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The King’s Game Greg C. Greenway Copyright Cop yright © 2014 TKG Media LLC Media LLC All Rights Reserved www.thekingsgame.com
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Table of Contents Foreword .......................................................................................................... 5 Chapter 1: Introduction ............................................................................... 7 Chapter 2: The Seduction Parachute ....................................................... 16 Chapter 3: No More Rejection................................................................... 43 Chapter 4: The Royal Tribute Method ..................................................... 70 Chapter 5: It’s All About Access ................................................................ 93 Chapter 6: Dealing With Dimes.............................................................. 112 Chapter 7: Conclusion .............................................................................. 139
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Foreword
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FIRST MET GREG GREENWAY ON A ROOFTOP...
At a birthday party for a mutual friend, there were two things that struck me about him: 1. He had this positive energy that seemed to zap everyone he was talking to, and... 2. He claimed he never approached women, and that they always came to him. Naturally, I found this concept fascinating. I emailed him a couple weeks later and said we should get dinner, sort of a "bro-date" kind of thing. For some reason, we ended up choosing BOA, which is this really nice steakhouse in Santa Monica. What's funny is even though we both love to party and say yes to crazy adventures, we started off that dinner stoically, sipping red wine and using language far more proper than we normally do. That "front" lasted a full 45 minutes until I mentioned vodka, and the rest is history. We soon dropped the $100 steak at BOA for the $3 vodka's on Main Street, and the adventure hasn't stopped since. Amongst all the great things I've learned from Greg during our travels, parties and conversations, none has been more influential to me than the power and freedom of developing your social circle game. For years, all the girls I met and dated came through cold approaching. I thought anyone who didn't cold approach was a "pussy". I thought it was by far the best way to meet and attract hot girls. I thought wrong.
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There is no better, easier or more effective way to meet and attract the hottest, most desirable women in the world than mastering your social circle skills, and that's exactly what Greg is going to show you in this book. I still remember pounding whiskey-waters at Tootsie's Miami at 3 in the morning, asking Greg question after question about social circle game. I wanted to know every little detail about this lost art from the man who had, for all intents and purposes, brought it to America himself. Every detail he revealed to me is here in this book, plus much, much more. What you're about to experience will completely explode your sex life, and your social life. There are very few people out there who get my stamp of approval, and even fewer I would actually pay to learn from myself. Greg C. Greenway is one of those few people. You've made one hell of a decision investing in this book, and now it's time for you to make one more: Start reading and applying the lessons you're going to discover inside here, immediately.
They're going to do wonders for your life just like they did mine, and...we wouldn't want to delay that, would we? All my best (and a little of my worst), Jason Capital
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Chapter 1:
Introduction “You have no idea what’s about to happen to your sex life right now do you?” – Greg C. Greenway
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ET ME PUT YOUR MIND AT EASE.
You are in the right place. It doesn’t matter who you are. Whether you’re the high flying CEO of a fortune 500 company or a struggling musician. Whether you hit the genetic lottery and are blessed with good looks and a great physique, or you are overweight, unattractive and bald. It doesn’t matter if you are a virgin or already experienced; you want a wife or a harem of women. You may have just started college afraid of the world ahead; or you recently came through a divorce and want to get back in the saddle. Whoever you are, and how you got here it doesn’t matter. You are in the only place that you need to be. The decision you made to purchase this book is one of the smartest decision that you will ever make.
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You see, when it comes to your dating life, your sex life, the words you are going to read between the pages of this book are the most important words you are ever going to read. I make no bones about it, and you will not find false modesty here. The King’s Game is a life altering, reality shattering set of ideas, principles and technique’s. Once I give this to you. Once I show you in this book how to use it, and wield its power, once you know the strategy, the framework, the structure… NOTHING IN YOUR SEX LIFE WILL EVER BE THE SAME… This literally changes everything. Everything regarding women that you’ve struggled with in your life before, suddenly becomes easy and effortless. You know that horrible, dirty feeling you get in the pit of your stomach when you see a girl that you want to approach but you can’t fight through the cold tightness in your chest? You know that sinking feeling where you’re just being yourself getting to know an awesome girl, you think you’re hitting it off and then she says: “Let’s just be friends?” You know the anger you feel after taking a girl out on expensive dinners and dates, talking for hours, trying to entertain her, only to go home alone…again! The feeling you get when she ignores your texts… The feeling you get when she rejects you… The feeling when you see beautiful women on tv, in magazines, online, and you wish that you could date someone that hot… And of course that soul crushing feeling you get spending night after night alone not knowing when you will ever feel the warmth of a woman. Have a woman text you excitedly, have a woman tell you she wants you, she needs you, she loves you… You know all those feelings? Well forget them.
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Scrunch all those feelings together like a dirty bit of laundry, and then throw them over your shoulder for good. All those feelings are gone. That’s over with. You’re never going to feel them again. With The King’s Game you never have to approach again. You will learn how to make women consistently approach you. Rejection? Forget it. You will eradicate the thought of rejection forever and you will create a sex life filled with not only quantity but quality. An abundance of beautiful women who want to be your lovers, your fuck buddies, your sex pets, your girlfriends, and your wives. Now I’m not just talking decent looking women. Follow what I teach you in this book, reading every page, devouring every word and the type of women you will date, fuck and marry will blow you away. I’m talking about girls who are paid for their beauty. Everything from cocktail waitresses to the hot librarian to girls who are walking catwalks and in fashion shows. This system allows you to date, seduce, and meet the world’s most attractive women. On top of that, once going through this book, you will have the women that you really want. What type of women do you want? What would your ideal woman be? Imagine her. Her face, her body, her smell. What does she do for fun, where does she hang out, what are her friends like? The King’s Game will show you how to find your own personal Queen (or Queens). Women that are the perfect fit for you, whether it’s a woman who’s intelligent or a woman who’s into art or a woman who’s into movies or a woman who’s into keeping fit. Whatever your ideal woman looks like, The King’s Game is a system that gives you an environment that has an abundance of YOUR type of woman. Meaning your perfect woman consistently and on cue. Imagine a life with a consistent abundance of the exact type of woman that you want. It is possible and I’m going to show you how. I guess you’re probably wondering who exactly am I? What is it that makes me able to make these claims and why should you listen to anything I have to say? My name is Greg C. Greenway. And this is my Legend…
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I’m a world renowned Social Circle Expert Speaker and Author. I’ve coached tens of thousands of men to improve their social lives, their sex lives and their professional lives, all while adhering to one over-arching philosophy. It’s not what you know, it’s whom you know.
I’ve been studying social psychology for years. I’ve been studying everything from social interaction to interpersonal attraction to social psychology. I’ve dated some outrageously beautiful women including actresses, famous musicians, catwalk models, vegas strippers and a former Miss Arizona beauty queen. But this wasn’t always the case. Far from it. Many many moons ago, I was a total social loser. I was a social nobody. Through some weird miracle I actually managed to get a date with Lauren. The girl I had been chasing for so long. I was the equivalent of Lauren’s gay best friend. Seriously, I couldn’t be any more sexually invisible. I was on friend zone level 99. After being her shoulder to cry on after her douchebag boyfriend cheated on her for the umpteenth time she finally said the words: “I wish I could find a nice guy like you, Greg…Hey you know what? WE should go out.”
I felt like I had scored a goal for the good guys. I finally had a date with my dream girl…and SHE…actually asked ME out! I was so exited that, and I’m embarrassed to say this, I actually told my mum she was my girlfriend. It was a down right silly thing to do, but my imagination had really taken over. I was thinking that this wasn’t just a date. I though we were now a couple, and that this was going to be epic. So Lauren plans the whole night out in advance. She says that she knows some guy named Jody. He was supposedly some jet-setting playboy who could get us into this hot new nightclub that had just opened. Lauren plus hot new nightclub?
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I kept thinking, “This is going to be one of the best nights of my life. This is going to be amazing. This is going to be such an awesome club. It’s going to be an awesome time.” I spent all week getting ready. I had been thinking about it every moment of every day. I was psyched. I was pumped… I lived on the outskirts of London, so we took the train to get into Central London. When we got there, there was a bar that we were going to go drink at first. She set it up. She said, “We’re going to meet these guys at a bar first, because they’re going to get us into the night club.” At the bar, we met Jody. He was Lauren’s friend and one of the hosts who was going to get us into the nightclub. This guy wasn’t anything to look at. He was short and unattractive and overweight. The way she talked about this social Adonis Jody, I thought he was some 6’3” superhero looking type dude. Instead, you’ve got this short, slightly tubby, unattractive bloke. With his ginger hair he looked like a chubby leprechaun. But for everything Jody lacked in looks and in first impressions, he more than made up with in his sheer magnetism, especially when it comes to the girls. Every single woman around was all over this guy. The girls were laughing at everything he was saying. He was surrounded by some of the most attractive women I have ever seen in my life. They literally wouldn’t leave him alone. I’m thinking this guy is really rich or maybe he’s a pimp or hung like a donkey. I don’t know. I was thinking all manner of things, because it just didn’t make sense that a guy who looked the way he did would have awesome women fighting for his attention. I’m talking women who are tens! The way they were acting around Jody was insane. I had never seen anything like it, I was absolutely blown away. We leave the bar and get to the club and it’s more of the same. Girls in the line are calling his name, the hot door girl gives him a hug and then the bouncer fist bumps him before lifting the velvet rope. Jody, the girls and Lauren start walking in, as it gets to me I’m about to go in, they put the rope down. I say to the lady,
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“Hey, I’m with them.”
I’m trying to point over to Jody. But they don’t even look back at me. They just go straight into the club and I’m left outside by myself. I’m trying to explain this to the lady at the door. She’s not listening to me. She’s not having any of it. She said: “If you’re with them, get one of them to come back out and come get you.”
So I text my Lauren: “I’m outside. I’m waiting. I got stuck out here. Can you send someone out to come and get me?”
And then I wait. Five minutes, ten minutes, thirty minutes, an hour. I’m standing outside in the freezing cold. Then Lauren finally texts me back. I’ll never forget this. Her response was: “hey babe really sorry. I lost Jody somewhere in the VIP room and I cant find him. Sooooooooooooooooo... if I come out… I mean... I prolly wont be able to get back in either. Can u be a babe & giv me a lift home in a couple of hrs? ur the best <3 “
It was horrible! I had just been ditched. That was the turning point for me. I had seen first had just how this weird magnetism the Jody possessed had affected everyone around him. I was desperate to figure out his secret. I started going to bars and clubs and searching for this mystic energy. This aura that I had seen with Jody. I would observe guys in the club, the ones who were always surrounded by women. I would watch them, study them, I was obsessed. Guess what the crazy thing was? I started seeing Jody around everywhere and after a while we slowly became friends. Befriending Jody, I saw some of the most amazing things. I saw the type of women that he would date. Phenomenal women. I’d see a girl in Maxim magazine one week, then with Jody at a restaurant days later. It blew my mind away. It would have been easy to have assumed that Jody was just some rich kid, but far from it. The most impressive thing about all of this was that Jody was unemployed and living on his sisters couch. I learned this the day he asked me to pick him up for a night out. I went up to their apartment, I thought he had crashed at some girls house
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because the place was a shit hole. There was no way the legendary Jody was living in a dump like this. But he was. And on top of that he didn’t even have his own bed. He was on the couch. That was it. That was the straw that broke the camels back. I just couldn’t believe it anymore. What the fuck was going on? I erupted. “For fucks sake mate. I don’t get it. I just don’t fucking get it. No offense but you look like the fat kid in the goonies. You don’t have a job and you live in a dump. What the fuck is going on, how come you fuck all these hot girls? I just don’t get it.”
Jody laughs… “Wake up mate. If they think you’re a King, they’ll treat you like one.”
From that moment on, I started looking at everything differently. I started to engineer my life in a way that it constantly achieved one thing: That I was The King! Every where I went, people treated me like The King and this had a profound effect on women. Women respond to a specific set of signals that men using The King’s Game broadcast. They are slaves to it. It’s in their genetic code, their evolution their DNA. Women are hard-wired to try and find the most desirable male to mate with so to ensure their offspring have the best genes. So when as a man you broadcast these signals (or people broadcast them for you), it literally attracts every woman in the vicinity. Signaling to them that you are the guy she should be chasing. The King! Let me warn you, however. Women have been trying to keep this a secret from you. It’s a dirty secret. No woman wants to believe that they are powerless to their evolutionary drives, and they will fight you tooth and nail on this. Since developing The King’s Game and using it for myself I've had some amazing successes. For a very long time, I had an entourage of women. I could walk into any night club at any time with 20 to 30 women following around after me. Beautiful women. It got so crazy that at one stage nightclubs were begging to pay me just so I would go to their club with my girls.
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I spent a lot of time in nightclubs. I remember one night Emily, one of the hot female bartenders who I had become friends with asked me: “Greg. What’s your secret?” “What do you mean?” “All of us girls who work here, we’ve nicknamed you Ice. We never really see you go up and talk to any girls, or really hit on any girls. But you’re always surrounded by them. And we always see you leaving with a couple. How do you do it?”
Well you can answer that question yourself when you go out and have wild passionate nights with sexy young females… You can answer that question when your phone is blowing the fuck up from women desperate to spend some time with you… You can answer that question when you have your perfect ideal woman begging to be your girlfriend… You can look forward to all of this success with women and much more once you get through this book. By the time you get to the end of this book, you will not only believe in the power of The King’s Game. You will know how to generate it effortlessly and automatically anywhere you go. Women will be drawn to you like moths to a flame and you will be the envy of men everywhere. This book is going to entertain you, inspire you, educate you and guide you. But most importantly, this book will TRANSFORM you. Transform you into a King. And as you’ll discover while reading this book. Transforming yourself into a King is more than just being exceptional with women. Being exceptional with women is a by product. It’s an awesome benefit, a bonus of the philosophy that you will begin to live your life by. The King’s Game is more than just a method of consistently hooking up with the most desirable women around. It’s an ideal to aspire to, it’s a way of being. As with all powerful tools it can be used for good and can also be used negatively. What type of King do you want to be? If you use what I show you for good, you will be a benevolent loving King that people will cherish so deeply that they would literally die for. If you use these methods in a
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negative way, for purely selfish reasons, then you may still become a King, but you’ll be a tyrant. A King that only rules for a very short time, enjoying all that comes with it very briefly while damaging lives in the process. I want you to become a GREAT King. A King that touches lives and is loved by many and throughout this book I will show you exactly how. What I want you to do with this book is to read it with an open mind. A lot of information out there like traditional dating advice, “Pick Up” techniques, information from other “Gurus” even advice from your friends. A lot of that is all bullshit. You’re going to unlearn a lot of that stuff, but its fine. I’m going to walk you through this. We’re going to do this together. I want your success. You’ve invested your money and time into this book, so allow me to invest my expertise in you. You’re reading this and now your sex life is my personal responsibility, so I will do everything I can to give you the sex life that you want. The sex life that you deserve. Even if you think that’s impossible today, stick with me. Let’s stick together on this, and by the end of the time you finish this book, you will look back on today, reading these words and marvel at just how far you have come. Your transformation begins today.
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Chapter 2:
The Seduction Parachute
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OULDN’T IT BE COOL if you had a technique that always worked?
Seriously, imagine that for a moment. How awesome would it be if you had a technique, or a strategy, or a line, that would work every single time? No more worrying about what to say, or how to say it because pretty much everything that would come out of your mouth worked and women were instantly drawn to you? Its possible, but the route to this level of success likely isn’t what you are expecting.
You see there’s a reason why there are so many different types of dating advice and techniques out there available to you. There are so many different techniques because many of them simply don’t work, and you have to keep trying many different styles till you find one that fits. This is due to most techniques being based on superficial surface level tricks rather than really getting to the heart of what makes you truly successful. No matter what’s on top if you don’t have the goods below you can’t make it work.
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You should be striving to get to a stage where you have what I call The Seduction Parachute. The Seduction Parachute happens when you’ve reached a stage where you have become so attractive to women that even if you don’t always say the right thing or do the right thing, she will still be very attracted to you. It stops you worrying about which technique you are using and you can relax with the piece of mind knowing that even if you fuck up 80% of the “seduction”, you’re still going to get the girl because the power of The Seduction Parachute carries you through. There are certain mindsets, philosophies and beliefs you can adopt that will give you the Seduction Parachute. This is more than just techniques. This will positively affect your life in so many different ways and so many different areas. I know it’s not sexy to work on your beliefs and who you are but I promise you. Get a handle on the Seduction Parachute and you can mess up pretty much every thing else it won’t matter. You will feel amazing and you will still get the girl. The Seduction Parachute is divided into 3 different areas:
Beliefs, Mindsets and Social Skills. This is all about getting the bigger picture. If you get the bigger picture a lot of this stuff will just happen anyway and you won’t even need any more teaching. The ideal scenario would be that you read this chapter, take everything on board, go out and see an instant improvement in your success with women. Then you wouldn’t even need to read the rest of this book. You would be so good with women that you would only read this book for the many entertaining stories located in the later chapters. That’s just how powerful The Seduction Parachute is. It’s tough and will take some work on your part. You won’t get it straight away, but that’s fine. No one ever does. But once you do get it, you will be looking at the world with a totally different lens.
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“We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think…” – Buddha
You can never underestimate the power of your mind. It’s truly astonishing. Look around you right now. Everything that you see was at one point the subject of somebody’s imagination. The chair you’re sitting on, the computer screen you’re reading this on right now. Someone had to imagine these products before they ever existed and then almost like magic they were made real. That’s the power of the mind, and if the mind can have that type of power on the external world, imagine the type of impact that it can have on you and your world. To do this first I want you to think about the voice inside your head. Every single day whether you realize it or not, you’re talking to yourself. Telling yourself a story of who you are. This story that you tell yourself inside your head is exactly what shapes your reality. The voice in your head is extremely important and the relationship you have with that voice needs to be healthy as it’s the number 1 factor that will determine what you believe and how people perceive you. We’ll talk more about your belief system in a moment, but for now I want you to think about transforming your daily story into part of your lifetime legend. When Matthew McConaughey won the Academy Award for best Actor, his acceptance speech was brilliant. He told the story of when he was a very young man he was asked who he considered his heroes to be. His answer is something I will never forget. He said that his hero was himself in ten years time. That every day he would imagine what he would be like in ten years, and then try to emulate that character in his daily life. So after ten years passed when he was starting to make it in Hollywood as an actor, he was asked again who his heroes were. Again, he gave the same answer. He stated his hero was himself in ten years time and that he imagines who that man is and tries to behave like him every single day.
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There’s a couple of really powerful messages you can learn from this story. Firstly it’s very important to always be moving forward. Because Matthew McConaughey was trying to achieve the ideal of his future self, he was always striving to improve and was rewarded by winning the highest accolade that a male actor can ever win. The second message is the power of the story you tell yourself. The story that you tell yourself is directly responsible to what you BELIEVE about yourself. Control your story and you will control your beliefs. There are two books that spring to mind right now. Firstly, The Secret and another called Think and Grow Rich . Both these books talk a lot about the abstract nature of projecting out positive beliefs into the universe and then the universe will respond by giving you positive rewards. That is not what I am talking about. The story you tell yourself has nothing to do with some abstract mumbo jumbo about the Universe answering your prayers. This is about the very real effect that your story has on your every day life. When I talk about your story, I’m talking about the dialogue you have with yourself inside your head every single day. Does it lift you up or does it hold you back. You see everything that you tell yourself on a daily basis. Everything that you think about, even what you write about, it shapes your life, it shapes your reality. If your story is negative, your beliefs about yourself will be negative. You will be telling yourself things like: “I’m not good enough, things never work out for me, women reject me, women aren’t interested in me.” And when you talk to yourself in this manner, it continues to affect your life as these negative beliefs have a negative impact on your emotions which then have a negative impact on your body language. If your story is telling you that you are not successful, that you don’t deserve the best women in the world, and that people treat you in a bad way. Then that is exactly what will happen. You will continue in a negative spiral. Your brain becomes trained to thinking that’s just how life is and it tells the rest of your body to think that is how you should behave and this is signaled to women and everyone around you through your body language. When your body language is negative it shows women that you don’t believe highly in yourself, and if you don’t why should she? No woman wants a weak King does she?
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The good news, is that this works both ways. Just by changing what you tell yourself every day and turning your story into YOUR Legend, you can begin to drastically change the quality of your life and start putting together the first steps of the Seduction Parachute. Here’s how you turn your story into your legend. Think back to when I told you about the acceptance speech by Matthew McConaughey. His legend was all about being his future hero self, but in the here and now. In an interview, Matthew said that he would look into the mirror every day and tell himself that he was his future hero. He would tell himself every single day that he was an amazing actor, people loved his work and that he touched the lives of millions everywhere. Interesting to note, that this wasn’t actually happening yet. When he was repeating his legend to himself over and over again, no one had ever heard of him. But that’s the awesome thing about creating your legend. It’s not about telling yourself what you are going to do in the future. It’s all about NOW. If you tell yourself you are amazing now, you will slowly start to signal to everyone, especially women, that you believe you are amazing. This affects your emotions which in turn affects your body language, but I’ll talk more about that shortly. Back to your legend… Your legend can be whatever you want it to be, but you have to follow a few simple rules to ensure it’s success. Way before I ever became a world renowned coach and way before all of my amazing success with women I would tell myself my legend. I would look into the mirror every morning and say: “I am an amazing, attractive fucking awesome person. Every time I step out of the house, tanned, sexy, fit women with toned bodies, and great asses are always looking at me and they are dying to fuck me. They smile at me constantly and they fantasize about me. As soon as I open my mouth they are excited and can’t wait to get me alone.”
Your legend should be short, only 3-4 sentences long and for it to work in transforming you into the person you want to be, it has to follow a few rules.
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The first rule of your legend is that it has to be in the present tense. You’re not talking about what you will do, or who you will become. At a behavioral level your brain doesn’t respond to that kind of language. The part of your brain that controls your emotions and how you feel, only operates in the present tense. Don’t tell yourself that you will become good with women. Tell yourself that you ARE good with women. Avoid using words or phrases like “I will”, “someday”, “I intend to.” Your legend must always be in the present tense. The second rule of your legend is that it must be in your own voice. It must be spoken in the same way that you talk to yourself. This is so that your mind will understand and recognize that it is you speaking and not someone else. Try to use small simple words in your own chatty manner as if you were talking to your best friend that you have known for years. The third rule of Fight Club is… Just kidding! The third rule of your legend is that you must only use positive words. The mind is a funny machine. It is very particular in the way it operates and can sometimes seem complicated as hell, but if you understand it you can hack it and use it to your advantage. Negative words cannot be used to cause a behavior because your mind will ignore the word and focus on the rest of the sentence. Its like when parents tell their kids “Don’t eat any cookies from the cookie jar until I get back.” Because subconsciously the kid ignores the word “Don’t” all the child’s mind hears is “Eat any cookies from the cookie jar…” This is why there is such conflict in young children being told not to do things because they haven’t gotten to the stage where they can control their impulses as much as adults. Studies have shown that it is much more effective to use positive language on kids such as “When I get back I will give you a cookie.” This is why you should only use positive words in your legend. Instead of saying something like “Women don’t ignore me.” You should say “Women are excited when I talk to them.” Instead of saying “I don’t get scared anymore when I talk to women”, say “I am always confident when talking to women”. Use only positive words otherwise your legend won’t work as your mind will focus on the negative.
