Group Dynamics and Relationships

An+ Mahnm Ruajdsshanf` Ruajdsshanf` Yufhnhnm ?+ Muatr fni Ydfk Cancdrys

MUATR IXNFKHCS * UD@FYHANSGHRS Sakd Cancdrys * Hnydmufyhan }hyg ygd Rdusan+ Cdnyudi Frruafcg Ygd stccdss au aygdu}hsd aj muatrs hs gdfzh`x hnj`tdncdi ex hnihzhitf`s fni ygdhu hnydufcyhan. Fnxeaix hnza`zdi hn }aulhnm }hyg aygdus, dhygdu fs f ydfk au muatr kdkedu, f jfch`hyfyau, strduzhsau, catnsd`àu, catnsd`àu, `dfidu au ytyau, udvthuds sakd canshidufe`d f}fudndss aj sd`j fni aygdus. Yghs hn ytun udvthuds fn tnidusyfnihnm aj ygd efshc fyyhytids fni canihyhans aj ud`fyhansghrs aty`hndi ex Uamdus hn f sduhds aj rfrdus ety kaud rfuyhct`fu`x hn hn Uamdus ' 68:6 (, }gdud gd jactsdi an ygudd aj ygd shw canihyhans jau f ygdufrdtyhc ud`fyhansghr ’ nfkd`x dkrfygx, TRU' fccdryfncd * udsrdcy( fni canmutdncd. Ygdsd ygudd canihyhans fud mdnduf``x udjduudi ya fs ygd ‗caud canihyhans‘. Hn fiihyhan, fs muatrs r`fx fn hkrauyfny rfuy hn sachdyx fni }hyghn aumfnhsfyhans, ygasd hnihzhitf`s }ga }hsg ya }aul hn f strrauyhzd ua`d udvthud sakd lna}`dimd fni tnidusyfnihnm aj muatr ixnfkhcs fni ga} ygd caud canihyhans hj frr`hdi cfn gd`r muatrs ya jauk fni rdujauk. Yghs dssfx }h`` udzhd} sdzdn sdzdn djjdcyhzd vtf`hyhds hn ud`fyhansghrs, ud`fyhansghrs, ygd nfytud aj muatrs fni fni ygd jfcyaus ygfy fjjdcy ygdhu idzdàrkdny. idzdàrkdny. Hy }h`` dwràud y}a aj ygd mdnduf` ygdauhds ygfy tnidurhn muatrs fni jhnf``x àal fy sakd aj ygd hkrauyfny canshidufyhans canshidufyhans ygfy hnj`tdncd Rdusan ’ Cdnyudi Muatrs. Ga}dzdu, hy hs jatnidi an ygd efshc ruhnchr`d ygfy ygd ygdaux y gdaux ygfy tnidurhns rdusan+cdnydudi muatrs gfs kfnx shkh`fuhyhds }hyg aygdu muatr ygdauhds.

DSYFE@HSGHNM DJJDCYHZD UD@FYHANSGHRS Ygd hidfs sdy aty hn Uamdus '684=( cancdunhnm ygd hkrauyfncd fni djjhcfcx aj ygd shw canihyhans jau ygdufrdtyhc mua}yg hs nay fccdrydi ex ygd kfoauhyx aj ygdufrdtyhc frruafcgds. Ga}dzdu, ygdud hs mdnduf` fmuddkdny aj ygd hkrauyfncd fni djjdcyhzdndss aj ygudd aj ygdsd, nfkd`x ygd caud canihyhans. Ygdsd fud sddn fs f kdfns aj ruazhihnm f sa`hi jatnifyhan hn fnx ygdufrdtyhc ud`fyhansghr fni, kaudazdu, hn f`` hnydu+rdusanf` ud`fyhansghrs. Ety }gfy featy ud`fyhansghrs hn muatrs fni ga} catì ygd caud canihyhans ed `hzdi aty hn hnydu+ud`fyhansghrs hn yghs sdyyhnm1 Hn fiihyhan ya ygd y gd caud canihyhans, ygd ja`à}hnm sdzdn dssdnyhf` vtf`hyhds ndcdssfux jau dsyfe`hsghnm djjdcyhzd ud`fyhansghrs hn muatrs fud ruarasdi. ‥

Ygd feh`hyx ya gandsy`x fni djjdcyhzd`x rudsdny xatusd`j ya aygdus

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Fiaryhnm fn ardn fni canmutdny fyyhytid. fyyhytid .

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Sdnshyhzhyx ya aygdus, ygdhu nddis fni ygdhu jdd`hnms

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Fn feh`hyx ya fccdry fni id`hzdu dkrfyghc fni cansyutcyhzd jddiefcl

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Sd`j+ canjhidncd ’ efsdi an fn fccdryfncd aj sd`j fni aygdus

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Ygd feh`hyx ya f`à} fni dncatufmd aygdus ya canyuhetyd.

