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‐±U| miar `lumvmrleém d|upa `luv|çu `l cm ba`m a lrm |km vçr`g`m hrm`|mc1 ‐gk`mh|ç+ ‐B|lka# cm ulh|k`m zlt |l imc `lu`l lc vrgkegvga+ Ka uç ca }|l vmuõ+ Lk rlmcg`m`# vlkumbm }|l kau miíbmiau# vlra cm c|km `l iglc |l |k `lumuprl w k|kem kau rle|vlrmiau+ Uaca |giau kazgau ulgu ilulu+ J|l |k g`gcga zlrpghgkaua+ ¡J|l liaegakmkpl `l zlr`m`- Ugk libmrha# `luv|çu `lc imprgiakga# |l |km bmpmccm `lu`l lc vrgkegvga+ ¿Lk ig vrgilr imprgiakga# p|zgiau prlu a e|mpra mýau b|lkau mkplu `l }|l cclhmrm lc blbç+ @luv|çu }|l kmegõ lc blbç# ulkpé }|l cl `mbm u| mplkegõk mc blbç w }|l wa `ldmbm `l givarpmrcl+ Lrm eaia ug u| ôkgem ilpm lk cm zg`m |lrm plklr |k blbç# w `luv|çu `l lua# wm ka il klelugpmbm iíu+ ‐±Cl `gda lua1 ‐vrlh|kpç+ ‐Ué# ul ca `gdl+ Il `gda }|l lupmbm caea+ Il `gda }|l ka lkplk`ém lc luprçu `l ulr lklrilrm cmu zlgkpge|mpra narmu `lc `ém+ Il `gda }|l `lbém ulr iíu eaivrlkugza w mw|`mrcm iíu+ Lk rlmcg`m`# vrae|rç nmelrca# vlra ka vmrleém }|l ngeglrm mch|km `glrlkegm+ @luv|çu `l lua# kau mvmrpíbmiau em`m zlt iíu+ Mc vaea pgliva# ka }|l`mbm miar# uaca mcpm `l zg`m+ Cau `au lup|zgiau `l me|lr`a lk }|l pa`a nmbém plrigkm`a+ ¿±Ig ôcpgia imprgiakga1 M `legr zlr`m`# vlkumbm }|l lul ulrém `glrlkpl+ Wm nmeém prlu mýau }|l lupmbm `gzaregm`a+ J|giau kazgau `|rmkpl `au mýau+ Lk rlmcg`m`# vlkumbm }|l umbémiau ca }|l nmeémiau# w }|l }|gtí# var vrgilrm zlt# umbém ca }|l ughkgembm mimr m mch|glk+ Ulkpém }|l lccm il mimbm eak ugkelrg`m`+ ¿@luv|çu `l cm ba`m# ka erla }|l emibgç+ Eakpgk|ç l~vrluík`acl miar eaia ca nmeém mkplu `l emumrkau+ Cl `leém ca nlriaum }|l lrm+ Cl `leém ca i|ena }|l cm mimbm+ Cl `leém ca arh|ccaua }|l lupmbm var ulr u| luvaua+ Ugk libmrha# m cau vaeau ilulu `l emum`au livltõ m }|ldmrul# `l vl}|lýmu eaumu mc vrgkegvga# pmclu eaia }|l ka umembm cm bmu|rm a ka eachmbm ig ra) vm+ C|lha# mpmeõ ig emríeplr emrí eplr## `gegçk`ail }|l ulkpém }|l ka va`ém =2
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eakmr lk ié# me|uík`ail `l ka ulrcl lc+ Ul eakzgrpgõ ¯Mkplu `l emumrkau# lccm lk |km vlruakm klhmpgzm var k|kem j|l klhmpgzm¿+ eaivclpa+ Mkplu `l emumrkau# lccm k|kem |l klhmpgzm+ Lrm cm vlruakm iíu vaugpgzm vaug pgzm }|l eakaeglrm dmiíu# lum |l |km `l cmu eaumu }|l iíu il mprmda `l lccm+ K|kem ul }|ldmbm var km`m+ Pa`a ca }|l wa nmeém lrm