Fantastic Attraction Pattern Part 1

Speed Seduction® Coaching Program Video Mini-Seminar “New Fantastic Attraction Pattern, Part 1”

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September 2011

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Ross:

This is going to be quite interesting. This is a new version of a language pattern that I‟ve been teaching lately. It deals with the

theme of attraction. This is actually quite clever. It‟s for those of you who want to understand how patterns are

constructed, especially the category of patterns that we think of as traditional patterns. They‟re the longer, memorized patterns where

we talk about a subject and maybe get a little bit of input from the woman. You‟ll notice in this pattern that we‟re usi ng the contrast principle. This is something I first explained all the way back in the early „90s.

When you construct a long-form pattern that consists of a lot of things that you‟re talking about, often it‟s useful to contrast one

thing with something tha t‟s either very different or similar to that first thing. Let‟s go ahead with this. We‟re going to definitely have to break this

up into little sub- modules, but you‟re going to really enjoy it. Let‟s go with it. Ross:

This is a really good t opic. If you want to discuss attraction, I‟m going to give you this one word for word. It‟s really fucking clever. First watch me. Then I‟ll explain how it works and give it to you

word for word. Participant:

Is this a separate theme?

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Ross:

It‟s a different theme. It‟s attraction. I‟ll say, “I‟ve often thought about this word „attraction,‟ Debbie. I think there‟s the kind of attraction where it really just means you‟re fascinated.”

Ross:

There‟s one thing I just want to say. The way I bring thi s topic up is I say, “I‟ve often thought about this idea of attraction.” That‟s not a

bad way to bring up a topic. Let‟s say you‟re at a party or some other social setting. Another way you might bring up this topic is you could say, “Do you know

what I like to do at a setting like this? I like to observe that process of people when they‟re starting to feel a strong attraction.” Do you hear the command “feel the strong attraction”? That‟s how I can introduce it. I can introduce it by saying, “Based on whe re we

find ourselves, I really like to notice that process where people start to feel a strong attraction and how that‟s taking place.”

Ross:

“You look, and you just feel like this person‟s voice and face is all you can be absorbed in. That‟s one kind of attraction, but it‟s not something you feel really strongly all through your body.”

Ross:

By the way, I would not walk up to someone and start with this. First I would get them laughing. I would play a few fun games with them. I‟d create some comfort, rapport and overall interest in talking to me before I slid in with a really strong topic like this.”


Ross:

“Then there‟s the kind of attraction where it‟s not just about being absorbed. It‟s about feeling. People can hav e all sorts of good feelings, Debbie. I don‟t mean play with a puppy kind of feelings. I

think attraction is really about feeling that flow of energy that lets you know there‟s something amazing right here in front of you.”

Ross:

Notice this girl here. Even though she knows what I‟m doing and came to the seminar because she has read about me, she‟s having these responses. A little bit later she‟s going to talk about even though she knows what I‟m doing is still working on her.

Ross:

I‟ll change the topic. I‟ll say, “Anyway, when you were a little girl,

was there some kind of candy that was the king in your candy castle?” Why do I change the topic? I don‟t want her to think about

it consciously. I want to suppress it so her unconscious is fighting with her conscious mind saying, “No, think more about that. If you‟re not going to think about it consciously, I‟ll think about it.”

Do you get it? There are times in doing patterns when I want her to verbally respond. Other times I want to suppress it and change the topic really quickly. I forgot something in that pattern. I talk about, “There‟s the kind of attraction where it‟s not really something you feel really strongly in your body. It‟s more like you feel pulled toward this person. There‟s


something magnetic where you feel a connection and fascination. Then there‟s the kind of attraction where you feel it really strongly.” I‟ll look right at her crotch. “It‟s like those butterflies.” If I go like this she‟ll provide the word. She‟ll say, “Yes, butterflies.” I‟ll say, “It doesn‟t matter whether you feel that spreading quickly or slowly, or whether it just happens so fast you know there‟s something you

have to grab hold of tonight. “I think what‟s really interesting is that first kind of attraction is just