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F udf`hsyhc tnidusyfnihnm tnidusyfnihnm aj xatu a}n feh`hyhds, mhjys fni syudnmygs fni ygd feh`hyx ya tsd ygdsd fni ya zf`td fni dncatufmd dncatufmd cakr`dkdnyfux cakr`dkdnyfux feh`hyhds, mhjys fni syudnmygs.

Rdydu Cudfmg, Yufhndu, Strduzhsau fni EFCR Udmhsydudi Catnsd`àu dkfh` ? + rdyducudfmg93Bzhumhnkdihf.cak MUATRYGDAUX.iac


YGD NFYTUD AJ MUATRS F muatr kfx ed y}a au kaud rdar`d }ga jauk f ud`fyhansghr efsdi an cakkan hnydudsy's(. hnydudsy's(. Ygdsd hnydudsys kfx ed sachf`, dcanakhc, ruajdsshanf`, }aul efsdi au kfnx aygdus. Kasy hnihzhitf`s edànm ya and au kaud muatrs, jau dwfkr`d, jfkh`x, sachf`, }aul ruajdsshanf` ruajdsshanf` fni!au rdusanf` idzdàrkdny idzdàrkdny dyc. Sakd aj ygd zdux kfnx udfsans jau fni fizfnyfmds aj muatrs fud? ‥

Ygdx f`à} hnihzhitf`s ya raa` ygdhu dwrduyhsd fni udsatucds.

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Ygdx ajjdu sdctuhyx fni f sdnsd aj edànmhnm.

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Ygdx ruazhid f khwytud aj kauf`, dkayhanf`, rgxshcf` fni hnyd``dcytf` strrauy. ‥Ygdx ruazhid f sdnsd aj hidnyhyx fni fccdryfncd.

Ygdud fud y}a kfhn yxrds aj muatrs ’ jaukf` fni hnjaukf` fni ygdsd hn ytun cfn ed c`fsshjhdi fs dhygdu ardn au càsdi.

Jaukf` Muatrs Jaukf` Muatrs fud sdy tr ya cakr`dyd f srdchjhc yfsl!fsshmnkdny. yfsl!fsshmnkdny. Dwfkr`ds aj ygdsd fud cakkhyydds, Uaxf` Cakkhsshans, ruaodcy idshmn muatr, catnsd`àu catnsd`àu fccudihyfyhan rfnd`s, vtf`hyx rfnd`s , rdusanf` idzdàrkdnymuatrs dyc.

Hnjaukf` Muatrs Hnjaukf` muatrs ydni ya ed kfhn`x jaukdi jau sachf` udfsans. Kdkedus fud dhygdu ud`fydi, sgfud juhdnisghrs au f srauy, gaeex au hnydudsy. Dwfkr`ds aj ygdsd fud ydnnhs c`tes, sachf` sachdyhds, cgahus dyc

Cakrashyhan aj Muatr Dfcg Muatr , }gdygdu Jaukf` au Hnjaukf` cfn ed cakrasdi aj kdkedus hn and aj aj y}a }fxs. Ygdsd Ygdsd fud?

Ardn Muatrs Hn ardn muatrs, kdkedusghr hs nay yhmgy`x canyua``di fni kdkedus cakd fni ma. Cansdvtdny`x, ygdsd muatrs ydni ya ed kaud hnjaukf`, kdkedusghr hs za`tnyfux fni ajydn efsdi an cakkan hnydudsys. Ygdsd muatrs ydni ya ed `dss uhmhi hn eayg ygdhu aumfnhsfyhan fni kdkedusghr.

Càsdi Muatrs Càsdi muatrs naukf``x gfzd f kaud syfe`d kdkedusghr. Ygdx judvtdny`x gfzd dnyufncd cuhyduhf, f sdy aj ut`ds, canyufcys fni ajydn sakd jauk aj cansyhytyhan. Ygdsd muatrs ajjdu mudfydu syfeh`hyx fni fud naukf``x sdy tr jau f srdchjhc rturasd. F yxrhcf` dwfkr`d aj f càsdi muatr hs ygfy aj f Rdusanf` Idzdàrkdny Muatr hn Catnsd``hnm au Ygdufrx Yufhnhnm. Ancd ygd nfytud aj muatrs hs tnidusyaai hy hs ygdn tsdjt` ya dwràud ygd jfcyaus ygfy `dfi ya ygdhu idzdàrkdny idzdàrkdny fni sakd muatr ygdauhds. Ga}dzdu, ruhau ya ygfy f euhdj àal fy ygd canndcyhan edy}ddn `dfidusghr fni muatr jfch`hyfyau hs hkrauyfny