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The fourth rule of your legend is that it must be specific. Look at my legend. I specifically talk about women that are tanned and have toned bodies with great asses. My personal preference is mixed race women, Latin women, Brazilian, Middle Eastern etc. Olive, tanned and darker skinned. Not that I have anything against lighter women, I had a Swedish fetish for quite a while, but my legend is specific. Yours must be as well. We’ll go into much more detail about identifying and finding your perfect woman, but for now be specific with your legend. When you are being specific your legend becomes more powerful. It really crystalizes the brain to respond to the specific circumstances in your story. Talk about the type of women that you really want, not just hot women. Do you like blondes or brunettes? Tall or short? Skinny or curvy? The more specific you are, the more success you will have with the exact women that you really desire. The fifth rule of your legend is that you must tell it to yourself everyday. And by every day, I mean every single fucking day my friend. Do not take a single day off if you want this to work. You must be consistent even when you don’t feel like it. The mind thrives on repetition and consistency and the more you loop a thought in your mind, the more it will manifest itself as true. This is often the defining factor that separates the guys who are successful from those who aren’t. Commit to being consistent. Ideally you want to tell yourself your legend as much as possible. My good friend Jason Capital actually tells himself his legend whenever we’re out partying. We were laughing about this recently. He was telling me that whenever we’re at a club and we’re dancing, drinking, having women all over us, that if he’s not talking to some hottie, he has his legend running on repeat inside his head. It’s not a surprise that Jason is a badass with women. So every morning, tell yourself your legend. Wake up, go to the mirror and say your legend. Do it a couple of times as the first thing you do when you get up. Then throughout the day, whenever you notice that you are not thinking about something, or you are having doubt or negative thoughts tell yourself your legend again. Then finally, tell yourself your legend every night before you go to bed. You will notice a change literally after a couple of days, but that doesn’t mean you should stop. Do this EVERY SINGLE day without breaks until it becomes habit and you will be literally unstoppable.
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The sixth rule of your legend is that you must Visualize. You must think of what the success you desire actually looks like. The sights, the smells, the sounds. If your legend involves 6ft blonde models sucking your dick in restaurants then you need to actually visualize that happening. I taught this method to my friend Gareth and it led to one of the funniest and most awesome sex stories I have ever heard. A group of us where at a restaurant in Stockholm for my birthday a few years back and Gareth and this goddess of a Swedish girl disappear for about 20 minutes. When he gets back he is grinning from ear to ear. He tells me that just for fun, he added getting blow jobs by hot Swedish girls in restaurants into his legend. He told me that he would visualize it happening at his favorite steak place in London. He said that in his mind he could hear the chatter of restaurant goers and he could smell the steak being cooked. We just so happened to be at a restaurant in Stockholm and when he smelled the steak, he said something just clicked in his mind. It was like he was possessed and while he was talking to the girl sitting next to him at our table, all he could imagine was taking her by the hand into the bathroom; she locks the door, drops to her knees pulls out his cock and starts giving him the sloppiest, dirtiest, most enthusiastic blow job of his life. He said that imagining it became too much, so after using some of the signature techniques you’ll learn later in this book, he tells the girl to just follow him. They both go to the bathroom and emerge later with a look of pure debauchery etched on their faces. Visualization is very powerful. The brain works by association and when it can associate senses with results or outcomes, those results and outcomes happen. Think of the details and have the picture in your head of the desired outcome you want whenever you’re telling yourself your legend. The seventh rule of your Legend is that you have to get physically excited when you are telling yourself your new story. Body language and emotions are linked together so when you have pumped up positive body language it is easier for your mind to connect with the reality of your Legend. If your body is behaving like you’re excited about your legend, then the mind will link positive body language to the emotions of the legend. This means that when you tell yourself your legend later on, your mind
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sends signals to the body. It’s as if the mind is saying to the body “Oh here comes that legend stuff again, get pumped up.” It’s why my buddy Jason tells himself his legend whenever he’s out partying. There is little more high energy than when you’re at the peak of your positivity having a great time, having fun with your friends. It’s easier to do when you’re alone in the morning and late at night, but you want to get really pumped up and excited when you tell yourself your Legend. Follow these simple rules when creating your legend and you’ll be able to see immediate changes in not only your outlook on life, but how women treat you and your success. Now, I know what you’re thinking. Hey Greg, this all sounds great, but what if deep down I don’t believe my story because no women have ever talked to me, or been on a date with me or even been nice to me? I understand where you’re coming from because when I first started to study how to change my story into a legend, I had the same concerns. People treat you negatively or positively not because they know what your beliefs about yourself are, but because it comes out in your body language. Negative body language, comes from negative emotions, which come from a negative story, which comes from negative beliefs. It all comes back to your beliefs. If you believe, your story will become your legend and it will trickle down to your body language and women will believe it as well. Women read your body language to try and figure out what you believe about yourself, to see if you truly are a King, so you must make sure that your negative beliefs aren’t limiting your success. If you don’t believe your legend, I’m not going to pretend like changing your belief system is an easy task. It’s not. There are 2 types of people in the world. Those who are born once and those who are born more than once. I’m not talking about anything religious here. The majority of people who are born accept who they are till the day that they die. They never change, they never really grow, they simply remain the person they are until it’s all said and done.
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The second group of people, those who are born more than once, have the power to flip the script when they need to. They can re-invent themselves and literally become new people. This second group of people is extremely small. It’s less than 5% of the entire population. However, if you’re reading this now, then you are in that 5%. You’ve already made the commitment to get this aspect of your life handled which is ten steps ahead of virtually every other person out there. If you’re here now, I believe in you and to truly become a King, to master the Seduction Parachute and play The King’s Game with women, you must get to the point where you can control your emotions causing your body language to fall in line and give off those elusive King’s Signals. Go back to my legend: “I am an amazing, attractive fucking awesome person. Every time I step out of the house, tanned, sexy, fit women with toned bodies, and great asses are always looking at me and they are dying to fuck me. They smile at me constantly and they fantasize about me. As soon as I open my mouth they are excited and can’t wait to get me alone.”
What do you think happens if I believe my these words and I walk past a tanned, sexy, fit woman with a toned body and great ass? As I walk past her, I’ll hold my head up confidently, I’ll have a bit of a swagger about me, I’ll give her strong eye contact, I’ll feel like the fucking man. And when I talk to her, I expect that she is going to delighted to speak to me. She can sense this through my body language, I’m giving off signals of a King and she will become instantly attracted. But let’s say for instance she isn’t delighted when I talk to her. Let’s say she’s rude or she’s moody. How would my mind interpret that? When you have the Seduction Parachute, this is so damn rare that instead of taking it personally your mind will simply tell you that there must be something wrong with this girl. Think about it. YOU BELIEVE that you’re hot shit. YOU BELIEVE that you’re attractive and a fucking awesome person. YOU BELIEVE that all tanned, sexy, fit women with toned bodies and great asses want to fuck you. If YOU BELIEVE all of that and you happen to meet a woman that doesn’t respond in positive way, you’re just going to chalk it up as maybe she’s having a bad day, or maybe she’s crazy, or maybe she hates men, anything that is to do with her and not to do with you.
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But imagine that you didn’t really believe and she was mean, a bitch, she said something not nice or she laughed or ignored you. If you didn’t believe, you would take it personally and start thinking that maybe there was something wrong with you. You would switch back into your negative spiral and your body language would become negative and defeated. You might even be angry. This all comes from controlling your beliefs and with a bit of work, your beliefs are something that you can change. I learned this from a good friend of mine Joshua Pellicer. It’s called Belief Creation and the stages are Challenge, Accept, Proclaim, Feedback, Submit.
Challenge If you want to change a negative belief to a positive one, then you must first challenge the belief to see if it’s true or false. If you think you’re unattractive, does that mean that absolutely every single woman in the world isn’t attracted to you? Of course not. There’s billions of women in the world and even if only one of them finds you attractive that means this belief is false. More likely is that some women find you attractive and some women don’t. You can choose to believe either of these 2 statements, and which one do you think is better for your Legend? As long as there is the possibility that some women somewhere find you attractive, then even if women aren’t throwing themselves at you (yet), you must believe that you are attractive.
Accept Once you’ve challenged your previous belief you must accept your new belief to go in place of the old one. In this case you would choose to believe that you are attractive instead of unattractive because that will mean you are more likely to be treated that way. At this point once you’ve accepted your belief you must incorporate it into your legend. Keep telling yourself your legend with your new belief until it becomes part of your subconscious and you believe it as well.
Proclaim After you thoroughly believe your new belief and you’ve made it into your legend, you must actually start saying it out loud in normal conversation to other people. You have to state it as a fact and not an opinion.
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Feedback After you proclaim your belief you need to gauge the reactions of other people to your proclamations. Do people accept it? Do they just look at you? Do they argue with you about it? Do they flat our disagree with you? As long as they don’t flat out disagree with you, you’re ok. If people are actively disagreeing with you when you proclaim your belief then something went wrong somewhere. You either don’t believe it yourself or your belief was unrealistic.
Submit Finally when you’ve gotten enough sufficient feedback and enough people to agree to your belief you can accept it as FACT. Technically if you’re crazy, you don’t have to do this stage. Even delusional people have great success with women because they just ignore everyone’s feedback and believe whatever they feel like. I wouldn’t recommend that, however. Once you’ve submitted the belief back into your mind as fact you’re going to need a very large amount of new evidence and convincing otherwise before you’ll reconsider your new belief. The first time I ever did this was during my Swedish fetish. I had at this point only met 1 Swedish girl that had been interested in me, but I decided to ignore every other interaction I’d ever had with a Swedish girl and only focused on the fact that I knew of at least 1 Swedish girl who was really in to me. I remember a friend of mine was dating a Swedish girl and I was at his house while she was there with all of her Swedish friends. I told them that I was thinking about moving to Stockholm. When they asked me why, with a wry smile I proclaimed: “Because Swedish girls love me.”
The girls burst out laughing. I tried my hardest to keep my smile, but this was the first time I had ever attempted such a thing and I was shitting bricks. They kept laughing for what seemed like forever, before one of them said: “Yeah…maybe you’re right. I can see that.”
I couldn’t believe it. It actually worked. I completely pulled this belief out of thin air. It was totally made up. But for some curious reason, these girls just went along with it. I
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had no reason to believe that Swedish girls were attracted to me. I just wanted to try the Belief Creation Method and see if it actually worked. And boy did it ever. From that point I went on a Swedish girl binge for 2 or 3 years and later in this book I’ll tell you more of the insane story about what happened when I went to Stockholm for my birthday. Controlling your beliefs is a major part of the Seduction Parachute. Once you are aware that you can control how attractive you come across, or you can control any part of your Legend just by altering your beliefs, you take on a new found sense of power. Understanding this concept alone will give you massive amounts of success very quickly. Your beliefs; your legend; your emotions; your body language; your success with women. If you want to use the Seduction Parachute and always be attractive to women regardless of what you actually say, really work hard on getting this concept down. Challenge your negative beliefs, turn your story into your Legend and you will instantly start seeing long lasting success with women.
Mindsets The next aspect of your Seduction Parachute is your Mindset. A Mindset is the ideas and attitudes with which you approach a situation. There are many different type of Mindsets, but to really use The King’s Game effectively we’re going to concentrate on 2 types of Mindset. Personal Mindsets & Dating Mindsets.
Personal Mindsets Personal Mindsets are your attitudes and ideas that relate to you, your time, your life etc. This will be the main philosophy that you base your interactions with women around. There are a few that are very beneficial in creating the Seduction Parachute. The first Personal Mindset is that you must be on your own path. I can’t remember where I heard this saying but it sums this up perfectly. “The best way to get lots of women is to not spend your time trying to get lots of women.”
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One of the most attractive traits that a man can have to a woman is a man with a passion, a vision something that he holds above all other activities. It shows ambition which is like chick crack to girls. You need to have something that you do, a purpose, a hobby. You need to have something going on in your life that regardless of whether a woman is there or not, you are committed to it. This thing needs to be your passion, your primary focus. When you are on your own path you will become a rock of a person. Why do you think The King’s Game works so well and you’re not approaching women? Think about it. Would a King leave his throne and try and find a Queen? Of course not. He has better things to do. The potential Queen comes to him or is given to him. You need to have the same mindset. I’m going to show you The Royal Tribute Method in a later chapter so you will have people presenting women to you all the time. It’s your job to stick to your mission. Imagine that you are on a train and the train is traveling to its destination. There’s only one route. That’s how your life is. Women, friends, acquaintances even family members will get on the train at some of the stops and sometimes they will get off at others. But at no point are they ever going to steer the train or change its course. You are the only conductor and the only one allowed to chart the course of the train. It’s your train, it’s your ride, it’s your world. You make the rules, no one else is allowed to. Having this type of ownership on your life will be liberating. I’m sure you can identify with this, but I’ve been in situations where I felt totally out of control of my own life. It’s soul crushing and it made me not even want to get up some days. Once I began looking at my life from this mindset, I was able to take back the reigns and begin to really get what I wanted. I know you’ll run into problems with people trying to steer your train for you and change your path. If that happens be strong. Most people cannot stand to see someone change or become stronger. As you go through this book you will not only improve with women, you will improve with people. You will transform. This will come with some resistance from people and some of these people maybe very close to your or influential in your life. You must remember that growing as a person is for your own good, and that anyone who tries to derail your mission is being selfish and you need to move them away from the center of your life.
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The reason people don’t like you changing is because the methods that they used to manipulate you before no longer work. Being on your own path is dangerous to others around you because it means that you are your own man. You make your own rules and they can no longer control you. So if you really want freedom and the endless possibility that comes from it, adopt the mindset that you are on your own path and this is your life. You are the one in control. The next Personal Mindset that you need to adopt to create The Seduction Parachute is that women are a bonus. Women are not the be all and end all of life. Living an awesome fulfilling life where you have connections with everyone, you contribute, you receive and you are inspired. That is the key to a great life. Sounds strange coming from someone showing you how to get better with women, but all the success you will get from this book is a bonus. Having an amazing life is the real reward. One day, maybe not today, tomorrow, this week, maybe not even this year. But at some point you are going to realize that you don’t actually need women to be happy. You don’t need anyone else to feel fulfilled. I’m not suggesting becoming a hermit or anything like that, but you are already complete and whole right now just as you are. There is nothing wrong with you. There is no void that you need to fill. There is no hole inside you that will be complete because you put your dick in the whole of another woman. It may be tough to think about right now and to be honest this mindset may take a while for you to adopt. Heck, I didn’t realize this for years. However, I truly believe that I’m your guide and friend through all of this and it would be criminal of me if I didn’t share this as this was one of the biggest revelations in my life. Once you realize that all the happiness you need is already inside you and that until you are completely content and happy and in love with yourself, nothing you will achieve with women will ever really make you happy. Sure it will be fun, you’ll have some good times, but you’ll always be searching. I have a friend who has phenomenal success with women. He fucks different girls every single day but he is miserable and empty inside. YOU WILL NOT FIND HAPPINESS AT THE BOTTOM OF A VAGINA!
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My friend thinks that fucking all these women will fill some whole he has in his life and that isn’t how it works. Sex is fun,
YOU WILL
women are amazing and it’s fantastic to have the type of power The King’s Game will give you. The ability to have as many
NOT FIND
women as you want whenever you want is pretty cool. But you
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have to remember it’s a bonus. Learn what you have to from this book to get that part of your life handled but always remember that women are just a bonus. The real reward is when you are inspiring people, you feel connected to your life and you love yourself. That’s what you should be aiming for
AT THE BOTTOM OF A VAGINA!
and you can’t get there if you have women as a focus. I’ll show you techniques and strategies, but the ultimate goal in this book is that you have a life that you enjoy and women are funneled into that life as a compliment and not as the prime focus.
Dating Mindsets Dating Mindsets are the attitudes to which you approach women and dating. This is more specific to how you will actually use the techniques I show you in the book. You ever heard the story of the young bull and the old bull? There are two bulls sitting on a hill in the pasture. One old bull and one young bull. As they’re looking down into the pasture on the herd of cows, the young bull says to the old bull: “Hey old timer. Why don’t we run down the hill and fuck one of these cows?”
The old bull smiles and says to the young bull: “Yes, we could do that…or we could walk down and fuck them all.”
When I first started teaching The King’s Game to my private 1on1 students the first thing I would do would be to take them to a bar and ask them to go and get a date. I didn’t give them any instructions, I would just tell them to go and do what they would normally do at a bar if they wanted to get to know a girl.
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All the guys would do the same thing. They would look around the bar till they found a girl that they liked, then they would immediately single her out and start trying to talk to her. After conversing with the girl for a while they would then look around the bar and try again with another girl. They would continue doing this over and over again until they had talked to virtually every girl in the bar. At the end of the first night they would usually have 1 or 2 numbers, but they had spoken to dozens of girls. I would then take the students out the following night and tell them to look out for the friendliest looking girl in the bar. The girl that had lots of people talking to her and looked like she was the life and soul of the party. I told them to go buy the girl a shot and tell her that she had an amazing energy that lit up the room and they would love it if she would accept a shot from them. They would give the girl a shot and then come back to me. What would happen next would always blow the guys away. Every single time, the fun loving friendly girl would come over and invite the student to join her and her friends. She would then introduce the student to all of her friends saying how cool he was for buying a shot. Now instead of having to walk around the bar all night talking to girls, the student now had made a new friend who instantly introduced him to loads of girls. The power of introduction and endorsement is a hallmark of The King’s Game, and I’ll tell you more about it as we go through this book. For now you need to adopt the mindset of the old bull. “Walk down and fuck them all…”
You don’t want to act like every other guy who goes in there and tries to hit on all the girls. You want to look at the bigger picture. You want to look at farming versus hunting. Most guys hunt. If you hunt you may get a kill every now and again, but you always need to go out hunting. If you farm, you plant seeds everywhere, wait for them to grow and then you can eat whenever you want. It’s the mindset that separates the guys who do ok from the guys who are phenomenal. Once you start thinking in terms of farming as opposed to hunting you’ll approach all your interactions with women in a different way as you’re looking at approaching the scenario as a King instead of all the other guys who play like pawns.
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The other reason you want to Farm instead of Hunt is that you have to be aware of the Dating Hierarchy. All women are part of many social circles, and in every one of these social circles there are invisible hierarchies, or ladders which the women in that circle are all subtlety aware of. Each woman is somewhat aware of their position on this "imaginary" ladder, and it affects who they decide to date, sleep with and ultimately marry. These ladders can be based on a number of different criteria. They can be based on beauty, intelligence, sophistication, money and even promiscuity (or lack of). The higher up on the ladder a woman is placed, the more attractive and powerful she’s going to be n that social group. If we use a "beauty" ladder, for example. Imagine a social circle or social scene that consists of catwalk models. The most beautiful (and likely the most successful), will almost always be the alpha female. She will likely be the woman that others in the group or scene turn to for direction, and lead the status quo of the group. One such example is the super model scene of the 90s where Naomi Campbell was the top girl and many reports stated that she had the power to influence decisions of the bookers and talent agents, including denying some newer models work because she had an issue with them. These ladders and hierarchies tie directly into your sex life. You have to be aware of the ladders because regardless of where you meet a woman, what social circle she belongs to and what her and her friends ladder is based on, women will never ever date down the ladder. Say for instance you are dating a woman at the bottom of the ladder. You break up with her and you decide that you want to date a woman higher up the ladder, it simply isn’t going to happen. For a woman to date the same guys as another woman lower down this imaginary ladder, it would mean that she was lowering her perceived position to the level of the woman lower down. Most girls will have anxiety doing this, especially if they have a lot invested in their social group. So your advances will become quickly scuppered as the new girl you have your eyes on will want to keep her "place" in the group.
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This is another reason why you have to adopt the mindset of the Old Bull. You will never figure out what the hierarchy is if you go all guns blazing and just date the first woman you can. Imagine how frustrating it would be if you started dating one girl you weren’t that keen on her then realized that she had 10 hot friends who were much more your type, but none of them would date you because the girl you picked was too low down the ladder. You have to play it cool. Take your time when you first get into a situation with lots of girls. I know once you have the power in The King’s Game, you’ll have the urge to use it as often as possible and fuck as many girls as you can, but you’ll have much more success if you slow things down a little bit. Sounds tough I know, but the only way you will be able to do this comfortably is if you pay attention to the final Dating Mindset. The final Dating Mindset is the mindset of abundance. Think of it this way. There are 7 billion people in the world; 4 billion of those are adults; 2 billion of those are women; and 800 million are single. Let's say that worse case scenario 99% of them would never be interested in you and vice versa, that would
THERE ARE PLENTY OF
leave you with 8 million potential women. On average sex lasts for about 14 minutes, so assuming you had an unlimited supply of viagra that didn't make your heart explode and you took no breaks it would take you nearly 213 years to sleep with all those women.
FISH IN THE DAMN SEA…
THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE DAMN SEA… When you love a woman that’s awesome and love is rare so I get it, she may seem like the only one, but that really is an issue for later. Right now you have to understand that you are going to be swimming in women. The King’s Game is specifically designed to give you all the women you want, whenever you want. You never have to worry about getting a girl ever again. Imagine how all your conversations with girls or your dates would be different if you had 10 girls on the go calling you, texting you all desperate to hang out. You would be pretty relaxed and confident right? That’s the mindset that you need to adopt. You’re going to always have access to the women that you want so you have to let go of the scarcity mindset and revel in the certainty that you are about to be handed a sex life of pure abundance.
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Adopting these mindsets takes your beliefs and it turbo charges them. It strengthens your outlook on the world and it gives you the perfect attitude that you need to approach the situations in you will come across in your sex life. With your beliefs, your legend and now your mindsets you are pretty close to having a foolproof Seduction Parachute. The last piece of this puzzle is your social skills.
