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Ιntrοdιιctiοn Ιn chis course, \p.e are going to begin aι the very basic ΙeveΙ and ιake a lοok aι the complexiεies and mechanics oΓhuman sexuaΙitμ aι the place where everybοdy is trapped. Tο be a bioΙogical form is a trip. There are simple imperatives that cannot be ignored, and the most obviοus one is reproducdon. Αfter all, reproducιion is everμhing. There,s a problem with reprοduαion ιhοugh: you need co have a wider and vrider gene pοol in οrder co be able to maintain the viabilicy οΓany kind οf reproducεive species, Rcproducdon is built into us geneticallμ and there is nοthing we can do about it. The first sεep is simply εo accept thac εhis is the greaε εrap οr εhe greaι dilemma of whaι ic is ιo be in οne of chese vehicΙes. Ι,m a greac admirer οΓΓοrm. Ιt,s magic. Υet, the demands of the Γorm are fundamentalΙy primitive. FΙuman beings need to eat, sleep, shit, and have sex, and the form drives all of these funcιions; \λre are passengers stuck inside, The Γorm is aΙways correcc in ics trajectory or geometry. Builι inεo form are our basic mechanisms. But, in ignorance oΓ these mechanics, we cruly don't understand ourselves; we'γe adapted to our envirοnmenc by clinging to che illusion oΓ be ing in conιrol of it. This il].usion has caused a miΙΙennia of pain' The fact is, vre have to accept the realiιy ιhat the Γorm is going to Γunction according ιo its

principles and that aΙlvre can dο is be in alignment within thaι, vrhich basicaΙly means making decisiοns Γrοm the Γοrm.

Αcιraccion drives us. Ιt is εhe bedrock on vrhich fie genetic imperacive is established. Everyching is rooced in aεtracιion, Ιt,s the greaι curse. Everybody has delighcful Designs in vrhich ιhey have a variety of actiγations, which in fact are the rοoιs of εheir differe nciated pocentiaΙ. FΙorvever, instead of dedicating their lives to the beauty oΓwhat it is ιο be uniquely themselγes, they end up chasing after all of ιhe things that they,re nοt. $(e are allworrie d about everything thaι is waiting at the end οf that Gate, thc fanιasy thac somehov, chat's where ιhe ans.wer is. Ι'm gοing to be that, Ι,m gοing co have ιhat, eιc..., This is che way we're driven. ;, i r;. i.:r- l: :;r.rr: :' : i.l,::::,, :i.,'';;'.,

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The gene pooΙ is not going to survive on saneness. The very fact that FΙuman Design contains the 59th Gate Line 3, rePresents a hiΙarious joke about our nature. Ihe 59.3 is designed geneticalΙy to make a .impos. white conservatiγe have a fingwith somebody that,s black and radical, it,s designed to find some sible, relationship d-ιat wilΙ produce ofΓspring. The nature of the program is onΙy interested in us reproduc..Do ing. Ιt,s not like d-ιe genes are saying, you think it,s going to be good with them?,,... genes dont care. Ιt,s not Ιike you can anthropomoφhize them and give them litde personalides. These are the mechanisms we,re given. Ψ.e,re not only born with them, but each of us comes with certain generics in ιhe way\λ/e are inεended to operaτe. SexuaΙity of all kinds geω Ιived out in the dysfuncdon of the Not Self Throughout the history of the Seven Centered being, there was an undersanding ofwhat was thought to be possible in the perfection of the bond beαveen humans. After alΙ, everythingthatvras the root ofSeven Centered sexualiεy. the sexual.

ity that existed und 1781 . was strategic. Ιt vras thought that reproduction in and of iωelfwas something that benefited both the individuals and the tribe, and uΙtimately, tλe species itself. This was dre strategic deveΙopment ofpopulation, alΙ of iι rooted in being attracted to what you are not. The change from this state is, only now, slowΙy beginning to sink in; this understanding that \ηre afe no longer those creatures. 'We 'W'e're Nine Centered beings. have a very different potential in terms of the way in which we are intended to bond to each otheη physicξ and otherwise. Αs of novr, this is not something that has been lived out.

The Mechanics οf SexuaΙity Understanding the nature of mechanics can be enormously Ιiberating. Sociecy has a way ofestablishing all kinds of moraΙities. One of those moralized areas repfesents one of the deepest dilemmas in human beings: Sexualiεy. Sexuality has to do with vrhat it means, in essence, to accept oneself. PeopΙe want to have a good sex Ιife, they want to make a lot of money, they want to do this and that, etc...

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Most human beings enter into reΙationships as their Not SeΙf Ιt becomes very dificult for most people to understand what it is to establish a Ιegitimate relationship. Ιt can only come when youre not making decisions from the mentaΙ plane. As Ιong as youre up εhere in your head, the Not Self has a real .s7.hen trip with sex. Decisions made from the Not Selfhave nothing to do with what is correcι. it comes to che nature of any reΙationship - regardless ofwhether it,s sexual or noι - the only criteria for estabΙishing

it is whether or not you,ve correcξ made the decision to be in iι There isn,t anythingeΙse. This is where your Ρotential as a being, as a Ιoveη as a staη begins to emerge, because it,s aΙ a matter of undersanding that, if the vehicle is operating correcdy, tλe passenger has tλe poιential for extraordinary experience.

Mechanics alΙolvs us to get away from comparison. Comparison leads to aΙl kinds of dilemmas and moralities ιhac are rooted in the binary constructs we live in: This is good and this is bad, this is moral .W,,hat .right, and εhis is amoral, etc... is is entirely dependent each individual,s unique Design. LΙaving an objective point of view is a Ιot of fun and can feeΙ Ιiberating, howeveη seeing it doesn,t mean d-ιat you can control or change it. That,s the most beautifuΙ thing about the nature of mechanics: it,s not the knοwΙedge that has Po\Mer. The only way that you re going εo Ιive out your sexualpotential, is not only by undersanding what it is, but by Ιiving out vrhat it is to be you _ by knowing how to make decisions from yourAuthority.

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[n εhe beginning of the L960's, our global cycΙe entered intο the First Line theme. These cycΙes work in reεrograde Γrom the Sixth Line εheme back down to the First Line . Now, we are at εhe γery end ofwhaι has been the Cross of Ρlanning era: the era that has bridged the beginning of the 16οο,s through the year

2027. This bridgehas brought us from the οld to εhe new, and\p,e arepart of this new. FΙoweveξ the consciousness behind this movement is onΙy beginning to emerge. The identity we have, in terms of how \Λre try to connecι ιo each.other and our oΙd Ρacterns or strategic approach, is breaking dolvn. our sexuaΙ

idenciιy is under enormous Ρressure to transform. Ιt,s noε about trying to figure out mentaΙly what,s shifting, because, in terms of the way in vrhich this knowΙedge operates, each and every one of us is ultimateΙy here to exΡress that uniquely. Ψe wiΙl all express rvhat iε is to be a Nine-Centered being and to be aware ,.a\ry.areness,', in one,s relationships differently. Ιn thaε sense, when Ι use that word Ι mean to enter into reΙationships through awaferΙess, or correcdy. Ιt is only in chis mutual correctness chat the uniqueness of whaε εhis newkind of bond can be will begin ιo emerge,

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work on the pΙanet right now is in ιbe 5ΣΦ 9ate, which is part of the Solar Plexus system. Ιεs mirror is the 59thQqte. and the 59th Gate i' εl9kιΙ9--9g-ι.9=9'ΧΨl!{.=Ψ!y. Th. υ". 59th Gate, which i, p;δπλ;οτ;"*i ;.M;;g, is w!a!ΙΦa!gιge'Φ-Ψ.""y iΓ. ing bonds to others. Ιι,s not going to be rooted in the kind of physical sexuality that has been dominant by μ'eryψd!ng..d9m1n-d Qr τffiδqΓihΞ iiiδf the Seven-Centered human. γrs.εe "9!gojηg!9.k-dr,-,-.η 9'Ψ{g9l€-Ρ=o-9l, 9impΙy b9ca9s9.9μ{.P=1ΙgqΦ, qp".ig.s-!s sΙowΙy c.omiηg..to'4η-eηd a9 it is.Ιosing ils fundamenφ!&*iljιy. This is going to change our sexual habits and going to change dre crigerla upon w.hich intimacy is established and maintained chroug_h gorrectn-e9q,The deepest

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To stay within εhe εhematic they,Ιl geε fixed, and that fixation can become an obsession. The Noε SeΙf ls normalisdc, let,s put it that way. This is the thing d-ιat you get to see right away. Ιt,s how imbalanced they

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Ι think one of the areas in which sexuaΙ mechanics can be especiaξ valuable is to :gnggers. Ιt is a time in εheir Ιiγes in which theyte caugh; ln iE;;r-S"t"lΙiΨJry'th,t,"y th"ι ψι+η4 nowygu,re aηΦuΙt. The reality is that . to understand the way in which these things op.."t. so thaε they can 1"* b" .,"toral. Ιt,s not about having to be this or thaε. Ιts about you,re εhis when you need to be this and you,re thaε when you need to be .W.hen that. Ι say need, Ι,m just sΦng vrhen iε,s correct to be those things. You don,ε get there because you know εhat either. Ιt,s not Ιike you re going to sit there and say, ..today Ι pursue and tomorrorηr Ι,lΙ be

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pursued,l Ιt doesn,ε work chaε way. This is the great danger in this knowΙedge. The assumption that the knowΙedge is giving you Po\Mer when in fact it,s not. Ιts your inner Αuthority ιhat gives you power. Ιt is that inner Authority that alΙows you to become a witness oΓthe way in which yoo intended to be, in "." terms of εhe way in which you live out your role, and how you connect and open yourself up to the other. See, rve are a ιvitness consciousness. ΙΓe,re there in the back seat, and it can be an incredibΙe thing to watch, εo take it in, and to observe what it is to be in one of these forms. How perfect it can be. Ι mJan,

they,re incredibΙe mechanisms. Just chis environment . us gathered here togethir. spe"ks to how incred-

ible these mechanismsare. Yet,recognizewe,ve gοtapΙanetfulΙofdysfunction. See,nobodyknowshisοr

h9r own sexuaΙity. Υou can only begin to experience it. once you aΙΙow your vehicle to take over in your ..ah Ιife then you begin to see, ha, interesting that Ι need to be pursed in thac siεuation.,,

As you watch you begin to see, ..ah, interesting,,. Ιn this situation, Ιook at me pursuing. Ιn that situation, Ιook at me being pursued. OnΙy ιhen is it coriect, onΙy then is it entertaining. The discovery of whaι it is, not simpΙy to be you, but to begin tο develop one of Ι haγe 10 First Lines; Ι understand that

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the most extraordinary gifts yet to exist on this plane, εrue outer Αuthority. Yοu are truΙy the passenger in your uniqueness as you take in the this and ιhat ofyour process; this is the potential for unique concepιualization. You re truth, yοur wisdom, whatever you \Λ/ant to calΙ it, comes from being th. p:1t-Ψ.:Ρ':9j1l'o-Ι-. h"--y.Ψ g-e! t-9 e.}pe$gn.cg yοur r9le' and.how iε wo1k9,

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Ι,ve done endless anaΙysis on how fucked up people are sexually. Ιε,s because they get locked into the extremes, and twisted by the way in which the mind pΙays it all ouε that they can,t seftΙe into the roΙe thac

naturalΙy arises out of response. They never get to discover the innocence in aΙΙ of this. Ψ.9]-r.9 {|{ory. bμ9 that doesn,t mean thatιry'e,re fΙot here to find ways to meet the other. This mechanism is given to .',. !Ι. o.,[y.th.o,gh th. och.r ih"i *. ,b1..o buiΙd εhe tvtiii, -hi.h is so incredibΙe for us. FΙow we meeε the

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abΙe to undersand because we couΙd never see it mechanicaΙly. Υet, now we can, and it changes everything. Ιt changes it simply because

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it gives us a way that we have a pure decision making process that can Ιiberate us from confusion. Ιt aΙΙows us to sit back and ιvatch the rοle unfoΙd.

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Ι3*ldatεss Second Line people liγe out a shyness-boldness binary. Ι know so many beings who are Second Line, Not Selξ andwho are so stuck at one end or εhe otheη particularlywhen it comes to sexuaΙicy. Remembeη this is a Role Gate and as a Role Gate thrοugh iω genetic continuity it infuences many things, incΙuding the way in which this roΙe can oΡeraεe in terms of sexualiry. For example, somebody that is scuck on the shyness side, with the mind buiΙding up a whole scenario ofwhy εhey have to be that way is exacdy what maintains this pattern. Yet, at the same εime, there wiΙlbe certain boldness in them that wiΙl emerge in other εhings that don,t have anything to dο with sexualiεy. The other thing is εhat the closer they are tο being correct, che closer they are to seeing εhat one speciaΙ εhing. S*r*ιaε{ Ι-igrε: 5}:v::*ss

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Everything abouc the Secοnd Line is sΦng, get in ψ.1β9s. y9u' are absoΙutely the speciaΙ one,,. That,s what the hermit is. The hermit says Ι]m not going to bother with alΙ ofyou, Ι,m waiting εoilIi. ."tt, and Ι,m waiting for that φi.i"i on_.. once that special o'. .δ^., in, the shyness disappears, che boldness can emerge, often, chese are beings thaι yοu meec and you see one face only to discover for you aS β-9iγ-ε-g9|aηqtιι9g.on!. Ιf y;il; ;Periting corieid/ εh. -ay in which this is going to work a rδle is going to be dependent on the situation; nοε what you think, not what you want, not what you expect.

ofpredictabiliry in aΙl οf this. The fact ιhat rve can understand it mechanically doesn,c take away its magic. The magic is only possible through εhewitnessingofthepassenger. ]bgrn$i.iswatchingyourseΙitoSeeyourselfinyourrοle andtosee that role is something that goes from this to thaε and back again. You begin to see in what situations you re this way and οther situacions the other waμ just ιo watch it, Thaε,s what makes it so special. There is a surrender to the lack

Most human beings minds are Sο burdened chat looking οut aε the world is not something εhat they can do with any kind of ple asure because they,re Ιoοking for something, They,re lost in looking for it in facε, for that which is not them: the ching chat they will neveη ever be abΙe Ψ.e,re here to be encertained.

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One of the first things that Ι began teachingpeople when Ι started in the earΙy 9O,s was ιλe first rule : have bedroom. own bed. Ιt is one oΓdle most essential ingredients in being able to maintain the integriry ofwho you are. for y chat is a Third Line, you go inco your o\rrn room and you wake up in the morning and you meet that person again. Bonds made and broken, made and broken, made and broken, For che Not SelΓit,s always a huge tragedy the moment it breaks and there,s no room to make εhe bond again, it,s just anoιher roΙe, and anoιlιer wave. Υou can be a Third Line being and yοu can have your bond and break it too. Ιn most cases what we end up wid-ι is its Ψtrqη-g. Usαally dιis extreme is on the broken side because when it,s on the bonded side, it tends to be holding on to bonds ιhat are realΙy horrendous. These are

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tλem doesn,t like the other- but reΙationships that are often abusivα Ιt can reaΙΙy get into a heavy trip. The extremes are rvhere you really see the Not SeΙf at lt, d".p.i@,,ction. art.λt, this permeates every aΨect of the way in which thac being and their PersonaΙity is operating. Ιt is one of the roΙes that,s part of the makeup ofwhat gives them dreir distinction as aholisdc being. So iΓιheyget sωck on one side or t,he other

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in the roΙe of the 4. This is the role of being the" confidant or not. Roles cannot be escaped. You can have the variety oΓthe this and that but it,s noilike you can escape them, and they all come with their own diΙemmas. FΙere the dilemma is paπiculaξ sffong sense in the Upper

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dilemma of the Not Self is that through comparison -and because \λre are designed to \Mant to be what we are not- they neYer get to see the beauty oΓwhat chey are, nor do εhey get to Ιive ouε ..ok, its potenεiaΙ. They don,t geε to be what the role wiΙl bring them. Don t just think of this as, here is a mechanicaΙ roΙe that is buiΙt into us, ifwe,re operating correctly, this role is one of the ways in which we are going to Ρresenε ourselγes outward,,. Ιt is more important εo understand that this very role gives yοu the ..alright, greatest potentiaΙ to haγe intimacy that is γaluable Γor you. Ιt,s noε Ιike you can say to yourself, Ι haven,t been Ιiving this role, Ι,m going to liγe it out now,,. Ιt doesn,ι'ιvork that way. You have to stop mak. ingdecisions rvith your mind. This is the great chalΙenge. The mind is seductiγe, and as such iε is very easy to get sωck in it, εο take it seriοusly, and to Ιive your life by it. Ι undersεand that this is what,s normaΙ; εhaε this is our homogenized humaniιy. Εverything abοut this knowΙedge, no matter \λ/here yοu want to go, starts in ι.he same pΙace. Ιt,s abοut no Ιonger alΙowingyour mind tο rule your life. Ιt,s not the mind is bad, Ι Ιoγe mind, ic,s beautiful. Ιc,s just not the mind,s job co drive the vehicle. ftεε1gg yoψ.qη.ly there,s qhe role ofygur nurturing on the

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vrλos Not Self. Bg9.1u|e.o-ne momenε chey +gthιlg.g:::{e1.g.9:9."j-:η* .althLine fri9nd .When and.1he next moment they,re not. they,re not, you haγe no idea who they,re .ιΙ9.y9gΙ.φ.nfidant εeΙlingwhat you εold them. They are deeply neεrvorked beings. Ιn terms of εhe sexualroΙe iεself, this is dre ,ξφ.e1rο1e. This is the οne εh11slorv:l.y g-ets into yτur life throμgh friendship, the Fourth Line, che Line of Brotherhood, and Sisterhood. There's always that chance on one of those oddly, boring evenings that maybe something wiΙΙ happen. You never know. They can,t be a confidant and a Ιover, they must be the confidants or noc. ξεla

Li**: Sgεlιιcer,, ligdιr{ε{9 The 5th Line is the Role of the Seducer-Seduced. The 5th Line is always

a fantasμ a kind of Casa. nova. The s-r-Lliηg..!ιp:._9j9..:gΦ"d ofcourse there,s this great dilemma that comes wiεh projection fieΙd. You meet somebody that,s got a 5th Line andγou pr-ojec!,.9nt9 them that they re going to .be a greaτ lover. Obviously this doesn,t mean that εhey are but it is a projection, and of course if they're not a great lover then everybody,s going to knorηr that they,re not a great Ιover. The projecεion thac is connecεed vrith the 5th Line is where you are Seen as being the seducer or seen as being seduced. Ιε doesn,t necessarily mean

that you're either.

Ιf a 5 Line working femaΙe executive that steps out of the οffice and goes across the sαeet inεo the locaΙ tavern to have a cold beer on a hot day, is going εo attracε attention no matter what. No matter what chaε woman does - it doesn,t maεter if she,s attractive or nοt, if she doesn,t pay any attention to anybody or not - there is going εo be somebody there thac εhinks thaι she,s coming on co εhem. Ιt,s just the way that the projection field oPerates. There,s aΙso the other side of that - the assumptiοn that peopΙe have εhat you can be seduced, which is the other side of the story. Ιt,s very amusing. Ι find aΙl of this very amusing. Ιn the end you see the mechanics and you understand ic, There are sο

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SexιlaΙitγ Μanιιa} many judgments, and much morality is associated with sexuality; sexual habits, sexual behavioη you name Howeveη che fact is that most of it is so distorted because it is part of tλe homogenized world. There are no real examples that are being esablished on this plane. Ιt,s not a Ρart ofwhat the commonality is aΙl

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what makes our own experience, and one that is very special. One of the things that is so attracdve about FΙuman Design peopΙe coming together is the immediate recognition that reΙationships alreaξ have a differenι way that they operate. Ιts simply πue- people relate to each other because there is a basic understanding of the other. Ιt,s only the first baξ steps, ifyou vrilΙ, in developing the socialpoιentiaΙ of what interaction is meant to be, rvhether it is sexuaΙ or not. about.

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Your basic sexuality has to come out ofyour Authority. Ιf it,s coming ouε ofyour Authoriψ it is go. ing to be very different Γor everyone. uniqueΙy difΓerent. \Γithin the reΙationships that are being encered correcdy, the nature of d.ιe sexuaΙ bond they develop is sοmething new. This is because the frequencies are correct. The moment that you take somebody in, you,re taking him or her in. You don,t have to Ρene trate .W.e penecrate each otλer very deeply. Ιt,s what happens when you step into somebody to penetrate them. somebody,s aura. Ιt,s as intimate a meeting as can be. There,s no way for us to fully undersand whether or not vre can handle the impact of another aura mixing wich ours because the mind has its trips. Ιt cannot make that decision but the inner Authority can; tλe vehicΙe can. The vebicl-c can take in the information e to take in their temp9φ.r.Elo*!ΦionΙηg. ]h9 *9not rcs nature. Youre co be taken awav from rn correc can take going to experien.. th*-union that comes in being able to come together in that way. Ιt,s about maintaining the integrity oΓyour decision-making.

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get to the 6th Line, vre get to the end of the Ρrocess. Sand. Ιt,s the 6th Line more than anyone else that has a role that is ifyou will. Ιt isn,t to say, by the waμ that dre role of fr-iΞΓmore than the obvious. l:ib*ηg!gd, the souΙ mate or not is somehowiupΞrιor Π that sense to any of the any other roles. Remember that t}ιere \λ/e

is no comparison. Each of these roΙes is generic, after all. There are many of us that are this Line or that Line. Ιt is the totaΙity oΓour being and horv that is expressed through our Authoriry dlat determines the uniqueness of the expression oΓwhatever our roΙe happens to be.

L.::k{alρ:ιq"s'Φξ! iΣ Φq.6 &. You realΙy see it the diΙemma for the ο i' th"t-:bgΥiΞη-ψgΦgj9b"jμsfied with just any senraΙiry or any relacionshiP. They learn this very quickly, vrhrch;; in

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The biggest thing to undersιand about these binaries in the expression oΓthese roΙes is to recognize d.ιat in a healthy human being, they fuctuate according ιo the situation. Ι(e,re here to αggΠggcelLe sΡectnrm. Howeveη it,s only when our vehicle is μiding us that rve,re going to be able tΨt!ergφΦ4_

@,andexpressourΡroPerrole.Nowagain,thishasnothingtodowithourbasic Ξ*-"ti.y, thac,sΞl in ιhe EmoiioηaΙ system or ΦSolar Ρlexu'. ιlΙ of Φ€-ΦiΙ9 *Φ and aΙl the aspectΞiE_at go with it are not parc of this.

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is ulιimately going εo be much more satisfying than any sexual bond that,s a slave to

εhe genetic imperative. Ιt,s very difficult for us to come together. \Γe have differenε kinds of auras, and we have differenc Designs. The mind itselΓis so complex Qgly:ylen y9u' enge-ηi.nto t.haτ μηign with. your deep inner at whaε iε does. Ψ.e are here in the meac *3h.ιh+:-Ι9}:99-ιr91g.. Ιt,s a master cοntrol System. Ιt,s briΙΙiant'W.e,re for the ride. Ψ.e,re noε here to be consumed with its dilemmas. here tο experience the phenomena - this incredibΙe moγement thrοugh SΡace' this incredibΙe journey in these fοrms, and this deΙlghε of self refected consciousness. Ψ.e,re noε here to \λ/orry abοut the rent. Ιc,s not what iε,s about. Let the vehicΙe θke care οf business. Leε the vehicΙe express εhe roles. Let the vehicle be this and εhat when it needs to be this and thaε according to its,grasp ofwhat it is to be οn this plane.

You have to understand that your body is highΙy specialized. Your PersonaΙity CrystaΙ has the ΡotenΦ-gfs,l.:iιg!η.qo-β5η. Yet, eacΤEλliJiiliiδil.io a δλe iihe existence, Tliis vδhiclejba! ygu h1Υ9,

εhΞ-δ.,ig., c.r;ι'.ilyoι, h"*, is bu-iΙi6iiE"is ti-9,F"i λF, ;hi;.td" "o*ΞE maiiΞi δΓΙe εiξii?ispΙaylhhi. Unique ness is such magic. Nothing about mechanics is about trying to do or figure out anything from it, This is ΙogicaΙ knowledge . Αnything Ι share with you wiΙlsink in because it is a pattern. For your passengeη iε οpens up the pοssibiliry οf beginning to See a framework and to be able to waεch yourseΙΓrealize that so that you can See your roΙe at rvork on display. Ιε's ιhe γehicΙes life after aΙl.

