PROSESI ACARA PERKA PERK AWINAN ADAT ADAT MELAYU MELAYU JAMBI TANAH PILIH PUSAKO BATUAH KOTA JAMBI
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BERUSIK SIGHIH BEGUGHAU PINANG
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TEGAK BETUIK DUDUK BETANYO BETANYO
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PENETA PENE TAPA PAN N JODOH ( MELAMAR) DAN MELETAK TANDO
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MENGISI ADAT ADAT MENUANG LEMBAGO DAN AKAD NIKAH
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ULUR LUR ANTA NTAR SER SERAH AH TERIM ERIMO O PEN PENGA GANT NTEN EN a. Sug Sughuh huh Segh Seghaa! ". Ka#! "e$a%a" &'ha(a)a* &'ha(a)a* +. Ta"u, "u, Be, Be,aa- Ku* Ku*'# '# &. Pe)" Pe)"a+a a+aa* a* Ka(a) Ka(a) ((ah ((ah'' e. Se,a Se,ah h Te Te,')! ,')! Pe*g Pe*ga* a*#e #e* * . /u+' /u+' Ka0' Ka0' &e*g &e*ga* a* Sa*# Sa*#a* a* Be,) Be,)a* a*''g. Bu0a Bu0a La*La*-ee Ta"', "', (Kamar Beradat)
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Pe*uaa* Na-' Saa#
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<=II. <=II. SEKSI UNDANG UNDANGAN AN > 1. SAHIDIN SAHIDIN MUHI MUHI 2. AY AYEB RO?AL RO?A L RT 3. M. NA?AR RT 4. YULIYANTO KANTOR6
5. KANTOR6 . @I/AK KANTOR6 . ALI NURDIN S.P&.I KANTOR6 7. RANSIS/O SIP KANTOR6 8. M. SADAM ARIIN S.STP KANTOR6 19. TOTO KELUARGA6 <=III.
SEKSI PENERANGAN > 1. ROHIMAN 2. BUJANG AHMAD
ST STEHI MA MARGI SP SP ANGGOTA > 1. AYU 2. PUTRI 3. SARI JAMANI 4. ANISA A?IAD 5. LARA EDI JOHANES <<. SEKSI MASAK MASAK
> 1. H$. HERA@ HERA@ATI RIA RIACI 2. NY. NURHANA NA?ORI 3. NY. NY. TUTIK KHADORI 4. IBU;IBU RT RT 4 5 DAN 13
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PROSESI UPACARA UPACARA PERKAW PE RKAWINAN INAN ADAT MELAY MELAYU JAMBI Murni Erika, Erika, Am.Kep Am.Kep Dengan Dengan dr. dr. MUHAMMAD DANIL Jam!" #$%#& O'ter #*+
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ULUR ULUR ATAR SER SERAH AH TE TERI RIMO MO ADAT DAT DAN DAN LEM LEMBA BA-O -O Sat." #$ O'ter #*+ J/, A01arag.0 RT, $ Be/!.ng Ktaar.
Ja). 13.99. @IB
> Se(u, (u,uh Pa*'#' '#'a &a* Pe,-!*'( A&a# -u&ah "e,a&a &' (R.ma2 2 Ba1a' Ba1a' ,u)ah u)ah +a(! +a(!* * Pe* Pe*ga*# ga*#e* e* @a*'#a *'#a (R.ma Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r) Ja(a* A-a,agu- R#.95 Ke(u,aha* Be('u*g K!#a"a,u Ja)"' K!!,&'*a#!,> Dt', Dr0, H, Ha0an Ba0r! Jam!d
Ja) Ja). 13.39. .39. @IB
> R!)"!* "!*ga* +a(! +a(!* * Pe*g Pe*ga* a*#e #e* * P,'a P,'a "e,# "e,#! !(a0 (a0 )e*u e*u$u Ru)ah /a(!* Pe*ga*#e* @a @a*'#a J(. A-a,agu- R#.95 Ke(u,aha* Be('u*g K!#a"a,u Ja)"' K!!,&'*a#!,> D#0. R&. Ja*g /'0
Ja). 14.99. @IB
> R!)"!*ga* +a(!* Pe*ga*#e* P,'a -a)a' &' ha(a)a* Ru)ah +a(!* Pe*ga*#e* @a*'#a &'a&!0a* K!#! Ba$a%a" &'ha(a)a* PIHAK NENEK MAMAK YAN- DATAN1. D#0. R&. Ja*g /'0 Ju,u B'+a,a 2. D#0. A"&u( Ha&'.K BA Pe*&a)'*g 3. D#0. M. A&*a* Pe*&a)'*g 4. Ne*e0 Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Ma)a0 /a(! /a(!* * Pe*g Pe*ga*# a*#e* e* P,'a P,'a
3 D. HIDANGAN MEJA II
>1. NY. ITA KAMAL 2. NY. NY. DE@I ?ULKARNAIN 3. NY. NY. NADRAH NADRA H SANIM
E. HIDANGAN MEJA III
>1. HARTINI SAMSUL BAHRI 2. HERIAH AMRIL S.P& 3. HERA@ATI MARJOHAN 4. RAMSIAH AISOL
. MEJA SAUNG SATE > 1. JUMINTEN 2. YANTI KAILANI 3. ITA MASRI G. MEJA SAUNG BAKSO
> 1. SEL=I 2. BINI MUSNI 3. E=A MUHTAR
H. MEJA SAUNG TEK@AN > 1. NY. MAHNI DANI 2. HENI 3. LISNA DM I. MEJA SAUNG PEMPEK
> 1. NY. DE=I MUTIARA RISKI MARTINUR 2. DIAN PUTRI @AHYUDI
J. MEJA SAUNG KUE
> 1. PUTRI MARJOHAN 2. NANA YANI 3. TINO ASRI
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PIHAK NENEK MAMAK PENEN-AH 1. D#0. D,-. H. Ha-' Ka(')u&&'* Sa) 2. D#0. H. A,a:( A( Ba-a,' 3. D#0. Agu-#'a,. Da#u0 R'! Su0! Nege,'
4. D#0. D,-. H. Ma-,' A$'5. D#0. D,-. H. A(ea*&e, MM . D#0. D,-. H. Ha-a* Ba-,' Ja)'& . D#0. SA. Rah)a* S.P& Ja) 15.99 @IB.
