Dear Friend, Can you tell me... why in the world would a great woman not have a great man who wants to be with her?
It just doesn’t make sense, does it? Over the last few years of helping women to better understand men and have more successful relationships, I can’t tell you how many times this uestion has come up!!! "nd I’m constantly ama#ed by how many I$%&'DI()' *O+'$ I meet who are unnecessarily sitting at home alone! (ut now!!! FI$"))!!! I am pleased to tell you that after years of seeing how so many incredible women are unable to find great men who love them for who they &'")) "&', at long last I have an answer ! I’m very e-cited about what I’ve discovered, and I can’t wait to share my answer with you for . reasons/ 0! I’ve disco discovere vered d that there there is is just one one dangerou dangerouss yet easy to fix mistake that is single1handedly responsible for why most great women do $O2 have a great man in their life
3! $early '4'& '4'& woman I’ve I’ve shared shared this with has has told me me that hearing hearing this this was the one thing that that really made everything come together for them!!! and that this information allowed them to take their love lives to a level of happiness and e-citement 5I65'& than they ever thought possible!!!
.! If O7 are frustrated frustrated with with men men and dating dating and the way your love love life is is now, I am 100% CERTAIN that what I am about to tell you will not only change the way you think about men and dating forever!!! but give you the 8O*'& to change your current situation faster and and more effectively than anything else you could possibly do, period! $ow, I can’t wait to share the answer ans wer I’ve found with you and let le t you put it to work in your own life!!! (ut let me first give you a uick 9primer9 on how and where this answer came to me!!! and why it allowed me to see what’s going on for most women with men and dating so clearly!!! One thing I’ve been paying more attention to in my life lately is !" "E A# $E!$E CAN EA! For me, thinking about all this was prompted by some recent health concerns of my own that have turned out to be a blessing in disguise! 2o make a long story short!!! a while ago I started thinking about how in more of our
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9*estern +edicine9, the focus of the treatment you receive is often about alleviating the #&'$T!'# you’re e-periencing! "nd while this helps you F'') ('22'& in the short term by clearing your immediate problems!!! the long term effects aren’t too long1lasting! On the other hand!!! more of the 9'astern9 approach to health and healing places a focus on the body as an entire system that’s 9interconnected9! "nd from this perspective :+82O+: aren’t a focus of concern co ncern in the healing process! Instead, a focus is put on identifying and treating the (N)ER&IN* CA(#E of the symptoms! "s I sat and thought about this, it started to become clear to me how this whole approach to medicine and to healing not only related to my life!!! but I started to see some 8&OFO7$D 2&725: that related to what most women e-perience with men, love, dating, and relationships!!! :uddenly everything became %&:2") %)'"& to me about what was going on at a deeper level 1 most women are spending their precious time and energy focusing on trying to ;fi-< all the symptoms in their love life!!! which of course is leading them nowhere, and keeping them from finding and 9healing9 the &OO2 %"7:' of it all! 2he more I thought about this, the more I started to see a fascinating process happening for most of the single women around me!!! and a new reality came into clear view! +y Own 8ersonal ;"wakening :ymptom 0/ %hoosing 2he *&O$6 +en!!! Over "nd Over "nd Over Do you find yourself meeting and maybe even falling for the same type of *&O$6 men for you, over and over? +aybe you even got a gut feeling when when you meet a guy that he will end up treating you badly!!! but you find yourself going for him anyways? Or!!! do you find yourself having lots of short relationships that seem like they could work out!!! but then end up going nowhere? It’s not uncommon for a woman to get stuck in a 9cycle9 of dating the wrong types of men for her over and over and over!!! and 25I: +I:2"@' is the main reason why! *hat is uncommon is for that woman to (&'"@ that cycle!!! but doing this is a 9must9 if she ever wants to meet the &I652 man and develop a relationship that will last!
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9*estern +edicine9, the focus of the treatment you receive is often about alleviating the #&'$T!'# you’re e-periencing! "nd while this helps you F'') ('22'& in the short term by clearing your immediate problems!!! the long term effects aren’t too long1lasting! On the other hand!!! more of the 9'astern9 approach to health and healing places a focus on the body as an entire system that’s 9interconnected9! "nd from this perspective :+82O+: aren’t a focus of concern co ncern in the healing process! Instead, a focus is put on identifying and treating the (N)ER&IN* CA(#E of the symptoms! "s I sat and thought about this, it started to become clear to me how this whole approach to medicine and to healing not only related to my life!!! but I started to see some 8&OFO7$D 2&725: that related to what most women e-perience with men, love, dating, and relationships!!! :uddenly everything became %&:2") %)'"& to me about what was going on at a deeper level 1 most women are spending their precious time and energy focusing on trying to ;fi-< all the symptoms in their love life!!! which of course is leading them nowhere, and keeping them from finding and 9healing9 the &OO2 %"7:' of it all! 2he more I thought about this, the more I started to see a fascinating process happening for most of the single women around me!!! and a new reality came into clear view! +y Own 8ersonal ;"wakening :ymptom 0/ %hoosing 2he *&O$6 +en!!! Over "nd Over "nd Over Do you find yourself meeting and maybe even falling for the same type of *&O$6 men for you, over and over? +aybe you even got a gut feeling when when you meet a guy that he will end up treating you badly!!! but you find yourself going for him anyways? Or!!! do you find yourself having lots of short relationships that seem like they could work out!!! but then end up going nowhere? It’s not uncommon for a woman to get stuck in a 9cycle9 of dating the wrong types of men for her over and over and over!!! and 25I: +I:2"@' is the main reason why! *hat is uncommon is for that woman to (&'"@ that cycle!!! but doing this is a 9must9 if she ever wants to meet the &I652 man and develop a relationship that will last!