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εxaaa€ 93ys*x x ε aiq* ga Before Ι get into the mechanics ofwaves

why chere is sexual dysfunction, and how you can teΙΙ. Everμhing about FΙuman Design is for the individuaΙ: you oP9r3te o..μ1.9f y.our own Αuthority to be able to your moγement' and to be abΙe co recognize the |ee gηq,,''.$,;"ci9η thπ !S t'a&ηgplιφ iη ygψ There λre markers along the way, mom9nq9 wh9r9 iq |rygg"ΙΙEcs. Ι call it a signpost because fοr me signpos1s are φa1ks for people in their prδΞess. This is a sign post chat wiΙlvery clearly point at yοur ovrn sexual diΙemma, whatever thaε sexuaΙ dilemma happens to be (which we,lldiscoγer in a moment). Ι want to calk about the nature of sexual dysfunction,

\(e haγe a binary consciousness. This is not something to forgeε' Ψ.e have a very active, and enor.We mously dysfunctional PersonaΙity consciousness. This is who we think \λ/e are. have a very discrete, below the surface, inaccessible γehicuΙar cοnsciousness that we basicaΙΙy ignore. Αnd again, Ι,m speaking of the context of the Not SeΙf. one ofthe mosι important tοoΙ9 !η +.ηιly'i'οf Human Design is the theme or εhe concepε ofconginuity,ind*Li"Ξ.o"ci""η in particuiai l. i, ih.o,,gh Line continuity that \ι,,e can gi",p th. deeper values of the meaning οf any particular acεiγaεion. Ψ.ithin the 384 Lines for exampΙe, 64 of themwill be Firsε Lines. Though they happen to be First Lines in different or unique circumstances given where that acεivation happens to be, the fact that there are First Lines means thac all First Lines share a basic approach. This is their continuiεy. Ιt also means chat ifyouve goι a First Lin9 9yζ[9.5ξ.aηdyo.ιine gδi iτ.i^q!jιi .ι,"i iι.y ι,"u. 1gΙatioyhip to e1ΦΞΞηΨ:,

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s*xιιa}iεγ ΜanιxaX again are the€rιgic_ Ιι is particularly significant to look at the19!91o-u. {*"j9t!ξate' Th;γ back and forth across in different imperative in the S,.,4"C.,,ter to reproduce binΞflroles thatΤe mo-γe

ffiarticu1arcoλfiguration.Tλ"..issomedringreal1yimportanttounderstandhere. LΦejersgnality, ir is naωral for First oΓall, this continoity is very straijhfo.-ard. Ιf youve got a iirst to the λt.-.rkrηgJb9-ΡgsΨ9:fΨΨ. yoor P.r,on"lity 9Φ"

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1/3. You know you,ve got your hoΙisιic nature. You may also have a Third Li,,., 1.* say you re a Line vehicΙe, and the ξhir"d iing=γehicte has a very differeni theme. Ι] his a

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}roksιNowlet,s.ι.lffiToramomencandthinkaboutwhattherevo1utionishere.The ..excuse me, we,re not going to al. rve say

revolutiοn is that we g1ke the p*,,..,g", and the Personality and quite frankly,_yd. useless at it and we're not going to do low you to make decisions ".ry^or."b.cause, ιvhat it means to be Not SeΙf. that. As a matter of fact, you reaΙly screived,p oo, ,", Ιiλ"] Think about Not Self, think about your o\λrn This could be a rather disiurbing,ig,,po,.. τι'inι about what it is to be sοαraΙ dynamic and understand something about it. or pursuing, well chaι,s Again, let,s say you re a I iβ, \(hen your Personality is used to being pursued it,s not there to ,",y ..i. for yoor-Ρer,o,."1ffiot it,s a passenger in-the back seat of your vehicle.. Αnd .Ι,m that,s exacεly what Ι,m going to Pursue .h". o.,., o, Ι *,i, to be pursued by ιhat one, -an{ decide of partner Ι,m going to be going.o do,λd".hat,, e,".dy how Ι,m going to act, and that,s the onΙy kind ιo be the Ρursuer or interested in, Ι,m only going to Γall in 1Ω whe.. Ι see that somebody is either qoing up tn chaι r|lati pursued in..1atio..s(ifto λ.". Think about that. Of course they eld bμt Φφr]q ηot-wbpq.ΦsΙΙg.boΦiq. Ιt,s the physicalbody that,s inγoΙved in

δξΓysical

act of making love.

That is signatures in relationΙ a1ways think about signatures because they are extraordinary things. t,r-!- -L^---^L:^l^ 'htΡ;;;:.γook,'o'',,fu,theyiusιwanttobesρtis.fied.Theyjust\Manttobesadsfiedbutsit,s ;Η;ft;,'..d' to EΞsatisfied. k,s.Ι. *ι,l.t. that needs .h".. Th" Pε9!g:9xbisl9.that vehicle

-._-τ---Ξ.__

love. Ιf it,s thΞΓersοnalicy that,s deciding ;μ"bt"-, because you re igno ring |your vehic.le. . Γ^it,, o.,ly γqΨ,-b=oΦ'thaιL'.--,.-olg' whic!ι o-tbε:.b:qΦ is going to }q c.aξε€g!-for

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life now eφlaining tλe mechanics of this us, this it, this transitional form. to dre surface because no matter You can go deep into the me.λ"ni., of this system, but you come back and interesting ho- -oλ yoo λd.,,.,,,d. or know, it isn t going toJreΙp you.one biι Ιt,s just entertaining knowing or the understanding or the sensing to know and undersrand rhese things. A, , ,i"rri-r of faci, the is only going to be- one that reaΙly the Soth *". ι,-1Ξ.o.i.,Φ .hω d.gl.sig" ξ,-ηgιΙgμε.&EΦψ The momenι that youre talking abouι Υ::-g:: Y|u re talking about 1 *l":.io" |,Τ:::. "boit through oΓobo.rving ,"ι...i,,g Ι have spent 21 years of my

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your role. Αh,

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of mental decision-making. The most difficuΙt tlring on this pΙane is to abandon tΙe homogenization arise,.because it,s noc right. FΙuman beings are deeply ii-,-",,"dl,. it. out of that alΙ kinds of problems and it doesn t carry tλe same value. There is fundamen."Ι.λ.,fli.. there and it doesn,t feel right in the body ,ndersand about them is s". So, rvhen you re looking at these themes, the first thιngio of your programming; continuitv You can relJte the,. to your sun earths. Αfter aΙl, they represent7}o/o

.E9ΦΞ""gΙ

you,regoingcoliveοutyoιΙrro1eon*risplane.Ιfwe

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are going to funcεion correctly, not simply on the sexualpΙane but in terms of the nature of our intimacy,

we have tο discoγer

a

whole neir leγel of connectiviry that ιve have never eΨerienced before.

Eγerything that we ha:e Ιgarηed about

se{"uaΙi"lγ b9Ιqngs'-!9*the oΙc ΖjtΙ gentered being that no

longer

exists, Their Tanιιa=λdanιr:-you know. This is 7th centered, ξ-ψΦ.L.'at.:ιr.*Ι,-, "iι:..ι*gμ.'3l4.y.g-1.-!. qf hi$οΙμ Ιt,s all very nice, but that,s not uS; it is not who we are. \Γe are not here to distort the worΙd through imposing che decision making of our minds and in that, distort our reΙationships, or neγer actuaΙly geε to haγe relationships. You see, Ι am not concefned about what the poor mind is going to do in reaction to aΙl of thaε. You have to understand thaε every-thing-.qb9ut our s:exφ||!Υ.l gγeημhing abo-u1-9*ug ..ε.oι:9P!Σ-sflo:-e".every-!Ιιiug9b9Ψl-o9.r.9oη9:Ρt9.-9{ηlιm1:yj-|-Ι4s-a='-υγ":b:-!.:Ι:.o+.rΙi.y,

in the moment that γou enter into tλe experimen1.o|yog1 1ηη91{ψth-ority, that inner Αu. yoo .o dre correcε thority is going tδ b" ii.d to *h,i ,'iiti. δ.-., of y.λ"r,-.-ψhiΞΙ;:"π;;;ii;i. "iig"' Si6ιΞgy and yΦiqt. it. noiδpθrafrξ?lδraπ;τδ,δui to see Ιf you,re thaι JΙδwJy.δ" tr'g99!'.'rJ;cη.d"Φe Αuthority you re nev€r at the right place ii the righε dme with the right people, it just doesn t happen. Αnd ifyou are, by serendipity, in εhe right place with the right people, you dont even see them. You cannot connect to them because you re up there in your mind trying co live ouε that mental role and turn it into the fesh it is not. Ιfyou re not operating correcdμ you,re noε on the correct trajectory. Ιε means you don,t see properly. Ιt means you don t think properly. Ιt,s onΙy

The assumption based on allof this old conditioningis εhat ifit,s you-r "ΞGili=it going to do its thing? who to be intimate vrith, the 1.φiq.yo-ψg.mind golng to

do-"boit

r. Ιt,s the gLEηψ9Y9tr]lΙ in a sense. Ιt,s watching the watching of the watching. k,s εhe passenser that is going to oΡerate outer Authoroperate through - as oglgιΔuth:Ιthe Ρassenger this. and i"Ξ.itii i,is *e at p",,i"g.,loοking ,t aΙl of this, will have noεhing co do with physicaΙ sexuaΙity. [t,s about che way ity - a role of pursueΙo.r.pu{ιed

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rue unique outer Authority, it couΙd be very Sexy. Ιt would be not about the physicaΙ sexuality. turn oΙι' but ing uniqueΙμ who had

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Physical sexuaΙity is the respons|bility 9f the vehicΙe ; only the vehicle knows what is correct for it, as anothΞ?Τδ?il:-$il*i;egδ"ihiδn'h ;ΙΙ of tλe'e different mechanics, andlve go through the numbers of these mechanics, always lo9k t9.9'\9 Design to se'e physiqaΙlyψhag !s-ne.eded. Look to Y9Ψ-.Φ1{in terms of the way in which you are designed t9 c9-ηgψ-ig$e. k is an intimate communiq+lig.μl the way you Jo"'i ωo- anything ab"n.'ih*.,1ffiλk .h" a\ierage would:ΨΙesJ yΨ,,..μl,. th"t ,",,J. t" "i6Gi"ffi. conceΡt ofwlraτ they.wanιphγs-ica-lΙyis-rnentaΙ. Now ei, ho-"'bii.,g -.;ι'!..!ιιqgσ9lj.εy.ofh"λi"!ψ is that not a jokeΣ To b. nor-al reaΙly is insane. Just think about iε, just imagine what that is 1ike, milΙen.

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nia after miΙlennia.

with the ruΙes of the pasε because ιhey no longer apply. our very fertiΙiεy is being diminished. D"y by day, as vr'e move Γor'αrard to the close of this cycΙe, as we moγe into the next era, humanity-tJ_ itseΙf is secondary in aΙl of fiis. Ιt,s timg for us to be able to.mee-tg!9'o.9-ξr.91!n arvry that i1j-u.9t slηPly c9rΙect for the vehicΙe and correct for the Ρasseng€r. Ιε,s only then that tlιe Ρassenger can begin to experience the beauty of iιs gift: oΦ9l,g able εo watch, being able to ex to communicaεe rather εhan dictating what ιhey want. To experience Ιeiiirιg go of being so disappointe -he, it iilr's o,t_that it,s just not righε. Ιt doesn,t maεter whether you know any of these things: your role, yοur wave, etc. Ιt's important ιo know if your going to teach it, iε,s important to know if your gonna be a professionaΙ but you know that γast majority of human beings who meet FΙuman Design, they don,t need W.e,re here to break the covenant

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sexιιxΙiεr, &{xιtιla} to knοvr any of that. They simply need to experimenι ι,,,ith r.heir Strategy and Αuthoriry because ic will work iεselΓout.

The momenc rhat you real1y have a decision making pΙocess εΙrac is orienting yοu legitimacely and correctly towards the otheη you,re going to haγe a αansformaεion in the way your relationships operaεe.

Ιfyou,re1ookingfoη,s1gη!qs!abouturhed-reryou,,.@οrnοt,yοujustgotone.Take loοk and see: lοok at your PersQnalitμ lοοk aε εhe Line. Ιs thaι vrhac drives yo,i Ι..ΦegΦ,t *Φ:J9, --_-.----_---__].-

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make your move ? Yοu get to see it, aniΓthe moment that yοu begin co see thaΓyou are ready tο meec dre your γehicΙ.e. Ιc would like to have a vrοnderfulphysicat e4perience. Ιc r,αould.like ιo have somebody rhπ it can communicaεe εo rηridrouc an agenda. Ιε,s οnly through the vehicle that you can ιruly

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get tο experience the beauty of what εhe passenger can become. Ιι,s εhe body that m1ξ1!9.re, buι iε,s1he

passengerιhaεcancοmmunicate.TheseΡersona1iιyCrysta1sarere@ey,vebeen

,

been in a 1oι of bodies.

'ΤV.aγe

Resοnance

Ι lοve the waves. The

->

6ιh Gate is one

of those Gaεes εhat yoo ,.ii[δiiΞ-,p..,d. a Ιifetime οn, intelleccually. Ιt,s the very sοurce oΓvrhaε ιηre caΙl the Emotionalurave. t. /As ιhe source ojthe Emotional waγe, it is I che source oΓ pleasure and pain. Ιι is εhe .

i\

source orΦ jo.lηψ .""sΨηllrt

iη planet. ιhe EmoιionaΙ environment. and the Solar Plexus motor aε ιvork. Ιε is εhe <6th "---"% Gaεe thaε is εhe root οf thaι mocor. Ιt is ouε of the 6εh Gare rhaι εhe Emocional sffeams

passffi ;Γ"ea;;dof

They are alΙ nurιured anξrown here out δ.Γ the 6th Gaεe. The εhing that is so interescing about the 6th Gace is this opening aι{ cΙosing.. Biolοgicξ i,} -and it,s connected - to the abiliry εo absoΦ εo ιake in οr noΕ.

.:ΨgΦlιξFΙ

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The 59th Gate in a sense is - and please dοn,ι misunderstand me in fiis - Yang and che 6ι! Gate is Yin,. and ιhe Υ-irr carries aΙlthe , and tΕi9εh GateElways abouι εhis imperaεive, andvre've got ιo fulfillthis imperative.

power.

Τ(aγe Resοnances

\Γheιhe r you,re a male with the idiosyncrasies oΓ rhe maΙe drive or you,re a female vrith the idiosyncrasies of Lilrc Ι - The V?γc clΓ\Χrcakness / Sιrcngιh εhe female drive ic remains the same, the imperative is Line 2 - fhe s7aγe οfΑdγance / Υ/iιhdrarηraΙ driving you, the clock is ticking, So iι,s alvrays on, in a ,Ιhc Line 3 . Y/aγe οf Λllcgiance /,Rejectiοn sense. On ιhe other side of fiac, dre 6d-ι Gate says, .. Line 4 - lΙhe si?,ve ιrf Κindrress i lν{eanness FΙ.y,jlq-9P9*g1-o,!!gΦ,l This is sοmething Yery .Ιhe differenι. obviously iι carries po\,/.er with iε. Th". Line 5 $(br,e οf Selflessness / Selfishness o.penΦ or There is a Line 6 - The \ihν-e οΓSympathy / Αpaιhy piranha chac grows in thac Se nse or immerges οuι οΓthe 6th Gate. This is the source of the vraγes, and ιhe .ιvaγes have a quality. Those qualiιies rhrough continuity

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Αs Ι go through εhese waves, keep in mind that we,re looking at tvro ιhings. Ιt is very importanε to create this division. Through the genedc continuity, we,re always going to be able to aΙign this information

toοurProfiΙe.ButinaligningittotheProfile\λ/eηLg:.μ:-D-9:

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sign is '. |:l':Ψ.iq,j'}φ.ιcs"d.*o.uι:"t way outer Authority oPeraιes. These are two very different εhings. Thδ morrten.you ηιg:ggay.fJΞm .hΞ.

ggdpιΦ=η., 4ΦtιtrΦφ"":g9{ΦΦds:i:,,gιξΦ'Ξgρ.{Φgιg,Ψ!iry,

it-gP!ψΨlΦq

sibiliry for it to reaΙΙy live out its iΓa'E, or resonaΙtce. Ιn fact that,s what it is: resonance. So let,s take

\Τ,a\,e Resοn*nce The ΤΓaι,e οf Strεrrgth and Ψreakness The lst Line has a \p,ave oΓweakness and strength. So think about

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berthatwe,renotgoingtothinkaboutsexinthiscontext.[notherwffimakinga

decision or being able to make a decision abouι this or tλat reΙative to relationship or tλe other. This is qleτsonaΙity that is not in the This b ιL:εg}g]ΙΙ:bιιiιγ*-.,}Ιg. Αnd dre

Pe

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r Authoriiy.TΓo," Authoffi-ΤG;\"eTd*. k"o," ΓΜ; i1-,,α Fi,;; Lines are

very important to us, they represent the fou.ηζla!Φ[ι. the basics. This is aboutinαοφectioΙt, iιv.esεigatior.r', alΙ of these basic First Line themes. Ψ.e aΙso know they,re very ig.ι.5-e,9grg--And what we know about this

parεicularwave is that''og-g:i^gιΦiι31.Ψd,.-Ψll feelsπongandbe reaΦ!g.gxPre!S. its οugegaA..qtho.rityand sΨ-eg.!ιg:.-ψ is goingto beweak aηd η9g'.be abΙe to express its outerΑufro$jy. The moment that you relate this to menεal outer Αuthoriεy is the moment that you really begin to itt about. Ψ.hen you Ρuε all this together in the context of sexuality this is the way che. PeΙsonaΙity is going to be ready to commψj93g35l--th9 other. This is noc about.s-eΙ: Lis.gbρ-ιε-}.fol. on the c, a;frii:ffifi"d;;;J;, d"ilhi' l ,,"...=.@:, about the outer Αuthority. Soηetimes this Ρe::gΨ!i:Li''*gι-8g1ιg:o;ft9!gl-9.a&9-ι"o-ugb=-ι'9"*'9=ψg[iψr SoΦffiTΓis going to b",J.y't.oιε an{.ε=u,-,5-**,...n9gpg.εtΙep:.a.'re'dιΦ.q--Ψ!l obΨry4:ggs.fuΦ9::9:LΙ9*1c-9Ψξ [n other words this is not something that,s fixed on either this or understand what

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ι i-oraft@ΙiwilΙdependδnthecodffrai'ion.-But$erea1ityisthat.&-ε

ffi

ffiπ;'toseeisthatit,snotaboutthesexuaΙact;it,snotaboutthe.physical

contact

aε alΙ.

Now let,s say thac the First Line is youιΡ:sl€L-So, for examlrle, Ι'm a-5/L So if Ι,m Ιοoking aε that First.tiηιs in terms oΓmy Design it,s very clear. Someεimes physicalΙγ,Ι feeΙ very week. Sometimes Ι feeΙ sffong. You don't have to be a rocket scientisc to figure these things out. The thing to recognize about it is that weakness or strength, ic doesn,t make a difference which one it is. Those things onΙy make a difi|bryou re gΡgΙlliηg gut of ence if the mind is trying to figure out which one is right in a given situation. -Ιf your Strate gy and Authoricy, your vehicle sexualt, ys gρ'!gΨ !9γΞξJLΦ lΨg!aΦ.ηΙ' sιrong. ΙcΞ gοing to be connected to the role.

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You,re looking at my Design, and you can see that my vehicΙe is either pursuing or being pursued. And in being che Pursueη it may be ιveak. Ιn οther words, Σ99JΨι4 b..p-ψηρμiη€'qut ofweaJ
are alΙ the

'ψi*gg]ιtg:gφ'*η.9!-b9-Ψ€Ρ-Ψry9ιd-o-g.t.q|ry91ξηg.s-q combinations. That,s che best description of εhe way in which myvehicle wiΙΙ operate sexuaΙly. You can see that in different encountefs there wiΙl be different combinations: in certain encounters, Ι wiΙl be the weak .W.e,re realΙy cool creatures after all. being pursed. These are alΙ just physical roΙes that change.

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Ι,m a great admirer ofwhat it is to be in one of these incredible things. Look at the complexicy of iι just look at that combination of the four different possibilities and the way they can fit together. Ιmagine trying to figure that out mentalΙy. Υou might as weΙlmasturbate' Ιt,s not the way that it works. The way that it works is that in different situations you are going to meet the other in a specific *ay. Ιt wiΙ[7ffiμ t' what's going b on, and all of that is roorcd in your inner Authoricy. Ιt,s only ),our inΙrer Aι4rqrity that kno}vs_which qn"e of those aspects is really for you. The moment that you undersii?rtΓilπ, and ιhe moment that you stand

histhateveri..teresdng,,.Ιε,snotjustaboutyoursexua11oversor1oγeη it,s about ι.he wayyou meet anyone intimately. You need to let go in order to see the potentiaΙ that is there in your vehicle. Ιt,s not limited to one particuΙar approach. Ιt has alΙ of these γarious pοssibilities. The fact that it might change from beingweak to strong, that,s noc a handicaΡ or a problem. That,s nοt something you have io ,o,. to a therapist over and it,s not somethingyou have to worry about. Ιt,s you. Αnd ifyoιire correct, εhere are situations where it,s a lot more fun to be weak than it is to be sffong. The process of making life is amazing; it,s why human beings are so messed up. ΑΙΙ of our minds are locked inio their false resonance to the sexualwaves, the sexuaΙ roles in d-ιe assumption that that,s ι,hat ..Look, your mind is they,re supposed to be and they,re noε. But nobody ever taught us. Nobody ever said, ,ery,'i.e, ii,s very slλ/eet but please dont make decisions with it." Nobody ever said that to anβody. This is rrew on this plane. \Γe are here to live out our possibility and it,s very selfish. To be correcζ we need to have enlightened selfishness. Ιt doesn,t mean d.ιat you are going to go withouζ it doesn t mean ιhat you re not going to have. You know which are ιhe bonds in your life that are αuly woπhy of you. Ιι means the

within you. Ιn foΙΙowing that Auιhoriψ you wiΙlLine your vehicle to what is correct for you physicalΙy and what is correct for you in terms oΓthe way in whιch you are here to meet εhe other physically. None of this is a mind crick: Ιt is a body αick.

Authority to enter into

alΙ of that is

αick

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-}

is over because the physicaΙ contact has its

coΙnmunrcatlon. UΙt Γtouches our So ; tne quaΙltY ot ιne-egmmunιcaιlon ΙS faf mofc ΙΙΙιΡυιιalΙι ιrraι aΙιy PrryδιL4r ι,ιJΙtu νιl4 bond spans across th Ι. ιe no reason. The momenι ri chaι the mind interferes with both inner and outer Authority everything is a lie. Ψ,hat you \ηrant in your Ιife physically is a lie. ΙΓhat you say to your Partner before, during, and after is a lie. You knovr iεs time to change thaε. And it begins Ιike everyching in this knowledge. Ιt begins with recognizing that ifvou c?ιrno9 ug: from the most basic,p!ρj9a[.!eve.!yo the form,yg" ."" -honor ""Ψ. ΦlfiΙl -"J ess ; you can see this alignment as i t wffi ;τhΞ -*t'piιit.'t]ΞΓlA.l,*.Ξ Ι am shorvinffio εhi.,g' in isolacion in order to explain them to you, but εhere are manyvariations *.' .W.e "Ρ. have many activations, as you will See aS we go through alΙ of this Ρfocess, tλereis and many asΡects. an enormous amount of sexuaΙ information in all of us. But again, mastering aΙl that knowledge ιγould not help you in finding

a gοod

Parmer.

The'W.ave οf Advance and W,ithdrawaΙ Think about it intelΙectuaΙly. Think about it from the point ofγieiv of the mind as an outer Author. iry. This can be very powerful. The outer Authority that,s lvithdrawn is a mind that is realΙy held back. Ιt,s

ojlg

qΦψs, ιhey,re really readΙgsomι&ggαd So very to share with a Ιons time to be abΙe to share what they often, so rr-- vrant ' - r-,---;7ιt you ng, ιtyou you know a human belng, ιate. but it does come out. Ιt vou intimate, lbc{*loveη with their Γriend, with their

i' thπ their Personality

r6

needs to draw back.

Sexιa1iιv λ,Ιιιlrιl'll. lnιerr:iιiοlιi }'Ιιun:n Ι}esigι S;ilοιli Ιl; l"irι Flu nli R]glιιs RtlervcJ {-opvιi*λι.iοvia* Λι;llii,e 2(} ii }

}i,*xaεlεi *lx*xi

5exιaaX Sγs{e*xx

..why

knowyourself, you don,t haγe to be punished because the other is saying εo you, aren,t you calking to me, why aren,ι...,,. Ιt,s not the right dme. Yet at the same εime when you See this in the γehicle you see so cΙearly what this is. You see it in the body. And you see very cleaξ that anybody that carries the Second Line at the Design |eνe|(6/ 2,s and 5/2's) is going to be physicaΙly removed. Ιn other words, yοu,re going to *,*,.ξηψΙiy=! i| a=tty.'-*-

There are loω of peopΙe that wiΙlnot be abΙe ιo gain access to you and there wilΙ be certain peopΙe who will. Ιt doesn,t mean you,ve got a problem. Ιt doesn,t mean that you need to dealwith your shyness. Ιt has nothing to do with any of that. Ιt,s about understanding that we haγe these compΙexities. Ιt also says thac we haνe 4 different kinds of reΙadongl-ιps. One of εhe more interesting invescigations that yοu can

takeinyo,rpro@πsofpeopΙeinyourlifeandpeδple'whohavebeenthrough

yourΙife,istoseedrattherearecombinations.Understandth"t@aveverydiftrent

E

'W,e,re meant qg Ξap]ΓTililh"i ηq1qιιq-ηqηlP:-Y:!h di&ιg.n,:-Peφ,ι9. b9 ,},y'ιsally.diE-.,.η! nothing to do with the way our mind rvorks. As you go deeper into this Ρrocess you become more sensi-

tive and vou be sin εo recog.nize when y'991b'ody !9 φj.e.1t!n€ o-ιb*9{.s:"y'bsη.y9".ιb-oΦgΨ!-ι9*&|Φι9 the situaιion. y;;.

.fo,

*Ξffi'.

fo:;r.πdπθff;;$;"k;"

i;;L;;;;;δ

haγe set ways in which we meet the other.

i-η.

';;;i;i";;ω;.h;;;t.';p;.;.*

Α Ιot ofjeaiousy comes out of such things' Take

a comment like, ".s7.hy are you like εhat with that Person and you re not like that with me,, as an example. This often arises in families in reΙationships between Ρarents and chiΙdren, specificalΙy with one on one relationship where the different way the combination'works arise.

tfogιε:bιp*:agι-..l'-μ ρψ ιq4h-g1ψ ιL.

,p*iffi

2-'9gt,b-9g1μse ic is aΙways waiting for a calΙ, you m1y end

.li-ηti-qii-[i;-1dJ=f

.9ΨΙgy.λ.,d.,obδdiffi thδii-iξΤtmπa;

iΞi-iΓg-chis Person in fuΙl action, wouΙd eγer assιΙme that somehow theywere shy andwithdrawn. Yeε, with somebody else they may get just dre withdrawn shyness. They can give offa sense chaε nobody can geε in there. Of course this is where the prοblem arises. Ιmagine you,re a parent and you have a child Ιike εhis and you onΙy connect to this chiΙd through the withdrawn shyness. Are you ever going co put that child through helΙ! tying to get them εo oΡen uΡ sociaΙly and be invoΙved and alΙ that is going εo be a huge

sπuggle. That is all homogenized, desιruccive crap. Ιt,s a reaΙ difference when you think about this -mencalΙy andyou think about.ιilp-by:":9{ly. This is the difference between the Personalitv and che Desisns. .\Ψ.ave

οfΑllegiancε and Rejectiοn Think about this physicaΙly to begin with. Ιmagine youre dealingwiεh any of the 6/3,s or the 1/3,s. This is tλe waγe of aΙ19gbΙ99gskιd!,go Υou know this roΙe of bonds made and bιffl. Yoo.,,Ξ The

thatthesearevehiclesthatareheΙplessinthat.@[..:γah*1Lξ,1Υ9.f3lkg=,i".:x"{ .999!ΦγΦ-11ιo": e1..Φ.-ylι-.s:;ψd-!1ylll b-..ligi3. L,"ilΙ

be coriectiΓthey,Ι.e':-9ι{-9lt.Yet,

ΙiiΤa

icle ιhat is not design clto maintain continualΙy Ψith Φe salrre^Elig. [t ι::eιυ.j::elΙ can be deeoΙv promiscuous r becauseofthat.ThinkaboutwhatthatisinιermsoΓιηrhenitistheaΙΙegiaηcet@ oξgtιΦ,_ρ:5Lyrhgl ιbqggj:.:ι-t's:9j9.9!:91*:Le and you can be enormously uncomfortable.