P,!-e-' A0a& N'0ah &'a*&u !(eh KUAI Pe*ghu(u Kantr Kementer!an Agama Ke+a)a#a* K!#a"a,u 1. Pe)"a+aa* U)u( Fu,:a* O(eh > 2. Pe)"a+aa* Ka(a) ((ah' O(eh> U0t, M, Sa3.t!" S,Pd,I 3. Pe)"a+aa* Kh!#"ah N'0ah O(eh> U0t, H, M.ar4 4. Pe(a0-a*aa* I$a" F!"u( O(eh O,a*g Tua /a(!* Pe*ga*#e* @a*'#a ( Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r) 5. Pe)"a+aa* S'gh!# Ta('0 Th!(a0 O(eh > Pe*ga*#e* P,'a (dr, M.2ammad Dan!/) . Pe*a*&a#a*ga*a* Be,'#a A+a,a Pe,*'0aha* O(eh > 1. Ke&ua Pe*ga*#e* 2. @a(' N'0ah 3. Dua !,a*g Sa0-' 4. KUAPe*ghu(u Ke+a)a#a* K!#a"a,u 5
14. I,. H. PURNA@ARMAN M.S' BESERTA ISTRI 15. H. SUTRISNO SE BESERTA ISTRI 1. EDI YOHANNAS SE MM BESERTA ISTRI 1. H. JAMANI S.P& BESERTA ISTRI
17. H. POPO NATA@IJAYA SH BESERTA ISTRI 18. D,-. SYARI?AL BESERTA ISTRI 29. D,-. H. TOMI USMAN M.S' 21. BASTARI BESERTA ISTRI 22. ASNA@I MARU BESERTA ISTRI 23. NY. SUYENI 24. NY. HUSAINI 25. NY. BUDIDAYA 2. NY. JHON EKA PO@A 2. NY. ERNA ADRI 27. H. YOHANES SE MM BESERTA ISTRI 28. D,-. H. M. RA@I M.S' BESERTA ISTRI 39. MASHAERUDDIN SH MS' 31. ALUMNI APDN ANGKATAN 13 DAN ISTRI 32. HUMAS PROTOKOL SETDA PRO=. JAMBI 33. I,. AHRI?AL MUNAP 34. U/UB HARUN BESERTA ISTRI 35. A/HMAD LOUTA PP SH 3. DERI JULIAN S.IP M.E*g 3. S. PANDU HARTADITA S.IP M.E*g BESERTA ISTRI 37. ERDI/O MARSAH S.IP BESERTA ISTRI 38. BILLY ADITYA S.IP 49. SELURUH PANITIA
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SEPATAH KATO DARI ORAN- TUO PEN-ANTEN WANITA ( Dr0, H, ISKANDAR MANSYUR" M,S!) KEPADO NENEK MAMAK PENJEMPUT PEN-ANTEN PRIA
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Da#u0 ; Da#u0 Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Tu! Tau Tu! Te*gga*a' A(') U(a)a /e,&'0 Pa*&a' a*g 0a)' )u('!0a*. Pu$' -u0u, A(ha)&u('((ah 0'#! e,-e)Dah0a* 0eha&',a# ((ah',!""' Tu('&'' Ya*g Maha E-a 0a,e*! &e*ga* N':)a# -e,#a Rah)a# &a* Ka,u*'aNa $ua(ah 0'#! &aa# "e,-a)! a&! ha,' '0! &',u)ah 0a)' '0! #e,u#a)! N':)a# I)a* &a* I-(a) a*g &'+u,ah0a*Na 0ea&a 0'#! -e)ua. Sh!(a%a# "e,','*g Sa(a) -e(a(u #e,+u,ah 0ea&! Bag'*&a Ju*$u*ga* 0'#! Na"' "e-a, Muha))a& SA@ &e*ga* (aa- A((ahu))a-h!(':a(a Muha))a& %a:a(a a(' Muha))a& -e)!ga 0e(a0 &'0e)u&'a* ha,' 0'#a )e*&aa# -aa:a# &a,'*a. Dat.'%dat.' 3ang 0a3 m./!'an,
Se(a*$u#*! 0a)' -a)a'0a* u+aa* #e,')!0a-'h a#a- 0e&a#a*ga* &a#u0;&a#u0 "e-e,#! *e*e0 )a)a0 0e,u)ah 0a)' a&! ha,' *a*-aha,' )a(a) *a* -e)a(a) 0'*' )u&ah;)u&aha* A((ah S@T a0a* )e)"a(aa)a( "a'0 &a#u0;&a#u0 *e*e0 )a)a0 -e0a('a* a)'* Ya,!""a( a(a)'*. Te,(e"'h &ahu(u 0a)' -u-u* $a,' *a* -eu(uh -e"e(a- &e*ga* 0ea(! )!h!* a)u* 0'#! 0ea&! A((ah )!h!* )a:a 0a)' 0ea&! 0'#! *a* -ea&!*! '0!.
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SEKRETARIS @AKIL SEKRETARIS BENDAHARA
> AU?AN MADJID S.P&.I > SAHIDIN MUHI > TUAN RUMAH
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PENANGGUNG JA@AB A/ARA > D,-. A?RACI ALBASYARI ADAT
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SEKSI A/ARAPROTOKOL >1. A?HARI AKS ME.I 2. SUDIRMAN IDRIS SE ME.I 3. MAHERU 4. DENDI DENMAR
=III. SEKSI PERLENGKAPAN > 1. SAMSUL BAHARI SIP ME.I 2. M. YUSU SE 3. PAISOL 4. AHMAD SE 5. @AHYUDI . YUDI DM . DEDI DM 7. I@AN DM 8. AGUS DM 19. RIAD DM 11. TAUIK HELMI SE 12. ISAMUDIN SE
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ACARA RESEPSI PERESMIAN PERNIKAHAN M!ngg." #& O'ter #*+ -ed.ng Kan % An Ke.n Had!/ Jam!