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:ymptom 3/ Finding 2hat +en Fail 2o &ecogni#e 2hat ou’re " 6&'"2 %"2%5 5ave you ever met a guy that seemed like he was perfect for for you!!! but he just didn’t seem to feel the same way about you? +aybe you’ve had an e-perience in which a guy you really liked suddenly lost interest in you after several dates, or even after being intimate with you!!! and you could never understand why! In these situations I’ve found that all the 9specifics9 of your story, and the little things said and done aren’t nearly as significant as this basic fact/ The man you were with just didn’t see you as the kind of SPECI! woman he should get serious with"
If you want to capture a man’s heart, it’s critical that he doesn’t see you as 9just another girl9! If he thinks of you as just another girl, a man will subtly start thinking that he could be happier or better off being single!!! or 9playing the field9! Or he might even end up choosing a 9lesser woman9 than you to be with who doesn’t have all the ama#ing ualities of a 9real woman9 that you have! (ut he still sees her as that special woman anyhow, and not you! :ymptom ./ Finding 2hat 2he ;Dating :tage< Isn’t Fun Or 'njoyable Do you get frustrated with the whole 9dating9 process and wish you could just :@I8 I2 and be in a loving, caring relationship without all of the 9hassle9 and uncertainty? *e all would love to jump right into a deep, connected relationship with someone we care about!!! but unfortunately this doesn’t really work in the real world! If you don’t lay down a strong FO7$D"2IO$ with a man during the early stages, and find and talk about all the things you both need to know about each other ('FO&' things take off!!! then the relationship you build with him will rest on a weak and uncertain foundation! "nd it’s then that what you have between you and a man is guaranteed to become unstable and fall apart once a little conflict, trouble or tension comes along! :ymptom A/ Finding 2hat +en :ee ou "s ;$eedy< Or ;%lingy
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his &'") reason for pulling away! It’s terribly frustrating for most women who have their life together when they know that they weren’t really being ;needy< 1 it was just the way that the man 8'&%'I4'D things! (ut the damage is done!!! :ymptom B/ Finding 2hat It $ever *orks Out *ith 2he One ou &'")) )ike It happens to the best of us! *hen we really like someone, we tend to act a little bit differently!!! :ometimes this causes women to put on a front without even trying!!! or to try a little too hard, or love a little too intensely!!! which can get in the way of a guy seeing the &'") O7! Other times it can cause you to come on a little too strong!!! and lead a man to +I:2"@' your signs of love, interest, and desire to be with him for I$:'%7&I2! $ot good! *hy 2hese 8roblems "nd Frustrations *ill @''8 O$ Occurring In our )ove )ife!!! nd #ow To Easily Easily ddress Them ll""" *hat I’ve done here is listed just a few of the main problems women e-perience over and over again in their love lives! 2he truth is, each one of these problems all have something in common/ Every one o+ these ,roblems is a #&'$T!' that is -aused by a '(C I**ER ,roblem. And i+ that one ,roblem or root -ause is addressed/ addressed/ then all o+ these sym,toms will instantly disa,,ear. instantly disa,,ear.
es, you read that right! If you eliminate the one (I6 problem, you will uickly find that/ 0! 2he ma man you feel is is a great partner for you, will see O7 as his eual!!! and as the uality woman he’s been waiting for
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.! our man man will )OO@ FO&*"&D FO&*"&D to spending spending time with you, you, and thinks thinks about you when you’re not around
A! ou’ll ou’ll be able able to capture capture the the heart of of a man who is not not only 9up 9up to your your standards9, but 'C"%2) what you want and who you deserve
I’m guessing this sounds like a lot more fun than what you might have e-perienced in the past with a man, right? (ut on the other hand, if you keep on making this mistake of not identifying and addressing this one problem, you will find that/
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ou’ll keep choosing all the wrong men
ou’ll have an impossible time identifying the right men, even when he’s right in front of you
" man will uickly lose interest in you, even after several dates or being intimate with you
" man will see you as 9needy9, even if you’re not
our efforts to talk and connect with a man will only seem to turn him off more and keep him from ever wanting a real relationship with you
ou will feel that men have all of the power in your relationships, and you have none
" man will often make you feel emotionally uncertain or 9out of control9, and you won’t be able to help yourself
" man won’t see you as 9relationship material9 and not want anything more than to casually date you
I think you can see just how dangerous not finding and addressing this problem for yourself really is! :o now let’s talk about *5"2 this problem actually is!!! and how to eliminate it!!!
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2he :ingle *O&:2 2hing ou %an Do *hen +eeting "nd 6etting 2o @now " +an!!! (efore I tell you e-actly what this problem is, I’d like to share a story with you that will help you to better understand it!!! Did you know that among all of the animals that live in the rainforest, one particular animal that is among the fastest and most elusive is also the '":I':2 to catch? :pider monkeys are born with a little personality flaw that allows a hunter to easily trap it without causing the monkey any physical harm!!! and without using a cage or a net! "ll a hunter needs to do to catch one of these animals is to carve a hole in a trunk of a tree that is just wide enough for the spider monkey to fit his hand inside!!! then place a nut in the bottom! *hen the monkey finds the nut inside, he will reach in to grab it! (ut unfortunately for the monkey, his closed fist is just a little too large to remove from the hole without letting go of his precious snack! "nd what’s "+"I$6, insane, and humorous is that once the monkey grabs that nut, he *I)) $O2 )'2 6O! 2he hunter can walk right up to him and kill him!!! and the monkey will die with it’s arm in the hole and the nut in his hand! F":%I$"2I$6! :orry to get a little 9dark9 for a second there!!! but it’s an important point to understand! :o let me ask you!!! 5ave you ever had any friends who acted in a similar way when it came to a particular man? +aybe as soon as this man came into their life, she got just a little too into him!!! and he started to ('%O+' her life? "nd has this ever happened to you? +aybe you didn’t immediately begin revolving your whole world around a man you were dating!!! but you did find that you were thinking about the two of you " )O2!!! and that it somehow came across in your actions in ways that only hurt you!!! +aybe you began worrying about what he thought about you and what he was doing!!! started processing his every action and trying to figure out the meaning!!! and you found yourself getting frustrated with him over things he would do and say!!! For days and weeks you played out a &')"2IO$:5I8 I$ O7& 5'"D!!! thinking
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about everything that was going on! " relationship that became serious, deep, and committed in your mind!!! but all this was happening )O$6 ('FO&' your relationship had actually reached that level in reality! If this sounds familiar, then you were guilty of the deadly mistake I call!!! 2he 9Instant &elationship9 1 2he :urefire *ay 2o &uin 2hings *ith " +an "fter several years now of helping women to better understand and communicate with men, I’ve discovered this mistake to be the single $iggest cause of the frustration and disappointment many women e-perience in their dating lives! I call this mistake the Instant Relationshi,! It’s defined as this/ The Instant Relationshi, / " hard1wired behavior triggered by "22&"%2IO$ that has you thinking and acting as though you have a relationship with a man before you’ve developed one!
