Care and nurture is the strongest theme in the relationship of Cancer and Virgo. This pairing is one of the better combination of Water and Earth. Both the Cancer and Virgo crave for security and dependability in love relationship and since they both are capable of delivering these things to each other, the relationship usually go on well. A Virgo man is basically a very caring and lovingly dutiful towards his dear ones and the ones who really need him. He is very practical person and a fairy tale romance in not his cup of tea. He always believes in quality rather than quantity including romance. He neatly adjusts to the concept of partnerships but always needs his personal space so that he can concentrate on his goals. It usually takes a lot of time for him to get into a relationship but once he is there, he has the simplest and warmest way of expression. In relationship with a Cancer woman, he is completely dependable lover with a stable heart. A Cancer woman possesses oodles of charisma through which she can easily impress people but still she is humble enough to extend her support to the people in distress. She is modest, superbly imaginative and definitely very emotional. She has all womanhood qualities and grace together with her fluctuating moods which can be a real distress if not handled properly. If she loves somebody then she can wholeheartedly make numerous sacrifices for them. In relationship with a Virgo man, she proves to be a quality mate who is ready to be his companion in all deals of life. The involvement of a Cancer woman with a Virgo man is usually a strong emotional association and a touching experience of many dimensions. He enjoys empathy and closeness given by her for a long time. She stimulates the imagination of her man and stirs his mind with promises that she keeps forever. She understands him well and respects his dreams. She is always there to cheer him up with her lovely sense of humor and decent taste of things. When she is not around, he misses her terribly and feels very lonely. But it is difficult for her to draw a line between possessiveness and general concern for her partner which can suffocate Virgo male, who needs his own space at all times. The Virgo man makes the Cancer woman feel that she won’t be left alone and ignored, to starve and
pine away from loneliness. He knows and understands, and looks after so that the relationship is kept polished and not allowed to rust. He can display a very calm and composed temperament in a bid to conceal his sensuality. The practicality of Virgo man always helps the Cancer female move out of uninvited troubles and keeps her safe in his vigilance. When in need of support, he always provides her with strong emotional and physical support. Though he is not dreamily romantic but his stability and loyalty, makes her comfortable. He might also try to condemn her, beneath the mask of politeness which can hurt the tende r Cancer woman tremendously. But if apologized truly, such things won’t make any permanent damage. As the seeking of love becomes deep in the relationship of Virgo man and Cancer woman, together they can blend Earth and Water to create beautiful meadows blessed with love. Their togetherness t ogetherness brings the magic of both words and emotions as he loves to express and she slips smoothly in the ocean of emotions. With each passing Valentine, she becomes more stable and secure under the stable flame of love of Virgo man and he starts envisaging wonderful dreams with his dreamy moony maiden who can
even dream of a stone to be a pearl of love. Their unison makes them more complete in all aspects and they both forget their own selves to merge into a purer form of unity of two bodies and one soul. When the Virgo man and his Cancer woman get involved in making love to each other, they blend quietly into a deep and absorbing union. When emotional state of Cancer woman w oman is stable and when the Virgo man has his own tranquil self, their physical intimacy is a peaceful consummation of desire for both of them. As they fill in deeply, he provides stability and she gives emotions to their oneness making their love making more sensual and satisfying. The submission of her makes him more confident regarding their relationship, stirring his emotions and giving a flame to his passion. Restlessness is one element that they might exude and it can be quite contagious. When too much of restlessness fills up the atmosphere then she might get into the silent mode which he might not appreciate. This is when Virgo analytical talents would be very useful, and her perception would help. Yet, perversely, these periods of sexual frustration may be the very times the two of them neglect to call upon their own best qualities to clarify the breakdown of communication between them. The relationship of a Virgo man and Cancer woman is always friendly enough to cope up the differences. Most of the couples at least stay friendly if they cannot cope up the odds of a love relationship. But the basic problem is that neither can they live together very peacefully nor can they stay happy without each other. He always needs his space and staying alone is a part of his personality to conceptualize and execute his goals. While she is very possessive and when she finds him so detached, she starts feeling insecure and becomes cold towards him. Though they both enjoy their togetherness and are very friendly and helpful in each other’s as well as other people’s case but the y need to take care of their
peculiar habits to avoid strain in their relationship. re lationship.
Cancer and Virgo start out on the right foot, since both are reserved, and neither tries to force their love on the other. Their courting may look downright old-fashioned to more restless types, with polite respect shown on both sides. Cancer appreciates how Virgo takes note of personal tastes, and tries to come up with well-chosen date ideas. Virgo feels needed right away, seeing how much Cancer could use help in practical matters. Virgo might try to "organize" Cancer from the get-go, which is a definite sign of interest. Cancer will appreciate being the center of this kind of attention unless it goes to far.
This mating brings two worriers together, but as a team they can cover all the bases. They'll be
comforted by all the planning that goes into dates, and later, the pre-planning of everything helps minimize the shared fear of the unknown. A key word is Security, since once they've got it, Cancer and Virgo can truly be themselves. If they're successful at creating a foundation of trust, the relationship deepens, and more layers are revealed. Cancer and Virgo appreciate the routine of life, with the promise of lots of time to work out the kinks, and grow closer.