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Ja). 97.99. @IB
> A+a,a -ughuh -egha! !(eh !,a*g #ua e*ga*#e* I0'andar Man03.r) 0ea&a %a*'#a (Dr0, H, Da#u0;&a#u0 *e*e0 )a)a0 e*$e)u# Pe*ga*#e* P,'a> 1. D#0. D,-. H. Ha-a* Ba-,' Ja)'& Ju,u B'+a,a 2. D#0. A"&u( Ha&'. K BA Pe*&a)'*g 3. D#0. I,. K)-. Mu-#a,' Pe*&a)'*g 4. Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Pe*ga*#e* @a*'#a
Ja). 97.19. @IB
> R!)"!*ga* e*$e)u# e*ga*#e* "e,#!(a0 )e*u$u ,u)ah e*ga*#e* P,'a &' Ke(u,aha* Pe)a#a*g Su(u, K!!,&'*a#!,> D#0. D,-. H. Ha-a* Ba-,' Ja)'&
Ja). 97.39. @IB
> R!)"!*ga* Pe*ga*#e* @a*'#a "e,#!(a0 )e*u$u Ge&u*g Ka* ; A* Ke"u* Ha&'( Je(u#u*g Ja)"'
$a). 97.35 @IB
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Sa'*ah Ma%a&&hah @a,!h)ah a*g e*g0au ,'&h!' &a* e*g0au "e,0ah'. Ke"u0'# *&a0 -a)! )e*&a0' 0e(u,ah *&a0 -a)! )e*u,u* Te,#'a)a, *&a0 -a)! 0e,'*g #e,e*&a) *&a0 -a)! "a-ah Ke#e)u ha#' ga$ah -a)! &'(aah 0e#e)u ha#' #u*gau -a)! &'+e+ah
Allahumma antal qodiirul muqtadir ! Ya A((ah e*g0au a*g )aha 0ua-a (ag' )aha )e*e*#u0a*. A*ug,ah0a*(ah 0ea&a 0e&ua )e)e(a' '*' Be,0ah u)u, a*g a*$a*g ,ee0' a*g )u,ah Pa*$a*g $!&!h*a -e,#a &'"e,' 0e#u,u*a* a*g -h!(eh &a* -h!(ehah Te,h'*&a, &a,' -ega(a )a+a) "e*+a*a Ke,u-a0a* &a* 0e)'-0'*a* Mu&'0 -ehe*#a0 -a#a*g h'(', -e(')"a' &au*g Se-u-u* -')a0 $a,' -e'*#a( -')a0 #a('
N&a0 -e,e)a0 (au0 (u0ah &e*ga* "'*g0a' H'&u "a0 au, &e*ga* #e"'*g #e"'*g -aa*g &'au, Au, -aa*g &'#e"'*g. #e"'*g ,u*#uh au, #a"a!. Ba0 a,a*g #a+a#u0 0e#u*ggu( #u*ggu( (au0 a,a*g #a0u+'( A((ahu))a A((' "a'*ahu)a 0a)a a((a#a "a'*a M.2ammad Dan!/ Wa M.rn! Er!'a @a A((' "a'*ahu)a 0a)a a((a#a "a'*a Na"' A&a) %a Ha%a
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4. Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Pe*ga*#e* P,'a B, PIHAK NENEK MAMAK YAN- MENUN--U
1. D#0. I",ah') Sa"(' Ju,u B'+a,a 2. D#0. D,-. H. Ha-a* Ba-,' Ja)'& Pe*&a)'*g 3. D#0. I,. K)- Mu-#a,' Pe*&a)'*g
4. Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Pe*ga*#e* @a*'#a Ja). 98.49 @IB
Ja). 98.55. @IB Ja). 19.99. @IB
> Pe*ga*#e* P,'a &'"a%a 0e Ba(a',u*g Sa,' &'-a)"u# &e*ga* #a"u,a* "e,a- 0u*'# &a* +u+' 0a0' &e*ga* -a*#a* "e,)a*'- !(eh 0e(ua,ga e*ga*#e* %a*'#a > Pe)"a+aa* Ka(a) ((ah' O(eh> U0t, M, Sa3.t!" S,Pd,/ > U(u, A*#a, Se,ah Te,')! Pe*ga*#e* A, PIHAK NENEK MAMAK YAN- DATAN- 7 1. D#0. A"&u( Ha&'. K BA Ju,u B'+a,a 2. D#0. R&. Ja*g+'0 Pe*&a)'*g 3. D#0. M. A&*a* Pe*&a)'*g 4. Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Pe*ga*#e* P,'a B, PIHAK NENEK MAMAK YAN- MENUN--U
1. D#0. D,-. H. Ha-a* Ba-,' Ja)'& Ju,u B'+a,a 2. D#0. Ha-a* Ba-,' Gh!a(' Pe*&a)'*g 3. D#0. I",ah') Sa"(' Pe*&a)'*g 4. Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Pe*ga*#e* @a*'#a C, NENEK MAMAK PENEN-AH 7 1. D#0. D,-. H. A,a:' A( Ba-a,' 2. D#0. D,-. H. A(ea*&e, SE MM 3. D#0. Agu-#'a, 4. D#0. D,-. H. Ma-,' A$'11
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BUKA LANSE (TABIR KAMAR BERADAT )
M.nt!ng /a'!%/a'!
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M.nt!ng Perem1.an 7 B'-)'((ah &u(u "a,u(ah #a0"', Ta0"', '#u a%a( *! -h!(a# Bu0a**! #a"', "a*g !!' -e)"a,a*g #a"', Taa"', ''0!! #a"''', "e,a&aaa# M.nt!ng La'!%/a'!
7 Pe,g' 0e#e"a# )e)a*+'*g '0a* Ke*!(ah a*a0 -''0a* ,ua* A! -a,a#*! &'0 !!' +u"!(ah -a)a'0a* Sua! -e*a*g a"a*g -'a0a*
M.nt!ng Perem1.an 7 Bu(a* &ea* Ju)a&'( a%a( Muha,a) Saa, "u(a* a*g (a(u I&a0*! a&'0 "a*g !!' )e)'*#a0 )aha( Se"e*#u0 +'*+'* +u0u(ah &u(u M.nt!ng La'!%/a'!
7 Mua,! "u*g! $a(a* )e,a*g'* S')a*g &u! $a(a* e(ea# I0!(ah &'! &'0 !!' -e"e*#u0 +'*+'* M!h!* &'#e,')! e*g'-' a&a#
M.nt!ng Perem1.an 7 Re*#a0 "a0 ,ega) &'"a#a*g ha,' Ke,'- -'g'*$e' u-a0! $a)"' Ma-u0(ah a"a*g "e(aha* &',' S'u#'h 0u*)g -u&ah )e*a*#'
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Pe,#a)!;#a)! 0a)' ha#u,0a* -e)"ah &e*ga* )e*u-u* $a,' *a* -eu(uh -e"e(a- &e*ga* 0ea(! )e)!h!* )aCa 0ea&! 0'#! *a* -ea&!*!
