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Phone Game Notes
! ! ! I. Mistakes Most Guys Make When Calling a Girl ! a. Acting like she doesn’t remember meeting him ! b. Saying how great it was meeting her ! !
c. Going for a meet up or date right away if there’s low compliance (instead say you’re too busy to hang out) d. Example of what not to do: – “Hey its Mike from the club last Saturday the guy with the crazy hat, anyways it was really nice hanging out with you the other night we should do it again soon, wanna meet up tomorrow?”
! ! II. What’s Your Aim? ! #1: Set up a date/meetup ! #2: Qualify her to see if she’s someone you want to see again ! #3: Build attraction & comfort (based on compliance) ! ! ! III. Mindset !
a. Don’t take it personally if she doesn’t call back – Women are socially conditioned not to call back right away – You don’t know what’s going on in her life (have an abundance mentality)
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b. Call when you are in a talkative state
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c. Be persistent without being needy
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IV. Getting Her Number
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a. Don’t ask for it
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c. Keep talking
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d. Have her save you’re number or save it for her and use a funny name
! e. Use a restriction ! ! ! V. Pre Call Conditioning ! a. “What kind of a phone person are you?” ! b. Phone Rules ! c. Call and leave a message while she’s there ! ! ! VI. When to Call? ! a. If you’re worried about when to call then you’re already over investing ! b. Use emotional momentum to your advantage ! c. Text first to get her comfortable communicating with you ! d. Best times to call are Sun – Wed 7:00pm to 9:30pm ! ! ! VII. The Call ! a. Time constraint the call ! b. Qualify her before asking her out ! c. Keep it under 10 minutes ! d. No awkward silences ! e. Have a “Game Plan” ! f. Use callback humor ! g. End the call first ! ! !
VII. The Game Plan
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a. Greeting – Hey [nickname] it’s Artisan, what are you up to?
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b. Story – Topics: Your favorite new song, band, movie, show etc. What you are doing this week. Something funny that just happened to you. Some drama you or a friend is having.
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c. Ask her about her week – What does your week look like? – d. Tease or Role-Play – “Don’t lie you’re just staying home watching Project Runway and reruns of Jersey Shore”
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e. Talk about your plans and oversell them – “Have you ever been to X? It’s crazy…”
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f. Qualify Her – “How fun would you say you are?”
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g. Invite Her (challenge her) – “You seem like a fun person, join me for a drink it’ll be fun. And if you’re super cool I’ll take you to this awesome place afterwards. But if you’re totally weird then I’ll just fake an excuse…”
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h. Be Persistent – “Come on it’ll be fun” or “Cancel your plans, I’m way more exciting”
! ! ! VIII. If She Flakes !
a. If she calls before the date – “Hey bare with me I’m almost there, go ahead and order me the lobster”
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b. Don’t be affected. A high value guy has other options. – “It’s cool I always have a plan B, Megan Fox is on her way haha, but seriously I’ll wait to see how you make it up before I pass judgment” – “Oh no you’re a flaker…you could have come up with something better like your dog ate your homework”
! ! ! IX. Leaving a Message !
a. Always leave a message to test for compliance
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b. Hook message – "Hey bratface, it's Artisan the funniest thing just happened, .”
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c. Cocky message – “This is the man of your dreams call me back” – “This is Artisan I’ll try you later, if you’re lucky” – “What could you possibly be doing that’s more important than talking to me. Well you could be…”
! ! ! ! ! X. Later Message !
a. Don't ask her to call you back again, instead say “you'll talk to her later” – “I know I said we’d chat but I got real busy but I have a few minutes today, lets chat later” – "Hey it's me, I'm gonna be in and out all day but try to catch me. If not I'll talk to you later." – “Its so cute that your playing hard to get but you’re starting to loose points” said in a playful tone. – “Hey I think you have a confession to make, call me back”
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b. Phone Tag – “I think we’re going to break the world record of phone tag! Lets make it more interesting, whom ever gets a hold of the person first gets free coffee. You’re on!”
! ! ! XI. Final Message ! !
a. “Hey I’m a little concerned I haven’t heard from you. You must have either been abducted by aliens and there’s no phone on their ship or you had affiliations with the mob and had to go into witness protection. No seriously, you probably have been so busy you haven’t had any time for yourself, but you seemed like a cool person so lets chat” b. “Hey I was going through my phone book and came across your name and thought man I haven’t talked to you in a long time and was going to deleting you. So if you don’t want me to delete you let me know or you will be forever deleted out of existence. But seriously you seemed cool, lets chat”
! ! ! XII. Assignments !
a. Do at least 3 number closes this week. That doesn’t mean you have to get the number. Just go for the number close. This can be daytime or nighttime.
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b. Make your own phone “game plan” or outline. Example: Greeting, Story, etc. c. Call ever girl’s number you have in your phone book. It doesn’t matter if you haven’t talked to her in over a year; call it anyway. You can always say, “Hey I was going through my phone book and came across your name and thought man I haven’t talked to you in a long time and was going to deleting you. So if you don’t want me to delete you let me know or you will be forever deleted out of existence. But seriously you seemed cool, lets chat”. Do it for practice.
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d. Most “interesting” girl of the day. Approach and open the cutest/most interesting girl you see every day….no matter what! If you’ve already opened a cute girl that day and you see an even cuter girl, then you have to approach her too.
