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K n ow ledg e o f a Lifet im e
The Cl assic of Under st anding Women
Benson Yeo
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The Cl assic of Under st anding Woman
Introduction In my classes, there are many questions been raised in relation to marriage. Women are very c onc erned and eager to know the right answers to questions such as finding the Mr Right, compatibility, what is install in my destiny, will I marry a rich or poor husband, useless husband or loving husband. Even to the extent of would I be a mistress, or pertaining to affairs matters and what should or must I do and what ca n I do etc… J ust imagine, in a marriage there are so muc h ca use for c onc ern or perhaps it could be a long lasting and loving relationship. It is a decision that we could make, we choose to make or we are forc e to make… think from your heart before any dec ision is made bec ause you cannot turn bac k the c loc k! If you had learnt that you will walk through a divorce, affairs, relationship instability, unsupportive spouse or a negative outcome. You will want to know whether it c an be prevented! Yes, it c an be prevented but it takes a very courageous woman to do it! But if you think that you have done the best on whatever it could be, you should set yourself free. You must lea rn a nd understand it yourself a nd answer your own questions whether is it a nec essity to prevent it or you should let it go! There is a saying, it is sad to be in love with someone else when the right one comes along. If you are in love with someone else and you are advice and told that you should not take on the relationship, can you do it? Or prevent it? Saying is easy than done!
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Dear ladies, Destiny learning is knowledge in ac tion. This book will help and assist alldon’t women to understand understand it, you need a solution! their marriage life. If you Life’s bittersweet is a mystery and will never tell you what will be. Sometimes you lose; sometimes you win even though your heart is breaking. But there will be time; the sun will shine for you. And you c an create your own rea lity and make your dreams c ome true, it’s really up to you. They said, “if you love someone, then set them free” if they c ome bac k aga in, then in the end, it was meant to be. It will be wisefirst to read our book on “The C orrec t Way of Understanding a Person Destiny” and “The C lassic of The 10 Gods Structural Reading” before venturing into this book. I wish the very best of all women that the sun will shine upon you! Enjoy Rea ding!
Benson Yeo
Contents Dedication . .. .. .. .. .. .. ... ... .. .. .. .. .. ... ... .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. ... ... .. .. .. ...... .. i Foreword . .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. ........ .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. vii.. .
Section 1 Understanding wo man .. .. .. .. .. .. .. ...... .. .. .. .. .. ........ .. .. .. .. .. ... 01 .. Section 2 The analects of wif e and mist ress .. .... .. .... .. .... .. .... .. .... .. .... .. 75 . Section 3 Summary of women life .. .. .. .. .. .. .. ........ .. .. .. .. .. ...... .. .. .. .. .. .. 83. Section 4 The essay of women life . .. .. .. .. .. .. ........ .. .. .. .. .. ...... .. .. .. .. .. .. 95. Section 5 The classic song of woman.. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. 99 .. . Section 6 The Wealthy, Nobility, Poor and Lowly of .. Woman .. .. .. .... .... .. ..103 Section 7 WastefulPeac h Blossom . .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. .. ..10 ..9
Understanding Woman Palac e represent ation inrelationshi p Hour Day Month Year
Woman
Father
Grand father
Daughter Husband
Mother
Grand mother
Son
“Women is good to be weak, fic er Of is good to be rooted”. Women C lassic said; woman is better to be soft and flexible. Within the 5 elements interpretation, this is termed as a weak day master. Why weak? Bec ause when the woman is weak, her husba nd c an handle her easily. This explanation and interpretation c an be found in the 5 elements interac tion on “Offic er C ontrol Wea lth”.
Understanding woman
But what is the meaning of “weak”? The de finitions of weak of a Day master are as follows; •
The day master has no roots/ not rooted
• • • •
There are no friends and rob wealth on heaven and earth There is no resourc e on heaven and earth The rob wealth and friends are trap in the graveyard and storage Any elements that are trap in the graveyard and storage c annot read as strong and instead they are term timid!
Here I would like to bring to your attention: although the woman day master is weak, it is not always the case that thefic ofer c an control her. If the of ficer is also weak, he will have no control or have problems controlling his wife! Ple ase be mindful about this. That’s why the sec ond line said “officer is good or better to be rooted”. Why is it better for the of ficer to be rooted? Because the officer is in charge of discipline and regulation. In a women’s life, the lack of regulation can lead to disciplinary problems or be easily influenc ed by ba d c ompa ny! It is idea l to have a rooted offic er in a woman’s chart. Or an officer branch! Killing can also termed as husband because officer and killing are the only two elements that control the women day master! If a woman chart has no officer and instead, killing appears, the killing will be rea d as husband! Women, plea se don’t be misled by the term “killing”. Killing is termed dec isive and officer is termed cooperative.
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The de finition of rooted officer must come in a pillar and not in separation, example below; In chartsA and B, offic er/killing are rooted in a pillar and the officer/ killing will be read as pure! In chart C the offic er and killing are loc ated at different palac es! And when of ficer and killing appears in a woman chart, a cause of concern will emerge causing confusion to the woman! Same goes for the chart D reading. That’s why rea ders have to rea d the women classic with care and not jump into conclusions after reading any lines, especially when the line mentions “Rooted”! C hart A and B are termed rooted and will be rea d as pure but not in chart C and D!
Understanding woman
Chart A Hour Day Month Year
Chart B Hour Day Month Year
Chart C Hour Day Month Year
Chart D Hour Day Month Year
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Wealth must not confuse ofi fc er and kill ing, ifthis c an ac hieve, women will be virtuousand come from noble and wealthy family. What is wealth confusing of ficer and killing? Following are a few examples; The 4 c harts are a ll wea lth producing officer and killing! And why are they rea d as c onfusing? One is officer and the other is killing, one is boyfriend and one is husband, who do you want to support? This is where the confusing comes in! Dear ladies, please do not be disheartened. Destiny understanding is something for us to learn and ac c ept the truth in our lives! Sometimes, this is a good thing and sometimes it is not. It will depend on the individual!
Understanding woman
Chart A Hour Day Month Year
Chart B Hour Day Month Year
Chart C Hour Day Month Year
Chart D Hour Day Month Year
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There are 2 waysof rea ding, or to be exac t, 2 waysof understanding life. One: that life isfixed and it cannot be changed. The other is that it c hanges along the way. Sometimes there is only one offic er or one killing, and this will be ideal in a woman’s destiny. But when you encounter another officer and killing along your luck cycle, this is where the c hanges take plac e, whic h ca n be go od and ba d. The good and bad will largely depend on your prevailing luck! The sec ond line said, “Women will be virtuous and mostly c ome from noble and wealthy family”. The 4 c harts show the offic er or the killing is sitting on the wealth of the woman. Another reading here is the offic er and killing issitting on the woman’s resourc e! So what do you learn from these charts? It will be good for the women to look for men with rooted resources! If this can be ac hieved, most women can enjoy the assets of their husband and will be well taken care of.
