The Three Master Keys to Attracting Women Now!! (eBook) The Framework of Success With Women http://www.andyhodge.com Andy
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Never Sleep Alone Again The Framework of Success With Women Hi All, My name is Andy Hodge and we are going to be talking about how you are going to find even more women to date. Now I don’t mean any women, but specifically those women that you fancy, those that you used to find unattainable, in fact the women of your deepest desires. Not only this but we are going to look at ways that will get them to beg for the pleasure of your company. Before we go on though there are some health warnings that you might want to consider. This system: • • • • • •
Is not about getting women to do anything they don’t want Is not about lying, cheating or manipulating Is about treating women with respect Is about presenting you in your best light and giving women the
opportunity to see you as an option for them having a brilliant time Is quick, fun and easy, but does require practice Will challenge you and get you to examine how you treat and are treated by others, women specifically
If you don’t want to have a great time changing your beliefs and getting people generally and women specifically to treat you differently then please don’t bother reading any further. If you are still here, let me tell you a little about what this system will allow you to do: 1. Develop a winning mind set that guarantees guarantees to get get results 2. Confidently approach approach women knowing you will get a great reaction 3. Tap into the unconscious unconscious desires of of women in a way way that they only dream about 4. Speak to women in a way that captures captures and leads their imagination to having a great time…with you 5. Get women to associate great positive feelings to being being with you
But let’s get this straight, what this is really about and what this system will do for you is:
HAVE HAVE A GREAT GREAT TIME DATING DATING LOTS LOT S OF REALLY REALLY GORGEOUS WOMEN
Now, does this take practice? Of course! Does it mean you have to go out and try new things? Absolutely! Are you going to have great fun practicing this stuff? Certainly! But only if you go into it i t with the intention of having fun. When I learnt this material myself I had a great teacher t eacher that was with me and pushed me to use the material, shared my success and failures and generally made sure that I kept up with the practice. That is why I have set up a message board where you can post your questions direct to me for encouraging words of advice and you can all learn from each other. But I have no time for time wasters – If you have no intention to use this material , if you are here just to look at some theory or want to learn about not treating people, particularly women, with respect please don’t bother reading any further. If on the other hand, you have an open mind , ready to screw up your courage and have a go at doing things differently…then step into the pool, the water’s great and there is a lot of fun to be had spending time with great women.
AN OVERVIEW OF HOW TO GET WOMEN PANTING WITH DESIRE FOR YOU The system is deliberately really simple and each step builds on the last. Outside of the framework that we are talking about now there are only three broad areas that we need to discuss. As you go through each section you will dramatically increase your chances of getting a date with the best women. Each section increases your chances a hundred fold, each section builds from the last and each section needs to be dealt with in order. If you have never met this stuff before, please stick to learning all this t his material in order, as that is the way this material has been designed. If you think you are already good at any one section just remember to use it in the order prescribed and just have a go.
These are powerful techniques that seem simple and they create some astounding results. But to really know what is going on, you do have to go out and use the material. My master key to success – Just go out and do it. Let me explain by way of contrast just how powerful this system is. My old approach to introducing myself to women used to go something like this: I would see someone I quite liked. I would then work myself up into a frenzy of self doubt with voices going on in my head saying things like: - “What have have you got to offer?” - “What will she see in you?” - “You’re shit and she knows it?” If I did pick up enough courage to speak to her, and often I just wouldn’t bother, my approach would be nervous and hesitant. I would be falling over myself, knocking drinks over and not being able to speak. Well how are you likely to react if someone stands in front of you doing guppy impressions and spilling drinks? Probably not very well, but very occasionally I would get a good reaction. And by the way I used to count hysterical laughter a good impression. On those few occasions I would leap desperately into “Let me impress you” mode and I would come out with streams of rubbish about how great I was at anything I could think about. Guess what I usually went home alone. Does this seem familiar?
t he approach I now use. Just imagine Now imagine you changed all of that for the going out expecting success. So you scan all the women in the bar, spot the ideal woman. You look at her with detached interest and think to yourself “Okay she’s good looking, but what else has she got to offer me?”