'0!. D')a*! a&! ha,' *a* "a'0 0e#'0!*!u* e(!0 (ah -ea0a# -u0u *a* &u! "e(ah 'ha0 0a)u*g *a* &u! "ag'. Bu(a# ae0 &e0 e)"u(uh "u(a# 0a#! &e0 )ua0a# ''h (ah &aa# &'(aa*g "u(a# (ah &aa# &'gu('*g (ah &'"ua# $a*$' -e)a! (ah &'u+a0a* u(! '$a" !"u( e)'0aha* a*#a,a a*a0 0e)e*a0a* 0'#! M.rn! Er!'a" Am,Ke1 "'*#' Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r" M,S! &e*ga* dr, M2d, Dan!/ "'* M2d, Y.0.9 &'&ea* e*ghu(u a&a ha& Sa"#u Ta*gga( 25 O0#!"e, 2914 a*g (a(u &',u)ah 0e&'a)a* Ba1a' Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r" M,S! &a* a&! ha,' '0! !(eh -au&a,! 0'#! Ba1a' Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r" M,S! &'(a0-a*!0a* u(! ua+a,a Pe,e-)'a* Pe,*'0aha**! U*#u0 '#u(ah 0a)' a#a- *a)! 0e(ua,g! "e-a, Ba1a' Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r" M,S! )e*gu+a0a* #e,')! 0a-'h a*g #a0 #e,h'*gg! 0ea&a 0au) 0e,a"a# ha*&a'#au(a* a,a u*&a*ga* -e)ua*! "e-e,#! *e*e0 )a)a0 *a* $auh (ah 0a)' (aa*g0a* &e*ga* -u,a# *a* &e0a# 0a)' h')"au &e*ga* 0a#! u*#u0 &a#a*g 0e#e)a# 0a)' '0!. D')a*! -au&a,! 0'#! Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r" M,S! &u! (a0' "'*' *a0 )e)"e*&a*g0a* 0e(a*g'# )e*egha00a* 0e"u)' *a0 *a#! &e0 a(a) #egha*g &e0 (agheh "ah%! -au&a,! 0'#! Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r" M,S! &u! (a0' "'*' -e0e(ua,ga "e-a,*! a&! ha,' '0! ,e-)' )e*e,')a )e*a*#u. U*#u0 '#u u(! 0a)' )!h!* 0ea&! -ega(! 0'#! a*g ha&', a&! -a:a# '0! u*#u0 )e)"e,'0a* D5a Re0t. 0ea&! 0e&ua )e)e(a' aga, )e*$a&' 0e(ua,ga a*g Sa4!na2 Ma:adda2 Warr2ma2 39
Ad1.n t.!.an 1er'a:!nan !t. antara /a!n ada/a2 7
1. Mem!na 2..ngan 3ang a'ra dan 'e0era0!an d!da/am 'e/.arg e0ar 0.am! !0tr!, Da(a) a&a# (ah&'0a#!0a* Ba'am1.2 na' /ear" Ba./e2 na' 1an;ang" ;angan a'am1.2 /ear U"ah #u#u, a*$a0 "a-!. U)a)!*! > Mama' a0 1angg!/an !0tr!" mama' 1./ a0 1angg!/an 0.am!, Ka'a' a0 1angg!/an 0.am!" 'a'a' 1./ a0 1angg!/an !0tr!" "eg'#u(ah -e#e,u-*!. 3. Ber'e1a/a d!ng!ng dan Ber2at! m./!a, D'&a(a) 0eh'&ua* "e,u)ah #a*gg! #e*#u a&! a-a*g -u,u#*!. I"a,a# (au# = Be0ar /a.tan e0ar 1./ ge/mangn3" 0.r.t ae'n3 tent. 'e dr, M.2ammad Dan!/ dan M.rn! Er!'a" Am,Ke1 A0a& *'0ah a&a(ah -u**ah R!-u( &a* a)a# -a0,a( 0a)u "e&u! ha,u)e*$ag!*! &e*ga* e*uh 0e-a"a,a* -e,#! 0e#u(u-a* &a* #a*ggu*g $a%a" a*g #'*gg'.
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@AHAI ANAK KAMI dr, M.2ammad Dan!/ dan M.rn! Er!'a" Am,Ke1
Ka(au(ah #e,$a&' e,#e*g0a,a* -ee,#' '0! 0a)u ha,u- &u&u0 "e-a)! -e(e-a'0a*(ah &e*ga* a,' &a* "'$a0-a*! &e*ga* e*uh 0e#e,"u0aa* &a(a) ('*g0a,a* 0a-'h -aa*g. Jangan 1./ ae' !da' 2!/!r" 'e/am !da' e;a/an H!/ang er!t a' '!;ang /e1e2 'er!m Ber!a' !da' erdet!'1.n !da' Ba' at. ;at.2 'e/..'" a' 1a0!r tetamat 'e./.2 H!/ang d!1! Kok mengaji diateh urat, meratap diateh angkai. ilo Mengaji idak "er#urat, kaji dak akan dapek, Meratap idak diateh "angkai, aek mato dakkan keluar KHUSUS KEPADO ANAK KAMI dr, M.2ammad Dan!/ Mu(a' ha,' '0! )e*u,u# a&a# 0a)u a&!(ah !,a*g -e)e*&! &',u)ah '0!. Jad!/a2 0emend nene' mama'"= Se-ua' a*g &'0ehe*&a0' !(eh a&a# )auu* -a,a0. Ha,u-(ah )e)u*a' -'a# &a* %a#a0 a*g "a'0 &a* ha(u- u(! "u&' "aha-!*!>
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De*ga* -e(e-a'*! a0a& *'0ah)u Ma0! #a*ggu*g $a%a" !,a*g #!!)u "e,a('h 0ea&! -ua)')u. Se-ua' &e*ga* 0e&u&u0a*)u -e"aga' -e!,a*g I-#,' -u&ah a&! 0e#e*#ua* a*g )e)"a#a-')u "a'0 '#u )e*u,u# a&a# )auu* -a,a0 =Keata0 'am. /a2 d!'.ng'.ng da2an" Kea:a2 /a2 d!1a0.ng ane,= Ma0! +'#a0a*(ah ,a-! +'*#! &a* 0a-'h -aa*g -e,#! -ua-a*! #e*#,a) D'&a(a) ,u)ah #a*gg!)u. Se"aga')a*! ea#ah a&a# )e*ga#!0a* Ke.'!t 0am menda'!" 'e/.ra2 0am men.r.n, M.d!' 0e2enta' 0atang" 2!/!r 0e/!ma! da3.ng, Terendam 0am a0a2" ter2am1ar 0am 'er!ng, Hat! ga;a2 0am d!/a1a2" 2at! t.nga. 0am d!