It starts at 95ello9!!! when you meet a great guy and begin an 97nconscious %ommitment9 in your mind for mutual honesty and e-clusivity between you! Of course, this is completely different than %O$:%IO7:) %5OO:I$6 " +"$ after getting to know him better!!! and it has . very serious conseuences/ 0! 2he unconscious commitment to a serious relationship made at the beginning can cause you to overlook any of his flaws as they come up 1 even things that would normally send you running 1 causing you to end up with the *&O$6 man for you
3! (ecause it is so (7I)2 78 in your mind, you will act and behave differently with this man!!! and likely scare him away by coming on too strong, looking 9too interested9, or coming off as $''D or %)I$6
.! (ecause an attractive man who is a great catch is so used to this happening with the women he dates, it causes him to see you as ;just another girl< that he doesn’t mind losing
Of course, the more deeply you are attracted to a man, or the more you think about him and 9fill in the blanks9 in the beginning, the deeper your Instant &elationship response will be! &emember the story I told you about the spider monkey?
*hen you do this to a man it makes him man feel like he is the 9nut9 that you are essentially :+O25'&I$6 with your hand!!! and even if your Instant &elationship responses "&'$’2 too deep or intense, just the slightest indication that you are thinking this way is more than enough to freak a man out and send him running! 5ere’s the thing you really need to know!!! The 2Instant Relationshi,2 -an be as unattra-tive and 2gross2 to a man as it is +or a man you3ve 4(#T 'ET to e5,e-t to have sex with you... try and C!N6INCE &!( to do so/ then a-t hurt or u,set when you don3t want to.
:eriously! 2hink about that for a second!!! (ut perhaps worst of all!!! the Instant &elationship takes away ")) 25' F7$ of getting to know someone and building a strong FO7$D"2IO$ for a successful relationship!!! because there is just too much pressure, and a man will feel and sense this on an unconscious level and withdraw from you! 7nfortunately many, +"$ women make this mistake with men without ever reali#ing it or consciously knowing it! *hen we meet someone we like, it’s easy for our 9biology9 to take over and make us do stupid things! 2he good news is that it isn’t all that hard to :2O8 making this mistake once you learn to &'%O6$I' when you are doing things that say 9Instant &elationship9 and push a good man away!!! and I want to show you how to do just that 1 :2O8 the root causes of the negative symptoms in your love life!!! forever! I also want to show you what to do I$:2'"D =what to say and do> to guarantee that you actually end up in the relationship you want with the man you want!!! and of course have him recogni#e what a great catch that O7 are as well! 2he 3nd 8iece Of 2he 8u##le!!! 5ave you ever worried that maybe you’ll just have to ;settle< for a guy that is ;pretty good< for you, because the &I652 +"$ for you just doesn’t exist% Or do you ever feel like the happiness and love you feel is just up to F"2'!!! and that there is nothing that you can personally do about it? If so, I’m willing to bet that there is a simple reason for why you’re making poor choices or 9settling9/ It3s be-ause &!( haven’t DONE ANYTHING about changing things FOR YOR!E"F#
In order to have a relationship with the &I652 man, you of course need to +''2 5I+ first! :o!!! if you find that you hardly ever meet men who you consider to be G7")I2 +'$, then D75H
It’s crucial that you take matters into your own hands and ma7e something ha,,en ! =If you really want the life you think or dream of> (y the way, the simple fact that you are reading this right now is a great start! "nd now I’d like to show you how to '+8O*'& O7&:')F to take it to the ne-t level!!! " :ecret "bout :ingle, "ttractive +en!!! )et’s take a look for a second inside the mind of a single, attractive, 5I65 G7")I2 man! 5ere’s one secret about him/ 2his man is 4'& frustrated! 5e keeps running into the same type of women over and over!!! women he has no interest in, then women who he has a little bit of interest in or " )O2 of interest in who then pull the 9Instant &elationship9 stuff on him after a few days or weeks and F&'"@ 5I+ O72! 5e is just as frustrated with women and the whole 9meeting and dating9 thing as you are with men and dating! +aybe even more!!! 2he point is, he has the e-act same problem you do 1 finding someone who he feels is a real %"2%5! I’m sure you’ve imagined conversations with the right man in which you tell him how much better he is than all the other men out there!!! because you really F'') that way! *ell guess what? " man would love to do the same with the right woman who he really feels this way with! 2he bottom line/ 2his man is out there!!! and 5' *"$2: 2O +''2 O7! 7nfortunately, lots of women unconsciously make the choice to continue waiting around for a man to FI$D 25'+! "nd I don’t need to tell you that for lots of good women it $'4'& '4'& DO': 5"88'$!!! and many of their best years are wasted waiting around for 9+r! &ight9! $ow!!! let’s &oom in and look at this on a more ;situational< level!!! If you were out and about and happened to cross paths with a guy who would be
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perfect for you, do you feel that he would be the type of guy that would immediately approach you and start a conversation? =9pick up on you9>
*ell, you would hope so, right? (ut here’s the problem!!! 2hink about how many guys have approached you in your life that have %O+8)'2') turned you off!!! I’m guessing that you and your friends have made fun of some of these guys! "nd I’m also guessing that they deserved itH ou and your friends are not alone! 2hese days the media often portrays men that 9hit on9 women as 9lounge li#ards9 and 9creeps9!!! and it can easily cause a man to think that if he were to approach you in public, you would "72O+"2I%")) put him in the same category as these guys before he even opened his mouth! 5ere’s something else to think about!!! I’m fortunate in the fact that I have some really ama#ing friends! I know a lot of men who are very successful in many different aspects of life!!! guys that "$ woman would consider to be great relationship or even husband material! I’ve spent time hanging out with these guys in casual settings and also 9hitting the town9! *hen I would go to bars or nightclubs with these guys!!! actually!!! come to think of it 1 malls, grocery stores, whatever!!! some of them would approach women that they wanted to meet! :ome of them would approach " )O2 of women! 2hese guys weren’t the scummy 9lounge li#ard9 guys you see in the media!!! they were just naturally friendly and outgoing! =I’ll admit I have known a few 9scummy9 guys in my time tooH> (ut the point is!!! some of the guys I’ve known that I feel are the (':2 catches =also verified by the fact that they attract ama#ing people into their lives, including women>!!! these guys *'&'$’2 the type of guys that would approach a woman 9cold9 to ask her out! $o way! 2hey were more into talking to their friends and just rela-ing with present company! "nd here’s something else to think about/ "nother (I6 &'":O$ why ultra1desirable men don’t approach women is because they don’t feel the desperate need to meet women that many other guys feel!!! because they ")&'"D 5"4' 8)'$2 OF *O+'$ I$ 25'I& )I4': 2O %5OO:' F&O+H
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2hat’s right! 2here are already a lot of great women who have met this man and want his time and attention! 6reat men meet women '4'&*5'&' 1 through their social circles, through business, other women in relationships who want to set them up, etc! 6reat men usually meet " )O2 of women! $ow, should this discourage you? Of course not! (ut know this/ "ttractive men are &"&'! "nd because of this, they are in demand! "nd I don’t need to tell you that O7& ID'") +"$ I: &"&'! "nd in demand! "fter all, you wouldn’t want some loser off the street that no other woman wanted, would you? 8robably not! +y point is this/ If this man were to walk by you tomorrow at the grocery store, would you know how to meet him? "nd how would you instantly let him know that O7 are a great catch as well, in the few short moments you might have while he’s standing there ne-t to you? If you don’t know any of this, or your uncertain and lack %O$FID'$%'!!! then it is 4'& I+8O&2"$2 that you start! "nd I’d like to show you how!!! )et’s :um It "ll 7p!!! 'eeting the one +or you -omes down to 8 things9
0! " single attractive man has a lot of options 1 and if you donLt have your act together, and you donLt know how to meet him!!! then show him that youLre both fun "$D 9relationship material9 at the same time!!! then youLre going to be put in a category in his mind that will never allow him to see you as the kind of woman heLll fall for and want to stay with!