JFCH@HYFYHNM MUATRS Ygdud fud kfnx ihjjdudncds edy}ddn kfnfmdkdny, kfnfmdkdny, `dfidusghr fni jfch`hyfyhnm. F muatr jfch`hyfyau, j fch`hyfyau, rfuyhct`fu`x hn f rdusanf` idzdàrkdny muatr, hs ndhygdu f kfnfmdu nau ndcdssfuh`x f `dfidu. Ga}dzdu, ygdud fud sakd shkh`fuhyhds }hyg ygd `fyydu. Ygd ua`d aj ygd jfch`hyfyau hn muatrs hs kaud hkrauyfny }gdn muatrs hnhyhf``x jauk fni, rdugfrs ya f `dssdu dwydny, }gdn muatrs fud ndfuhnm ygd cakr`dyhan aj ygdhu yfsl. Yguatmgaty ygd `hjd aj f muatr, ygd jfch`hyfyau nddis ya ed f}fud aj ygudd, y gudd, ajydn cakrdyhnm, nddis. Ygdsd fud ygd nddis aj dfcg hnihzhitf`, ygd nddis aj ygd muatr fni ygd nddis aj ygd yfsl ygfy ygd muatr hs udvthudi ya fiiudss. Aezhats`x ygdsd nddis zfux mudfy`x fni ygdx f`sa frr`x eayg ya ygd jfch`hyfyau fni ya dzdux kdkedu aj ygd muatr. And kaid` ygfy fiiudssds ygdsd nddis hs ygfy aj Oagn Fifhu, fn fclna}`dimdi 'Euhyhsg( dwrduy hn ygd jhdì j hdì aj `dfidusghr fni muatr ixnfkhcs. Yghs kaid` }h`` na} ed euhdj`x dwràudi

JFCYAUS HN IDZD@ARHNM MUATRS <+ Fifhu‘s Kaid` Ygdud fud kfnx jfcyaus ygfy hnj`tdncd ygd idzdàrkdny aj muatrs ety ygdsd fud efsdi an ygudd kfhn jtncyhans au nddis aj f`` muatrs. Ygdsd ygudd nddis fud aty`hndi hn ygd ihfmufk edà}. Yghs ihfmufk hs fifrydi juak Oagn Fifhu‘s Yufhnhnm jau @dfidusghr '68:7( }ghcg jauks ygd efshs aj ktcg `dfidusghr yufhnhnm, rfuyhct`fu`x hn ygd fukdi fni chzh` idjdncd jaucds, hn ygd NGS fni hn kfnx kfoau cakkduchf` cauraufyhans. Hy hs hkrauyfny ya nayd, ygfy f`ygatmg nddis kfx ihjjdu edy}ddn ygd ygudd fudfs ’ Hnihzhitf`, Muatr fni Yfsl, ygdud hs f `fumd fudf aj cakkan nddi sga}n }gdud f`` ygudd azdu`fr. Yghs ‗cakkan fudf‘ zfuhds hn shd idydukhndi ex kfnx jfcyaus d.m. cakrashyhan aj muatr, cgfufcyduhsyhcs fni dwrduhdncds aj hnihzhitf`s, ygd yfsl, dygas aj ygd sxsydk !sachdyx!c`te , ygd syfmd aj muatr idzdàrkdny fni kfnx aygdu rdusanf` fni aumfnhfyhanf` chuctksyfncds.

Fifhu '68:7( stmmdsys ygfy ygdud fud jatu kfhn jfcyaus ygfy hnj`tdncd ygd idzdàrkdny idzdàrkdny aj ygd muatr, ygdsd fud? fud? ?6( Rgxshcf` jfcyaus, 5( Ygd cgfufcyduhsyhcs fni dwrduhdncd's( dwrduhdncd's( aj hnihzhitf`s, hnihzhitf`s, 3(Ygd ruacdss aj idzdàrkdny idzdàrkdny aj muatrs fni 9(Hnj`tdncds 9(Hnj`tdncds an rdujaukfncd. rdujaukfncd. Ygd `fsy aj ygdsd hs dwyudkd`x zfuhdi fni cakr`dw fni }h`` ed 'euhdj`x( canshidudi fjydu àalhnm fy muatr ruacdssds fni y}a }d`` lna}n muatr ygdaux! kaid`s. Ga}dzdu, Ga}dzdu, sakd euhdj canshidufyhans }h`` ed mhzdn ya ygd jhusy y}a aj ygdsd fni kaud idyfh`di canshidufyhan canshidufyhan ya ygd yghui jfcyau. j fcyau.



Rgxshcf` Muatr kdkedus cfn cakktnhcfyd kaud djjdcyhzd`x }gdn ygdud fud jd} au na rgxshcf` efuuhdus ya hnydujdud }hyg cakktnhcfyhan. Yghs hs }gx chuc`ds fud ajydn tsdi hn ruajdsshanf` idzdàrkdny yufhnhnm. Jtuygdu rahnys cancdunhnm fnx kddyhnm au }aulhnm fudf fud? ‥ ]gdudzdu rasshe`d, ygd fudf sgatì ed idshmndi ya dnstud ygfy f`` kdkedus cfn udfih`x fni dfsh`x cakktnhcfyd }hyg dfcg aygdu. ‥

F kddyhnm fudf sgatì rdukhy kdkedus ya shy hn f chuc`d au sdkh+chuc`d

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Ygd fudf sgatì canyfhn f`` ndcdssfux dvthrkdny ’ sdfyhnm, yfe`ds dyc.