Virgo is a senser-thinker and Cancer is a feeler, and sometimes this can lead to misunderstandings. Without realizing it, Virgo can offend Cancer by talking about things in an unemotional way. On the flip side, Virgo may find the lunar moodiness a bit jarring to their love of order. This difference turns into a gift when through osmosis, Cancer gains much-needed perspective, and Virgo grows aware of emotional nuances.
In relationships, the Cancer-Virgo match can be loving, sensual and devoted. Cancer values the loyalty that Virgo offers, and tries hard to show it through day to day nurturing. Virgo starts to feel secure in the caring atmosphere that's created between them. Intimacy can be yet another chance to please each other, with Virgo's masterful attention to detail and Cancer's languid sensuality. This pairing is marriage material, and once the commitment is made, will likely be for life.
Famous Couples: Rupert Grint (Virgo) and Hannah Stewart (Cancer); Peter Sellers (Virgo) and Lynne Frederick (Cancer)
Being in love with a Virgo man means living in a practical world, where there will no be fairytale dreams. If you are too sentimental, then better take a u-turn right now. You will have to wait a long time to get him involved in a relationship. Even when he does, don't expect him to sing romantic poems for you or
stand under your window to serenade you. It is not that Virgo men do not know how to love; just their way of expressing it is different from others. They are extremely dedicated towards their family and friends.
They are constantly involved in helping them and have a strong sense of work and duty. Too much display of emotions makes them uncomfortable and too conscious. A Virgo male will stick to you when you need him the most, care for you and dutifully carry out all the responsibilities a husband is expected to do. However, don't burden him with extreme sentiments, mushy affection and tearful promises. If he doesn't run away, he will become too cold and even the subtle display of affection from his side may come to a stop.
This doesn't mean that a Virgo guy cannot be softened at all. You have to keep the temperature just right. Too much aloofness or too much closeness is not what he wants. A little bit of sensuality, mixed with some intelligence and an interesting disposition is what he desires. To him, quality of time spent
with you will mean more than the quantity. He is usually very cautious while forming a relationship. If it still doesn't turn out to be right, he will bury himself in work, avoid social gathering and be triply cautious with people.
Virgo men do not run after girls and romance. Infact, they do not mind being single at all. So, you will have to make a Virgo realize that he has fallen in love and needs to form a relationship. Remember, subtlety is the key to all this. If he wants, he can seduce you very easily, while being subtle all the time. He is not prone to flirtations, so you have no reasons to doubts his intentions. Infact, he is too sensitive, selective and honest to indulge in such kind of behavior. The love of a Virgo man is clean, innocent and pure, though it may take some time to win it.
Never expect him to fall in love with you at the first sight. He is very cautious about everything and that includes love and relationships. Lying will get you nowhere with him. He wants a genuine and honest relationship and cannot stand dishonesty even for a second. Stirring the emotions of a Virgo male is a very difficult task, because he never consciously looks for a mate. Remember, he does have a heart; you just have to sway it the right way. It may take time, but it will be worth the wait.
Once you have won his heart, you will never again feel unloved or uncared for, in your entire life. His love will burn for you with a steady flame, which will never flicker even for a minute. You will be rewarded with a husband who is totally sincere, patient, dependable and forever loving. You will never have to worry about stability again, whether it is emotional or financial. A Virgo man is not at all prone
to wandering and you will never ever have to keep an eye on him. You will practically be showered with care and concern, whenever you need them.
He has a sharp memory and will remember even the minutest of details. You wouldn't have to remind him about anniversary or birthdays or other important dates. He may not understand why these days are so important to you, but he will remember them nonetheless. Virgo men are not too jealous, but they are possessive in the extreme. They very loyal and will expect the same from you. It is better to burn the love letters of your ex-boyfriends. Once something gets over for them, its over. Emotional appeals and tears wouldn't budge them an inch.
So, better play on the safer side. A Virgo man doesn't like dumb females, who are ignorant and stupid. You may be the hottest babe in the block. But, if you do not have brains, he wouldn't even look at you. Impropriety and rudeness turns him off. So, forget wearing that short, revealing black dress of yours. His kind of female has to be clean - body, mind and soul. If you want to win the love of a Virgo male, make sure that you have impeccable manners, spotlessly clean house, excellent cooking skills and decent dressing sense. He is prone to finding faults in others, but please don't give him specifics reasons to do so in your case.
He will be a very responsible father and will help sharpen the intellect of the children. He will also imbibe good manners, etiquettes and the quality of helping the needy in them. You will never need to worry about discipline, as he will work on that front too. However, you will have to teach your Virgo husband how to express his love and affection and control his critical behavior. When he becomes a little cranky, just leave him alone and he will again be his usual self pretty soon. With a Virgo man, you will have a tender companion who will shower you all with love and care, even when you don't look twenty anymore!
"The mind of the bigot is like the pupil of the eye; the more light you pour upon it, the more it will contract."