3! " single and attractive man sees a 2O$ of weird, unusual, insecure, and cra#y behavior from women! "nd not just from women who are obviously immature and insecure!!! but from women that he has dated who seemed like great women and "&' great women!!! but then came unraveled with him and started
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acting needy! "nd whether you like it or not, if a man senses any of this same kind of stuff inside you, then heLll uickly disualify you and never think of you as a woman he could (' *I25!!! even if he keeps up your 9physical relationship9 and keeps 9dating9 you!
$ow, let’s talk about how to use this new information to +''2 and "22&"%2 the right man for you!!! our &oadmap For +eeting "nd "ttracting +r! &ight!!! If you’re tired of being single and not spending your life with a high uality man who D':'&4': O7!!! then I have some e-citing news for you!!! I just put the finishing touches on a brand new program called 'eeting The !ne ! 2he entire focus of this program is to show you e-actly how to approach and +''2 25' &I652 +"$, attract him and draw him close to you!!! and have him wanting more! I’ve created some other programs that have focused on important aspects of dating and relationships!!! and about men!!! but until now I hadn’t created a program that was all about helping you, a single woman, really 9get9 what dating is all about with men!!! and how to start from scratch meeting a man, getting the conversation started, and moving ahead with each other! 2his program is filled with more of the 9*hat do I say when he does this?9 kind of hands1on material than any of my other programs when it comes to meeting men, starting conversations, and getting a relationship underway from the very first encounter! " $ew )evel of 8'&:O$") '+8O*'&+'$2 In our )ove )ife!!! 8erhaps the most important thing you stand to gain here is a new sense of '+8O*'&+'$2 to create the love life for yourself that O7 want!!! and to stop waiting around for the right man to come along and magically make it all work! I promise you that this program will show you how men approach dating and relationships differently from women!!! and how by understanding where 5I: head is at you can take control of your dating destiny!!! so you are ultimately the one in control of the end result! In the beginning of this program, you’re going to learn all about the 9inner game9 of finding and connecting with the right man, and important foundation concepts for creating a great relationship with a man from the very very start! =first meeting or first date> I’m going to show you how to attract the right man proactively, not try and make things work reactively!
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*e’re going to talk about fear and an-iety that can come up inside you that gets in your way!!! and the reality of what happens when you actually meet a great guy and you’re faced with the challenges and uncertainty that he throws at you just by being who he is! Of course, we’re also going to get into the actual mindsets and the techniues =how1 to’s> to help you attract the interest of the right man in any situation!!! and you’re going to get all of the specifics of 9what do I do?9 from the first conversation, to your first 9date9, to him saying 9I love you9!!! and everything in between! I’ve noticed that one of the most challenging things for a woman is simply getting a man to see the best of *5O O7 &'")) "&'!!! and this program will show you how to do that uickly!!! so that a man knows e-actly how uniue and special you are from the moment you meet! ou’ll also learn how to uickly and clearly identify the *&O$6 +'$!!! and keep you from wasting your time and energy on someone that isn’t the absolute (':2 match for you! I’ll also show you how to avoid the common but little1known mindsets, approaches and mistakes that can push the right guys away throughout the entire 9dating process9! *hen you’re finished with this program, you’re going to have not only a new perspective!!! but a set of tools and insights that will allow you to meet and connect with the man you want , and start things off right! It’s very important to note that this program is $O2 going to show you how to manipulate a man, or hide your true self in order to 9snag9 a man! It saddens me that there is so much advice floating around out there right now preaching these types of tactics!!! and my personal belief is that they do more harm than good! Instead, I want to show you how to e-press your true self to your man from your first encounter!!! so he sees e-actly why you really are the special woman he has to be with! *hat +ost *omen Don’t @now "bout Dating " +an!!! "nd 2he 'asy *ay 2o (uild " Foundation For " )ifetime Of )ove M 5appiness!!! 'ven more importantly, we’re going to talk e-tensively about D"2I$6, and the 9dating process9! Did you know that even though lots of women can’t stand dating, most men )O4' I2! "nd do you know what this is!!! or what to do about it? It’s not uncommon for most women to want to :@I8 the 9dating9 phase with a man
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completely!!! and jump right into a committed relationship 1 even if it hasn’t been 4'&(")) agreed upon! I mean when you know, you know!!! right? *ell!!! not always! 2he problem with skipping the dating and 9getting to know9 phase is that by doing so, you are also skipping out on building a strong FO7$D"2IO$ for a loving, lasting relationship!!! and helping the man you’re with be on the same page with you and 9go there9 with you! If you’ve ever e-perienced one of those 9whirlwind9 romances where the two of you began spending every waking hour together almost immediately after you met!!! then you probably know that relationships that begin in this manner often burn out just as fast as they start! It’s kind of like building a house using popsicle sticks and 'lmer’s glue rather than wood, screws, and nails!!! :ure, it will work for a short time, and look and feel great! (ut if you don’t use the right elements in the building phase to support and hold it all together!!! it’s bound to fall apart! :ooner rather than later! 2he good news is that starting off together the right way if you want the opportunity for your new romance to 6&O* and )":2 can be just as e-citing, fulfilling, and F7$ for you and for a man!!! and I want to show you how! (y the time you finish going through the material in this program, you will know the e-act steps and specific techniues to design your perfect relationship from the ground up from day one!!! and have a ()":2 doing it! If you want to know e-actly *5"2 to do with a guy you are dating to move the relationship in the direction you choose!!! know *5'$ he is ready to move forward!!! and 5O* to talk and act around him to draw him closer to you!!! then this is the program for you! "nd actually!!! that’s just the start!!! 5ere are a few more of the e-citing things you’ll discover inside/ •
