o What he does to me o Is it worth to invest or keep like this or avoid o Get loose o Easy to let go o As a group thing, is more difficult o No bad energy 4. Merging your own expectations about other people o Cool people who want to hang out with you o Really good at game o When he knows the girl and feel confortable he is good Manage your own expectations o Don’t expect people do things for you
5. Get the logistics rights o Bars and club of your nich o Move near here o Able to host people o Not in your room, because you want to pull o Other people need alcohol 6. CREATE A BRAND o When you have a brand o Everyone knows what is o Inside jocks o Everyone knows your place o A gorilla 7. Create memories and rituals o Easter o o o o
Superwold Final the champions Some days you forget easily You remember this days
8. How to create memories o you are responsible for your party o people drunk o house gets messy o 2/3 girls 1 /3 guys o Simple theme o White party o Black party o Halloween o Stick to the theme o Get a dj Not in your places party
Bars where you don’t pay entrance
not into a club because you have to pay entrances friend who likes to party at his house new people coming in fresh air can you help me to clean? Pull easier Be ready to clean up Put trush to throw there every where Have essential alcohol and people bring more
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Beer pong
Cards
Be good with neighbor o Plan b
9 dinners o Keep it cool o Movie o Social games o Weed o Strength the circle o Fifa Don’t invite girls Championshit, competitive o Game night. Nerds. Around the table Play game. Is fine Do it sometimes o Need a teammate o Play twister 10. Talk talk talk o Headphones out o Talk to people o Meet more people o Talk to the people who work there. Give some colour to them who are working. They will know you.
10. Never eat alone o Good frame o At the same time o Join then o Great thing to socialize Alcohol and drugs o People drink o We don’t drink o They ask you Do not get apologetic They start lecturing
Yeah I don’t drink, not a big deal
Respect what they are drinking
There is no efficient way to be social o Whenever they invite you you have to say yes o I might end up being late Accept the chodes and the alphas o Don’t discriminate o It is your ego o I respect you Never give no solicitado advice o Lead by the example o At least little tips o Anyway o Don’t talk down o At the same eye level Learn to enjoy boy nights too Pick up is creepy to most people o Don’t be apologetic o I watch some videos o o
Don’t close to much In front of your social circle o Don’t too much. From attractive to weird A gentlemen doesn’t talk about who you are fucking o o
I read some books Don’t lecture people about it
Better be careful with what you say Don’t need to brag
Don’t get lazy o
You shouldn’t stop trying new things
Don’t use social game to do not approach
Don’t you dare to lay your inner circle
Never ever swicht into pick up mode o o
It is a life style Part of your every day life
New country for 3 months o What you do? 1. Airbnb
To know where you live 2. Start searching the best place Try to end up there 3. Talk as many people you can 4. Supermarkets 5. Approach but do not pull yet Babystepping You are a social guy Hey we should do a pre-game before
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Work o o o o o o
Don’t shit where you eat
Inner circle Fuck their friends End up your carreer if they know you band every collage Be social Be fun
1.profile
Pictures o o
Great quality Snapchat effect Don’t look to the camara Smile Look interesting Description 1+2+3+4 = passion. Penis. Small penis, big heart I wash my bear with head and shoulders Pleeeease don’t be fat Ridiculizar profesion
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2. shit test
Disqualifying myself
Not asking questions
Are you fat? Ajajajajaj
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1. Cph stunner
Don’t ask fucking questions o She gets a millons times
Opener “just a smalltown girl”
Don’t use ?
How sponteneuos are you? o It is pushy o Bet first before asking for a date do the stepback before she does it o unless it is too nerdy for you wear something cute so we match
2. Rockstar chick Opener: Bueno, soy un hombre fertil con Buena salud. Los dos tenemos edad como para conocer gente…
3. Gym girl
4. austrian beauty
5. italian girl
6. chode game
7. arrogant hottie destroy
8. apocalypse opener
9. its about her dad
10. sexting
11. Romanian beauty
12. Vegas showgirl-ten
