The Romantic Red Knight Attractive Personality Type by Aslen Claymore © Copyright 2016 Lifeloaded Ltd - All rights reserved. www.lifeloaded.com/redknight www .lifeloaded.com/redknight
So, You’re The Romantic? Congratulations on successfully completing the Red Knight Attractive Personality ype test, and discovering the unique way in which you naturally interact with women. Each type predisposes men to behave a certain way around women, adopting a very particular attraction strategy that takes advantage of his natural talents and abilities. Knowing your type is the first step on a powerful transformational journey that leads to the unlocking of your sexually attractive potential. My name is Aslen Claymore. I’m the author of Red Knight, which will be available on Amazon soon (Kindle, paperback, and hardback), and the creator of the Red Knight Attraction Model; the system from which the attractive personality types are all built. Te Red Knight Attraction Model is the fundamental blueprint that explains all sexual attraction between the masculine and the feminine. More importantly, it explains the inner mechanics of attraction; what causes it, and what you can do to change it to your advantage. It is the
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result of a seven-year quest to discover the secrets of sexual attraction, one that I was motivated to begin from the pain and frustration of a lonely life without women. One day, after one final crushing rejection from a girl I was mad about - the straw that broke the camel’s back - I decided that nothing in my life was more important than learning what women were attracted to. As crazy as it sounds, I abandoned my promising career in advertising to take a low-paid job as an intern in a small dating coaching company in London. From there, I sought out and learned from the world’s most famous and notorious “pick up artists” and dating coaches. I approached literally thousands of women, experimenting with every piece of advice I could get my hands on, and getting rejected more times than I care to remember. Now, I feel privileged to have met and dated some truly incredible women; the kinds of women I had always thought would be out of my league growing up. What’s more; none of it was ‘luck’. Tey didn’t just land in my lap as if by magic. It wasn’t fate. Tere was no chance meetings or synchronistic occurrences. Every single girl I have dated since beginning my
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experiment has been a girl I spotted on the street, in a cafe, waiting for a bus, etc., who I then approached and forged an interaction out of nothing. Tere was no waiting. No wishing. No hoping. Just taking action and creating opportunities myself, and following the courtship framework laid out in the Red Knight attraction model. Once you understand the underlying theory of attraction, meeting and attracting women will no longer be something you worry about. In 2010, I formed my own dating coaching company that helped me coach thousands of men across the world through my online courses. I have personally coached hundreds of men, on the streets of the world’s major cities, and watched them go from nervous wrecks to confident casanovas. I have witnessed the kinds of transformations I am talking about - first hand. Tis is not bullshit; this system has been proven to work time and time again. It can help you become attractive to women. Some of the knowledge I want to give you is going to be challenging because it will contradict your current view of yourself and the world. 5
Let’s take a big one: looks. One of the most common mistakes guys make when thinking about sexual attraction is concluding that women are primarily concerned with how a man looks. Tis is due to the natural assumption we have that women think the same way we do: we judge a woman’s attractiveness based on how she looks. Te refreshing truth, luckily for us, is that women are a lot more complicated. Tey are attracted to looks, to some degree, but only as far as your appearance suggests certain behaviours and character traits. Tis leads us to the biggest secret about sexual attraction: it is those behaviours that are the real trigger. And here’s the next big secret: it’s all learnable. Understand these behaviours and master the mindsets that govern them, and you will have the power of sexual attraction at your fingertips. In the Red Knight Attraction model, these behaviours and their respective mindsets are organised into six distinct types called Attraction Archetypes. You may have heard of them, and some will stir feelings of recognision. Tey are the Magician, the Peacemaker, the Warrior, the Wildman, the rickster and the Lover.
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Te roots of these attraction archetype behaviours run deep into masculine psychology, backed by the life work of the late Carl Jung, (who coined the term ‘archetype’), but I won’t bore you with all that stuff now. Just know that the six attraction archetypes you’re going to learn about underpin all sexual attraction; and they exist within you right now, waiting to be unlocked. Te degree to which each attraction archetype manifests in your life depends on your attractive personality type. You will feel a natural affinity towards some archetypes, and less connection to others. You can think of these different sides of yourself as the various aspects of your masculine personality. Tere are two very distinct, but complementary groups that the Attraction Archetypes fall into; the Open Archetypes: the Lover, Peacemaker and Wildman, and the Closed Archetypes; the Magician, Warrior and rickster. Your Attractive Personality ype is the combination of the two strongest Attraction Archetypes that you naturally draw from when interacting with women. Tese personality types are divided into three categories depending on which archetypes are paired; Open types, Closed types, Power types and Master types. 7
The Red Knight Attractive Model
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The Romantic’s Primary Attraction Archetypes The Peacemaker
Te Peacemaker is the close ally of women, walking among them with ease. Women love him because he listens to them, empathises with them, and understands them. Te Peacemaker naturally knows what to do and say to make people like him, so is the archetype that is also surrounded by the most women. He lacks playfulness but compensates with friendliness and reliability.
