contents Introduction
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The Basics: Relax and Get Comortable
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Start Massaging: A Crash Course
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Steps Leading to a Squirting Orgasm O rgasm 1. Massage 2. Inside the Vagina 3. Get Her Invested In The Process 4. Build Tension 5. Continue Shaping and Take Take Relaxation to a New Level
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Should You Tell Her What You Are Doing?
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Steps During a Squirting Orgasm
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Starting Touching the Pussy
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Now Go Deeper
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introduction For women, squirting orgasms are the pinnacle o pleasure. Quite simply when a woman squirts, her body will shake and produce a large quantity o liquid – all while she is experiencing the most incredible orgasm o her entire lie. I you are able to achieve this as a guy, you’ll automatically be placed in a very special place in your woman’s mind. She’ll think o you as a type o sex god and the connection you two will be like nothing you’ve ever experienced. I remember the rst time I made my girlriend squirt. It was unbelievable! Having your girl squirt orgasms totally changes your relationship. You’ll have extreme sexual condence, especially when meeting more women in the uture. Women treat men who can make them squirt very dierently. They look up to them, and eel weak and submissive around them. I want to warn you that this book will contain very strong sexual themes and language. I this mature language oends you, please don’t read on. There is simply no other way to write this book without going into high levels o detail about exactly how to get a woman to squirt. What is unique about this guide? For starters, this guide will work. Many books out there ocus very heavily on the actual touching o the vagina as a primary ocus o getting women to squirt. You’ll soon learn that this is only about 20% o the process to helping her achieve squirting orgasms. I’m also going to talk to a lot about the benets o being able to get women to experience squirting orgasms. Many medical proessionals and women don’t even believe emale ejaculation is possible. I can promise you it certainly is. Explaining many o the benets will help you to stick with practicing and improving. It will take time and patience to master being able to help a woman squirt but once you gure it out, you’ll be able to do it over and over again with ease.
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the basics relax and get comfortable The most important concept in getting a woman to squirt is to make her eel as comortable and relaxed as possible. Even i you think she’s comortable, make sure this is to an extremely high level. Women cannot squirt unless they are completely 100 percent relaxed and trusts you enough to get to that point.
Element #1: She’s comortable having sex with you Your woman needs to be absolutely comortable with the two o you having sex. You shouldn’t have to use techniques to get her into bed, or be indirect about it, or have her give you any resistance during the process. Through these things you might be able to get her to have sex with you, but you won’t get her to squirt. Now i she hersel initiates sex with you, is open about experimenting sexually, and orgasms requently, then that’s great. These are essential ingredients to making her squirt. I you haven’t reached this level o comort yet with your woman, then ocus on building it beore even attempting to make her squirt.
Element #2: She’s comortable with hersel during sex To squirt, your woman needs to eel comortable being naked around you. I she’s turning the lights o beore sex, you get that eeling she is sel-conscious and constantly worrying about what you think o her body or techniques in bed, then this is the rst thing you need to x. You’ve got to lay a oundation o comort, trust, openness, communication and no judgmental BS. It’s about much more than touching her vagina and clitoris the right way. It’s about how you get her to eel emotionally AND physically. (Note: This is why they can’t get emale Viagra to work. They can pump all the blood they want to her sexual parts but i she’s mentally not eeling it, it doesn’t matter. Men are obviously dierent, as we know.)
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Element #3: Shape or the right things I want to go into detail about the principle o shaping because it is used many times in this guide and it’s an essential technique or to get women to squirt. Shaping is a leadership technique where you encourage someone to live up to a higher standard. CEOs are very good at shaping because it is in their interest to bring out the best in their employees. A CEO might “shape” an employee to be hard working. So how do you shape? One o the most powerul ways o shaping is to nd a trait in someone and then emphasize it. For example, you might meet a woman or the rst time and she smiles when you say hello. You could say to her “you seem really warm and riendly”. Shaping also tends to have a compliment built in. Shaping eels good. Shaping can be done by noticing something in the other person and magniying it. By magniying it you set an expectation or them to live up to. Women shape all the time. For example, once I met this woman at a bar and she said to me “I hate most guys these days, they are so wimpy and eminine. You seem like a real man”. For starters, I elt really good and proud. However rom then on I also made an eort to be even more masculine, tough and strong. I knew this quality in me turned women on. She had shaped me to be a man’s man and I wanted to live up to that. There was very little way ater she complimented me that I was going to act like a sot, scared and wimpy guy. I wanted to prove her right in a way. She shaped me to be more masculine; and it worked. So what are we shaping or here? Relaxation mostly, and also or her letting go, and living in the moment. You might say things like “I love how relaxed you are”, “You are so open when talking about sex, it’s so attractive”, “It really turns me on when you let go and enjoy yoursel, like you just really get into the moment”, and so on. The moment you see her do anything connected to being relaxed, letting go, expressing hersel and living in the moment, you need to shape around it. So she does it even more and takes it to an even higher level. It’s when she is extremely relaxed, when she lets go to an extent she has never beore, when she is comortable expressing hersel with no care in the world, and when she lives completely in the moment that the magic o squirting orgasms is going to happen.