Social Skills The third part of the Seduction Parachute are your social skills. This is vitally important to your success with women because it’s the key element that determines whether people want to be around you or not. If you have good social skills, then you’re going to have people magnetically drawn to you, and that is one of the cornerstones of this system. It starts making your life a hell of a lot easier. The more socially savvy you are, the more women are going to feel comfortable around you and I can’t stress enough how important this is. When it comes to dating and seduction the majority of the books, literature and advice focus on attraction. Don’t get me wrong, attraction is very, very important and we’ll touch on that in the following chapters. However, with this system, pretty much all the attraction is going to be handled by external factors. I’m going to give you a way that even the hottest women are going to be attracted to you before you ever even open your mouth, regardless of your age, looks, height or how much money you have. You don’t have to worry about opening, you don’t have to worry about approaching, you don’t have to worry about escalating, all the icky stuff we don’t like to do, all the stuff that makes your gut feel a little bit weird. Remember using The King’s Game, we bypass all of that. And if you can have decent social skills, you can get most of it wrong and still have miles more success than you were having before or if you were to follow any traditional dating advice. Attraction is important, but it’s more important that women feel comfortable around you. This is a controversial viewpoint, however don’t mistake feeling comfortable with feeling platonic. There’s a massive difference. If a woman has platonic feelings towards you, you may as well forget it. You’re the gay best friend and she will certainly not be
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making the beast with two backs with you. Women can feel comfortable around you, and still desire you sexually, but above all else comfort is the goal. A woman can be as attracted to you as she likes, but if she’s not comfortable around you, she’s not having sex with you. She’s not having a second date. You’re not getting anything. If she doesn’t feel comfortable around you, it’s not going to go anywhere, regardless of how much attraction you have. I’m sure there are plenty of women out there who have had sex with a guy they were comfortable with, even if they didn’t really find him attractive or were into him sexually. Ask most women and they’ll tell you that there was this one guy, on this one date, where she wasn’t into him at all but she just felt so chill around him that she let herself go and before she realized it she was riding him away not a care in the world. That story happens all over the world. Now find a girl who says that she was out with a guy who was totally creepy, made her feel uncomfortable and that she didn’t feel safe around him…but he was so hot that she had to sleep with him. Doesn’t happen amigo. Yeah I’m sure there’s some twisted psycho lady out there who gets off on that kind of thing, but for 99.9999% of emotionally stable, well adjusted adult women that simply will not happen. I was hanging with my friend Gemma, talking about her online dating exploits. One guy stood out in particular. She couldn’t stop going on about how sexy he was, how great he looked, how much she couldn’t wait to get her hands on him. Gemma is a total man-eater, but even for her this was intense. She was so attracted to this guy it was coming out of her eye balls. She sets up a date with him and as I do with all my female friends, I tell her to come round to my place a day or so after to give me all the gory details. (I encourage you to do this as well. Becoming friends with women who tell you about their sex life will give you invaluable insider knowledge of the female mind. You’ll never fully understand women, no man ever will, but you’ll be miles further than every other guy out there.)
So Gemma and I meet for brunch Sunday morning, the day after her date. I start digging into her for details of the previous nights shenanigans. Usually I’ll be treated of a naughty story of Gem having her way with some unsuspecting victim, but what came out of her mouth was highly surprising.
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She tells me it was an absolute disaster. The reason? He scared the shit out of her… She goes on to tell me that during their date, he would keep making references to pain, bondage, S&M etc. Now Gem is no angel, but the way she described some of the stuff he was saying even made me a bit uncomfortable. It really boiled down to the fact that she didn’t feel safe or comfortable with the guy. I made a joke that she could end up as his sex slave in a dungeon somewhere, and she didn’t even find it remotely funny. A normally risqué joke that would have had Gemma in fits of laughter made the color drain from her skin. I wasn’t there, so will never know everything that he said, but it was plain to see that Gemma wasn’t comfortable around this guy. Over the next few days he texts her over and over again trying to arrange another date, but she just can’t bring herself to do it. This happened a long time ago and even recently she brought him up, saying how gorgeous he was, that he was her perfect type…but despite that, she couldn’t bring herself to be around him because despite being attracted to him something about his behavior made her extremely uncomfortable. Let’s be honest. Attraction is great. However, when we look at what attraction really is, it boils down to simple curiosity. That’s all it is. It’s just someone saying they’re curious about you. When it gets to a stage where a woman doesn’t feel comfortable around you, that she doesn’t feel that she can stay around you, then it doesn’t matter how attracted to you she is, things are going to fall apart. You need to make women around you feel comfortable and to do that you need to have decent social skills. There are many components to having decent social skills, but only a couple of them are important for your Seduction Parachute. These are Social Awareness and Social Adaptation.
Social Awareness Let’s begin with social awareness. What is social awareness? It’s pretty self-explanatory in the title. You need to be socially aware. I remember a while ago, I had been invited to a house party around Christmas time. It was your typical house party where you
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have lots of different groups of people in their own little clusters, conversing, drinking laughing etc. As I was doing my thing, going around and introducing myself to the different groups, I came across a group of bubbly energetic people in the kitchen. As the group in the kitchen were chatting and getting along a guy comes into the kitchen and you could tell that he was either new to the party, or didn’t know that many people. He asks: “So guys, I heard something crazy happened in Berlin. What happened in Berlin?”
The minute this individual asked what happened in Berlin, you could just see the tension in the room change. It was so tense in there that you could feel it. Instantly, I was aware of the fact something weird happened in Berlin, and it was obviously a touchy subject. But the guy who brought this up, couldn’t pick up on this. He wasn’t being socially aware. He asked again: “Hey, so come on, spill the beans. What happened in Berlin?”
When he asked again, everyone became even more uncomfortable, people shifted their gaze, and nobody really wanted to look at him. No one really spoke about it, but eventually he left the kitchen. The moment he left, everybody was saying things like: “Oh, what a fucking dickhead.” “That guy is such a tool.” “Who invited him?”
All because he wasn’t being socially aware. He wasn’t aware of what was going on. He wasn’t aware of what was happening at that time in the environment in the kitchen. That’s just an example to illustrate what can happen when you’re not socially aware, and how important it can be. Women are a lot more attune to this than men are. Do you think that guy left with any of the girls from that party?
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Nope. Word spread very quickly that there was a tool in the house and that he needed to be avoided at all costs. And guess who spread the word? WOMEN!!! You see girls have a code. Once they have identified who the douchebag guy is. The fuckwit, the total numptee. They tell all the other girls around to ignore that guy as well. It’s like they look out for each other, and if you are not paying attention to social awareness you’ll end up being that guy who the girls are telling each other to avoid. To improve your social awareness, you need to pay attention to discomfort signals. Especially from women. When a woman is uncomfortable, it’s going to come out in her body language. She’s going to avert her eyes; she’s going to shift around; she’s going to tense up. She will try and give you as many signals as possible without actually voicing her discomfort because the moment she does that, then it’s gone too far. And if you consistently go to far, women are not going to want to be around you period.
Social Adaptation Social adaptation is the next important piece of your social skills puzzle. Social adaptation is being able to adapt to your surroundings. You’re going to find yourself in very different scenarios and to truly come out on top you’ll need to wear the right hat for the occasion. You have to be able to slot into any scenario without losing any momentum. You do this, and people want you to hang out with them. Guys will feel comfortable inviting you to events, and girls will introduce you to their hot friends. You need to be able to adapt to whatever scenario you’re in. As soon as you’re seen as somebody that has good social adaption skills, like people know that you can fit into any scenario, that’s fantastic. You’re going to be one of those people who is going to have a bustling social life and get invited to loads and loads of fun events. It doesn’t work if you’re great at being able to spend time with someone on a one-onone basis, but then you couldn’t be invited to a fashion show or a bbq where there would be tons of beautiful women. If you’re the kind of guy who is going to be
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comfortable in any sort of scenario, that you can adapt your behavior accordingly, then that’s going to be very good for you. It’s going to set you apart from so many guys out there and that’s something that you always want to bear in mind. When you get this way, when you are someone who can demonstrate that you can adapt to any scenario, you’re going to be put into some fucking awesome situations. I’ve got a friend Luca, and he invites me out to hang with all the girls that he knows. This guy literally texts me every day inviting me out to all of his random female filled adventures. It will be everything from photo shoots, to cocktail events, to pool parties and dinners. Events with just the most amazing, ridiculously good looking girls you’ve ever seen. Earlier this year, he phoned me up and invited me to come and hang out with him at Milan Fashion Week. It was just going to be me, him and a whole bunch of girls that worked for a fashion agency he was looking after. I remember telling him one day how much I really appreciated the fact that he always invited me to such really cool events and he said: “Don’t mention it bro. I know that you can fit in with anyone and you’re going to make me look good, so I am very comfortable in taking you anywhere with me.”
The Seduction Parachute isn’t the only area that this is important. As we get deeper into the workings of The King’s Game, and especially as we get to The Royal Tribute Method, you’re going to see how having a strong sense of social adaptation is going to benefit your sex life immensely. The sentence that Luca said to me: “I know that I can invite you anywhere and you’re going to make me look good,” is so, so important. With The King’s Game, you’re going to meet people that are going to be able to say, “Hey, come to this party tomorrow. There’s going to be 100 Victoria’s Secret models.” That’s going to happen to you, if that’s the life that you want. That’s one of the perks of The King’s Game. You can have access to some of the most amazingly beautiful women – women that get paid for their beauty. You can have access to these types of women on a consistent basis. However, you need to be someone that can adapt socially. Once you can show that you can adapt socially, you’re going to get these invites.
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I want you to be able to fit into any situation, and I want you to feel comfortable doing so. I want you to be able to adjust your behavior and adapt to the situation needed. You shouldn’t be changing who you are because that’s going to come off try hard and disingenuous. Think about it. Imagine you and all your friends are hanging out, and one of your friends is normal, he’s totally cool, he’s funny, you know his personality, and you know what to expect from him. Now imagine that as soon as a hot girl comes is around, he becomes completely different. His personality changes and he’s all serious and aloof trying to be something that he’s not. It’s awful right? People are going to notice that, straight away, and you don’t want to be doing that. As with most behavior women are very sensitive at noticing that sort of behavior and it’s a complete attraction killer. To get a handle on your social skills, you need to be able to monitor your actions in real time. It comes from being able to get out of your head, pay attention to others around you, and take their lead. Don’t just charge in like a bull in a china shop. Be yourself, and remember to play it safe. The best way to improve is to continually practice. Think of your social skills like a muscle. If you never lift any weights, you will never get strong. If you try and lift weights without warming up you will get hurt. Think of social skills in the exact same way. To build them you have to exercise your social muscle often. The more you do the better your skills will get. To work that social muscle start talking to as many people as possible. Make a commitment to have a conversation with at least 5 people every single day. They could be the girl that serves you coffee at your local coffee shop, the woman that bags your groceries, someone at work, the guy driving your bus, even saying hi to someone you walk past on the street will help. Working your social muscle is extremely important for having good social skills and you will see a huge jump in that area the minute you start practicing. So let’s recap the Seduction Parachute. If you build your Seduction Parachute then you become a much more complete person on the inside and this will affect your own personal level of happiness as well as how people respond to you. The 3 areas are your beliefs, your mindsets and your social skills. To master your Beliefs you have to turn your everyday story into your legend. Tell yourself your legend every single day until it has become a part of you. If you’re
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struggling to believe your Legend then you have to follow the Belief Creation strategy to install a new belief system into your brain. Once you have this it will affect your emotions will affect your body language signaling to all the women around you that you are truly a King. Your Mindsets are the attitudes at which you approach the situations in your sex life. Find your passion in life, something that you can focus on that will become your purpose. Remember that you are on your own path and that women are simply an awesome bonus of becoming a happy and fulfilled person. But most importantly, you don’t need women to be happy. The happiness and content comes from within and that is the real reward. When it comes to dating remember to play it cool like the Old Bull. There are plenty of fish in the sea and with the skills I’m going to give you, you’re going to have an abundance of quality women in your life so ditch the scarcity thinking. Finally you need Social Skills. Attraction is great, but women will never fuck you, date you or marry you if they don’t feel comfortable around you. Doing this requires you to pay attention to those around you by being socially aware and having the ability to adapt to situations. Your social skills are like a muscle and the only way you will develop these skills is by practicing and working on your social muscle. The Seduction Parachute, master this and you really don’t need anything else. Understanding this chapter is by itself worth ten times your time and investment in this book. You will have more success from getting this right than anything else you will do. The next few chapters are the sexy stuff. We are now getting into the meat of The King’s Game where we’re going to go through my Zero Rejection System and The Royal Tribute Method. Strap yourself in my friend as we’re about to go on a wild ride.
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ET ME ASK YOU A QUESTION. And I want you to answer it honestly.
Ready? Do you like rejection from women? Seriously. Think about it for a moment. Do you like it when you see a girl that takes your fancy you go up to her, you introduce yourself and she looks at you as if you were a swamp beast? Do you like it when you ask for a girls number, she gives it to you just to shut you up but when you text her she completely ignores you? Or even worse agrees to meet you but then flakes out and you never hear from her again. Or what about this one. Do you like it when you finally pluck up the courage to ask out a girl that you really like and she turns around and says “Let’s just be friends?” Does any of that sound like fun to you? No? I didn’t think so. So why do we as men put ourselves through all of that. Let me be totally honest with your right now. Rejection sucks. We all know that. And in an ideal world you and I would be confident enough that absolutely no amount of rejection could ever effect us. I hear some dating advice say things like if you don’t
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give a shit, then rejection won’t matter. I’ve met tens of thousands of men and till this day I have never met a man who completely didn’t give a shit. The best any of us can hope for is getting to a stage where we limit the amount that rejection actually stings us. If you have done the work on yourself from Chapter 2 and created your own Seduction Parachute, then rejection won’t really matter to you that much, but I am of the school where prevention is better than the cure. I was having dinner with a couple of friends of mine and we were discussing the merits of dating pornstars versus dating strippers. (I’d just like to add that when you have completed reading this book, you too will also date pornstars and strippers…if that’s what you want.) We all unanimously agree that for all the downsides of women in the adult industry, those girls still weren’t as fucked up as most strippers. I’m making a sweeping generalization I know, but I have never in my time met an emotionally healthy and stable stripper. And I’ve met and fucked dozens of them. Here’s my theory as to why so many strippers have emotional issues. It has nothing to do with taken their clothes off or have to pretty much beg men for single dollar bills. It’s all about rejection. Every night a stripper goes out and is looking her absolute best. She’s in a bikini, she’s tanned, she’s in the best shape of her life and her face and hair are made up to make her look as inviting and seductive as possible. In any other environment in the world she would have to beat the men off with a stick, but what happens in a strip club? The majority of the time men are turning her down. Telling her they don’t want a dance, telling her they’re not interested. Telling her they prefer blondes, short girls, girls with real boobs and so on and so on. The average female stripper probably gets rejected more times in one night than most women have in their entire lives. It is my belief that the rejection slowly eats at her and damages her emotionally. The same thing happens to us when we are rejected, even if only a little bit. Many studies and anecdotal stories have shown that when humans (usually babies) are denied contact, their health suffers drastically and in some cases they actually die. The power of belonging is almost like an ingrained human trait so it makes sense that every time we are rejected it damages us slightly.
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I don’t believe anyone should go through repeated rejection if they don’t have to and because of this it’s been sort of my mission to try and eradicate rejection completely. The King’s Game is all about getting the hottest women without having to approach them and with zero possibility of getting rejection. In the next chapters we will concentrate on The Royal Tribute Method and how to specifically get the 10s, but for now in this chapter I’m going to remove rejection from your sex life. Before I show you how to beat rejection forever, we first need to know why rejection is happening in the first place. To do that we need to imagine what the typical day of a good looking woman would look like. Comedian Chris Rock said it best in his stand up show “Bring The Pain.”
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Chris Rock is making a joke out of the whole situation, but there is a lot of truth to what he’s saying. Ever since a hot girl hit puberty, she’s being hit on by guys constantly. All of her friends, her co-workers even strangers. At first she probably tried to be nice to a couple of them, but after a while she realized that out of 100 guys who would speak to her or hit on her, only a couple were worth dating.
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But it’s just too much hassle to have to sift through all of those guys. Instead she comes up with a much more efficient method of filtering out the good guys and deciding which she wants to hook up with. So instead of trying to figure out who to date out of the 100 guys. She just rejects them all, and only dates guys who come through her filtering process. The reason she rejects you really has nothing to do with you. It’s because so many guys before you have messed it up for all of us. So now anything you say to her when you first meet her is pretty much ignored. Every cool line, every opener you’ve read in a dating advice book. Anything you could possibly think of to say she has likely heard before. So when you open your mouth and speak the sounds coming out of your mouth are received as Random Guy Frequency. Random Guy frequency is the signal you broadcast anytime you talk to a girl without having beaten her rejection mechanism first. The woman doesn’t really want to reject you, she’s not a bitch and there’s nothing wrong with you. She just has no choice and has built up this defense system over the years to keep the random guys away. She has no idea who you are and it’s easier for her to just reject you rather than trying to find out what type of guy you could be. She gets plenty of offers anyway and as long as she has her filter systems set up she’ll meet tons of new guys anyway (we’ll talk about that more later). The crazy thing is, that it doesn’t matter even if she actually finds you attractive. A few years ago I was dating Melissa, this absolute knockout of a brunette. She’s a bikini model and you’ve probably seen her on the cover of Health and Fitness magazine a few times. After one of our wake up the neighbors, fuck all night like pornstars, sex sessions we were lying in bed exhausted. Melissa is looking at me with a twinkle in her eye and she says: “It’s so crazy we’re here right now.”
Confused, I ask her what she means and she begins telling me her version of the story of how we met. She was out with her girlfriends at one of the hottest nightclubs in LA. For her it was a typical night. She had been invited along with a couple of other stunners to be eye candy at guys table. She was having fun at the table, but would make her way down to the dance floor every now and again to shake that delightfully round ass of hers.
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As usual she was getting hit on by all the guys. The guys at the table, guys on the dance floor, even the bartenders and promoters. She politely declines all of their advances. All the male attention is flattering, but Its girl’s night and she just wants to have some fun with her ladies. She says that the first time she noticed me was when she walked past me at the bar. She say’s that there was this energy around me and she couldn’t help but keep her eyes on me. Obviously I didn’t tell her, but that night I was using one of The King’s Game techniques I’ll teach you in this chapter. The effective technique I was using turned me into a beacon of awesome energy. Any woman in the area was compelled to have a look at me and she wouldn’t even know why. But once she did have a look at me, what she felt in my presence only made her curiosity grow. Melissa says she watched me for about 30 seconds or so. She thought I was cute, but that I was probably just another “random guy”, so she went back over to her table. As the night is coming to an end, she’s standing near the entrance. She notices me again and tells me how she got butterflies as our eyes locked for a couple of seconds. Melissa is telling this story while lying completely naked in my bed and the next thing she says completely shocked me. She tells me that as I was walking over, she was thinking that despite how cute I was, and despite the fact that she was already feeling attracted to me. The only thing that was going through her mind as I was walking over was about how she was going to reject me in a way that didn’t hurt my feelings too much. Later on in this chapter I’ll tell you exactly what I did that not only got me Melissa’s number but got me in her bed the very next time I saw her. Women reject us guys for a number of different reasons, but you have to remember that it very rarely has anything to do with you. It’s just her way of not having to deal with a new person entering her world. No matter how attractive you are, no matter what you say, if you speak to her using Random Guy frequency you will not bypass her rejection mechanism and you will be politely turned down. There are only a couple of ways to bypass a woman’s Rejection Mechanism every single time. The first is to broadcast what I call King’s Frequency and the second is to create Warm Approaches.
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Throughout my little adventure with Toni, there are times where I could have potentially been rejected. I could have been rejected when I said hello and invited her to party with me. I could have been rejected when I went in for the kiss. I could also have been rejected when I suggested we go back to my place. However, this wasn’t the case. At every single point I came up against no real resistance from Toni and everything went pretty much to plan. This wasn’t a fluke. Firstly I had the benefit of having the Seduction Parachute work in my favor.
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Additionally though, I followed specific guidelines to bypass her rejection mechanisms and pretty much eliminate any chance of getting rejected by her. From the very moment I stepped into the club I was broadcasting on the King’s Frequency so that I was signaling to all the women in the room that I was a King, and not some other random guy. The first positive outcome that King’s Frequency gave me was that Toni and her friend had already noticed me and by the time that I had looked at them they were smiling at me. This is no accident. Women have much better peripheral vision than men and will always be very aware of their surroundings and the people around them. If you’re ever around your female friends at a bar or some other social place, you’ll often hear them say things like: “Oh look. It’s that creepy guy again. Let’s move over here to get away from them.”
Women always know exactly which guys are around them. If a woman ever looks directly at you, it’s on purpose. If you notice that you keep seeing the same woman around a venue, it’s on purpose. Women don’t give physical proximity to guys that they don’t want to be around. It’s instinctual and actually part of how their bodies work. Men have very good vision directly in front of them so that thousands of years ago we were good at hunting. Women have very good peripheral vision because they were typically watching the kids and would keep an eye out for predators while the men where away. It’s why your mum always seemed like she had eyes in the back of her head. In a way she sort of did. Because of this, women will pick up whatever frequency you are broadcasting way before you ever even open your mouth. Whether you are working at The Random Guy Frequency, or at King’s Frequency all the ladies around you will know very very quickly. So the first thing you need to do is to send out King’s signals. Think about how an attractive person would be treated? Guys would say hello to them, they would know everybody around, other women would smile at them and be warm to them. You see often a woman can’t directly tell what frequency you operate at, so she looks to how the rest of the world is treating you as her way of figuring it out. It’s like goldfish in the ocean. The females want to mate with the male goldfish who has the brightest color. But when 2 male fish are similar in brightness, the females all mate with the ones the other females are mating with.
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So when Toni saw the waitresses, the bottle girls, the table guy be nice to me, it automatically signaled to her that I was not just some random guy. Why would the staff be nice to some random guy right? Every time you go into any social gathering for the first time whether it’s a bar, a dinner or a bbq, immediately start being friendly and warm and social to everyone you meet. People will respond positively to you and more importantly all the women will notice. A woman see’s you being social and fun, while everyone seems to be talking to you and nice to you, she’s going to be constantly thinking who the hell are you? Once that seed is planted in her mind you move away from random guy. Remember, she’s not going to know that you just met all these people, all she see’s is the positive and it already starts to bypass the part of her mind that wants to flip the rejection switch. If you ever feel slightly uncomfortable or a bit shy saying hello to loads of new people, try using the “My House” technique. Whenever I go into a new place full of people. I try to imagine that it’s my house, and that all these people are here to see me. Sometimes I’ll even say it out loud. I’ll walk into a place for the first time and say: “This is my house.”