Ja&'0a*(ah ,u)ah #a*gg!)u "aga'0a* -u,ga &a(a) 0e(ua,ga)u Se"aga' )a*! -a"&a Ra-u(u((ah SA@ Baiti Jannati $umahku adalah %urgaku, &e*ga* &e)'0'a* I*-a A((ah Ke(ua,ga)u a0a* )e*$a&' 0e(ua,ga a*g Sa4!!na2 Ma:adda2 War2ma2" &a* &',&h!' A((ah S@T. Te,a0h', 0ea&! a*a0 0a)' *a* "e&u! 0a)' '*ga#0a* a0a* *a-'ha# Lu0)a* 0ea&! a*a0*! &a(a) a( Fu,:a* -u,a# Lu0)a* aa# 13 &a* 1 A((ah "e,',)a* a*g a,#'*!> dan 'et!'a /.'man er'ata 'e1ada ana'n3a, Hai anakkul &anganlah kamu memper#ekutukan Allah, karena 18
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Mu&ah;)u&aha* Ru)ah #a*gga a*a*&! "e,&u! &'"e,0ah' A((ah S@T. Da* 0ea&! Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Tu! Te*gga*a' /e,&'0 Pa*&a' a,a ha&','* a*g "e,"ahag'a Ka(au(ah -e0',!*! 0e#e)u a*a0 0'#! &'$a(a* > Be;a/an /a2me/!ntang ta1a'" Ba'at /a2 me/!ntang 1e0e'" Lan = Um.rn3 ar. 0eta2.n ;ag.ng" dara2 ar. 0etam1.' 1!nang" a'a/1.n ar. 0e/!/!t te/.n;.',= Mu&ah )u&aha* A((ah S@T )e*e,')a A)a( I"a&ah 0'#! A)'* a)'* a,!""a( :a(a)'*. Te,')a0a-'h )!h!* )a:a a#a- -ega(a 0e0u,a*ga* @a"'((ah'#au' %a(h'&aah @a--a(a))u:a(a'0u) @, @" IWA ( PEN-UMUMMAN ADAT ) Canang (-ng) d!.n3!'an" O!!!!!' &e*ga ; &e*ga -ega(! 0'#! Lau*;(au* 0e)ua,! 0e,a;0e,a 0ea*g-! &u! Ta"'0 a)u* 0'#! 0ea&! A((ah M!h!* )a:a &')'*#a 0ea&! 0'#! *a* -ea&!*! '0!.
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PERSONIL ADAT PERESMIAN PERNIKAHAN
M.rn! Er!'a" Am,Ke1 DENGAN dr, M.2ammad Dan!/ I,
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2. @ATI BUJANG 3. NESMA@ATI RIAI 4. ERNA@ATI 5. ASTUTI AMRI?AL 1. H. POPO NATA@IJAYA SH ISTRI 2. H. SUDIONOISTRI 3. H. ?ULKILI SOHAISTRI
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SEKSI HIDANGAN KONSUMSI A. HIDANGAN ADAT
KOORDINATOR > NY. H$. YUSNI?AR ALE 1. ASNAH 2. MAR HASAN 3. DAHLIATI SAHIDIN MUHI 4. H$. SUYENI BASTARI 5. H$. YANTI BUDIDAYA . NY. BANIAH A?HARI . NY. MU?LINA ?AINI 7. NY. NURMAINI ?AINI B. HIDANGAN =IP KOORDINATOR > NY. H$. YUSNI?AR ALE 1. MEGA BUTIK 2. MAR HASAN 3. H$. SARIAH RUBIAH 4. H$. ROSLAINI YAYU 5. NY. LINDA JHON EKA PO@A . NY. ERNA ADRI . NY. AU?IAH TAHER 7. NY. H$. HERIAH AMRI 8. NY. NELI ?IK@AN /. HIDANGAN MEJA PRASMANAN KOORDINATOR > NY. NURHANA NA?ORI ANGGOTA > 1. ARIYATI D@I 2. RASMITA S.P&.I 3. HARTATI YUSRI
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M.2ammad Dan!/" u#,a &a,' Baa0 M.2ammad Y.0.9 d!r.ma2 rangt. n3,
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Se)!ga &a#u0;&a#u0 -e(a)a# &a(a) e,$a(a*a* &a* -e(a)a# u(! 0e)"a(' &e*ga* )e)"a%a a*a0 )e*a*#u 0'#! 0e,u)ah 0a)' '0!. Te,')a0a-'h B'((ah'#au' %a(h'&aah %a-a(a)u:a(a'0u) @, @" Ja)"' 2 O0#!"e, 2914 H!,)a# Ka)' Dua La0' B'*'
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SEKSI TRANSPORTASI
> 1. HASANUDIN SE 2. PAHRUL RO?I
3 ALI NURDIN S.P&.I 4. RALIANSYAH SH 5. MUAMMAR KHADAI SH . DINI DM . DANI SUKI 7. AMRI?AL 8. POREDES <. SEKSI PENABUR BERAS KUNYIT > DAN PENYAMBUT PENGANTEN 1. H$. SUMIATI MASRI A?I? 2. NILAM SURI S.P& 3. H$. YUSNIAR 4. SRI MARYATI SE 5. M. ARAS MANSYUR BESERTA ISTRI 1. D,-. HARPIAN HAM?AH BESERTA ISTRI 2. I,. H. SUDIONO BESERTA ISTRI 3. H. ?ULKILI SOHA BESERTA ISTRI 4. NA?ORI S.P& BESERTA ISTRI 5. SYAMSUL BAHRI BESERTA ISTRI . H. MASRI KAMPAI BESERTA ISTRI . SUPARNO SH BESERTA ISTRI 7. HERMANSYAH S.STP MH BESERTA ISTRI 8. SAMSUL BAHARI SIP ME.I BESERTA ISTRI 19.A?HARI HADI S.P& BESERTA ISTRI 11. AU?AN SYUKUR SE BESERTA ISTRI 12. RUSLAN S.P& BESERTA ISTRI 13. M. ?UHDI HAM?AH S.P& BESERTA ISTRI 3
PIHAK NENEK MAMAK YANG DATANG > 1. D#0. D,-. H. Ha-a* Ba-,' Ja)'& Ju,u B'+a,a 2. D#0. M. A(' Sa'& Pe*&a)'*g 3. D#0. I,. K)-. Mu-#a,' Pe*&a)'*g 4. Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Pe*ga*#e* @a*'#a
Ja). 97.45. @IB
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Ja). 98 39 @IB