imrmzgccaua# vlra |km zlt }|l kau emumiau# vmrleém }|l ka va`ém nmelr mcha bglk+ M `legr zlr`m`# ka uç ca }|l vmuõ+ M cm cmrhm# cm `ldç `l mimr w livleç m iaclupmril eak lccm+ Lrm abzga }|l ka il mimbm+ Rleakaegiau }|l ka umeíbmiau km`m zgzglk`a d|kpau# mué }|l kau ulvmrmiau+ ¿Lua |l nmel |k mýa+ @l ia`a }|l ig vrlh|kpm lu lupm4 ±]|ç cl vmum mc miar `luv|çu `l cm ba`m1 ba` m1 ±Ig l~vlrglkegm lu eaiôk1 ±Lu var lua }|l plkliau pmkpau `gzaregau lk k|lupra vméu1 Ka v|l`a erllr }|l lupa il u|el`glrm prlu zlelu+ W cau }|l ka ul `gzaregmk# ±mvrlk`lk m zgzgr eak lc zmeéa a lk zlr`m` lc miar ul imkpglkl zgza lk mch|kau imprgiakgau1 @l ulr mué# ±eõia ca cahrmk1 Cmu vrlh|kpmu `l ig migha ulkpm`a lk lc
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Eak pa`m cm mw|`m `guvakgbcl `l cau l~vlrpau lk cau il`gau `l eai|kgemegõk# ±var }|ç lu }|l pmk vaemu vmrldmu vmrlelk nmblr lkeakprm`a lc ulerlpa vmrm imkplklr zgza lc miar `luv|çu `l cm ba`m1 ±Var }|ç lu }|l |km vmrldm v|l`l mugupgr m |k pmcclr `l eai|kgemegõk# lue|enmr imrmzgccaumu g`lmu uabrl eõia ildarmr cm eai|kgemegõk# rlhrlumr m emum w `lue|brgr }|l uak gkemvmelu var eaivclpa `l givclilkpmr cau vmpraklu `l eai|kgemegõk `liauprm`au1 ±Eõia lu }|l zliau }|l |k l~vlrpa kau `m eakuldau lk |km rlzgupm uabrl ¯=6= Imklrmu `l l~vrlumrcl miar m p| eõkw|hl¿# ulcleegakmiau `au a prlu }|l kau vmrlelk b|lkmu lk luvlegmc vmrm kauaprau# cmu vrabmiau w k|luprau eõkw|hlu kg ug}|glrm rleakaelk k|lupra lu|lrta1 @miau var vlr`g`mu cmu aprmu kazlkpm w aena imklrmu w zaczliau m cm zg`m `l uglivrl+
Cm zlr`m` }|l kau jmcpm Lc vravõugpa `l lupl cgbra lu cm rluv|lupm m lupmu vrlh|kpmu+ Ka ul prmpm `l }|l cau cgbrau w cau mrpée|cau wm v|bcgem`au ka ulmk ôpgclu+ Lc vrabclim lu }|l nliau vmum`a var mcpa |km zlr`m` |k`milkpmc4 Cmu vlruakmu nmbcmk `glrlkplu clkh|mdlu `l miar+ Ig vrlvmrmegõk mem`çigem lu lk lc emiva `l cm mkpravacahém+ mkpravacah ém+ Var ca pmkpa# nl lup|`gm`a cm eglkegm `l cm cgkhóéupgem# cm e|mc g`lkpgem zmrgau hr|vau `l g`gaimu vrgkegvmclu4 dmvakçu# engka# luvmýac# gkhcçu# varp|h|çu# hrglha# mcliík# rmkeçu# lpe+ Cm imwarém `l kauaprau erlegõ mvrlk`glk`a cm clkh|m `l k|luprau vm`rlu w nlrimkau# cm e|mc ul eakzgrpgõ lk k|luprm clkh|m implrkm a vrgimrgm+ Iíu pmr`l# }|gtí mvrlk`miau aprmu clkh|mu# vlra emug uglivrl eak i|ena iíu lu|lrta+ Lupmu cclhmk m ulr k|luprmu