It’s to help me get comfortable and makes talking to strangers easier. Once you get into the habit of talking to everyone in a venue, you’re going to notice something very odd happen. If you look around, you will start to notice that people are always looking at you. Especially women. This will feel strange at first, even downright scary. It just means that you’re doing this right. It means that you are operating at King’s Frequency. You will notice women smiling at you, looking at you, even women just randomly being near you or bumping into you by accident. Once you shed random guy frequency, women become powerfully drawn into you. They are curious, because you stand out from all the other guys they are likely to meet. This is why King’s Frequency works. It signals to women that you are something special. It shows that you are more than just another random pawn in the chess board of life. Women can not resist this. They are hard wired to be attracted to men who display this type of behavior. Once you are noticing that women are showing signs of interest in you, like looking at you, smiling at you, being in your close vicinity or randomly bumping into you. You have to then approach them powerfully. Now there’s a much more effective method
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for ensuring your success that doesn’t require you to approach women at all. That’s in The Royal Tribute Method which I will show you in the next chapter. However, there are certain situations that you can’t get around not approaching. When you’re just starting out is one of these situations and if you don’t approach properly, you will just be grouped back into the random guy bracket and the girl will reject you. Remember, when a woman observes you and sees that you are operating at King’s Frequency, she its beginning to become attracted to you. But all that is happening in attraction is curiosity. Her mind is starting to wonder who you are and if you truly are different from all the random guys she’s met before. If you don’t approach her properly you will break the spell you have over her, she’ll snap out of the temporary wonder she has over you and you’ll be back to square one. This is why it’s essential that you approach and start the interaction with her powerfully. Walk up to her in a confident manner, make strong direct eye contact and then say something sincere and honest. There’s no tricks or lines here. Say what’s on your mind. It’s the truth and the truth is the easiest thing to remember. When I walked up to Toni I said: “You 2 look like trouble. I’m Greg. Who are you mystery ladies?”
Most men walk up to women and say some random bullshit line and it immediately turns them off. You want to be as honest and authentic as possible. I was thinking that Toni and her friend looked naughty and I was curious about them, so that’s exactly what I said to them. Sometimes I like to pay a girl an authentic compliment, authentic being the key word here. Compliment her sexy walk. The way her legs look in the jeans, how beautiful her hair looks. This may seem scary. Walking up to a woman and telling her exactly what you are thinking, but I promise you the first time that you do this, it is liberating. You will feel shit scared the first time, but once you’ve done it you will never look back. You need to be paying attention to do this. Remember the Seduction Parachute. YOU ARE A MAN!! You are supposed to desire women. You’re supposed to find her attractive. You think she spent all the time getting ready, doing her make up and picking out the right dress to show off her amazing figure so no one would notice? Of course not. She want’s you to notice. But she doesn’t want you to be a sleaze about it.
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Most men will have some irrelevant random chit chat about nothing. Fluff airy fairy small talk. Women hate that. They want you to be honest to them or they’ll lose respect for you as a man. The most upfront thing I have ever said to a new woman is I walked up to her and told her that I had never seen an ass like hers and it was making me weak. She loved it. I’m not saying you have to go that far, but you should definitely be authentic. Maybe start off with telling her what you like about her outfit. Look at her, pay attention to her, think about what it is about her that makes you like her, then be a man and tell her. This technique works when you have to approach a woman that you don’t know. If you’re in a very social setting where the girl you like is your best friends sister for example, don’t do this. Remember Social Adaptation. You have to use the right tool for the right situation. In The Art of Social Circle Seduction which you get access to once you join The King’s Council from the members area, I’ll show you what to do in a situation where you’re not complete strangers with a girl. For situations like bars, clubs etc, you want to be direct and honest. This only works once you already have strong indicators of interest. An indicatory of interest or IOI as it is sometimes called is any action from a girl that comes from her being interested in you. Some are overt and some are very subtle. For example, Toni and her friend were already looking at me and smiling. That is an IOI. They were already showing that they were curious and attracted to me if only on a small level. You have to approach in this confident manner because only a strong, confident King of a man would do this. She’s already starting to think that you are, so keep her mind on that path. The next thing you must do in order to keep broadcasting at King’s Frequency is you must lead. You must always lead. In the Seduction Parachute we talked about you living your life by your rules and your standards and by what you want. It’s the only way to guarantee your success as well as your happiness. Many times we get frustrated and upset about the way a scenario turns out it’s because we feel mad at ourselves for not doing what we really wanted to do. Imagine that you read in GQ or Esquire magazine that when you talk to a girl you should buy her a drink or try to make her laugh. So you pluck up the courage to go talk to a girl that you like. You politely offer her a drink like a gentleman and then you try as hard as you can to make her laugh. You may get a couple of laughs out of her,
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but ultimately she engages you in random small talk for 5 minutes before thanking you for your drink and then saying she needs to go find her friends. She then leaves and you never see her again. No phone number, no kiss, no date. Nothing. Why does this make us so angry? Why does this eat inside our chest like a thorny dagger? It’s because we never wanted to do that shit in the first place. No man wants to be some dancing monkey for a girl’s entertainment. So when you do something that you don’t want to do, AND you still don’t get the result you wanted, it sucks even more. At least if you had just gone out there and been yourself, acted the way you wanted, she may still have turned you down but so what right? It’s her loss and you didn’t have to feel like you had no control by doing something you didn’t want to do. You’re a man. You are on your own path. You are the lead actor, the hero in your own legend, and everyone else is part of the supporting cast. You’re a King, and as a King, you must always lead. Women love men that lead them around. At worst it makes them weak at the knees, at best it makes the soaking wet horny. After hearing that Toni and her friend were Australian, I told them that they were coming to hang out with me. I didn’t ask, I didn’t suggest, I told them. I then lead Toni to the bar when I wanted to, outside when I felt like it, and when I wanted to go back to my place, I called a taxi and told her to go in. If you lead women will follow. Men too for that matter but that’s information for a different book. Women desire to be led, so at every opportunity you must lead. Take her by the hand and tell her to follow you. Don’t ask, don’t hesitate, just do it. Leading shows confidence and it’s irresistible to women. Even if you lead her somewhere and it doesn’t work out she won’t care. A woman is driven by her emotions more than her logic and her emotions spike positively whenever you lead her. A good technique for getting her to know you are a leader is simply saying to her: “let’s go over here for a sec.” Or tell her you want to introduce her to someone, or put your hand on the back of her arm and guide her out of the way slightly because you don’t want people to bump into her. There are plenty of opportunities to lead her around in a way that is positive for both of you. Be warned though, women will test you to see if you really are a leader, to see if you really are a King and you’re not just faking it. The hotter the woman, the more she will test you, but I’ll show you who to pass all of her tests in Chapter 6.
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The key to leading effectively is your beliefs. Go back to the Seduction Parachute. In your Legend, in the story you tell yourself, do women do what you want them to do, or are you their puppet? Are you controlling your destiny, or is she? Do you believe that women follow you? Work on your belief creation if you’re finding it difficult to believe that she will follow you, but the more you practice this the better you will get. Leading, is also the reason why I was able to kiss Toni without any resistance. Knowing when to go for the kiss is one area where most of us guys get anxiety over. I get this question from students all the time. “How do I know when to kiss her.” The answer is, you don’t. Not for sure anyway. You just have to go for it. There are some indications in her behavior that you can look out for that show that she’s attracted to you and is thinking about kissing you. Pay attention to a girl’s face when you’re talking to her. If she looks down at your mouth and then up to your eyes, then back to your mouth then up to your eyes. Kiss her. That’s one of the most telltale signs that she wants to be kissed. I’ve interviewed dozens of women and spoken to hundreds more about this. All the women say the same thing. One of the sexiest thing a guy can do is just go in for the kiss. Women love that. It makes them feel like they’re with a real man. Sometimes if I’m a little bit unsure like maybe I’m on a date or something I’ll say this: “I’m trying really hard not to kiss you right now.”
I’m not one for using routines or relying on lines but this is a really good fall back in case you’re unsure if she wants to kiss you. Works pretty much all the time. If a girl wants to kiss you, she’ll get very excited when you say that, and most of them will jump you on the spot. If she doesn’t want to kiss you, she’ll just tell you flat out there and then, so you don’t have to worry. But your first option is to just go for it when you’re thinking about it. You can never know for sure when she wants to kiss, but if you’ve done everything right up to now, just lead the way and she will follow. Sometimes you broadcast King’s Frequency so effectively that women will actually approach you. This is slightly different to The Royal Tribute Method in the next chapter, but can be just as effective.
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When women have the pleasure of observe you being the awesome King that you are. When they can see in real life that you are not some random guy but you’re someone that she must have in her life. When you are operating at King’s Frequency. Amazing things happen
Warm Approaches One of the driving forces behind King’s Frequency that makes it so powerful is the fact that it creates warm approaches. The reason why virtually all the other dating advice you learn out there is ineffective, inefficient and inconsistent is because all the other dating advice focuses on what is called Cold Approach. Cold Approach is when you approach and attempt to start an interaction with a woman who is a complete stranger and knows absolutely nothing about you. Imagine that we have a scale with zero being complete strangers and 100 being significant relationship. By significant relationship I mean sex, dating, girlfriend etc.
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Cold Approach always starts at zero. Other dating advice teaches you to fix your fashion, your look, what you say, how confident you approach, what lines you use, your body language your tonality. All techniques that are designed to move the dial away from zero. The problem is that no matter what you do, when you Cold Approach you start at zero and starting at zero means you are almost guaranteed to be grouped into the random guy category. The King’s Game is all about creating Warm Approaches so that before you even open your mouth you are so far along the dial that it’s practically a done deal that you’ll get the girl you want. This is why what you are learning in this book is so much more powerful than any other dating advice you have ever been given. If I could have it my way this book would be required reading for every single man on the planet so their sex lives can be as fulfilling as the really deserve it to be. Anyway, I digress. There are 2 ways you create a Warm Approach. You either warm your environment, or you warm up the girl. Everything we talked about in the King’s Frequency focused on warming up your environment so now I’ll give you a few techniques on how to warm up the girl you’re interested in.
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The most effective way is through your Social Circle. Social Circle Seduction is where your social circle and the people inside it do all the work for you to warm up the girl and make her attracted and curious about you before you ever even meet her. It requires some set up, so more bout that in The Royal Tribute Method and the later chapters. For now I’ll show you how to create Warm Approaches on the fly. The first technique I love is called the Introduction Hack. As I mentioned, the number one way to create warm approaches is to be part of a woman’s social circle. High quality women, especially the ones who are amazingly beautiful as well as having fantastic personalities, rarely date outside of their social circles. All social circles exist to satisfy a set of needs and desires of the people in them. They also all have norms, values and "social rules", which make sure that any new people who come into the social group are going to add value to the group and not disrupt it or cause tension. So the social circle has a natural process of vetting and pre-selection. The highest quality most beautiful women have more to lose from a social perspective so this is why they rarely ever date outside their social circle. I mean why should she date the random guy at the bar and not the guy in her social circle who's already been vetted and pre-selected? A guy which she already knows is going to fit easily into her life and with her friends without causing any disruption or tension. Women are very aware of this. There's a strong psychological urge for them to protect their social circles. It's hard-wired into their DNA as females. Essentially being introduced to her when you're a part of her social circle is far and away the most effective way of dating her. However, here's the cool thing. Obviously the best thing would be to get into her social circle, and I’ll show you how later on but when you can’t quite get into her social circle, you just hack her programming. The same psychological urge to only want to date men in her social circle is the same urge that you trigger when you use the Introduction Hack. When you are introduced to a woman in a very specific way, even if it's by a stranger, it will create a very warm interaction. Women are hard-wired to look for these social cues and won't even realize why she's so happy to meet you. You do this using what’s called a Million Dollar Introduction. Here’s how you do it. Imagine I told you, you could have a million dollars if you gave me the best
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introduction ever. How would you introduce me? You would give me the most awesome, super-charged, high value intro ever right? A simple version would be: "OMG, you've absolutely got to meet my friend Greg. This guy is super awesome and you're going to absolutely love him. He's one of the coolest guys I know, and you two are going to get along great."
This is how you need to be introduced to a beautiful woman, because the only other time this happens, is when one of her friends is introducing her to an awesome guy she thinks she should date. The brain works via shortcuts and pattern recognition so when this “pattern” is seen by the brain, the only other time it happens is when her friends introduce her to a guy. So she will feel the exact same emotion as if that were the case. It's really easy to pull off. Next time you're at a bar, or a social gathering, have one of your friends go talk to the girl that you're interested in, and after a few minutes they need to drop give you the “Million Dollar Intro”. If done properly, this will make the girl super excited to meet you and you start off in a very "warm" interaction. Obviously you need to return the favor and do the same for you friend, but you’ll be shocked at just how effective this is. When I was writing this book, I was telling my friend Conor about the Introduction Hack, and he told me a really awesome story about when he saw this work for him with his own eyes. After a night out with his buddy, both of them had struck out and hadn’t really met any girls that they had hit it off with. While in an after hours fast food spot, they get chatting to a couple of girls in the booth next to them. Out of nowhere Conor’s buddy tells one girl: “You know what…my friend Conor is probably the coolest fucking guy ever. I think you should make out with him.”
And that’s exactly what she did. She just grabbed Conor’s face and started making out with him. Use this technique. It’s awesome and you will have a lot of fun doing so. Give it a go next time you're out and about with your friends. You're going to be shocked at how effective and powerful it can be.
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The great thing about the Introduction Hack (the other great thing); it works even when you’re on your own. Right at the start of this chapter I was talking about Melissa. The girl I used to date who was telling me the story of how we met. Despite the fact that she wanted to reject me before I had even opened my mouth, I managed to get her number and I was in her bed by the end of the week. All I did was use the Introduction Hack. I walked right up to her and her friends and instead of talking to her directly I introduced myself to her friend and started paying her friend a string of compliments. If I was trying to hook up with her friend, all the compliments may have made me come off as a bit of a kiss ass, but my goal wasn’t to get the friend who I was paying compliments to. My goal was to get Melissa’s friend to like me enough that she would give me a cool introduction to Melissa. After a couple of minutes talking to the friend I could see that she was smiling and laughing and in a really good mood. I knew it was my time to make my move. “Hey listen, you’re really awesome. I actually came over here because I wanted to talk to your friend. I think she’s drop dead gorgeous, but I didn’t want to just come up and interrupt you girls. I could tell that you have a good group energy and I would hate to disrupt that. Plus I like to know a girl has cool friends then I know she’s going to be cool as well. Do you mind introducing me to her.” “OMG you are so cool. I’ve never had a guy come up like this. Usually they’re just sleazy and try and hit on us. Of course I’ll introduce you. She’ll love you.”
Her friend introduces me and the rest is history. The really cool thing as well is that when I left Melissa’s friends kept telling her that I was really cool and she should totally go for it with me and make sure she see’s me again. In fact the night I saw her a few days later I had called and it was her friend who saw the missed call and made sure Melissa called me back. That is how powerful an introduction can be. That is the power of Warm Approaches. So, to recap. Rejection sucks and you want to avoid it if you can. Women don’t really want to reject you but because of all the other guys who ruin it for the rest of us she’s built up a rejection mechanism that is automatically activated whenever she thinks you’re some random guy. To bypass this rejection mechanism you need to operate at
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King’s Frequency and create Warm Approaches. King’s Frequency signals to the girl that you’re the type of guy she desperately wants to date. Warm Approaches get you much closer to a significant sexual relationship with a girl because it plays in the social dating nature of women. In the next chapter I’m going to show you how to use The Royal Tribute Method. This is the crown jewell that sets the King’s Game apart from any other dating advice you will ever read. Everything in this book will transform your sex life overnight into something you’ve only dreamed of. The Royal Tribute Method will take that up a notch and give you a sex life Hugh Hefner would be jealous of. I’ll see you there.
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Chapter 4:
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HE MOST VALUABLE RESOURCE that has ever existed is time. A lot of people think it’s money, but ask any person who has made a lot of money, and they
would tell you that they would trade it in for more time in a heartbeat. The reason why time is so valuable, is because it's the only resource that everyone has a finite amount of and you have no idea when it is going to run out. No one does. You don't know if you have 50 days left or 50 years. There's a movie that came out a few years back that tried to imagine a world where time became just like any other commodity, it could be bought and sold. The writers of the movie understood the value of time and in the movie the richest people in the world spend all of their money buying more time. As with plenty of things Hollywood it lost it's way a fair bit, but the idea behind the movie was solid. If time could be bought and sold, it’s price on the stock market would be astronomical and it would be rising every single day. Imagine for a second that you would live for 1 billion years. You could accomplish anything right? If you saved $1 per day you would have $365 Billion, making your
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richer than the top 5 richest people in the world combined. You could learn every single language, read every book ever written, study every discipline, every subject. There isn't anything that you couldn’t accomplish if you had unlimited time. Sadly however, that is not the case. Time is limited and because of that it's the one resource that you must cherish more than all others. You have to be strategic about what you spend your time doing and that is the reason people often chase what is known as the “magic pill”. The Magic Pill is a system, an idea, a product, anything that can allow you to achieve the desire you are chasing in the easiest fastest way possible. Imagine if there was a pill that all you had to do was take it and you would instantly have a six pack. Or take a pill and you instantly became 20lbs lighter. There are many companies that promote their own magic pills and even though conventional wisdom and common sense would tell us that there is no magic pill that can instantly make you skinny, the fact that billions of dollars are being made worldwide shows us the appeal of having a magic pill. We all want more time. And any system that can give you your result and give you more time, is the only system you should ever be using. Think about money and finances for a moment. It’s generally accepted that the only way to be really wealthy, to really win in the game of money, is to have passive income. If the only time you are making money is when you are working, you will never achieve real financial wealth. Think about it. If the only time you make money is when you go to work, then you aren’t being efficient with your time. Finding a way that you can effectively make money while you sleep is a much better idea. Regular income: Sleeping? No money. Holiday? No money. Sick or injured? No money. Jobless? No money. Passive income: Sleeping? Still making money. Taking a shit? Still making money. On holiday? Still making money. Sick or injured? Guess what? Still making money. Passive income is obviously the smart choice. Heck, I nearly called this book The Passive Pussy System, because The Royal Tribute Method is to women what passive income is to wealth. It’s the closest thing you will ever get to a magic pill. It is the
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pinnacle of Seduction because once set up, you never have to do anything, and women don’t just come to you, they are GIVEN to you. Think about all the problems and obstacles you have when you are approaching women. If you can overcome Random Guy Frequency, then you still lose most of your Seduction Parachute because you are leaving your path. You’re a man remember? You’re the KING. The minute you deviate from your purpose to approach a woman or pursue her and try and date her, you’re saying to her that right now, getting her number or having sex with her is the most important thing to you. That’s the signal you are broadcasting even if it’s on a subconscious level. Women sense that and on some level lose attraction for you. I gave you some really great techniques in the previous chapter to try and avoid some of those obstacles. If you look closely, you’ll see that everything I showed you in the No More Rejection chapter was geared to you approaching a girl only once the relationship was warmer. Those techniques are like shooting fish in a barrel with a pistol. The Royal Tribute Method is like shooting fish in a barrel with a nuclear missile. This is a seduction weapon of mass destruction. It changes the game for all guys and right now is the only strategy I use when trying to meet women. I’m very passionate about this, because I have been on both sides of the fence. Before I discovered The Royal Tribute Method, I was just like most guys. Frustrated at the lack of options and sheer emptiness of my sex life. Even after I started working on this area of my life and studying all that I could about dating, seduction, even “pick-up”, my results with women were still sketchy at best.
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My First Threesome Before The Royal Tribute Method… On Saturday Night, I go to a bar with one of my friends. I’m there all night, going up to multiple different girls, giving them my best lines. I was being confident, I was using all the conversation starters that I had read in the magazines, and I was being funny and charming. Some of the girls laughed with me, some of them were just polite, but I could feel that I wasn’t really getting anywhere substantial. None of the women were quite hooking, and I was starting to get frustrated. Another night out and no real luck yet. I start talking to less attractive women hoping that they may be a little bit easier and I might have more luck with them. After that doesn’t work I then start talking to the less attractive and drunk girls. There’s only a couple of hours left of the bar open, and if I really want to hook up tonight these girls are looking like my best option. I eventually convince a girl Stacy who’s pretty drunk, and ok looking to leave with me. If I’m honest, I don’t really want her, but that’s all I can get and I’ll take it. On Sunday I realize that the only girl even remotely on my radar at the moment is Stacy from last night. I call her but she’s pretty busy. I try and text some other girls who are on my phone, but none of them get back to me so I guess Sunday is a bust. On Monday I still haven’t heard back from Stacy, and none of the other girls I have messaged seem to be responding. So I start
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messaging again. I feel desperate and a bit like a loser, but if at least one of them responds, I’ll have sex and it will feel all better. As usual, none of the girls are getting back to me. No where is open on Monday and I don’t feel like going out anyway. This continues for the rest of the week. Stacy doesn’t return any of my calls, the numbers I got from before all ignore me. I guess I have to go out all over again this weekend, even though I feel down and pissed off, and not in the mood to go anywhere.
After The Royal Tribute Method… On Friday night I get invited to a house party by one of my friends Amanda. While there I’m having fun and over the course of the night Amanda introduces me to 5 different smoking gorgeous girls. She’s been telling them how amazing I am and how much they have to meet me, so when I say hello, the girls are all really excited and friendly. I give them all my numbers (I rarely take a girls number and I’ll explain why in Chapter 6), but I really got on well with Lea. Lea and I hit it off real well and we make plans to hang out the next day. I’m getting ready to leave, but before I’m about to, Amanda stops me. “Where are you going?” “On my way home. Thanks for introducing me to Leah. She’s awesome, we’re having coffee tomorrow.” “Tomorrow? What happened to tonight?” I’m a bit confused, but Amanda leans in and says to me quietly.
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“Listen, she was asking me about you earlier and I told her that I think she should have some fun and go home with you. You’ll kick yourself if you leave without her.” I go back over to Lea and ask her if she wants to get a late night bite to eat. She agrees and after having some junk food at Mel’s we go back to mine where she spends the night giving me some of the most ridiculous sex I have ever had the pleasure of experiencing. While she’s asleep I get a text from Amanda, with just a smiley face. Amanda fucking rocks. The next day I send Lea a text but I get no response from her. I know it’s Saturday and that she could be busy doing any one of a hundred things, but I get a little bit annoyed because I thought we had fun the night before. I also hate people that don’t respond to texts. It’s rude and it pissed me off. I decided go to the gym to blow off some steam. After a crazy workout with some insane rowing cardio, I’m in the changing room covered in sweat, barely able to breathe when I get a text from a number I don’t have saved. “Hey it’s Cindy from last night. How are you?” Whenever a girl texts you first, you know it’s on and she likes you. We go back and forth on text a bit and then I invite her over. She says no, but that she would be up for a drink later that night. I suggest somewhere near me so that after drinks it’s easy to go back to mine for some more action. We have cocktails and it’s fun. We both end up getting really tipsy and before we know it, we’re both back at my place ripping each others clothes off in the living room.