,.@aγe

to deal with that, they

1/3 Generators are designed to realΙy look into themselves and dig into themseΙγes. The |/3 Generacor mind can 8o crazΥ trying tο fix themseΙγes. These are the people that *9μ-{gp_Φ:s.ilεΦgμs.Φe.'

c9j9Ιgξ!fΨ:[ψιξ:.-:y:: ιhsy. ιbηL.-b.-Φ.*. j.!trs.εjΦ:bι,Ψgqdρ. Φr φη, HofiδΞ,; ;ΙΙ;bout just the basics - Sffategy and Αuthority.

Ιε is incredibΙy {9g1.15gv-9;9

You

\λ/ant

to be heaΙεhy by us-

ing Strategy and Authority. Υou wanε to connect εo the right peopΙe regardless ofwhat che connection is about then do so t}ιrough your Authority.

'{e:ι:iiiιγ }'{;:::ι::l1. 1:lιtr::a:i.:lι::j 11ι:α..'ll Ι].:.ιiι;: Sιj:oο] lξ: l;ιι; lJ* i,lΙ Ιt'igilιs iζ:..eιγ;.J {.,οprιlqΙ:ι'lι:vi:l β.:ιiiγε jl]iιj

t7

Sexιaaiiεγ &danua} This is the great gift of this knowΙedge; it gives us a vΙay to be abΙe to connect εo vrhat is the most profound a\Mareness we haγe for navigating in the Maia. The wonderfuΙ thing about the truth is that most people never ger it. To be homogenized, to live your life according to your mind's dictations, is not only a horror but its aΙso deepΙy addicdγe. The addiction is constandy reinforced and there is no \λ/ay out for most of these beings, Ι mean there is no \ηray out. Ι thank my lucξ stars every day; it is an incredibΙe privilege tobe abletohaγe awaytonavigate ondrisplane*ratisn,tfilΙedwithalΙkindsofmumbojumbo. Ιt,s just a straight, Ρure, clean, mechanicaΙ truth. Anβody can figure that out, aΙΙ they need to do is αy it. And the thing ιo recognize is that if you honor that, if you trust it, you will see that it will deΙiver something that is enιirely new that,s you. Adulω have to go through 7 years of de-conditioning to get aΙl the crap out but the thing is εhat itb worth ιhe journey. Ιt,s worth the journey to be able to connect to the right human beings in your life. Ιt,s worth ιhe journey to know vrho NoT to connect to. Ιt is vrorth the journey to discover what your mind can be, instead of it being ιhe bad guμ instead of it being dre great desαuctive force in your life. Just see how rich and beautifuΙ it is, because it is this unique potential . your unique outer Authority. This is something that can only emerge when the vehicle lives the Ιife and the passenger goes aΙong for the ride.

tJpper T}igram }Γaγe Resonance

Ψ'henever we moYe into rvhat i, th" Lhp.'Ξig'"!g, we,re aΙways dealing widl the ffansfer:grι1!:L*ig9 i9i:ιι99J.a naval gazer. JΦψ.hjy-.-:l..1y1iyπion, or a Channel that is the First, Second

τf ffis'9Φ!g jilΞ{ζ'.tΤffi

;ffi

-o'r,Third

"iδ.λo-δ".yo"h";;a@,-

ouε what,s on ιhe other side. checkins re really Ιooking across ιhe Channel, thev,re J *-*_ itionins. as a matεer of facc.

or Sixth Lines

The.Ψaγe οf Kindness and Meanness Ι7hen we,re dealing with a four we,re deaΙing with a \λ/ave of kindness-meanness. Now of course, that,s εhe role of the confidaηt-oη-ηgtl e very difficuΙt role by the way. And when Ι say that, don,t start suffering, Ι just mδn1hat in the sense that sexually can be difficuΙι Ιts only realΙy dificult sexually if it is d πies to Ιi,. it the PersonaΙiry th,t-tb,ηk, th"ι ιt,''"ppo'. '_'"ffi is rs is in iω life. The fact that d-ιis brotherΙiοod-sisterhood brotherhοod-srsterhood and these are to set some kind of sexualcontact # -€---'a--_'. in AndoneoΓthet.hingstosee isthatiΓyoure aL/4,asaπ that are r-goted rgotedinfrien&hlpΦι:g .φ|ationships ιelationshipsthatare '
a

deep part

thew,aγe-..,t.rna1izeand,influenceeachotherwith.Youdotham.Youremean

of

in urhiih aΙlcon. offeeling guiΙty or upseι or concerned- dlat,

.o-h-ygoodnξTatwasn,tth@tλem,,,rea|izeιhatiΓyoureoperatingaccordingtο

your Strategy and Authority, there is no morality. Ι am not a moraΙist, Ι,m a duaΙist, and those two things just dont mix. There,s this, there,s that, and there,s the odιer and its always there and it,s always possible .Ψbagqy9ιΙ9Ι1-dρ-.Φ! and εhere,s nothing good, nothing bad. There is onΙy corfectness.

.'.

lq

it,syour thing. matrer whar everybody thinks: fuck what everybody thinks!

-qg:::..&ΙJo", . lt lρcsιι-=t

Human beings are never going to be abΙe to Ιove themselves untiΙ they surrender to Ιoving themseΙγes. 18

Sεxualiιl,iι1:.nιιaΙ. Ιnιe:naεicr:ιi ll*nlan Ι)esign S;]:οοi .Α'il Ι{'jgiιs F.eselγeιi (,ιp-vrigirι'iοvi:ln Αιcλiyc 2i} lιl

ll; l-iιu }.lα

Ε xτx*>ε*q}xaai 5 *xaιx€

$ivg*cxat

This is such a touchy piece of business when your mind is ruining your Ιife. You Ιook in the mirror and you,re already a Ιoser because your mind fights you with its comparison game. "Oh, we should do this and we need εo get that, we better get this if rve,re going to do εhatj, and aΙl that sruff You can,t be unique and noε love yourself. PΙease understand εhat Ιove vourseΙΓbecause . Αnd that,s not hyperboΙe, it,s uni means: no This is what,s possibΙe for us, to be unlike anything eΙse, to Ιive by our own code. To live by our own truth and damn the consequences. Ιf yοuve got the Design to be the vilΙage asshole then be tλe village asshole and loγe it! Ιt,s your perfection. Ιt,s your beauty. And thaι role wilΙ bringvalue because iε,s your roΙe.

The }fave οf Selflessngss anεlSεΙ&shness ..you Ψ.e have alΙ thιs judgment that the PersonaΙicy builds up in the homogenized rvorΙd about, have to be this, you have to be thaζ you have to do this, yοu have to do that,,. Ιt doesn,t mean anything. Ιt,s just the same old crap being re-circulated. To be unique, and to be yourselξ and to oΡerate according to that Authoricy. to watch your movie . is to see the beauty of a process and its intricacy. Υou can see what it means to Ιive a Ιife without resisιance. W.e,re so weighed down in this Ιife, this materialplane. 'W.e,re car. rying this;;*"""J ,i'a t*Ξiifop oo, brains -*ith aΙl tλat garbage, instead of siπing back. Look out the window, Ψ hJfu η1gμe : it,s such a ride. No burden. No resΡonsibiΙiry. W.e have the Γreedom to see untike S elfl esiness and selfi shn.,,.

ffif,...,:

",yo..Ξil

The thing about rvhat it is to be is that it is what it is. Υou don,t haγe to dnker with it, or tamper with ..oh it, you don t have to wish my goodness Ι wish Ι had that colored in and could not have that,,. AΙl those things drive human beings mad. The joy is in just getting to see what it is reaΙly like to be you. These are aΙ operating in combinations and again, are going tο be very different if they are coming from ιhe Passenger side or their coming frοm the vehicle side. Any of those combinations wilΙ operate at any given momenε.

i[iδse

coil6inaiiδni. The moment you begin t6 notiΞe ihi', the -δλe"iyou

actuaΙΙy h"ve iΙie

sit back and watch this movie, you realize how fascinating it is. Ψ.haε you get εo see i,

ι,i:-::ιΦ y-bΦpgΦ".

.,p"city

co

Φgbsgιbrιeqlqηs

You begin εo see ho.w differgnt thgse.p9opΙe are for yοu and rvΙrat you m€.aη tοthem. Ιt is one of the ways in which you meet ιhe other. There are so many people who uy to get themiΞ.l"o'fi".d into a certainway of approaching the other. That,s not what -.,i. *bo,t. The oιher fascinating thing about this combination of the four is that it points to how prοfound the sociaΙ mechanism is for us. Ιn other words, horv important our sociaΙ comml.ιηities are. Given that we are

designed to be abΙe to funcιion reΙaεiγe to

oεEΞrs*J;ifi;.;"';.;h".;;?;;; Jiff...,,. combinations

are

there to underscand thaι we,re designed to dealwith different kinds of people. \Γe,re here to make εhose connecdons with them. Not aΙl ofthem have to be sexual, obviously. But, this is about the whoΙe intimacy Ρrocess, the whole meeεing of the other. See, what Ι wait for in my ov/n Process is the growth of outer Αuthority. Ι spent years doing the mental negative. Teaching people that th.e-τnind::-b.qdfo. them and p.ointing t.hem a1 gheir inner Authority and after aΙl of these years, iε,s time now to bring out the otheιside*Αnd to bring ouι ιhe other side for those dlat are deep in this Ρrocess, to see that mind isn t somethingyou chrow away. Mind isn,t something ..ah, thaε you say, this is no good,,, Ιt,s just no good at making decisions, that\ aΙl. Ιt,s no good in making decisiοns, but it,s greaε at research..*.

.i;r:;i]:ι iνia:;ιι:], l.:ι i-]rι;

l'Jl

Α.li lligi:::

iη:r::}1.i1;:]:ii l.iι:ι::l:: i.}ι:ri1ι

i:ilυιli

ll'ιιl;ιιJ {ι1:lllgi:'lι:r:1]. -ξiii;r:

:.:]ιι,

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Sexιla}itγ Μanιιal Miηd.hasitsvalue.ΙtisonΙywhenwebegintounderstandthatasanΦceSS,

that rve can enhance our leγeΙ of communι:Φgη. PossibΙy the greatest achievement human beingsΞver

hadwasth"Ξφandedoo,"6ihtytobeabletocommιΙnicatedevery personaΙ

toEΞGiΤilQersonal.

.o,". .h". in the

nature ofrvhat it is for us to be nine centered beings. The nature of our dilemma is in being a binary consciousness in which the Personaliry has been ."-ι"g over resDonsibiliw Γor our liΓe to vehicular l Playrng a double role and is distorted our Ρrocess "*' '-" Ι7.e have

*lΦ9!Ι!&1ρ1ΦEgl1ι

Jtr-gΨ€εt€ιcs

oΨι-.yι'l_γ-a1:"t{Ιb-γ!..ηogΨιglt"ηt,

other.

You can haYe

see that just as we haγe

f9Ιr diffeΞnι iιEhjch )IayJ

o

r" Φ. γηy Φ

ΦΦvrg cogιΨΨΨgggg

four different ways in which our body movesgr accepω the otheη vre

,Γo oλi,,a,

aren,t designed ιo deΙiver their ouιer Authority in one fixed vray either. They have a complexity that is go-

ing to be exacdy correct given that the inner Αuεhority has brought them to tλat pΙace of communication. Then they,ll get what they get. Ιt,ll depend who,s in your face. k,Ιl depend on what that outer Authority is going to eΨress and who it,s e4pressing to; in which way its going to come out or noι

communication . this is what Ι do with my Ιife. Ι try to communicate essential truths to other human beings and Ι don,t just do thatwhen Ι,m teaching- i,mverysιraight Γorward inwhat Ι express. Ι don,t have the mappings of the mandala agenda anymore; it,s a long time since my mind had anμhing to do with being Ra Uru FΙu.'W.e,re here to experience a newkind ofcommunication. Α kind οfcommunication drat isn't about winnins or losins or bei Ιt isn t Ιts

P.9Ψ!ifΙ*$Φμtφ

aboutstrategies,it,snotaboutagendas.Ιt,sabout.Φ::::::_r"*":g:g

ofouterAuthority in the same way that Ι think about awolfhowling. Ιt is essentialfor alΙ life ..Ι,m ..Ι,m demand. to say, here.,,And in our case, here and this is what Ι see." None of us want to be in a world where everybody sees the same thing. This is our .Where homogenized ι,rorΙd. everybody is Ιocked into homogenized paεterns in the duality: the ones who Ι think

. and the more comΡlex the life, and the greater the

beΙieγe and the ones who don,t belieγe, the ones who do d-ιis, the ones rγho don,t, you knovr all that sπff Know it,s about being in a world vrhere there,s a possibiliεy that you can meet unique outer Authority. Ιt,s

entertaining, it,s interesdng, it,s stimulating and it,s what the passenger loves; its what turns them on.

Τhe $[raγe οf Sympathy and Apathy

γ"".", j"$,-qΙl thg b But it,s not about judgingyoursel{, and iω not about SΦng from the menεal plane, "Ι shouΙd be this way or Ι should be that way." Ιt,s about knowing that these are themes that are there within you, they,re εhere and they wilΙ come out as drey shouΙd, as long as you,re operating correcdy. This is the story. sjΨ/ΦfuncΦn. The Personaliεy ιries ιo pΙay ouε tlre role driven by cheboΞiΞo**".ΤΤh". iiiι,i..ιiil,r;;ra -,iΤυ.gi""i"g a".i;i ffi;;m*.E;Γ""*-

This is the movie about wave and demands that εhe a

*.,.h

ouε physicalΙy co the other in

way that is correct. Then we can experience what is possible for us in physicaΙ union.

Αι

the same time,

vre can have the unique experience of being able to share our seΙγes.

Frequency and Ψ.aγes: Τhe Ups and the Dοwns

Thus far in this journey we haγe looked at the 59/6 ιnd at the basic infrastructure chat is there in terms ofgenetic imperatiγe. W.e have Ιooked at the waγe function and the way in which che wave function 20

Sεxualirv ]ιianuai. Ιαιe:natiοnal l{α:l:an Desigπ ScΙlοιli R; Urr F"l* Αi} Ιt'igλιs Rtserveιi {,οpvriglrι.bv!:rt Αιτhiγε 2i:1Ο

l<-

Εxra*tiεlxtaΙ

sεxιιai Sγsε*xx

and genetic imperative work togetheη the way that influences us in terms oΓgenetic continuity, and the way that it affects us in ιerms of our ProfiΙe. \Γe began by Ιooking at the SacraΙ Centeη and at the basic reproductive Ρrogram. Ιn otλerwords, rγe are Ιooking at reproduction at the bioΙogicalleγel.

Reproduction at the bioΙogicaΙ leveΙ is one thing, buι the Γact that you are reproductive doesn,t meaΙl .When that you re sery. \Me are looking at what is in fact t,he sexuaΙ system, \Me afe looking at this combina.We,re looking at the imperative that is there in the Sacral Center that drives εhe whoΙe process, and tion. accuaΙly πaps us. Αctually what reaΙly makes it work, what makes human beings gaga and dumb and do the most horrendous things, the most ridiculous things, dre silΙiest things is the SoΙar Plexus center. Ι,m a great fan of the Solar Plexus, and it,s taken me a Ιong time in my Process to gec there because Ι haγe an undefined SoΙar ΡΙexus system. Let,s eΙiminate all the EmotionalpeopΙe and that will be ιhe end oΓiι Ιf we got rid of the SoΙar PΙexus it would be very boring and duΙl. As a matter of fact, we wouΙd Ιose our humanness.

1h9-s9bΙΞΙ9Ιμscenterisanabsolutelyincredib1ething.Ι.i'.ΦΙcisthegreat

rising forcj. As iε becomes a greater force, ic begins to exΡress its undeΦng awareness potenciaΙ and iεs moror funcrion begins to diminish, ultimarely we're going ro see rhe evolurion ofwhat this third awareness is acπalΙy aΙl about. Now, some of us, to sοme degree or anotheη εhat are righι minded particularΙy on εhe PersonaΙiιy side have εhe ability to get some of the favor ofwhat is going ιo arise out of that system. Ιt,s realΙy important to understand that the Solar PΙexus is vrhat makes us human. You Ιook at alΙ of the of ihΞΞther fdirnΠ;diri;S;Εi?1e**iiiiλpΙy missing. That is, other specie,s Designs, you Ιook at "lΙ this is something thaε is an essentiaΙ instrument to our human Ρrocess and what vre know about the Solar Plexus is bΙinded. The Solar Plexus acωaΙly has a bad pubΙicity department. Because the whole thing that v/e get to See out of the Solar PΙexus, \Me gec to see the motor wave . makes the emotional system stand out is the motor vraYe. lt r:y[1ψ9ξ9ι-eιn.ρ-ιi,o.naΙ.P.e-9plι:.e'.e.gΙ-

.W.hat

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they neveη seem to be in εξe sιμgdac-e,-ιJιψ.nαvsrseem.ιoJο-οLμ-Φiιgε-ιl-ιss-al]-xβ--Ψa'y,' Theγμ9v9r Σeem to reacμ. aboιιt ghe same rhings in the same way. They are always in some kind of a movement.

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ing abΙe to consistenΦ Ρo. a Γrequency into somebody eΙse, and then you look at the way the SοΙar Plexus motor function operates, that is this rise and faΙl, you can begin to see the way in which it:-*::ιe99Ιgg

uncertaintY and consistency in the world around

iι

Ιt is the Solar Plexus center that is our ceξ9q'ofp]gaψ:e. Ι wanι you to think about that because it,s

very interesting to undersand. Ιf it weren,t for the SoΙar PΙexus system, we would nοt haγe pΙeasure or .W.haε n. Αnd we call pt."'",qil Ψ!9η- . pain. This is an inιeresting concept to think about. what we caΙl pain is being sεuck in the dovrn. Ιn fact, our whole cοnceΡt of pain and pΙeasure actually

dοesntreaΙ1ynguagethatwasdevelopedoutoΓexperiencingthemotor

funcιion of the Solar Plexus system. Because we,re dealing with this up and down the generaΙ pre ference is ιo be up. Ψ.e are wired to seek pleasure. Αnd so the emotionaΙ system becomes this beacon ofpossibiΙiry, r}ιis beacon ofpossibility to be able to find pleasure, and εo receive pleasure. Αfter alΙ, one of ιhe great gifts of εhe emotionaΙly endowed is that they can be very pleasanε beings. They can make everybody feel rather good. They can also, of course, make everybody feeΙ terrible. Ιt is '!;xι'..i

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The Solar Plexus system breeds the blame game. Take for instance that you,ve got an emoεionaΙ partner and they wake up and they,re dovrn in their vrave because that,s their chemistry and iι is immediateΙy interpreted as a problem in the reΙationship. So the emotional system is something that makes our sexuality deeplμ deeply complex. Ιt creates a great deaΙ for the up.

οf inconsistency in the way in which sexuaξ we are going to relate to each other because it,s always being driγen through the up and down. There exists no plain, fat stable sexual relationship.

Now again, ι.here are those who would say that if it was just stabΙe life wouΙdnt be very interesεing. But then again, it depends on whaι your priorities are.'W.e,re at the end of our reproductive potential as a species. This is the end of the road for aΙΙ of that. So the fact is that this is something that slowly, in ιhat sense, is breaking down. Ιt is something to keep in mind, that there,s a sμeat change takiηg p

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The Rοοt: Fixers

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39,the41' These are fixers. They,re alwaystryinμo ξ!ιe \λ/ave at the οther end. Thevg1ryξgqo,Q9!ιis aΙ\λ/ays aΙways from EΙle the Λ'oοι Root ΙS ;r.6; nrs i, rS tne th pressure rrom ΕΙιe ΙιooE. Ιne Ρressure ;.ilΓΓEΦ-re qryt"eφl*-L it in. ]his .-l:\'Ξ# it,s safe, so it wont go this vray or rrnΙiΓιt dΞE so iι, m rnt'9 inti_aa nxe<ι'p!lge. fiΓed olace. f,τΓdτ.affiso ciflng to lock the emotiona ιhat way or wherever it is, that,s the pΙace they want it to be. Coming from the Root is always this pressure trying to fix the motoη trying to lock the motof in. Αnd of course, out of this comes allthe basic censions and acαιctio'ηΣiΙι!μιsgΙΨ, al re beginning. Ιt,s always nice to start at the beginning.

Tribalsream Channel of the bride and the groom Ιater. And by dle way, there is no gender appΙication to any of these, just simpΙy in the sense that this is vrhere the essential ribal reΙationship is buiΙt. And you have to undersεand something about εhe energy tλat moves through these streams. ΙΓhen we,re looking at the αibaΙ stream, what rve,re looking at is Ψed. N":4εth. underlyinηΓqsιln a Circuitry Ψ.e wi.llΙook at the

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tr'?: T}lε CharιneΙ *f sγathcsis Ιn dealing vrich our tribal sexuaΙity, we're deaΙing urith neediness. Αnd εhe neediness begins in ιhe 19th Gate. The 19th Gate possesses incredible Dressure. Ιt is ιhe root of the need for cribe iιselΓ. Ιt is the + roοι for the nesdfor the glues of the tribe; seg,:Φily aι4ggll_.Everyιhing about what ιve understand as the basis of ιhe rribe begins with che pressure in the 19th Gate. This pressure here urichin iιs sexual keynoting, we haγe the Gace oΓ needing sexuaΙ resources. See, chis isn,c abοut, "Oh, Ι chink you,re terrific and you turn me on and lec,s make 1ογe.,, This is not εhe abstracι. This is noι dre abstracε draι ..FΙey says, wοuldn,t ic be fun to dο ir in che bathroοm of the airplane.,, That,s ιhe absιract, not the tribe. Everydling abοut the tribe is ιhaι Φe tribe is inherenεly toqkiμa Γοr a bargain, This is ιvhere vre get the gar" .--:---. r ΙleglΨ' ιhis is where \λ7.e geε love, honoη This is where:ffig*δΠfi.δξii "Ξδ "υiy. 6ffi. fis is rvhere we get locked inco each οfier: οut oΓ need. Αnd the need is "iΓ Ι,m gοing to be your parcneη and Ι,m going εo ..Ι submit cο you,,, oη am going to give tο ..ιhere are you," whaιever d-re case may be, ..yοu,re certain things d-rat haγe tο be in this mix." EΓhat has co be in ιhis φ!τφ:hgp:qΥl.'.ιo" of dlgβ going co pro,,id'e me vrith everμhing Ι need. πτξg"i;g t" p,""iaΞ -. 'αrffi.^ra;;lιl,μ.π, yil}. going tο provide Γοοd, and yοu,re going cο provide shelter. Υοu,re going to make sure chat οur offspring are .marriage,." looked afteη you,re going εo do allof thaι stuffεhat we underscand as

things. Not everybοdy

ιhis, Ι,m laying this οut Γor you technically so dlat you can see the way in urhich εhe whοle thematic operates. But again, understand that's very different from εhe way it is going to emerge in Ιndividual Designs. Ι have a litde bic oΓεribe, Ι,ve goc a litde bit of persona]., Ι,ve goι a liειle bic of absεracι. Thaε means Ι.m complex in the way Ι operate as a sexιral being. Untilyou get to Se€ aΙl oΓεhe ingredients, be carefuΙ about jumping ιo concΙusions because, in fact, v/e are a mix of these chings, This is d-ιe themaεic of the way in urhich it is built into us geneεicalΙμ and it begins wiεh flirιacion. Ψ,e,re all a mix of

is just simply gοing tο be hke

This is where it sεarts; the 19ch Gate. Fliπ. Flirε. Flirt. Ιι,s dre 19th Gace chat goes ιo ιhe high schοοldance and, ιvheιhe r they are bοy or girl makes nο dift?rence, ιhey,re not just looking Γor sοmebody that is attractiγe. They,re lοοking for οrier The ChaεπeΙ οftbe Briιle anιlGrεrοnι qualities. They,re lοοking to see if chere,s a firπre in ic. -They,re loοking tο see if they 49 RevοΙuεiι.:n,Ιhc GaιcοΓScxι:alΡrincipΙcs Α 1}esigιr οf Demanding Οbeιlience couΙd really .work it ouc, in other words fiey,re looking Γor the foundaιion for what ,Ιhe 19 Λpprοaclr Gaιe οΓΝe cιlirrg.lexιι;ιl Resοurccs could be the marriage bond. Αnd, dlere is Α Ι}csign οl Ι;lirtaεiοn a dilemma char is inherent in this because, ic is jusc pressure. They,re creating that pressure. Υοu knοur what rhat,s like, when somebody flirts with γou. Ιc creaιes a pressure. Ιt creates thac pressure ΦΦgJgμ=dg1qg.Φiιg q6*;Jδi-η-Ψ;1iδth;i i;i ] :ll'll,r: ]Jι,::lll ..'.:.l::.:] i,..lιιj:.]ll,i..;l.:;l.1'il]l]..,l]ιl;

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hεvd1igptune sitting on the ,19. The veil is covering τhe 49, living in a very strange time. there,s a deep mutation there. The whoΙe mutatiγe Ρrocess of tλe Solar PΙexus system is geared there. So πa.,sfor,iffiiliΤ*δSoΙar Plexus syscem is something that is immediateΙy gοing to be evidence out of

this49thGaεe.Ιtmeans,@Youseedratvrheneveryouarelookingattheαibe

to understand that they both have thiΣ need. Ιt is a reΙationship that is driven by need, and it,s onΙy when

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tdbΓ,Ιiry

process and passion, it has this incredible voice in the 12th Gate. You Ιook at desire, the human experiΞnce, the w_ΓδΓe seλal dynamic, the Kama.Sutra role, and in all of that ,..d yoo g.t to fr..35th Gπ., it, got this great voice at the end. .W,hen

we,re Ιooking aε desire and we,re looking at passion notice that the πibal stream does not lead

tgη9Ξr"μ,

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Ιt didn,t matter chiΙdren were organized into set reΙationships by the if there was love or not. You were going to work with them for the rest ofyour ΙiΓe and you developed a relationship. So ir's a very, very different kind of bond. \λ/ere arranged and

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Everyεhing about the tribe is about loyalty. Ιt,s a support sysεeΙrl. Ι support you, you suPPort me. Ιf Ι suΡΡort yΞu,ffiyou have to do what is correct and ifyou rupport me, Ι have co do vrhat is correct. This is the whol'gbaιrffιη sγ:qqgι- The moment εhat you move upwards, is the moment that you moγe into the 37.40, that is the ChanneΙ of the Marriage Contract, the Channel of the Bargain. This is where the deal is

goingto be made.