Expecting a good result, but also knowing there are hundreds of available women just waiting for you, you go over. You walk over and in a calm, pleasant tone introduce yourself in a way that will put her at ease and instantly build rapport. You then have a really great conversation whilst gently building her desire to have a great time…with you. Once you have her getting really excited about you perhaps, you suggest that t hat you have to leave. l eave. At this point she would be just desperate to hand over her number. Does this work exactly like this all the time…Well of course not. But the key issue is that the approach is very relaxed, I build rapport instantly and I get them to feel good about themselves and through that feel good about having me around. And if it doesn’t work, well I know there are more and more women out there that are just waiting to have a great time with someone like me and so there are many more opportunities. In fact, these days, I tend to look for women that are not only good looking but impress me in all sorts of other ways as well. If they don’t impress me in the first five minutes of a conversation then I gently make my excuses and leave. Just because a woman is good looking it doesn’t mean they deserve your company. So let us break down the component parts of this system and take a look at what makes the difference. The building blocks of this approach are built on three foundations: • •
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A winning mindset Creating instant connections Capturing and leading their imagination
There are separate reports on each of these sections that you can download. These reports deal with the subject in much greater depth and have exercises geared to helping you integrate the approach quickly and easily. But for the sake of this report let me tell you more about each.
A WINNING MINDSET - The Foundations of Success -
Think about this just for a moment. All of your beliefs about yourself and your world are based on your experiences. That doesn’t make any of them true, tr ue, just what you choose to believe. All beliefs start with some potential, a basis in experience, you then take some action based on this potential and get some results. The results you get will reinforce your potential until it becomes a belief.
An example would be a belief that some men have about not being any good at meeting women. One of these guys may say in his head something like “I’m hopeless with women…I always mess up…I can never think of things to say…” and so on. Well with wit h these thoughts running through his head when he approaches a woman he is probably going to make it all come true and then he can turn round and say, “See I told you it’s i t’s true!” If, on those rare occasions he gets it right what he is likely to say is something like “I was lucky” or it was all down to her and that sort of rot. Key Point:
You will filter your experience to make what you believe come true. None of your beliefs need to be true; they are just your filters for your current experiences. If you change your beliefs all of the results you get will change…and even better…they will continue to reinforce themselves until you always get the results you are expecting.
If you want to know more about beliefs FEEL FREE to download my special report. I will show you how to change your beliefs quickly and easily.
So knowing this, what would be a good set of beliefs to be holding?
Well how about a belief that there are more available, good looking women out there than you have time to date. Believe me when I decided to take this on as a belief, more and more available women suddenly started to appear. You might argue that you are just seeing more opportunities and…. you are probably right. The point being that before I just filtered filt ered out these women from my experience, because I just didn’t believe that t hat there were any around. I used to see a really good-looking woman and make myself believe that she wasn’t available, so I wouldn’t bother to go and find out. You will be surprised at just how many women are there waiting for the ideal man to turn up. Another thing that happens if you take on a belief like this is that you become less desperate and more discerning. If you have this belief and you find a woman that is not really interested in you, or is brain dead from the neck up, why would you bother spending any time with her? If you knew there were hundreds of available women around you would just politely leave and look for a better opportunity. If you want to know more about beliefs feel free to download my special report and I will show you how to change your beliefs quickly and easily. Other great beliefs that would work with dating more women would include: • • • • • •
I have a great personality and have a lot to offer any woman I can find loads of great women to share my life wit h I am just out having fun meeting loads of women (or just people if you prefer) I am confident in meeting new people / women Life is great and I am going to share this feeling with as many women / people as I can I am the master of the universe and am going to dominate all lesser species…sorry…just a little joke.
Just imagine what life would be like if you were constantly carrying around these sorts of beliefs. Would this make some difference to your life? The great thing about this is that the more you take on these beliefs the more all this becomes true for you. Beliefs can be changed easily; all it takes is a little bit of effort and a small period of adjusting to a new version of you. If you want to know more about beliefs feel free to download my special report and I will show you how to change your beliefs quickly and easily.