Understanding woman
Chart A Hour Day Month Year
Chart B Hour Day Month Year
Chart C Hour Day Month Year
Chart D Hour Day Month Year
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If of fic er/killing isnotpresentin the chart , wealth will beread asfiof cer/ killing. rP osperous wealth producing of fic er/ killing will be read as real noble and wealthy to a woman’s life. Why the wealth will be rea d as offic er/ killing? Bec ause wealth produces offic er/ killing • Wealth is the representation of the body of the man • Wealth is the representation of the asset of the man • Wealth is the representation of the influence of the man • Wealth is also represented by the well being of the man in a woman chart That’s why wea lth c an also be rea d as the offic er/ killing. The sec ond line said, Prosperous wea lth producing offic er/ killing will be rea d as rea l noble a nd wealthy to a woman live. When the classic says “prosperous wealth”, it refers to the wealth being in season. Any element in season will be termed as prosperous. But there are also elements that are not in season and can still be termed prosperous. They are mostly the 3 combinations and seasonal structure which is already mentioned in “The C orrec t Way of Understanding a Person’s Destiny” and “The Heaven Instillation Treasure”.
Understanding woman
Chart A Hour Day Month Year
Chart B Hour Day Month Year
Chart C Hour Day Month Year
Chart D Hour Day Month Year
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C lassic said; he t thriving of ea ting god in season supporting wealth - if this c an be ac hieved, children will be noble and husband will prosper.
C hartA Hour
C hartB
Day
Month
Year
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartE
Year
Month
Year
C hartF
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
C hartG Hour
Month
C hartD
Hour
Day
C hartC Hour
Hour
C hartH
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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Chart I Hour
C hartJ
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Day
Year
Chart K Hour
Month
C hartL Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
Although this is what the classic have said! But the above 12 c harts given, are in the thriving of eating god sea son supporting wealth. Do you think all the 12 charts are having the same reading? Of c ourse not! And most readers will take the sentence literally. On the other hand, the classic did not mention where is the alloc ation of the wealth? It may be on the stem. If it is on the stem, where should it be then? Is it on the year stem? On the month stem or on the hourstem? Or it can be sea ted beside the sea son. This is c alled the arc hitec tural of a person’s destiny. It is espec ially useful for caesarean birth as well as for daily and special date’s selection applic ation. We cannot say that the classic is wrong! Ancient intelligent is way and far beyond our c omprehension. This is bec ause they have one thing that we have lost! – TIME!
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Readers please remember that there is no shortcut! Your worst nightmare is when you give the wrong advice to someone and the consequences of the destruction to the family is unimaginable! Please be very careful! To understand the above chart and whic h is right and wrong c an be narrow by the useful god! With a word of caution, the useful god can become negative and likewise, the negative god can also bec ome useful god!
The thriving of eating god but he t wealth and fi oc f er are weak, although c hildren are noble but the hus band istermed useless, incapable and cannot be depended upon! Readers please pay attention that although the sentence only refers to the officer as the husband, the killing can be read as husband too! If a Destiny chart does not carry an of fic er, killing will be read as the husband. That’s why destiny reading must be flexible. Now let’s explore what they mean by “weak” and the variation of weak! The sentence said the thriving of ea ting god is prosperous - we know that the eating god thriving falling under the seasonal influence that makes them prosperous! You c an find the 12 ea ting god c hart from A – L. C hartA Hour
C hartB
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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Chart C Hour
Day
C hartD Month
Year
Hour
Day
Chart E Day
C hartF Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartH Month
Year
Hour
Day
Year
Chart I
C hartJ
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Year
Chart K Day
Month
Hour
Month
Hour
Year
Chart G Day
Month
Hour
Year
Hour
Month
C hartL Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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Now let’s explore on the wea lth and offic er is weak! The definition of weak is they are trapped inside the earth. Anything that istrapped inside ea rth will be termed as weak. Bec ause the season of eating god cannot support the wealth if it is trapped inside earth. But if the wea lth appea rs on the stem instead it will rec eive the support from the eating god sea son, but not for the offic er/ killing! C hart A is born in month matches the sentence criteria bec ause in the month, you can find both killing and wea lth are trap inside the eating god sea son! Chart B the wealth appears on the stem and now the can support the wealth. C hart C although the killing appea rs and is rooted within the eating god sea son, the cannot support the killing! Bec ause the season is fire and the killing is metal, fire cannot support metal instead it will give much stress to the metal!
Understanding woman
Chart A Hour Day Month Year
Chart B Hour Day Month Year
Chart C Hour Day Month Year
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But why did the sentence mention the children will be noble? If mother is the useful element to the children, the children will be noble! The c harts A and B are examples of eating god structure where the mother is the useful element. Chart A Hour Day Month Year
Chart B Hour Day Month Year
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And charts C and D are examples of the mother receiving the useful element! Chart C Hour Day Month Year
Chart D Hour Day Month Year
Here rea ders c an find that how the C lassic is being dec oded and expanded. And this is how you can get a specific question and answer beyond the classical reading.
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The wealth andfic ofer/killing fallsunderextinct and the ifeating god is weak, husband will flourish butc annotdepend on children. C hart A C hart B C hart C C hart D C hart E C hart F C hart G C hart H C hart I C hart J
born born born born born born born born born born
in in in in in in in in in in
season is called born in extinct month season is called born in extinct month season is called born in extinct month season is called born in extinct month month is called born in extinct month month is called born in extinct month month is called born in extinct month month is called born in extinct month month is called born in extinct month month is called born in extinct month
Why wealth and officer fall under extinct, the husband can flourish? From the above c hart you c an find that a re born in husba nd month and when the husband element appears on the stem, they will see their wife, it is the husband’s useful element! See c harts A,B,C,D - that is why husband c an flourish. C hartA Hour
C hartB
Day
Month
Year
Day
Day
C hartC Hour
Hour
Month
Year
C hartD Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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Now how about ? They are all born in the month of wealth! See c harts above! Rea ders plea se take note although the word “extinct” sounds scary, but they are in fact good to the day master bec ause they represent the indire c t wealth. Chart E Hour
Day
C hartF Month
Year
Hour
Day
Chart G Day
C hartH Month
Year
Hour
Day
Chart I Hour
Year
Hour
Month
Month
Year
C hartJ
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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And because wealth can support offic er, that’s why classic said husband can flourish! Here readers have to be careful because when the wealth appears on the stem, the reading can be different and when the offic er or killing appears on the stem, not all offic er or killing will enjoy theflourishing! Some will instead bec ome unhappy! Examples below; C hartE Hour
Day
C hartF Month
Year
Day
Day
Month
Year
C hartH Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartI Hour
Day
C hartG Hour
Hour
Month
Year
C hartJ Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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In the above c harts from E - J , you c an find that both offic er and killing appears on the stem sitting between the day master, and most of the time, these are categorized as relationship problems. The day master is c onfused a nd has problems c hoosing Mr Right! To qualify and indentify when the problems will arise, you have to watch out for the lucks of seeing wea lth and offic er/killing again! This will lea d to de finite problems. But we cannot rea d this as a ba d outcome. Instead, we must rea d this as an opportunity for the day master to decide and make up her mind! If not, the day master will drag the relationship problems and in the end everyone loses! How about the children? The sentence said, cannot depend on children? I will be writing a new book on children and everything will be mentioned there. There is a sec ret that you can rea d beyond the 10 elements! Although readers and prac titioners most of the time use 10 element reading, and what happen if there are no officer/killing in the chart or without hurting of ficer and eating god or direct wealth and indirec t wealth? In this situation, you will have to use the palac e reading! Whic hever element’s appears on the palace, for example children palace loc ated in the hour, read the element as the children. Or if the element appearson the spouse, rea d the element’sasthe husband/ wife. This kind of rea ding c an be far grea ter in ac c urac y! But first, readers will have to master our two books that we had mentioned in our introduction page.