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" dangerous mistake women make that :%&'"+: 9neediness9 to a man!!! and is often the single $iggest thing that keeps him from making a verbal commitment to you
2he O$) . reasons why a man doesn’t call back =5ere’s how to pin1point e-actly why a man you hung out with didn’t call!!! and what to do in the future to practically guarantee he calls>
)earn the :'%&'2 &'":O$ why men tell you they care about you or even act like they’re 9into you9!!!then pull away or never follow through =5ere’s how to get real honesty from a man 'uickly!!! so you’ll never again spend endless hours analy#ing what went wrong>
2he . +"6I% *O&D: to put at the end of any uestion you ask a man that will get him to 9open up9 to you $ecause he wants to""" not because he feels forced or manipulated
*hy so many women feel they have to %O$4I$%' a man to have a 9real9 relationship with them!!!especially after being intimate =I’ll show you the secret to having a committed, mutually loving relationship happen naturally!!! without any special effort or strain on your part>
5ow many women keep themselves from meeting the man they want without even knowing it =2hese are things a woman’s best friends are often "F&"ID to tell her!!! but it’s important that I shoot straight with you to ensure that nothing holds you back from e-periencing true love with the man you want>
5ow to get a guy to want to 8&O4' 2O O7 that he is the right guy for you =2his secret not only gets a man to pursue you!!! but also shows you what he’s all about 'uickly!!! so you’ll never make the mistake of spending time with a man who isn’t meant for you>
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2he 0K "&2IFI%I") reasons women use to prevent themselves from meeting 9the one9 =:adly nearly all of the women who haven’t met the man of their dreams e-perience one or more of these self1limiting beliefs!!! and it’s important that you learn what they are and ')I+I$"2' 25'+ if you really want love to come into your life>
5ow to keep from losing your composure around a man =I’ll show you what to do if it does happen!!! but more importantly how to avoid it and 9keep your cool9 in those tough situations>
*hat to do if you believe you’re not 9lovable9 or that men don’t find you attractive
" dangerous yet all1too1common mistake women make that makes even the 9nicest9, most interested guy fear that you are too %)I$6 and $''D for him
" man’s 9relationship terminology9 defined 1 5ere’s what he &'")) means when he says, 9*e’re dating9, 9hanging out9, or 9committed9 =2he truth may surprise you, but it’s important that you know this if you ever want to &'")) understand men>
5ow a man’s relationship 9timeline9 works 1 I’ll show you what’s going through 5I: mind during all of the different 9stages9!!! and how long each one should last so you don’t make the mistake of either 9rushing it9 or staying 9too casual9 and having him take you for granted
2he verbal mistakes women make when talking about commitment with a man that make you come off as D'+"$DI$6 and hard to please
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5ow a guy can tell if you have a good single life and are a G7")I2 woman just $y the way you answer the phone(
" secret that gets a guy to think about you when you’re not around!!! non1stopH
*hy men often )I' or tell 9half truths9 about their current relationship status or where they are at or what they want with you =" lot of men are going to be upset at me for 9e-posing9 this one!!! but it’s important that you know why men do this>
*hat )I+I2: you should and shouldn’t give a man during each stage of the dating process in order for things to go smoothly
5ow to use 9reverse psychology9 in a non)manipulative way that gets your man to give and love you more
" creative and 7)2&"1'FF'%2I4' way to approach a man you want to meet!!! then turn things around and get 5I+ pursuing O7H =2his is the single best way to meet a new man I’ve ever seen or heard because it allows you to approach him without looking desperate or ;needy
2he number one '$'+ of attraction!!! and how to avoid it =2his trap is very easy to fall into during the early stages of being with a man and will lead him to think you are (O&I$6 and &'8)"%'"()'!!! but fortunately it’s easy to avoid when you know what it is!!!>
" big mistake many women make that they 25I$@ will get a man to come up and start a conversation with them!!! but actually makes him look elsewhere
" big mistake women make with their (OD )"$67"6' that makes a man think you are 9needy9 even when you are notH
5ow to clear your mind of past relationship F"I)7&': that could cause you to over)analy&e and mess up your current relationship
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*ould you be sho-7ed to find out what your 9e-9 really thinks of you? If you’ve found yourself in a string of unfulfilling, 9short1term9 relationships, chances are your man was thinking 25I: about you =7nderstanding *5 will not only change how you view yourself in a relationship!!! but also change how +'$ view you>
5ow to get rid of any DO7(2 and 7$%'&2"I$2 you are feeling so that a man will see you as emotionally :2"()' and a 6&'"2 %"2%5 =2his step1 by1step strategy puts you in control of choosing the right long1term partner and not just ending up with someone who is just 9ok9 for you>
*ouldn’t it be annoying to you if a man e-pected you to have se- with him $efore he ever said a word to you ? *ell guess what!!! there is a mistake *O+'$ make that gives a man this same 9'ww9 feeling, although it has nothing to do with se-! 5ere’s what it is, and why so many women do this without even knowing it !!!
