Framing With Wood Blocks

The Sexual Framing Master Course By Captain Jack http://www.betheseducer.com

The Sexual Framing Master Course

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From the Pirate’s Log .................................................................................................................................... 3 How to Get the Most Out of this Training .................................................................................................... 4 Code of Honor ............................................................................................................................................... 6 Decisions & Clarity ........................................................................................................................................ 7 Principles That Separate The Men from the Boys. ....................................................................................... 8 Pearson’s Law: .......................................................................................................................................... 8 Traceability:............................................................................................................................................... 8 Parkinson’s Law:........................................................................................................................................ 8 The 80/20 Rule: ......................................................................................................................................... 9 Mastery Oriented

vs. Performance Oriented. ................................................................................... 9

How to Get Providence to Move For You ................................................................................................... 10 What Stops You? ......................................................................................................................................... 11 The Game (Improvement) Plan................................................................................................................... 12 Here is more information on creating a Game Plan from my eCoaching program. ............................... 13 Sticking Point Analysis................................................................................................................................. 22 LR: I’m Not Easy! ......................................................................................................................................... 23 Homework For Call #1................................................................................................................................. 25


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From the Pirate’s Log Dear PUA, Welcome to the Sexual Framing Master Course. I want to thank you, first of all, for having the faith and confidence in me to entrust me with your money, your time and your future with women. I also want you to congratulate yourself for having the SAME faith in yourself and the willingness to spend the money and time to make a change. You came to the right place. If you feel like pick-up is hard or complicated or too time-consuming, I’m here to tell you it doesn’t have to be. Sexual Framing, Sticking Point Analysis and the other things I’m going to teach you throughout this course makes it easy… …on you and her! Sexual Framing frees her so much from her own inner blockages you’ll be considered a rare and valuable man in her eyes. The pent-up sexual frustrations, the urges and feelings she’s been suppressing FOR YEARS will finally have a worthy target… you! It CAN be a little scary at first. I mean, they are like crazy, starved animals when you unleash them. She’ll literally be willing to do anything with you and for you. It’s ALL a matter of putting the FRAMING in place and letting the Frames do the work! When you free someone, when you make her feel accepted and understood and that you VALUE her sexuality no matter what… how hard do you think it is to get her on board? Not hard at all. Someone said, “The secret to success is identifying games you can’t win, and then NOT playing them.” I’ll change that up a bit: “The secret to success is identifying what games people are playing involuntarily and freeing them to join your game.” So, are you ready to go free some women?! The *REAL* Captain Jack


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How to Get the Most Out of this Training The Rules: Rule #1: We accumulate knowledge ONLY to give us something to DO. Rule #2: Do all the homework. Don’t coast. Be honest with yourself. Rule #3: Ask for help. In this moment, right now, you get to pick your outcome. Would you rather (pick one): Turn this into another hodgepodge of data in your head that you basically forget in a week (or remember but never use)? Turn this into a life-changing experience that gives you massive success in seducing women? Throughout this guide you’ll see sentences like the one below. This is an active listening and retention device. As you listen to the teleconference (or the recording) listen to what page I’m on and then see if you can fill in the blank. I suggest you ACTUALLY print this out and write things out. It engages your learning faculty to a much greater degree than simply listening.

How to Royally Fuck Yourself Over. I _________ ________ that.

Why does that fuck you over? (Answer below).


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Code of Honor 100% focused participation. I commit to give this training 100% and participate to my fullest. Be on time for the calls. Participate fully in the training exercises even if I feel they are weird or corny. Participate fully in the exercises even if I have done them before. Be responsible for my own learning. If something is said that I don’t understand or if I’m confused, I give myself permission to ask questions. Keep background noise to a minimum. NOT surf the internet while on the call. Stay focused on my End Result.

Signed: ________________________________________________


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Decisions & Clarity “Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then Providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favor all manner of unforeseen incidents and meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it. Begin it now.” – Goethe Decision – prompt and fixed determination; unwavering firmness. The ‘Decision Test’ – one way to know if you’ve really decided something is you will feel a moment of clarity, relief and resolve… quickly followed by the desire to take some action. Decision Discussion (write your notes, thoughts, feelings below):


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Principles That Separate The Men from the Boys. Pearson’s Law:

When performance is measured, performance improves. When performance is measured and reported back, the rate of improvement accelerates.