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The wealth andfic ofer/killing receive their roots and eating god is strong. See example below; C hartA Hour
Day
C hartB Month
Year
Day
Day
Month
Year
Day
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
Month
Year
C hartF Month
Year
C hartG Hour
Month
C hartD
C hartE Hour
Day
C hartC Hour
Hour
Hour
Day
C hartH Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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Chart I Hour
Day
C hartJ Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
Although there are 12 examplesabove, you have to find out whic h c onfiguration in the chart has the best and compatible match, only then can the sentenc e c an be applied. You c annot take the sentence literately for all readings! There are a few c harts in its class of c ompa tibility, wea lthy and prosperity! They are in fact useful to each other only when you know all the useful elements! In any point, if you are confused or unsure, please go back to basic s! Good luck!
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If the eating god enter grave, childr en will beinjur ed, or if thefio cer f enter grave, husband will injured first! See below example; C hartA Hour
Day
C hartB Month
Year
Hour
Day
Year
Month
Year
C hartC Hour
Month
Day
C hartD Month
Year
Hour
Day
Here is what the Classic means by first, sec ond, third and last. The year branch will be read as first, month branch as second, day branch as third and hour branch as last.
is trap in the and is the graveyard of! is the husband
of a nd is also the children of and ! Women, if you are either day master and there is a in your c hart, this is only a warning! But if you see them in the luck cycle, this is c alled the 2nd warning and when you see it again in the year, this is c alled a final warning!
Understanding woman
The word “injured” as used in the C lassic c an meaning many things! Following are a few examples; It can mea n death, ac c ident, trap, fail at everything, kidnapped, lost etc… Here below is a sec ond sc enario; is trapped in the and is the graveyard of! is the husband of and is also the children of! Women, if you are either d ay master and there is a in your c hart, plea se pay attention!
Chart A Hour
Day
C hartB Month
Year
Hour
Day
Year
Month
Year
Chart C Hour
Month
Day
C hartD Month
Year
Hour
Day
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Following is a third sc enario; is trapped in the and is the graveyard of! is the husband of and is also the children of! Women, if you are either day master and there is a in your c hart, plea se pay
attention! C hartA Hour
Day
C hartB Month
Year
Hour
Day
Year
Month
Year
C hartC Hour
Month
Day
C hartD Month
Year
Hour
Day
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Here isthe fourth sc enario; is trapped in and is the graveyard of! is the husband of a nd is also the children of ! Women, if you are either day master and there is a in your c hart, plea se pay attentio n!
Although the above 4 graveyard are the standard protocol of the 12 branches but are also graveyard. The difference is they are called travelling graveyard where accidents occur during travels! Sometimes they appear in your chart, but the actual event takes place is in your lucks and the final destination is in the year! Please don’t be taken away with my words, because sometimes your door Feng Shui mig ht be protecting you or your family! This is the magical part of learning Feng Shui but you have to start with the foundation of BAZI learning! Chart A Hour
Day
C hartB Month
Year
Hour
Day
Year
Month
Year
Chart C Hour
Month
Day
C hartD Month
Year
Hour
Day
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The multiple staggering of Eating god appears on year and month pillars, your early year parent will be injured and normally it is hard to prevent! The prevention issubjec tive due to he t heavy eating god! See examples below; C hartA Hour
C hartB
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartC Hour
Year
C hartD
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartE Hour
Month
Month
Year
C hartF
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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Chart G Hour
Day
C hartH Month
Year
Chart I Hour
Hour
Day
Year
C hartJ
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Chart K Day
Month
Year
Hour
Month
C hartL Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
The word “injured” in the C lassic c an mean many things! Following are the few examples; It can mea n death, ac c ident, trap, fail on everything, kidnapped, lost etc…..
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If metal and water hurting fic er ofappears on the branches, his t kind of women is exquisite; detailedfine; and clever; nimble and will be c ategorize as the clink of jewels ! See examples below; C hartA Hour
C hartB
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Year
Month
Year
C hartE
C hartF
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartG Hour
Month
C hartD
Day
Hour
Year
C hartC Hour
Month
C hartH
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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Chart I Hour
C hartJ
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Chart K Hour
Day
Year
C hartL
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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Wealth acc ompanied with resour c e will be a c omplyin g wife. A virtuous,kind and charitable women! There are two kind of explanation on wea lth ac c ompa nied with resource. Let’s explore and see which examples below are the best match for desc ribing the Classic ; Example 1: Wealth sitting on resourc e. C hartA Hour
C hartB
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartD
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartE Hour
Year
C hartC Hour
Month
Month
Year
C hartF
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
Women Resource is the action of of ficer/killing and wealth represents the resource of the of fic er/ killing. And this will be read as heaven control earth.
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Chart G Hour
C hartH
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Year
Chart I Hour
Month
C hartJ
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
C hart I: Wealth is the resourc e of the husband
Resourc e is the ac tion of husband The wea lth and resourc e c omes in a pillar mea ns the women will know how to take care of their man which is very good for the man! Because the chart is control most of the time by man. Women please take note! Most relationship abuse starts with this kind of configuration! Any duplic ation of either the wealth or resourc e sc attering across the chart, whether they are in the grave or storage, the indication is there. The indic ation will be reviewed when there is c lash, c ombine, hidden clash and hidden combine. The good and bad depends on who is being forc ed to ignite the start! But there are also some that have a very admirable marriage! This is bec ause the useful elements are in unity!
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Example 2; Resourc e sitting on wealth
C hartA Hour
C hartB
Day
Month
Year
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartE
Year
Month
Year
C hartF
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
C hartG Hour
Month
C hartD
Hour
Day
C hartC Hour
Hour
Month
Year
C hartH
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
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Chart I Hour
C hartJ
Day
Month
Year
Hour
Day
Month
Year
The above 10 tables on resourc e sitting on wea lth, involve a mixture of direct and indirect resource. I will only cover 1 chart here. For the rest of the 9 charts, readers will have to put it to study. Women Resource is the action of of ficer/killing and wealth represents the resource of the of fic er/ killing. This will be read as heaven control earth. C hart I: Resourc e is the ac tion of husband Wealth is the resourc e of the husband The wea lth and resourc e c omes in a pillar in a woman’s chart means, the woman will know how to take c are of their man whic h is very good for the man! And this time, the chart is controlled by the woman. Here I would like to bring to rea ders’ attention: It would be best not to have duplication in a chart because if there are duplications, the c hanc e of a c hange will be destined! To determine the good and bad c hanges, we will have to look at the c hart in a whole and not just based on the example a bove!