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Element #4: She needs to play her part Having coached thousands o guys, a very common mistake I see is guys taking too much ownership or women having orgasms or not. Most guys out there eel it is up to them to make their woman have an orgasm, and they don’t appreciate that she has a very important role to play in the process. To put it simply, i she is not able to make hersel come by masturbating, you won’t make her squirt. One reason or this is because the skills she uses while orgasming by masturbation are critical in having her squirt. During the makingher-squirt process she is more than a passive passenger. Another reason is because i a woman is sexually liberated and passionate about sex, she will have masturbated regularly and ound a way to have orgasms. Sometimes through a conservative upbringing, religious infuence or general inexperience, a woman may have never masturbated or had an orgasm beore. You’ve got to make her eel comortable both masturbating with you and on her own. I’m a big an o the Hitachi Magic Wand sex toy; it can make any woman come. Don’t see technology as competition, see it as a little assistant. Just remember that squirting happens in an environment o extreme sexual openness and experimentation. I there is inhibition o any kind, there won’t be any squirting.
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start massaging a crash course Once a student asked me; what is the single most important element o squirting orgasms? Without hesitation I answered “learning massage”. The skill that will help you make her squirt is without a doubt, an incredible ull-body massage. Being able to massage will allow you to relax her body and mind, and begin to become a master at releasing tension rom the body. I would strongly encourage you at this point to look at taking a course on massage rom a massage college. This will be one o the best investments you’ll ever make. You’ll learn about anatomy, dierent types o massage, stress and tension and many therapeutic techniques. You’ll gain experience in massaging people, your hands will become stronger and they’ll begin to develop their own intelligence.
THE FIRST SQUIRTING ORGASM SECRET FROM MASTERS: It will take 2-3 weeks of massages on your woman before you even start the pussy related techniques.
That’s right! It will take 2-3 weeks o massages, regularly our times a week or her body to be relaxed enough to be close to considering squirting orgasms. This is why guys ail when they try to do squirting orgasms and they go straight or the vagina. And when I say 2-3 weeks – this is coming rom a guy that is good at giving massages. Unless her body is extremely relaxed, it isn’t going to happen. The better you get at massage and relaxing people on demand, the more eective you’ll be at squirting massages. Now, the central theme o this book is mastering the skill o massage. It truly is the magic bullet o learning how to get women to relax, eel comortable, and ultimately squirt. By learning the basics o massage you’ll become an incredible lover, and will have ound a way to build extremely strong connections with women while growing a real condence within yoursel. Men that can touch women, connect and infuence them through touch hold a very special power.
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Right now, however you might be a blank canvas with magic; that’s okay the basics are very easy to get hold o. As you’ll soon see, massage plays the most important role in the squirting process because it helps her become comortable, relieves tension and begins to turn her on to levels she’s never experienced beore.
Massage Insider Secret #1: Get Regular Massages I you attempt to give massages without being massaged rst, it’s kind o like a vegetarian eating steak. The simplest and best rst step or mastering massage in record time is to get massaged. My recommendation is to experience a wide range o massages. Give massages such as these a try; Shiatsu, sports massage, Thai massage, deep tissue, relaxation, aromatherapy, Swedish massage, refexology, hot stone therapy to name a ew. I you are short on cash, what I did when I was in college was visit student clinics at massage schools. People studying massage need people to practice on and get eedback rom – and you get a massage or around $15 in some places. Pay attention to what you like and don’t like, speak to the masseuse about the process and theory behind what they do, and notice everything else such as the room and oil they use. Also start to really eel what works, and what muscles respond to what.
Massage Insider Secret #2: Practice on Yoursel When I started developing an interest in massage I noticed how much tension, and oten how sore, my own body was. It was also really helpul to use a tennis ball or plantar asciitis massage balls, or oam rollers to release tension rom my muscles. I began to really rub my upper back, shoulders and some o my pressure points (especially ater a hard workout at the gym). I ound a ton o knots and began to get them out mysel.