clkh|mu ule|k`mrgmu + Nmbcmiau w eaivrlk`liau ildar k|luprm clkh|m implrkm+ Kau ulkpgiau iíu eõia`au nmbcmk`a lum clkh|m+ Iglkprmu iíu |uliau |km clkh|m ule|k`mrgm# iíu eõia`au lupmrliau lk k|luprm eakzlrumegõk+ Ug uaca nmbcmiau cm clkh|m vrgimrgm w kau lkeakprmiau eak mch|glk }|l uaca nmbcm u| clkh|m vrgimrgm# cm e|mc lu `glrlkpl m cm k|luprm# k|luprm =0
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eai|kgemegõk ulrí cgigpm`m+ P| clkh|mdl @lbliau `lvlk`lr `l cmu liaegakmc `lc miar ulýmclu# cau hr|ýg`au# cau w lc `l p| eõkw|hl pmc `gb|dau a cm hlupge|cmegõk `l k|luprmu g`lmu+ Va`liau zlt zl t ulmk ulm k `gjlrlkplu# eai|kgemrkau# vlra lu `géegc+ eaia lc engka `lc Cmu `glrlkegmu `l g`gaimu uak luvmýac+ vmrpl gkplhrmc `l cm e|cp|rm n|imkm+ Ug }|lrliau eai|kgemrkau `l imklrm leglkpl m prmzçu `l céklmu e|cp|rmclu# `lbliau mvrlk`lr lc g`gaim `l luau eak cau }|l `lulmiau eai|kgemrkau+ Lk lc emiva `lc miar# lu ugigcmr+ P| clkh|mdl liaegakmc `lc miar w lc `l p| eõkw|hl pmc zlt ulmk `glrlkplu# eaia lc engka `lc luvmýac+ Ka givarpm e|íkpa pl lu|lrelu var prmpmr `l l~vrlumr miar lk luvmýac# ug p| eõkw|hl uaca eaivrlk`l lc engka# k|kem lkplk`lrík eõia mimrul lc |ka mc apra+ Ig migha lk lc mzgõk cl nmbcmbm m u| plrelrm luvaum lc clkh|mdl `l ¯vmcmbrmu `l mrimegõk¿ e|mk`a `gda4 ¯Cl `leém ca nlriaum }|l lrm+ Cl `leém ca i|ena }|l cm mimbm+ Cl `leém ca arh|ccaua }|l lupmbm var ulr u| luvaua¿+ L~vrlumbm u| miar# w lrm ugkelra# vlra lccm ka lkplk`ém u| clkh|mdl+ ]|gtí b|uemrm miar lk u| eak`|epm w ka ca zglrm+ Cm ugkelrg`m` ka lu u|eglkpl+ @lbliau lupmr `guv|lupau m mvrlk`lr lc clkh|mdl vrgimrga `lc miar `l k|lupra eõkw|hl ug }|lrliau ulr leglkplu eai|kgem`arlu `lc miar+ Ig eakec|ugõk `luv|çu `l prlgkpm mýau `l eakuldlrém imprgiakgmc lu }|l l~guplk egkea clkh|mdlu liaegakmclu `lc miar# egkea imklrmu lk }|l cm hlkpl nmbcm w eaivrlk`l lc miar liaegakmc+ Lk lc emiva `l cm cgkhóéupgem# |k g`gaim v|l`l plklr k|ilrauau `gmclepau a zmrgmegaklu+ Mugiguia# `lkpra `l kpra `l cau egkea g`gaimu liaegakmclu bíugeau `lc miar nmw i|enau `gmclepau+ `gm clepau+ Lua d|upgem cau mrpée|cau mr pée|cau `l rlzgupm pgp|cm`au ¯=6 Imklrmu vmrm }|l p| luvaum ulvm }|l cm mimu¿# ¯26 Imklrmu `l imkplklr m p| naibrl lk lc nahmr¿# a ¯5:< L~vrlugaklu `l miar eakw|hmc¿+ Ka nmw `glt# =<
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