I decide to _________________ my __________________ performance.

I decide to ________________ report that performance.

Traceability:

The idea that any action you are taking should be traceable back to one (or more) of your dominant intentions.

Parkinson’s Law: Work expands to fill the time available. I decide to ________ ___ ___________ ____________ on all my goals.


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The 80/20 Rule:

80% of the outputs are created by 20% of the inputs.

I decide to focus on _______ _______________ that _______ ________________.

Mastery Oriented

vs.

Performance Oriented.

Focuses on gaining skills and working smart.

Focuses on immediate results versus gaining skills.

Focuses on steady, incremental improvements.

Concerned with “not failing” and looking good.

Has a “possibility mindset.”

Failures discourage and depress.

Praises efforts as long as leading towards results.

Avoids situations where he will be challenged.

Doesn’t put himself down. Looks at ‘failure’ as feedback for improvement.

Will break form to get a result.


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How to Get Providence to Move For You I want you to set a goal. Most people in Pick-up don’t have a goal at all. Setting a goal focuses you, helps you use the 80/20 rule, The Principle of Traceability, Pearson’s and Parkinson’s Law. So, let’s set a goal. The goal must: a. b. c. d. e.

Be measurable (Pearson’s Law) Get you excited Be something you can commit to Have a reasonable time frame attached to it (Parkinson’s Law) Require the MINIMUM behavioral change possible to achieve it.

Write down why you want that goal. Write down as many reasons as possible:

I commit to __________________________ by ___________________.

Write down the steps or things to do to achieve it. (Traceability).


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What Stops You? Write down 5 things you think are preventing you from getting the results you want right now.


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The Game (Improvement) Plan Now that you have a clearly defined goal you need to create a plan to achieve that goal. We are talking about seducing women so that is what our plan is going to revolve around. In my experience you are going to need the following: 3 Openers. 1.

2.

3.

1 Qualification Statement.

1 Standard TimeBride Statement.

1 Heart Melter.

1 Standard Pull Statement.

2 Routines which set the standard sexual frames.


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1.

2.

Having a standardized Game Plan that you run almost every set is important because:

The MASTERS of the Game gained mastery through __________, ___________ improvement.

Say this and MEAN it… “I commit to running a standardized Game Plan.”

Here is more information on creating a Game Plan from my eCoaching program. The first lesson of the e-class begins at the very beginning. Remember, my goal here is to take you from "Opening" to having a complete System for almost effortlessly bringing hot women in your life and starting sexual relationships with them. I'm going to show you how to get women into your life through multiple sources so you are always surrounded by women (if you choose.) I'll be including some of my latest tactics regarding internet dating and MySpace. The majority of my success has come through a combination of my mindset, HOW I go about improving my Game Plan and by paying attention to the 20% of activities which generate 80% of the results. I'm going to teach you all 3 in the ecourse. The Sexual Framing Master Course

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When you faithfully do the assignments and THEN write to me for specific feedback I have no doubt that we can make huge improvements in your Game in the next few weeks. Most of the value from this eCourse will come from the specific feedback. Now, let's begin at the beginning. I'm not talking about the beginning of time or even "Opening" (we'll get to that a little later). I'm talking about YOU. Your beliefs. Your attitudes. Your thoughts. Which all lead to your behaviors. You'll find that "reality" consistently conforms to your functional beliefs. So if you believe that "all the hot girls have boyfriends" - that's ALL that you will run into! Like a Gigantic Magnet your beliefs SUCK confirming experiences towards you. MOST of the benefit in the e-Course will NOT come from the tips, tactics or techniques that I share (although those are important). 99% of the benefit comes from the "shift in viewpoint" that I will give you. *** Let the shifting begin: The Secret of PUA Venue Domination *** And, here is one such shift. Most of the PU world is organized around the concept of running sets. Each set is treated (in most models and almost ALL PRACTICE) as a distinct and separate entity. You hit the club/bar and "open a 3set" then you regroup with your buddies and you "open that mixed 4 set over there", etc, etc. At the end of each night you and your wings "debrief" and talk about each Set as if it were a distinct entity. This is not the best way to think about it. (I am going to continue talking about sets as if they are distinct. That is just for communication purposes and ease of speech. I DO NOT view things as a 2Set, 3Set, etc unless I am explaining or writing a FR/LR)... Because, the ENTIRE VENUE is one Giant Mixed Set. The Sexual Framing Master Course