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which this whοΙe of marriage, rΙe tribal marriage, and the concract, the way εhese bonds are established - is what's helped keep it alive for the last 400 years οr so. Ιε,s about εo cqllapse. Nq*1ρEg.'Ι*qιh..-ry"ggilg*tq b.q.qhi9 backgr-ound frcquΨgy.qq;ι$-QΙ'Φ9!p.p,.Ψιηgj!.199y-qqq.!ι. No sexual dynamic in humaniεy over tλe Ιast 40Ο years has had more direct condiιiοn supporι ιhan tibalsexualiry because this is ιhe background frequency. Αnd lι,s a basic deal.

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Ψ9rk. Αnd the 3lΦ. Gaεe neff,o ι,.*.δ-il[iι,μ,.δ". π'.y n"'i=,ii1lcftoge*rer in t}rat ;;;;. ;;;iiΓy tΙ. need of εl-ιe och... AgaiΙl" neea;.a;p,;i - yoo ii" see thaι when you,re looking at the 4O!bS'aιe, this is a Gaιe of sexraΙ ..look, sex is not -hat δu. reΙationship is eγer goi"g1δ"6δ;bδ;. _Φgg1 on its own iι,s a Gate thaι says, Ιι,s going to be about hard work and quality οΓliΓe and hοu, \λ/e11 we,re going ιo work out as partners in the business of life and family,i This is inherenεly a 9-e9ign oΓmtscur-bjιtloηand undersιanding chac the masιurbaιiοn is someεhing thaε is essentiaΙ. You're dealThe Clτannel οf εhe Μarriagε Cοntract ing with che pοtential Γοr constanc reproduction .IIre (laie ι:ΓSexual l)cnial 4Ο Ι)eiiγerance if you don,ε have a vray to avoid it. This is before Α Dcsign ο Γ λ,Ιastιιrbaιiοn the era οf d-re piΙl and reΙiable cοncracepιiοn and all of these εhings. To really understand εhaε this was -Ιhe Gaιe οf Sexιial Αffecιιιln 37,1he Falrrily a way of being able to reduce the level, reduce d-ιe ;\ Ι)esigll οf Cuιldlirlg leveloΓdependenεs εhac one had co Ιook after. The 37 is che mogΦ.ιhe 40. is εhe scοmach. The 40ch Gace'is'

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$iexιxaiiεv &{arxιιa} that wiΙl put aside those things that others might think are important because, ιhey,ve had a successful Ιife together. They have gone through many things togeιheη rvharcγer drat is, their experiences, their chil-

dren, whatever the case may be' Αnd they have a very strong bond. This is what the ribe is alΙ about and its one of the great dilemmas of the αibe. Ιts why so many stories are rοoted in that breaking out of the tribe for something different: dre breaking of the ruΙes, the going against the principles, getting bored in the reΙationship and fiπing with somebody eΙse, and oh boy...all hell breaks loose. See this is very sdcξ. Ιt,s the

only thing that I can calΙ

iι

EγοΙutiοn frοm the Tribal Ρrοcess

Ι,m a;1Qand Ι,m a49. Ι have been pulled into this in my life many times and its one of those things where that the ιribal process can be very satisfying. Ιt can. But there,s no spark in that sense. Ιt,s not going

tobe excrciΨ. !

Ιc,sgoingtob.@

Thisisabout

' 't having some oie with you in order to make it through in this Ιife. Ιt,s vrhaι it,s abouι. Ιn many ways in that sense it is very beautifuΙ. But it,s aΙso dying. Ιt is the ching to keep in mind. l'

β,'κ"a "r*u.l""'Φ underenormousΡresSure.l.,ιι*ΦgΦwnandweknowthatit,sbreakl"gd@ affect of che modern worΙd on the Ιock oΓthe tribaΙ bond and the tribal marriage bond.

Ιn the modern world the advent of the 9 centered being is the way we are moving, and the thing that,s most deepΙy under pfessure is the αaditional αibal famiΙy, You can see that worldwide. There are sdlΙ, eγen amongst the nerv middΙe class in Ιndia - 200 miΙlion women rvho are stilΙ having arranged marriages. This is stiΙlthe way in which it works and aΙl of this is here in tλese Gates and ChanneΙs' Everything abouε tλe way we understand marriage todaμ the terminology in marriage that is the contract itseli prenuptiaΙ contfacts, no maωer horv modern you make aΙΙ the terminoΙogy - eγery singΙe marriage is rooεed here. .$7'hat

we,re seeing isn,t what rve have been witnessing since.1960, because

in 1960 we entered intο

the First Line theme. That is, the First Line theme of the larger global theme of the Cross of Ρlanning. R"-Ξilb"ilπ l,.Τe precession of the equinox we,re movirξ backward. And in moving into the Fir]t Line we had an explosion that began in terms of our mοYement tornrards the mutation. Ιt,s

onΙv.--in this last period that the socieεv as a and aΙlof this evolutionary heacing up that,s casualdes ofthis transition that began in the 6Ο,s was the classic ΓamiΙy relationship and the way in which the tribalbond was established. Αll of this began to break down, the so caΙled sexuaΙ revolution. Growing up in the 5O,s and 60,s as Ι did, this is what it rγas supposedly alΙ abouι. The ofiΞilffi"JEnd of Ιike,;do,,. go there,,,Αnd, "fuck like mad and find out rvhat,s going on in che absαact, falΙ ln love and burn on the fires of pain and romantic,,. That was all for books and movies, this is what was expected. And this is what,s breaking down aΙΙ around us. Ιt,s not because we,re intelΙecωally advanced or thaε we,re terribΙy irresponsible which is one of the burdens that my generation was given. Ψ.e just didn,t care and aΙΙ this sπfi, it,s alΙ nonsense. Ιt,s the end ofan era. There are L9years Ιeft. ΙΓe,γe been livingwith dris background frequency for 4OO years. Εverything about ιhe -olrn insti. tution oΓmarriage is αibaΙ' Everμhing εhat we understand about the way in rη,hich the sexualprinciples oPerate, and the morality that ιve,re supposed tο haγe to funcεion and the kinds of bonds we,re supposed

Jusι go about your business. Υou,re unhappy in your relationship, rve,re all unhappy in our reΙationships, that,s just Ιife dear. Just keep on going. Ιt,s a powerful force. Ιε,s what makes the time that εo have is tribaΙ.

Ιivinginsofantastic. Ιt,sone ofthejoysthaεΙhaγe -ιobeawareandalive inatimeofπansitionevolutionarily because that's what we're here to see. There is an enormous change rhar is rakingplace here in we,re

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this system, it,s breaking down. Because of that, we haγe this terrible reaction. W.e haγe alΙ of the Osama,s of the world and ΓundamencaΙist of variety you can imagine, you name it, they,re out there, This is what happens when you come to a point of change. Λnd there are manywho cannot handΙe this. The fundamentaΙism that we see in the world today is

a

direct reaction to

th.iρ

whoΙe--sy:!-gηb^.η.e-ι$gado_*,.Ξn-dττ

#F;;$;;iiiΤ6"'g;i" δΤ,Ξ*""Ιity, *ι,iiι i""Τ; ;;;.Ι i;;';;"y 'o locks peopΙe in. Ιt locks them in and there is nothing that they can Say.

i..;;b;ji;;d;;,

6Ξause it just

Sexιrali*y and Authοrity important εo understand that this way of being together is coming εo an end. \r}qg-ε.:Ξμy.jεgi YLqΨIhΦΙgs ? Ι teΙl you .h". isb:Ι9gΦb9 bg4ll Ιt doesn,t me an that the bοdy nee ds to be ignored, no point in thaε. Buε it,s not abouε that. Ιt,s in the οuterΑutho*y lΦψ 9ξ9.Ψ...:!ing-9η:9gq:9μ'+ss:.Ψ.e].e becoming more and more infertile. ThΞΞi.δΓl;P.g;';Ψp".tilΞffi; to an end. Ιt,s not what iε,s about for us. There is nothing in any of this departing that quite frankΙy Ι,m goingtomoufn. Thereisn,t. Butvrehave toΙivewiththechaosofthe ιransition. Αnditmeansthatthere Ιε,s

aretremendousconfictsthatariseoutofthisbecausethisisthestandard.@

doesn,t care about whether there,s Ιove theι-e-'9-!.l9!,γ-LΦ-e.riqlql.e{-.1yp]g19g:Φ-}-qJ-Ι}Ψ.

il;aΞyι

Ιt doΞin,t mat-

ter;Eδfficfi...ipλin εo ii, *h"i -,...., iΦeιih.y are Support.d basic needs are met. FΙow many human teing, i.. th" γr.* r;-;iih:t6is".,d .i,iΞ ? i(otlffi "Ξil,d*ω;ft;; '.iΙ more, nothing Ιess and it,s just a pattern. Ιt,s not Ιike you can ιake this out oΓcontext because you can,t.

iffi-.Γft.

\we aΙl have different activations. 'V7.e,re very complex in the way in which we approach and are open

to sexuaΙity. But it,s aΙso essential to realize that each of these areas bring real traps. Ιt doesn,t hurt to be aware ofwhere the ffaΡs are. Buι in the end, it doesn,t matter holvwellyou know any oΓεhis. \ζ/hat matcers is, do you know how to make a decisiqn when it comes to being wiιh somebody el,., b.."o,iL?FiHΓ

Farι.πm;Φ;γΤ"*Γ..ffi ;Ξil..Φ*Φpj&Lff

u1sexμality.1..φ.o...ctΙy.ΑsΙsaid

in my Design, Ι have four activations in the1hree difiδrent stieams. Different relati.onships wilΙ bring diΓferenc combinatiοns of ιhe way in which thaε will work; sometimes its marriage, sometimes its romance, sometimes it,s jusε sex. But Ι can,t decide which one it is and Ι used to think Ι had a problem. open SacraΙ, open emotions, Ι didn,ε know what the heΙΙ was going on. one moment Ι vras like this, εhe next moment Ι was Ιike drat. one moment Ι,m ready to get married, the next moment Ι wanε to go offon a fling. Ι thoughε Ι had a problem. Ι didn,t have a problem. Ι just didn,t know horv to make a decision. Because in being abΙe to oPerate correcdy, my vehicΙe is going to respond and operate in ιhe way that it shouΙd. .W,hatever the configuration happens to be and whacever is brought ouc in εhat is going to be correct. \Γe aΙl have these complexities that are within us. Recognizing them as Γactors is one εhing, buc εhe answer is aΙways something eΙse. BegΣ:ceΙ}.ιhq,*+:sggy-qjy..-μr'-dΦε-i.o-η.ηa-FJιgp-Ι-9j-9j9:'.Do you k"o- h* .q η-"akgd'99iΦ.,? Can you make a decision-as.yοurself ? See, if you m*9_Φ-.:,:!-o-ψ-sμl-gf y*rΙιg'gιeιd".Δgι-h-9=ε-iΨ-'y.ba!sJsΙ-y-.o.Ψ.sexuality is, tλings wi[.pg.a.. A"d'iΓiiiΞ,.*. you εo enter into tribal sexuality because tλat is the way you re aligned and εhaε is what you meet and if your Αutλority akes you chere, weΙl enjoy it. Ιt,s going εo be correct. Buc it,s onΙy through that decisionmaking process that you ge t ιhere, εhere is no ocher way of getting there . Think about alΙ of εhe Not Self beings ιvho enter into these relationships and suddenly they,re not obedient. Suddenly they flirt with somebody eΙse then suddenΙy they don,t give you any sexual affection. Αnd suddenly they Say no to you and ic goes on and on.

c-φa;

Ι,ve aΙways had the same answer about your sexual life or anything els€; yοu can,t possibly know what

kind ofbeingyou

are physicaΙly untiΙ you,re

!ι;l:il:ι

correct. Ιfyou

λ,l::;ltι;li. lΙ.ι..:}:.;ι-JlΙ;ii

re vehicΙe isn,t correct,

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anydring. Ιt,s alΙ going to be a Ιie. You can,t find what you need in somebody eΙse' You can meet somebody else and you can work on rvhat you nee d toge ther. But ifyou need that person, you,ve got a problem. Because you simpΙy don,t have rvhat it takes within yourself to sand within yourseΙ{ Ιf you cant stand within yourself and love yourselΓand be secure in your o\Mn process, no reΙatiοnship is going to work.

what,s the point of having a reΙationship with

Ιt doesn t mean

Sex is the body,s business. Your passenger is a voyeur in that movie. Ιt,s your body that engages in sexuality. Ιt,s physicaΙ. Ιfyou re not operating correcdμ your vehicle isn,t in the right ωajectory. Ιf it,s not in the right place then youre not going to be able to meet the other physicaξ in a way that is not just simply correct for you buε something that is mutualΙy exciting and pΙeasurable. Ιι always goes back to the same place. Ι,ve watched these things in my process to See how it operates. You get to See Yery cΙearly that when you re cofrect, that drings vrork out in their own ways. There wiΙl be some people that wilΙ haγe that as a

configuration buc most of us have bits and pieces. Ιfyou,re not operating correctlμ you have tendencies because of the Not Self. Ιfyou ve got

a

hanging

Youre the49lοokingforthe 19. Ψ.aitingΓorthatflircation,

Gate somewhereyouwanttheoιherone. waiting for the right moment, waicing to Ιock them into the obedience game. Ι,m glad to see alΙ that come to an end. Ι reaΙΙy am. Ιt only serves us ifwe are reproductiγe and we are building a Γuωre. And we,re not .W.e,re closing one out. 'W.e,re not buiΙding anμhing. buiΙding a future.

Leaving the Crοss οf PΙanning

This is alΙ very nice and weΙΙ iΓyou,,i..t to buiΙd up ιhe kind of popuΙation that we have built up over the last 4OO years of this crοss of planning cycle. Please understand that under the cycle the cross of ,gb:s-ρ]:l,iy:-u"rΦgΙy. There-are planning, we have more people alive on dre earth today than existed before 19OO. Al1of this is the cross ofpΙanning and aΙΙ of dris is going to crash.

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The sad ching for me is thaι Ι look out on this and Ι see that the ones rγho are going to be victims in dris ti,.,ΞΞf πaλsition are fi" Ψ9.*.as usual. Because.hi,*,JΙk9*9Σ*gΙ-g-9ΨgJgry !9 η"Ι*

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of imaginewhatkind of end oΓεhe cross

y""τlatyou

can,t even begin to

shift rhis is.

Since the dme that Shakespeare was walking dre boards of the globe we have been under the infuence of the cross ofplanning. For hundreds and hundreds ofyears we didn,t know anythingelse. Ιt is why we haγe a world that is fiΙled wiεh iηstitutions of education,iξdo.Σg.i{iηε8Φons,ξΙΞmmΨtgΨ:

ur"ηι*@,@n"Γ"ig,i.,togetheiforthebeπffie,,δΓiEΞi,

community, their neighborhood, their city, their state province, country, rvhateγer the case may be. Ιt is upon this contract that the modern world has been buiΙt. Ιt,s on this contract that everything we knolv about the vrorΙd we live and the undeξing security of dris ιvorld is buiΙι ΙΓhat keeps our ciιies alive day to day is how deeply organized we are in how \λie manage to feed ourseΙves, and how we communicate, .We can have super cities with 30 miΙlion peopΙe and εhey,re not all and hovr we traγel, and how we work. kiΙling each other. This is quite an accompΙishment. The cross of planning is a social-communal bargain. There are only 19 years left after hundreds

yearsoΙlaΙong,andagainnοthinghapΡensonadime. This is an evolutionary Ρrocess that vriΙl take jlonμim.. t. *,lΙ .Φ 75 y."', 28

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utdrereisn,tgoingtobeabackgrοundSuΡΡortmechanism. .W,'herever you Ιook, the roads are Υou can see it happening now. The institutions are colΙapsing. .W,hat uras that incredible smtistic Ι saw about bridges in the breaking down and not getting repaired. United States? There are L35 thousand of them chat need repair? And our gΙobal institutions, you realΙy think that humanity is going to get together and stop gΙobalwarming? Ι mean, ifyou believe that, Ι,lΙ sell you a bridge. Ιt,s aΙl breaking down piece by piece urhere we,re gοing to see it most radicalΙy. k,s why we have this deep nοstaΙgia in the fundamentaΙism -thaε reaches for the past. For that past iE'Ξ*i c. thΓbδ,,J..Th.,. -", .,o where there was no threat δτ.e marftge.l*tii"tiδ"..Th;;;;"; "o threat to dre guarantee of sexuaΙ avaiΙabiΙiεy or the guarantee of the bargain, or any of those drings. Regardless of how you,re going to look at this in terms of interpreιing ic in terms of your o.\ry,n Design it,s happening. Ι just wanted you to see κibal sexuality as an area that is one οf εhe great changes thaε'ιve,re aΙl

Ιivingwith. Because of our nature, because of mechanics, we are aΙl sdll caught with attraction. \(e cannoc heΙp iι \Γe are heΙpΙess after alΙ. This is a choice-Ιess thing: yδ;Γave 1Q1gηg_9a.i;δicτ aΙways going εo have its attractions. But οne oΓthe drings you see is that as yοu go deeper and deeper into your process, as you move further and further away from your mind being absorbed with your liΓe so that you can actualΙy see

it and watch it unfold, you wilΙ nodce somechingvery important. You

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Α.rΙΙio,ity. Ii,illi.-JΤ,ΤιiΦκi,6Τiη foi oJ δ;δ1τfi!ηi:Φ:'yιΦ}!Ξη'Φ,. ΙtΤai ιhe Ιeve l d 'ig-9-!ι9.e; of communication that the most extraordinary bond can merge. Ιε isn,t about a making more impera. deeply unfair to th. yin. Ιt,s Ι. h", alwaμ b.i., tive. Ιt is not abouε *,ι iiυJi"li "boo. 'o ",,d.δ.,π,... Αnd alΙ of drose εhat rvant to hold on to it and the is Soon to be d-ιe despite understanding that this pasε. bloodshed thaε all of that brings, nothing is going to stop it from fading from this plane. e

ΙndiγiduaΙStream Ψ.e,re going to have an interesting journey today because \λie get to one of tλose γery misleading areas of sexualiry. As a maεter of fact, the thing about indiγidual sexuaΙity is that it is more often than not confused with love. Ιt doesn,t ever realΙy seem tο haveG;ri:iirnπa. Yet at the same cime, εhis is not about

love; it,s purely about sexuality. ΙndividuaΙ sexuality is very curious in the way in which it operates. Ψ.e have sort oΓcubbie hoΙed che way we look at sexuality and sexual relationships. Ψ.,hat.\ry,e Saw Ιast Sex as a

chapter

i"

Paft of marriage and sex

as

ΦlΦ.1'

something chat appears to be veΨ 9-9-ls*9ΙyΦq-t,:diqφ-φΙ at the root a Ρart of an organized bond that has a fundamental -bargain -\tl;π

*" gi. .o .(,!gg1Ξj!,φη.h* we.kn.ow ιh'}.hatΤone-cif i6δiΞ;rcEii$, 'δ*h." ιhis is what we associaεe specificaΙly wi*:sΙ-dεi1a. This is nοt something that is confused as individuaΙiry is confused with Ιove. This is just simpΙy about sexuality and about the facε that sexuality is ΙiteralΙy an intrinsic part oΓthe human experiential wave. \Γe are governed by a genetic imperacive that insisιs that we .We are choice-Ιess in all have sex. Let,s Γace it, it,s not Ιike vre,ve decided this is somethingwe want to do, sexuality is into the insighε into how deep of εhat and the human experientiaΙ wave really gives you a deep

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very framework of our existence on this plane. Ψ,e,ll save that unεil we get there.

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sΓhen ιve're dealing with ηΦ4gtlΙΣ-.v/hat .w.e're dealing ιvith is vrhaι w.e get to see in romance moγies and romance .,o,els of dramacized emοιiοnalized enthrallmenι that ls soΞiliΞ + ".,dΤi,TilΞ romance itseΙf. Ιt,s very interesting when you get into che deconstructiοn oΓ this part oΓ the archecype of ιvhοle stream and the scΙeam οΓindlγiduai sexualiεy moving.from εhe 19 down here up to thq 1-2. This is l' Ιt,S incred.iblyτnutπive. The firsc thing to understand about i.,difiilΓffiaΙity is .t'.,ΦJgΦ:: verbal much more than ics anything else. This vΙas one oΓdle first and Γoremost mutations to transform

humanity.Thatis,[email protected]εοokp1aceabouι85gr2Q*Φogοeι4yearsago,it,sa

ψι'g} into

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as we cοme

ξg'ψ.als ρft.h"9-=qp"ιc-19ιand it is a muεacion thaε each and every οne

ofus moγes

into εhis ιvorld.

The Γact is thaε iΓyou look aε the naεure of primates, d-ιey are able to drink and breache at the same ιime, someιhing thac a nevrborn infanc is aΙsο able to dο. That is, fοr approximately three months. By ιhat ιime, the mutation kicks in and ιhe larynx drops so the baby starεs spiεting up. The baby starcs geεting gas, it sarts becοming very uncomfortable to try co breathe and drink and there,s a vrhοle process invoived in that εransiεion buε iε is one of d-te most remarkable things biologicaΙlμ in εerms οf ιvhat makes us special. After a11, fοr me it's clear drat ιJre unique aspect of our humanness is the sophisεication oftheway invrhlch we can communicaεe rηriεh each other. Ι,ve always had a close connectiοn u/idτ the ηatural world, parεicularly'wich mammals. Ιt,s so obvious hο\λΙlimiιed they are in the klnd of expression thaε they can make in these basic mammalian generated expres1^-_ _ .* siοns οf feaη of εhreaε and of pain. Then there,s us. Simply by the moΥement of this cοmbination of airspace and a chamber wiιh my εongue and the way in which my jaws work and a.tl of this ιhat Ι,m able to create the nuances in the sound Γormula chat are transΓerable to Yοu. Υοu can take εhat in and understand it. Ιι,s εruly is a remarkable thing.

Ι,ve got 10 First Lines. Ι,m somebοdy εhat can very easily be in aure oΓthings and Ι have a deep wοnder abouι οur acouscic nacure. Ι happen ιο be a 12 myself Ι haγe bοfi my Uranus,s in the 12dr Gate. And articu1acion for me, dre joy and pleasure of language, is someεhing dlat is very deep in me and is very

much apart οfvrhat this Gate represents. This abiliιy rοmanιic sex is about because .J.a,ιic

ΨτΞnffi

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τh.:-Ψg-",Φ ΙΓyοu Γοllοw the tribal cοnfiguration it stops ;-Τ hereintheEgoCenceηthere,snomοuthhere.Therearenowords,[email protected]". is ιhe wav in vrhich You communicate.

is there, but there is someιhing coεally differenc here, Ιt is about frequency. !7e'11 see chat rl-ιe coΙΙective pfocess, the abstract ptocess is roοted in Γeelings. But ιηrhen yοu're dea1-

ing widl individuaξ you,re really dealing with tqqμqηqy: These are peopΙe that geι turned on by.!.bg This is what turns sound oΓsomebgdy,s yqlqg.ts limbeη iιs

qudξιeμd-rbq-nμaηqΨjιj

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This is what is really sexy in εhe rοmantic cοnneccion. Ιt is *..-*-1--

LasιchapcerΙdiscussedthetriba1cοupΙe.τ1g'ΙΦ4j9gΦ-@oιng,ιαιsaft

h,*:g:ιιι!gl-g-Ψ*μ if anything. They..ηay cοuch each other in once a whiΙe and εhat,s it. Thac,s ιhgg:ggggΨ*:,Αnd of course, it isn't that thiiliΙΞsΞΓδi$δΙieι this is not a comparison gaΙne. Ιt,s simply abouε undersεanding ιhe difference of it. Everything is about the conεact. Ιn a εribaΙ reΙaιionship, you walk by your partner and you ιouch them οn ιhe shoulder fοr a momenε and εhat says everyιhing drat you need to Say co them and they get it. This is a differenc klnd of .V7,,hen thing. π,e step inco individuaΙity it doesn,ι work thaι way because chey don,t \λrant co be touched. Ιt sοunds οdd but it is not like they,re ready to have anybody touch ιhem. and having their lunch or their coffee

----T-ξr-r*--.f

Understand something very fundamencaΙ abouι

Φl!d'gΦ{-

ιheir greaιest handicap in ιhis

life. +-*

The greaεesι haη{i_c;ιp-$1c they have is dlaε they are designe d εo noε be influenced. Thac,s why when yοu,re

yiΙl"g

aΕ

So-eb;i';h;ι;a;;a;r"π;ffices aδΕπΞ6""rπ;πgμii, -lilcn

ing iΓyou,re trying cο get some thing acrοss εo εhem. Αnd

ic,s

can be very iniuriaι-

not their fault. They,re indiγidual. And in

theverynatureοΓtheirindividua1icμifεheyareΦg-*gr,sg_1β9q'η|b9,if

t9lΨs!91! ιbg:"-:::[lΙ,..ι.ι:Ι:g:::φ" i1r-ggmet.hi.ng then εhey cannot be cοr".Ψ rupted by easy influence. So they rejecc influence, iΙiey scruggΙe against iε. They 8e ι Yery upseε wiεh ιhaι they,re really going

kind of aπempι

o3ι gξgμ-"-,:'ιηp,:ΦΨΨ'|ΨΨΓΓ1ΦψΦ:

is the last page .in.dl-.-e

"919l:

ΙΓeverμhing

Theirs, is a different vrorld. Ιt is

a

eΙs€ isn,t

right, that

-if

urorΙ.d thaε is roοted in che acοustic, This

ofjhqη9.-Φι

Ιt,s also a

of rοmance is thaε sex

.,el.e, υe iigh;.

co'uple:ιιffid,.y,,._ffi,

.sic. and when you see ιh-is lea, and they,re just sεaring at each othe,. oηs the other one is talking and che ocher one is listening.

romantic cllchd,s.