PIHAK NENEK MAMAK YANG MENUNGGU > 1. D#0. R&. Ja*g /'0 Ju,u B'+a,a 2. D#0. A"&u( Ha&'. K BA Pe*&a)'*g 3. D#0. M. A&*a* Pe*&a)'*g 4. Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Pe*ga*#e* P,'a > R!)"!*ga* Pe*ga*#e* P,'a "e,#!(a0 )e*u$u ,u)ah e*ga*#e* @a*'#a &' Ge&u*g Ka* ; A* Ke"u* Ha*&'( Je(u#u*g Ja)"' K!!,&'*a#!,> Dt', Rd, Jang C!' > Pe*ga$'a* Ba,a*$' &a* A*g0a#a* Ma,ha"a* K!!,&'*a#!, > U0t, K2a!r.dd!n 7 *, U0t, M, Na0!r T!mang A*gg!#a #, U0t, M, Sa3.t!" S,Pd,/ > R!)"!*ga* Pe*ga*#e* P,'a )e)a-u0' ha(a)a* ,u)ah Pe*ga*#e* @a*'#a &'a,a0 &e*ga* Km1angan De1at! Set! K!!,&'*a#!, > Dt', S.1ard! D'' > Ka#! Ba$a%a" &'ha(a)a* A, PIHAK NENEK MAMAK YAN- DATAN- > 1. D#0. M. A&*a* Ju,u B'+a,a 2. D#0. A"&u( Ha&'. K BA Pe*&a)'*g 3. D#0. R&. Ja*g+'0 Pe*&a)'*g
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SUSUNAN PANITIA UMUM ACARA RESEPSI PERNIKAHAN MURNI ERIKA" AM,Ke1 BINTI Dr0, H, ISKANDAR MANSYUR" M,S! DEN-AN dr, M, DANIL BIN YUSU TAN--AL #& OKTOBER #*+
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PELINDUNG >1. D,-. H. HASAN BASRI AGUS MM 2. H. A/HRORI UMAR SH MH 3. D,-. H. HASIP KALAMUDIN SYAMMM 4. H.?AINI SACID 5. DATUK SULAIMAN HASAN . I,. H. SYAHRASADDIN M.S' . P,!. H. A . KADIR SOBUR P.hD 7. P,!. D,. M. HASBI UMAR MA P.hD
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PENASEHAT > 1. H. HARUN SAAT S. MHK 2. H. MASRI A?I? 3. KETUA RT 94 4. KETUA RT 95 5. KETUA RT 13 D,-. H. HASAN BASRI JM . H. RAMLI ISMAIL 7. M. DAUD. MD BA 8. KAILANI 19. M. ARAS MANSYUR 11. D,-. RADEN MUHTAR 12. BAHARI MANSUR SH
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KETUA > H. ALE HARMEN @AKIL KETUA II> ALI SAID @AKIL KETUA III > D,-. H. AS=AN DES@AN M.S' 35
Ja). 19.35. @IB
> Pe*ga*#e* P,'a &'"a%a 0e B'('0 &a(a) Kamar Beradat6 &'a&!0a* Bu0a La*-e P'ha0 La0';(a0' > Dt', Ir, Km0, M.0tar! P'ha0 Pe,e)ua* > Dtn, Ham!da2 Parn
Ja). 19.45 @IB
> Ke&ua Pe*ga*#e* &'"a%a 0e Pu#,! Re#*! !(eh !,a*g #u! 0e&ua e*ga*#e*
Ja). 11.99 @IB
> Tu*$u0 A$a, #egu, Sa! O(eh > D,-. H. Ha-a* Ba-,' Agu-. MM Dat.' Temengg.ng P.tr J3d!n!ngrat
Ja). 11.15 @IB
> I@A Pe*gu)u)a* A&a#6 O(eh> D#0. M. A(' Sa'&
Ja). 11.25 @IB
> Sa)"u#a* Tua* Ru)ah O(eh > Dr0, H, Ma0r! A;!0
Ja). 11.35 @IB
> Pe)"a+aa* D!:a O(eh > Pr9, H, Kad!r S.r" P2D
Ja). 11.45 @IB
> Ra)ah Ta)ah &a* Pe*uaa* Na-' Saa#!(eh 0e&ua !,a*g #ua e*ga*#e*
Ja). 12.99 @IB
> U+aa* -e(a)a# 0ea&a 0e&ua )e)e(' Ja)"' 2 O0#!"e, 2914 K!!,&'*a#!, A&a#
KETUA
SEKRETARIS
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PEMBACAAN DO /A A(ha)&u((ah',a""'(:a(a)'*.....................&a* -e#e,u-*a A((ahu))a--h!(':a(a -a'&*a..................&a* -e#e,u-*a Allahumma anta a-i-ul haqimulhalim ! Ya A((ah e*g0u a*g )aha e,0a-a (ag' )aha "'$a0-a*a -e,#a )aha e*a*#u*.
Pa&a -a:a# a*g "e,"ahag'a '*' 0a)' ha&', &'#e)a# '*' &a(a) ,a*g0a )e(a0-a*a0a* e,e-)'a* e,*'0aha* a*a0 0e)e*a0a* 0a)' a*g "e,*a)a. M.rn! E'a" Am,Ke1 "'*#' Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r" M,S! &e*ga* -e!,a*g e)u&a a*g "e,*a)a &,. Mh&. Da*'( "'* M2d, Y.0.9 Ya*g a0a* )e)u(a' )e)"e*#u0 -ua#u )ah('ga' ,u)ah #a*gga a*g )e,ua0a* u*'# #e,0e+'( &a,' -e"uah )a-a,a0a# )a&a*' a*g e*g0au ,'&h!'. Allahumma antal alimul ghoi"i+a##%ahaadah! Ya A((ah e*g0au )aha )e*ge#ahu' "a'0 #e,ha&a a*g gh!'" )auu* a*g *a#!. A&au* a+a,a a*g 0a)' (a0-a*a0a* -a:a# '*' "u0a*(ah "e,)a0-u& u*#u0 "e,)egah;)egaha* )e(a'*0a* -a(ah -a#u uaa aga, -a*a0 a)'(' 0au) 0e,a"a# &a* ha*&a' #au(a* )e*ge#ahu' "ah%a -au&a,a 0a)' 0e(ua,ga "e-a, Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r" M,S! &a* M2d, Y.0.9 Na0 )e*a#!0a* 0ea&a a(a) )e*e,a*g0a* a&! (agheh "ah%a &'! )e(ea-0a* -ua#u 0e%a$'"a**! 0ea&a a*a0*! U*#u0 )e*g'0u#' -a(ah -a#u -u**ah R!-u(Mu Na"' Muha))a& SA@. Ya*g 0e-e)ua*a '#u a&a(ah )e,ua0a* "e,0a# a#a- 0!&,a# &a* ,'&h!Mu $ua(ah a&a*a. /a Allah /a-aljalalli+al iqrom ! Ya A((ah &e*ga* e*uh ,a-a #a%a&hu0 Ka)' )e)!h!* 0ea&a M., L')ah0a*(ah #au' &a* h'&aahMu 0ea&a 0e&ua )e)e(a' &a* $uga 0ea&a 0a)' a*g ha&', &'-'*' Aga, #e,"e*#u0*a -ua#u 0e(ua,ga a*g 33
