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How to prevent baby dumping.
One of ways to preventing from occurence of baby dumping is by including values of religion and moral education among youth education. This matter could come about if people or lack of education society. For youth, they need to teach in school. They must take up formal education in school. in this matter, the school should be including values of islamic religion in school students . Furthermore, moral elements also was stressed. This education can make student compare between good and bad matter. For example, act of adultery which brought to baby dumping was one sinful act large. So, student will realized and prevent social activity. This lesson can prevent of problem baby dumping. At the same time, at home they are getting regular education on baby dumping negative impact by informal from their parents. As their parents need to advise their children about it. As a Muslim, they need to aware that baby dumping prohibited. They need to think it will worth them nothing.
Besides, this issue can be avoided if youth control their social life. Youth now more social than previously. Once, parents regulate all their activities children including their social life children but now parents are different, they believe their children can manage live them wisely. Parents should care about their children activities. Parents must know what their children do and with who their children befriends. In this matter, parents must be firm with their children relating activities that no good. At the same time, they have to give love that fully so that children can felt that they also loved by their parents. When they get fully attention from parents, they will not associate with peer group friends that can encourage them to be trapped with act wicked ones.
There is suggestion on how to prevent this baby dumping from happen such as educate youth from at an early stage. In this matter, needed to be created a course relating health and sexual relationship. They must be informed and educate about this start from secondary school until their further their education to university. The Ministry of Education must create special syllabus to overcome this problem. While at home, according to Hun Nujoma (2007), parents to be educated about their role in bringing up of their children. Single mothers need to continue give more love to their children and have open discussion at home including about the sexual issue.
Government should enforcing law on baby dumping. This' very important because every time many case found about baby case happened. It’s very effectively to resolve this problem. Apart from that, those involved in baby dumping also need to be imposed heavy punishment. In this case, the government side need to be giving instruction that makes those regret. For example, the authorities must direct them to make a community service or canning. Maybe with God permission will be going to realize. At the same time, to those in connection offence serious, maybe can be imposed punishment that much heavier such as jail punishment. When they in detention, they necessary being nurtured with religious elements and moral to be giving awareness and realization that comprehensive.
Furthermore, sex education is the key to solve this problem. Sex education is not only about the mechanics of sex but also learning how to respect our bodies and one another. It need not encourage promiscuity, but properly taught can encourage abstinence till marriage and not falling for the “if you love me, you will have sex with me” line. It is needed to encourage responsible sexual behavior and avoid unwanted pregnancies that causes baby dumping. It is must be given from an early age, to teach people what sex is, the difference between sex and love, the responsibility of choosing to have sex, how to have safe sex, and the various consequences of
unsafe sex. This should be complemented with moral or religious education as all of you said before, I think its better and society also has to learn to be less judgmental and more compassionate to prevent them from abandoning their newborns.
The precaution by family also one's of the best way. If a girl gets pregnant, it is important for the parents to accept the reality and give the necessary support. In this case, the family and also society must have good perception about herself and willing to help the teen. Sensitization that would remove all the stigma (stigma where due to tradition and religion, pregnancy before marriage is negatively perceived) should be done at all levels, at schools, homes, health centre, churches and communities. Maybe with this method, they was thought that they still have hope to change themselves towards good behavior and it’s also as a awareness of way. So, this is the good solution to prevent this cases.
Apart from that government side should also play a role that effective such as include legislative actions must established 'safe houses'-public centers such as police stations, and other public areas where women can bring unwanted children rather then leaving them in trash receptacles. The government side need took this matter seriously. The place where someone should be there to help them deal with the difficult situation and find the best solution for both mother and child. It is a real problem that needs real solutions even though it is not the best. It is not contravene with the Islamic teachings and it was in fact, the duty of all Muslims to help babies who are victims of circumstances. The baby hatch is indeed a good way to help single mother who cannot afford to take care of their babies. The hope is that, by offering an alternative to abandonment, women might leave their children with people who can help the baby.
At the same time, the society should act by giving advice through educated children about how to protect themselves from stranger is a good ways through school based prevention program. To curb this problem once and for all, we have to develop a loving and caring society. A society, free of social ills, can be achieved through maturity of attitude and values nurtured at home It is
viewed by student or anyone else as another viable tool that should be used in the fight against to prevent them from be a victim of raped. Therefore, one of the prevention steps which have to be done by the school is by holding their self means of defense. Through the programs, the student will know what the self means of defense from stranger is and it can help them to protect.
One of way also is give awareness through an advises and counseling. In this case, authorities, NGO, and also society must help them. They can bring this teen see to a counselor so that this individual (who throw the baby) must get counseling in various aspects such as give spirit, advise and other. Besides that, Studies show that only two things are truly effective in lowering teen pregnancy rates: counseling and readily available contraception. Normal, many baby dumping baby dumping happened involving teenager.
Besides that, campaign is important and good ways to solve this problem. Campaign such as sticker to tell mothers not to throw their babies into dumpsters, and by this article it is hope of dissuading mothers from abonding their babies. It is better for our country to follow this solution. Furthermore, we must need campaign "say no to baby dumping" to the public. In addition, Datin Seri Rosmah Mansor, wife of Prime minister said it is possible to set up a cooperation network to tackle the problem. Women, Family and Community Development Minister Shahrizat Abdul Jalil has instructed all Welface Department officer to be on a 24 hour standby to provide assistance to prevent baby dumping.
Next ways is about mass media role to handle this issue. This technology’s nearest to teen and best way to communicate about how to protect themself and not involved in anything that can take them to this problem. We could use the medium of television to educate teenagers and set the stage for more personal discussions in homes and schools. Suitable sex therapists or psychologist could be presenters of a special program on sex education. This could be scheduled later at night aimed at parents and educators. Simultaneously, urban and rural homes will be reached. So, mass media is very important to give advise and what to do when involved in this solution. To reach out
to people in small groups, town by town, will be tedious and may not attract the desired audience. It would also be costly and slow. Refrences .http://roshidan-rashid.blogspot.com/2010/04/dumping-babies-kami-prihatin-we-concern.html http://www.mmail.com.my/content/46573-i-dont-care-baby-dumping-and-sex-education http://ourenglish4sciencesocialworks.blogspot.com/2010/01/precautions-of-baby-dumping.html