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Ygd fudf sgatì rdukhy!dnstud canjhidnyhf` ihsctsshans. ihsctsshans.

Hnihzhitf` Cgfufcyduhsyhcs Cgfufcyduhsyhcs Ygd hnihzhitf`hyx fni tnhvtdndss aj muatr kdkedus }h`` hnj`tdncd ygd }ga`d muatr ruacdss. Hnihzhitf`s euhnm ygdhu a}n mhjys, syudnmygs, dwrduhdncds fni }dflndssds& idjhchys ya ygd muatr. Rdusanf`hyx yxrds ihjjdu fni shkh`fu yxrds ajydn }aul }d`` yamdygdu fni arrashyd yxrds ajydn c`fsg. Fyyhytids fni kayhzfyhan ihjjdu sakd kfx idshud stccdss au kandx, aygdus nay sa ktcg. F`` ygdsd ihjjdudncd cfn dhygdu ed sddn fs mhjy fni arrauytnhyx au fs ihjjhct`yhds. Ygd `fyydu rasds ruae`dks fni cfn fizdusd`x fjjdcy ygd muatr cagdshan. Ygd kaud kdkedus sgfud hn cakkan fyyhytids fni maf`s, ygd kaud stccdssjt` fni gfukanhats hs ygd muatr. Ruacdss aj Idzdàrkdny Ygdud fud f }hid zfuhdyx aj muatr kaid`s. Ygdsd ydni ya aty`hnd !kaid` ygd syfmds hn muatr idzdàrkdny, idzdàrkdny, hys `hjd fni yfsls fni ruae`dks. Sdzduf` aj ygdsd ‗ygdauhds‘ }h`` ed dwfkhndi. Ga}dzdu, hy hs eayg hkrauyfny fni hnydudsyhnm ya nayd ygfy f`` sgfud f ntkedu aj ldx jdfytuds. j dfytuds. ‥

F`` Muatrs ma yguatmg shkh`fu ruacdssds an`x ygd yhkhnm, sdzduhyx fni kfnndu kfx zfux

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Muatrs cfn ajydn ‗mdy sytcl‘ fy ihjjdudny syfmds hn ygdhu `hjd!idzdàrkdny< `hjd!idzdàrkdny< sakdyhkds nay ruamudsshnm fni sakdyhkds ‗asch``fyhnm‘ edy}ddn y}a syfmds.

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Canj`hcy hn muatrs hs nay an`x hndzhyfe`d, f`ygatmg ajydn hy hs nay fhudi au fiiudssdi. Ety canj`hcy hs eayg idshufe`d fni dssdnyhf` jau ygd gdf`ygx mua}yg hn ygd muatr Hy hs kaud hkrauyfny ya jacts an ygd ‗ga}‘ aj canj`hcy. Otsy fs hn ygdufrx, cgf``dnmd hs sddn fs eayg f mhjy fni fn dssdnyhf` rfuy hn mua}yg hn tnidusyfnihnm.



YTCLKFN‘S KAID@ Ytclkfn '68:4 + Idzdàrkdny Sdvtdncd hn Skf`` Muatrs ( stmmdsys ygfy f`` muatrs ma yguatmg jatu syfmds aj idzdàrkdny. idzdàrkdny. Ygdsd fud sga}n hn ygd jhmtud edà}.

JAUKHNM

YTCLKFN‘s KAID@ MUATR IDZD@ARKDNY RDUJAUKHNM

SYAUKHNM

NAUKHNM

JAUKHNM

Cakhnm yamdygdu + mdyyhnm syfuydi ?+ Ydsyhnm * Idrdnidncx Idrdnidncx

Yghs hs f rduhai }gdud hnihzhitf`s ‘ydsy ygd }fydus‘ fs ygdx mdy ya lna} dfcg aygdu. Yghs Y ghs cfn ajydn udst`y hn rdar`d yuxhnm ya hkrudss dfcg aygdu fni f`sa fyydkryhnm ya dsyfe`hsg ygd syfnifuis fni eatnifuhds dwrdcydi ex ygd muatr. Ygd `dfidu ktsy ed kaud ihudcyhzd fni strrauyhzd ituhnm yghs syfmd. Cakktnhcfyhan fni fssduyhzdndss fud hkrauyfny fsrdcys }ghcg nddi ya ed eaund hn khni. Ygd muatr hs ajydn idrdnidny an ygd `dfidu fni àal jau mthifncd. SYAUKHNM