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Massage Insider Secret #3: Learn about the Body’s Meridians & Muscles In Chinese medicine, they break down the body’s energy centers into a map o meridians and pressure points. It’s pretty easy to nd a map o the body’s meridians with a Google search, and this is an excellent place to start with an understanding o how massage helps the body. The meridians are points on the body that directly aect the fow o energy. It’s this fow o energy that partly explains the power o massage to make you eel good, rejuvenate you and to heal the body. A major reason why I like guys to learn about the meridians rst is that it gives you a very powerul and much deeper perspective o massage than when you simply ocus on the more logical muscle based practice. A large part o squirting orgasms is about stepping away rom being too scientic with the process and getting a real eel or it. Squirting orgasms simply won’t work i you start pushing and prodding like a medical student with a rubber body. It’s a really good idea to get into the alternative side o massage because it will help you become more intuitive about the process instead o being too analytical. The reason why massage represents such an amazing element o growth or guys is because it will encourage you to enjoy the process and let go o yoursel. A common mistake when guys are trying to get women to squirt is going straight or the vagina and using their hands like a guy trying to nd his cell phone rom under a car seat. The next step ater meridians is to get a basic understanding o anatomy, in particular the muscles o a human body. I’ll give the common shortened versions o the muscle names as these are much easier to remember than the ull medical name.
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Back o the Body Basics: Traps – the upper part o the back connecting with the neck,
those high shoulder muscles – they hold a lot o stress and tension in them. Delts – the ront, side and back o the shoulders – particularly
sore among people who exercise or use computers a lot. Lats – the wide part o the back under the armpit and going
down the side o the body on the back side – this makes you eel good when you run up and down the muscle in long movements. Middle back – this part is usually sore among people with
back posture or who sit at a desk all day. Oten the discs there can be a little out o place, and they response well to massage therapy. Lower back – a very common area o pain in people, especially
those who don’t exercise oten or have good core strength – another real eel good place to massage – or me personally being massaged in my lower back is like a drug. Glutes – this is your butt! A very common place or severe
tension are the glutes. Oten people lack strength in the back o their leg and butt muscles and this causes them to be especially sore (this is why dead-lits are so popular in the gym!). This is even more true among women most o the time. Hammies – this is the back o the leg between the knee and
butt. An area o weakness or most people out there, especially those who sit down a lot. Relaxing these usually relaxes the entire body. Inner thigh – a sensitive area; usually also very tight. This is an
area where you can eel tension like the lumps in a thick rope, and it is smooth when relaxed. A common area in moving towards the more sensitive erotic zones. Calves – be careul as this is a sensitive area on most women.
Usually there is some dierence between inner and outer calves in tension, and because the cal muscle is much denser than any other part o the body it responds well to massage. Light calves mean a light entire body. Feet – I love oot massages! You seem to eel 20 pounds
lighter ater a good one. My recommendation is to just go or a oot massage on its own and experience the pleasure. You’ll be hooked, and you’ll have a good idea o what to do.
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Front o the Body Basics Neck – who doesn’t like a neck massage? A place or
very gentle contact, and the head is a heavy object and the neck can hold a lot o stress. Arms – tricep, bicep and orearm – especially among
gym goers this can be a sore area o the body. For me I really enjoy an arm massage, especially ar ound the joints like the elbow. Hands and fngers – this is where the massaging skill
really comes into play. Understanding meridians and pressure points can really help as dierent parts o the hand (like the oot) are related to dierent areas o the body. Pecs – the breasts and just above – these are usually
sore among people, especially those with poor posture. The slight hunching in people who work on computers is oten caused by tight pec muscles. Hips – this is the most crucial area or squirting orgasms,
the hips needs to be extremely relaxed. This is a tricky area, as the joint eels strange and can hold a lot o tension. Front o the thighs – a very large muscle that has a very
soothing aect on the entire body. Not the astest to react to massage but one that will fow onto the rest o the body when relaxed. Shins – i she is a runner, these will be sore. Be careul
not to hit the bone too much.
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Massage Insider Secret #4: Understand the Body’s Erotic Zones Now the purpose o the massage described in this book is not to oer remedial massage like you’d get rom a physical therapist, it’s to give more the sort o massage people talk about with a “happy ending”. The rst Erotic (or erogenous zones) areas are the sensitive spots o the mouth and area around it, the earlobe and surrounds, the nipples, the underarms, the inner surace o the shoulders and orearms, the area around her pussy, the very lower back where her triangle area is, on the neck (especially higher up), around the navel and lower stomach, where the pubic hair begins on all sides, on the inner surace o the hips, in the joint o the elbows, behind the knees, on the eet, between the ngers and toes. During the massage process, you might lightly tough these areas to begin with, and then increase the requency and intensity o your touch around them. I’ve taken many women or the rst proper massage at a massage business and oten it’s close to a sexual experience or them even though it was a regular massage. This is because women are much more sensitive and sensual in general. It’s good when you ocus on these erotic zones o the body to see her reaction, sometimes she will squirm like she is turned on, and also to begin eeling what is getting her to deepen her relaxation. Other erogenous zones or women include eyelids, eyebrows, temples, shoulders, hands, arms and hair – and o course the clitoris. With these areas less is more, you can keep it very gentle and light. Many women vary in their personal preerence so get an idea or what gets your woman turned on – and ocus on it. I had a woman tell me once her “spot” was behind her knees – this made it much easier or me to build sexual tension with her.