"gture

Channel oΓMaking Mu-

δffi;-. C"ld;.dr;, δΙa

:*Φ.qr:g.*'-: lisεening, Αnd chen Αnd noching exists except ιhat. Ιt,s one of those

legiιimate mechanic.

i"jgdt!Φ"1lg3nd

indiγidualicy is that ic operates in apuΙse. Ιt,s there and εhen lι,s noilΞl-l Ξδ.,Τknow, ido,,. know, oFΙ ! Ι know.,, That's what:rΞ?ΞjΙFiΓ=h,eτΓ . ls no certalnΕy ln lt. There is no moment of thac knowing because vrhen εhat moment οfknοwing comes, ιhey fall! This is the building oΓ the fire of passion. Ιt,s noε there Γrom the get go. Ιt,s nοc like fiey meec \:ou, go offinto d-le bushes and do iι quick. This is awhole ricual. This is dle dance-οfpeacοcks Ιt's a ιr,hoΙe movie. Αnd it is carrie4-.o'u't τhr"q-ι}gb'che. nρo.qqgic.. So leε,s see how it vrοrks. There,s a dilemma

εhe great dilemma of

+-

|Ζ - 22: ?he C}:aΙ}11€1οf Οpεnft€ss l2: Τlrε Gatc ιlf Rιlr*arrfiεisgrr \Γe start vrith the 12th Gate, an οbviouslμ deepΙy muιative Gate oΓarιiculaιion - ιhe Gate that is able ..Ι knοur,'. Ιt,s one of those indlγldual Gaces. W.ithin the sexual contexc it is che Gate oΓ Romanεi-;

ιo say

i2

Sιanιlsιil1

. - tτΙ.
out.{Φi: ο

Tlre Gaιe οf Rιliτιanεicistrt

Α Dcsigll ι:ΓCaιιιiοn

/

Λbariιlοrr Ι

l /. Λ Ιl]C ( τ.ιtC ()Ι /\rιel]t1\-c11c}s lιι)J

is the pοtentiaΙ oΓ

*ι w.hatwe-τσιridτtΙΙ-fr lδve, θ οwt!iΙ,lg,-1l.o: * we--wo-=_-ιΓ|-dτelΙ -wε-rdi δrdsοfF Ιο..v'e,'fl we ri n E.' o l ΦΨ",uξeε ο

p

etry ai1d.so ngs. Enδn.in iis$i. η1ιηdan,E apllica.E",,"-iτττ'Jk"a oεill.or.tioλiι'i|.i".,i., -i.r'

I tι.---a deep lnteΓest. l| -'.--

This is a Channel oΓmutaιion, and iι is ιbe ody-social Chanη.e.l of al. ind'iy-idua1. Λ Dcsigll ιlf Ιnfitι:atiιln I .W.hen you drink abouε individuals, drey are nοt scciaΙ. The onlysocialChannelthaι d-reyhave iSchis 12/22 and ic is 19.gus493ιLιo1,,l. Ιc is nοεphy'si 11l

,t

,

l

':i::t:.:l::l:'ti,r; :t:1, i:::;:t:r:i,t;:t,,i i

1:;::;,:l;

i.],:tt:;; l:,::t:r,.1

i.'ιl,-:l:Ι]:l ,:'l:liijι];:ll]';l.:l..lli i,ι::::l;:...:ll..l.,lil.]'l-'i::ιl]l

1-**

sexuai*rv

91.

&i{ax:ιxaX

[n otherwords, iε is Ξ,4y-.9 .!y-.g

ιΦ!_ygμΨi.Ιig.-

ι.

The odrer thing that makes the |2 so interesting is that it is a stoΡ iodon. Ιn other vrords, it,s related Εo a StoΡ codon. Now of course, StoΡ codon is a punctuation point and that can mean two things. Ιt canδe an end of something g.Ιiιsg;}"-b9='1ι9Ι.''-ι.Φ,.*.Ψ|h:r'ιιΦ:giι"igg. k is one or the other.

in our genetics

ii, '". in this a Design of 'ffi.l.Φ'";"fiι'ip.-Ξ,.ΓπT,6e-**η"" .-'''s' Caution or Αbandon. Caution in the face of that emotional power ιhat,s at the other end and abandon

,

But

ic,s

i,6i, ri,kιere. κi'kiffi"ii' ;;λ ;f

@,oΤe,e

risk in the 28th Gate. Ιt,s almost da1g r-og9-φ be so aπentiγe

grΨ.Ψ!9*-

to want to communicate so

ιffi.-ftimλt. a;-":τ;.i*ffilt b"dΓlδlΞ-JGio *'ΦΦ "'t"-*.'*.r%* "EEffihΞΞE.δf book th.

ifie

ιμ9ΨΙ'lηb"e:1Φ-Ψ:

Nobody rvorries about sex more than an individuaΙ. .Nobody. Αnd it,s not about worrying about it

i,'tnffi"d,;;Φ;;;;,'τ;;ire,1Ιyisn,tthethemeofthat.Ιtissiλplythat

ifιhesexdoesη,twoηk:hαfiΙ9€999pιll.Ιndiγidualsareγerystrangecreatures.@

Once,., l.,dl,ιdoJΞ..Γ,ometΙring

iiffi' i'Τh"i.p'o..o o"..Γa;Eings

ffi*i.h

.

to understand about the sexuality

of the individualis d-ιat Φeγ make a commitment to build that fire' Ιt,s a io

n

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s

q

g:g1gffi

builΦ*.f tφ:ΦΨflgfutιe

did a lecωre not too Ιong ago on one ofthe subjects that fascinates me, which is the subject ofunrequiced love. Unrequited Ιove is Yery much a Ρart of the romantic tradition and very much a part oηΦ119it is to be iniΙFΙiΓuaΙ. For mοst individuals it is easier for them to love without havins a partner in dlat .i;g εh; reΙ"tfi;Eiρre" ic is for them to acωΦ enter into drat journey of seeing whether d-ιe building of t.he fire will reaΙly reach Ι

gsa-Ιtπ"'",a. i.,

Εηe3ΨιgfgΣΣ9ιandif .ΓΞ7ΙΓ,.,y

-i*i6Ξ.",,.

inthaιpassion,thesexiΞΓryiι€E.-".@

it,s just

righι

τomPΓe-jJτ;maividuality.

affite dfrve.. Ιtτ-Ξ6ΞΞ.Πty and

"ndffiy

Not onΙy do you have this whole pulse and building up:

tΙre

it,s emotionaΙ. The thing co understand

about the emotionaΙ waγe in an individual is that it,s very misleading. Ιt,s this dny liωle moving along and every once in a whiΙe it spikes. Usuallμ it spikes down and it can scay in that dorvn. Ιf it stays there Ιong enough, we calΙ it depression. The reality is that inherent in allof this is melancholy. And of course, one

of the first-sξns Φat an individualis moved by sadness. ιhere is no passion.

is drat sadness is touched in them.'S7'ithouc

TheτompleξΙy-o-f individμaliΨ is in Φ-e-cheφjslE ofmelanchΦ.

Ψ,".hΦ. ':ΦJ!ggΨ. Ιt aΙl d"Ρ "fia;;;;fr;*"yinwhichyoudeaΙwithiιlΓyo"haveaweirdfuckeδ@@dyoffigoing to get lost in your suffering. Υou could get lost is that s3Φesg-?nd in τhe.un}ιaΡPiness and spend your life bΙ"ψηglΨ_ηrιb1gg. This is chem $ιrygonewrong. One of rhe rhings rhat is so beautiful about romantic love is the sadness in it. That yearning, that sad-

ness,thepgq!Ιy-9Ι$e+ise€Ωfffiyoucanmuseinthe'ιvarmthofthatrising temΡerature. Ιt is vrhat passion is all about. Ιtt what,s so misleading about individualiry Φlω:-se'ι individual always thinks thatt !ρye. Ιt,s 1he only w31g!rey get to Sex. The only way they get to Sex that is ffi":-.Ξ-.--{*:-9ξ really exciting for them is in tλe intensity oΓiι

3Ζ

5ιrurliι-: }1::nu':i' .Ιlιe:::aιiιlι:l l'1:rι::l !}eligll 3c1:οοl Αl1 t{]gλι: ii;se rγeιl i-ιlp-,;:iιllι.icv1ln Αι;ii,c )i}

Ιll .;:ι fiι

l

.,

l,ttrιlιiιlttal 5crιlal }ι srtllr 22: TΙre Gtce *l.Attelιtiγeness ΙΓhen \λ/e go to the oιher side, εo the 22nd Gate' ιve find one of the Gates Ι really love. Ι'm a Ι2' Ι don,c haγe the 2Ζ. Ι knovr a lot abouε this Gate. Ι'γe met it in many ways in my liΓe , Αnd it is grace ιhat is its gift. Ιι,s sο difiiculι Γor peopΙe cο lisεen to each other isn,t iε? ΙΓe know that. Ιt,s so difficuΙt fοr most human beings co find somebody fiaι is acωally inceresced in what ιhey have to say. This is one of the εhings ]c grace that ts s9 Ιisιening ntng'Sis a deep aboucgηgg tnat is So beauιifulDeauαruΙ - un(ιerstanαtns undersεanding tnat muιative act. Ιεs ιhac ΙΙst€ Ιε,s \η/hy why tne fie οral q-g*Ψj*3Ψ9.3g.

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l

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.*7Ξ*;.τi*-=ii;

*-}ff-;-'

-.isffiffiΞδ";;ΓJ;.i.fr

.*

ition - ιvhaι we rraditior εradition *.,ι,.ΞiΞ..t,e, share εogether - is sdll ,l.rq.q*εg'Ψ'gΦl q'η{ !Φ4ilions. This is how mutatiοnξδEs Γho-utatioΞE6s "ffiδ;-ThΓ, inco yοur body. This is εhe ιrue graceΞ-n ιhis Channel. Ιc has ιhis inc6iΠ6le capaciιy for human bein tο εransΓorm another person,s life. Ιn che very wordslve are chemi ,,_==--^JΙι,s quice amazing,

Ιn ιhe 22 - rhis Gate οf atιentiveness - εhere i, D_.,jgι{Ι!{1.,ΙΨiΨl", w.:Ψ1lμ!r_ψk οf chat !Φg immaιure, buε it's noε. ΙΓid-ιout it dlere is no" place for the individual to starι. Ιεs whaι - in my era;frΦ_sch;;Πs called a crush. You ,.jφηΦgdy-ιΦJριriψρr&-11-&:β'e'g1. The maddening thing abοuε the ιnd.iγiduaΙ is εhatΤΞil. l,Γψ.,*i"gi" ιh.y."n ;Γ;;;-. p€rsοn d:ι*tg-duy as

".p,1,., '.. This is the thing abοut being Αnd εhen one day, out oΓnovrhere suddenly it's ιhere. a, inΞifrduiΙΤΤΞupreme oddiιy. Ιn.-chφgu!99, waicing Γor the muιaιion, ιlrac magicaΙ.ples'. Q'.!γg_Ψj-ηe .Vi.iεhouε notes, lays possibiliεy. i; y;;a;"1 g.t to .*kΞ=.uirc. li'i o"$nΤe Lh...i, iλ'i|'itΙλι " theiδTihillhΞ iδddiness to leave behind caution and enιer uriιh full abandon inεo the process. and dlere,s nοthing.

Let me tell you who Ι am and then yοu telΙ me who yοu are. Then you tell me qrhat you like and yοu tell me whaε you,re interested in and Ι,11 te1l you what Ι'm inιeresιed in. ΙΓe,ll calk about εhis and vre,ll ιaΙk abouε ιiat. The mοsε difficult moment is urhen you run οut oΓvrords. And if the fire isn,t r]rere, it,s a \re ry sad thing to see. Ιι jusc sort of dissoΙves like nothing, Ιike it was a mirage or a poe m wriεten in sand and che waves just came. $Γithouε the fire, at εhe righc time, nοcΙing happens. This is ιηrhere the great muφ9rψ

o-.μ.1

g!me-hφ-e.n.te-rg{. You can See that

dlg;oηη!Ψ

stream, this

i. i, ihe g.eaι t...',fo,-iξξ*ffiffi..*i.,. λψ..idii6Ξ;;,;;;J;;".",t.' .W.e i.i;;Γ;l; d;i;iΦ:ff;;ffifuary process. have an exιraord.inaryηψgclqη d-'aε is taking pΙace

stream oΓmoodine,,

-of

in the 55th and 49th Garc, specificalΙy in the 55. \Γe knorv that this is the ransformation oΓthe SoΙar

PΙexusiγΞiδininthΞimergErιΞδoΓSδl,.Ple*us"-",..'.,,,",oppo,iJi-ffi fu;;ffi"f;nδ3"i} πfri. t. i, a ΕransΓormacion εhaι is υoii' tι,i-λd-δΓδui?iaiiiaaff=iheδ;gi;ihg . "'_' --r'Φ* ot anoιher one.

39 - 53ι The Chann€Ι

οfErnοting

Ιn this emotingyou can reaΙy see the dynamic οf how dris operates. Αnd you can see it mosι clearly ιhrough the 39ιh Gaιe. This is quite a Gate, The 38 and d-re 39 are Ι!k.e' qbe 6ο aηd ιhe 6.1. - εhey have a deeply special relatiοnship to each οcher, TΙre CΙrannel οf Stimulatiοn TheYι are opplιsitiοns iη Φs;γ!ι9e1. They are Ly-'Φ οpposite each other in dle Rοοt Center. 15 Abunιlance Τhe Gaεe οf Sexιral Mοοdiness Thev mirror each ofier in function. Α Design οΓl}εing Ιrickie

The 39gh Gaεe, as a

Gelgsl-LΨ:glL

39

Οbsιrucεiι:n

chat cegsιojΦιιΨg-Φe.yaι=qq{Φ-.

Gate οf Νe eι1ing Ser-ιralΑrter:riοn

Λ l)esisn οf Tbasing

tion, is an incredibly pοwerful force. Ιt is a

6rci

.Ιhe

$9lql-Plej]]!:y$.μ-ιη Φ:-ΣlΦ

jι:;l::ι]il: 1|,ιl.:l;]' j:lιι:l;::ll,::,i ii"ι |,l l; l ]:l ,1ii ili;iι.

liι:ι:veιi

Ι

iι:l:l'ι;: I,}eli;

{,l:l:γlj:.ι

'i.:,γi;:

9.'+ι..

[c

εries to

lock it in, it cries 3i

ξ

/o

r.

.\

--_}

Ι, ι l e.xιΙaΙ Ι tr, l} Ι anιιaΙ

to do what lιe22does vrith its infatuation and attenciveness' Ιt tries to set ιhe attention of the 55 so that ----*--*'*it can lock it into attention and bond with it. Now, the thing about *ιιs paiticular stream is that it is the

omΞ-7.t..'since

ofspirit lies.

.

Ξ> The 55th Gate is εhe Gate o|Spirit. You know, the cup half empty, the cup half fuΙl. Ιt is sοmething toseewhaιthen,aαrreoffiΞ39is-iε,s.h...@Ιtithereεolockitinandprovokeit -}

φ-bΞjng iι:ou! The 39 is abοut needing sexuaΙ aπention. FΙere you have this Design of Teasing, but the f the other. Ιt,s about what their sp'irit is goΦg to be relaciye to the t9asing is not to briη ng out?

I used to give the description where youre having

* **r**r."*,

-*

somebody and

you,ve had a couple oΓ meetings in restaurants where you ve talked and chaπed and ended the evening on a note of seeing each other again. Then you both go through that whole romantic stuffon your own.

Maybe it,s tJre third time and you drop by εhat person,s fat and they,re coming out οf the bathroom and they just have a tovreΙ around them or something. Ιt doe snt matter whaε sex drey are, whed-ιer εhey,re male or female - that,s the classic 39 moment. Ιn that moment they,re character. For example, if that is simpΙy taken as i s εo go over to up with a physicaΙlμ you may iFmendous surprise and a lot of embarrassment when they rcll you to just back off Ιt,s a way oξsgekiιg

Φ&d . rΦgfu

Φ--:PiΞit, Φ9

q

uqΙiqy

o

Ρossible. T*s.ΦsΙΦ:Ι&tΣ*aιΦg1.!q Φ9 the whole same becomes.

f Σ

ξ t

-g {

Σ..9φI9,

ι:l

ψ,gΦ!p.:εsΦ

g

abοut individualiπ is about chis buiΙding iι up and buiΙdingt-t-it up and buildins it *1.-r.,-

Again,

t=

Ρlysaηno tΙlηdΙe.artyΙuρΙ.. Y'ΦhqugΨ$gη-ate it. You .W,hen can see the dilemma οn the other side. you Ιook at the 55!ξG3p this Gate of Sexual Moodiness, you see a Pesign o{Bjiηg FicΨ's. This is the whole diΙemma of d-ιe individuaΙ. Think about iε in this way; the 55th Gate is so deeply imporεant εo tλe whole nature of our sexuality. up until it gets to be some

-

The facε is that εhe 59th Garc is εhe

Y3yJιJ[E*,

as w,e

s

aw-Fhffi-fr

Σ9ξΙeΙ

Ξe 5Ξ

gan,

RoΙe Gate

ofour

-

^

The Role Gate decides the

rygr:ι:gειgιsy--Ιl"

in terms ofsexual That means that dre muta-

φιeΣ 9g91ηg εo:2sΙaιe.

Remember that, in essence, the sexual rοles have evoΙved deaΙingwith what is the center of the wave program. Αll the waves oriqinate out of the 6th Gace. Ψ.e don,t knΞlv sexual roΙes without deaΙins wi

iπi.*,

t..

more εhaε is going εo be dictating wheιher or noε a reΙationship is viabΙt ιhaε is there. Ιhat,s something that is toally different.

sΓe are aΙΙ Designed Different SexuaΙΙy .W.e,re

dealingwith an area in which there is a remarkabΙe levelof mutation takingplace. This mutadon has been at work since 1781, and it wiΙl compΙete its process Ιn 2027 ' W.e,re deaΙing with an evoΙucionaryprocess and αansition that is takingpΙace within our εime. Ψ.e vrilΙ get to see εhe evidence of that and we,ll see it in manyways; we,ll see it in the socioΙogy as it impacts socieιy sΙowΙy but surely. Ιt wiΙl have its effect. FΙere lve,re looking at something rather extraordinary, This fickleness has been waiεing for the .eha, spike, for ιhat moment of this is it, chis is really it." Ιt,s ιhis kind of relationship that has created a 34

5;rι:liιγ &1;tι:1. l:lιιlllaΙi*l.;] li.ι i;r,.ι

l.lι

!

krι::n De.igι

Αl! RιgLιs lttserveιl {icpvligiι icτ]a;

S;]:.:.ι,]

.i::::.:

}iαaεxεi**xaxi sexειa} $η,s**xa* reaΙ diΙemma in society as a whole.

.When

you think about it, we,re all designed difltrently sexually. obviously noι everybody is walking around with a configuration Ιike the Gates we haγe been discussing. Ψ.e alΙ have a Ιitde bit of this and a liωle bit of that, vrhaιever the case may be. But vre need to undersand how dysfunctionalhomogenized sexuality realΙy is. Because there is no inner Αuthoritμ there is no way of acωaΙΙy being able to discern who should be somebody that you dealurith or not. Ιt obviousΙy is something that has to come out of one,s .W,'hether Authοrity' This is che foundation of anykind ofviable reΙatiοnship. it is a deep intimacy or it,s a tryst or it,s this or εhat, it doesn,t reaΙΙy make any difΓerence. Ιf it,s correct, it,s a vaΙuabΙe connection with another human being. Society doesn,t operate chat way. Ιnstead chey operate οut of the Not SelΓmind. The Not Self mind is influenced by its oΡenness and that then becomes its priority. Come on give us all a break here. But those are the kinds of things that happen in the Not Self world. lnstead of human beings being abΙe tο Ιive out what is their correct sexuality we haγe reinforced ideas about ho it should Ιook or happen. A Ιοt ofpeople think that this is the way sexuality is supposed to be. Ιε is dramatic and because it,s connected to what is a fundamentally creative stream it ends up populating the fantasy world drat we feed on. Ιt creates this ilΙusion that this is something that one shouΙd be Ιooking for in Ιife, but if yοu re not an indiγiduaΙ what you re going to get is just some very crueΙ condidoning because it,s not for you. Sex, and the way in which iε is understood, is deepΙy homogenized on this plane. The moment that you begin to grasp what uniqueness means there are no rules anymore about sexuality. Ι,m a duaΙist so it,s not possible for me εo be a moralisι. Ι understand that there,s always gοing to be this and that. There,s aΙways going to be S,s and M,s. This is the way it,s always going to be. Ιt isn,t about chat; it,s about who you are' $Γhether one is going to be a correct killer or a correcε Ιover is about correcεness. Ι,m noε going to get into the αip about this and that. Ι mean, after alΙ, the beautifιrΙ εhing about having your ovrn Authority is chat the re is no judging and ιhere cannot be any judging. othe rs may judge, but that,s their trip. To Ιive by your own Auεhority means εhat in the decision making process by entering into those bonds that are correct for you, you,re going to find out what your sexuaΙiry is. Υou,re going to find out that wharcγer the aspects are that you happen to haγe (and by the dme that we get through these 11 chapεers you lΙ be sick and εired of ιhe mechanics of sexuality and would much raεher do iε) are your own. But the fact of the matεer is that the understanding of the mechanics and the freedom that you have by entering into relationships according to your Authority finaξ gives your passenger an exciεing and interesting movie. Ιt is the realization of whatever your potentiaΙ and Ρurpose is on this plane, physicalΙy or othervrise.

S

exιraΙiεy and Οalter Aιιt}ιοrity

with the potential to be uniquely special as a Partner. Undersnnd thaε, it,s what this knowledge teaches you. ΙΓyou are oPerating correcξ and you are in a relationship with somebody who is operatingyou correcεly, whacever is going to go on in thac reΙationship is going to be correct. onΙy age has anything to do with iq that and the way in which the homogenized plane deals with ic. Ι find the qrhole story of age interesting anyv/ay. Ι willbe 60 in April. Ι can remember my dad when he was 60 and he Ιooked like he \il.as an old man. Αnd not that he Ιooked any different than any other old men in the era _ *re 60 year olds that Ι remember in that dme. They were living up the old Saturnian cycle, for εhem 60 was a hell οf an accomplishmenζ they \Me re getting ready to retire , they were going to sit back and mow che lawn. Ιt,s my joke that their generation never took LSD and they didn,t have a nine-centered body. Ι,m going to be 60 years oΙd and Ι stilΙ feeΙ Ιike Ι,m - spirit wise - 18, |9 or 20? W.e,re aΙl endowed

Stxι:l ιr iιi;;; ι:;.i. lr :ιl::a:i:ll:r! l,]:::::ιl l }ιsi*l: 3ι:irll lJιl :l1i llighιs }t.:slιr:r.l illprιigi:ι'|cιil:: 'ξ:;lliy; j.l.:lil j

|i'.i i,:r::

35

SexuaΙitγ ΜaxlιιaΙ The thing that is clear for me about indiγiduality that makes it sο interesting is that it,s the kind oΓ sexualiry th"rl, going ro be more and more common. Thar is a sexuality drat perhaps won't be able to My great concern, and at dre deepest levels of my rvork, is to awaken tλe pas. have tlιat ,'",.." ",.yλre. yo"^hΨ Senger consciοusness in human beings. Ιt,s one dιing to correct fri vqιΙiql9 i Ιt,s iust a simpΙe Stηεegy 1nc|eΦ:l..y,ηd yqΨ.o|,.ΞΦτΦΦ But the igurney oj-awareness {o1the

λ"..,,",ily

mean it reΙative to us, Ι mean that relative to those that

outer Αuthority

willcome 50 or

100 years from now.

is So Ρure.

Ιt reminds me of the Power in ιhe L2-22to be able to turn you on acousticaΙly. Ιn fact, that rurning on can be rather dumb. Ιt doesn ε have to be wonderfιrlwords that are being spoken, as a matter of fact. Ιt can be something that,s jusε buried in the tonaΙ frequency itself Outer

SexuaΙity and

Mind

world where human beings lie to each other aΙl the dme; couples Ιie to each other all the dme, and parcners 1ie to each other all the dme. This is the function of the Not SeΙf mind; it lies and .W.e don ε have this abiliεy to connect to somebody in a way chat transcends cheats to Protect its interest. the dynamics oΓthe vehicΙe, where one meets the other through the spirit. This is reΦ what this muta. tion is all about, it opens up the possibility of passenger awareness, it,s folΙowing your Strategy and Au. thoriψ it,s Ιiberating you from mind, and it,s constandy tΦng to make decisions for you. Αnd as long as you re listening to that mind, yoι/ll never liberate the passenger that,s waiting Γor its oppoπunity ro be able to exΡress itseΙfwithout reason. \rh." yo" si"k Φo". .h. .hi"φ . that is the Not SeΙf. Ι,m saying this bΞΞ""ΞΤhaι' ιvh"t ooι"' Αuthority is. "ot W.e live

in

a

Outer Authority happens. Ιt doesn,t come out for any

o,.,i@ot EΞ-tλe Passenger consciousness

re

ason, it just 9omes oΨt aΡd !her9,s

ΨlΨ!ryl

oΓ-e.hin-

can begin to undersand that the body is life .so Ιeave it alone. ΙΓyou \Mant εo know hovr it aΙlworks you can, but Ιeave it alone. Don t interfere with it, and don,t decide what youre going to do widr it. Just alΙow the true Authoriry that is there vrithin this construct to operate, it's 'We are objects moving in space, true Authority is moving us along a trajectory that a navigarion sysrem.

eΙiminaces resistance for us. Ιt,s good for your body, it,s good for your mind, and it,s good Γor the longevity ofyour life. Ιt aligns you with a perspective that is correct for you so that your eyes see what,s possibΙe to see. Ιt oΡens up this extraordinary potential that is tλere the moment your mind isn,t aΙways concerned .Ι,ve ..ok, gotta do ιhat.,, Ιι,s one of the things about understanding the entry Ι,Ye goπa do this" or abouζ ΙeveΙ of FΙuman Design.