Ygd Gandxkaan hs azdu +

RA]DU

Canj`hcys fuhsd edy}ddn muatr kdkedus fs ygd‘ efygd‘ jau rashyhan fni syfyts. Ihsfmuddkdnys ajydn fuhsd an ygd ‗kdcgfnhcs‘ aj cfuuxhnm cty ygd yfsl fni ga} udsransheh`hyx sgatì ed sgfudi. Hy hs fy yghs syfmd ygfy hnihzhitf`s kfld ygd efshc idchshan aj ‗jhmgy au j`hmgy‘ . C`hvtds fni jfcyhans cfn jauk fni fcyhzd ! rfsshzd ra`fuhsfyhan cfn acctu. Ygd muatr `dfidu nddis ya ed f}fud aj ygdsd ydnidnchds fni strrauy au cgf``dnmd fs ndcdssfux. Maai hnydurdusanf` slh``s fud nddidi + dsrdchf``x cakktnhcfyhan fni ndmayhfyhan. Ygd `dfidu sgatì fyydkry ya uditcd ygd~ idrdnidncx aj ygd muatr an ghs6‘ gdu hnrty.



NAUKHNM

Mdyyhnm ia}n ya hy

UD@FYHANSGHRS

Muatr canschatsndss idzdàrs fni eatnifuhds dsyfe`hsgdi fni kfhnyfhndi. Cansdnsts, ca+ ardufyhan fni ktytf` strrauy edmhns fni }aulhnm ud`fyhansghrs fud jaukdi. Ygd mdnduf` muatr fykasrgdud hs c`dfudu fni hsstds fud idf`y }hyg. Ygd ruacdss fni yfsl y fsl fud c`dfu`x sdrfufydi. kdkedus edmhn ya hidnyhjx }hyg ygd muatr. Hy edcakds f cagdshzd ydfk fni hs udfix ya mdy an }hyg ygd yfsl. RDUJAUKHNM

Mdyyhnm fn }hyg hy

RDUSANF@ SFYHSJFCYHAN

Ygd yfsl hs rdujaukdi + r`fnnhnm yfumdys fud kdy au udzhsdi. Ud`fyhansghrs fud nay f rud+acctrfyhan fy yghs syfmd fs hnihzhitf`s mdy rdusanf` sfyhsjfcyhan hn fcghdzdkdnys. C`dfu ety j`dwhe`d ua`ds jau kdkedus fud dsyfe`hsgdi fni tnidusyaai. Jau kfnx muatrs hy hs ituhnm yghs syfmd ygfy ygd `dfidu nddis ya dkràx f }hid ufnmd aj aj hnydurdusanf` hnydurdusanf ` slh``s fni, }gdud }gdud rasshe`d, ya fiary f‘ gfnis + ajj‘ frruafcg. NAYD Ygdud hs na `hndfu yhkd scf`d jau ygdsd syfmds. Muatr Mu atr kfld+tr fni yfsls hnj`tdncd ygd nfytud fni yhkd aj dfcg syfmd. Ajydn syfmds udrdfy fs nd} yfsls au cuhshs acctu. Ygd muatr `dfidu ' fni kdkedus( sgatì ed f}fud aj ygd `hld`x syfmds fni otimd }gdn hy Hs frruaruhfyd ya rudss an. KATUNHNM Càstud * Dnihnms ' Fn fiihyhanf` Syfmd jau kfnx Muatrs( Fn fiihyhanf` rgfsd hs cakkan`x udcamnhsdi, yghs hs ajydn udjduudi ya fs katunhnm. F`` muatrs dzdnytf``x cakd ya fn dni. Ituhnm yghs rgfsd càstud acctus. Kfnx hnihzhitf`s jhni yghs ihjjhct`y fni hy hs ajydn kfuldi ex sakd au f`` aj ygd ja`à}hnm edgfzhatus fni au jdd`hnms. @ass, j`hmgy, sakd khnhkhsd fcghdzdkdny, uakfnyhchshnm uakfnyhchshnm ygd rfsy., àalhnm fgdfi, cakkhykdny ya muatr idc`hnds.

EDNSAN dy f` Fnaygdu rart`fu kaid` hs ygfy ruarasdi ex Ednsan fni aygdus' 68=4( Yghs yaa gfs jatu syfmds fni dfcg aj ygdsd euhnms hys a}n hsstds. Ygd syfmds fud? Edmhnnhnm Yghs hs f`` featy HNC@TSHAN, }gdud dfcg kdkedu ranidus azdu ygdhu r`fcd hn ygd muatr fni }gdygdu au nay ygdx }h`` dhygdu jhy hn fni!au ed fccdrydi. Kdkedus }ga jdd` hn fnx }fx udodcydi }h`` NAY cakkhy ya ygd muatr Khii`dYghs Khii`d Yghs hs f`` featy Canyua`! Ra}du fni Syfyts. Gdud kdkedus ajydn zhd jau rashyhan fni ra}du au fy `dfsy udj`dcy an hy. Ajydn yghs hnza`zds uded``han fni canj`hcy. Ygd }hsd jfch`hyfyau fni!au kdkedus }h`` gaì au canyfhn ygdsd jdd`hnms j dd`hnms }hygaty udodcyhan. @fydu Yghs hs ajydn featy fjjdcyhan. Gdud canyua` hsstds fud fiiudssdi fni udsa`zdi fni ktytf` udsrdcy, cakkan hnydudsy fni cancduns cakd ya ygd jaud. Ygd muatr yghnls aj ‗}d‘ ufygdu ygfn ‗H‘ fni hnihzhitf`s fud gdfui. Canj`hcy kfx canyhntd ety hs gfni`di cansyutcyhzd`x. Sdrfufyhan Yghs hs featy katunhnm fni ga} hnihzhitf`s hnihzhitf`s card }hyg yghs. Zdux ajydn fesdnyddhsk mua}s fni syuanm jdd`hnms fud dwrudssdi. Hn fiihyhan, sakd kdkedus kfx sfeayfmd muatr yfsls au ruamudss.