TUNJUKAJAR TE-UR SAPO A##alamualaikum )r, )"
Ne*e0 Ma)a0 Tu! Te*gga*a' Tu! Tau /e,&'0 Pa*&a' A(') U(a)a -e,#! a,a ha&','* a*g "e,"ahag'a 0e+'0 "a*a)! ge&a*g "age(a, 0e+'0 '&a0 0a)' -e"u# *a)!*! ge&a*g '&a0 u(! 0a)' h')"au ge(a,*!. Ma*!(ah a&! ha,' '0! ha,'*! e(!0 0e#'0!*! "a'0 (ah)e*$a&' u#a*g "ag' 0'#! *a* #u!;#u! 0ea&! a*g )u&! 0hu-u-*! 0ea&! a*a0 0'#! a*g "a,u "e,u)ah #a*g! u*#u0 )e)"e,'0a* T.n;.' A;ar Teg.r Sa1, Se"aga')a*! ea#ah a&a# 'ah )e*ga#!0a* Sema'!n 1anda! ma'!n d!a;ar" Sema'!n ta2. ma'!n d!0a1 Sema'!n 1!ntar ma'!n d!teg.r U*#u0 '#u 0ea&! a*a0 0a)' *a* "e&u! &e*ga,0a*(ah "a'0;"a'0 Tu*$u0 A$a, Tegu, Sa! a*g *a0 0a)' -a)a'0a* '0!. A&a#(ah )e*ga#!0a* = 0e'e
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K!0 "au(eh *a0 a*$a*g "a0a)uh *a0 (e"a, Ja*ga* "au(eh a*$a*g u#u-. "a0a)uh (e"a, +a"'0 Bau)! )a*&ae0 a&' )e*e)"a*g )a*&ae0 )eh "a&aga*g )a*&ae0 (a"! K'#! )'*#a 0ea&! A((ah S@T aga, 0e&u! '*-a* '0! &aa# -a('*g )e*e-ua'0a* &','. -a'! -a0a#!. H!d.1 a' a.r dengan te!ng, A.r 0a3ang 'ete!ng Te!ng 0a3ang d!a.r Te!ng r.nt.2 a.rtaa, Ba' 1arang ta
Ba0 0a#! !,a*g #u!> Ae' /ag! tenang" ranta. /ag! 0e/e0a!, Ka0!2 'am. 0edang e0.a'" 0a3ang /ag! men;ad!, Sea*&a'*! &'&a(a) 0eh'&ua* Ru)ah Ta*gg!)u #e,$a&' -'(a*g -e*g0e#! &a* e,-e('-'ha* e*&aa# "a'0 a*g &a#a*g &a,' 0a)u "e,&u! a#auu* &a,' 'ha0 (a'* a*g 0a&a*g 0a(! )e)"a%a 0e,'+uha* &a(a) 0eh'&ua* "e,u)ah #a*gg!. Ingat/a2 ana''. erd.a"@ Pe,#e*g0a,a* '#u a&!(ah -e*' &a(a) h'&u "e,u)ah #a*gg! '&a0 a&! ,u)ah #a*gg! a*g (uu# &a,' e,#e*g0a,a* !(eh 0a,e*a '#u 0ea&! a*a*&a "e,&u! h'*&a,'(ah e,#e*g0a,a* a*g a0a* )e)"a%! 0a)u 0ea&! '*#u e,+e,a'a*. Ra-u(u((ah SA@ e,*ah "e,-a"&a a*g a,#'*! > = *halak adalah per"uatan %ang halal, akan tetapi dimurkai oleh Allah )*
J'0a ha( '*' #e,$a&' &a(a) Ru)ah Ta*gg!)u #u,u#(ah e*#u*$u0 -e"aga')a*! ea#ah a&a# )e*ga#!0a*. = T.m.2 man!0 ;angan /e'a0 d!te/an" 1a2!t ;angan R.ma2 ertenggana!" 'am1.ng Bet." Neger! anene' mama', Ranta. e;enang" A/am nan Bera;" Ma0! #e)uh(ah -e)ua e*e(e-a'a* -e+a,! Be,(e)"ag! &a* Be,)u-a%a,ah -e"aga')a*! a*g &''-a,a#0a* &a(a) A( Fu,:a* Su,a# A**'-a aa# 18 a*g a,#'*! > = dan erga./a2 dengan mere'a 0e
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SAMBUTAN TUAN RUMAH
A--a(a))u:a(a'0u) @,. @" A(ha)&u('((ahh',!""'( :a(a)'* %a"'h'*a-#aC' a(a u)u,'&&u*'a %a&&'* %a--h!(a#u%a--a(a)u:a(a a-,!'( a)"'a '%a()u,-a('* %a:a(a aa('h' %a-h!h"'h' a$)a:'* a))a"a:&u. De*ga* )e*gu+a0a* Pu$' -e,#a Su0u, 0eha&h',a# A((ah S@T 0a,e*a "e,0a# Rah)a# &a* H'&aah -e,#a N'0)a#Na $ua(ah 0'#a &aa# "e,0u)u( &'-'*' a#a- u*&a*ga* -au&a,a 0a)' Dr0, H, I0'anadar Man03.r &a(a) ,a*g0a Pe,e-)'a* Pe*'0aha* Pu#,' "e('au a*g "e,*a)a M.rn! Er!'a" Am,Ke1 &e*ga* -e!,a*g e)u&a a*g "e,*a)a dr, M.2ammad Dan!/ "'* M.2ammad Y.0.9 Sh!(a%a# #e,','*g -a(a) )a,' 0'#a 0',')0a* 0eha,'"aa* Ju*$u*ga* 0'#a Na"' Be-a, Muha))a& SA@ 0a,e*a a#a- $a-a "e,('au a*g #e(ah )e,u"ah #a#a*a* Keh'&ua* &a* Pe*gh'&ua* &a,' a(a) Ja2!//!3a2 0ea&a 0eh'&ua* a*g "e, Peradaan &a* "e, Pr!'eman.0!aan -e,#a Be,a0h(au( a,')ah -e"aga')a*a a*g 0'#a ,a-a0a* -a:a# '*'. Da#u0;&a#u0 *e*e0 )a)a0 #u! #e*gga*a' #u! #ahu a(') u(a)a #ua*; #ua* gu,u &a* a,a +e,&'0 a*&a' -e,#! -ega(! 0'#! a*g a&! &',u)ah *a* -e"uah '0!. Ru)ah *a* "aaga, a&a# ha(a)a* *a* "a-au u*&a*g #a'a* *a* "aaga, "a-! a#a- "a#u#u "u"u*ga* e,a0 "a%ah "aa(eh -e*&' ga&'*g. I"u;'"u *a* "e,&e,au ge(a*g &'#a*ga* "a#u-u0 +'*+'* &'$a,' "a0a'* u$u*g -e,!*g "a-a*ggu( ('a# a*&a* -e,#! *e*e0 )a)a0 *a* "a0a'* ea# #a"u*g "a('#a -e(u0 "a#')"a( 0e+'0 "a*a)! ge&a*g "age(a *a* 0e+'0 '&a0 0a)' -e"u# *a)a*! ge&a*g '&a0 u(! 0a)' h')"au ge(a,*!. 28
Ta. d!03a2 dengan ata/" ta. d!0.'at dengan gantang D!man .m! d!1!;a'" d!0!t. /ang!t d!;.n;.ng D!man tem!/ang d!