The Lover
Te Lover is the archetype of pleasure, wonder, and joy. He looks at the world with a childlike freshness, forever curious about experiencing the vast mystery of life, always thirsty for more. More love. More joy. More pleasure. He sucks the marrow from the bone, licks the lid of life, always appreciating 9
what the world of the senses has to offer. Te Lover, then, provides us with the why of life - our reason for doing what we do, our purpose and mission. Te Lover lacks structure and direction but makes up for it with his great joy.
The Romantic’s Weaker Attraction Archetypes The Magician
Te Magician is the archetype of knowledge, the master of technology, and the initiator of learning and transformation. Because Magicians exist primarily in the mind, they don’t have the distractions of regular life, so they are undisturbed in their quest for secret knowledge. Te Magician uses what he has learned to do great things, which women around him notice and admire. Te Magician misses out on life being stuck up in his Ivory ower, but his magic is seen by the world which beats a path through the woods to his door.
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The Warrior
Te Warrior is the archetype of discipline, focus, and resolve. Once the Warrior decides to do something, it is as good as done; he will strive to complete the task no matter what obstacles stand in his way. Tis powerful energy means the Warrior achieves great things in life, reaching goals that others are too afraid or lazy to even attempt. Tis strong, incorruptible spirit is incredibly attractive to women, especially in a world full of soft men who fall to their knees at the sign of the slightest hardship. Te Warrior makes no time for pleasure or enjoyment, but his strength and incorruptibility mesmerise women into overlooking this flaw.
The Wildman
Te Wildman is the archetype of primal sexuality and unapologetic spontaneity. Tis ancient archetype is the oldest and closest connection we have to the animal world. He
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does not think; he just acts. Trough the Wildman, we can experience the joy of pure, authentic expression, and there is nothing sexier to a woman than a fearless, unselfconscious man. Te Wildman lacks any ability to think or plan, but when you’re as spontaneous and free as a rock star, women get drawn into the excitement of the moment, too.
The Trickster
Te rickster is the archetype of mischief, role-play, teasing and playful provocation. A girl never knows quite what the rickster has up his sleeve, so he is the most exciting type of man to be around. Te rickster exists in a reality of his own, slightly distant and disconnected, in a playful space where things are never serious. What he lacks in his ability to connect with people, he makes up for with his natural skill to make people laugh, whisking women away from the mundane to the fantastical.
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Attractive Personality Types
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The Romantic Lover & Peacemaker
You are the highest expression of the classic nice guy - ‘highest’ because you does have access to two very powerful Open attraction archetypes in the Lover and Peacemaker. You are the ‘Ross from Friends’ character that women often believe they’re attracted to, yet never seem to find a man like you that stirs their passion. You’re the type of man that women wished they were attracted to; a man in touch with his emotions, a man filled with passion and excitement for life. A man who is liked by her female friends, by her mother, and by society. You adore her, sometimes to the point of worship, you listen to her intently and are always open to changing yourself to suit the needs and wishes of the woman. You are the man that
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so many mainstream romantic comedies champion where the nice guy eventually gets the girl. Te Romantic is the combination of the Lover and Peacemaker. Access to both of these archetypes means you often pride yourself on having great moral fibre and feel validated whenever someone else recognises this quality in you. Tis is a great quality for any human being to have and, courtesy of the Peacemaker, you are rewarded with lots of friends who like you, and constantly reinforce your belief that you are one of ‘the good guys’. Tis constant validation from others, however, also creates a rigid ego that traps you within a very limited identity. Your ego divides the world into good - people like you - and bad - people not like you. At their most extreme, Romantic men are often the feminists, the vegans, and eco-warriors of the world - the good guys fighting against a world of evil. Now, I’m not denouncing any of these pursuits (I don’t want vegans sending me angry emails!), I’m just saying that the way Romantic’s egos are structured, they find themselves aligning themselves with these kinds of tribes.
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Because you lack access to the raw, primal, unashamed sexuality of the Wildman, for example, you have no option but to seek connection with women using your natural skills of rapport. What is so frustrating for you is that, despite your belief in your goodness, your empathy and their ability to connect emotionally, the world doesn’t seem to reward you for these virtues as much as it should. In particular, women - the one’s you truly desire - seem to always choose the ‘bad guys’ over you. Romantics like you conclude, then, that the world is a mad, unjust and unfair place. Your self-righteousness intensifies more and more with every rejection. You are the poor lonely hero. Te tragic victim. Te fallen angel. In the best case scenario the Romantic gets sick and tired of never being rewarded by women for their morality and decides to abandon his obsession with trying to please them. He, instead, begins a pursuit that is solely for his own pleasure and satisfaction: a business, a job, a passion, travelling, learning, university - and tries his best to ignore women. After years spent developing these new, more selfish archetypes (the closed ones), he starts to return to the world of women, only, this time, he gets attention where there was none before.