5ow to get a man’s attention and interest, whether you’re already 9friends9 or you’ve just met
" simple way to get a man eating out of the palm of your hand that has $O25I$6 to do with se- that you can use 2O$I652 to make your man cra#y for youH
5ow to know when to slee$ with a %an to ensure that he will @''8 *"$2I$6 O7 so much that he can hardly stand it =2his is actually surprisingly easy to gauge and will ')I+I$"2' the F'"& that he will not call you after you are intimate with him>
5ow to make a man fall in love with you =5ere’s how to take it to 9the ne-t level9 and get through that critical moment that is often the difference in a man falling in love with you or 9moving on9>
5ow to recogni#e when a man wants a relationship from you or just wants sex =5ere’s how to avoid wondering and @$O* FO& :7&', every time>
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5ow to get a level of honesty and affection from your man that you have never e-perienced before =Do this to get him to '":I) share his deepest feelings with you, and see you as his confidante that he wants to share '4'&25I$6 with! :adly women who DO$’2 know this are setting themselves up for dishonesty from the get1go!!!>
" +"$’: +I$D D'%I85'&'D! Find out the O$) true thing a man wants in a relationship =and what he really wants from you>! If you’ve ever wondered why a man is with a certain woman and $O2 O7, I guarantee the other woman is making him feel this way! 7nderstand this simple techniue and he will give you an ama#ing level of love and appreciation =2he best part/ ou can apply this to 9winning him back9 too>
:pecial 6uest 8resenters :pill 2heir 4ery (est @ept :ecrets!!! I’m also going to have several female guests who are real1world 'C8'&2: on this topic of how to find the right man 1 from a woman who has personally coached and helped hundreds of women to create the life and love they want!!! to a woman who has been called the 9dating coach to the stars9, and more!!! 5ere’s just a small sample of what you’ll learn from my "+"I$6 guests/ •
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If you are doing this, then you are doing yourself a great disservice! )et go of this one simple idea that ties you to singleness and you open yourself up to the 2&7' "$D 8O*'&F7) possibilities of love!
*hat to do if you had a bad relationship with your father that is affecting your current relationships with men
"n all1too1common and powerful +'$2") ()O%@ women e-perience that almost forces them to attract only immature men =2his one thing could be the only reason why you haven’t found the perfect man for you!!! here’s how to eliminate it G7I%@)>
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5ow to smooth out the 9rough spots9 and awkward feelings that come after a fight or an argument with your man =If you’ve ever struggled with a difficult relationship, it’s %&7%I") that you know this word1for1word phrase that makes your love and connection instantaneously stronger>
5ow to meet a man in three minutesH =7se this secret to let him know you are available with $O risk of rejection>
5ow to compliment a man in a way that makes him "88&'%I"2' O7 instead of thinking he 9has you9 and can take you for granted
2he 3 things you must $'4'& compliment a man on if you want him to respect you
"n ama#ing secret stolen from those who are 9naturally9 great communicators you can use to create a :2&O$6 connection with a man within the first B minutes of meeting him =Don’t be surprised if he actually comments on how well the two of you get alongH>
2he O$) type of phone call you can make to your guy until you are in a serious relationship with him =If you want to cut your risk of rejection to almost #ero and come off as the ama&ing and confident woman that you are, it’s important that you know this>
2wo surefire ways to 'ualify him and know e-actly whether or not he is 25' O$' for you =5ere’s how to find out immediately if he will be a great partner with 0KK accuracy!!! or instantly discover if he is the type that will only hurt you down the road>
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&ead *hat Others 5ave 2o :ayQ =2hese have been edited and names changed to initials for privacy> ; I reali#e that the relationship that I have been in for the last three years has been a te-tbook e-ample of the lessons presented here! *hat %hristian %arter said men do and say and how they act and react has been e-actly and precisely how he has behaved 1 even so far as using the e-act same words to e-press himself, his needs and desires and wishes! 5e was not uniue! If only I had the opportunity of this seminar e-perience ('FO&' this relationship e-perience!!! < & '()(* +ashington D(,(
;%hristian %arter has saved meH 5e has pulled back the curtain and revealed the world of men to many women and he has made me have many moments of saying, 9ah ha9, so that’s what he meant! 5e has got me prepared to go out into the world of dating and mating with much more insight and tools to live a better life with the man I can’t wait to meetH 2his program on dating was real eye opener and of 9real life9 tips on how to meet men, where to meet them and what to do once you found them! It has opened up a new world! One I feel more confident to navigate! 2hanks %hristianH < & D(* ,ali-o.nia
; 2he insights that I received from this program were learning to overcome those things that have happened in the past, not to keep repeating over and over in my head how I could have taken care of the last situation, and just moving on from that point on! "lso of interest to me was learning to step outside of myself! 6o outside of my comfort #one and try e-perimenting with some of the things like flirting, showing some of my sensuality and se-uality, which I don’t think I’ve very much of recently! One of the very first things I’m going to do is look at the part on how to flirt and I’m going to start practicing with the men I work with, who I’m basically very comfortable with and I think I could get away with some of that, but take it a little further and maybe go some places I’ve never been before and just start seeing and meeting with some men I’ve never met before! "nd anybody looking for somebody must assuredly check this out, because it’s a very upbeat program! It really meets its objective! It tells you very serious, positive steps that you can take to meet that! It makes you feel good about yourself! *hen you’re sitting here, you don’t feel put downX you don’t feel like you’ve made irreparable mistakes! I just think that anybody can benefit from it! < & '(
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;(efore coming to this program, I was fearful about dating and relationships! I had been in a marriage for a very long time and I wasn’t sure where to begin! 2he greatest insight was when %hristian spoke today about the keystone and about e-clusivity and I felt that while he was talking about that, I was learning more about myself and how important that is whether you’re dating or whether you’re in a relationship or just falling in love with yourself again! It’s not just about meeting guys, it’s not leaving it all up to the guys, but it’s really up to you to take responsibility for that relationship that you want! <