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I don't worry that much about raising my value in "the set" I am in. That line of thinking is too limited. I raise my VALUE IN THE ENTIRE VENUE. That is why one of the FIRST things I do when I hit a bar is to get in a Set and get "locked in" which means to make it APPEAR to EVERYONE ELSE that the girls I am talking to are gaming me. That may or may not be true. But, to anyone walking by or watching it looks like I am being gamed by the girls. (I'll tell you how to accomplish that later). The NEXT THING I do is TAKE the girls and do a lap around the bar (slowly) to make sure that almost EVERYONE sees me parading at least one girl (preferably two or more at one time) around. And, while I am doing that I make a mental note of the AI's I get and "tag" them for future reference. If I see a really hot girl that I want to sarge I will take the girls I am parading and "lock in" next to my new Target's group so SHE can see the girls gaming me. With all of these maneveurs I am creating an AURA. I AM the guy who is talking to girls, I am the guy who is parading girls around. I have them laughing. I have them screaming. We are hugging each other. And the entire place looks at me and thinks, "Who IS THAT GUY?" I will do this several times with different groups of girls, all in rapid succession. I am SARGING THE ENTIRE VENUE. Every group of girls are PAWNS in my quest to build my PU AURA inside the club. This takes less than an hour to accomplish. If you do this once in a night, every Set will open for you throughout the night. If you do this twice in a night, girls will start opening you. If you do this three times in a night, you will (most likely) get laid by at least one of the girls that you number close. Think about it this way: If you come to me and say, "Dude, Captain Jack, my penis is 12 inches!" I probably won't believe you If a girl comes to me and says, "Captain Jack, his penis IS 12 inches! We had the most amazing sexathon ever and he almost punctured one of my lungs with that thing!" I MIGHT believe it, unless I think she is just screwing with me. But, if the music stops, the bartenders stop pouring drinks, everyone in the bar pauses and in unison says, "Captain Jack his penis is 12 inches WE SAW IT and measured it while you were in the bathroom!" I'll probably say, "Dude! I thought I was the only guy in the bar with a 12 inch penis! High Five!"


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So, if you build the PU AURA in a club/bar what choice does the girl have when you open her set? Very little. She is FORCED into responding to me, she is REACTING to me. I am NOT WAITING for her. Lead. Lead. Lead. Lead. *** Another shift: Female Sexuality *** It is EXTREMELY important that you understand female sexuality. Furthermore, it is important that you have no judgmental ideas about someone's sexual preferences. Women are still sexually repressed. They have wild fantasies that most of society condemns. This creates sexual frustration inside them. But, this sexual frustration can work FOR you. If you know how to take advantage of it. In the third lesson I'm going to discuss Sexual Framing in-depth including several core pieces I use to frame our interaction sexually. The gist of it is this: You are not judgmental regarding sex, sexual fantasies or preferences. And, you are great at keeping secrets. Acknowledging "freaky" sex or fetishes as something you can handle will cause her to direct her sexually pent up frustrations TOWARDS you. She will see YOU as her sexual liberator. This is a good thing! Remove "slut" and "whore" from your vocabulary. There is no such thing. If you haven't read "Sperm Wars" or "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday you MUST read them ASAP. After reading those books and integrating them I noticed women treated me differently. Before females seemed only to want normal sex. But, after reading the books and incorporating sexual framing in my sarges they are doing and willing to do the craziest sexual things. If you want to know EXACTLY how I achieve this effect sit tight for the third lesson. Also, I want you to know that most of the women who go out to night clubs and bars WANT to be picked up. There are a MILLION other things they could be doing. The Sexual Framing Master Course