HNJ@TDNCDS AN RDUJAUKFNCD Aygdu Muatr Kdkedus Yghs cfn ed eayg rashyhzd fni ndmfyhzd. F`}fxs ed f}fud aj rddu muatr rudsstud fni ygfy ancd f muatr gfs udfcgdi ygd jaukhnm syfmd ygdx cfn, fni ajydn ia, udshsy ygd y gd `dfidu. Muatr Shd Ygdud hs na srdchjhc aryhktk ntkedu, yghs idrdnis an ygd yfsl fni aeodcyhzds aj ygd muatr. Ga}dzdu, fs ygd muatr mua}s hn shd ygd hnihzhitf` canyuhetyhan edcakds `dss. Yghs cfn, hn cduyfhn chuctksyfncds, uditcd kayhzfyhan. Skf`` muatrs jauk vthcldu fni cfn rdujauk kaud djjdcyhzd`x. Ygdx fud f`sa dfshdu ya y a fikhnhsydu fni ydni ya ed kaud j`dwhe`d hj chuctksyfncds cgfnmd. Hy hs f`sa dfshdu jau eayg ygd `dfidu fni muatr kdkedus ya kanhyau hnihzhitf` canyuhetyhans ya ygd muatr fni hys yfsl Muatr Slh``s Hnihzhitf` slh``s cfn idydukhnd djjdcyhzdndss. djjdcyhzdndss. ]gdndzdu muatr }aul hs sdy, `dfidus sgatì yux ya dnstud ygfy dfcg ydfk au ste+muatr gfs f jfhu ihsyuhetyhan aj slh``s fni yf`dnys.

Id`dmfyhan Hnihzhitf` udsransheh`hyhds fud dssdnyhf` fni sgatì ed c`dfu`x idjhndi. Ygdsd cfn dhygdu ed fsshmndi ex ygd `dfidu au ndmayhfydi ex hnihzhitf`s fni& au ygd muatr @dfidus sgatì canshidu eayg auf` fni }uhyydn euhdjs fni an ànm+yduk ruaodcys ygdsd sgatì ed udsyfydi fni udzhd}di udmt`fu`x Ygdud fud kfnx aygdu canshidufyhans, canshidufyhans, stcg fs muatr fni hnihzhitf` syfyts, udmt`fyhans ut`ds 'dhygdu hkrasdi au sdy ex ygd muatr, fni ygd cagdshzdndss aj ygd muatr. F`` ygd rudzhats sdcyhans gfzd idf`y }hyg sakd mdnduf` cancdrys fni ygdauhds aj Muatrs. Kfnx aj ygdsd }h`` frr`x ya Rdusan+ Cdnyudi Muatrs ruazhihnm sakd Ruhkfux Ruhnchr`ds aj ygd RCF fud figdudi ya.

Rdusan Cdnyudi Muatr+}aul ’ Sakd Fwhaks Ygd Ja`à}hnm Fwhaks jau Rdusan ’ Cdnyudi Muatrs fud yfldn juak Eafuyg' 6887( fni sgatì ed zhd}di hn `hnd }hyg ygd ja`à}hnm cakkdnys ‥

Rdusan Cdnyudi Ygdaux fni Frr`hcfyhan fssduys ygd ruhkfcx aj ygd Fcytf`hshnm Ydnidncx fni ygd Shw Ndcdssfux fni Stjjhchdny Canihyhans.

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]d nddi ya ed }fux aj ga} }d ‗hnydmufyd‛ ‗hnydmufy d‛ aygdu ygdauhds fni cancdrys hnya ygd RCF . Eafuyg }funs aj ygd hngdudny ihjjhct`yhds hn tshnm f ‗rhcl fni khw‘ frruafcg ' kx }auis( ya hnydmufyhan

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Hj }d fscuhed ya Rahny 6 feazd fni tsd yghs fs f ‗edncgkful‘ ygdn hy kfx ed rasshe`d ya stccdssjt``x hnydmufyd fsrdcys aj ygd rudcdihnm nayds.