;I want tell you, I came to %hristian’s seminar last time because I wanted to fi- my relationship with *illy! It was awful and he was awful and everything was wrong! I just had all this criticism of him and I knew if I could just fi- him and if I could just fi- the relationship then my life would work! "nd I walked out of the seminar and I reali#ed that where I needed to work was within me and it was as is though when I walked out that I hadn’t change, but the whole world had changed! "nd I called up *illy and this whole shift had taken place in the relationship because I got how much I loved him and how much I appreciated him and all this stuff that I critici#ed in my head seemed to dissolve because the more I appreciated him, the more he gave me e-actly what I wanted without my asking him! "nd I have to say, in the several months since the last seminar, our relationship has become a committed one and my whole life has taken on, it’s become purpose driven! I feel like able to transform the relationship of the women who cleans my health club and she’s become my best friend and the person who helps me clean my house invited me to come to +e-ico with her! "nd I feel like every relationship has become magical out of what I’ve gotten out of %hristian’s seminars!9 "nd I wanted to come back to this seminar because the people here feel like my family! "nd it’s called +eeting 2he One and I feel like that’s e-actly what I got out of this program! I came here thinking well I know it all, but I’m going to have a great time and you know what? I don’t know it all! "nd I found that I get to be in the present moment and there’s always so much more, there’s so much more to hear and to listen to and be present to and I’m walking away now like a fresh person! I can’t wait now! It’s like my life has become radiant and I’m so grateful! <
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;I think using the techniues that I’ve learned are going to help my love life tremendously! I felt very e-cited and energi#ed and ready to start putting some of these techniues into play! (ecause I know I’ve missed some opportunities along the way and if I would have known some of the techniues I that learned today, maybe I still wouldn’t be single! :o I would describe this as a hands1on manual type of program! *here you can actually go into finding information and getting that information and having the techniues to actually put it into play and actually start using them and start seeing changes happen in your life because you’re using the techniues that he’s given you! I’m going to start practicing! < & T(* A.i0ona
;I’ve been getting the newsletters and I think they’re really good! I’ve read the 'book and I think it’s ama#ing! "nd I thought I would give this a try! 2he greatest thing I got is that I need to center more in myself, rather than in what happens outside me! "nd especially in my significant other, so I’m really glad I’m seeing that now! I can start appreciating him more for what he does, but also start giving more, like priority to the things I like to do, rather than to please him too much! Dear Friend, I have some important uestions for you! 2hink carefully as you answerQ •
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"t that moment, I couldn’t believe that a human being could actually not know what an emotional connection with another human being was! 2hat still messes with my brain! Ok, maybe he actually *": an alienQ lol! (ut here’s the pointQ "fter thinking about it, I remembered that this guy who asked the uestion about a connection was really just another man, and not even much of an unusual one! "nd right then, as I thought about this, I had an "+"I$6 &'")I"2IO$Q "ll the thinking, research, writing and e-plaining that I’ve done in the past on how men are different when it comes to communication and relationships seemed to actually sell the idea short now that I had heard the truth ;from the horseLs mouth emotions, feelings, relationships and connection was even more e-treme than I had thought =and I already thought the differences were pretty e-treme!> Of course, after this happened, scrambled for my journal, my notebook and my laptop to write down what started pouring out of meQ I began digging even deeper into studies, research, interviews, observations, and e-periences from my life so that I could e-plain e-actly what this meant and what was really going on here inside the minds of most men! 2hat’s when a lot of my most recent material on emotional connection and what creates lasting and long term attraction in relationships with men was created! )ately, I like to ask women, ;5ave you ever taken the time to sit down and really and truly picture and imagine what it must be like to be an attractive and Lmasculine’ man?< Of course, the answer is always, ;$o!< +en might act emotionally strong, indifferent, and even cold, but most men are surprisingly fragile emotionally! 2he thing isQ it’s just not part of their more ;masculine< make up to display or talk about these things much of the time and to avoid the opportunity they bring for connection and intimacy! Instead, they often e-press their emotions in more symbolic and indirect waysQ when it comes to dating and relationships, most women commonly misinterpret or react negatively to a man’s ;natural< emotional displays! 2hink about thisQ "ttractive men who are smart, handsome, and successful are flirted with and approached all the time! 2hese men have O82IO$:!
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have had several past relationships that didnLt go well for them either, you begin to reali#e that 25' +7:2 :2"&2 2O :'' 8"22'&$: in the way women behave around themQ just like the patterns you recogni#e with men! 5ereLs a great uestion for youQ *hat do you think the most common pattern is that men see in women? If you havenLt already guessed it, itLs the pattern of a woman trying to %O$4I$%' a man to make more of the relationship and change or feel something that they canLt ;control!< )O2: of women do this and donLt even know it! (ut hereLs the worst part111how men &':8O$D! *hen women take on ;convincing< or pleading behaviors, thereLs a common, frustrating, and destructive male response 1 *I25D&"*")! )et me paint a brief picture for you of the pattern men see and fear in this situationQ In the guyLs mind, the withdrawal scenario usually goes something likeQ ;*hoaH *hen did this turn from fun into a ton of work? 2hings have been great, but now it feels ;different< because sheLs unsatisfied and pushing on me to define our relationshipQ< ;"nd I 5"4'$L2 '4'$ D'%ID'D what I want e-actly, or what the heck it is that ILm feeling hereQ< ;"nd now that the easy chemistry and attraction we used to have has changed1 I guess ;the magic< is goneQ< ;I guess ILll just skip all the trouble that I know from past e-periences is about to come up and pull away!< *ell, guess what? 2rying to convince a man to act a certain way or feel something with you is the best approach to use if you love spending all your nights alone cuddled up watching Oprah reruns in your 8Ps! (ut seriouslyQ If you recogni#e anything about these situations, then you know from e-perience that the more a man pulls away, the more you feel like you need to talk to him and show him what heLs doing wrong thatLs driving you both apart! "nd heyQ I get it! +en can sure be clueless idiots that actually do need help to notice the dumb things theyLre doing! (ut unfortunately, hereLs where most women learn the *&O$6 )'::O$ about
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2he secrets of those ;naturally attractive< women who never seem to go through all the fuss and hassle that other women endure =5ere’s how to use their strategies to get a man to want O7 for more than just a fling> 5ow to completely avoid the resistance some men have with love and connection that most women struggle to get pastQ so you can bypass this whole unnecessary process of ;dating games< and e-perience love naturally* 2he &'") reason why men sometimes lose interest in a woman after they get physically involved with them for the first time =If you’ve had this happen with more than one or two men there is a good chance you are making this mistakeQ and it’s %&7%I") that you learn what it is and how to fi- it> *hat to do when you find yourself falling for a guy ;friend< =5ere’s the smooth and comfortable way to make him yours *I25O72 taking any risk of ;freaking him out<> 5ow to create I$2'$:' '+O2IO$") "22&"%2IO$ that gets a man to choose O7 over another woman who is younger or better looking than you are " deadly mistake even confident, experienced women make that they 25I$@ will make a man like them moreQ but actually drives a man "*" because it makes you look ;clingy< 5ow to show a man you are interested in him in a way that makes him more and more interested in 1+2 each time you do it " deadly mistake that makes even confident women come off as ;clingy< and even desperate to the one man they are &'")) interested in =)uckily, this is easy to avoid when you