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*** Another shift: One of the Most Defective Ideas to Ever Hit PUADom *** One of the biggest mistakes I see PUAs make in the field is being too reactionary. They spit a routine and its as if they expect the girls to fall down and spread their legs right then and there. The whole community got caught up with the idea of the IOI (Indicator of Interest). So, there we are in field with this internal dialog, "was that an IOI or did her nose just itch?" "aww man, this is my best routine! no IOI's? C'mon cold-hearted bitches!" "these girls must be lesbians. 10 minutes in this set and no IOIs" I got caught up in that, too. I had those suckers cataloged. And, I had an advantage! Through my advanced NLP training I have HIGH calibration skills. I can catch even the SLIGHTEST IOI imaginable. But, my question is, "What are you going to do differently now that you've got X-number of IOIs from your Target?" Think about that. It is a SHIFT. The answer should be...screw the answer. It's the wrong question. It is reactionary. Here's the only IOIs you need: If she is talking to you, then she is interested. It is a GOOD SIGN if she is laughing, smiling and touching you. But, so what? How does that correlate to getting a number, getting her to Bounce to another club, restaurant or your place? It doesn't. You know how I know? I've had IOI's out the ASS and came up with ZILCH. And, in my "LR: Captain Jack Offends her then F*cks her!" with HBCalifornia I don't think she laughed, smiled or touched me at all. In fact, at one point she got pissed and LEFT me sitting there. Near the end of the night I STILL got her number and SHE CALLED ME as KinoMaster and I were driving home and invited me over. We turned around and he dropped me off at her place...same night lay, but where were those precious IOIs? Another area where this defect of "reactionism" screws you up is in believing that what they are saying actually means anything. I IGNORE anything and everything that DOESN'T fit the Frame I am setting. The Sexual Framing Master Course

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In most cases, the girls will be so dominated that they CAN NOT manage to get much input in the first place. From the time I roll in they are sucked into REACTION MODE because I am doing my thing. A few of the PUAs at the last bootcamp saw me demo this... I rolled into a 2-set and dominated. Any response that did not fit my goal of getting them INTRIGUED and HOT enough to join me at our table was IGNORED. While positive responses were chosen (by me) to reinforce my Frame. Within about 5 minutes I paraded them to the other side of the bar and we were sitting at the table. Within 10-15 minutes she and I were making out. She was a cute blonde with wonderful breasts. You DO NOT have to respond to each and every statement. IGNORE anything that does not take you to the next step. *** The Power of Statements to Kill Reactionism *** One of the biggest indicators of a reactive mindset is asking permission. A PUA who asks, "Can I see your hands?" is more reactive than a PUA who says, "Lemme see your hands." and puts out his hands. I can FEEL an interaction dying as more questions are asked. I ask almost NO questions until I am in comfort (and even then I ask few). (The Question Game, however, rocks!) And almost any interaction can be livened up with a statement tossed out that relates to NOTHING. My favorite? (With thanks to Juggler) "I like back rubs!" turning my back and bending knees a bit. So, here is your homework. Take what I've said above and re-think your game. Take your current game plan and notice where those fallacies exist. * Are you too reactionary? Dependent on IOIs? Take the HBs comments too seriously? * Are you running individual sets or building the PUA AURA? * Asking questions instead of making statements with good response potential? Then, redesign your game to REMOVE these fallacies. And, for those of you who have NO GAME PLAN to speak of you need to design one. *** A Quick Primer on Creating a Game Plan *** The Sexual Framing Master Course