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I wake up on the floor and while Cindy is still asleep, I pop out to the cafe across the road to get some coffee and bagels. I’m a nice guy at heart and I was starving. Of course if I go out to get myself some breakfast, I’ll get her some as well. After coming back in with the food, Cindy and I have a really cool chat while we’re eating. She tells me all about how she used to be a dancer and that she tried modeling, but the girls were bitchy and she got in trouble for pranking a photographer. Turns out Cindy is a bit of a live wire, but also seems like an awesome girl. I tell her a bit more about myself and then the conversation moves to sex. We start talking about what we like, our preferences, past partners, the craziest places we’ve done it etc. I ask Cindy if she likes girls and she tells me that she’s fooled around with one of Amanda’s friends before. “Remember Amanda? The girl that introduced us?” “Yeah of course. Amanda’s a good friend of mine, I’ve known her for years.” “First time I ever slept with a girl was one of Amanda’s friends Lea. She was at the party on Saturday as well but I didn’t see her for long. It wasn’t anything serious, we were drunk and messing about and then she started kissing me. At first I thought it was just for fun but she started totally touching me up. It actually felt pretty good so I thought fuck it why not right? She’s pretty hot and it felt good so I just went with it.”
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If Cindy had looked at me just then she would have seen that I was grinning from ear to ear like a crazy person. I get out my phone and pull up a picture of Lea. “Hey. Do you mean this Lea?” “OMG. Yes. That’s her. You know her?” When it comes to sex, honesty is not the best way to go. It’s the only way to go. Never hide your desires, and never hide the fact that you’re a red blooded sexual man. Women love sex just as much as we do and the more open and comfortable you are about it, the more freaky and sexually aggressive the women around you will become. I told Cindy that I had met Lea at the party a couple of nights ago, she had come back to mine afterwards and that the sex was outrageously good. At this point I get a brilliant idea. Cindy and I take a photo of the both of us in the bed under the covers. You can’t see anything too raunchy, but you can see just enough skin to think that we’re both naked under the sheets. We send the photo to Lea with the message. “There’s room for one more…” It’s Sunday afternoon at this point and nothing really to do but stay in and have lazy Sunday sex. Lazy threesome Sunday sex would be even better. After some more wild sex with Cindy I doze off for a bit before I wake up. My phone is ringing. I lean over to answer it and would you believe it, it’s Lea. I answer and tell her off for not getting back to me
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from the day before. She makes some excuse about being really busy and then forgetting about it completely. I change the subject. “Anyway, when are you coming over? Cindy wants round 2 with you.” We giggle about it a little. She calls me a slut for sleeping around, and I tease her about becoming the jealous girlfriend already. We banter for a little bit before Lea agrees to come round in an hour. In all honesty, she didn’t need that much convincing. Once she came over she didn’t waste much time. After having a glass of wine she shoves her tongue down Cindy’s throat. They make out for a bit on the couch before Lea takes her by the hand, walks over to me and says: “I think you should take us to the bedroom.” It’s Monday morning, the day after my first ever threesome. I’m texting Amanda all about it and she thinks it’s hilarious. She says that my sex-capades are her entertainment for the week. She asks me if I’ve spoken to any other girls that she introduced me to from Friday night and I tell her I’ve got a date with another one of the girl’s tomorrow. I promise to keep her updated if anything juicy happens. It’s Tuesday now and the week is going great. I hooked up with 2 brand new girls and then I had a threesome with both of them. Now I’ve got a date tonight with Emma, another one of the girls that Amanda had introduced me to. We had been texting back and forth but she wasn’t as full on as Lea or Cindy. Emma seemed more reserved and a little bit more on the shy side. Our date was cool. She’s a nice girl and I’ll probably see her again in a couple of weeks. if anything I think me and Emma might be just
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friends. I don't do anything Wednesday night even though I’ve got texts from the other girls Amanda introduced me to. It’s hard to keep up with all of them and I can’t even remember what they looked like. Thursday rolls around and then Cindy comes over again, on her own this time. What a week. HG
The saddest part about all of this, is that before I created The Royal Tribute Method, I had been working on my sex life for years up to that point. I remember being so frustrated and pissed off the week I met Stacy, because I had spent so much time trying to get laid that I had messed up some work deadlines, and I hadn’t seen any of my real friends. Years and years of practicing approaching and talking to women and for what? 1 lousy lay with a slightly above average girl, and then feeling like a stalker after as I chased her all week because I had no other options available to me. As you continue reading the story you can see just how different my sex life became once I created The Royal Tribute Method. It may seem unbelievable to you at first and if you had told me before I had figured this out that my week with Lea, Cindy and Emma was possible, I would have sworn you a liar. But this is The Royal Tribute Method, and this is powerful shit. I went to a house party and my friend Amanda literally delivered hot girls to me on a silver platter. All the women you want, without ever having to approach them. Like I said earlier, this is the closest to a seduction magic pill as there is. To pull it off, you need to have people, preferably friends, in your life that will consistently bring the women that you like to you. I’m splitting this up into how to get girls to bring other girls to you and how to get guys to do this. I’ll show you the exact method I use, the same that I teach my students and the only method I use to meet women, and then you can go out and start doing this after you finish reading.
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Tributes From Girls Who the fuck is Amanda? I’m guessing that’s what you were thinking as you read through my little adventure with Lea, Cindy and Emma. I used to do all the typical stuff you hear about from the dating gurus. I followed standard dating advice like going to bars and clubs and talking to girls. I tried “daygame”, I tried pick up stuff, I was trying everything. On one particular night I was out at a bar and I was going up to lots of different girls talking to them, trying to attract them, trying to get their phone numbers, trying to get them to go home with me. I guess it was going ok, but I could tell that none of the girls were really that interested in me. I got talking to one girl, Amanda, and we seemed to be getting along. We agree to have a drink later on that week. When I met Amanda, in my head I thought it was a date. She’s pretty cute, looks a bit like Natalie Portman but with longer hair. I get us a table at one of the really cool bars in town and I thought cocktails was going great. Throughout the “date”, I’m trying my hardest to be funny, charming, witty, exciting, interesting, confident, all the stuff women are supposed to be attracted to. I even started throwing out some of the sexy banter lines I had read in a book by some dating guru I won’t name. After using one of his lines that was supposed to at worst make the girl attracted and at best make her horny, Amanda looks at me funny, then starts fidgeting. I can tell she was getting uncomfortable. “Babe. I’m sorry, I hope you don’t get the wrong idea, but this isn’t a date. We’re just out as friends.”
The color in my face must have drained and I don’t think I could quite hide my disappointment. Amanda obviously noticed as she continued. “Listen, hun. You’re real sweet, and it’s not you. I broke up with my fiancé recently and I’m just not interested in dating at the moment. You seemed so cool and I just wanted to spend some time with a guy who wasn’t a total douchebag for once.”
From the days back when I was totally invisible to women, all the way till now when I have a sex life that would make a rockstar jealous, through all of it, I have always been deep down a nice guy. I hate it when they say nice guys finish last because I could
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never bring myself to be a jerk. Nice guys don’t finish last, boring guys who are no fun finish last. There’s a difference. So that night in the bar, together in one of the leather booths. Amanda and I have a long deep chat that gives me some amazing insight into the mind of a woman. Amanda tells me all about her dating life, what she thinks about men, why she dates, why she doesn’t. She tells me about her engagement and then breaking up. She asks me about my dating life and with her I am more honest than I have ever been. I tell her everything, from my frustration with women, to all the books I have read, and going out night after night trying to get better at meeting and seducing women. We really connect over this long night, we must have been there for hours. I learn a lot from Amanda, but the really big aha moment came towards the end. “You know what Greg. I like you. I really like you and I think my friends are going to like you as well. We have to hang out again soon and next time I’m going to introduce you to some of my really hot friends.” “Really? You’re going to introduce me to your hot friends? Yeah right.” “Babe, i’m serious. My girlfriends are always complaining that all the guys they meet are awful. You’ll be a hit.”
This was a big shift in thinking for me. Amanda went on to explain that most girls her age (she was 23/24 I think) are dying to have a male friend that isn’t a jerk and isn’t hitting on them the whole time. When they find a guy like that, who actually has some things going for him, they love introducing them to their friends. It’s like Amanda and her friends meet a guy, scope him out, and once he’s “vetted” they introduce him to all the other single girls in their social circle and he literally has his pick of them. A light bulb went off in my head. What if I was Amanda’s friend and she introduced me to all of her hot friends and told them how great I was? I wouldn’t have to do anything apart from be nice to a really cool chick like Amanda and she would deliver her friends to me. This is when I first realized that having a female friend could be the key to unlocking a conveyor belt of dates and sex for me.
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We already talked a lot in the last chapter about using warm approaches and not broadcasting Random Guy Frequency. Having women introduce and bring girls to you is even more effective because it really harnesses the power of pre-selection. Preselection is a principle which dictates that women are more attracted to men that seem attractive to other women. There was a study carried out in The Journal of Experimental Social Psychology called “Who’s chasing whom.” In the study women were asked to look at profiles of men and indicate if they were interested in pursuing a relationship with that guy and if they found him attractive. Half of the girls were told that the guy was single and the other half read that the guy was currently in a relationship. The results showed that almost every time, single women were more interested in pursuing the attached guy rather than a single target. This works because of the perceived risk in dating. Men are risk takers. We will go out and pretty much sleep with anyone we’re attracted to and not pay much attention to the risk factors involved. Women have a lot more too lose. Women have to think about their safety, carrying a baby and in many cases their social reputation. Women are much more invested in their social image than men are, so there are many factors that go into selecting a guy to be with. When she sees that women already like you, she can skip most of those processes in her brain. It’s as if her brain has bypassed all the selection mechanisms and come to the conclusion: “Well if she think’s he’s ok, then he must be. I guess I should like him too.”
At the very least pre-selection causes curiosity. At it’s strongest it causes full blown sexual hunger in women. Women can’t spend all the time trying to figure out if a guy is desirable or not, so often they let other women do it for them. When pre-selection happens, women want you. Period. When a girl is told by another girl that she should like you, that you’re great, that she should sleep with you. It’s easier than taking candy from a baby. Female endorsement is an essential part of The Royal Tribute Method. Once you have endorsement from another woman, you’re a fair way closer to having a significant relationship with the girl you’re after. You’re also going to completely bypass all of her rejection mechanisms and all the obstacles that go with it.
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The next thing you need to understand about this whole process, is that women want you to be their friend. Women love having male friends, there’s tons of benefit in them for it. Women often enjoy having male company around when there’s no tension involved and she doesn’t have to worry about whether the guy is going to hit on her or not. They like having a guy around to give them advice about other men, they want a shoulder to cry on, and when they go out they enjoy having a man around that makes them feel safe and repels other unwanted male attention. This is why women always try and put guys in the friend zone. They don’t want a relationship with the guy, but they still want all the perks of having the guy around. The problem arises when you’re in the friend zone, but you want more. You feel frustrated that you’re not getting anywhere and then you start to resent the girl because you’re starting to feel used. Women aren’t trying to use you. In their minds they think their friendship should be enough for you. We all know that it isn’t. Being honest, any guy here would openly admit that given the opportunity they would sleep with the majority of their female friends. There’s nothing wrong with us, it’s just the nature of being a man. So how do we reconcile this? How does the girl get what she want and you get what you want? You have to set the parameters of the relationship first. Remember it’s your life and you make the rules. If you like the girl so much that you don’t want a friendship with her and you really want to date her or be her boyfriend, then ignore what I’m about to say. Just be honest with her and don’t be her friend hoping for more. That will be emotional turmoil. If on the other hand you’re not too bothered if it’s her you sleep with, i.e. you would if she jumped you, but you’re not chasing it, then you have to put her in the friend zone first. When you meet a girl that has lots of cute female friends, in fact I recommend doing this with all the girls you meet, tell her that you see her more as a friend than anything else and that you just want to hang out with her and be friends. Then actually do that. If the 2 of you get along, just be cool, hang out with her, be a friend to her, treat her like your sister. Some of the things that women love you doing is giving them advice on guys; paying them compliments; actually talking to them on the phone; offer to make sure they get home after a night out; care about their safety. Be a genuinely
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good guy and as counterintuitive as it sounds do all the “friend zone” type stuff you’ve been told to never do. Don’t worry. You’re not trying to attract her in a conventional or sexual sense. If you were I would never tell you to do any of these things. You want to build up a lot of rapport and comfort with her so she care’s about you, loves you and see’s you as someone important to her. (I’ll show you exactly how, step-by-step in Chapter 5). If you’ve built your Seduction Parachute properly she will think you are an amazing attractive guy. Just not a guy for her. If she cares about you and she’s your friend she will do anything for you. Most guys don’t realize this and never ask their female friends for anything. The girl doesn’t know any better and you keep hoping that one day she will realize how great you are and want to jump into bed with you. Not going to happen. Once she doesn’t see you as a sexual option your chances of getting in her pants are next to zero. Here’s the crazy thing. A girl who doesn’t see you as a sexual option, can still be the best thing that ever happened to your sex life. Too much comfort without enough sexual tension will remove any sexual desire a woman has for you. However, when the girl you have rapport with introduces you to another girl, all the positive aspects are transferred, but none of the negative. Remember I told you that comfort is the most important aspect in having sex with a girl? Well you need just enough to make her feel comfortable but not too much she loses all sexual desire for you. As men we often mess this up, but women don’t. When a woman introduces you to her friend, the exact amount of comfort needed is instantly transferred over. The girl you just met instantly feels comfortable enough with you to sleep with you because of pre-selection and the endorsement you received from your female friend. She’s not going to jump your bones straight away, but all you need at this point is to create sexual tension and sort out your sex logistics. You must train your female friends to introduce their girlfriends to you. Some will do it on their own, but the majority won’t. Not because they don’t want to but simply because they’re not thinking about it. When you go out, tell her to bring her friends along and introduce you. If you see a friend of hers that you like on Facebook, Instagram or some other social media, tell your friend to put in a good word and
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introduce you to her. Women will gladly do this for you as long as you’re honest and open at all times and you treat their friends well. You keep up your end of the bargain and be an awesome friend to a few girls here and there, these girls will transform your love life. They will become like your sex cheerleaders. The most dates I had ever had in my life were a few months after breaking up with a serious girlfriend. We had been together for just over 2 years, we lived together and had even talked about kids and marriage. When we split I was devastated. Felt like my whole life had fallen to pieces. It really took a while for me to get my head back in the game, but once I did my sex life got out of hand. I let it slip to a couple of my female friends that I really wanted to meet a nice girl, but that I didn’t want to go out to bars and clubs every weekend to do so. The result was mind blowing. My female friends completely took over my dating life. They ‘“set me up” with different girls they knew almost every week. It was nuts. They would call me up and say things like: “Hey hun, I’m out with Hayley. She’s single and hot. Come meet us for drinks. NOW!” “You’ve got to meet my friend Ashley. I’m texting you her number. Text her and take her out this week.” “My friend Emma is flying in from Ohio this weekend. I’ve got some work on, but do you mind taking her out?” “My girlfriend Courtney just moved near you. She doesn’t know any decent guys so I gave her your number and told her to call you.”
I had more dates in those few months than I can even remember. My girl’s were literally throwing their female friends vaginas in my face, and sometimes they weren’t even subtle about it. If you commit to doing this properly you can become sexually unstoppable. I’ll show you exactly how to find the girls and befriend them in Chapter 5, but for now I want you to understand why this is such a game changer. When you use this method and you have your female friends act as your sex cheerleaders you’ll have more sex than you can ever imagine.
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Tributes from Guys Having guys introduce you to women is easier in the beginning because as men ourselves it’s a much simpler process making friends with another guy. The only downside is that you don’t get the female endorsement and you don’t benefit from pre-selection. The upside is that as men we know what each other want. When you find the right guy, he would have done all the work for you. Approaching the girl, making her attracted, building the right level of comfort. The guy is also much more likely to introduce you to the exact type of women you want. For example, depending on your friendship, it’s probably inappropriate to tell your female friend to introduce you to a girl who is DTF (down to fuck). If that’s what you’re looking for that night, all it would take would be a wink to your male friend and he’d make it happen. You have to do a little bit more work with the girls once you met them, but it’s more about paying attention to some specific rules which will be in place. Tributes from guys is a goldmine if done properly and if you can find a perfect balance between some guy friends and some girl friends who introduce you to a shed load of girls you’ll be swimming in an endless sea of no effort women.
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Surprise in Sweden Gareth was like my male version of Amanda. Where Amanda was just a cool chick who knew loads of hot girls. Gareth was a slick confident, good looking guy who had made it his job to be surrounded by women. He was one of the most successful high end nightlife hosts in London, and he was often seen with 15-20 gorgeous models surrounding him. I met him while I was a woking as a sports hospitality provider. We originally emailed back and forth about a party that Elton John was throwing and after a few days set up a lunch meeting between the 2
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of us. At lunch we instantly hit it off. It’s like we were long lost brothers. We were so in synch with everything each other was saying that I knew we would be friends for a long time. That night he invited me to go out partying with him. I politely declined. He actually asked me to go partying with him a bunch of times after that and each time I always declined his invitation. It was not that long ago previously that I had been working as a nightclub consultant and I really didn’t want to get back into the scene. The nightlife industry is tough. I got into it to meet tons of girls, but all the late nights, alcohol and traveling had burnt me out. I had been out of the game for a while and hadn’t event stepped foot in a nightclub for a year or so. Eventually after maybe a few weeks of asking I finally accepted his invitation to go out on a Friday night. It was one of the greatest night’s in my life. Firstly Gareth, is an absolute wild man. He’s a complete party animal, a throwback to the hedonistic rockers of yesteryear. The drinks were constantly flowing and I never had to put my hand in my pocket once. Even more impressive was the sheer numbers of women this guy had around him. I’ve met promoters; I’ve met hosts; I’ve met model casters; I’ve even met Hugh Hefner. None of them could hold a candle to the consistent quality of women that followed Gareth around. The entire time we were friends and while he was working the London nightlife scene, I never once saw him with anything less than a solid 9. All his girls were outrageously hot. The coolest thing about Gareth? He always gave me the Million Dollar Introduction. Everywhere we went, he would introduce me to managers, club owners, celebrities, millionaires and billionaires.
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“This is my close friend Greg. Make sure you look after him like you look after me.”
To all the beautiful girls he would say: “Meet Greg. He’s one of my closest friends and the coolest guy you will meet. Ditch all the other guys in here and hang out with him. Trust me, he’s much more fun.”
Gareth is what you call a Social Superstar. He get’s it. He understands the “matrix’ and knows how to make not just himself succeed, but everyone around him. There’s a specific method to bring people like Gareth into your life and I give you the step by step on how to do that in Chapter 5. If you have someone like Gareth in your social circle, someone like this in your life, then you never have to worry about meeting hot women ever again. Guys like this bring girls to you. Often I would be minding my own business and would get a text from Gareth telling me he had some Russian models in town and could they come and have a drink at my house. His most generous gesture was on my birthday. I was out on a date with a tall brunette. Really good looking girl, but a total nut job and this was one of the worst dates I had ever been on. In hindsight it’s pretty funny but at the time I was not amused. The girl turned up very drunk, she was loud and obnoxious and to top it off she slapped me in the cab because she thought I wasn’t listening to her. Then when she realized she had overreacted burst into tears and started screaming so much the cab driver kicked us out of his cab. The drama levels of this girl was off the charts.
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As I’m waiting for her to get her come back from the bathroom so I can call her a cab (I told you, I’m a nice guy), I get a text from Gareth. “Mate. Any plans for your birthday?” “No not yet. I’m not big on celebrating. Will probably do something with the family on Tuesday.” “Kk. What are you doing right now?” “On the worst fucking date ever. You wouldn't believe the madness this girl has been pulling.” “Ditch her. Go home, get your passport and be at mine in 3 hours.” “Wait, hold on. My passport? Where are we going.” “Stockholm!!! Everything’s already booked. Be here by 4am. ”
Gareth knew I was going through a “Swedish” phase, where I was obsessed with Scandinavian girls. Something about their milky soft skin, beautiful faces and long blonde hair had me mesmerized. I dropped my date off, packed a quick bag and then went to meet Gareth at his place before we got a taxi to the airport. It was my first time in Stockholm and the temperature was brutal. My birthday is in January and it was below freezing. Never felt cold like it. But it didn’t matter. I couldn’t care less. I was excited to finally be in the land of Swedish women. Gareth tells me dinner and everything is booked for that evening. I have a few hours to spare, so I take a nap then wonder around the Stureplan district taking in some of the scenery.
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I meet Gareth in the lobby and he’s flanked by 2 hot girls. He winks at me then says to the girls “Meet Greg, it’s his birthday and it’s his first time in Sweden. We have to show him a good time.”
The girls erupt. They are so enthusiastic about making sure I’m having a good time. They’re asking me loads of questions, giving me suggestions on where to go and then promising to show me the best holiday I have ever had. We call a cab to dinner and I tell Gareth that I’m already in love with the place and the girls are super cool. “Wait till we get to dinner.”
We get to the restaurant, everyone already knows who Gareth is. I see a couple of other guys I recognize from London who have also come on the trip. We take an elevator to the second floor where we have a private room reserved and what I saw blows me away. There is a long table in the middle of the room that would seat 30 or so people by my estimate. At virtually every seat is a stunning blonde Swedish girl. For a second I think we’ve gone to the wrong room then the girls start waving at us. I look over at Gareth with a smile on my face. He’s grinning from ear to ear. “Happy birthday mate. Now lets go and have some fun.” HG
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When you use The Royal Tribute Method. Other guys do all the work for you. They find the girls, they get them warmed up, they make them comfortable, they bring them out. You don’t have to do anything other than show up and concentrate on your relationship with your friend. That’s it. If you can make one friend, then you can pull it off. I know it seems ridiculously simple and easy, and that’s because it is. If you make friends with someone like Gareth who’s job means that they create social events, then you don’t even have to bother engineering reasons why the girls should come out and hang with you. Just concentrate on the friendship. This is the best option for you if you don’t like being the center of attention or you don’t feel like you can organize events. If on the other hand you’re friends with someone that doesn’t hold social events for a living, then you can easily do this yourself. With Amanda and other girls I met like her, this is usually what would happen. After meeting her I would make as many reasons as possible for her to come to my house with her friends. They could get ready at mine before they went out; they could have pre-drinks at mine; the after party could be at my house; I’m having people over for the game. Any excuse really, as long as I was doing something fun, I would make sure to invite Amanda and tell her to invite her friends. If you’re smart about this, you can pull off some amazing things. You can do this even if you don’t have somewhere to invite people or any social events to go to. A guy with hot girls is a commodity, every other guy would love to be around them, so if you can connect a guy or girl who has access to hot girls to another person who has a really cool reason for everyone to get together you can almost cheat your way to the top of the game. This is exactly how I got flown to Tahiti on a private jet with 7 models. I met Anton who worked at my gym as a personal trainer and led one of the fitness classes. The class always had some drop dead gorgeous women. Many of them were swimsuit models or fitness models with the best bodies on the planet. Anton was super out going and would often organize hikes and bike rides with the girls. I didn’t know him that well so I wasn’t in the position to invite him anywhere, but I did know a really successful ex stock broker who had just moved to LA and had no friends. . Josh had worked his ass off as a stock broker and after leaving finance had set up a private jet company. He had made his money and now wanted to have some fun.