That there is a hair-splitting analysis done by a Virgo. Oliver Wendell Holmes, Sr. born on the 29th of August, 1809, very unknowingly had uttered this particular statement which today can be cited as an exemplary specimen of the Virgo potentiality to dissect any issue under the sun until even its finest shred is laid bare. No detail shall ever go unnoticed or be treated as redundant when a virgin, especially a male virgin, is looking into it. So, if you have written a pro and con essay in the most superficial manner ever and submitted it to your teacher who incidentally and accidentally belongs to the Virgo sign, then dude, you're in for the lowest grade ever. If there is any sign that checks, rechecks and then checks again into even the minutest of details, it is the Virgo man. Unfortunately, there is something that beats the Virgo love for word-splitting analysis - the Virgo hatred of ignorance. Lost? Awesome! 'cause it's here onwards that you need to brace yourself for the worst in order to crack perhaps the toughest nut in all the twelve zodiac signs! Ask me, I have been dating a true blue Virgo man for the last 12 years of my Libran life.
So, let us get down to business and start understanding the physical and mental characteristics of a Virgo man from the scratch.
The Virgo Man: Physical Appearance and Health
Physically, a Virgo man is very pleasant to look at as a rule, even if he is not quintessentially handsome. I am not saying that no Virgo man is handsome as some of them can give the best Hollywood heart-throb a run for his money. But, what I mean is that there's something very smooth, sharp and crystal clear about their countenances that catches your eye immediately. Their intelligence sparkles through their eyes which often gives the impression that they can see right through you, which by the way they can, and usually has a bright twinkle in it. But when a Virgo man is being torn apart with worries, his eyes never take on a turbulent expression. There is always something calm and tranquil about them. The face is replete with a well-cut wedge-shaped nose and a broad forehead with a r eceded hairline.
The most striking physical attribute of a Virgo man is undoubtedly his gait and posture. You shall seldom find a Virgo man slouching while walking even in his laziest mood. His upright posture is truly reflective of his linear thought process and pride in his intellectual faculties. His gait shouts out his above average intelligence level. But the best part? He is aware of his intelligence but seldom conceited about it. Also, even a well-built Virgo man will always be on the leaner side.
Given that Virgo men are absolute fascists about cleanliness and are physically abhorred by dust and dirt, they generally keep healthy. Their quest to improve their already near perfect existences aids them to remain on the fitter side. But once a Virgo man enters his depressive mode illnesses throng them. They tend to eat minimally and that usually affects their weight drastically along with giving them irregular bowel movement problems such as diarrhea and co nstipation. Most Virgos are known to derive ulcers and other celiac problems, such as acute indigestion, when they are psychologically down. This is natural because the virgin is said to influence the abdominal and the intestinal functions along with those of the spleen, the hands and the central nervous system as a whole which often results in the derivation of some nerve-related trouble, even if minor. It is of primary importance therefore that Virgos keep a check on their indulgence and affinity for fine cuisine. Most Virgos are terrific cooks and love to eat and feed. In fact, they master the culinary art to such an extent that the most high-flying restaurant will take a beating from them, hands down!
Most Virgo men suffer from hernia along with certain genital problems and are also somehow prone to respiratory maladies such as cold and cough, pleurisy, pneumonia and catarrhal conditions such as inflammation of the nose and throat with increased production of mucus.
In a nutshell, the Virgo man is at his best health-wise when nothing is psychologically tormenting him. However, when ill he will seldom crib about it but will desire to be pampered and loved nevertheless. It is because he knows of the ailments that afflict him, a Virgo man usually has a lot of medicines at home itself.
The Virgo Man: Personality
The Male Virgo: Individual Now comes the difficult part. Let us see what the perfectionist Virgo is all about.
"The unspoken word never does harm."
Lajos Kossuth, born on the 19th September, 1802 was a Hungarian lawyer, politician, journalist and primarily a Virgo man who through his words admitted one of the most vital Virgo traits - economy of expression. Virgos will seldom be caught in the midst of a loud outbreak of emotional verbalism. They
hate showy and effusive displays of naked emotions and are heavily disturbed and repulsed by it. So, it is a sheer waste of time to convince such a man with the use of garish and overwhelming maudlin expressions seeking sympathy. A sentimental demonstration is simply not their style. They express in limit and in a rather matter-of-fact and decent manner. He will seldom be impertinent but at the same time you will distinctly be able to trace an icy firmness when he means business. Since he keeps away from violent outbursts, Virgo men do not collect a lot of enemies on the way. Rather, he makes admirers who simply are in awe of this and respect the gravity that a Virgo man always has about him.
Even his jokes are very comely and seldom vulgar. He maintains decency at all times, especially if he has just met you and never really enjoys sleaze and extremely smutty jokes, unless he is in the company of close friends for whom he generously cuts some slack.