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If hurting fiof c er is ove rwhelming wit hout he t wealth present , an affectionate couple will be separated. Which means the person will have to go through relationship c hanges. It could either be you or the parting person. The answer c an be found in the lucks and annual yea r pillar. And most of the time they are derived in the form of clashes, c ombine, hidden c lashes and hidden c ombine!
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are c ategorized as peac h blossom! When of fic er brin gs along peac h bloss om, there will be blessing, hap piness , prosperity and good fortune.
Although this is what the Classic mentions, we will have to find instances when this c an be applied, and when it cannot! Now we will explore the meaning of “brings along”. There are in fac t a few saying as follow;
The stem sits on the branch Stem sit s on the branch Hour Day Month Year
is the officer for and is seating on as peac h blossom. This is brings along the peach blossom. The peach blossom is in
feeling.
Peach blossom
The branch bring along a stem Branch bringsalong astem Hour Day Month Year
is the offic er for a nd the offic er bring on a s pea c h blossom. This is bringing along the peach blossom. The peac h blossom is on the outc ome in soc iety.
The peach blossom is hidden in the branch The peach blossom is hidden in branch Hour Day Month Year
is the officer for and the peach blossom is hidden in the
officer. The peach blossom is hidden inside the feeling. There are 3 types of peac h blossom; • The peac h blossom is in feeling, meaning daring to love • The peac h blossom is on soc iety, meaning not only daring to love and also to prove it! • The peac h blossom is hidden inside the feeling, meaning love on the inside and is not expressed!
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The 10 different officers bringing along a peach blossom charts; Chart A Hour
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sits on is real peach blossom because is the wife and is another woman
Chart B Hour
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sits on is good peac h blossom bec ause is the wife and is the body of the wife.
And produc e meaning the man give in to the wife or knows how to take care of the wife. Chart C Hour
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sits on is good peac h blossom bec ause is the wife and is the body of the wife.
And produc e meaning the man give in to the wife or knows how to take care of the wife.
Peach blossom
Chart D Hour
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Month
Year
sits on is real peach blossom because is the wife and is another woman. That’s where the Classic said that woman is better not to be rooted. However it may not always be right due to c ultural prac tic es. It is not alwaysthe case where when the woman is strong, their husband will have an affair! Hence, it is better to look at the big pic ture as a whole.
Chart E Hour
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sits on is pure peac h blossom bec ause is the wife and is a pure officer pillar.
Chart F Hour
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sits on is rea l peac h blossom bec ause is the wife and there is another woman inside .
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Chart G Hour
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sits on is real peach blossom because is the wife and is another woman.
Chart H Hour
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sits on is good peac h blossom bec ause is the wife and is ac tion of the wife.
And produce meaning the woman give in to the man or knows how to take c are of the man.
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Chart I Hour
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sits on is good peac h blossom bec ause is the wife and is the useful god of the wife.
And produc e meaning the man give in to the wife or knows how to take care of the wife. Chart J Hour
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sits on is rea l pea c h blossom bec ause is the wife and is another woman. That’s where classic said that woman isbetter not to be rooted. However it may not always be right due to cultural practices. It is not always the case where when the woman is strong, their husband will have an affair! Hence, it is better to look at the big pic ture a s a whole.
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Killing bring along peach blossom will be poor and lowly. Although this is what the C lassic said, we have to find out which one is c orrec t and which one is wrong! There are in fac t also a few sayings about the killing as follows;
The stem sits on the branch The stem sit s on branch Hour Day Month Year
is the killing for and is seating on as the peach blossom. This is brings along the peach blossom. The peach blossom is in feeling.
Peach blossom
The branch bring along a stem The stem sits on branch Hour Day Month Year
is the killing for and the killing bring on as peach blossom. This is b rings along the pea c h blossom. The peach blossom is on society.
The peach blossom is hidden in the branch The peach blossom is hidden in branch Hour Day Month Year
is the killing for a nd the peac h blossom which is hidden in the killing. The peac h blossom is hidden inside the feeling.
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The 10 different killings bring along a pea c h blossom; Chart A Hour
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sits on is pure peac h blossom bec ause is the wife, and a re the useful element to the wife. Chart B Hour
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sits on is real peach blossom because is the wife and is another woman. It can also mean the husband is strongly influenced by the wife.
Chart C Hour
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sits on is real peach blossom because is the wife and is another woman. It can also mean the husband is under the dec ision of the wife influence.
Peach blossom
Chart D Hour
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sits on is pure peach blossom because is the wife and is well being of his wife. The sc enario will be read in this order: the husband is always caring about the well being of the wife but no matter how much the husband works to make her happy, she is not! Bec ause the wife is diffic ult to satisfy!
In love, do we know what we really want? Mr. Right may appear before you but it is due to the complexity of a person’s feeling, character and the ability to understand not others, but YOURSELF! With this self understanding in place, I guarantee, you will live a fulfilling life! Many failed and broken relationships happen due to the lack of self understanding. Most of the time, one will accuse the other as the c ause of the separation bec ause they fail to understand you, or claim that you do not understand them! There is a saying “Love is blind”. If you take these words literally it is as good as saying “look c arefully before you love”! But I would say, if you are blind, your love will be the purest of all! Because you cannot see and you cannot judge! And when you love the person, you love him or her with your heart!
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Chart E Hour
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sits on is pure pea c h blossom bec ause is the wife and is the well being of his wife.
The interpretation of this c hart will be the same as the above but with a twist of different characteristic. Chart F Hour
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sits on is pure peach blossom. The peach blossom is the action of his wife and it is also the decision of him. Because her husband appears in her chart and sits on her action, her action and suggestion will have a great impac t on him.
There are husba nds that listen to his wife and the above chart desc ribes exac tly that.
Peach blossom
Chart G Hour
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sits on is pure peach blossom. The peach blossom is the action of his wife and it is also the decision of him. Because her husband appears in her chart and sits on her action, her action and suggestion will have a grea t impac t on him.
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sits on is peach blossom. represents a lot of money to her, and her husband is sitting on her money! But no matter how much the wife give to her husband, her husband will not be satisfied! This is because is not useful element!
The above sc enario tells us that money c annot buy love. If we ca n understand the spouse in our life, we will know how to handle all situations, and most of all we will be a ble to ac c ept the person for who they are.
Peach blossom
Chart I Hour
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Month
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sits on is peach blossom because is the wife and is another woman. It can also mean the husband is under the wife’s influence.
Chart J Hour
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sits on is peach blossom because is the wife and is another woman. It can also mean the husband is under the wife’s influence.