CREATING INSTANT CONNECTIONS - The Secret of Success -
Indulge me for a moment and just think of someone that you know and get on with really well. Think about the last time you met them and had a great t ime with them. As you think of that time t ime notice how much you were both in tune with each other, if you think about it perhaps you can picture just how much you were taking on each other’s mannerisms, or you might be picking up the t he feelings and mood that you created. Now some of you probably know what I mean by matching and mirroring. For those of you who don’t, I will explain more a bit further down. But for those of you that do know, here is a word of warning: Matching and mirroring is a rapport builder, but there are ways and means of doing this that go way beyond just mechanically copying people’s body movements or physiology. For those that haven’t yet got a clue what I am talking about yet here is a Key Point:
People like people that are like themselves So as you think of people that you get on with really well, you will start to think of lots of things that you have in i n common. Perhaps you have common experiences, you like the same movies or music. You might even start noticing that you use the same language, talk the same way and have the same sorts of mannerisms and gestures. Now you might also say that all of this changes when you are with different sets of friends…and you would be right. The fact is we act differently with different types of people. For those of you that don’t agree, think about this just for a second – - Do you act exactly the same same way with your parents as you do your friends? friends? - Would you act act the same with a police officer as you you would a lover? lover? If you do, let me know where and when the court case is. What happens is that on an unconscious level you will start to act a little more like the people you are close to and they will do the same with you. Here is a little piece of homework for you.
Just go somewhere where there are people in conversation with each other, maybe a bar or restaurant and just watch people that are getting on with each other, or not as the case may be.
You will notice that people in rapport with each other will have a natural rhythm or flow that matches each other. Just knowing this means you have a powerful, nonverbal connection strategy. Just matching key aspects of the woman you want to meet allows you to put her at ease right from the start. If you match and mirror the right things you will instantly build rapport and develop a great connection. I guess your next question would be, “what should I be matching and mirroring?” If I were totally mercenary I would tell you to buy my special Making Instant Connections report. But I want to be good to you guys…so here it is: • • • • •
Angle of head Spinal tilt Gestures and movement (but only when appropriate) Breathing Posture
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Tone, volume and pace of speaking Facial expressions Any words that they use often Blinking
The word of warning: When I say this to people they go off and start doing it really mechanically. That is not the point. What I would point out is that this is a naturally occurring quirk of human nature and you need to do this naturally . A more in depth version of this and exercises that are designed to get you to do this easily and naturally appear on my Make Instant Connections Report. But this is enough for you to have a go at just j ust gently building rapport with other people. Please go out and have a go just noticing the different feelings you get when you establish rapport with people. An easy way of noticing the difference is when you are with some friends where you have a natural rapport just break it in the t he middle of a conversation and notice the difference in how you feel inside a well as how it changes the quality of the conversation. Now here is the really clever bit. Let us assume that you have practiced building rapport, you have noticed what happens when you build rapport and you already know that after you have rapport people will naturally follow your gestures as much as you are following theirs. Now I know that for some you will want to have a look at the report and go and practice a little first, but let’s just assumed you have done this for the purposes of the illustration below. Just imagine the situation where you are walking up to the woman you have selected to talk to. As you are walking up, you build a gentle level of rapport non-verbally (there is a specific way I show you to do this in my Making Instant Connections report). As you get closer you make eye contact and hold this a little longer than normal and at the same time you slowly “grow” a genuine smile. I will guarantee if you do this right you will get 99% of women smiling back at you. The 1% that don’t are not worth your attention att ention or have had far too much plastic surgery.
What does this do for you? Well smiling relaxes people. Two people smiling at each other is an instant rapport builder and will just deepen the connection. My Making Instant Connections report sets you up with a variety of exercises that will ingrain this approach until you do it instinctively.
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I guess that some of you already know how to match and mirror as this is old news in some quarters. Please believe me there are ways of getting these results that are far less mechanical and create deeper level of connections, faster than you can imagine. If you are already good with rapport there is enough information here for you to practice walk-ups that build great connections instantly…and you don’t have to just do this with women. Any of you that feel you could do with a little more to really develop this fully feel free to buy my special report on Making Instant Connections as this will give you everything to be able to do this like a grand master.
CAPTURE AND LEAD THE IMAGINATION - The Language of Success -
Here’s the thing, making conversation is not always easy and this is not the simplest of the three parts of the system. The good thing is if you have already taken on the first two parts of this system you have already increased your opportunities dramatically. This section will just guarantee taking someone home with you each and every night. Can you imagine just how good that would feel if you were doing it right now?