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Te Romantic then takes advantage of this new interest and finally starts dating women, eventually leading to a relationship he is happy with. Te worst case scenario for the Romantic, though, is becoming jaded with the kinds of women he truly desires, eventually settling for any women who will have him. Te Romantic rarely experiences the happily-ever-after ending he always longed for: his lack of internal boundaries leading the relationship to erode slowly over time. Without the leadership that comes about from other archetypes like the Magician and the Warrior, the woman eventually takes complete control of the relationship, leaving both the Romantic and herself unhappy and frustrated. If this has struck a chord with you, don’t panic - this, in fact, used to be me as a teenager and into my early twenties. I know it sounds like I’ve just butchered your hopes of ever attracting the woman of your dreams, but remember your attractive personality type isn’t set in stone. If the result of the quiz was the Romantic, this just shows you where you are right now in your life. Tere is hope, trust me.
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In fact, the Romantic is a beautiful foundation to build upon. You have the potential to, quite literally, become a girl’s dream guy. You are rooted in goodness, you are kind, emotionally expressive, thoughtful, grateful, giving and loving. You would be every girl’s fantasy - if only you learned the missing ingredients that would create the masculine balance that she craves.
Developing your Weaker Attraction Archetypes One secret to success for you, then, is to do something incredibly challenging: develop access to his shadow personality type. Te Romantic’s opposite attractive personality type is Te Provocateur, which you - the Romantic - often perceive as the ‘bad guy’. You may have spent your entire life using the Provocateur as a reference point for what sets you apart as a ‘good person’. But you need to cast this notion of ‘good and bad’ aside, and instead, be open to experimenting with the mindsets and behaviours which are the dominions of the Warrior and rickster; two incredibly important attraction archetypes which all Romantics are missing.
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In pursuing this course, you will gain the ultimate power of choice. Instead of always being nice to anyone and everyone, irrespective of who they are and how they are treating you, you will, perhaps for the first time in your life, have agency over how you respond to people. You will still retain all of your nice guy qualities, but you will not be in bondage to them. Tis new Closed aspect of your masculinity will give you the balance you have always lacked. When women interact with the new you, your kindness and thoughtfulness will now have tremendous weight. Your goodness will be anchored to a fierce, strong, Closed core that cannot be messed with. A compliment from an incredibly strict, badass teacher or boss means so much more than a compliment given by a meek teacher or boss who is nice to anyone and everyone. In exactly the same way, the virtues of the Romantic are now appreciated by the world. Te virtues haven’t changed, but they are given power and meaning by the contrasting masculine aspects that you now also have access to.
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How To Master Your Attractive Personality Type, And Beyond. You now know which attraction archetypes you have a natural connection to, but more importantly, you have an idea of the ones you need to develop. Te power of the attractive personality type system isn’t in simply inflating your ego by telling you what is naturally attractive about you (although that’s always nice), but in showing you your weaknesses. It is your weaknesses, caused by the underdevelopment of certain attraction archetypes, which are the reason for any frustration and dissatisfaction you currently have with your relatings with women. Tis report is just a micro crash course in Red Knight Attraction psychology. Don’t worry if you’re a bit confused or something doesn’t make sense just yet, there’s nothing wrong with you, this is a deep subject and is hard to teach in such a condensed format. Establishing your attractive personality type is the first step towards developing your weaker aspects so you can become a much more powerful, sexually attractive presence. Tis is the beginning of an exciting journey.
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Te primary goal of this report is to ignite a seed of inspiration within you, to serve as a catalyst for action. If you’re feeling inspired, intrigued, hungry to learn more, then I have succeeded.
Red Knight The Thinking Man’s Blueprint to Masculinity, Sexual Confidence and Being Irresistable to Women Te attraction archetype model is the cornerstone of the book I have dedicated years of my life to. Te book is called Red Knight, and explains the fundamental “source code” of sexual attraction, with a great deal of the book dedicated to exploring each of the six attraction archetypes, with step by step action plans for how to develop them. I will be letting you know when the Red Knight book is available on Amazon through the Red Knight newsletter which you would have been automatically signed up to when you requested this report. Don’t worry though, I only send out awesome stuff that’s going to help you move forward on your masculine journey, boost your effectiveness and become
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Tis report is just the tip of the iceberg - there is so much more I would like to share with you. Let me lead you on a fascinating quest to discover your true inner power, and experience the freedom and joy that comes with being naturally, unequivocally, and magnetically attractive to women. Your friend and coach,
Aslen Claymore Red Knight
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