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Massage Insider Secret #5: Get Stocked Up Here’s my recommendation or a massage equipment list: 1. Nice towels – consider Egyptian cotton, bamboo or organic ber – they need to be really sot, plush and beautiul to touch, and have a really vibrant white color. These are especially important or squirting orgasms so you don’t need to throw your bed away when you start mastering the process. 2. Oil – buy really high quality oils. Almond oil, coconut oil, jojoba oil, and water dispersible massage oil are some suggestions. Because your hands will end up inside her make sure that the oil agrees with her skin, and test a small part o her more sensitive areas. I’ve also purchased oil that could be doubled as sexual lubricant – that’s a sae and smart bet. Avoid oils with essential oils as they may burn in this sexual application. 3. Candles/incense/aromatherapy – great or setting the mood, arousing her senses and turning her on. Smell is a very powerul aphrodisiac. I suggest aromatherapy such as ylang ylang, sandalwood, Patchouli and Neroli Absolute. Very powerul stu! 4. Dimmed lights, or colored lights – it helps to set the mood and have her eel comortable. You don’t want it to be too dark, or too light – just that perect slightly dim atmosphere. 5. Music – some o my avorites are the Ministry o Sound Chillout Mixes, and others similar. Sometimes the rainorest and nature sounds CDs can be powerul as well.
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steps leading to a squirting orgasm
1. Massage Start with a massage. For the rst ew massages, I wouldn’t even go near her sexually sensitive areas. Keep it as a real massage. Focus on releasing tension and having her relax. Make sure the room is warm, maybe have incense burning, put on nice relaxing music and dim the lights. You aren’t like every other guy rushing or sex, you are enjoying her and the moment. I you choose to have sex, then make sure that it is kept separate rom the massage. This is important. See i you can sense in her body the level o tension and stress. Address these areas such as the upper neck, shoulder blades, butt and inner thigh. Places women tend to hold tension. Spend a good 10 minutes on relaxing each major body region. Then make your way toward the pubic region. Her hips, glutes, butt and inner thighs. You might actually begin to eel tension in the orm o bumps on the muscle, much like rope. The muscle – particularly the inner thighs and hips – i relaxed is smooth. Massage until it is like that. Begin use towels, especially laying them on the bed under her. I’ve had to throw many beds away due to squirting orgasms – you’d truly be amazed at the sheer volume o liquid that comes out. Prevent this by using towels at all times.
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2. Inside The Vagina Inside a woman’s vagina there are about 10,000 nerve endings. That should give some indication o the sensitivity and sensations down there. When a woman begins to unlock about 5,000-7,000 nerve endings, she is going to have powerul ull body orgasms. I your woman is having her weak orgasms perhaps she is using only 1,000 or 2,000 currently. Start to develop a eel or this. Now, to have squirting orgasms, a woman has to begin using the other 40,000 nerve endings in her body. The 10,000 in her vagina are connected to the 40,000 in her body and in her central nervous system. This is why it’s so important to have her relaxed, allowing the energy to fow through each o the nerve endings in her body. This is why the 2-3 weeks o regular massages beore you even go near her vagina are so important. During this period you are awakening her body, her senses and her nerve endings. You are bringing them into play. Squirting orgasms are a very holistic ull-body experience than just a vaginal thing. Squirting orgasms can also vary in strength. At the beginning there might be just a trickle o liquid. That just means that the other 40,000 nerve endings in the body are not yet ull activated. Most o the time this is not because o you; she probably needs to get better at relaxing hersel.
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3. Get Her Invested In the Process I your woman is uptight, easily stressed, and/or overly emotionally sensitive, she may have trouble squirting. Same as i she is very sexually inhibited. Part o it is really up to her to see the importance o relaxing and being an active part o the process. I make sure to make my woman eel sexy about squirting, and not araid as some women tend to get nervous at the thought. I let her know how much it turns me on and how much I love it when she lets go. I continually shape her or being sexually adventurous and extremely wild. Keep eeding her compliments. It’s important that she really eels sexy, attractive and condent. She can’t be a passenger in the process; she really needs to go or it as much as possible. It’s also very important or you to set the right rame. Even i a woman can easily make hersel squirt, i she thinks the guy is judging or non-accepting she will turn this ability o. She’ll try not to squirt even though she loves it because he makes her eel uncomortable.