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Pick 3 openers. There are many on ASF with complete back stories. I use "David Bowie", "Spells", "Who lies more," and "Email break-up" Others are: "Tattoos on girls" "Elvis Opener" "Dental Floss" Here are some simple ones that I like to use: * "I'm thinking of dying my hair blonde." ---- I created this one when I was experimenting with "Forcing IOIs" which I will discuss another time (even though I don't depend on IOIs anymore it is an interesting topic that teaches you HOW to elicit desired responses and resulted in my ability to get girls to suggest things so I didn't have too) * "Does this shirt make me look tall?" (credit Mystery) ---- saw Mystery use this one at the Bootcamp. The girls laughed and he immediately launched into his "mommy wanted me to date tall girls" routine--- this is funny if you are short, too * "Did you guys see that girl fight outside?" Step 1) Pick 3 openers that you can get comfortable with and 3 stories you can use. Many openers come with back stories that provide natural transitions. (In a future lesson I'm going to show you how to fabricate social situations in a way where these types of openers are no longer necessary.) Step 2) Pick 3 "playful teases" you can use QUICKLY once you open. (often called negs): The key is that they are PLAYFUL and are said with a smile. I always smile and shake my head. I am conveying that the girl is somewhat of a DORK and I just can't believe it. * "Oh my god! Alllllriiiight! Who brought their little sister to the bar?" * "Is she always like this? You can dress her up but you can't take her anywhere!" (credit Mystery) * "Oh geez. You WOULD say that." (while exhaling and shaking my head) These have NO VENOM and CAN NOT be taken for meanness. But, the rest of the group WILL laugh and they will be laughing WITH YOU about HER. Mission Accomplished. Step 3) MEMORIZE a qualification statement: * "What can you do besides stand around and look cute?" The Sexual Framing Master Course

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* "You're good looking, but what else do you have going for you?" (In a future lesson I'll show you how to do away with explicit qualification and use pure framing instead.) Step 4) MEMORIZE some isolation statements: * "Hey, let's go talk over there for a sec." * (to the group) "I'm going to borrow her for just a sec. We'll be right over there (pointing)" Step 5) MEMORIZE the Bounce Invite: * "Hey, I'm going to get something to eat. You should come along." Easy enough right? Now, you'll want to construct this in a linear fashion (some of you will already have this type of PLAN in place, this is for the PUAs that don't have a plan) so that you can run an almost identical set with each group you open. PUA: "Hey guys, I'm thinking of dying my hair blonde" HBs: blah, blah, blah PUA (pointing to Target but looking at group and smiling): "Is she ALWAYS like this? (shaking head and smiling) You can dress her up but you can't take her anywhere." PUA: (to Target): "Gimme your hands" *** PUA locks in *** *** It now appears to everyone in the VENUE that the target is gaming the PUA *** PUA: (story) HBs: blah, blah, blah PUA: (to Target smiling and shaking head) "You would say that..." PUA: (story) HBs: blah, blah, blah PUA: (to Target) - (qualification statement) Target: blah, blah, blah PUA: (reward Target and act like she is winning you over)


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PUA: "What else?" Target: blah, blah, blah PUA: "Interesting..." (Isolation statement) PUA: *** PARADE HER AROUND and then Isolate *** Total elapsed time 5-10 minutes The next lesson will introduce my Game Improvement Plan and how I used it (and still use it) to engineer massive leaps in my Game. I'll also cover the easiest way imaginable to get Pawns and the first steps to Social Proof Venue Domination. ~ Captain Jack ~


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Sticking Point Analysis Throughput = smallest bottleneck. 1. What to change. 2. To What to Change To. 3. How to Cause the Change. Go to YouTube and watch the “Sticking Point Analysis” videos. After watching them answer these questions;

1. Something I never realized about SPA is…

2. My current sticking point is:

3. I plan to change that by:


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LR: I’m Not Easy! Now, we’re going to analyze this LR using Frames. As I do that, I’m going to define Frames and Framing so you can grasp it. *** The post begins *** I don’t know a lot about you… but I do know this: You are one smart mother fucker. I know this because you read my blog instead of wasting your time on stupid shit like working, doing your taxes and cleaning your toilet. You know what all that stuff is? It’s LMS - Lesser Mortal Shit Lesser Mortal Shit is anything that interferes with you sucking all the nectar out of life. Now, I can hear some of you saying, “What about responsibilities? What about being a good citizen?” I say, “Yeah man! Do that stuff… BUT, I’m proposing that the stuff you were told is being a ‘good citizen’ is actually the stuff someone ELSE thinks you should be doing to be a good citizen and NOT what you’d decide had you sat down and CONSCIOUSLY decided how you want your life.” Why be a COG in someone else’s wheel, getting only an hour or two per day (and the weekend) to do the shit your SOUL aches for when you can be your own self-determined being? Leave that Lesser Mortal Shit to someone else. There are beautiful women to be orgasmed. A couple of days ago I posted ‘FUR: The Octopus and the Nurse’… I texted her this afternoon: ‘8 Strawberries!’ and she texted back right away with ‘Haaa! What’re u doin?’ CJ: “Aren’t you at work?” HB: “No. Sprained ankle that night.” CJ: “Wow! What a wimp! I was going to see if you wanted to hang out but can’t be seen with a girl using a walker.” HB: “If you ask me nicely I’ll leave the walker home.” Set her up via text for coming over 8:30. My standard day2 is to get them to come over. When they get here I have them come inside and hug them to test their body tension. She was only about half way open so I offered her some wine (picked it up at the gas station earlier). (Had she been fully open I would’ve shoved her against the wall and started heavy make out, hand on throat, hair pulling, etc.)