ANAK KAMI dr, M.2ammad Dan!/ Ad eera1 0emend 3an4 d!/arang /e2 adat dan 03ara' 1. Ja*ga* $a&' -e)e*&! 0a+a*g )'a*g a,#'*! > 0ee/.m a:a' datang" e/.m rang 'am1.ng !' 2!r.' 1!'.'
2. Ja*ga* $a&' -e)e*&! ga$ah )'*!*g Ge&a*g (a%a* &'('*&a* 0e+'0 0a%a* &'(u*ah. A,#'*! > da' ta. adat dan 01an 0ant.n 'e1ad nan t." da' ta. adat dan 01an 0ant.n dengan 0ana' !1ar, 3. Ja*ga* $a&' -e)e*&! aa) $agu0 &')a*! "a*a0 aa) "e#'*! a%a0(ah )e*ge,e*&e u06 &'-a*! a,#'*! > /.1 d!d!r! a2: a:a'/a2 1.n3 !0tr!" ma0!2 /!n;ang dengan et!n /a!n 4. Ja*ga* $a&' -e)e*&! (a*gau h'$au a,#'*!> da' ertangg.ng ;a:a" ana' /a2!r a:a' 'a:!n 1./ d!tem1at /a!n 5. Ja*ga* $a&' -e)e*&! (a'0 "ughu0 #'"! hu$a* 0ehu$a*a* &a#a*g a*a0ea*a-a* a,#'*! > da' ma. er.0a2" ta.n3 mene1at! a1 3ang ad, . Ja*ga* $a&' -e)e*&! 0u)"a*g "eg','0 -a*a0 'a, a&! &',u)ah a%a0 "e,ge(u# "e&u! &a(a) 0a)a, a,#'*! > da' ta. ma/. dan da' 1.n3 01an 0ant.n 17
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Ke(ua,g! Dr0, H, I0'andar Man03.r" M,S! &e*ga* 0e(ua,ga M2d, Y.0.9 It. *a)!*! (ah -eu+u*g -')a0 gu(a' -e'"a# -')a0 *a-' K!0 "au(eh a*$a*g "a0a)uh (e"a, "a#u0!0 (ah "a*a0 Tega0 (ah a&! #e)a# "a#a*! &u&u0 (ah a&! u(! #e)a# "eghu*&'*g #e*#a*g a*a0*! a*g "a&u!. Y ma T!g 1er'ar7
Be,a- -e,a#u- (ah &'#a*a0. Ke,"au -e0!0 (ah &'!#!*g &!:a "e(u) &'#a)u*g a#'hah "e(u) &'"a+! ae0 "e(u) &')'*u) *a-' "e(u) &')a0a* Ma0! u*&a*ga* 0a)' a*g &a#a*g &a,' )u&'0 $a*ga* "a('0 )u&'0 &u(u U*&a*ga* 0a)' a*g &a#a*g &a,' '(e $a*ga* "a('0 0e '(', &u(u. U*&a*ga* 0a)' a*g &a#a*g &a,' gu*u*g $a*ga* "a('0 0ee*a,'*ga* &u(u &a* u*&a*ga* 0a)' a*g &a#a*g &a,' #e(u0 $a*ga* "a('0 0ee)u0e0 &u(u. Ba! 0!0 &!:a (ah &'#a)u*g a#ehah (ah &'"a+! *a-' (ah &')a0a* ae0 (ah &')'*u). Ju)! a#' ga$ah -a)! &'(aah Ke#e)u a#' #u*gau -a)! &'+e+ah. Ma0! u*&a*ga* 0a)' *&a0 "a('0 Y! 0a)' (eeh &e*ga* ha#' a*g -u+' Mu0! a*g $e,*'h. Ka,e*! #'"! #a&' *a)a0 )u0!*! Te*#u "a('0 ! *&a0 *a)a0 u(! u*ggu*g*!. Y 0a'at '!t nan an3a'>
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meng#ekutukan Allah #ungguh ke-oliman %ang amat "e#ar. 0 Hai anakku ! dirikanlah holat dan #uruh lah manu#ia mengerjakan %ang "aik dan (egahlah mereka dari per"uatan %ang mungkar, dan "er#a"arlah terhadap apa %ang menimpa kamu, #e#ungguhn%a %ang demikian itu hal1hal %ang di+aji"kan Allah
O(eh 0a,e*a '#u 0ea&! a*a0 0a)' a*g "e&u! 0a)' '*ga#0a* u*#u0 -e*a*#'a-! )e*ega00a* Sh!(a#. Ka,e*! &e*ga* Sh!(a# '#u 0a)u a0a* #ahu &a* -a&a,> Man 3ang 2a/a/" man 3ang 2aram, Man 3ang d!0.r.2" dan man 3ang d!/arang, Dan J.g dengan S2/at" d!0!1!/!n a'an tega'" 1erat.ran a'an er;a/an Se"a('0*! 0a)' '*ga#0a* u(! 0ea&! a*a*&a "e,&u! &a(a) )e*$a(a*0a* "ah#e,a 0eh'&ua* "e,u)ah #a*gg! u*#u0 -e(a(u "e,"a0#' 0ea&a 0e&u! !,a*g #u! -e"aga')a*! -e(u0! )e*ga#!0a* > Ka/a./a2 er.a2 ram.tan 3ang t!ngg! E/ang terang temra. ;angan Ka/a./a2 et.a2 /a.tan 3ang 0a't! I. dan Ba1 d!/.1'an ;angan
I*ga#(ah a*a0 0a)' *a* "e&u! Ker!d2an A//a2 d!a:a2 Ker!d2aan I. dan Ba1a', Kem.r'aan A//a2 d!a:a2 Kem.r'aan I. dan Ba1a'"= Se"aga')a*! a*g &'#ega-0a* &a(a) ha&'-# a*g &','%aa#0a* !(eh Tha",!*' a*g a,#'*! > = D. ma