Ladies, please pay attention and take note. Although another woman appears in your chart, but it does not mean that your husband will have an affair. The correct approach is that your husband is under your in fluence!
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If a c hart sees indir ec t resource combine wit h hurting fiof cer, children and husband will be endangered! Dear readers, there are a few sayings about combine. Please understand this before you start any reading! • • • • •
Stems combine Branches combine Hidden combined inside the branches Silent C ombine “Sec ret stems c ombine” sec ret that never before revealed!
First, you need to know and understood the above 5 variations. Because the Classic did not specifically identify which category of the c ombine, that’s why it is better to know them all! Thereafter, you have to use nature for reasoning in order to get the reading right!
Silent Combine Silent combine are two branches that have no affinity on the ap pea ranc e but the af finity comes within the main Qi! Following are some examples; •
have no af finity, but the main Qi of is and …a
combine! This is termed silent combine. There are people that have feelings for each other and prefer to keep it that way. This is exac tly the reading. •
is another example of silent combine. The main Qi of is combine. This is also a sec ret admirer from the opposite sex!
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The Secret Stems Combine Here’s the secret of “secret stems combine”. • • • • • •
c ombine; c ombine, c ombine, c ombine, c ombine, c ombine,
is and is and is and is and is and is and
is , is a is , is a is , is a is , is a is , is a is , is a
secret stems combine! secret stems combine! secret stems combine! secret stems combine! secret stems combine! secret stems combine!
Sometimes a love or a relationship is being trapped! And you don’t know why and it seems helpless! This is because of the sec ret combine! Knowing that the relationship is wrong but somehow, you just cannot let it go! Sometime combine is actually clash, and sometime clash is ac tually combine! There are people that fight and later fall in love and there are also people who fall in love first andfight later! There are people who fall in love and regret a nd there are also people who regret bec ause they choose not to fall in love!
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C hartA Hour
C hartB
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C hartC Hour
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C hartD
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Hour
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The above 4 c harts c ombine is termed hidden c ombine of indirec t resourc e with hurting offic er or it can also be read as hurting officer combined with indirect resource, depending on which comes first! Example: chart D. The year always c omes first then the month followed by the day and lastly the hour. In chart D you willfind occupy the year and comes in after the year. It will be read as the inside comes and hidden (combine) the inside the! This is termed the hidden comes and combines away the hidden inside the ! Whic hever c omes last will be the one that initiates the combine! The meaning of c ombine is as good as disappea red! C ombine also means an attac hment ora desire that you always wish for and you cannot let go! If the c ombined is a bad c ombined, cases like suicide, self inflic ting, threa ten to kill etc….could be devastating to life itself! Ladies, please let it go and set yourself free!
Combines
Chart A Hour
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C hartB Month
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Chart C Hour
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C hartD Month
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Here on the above charts you can find that a day master does not match what the C lassic said on indirec t resourc e c ombine with hurting of fic er bec ause there isn’t any c ombine! This is exac tly what I meant by: in order to know the sec ret of the C lassic , we must work out all the charts and find out which chart the C lassic is emphasizing! Readers, please find out the exact truth before you make any c onclusions! Please do not make mistakes in your own lives!
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C hartA Hour
C hartB Day
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Hour
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C hartC Hour
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C hartD
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The above 4 day masters with branches and does not look like a c ombine. In ac tual fac t, there is a hidden c ombine which most readers do not anticipate. Destiny reading must be flexible. The C lassic is not for us to follow literally. It is there for us to dec ode the rea l meaning behind the words. C hartA Hour
C hartB
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C hartC Hour
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C hartD
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The above 4 day masters with branches and is a c ombine, so it matches what the Classic said. This matches the endangering of c hildren a nd husband!
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Chart A Hour
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C hartB Month
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Hour
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Chart C Hour
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C hartD Month
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The above 4 day masters with branches and does not look like a c ombine. In ac tual fac t, there is a hidden c ombine whic h most rea ders do not antic ipate. Chart A Hour
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C hartB Month
Year
Hour
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Chart C Hour
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C hartD Month
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Hour
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The above 4 day masters with branches and is not a c ombine, so it does not match what the C lassic said.
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C hartA Hour
C hartB
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C hartC Hour
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C hartD
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The above 4 day masters with branches or contains is a hidden stem combine, so it matches what the C lassic said. This matches the endangering of children and husband! C hartA Hour
C hartB
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C hartC
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C hartD
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The above 4 day masters with branches and is not a c ombine, so it does not match what the C lassic said. But there isa silent clash! Silent clashes mean there are two persons c annot get along bec ause of c on flicts of interest!
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Chart A Hour
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C hartB Month
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Hour
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Chart C Day
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C hartD
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The a bove 4 day masters with branches and contains a silent combine! So it matches what the C lassic said.
Chart A Hour
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C hartB Month
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Chart C
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Hour
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C hartD
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The above 4 day master with branches and is not a c ombine, so it does not match what the C lassic said.
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Women are preferable notto have indir ect resour c e c ontrolling ea ting god and hurtingfiof c er. It will be good to havewealth, eating god, resource and fi of cer. There are two different sc enarios: one is good and another is bad! Rea ders plea se take note that offic er and killing both can be rea d as husband. If a chart has killing but no fiof c er, then the killing c an be rea d as husband! Sc enario One; When indirec t resource c ontrols ea ting god and hurting officer: C hartA Hour
C hartB Day
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C hartC Hour
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C hartD
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Chart A; The hurting officer is c ontrolled by . And is a c tion whic h is her husband’s ac tion! Her husband’s ac tion is stopping her action which is bad for her. This will c reate much restriction for the wife. C hart B; The ea ting god is controlled by. And is action which is her husband’s ac tion! Her husband’s ac tion is stopping her action which is bad for her. This will c reate much restriction for the wife. C hart C ; The hurting officer is confused by . And the is action which is her husband’s action! Her husband’s action is stopping her action which is bad for her. This will create much confusion. C hart D; The ea ting god is c ontrolled by. And the is a c tion which is her husband’s ac tion! Her husband’s ac tion is stopping her action which is bad for her. This will c reate much restriction.
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Sc enario Two When indirect resource control eating god and hurting fi of c er is good at the following; C hartA Hour
C hartB
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Hour
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C hartC Hour
C hartD
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Hour
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The above 4 c harts from A – D are all ac tion rec eiving elements; • ec r eives useful element which is supported husband • ec r eives useful element which is supported husband • ec r eives useful element which is supported husband • ec r eives useful element which is supported
useful by the by the by the by the
husband It will be good to have wealth, eating god, resourc e and officer. Although this is what the Classic said, these 4 elements must be the useful element to the day master. If not, the usage may come at a pric e or the day master may have to compromise on something in order to achieve another. This is the gist of destiny lea rning and understanding!