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Problem was Josh had spent so much of his life concentrating on making money that he had never really spent any time working on his sex life. I met him through a friend and after we got talking I suggested to him how cool it would be if we could get a ton of girls onto one of his planes and take a trip somewhere. “Greg, that would be awesome. But I just moved here and I don’t really know any girls.”
The next day at the gym I run it by Anton and what do you think he said? Anton couldn’t get the girls fast enough. He spoke to all the girls he knew, picked the 7 hottest ones and then Anton, Josh the girls and I all flew on a private jet to Tahiti. That’s The Royal Tribute Method. Start using it and you’ll never worry about your sex life ever again. It will all be taken care for you. To make it happen you must first make friends with guys or girls who have access to tons of women. Once you have made friends then you get them to introduce the girls they know to you whether it’s at events that they themselves organize or social events that you organize. From that point onward, it’s up to you to seal the deal. The Royal Tribute Method will give you a life filled with beautiful women, but then it’s your job to turn those girls into signifiant relationships. I don’t cover that in this book as it would become well over a thousand pages, but in The King’s Game Members area, make sure you have upgraded to “The King’s Council” monthly training program where I’ll teach you the art of Social Circle Seduction. How you effortlessly transform all the women who are being given to you into your dates, fuck buddies and loyal girlfriends. In the next chapter, I’m going to teach you how to engineer your environment so that women are funneled into your life. How to meet girls or guys who have tons of women around them, how to befriend them and how to date the hottest women on the planet with ease.
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Chapter 5:
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I’m not talking about cute, good looking or attractive. I’m talking about supermodel quality type women. Think about it for a second, really think back. When was the last time in your daily routine you saw a drop dead stunner? When I first started learning about dating and trying to improve my sex life, I would play this game with my friends. The game was that you were only allowed to talk to a girl who you thought was irresistible. You weren’t allowed to talk to any 6s, 7s, or even 8s. Only a girl who you deemed was top shelf beauty. Obviously this is always subjective but the point of the game was to try and discourage us from settling for girls that we weren’t truly and deeply attracted to. When playing this game, I realized very quickly that I wasn’t really going for the girls I like the most. Heck, I barely even saw the girls I liked the most. I knew they were out there obviously, and I knew that I had to get smart about meeting them if I wanted them in my life.
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Think about this for yourself. In terms of looks, have you been dating the women that are most attractive to you? Or have you been settling? How often do you see the women that are most attractive to you, the women of exceptional beauty? I’ll agree they’re rare, but lets think about this logically for a sec. Even if we only called 1 in 100 women a Dime (10 out of 10 in looks) the average city would have at least 10,000 exceptionally beautiful women. That’s half a concert full of gorgeous women. If we’re talking big cities like Los Angeles, London, New York, Chicago, Paris, Munich, Sydney etc, that number goes up substantially. So even though these women are rare, they are around. There was a really cool study conducted a few years ago that attempted to calculate the odds of events happening that were deemed impossible or extremely unlikely. One of the scenarios they looked at was the odds of dating a supermodel. They classified supermodel as any woman who had been featured in a magazine, television commercial or fashion show that had a global reach. They ran their experiment and found that the odds of a regular guy like you or I dating a super model were 1 in 88,000. For some comparison the odds of being struck by lightening in your lifetime is 1 in 3000. So for most men, you’re almost 30 times more likely to be struck by lightening in your lifetime than to date a supermodel. Depressing reading for those of us who are sick of settling, but here’s where the study got interesting. Obviously these women have to date somebody. They don’t spend all of their lives alone. So the guys doing the study went and interviewed a handful of these women about their dating and sex lives. Who they slept with, who they went on dates with, their boyfriends, their lovers, their husbands. After conducting all of this research they found that virtually all of the men in the sex life of a supermodel had one thing in common. They all belonged to her social circle. When they factored social circle into the study, the odds dropped dramatically. For a guy in the social circle of a supermodel the odds of dating her are 1 in 10. This study shows you that despite the rarity of beautiful women, they are united in a certain type of social circle. If you are part of that social circle, you are likely to date them regardless of what you look like, your age, your ability with women. All that doesn’t
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matter. The biggest predictor of having sex with beautiful women is proximity. You must be able to access them. Till today, the most attractive woman I ever dated was a former Miss Arizona. Whenever I’m doing a seminar, or a conference or a radio interview, I always get asked how I managed to date her. Which tactic I used, what did I say to her, what opening line? Was I confident, did I try and maker her laugh, how did I game her? I find all these questions hilarious. Everyone always wants to know which tactic or technique a regular guy like myself used to date a beauty queen. By very definition a woman who is celebrated for her looks. What a lot of people don’t realize, is that dating the most attractive woman has absolutely nothing to do with your level of game, or how good you are with women. It’s all about access. I always use the comparison between a Victoria Secrets photographer and the best seducer or pick up artist in the world. Which one of these guys is most likely to sleep with more hot girls? The photographer of course. It doesn’t matter that he may not have the level of “game” as the seducer, the very nature that he is in an environment where he is surrounded by beauty dictates that he is more likely to be with one of those women. Even if he is absolutely awful with women he could still stumble into the bed of a hottie. Dating Miss Arizona was surprisingly non-eventful. I didn’t say the magic line to open her, get her attracted and then seduce her. It was a simple case of following what I will be showing you in this chapter.
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Step 1 - Identify Your Ideal Woman What type of women do you want to date? This system is so powerful that it’s going to let you have the exact type of woman that you want, so you want to be very specific on what your ideal woman is before you even get started. This is a very, very important step to dating the woman of your dreams and similar to when you were constructing your Legend in Chapter 2, you have to be very specific. There are a number of benefits in being really specific about the type of women that you really want. Firstly and most importantly, you will never ever settle again. You won’t have to worry about picking up scraps. You will from this day forth only date the exact type of women that you want. Secondly when you are specific, you’re building your Social Parachute. A man that knows what he wants is irresistible to women. They find it extremely sexy and a highly attractive trait in a man. You're on your own path, you have standards and you’re the King. Because of that you know what you like, what you want and what you expect and you’re not going to have anything less. Another benefit is in The Royal Tribute Method. When you meet girls like Amanda or guys like Gareth the more specific you are about the type of women you want, the greater the chance that they will actually find those girls for you and give them to you. One of my preferences was fun loving, nonjudgmental highly sexual women. Amanda knew this and introduced me to Cindy and Lea, 2 girls who think a threesome is as normal as brushing your teeth. Gareth knew I was going through a Swedish phase where I had a fetish for tall blondes. As a result he took me to Stockholm for my birthday and had a bevy of hot young Swedish girls waiting to meet me. When I first started developing the King’s game, I was into the night club scene and I really wanted to date the young, hot party girls. I wanted the wild young girls who wore little skirts, got all dressed up with loads of makeup, had their boobs and legs out, would dance and party all night, get a little bit drunk; the type of girls that you see at the top-end night clubs in the VIP booths. Think Megan Fox (Transformers 1) in a tight dress. That’s the type of woman I wanted to date. When that was the type of woman I wanted to date, my entire strategy was built around a way where I would funnel that specific type of woman into my life. Because
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of that, I ended up spending a lot of time in the environments that were likely to most have that type of woman. I worked in night clubs a lot. I was at fashion shows. I went on holiday to exotic party destinations. I would try and meet guys like Gareth who were hosts and promoters. As I got older, my preferences changed. If your preference has changed, what you were doing before isn’t necessarily going to work in the same way. That’s the great thing about The King’s Game. It’s adaptable and it can work for anyone with any desire. As my preferences changed, I was able to adapt to my new desires. For a while I wanted to be around women who are a bit older and sophisticated but still with some edge about them. Think badass boardroom girls in a tight pencil skirt and breast hugging blouse. As my preference changed, I spent more time in hotel bars and restaurants as opposed to nightclubs. Rather than going to fashion shows, I was going to charity events, high-end dinners, and galas. I wanted the more sophisticated, very emotionally, financially and professionally well put-together women. That’s what I was after. When it changed for me wanting the party girls to the mature women, I had to change the system a little bit. So I had to change the environments I was hanging around. More recently, I’m after women who keep fit and outdoors. That’s what I love now; women who go to the gym every day and who really take a lot of care in their appearance. Because of that, that’s going to affect the places I’m spending time in. It’s going to affect the type of activities I undertake, the type of skills I’m going to learn, and the environment I’m going to be spending my time. If you’re into club and party girls, you’re not necessarily going to find those type of girls at libraries, are you? So you have to know exactly what type of woman you’re after because it’s going to affect the entire over-arching strategy of how you go about doing this. I want you to be very explicit and specific about what type of woman you want to date. If you could pick your ultimate, ideal woman, what would she look like? What would she wear? What would her name be? What would her interests be? What would she watch on TV? Where would she spend time? What type of social environments? I really need you to narrow it down. Even get out a notepad and right this stuff down.
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Don’t just half-ass it and say, “I want a blonde girl.” I want you to be very, very explicit on what type of woman that you want, because with this system you’re going to have that type of woman. Let’s say you want to date celebrities, or super-models, or famous actresses etc. And believe me you can. I often hear guys saying “I’m just a normal guy, I couldn’t ever date a supermodel.” That’s simply not true. Jennifer Lopez, Britney Spears, Christina Aguilera and even Scarlett Johansson, all women who have won FHM’s sexiest woman alive and all women who have dated regular, non-celebrity, non-famous, non-wealthy guys. All these women and many more have dated regular guys like you and I. The only thing these men had in common is that one way or another they were in the right social circle. And anyone can be in the right social circle. There are dozens of studies out there and this topic has been beaten to death. The highest predictor of who a woman will date is proximity. Women date within their social circle period. There’s not getting around it. All you need to do to date the type of woman that you want – the exact type of woman you want – is to be in her social circle. This is how you’re going to be able to date women who are better for you; women who are better looking; women who have better personalities. This is how you’re going to be able to date your ideal woman. To wrap up this step, you need to have the map before you enter the woods. You must know where you’re going because it will make your life so much easier. Make a list of the exact type of woman that you want and write it down. And we’re not just talking looks here. I mean everything about her that you desire. What would her interests be? Where would she go on holiday? What would she do for fun? What turns her on? What are her friends like? Once you’ve got that image in your head of what type of woman you want, you need to find her. You need to identify where she’s going to be, and the types of places she will be spending her time. You have to do your research and this takes us to the next step.
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Step 2 - Finding The Access Point Let’s say you’ve identified that you want to date celebrities or supermodels. You want to date the highest calibre woman on the planet. If you think the high-end social network is the larger network that these women hang around in, you’re not going to be able to go out and spend time at the top of the social circle straight away. You’re not going to be able to hang out with the Will Smiths and Tom Cruises and Kanye Wests of the world tomorrow. What you need is to access the low-hanging fruit The low-hanging fruit is generally a social circle that’s within the larger network that you can access. If we’re talking about high-end social circles, the low-hanging fruit would be somewhere like a high-end night club or high-end restaurant. Anybody can go to one of those high-end night clubs and anybody can go to one of those high-end restaurants. That’s the social circle that you can get access to and that’s your lowhanging fruit. Another example is if you say you’re after women who keep fit and look after themselves, it’s going to be very unlikely that you’re going to be meeting the Brazilian volleyball team tomorrow. You want to find the low-hanging fruit. The low-hanging fruit could be your local gym. If you live at the beach, it’s where they play volleyball in the afternoon. That’s your low-hanging fruit. Your low-hanging fruit is a social circle that’s connected to the larger social network of the type of woman that you want to date, but is something that is close enough to you that you can actually get access to. This is where you’re going to be spending all of your time. Make a list of all the types of places that your ideal woman would hang out. The places she would go for fun. If these places are currently beyond your reach then think about a place that could possibly have a connection. You like runway models but don’t have access into a Victoria Secrets party, look in your local newspaper and find the fashion events, store openings and catwalk shows that could be happening near you. Be creative in how you find your the low hanging fruit, because once you find it, you need to implant yourself into that environment. At this point, once you’ve implanted yourself into the environment of your ideal woman, you could potentially stop here. Using all the information I’ve given you about the Seduction Parachute and what I taught you in the No Rejection Method, you could
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get yourself a ton of dates at this point anyway. However, I don’t want you to just have good results. I want your results to be fucking nuclear. To get the best results from The Royal Tribute Method, and to get to the high end social circles where women of exceptional beauty are common, you must do 2 things. You must meet people with Social Influence and you have to get to Introductory Rapport with those people. These are new but very important concepts. We’re now moving from just having success with women, to having supreme success in life. This is a dating book, however what I’m about to show you know, transcends dating and relationships and will impact every aspect of your life. So, what do people like Amanda and Gareth have in common? They have an abundance of what I call Social Influence. Social Influence is the amount of people that an individual can connect with at any given time. People with high amounts of Social Influence are your connectors, your networkers, individuals that have lots of people in their social circle. Someone who always has their phone ringing, is always going to events, always seems to have something fun lined up. That’s a person of Social Influence. These are the people you need to be on the lookout for once you’re in the environment where your ideal woman hangs out. You want these people in your social circle because they will be the best in terms of The Royal Tribute Method, and also in terms of introducing you into social circles of super hot women. Spotting them isn’t difficult. These guys and gals are some of the friendliest most extroverted people you will meet. If you’re at a gym, look around. Who does everyone seem to talk to, is there one person that all the girls are really friendly with or says hi to everyone. If you’re at a bar, does someone walk in and immediately gets greeted by the bartenders, the staff, other people in the bar. If you keep your eye out, you will see these people everywhere. The thing to notice is that they’re not just going up to random people and saying hello. Anyone can do that and it wouldn’t mean a thing. The way to really spot a person with good levels of Social Influence is to pay attention to the reactions that they get from other people. Are people drawn to them; do people light up when they say hello; are other people following them around? This is what you have to look out
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for as people with Social Influence are universally loved and have fantastic social skills that make the majority of people they meet love their company. You have to really commit to this if you want your ideal woman. Sure you can hope that you’ll find her one day in the grocery line or the coffee shop, but that is rather unlikely. You want to make a life where multiple ideal women are delivered to you on a sliver platter. This is all about finding the people that can deliver her to you. Implant yourself in her environment. Go often to the places she may hang out, and once you’ve spotted the person of Social Influence the next step is to actually become good enough friends with him or her so that they will introduce you into their social circle.
Step 3 - Getting The Introduction A quick disclaimer before I go any further. I mentioned this before in the introduction, and a few times throughout this book, but I will mention it again now. Being a genuine person with integrity, kindness, love and respect for others is above all the most important ideal you must strive towards. I’m about to show you how to make friends with anyone at anytime, easily and consistently. You must use this for genuine, mutually beneficial friendships only. You must come into this from a place of making other people’s lives better. If you are selfish, greedy or fake, none of this will work and you will be in a much worse position than you ever started. That being said, this is by far the most important discovery I ever made about people. I am a world renowned social circle expert and I am sought after to speak and coach people all over the world primarily because of this concept I created. It’s the concept of The Rapport Ladder™, and it’s the ultimate game changer in life. Understand The Rapport Ladder, and anything is possible. You can have any social, professional or sexual life you want at your finger tips and you can do it with ease. I’m sure you’re familiar with the situation where you know someone that you can spend time with on a one-on-one basis, but you wouldn’t necessarily introduce that person to your mom or your family, or your university friends for example. Or someone who you would happily go out and have a beer with, but you would die before you invited them to a dinner with your work colleagues.
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Why does that happen? Why are there some people that you can spend time with on a one-on-one basis, but you wouldn’t introduce them into other aspects of your life? Why are there people that when you go to an event, everybody wants to try and meet them, everybody is searching for them? Why are there some people who always have things to do on their weekend, that always constantly have invites, people are always trying to get hold of them? How does that happen? It’s all based on The Rapport Ladder. The Rapport Ladder is a framework that maps out every social, interpersonal interaction between two people. It’s the reason why someone will spend time with you on a one-on-one basis but wouldn't invite you out with their friends on the weekend. To fully master The Royal Tribute Method, and to get access to high end social circles which have the most beautiful women, you need to get to a level on The Rapport Ladder called Introductory Rapport. Introductory Rapport is a stage of interaction between you and another person where they will actively introduce you to their social circle. They introduce you to their friends, their colleagues, their acquaintances and most importantly their women. If you’re at Introductory Rapport with someone, they will introduce you to all the women that they know, or they will introduce you into their social circles which have the women that you want. When you’ve found the person of Social Influence, you want to meet them and move through the stages of The Rapport Ladder as quickly as possible. You could learn how to make friends with them and do it in a very drip drip drip fashion that could take weeks or months, but I want more for you. I developed a set of techniques that allows you to breeze through The Rapport Ladder, speeding up the friendship process in a fun and genuine way that allows you to make friends with people almost over night. These techniques are called Rapport Accelerators. They’re based on the normal friendship principles that everyone uses to make friends, but then pumped full of steroids to create deep, lasting connections with people very quickly. There are 6 of them in total and I go into more depth in The Social Supremacy Blueprint which you can access from the members area. For the purposes of this book however, here are the ones you need to concentrate on.
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The first Rapport Accelerator to use is Familiarity. Familiarity is sometimes called the mere exposure effect. It is the phenomenon whereby the more somebody sees you, the more they like you. It has been studied in interpersonal attraction and social psychology, and there is a lot of literature that shows that the more a person sees something in a positive light the more that they like it. You use Familiarity by creating routines. The more someone someone sees you, the more they’re going to like you. The more someone is exposed to you, the more your rapport increases with them. So the first thing you should do is create a routine around the place you’ve found will have your ideal woman. If it’s a gym, go to that gym every Tuesday, or every couple of days, but always around the same time. Go to the same bar repeatedly, the same library, the same beach. Take the same salsa class. What will happen is that everyone and more importantly the people with Social Influence, will start becoming familiar with seeing you. This routine will also take pressure off your interactions with people. The problem most people come across when they meet social connectors, is that they try too hard too early on. They try and fit the entire friendship process into a 5 minute conversation. Having a routine allows you to spread out the interaction so it’s more relaxed. The first time you see them can be simply a nod and a smile. Second time “hey how’s it going.” By the third time you already have some Familiarity, now you could have a slightly more in depth conversation. The fourth time a little bit more, and so on. Having the routine will build Familiarity very quickly and it will allow you to spread out the friendship process not making you seem like you're trying to hard.
Recognition The second Rapport Accelerator to use is one called Recognition. I actually think that if used correctly, this is i s the most powerful method of increasing rapport with someone and building a deeper connection. I remember the first time I learned this. I was at a school reunion, and my English teacher would go around having brief conversations with people. When I say brief, I mean no more than a couple minutes tops. The amazing thing was that every single person he spoke to was beaming from ear to ear after he walked away. It was as if he had just given them a winning lottery ticket. It was crazy to watch. He would just walk around person to person, 30 seconds here, a minute there, every time he left the person, they were smiling.
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I finally got a chance to ask him what he was doing, and he told me something that I will never forget and I’ve been using his technique ever since. He said: “I always remember one specific detail about the person, just one detail. It doesn’t even have to be their name, but I always remember a specific detail and something that’s personally important to them.”
Simply brilliant. Once I started incorporating this into my interactions with people, I was able to shoot through the rapport ladder like it was nothing. I remember Martin, the owner of one of the most popular celebrity nightclubs in London. I got chatting with him outside while he was having a cigarette. He mentioned something about his wife or girlfriend having just had a baby and how tough it was living with a newborn. The next time I came back to the club, I mentioned it to him and his reaction was incredible. You could see he felt honored that someone had been paying attention to something that was important to him and from that moment on he treated me like a KING! He walked me and my friend straight into the VIP, introduced us to a bunch of hot girls there, and then told the bartender not to charge me for anything. I never paid for a drink in that club again, and I never so much as waited in line once. When you meet people, talk about them. Be interested in them. Get them to talk about themselves and things that are interesting to them. Just be cool and normal and as long as you take a genuine interest in their lives they will open up to you. A question that I love asking is “So, what’s new in your world. Anything exciting?”. e xciting?”. When someone answers and when someone talks, pay attention. Listen out for anything they tell you that seems special to them, and remember it. It could be where they live, where they grew up, what their passions are. Listen, be attentive, care and remember. Start practicing Recognition and you will see an astronomical jump in how many people love being around you and pull you into their social circles.
Utility I left this one until last because it’s the most important in terms of getting to Introductory Rapport. If you want people to consistently introduce you to their social circles then Utility is the most important piece of the puzzle. I remember when I first started meeting people I would follow the advice that was given in virtually every book about socializing and networking that I had read. Books
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like “How to Win Friends and Influence People,” and “Never Eat Alone,” all great books with fantastic knowledge, all saying the same thing. Give people value, give value, give value, give loads of people value. Value, value, value. They all talked about the same thing. Value, value, value. I was going around and I was giving people value, but I still wasn’t really getting anywhere that I wanted. I was able to get to a stage where people would spend time with me on a one-on-one basis, but they wouldn’t introduce me to their wider social circle. I was able to get to a stage where they would meet me for coffee, or drinks one-on-one, but they weren’t inviting me to hangout with their friends. I remember one guy in particular. His name was Luca, I was doing all the right things and giving this guy loads of value. We would hang out every now and again, but he would go out partying every weekend with beautiful girls and I wouldn’t get invited. He would have bbq’s in his garden and invite all of his friends but I’d never hear about it. I hadn’t quite become his friend yet. I was a bit more than an acquaintance but it was obvious that I had not reached Introductory Rapport yet. This is when I realized that giving Value isn’t enough. Giving value wasn’t working and the reason is that it was too simplistic of advice. What’s of value to you is not necessarily n ecessarily what’s of value to me, not necessarily of value to Joe Schmo next door. Value is too simplistic, so I had to replace it with something called Utility. “Utility is the measure of relative satisfaction from any perceived or given outcome.”
Its subjective value. It’s what each individual is subjectively looking for. It’s what each individual subjectively values. When you know someone’s utility, that is the difference between being at one-on-one rapport and introductory rapport. The only reason someone is going to introduce you to their social circle is if you have demonstrated utility or you provide them with utility. That can be utility based on them or based on their social circle and their social group. That’s the only way you’re going to get access to the hot girls. You need to show utility.
