8 Key Cultural Differences Between Latinas And Women From Other Cultures
Esteban Lara
Have you ever dreamed of having the skills to seduce one of those stunning Latin women? Maybe yes, maybe not... But still, what you are about to learn is classified information. It's something that will give you the power to approach and seduce the most stunning Latin women at any place and at any time. Soon you'll have more hot dates with beautiful Latinas than any of your friends could imagine.
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So I’ll give you some secrets to improve that skill that you need to build attraction with this kind of girl: The most important thing you need to know is that a Latin girl has been surrounded by a very chauvinistic environment.
And as well as chauvinistic, the men from this region also act as gentlemen and can be very persistent with them too. It makes the women feel as if they are on a pedestal all the time and makes our work more difficult. Moreover Latin women have not had all the opportunities that are typically enjoyed by those women in more developed countries. They have had to live a harder life and have had to work very hard for very little.
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All the hits that life has given them have made these women become more aware and more analytical about finding the man that will make a good team with them; that’s why they analyze so much before deciding to have sex with someone. And you may think that Latin women will jump right into bed with you once they see you are from a developed country, but the truth is that they won’t. The main thing is a problem of adaptation. Whenever you want to meet women from another culture, you need to adapt to the ways of that culture or you will not be seen as attractive. Being unique is always a plus, but Hispanic neighborhoods exist in cities around the US
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for a good reason… reason… people are, to a large extend, attracted to similar behaviors and values. For example, because of cultural differences and stereotypes, Americans are often viewed as loud, obnoxious, and even arrogant by Latin women. And Latin women don’ don’t think they dress well. I don´t share these views /don’ /don’t hate me for it/ but the fact of the matter is… is… if a Latin woman can say any of those things about you, she will not find you attractive. Also, thanks to the poverty and other problems they’ they ’ve been around, they have developed a highly acute instinct that allows them determine if a man processes the alpha male traits of a good protector and provider. And that skill isn’t projected with money; it’s shown with aspects of your personality and the way you behave.
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Here are some Keys to seduce La tinas. You’ll see how different they are from women from the rest of the world…
8 Keys To Seduce Latin Women 1. Never tell a Latin girl to meet you in some place on a first date. She’ll She’ll be very likely not to show up. Even worse, she would prefer not to answer your calls so she wouldn’t have to face you after she flaked. Latin women are so used to dating men who pick them up at their houses; a Latina would be very disappointed if you tell her to meet you at some 6
place on a first date. It’s not such a big deal with women from other cultures. For example, if you make a good connection in the initial encounter with an American girl, there won’t be a problem if you tell her to meet you for a drink at some place. But it is a huge deal for a Latina. Since the culture is so chauvinistic they are so used to men being very gentlemen, picking them up at their houses and making them feel that the man will provide everything they need. It doesn’t matter how interested a Latina Latina may be in you, there’s a higher probability of flakiness. It’s a cultural fact. However, if you don’t have a car to pick her up, you can ask her where she’s going to be later and, in case she goes out with her friends, you can meet her and steal her from her friends. The other option is to tell her to take a taxi to your place, making sure to mention that you’ll pay for it and then you go out from there (trust me on this, I wouldn’t pay
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for it if she were from a different culture, but a Latina wouldn’t wouldn’t pay for the cab, if you don’t mention you’ll pay for it she’ll be very likely to flake). 2. Do not be cocky at all, they hate that! I’ve seen American guys acting too cocky thinking that the only thing a Latina needs to know in order to sleep with them is is to find out where he’s from. Terrible mistake. The best attitude is to be humble and simple from a position of power. Making some jokes about some defects you have may help, but doing it in a way that doesn’t make you look as if you were sorry of yourself. It has a lot to do with the tonality and the way to say things. For example, you can say: “I’m ugly” with two different tonalities, one that communicates you are insecure and one that communicates that you don’t care. So if you say it make sure to say it in a way that
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sounds more like “I’m ugly, but I don’t care, women love ugly guys then”. 3. It’s easier to bring up sex conversations with American women than with Latin women. Latinas are a lot more conservative and less sexually open. It applies in most of Latin countries. They would pretend they are so naive. Don’t believe them, they are very sexual once in bed. Nevertheless, Mexican and Brazilian women are a bit more open minded in this topic; they would react better when you bring up a sexual conversation. 4. If you are in a serious relationship with a Latina do not wear sandals while going out at night, trust me, they hate that. No
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matter if you aren’t going to party in a club, Latin women just don’t like it, even if you are just going out to eat. Latin women are so worried about the image projected outside of the house. It’s different for women from Europe or US, they don’t care about it so much, they understand that you just want to be comfortable sometimes. The other thing you must know is that, in case you are on vacation on a Latin country, you shouldn’t wear clothes that imply you are just on vacation (sandals, Hawaiian shirt, etc.). It would scare the cute ones. You know, they don’t want to feel that you are just a foreigner looking for sex who would go to a different country in a week to
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do the same. Also, they have seen so many foreigners do the same thing over and over. Just bring nice clothes while traveling, you’ll look much better. 5. Calibrate your sense of humor. Latin sense of humor is very particular. Latin women laugh about things that you may find weird. So find out the best way to understand this giving you ideas on how to sense of humor. I’ll be giving calibrate it on the next emails I’ll send you soon. 6. While in a Latin bar, in case you already know how to dance, do NOT approach a cute Latina asking her to dance. It’s the most common strategy used by Latin guys. If you do, you’ll be doing the same thing that 10 other guys just did minutes ago. It’s a
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lame strategy, it doesn’t help to differ from other guys who ask to dance and start asking the same boring questions (what do you do, what’s your name, where do you live). So don’t worry if you don’t know how to dance, there there are better ways to approach them. Any way, it’s good to know how to dance Latino music; it will give you a plus you can show while on a first date or even after you approached her with something different and saw that she was showing some interest. Just don’t approach her that way at the beginning. Dancing is a
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skill you can show later. The best thing of knowing how to dance is that it creates a sexual environment and it’s also good to make her be comfortable while you touch her. However, you should be very careful of not touching her intimate parts while dancing in public, it wouldn’t make you seem as a discrete man and she’ll lose interest instantly. 7. For a Latina it’s very important that you meet her parents. She would insist that you meet her entire family and would bring you to her house and parties. It’s something that you will enjoy since the culture is very warm and welcoming. If she invites you to a party with her family don’t refuse, be polite and
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accept, it means she’s ready to see you as a boyfriend and wants to be in a relationship, plus it will be a lot of fun, trust me. Latin parties, even family get-togethers are very social and fun. 8. Don’t get mad if she makes you wait for several minutes when picking her up. Latin women don’t care about time. They do it all the time. You may find yourself waiting for her at the gate of her complex for 15-20 minutes. She would say that she was brushing her hair or taking some call. Don’t get upset, it’s part of the culture. Latinas seem to enjoy making men wait for them. You’ll see, in this culture people aren’t so used to showing on time to meetings. It’s normal to show up a5 minutes later and say things like, “oh, too much traffic”. Don’t say I didn’t warn you ;-) ;-)
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I hope you like this report and I hope you find out all the secrets inside Latin women minds. These girls are cute and you are a perfect match for them. So stay tuned. Your friend from Latin America, Esteban Lara www.waystogetwomen.com
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