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The Classic said this line is for pregnancy or the abilit y to have c hildren. Indir ec t resource controlling e ating god or hurting fi of c er, when enter the wealth luc k, children willc ome naturally. In most cases, eating god and hurting offic er onc e being stopped by indirect resource or direct resource, usually the pregnancy or the ability to conceive will encounter problems! But when she enters direct and indirect wealth, the spell will be broken! To make things ea sy for you, ea ting god and hurting officer represents c hild ren to a woman. The hour pillar also represents the children’s palace. Some charts have either eating god or hurting officer fall into the hour pillar which makes the reading easy. But even though some c harts may not appea r to be the same, it does not mean that the person will not have c hildren!
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Following are some examples of the negative aspect of eating god and hurting officer being stop by indirect resource or direct resource. C hartA Hour
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C hartB Month
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C hartC Hour
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C hartD Month
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The above 4 c harts, the indirec t resourc e of the stem is preventing the eating god and hurting offic er in the branches. This is also read as the heaven preventing the earth where the child is being prevented, and that is where the woman experiences dif ficulty conceiving! In such cases, the woman will have to wait for the luc k to remove the prevention. And when the luck c omes later in life, the woman may have problems conceiving due to age where the body c annot hold on to the baby! These fac tors of time! Although this is what the C lassic said, not all cases are to be rea d in this manner! In some cases, they will instead conceive noble children.
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If the branches contain too much wealth, of fic er or e r source, it will harm the goodness of the childr en. Readers must understand the usefulness of the c onfigurations by understanding the useful elements! The useful elements c an be applied on the stem and branches, or ideally within a pillar’s itself! Although most masters and practitioners say that wealth,ficer of and resource is good for women, excessiveness will lead to difficulty as well. Please remember that! It will be good to have them in ba lance. What is balance? What needs to be controlled, the control must be there. What needs to be weakened, must appears be weakened. What needs to be c ombined, the combine must take plac e a nd what need to be clashed, and the c lash must be there. This is termed ba lance. The ba lance is not a bout all 5 elements appea ring in one’s c hart.
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day master use as her husband, if thehappen to appears at the year pillar, the relationship will last till old age!
An in-depth professional approach in destiny reading, where you can surpass the 10 god reading, all elements that appear in your destiny c an be rea d as your husband too! For example, what happen if no officer/killing appears? Your husband c an be hurting offic er, ea ting god, direc t wealth, indirec t wealth, direct resource, indirect resource or even rob wealth and friends! How to know and rea d from there, you just need the date of birth of your husband and find out what is his day master and go and look for it in your destiny! He may appea r on the stem, branches, or even in the graveyard or storage! What happens if he still doesn’t appear in your destiny? This is good news for you! He doesn’t disturb you and gives you a lot of trust and freedom!
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If there are and at the branches oryou see it again on your lucks, mostprobably you will find your man at the enter tainment field. This c an happen to man as well. and both fall under night life entertainment.
Heaven and earth hidden combine will have many noble people. The following are all heaven and earth combine;
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If there is a hidden ficof er inside the branches hat t s i being combined , there will be a hidden affair or lover! And it is subjected to which pillar the branch falls under. • • • •
If it falls under the year pillar, this will be read as the lover or mistress in his early life If it falls under the month pillar, this will be read as many lover or mistress wherever he goes If it falls under the day pillar, this will be read as the lover or mistress at home If it falls under the hour pillar, thiswill be read as the lover or mistress at work C hartA
Hour
C hartB
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C hartC Hour
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C hartD
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C hartE Hour
C hartF
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C hartG Hour
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Above are 7 charts that explain a combine but the criteria is that the officer must be inside the branch or the branch itself and is subject to a combine. Dear ladies, although this is what the C lassic said, do remember not every case is to be read the same way. And the truth is, the man you love is de finitely a married or a divorc ed man! You c annot esc ape this! Bec ause the configuration is in your destiny! And if you choose to marry a single man, you will end up in a divorc e! Learning destiny is to understand the truth in our life, not to prevent or esc ape it bec ause you cannot prevent or esc ape it! If someone said to you that they can prevent it, be c areful! How c an a person prevent something that it has not happened! Ladies, please think!
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It is advisable to be calm and know what you wanton the sui tabilit y of a person to spend your life with him. And not rush in a relationship! The truth is that a long lasting relationship does not depend on requirements. The following are some guidelines to help you make a better decision; • What do you want from him? • What do you need from him? • What do you expect from him? The above requirements are not a relationship. • • •
What happens in a relationship if he cannot or is unable to give you what you want! What happens if he c annot satisfy your needs? What happens when an expectation is not met!
Allow me to twist your perspective a little. What can you give instead? • • •
Will you take him as he is? Will you care for him a little today and every other day? Will you give instead of asking for what you want, need and
•
expect? Will you change for him?
If you are using effort in your relationship, then you are not in one, because you don’t need to! Think again, if he loves you, do you think he will let you do all that you do for him? If he loves you, he will give you or do everything for you that you least expect and will not ask or even mention anything in return.
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Do you want to be in love or be loved? Dear ladies, you can decide, choose and most of all experience the true love of your life butfirst, you must open your door. Don’t worry; true love will not take advantage of you!
If a relationship is meant to be, then it will be. There will be no effort involve d! Itis automatic! To all ladies, I wish you eternal happiness!
The Analects of wife and mistress Based on man int erpretation, Di rec t Wealth will be read as wife and Indir ec t Wealth will beread as mistress/ girlf riend/ third party.
Example: man sees a s wife and sees as mistress/ girlfriend/ third party. Although this is the saying but rea ders have to be c areful bec ause sometimes a c hart do not have direct wealth and instead indirec t wealth appears! In cases like this, the indirect wealth will be read as wife! A third party is detected in a c hart is when both direc t and indirec t wealth appears together. Sometimes a chart only has either direct wealth or indirect wealth. But when the lucks bring along a direct wealth and indirect wealth, can also cause relationship problems! For this, readers please pay attention!
The analects of wife and mistress
On a reversal reading, if is the man with the appearance , of and this time round, thesees another or a wood structure of is formed, this will harm the wife as a third party appears before the wife! In a nutshell, when it comes to a relationship, the problem may start from either party and it is not necessary always the man’s fault! Sometimes, the wife is at fault!
harming the spouse p alac e. Spouse is fraudulent . Because the spouse is and there is a inthe spouse palac e and the spouse
palac e c ombinewith another man. That’swhy the Classic says the spouse is fraudulent.
If the wealth fallsunder the 12 phases of gr owth on “w eak, sick, death, graveand extinct” wife will havehealth condition and isnot virtuous. If not, when ithappens in the annual ye ar, itc an mean entering int oa stage of remarriage! Thissentenc e isonly one way of explaining a marriage c omplic ation but there are many otherwaysof seeing it in different configurations. Rea ders plea se take note!
If a man sees a sitting beside him, he t con figurati on will betermed bad for the husband. If the is on the stem, you need to a control it. If the isat the branch, then itrequire a or to sits beside it, then the man can have peaceful life!