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Once I started thinking in terms of Utility, my entire relationship with Luca changed. I started taking more of an interest in him and his life and I actually started paying attention. I changed the conversations to be less about me and more about him. Less about superficial topics and more about our real interests and passions. I found out that we actually both had a lot in common. One of our commonalities being that we were both huge football (soccer) fans. When Luca’s boyhood team came to town to play, I got us some tickets and took him to the game. We’ve been good friends ever since. Playing the Utility Game is all about identifying people’s utility and giving it to them. It really is that simple. You identify what their utility is, and then you give it to the person. Imagine if there’s a promoter at a nightclub and you introduce him to some people that are going to come and spend money at his club. That’s a Utility. You meet a guy and he keeps talking about how much he loves blonde women, and then you go up and you talk to a few blonde girls and you bring them over and introduce them to him. That’s Utility. You meet someone who works for an advertising agency and is dying for a move from their job then a week later you meet an advertising head hunter and you introduce them. That’s another Utility. You need to look for the utility that somebody needs, and then you have to provide it. That’s the Utility Game, the most important piece in the process of getting people to introduce you to their social circles. Identify your ideal woman and the types of places she would hang out. Spend times in those places, the low hanging fruit, meeting people, being friendly and looking out for individuals with lots of Social Influence. Once you’ve met someone of Social Influence move through The Rapport Ladder while striking up a friendship with them using the Rapport Accelerators. Concentrate on playing the Utility Game to really give the person you meet what they want. Remember, this is about them not you. You are going out there with a view to give and make better the lives of everyone that you meet. You must be genuine and sincere. If you don’t get along with someone, don’t make friends with them just because they can give you access. That comes across extremely try hard and is not the actions of a person that is going to win in the game of life. It’s all about Win / Win. It’s all about contribution. Going out there and bringing massive amounts of positive
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energy into people’s lives. Focus on that when you’re trying to get access and there will be no social circle, no type of woman and no type of sex life that is beyond you. For a more detailed in depth step by step system on how to access any social circle in the world, go to the members area and upgrade to The Social Supremacy Blueprint. In the next chapter I’ll be giving you some important techniques on overcoming some of the challenges you’ll face with women, and more importantly very beautiful women.
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Chapter 6:
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O FAR IN THIS BOOK, I haven’t taught you much technique and there’s a reason for that. People who teach you mainly technique, generally do so because they
don’t know how to actually make you better with women. They’re just teaching you to put paper over the cracks and never deal with the real issues at hand. I’m not saying that there is anything wrong with technique per se but everyone who is really good with women will tell you that you don’t need any techniques. Techniques are like training wheels. They are a stop gap to get you started. When I first started out trying to improve my skills with women, I actually used a lot of techniques and tricks and routines. That was until I figured out The Seduction Parachute. Once I developed that as a philosophy my results with women went through the roof. The only thing I had to worry about from that point onwards was actually meeting the women that I want and having the type of life where they would be given to me. The Seduction Parachute added to The Royal Tribute Method is all you will ever need to learn to have a sex life that resembles that of a rockstar. It’s a philosophy, a way of life, and when you follow what I have shown you in this book you won’t need anything
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else. However, there is a specific scenario that you will come across and in this chapter I’m going to show you how to deal with dimes. A dime or a dime-piece as some people call it, is another word for a 10. A girl who is drop dead gorgeous, stunning, a head turner, a perfect “10” she’s a dime, and despite these women being actually easier to date than regular less attractive women, there are some things you need to pay attention to. As you put the material in this book into practice, the quality of women you will date will improve, and as it improves you need to understand some of the differences between the women that you used to date and the women that you will be dating. You’re transforming into a King, so women are going to expect you to behave in a certain way. If you don’t behave like a King, you will start to come across as incongruent. Incongruence is when your actions don’t match the image or persona that you are giving off. If you spend all your time acting like a tough guy, but then you faint at the sight of blood, that would be incongruent. If a woman thinks you’re this super cool guy with tons of friends and a bustling social life, but in reality you live alone and haven't spoken to anyone all week, that is incongruent. The King’s Game is going to present you as the most awesome, fun, positive and amazing man that a girl could have in her life. You need to understand first of all what a woman is thinking, how you need to adapt your behavior and the different challenges she may throw your way.
Hot Girl Psychology The first time I had an insight into the way that beautiful women think, it was by complete accident. I used to hang out a lot with a girl called Chloe who was a really cool, fun and friendly girl and a phenomenal hip-hop dancer. She was on the cusp of becoming professional till she had a really bad knee injury in a competition which pretty much killed off her career. It took her a couple of years to recover fully from the knee injury and in the meantime she taught dance workshops to people who were looking to polish up their skills.
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It was around the time when she was an instructor that I met her and after we became friends I realized just how many girls Chloe knew. As a dance instructor she would meet dozens of girls every week. Not just any girls but the fit, flat stomach, flexible dance type girls. Women who dance a lot either for fun or professionally have some of the most amazing bodies on the planet and the girls Chloe taught were no different. One beautiful Saturday afternoon Chloe sent me a text asking if I wanted to come meet her and a group of her girls from dance class in the park. They were going to be rollerskating and dancing but also planned to have a picnic with some wine to unwind. There was absolutely no way I could turn down such an invitation. I went to meet them taking Jody along with me. When we arrived at the park, Chloe introduced me to all the girls and then I went about getting to know everyone. There were so many good looking girls in this group and they were all so friendly, I had no idea which of the girls I really wanted to spend my attention on. Instead of focussing on one girl, I simply made small fluff talk with a number of the girls trying to be social and fun with everyone. With the combination of wine, warm weather and positive vibes in the group, everyone was starting to get eager to continue the fun. It was Saturday, and I knew that my good friend Gareth was hosting a party somewhere so I suggested that we all go out. About 3 of the girls including Chloe were up for it, but they wanted to go home, shower and get ready and then meet us later on in town. Jody was house sitting for some mega-rich kid he knew so we all agreed to meet at his place first to have some more drinks and get warmed up. Meeting at the house Jody was sitting, was a great touch. I had spent enough time around Jody to know how to host a kick-ass party and between the two of us we had everything set up before the girls even arrived. When the Chloe and her friends finally did show up, they loved the place. We had bought some extra champagne glasses and filled them with sparkling wine. Sparkling wine is the really cheap version of champagne. It’s essentially the exact same drink but for a fraction of the price and unless you are a seasoned drinker you would barely taste the difference. We handed each of the girls a glass of champagne, toasted to being young, fun and reckless and promised we’d all have an amazing night out.
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We called some cabs and went to the club where Gareth was and of course he had everything set up so that we looked like King’s when we arrived. We were escorted into the VIP area and given a table full of drinks that neither myself nor Jody had paid for. Being treated like this is pretty typical when I go out. I’m not special in anyway, I just follow a proven formula that I lay down for you in my Conquer The Clubs guide which you can pick up in The King’s Game members area. I still haven’t really begun paying any one girl in our group too much attention and Gareth tells me that he has some people he needs to introduce me to. I go off with him and as usual he’s giving me the Million Dollar Introduction and tonight, the girls he introduces me to are way more in to me than usual. These women are all over me, practically throwing themselves at me. They must have seen me come in with Chloe and her 3 friends. As I’ve stated again and again in this book, pre-selection is extremely powerful. Women will down right hunt you down because they have seen you with other good looking women. Its part of their DNA and the majority of women can’t control the urge and will have no idea why they even want you so badly. This goes on for a while before I finally return to my area where Chloe and her friends are, and here’s where things get interesting. Chloe’s friends are acting a bit different. They seem a little less upbeat and don’t seem like they’re the super friendly happy go lucky girls they were at the beginning. I sit down next to Chloe thinking that I must be making it up in my head, but after the mood doesn’t change for what seemed an age, I lean over to her and ask: “Are your friends ok? They don’t seem like they’re having fun anymore.”
Chloe’s response makes the light bulb go off in my head. It was one of those awesome “aha” moments when something just clicks. “Erm…well. I think they’re a bit upset because you don’t seem to like any of them. Most guys can’t stop hitting on them, and you’ve barely even flirted with them. They thought you had a girlfriend at first but then you were with those other girls over there. It’s cool, they’ll be fine.”
And herein lies the problem with women. Just when you think you’ve got it, they change everything up. While I was thinking that being a gentlemen and not hitting on them was going to get me laid, it was actually having a negative effect on women.
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Here’s the problem. Hot women don’t want to get hit on by random guys. We know that already. However, when you’ve bypassed their rejection mechanism by using everything you’ve learned in this book, they start becoming very attracted to you. At that point, if you don’t show any interest in them, they will initially think that something is wrong with you. She’s beautiful and used to all the guys hitting on her all the time. So if you don’t she will initially chalk it down to you being gay, married or a complete pussy. In her head those can be the only scenarios. When she see’s you flirting with other women or hitting on other women she simply can’t compute. It doesn’t make any sense to her and it totally fries her brain. She’s thinking that if you’re not gay, you’re not married, you’re not a pussy, and you’re not hitting on her. Then it must be that she’s not doing something right. Some girls will start feeling bad about themselves like in the case of Chloe’s friends, but other girls will aggressively try and get your attention. In either case you do the exact same thing. You make them work for your validation. You dangle the carrot in front of them. You have to let them know that the reason they don’t have your attention yet is because they haven’t displayed to you that they’re the type of girl you want. They haven’t met your standards yet. Yet is the important word here. You have to give the girl hope that she can actually meet your standard and you have to do it in a playful way. If you’re too serious about it you can easily come across as an arrogant dick. This is how you get hot women chasing you doing practically anything for you. It’s why The Seduction Parachute and the identification stage in the last chapter are so important. If you know exactly what type of woman you want, and you know exactly how you want her to behave, and the type of personality that she needs to have, you will naturally have standards. The women around you will see this and they will try extremely hard to be the girl you want them to be. I usually tell them that I like women who are sexually aggressive and playful and that I hate prudes. That way if they want my attention they will have to be sexually aggressive which is always fun. So you have 2 options. If you’re not going to hit on the girls you are with, then they must know that it is because they haven't met your standards and not because you aren’t man enough. The best way to do this without coming across like a dick is through 3rd person projection. When you’re talking to her mention a time where a girl
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didn’t do something you liked and that you lost interest in her because of it. If her being sexually aggressive is something high on your priority, say something like: “I love how open-minded and fun you are. You seem like the type of girl who’s open to trying new things. I can’t stand it when girls are shut off or they don’t want to experience some excitement. It makes them seem boring. I could never be with a boring girl.”
Or let’s say you like intelligence: “I was just talking to the girl at the bar and she asked me where I’m from. I told her London and she asked me where in California that was. Argghhh! Biggest turn off ever. She was really hot, but a girl with no brains? I just can’t do it.”
When you make her work for your approval and you dangle the carrot in front of a girl, she will chase you to the ends of the earth to get it. But only as long as she thinks you are a King and not some random guy, so you have to ensure that you’ve got all the other stuff I’ve been talking about handled. You have to make sure she’s already attracted to you through King’s Signals and your Seduction Parachute or this won’t work. The other option is to hit on them without hitting on them. If you hit on her directly then in many cases you have given her the validation that she needed. Now she can breathe a sigh of relief knowing that she’s still a hot girl and you actually were interested in her. When this happens she is likely to reject you because you’re the same as all the other guys. They all try and sleep with her, and you’re doing it to, so there’s no difference. You need to make her feel like there’s no difference between her and any other girls. You have to treat all the girls the same, and she has to feel that. So if you’re going to hit on her, be playful with her and flirt with her, then you have to do this with all the girls. This is slightly harder as it requires some skill on your part. I give you an exact blueprint of how to do this in The Art Of Social Circle Seduction which you can find in the members area. You’ll have to tone it down slightly so the girls don’t think you’re a sleaze, but if you’re fun playful and have a sexual edge with all the girls, then when you hit on the one you want she won’t realize and you’ll still be dangling the carrot in front of her. She’ll still work to win you over.
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The main thing that I’m trying to get across is to never chase. NEVER. I mean absolutely NEVER EVER EVER under any circumstances chase a girl. And just to be clear, I mean NEVER. Chasing by definition means that she is moving away from you and no King should ever do that. Contrary to opinion women don’t want you to chase them. By chasing her you are denying her the gift of chasing you. Women actually want to chase YOU. That’s the way it is supposed to be but society has done such a good job of conditioning us that until we snap out of our slumber we think that it’s the other way round. Men should not chase women. EVER. The minute you chase her, forget it. Especially the dimes. Don’t get this confused with not showing any interest, they are 2 completely different scenarios. You can show a woman you are interested without ever actually chasing her. Chasing behavior comes in many shapes and sizes but you know you are chasing her when you don’t feel like she is seducing you. If you feel on some level that she is trying to win you over, that she is trying to impress you, then you are getting it right. If you are trying to get with a girl and she’s putting in less effort than you, you are chasing and you need to stop it immediately. This is why abundance is so important. In The Seduction Parachute chapter I showed you the Dating Mindsets that you needed to have in order to guarantee your success. Abundance is needed so that you never feel like chasing a woman. If she’s not putting in any effort then move on to the next girl. You’ll only be comfortable doing that if you’ve completely grasped the Abundance Mindset. Another way you can ensure that you don’t chase is to not take a woman’s phone number. Instead always give her your number. Some guy’s freak out when I tell them this because it’s so against what they know. The fear is that she won’t call and you won’t have control of the situation. You need to just let it go. From this point onwards, I don’t want you to take a girl’s number first ever again. She has to contact YOU first. This is how you set up the frame that you’re The King and that she has to work to win you over and believe me she will. Women will chase you, especially the hottest ones. You just have to give them the opportunity.
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Text Exchange: Zero Effort Hookup Ashley: "Hey Greg, it's Ashley from last night. How was the night?"
Greg: "I'm sure if I could remember it I'd say it was a lot of fun ;)…remind me who you are? Forgive me I'm shitty with names."
Ashley: "I was the one in the white dress who was singing in the car and I'm also the one who's ass you grabbed. lol"
Greg: "Haha…I reserve my ass grabbing only for the best :p”
Ashley: "I feel super special :)”
Greg: "Haha good. So I guess you want to get together sometime…?"
Ashley: "Oh do I Greg?"
Greg: "Yeah :p”
Ashley: "Where do you live?"
Greg: "Opposite xxxxxxxx. You know it?”
Ashley: "Yes sir."
Greg: "Good :). Come over."
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Ashley: "Oh yeah sure I'm on my way. What's my incentive?'
Greg: "Tomorrow morning you'll think to yourself, coming over was by far the best decision you made all weekend ;)”
Ashley: "ha ha ha. I'm sure that would happen. You still have energy after your wild evening?"
Greg: "Lot's of it darlin ;)…Text me your address and I'll call a cab to pick you up."
Ashley: "Ha. That sounds amazing and I'd love to but I have to be up early in the morning. Can we rain check that?"
Greg: "So do I…and we both know it will be more than worth it. Cab get you in 30mins…
Ashley: "Ok…but not right now"
Ashley: "My address is xxxxxxxx…how long will the cab take?"
Greg: "About 20mins. I'll see you soon."
Go out and have fun with your friends or your group. Whenever you get chatting with a girl you like, end the conversation with: "Take my number and give me call later…"
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You want it to seem like it’s not a big deal and that you do it all the time. It’s even better if you have something planned, I’ll talk about that in a moment, then you can say “take my number and text me later about that thing tonight.” Every single girl will take your number because firstly it’s totally different and she’s not expecting it and secondly she knows that you can’t contact her if she doesn’t want you to. From the moment she takes your number, everything from then on is about having abundance. Only a handful of the girls will actually text or call you. That’s fine. You’re not going for 10 out of 10. You only want the girls who are the most into you to actually get in touch, and trust me they will. The amount of girls who text will depend on how attracted to you she is, the strength of your Seduction Parachute, who introduced you to her and what you have set up or planned to do with her. As soon as she texts, you can be pretty damn sure that she want’s you. A girl texting a guy first is code for her thinking: “I want to fuck you, now please take over and do something so I think it was all your idea.”
Once she texts, you immediately want to tease her a bit for chasing you. Because of The Royal Tribute Method I get introduced to so many women and often forget their names. It drives them crazy when I don’t know who they are and with all of the techniques in this chapter, the hotter she is, the better it works. Dimes simply aren’t used to this type of behavior and it sets you apart in such a powerful way you leave a lasting positive impression on her immediately. The girl will always text something boring like "hi, its [girls name] how was your night?" and my response is always about my night being super fun or exciting and I always end with something like: "Excuse my memory, but I can't remember who you are."
Imagine what's going through this hot girl’s head? She took a guy's phone number, she contacted him first, he doesn't remember who she is…The girl is instantly in chase mode. Society has made women so dependent on external validation for their beauty that she needs to protect her fragile ego by making sure that you actually find her attractive and want her. From there onwards its pretty straight forward for you to get to sex which happens within a few texts back and forth. Suggest the meeting early on, but if she doesn’t bite don’t worry about it and don’t chase. NEVER CHASE.
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The best way to increase the chances of the girl texting you first, is to always have something planned that you can invite her to. Have a social life, do things that you find fun, look in the newspaper for ideas of activities, organize something. If you always have activities to do and you’re always out there experiencing life and exploring what it has to offer, the girl WILL follow you. Women love a man who’s on his own path doing his own thing. Now when you give her your number you can say things like: • “We’re having a champagne after party. Take my number. Text me later about it.”
• “Here’s my number, text me later about that thing we were talking about.” • “You seem fun. I’m going to the amusement park with some friends tomorrow. Take my number, send me a text later.”
There’s more context now with you giving her your number, but it’s still very low key and low pressure. My favorite activity is the after party because you can seed it throughout the day. It can be at your place, or a friends place. Jody and I would throw these after parties all the time, and it’s something I still do till this day. Get some inexpensive champagne or sparkling wine and go to your nearest beverage or party store and pick up some champagne flutes. You can buy cool disposable ones for next to nothing and even big supermarkets rent the real ones out to you for pennies. Then during your day, every time you are talking to a girl ask her what her plans are later, give her your number and tell her to come to the after party later with her friends. You can do this every weekend and have dozens of hot girls texting and calling you all night because you’re the cool, fun guy who has exciting things going on his life. If you start putting these techniques into practice hot women will chase you relentlessly. You need to have abundance and understand that she wants to chase you. Once you start to internalize the mindset of a guy who is chased, you will feel comfortable leaving it in her hands. Women will sense that you are a man who is used to be pursued and she will become extremely attracted to you. Once a woman is very attracted to you, the next problem you will face from women who are exceptionally beautiful is something that is called a “Shit Test.”
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Shit Tests Women test men. It’s simply a fact of life that as men we must come to terms with. They always have and they always will. They will poke at us and probe us to decide for themselves if we are really who we say we are. She wants to know what your made of. She wants to know if you really are a King, or if you’ll bail on her at the first sign of trouble. Can you protect her, can you love her, can you provide for her, can you fuck her. All these questions she needs answering, but she can’t come out and ask you directly. That would go against social etiquette. So instead she tests you and then judges you based on how you react to her tests. Hot girls will shit test the fuck out of you way more than regular girls. And you will get tested way more than regular guys simply by reading this book. I warn you now, women are going to be testing you a lot more as a direct result of you reading this book and transforming your sex life. Having women test you is a sure fire way of knowing that you are improving and that you are becoming the attractive man you were always meant to be. A woman’s tests are her way of protecting herself. Once you bypass her rejection mechanism using The King’s Game, she will become helpless. She’ll be like a lovesick puppy and will do pretty much anything that you want her to do. It’s because she can fall so madly and uncontrollably in lust or in love with you that she needs to test you to make sure that you’re not faking it. She needs to make sure that you’re the real deal and not just some random guy in disguise who is going to leave her emotionally and physically broken. And even once you pass some of her tests, it’s not over. She will keep testing you if she ever feels like you aren’t who you say you are. That’s why I hate teaching techniques. Techniques don’t make you a better, stronger, more powerful man. They don’t make you a more developed human being. Techniques paper over the cracks and hide them in the beginning, but a woman will always sniff it out and eventually realize that your house is built on stand and not stone. I’m a dog lover. Love dogs to bits. I actually love all animals, but I have a very special place in my heart for dogs. A few years back, my friend took me to a dog breeder to have a look at some pitbulls. I was looking at all the different pits that they had and my
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heart settled on one gorgeous little puppy. A beautiful grey Gotti pitbull with a white patch on her right eye. I told the breeder I wanted her and he agreed she was a good choice and asked me if I had ever owned a female pit before. I hadn’t but had owned a male pit when I was younger so didn’t think it was a problem. The breeder had some curious words for me: “You’re going to have to be extremely tough training her. The bitches are different. You see with the males it’s not so hard. You get them when they’re young, you train them, you teach them who the alpha is and they accept that you’re the pack leader and follow you. The bitches aren’t the same. They take much longer to accept who the pack leader is. Sometimes even years. She will constantly test your dominance looking for any signs of weakness. So if you give her an inch or you show any weakness, she’ll feed of it. You’ve got to be strong to own a bitch pit.”
I feel the same about dimes. I’m not for a moment insinuating that women are anything like dogs, but if you want the top of the food chain women, then you need to be a top of the food chain guy. You need to be a King, and that has nothing to do with how much money you make, the car you drive or what you look like. Being a King is all about how you handle yourself, how you handle others around you and the grey stuff in between your ears. Being a King is largely about belief so your Legend needs to be on point, because a dime will notice any chinks in your armor and she will drop you like a sack of potatoes if she thinks for one minute that you are faking being as much of a badass as you say you are.
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The Catwalk Model That Fucked With My Head As I'm picking up my ticket for the Fashion Rocks show later that night, I see this fantastic figure of a woman, with her back to me. I’ve never really been one for approaching girls during the day. It just screams random guy, but this girl looked so delicious from behind
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that that I couldn’t just walk away from her without saying something. As I’m making up my mind about whether to walk over and talk to her or not, she looks around, and I see she has short hair and very sharp features. A really striking woman. She must be a model; or at least an aspiring model here for Fashion Week and if I don’t make up my mind soon she’s going to walk away and out of my life forever. I decide to give it a shot anyway. It’s early and I like to talk to as many people throughout my day as possible, so worst case scenario I’ll be warming up my social muscle for the rest of the day. I make eye contact and she smiles at me which is a good start. I’d been working on my look and going to the gym a lot recently so I had been getting a few more looks from women than normal. I walk over to her confident as ever, thinking this is going to be a piece of cake. “Hi” “Hello." I decide to go with an observation and a semi-compliment. “I just had to come over here and talk to you or I’d be kicking myself all day. There’s something about you. You have an interesting look. The flame red hair is curious. Risky, but you've pulled it off....Just about." I flash her a smile. "Thank you.” She responds. "I'm Greg. I'm just about to go......."