Known to be a rational spender when it comes to money, a Virgo is never stingy. In fact, he loves to spend on his near ones and never takes the cheap way out when it comes to that. He seldom spends lavishly on himself but when he does he goes for the very best. In cases where finances are tight you will see a Virgo man squeezing through a month without a single whine. I sometimes believe that because they do not challenge fate so openly and resign to their destinies in the most dignified way possible, fate too is merciful towards them. Toivo Pekkanen, a Finnish author accepted this Virgo trait with the lines,
"The longer I have lived and the more knowledge I have got from the achievements of people, the narrower and smaller the world of knowledge have appeared to me. And it has become more clear to me that even we are ruled by the forces beyond our knowledge."
They do not fight fate. They make the best of it sans constant nags and complains. But what they simply cannot appreciate and understand is mediocrity. They want you to give your best in everything no matter how little the resources are. Even if they are living in a shabby, single room stupor with missing window panes, they will not want to see dirty pillow cases and cobwebs hanging down the walls. This of course also brings us to another integral trait of the Virgo personality, pursuit of cleanliness. For a true Virgo man cleanliness is above godliness and he physically suffers in presence of untidiness. You will be surprised to know that most Virgo men are better house cleaners than the most adept, professional maids you can hire. They can sweep, mop, wash, dust and scrub the dirty linens with such perfection that the house will never look any less than that of a five-star suite. Most people will wash and then put up a curtain. But a Virgo man, or woman, will wash, dry, iron and then put up the curtains. Even the way they fold their clothes after a wash, ironing is seldom required. They take extra care to avoid creases in their shirts and so they prefer to sit and walk in an upright posture and even a worn shirt will often look
like it has just been laundered. And I dare you to leave the kitchen dirty after you have finished cooking. God be with you for that!!! They are not the types who will sit in a corner and order somebody about. Never! Instead they will ask you to do a particular chore as they tend to another job that needs instant care. They notice everything. Even the tiniest hole in the ceiling which is hardly visible to the naked eye is visible to them. So, if a Virgo man is visiting your house tonight, do not bother covering the ink stain on the tablecloth with some books of a statue simple because it won't help. He will see it even if he doesn't say anything. Get it laundered or changed instead.
Also, a very distinctive trait of a Virgo man lies in the fact that he is always trying to help the underprivileged without an inkling of expectation. He will never shy away from giving the old beggar a five dollar note, even if that happens to be the last note he has on himself. You will often catch him feeding milk to stray dogs and cats and paying unflinchingly for their treatment and medicines. It is his instinct to aid the helpless and a Virgo becomes increasingly guilty if he cannot help someone who needs his aid. He suffers very deeply in such circumstances.
So, as you see, a Virgo man is seldom unfair as he is extremely pragmatic. He doesn't expect to receive what is improbable and in return promises to give nothing that's simply out of the league. He is hardworking and believes in distribution of jobs. However, you will sometimes feel that he is too bossy and noses around too much, even after he himself has assigned you a particular work. But, believe me these people are seldom malicious in their intentions and boss around only because they have a very good grasp over the particular field. Even if you teach them something today, they will definitely master it better than you by tomorrow. I mean I taught my guy how to form a frothy layer over coffee and now he tells me how to make the foamy layer thicker. So, they are irritatingly fast learners.
It is true that attaining perfection is humanly impossible but Virgos reach, or at least aim to reach, the closest to it than all other zodiac signs put together. Or else why would Samuel Johnson, another Virgo man born on 18th September, 1702, proclaim,
"It is reasonable to have perfection in our eye that we may always advance toward it, though we know it can never be reached."
The Male Virgo: Romantic Partner
"Women decide the larger questions of life correctly and quickly, not because they are lucky guessers, not because they are divinely inspired, not because they practice a magic inherited from savagery, but simply and solely because they have sense." ~ H. L. Mencken born on 12th September, 1880.
That is exactly how all male Virgos wish to see women, as sensible human beings with their heads in the right place and feet firmly grounded. Born with the early 6th sign of the zodiac within 23rd August to 22nd September, these men are never interested in women who are mere damsels with featherbrains. In fact they feel sorry for the sheer wastage of good potentials that they associate with vain maidens. So, forget about wooing a Virgo man with the mere fluttering of the eye lashes. Chances are he will not give you a second look. What a Virgo man seeks in his partner is the brilliance of the mind, and education that is deeper than mere bookish knowledge and degrees. You will catch their attention if you know the percentage of the ice caps that have melted in the polar regions when he is talking about global warming, rather than just by telling him how wonderfully clever he is. He will only detect your vanity if you do so as he knows how sharp he is and finds nothing to cultivate in you. He seeks class in the thought process rather than in the advanced wardrobe and make-up kit of a woman. If he tells you that you need to shed a few pounds, believe me it isn't only because he wants a trendier woman by his side. Chances are he isn't even attracted to you romantically. It's just that he knows the negatives of obesity and is suggesting you to give up on it. So, forget about wooing a Virgo man only by pouting. He will not pay attention to someone who doesn't know the difference between the identities of Tony Greig and Tony Blair. Imprint in your head what another Virgo man Edith Sitwell once said,
"I am patient with stupidity, but not with those who are proud of it."
All male Virgos swear by it.