Please reread the first line of the last paragraph and as you say it to yourself notice how it feels. How would it have been if I had said, “It’s hard making conversation and this is the most complex part of the system” Do the two sentences sound different and do you get a different feeling from them? Of course there is no difference in the meaning as you look at it, but I hope you can see how different they feel. So listen in because I want you to see the Key Point:
Words have power and the way you use language makes a real difference to how you feel about what is being said. So here’s the deal…there are two parts to this section. The first is about understanding just how you can adjust your language to create different feelings inside someone else. The second is how to weave this seamlessly into a normal conversation. Trust me on this one; once you have really studied this, no conversation will ever be the same again. Can you imagine people going through different emotions and states at your whim? Often when I go out with some of my friends, fr iends, just for the practice, I get them to go from laughing hysterically to becoming really sombre, to getting them back to laughing hysterically just through t hrough the language I use. Would that be a great skill to have? Well you can, there is enough to get you started in this report and for those of you who want more, there is the whole of my Capture and Lead the Imagination report just waiting for you to download. In very simple terms, people will imagine something, just because you are saying it. Now obviously if you went up to a woman and said: - “Imagine having a night of wild passionate passionate sex with me”
She will process this information. If you looked like her ideal type you might get a result, but the chances are she would run away screaming, or at least that was the general result I used to get with this approach. So a more gentle approach might be called for. I would suggest that a better approach would be to get her talking about some great experiences she has had and get her to start associating these with you. There is more on how to use; language in a really artful way on my Capture and Lead The Imagination report. For now I want to give give you something something that you can can take away and and use right now. If you would rather master how to embed commands into your conversations and how to get women to access feelings of passion, wanton desire and feeling incredibly horny, buy my report on Capturing and Leading the Imagination. By now, you might have already guessed that the previous two paragraphs are a working example of how you can do this with people. Please read and reread it as, all you really need to know to be able to work out how to do use language in this way is in those two paragraphs. For now let me talk about making conversation because some men don’t always find it easy. Okay here is another key point: Good conversationalists listen more than they talk The structure of good conversations are made up of loops from figure two below:
So a good conversationalist will offer some information, invite a response and then acknowledge that response before giving out some more information to invite responses from. For example: “That’s a really nice dress you’ve got on. It really suits you ( this is the inform bit and then the invite is a simple question like…) “Where do you do your shopping?” And off she goes on one of women’s favourite topics (only kidding). Once she tells you about her favourite shopping haunts you can link in to any of the things that she might have given.
“Oh, I didn’t know you could buy such good quality clothes in Help the Aged (this acknowledges her response and informs her that you haven’t been there. So here comes the next invite…) “How did you discover such a great place to shop?” Of she goes again. Half an hour later you are building great rapport because she is doing most of the talking and you have shown lots of interest in her. Simple really? No need for cheesy chat up lines, a nice easy flow to the conversation and a great way to build deeper levels of rapport. With me, the more I look at conversations this way the more I get an easy flow to all my conversations. Now just imagine that woman you have decided is worth speaking to. You notice something about her, the location or the situation that gives you an opening (I prefer "about her" as this makes a very personal approach, although to personal and it will scare her off, so be careful). You then walk up, building rapport and getting her to smile back at you and then launch into your conversation model “I just had to come over and say I noticed your legs. I think firm calf muscles on a woman look great. How often do you work out?” Okay, that probably wasn’t the best, but you get the picture. Now the real strength to this approach is weaving the two approaches together. By using ways of creating state changes in a conversational model you will have a powerful tool to associate good feelings that a woman might experience directly to you. You can read more detail on how to do this in my special report on How to Capture and Lead the Imagination. For the moment just imagine suddenly meeting the woman of your dreams walking up to her and starting a great conversation that leads her gently towards feeling really good and then associating that to you. I assume you can feel great thinking about that. Now, how would you feel if that was your experience every day of the week? Wouldn’t you just have a great time practicing these skills more and more? This is my reality and it could be yours, just how good can you feel thinking about that now? That’s it folks. I hope you had a good time reading this report. And I do hope you will go out and have a go with this material. There is a load more to tell you about each of these sections, but this is enough to get you going and start you practicing. If you want some really cool exercises that would allow you to gently integrate this approach then please feel free to download my special reports on - Creating a Wining Mindset - Building Instant Connections - Capturing and Leading Leading the Imagination
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Please don’t think you have to get these reports now , as there is enough information in here for you to be able to use the system. I wrote the reports only for those of you that want to t o turn results into great results, but everything you need is right here. The real issue is about just doing it is in these reports. So don’t imagine that these reports give you any mystical formulae, you still need to pick yourself up and do it. I hope you find this material a pleasant and rewarding way of learning more about human behaviour and I wish you a great time using it. Cheers,
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