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Should there be a friend sitting in between , example; the , it will becomefightor jealousy combined ! If the wea lth sits on “bath” or “pea c h blossom”, c hances that the spouse or girlfriend may have private affairs! Below I will show you some examples; here I would like to highlight to readers that not all peach blossom and bath is bad. They can merely mean an attrac tion of the opposite sex! This attrac tion is espec ially good in business networking! s e s a h P / rt e s a M y a D
e iv tw h ro G
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C hartC Hour
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C hart A: The male day master sees as wealth also represents whic h is the bath. See the table a bove his wife. The wife sits on for reference.
C hart BC D, all the day master wives sits on beac h blossom.
If the day master or month sits on wealth ficer, orwill of received spouse support or help from the spouse! But readers have to be c areful bec ause not all c ases will have this outc ome! Because the direct wealth and indir ec t wealth must be differentiated before any c onclusion c an be reac hed.
If the indirec t wealth has a position at the branch, the girlfriend will have much greater impac t or more say or mor e in fluence on the man life instead of the wife.
The analects of wife and mistress
However, if the wealth is prosperous, the wife will not tolerate the girlfriend.
Should there be both aggressive ficerof and killing appears in a woman chart, the woman can be poisonous ; bewit c h; or will be drive to insanity once they are being offended! Readers please be mindful, the sentence only indicates the possibility and not all cases are to be read in this way.
Wealth and offic er are c onsidered nic e c onfigurati on, and most of the time, his t kind of man isafraid of wife. Espec ially whenhe t con figuration is on wealth and killing!
Abundance wealth and the day master is weak with no roots, wife will be in control mostof the time.
If the wealth and day master is rooted, wife and girlfriend will be of great help to the man.
Summary of women life The perc eption of a woman’s if l e is dif ferent from man’s if l e. In particular, he t good and bad of woman’s life are stronglyflin uenced by the husband. The ficer of and killing will determine the good and bad of a woman life. Woman’s c hart is good to be pure and noble and is better not to be loose and despicable! Offic er and killing will be the dec iding fac tor of a woman life! If the offic er is the useful or u l cky star, or prosperous wealth supporting offic er/killing, then husband will have good fortune.
Resource and eating god are termed as noble, and is a respectable icon. But prosperous e r source will notbe good for the childr en. Why prosperous resource will not be good for the children? This something that you have to take note! If the eating god or hurting officer is not under the control of resource, we cannot say that children will be bad. And the control can happen on the stems and a t the branches.
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When resour c e, wealth and ofi fc er appear in a c hart, usually, the person comes from a well-to-do family and her appearance is virtuous. Here, the resource, wealth and offic er must be the person’s useful element. Only then will this sentence can match the scenario. If not the c hart cannot be rea d in this way!
day woman sees as the husband but if or appears, this will instead harm the hus band!Bec ause controls!
If is the husband, will represent the lover. And when appear, this will be a remarriage chart.
If the wealth is prosperous and fic er/of killing is as strong, there willbe many hidden lovers and one can become a loose person.
Women with excessive wealth can bec ome lascivious ! That’swhere there’s asayingthat itis bett er for women not o t have too much wealth, then sh e can bring good fortune to the hus band and at the sametime, the children can bene fit from it.
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Women with complication of hurting o fi fcer, disorientedficer of and killing, eating god supporting wealth and the day master is weak, this kind of person will harm others due to jealousy, greedy and insatiable desire,fierce and uncontrollable.
Hurting fi of cer sees of fic er will harm husband and remarry, tough labor. If it does not harm husband, will uff s er from illness es, unlucky most of the time and will be fic ult difto sett le down.
Hurting fi of c er represent s talent, good lookingand grac efulness!
Hurting offic er sees killing can become wealthy;hurting of fic er without wealth is poor!
Rob wealth and defeated wealth; prosperous day master with hurting offic er; despicable and the structure of a c hartdrops.
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The above ment ioned isabout the clashesand combine o f of ficer as well as the bad con figuration of hurting fic er. of Most wealth comes from degrading oneself as well as a loose personality. Readers can get the complete version of interpretation from the book “10 Gods Structural Rea ding”.
Killing and fi of c er, ti will be good to have justone in a woma n chart. The number of killings and fic ers of in a woman’s c hartwill determine the fac tor ofgoing through many marriages. Although this is what the Classic said and, it needs a qualified master to bring out the truth of the sentence, because this is not usually the case!
When of fic er and killin g is being combined , it is just like wo t women fighting for the same man.
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For example: woman sees as of ficer, and comes to combine; sees as of ficer and comes to control ; sees as of ficer and comes and control. T hese are what the Classic means by clashes and combine away the ficof er! These c an mean a marriage, or that the relationship is not stable. Here, we must find out whom and what is the c ause of this outcome. This is c aused by self destruction a s the c ombine is the ac tion of the woman. Sometimes in a relationship, what we think is right may seem wrong to the opposite. Women, plea se be aware!
In a c hart when hur ting ofi fc er and offic er fallsunderdeath andextinct the person will live in a solitary state!
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Example: Awoman’s c harton the stems appear of fic er andkilling, but branches do not haveficof er and killi ng branches,instead the of ficer and killingafll under (in he t 12 s tages of growth) weak, sick, death, grave and extinct where the environment does not supportthe fi ocer, f the of fic er andkilling wil l haveproblems settling on .it In this sc enario, the woman will be c ategorized as a mistress most of the time!
As long as a woman istermed weak, the charac ter will be peac eful, submis sive,gentle, softand tender-loving,respec tful to in-laws, helpful to her husband. But when sh e is strong in charac ter, she will do minate he r husband and be dif fic ult to c ontrol, shows li ttle respec t to in-laws, gossiping, impatientetc …. The strong and wea k will have their own wea knesses! The abovementioned is only a guideline and the real reading can be vastly different!
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It is good for a woman’s c hart to have useful element. And itis not so ideal to have travelling ors h e or peac h blossom. And th e character is good to be pure and harmonious. W oman’sc harac ter is better not to be strong. Not only inhe t chart but the luck cycle mustalso take this into considera tion. The above-mentioned seems too good to be true and they are trying to desc ribe a perfect woman in order to plea se their man. But in reality, is it sometimes good for the woman to be strong so that they can make better judgments and dec isions.
The C lassic “Solitary Bir d” said;, , and , these 4 pillars represents widow for woman and loneliness for man.
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When a c hart without of fic er or killi ng and enters the luck of of ficer, killing and wealth in the branches, his t c an be solitary as well. Bec ause branches represent feelings and stems represent reality, and when luck of officer and killing is only in the branches, the feelings moves but with no action and it is dif fic ult to turn into reality! There a re many women with this type of problem where the lac k of expression is always an obstac le! If you have this problem, only Feng Shui can help!
In a c hartwhere there is wealth and o fifc er, and e nter the lucks of hurting fi of c er and rob wealth branches, husband will have dif fic ulty or problems. his T will est t your husband’s enduranc e and how much he loves you!
C lassic said if woman charts have wealth, of ficer and resource, husband will be blessed with prosperity. As long as killing is not dominant, or mixed and confused with both of fic er and killi ng, or if the woman is strong and under fic erof control, itwill be praised!