Next, if you are heavily into Disney princess fairy tales and want someone who proclaims his love by singing elaborate ballads in front of your balcony, then zap out of it. This is not the man for you, or at least not until he is totally and completely in love with you. Believe me, firstly he will take exceptionally long to decide whether you have all in you so that the two of you can be happy forever. That is important as the word 'fling' is absent from the lexicon of a Virgo man. He might have one in and exceptionally rare case when he has not been attached for a very long time and needs to reassure himself of his wooing capabilities. Otherwise, he is the virgin remember? Innately capable of spending prolonged periods of time celibate uncomplainingly. Besides, there is another reason as to why he takes long to decide is because Virgos are known to be pretty unlucky in love, the first time. They are very devoted and so take parting with their beloveds real hard on themselves. Such periods are generally followed by long spells of backbreaking hard work so that they cannot think of what they've had to give
up on. Naturally, falling in love a second or third time is a very, very crucial thing for them. They play it safe and I mean really safe. They do not even mind staying single for the rest of their lives, ruminating in the past glory. So, going back, he will not surrender to your love immediately and deliberate for a pretty long time.
Now, when he becomes a little attracted to you, he will still not suddenly become amorously affectionate. In fact he will not even say anything directly. Maximum what you'll get are a few intelligent hints dropped here and there. It is in this state where he will actually deliberate and analyze you more keenly. Mind you, do not misunderstand me. He will not mean to demean you in any way. But he is someone who believes in a one time tie up. So, he'll weigh all pros and cons in which both of you will be considered. However, a Virgo man hates lies in a prospective relationship. Strangely, they have an inbuilt lie detector in them which somehow lets them know when you are far from being genuine. If they happen to trace anything of this sort, they will move away immediately. May seem like a little harsh to you but remember that if a Virgo man is taking the time to understand you then you have managed to stir a little bit of that eternally dormant passion in him, and that my girl is a huge deal. Besides, why shouldn't he be choosy? He has nothing to lose given that he is completely aware how small his chances are of finding that ultimate love and he has reached a truce with fate wherein he can live a celibate life uncomplainingly, forevermore. A Virgo man cannot express but suffers a lot internally, when jilted and so he chooses to take precautions.
If you are the lucky girl who managed to pass the testy patch with flying colors, then my dear you have signed into a future full of peaceful bliss and devotion. A Virgo man has been designed by God in a manner that he will not cheat on you ever!!! I say that with finality because of two reasons - a) He is very choosy about everything remember? So, after he has fallen madly for you, he will not waste his time looking at people who couldn't hold his attention for the span that you have. Obviously that makes you the best in his vicinity! b) He is a virgin. Which means that his chastity has got to do more with the purity of mentality and not the genitals. He is someone who has scruples and will not mess it up for anything in the world. Believe me when I say and I have been told this innumerable times that a Virgo man will not ruin what he has in the pursuit of something that can be better. Never.
So, you will be happy and content in this relationship as a Virgo man in love will do things that he knows all girls secretly desires. Firstly, he will accept how crazy he is about you in albeit a very simple but in the most sincere and sweet way possible. He will walk that extra mile for you and probably even sing to make you feel wanted (even if it is in your ears). You will gradually become aware of how poetic he really is. His poesie is subtle and yet it will strike a chord in your heart that will instinctively let you know how much he actually loves you. He will be protective in a very fatherly way but never be maddeningly jealous. His possessiveness will be very adorable and childish. He will wait for you until the end of time, if he has to, and not complain even once about it. He will love you and never let you move away without
trying everything under the sun to hold on to the relationship. The personality profile of a Virgo makes him someone who hates discord and so his efforts will always be focused on ironing out the differences in the family and outside. He'll want you to be neat and clean but not expect you to be a diva. He'll be happy with a simple wife who is brilliant in her own right and has her own identity. He'll not hesitate to pacify you when you are angry, say a sorry and kiss you afterwards. He'll build you the most amazing garden, if not sing and dance with you around trees, as Virgos have natural green fingers and love the pets in the house like they are more precious than humans. He'll cook for you when you're tired and change his job and move with you if you need to shift to another city.
He will never cease to surprise you in love with his own little eccentricities. On one hand you'll notice that he will refuse to put his hand around your waist in the presence of your friends just because it'll make them jealous and give you a chance to gloat. At the same time, he will not shy away from kissing you without giving a damn as to who is watching when his emotions are stirred on seeing a lovely sunset. Virgo men generally have an elephant's memory and so he will care to keep a track of all those special dates that mean a lot to you. He will happily give up on a boy's night out to spend a quality evening with you. He'll make love to you gently and take care to ask you whether you're comfortable. He'll be strong in bed but never forceful. He stomach's his most erogenous part and stroking it gently will reveal a soft and vulnerable man in front of you who really needs you and wants to be with you for eternity. Remember that while you're dating a Virgo man he will never be unaware of your flaws for even a second. He'll know just where you fall short. But at the same time, he will not see exaggerated versions of it in you. He will love you the way you are, telling you once in a while to pull up your socks maybe.
What more can you ask for girl?