The Entry LeveΙ

The entry leγelof FΙuman Design is vrhen you experiment with Sπategy and Αuthority and you see that,s it effecdve. Ιt,s where most people stay. For me, that,s fine because Ι knolv that it,s making their lives better. But they,re sdΙl going to spend tλe rest of their time strug8Ιingwith their mind. And you see, there,s no need in the end for this. Ψ.e unfoπunateΙy are the generation that haγe to decondition rather

than being born vrith Parents that raise you according εo your PFΙS, that raise you according ιo what is your Design so rhar you don't have to carry the burden of deconditioning. The adult human beingwith their history of Not Self has it reaξ tough. Their mind has been in charge for most of their Ιife, and it 36

R;;

Sexurliι: Ι,{:llιιal. inιcl:rιιtjοxιιl 1{ιui:ιin l)εsiqn Schοοi Ura l'{ι Αll l{;ghιs RtlerγeJ' {-οp-γ;iqlrι.iογiai Αιcλiι'ε 2υ

1Ο

Γ,*taΦε*q}xaa}

s*xeaxi Svsεexxa

doesn,ε Ιay down easy. But this is where the reaΙ chaΙlenge is and you onΙy gec tλere by surrendering to yοur

body. And you get there by watching and watching. Ιf you have any of the asPects that Ι,ve described todaμ chen when youre wiεh the other or you gec ωrned on by anotheη you simply need to observe. Ιt,s not about being uninvoΙγed. You,re body will do fine. Ιt,Ιl oPerate the way it shouΙd. Ψ.atch your movie unfoΙd, watch t}ιe way in which you dealwith .Waιch rvhatever it is that you,re deaΙing with. tλe eΙements of your nature put themselves on display in front ofyou. Ιt,s such a joy to rvatch that movie! ξ*Φιιqellyg .b.μ: Φ Pe.r9onality c'γ:!4 i9-αanscendent. Ιt,s why they callit incarnation _ its into εhe meat, into the flesh. This is a rented vehicle and iΓ c11opΞrate a{ on iti owψ you tJse ,,:.qsg-ffiΙΞΞΦ;ltb;.ξiιξqγ-.Ι.rylng'Φ-9μ-|9Ψ:!h.i"g-τhat dre beauιy and the magic. The only job that the passenger has is εo be a Passenger. And passenger cοnsciousness is not necessarily siΙent. Ιt is consciousness - it is our gift. ξ.9.p.rocgs-s, w.q chan thaε, we.re le of articulating these in formulas and expressing them to others. The one thing that is Ιacking on yoιlrfiiquΦaεΦaon is. Ιt,s a unique perceptiοn that is not here to make a point or to win something, or to afiΓect something. Ιε,s what you re capabΙe of doing, nothing more nothing less. Υoure capable of expressing a unique oucer Authority. Each of us is abΙe to. Ιt can be a Yery lonely pΙanet, waiting for somebody εo show up in your life. W.e can express our unique. ness and not be caughε up in the Not Self mind with its control and censorship of everything that we say.

9oj!@tπ;"dfiδ*

.s7,hen

lhat tn frts

vre think about

deeΡ

P.bΣ:1.jlΨΙgdty,

\λre See

drat

on^e

of the things chat is part oΓthe ιraditiοn is

γy-:bg::ηr.ψΦl,:ιgl"bs,.ιg-rb_l-ΦEΦ:eηψsη'd'Ψce. βj1iι ι_taιιιιc-c-oιcept. But you seeJor ffie spirit, sexuality is going to be something very difilbrent. Ιt,s noι to Say thaι the - kiΙΙδr monkeys. h,s not Ιike you ,ftdiεy of εh. body is .,ot?..li"g;b.Ξ";oi"d. v. ".. -".,λ,k can ignore it. But ιhere,s something eΙse for us to grasp aS we moγe closer to the possibiliry of generations coming inιo this world that can be raised correcdy. You begin to See εhaε we have to find a new_s-exuaΙity. Ιt,s waiting. Αnd thaι is the sexuιlitΙ gf chg Personaliry Crys1a|.got of tlΞΤo_dy b.'i ofth. Ρassengers. 9f .!:gιg"e η9991tial1ο be abΙe .o .oλ-"-

nicalio ea?Ιi oιλii tι.-'Ξ'Ψ$;l*i! &iιi1"g, mucualΙyentertainξ, p?δ1δffia;a' tEiifi;;; firδ;a no comμεltlon:-Ι{!b9-$;. δrf,d'tiines. The po,iibitiεy,δf being aΙιgneJ to r",..ii6λiyδnδn

δmmunicatJ with and that can communicate with you. Ιt is through this kind of communication εhat t.he consciousness of this plane could be πansformed. Dont count on this, because this is what,s reaΙΙy lackingnow. This is the movement oΓDesign, Youve got all these human being that are beginning to orient themseΙves correctly. UltimateΙy out of that wiΙlcome ouτetΑμt'hρ-ιΨ-.ΨΙ}ιqΨggg!μ$"4cann9!!:JogPged. They are simply unique, and it doesn,t mean you,ve got to agree with them. Uldm*tely, it,s s.l,"y th"t -Ψr. inε.Φd to communicate wh";;; h"';i;F,t ι9 each other at a higher ΙeJ. Ιt,s only chen that the ,."1 δΙl"Ξi*ilth ."" "-ξ.. unique. h-omogenized intelΙictual soup -@;@

Rsrmantiei*m This is the mutative calΙ and it reminds me of the 5th Line

oΨ:11.-ξ'Sete.

Ιts speaks about

Φgpρr-

sibiΙityofvrlr_o!elεy.kηds.qfq9|a3!qηs.h!p9-gbu.-o'urρ-@Αcommunicationthatis

deeper than anything chat we have ever experienced with the other. Ιt,s part ofyour aεtraction to he oεheη and it,s che same ιhing. Ιε,s entertaining, it,s stimulating, it,s interesting and it,s whaε we need in this life from the other. Ιt is not uniqueΙy yours in the sense εhaι you just have your cuε of the story. Everybody

ii':

5;;;:;]j;l Μl:lιt;li. -iliιlll::tiιll:;l i l:ι;l;:l i}*:lg* 5.:lοc;i ij: '1i1 lliμLιs 1]';:;:ι;ι:ιi {.']οliιitl:ι.l;l]:l 1l;Ιiιl )ι] jil

i.-:ιl:

37

$*

*xιxxi i rv &daxx*xeX

has the other sΙices.

And the true expression ofwhat is there in those slices has yet to be expressed. This

is the great chaΙlenge.

Remember drat FΙuman Design immediateΙy puts people in a position where they look at the mind ..this is where the problem is, bad mind.,, The mind is doing two jobs and it should only be doing one. It has no business being the inner Aurhoriry, bur ir doesn't mean rhar ir isnt incredible. Oh Ι love it. Ιt,s wonderful. Αs long as it doesn,t telΙ me what to do, everytλing is wonderful. otherwise it would be reaΙΙy dull, Γolks. And the beauty of it is that the moment that the Passenger begins to take its roΙe in your life, you begin εo see something rather remarkabΙe. There,s muc}ιmore going on in our consciousness than youve ever been aware of. one of the things tλat you noεice when you experiment with your PFΙS,-is that it has a direct affect on .b1ngingjψ11ψion 9o ghose areas'-of.εhe biλinΞyiι;iΞ; ardto iatio n. 16 u ωme di ate|Y no tlce he i gh CιjgnjΨ si. and they saμ

.

9g1e

:-1-b-rlght;Ξ

The effect of the passenger beingpushed aside is the take over οf the limited Not SeΙΓPersonaΙity. Ιt never got to Ιearn what it \λ/aS supΡosed to learn. ]hink about people with their educations and εhey,ve

done this and they did that. Did you enter it corre ctly ? \ζ/as it really for you or did you just layer that stuff on top of you and made that your Ιife when in fact it has nothing to do with you? These peopΙe that at some point in their ΙiΓe reaΙize that ..Ι never wanted to be a Dr. Ι reaΙly wanted to be a plumber.,, Ι don,ε

knoιv about that one but human beings are funny creatures.

The Not SeΙf is so disturbed. Ιt,s aΙl about being able to free yourself from the programming and the-conditioning. Ιt,s so simpΙe to do. Strategy and Authority are so simpΙe. Every time Ι1ay that,i also understand that ic means that the Not Self is powerful. Ιt counters somedring that is so simple and is so heeΙing. But youve got to disengage the mind - youve got to take away its responsibiΙity. You cannot aΙ. Ιow it to run your Ιife and after that it,s all okay. Ψ.ithout the Not Self the connecdons that you make with others, the way in which you're going to act and the way in which you're going to live out your experience is going to be correct for you, no macter whaι the movie brings you. Ι,m not promising a rose garden. Ι,m just sayingyou Ιl get whac,s yours, rvhateγer that is, Ι,m a fan of tragedy and comedy. Life shouΙd be entertaining. Buε the mοment that you enter intο anything correctΙμ no matter what it is, it serves you one way or anocher. Ιtt abouε our movement toιvards the fulfillment of our purpose on this pΙane; to live out our Ιives uniquely as ourselves, to trust in our own

Auεhοrity and to discover in that an abiΙity ιo truΙy be abΙe to love ourselγes for rvhat \Me are. Ιn that we can be ready for anything - for Ιove, for sex, for friendship. Ιε doesn,t make any difference, there are no conditions, there are no rules. There is the perfect freedom of operating out of your own Ρo\λ/er. Ψ.aεch your movie. Ιt,s the most entertaining thingyoure ever going co do in this Ιife. Every once in a whiΙe Ι remind those that Ι teach chat ιhey too are mythology. Αnd you have to Ιive your mythology. Υou have a right to live your mythoΙogy. Αnd ac this point, having access to the kind of informatiοn that you have, you have an obΙigation to do everything in your pow.r io Ιi,. out your ΙiΓe,

That brings us back εo the 55th Gate. ξψ qw-!.ere the 6th, in th9 Ρr9c9ssion ojtbggq"-g..,Φι th9g9φ9 yξr'e19-1t 9n!elΣ 'ιη-qo t'(@" c,ε.. I" 1σi ;lπ.,t", i"εo ft; gt.b,r εheme ιhac,s going Γ"6;;;i4bτ';,;. Th"ε.,. p,,i .riι'"t εΙλ.Τ g"ffig δ6e the 6th "Linc, on the

i,

55iΓGπ"ffi

.E-t1ieffoΓ;;1ftλncss. orElπTΞΓwiro.,sΙy.λΙienΙig},Εr,ed= seΙFJΙir,ess. ]Πs ib'oniyo" fi,ii, b..""'. if you,re noc t{ξare Φ"gfΦiιg-r,€g!g to Ιe wψhwhile-inihis Ιifc.Gu firs.. yo,.λΓ.hoλ7

Nοbody Γ,' a rξ6Ξ

38

no-fldliδfif"d;ilτ;;- toτ;'ourxnfiδriTy.1ι::r:aiiιι λJ:llι:ll]. 1lιιl;:;:tiοr;li Ι 1:.ιl.:;: l).:sig:l !cil.lιli i-ir ,1,i1 li.iqΙιs li'rrelιeιl (.,c::v;igi:ι.iοv]:i:; ,i:;liιι j.i;iιl

il'': i-i:ι:

-.

nx-eaεp*iq}*ex&

5*xel'a& S.l.s**xaa

CοΙΙecdγe Str.eam Ι,ve spenι 21 years lοoking aε the Bodygraph. There are some things ιhat Ι find deepΙy fascinating,

and the fascinatiοn nevef goes away. sΓe,re going to ιake a look aι one οf those ιhings today, :q[::ciγq There are many places that Ι can take you, but urhe re Ι want to begin is ge ειing a Sense oΓ this ΣΞJΦΨ.s7.hen Stream. we,re looking π ιhe Bodygraph and at the way in vrhich ιhe inΓrastruccure is, we see chat it,s laid ouε in Str€ams ιhac becοmes part oΓCircuiεry. There,s somefiing really unusual about this parcicular combinaιion. Ι knοrv very odd ιhings about iι. Ιε can never reaΙly benefit from the mutaιion that Ιi, is ιakingpΙace now in ιhe Solar Ρlexrs. Ι., λat sense, it w-ilΙtever rδηπ'.yawffiil .

:

:

δ

i

mecnanΙsm ls aΙΙ aDouι.

*-

""cΓ;16

--

Buc tο begin with, we have the 31sε Gate. The name draι is given εο this in De. sign, by the waμ is ιhe LΙuman E,xperiencial Ψ.ay. Ιt is the quintessentiaΙ human sιream. sΓidlouc it chere is no existence aS we undersεand ic on εhis plane. This is the driving Γorce of life οn the planeε. Ιt begins with the 41and iι is very interescing - d-ιose of yοu thaι have been following che raγe new year -

be

cause

iι

is qhe

ΦitiatΦg:oι19Ιl. Ιn

ιhe language οΓ genecics iΓ ]λ/e cοuld imagine che genecic code as a string of senιe nces,

capiιaJized first le tteη then the capitalization would be the 41', Ιε is εhe ιhing that starts everything in terms of geneεic information. and eve ry sentence begins wid-r

a

inιeresιing when you Ιook aι the three stop codons. Th.y puι ιhe brakes so Γascinating οn. AEδntrοftffiishere: the 35ch codo.n. Νovrthe chingthat makes the 3-5 and ιhe -41 ey;ιge y.μjρ{9-η9.i+ εhsηi,ι-ιy. iu.r..c.trese -ar-'E ιι{Ιg]'e*. is chat mosc codons are combin ιhe 9l,* ε"r'.,lgΙq c.o-{gns.1η.{.-.h'9.y--1,s.-Φg.b'e-glnning and end of d-re hu:n-a1..eΨ9.rιe1tia1 - -'. stream. FΙere is .EΞ*p*ff.h.τ.finiξ;"δπ;;i;ch.;uλciJaιlo,i acιhe end.,.-.-.....-:, Ιε,s also

This is for all incenεs and purposes, a closed syscem. Ιt,s probably one of the mosι fascinating things. Underscand thaι ιhe human experience has been grafted on to us. Ιt really is self enclοsed, so whaιeγer is going on in here is a very unique phenοmenon wid-ιin ιhe Bοdygraph. Ε,ven relative to ιhe coΙlecιive absffacε, there is a Ιimitation εo che fluidiεy οf d-le process that,s here in this Scream. Thaε is, iι reaΙly is a closed offsystem. So, beginning ιι.ith thac, ιhe next ιhing thaι we really have to do before

\ry.e

can go an1,where is to

loοked c.ib4elΦgdΙ4Ψι-9exu{!cyφd we,ve think abouc cοmparison Γor a moment. "c Ιt,s rJ,"t,'.ffiorα,.-Τ,..uy,υδ,.,.'*, is about ιhem. similar S.* J that dιere,s somethingιhaι seen ) is simply anξrecΙient intotffiniir.ι:I$Ve,ve aΙready

Ιt is about :r1Ψ:l9ιo-1rj.e9._9oΞ19ψιΙ Ψ-{pιιq.gη!r-ip. ; 1i;::ι;;i, Jl. r:. :l:l.l;ι;:l.:; i ir:l::':;: I)ε,il:: : !ι ;lll.-i .!l:] l;lj:lJ:r,, 11ι:*ιl:,i {)l,1:.,1lg,]..1 iι;,.1.:;l :1':ι:].,l.:r ,).l]; ι

}

a bar-

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+

Sexιxaiity &{anιιa} gain. Ιt is about many things and part of thaι bargain is .sex. ,ft6r'i

.ok

we do it three days a week and then this, you take out the garbage and Ι,1l do th"t. Α,,d1., is simply parc of the bargain. And ofcourse, when we looked at πibaΙ sexuality what we saw was that, fo,.*,-pl. in the 4Oth Gaιe, we have the theme of masturbπion, and all of that is about birdr control. Ιt,s abouι being abΙe to fi.,d way in which the sexuaΙ impuΙse can be dealt vrith without ιhat

"

have a long hisrory bur it's very different today.

@

Nothing is cΙoser to ιλe reproduccive imperative tλan the αibe. No sense in having a community if there are ,.o .hlld'.,,. Ιn odrer words, it is inherent to being tribal. fn terms of sexiness, that couPle thaι

Φ&jgagigg.fo{ qη9!ι9η!-Φ3l.lsiiΦ."bψΦιηs tη fi"t. p."..,,. ft!ffi;[!qag,Jηnp=o*..gη:.- And if dre bargain is healthy, vrhacever the limications oΓthe sexuaΙ Ltargain -'=sΖ_-._--.-*

you

see

@s

-

aΙways going to be something that is secondary. Ιt is not going to be something that is

'.i"Effiffi disturbing the longevity

of the relationship.

is v! individuaΙityisveryΦ W,hen we,re looking in individuaΙity as we Saw last week, individuaΙity !----Lprocess of that indi. indi[Ξ_Φinalprocess Ιnu-.hτE'inιernal ΓY m Ιt,s very Ιove..,, Ι.,"*lΙy i'".

$

Jidual.

"...'',.Φ ιι'e^e o@ψgβ,e τπ6ψι t-ne

i ηged can see that thq iηsliviΦηllloestι,J ΞΞΞ"niee *e

iη&"p",e9!"ggΣi9g*gd@pps-ΦΦry..qf w.hg*":g*ψΦ Γomethins .-'-=-,ΨpossibΙe.

sex in order to

enl oy αΙe passιon-ι'EsηΣΙ9gι!ιgg=!Ιιs-J+.L'l!.:1llg:t!l/}-ψt.g 'J}'":%Ξ4--

So Φ9{'--ψ.e]ιe-qe-Ιki.-ηg.ab.9μΦe ιribe in fisjη..Φyidgel we,re talking abouε somethingvery different. that kind of sex. Ιt isnt. There,s alΙ these other τι,ι ii d".n"

.What

\

;;;ffi; h;;r.,-."rrΤ:Ξ*b;Τ important in drat sense. But. when λ,.h, .o.h

things that are

^or. i ιl /aboutSex.Noton1yisiιjustabout,.*bo.there,ssomethingve,yo

γou get tο the colΙective

iε,s

just

//,***,^_*q_

Think abour ir from the social poinr ofview. Remember that in the Bodygraph, if you'lg looking at -."ti{ yo" * lo Ψ"gg.h. :.ib., J? ι .When.ιve,re eveΓythilg Ιookinμt ιhis Ψ9 tΦ9,1y ,o.i"Ι Ch"η,4Ψf .bgglbe . δδ",i" the 59 /6.

+ ιι{iγ*ψglΦ "'.

b

P

ts socra

Let's go back to understanding the basic keynoεes of Circuitry. Ιf you re looking for the εribe, the and the emotion is need. Sex is all ιhrown into the bargain that provides for that need. ce is

ffiThi@,'δ@ok,

But you see . vrhat is progress?,, Progress is making more. Αfter alΙ, we,re aΙΙ caught up in the genetic imperative we ..reproduce, recannot i,.φ" it. This is εhe only thing that is absolutely the Ιaw of your genes. Ιt says, produce, rφroduce.,, And it doesn,t care who you do it vrith. Your genes don,t care about your Ιove life. ..Ιook, if we dont make more the species There is just this mechanism driving us as a bio force that says, dies.,' Ιfwe don,t make more.\ry,e don,t enrich dle gene pool.,,

Everything is abour making more and about progress, we see it in our children. Each generation gets the advantages of rhe previous generation, like our ability to share information' Buc you see, what is so Γascinating for me about this stream is that this is the human experiential way, and it iψgμaJedJλaΦjeδ. Ιt makes iivery difficult for aτ{/areness to be able to stand up and to guide one away from the Power that is there in these forces. The power is enormous.

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5*'.,.1i.γ 1γ{;nl'ι;1. Ιnιcln:ι]*;::l l"lι;nl:l l]c:itll Scl:οοl ll';ιUrι }']ι: ΑiΙ Ιt.igλιs |'tser.γel (i:i:lιigiτι.k;τiall Λιcλiγ: )}1{l

}:ffi

ε.a*i g,}xaa}

5 *xιx x*.

Sγsrexxx

The t.xpεrienti*l sΓ*y

\[e hive a deep sex drive as creatures. And obγiοusly each and every one οf us has differenι cοnfiguraιions. sΓe have different aspe cts οΓ these εhings. Ι will give you a tasce oΓ ιhat ac che very end oΓ our explοraciοn together. Υou really haγe co have a sense of hoιr much of a trap we,re in, because oΓthe sexual dynamic that is inherent in our human way.

The ιhing about the collective Stream itself is thaι it is fundamentalΙy social. Because it is fundamenb..",,,. i,Τ@..g9.abaι., ,hi, i, Φ9|9 Ι94,.Φη is. k,s not So much that ιhese ιally social ".,-d people are necessarily beπer aε it εhan anybody else. Ιε,s d-rac it is easier for εhem to find iε and it,s easier Γor them to aιtracι it. This is εhe Γrequency chat is there and the frequency says, "Ι want εο share it with you.,' This is alΙ about the shared sexual experience.

bufl Ι watch a loc οΓmoγies

Ι,m a great film

- iι,s my way oΓdecοmpressing from rηrhat Ι do, Υou see

every kind oΓεhe me obviοusly and you see all kinds of characters and you se e allkinds of scenarios. W.hen you lοok at che naεure oΓhoιv our mοdern culπre lοοks at sexuality, you see that εhere is this fear of d-ιe

!-o*-"l -9Ψ,.l-sιj11|yay.

b;;,

]linnares

Th-9_r-e--1'.s-Φιs"'f.aη-abo.qt

the shic out οf peοple.

":j l4ggyql Φ*:llΙ.

s.-e.4uaΙity-becaμse fgqη-.ιhe'41 .to 'εhe.J5 .h'9!9.l,q ι.!=.Ιi'

tsε:ειlg!Φψ,.,-Φψ.ats.ΙΙ-a .gl iΨιgjη. y9-. dρ,,

-{μ:1ss,-Φel*]9*J9g,q}-{g1e

.

..no,

rη,-e haγe lavrs, we have rules. Υοu will cover The momenι εhaι yοu Ιook at d-re tribe, εhe tribe Says, .W.e,re going cο circumcise you, etc.,'This is the πibe. The your Γace so ιhar no man wiΙl ever see you again. tribe says, hey loοk, sex is part of the bargain, you break the bargain and you,re in big ωοuble! Yοu knorv that theme in the tradiιionaΙ marriage cοntrac.t, love, h.ggqι and_ghg.η 1949 business. This is no-!. ft99' there is a price ,ιι,ΞlΞδδ*Jyιhi{. Ιi' JΓi" .Ιi. b,igΤiil τr'i, ι, -L'e,e you gec ιhe insane "yοu don,t loγe me as much as Ι love you,,, bargain nonsense. k,s all about lο11algy - don,ι look aι any oιher.\l,oman,

lMhaι don,t look at any other man, don't you dare! Dοn,t you ιhink abοuι doing all those crazy εhings, is the matter rviιh you, are you sick? Υou need religion. Ι dοn t \ηrant ιο get inεo that, ιhac,s quite a moγie. That,s a reΛ 19 49' 37.40 mοvie. Αnd ιhen you geε the indiγiduality and the moment ιhaι you get inco individualitγ ιhere,s allthese rules, Ι have εo be in lοve. Ι have cο be mοved. Ιt,s noq fηeg. Αnd che indiyiφ]!1vanξΤο fiηd s9η99|r1μ i,

ιι.,, iiJ*'*. *,".

tq

dρ'i'ηy.chir''';;. 'Υ";_ffi-8il..

i.-;;;6,r-'δ;;d;J;fihq.}; g;;;

pack their bags. So when v,e,re deaΙing with the Φηag€gΙιqlig,ιliqlψay,-vre are really dealing ιηrich εhe \λriΙd side oΓus. Ιt is the vrild side and it sιarts in the 41. Frοm the 41' cο che 35 vre're all lust little killer monkeys banging around.

--.....,,*"/

lttr- 3*: The {hann€Ι οf Rεcοgnitiοn οf 41: TΙre {iatc ιlf Sexιιal }lunge r Ι used εo describe this sεream as the

41.

Fcelings

Ιι,s got a gauge in it like a gasoline gauge in your caη

you that you,re empιy. Same d-ringwith the 35. The momenε rhψ 9h.a9 !.1 g=oe9 ment thar it ιγancs εo fiΙlup. Αnd its onΙy unciΙ -Γ-_-_--Γ==.τ :.* -.*"^'^μ,+-fΣ The Chaτιnel itsfiiΙrdτF1n"Γffe f5 chat it can reΙease iιseΙΓΓrom

.Γ,.ΞδΞ _

"ω exDerΙentlal

l..-

. -t.--_:-*i_-Ι .\Ι/aY

*=**=.

ΙS:

,,oεto orEΞ .oτδοn:-π. _ t.-Ξ-Γ.-l -i:; :''.'l

Deen cneΓe αone tnat, Ιt %

S

noι

ab*ou:.ryΡ-Ψigig.l,il-:"?.ηοucgaininge1Ρer.ie:nce. Ιn that 41st Gate, vrhat γοu haγe is this de

3Ο

The Clinging

Fire

ceΙΙs

οfl}esire Gaεe of Sexιra1 Feelings

Α Design οl1?ιιrnirig 41

Ι}ecrease

eι:l

!;:l l.ιi ι; l.].':,:;:. il lιι;:ll:.:]ι'l ] i :l:l:l -ι:: 1-}ι :il.:; l !ι :,:..l ]i'ιi,ιl:Iiι: ,ill.}l.]-:llljl.;:lιl.,.i L-ι::l,;llt]:ι'i.:.l;;l'.1,lι]l;r-;]l]ii j

.Ιhe

iι

d9τr.9lo empty is the.mo-

l :,

flre Garε οΓSeπa] FΙιrnger Α Ι}esign οΓFaιrεasγ

Sex*a}iεv/ &{axaιιai driγe and it,s chere in the Root with aΙl of tλat energy, with aΙl of that Ρressure and liΕΓend of course, wiδin the language of sexual keynoting, this is alΙ about fantasy. Ιt,s the fantasy that _.r-.:-r Ι drives this hunger. This is the rooc ofpornography. hunger.

Ιt,s a powerΓul

Later rnre will get to look at the other side - Φ.-qΦ.g side - of vrhat the holisdc lovg coηceΡt is all about. \Γhen you go over to theTδsΞΞiEΞ i, ,o diff.,.,'ι , ,o*?iEΕΓi6ΞΞoΞth... ,,"i,tL,,.' there. But here in this sexual hunger - here in this fantasy - is whar's possible. And you knorv what happens εo it? Ιt gets locked in.