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4. Build Tension With the amount o massaging you are doing by now she should be getting really relaxed and also very turned on. As part o the massaging process, you’ve been touching all over her body except or her pussy. Begin to allude to the pussy urther into your massages, and come close to touching it as you rub your hands over her body. By massaging her butt, thighs, breasts, inner thighs, back, head and eet she will be eeling amazing and her pussy will be tingling. The key is to begin sensing this tension and dramatically increasing it. Don’t resolve the tension during the massage. I’ll explain this in more detail as we continue but it is critical to build massage amounts o tension. She needs to begin squirming like crazy. Now at this point I want to oer a warning not to considering giving squirting orgasms to women who might be possessive or jealous. I there is any chance o her being a psycho then don’t give her squirting orgasms! The main reason why is because when you give women this level o pleasure, she will become hopelessly addicted to you and might even become obsessed with you. She’ll give you a totally new level o connection. So make sure you only do this with the right women.
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5. Continue Shaping and Take Relaxation to a New Level Along with massage, shaping is the most important element o squirting orgasms. You got to be shaping almost all the time. Shaping really is equivalent to leadership and with squirting orgasms you are going to be leading all the time. The rst part o shaping her is to help her calm her mind. Studies have shown that even something like the dishes not being done can stop some women rom orgasming. So noticing her being calm, mentioning it, and magniying it is the rst part o shaping. The next stages o leading and shaping have to do with having her lie down, taking her clothes o, getting comortable and switching o mentally. Along with directing her you are also going to be complimenting her, encouraging her and making her eel good about letting go. You don’t want to be at all anxious or nervous about asking women to do things. You’ve got to be the boss. I you are anxious, she will be, and she won’t squirt. Eliminating all these hesitations and apprehension is essential. One thing I like to do once a woman lies down is to tell her I want her to relax every muscle in her body. I you’ve ever been hypnotized, you’ll know the process where they
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work through your entire body and have you relax each part. I let her know that she is going to start eeling amazing sensations and to ocus on her breathing. Once she starts to eel more pleasure she might begin to tense up again. So it’s a continual process to have her get deeper and deeper into relaxation. I take ull control o the situation and continually have her release tension. Tension is the opposite o what you want to accomplish here. She needs to have less tension in her mind and body than she has ever had in her entire lie. This is why setting the goal o squirting and making a big deal o it can be counterproductive. The less ocus on an end goal, the better. I’ll then ocus on a wide range o relaxation techniques during this process. To begin with guiding her breathing to be deeper and more relaxing is very powerul. By shaping and leading, and the regular massages, she should be improving at relaxing hersel. The more you enjoy the process the less likely it is that she will eel nervous. Women are going to get extremely turned on by you being turned on. She has to know that you are loving and enjoying every step in the process.
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should you tell her what you are doing? At this point you might be wondering i it’s a good idea to tell her you’re trying to make her squirt. I would encourage you at the beginning not to do that unless she is the sort o woman who is very sexually adventurous and experimental. I your girl requires any convincing or pitching on the idea o squirting then rame everything you are doing simply as “pleasure”. By giving her massages, and taking more time building tension, and relaxing together you are just looking to increase the levels o her pleasure. I’d leave the whole emale ejaculation conversation out o it. The reason why is because you don’t want to put any pressure on her or yoursel - because pressure really is the enemy. Now it’s very dierent i you are with a woman that is extremely into the idea o sexual adventure, or i you become really condent with making women squirt. I she is the sort o woman that will get extremely excited by the idea, will change her liestyle to get more relaxed, and will be a very active and invested part o the process then certainly tell her. Some women are like this, and some are not. Ater a while you get good at shaping women who are not initially this open and relaxed about sex to being so. Some women are too inhibited but with practice you’ll be able to serious shit any woman you date to being extremely wild. It’s in this state o real sexual reedom that emale ejaculation will take place. I would guess that through this section you’ve got a much clearer eeling or what you need to do, and how to do it. You do need to help your woman to get into a very specic place mentally and physically. Ultimately getting her to make an eort to help in any way she can, her being excited about the prospect, and her being able to let go o anything holding her back rom truly letting go is the goal.