Yes, he will get critical sometimes and all you need to do is listen him out and then calm him. Do not start hurling allegations to him in return. Remember one of his extremely few weak points is that he cannot take criticism directed at him. Things will get extremely difficult if you're not tactful. The best thing is to remain calm and then lighten the situation with a joke. Do not bother him when his mood swings make him gloomy. Let him be and he will come back all fresh and cuddle you to make up for everything.
If you do not mess this up, he will not. Even in difficult times, a Virgo man will go out of his way to make things work. His patience stretches to unfathomable extents in troubled times. But once it snaps, it snaps forever. After that he walks away to never come back. He doesn't believe in washing dirty linen in public so you will be made subject to none of that. He doesn't need legal papers to make the divorce
official. He'll just leave you with a finality that will tell you that you have lost him and there's nothing you can do after that to bring him back. Hopefully, such situations will not arise. More on Virgo love compatibility.
The Male Virgo: Father A Virgo father is an admirably responsible parent who makes it his full-time vocation to inculcate in his children the thirst to achieve and become nothing but the best. They are thorough disciplinarians who happily sacrifice all their desires to fulfill the needs of their children. They teach them to be conscious citizens who switch off the light not to save on the electricity bill of the household but because you are wasting valuable natural resources. Even though they do not plan on how to raise a child before they actually become fathers, they are amazing when it comes to teaching their kids everything they ought to know. But there's one thing that can create differences between a Virgo man and his child. That is the absence of any physical display of love from the virgin's side. This may lead to the child misunderstanding his father and becoming detached from him altogether. So, this has to be checked by the mother at a very early stage wherein the Virgo man is repeatedly reminded to show his love for his own flesh and blood a little more obviously.
The Male Virgo: Professional "Good sense about trivialities is better than nonsense about things that matter." ~ Sir Max Beerbohm, born on 24th August, 1872.
A Virgo professional is naturally inclined to be a perfectionist and thus keeping an eye on the tiniest detail. He will call a spade a spade and never lie to his colleagues when it comes to business. Remember that they believe,
"The greatest of all gifts is the power to estimate things at their true worth."
as said by Francois de La Rochefoucauld, a true blooded Virgo man born on 15th September, 1613.
He expects creativity in handling the most boring task and takes time to do everything. He won't hurry and sell the shares at the correct and opportunistic moment and not a second earlier. Somehow, they are often right about gauging the correct moment as they are blessed with a fantastic instinct. They do not fear failure but resent anyone who does not learn anything from it. They can somehow make even
the most ludicrous scheme work successfully. Given that his ethics do not allow him to betray his company, a Virgo man can be trusted with the biggest secret of the organization. Also, speed is something that he will harness. He'll perform all his tasks in a jiffy and without taking any shortcuts. Since a Virgo man doesn't see a mass of hair, when shown a head, but rather individual strands distinctly, you can trust him to pick out on the best possible option for any situation, with your eyes closed.
Their ambitions are not very loudly declared but they work hard to climb the ladder steadily as they like security around them. So, a Virgo professional is quite hardworking and loyal if he feels that his company treasures and recognizes his true potentials.
Read more on the alter ego of a Virgo man in characteristics of a Virgo woman.
So, learn to understand that in the criticism of a Virgo man lies the effort to achieve a better state of being rather than vain malice. He too is beyond all that. He is someone who wishes to rise and take everybody towards a journey of progression with him. His ways may sometimes be harsh but his intentions are seldom corrupt. It is not in the nature of a male virgin to be ungrateful. He will pay you back for all the times you have stood by him. So, see beyond that hard shell of the Virgo disposition and you shall see a world closest to what we may call a heavenly existence.
Virgo man personality traits and characteristics A favorite of those who prefer the quiet, smoldering intellectual type, the Virgo man has a fantastic eye for detail and enjoys order, precision and efficiency in all things. If you find intelligence and a professional attitude to be sexy, then this is the man for you.
Precise. Professional. Reserved. and fun!
If you're turned on by intelligent people then beware! Virgo's are nearly always intellectual, and this man's fast mind can find humor in most things, and often empathize with others more than his emotions alone would allow. This ability to empathize while still remaining detached makes them some of the best counselors, therapists and psychologists.
Virgo men typically have a fantastic eye for detail and enjoy order, precision and efficiency in all things. This has several implications, for example he is likely to prefer routines to random or chaotic approaches, and is very likely to have a fondness for lists.
A common fault of Virgo men is to be highly critical when perfection is not found. This usually applies doubly to himself and his own performance, which can sometimes lead to reduced self confidence. He is likely to have trouble relaxing, and often hates wasting time, or sitting idle.
Later in life he's likely to look much younger than he really is. Call it unfair but this is a sign which usually ages very well. One factor in this is that Virgo men are more likely than most to monitor what they eat and drink, how frequently they exercise, and generally to prefer a healthy lifestyle.
He is likely to be fairly reserved with people he doesn't know, and may be uncomfortable receiving too much attention, perhaps embarrassing easily. He is very unlikely to ever display any irrational or emotional outbursts in public.
Analytical, discriminating, precise, considerate and reliable, he is likely to enjoy work of a technical or analytical nature, quite possibly working behind the scenes to ensure the efficiency of an organization, rather than taking center stage or seeking direct recognition for his achievements.