ThisistheChannelofRecognition.Ιt,s&"Ctl.ιestreamisabout ι' ltΠιi,Φ@ &Φgg One of the things that is interesting about coΙlg.α,. tggicaΙ side along

widι the abstract

'.,o"lity

qide - in the relationship to the menεaΙ system and tο the eyes

suhcedbγιheacoustic-romanceisrootedintheacoustic.The tribaΙbarga;ΓaΙΙ" ν

fiΞm.

**.#

One of the things to recognize about the depth of the feelings that run *ιrough this stream is that εhose feelings can be stimulated by visual experience. ss.ι"g'9η"b9Φ "Ψ9 η

Φ"-&'ιΦ-i*ιt31yω.]9.9!i*φ.eΦ.*ΦΙt,snotanalΙ

over the pΙace fantasy. As a matter of fact, iΓπ gets dysfuncdonaΙ you can say it,s a fetish. Ιn other words, it,s the kind ofperson τhat is onΙy πrned on by case may for whatever reason they can never get past it. This is one οf the most interesting things about this stream because it is a cΙosed in circuiε. lΕyou don,t g.t

So you have

fiis}ψlgΞ

η1':Ψ-9:j:.::gιg*ι.f*j*ΙηΙd:ι1*-:*}e

thaε naturalΙy

A"d yJμ:gμΙgΦq{gjlbecause

1Φ

so painful.

{':.ηghggΦgΙ

thi'aΙδne - Y\nφd s9 share εhe fan w!!h. Nobody is going to fantasize abouε being aΙone and masturbaΓng. TΓis iΙabout something with lse and r. Not onΙy are they a willingpartner but they share the same fantasy with you. Because it,s not individual at all: it,s collective. Ιt,s social. And it,s sΦng, "look ifwe share this fantasy we can haγe a Ιoε of fun and we can get it ouε of our it,s coΙlecεive. Ιt,s no good having

system. Let's get it out of our system."

oh, human beings. \Γe

ifyou εake away the sexuaΙ hunger you have experiential hunger. This is what the gods have given us in this framework. of aΙlthe other things that are there vrithin the context ofwhat is holistic for us, experientiaΙ hunger is the thing dιat holds us back. Like Freud's sort of funny way of trying to look at things like the shadow and rhis kind of sexual deprh drat is within us. Ιt,s here in this stream. This is as primaΙ as you get. This is the core of sex drive. And it are interesting cre atures. You

se e,

is the human drive. Ψ.e,ve gone through many cycΙes because the 7th centered being has tended to be dominated by

religious morality. There has been enormous repression ofwhat is εhis fundamental drive. Please do noε misunderstand me because I'm speaking about the theories relative to a construct, as in this case it's the coΙlecdve sexuality. Ιt,s quiεe difΓerent when you see it holisdcalΙy. Not everybody waΙks around with this kind of configuraεion, aΙthough there are peopΙe who do. Ιt is simpΙy about understanding that this has to be seen within a Ιarger context. Ιt isn,t the be aΙl and end alΙ, but iι is our way. .s7''harcver

important for us to be abΙe to handle the sexuaΙ dynamic of life in a healtξ way. the αibe and the individuaΙ prοcess may be, in many ways, is a hindrance to us deaΙing with whπ are our basic sexualiry and our basic sexual urges. The tribe wiΙl noc aΙΙow you - oιher than in certain sects, certain Ιt,s very

42

F.;l

5εxι:iiιι λJ:ι::l:l. ilιtr:::|iοη:i l Ιnn:an l}e:ig;l !chl.lci Uru |'lc -ξil R]glι-" }.ι:se ιγcιl {,οpvr];|rι'|οιil::: Αrch]ι: ].i

iιl

Xixax*εi*raa{ s *xεaa& $γsε*xx religions that have muld partners and whatever and obviousΙy patriarchies in which women are secondclass ciεizens - in that bargain. Ιt,s you and tλem for life. Ιn romance you exPect that either love is going to be there forever or you,re going to be shattered and

depressed for the rest of your Ιife. The absract says, "Ιet,s go have some fun. \Γhat do we need all these .What,s this moraliry αip ?,, Again, yοu can see how complex we are ' rules for ? Ψ.hat is aΙl that business ? humans - this experiential rvave. The journey iιself is in and This is what driγes and it,s realΙy fascinating. of itself exciting. That excitement is part of the sexuaΙ favoη and we,re not here to do it aΙone. Ψ.e,re here to cake the other with us.

The Gate οfSexιrai Fetlings Thenwe gettothe 30. ThereareGatesinthisstreamthatarejusclittlewonders. Ιlove thenameof the 30thGate.the clisιΙgfire. Ιsn,tthatavronderfuΙname? ThisistheGateofthe Fates. ksaystoyou, ..you,ve got f"ntξffi1d Let me εell you something, it isn,t going to wJrΤ out ihδivay you want.,, This " ..look, you want to try tο do that thaι way? Ι tellyou, is the great challenge of the fates. They say ιo you, 3(}:

that's dangerous, you've got to find another way''

And of course, this i| ΦgΡ-ul€tst::191οnaΙ cha The faεes get in the way. The fates q,ι}aιgg-gY"9tμbΙ& 1n Nothing is more attuned εo the rnotor than this sαeiπi.-ThEie be tyre e,-r thq 6, γhich is Φg=.qρψrse-qf t.tι9 Ψ-o--!.9J.Ι9Y9, an.d itsl o.pgosition,Jζ'b'ΙcΙ lqrte 36 (which is part of this rγhoΙe stream). [n other words, there,s a deep compΙexity in all of this. One of the things to realΙy recognize abοut this stream is that it,s the Ρurest moιor function. Ιt has the most

dense connection to the waγe.

Ιf youve goε a fancasy and a hunger and it doesn,t rnrork out the way you Ιike, you can go down and

.Why

do you think that suffer. Everything about the human experiential \May gets Ιocked into the wave. .!7'hat,s ..FΙow happenare you today? εhe most common thing that human beings do is greet each other? co bad dmes, there,s going ing to you in εhe waγe today, get any?,, Ιtt the waγe. Good times, hard dmes, be 7 years of famine - you know aΙl thac stuff This is the human experientiaΙ way; up and down. This is the movie. For somebodyΙike me who is open emotionally, it,s so obγious to me that the frequency of the pΙanet is like the rising and faΙΙing oΓthe sea with the ddes, because that,s what it feels Ιike. There,s aΙways this moγement in this huge wave of emοtion on the planet.

So,hereyouhave thisGateofsexualFeelin_g. The fantasyhere isapressure. The momentthatthere . -ffi |nerels1Ρ-osslD_ιlltyιnaεtnatPressure,'8o. ing tb Ι".k i" o" one parιicular feeΙing, and is a is a connection. there . not need.! FΓt' .,oh tl 1.α:'''''..|.'''_ ghis They're realΙy different things. Ι *",t that." &ψ w,"q, εhis become' the ye,inir,g. !s ]hii ii qniie Ιδice. Αnd because this is emotional and because this is yearning, there is a rising and falΙing in that yearning. i: 19η51hing thaτ can reaΙΙy hurt.

!9gμε

.$7,hat

they,re looking for is not Ιike what the individual does with the pain of their romantic emotions. The individuaΙ suffers and writes poΞglΦgιιt_ιt T-9e}-'rι19!*P9rj.911]9lqoki.ng βt99g1-9.b9dy εo

h.lpth.e .\(rho

can Ι share this

il';J;6;'';.;;l-.o'kiη€.

with.

Ι,ve got to geε rid of

this. Ι have to get rid of this. l haγ9 to ηevgds:',p..μ.W,,herever

ence. Ι want it and Ι can,t do it wiεhout thaι other.,, inδΤing after or torvards the other. Ιt,s what we undersεand These are terms that are realΙy misnomers in

iJιl

a

you go in collective sexualicy you see this

γp:{ιqΙj:y:-|γl

way. Ι,m not a moralist; I,m a mechanic. Ι just Ιook at

i':i..r:i?ri.::1'1i .}lι*lllι Ιl;'.1gl Se1:*l Α]i,1i.iιlis ii'cl':ιrtι:] {.,*}"ιιigi:.};l]r:: 3'ι;};j:: ]i.]i..

S;:lι;i]ιι l1:'l:ι:':}]l.; ].-i:ι:

Theyaresaying,

43

$ *xtea} i εγ &.{aιxι: ιe}

iι for whπ it

nothing else ιo do abouι it. After aΙΙ, ιhe onΙy thing you need εο knolπr is yοur Scracegy and Auchority, The rest oΓ it is just interesting. But it is reaΙiy sοmething when yοu look aε it and you get a glimpse oΓιγhac chis means and how it,s misunderstood. Firsc of all, remember chaε ιhe vasc majority ofhumaniεy is operaεing as Not Self. the me chanism, Ι smile and Ι see

is and r.here,s

..Ι,ve

So εhere,s this Γorce in there that says, got his hunger and this fantasy and Ι,ve goε chis feeling ..ok, inside of me and Ι reaΙΙy want that!,, Αnd d-re mind comes in and says, leε,s join someεhing, let,s do it. Leε,s find it,i horrοr sοmeching abouc Then the gο sεory begins because iι,s driven by ιhe mind, "ΙΓ Ι can,ε geε ιhat one Ι,m noε worεhy,,, and ic goes on and on. And then it becomes sick and obsessed. This can become incredibΙy obsessed, and in thac obsessiοn it gets so dοlπ.n. Ιt gets out oΓconιrοl and rhey go up and make a mess of εhings.

The Bittef

Ρill

The Noc Self is a bitεer pill. FΙow easy it is ιo be cοrrect in this Ιife. None ofyοu are gοing to be able tο remember more than 1Ο% ofrvhat Ι,ve shared with you after we go chrough d-rese 11 weeks because it vriΙl be in your body. Fοr those ofyou ιhar are right minded, it,ll be deeply stored. Buε iε,s not like you,re going ιo be able ιo access all εhose nuances, to remember ιhat d-ιing or εhis thing abοuε yourself or ιvhere

you,revuΙnerab1e.ΙcreaΙ1yisn,caboutthaε.Theawar€nessi.fi.r.Αnd iξ means εhat the mi@d; ;τlΞπE. il;, Strategy andAuthority,ιicis:it,sοkay.Αndyou,11see.,,p.,,.,'g*..

εhaι as you enter into bοnds, relationships οr ιvhacever it is correcdμ you,ll see your mechanics unfοld. Ιt,s ..yes rvhere the jοke is. Αnd iε reminds your passenger εhat, indeed, you,re just in Something, being taken aΙong for a ride.,,

The vehicle thaε you,re in Ιikes sex, it,s designed for it, Ιε,s a reproductiγe machine and it has all ιhe equipment it needs. Υou can just wacch and see che ιvay iε ιvorks. EΓe aΙl have a unique drive sexually thaε covers the enεire spectrum oΓιvhac is possible, Ιt,s noc abouε εhis one or tλat one, it is simpΙy thaε you,re only going to realize ic by operating correcιlμ ιhere is no odler way. Υou don,t get to see .what,s ιhere.

35 - 36: The ChanneΙ οf Tiansitοriness 36: The Gate afSexιιaΙ Crisis Ι mentioned the re1atiοnship beεween the 6 and the 36 earΙier. iεs acιually one of εhe mosε profound oppοsitions thac we have in εhe wheel. There are a couple relationships thac are reaΙly spe cιaculaη buι ιhis one is very unusuaΙ. That is, the 6εh Gaεe is the crue decision maker ιvhen it comes corvheεher a b:μgg igggo g:,Ιg1o*b ιo* :

e

.ξrιi .teτ t

iΙ1 e o

o9

ΕJ!9 ι!:,*Ψμq Φ..@

Ι -.,-o !:-Ψb9

ιhe emoιional mocor.

Ι,::!:tεySeg.of

i:eiηg-.

The ChanneΙ οf Sexua|Talent 35

Ρr:οgress

Τhe caεe οΓSexιlaΙ Bοredοm Α Ι)esign οf Experience

Lighι

*

Ι: i,

the Solar Plexus s},steη an'd--its oppositio-ιis the

E:ΞΨ:g;

36.- -

Ι thlnk the36ch Gate is one of those Gates thaε end up getting a bad repucaεion

chrough che Not Self because when yοu meeε beings rvhο have εhese kinds οf ac-

tivations and drey are accing as εheir Not SeΙf their ιvοunds and scars are so evident. Ιt begins vrith a name after a11, the darkening of che light has quiεe a quality cο ir, doesn,ι iι ? Ι rather like iε. Ι think thac ic,s one of those beautifuΙ ways of e4pressing ιhaε 'wiιhouc surrender εo the form principle' εhere is noεhing. Υou can fil1 yourse1Γ \ηrith all d-re bloody Ιight you like buε it dοesnt mean a ching ifyour vehicΙe doesnt operate cοrrecdy. So 36 Darkening οf dle

Τhe gate of Sexual Crisis Α l)esign οf Ιnex;:erience

Σ

aaaε>εi q}x:a$

s exaaxX Sγsε*xxa

many people, for so Ιong, were Ιooking for the light and they were looking for the wrong thing. That is, iε \π/aS

n,t go ing εo do them any gο

o

d.

J9ΨΙ-&.-ξm.- -9_!l}. &'.-η -. aη

your spiriι waken, onΙy d-ιen can you begin to acπalΙy experience what our self refected consciousness is ..#

capaDre or. .$7.hat

we need ιo know about the 36th Gate is that it,s a Ρenetrator. Ιt,s power is the power to penetrate. That power to Ρenetrate can be taken inlhe ιexu{g'gφΤδETreaΙly mean in the sense that if ..where somebody said to me, would you find Φe greaggst rrggΙ1lggμφg9?,, Ι would say that ic,s in the 36. giC9_urage, because it's abοutdifferent things. The 36wilΙblindly ΙΙrq"'4ηtbgt Ρenetrate, or try to Ρenetrate, anything. Now ihaι can sound Ιike a bad joke by the waμ and ifyou re giggΙing, good foryou! But nonetheΙess, chatt the 36.

1he36i,@ing.becausethat,swhatit,smadefor.Ιt,snotgoingcobeheldback by the fact that,

it.

..Ι,ve

neYer made love in a canoe before.,, Ιt,s nοt going to be held back by the fact that

it

want to do somethingthat hasn,t been done, or to do somethingdifferently tλan the way it was done previously. To break through the ice, to crack in, to get across; this is the 36. Ιt is an enormous po\η/er.

hasn,t done

Ιt,s designed to

You see it has this label oΓcrisis. Ψell oΓcourse ! ΙΙΙgg-dg--ΨηΦr"g Φg fitqt g!ηe experien'tξ!]y.. chances are, εhings that are goinpgo \Mrong. Th. .",.oΞffi over; crisis comes out of thai.

1ΦiΙtff;.numbero...,.,..pnumbert\λ/o,stepnumberthree,step

πi'i;';

.

number four,,, and then gets εo it,s desired conclusion - aΙl laid ouε for you, don,t have to \η/orry about a thing. That,s not the 36: it dοesn,t haγe a foor plan. Ιε rvhaτ che conseq.ue-nc-e9. oflt-9'.e1rp.-e5η 'doesn,tknow ence wi!!-ξiηg. Ιε doesn,t think about the possibilityoΓgetiξstuΞΤiiιiid;i;€'ΓfiΞ ii"oe and drowning. Sο there is this incredibΙe power in the 36 to just go do Ψ.e11, there are consequences to that.

iι

This is the Design of Ιnexperience. But ι!}j$*9qi-!-9..-:'b".*.i.'.:.Φg9xpe'rience, it,s about..leε,s do chis and let,s try that, let,s see what this does.,, Think about us as human beings, hοw we w,ere nοt conεent to have enough ιo eat in our given valley. W.e had to go to the next valΙey and the next vaΙΙey and the next ..let,s one, until we covered the planet. W,e even Ιeft the planet! Ιt is this, haγe another one and Ιet,s have another one,,. There are peopΙe εhaε have egleri999-qε-"Ι9gψ.dl99s of th-g'ir s9xu4! pot-eη.tial Any kind of

experience.anffibecausethisis;ha;*.",i.-]hi,isthΞwaywe,redriven.You can't escape it.

35: TΙre Gate *f Sεxιeal triοreιlοm .W,'hat

a great name :

typtοphan.

Ιsn,t that a nice name? The Gate of Sexual Boredom. it,s one

of

the deΙlghts of the 35ιh Gate. First of all, the 35th Gace is one ofyour fauΙt Gates, buε we,lΙ get εo thaε in the next chapter. The thingthat makes the 35 so interestingis thaι iι iyξp]ry1γhe1e-ghe 9xpe=r!φ99 911 fiηglfbs l9ft Q-e.hηηd. This is very important. Υou see, oη}-ξlg'!9_g-e.ts-φ be satisfied. Ιt,s one of the tor. menεs οf the

Φ-.'φs.

Ιt,s

collecdve but it caη

ηQ-v.eΕ-get

satisfacdoμ-....W,hen youre looking

Y@.

i.;"dl;.''

there is desire moving εhrough you.

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.,Ιd!glgfψll Ιε,s Ιike aΨΙ&sg]jiωelf ιεΤΞ"*,ffi Αt leasε o,,t-iΙ th.iδΞ d-.

Process there is no satisfaction; there is only cqμpΙecion. Ιι,s

The whole thing about εhe 35 is that when it doesn,ε functio.η'p*r9fΞ4L.ιt φ9Ps rep'e-a1igg.thlngs -9-η to find a satisiaction it can.never fi"dTΞ"",. y"" ;;., t" .h; Qiii."toG;';.λ;;; i' p..d-

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The abstract can never perfect anyεhing, that,s not what :'i:a.l il;lil,; ]1]ll

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$*xιaa&iεv &{*x,aιaa} for. Ιt is simply there for the experience and once the experience is complete, one can let go of it. The ..been there don that, Ι,ve had the experience, Ι don,t need ιo do it again." This is why it 35 wants ιo Say, ends up being the 9ΦΙι9l ofSexualThlent. Ιt,s about sexual taΙent in the sense that it,s a mirror to the taΙent. You know h.l" to p"ε 16-as on fie-Ιogclηe,Τ.Γh,,','.1ofTaιφ9.*t1ψ1η9η:}94 it,s

t,..*t"Φo,ition,*it[δntΤ*ti"gyo".fr

Kno\λ/S

wnaε tnat s ΙιΚe, \λ/an6 ιne nexι ιnng.

'.";;;Ffi aΓiiJeiPeriδ-tial,m.

See, one of the dilemmas for the absπacε emotionaΙ being is geπing stuck -

yo"il.ii

dlis is their reaΙ problem.

Andagain,Ι,mreferringεothe.NotSelf,howitbecomesΦzu".ι-ιq'@Φy&::

the moment that theyget into..it couΙd not ΙogicaΙ. Logic says it couΙd be better behave been better", they,re following a logic πack, and they,re cause there,s a patcern and you know whether you can fulfill that pattern or not. You knorπ if ιhere,s room for improvement. This isn,t the case in the abstract. The absπacι is abou'ι go'inηh1o:g\1b9 g::pggg.gee

Φis feelingthat it

couΙd--b-ρ

η9g:*:9*o-#jayΦj9Ι}9g9!*But

Ιt,s hard to do. - Ψd tφg-,Ιggg.

So you-erylgμaq|-the obsessioι9. Th.y end up with

a-Φd

fo"!Ψ-ΦE-'1re'v*e1!et go of. The same

fantasy,runningthroughthatbeatoverando,.,"g,l,.@τπ.#;τiessivefeel-

ings, the same obsessive desire that they cannot get rid ofeγen though they πy it out. Eιφ'qlιs-ψhΦΨ share it widr others iΦiψl'.".g.!,iη.9ΨΦb,::1Ψ:.Φgr:eμ-l.rgg And they can,t let go because they,re

&ΙF.lfu;a;h;;;;"; The Trib€

vs. Thε C*ΙΙecεiγe

in our way, in our cultures and societies to put some kind of prοtective covering ..what are you around the privacy of our sexuaΙ lives and thoughts. But dre pure experientiaΙ way says, crazy? Ι just want to get laid. Ι just want to have a good dme and enjoy the experience with somebody else. Ι don,t v/ant to look after them and Ι don t vrant εo be in Ιoγe with them.,, For most of us, for the pΙanet, that,s not something that is supported. You can see the density of αibaΙ infuence in our lives and the competition beαveen the ribe and the cοlΙective. Ψ.e try very hard

yeaι Ι was in London and Ι happened to be near Marble Αrch because Ι was teaching there. Ιt,s an area ιhat has a great many peopΙe from the MiddΙe East and there are an awful Ιot ofwomen rvalking around in γeils. Every οnce in a whiΙe you lΙ see one of tλese coΙΙecdve pornography shops. Αnd it,s a great image. Theselry,omen are totaΙly coγered with this dense moraΙiεy and a verytribal scene and in the background, and this coΙlecdγe says,..οh there,s this to do and there,s that to do and the other ιhing.,, You can See this enormous conflict with the rise ofwhaι has been collecdγe Power. Ι had an incredible image of that Ιast

CoΙlecdγe Power is very much a part oΓwhat it is to be a nine centered being, That is, the nine centered being has brought a shift away from our roots as individuals. Ιt,s been a shift away from our morph

into the tribalfoundation that buiΙt our cultures and sοcieties. The colΙectiγe is this gΙobaΙ organizing Pov/er that has covered everyching. Ιn doing so it has opened up everμhing. Ιt,s in confict with both the tribe and with most individuals. You see εhis closed offcircuit? Everybody ιries to push it away, co hide it, to make it bad, to make iε naughtμ to punish it. The tribe can,t stand the colΙecεive. Think about these peopΙe chat have πibaΙ definition. Youve goε somebody that,s got rhe 40-37 and they haγe the 17.62, and their mind hates their emotions. Ιt can,t

sand their Emotional Ego, it just can,t stand it. Αnd their Emotional Ego is toally opposed to their mind. Ιnside the body, inside a human being, aΙl of these conficεs are alive in us. Think about the ten46

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F,axa*εi*xxx} S*xaaa& Svsε*x:: sion . because it,s there. Ι,ve got rhe 12 pointed at the 22. Ι,ve got the 40 pointed x the 37. Ι,ve got the 49. ΛndΙ,ve got rhe 4| poinεed at the 30. You can be puΙled every single way. FΙuman begins become so confused about what is okay.

ΑΙl the myths in the way sexuality is presented, particulaξ to young people, Ιets us chanics can be so heaΙing.

abοut understanding thaε Not everybody is here co live out

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you are and it is correct foryou, go to it! You see, uniqueness is an incredibΙe word. Ιt is such an absolute. W.e are unique. This is che gift that being able to oΡerate correcξ brings you in this Ιife. You are unique, there are no ruΙes. You re nοt here to be conditioned, to be εhis or that. Yοu,re here toτxpeqi.η:9Ιh** you are here for - the way..'., you are here to meet..-the otheη the way You re here to partake of Ιife, of loγe, of

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seι of food, of anything, tΦ Ι.:.η!y whqn-ig! 99T.Ψ g oout.off that u g ηJy yι,-"..Ψ!-|_ ιoming ψ' 9 $ψ uniqueness ';** P":-*::l*y:!i*g εhaε,s the mind. |usc vour vehicΙe.

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Ι.} y.", Ι.-,-!-9!.y-o:"1g$:9gg..r. Υο=1ιηg4η9gxe*g--is 1voy.eψin this movie. And the moment that it tries to get invoΙved, everything ge-ts-distorted. Ιt,s the body thaε wants to make loγe .-IΞs ftτδa,;-δnΙ, the6o.dy., fu ihe onΙy way εhai you,re goiig:Τibe able to experience who you are as a sexual being, is by operating correcdy and wacching what happens. W'atch your dynamic unfold. .What

Ι,ve noticed _ and Ι,ve been around quite awhile

times Ι,m individuaΙ and someεimes Ι,m colle

c-tive

πibal and some. . Ιt,s just the way it is and Ι,m a Splene tic Ego Manife stor no\Σr' -

is that sometimes Ι,m

s@Ιi'€]ΤΙil;icfithδiiry.SometimesΙgeεmarried,sometimesΙgetdivοrced,

.When sometimes Ι falΙ in Ιove, and sometimes Ι just have sex. Ι was young and Ι was part of the boomer ..heμ generation Ι rvent through three very fast marriages. Ι used to think, you ve got your problemsi, but ..hey...Ι,ve Ι don,t. This is the beautiful thing about seeingyour mechanics; you can sit back and saμ goc nο choice.,, Ι dont have any choice. Ι can,t erase actiγations or add definitions. This is what Ι am. And this is the way that I am going tο be. And aΙΙ Ι can do is be cofrect'urithin myself and watch what happens. Ιt,s what Ι do - it,s interesting and it,s entertaining.

f&ε Ρr*cess

The moment that the mind is inγoΙved is when this whoΙe system breaks down. Ιc,s about going through the experience and leaving it behind. Ιt is obγiously promiscuous but it doesn,t mean that the promiscuity is a one.nighc stand. Ιt can be a three-month stand or whatever the case may be. Ιt is a prοcess. But iε is a process that demands going through to the other side and letting go. Ι do not Vrant εo share this with you anymore, Ι want to find somebody else to share this with. And this is noc about mar..look, riage and divorce, this is abouζ it was for sex in the first place and now Ι want to move on.,, This is a consιant moving on. By the waμ understand the genes in alΙ οf this. They love it. There are more possibiΙiεies for more interesting combinations this way. The more inceresdng the combination of genes, the greater the possibiΙiεy of εhere being interesdng genetic material. Unforεunately, what we,Ye Seen as a result of this is that we end up in modern coΙlective societies where there are millions and millions oΓdisenfranchised peopΙe who do not belong to ribes at alΙ that are just caughε up in the colΙective mess . the human experiential way. Ι[e are designed to be driven in this Ιife, to move on, to go frοm one experience co the next, to never be satisfied, and εo accePt never being satisfied. Ψ.e,re constandy being engaged by the promise and the possibiΙity that perhaps satisfaction is possible, and yet one never gets it.