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steps during a squirting orgasm So let’s image we’ve done all the preparation and groundwork. Her body is ready, you’ve done plenty o shaping and mentally she is very excited about increasing her levels o pleasure and is making an eort in the process. You are developing that intuition about how relaxed she is and how she is eeling. Having a woman experience squirting orgasms is all about tension. You have to learn to build tension to unprecedented level. One girlriend that I helped achieve squirting orgasms did so through extreme sexual rustration. I would constantly turn her on, make her horny and sexually rustrate her without resolving it though sex. Sure we would have sex, but not a crazy amount it. Most o our intimacy time was spent with me making her extremely sexually turned on. She would actually get angry with me such was the levels o her sexual rustration. I would continually build and build sexual tension. I’d massage her, touch her in very sensual ways and do everything I could to make her wet with desire. I would touch her very lightly with my ngers and aim to open up all the nerves in her body. My goal was to drive her completely crazy. I wanted her to get so turned on and horny her head elt like it was going to explode. I you can imagine ever drinking a lot o water and then needing to pee, however there is no toilet around. You are holding it as tightly as you can, but it’s like torture in a way. Then the relie when you nally go is mind-blowing. This is similar to the experience o a squirting orgasm or her. It’s this massage build up o pressure and sexual energy to a volcano-type level. Eventually the only thing that can happens is an extreme release – and this is where the squirting orgasms happens. You want her to eel such anticipation that it takes over her whole body and she is struggling to control the overwhelming eelings. During this tension building process it’s important that you don’t resolve it through having sex with her. She might beg you to uck her, and damn right tell you to do it; just keep massaging and doing your thing. She might grab you, so tell her to keep her hands to hersel. Just keep encouraging her to relax. You want it to be a real struggle or her to deal with these sexual urges she is experiencing. Through this process you continue with turning her on. You touch certain places on her body like her pelvis, hips, lower back, and avoid her pussy while brushing close to it at times. There is a middle channel called the microcosmic orbit. You want to channel a meridian that runs up your spine and runs over the crown o your head. It goes down through your
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tongue, down your throat, and down to your navel and genitals and back around again. It joins at the perineum, between the anus and your genitals. This is opening up the ront channel and getting her ready. She should be really wet and horny now. She’ll be eeling amazing. You are doing the light brushing rom her pelvis up to her belly button, up the middle o her chest, up her neck and up to her chin. Use your right hand rst then do it with your let hand palm down, a really light stroke. You want to do this or 20-30 minutes. She’ll start getting wet and dripping. She’ll be rocking back and orth and this is when it’s up to you. Tell her to relax and breathe. You want her squirming.
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starting touching the pussy
Start lightly stroking the top o her pussy, her pelvis and the area called the Mount o Venus. This is the top o her pussy where her clitoris begins. Getting a really good idea o the anatomy o emale genitalia is very important as well. There is the vagina, the dierent lips (the labia majora and minora), the urethral tube, the opening, the clitoris, the ornix and the anterior ornix. All o these areas you want to know about; the vulva, the perineum, and the b spot. To give women squirting orgasms you’ve got to be somewhat o an expert at emale anatomy. The ‘s spot’ is what we are ocusing on now. The squirt spot is closer to the g spot, but a arther back. Everyone’s heard o the magical g spot. G spot massages are really going to induce the squirting orgasm as well, however at this stage I like to make sure to release all the tension rom her pelvis. She’s already eeling relaxed and you still haven’t gone anywhere near her pussy. All o this tension is going to be building up. All this build up is what is going to be released when she squirts. This is what you want to keep in mind. Don’t just jump in to try to make it happen. Don’t rush the process in any way. The rst time a woman has a squirting orgasm it’s usually a major shock to her. The woman is surprised, shocked and never experienced anything like that. It’s denitely a big rush and
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they will eel amazing and glowing. Now you are going to take your index and middle nger inside her. I’m right handed so I’m sitting on the right hand side o her and placing my let hand on her pubic bone. Pull her lips up a little bit towards her navel. This will tilt her hips in a way that really opens up her vagina lips too. You can then start massaging with the same gentle touch. Take your right index nger and stroke the bottom palm side o your let thumb. Stroke it gently with 1-2 inch strokes. You can use one or two ngers here, it’s up to you. Just touching here, it’s very hard to describe. It’s like a eather touch because her genitals will be very sensitive. The motion o my nger is like saying come hither, when you see the martial arts movie and they say come here. Pointing your hand up with your palm out acing up. Two ngers are out and you pull them back toward yoursel. They bend at the knuckle and touch at the end knuckle, like come hither. Then just stroke light touches or 10 minutes. Really lightly, not entering her pussy yet, stroking the outside o it. This is not the g spot. It’s the opening o her pussy, up to her clitoris. This is really teasing her. It’s opening her pussy and she’s going to want you to stick it in already. Now stroke it or 10 minutes, with a pace o about one stroke per second. One……..two…….three. Do this or 5-10 minutes and it will drive her crazy. She’s going to start breathing and this will start to build up towards a clitoral orgasm. Now I want you to ocus less on the opening. The clitoris will become engorged now. You’ll start seeing it. Some women have smaller clits that are under the hood and others have bigger ones. Still with the let hand, press on the pubic bone and really let the clitoris protrude more. Take your one nger and do the same stroking there, on the end o the clitoris, directly in ront o it. Exactly with the tip o your nger, you want to be stroking up. So you are pushing up on the skin on top o the pubic bone and liting up to let the clitoris stick out. Then rub with the middle nger, just on the clit and move at one stroke per second. Do that or 5-10 minutes and she will be extremely horny. I she hasn’t come yet, she will be very close. You can speed it up a little when she starts breathing heavy. She’ll be moaning all o this time. Ask her i she’s enjoying it and i it eels good. The more pleasure she eels the more relaxed she becomes. It’s a cycle. It’s a cycle that gets her mind really calm and relaxed. Once she’s breathing deep and nding it hard to relax, you can speed her up. 1…2…3...4...5…6. Now you are speeding up to two strokes per second. Your pressure can get a little bit harder now. Don’t get overly excited and try to do 5 per second trying to make her come. You need to keep a steady pace. That’s important here. Not an