On the negative side, he can sometimes be seen as picky, aloof, sarcastic, pessimistic or whiny. He assumes everyone views him with the same critical eye that he possesses, which can sap his self confidence. Ironically, he is likely to be more perfect than most of us, yet he's the only one who can't see it. This level of self imposed modesty can be particularly endearing.
Virgo man questions What are Virgo men like in bed? Virgos are often portrayed poorly in this area, directly or indirectly considered the least sexual of all the signs. The reality however is that they are amongst the most sexual, they're just discreet about it, often offering subtle and indirect comments rather than anything too blatant or vulgar. Don't make the mistake of assuming he's a prude or you may miss some of the best one liners!
If you have a particularly hesitant Virgo man then it's worth noting he may be more comfortable being asked to do something rather than initiating sexual acts himself the first time or two. In these cases the 'cleaner' you can keep his conscience, the less inhibited he will be in the long term.
This is a man who takes feedback to heart, so it's also worth noting that criticism can do a lot of harm, while encouragement can pay big dividends. Overall, Virgo men are often more comfortable with a confident lover at the start of a relationship, though that soon changes as they get more comfortable.
Are Virgo men kinky? This is always a hard question to answer, as one person's idea of kinky can be very different to someone else's. Individuals also vary a lot, so this is a bad area to generalize in. All things being equal though, Virgo men are about average. Typically they enjoy mental stimulation such as role playing (as long as you're a worthy opponent!) more than vanilla kinkiness for it's own sake. Leave the chicken in the fridge and just use a feather...
What's it like dating a Virgo man?
The Virgo man is a particularly loyal person, and gains much satisfaction from building and maintaining a healthy and functional relationship and lifestyle. Treat him well and he will enjoy doing the same for you. If you're too unstable, unpredictable, immature etc then he may begin to feel like a parent.
While often reserved towards strangers, Virgos show a very different side of themselves to friends and loved ones and tend to be highly entertaining and stimulating conversationalists, offering insights on almost any subject. If he seems too serious, it's likely that will change later!
How loyal are Virgo men? The Virgo man is typically very loyal. One warning however in this area, as with other signs who dislike confrontation Virgos can be known to take action on their own rather than repeat arguments. Especially if you're overly aggressive or dominant. This isn't a man who cheats just for the thrill of it, or the ego boost or other shallow reasons, however he may do so when unhappy or dissatisfied for long periods.
How to know if a Virgo man loves you? As in all things, he will analyze love and seek perfection. This is of course a difficult area to do either, and as a result he can be particularly hesitant and stand-offish until he's comfortable with a partner. Just to be clear, this doesn't mean you need to be perfect as they appreciate imperfection too. For a full description of how a Virgo man acts when in love please see our article on Virgo in love
How to understand your Virgo man Your Virgo will have his own unique personality traits. This article talks about sun signs, however there are many other factors. For example his moon sign determines his emotional personality which affects whether he is sensitive, romantic, loyal etc.
With his date, time and location of birth these other factors can be calculated for a complete picture of his personality. To explore this further please see o ur article on astrology compatibility readings.
Who are some famous Virgo men celebrities? We have a list of the top 400 most famous Virgo celebrities and historical figures.
How to keep a Virgo man? Virgo men tend to be independent and free thinking, and appreciate the same in a partner. Conversation and intellectual connection tends to be very important to them. They also tend to mesh well with a partner who appreciates their hardworking, down to earth style, and fast and clever mind.
Strong, stable and confident he or she should ideally be comfortable with being fairly dominant at the start of the relationship, both socially and sexually. In the longer term however treating him as a partner and an equal will win more points.
How to know if your Virgo man is your soulmate? Relationships are complex things, comprising hundreds of individual elements. Sun signs are one of these, however a detailed analysis of everything is required to find all the strong and weak areas. Please see the article on astrology and soulmates for more information on how astrology can be used to determine if someone is your soulmate.
Virgo man long distance and online relationships Online relationships and long distance relationships have unique challenges. One of these is that you get to see one side of someone very clearly: their personality. You don't however get to see anything about other factors such as sexual attraction. My compatibility reports address this by scoring all factors alongside each other so you can see the whole picture, with any strong or weak areas highlighted. To explore this further please see my article on online relationships.
Do Virgo men cheat? Generally they don't. But, this is the type of question that often gets asked or answered whenever astrology is discussed. Individual experiences are then quoted back and forth as proof that Virgo men do or don't. Individuals get offended by general statements that don't apply to them, and everything goes downhill fast. The diagram below shows the problem here:
Astrology can predict someone's personality very accurately when the placement of all their planets is calculated. In that situation we can also predict their most likely behavior.
From just someone's sun sign however we can only predict some aspects of their personality and it's too much of a leap to try and predict behavior from just those. Astrology has fairly precise limits. This is an example of an area where sun signs are just too broad and clumsy to give an answer. A real compatibility reading is required to answer the question.
