Those Winter Sundays ESOK

Those Winter Sundays BY ROBERT HAYDEN

Sundays too my father got up early and put his clothes on in the blueblack cold, then with cracked hands that ached from labor in the weekday weather made banked fires blaze. No one ever thanked him.

I¶d wake and hear the cold splintering, breaking. When the rooms were warm, he¶d call, and slowly I would rise and dress, fearing the chronic angers of that house,

Speaking indifferently to him, who had driven out the cold and polished my good shoes as well. What did I know, what did I know of love¶s austere and lonely offices?

THOSE WINTER SUNDAYS THEME y

The relationship between parent and child is often a significant one in literature

Parents often have the desire to give to their children no matter how much pain it brings to themselves. In Robert Hayden¶s poem ³Those Winter Sundays,´ the father does whatever is necessary to make his family comfortable. In the early morning he awakens to a cold house and rises to prepare a fire that will warm the house for the rest of the family. As the son grows older and matures, he realizes that he should have praised his father for the many sacrifices he has made in the past. Hayden uses imagery throughout the poem to enable the reader to sense the devotion of the father and the ungratefulness of the son. MESSAGES IN THE POEM

In the early stages of the poem, Hayden creates the image of a caring, devoted father. The typical stereotype of a father is that of a man who is willing to work for his family. In the poem Hayden creates the same image by saying, ³Sundays too my father  got up early / and put his clothes on in the blueblack cold´ (ll. 11-12). The father cares so immensely for his family that he sacrifices his own comfort for them. Hayden mentions that he rises in the ³blueblack cold´ to emphasize that the sun has not even begun to rise. The speaker further characterizes the father by saying that his ³cracked hands that ached / from labor in the weekday weather made / banked fires blaze´ (ll. 3-5). The father works every day in the harsh weather causing himself physical pain. Sunday mornings, ironically, are no exceptions because the duty of warming the house still remains. The first stanza ends with, ³No one ever thanked him´ (1. 5). Everything he does for his family is out of love, not desire for gratification. The second stanza includes imagery of the father by mentioning that ³[w]hen the rooms were warm, he¶d call´ (1. 7).  Again, the father shows his love for his family. He only calls them when the rooms are warm so that they will not have to brave the cold. Symbolically, this line suggests that the father¶s love has warmed the rooms for his family. I Images of the father in the third stanza include Hayden¶s description of the father  ³[driving] out the cold / and [polishing] [the son¶s] good shoes as well´ (ll. 12-13). These lines show examples of things that the father has done for his son. Although the family does not require these things, the father¶s love for them leads him to continue to carry out these duties. Just as Hayden uses images to convey the character of the father, he also creates an astonishing image of the son¶s personality.