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We chatted a bit. I made fun of her wound. We drank wine on my couch and I escalated more. Got her shirt off. She started resisting so I immediately stopped. Went back to chatting for 5-10 minutes and tried again. More resistance so I took her to the local bar. Cheese sticks. Potato Wedges. Beer. Cool music. We got into a frame battle there. Or, more accurately she tried to set frames which I rejected, turned around and then utilized to reinforce my own. HB: “What church do you go to?” (This is a question a girl asks for future relationship compatibility. She has a checklist of things she wants from the dude in LTR and her goal on the date is to check them off one by one.) CJ: “We’re here! First X-Bar of Arlington!” (I’m pretty sure she DID NOT want me to say that a bar was my church since a few minutes earlier she said she doesn’t go to bars much because of the smokiness and loud music. Haaa. So, I’m rejecting the Frame that this is an evaluative LTR date using cocky-funny.) At one point after making out I tell her she’s turning me on… I put her hand on GIGANTOR (naturally, she gasps) and tell her it’s her fault. That she’s doing it to me and I’m not responsible for whatever happens. I mention taking her into the bathroom, the car, the alley or right there on the table. HB: “I’m not that easy!” CJ: “Oh god! Stop! That turns me on when you say things like that!” That steals her frame. Now, anytime she tries to reiterate her “I’m not easy” frame then she knows it will turn me on. Since it doesn’t have the effect she originally wants then she has to either abandoned it and try to set the frame a different way OR if she DOES decide she wants to turn me on then she has a way to do it. CJ wins. She makes a few more attempts to set an LTR Evaluation Frame which I reject by turning things sexual, using cocky-funny or misinterpretation. We get back to the Pirate Pad and clothes fly off with no LMR, no hesitation. ~ Captain Jack ~ P.S. The new Sticking Point Analysis Presentation is now on YouTube… minus the Coughing. Follow the link to subscribe to the Channel. More Web 2.0 stuff to come.


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Homework For Call #1 1. Develop a Basic Game Plan. (We’re going to add Sexual Framing to it as we go along). Be sure to write down and email me any questions you have. This will help you, me and everyone else on the call because it will help me stay connected with where you guys are and what I need to do to bridge the gaps in understanding and application. 2. Listen to the call again and make sure you PARTICIPATE by filling in the blanks and answering the questions. Make sure you set a goal and follow the goal setting rules I’ve outlined in the goal section. Goals focus the mind and allow you to cut out non-traceable behaviors and timewasters. 3. Go to your local bookstore and pick up and read a copy of Cosmopolitan Magazine. You’ll be shocked. I’m not kidding. Read that shit from cover-to-cover. It has a paid circulation of millions of women (I think over 4 million US, plus 100 other countries and 34 languages). Their target is women 18-34. One of the major pieces to framing is to UNDERSTAND what is already going on inside her head. Understand her objections. Understand the OTHER influences on her so you can build frames that pre-empt any objections or blockages. 4. Go to my blog http://www.betheseducer.com and search for LR: to bring up a list of LRs. Read as many of them as you have time for paying particular attention to the bits of conversation and ask yourself “What would he (Captain Jack) or she (the girl) have to believe about herself (or himself), the world and others in order to make this statement?” That is a way to begin understanding the hidden frames behind the communication.


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