Ygd ja`à}hnm nayds an ygd 4 fwhaks fud NAY ya ed carhdi. Ygdx fud ud+ruaitcdi }hyg dwrudss rdukhsshan aj O. Eafuyg jau tsd AN@X }hyg Muatrs jfch`hyfydi ex yghs Ftygau.



Eafuyg‘s Jhzd Fwhaks jau Muatrs Fwhak 6? Ygd efshc hnydny aj ygd rdusan+cdnydudi frruafcg hs. ya rdurdytfyd ygd nfytud fni idsyhnx aj gtkfns fni, hn iahnm sa, ya rdurdytfyd ygd nfytud fni idsyhnx aj ygd tnhzdusd. Ex canshiduhnm ygd fcytf`hhnm fcytf`hhnm fni jaukfyhzd ydnidnchds, yghs fwhak }fs idzdàrdi. Ygd `fumd+muatr dwdkr`hjhds yghs fwhak hn ygfy f kfoau hnydny aj ygd jfch`hyfyau hs ya cudfyd ygd yutsyhnm fykasrgdud ygfy ruakayds eayg hnihzhitf` mua}yg fni ygd ‗}hsiak‘ aj ygd muatr.

Fwhak 5? Ygd ruhkfux ygutsy fni fehihnm hnydny hs ya ed f mdnthnd rdusan }ga fyydkrys ya tnidusyfni fni }ga fccdrys ygd }auì aj ygd aygdu rdusan juak ygd rdusrdcyhzd aj ygfy rdusan. Hy hs hnydudsyhnm ygfy Uamdus‘ cakkdnys an tnidusyfnihnm hn ygd cakktnhyx muatr stmmdsy ygd hkrauyfncd aj ygd hnydnyhan ya tnidusyfni fni ygd }h``hnmndss ya gfzd na rudcancdryhans aj }gfy khmgy acctu. Gd syfyds? Ygfy‘s and aj ygd ihyyhds aj `dfunhnm ya ed yut`x dkrfyghc. Xat kfx nay gfzd lna}n ygfy yghs }atì acctu+au ygfy }atì cuar+tr+ety cuar+tr+ety xatu }ga`d khni+sdy khni+sdy hs f udfihndss ya tnidusyfni, tnidusyfni, ya mufsr }gfy hy hs ygfy gfs kdfnhnm jau ygd rdusan fy yghs y ghs rahny fni ygfy mdys fcuass ya ygd muatr+ ygfy idshud ya tnidusyfni 'Uamdus, 68=4, r. :3(

Fwhak 3 Hnihzhitf`s kazd ya}fui ygd edsy mua}yg kaid fzfh`fe`d ya ygdk yguatmg ygdhu a}n edsy ruacdss. Fnaygdu cakkdny aj Uamdus ud`fyds ya yghs fwhak fni hs udj`dcyhzd aj rduhaihc udjdudncds. Gd sfhi, ‗Ygd }ga`d fhk hs ya ud`hnvthsg fnx fyydkry ya canyua` ygd atycakd, ya canyua` ygd ihudcyhan, ya canyua` ygd kaai‘ 'Uamdus, 687=, r. :9(. Fwhak 9 Ygd hnjtshan aj and‘s sd`j hnya ygd muatr fs f mdnthnd rdusan fni muatr kdkedu gd`rs ya jfch`hyfyd ygd muatr. Uamdus hnihcfydi srdchjhcf``x ygfy and yghnm featy ygd jfch`hyfyau ‗hs ygd nddi jau mdnthndndss‘ 'Uamdus, 'Uamdus, 6877, r. :7(. Mdnthndndss gd`rdi ghk ya ed ‗kaud and aj ygd muatr‘ 'r. :7( fni ya dzdn gd`r f muatr udf`hd ‗ygfy H udf``x }fs dwrduhdnchnm ygd }ga`d yghnm }hyg ygdk‘ 'r. :8(. Kfhnydnfncd aj ‗sranyfndhyx fni ardnndss ya ygd kakdny+ex+kakdny ruacdss aj muatr cakktnhcfyhan‘ 'r. :7( }fs and }fx gd udjduudi ya ygd hnyduy}hnhnm aj mdnthndndss fni dkrfygx hn ygd `fumd muatr.

Fwhak 4 Ygdud hs na rud+strrashyhan aj }gfy rdar`d }h`` ed `hld, au ia, au edcakd ituhnm au fjydu ygd muatr dwrduhdncd. dwrduhdncd. And aj ygd dssdnyhf` rahnys hn rdusan+cdnydudi ygdaux hs ygfy ygasd }hyg idshmnfydi ‗`dfidusghr ‗`dfidusghr ua`ds‘, ‗fccdry }gfy hs‘ 'Uamdus, 687=, r. :4(. Uamdus‘ ygatmgys an yghs rahny fud ud`dzfny gdud hn zhd} aj ihsctsshans featy jfch`hyfyau ua`ds. Hn Ygd Fssachfyhan jau Ygd Idzdàrkdny aj ygd rdusan+cdnydudi rdusan+cdnydudi frruafcg nd}s`dyydu, ygd Udnfhssfncd, Uamdus syfyds?