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She cuts me off. “Sorry. I’m not meaning to be rude, but I don't want to know your name. Don't get me wrong, you're probably a nice guy and all, but if you give me your name, then you think you can have mine and before I know it, you're telling me all about your yacht in the south of France, and the flash car. I've heard it all before, so you may as well go talk to one of these other cute girls around here. I’m sure you’ll find plenty.” "Nice speech, but I hate France!" She smiles… "This is the part where you tuck tail between your legs and leave. I've got to go. But it was nice to meet you.” And with that she walks off. Ouch. That really wasn't how I planned it. I guess she was just smiling to be nice. I thought it was worth a shot, but there’s no escaping it. 9 times out of 10 you approach a girl like her cold, and in some cases approaching at all, she’s going to hear Random Guy Frequency. Every now and again you may bypass it, but that’s never usually the case. I figured I’d not make the same mistake next time and I go about my day. That evening I’m at the fashion show, sitting in the 3rd row. The 3rd row is good but my powers must have been slipping. The year before I was in the front row sitting next to Mischa Barton when she was actually famous. It's not too bad though, I can still see everything really well and only the designers, buyers and fashion editors have
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better seats. Besides, this years shows have been really bad. It's weird because it's the 25th year anniversary of London Fashion Week, so you'd have thought the top dogs organizing the whole event would have made sure it was of a higher standard. As the girls are walking down the runway, strutting their stuff. I see one girl who is head and shoulders above the rest. This girl is so fucking hot. I mean DAMN!!!! She is smoking. Those legs, those fucking legs, amazing. As she walks past where I’m sitting I get a closer look at her face and she looks oddly familiar. It was only a brief moment so I didn’t get a perfect look, but there was something about her face that I couldn’t quite put my finger on. After watching a pretty average show, the 3rd one this week, I’m still thinking how bad this years fashion week is. I wait a while after the show till people are leaving and then I decide to go and speak to my girl Laura who got me the tickets. She’s a stylist and everyone who meets her loves her and she promised I could come backstage and say hi once the show was over. Obviously my motivation for going backstage was with the hopes that she would introduce me to some of the girls. I get backstage and immediately spot Laura who runs up to me and gives me an enthusiastic hug. ”OMG!!! Greg. I’m so happy that you came.” She’s fluttering all over me and treating me like I’m the best thing since sliced bread. Everyone backstage can see all of this which is awesome for me as I am immediately sending out all the right King’s Signals. If I want to talk to any of the girls here there’s no chance if
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I’m coming in as a random guy. Especially in a room full of models. Introductions are the only way to go in this scenario and I had my mind set on the beauty with the long legs I had seen walking the catwalk earlier. I describe the girl to Laura and asks if she could introduce me to her. Laura instantly knows who I’m referring to and tells me she’ll be right back. Laura returns and taps me on the shoulder. I face her and she’s standing with a tall, stunning red head. The same red head that had rejected me earlier that morning. “Greg, meet Ines. Ines, this is my good friend Greg. He’s awesome, but also a little wild. Don’t let him take you to any parties or he’ll get you in a lot of trouble…the good kind of trouble.” Laura winks at Ines and then walks off to let us chat. “We have to stop meeting like this.” I tell her with a cheeky smile and a hint of mischief. "Yes, we do. I didn’t hear what Laura said properly. What was your name again?” "Oh now you want my name? Well sorry, you’ve had 2 chances to get my name and you’ve missed them both. Besides, names are so overrated. I thought for a second you looked at me when you were walking down the runway.” She laughs. "I didn't think you saw that. I just thought i'd seen you before, so you caught my attention”
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We have a little bit more small talk before I tell her to finish getting changed so we can get out of there and go and grab a drink. She agrees and says I should wait a few minutes. Its night and day the difference an introduction makes. Earlier this morning, this girl shot me down without a second thought about who I could be or whether I was a great guy or not. 12 hours later she’s agreeing to go out for a drink with me simply because a mutual friend introduces us. I wish I had known this when I was younger. I wouldn’t have wasted so much time learning to approach girls if all I needed was for someone to introduce me to her. Ines comes back changed in a dark blue dress and heels. I didn't realize how tall she was because now she’s wearing heels I’m actually looking up at her. For the first time I get the sense that she must scare the shit out of guys when she’s dressed up. 6ft 2, beautiful pale face, with high cheekbones and stone cold blue eyes. I don’t usually like the skinny model types, but she had a bit of meat on her and the face was flawless. I make my mind up there and then that I am going to try and sleep with Ines tonight and I would be pulling out all the stops to do so. We get a cab to a bar very close by and we start getting to know each other. Very early on I see that this girl isn’t like other girls I’ve met before. She’s one smart cookie and she’s playing me like a violin. Every time I think I’m getting somewhere, I get shot down. It's starting to confuse the hell out of me. Normally, I'd have had this wrapped up in the bag but its like one step forward two steps back. I escalate physically a little bit only for her to get funny on me and tell me to stop. But then moments later she’s giving me these seductive
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“come fuck me” eyes, and keeps letting herself touch me for a little bit longer than should be allowed. I’m starting to think that she’s just teasing me and I begin getting frustrated. The shit tests this girl is throwing out are simply off the charts. It’s a complete mind fuck. Back and forth, back and forth we go. She keeps baiting me with sexual talk, trying to get a reaction. She talks about all these rich guys who are flying her here there and everywhere; and the celebrities that keep asking her out. It’s relentless. After a while even though I’m getting nowhere really, I think what the hell and suggest we just go back to my place. “Your place? Oh no darling. I’m not going back to yours tonight. There’s an after party the designer is throwing. It’s not far from here. Lets go there instead.” By this point, Ines had pretty much wrapped me around her finger. She was good, and she knew it. Every time I thought I was getting somewhere and she pushed me away, I wanted her even more. I was chasing and I didn’t even realize it. This girl was making me break all of my rules. Not having a better idea and being totally flipped out by this girl, I agree to go to the after party with her. We get in another cab and after a few minutes we get off near the after party location. It’s a one way street and we’re on the other side. Rather than make the cab driver go all of the way round I tell him to let us get out here so we can walk. It’s not that far and watching Ines walk in that dress with that ass is extremely worth it. After exiting the cab, I let her go ahead so I can view her perfectly formed tight ass in that blue dress, the whole time imaging how great
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she would look with the dress off. Suddenly she stops walking so I bump straight into the back of her. She pushes her ass into my crotch and I get turned on immediately. She moves her hands behind her and down my trousers before turning around and smiling. I go to kiss her, and she moves her head away, and takes her hand out of my trousers. “Greg behave yourself. I’m not going to kiss you. I’m not into you like that.” This girl is driving me crazy. I really need to get a grip because I’m absolutely losing it here. We walk past a parked Ferrari and as if it was the most normal thing in the world Ines says: “My ex has that car. He used to fuck me on the bonnet. Remind me again? Why is it that you don’t drive?” I had told her earlier that I had sold my car because I didn’t need one in London. The truth is that my business had tanked and I had sold my car so I could make rent and afford to buy myself a lunch instead of eating home made tuna sandwiches every day. This got to me and she knew it. I grew up without money and have a chip on my shoulder about it and she was smart enough to see. Deep down it’s one of the reasons I developed The King’s Game. So a regular guy like you or I could date the girls who are supposed to be out of our league. Every time I had sex with a model it was like saying a big fat fuck you to all the rich guys. Silly I know, but we all have our issues. We get into the after party and she hands me her coat saying "put that away for me please”. I must have come to my senses because I replied:
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"Sure, I’ll do that while you get me a drink. I’ll have a double Patron Silver and Ginger Ale. One lime not squeezed. Don't get it wrong, it's my favorite drink." Then I walked off before she could object. When I returned she was talking to what I can only guess was a designer. He looked very fashionista, with his tight checkered trousers and red waistcoat and oversized designer eye glasses. He asked who I was to which Ines replied: ”He's my sexy assistant." She turns to me and says: "Baby, go get us some drinks please." Then turns her back to me and continues talking to the designer, completely blocking me out of the conversation. Cheeky bitch. She’s bordering on rude here, but there was something about the way that she did all of this that made me think it was just some game. She was testing me, and it slowly started to dawn on me that she had been testing me the entire time. So rather than sulk or put, I went to the bar to look for the best looking model I could find. I see one who fits the bill. She’s actually better looking than Ines, taller too. I go over and tell her she looks amazing. I continue saying how great she is and asking this random model if she would like to be in a runway show with one of the top designers in town. Of course the girl is extremely excited by the idea so I grab a drink and pass it to her.
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“Come with me. There’s a designer that you have to meet. You’d look amazing in his next show.” I take the better looking model over to where Ines and the designer are and introduce the designer to the new girl. I tell him that I think she would look great with his clothes on her and he should think about putting her in his next show. The designer immediately switches his attention to the new girl and shuts out Ines. Ines scowls at me “Greg you’re an arsehole. You did that on purpose!” “Damn right I did. You deserved it." I winked at her to let her know that I was being playful and she softens a little and smiles back. Maybe just maybe I might be cracking this cookie of epic toughness. It’s getting late, so I tell her we should leave. I call a cab and tell them to take us home. Her place first and then mine afterwards. I have one more trick up my sleeve because I still badly want to get this girl. The cab arrives at her place. "Well, this is me. Thanks for the lift. I had fun tonight” We’re standing on the street by the steps outside her place. It’s time to kiss her. I mean It HAS to be on. She's been flirting with me all night. The banter has been there, we’ve been playful. She put her hands down my trousers not that long ago. It has to be on, despite all the teasing and the shit tests there’s no way this girl isn’t attracted to me by this point, she’s given me all the signs. I lean over to give her a kiss...
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“Greg. Whoa. What do you think you're doing?" I’m lost for words at this point. I’m tired and defeated. She continues: "Listen, I think you're cool, but I don’t like you that way. I've told you that already tonight. I think you should just go home." “Ok sure. Do you mind if I use your bathroom quickly? It's a long cab ride back to mine.” “Ha. C’mon…that’s the oldest one in the book. You think I was born yesterday? Goodnight, Greg." She turns around walks up the steps to her door, opens it and walks in without even so much as a glance back. I’m standing there like a lemon. I feel like such a complete fool. I’ve endured this girl’s tests all night and now this? She rejected me this morning and just when I thought I had turned the corner she teases and rejects me all night. This has been a total disaster. How can she have been so flirtatious, so touchy and yet still not be interested? She must be the biggest tease in the world. But, there’s something about the whole thing that makes me not want to give up. I decide to walk up her stairs. As I go to knock on the door, I realize that its open. She must have forgotten to shut it behind her. I push the door open and walk into the dark corridor. I take a couple of steps before I see Ines. She’s standing in the corridor smiling at me and minus the dress. Standing there in just her in sexy underwear and heels. I barely have time to smile back before she jumps me, her tongue down my throat. We’re all over each other like two wild beasts who have just been let loose. All the tension built up over the night was starting to spill over. As
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we’re rolling around on the floor, Ines sits up, takes a long hard look a me; stares at me with those stone cold blue eyes. “You know what..I was starting to think you didn’t have it in you. If you didn’t come through that door tonight I would have thought you were the biggest pussy and you wouldn’t have ever seen me again.”
Ines may be an extreme example, and I hope you never have to endure that many tests in one night, but every little stunt she pulled was to check my manhood. All of her behavior was to test me to see what I was made of, to see if I am truly the King I had presented myself to be. Beautiful women will do this to you, so you must be prepared for it. You may not have all of the tests happen at the same time as was the case here, but expect all of them to come up at some point. There are 2 types of tests that you will get from a girl. Positive and negative shit tests. A positive shit tests means that she likes you, believes you are the guy that you say you are but that she may feel slightly insecure in your presence. Negative tests mean that she either doesn’t like you or she feels very strongly that you are faking it. The positive shit test is a legitimate query about who you are. The negative shit test is much more challenging to see how you react. Here are some examples of positive shit tests: • Ar Are e yo you u a pla playe yer? r? • Do you you say say that that to all all the the girl girls? s? • Ar Are e you you alwa always ys thi thiss forw forwar ard? d? • Are you gay? • Is thi thiss you yourr pic pickk up liline? ne? • Wh Wher ere e are are yo your ur fr frien iends ds?? These are questions that convey genuine interest. If a woman was not interested in you, she wouldn't care what any of the answers to these questions were. Your answers
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help give her information so that she can piece together whether she likes you more than the initial attraction. If you have sorted out all the areas I talked about in The Seduction Parachute chapter then these will be easy for you to pass. You can answer them honestly adding a little bit of your own personality to what you say. Are you a player? - Yes, when I'm single, I see multiple women at the same time till I find one that I want to be with. Do you say that to all the girls? - Not all, only to the ones that I like. Are you always this forward? - Yes, it means you're doing well. Are you gay? - No, but keep up the questions and I might just convert. Is this your pick up line? - Yeah, that was a bit cheesy. Fair enough, lets start over. Where are your friends? - I'm enjoying my own company tonight. After any of these types of positive shit tests simply answer normally and then continue talking. The key here is to be normal and not make a big deal out of it. If you start trying to be too clever or giving a comeback that was too witty or too thought out, you’ll get more tests. She’ll start wondering why you are being weird or elusive. She might even think that you’re trying to avoid the question and that something may be wrong with you. You are unlikely to lose her by having witty or playful comebacks but they’re generally unnecessary and you're just making things more difficult for yourself. If you're not comfortable answering questions truthfully and honestly, then you're probably not comfortable with yourself yet. That's fine, go back to chapter 2 and work on The
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Seduction Parachute. Your true self will always come out eventually, especially with the higher quality women, so better you go get that handled beforehand. Here are some examples of negative shit tests: • Yo You' u're re no nott my my typ type. e. • We' We're re not hav having ing sex ton tonigh ight. t. • The There re are are no good good loo looking king men in here. here. • My last last boyfriend boyfriend was was amazing amazing in bed, bed, and and has a mass massive ive cock. cock. • You You're 're too you young/ ng/old old for me. • All these these guy's guy's keep hitting hitting on me and buying buying me me gifts. gifts. A negative shit test is usually in the form of a statement that a woman will make, that is aimed at getting some sort of reaction out of you. There is usually no discernible question and they often have no connection to the conversation you are having. Most girls will give you positive shit tests. Only dimes will give you a negative shit test. It’s her way of qualifying you to see if you measure up. If she's qualifying you in this way she is definitely interested in you on some level but she thinks that you may be too good to be true. When she’s giving you a negative shit test, this is what it means in her head. You're not my type. - Can you change my opinion. We're not having sex tonight. - Can you get me horny enough to fuck you. There are no good looking men in here. - Are you concerned about your looks? My last boyfriend was amazing in bed, and had a massive cock. - Are you insecure? You're too young/old for me. - Does the age thing bother you?
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All these guy's keep hitting on me and buying me gifts, - Are you going to be my man or my lap-dog? There’s no trick or comeback to dealing with these types of negative shit tests. Pretty much anything you are going to say in response is going to be bad for you. If you argue with her, she knows she’s hit a nerve and then she’ll be less attracted to you. If you try and explain or debate with her, then you’re making her concerns legitimate which also counts as a failed test. You only have 2 options in dealing with negative shit tests. Ignore them and keep talking about what you were talking about, or change the subject completely. If she brings it up over and over again then it’s a real concern for her and you can discuss it. Other than that, every time she throws a shit test at you, it will be a one off and won’t represent her true position or feelings. She’s just testing you to see how you deal with it. Failing a couple of shit tests here and there isn’t the end of the world, but know that there gets a point when you fail too many and the girl will lose all interest in you and go off to find another guy. Don’t take it personally, don’t react negatively and keep things light and care-free. As long as you don’t put too much stock in the interaction and you don’t take yourself too seriously, you’ll be fine. Dimes are slightly different to most girls but if you can handle a dime you can handle any girl. The more you use The King’s Game the higher the quality of woman you associate yourself with will be. You have to be aware of some of the challenges that will come with dating high quality women, the ones who have great personalities as well as being beautiful. The main things to remember is to avoid chasing and be unaffected by her tests. Once you’ve signaled to her that you’re a King, she will want to make sure because when she knows that truly you are an awesome guy, she will fall for you and she will fall for you hard. That will make her vulnerable and good looking women hate being vulnerable. This is their protection system so when you bypass it make sure you take care of her emotions and you always leave her in a better place than when she met you.
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ONGRATULATIONS. You have now absorbed everything you need to know in order to transform yourself into a King. With the knowledge that you have
acquired from reading this book you will begin to see huge improvements in not only your sex life, but your social life as well. The King’s Game is more than giving you skills to live a life of an abundance with women. It’s also about giving you the life that you have always dreamed of. I want to thank you for getting here because like you I know how hard it is to take the first step in exchanging your current life for something far more fulfilling. As much as I’m hoping you’ve enjoyed this book, the reality is that it’s been as enjoyable for me to write as it has been for you to read. Writing this book for you has been an honor for me. When I first began on my journey, I could have never once imagined that so many years later I would be here righting these words for you. Helping you and showing you everything I know about what it takes to live the life of your dreams has actually helped me as well. You’ve kept me sharp and you’ve held me to a standard of excellence that I would never have been able to reach on my own.
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I need you to be excellent. We all you need you to be excellent. Not just with women, but in every aspect of your life. It’s a large part of the reason that I now share the knowledge that I have acquired over the years. If we can all help each other become excellent, if by you improving yourself using the words in this book, you are spurned on to inspire others, then the world will become a truly phenomenal place. I want your happiness and I want your success and within the pages of this book you know that you are making the steps to living a truly kick ass life. Now let’s talk about being a King as we recap everything we have learned in this book. As a King the first area that you have to tackle is your Seduction Parachute. You can have all the techniques in the world, but if you don’t build your house on a solid foundation it is always bound to sink. You will need to master your beliefs and create the perfect legend for yourself. Once you have your legend it will control your emotions and subsequently your body language making you come across as confident and relaxed constantly sending out the right signals to women. The mindsets of King are what shapes his interactions with women. Have strong personal mindsets that hold you to your core beliefs and ideals. Remember that this is your story, this is your life and you make the rules. When dating the mindsets that a King carries with him will be the difference between settling for the women that you don’t really want and really having an abundance of the high quality women you have always dreamed about dating. But you will not date any women, let alone the women that you want if you cannot make her feel comfortable and at ease in her presence. You could be the most attractive man alive but if you neglect your social skills and you can’t make her feel safe in your presence, forget it. You’ll never even get of the starting line Once you have your Seduction Parachute you want to move away from a life of rejection. Rejection sucks and is completely unnecessary. Women don’t want to reject you. They do so because of all the other guys that have come before you. It’s based on her filters and her rejection mechanism. Using The King’s Frequency and by
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creating Warm Approaches you can bypass all of her rejection mechanisms and land yourself in a significant relationship with your chosen girl. The real magic starts to happen once you put into practice The Royal Tribute Method. This is the magic pill, the ultimate seduction tool and the only strategy you will ever need to use in your life. Your time is precious and the only true way to have a consistently high quality sex life is to have women approach you first. This is achieved by drawing guys and girls into your lives as friends who will then introduce women to you. Girls want to have you as a male friend so be more than happy to put them in the friend zone. Once there you have to train her to introduce you to all the girls that you like whether they’re her friends or random girls she meets. Do this with guys as well being extremely specific about the type of women that you want. In chapter 5 I showed you what ties all of these principles together. It’s not what you know it’s whom you know. Women are hard wired to date inside their social circles and the hottest women rarely ever stray away from their social circles. Why should she date the random guy at the bar when she can date the guy in her social group that’s already pre-selected vetted and that she knows will slot right into her life? Access is everything and if you can use the 3 step process, identifying the women you like, finding the low hanging fruit and then getting to Introductory Rapport, you can infiltrate any social circle in the world. After putting all of this together, you are going to be dealing with high quality women and they’re going to test you. It’s a woman’s way of making sure that you really are the king that you say you are. She can fall head over heels in love and in lust with you very easily so to keep herself safe she will test you. Don’t take it personal and remain unfazed by her antics and as long as you are true and genuine you will pass all of her tests with flying colors. Right now, you can go out into the world, start putting The King’s Game into practice and get the girls that you really want. The most beautiful and high quality women without ever approaching and with zero chance of rejection. However your journey doesn’t have to stop there and you can take things to the next level with some of the additional products you can find in The King’s Game members area.
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Conquer The Clubs Throughout this book I have told you stories about my adventures in nightclubs and high end venues. How did I get into these clubs have VIP treatment and be surrounded by women? All while never waiting in line, or ever paying for a single drink. The King’s Game grants you massive social power, which makes you irresistible to women. The next step is to apply that power in the right places… giving you unrivaled access to the women you really want. This system shows you exactly how to do that. Conquer The Clubs is the step-by-step shortcut to enjoying Instant VIP Treatment at the most exclusive, “impossible to get into” nightclubs in your town. In the program you’ll find insider secrets so powerful that I have been forbidden to share them publicly. Guys previously paid $2000 for this “bypass the bouncers” blueprint. But once club promoters got word I was showing people how to live a high-roller lifestyle without dropping stacks of cash, practically taking money out of their pockets, they gave me an ultimatum… “Stop Revealing Our Secrets To The Public…Or Be BANNED For Life!”
Because of this ultimatum you can only find this course in the members area and if you ever plan on visiting a nightclub ever again I strongly suggest that you upgrade to that program right away. The money you save on alcohol the first night you go out would cover the investment many times over.
The Social Supremacy Blueprint How did you get into fashion shows, how do you get access to millionaires and billionaires, how do you make friends with anyone anywhere and live a jet set lifestyle? It doesn’t matter if you’re broke… friendless… and starting from absolute zero…With my Social Supremacy Blueprint, you can easily create the exact life you’ve always wanted. How do I know this?
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Well, a few years ago… I moved from London to Los Angeles with virtually nothing yet within just 90 days of landing; I had shared a bottle of whiskey with the governor of California; I had been flown to Tahiti, all expenses paid, on a private plane full of Brazilian models; and I regularly “did lunch” with Hef and the girls at the Playboy Mansion… None of this was luck. None of this happened by accident. I simply envisioned the life I wanted… then followed a very specific, foolproof plan to create that life. In The Social Supremacy Blueprint, I’ll teach you the exact step by step blueprint I used to create my ultimate dream social life, so you can go out and create the life of your dreams as well.
The Art Of Social Circle Seduction This is the next stage of your evolution. You’ve got the skills and the strategy to meet all the women that you want. The next stage is to effortlessly seduce them easily and consistently. This is the Art Of Social Circle Seduction. The monthly training program you receive when you upgrade to The King’s Council. Inside The Art Of Social Circle Seduction, I’m going to show you my 5 step I-FAMM method for seducing women when you’re shy or introverted or don’t have the time to go out and create a new social circle. You’ll also learn how to always stand out in the crowd as well as Entourage Game and Dream Team Game. Entourage Game is the most efficient way of creating a harem of women. If you want 3,4, 5 or more women on your arm at all times, then you’ll learn exactly how to create your own entourage of devoted sexy women. The Dream Team game is all about hanging out with your guy friends and creating the ultimate playground of girls. You can upgrade to Conquer The Clubs, The Social Supremacy Blueprint and The Art Of Social Circle Seduction at any time from the members area. Additionally when you join The King’s Council you’ll get monthly direct coaching from myself where we will tackle any challenges you face and I’ll walk you through to the life that you want.
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