one or two doorways away from you experiencing this kind of attraction.” When I say “one or two doorways away,” does that mean walking

out the door of the restaurant and then walking into the door of my house, or does it mean doorways in the mind? The unconscious mind says both. When she opens the first door it triggers the suggestion. When she opens those second and third doors, it really triggers the suggestion. This is getting her ready to fuck you by linking all the thoughts and feelings to an action that you‟re going to take with her. You‟re going to walk through doors. It‟s pretty fucking clever, isn‟t it? Float like a

butterfly, sting like a bee. Rumble, young man, rumble. When I used to teach classic patterns, I taught the contrast principle. What you just heard is a classic memorized pattern as I defined it back in 1993. We liked to use contrast. I defined one kind of attraction and contrasted it with another kind.


The first piece of this is the introduction. You sa y, “Debbie, have you ever thought about attraction? I was thinking about attraction the other day.” The first piece is to introduce it. Do you want me to

go through the language to introduce it? Participant:

Yes.

Ross:

“Debbie, the other day I was thinking about attraction.” We want to

bring it up in conversation. Ross:

I would not make this the first thing you talk about. It‟s a heavy

topic. You want to try some other formats of patterns, quizzes, games and that kind of stuff, before you go into something like this. Ross:

I‟m the greatest of all time. No one can judge me. I‟m the best. I‟m

the greatest. My face is so pretty. Ross:

I hope you pardon my Muhammad Ali imitations. He was one of my heroes.

Ross:

By the way, you can get the footage when you upgrade. I was saying, “The other day I was thinking about attraction. I think there‟s one kind of attraction.” Then I‟m going to describe what that first

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Ross:

In that process of describing something is where we embed the commands.

Ross:

“I think there‟s one kind of attraction where it‟s not about you feel strong feelings in your body.”

Ross:

There‟s the command. “Feel strong feelings in your body.” I‟m

leaning on it here so you can catch it. Ross:

Underline the words “feel strong feelings in your body.” That‟s a

command. Participant:

Why doesn‟t their subconscious mind pick up the negation?

Ross:

Fuck that. What you heard about negation and unconscious not processing is bullshit.

Participant:

I‟ve never heard anything about it.

Ross:

“It‟s not about you feel strong feelings in your body.” Then I‟m going to describe what it is about. I‟m going to say, “It‟s more about you

feel a magnetic pull toward this person. You feel drawn in. You feel a tug.”

Ross:

Here I‟m also introducing some metaphors. Women will often use this kind of language. You‟ll learn a lot about what women actually


respond by listening not to what they say they want but their metaphors. When they say, “I just felt pulled or magnetized toward him,” or “I just felt a tug,” this is not literal. It‟s a metaphorical description of what‟s going on. This is where you get real leverage into people‟s

worlds when you listen for this personal metaphor. In this first description, what I‟m doing is describing a kind of attraction women feel that doesn‟t include strong localized sexual

feelings. It does not include pulsing in the vagina, rushes of heat through their brea sts and their nipples stiffening. It‟s not strong sexual arousal, yet it is a form of attraction. It‟s very important that we understand attraction not as a label but

as a set of experiences that have their own unique flows of energy and local intensities or global spread. It enables us to see and recognize things that to other people remain hidden. This is really crucial. By using women‟s own metaphors, it has a powerful sense of connection to them. It‟s as if we‟re describing their own feelings and

thinking. It not only is powerful for evoking those states, but it creates a sense that they‟re feeling deeply understood.

Ross:

“You want more. You feel a tug. You feel pulled toward this person.”


Ross:

Notice my gestures. My gestur es are congruent with what I‟m describing. I‟m not saying “you feel a tug” and then making a

gesture of pushing my hands away. Ross:

“Because you know there‟s something bigger to touch.”

Ross:

There‟s a little sexual metaphor. “Something bigger to touch.” Of course, I‟m pointing toward my genitals. I‟m doing it a lot less subtly

here than I would do in the real world. These files are going to get huge to render. Let‟s break this up into

another part.


Fantastic Attraction Pattern Part 1

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