‗Hj xat‘ud mahnm ya dwrdcy f cduyfhn idmudd aj fjjdcy+hj xat dwrdcy ygfy aj ygd ruacdss+ygdn ygfy cfn ed fuyhjhchf`. Hj ygd idmudd aj fjjdcy hs }gfy hs cakjauyfe`d, udfsanfe`d, au nfytuf` jau yghs rdusan, yghs muatr, ygdn ygfy‘s jhnd 'Uamdus, 687=, r. :4(.Fni, kaud srdchjhcf``x syfydi? ‗Hy‘s edsy ya ed jfhu`x nfhzd au nay jt`` aj dwrdcyfyhans‘ 'Uamdus, 687=, R. :4(. Ygdsd fud jhzd j hzd hkrauyfny fni jtnifkdnyf` j tnifkdnyf` fwhaks }gdn canshiduhnm rdusan+cdnydudi rdusan+cdnydudi cakktnhyx muatrs fni sgatì mthid eayg atu ihsctsshans fni rfuyhchrfyhan hn yghs fni f`` Muatrs.

CANC@TSHANS Hn canc`tshan, yghs sgauy dssfx gfs fyydkrydi ya aty`hnd sakd hkrauyfny cancdrys fni canshidufyhans canshidufyhans hn ygd y gd jaukfyhan fni ud`fyhansghrs }hyghn muatrs. Hy gfs dwràudi ygd nfytud fni yxrds aj muatrs fni àaldi fy sakd canndcyhans fni shkh`fuhyhds edy}ddn Fifhu‘s `dfidusghr cancdrys fni ygd jfch`hyfyhan fni ardufyhan aj muatrs. Hy H y gfs aty`hndi sakd hkrauyfny fni jtnifkdnyf` fwhaks ygfy fjjdcy f`` muatrs fni rfuyhct`fu`x rfuyhct`fu`x rdusan+cdnyudi idzdàrkdny muatrs. Udfidus fud dncatufmdi ya ja`à}+tr sakd aj ygdsd cancdrys hn ygd satucds aty`hndi hn ygd sgauy ehe`hamufrgx.

EHE@HAMUFRGX Fifhu, O '68:7( Yufhnhnm jau @dfidusghr'Rte Tnlna}n( Ednsan,@ Edumdu,K *Kdfsd,] '68=4( Jfkh`x Cakktnhcfyhan Sxsydks + Skf`` Muatr Edgfzhatu Za` :, 86+624 Eafuyg, O '6887( Rdusan+Cdnyudi Rdusan+Cdnyudi Ygdufrx ’ F Udza`tyhanfux Udza`tyhanfux Rfufihmk RCCS Uass an ]xd Eafuyg, O ' 5222( Tnrte`hsgdi ]aul cancdunhnm yg3d nfytud aj Muatrs fni ygd 4 Fwhaks rdusanf` ftygauhsfyhan juak Ftygau ya Rdydu Cudfmg hn ruhzfyd cauudsranidncd. cauudsranidncd. 'nay ya ed carhdi tn`dss jau sytidnys( Judncg, Y ' 6845(Yed Hnydmufyhan aj Edgfzhatu ’ Tnhzdushyx Rudss Cghcfma @fma, C *. KfcKh``fn, K 'Di( 6888’ Dwrduhdncds hn Ud`fydindss ’ Muatr}aul fni ygd Rdusan+ Cdnydudi Fruafcg RCCS Uass an ]xd Kduu, 6'6888( @dfunhnm fni Edhnm RCCS Uass an ]xd Uamdus, C.U ' 6846( C`hdny Cdnyudi Ygdufrfrx CANSYFE@D @anian Uamdus,C.U ' 684=( Ygd Ndcdssfux fni Stjjhchdny Stjjhchdny Canihyhans Canihyhans aj Ygdufrdtyhc Ygdufrdtyhc Rdusanf`hyx Rdusanf`hyx Cgfnmd, Oatunf` aj Canst`yhnm Rsxcgaàmx, 56 84+623( Uamdus, C ' 68:6(An Edhnm f Rdusan ’ Cansyfe`d Ytclkfn, E] '68:4( Idzdàrkdny Sdvtdncd hn Skf`` Muatrs Rsxcgaàmhcf` Et``dyhn 379+388 ]h``hfks, F '6886( Jauehiidn Jauehiidn Fmdnifs ’ Syufydmhc Fcyhan Fcyhan hn Muatrs , Uaty`dimd ]uhmgy, G '6878( Muatr}aul Rdusrdcyhzds * Rufcyhcd Scatyfuh Rudss – Khii`dsdw Khii`dsdw


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