know what it is> 5ow to spot and identify an immature man G7I%@)Q so you never again waste your time and heart on someone who doesn’t deserve you 5ow to control and channel your own feelings to enhance your lifeQ energi#e those around youQ and magnetically attract the type of man O7 want =)earn this one simple thing and you’ll never again have to worry about a man seeing you as ;clingy<> 5ow "22&"%2IO$ works for a manQ step1by1step =when you @$O* the steps it’s easy and natural for you evoke powerful feelings of love and connection in a man without actively ;trying<> 5ow increasing a man’s awareness of emotional connection can make him more emotionally connected to O7Q =I’ll show you e-actly how to do this in a way that a man thinks is F7$ and gets him more involved in the relationship> A easy but often overlooked ways to improve your love life that you can start doing 2OD" and will give you I$:2"$2 results 5ow to program your brain to actually FI$D O7 )O4' =:adlyQ many women are actually programmed to &'8') the men they want the most! I’ll show you how to shatter these defeating patterns and create new habits that bring the right kind of man into your life while at the same time repelling the 3losers4> 5ow to ;si#e up< a man and know if he’s the right guy for you long)term, or someone with whom you should keep it ;fun and casual< =It’s important that O7 start dictating the way your relationships goQ and you’ll now be in control because you’ll know I$:2"$2) the e-act kind of man you are dealing with>
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thingsQ and certain so1called ;relationship e-perts< actually recommend themH> 'C"%2) what to do when your guy seems to be avoiding ;the talk< =2his is a touchy situation, but now you’ll know the most effective way to handle it> *hat it means when he DO':$’2 %"))Q and what to do about it 2he number one trait G7")I2 +'$ value in a woman =%onveying just this one trait to a man will let him know that you are someone he can feel totally comfortable with and let his guard down! "nd noQ it’s $O2 what you thinkQ> 5ow to use the power of ;unpredictability< to keep your man on his toes and make him positively "DDI%2'D to you =Do these 3 things and he won’t be able to wait to see what you do ne-t> "n almost magical answer to a common uestion that I$:2"$2) separates you from all other women in his mindQ and lets him know right away that O7 are someone he must get to know better 5ow most women F"I) at ;first impressions> ; word1for1word ways to engage a man in a verbal ;sparring match< that lets him know you’re witty and intelligent . funny nicknames to give your guy that men )O4' and will make him think about you when you’re not around 5ave you ever felt like you gave and gave to a man, got little back in return, and felt unappreciated and unheard? 2here’s a specific reason why this happens, and it’s easily avoidable! Do this to remedy the situation and inspire 5I+ to go to great lengths for youQ for all the right reasons 5ow to let a man know from the $eginning that O7 aren’t like the other dumb girls he’s dated so he $'4'& takes you for granted =5ere’s how to earn his admiration and respect> " .1step method to teach your man to feel )O4' and %O$$'%2IO$Q and open him up to a wonderful world he has never seen before =5e’ll love you for being the one woman who shows him this wonderful side of lifeQ and his heart will be yours forever> " key to intimacy you won’t find in any ;relationship< book that opens a man up for a deeper and more fulfilling connection " sure1fire fi- for a stale relationship Z 5ere’s a way to instantly reignite the 8"::IO$ and FI&' and make him hot and $othered for you for as long as O7 like 5ow to keep a man’s level of interest and attraction for you 6&O*I$6 as your relationship goes on Z using this strategy the longer you are together, the more sexually and emotionally attractive you’ll $ecome to him 5ow to find and eliminate the pre1programmed $'6"2I4' strategies that might have cost you true love in the pastQ so you never have to worry about the man O7 want choosing someone else *orld &enowned '-perts :hare 2heir :ecretsQ
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. strange but true secrets about how you can hold your body that will not only align everything ;on the outside<, but will also pull together whatLs going on I$:ID' your head so you instantly feel more confident, comfortable and naturally attractive " tip about using your body language with a man when you’re I$ " &')"2IO$:5I8 =)ots of women don’t understand how, and ;tire< of trying to keep the sensuality and ;spark< alive as time goes on! 7se this tip to effortlessly keep that tension and attraction going inside him!> :ome women can walk into a room and every man canLt help but turn their heads and pay attention =and not in a negative ;se-ual< way>! )earn what ;that thing< is that these women have and how to have this ability yourself, without feeling or acting ;cheesy< or cheap 5ow many times have you been standing somewhere and seen a great guy, but you never got an opportunity connect with him? (ut wish you had? 5ereLs a subtle secret about 5O* O7 :2"$D =that’s rightQ it’s actually that simple> that will instantly get men to pay attention and approach you 1 for the right reasons 2he B1step process to getting in touch with your natural sensuality as a woman which men will notice and respond to! =+y friend has personally tested these things in her own dating life for years, and they *O&@!> " specific way to respond to "$25I$6 a man says to you with your body language that will bring him in closer and subconsciously make him feel more connected and ;in1sync< with you 2he difference between acting, moving and communicating ;se-ually< or ;sensually< and the importance of knowing how to make a man see your feminine :'$:7")I2! =2his secret has more than youLd ever imagine to do with why a man thinks about one woman ;physically< and another woman for something physical "$D more personal and emotional connection> :ubtle, real movements and motions that any woman can easily use at anytime to increase her sensual appeal with a man 1 without looking cheap, fake, or ;cheesy< like sheLs trying too hard " ;:neak 8eak< Inside 2he +ale +ind
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I estimate that youLre going to leave with a +I$I+7+ of AKK great ideas to use, from me and from all of the smart, intuitive, insightful guests and discussions! (ut most importantly, ILm going to make sure that the ideas you learn are ;real world!< In other words, youLre only going to be learning whatLs really going on inside a guyLs mindQ and youLre only going to learn the things that &'") *O+'$ do, can do and would want to do! *e wonLt be talking about bi#arre ideas that youLre going to say ;ou have to be kidding me< to, or think in the back of your mind ;these arenLt for me!< (ut perhaps most importantly, I’ll show you how to actually craft an individual 8)"$111with specific learning and action steps for yourself111that will lead you to success and allow you to drastically improve your love life and relationships! It’s no secret that all of us are not the same! *eLre all in different places in our lives, with different levels of connection and understanding, and have different challenges! "nd the men each woman dates isnLt e-actly the same eitherQ (y the time you’re done with this program, you’ll have designed a plan of action for yourself that will uickly and easily make your love more fun, fulfilling and secure! "nd just like a ordering from a menu, youLll take the ingredients and dishes that appeal most to you, and put together a system to go out and live the love life you know you were meant to enjoy! +ost *omen $ever !earn, :o 2hey @eep +aking 2he :ame +istakes Over "nd Over "gainQ 5ave you ever dated, or been deeply connected to a man, and felt like things were ama#ing when you were togetherQ but when something happened that brought up his fears or immaturity, it all uickly fell apart and you were left wondering what just happened and was there ever anything ;&'")
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