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intermittent 3 and then 1. It’s just a gradual increase. All this pressure is building up. Get her to describe those eelings. She’ll be moaning and saying that she can eel it in her stomach or pussy. Tell her, yes this is how she should be eeling. I want you to take those eelings and turn then up to make them tenser. Keep them building and you are still stroking two per second. Light strokes, but just a little harder. They will eel amazing at this point, like they’ve never elt beore. Continue with two strokes per second. Like 1…2...3...4 rather than 1……2…...3……. like initially. The pressure is a tiny bit harder. Take your nger and put it in the center o your palm. Beore the palm never pressed in, but now it should be pressed 3-4 millimeters. It’s light but its pressure. She can eel that you are rubbing her clit now. It can take more now because there is so much blood in it. You say that that’s a 1 now I want you to turn it up to a 2 and now a 3. She will be moaning loader and saying “oh my god I’m going to come”. You say no you aren’t allowed to cum yet. Keep turning it up. Take control 4…5... Now when you reach a 5 you can say, “Yes keep it building. That’s good”. You are reassuring her. Say “you are doing great babe, oh my god you are turning me on so much right now and I love how you are eeling so much pleasure right now”. Using this right now is a good thing because it’s taking her mind to do it now. It’s getting her back in the moment. 6…7… Now when you reach 7 or 8 what I like to do, it’s going to sound crazy, but what I want you to do is double it. Tell her to double the intensity and she’ll be almost coming. Her pussy and her clitoris will be experiencing eelings she’s never elt beore. Take her to a 9 and 10…11...12. Turn it up turn it all the way up. By now she will be coming and will be having a ully intense clitoral orgasm. Now don’t make the mistake o trying to jump into the squirting orgasm and techniques. Some guys think, “I just want to get in that pussy and make it squirt”. It’s very rare or a woman to go straight into a squirting orgasm. Every time I’ve tried to go straight into a squirting orgasm, without a clitoral orgasm, it’s been very weak. Every time she has already had this pleasure beorehand, the clitoral orgasm and ull body orgasm is the next level. She’s just losing consciousness almost. She will have ull body shivering, quivering and squirting a powerul mess. Instead, let her cool down and give her a drink o water. You tell her it was amazing and give her reassurance. Ask her how that elt and she will say it was amazing. Tell her to just lie down and she will say “What?” That’s the best orgasm she had in terms o clitoral orgasms.
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now go deeper Lie down and you can go straight into it. Insert two ngers into her pussy now, to the point o your knuckle or top o your palm. Spread them so they are like a peace sign. Your hand is still on her pubic bone and her legs are spread now at a 45-degree angle and open to you. Your ngers are in and the palm o your right hand is sitting on her right side. With your let hand, use your two ngers so that your palm is acing up. Use the same come hither motion on the rontal wall o the pussy, on either side o the g spot. The g spot is where you put your ngers together. You will eel a ridge on the ront wall that’s bumpy on the back o the clitoris. That is all the g spot area. Stick your index and middle nger in her pussy and separate them so that your two ngers are on each side o her g spot. Not together. It’s like a claw, like you are clawing. It’s like you have two little claws. You want to make sure things are well lubricated. You want it to be super slippery with no riction at all. Tap on the ront wall, either side. Do this or 10 minutes, even i you do it with a air amount o pressure. Remember, women are designed to have babies. S the amount o pressure you can put on their pussy is surprising. You put your penis in there and slam it hard and it doesn’t hurt her. The whole time I’m asking her how it eels. That technique can work on most women. I turn my palm down and do the same motion, but with less o a claw with some women. Go more up and down. Twist your hand and your palm is down now. Take your ngers in ront o you now and do a salute with just your two ngers. Keep the ngers in a straight line and push them all the way down, like you’re bouncing a basketball. From that position down straight down but with no bend in the middle knuckle. That will help open an entirely dierent channel and the dierent areas o her pussy. You are really getting into the internal awakening. Do that or 5 minutes and change it up now. Use this technique by turning your hand up and creating the angle with your ngers. Put your ngers up, no longer in a peace sign. Your ngers are only into the second knuckle so pull them out a little bit. They aren’t into the palm but just to the knuckle. The couple o inches o your ngers should be inside her pussy, stimulating the g spot. You can do this by getting her to pull her legs back and hold them. When she’s on her back, hold either o her legs underneath her thighs, behind the knees and pull them back towards her. She will be eeling amazing especially when you are massaging her g spot like this. You massage the interior wall o her g spot with a come hither motion and keep it steady motion. Here it is important that it is a steady motion o 2-3 strokes per second. OK now start really building it up here. Now she’s going to really eel like coming. Don’t let her come. Hold onto it or as long as possible. Be super relaxed but at the same time holding the orgasms, so breathe. Get her to breathe up to her head and get in touch with her breath.