How to make a Virgo man fall in love with you? This is a question which is very hard to give a general answer on, as no two Virgo men are totally identical. The key is understanding him and what he finds most attractive in a partner. Astrology can provide a wealth of information to enable this, however natal charts need to be prepared and studied to do so. Please see the article on seduction and astrology for more information on this.
Virgo man gifts We have a dedicated section for Virgo man gifts with examples of the types of gifts which Virgo men enjoy within various categories from naughty to practical, including reader submitted suggestions.
Virgo man dating advice No advice will ever apply to every Virgo man as they are all unique in various ways. I specialize in offering tailored advice based on your unique personality and his together, as one without the other isn't nearly as useful. My astrology readings solve real relationship problems for real people every day. For more information please see the article on relationship advice.
How compatible are you with your Virgo man? This depends on far more than just your sun signs. The complete picture of your personality and his is determined by numerous planet placements at the time of birth. To fully understand someone or how compatible you are with them we need to calculate those other planet placements from their date of birth, and compare them to your own, and then interpret the results. This unlocks the real power of astrology, and gives much more useful and specific information - everything from how they view you and how to turn them on to the best way to avoid arguments.
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CANCER WOMAN Her ruler, the moon, rules the changing emotions--so she can be a moody person. This may make it hard to figure out how she feels about you in the early days of your relationship, because at times your stock will appear to rise and fall. If you marry her, this will not be a problem for she will be very loyal to you, and often put your interests ahead of hers. Your lunar goddess takes responsibility seriously. If she is a single mother, her children will come first, and you may have to wait in line. Yet it is this side of her--her mothering instincts--that you probably find so appealing in her. She is a bit of a worrier, and will often second-guess herself about decisions she has made. Reassure her that her judgment is sound, and help her focus more on the future, less on the past. Holidays and birthdays are important to her, so don't put her down for wanting to make them special. Instead, support her. When making love, the Cancer woman is fragile and feminine. Because she often puts others first, a little pampering would be a smart idea. To seduce her properly, whip up a surprise gourmet dinner and serve it to her on a small table decorated with flowers and white table linens set up in the bedroom, a place she isn't used to eating. Have chocolate-covered strawberries for dessert and feed her each by hand, one by one. Hide a love note or special card under her plate--Cancers are sentimental. Be especially careful about what you say to her during lovemaking, for anything she construes as negative could hurt her deeply---teasing is not for her.
When she is in love, she will act both ways. First, Shy and polite trembling to be near you. Second, Attach to you like glue and trying to be with you all the times. She will try to go home with you after work, or have every lunch with you. It is O.K. if you like her too, but if is is not the case, you will feel very uncomfortable. She hates to be talked about or gossiped by someone else. If she knows she will be very hurt. She is like a musical note always change in tunes, so one minute she can be funny and cheerful, and one minute she can be sad and depress. Other people may think of her as "Over-acting", or "Over-reacting". When she is depress, she will go out and look for things to make it up. She loves money, and thinks of having "Money" as "happy", not as
"God". She will not look down at you if you do not have a lot of money, but she will help you make money, save money. She is not an extravagant person and sometimes will tell you not to buy her expensive and not useful gift. She has a constant fear for many things. She fear of not being smart enough, not pretty enough. Even if she is not fat, she will not be satisfy. Assuring her of her look would help, because she can change mood 4 times a day. She is not stingy, but you will not surprise if you see she collecting old or broken junks. She sees that everything are useful to her. She will find a way to re-use it again some day. She is not a jealous type,but possessive.
The best part of her is that she will sacrifice everything for her love one with no limit. Don't leave her in times of troubles, she will never forget it. She is not a weak type, even she looks like one, Example if you argue with her, she might cry her heart out. Once you left, she will wipe her tears and start clean up her apartment normally. She could be moody and argue with you in many little things like many women, but she always wait and want to take care of you. If you argue with her and disappear a few days, she will be waiting for you, but not for long O.K. This kind of testing is risky, try not to do it. She dislikes criticisms, can't stand rejection and gets deeply hurt by harsh words. Too much aggressiveness on your part may make her a little hesitant. She loves her mother, so you better learn to love as well as respect her too.
A Cancer woman will never make the first moves in a relationship; she only knows how to move backwards or sideways. This is because of two reasons, her shyness and her fear of being rejected. This female has some secrets and she won't like you prying around her personal diary. She is very insecure and will need your constant reassurance. Neither will she be stingy, nor totally extravagant. She has a habit of saving everything that is usable, be it money, old buttons or empty jars. She also saves things that have a sentimental value attached to them, like the sweater grandmother knitted on her fifth birthday. A Cancer female fiercely guards what is hers and that includes you too! However, she is not too possessive or jealous. But, she does not like sharing her love too. She is one of those people who do not crib about bad luck. She will get depressed and may shed a few tears alone, but she will be patient and wait for the time to change again, this time in her favor. Almost all the Cancerians have the desire of being pampered like a child, especially when they feel low. Don't forget to pay your Cancer girl extra attention when she is depressed, otherwise she may retreat deeper into her shell. And then, it will be very difficult to bring her back to her normal self.
