Bully In Malaysia Five Year Year Three pupils are involved in the bullying of a schoolmate who was forced to cut the tip of his tongue tongu e at a school in Bukit Tinggi Tinggi on Thurs Thursday day.. The victim, in a poli police ce repor reportt lodge lodged d by his moth mother, er, said he was told by the five nineyearolds to cut his tongue if he did not want to be punched by them. !ut of fear, he cut his tongue using a pair of scissors himself. "ello and top of the morning to the honorable #udges, wonderful teachers, fellow contestants and my dearest audiences. I am very honored and glad to be here today, sharing my thoughts and view on a topic that is very dear to me, which is bullying. I am going to share some of my $Bullying %urvival Tips& Tips& that can be implemented in our daily lives. First of all, what can be constituted as bullying' The !(ford )ictionary defines $bully& as $a person who deliberately intimidates intimidates or persecutes those who are weaker.& "ence, $bullying& $bullying& can be defined as an act of deliberately intimidating intimidating or persecuting someone who are weaker&. %o what has been happening happening to our world lately' lately' Bullying Bullying is becoming becoming a big issue, an epidemic epidemic so to speak. It has been heavily discussed in the massmedia, such as the television and the internet. The act of bullying mainly targeted amongst teenagers, ranging from the age of *+ to years old. !ne of the most painful aspects of bullying is that if it is not controlled, this problem will e(pand to be an act of violence that is both physically and psychologically tormenting to the person who is bullied. !n average, most people can take one episode of teasing, name calling or being shunned at the mall. "owever, when such act are deliberately done and continues for an e(tended period of time, this will resulted into a state of constant fear for that particular person. Imagine this, you are happily walking to school to study, when suddenly, there&s there&s a group of delin-uents at the end of the road, talking to each other and all of the sudden decided to come over and h arass you #ust for the fun of it. )o you fight back' I don&t think so. hy' Because you a re afraid. This is because most of the times bullies tend to gang up on each other and pick on a single defenseless person. %o what action can be taken to curb this issue' /n article from The 0uardian 1ews stated that, certain places in the 2nited 3ingdom, namely 4ondon and Manchester are now being called as a $safe5one area&. These $safe5one areas& are places which used to be the hotspot for these delin-uents to hang out at, but with the interference of the society, for e(ample fellow teachers, together with parents and their children, they may create a rally to create a $buddysystem& whereby students who walked to school are accompanied by these buddy, creating a $safe environment& for the students. "owever, these plan of action action may only only be succes successfu sfull if the three said party party,, which which are the teache teachers, rs, parents parents and the neighborhood are willing to lend a hand to create this $safe5one a rea&. %econdly, a lot of us out there simply choose to stand on the sidelines and watch others being bullied, without taking any proper actions of help whatsoever. These $bystander effect& is a social psychological phenomenon referring to cases in which individuals do not offer any means of help to a victim when other people are presented. This is because they $assumed& that other people will actually lend a helping hand. %uch occurrences not only are disruptive and somehow in the long run somehow promoting the act of bullying and needs to be stopped. The society must be aware that bullying is an intolerable act and if you do not take action, then who else will'
/s a teenager, we should be united and stand together. $Treat others the way you want to be treated&. That&s the 0olden 6ule and it should be followed in every aspect of your life. If someone was in a position to stop you from being bullied and did nothing, how would you feel' If you find that unacceptable, you must do everything you can to stop others from hurting people. Thirdly, avoidance is key. hat I mean by this is that you got to ignore the bully and #ust walk away like there&s nothing happened. 7eople say it&s a coward response but it definitely works. henever you get hurtful emails or instant messages. Ignore it completely. %ooner or later, the bully will get bored with trying to bother you. 8ust walk tall and hold your head high. The reason why bullies tend to are that they are looking for attention. They might think bullying is a way to be popular or to get what they want. Most bullies are trying to make themselves feel more important. hen they pick on someone else, it can make them feel big and powerful.%o you #ust need to boost your own confidence to successfully avoid them. In a nutshell, everyone has to be part of the solution as bullying is everyone&s problem. Bullying is *99: 7reventable and each person can make a difference. It is everyone&s responsibility and the option of doing nothing is unacceptable in civili5ed society. 7arents and school authorities should take action as this issue is increasingly prevalent to our country .If bullying continues. %uicides and violent acts against others will occur horrendously. "owever ,we can still dealt it by motivating bullies continuously.