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Now ater 10 minutes, put your ngers deep into the pussy. Your ngers are still together. They are as deep as you can get. She’s pulling her knees back towards her and now you are going to reach the deep spot. This is a magical spot. Now press up with the tips o your ngers, almost like the come hither motion but just a quarter o it. Press up on the back wall o her vagina. Massage the back wall. I you do this or 10 minutes this is going to cause her to orgasm. Its mimicking what happens when she comes, so you are physiologically causing her to have a vaginal orgasm. Do these up and down motions the whole time. It’s all about steady motion. I you do something dierent or change it up, you are just going to uck with her and uck it up. She will be eeling pleasure; you change it, then pleasure and then change it. You will have to start over and she will have to build up again. You do the same thing or 10 minutes. This is now when you want to go back into what you were doing, again back at the clitoral orgasm. Build up that pleasure to the point where her pussy is contracting. Her pussy will be squeezing on your hand by this point. This is the beginning o a vaginal orgasm. Now I want you to build it up and I don’t want her to come yet. Build it up stronger and get her eeling that amazing pleasure. Keep building it. She isn’t allowed to come yet. This is going to make it intense or her. Build it up to an 8 or 9 and nally say she can come now. Get your hand in there and put your ngers down. Your pinky and index nger should be pointing up and the middle nger and ring nger should be bent at the middle knuckle. Now point your index nger and pinky nger down. Pull your hand out a bit rom the deep spot. Now pull it out to just the rst knuckle in, moving your hand up and down. Just pull back up, down, up and down. The whole time your let hand is on her pubic bone pumping up, down, up and down. You won’t have to do this long, maybe 1-2 minutes depending on the amount o pleasure she’s eeling. Ok now that you have built all this pleasure up, hold on to it. She will say no I can’t hold on to it any longer. This is where most women eel like they are going to pee. That’s why it is so important or them to empty their bladder beorehand. It’s important that when she eels like she’s going to pee, that she holds onto it. She’s not actually going to pee. You need to reassure her that it’s just the eeling building up. I she does say no I can’t take it anymore, I need you to stop, I would suggest to let her go and pee. She won’t be able to pee because she already emptied her bladder beorehand. You’ll need to start again rom the deep spot massage. Do 3-4 minutes o the claw technique, go back to the g spot and then back to the deep spot with the pumping up and down. It’s important or her to build that back up again. It won’t take that long i you had it beore. Even i she does eel like that again, reassure her that it’s natural or her to eel like that.
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Then say, “Ok I want you to come, now let go and surrender”. It’s important or you to tell her to come now. Give her a direct command. Say something like, “I want you to relax all the muscles in your body and come or me now.” That is when she will let go and she will start squirting all over you. Her pussy will be ejaculating a little. In the beginning when you try it with a woman, she’ll usually just have a little trickle. That’s a good sign because she can say she never had anything like that or it’s so amazing that you can eel that much. You want to make her eel like that was a milestone. You want to congratulate her even i it’s just a little trickle. That is a huge win and you want to make her eel really good about it. You want to let her know how turned on you are with this. When women rst start this, their muscles down there aren’t strong enough to squirt. It takes her 3 weeks to 6 months to master this ability. The longer the woman has been squirting, the stronger they are and more she will squirt. At the beginning, don’t expect her to i it’s her rst time to squirt, like you see in porn. You really want to encourage and congratulate any eort. Again you are reinorcing her to do it again. Give her a big hug and kiss. Tell her how beautiul she looks and how amazing and sexy she is. Tell her how turned on you are. Most times she won’t squirt; she will just have an orgasm. Still tell her that she’s amazing. There wasn’t that much liquid at the moment but with patience and perseverance, it’s denitely going to happen. Then with practice each time there will be stronger and stronger orgasms, and more liquid.
Some books I highly recommend you study: • MySecretGardenbyNancyFriday – this will help open your mind to how sexual women are. • TheIllustratedGuidetoExtendedMassiveOrgasmby Steve Bodansky and Vera Bodansky • ExtendedMassiveOrgasm:HowYouCanGiveandReceive IntenseSexualPleasure by Ph.D. Steve Bodansky and Ph.D. Vera Bodansky – this is the book that started me on the way to learning how to give women squirting orgasms. • FemaleEjaculation:UnleashtheUltimateG-SpotOrgasm by Somraj Pokras and Ph.D. Jere Talltrees • Squirms,ScreamsandSquirts:GoingfromGreatSexto ExtraordinarySex by Robert J Rubel
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