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Hurting fi of c er for women’s fortune is notreal! Bec ause the fortune is only temporary! Or if there is hurting fic er but of without w ealth or resource, is jus t like living in n a empty house. Or if hurtingfio cer f is rooted, her status is as good as a maid!
If of fic er isc ombinedin a woman chart , itc an still be positive. If her t e is no of fic er butthere is a c ombine, th e c hance of a mistress is very high.The structure will dropsigni fic antly ifthere are abundanc e of both offic er and killin g. Should her t e be an abundance of hurting fiof cer being combined , itwill be pointlessto talk about husband anymore!
Offic er bringsalong peac h blossom will have fortune and longe vity. Peac h bloss om brings along killi ng will bring good omen and happiness . Ifthe peac h blossom receives too much c ombine ins tead will be bad for he t peac h bloss om. If ob r wealth and friends br ing along peac h blossom, itwill become unhealthy.
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Women hurtingficof er structure will hav e a suspicious n ature and hidden disliking. But if the hurting fic er br ofings along wealth or resource she will ins tead bec ome resolute. Hurting fi of c er is about hurting thefic ofer but ifthe hurting o fi fc er isinjur ed, longevity willbe affected as well.
The Essay of Women Life When it c omes to reading a woman’s c hart, we mus fi trst look at the husband star, then look for glory and honour. Lastly, look at the strength ofhe t c hildren.
If the husband is honoured and the c hildr en are prosperous , it is for sure that the woman will be wealthy, noble and honourable.
And when the c hildren falls nder u death and hus band is weak, the destiny of the woman’s life will drop ficantly! signi
Should there be a husband and children, but are living in a poor and solitary state, thisis due to the weak season phase.
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Without husband and children appearance but the woman is prosperous and flourishing, this is also due to the prosperous season phase! Now here the Classic is trying to tell us that whether a person born in season or not in season, there a re good and bad alternatives of either case. Weakness is not necessarily bad, and strength is not necessarily good when comes to reading a woman’s life!
As long as there is nob leman star, if he t woman is not wealthy, she will flourish.
C lassic said, ifthe noble man in a woman’s c hartis being combined away, she will be c ategorized as lowly ni society. Here the Classic is saying that although they may have useful elements, butwhen it is being combined away, the destiny c an be affec ted with negative setbac ks. The good c an bec ome negative and the negative c an turn into good!
If the c hart is dominatedby hurting fi ofc er, her t e will be asudden, hidden lost of wealth.
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If the husband falls under weak but the woman is strong, this kind of woman is mostly read as honest with integrity.
When the killing is strong and the woman is weak, this kind of woman will be read as solitary.
When it comes to the de finition of 5 elements in a woman chart, it is better for the nobleman star to be rooted and obvious.
The Classic Song of Woman When choosing a wife, it is better to choose one that is gentle and peac eful. T hen husba nd will lis ten to her fine speech.
A woman’s husband is better to have strong fic er but of the hus band must be strong enough to handle it as well.
If the of fic er is not c ooperative, wha t’s the pointof having the ficer of since the of ficer cannot be depended upon!
There is the magic of combination; because is a difference between the good and bad combine! Not many people know about the existence of it!
There isa spec ial way of day to year reading but unfortunately not many people understand it!
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Killin g is notafraid of combine, while th e rest is afraid of c ombine! If there are too much combination, itwillnot be promis ing.
A pillar of nobleman is upright! Too many noble elements will be pampered and spoilt.
Goat blade brings along hurting fic er of , will be self ontr c adictory wi th problems.
If the resourc e appears all over he t chart, children will be ha rmed.
If the c hart gathers a group of resour c es, this is beinghonored for fortune, salary and longevity.
If metal and water meets, it will involve a beautiful appearance.
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If the chart is c ompleted wit h tiger, monkey, snake and pig, the person will be solitary, lewd and full of cheap talk.
The rat and horse meets the rabbit and rooster, a runaway spouse!
The dragon and dog meets the ox and goat, this will be a disfavor for the woman.
Two nobility and one killing, brings Authority, Wealth and nobility.
Ifthe wealth andpowerare hidden in he t stash, andare being clashed, fortune will be in question.
The combination of he t stem, willencounter much obst ac les!
The combination of he t branches, w ill be rea d as marriage issues mos t of the time!
The Wealthy, Nobility, Poor and Lowly of Woman In the desire to read a woman’s c hart,first is to look at the ficer/ of killing ta s r! When ofi f c er brings along killin g, mostly will be read as poor and lowly! And when the fic er ofis in season, there will be peac e and honor!
If hurtingfiof c er is too strong, they c an obstruct the husband! And will also have strong desires!
The repeat of eating may reduce fortune and worst may bec ome lonely.
Too much combinewith affect one’s c haste reputation!
Sitting or born in thriving will be steady and honest.
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Resource being clashed, a lack of objectives in life!
If the peac h bloss om is wasteful orreckless , the shameand disgr ac e willc ome from fooling around wit h men.
If the thr iving fa llsinto the ho ur, honor c omes from respec t.
If the hour is offended with strong eating first god, look at the strength of the overall chart. If he t eating god is us eful, hen t childr en will be honored butthey are afraid of destruction by ind irec t resource.
The correct way of unders tanding wome n isto observe he t branches for balance.
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The correc t way of mana ging men is through their c areer/ busin ess. Thisis the main concern for them.
Woman’slife is afraid of offending Peac h bloss om!
Nobility a re mostly receives supportor help from “gr owth”.
The failur e or dest ruction of ac hart c an be the cause of the clash of the day master roots and too much combine!
If the resour c e is damaged, there willbe disput es and jealousy w ith in-laws!
If the eating god c an be used, the suc c ess c an be inherited by the c hildren.
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Should her t e be a repeat or dupli c ation of fiof c er orkilling, have to be c areful of pr omisc uity.
Day master and sibling both appear, there fiwill ght be for husband!
If there are negative ficer of or killing that c omes in a pillar and there isno control over them, haveto be c areful of promis c uity. If not , one will live as a nun or in a solitary life.
Wasteful Peach Blossom Woman uses of fic er/ killing as h usband, onl y eitherone can do a good job. If it is too much, it can harm the husband!
In some very spec ial occ asions, the entire c hart is surrounded by offic er or killin g but not both ! Instead, it w ill bec ome very fort unate.
If the hurtingficof er is notnoble, once itrepeats in the luck, itwillharm the husband.
When a woman has negative hurting fic er,of children will be punished and husband will experience fi acdif ulttime.
If the hurt ing ofi fc er is also the peac h bloss om, the woman may destroy one’s own lif e or children will h ave dif fic ultlife.
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In a chart, all you needis a strong and healthy noblema n. Itc an bring much fortune and prosperity!
Thriving and travelling hor se aiding eac h other. P eac h bloss om bring along noble man. Bath see travelling ors h e. The above configuration may draw lewdness to the person and will interrupt as well as prevent the husband’s succ ess and destroy one’s own family.