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r 5{exιxx}*εv &{xrxιaaX ..oh

you re a fool. There you are with your fantasy and in your fantasy iε aΙl works niceΙμ doesn,t it?,, FΙoweveη this is not the way iι works in life. Ιt isn,t. This is differ. ent. And what makes Ιife so interesting is the vast diversity of life that we see as the resuΙt of the human experiential way. To keep on moving on, to go up beyond, to the next, to keep on probing, to keep on Ιt,s the fates you

know. The

faces say,

Ιοoking _ this is what drives us. To undersand how deep a force this is in Ιife is the true sexuaΙ dynamic ofhumanity. This is what it reaΙly is. Rock botcom. Bottom Line sex, ιhis is vrhat it is. Ιt cannot only be about the hοlisdc life. This is not the kind of sαeam that is going to lead to the potentiaΙ for offspring. Ιt isnt going to bring the warmth and the glue ιhat the αibe wiΙlbring, and the nurturing of the child that is part of the bargain. Ιt won,t bring the bloodlines, and the inheritance assur.W,,hat we understand as Ιife, tλe way in which our world oPerates, could never aΙlour this to be the ance.

dominant theme and yet it lies inside of everyone. See, Ι don,t care about the this and the that.

.What

Ι really care about is that it,s abοut εime we had

human beings who are correcr in rhe way they meet the other. That's all. And it doesn't matter what the dimension of thac is. Ιε,s the profundity of the vray commιrnication can emerge in that kind of a bond. \Γhat this means is that we haγe possibility ιhrough the uniqueness. Through our inherent gifts we are able to experience the vehicΙe in its fιιllpoεencial. And that pocential is the fulΙ sΡectrum ofwhat is possible - from totalabsdnence to totaΙ absolute. From one end of the SΡectrum to ιhe otheη it doesnt matter where you are in the sPectrum as long as it,s reaΙ. Αs Ιong as it,s you. As Ιong as it,s unique. Αs long as it comes out of your inner Authority. Because when you re operating out oΓyour inner Authority, your protection is your Ιove for yourself and your trust in yourseΙf. So that you can see rvhat,s there. Then you begin to undersand how your mechanism needs . in d-ιat Sense - to be fulfilΙed physically in this llfe.

And ιt,s alΙ so natural. Ιε,s qrhat this stream uldmately demands of allof us; it says surrender. That,s ..let go.,, And leε go of aΙl that sπfi aΙΙ chat homogenized morality, alΙ of whaε it really says. Ιt just says, that Noε SelΓcrap. Αnd just see for yourseΙfi watch iι. operate correctly and see whaι that brings to you physically in rhis life.

Κeynοtes οfsexuaΙify The thing that makes anaΙysis accessibΙe in FΙuman Design, even given the facε that it has so many layers to it, is the presence of the formuΙas that we call kΨnΨe-Σ Ι cannot stress enough how incredible these formulas are. Ι Ιook at them-in twΓrvays. one way is that Ι see them as a key that unΙocks a door

totheinformationstoreiΓuilrrιeaih..Tπriso.,.l.,.ioΓii.-Butfte-bfiaτ1ffi

inspiiatib.ninthesεπιe.weyth'fiδme"haikusdo,forexamp1e.ΙtιthekinJδΓ@-o@graspsoλδthin}withoutitbeingdimensionaξsustainedininterpretive language, or.ιvhatever ιhe case may be.

These keys here, in this vrhoΙe section, they,re reaΙly extraordinary. Ιn essence, they give you profound insight into the \May energy moves through these particular aspecεs of the Bodygraph. The first thing to familiarize yourseΙf with is that in each of εhese particular groupings, there is one Gate thaε is the love/ hate Gate, and chis is εhe Gate οf the hook. Later Ι,l1geε back to the nacure of the hook. These are the cheir presence or not se ι the tone for whateγer the seηq1Ι. love/hate Gates, and these are the Gates thaι by ,J-......'-.'Ι -+5 qoing dvnamic orδΞi.'e.sγ ιhat.-.is 9- ,.L* to οperate in that streaλ. J,. .--

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You can see that here we have specific names tλat are given to these particular streams. That is, the 48

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Ι dοn,c

want ιo geι inco comedy.ooci,., ιhough Ι,m ιempεed

The second οne is emociοnalsex. This is emotiοnaΙ sex because again, iΓyou follow

tE l.g,the

key is

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given the fact th-Jthe 55ιh Gate is the cenιer o?-h;; the ιnuεaιiγi.9}-9Ιgy-!hψ-s-ie v-o:ξ":lgbt'."..9γ ]hΞ iacc is that the vray in whlch εhis dynamic is going.o op.i".., ,hiii*.iΙ.9i_Jy""η1., i,,o-.thi"gc|iac is

This is a Yery interesεing are a in the sense of being abΙe to wacch the way this vrhole emotionaΙ and individual sex Γormula goes thrοugh a cransition. Αnd of course εhis leads ιo ιhe Γact that we,re going to be entering inco a deeply individuaΙ cycΙe in 2027 rhatvrilllast over 40Ο years. The ιransition is a highly ιndividual scream, ωπλ*η ;.i of ir.'. p"lδ"iiiΓffiiiiffi iJ going co -,k. ψlτ.-ε diE.erδnie-"ln changed era.

And finally over here, οn

i

"Τ.ι

kundalini sex. Αgain, if you is-connected tο the follovr che key, ιt'g kqy is the 41st Gite,. The 41st Gace is in the Rοοι Centeξ ",λic}r Ιi",t ιi.'.. [.y,'ιt',i ιhemacic oΓku.,JJi.'i, ,o yo, .,,' h,,. i., understanding oΓnaming in that sense. oη .--.-:-.--1"*-=.=.--=.

εhe abscracι collecεive side, we,re looking at

are namΙng εnese partlcuΙar Streams

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The next ιhing to notice oΓcourse is the facι thaι they ψe bin1ries. Αnd not on1y are they binaries, Αnd ιlrhat Ι mean by thac is εhat εhey are incerchangeable vriιh each otheη buc ιh*ey,re 'μ.9-ιfxsd.-biηg.ηi_q9.. οf thg emοψna1.9yst-qm. Ιn other words, all of bδcause after a11, all oΓthis funcciοns througlr εhe -dgnsigy. i. i,b;..t ;".h. ;";;, th..δ i, it-,y, εhis moveme nι ιhat is it is subject ιo cΙ-'e -a*. Α,1ΤΞ;,;;;ΙΙ "fτ thereliiΓbΞffi;;G; are themes Γοr sexualiεy fo. e ,..yo.,e, ιvhecher you,re emοtiοna.EiδΤiihe ther yοu have ιhey keys οr not, d-ιis is the way in ιvhich r.he homogenized presencation of εhe energy becοmes you. The greaι lesson is nοt hovr much detail yοu can masΕeη buc hovr successfully you can navigaιe on ιhis plane through your inner Auιhoriεy. Thaε navigation is the only thing ιhat,s going cο make these things wοrk in a way ιhat is correcι for you.

E,gο Sex Okay so lec,s cake a loοk. Let,s begin with Egο Sex. Remember thac here'we,re calking abouι ιhe tribe. -W.heneveryοu Ιook ac a tribaΙ Gate, Remember che whole thematic οf che tribe is the key nοce oΓ9upport. have to think about the scickiness oΓ that Support, Because whenever you look aι a uibal Channel, you Ιι is demanding oξjhe*1t-gφligl gΓlbq-othψ suppoΙt reallv is demanding - Ιc is demandtng Φch or ιhe parcnership olc!19ιhe1

But nonetheless, it is roοιed in the 19ιh Gate. Ιn the 19th Gaεe is the -Vfien πre look at tribal Sex aS a Gate οf Need. This is a11-76iiιlt rre?δirress. ],ογe 40 F{ate Γormula \λ/e see that chis is ιhe bediδcf.οΤu,hat the bonding system ιhac vre }.iοriι:r 37 1}eιlay i9h9ri19{|r*γ1 has looked-Ιi[e. You can sΞe iι'in the 99ven9h 9gntere {.Q9ιng language ic. You knorι,: love, honoη marry, of and obey. The scandard mantra λ.Ιarrv 49 Ι)iγοrce in that sense. Υet, to see what reitΙyiiin".δl"edin ifof this, again, is ιhe emoΟL:ey 19 Ιgilοre tionalkey, τ&]2ψ::Φjρ.e-b-e.y]Liι hqs r9source9. Th9 49 i9 r3dy tο love iΓ ιhe 19 wiil obey. This is the game that is played here. But in between is the emotional process, Andchaι

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emoιiοnalprοcess is thaι rbe.49 is always beιvre-en marriage and divorce ' The37 is always beπreen honοr and betrayal. Ιt doesn,ε -.",'-fri.hiy g.t?iuδ...ilor ch1y gei mariiΞd or iλΞfΤδeΙ6eιr'rd-oπfi-eτFeΤ' like iomδοdy is really there Γοr them and loyal. Ιι m€ans that there are all of these minor aspects οf ic εhat are always running chrough ιhis process. And 1ov9.!'οnoι marry and οbey-in-Φ-9::ll-.-.: 9:::ggι-\g.-, knorv ιhaι movie δδ, ao"t -"i be-crΨ divorce, ignore, ".,d'*. These Γormulas are rvhat everybody Ιives οuε. This is the homogenized liΓe, after alΙ. Every cime you go thrοugh this see chat the beauιy oΓεhis is that it can just sorε of spiral around and be allkinds of εhings, Buι it's caughc in this prοcess. And eyegμ\ingbreaks down iΓιhe de al breaks down, or the b1rg{n breζ3-

AndΓοrche40ιhGate,becauseiιiiihekiyοΓtheΙo,eandhiιe,1sεhatthαiiiomδnithΙiitisniii ffi..ciat.d ιh. *hoiΞ εhiΦggiιε q9 brya'kδδ7n. do.ιvn,

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day chat.,, Υe t Ι was noι able Εo escape ic, nοt able ιo look aε it intelligendy and ]f iε it,s in your genetics, "chis if iι,s chere and Because Γor yοu.,, thing dοesn,t work say, yοu goιng tο do? Αnd iΓyou,re Noι Self (and Ι was Not Self) then you live out the madness oΓ

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emοtiοnal. Υοu can see again, the ξ9y 9f the lοve/hate is in the 55th Gate' and this is the iε takes a mucaGate of Ultimaεe Fickle ness. Ιt really dοesn'ε know. AfteiiΙi,-you ha€tiiτiidEiΞandτhat jusc sοrε οf p1anes aΙong with its 1itde εiδn6πt to kn;;π;iτi"hytfiΞ em;ι1δ.t pΙi* is a plane that ic ..Ι drips and drabbles' Unιil there,s a sudden whoosh! Ιt,s always repeating εhκ, don ι kιovr, Ι dgrrlkηpy.j] Ιι's only vrhe n it lοcks in ιhaι it knows. By the way, it locks in one $ray or che οtheη ιhese are emotiοnaΙ -Ξ.1_._it_--'i-'.-mooαy Delngs. ιovc is eriioiiδna]tπsiness for them. For the tribe loγe is Ego business. LΙere iιs emotional F{ere,s the

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Oh, you can get so hateΓui οr so overwhelmed. oh che Not SeΙf - alu,ays played so easiΙμ sο easiΙy trapped in dysfuncεiοn. So quick with che ir Not Self mind to jump on chemistry and saμ oh this and ah its avrΓul and Ι have to dο this now and thac - always the binary. F{appy/sad, Laugh/cry. Liγe/die. Yοu know these people ? Tlreir relationship dissοlves and ιhey just want ιo die. Ι mean, they don,t really die, it's ..you give simply part οf d-ιe drama οf all of d-ris. And the other side is this horrendous pop song chat says, 5Ο

X:&3ε:εi {:}xax& s *xaaa} Sγsε*x:* me a reason to live.,, The insanity of human beings, saying that to somebοdy else ! Ιt,s unbelievably insane.

comedy. You can see that emotional sexuaΙicy is the bedrock of alΙ of the dramatization. -ffiΓis The homoge.,ized -orΙd considers this ιo Γ.τ';. P".t.of th9 d_rama of |1Butlust a liart. γo"iΞ ,δ h"ppy tδ h.,, the telephone ring, or you re so sad because it doesn,t. FΙow silly you can be when you re ."ogh. i.. this emotionaΙ vreb and just about everything seems to be funny and you laugh togetheη and on the other side, everything can make you cry. Oh, how dramatic it can be. Ιt,s jusε a movie. See

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See, we take all these things very seriously. k,s one of ιhe most ιrncomforcable things that Ι face as a teacher. Because Ι know ail this sωffis interesdng and Ι know that it touches people and Ι knorv that it

helps them. But you know, it,s good for peopΙe to lighten up. Ιt realΙy is. Ι mean, the only way you re going .W.atching the movie doesn,t to enjοy this Ιife is ifyou can sit back as a passenger and just watch the moγie. mean tλat you don t feel or you don,t care or you don,t this or you don,t that. ΑΙl of that is the bodyt life. .W,hateγer

tλis emodonal sex is, whatever all that drama brings out, the moment that you take it seri..oh Ι,m having such a good dme, leε,s go do this ousΙy is the moment that your mind gets in there and says, ..Ι feel so terrible Ι,m going to do εhis or that.,, See, thaι,s the insanity. That,s when or do ιhat.,, Or it says, everything falls apart. That,s when everything gets distorted. That,s when the Nοt Self mind is in iω fuΙl and work that out. The endless Ρoweη trying to manipulate this and get around that and work this out head. in your just again rolΙing over and oγer grind of aΙl dris junk

not about whether youve got this or that. Ιt,s about experiencing it consciously with awareness, Ιt doesn t matter whether you re laughing or crying. Ι mean, εhat,s the body,s life. Ιt,s for you t.o- e.xp91ieg99. it consciousΙy, it,s not about inτerferin-g with-i'ι and it,s not about jumping gο_ 9oηq!tlqi.o.1ιs $.991.y-l,,-εy.oμ ιhinΓ yδ" t1i.ink. ic,s about flo*i"g-thrδψh ii .o,,.cεlya.s-y9γ119[ λnd thΞn you jιli! εqΦ9ιιy--e.d-gξ*1d you see it's you. Ιt,s

liπle of that, Ι haγe che 12th Gace, Ι got the happy/sad. Ι couΙd neγer escaΡe iι There isn,t a moment in any given day that Ι can,t be on either side. Ι,m a Pure individual, it,s so easy. Ιt doesn t mean anything. it,s just the chemistry, it,s just what,s going on, it,s just a ceΙluΙar moγie, it,s just a grind. Ιt,s the performance of this vehicle doing its trip. Ιt,s interesting. Ιt,s what makes it worthrvhile. The moment that you sink into this your mind is racing alΙ over the pΙace. Do you know what this feels like ? FΙow painful it is, how deep it is ? There is a sense that you wiΙl never find a way to smiΙe again. Υou wanε to take that seriously? Υoure in big troubΙe. You want co take that personally? Ιt,s not Ιike you re responsible, or that this is withouc a choice. Ιt is the long evolved genetic role of the dice. This is what you got: Pure unadulterated energy. Yοu just have to release it. Ιt can be fulΙ ofovervrhelming desire, Ι have a Ιittle of this, Ι have a

and after all this is all about desire.

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FΙere che key to love/hate is in the 4ls-t-G-?ts. which is our initiψlηg !9.d9]. Ιt! gι.9;qgg=ρf !bi,g', The adrenatΙinΓrGfiΤit siiits allof this: Ιt,s excitement. W,hat Ι love so much abouε εhe absαact emo. αonξδΞΞΞ1s the profundiry of it. Ιtb wheΞffiΞ,.i..-.,,. is. Ι mean, the 41st Gate is the Gate of

S.,oaΙ Fa.,tasy, and ob,ioo,ly that e,.itemenc can covef an incredibΙe sPectrum of what iS i;;ffi"iδδΓof the human experientiaΙway. Kιrndalini sex is the human experientiaΙ.way.

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Even in this excitemenε so many human beings are jusε fat out bored. They,re bored with being hu. man. They,re bored with life. They,re bοred with their jobs. They,re bored with cheir world. They,re Sl:.l:.:]l:ι,il]:l:;ll:li. i'i..|1itrι;1:]l]'il i lll;:.ll: ii;:l{:; 3ci:;i-.] .{..ιL-,lιlijι: -i.1lli.lgl::li.ιrcιyi.li i.-
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dualiscic trip; this is the way fie program rvοrks. $Γe,re ruled by a genetic imperaεive drat Says vre haγe cο bοnd. Ιc says rhac Ιλre have no choice; that rve are driγen by deep forces within us ιhat are atcracted to whaε is cleaξ differenε. This is εhe way we get lοcked in. one of the things to undersεand about these chemes of lοve and haεe is thaι ιhey are mechanisms not cruths. Mechanisms moY€ back and ΦgL-Φtgggμa1€-;nΤΙffianδeings who ".. δgα:'Ξi*lΓffiiωrαthis. Ιι is part.;Γiε. ]]d;6;,ι d-rink chaι ιhere can be lογe vriεhοut hate are fools. ΙΓyοu ιhink you wilΙ always have lοyalty and never be beεrayed, you're a fool. This movement is always εhere. on

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Not SelΓis consεantlypummeled, consεancly beaten into its homogenized shape. Ιf yοu listen ιo any οf ιhese cheesy programs where people talk abοur d-reir probΙems in frοnt oΓ audiences who applaud (weird sωff) you see.what makes peοple so upset, and why most crimes of passion happen wiιh thοse urhο are closest to chem. This is the malaise οf the Nοc Se1[ They don,t knoιvrvho they are. They don t knorv why they're here. They don,ι knorv hoιγ to meet the oιher. They knovr noth. ing abouc love. Love begins w-h:ΨogjgΨJgg5gιΙt,s noι an οn and offsΙλritch. Ιt,s abοur πusεing in FΙovr d.o ιve dο it ?

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}Ιιrmοr: Υοu an{Ι Ι The firsε ιhing rhat you,Ιl notice in the comedysecιion is that ιve have che individualand we haγe the coΙlective buε'ιl,,e do not have the cribe. And we dοn,t have the cribe be cause the ιribe (specifically εribal sexuaiity - the 40-37 and 49-Ι9) has no voice, Ιt does nοc go to the Throac. Undersεand that the αibal Sιfeam is one that is deepΙy connected to ιhe εactiΙe, that everything about the tribe is that εheir relaιion. ship is maincained through physical conιact. Υou knοιηr, the clichd οf hoΙding hands. But Ι think the

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until of course there is betrayal and then you re not mine anymore and it goes on, and it's quite amusing.

\ffordsare notΡartofthatsexuaΙity. Theacousticisnotapartofthat. FΙerewe seewhere theacoustic realΙy plays a part because of course in both cases here we have expressions that are in the Throat . the 12th Gate and the 35th Gaεe. Both of these Gates open up to the Emotional pocendal that is tλere in rhe22 and the 36 so these Emotional Manifesting Channels are γery Ρowerful. This is a direct connection from the emotionaΙ motor to the Throat. First we,re going to look at the individuaΙ. Now remember the whole story of the individual because

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Lec,s1ook"t31,forasecond,th..Ko,@\ΓhenyoureΙookingatthecolΙec. tive you re looking at a keynoce that says share. Novr the individualis in poweη so if Ι,m h,ppy Ι empower you with my happiness. Ιf Ι,m sad, Ι empower you with my sadness - but it,s Ι. Ψ,hen you re Ιooking at εhe coΙΙective it is totally different. Every single colΙeccive Gate, every colΙective ChanneΙ is social by nature. Ιf you have a defined colΙective ChanneΙ, you,ve got defined sociabiΙity. Ιι,s very different for the tribe or

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whyiris difficuk. over the Ιast 30 or 40 years there has been more of an inteΙligent investigation into human relation.W,'hen ship. you look at dιe compΙexity oΓour societies, you see the dysfunction that is tλere. Αnd when you think about the Not Self and the way in which the Not SelΓoperates and you recοgnize that chese things are inherent in them, you can see how much dysfunc.ion comes out of that, Ιι just does, and all of this becomes distorted. Ιt becomes distorced in wharcγer the inherent problems are in the Design itseΙζ the openness, the things that εhe Not Self is keen co, what its deepest concerns are. Then you re just helpΙess.

Ι dont think anybody knows very much about this whoΙe idea of the sexuaΙ bond. Ι mean, if you don,t enιer into it correcξ with somebody who is entering into it correcdy with you, you don,t really know what the eφerience is, or what the experience leads to. You don ι This is something that,s different. Ιt,s the beauty of alΙowing your vehicle to faΙl in love, instead of your Personality. W.hen Ι say allow the vehicle to faΙl in love, Ι mean aΙΙow εhe vehicle to haγe its life. That is the point. Ιt isn,t about whaε the Personality is going to deconstruct and make out oΓall of that. That is the dysfunctionaΙ Personality. it,s not going to do anμhing that,s healthy. Ι think the most

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its rules, and its laws. You can realΙy break that coYenant, you can stand back and remoγe yourself Γorm whaεever εhe prevalent dogma is and just simply see what happens to you when you enter into a Ρrocess as yourseΙf. Υou can,t escaΡe being what you are. There isn,t anything that you re going to be able to do about that. Ι mean, it,s there or it,s not. aΙs, its rituaΙs,

Line PersonaΙity Ι can be happy being cautious sexualΙy or Ι can be sad. Αnd it,s not up to me when Ι,m going to be happy about it or when Ι,m going to be sad about iι. Ι don,t particularΙy care if .s7,,hat Ι experience isn,t an excuse Ι,m happy about it or sad about it because Ι don,t take drings that way. Γor my mind to make decisions; it,s just for me to experience. This is the whole thing about being aware. Being a\λrare means knowing thaε you have a mechanism that is extraordinarμ and that it,s there ιo transform your life. That is your Strategy and Authority. And alΙ that is doing is giving the keys to the vehicΙe, and your mind has to Ιet go. Ιt has to Ιet go. You have to trust in thaε Authority. Ιts onΙy then that you get to see thaε the very nature of your Design, the way these themes oPerate in you, are intended to oΡerate Ι haγe a 5th

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correcdy in you. Ιt isn t about any one of them being negative, because they are not. Ιt,s simply a matter ofwhetheryou are correct or not. ΙΓyou,re correct, whateveryour theme is, wiΙl function reΙatiγe to what is correcε for you. Αnd in that lies no possibility for judgment, or comparison or anything eΙse. Ιt is about what happens when you become an Authority for yourself.

Look at the way in which the formuΙas are writιen οut. Think about what that means if you,re not aware. Think about what it means and then look at εhe world around you, look at the reΙationships that youve had or may sdΙlhave. Look at the way in which sexuaΙity and love is presented tο us. Look ac this side and that side of iι Look at the way we,ve aΙreaξ established in our not selves mind a pζudiced perspecεive as to what kind of thingwe would Ιike. Ιt,s alΙ there in this box, and it,s just a mechanism. Ιt,s not personal. The only thing that realΙy can make a difference for you is when you grasp that it,s just a mechanism. You see the torment and the probΙems that come out of that? AlΙ of the Nοt Self sωff ΑΙl dte solutions that are offered in the pop psychology of how to deal with this are just mechanisms. Ιt,s the awareness that is faulty, iι,s not the mechanism. The mechanism is what it is. You see, iΓyou,ve got the 49th Gate and you re operating correcdy, you may neγer marry or you may never diγorce . Α child coming into this worΙd, being nurωred correctly, being offered aΙ1 the possibilities of being abΙe to rec. ognize'αrhat it is to be drem and being given the tools to be correct has the opportunity to be anything. Ψ,hen Ι look at this box Ι dont just see sex, Ι see the nature of hfe itseΙf because aΙl of this is what the Not Self wraps its life around. They wrap their lives around sοmebody else - it,s what the Ρrogram demands. You get immersed in the aura, the conditioning and the whoΙe dysfunction oΓic.

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for human beings to sand by rhemselves, to not measure themselves against anμhing and εo feeΙ whole within that. This is not whaε humanity does. This is not what humanity is all about. This is all a constructed value πip . it is a worιhiness trip. Ιt,s the idea that you can only feelgood or right when somebody eΙse wants you. \Γe see what aΙl this wanting is - formula. Dont εhink its personal: it .W.e,re isn,t, objects moving in space - iι is just choreography. Ιts about this person and that person, this combinarion and that combination. Oh vrhat it is to just let go and enjoy the emergence ofwhat's you. Ιt,s so hard

Ι enjoy my process, Ι have the 41, Ι have the |2, Ι have the 40 and Ι have the 49. Αt diθΓerent times they pΙay out their part and Ι watch. Ι don,t judge . Ψ.hen Ι was Not Self aΙl οf this was a deep cοnf ict. The desire that burned in me vras in conflict with the bargain, and the deal, and the obedience and the whoΙe

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Ι(hen Ι say let go it,s noε Ιike ιhere is no angeη it,s not like you re going to fy off. Ιt,s the mind that has to let go. Ιt,s thΞ mind with all of its ideas and facts and its litde insights into the stuffthaι rambles around inside of it. Ιt doesn,t give you a chance to see who you are and who the other is, or εo meet d-ιem. Ι thought that the more Ι shovred peopΙe how mechanical ic was, the easier it vrould be to free them. For them to understand that it,s noε up to them, that they

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deal because in the end it rests soΙely on whether or not you re going to be able to maintain the habit of Strategy and Αuthority. And patience. There,s no hurry. Ιι reΦ does take dme - everyιhing akes time. Ιt takes seven years.

As you move through chat process, you slοwly begin to find your distance. See, when you look at the 'worΙd aroundyou undersand that it is helpΙess. Ιt,s nobody,s ΓauΙt, it,s not humanity,s fauΙc - it is rvhat .V('hen Ι Ιook out at the world around me and Ι have to deal wirh it, it,s aΙways so cΙear to me horv it is. helpless e\reryone is. They,re locked into the Ρrogram - there,s a shield d-ιat coγers their eyes. They just go aΙong locked in to the πrning of the vrheel and there,s nothing d.ιere for them no matter what they,re ieΙ"tive state is. The hypocrisy that is dispΙayed in the surface and the emptiness that lies inside is part of Ιiving what you think you re supposed to be. The beauty of what rve haγe and who vre are is the way εo escape that.

FΙow humiliating it is for a creature',ηrith such potentialto be so homogenized. Ψ.e,re here to express .s7.hether that hook is the Ego, the our uniqueness and it doesn,t maεter'αrhaι the conditioning hook is. motions, the kundaΙini, whateγer iε is, it,s not about anμhing. Ιt doesn,t mean you have to end up in some kind of men aL dzzy - ir's abour surrendering to your decision-making. Once you can discern who is correct for you, this is the only way to begin that process of discoveringwhat it is that you reaΙly are as a being, as a lover and as a friend, and to see who,s d-ιere for you.

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