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Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!

NEW Special Report From the desk of

Ross Jeffries The “Guru of Getting Some” www.seduction.com

For the smart guy who refuses to resort to bullying bullying,, begging begging,, buying,, bs or buying booze,, in his pursuit of happiness. booze

Copyright © 1988-2010, Ross Jeffries. All Rights Reserved. This special report may not be duplicated without written permission from the author.

Disclaimer This special report may contain viewpoints that may be considered controversial by certain audiences. It is intended as a powerful guide for self-respecting, intelligent men who are looking to avoid from "real-hate-shun-ships by default" and instead claim the happiness that they deserve. I, Ross Jeffries, Ghita Services., Inc, and/or Seduction.com (or any of our other websites or entities) cannot and will not be held responsible in any way for your actions, and will not be held liable for any and all claims from you or any other third party. You alone are responsible for your decisions and actions, even if they have an impact on others. This information is meant for "entertainment" purposes only. While this special report contains information, tips, tools, and strategies that are recommended by us and, in most cases, have succeeded when applied by others, this product and its contents carry no warranty or guarantee (either explicit or implied) that the purchaser or reader will achieve success with women, or in any other endeavor for which they may be used.

Disclaimer This special report may contain viewpoints that may be considered controversial by certain audiences. It is intended as a powerful guide for self-respecting, intelligent men who are looking to avoid from "real-hate-shun-ships by default" and instead claim the happiness that they deserve. I, Ross Jeffries, Ghita Services., Inc, and/or Seduction.com (or any of our other websites or entities) cannot and will not be held responsible in any way for your actions, and will not be held liable for any and all claims from you or any other third party. You alone are responsible for your decisions and actions, even if they have an impact on others. This information is meant for "entertainment" purposes only. While this special report contains information, tips, tools, and strategies that are recommended by us and, in most cases, have succeeded when applied by others, this product and its contents carry no warranty or guarantee (either explicit or implied) that the purchaser or reader will achieve success with women, or in any other endeavor for which they may be used.

TABLE OF CONTENTS WHAT DOES IT REALLY MEAN WHEN SHE DROPS THE “F” BOMB?

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WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER BE "NICE" TO WOMEN!

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WHY SHE DOESN'T APPRECIATE YOUR "KINDNESS"

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WHY YOU SHOULD KISS HER IN THE FIRST 20 MINUTES OF TALKING WITH HER!

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THE GIRL HE WANTED FOR SEVEN YEARS!

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HOW TO TURN THAT "FRIEND" INTO YOUR DEVOTED LOVER!

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HOW HE NAILED THAT GIRL WHO SAID, "LET'S JUST BE FRIENDS" HOW I CAN HELP YOU, STARTING RIGHT NOW!

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What Does It REALLY Mean When She Drops The “F” Bomb? Dear Speed Seduction® Student, There’s one word I REALLY hate. The “F” word. No, I don’t mean “flirting,” “f@@%ing,” or “Facebook.” I teach smart guys like you how to do the first effectively so you can experience more of the second with women you meet in all walks of life as well as online on places like the third (Facebook). The “F” word I can’t stand is “friends” – as in, when a guy Sarges on a chick and his game g ets s.” shot down when she says “Let’s just be friend Man, it hurts my ears! In fact, learning how to effectively dodge and encounter this “F-bomb” is one of the most timeless challenges faced by my students. Case in point: ======================================= Ross, what can I do to overcome resistance from a girl who says she just wants to be friends? Things between me and her started out pretty fast, but it’s almost like she’s a bit scared now and is saying she just wants to be my friend. I mentioned that I didn’t want to play or abuse her mind and that I was looking for a truer relationship involving more than either “just sex” or “just hanging out.” I told her that maybe I didn’t want to be just her “friend” that way. She said, then I would be like just another one of those assholes who never “understood” or “respected” her. So I said, “maybe we should discuss things.” She came over to talk. I tried many patterns on her, including touching and kissing. She said she loves to be with me as I’m fun and I allow her to just “b e herself.” But man, it’s tough to get the “follow through” (beyond just being “friends”) when she shows resistance.

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I, of course, will move on from her, but I’m looking for some strategies for overcoming when the woman says “I just want to be friends.” Any good suggestions? I’m up for them. ======================================= Many times I have taught and said : Never take her first response as written in stone. It’s just a reflection of how and what she is thinking, feeling and believing IN THAT MOMENT and it is always subject to change.

There are all sorts of REAL meanings to: “I just want to be friends.” The worst case (which doesn’t seem like your situation, if you were touching and kissing her and didn’t get slapped) is that she isn’t attracted, fascinated or aroused by you … and just feels some comfort (you help her “be herself”). I f this is the case, though, you are in trouble. However, sometimes the “F” word means,“I feel deep feelings; if I have sex with you, my vulnerability will REALLY come out and you might be a person who will In other words, she has both desire (for you, for sex, for use that to crush me.”

intimate contact) AND she also has fear. Could be she’s had some bad experiences and is looking at you through the lens of those bad experie nces. I encounter the same kind of resistance you are talking about. Yes, I, Ross Jeffries, get the “F” bomb dropped on me! When this happens I hold my ground and make no apologies. This might sound like BS, but staying . powerfully congruent will get you far 2 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

You are already powerful , and from what I can tell you have a great heart and are willing to learn whatever you can about a woman to help the two of you . experience happiness together I hereby proclaim that you are LIGHT YEARS AHEAD of the clueless AFCs and Joe Schmucks out there who refuse to claim their power, results, and success with women. Remember, the power is in you. And as you work your way past the woman’s resistance, say to yourself inside: My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine. Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries Founder, Spee d Seduction

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Why You Should Never Be "Nice" To Women! Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Before we get into the mechanics of avoiding the bear-trap of being told "let's be friends" I need to introduce a Speed Seduction® principle that will influence this entire topic. Plain and simple: the reason why so many guys end up in the "friend" trap is because they're too worried about being a "nice guy." A "nice guy" is someone anyone - including a succulent, gorgeous hottie wants as a friend. But you don't want to be her . You want to be her LOVER. friend Many years ago, when I was first making my TV talk show rounds, someone asked me, "What do women want?" I said something that nearly caused a riot in the studio audience. "Only an idiot would care what a woman WANTS." I paused dramatically to deliver the rest of it over the shouting that erupted. "... A smart guy only cares about what a woman RESPONDS TO!" You know, I wasn't kidding about that. I meant it then and I mean it to this day. Remember: •

There is what women SAY they want.

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There is what women THINK they want.

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Then there is what women ACTUALLY RESPOND TO!

Only that last one counts. Now, in that regard, one of the more frequent questions I get is, "Does Speed Seduction® require me to be "nice" to women? Your patterns sound a lot like old4 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

fashioned romantic "sweet talk" and I don't want to be pegged as a sweet, "nice" romantic guy." Let me say this right now: I have NEVER said you should be "nice" to women. In fact, most "nice" guys are boring as bat-shit, self-pitying whiners who are too out of touch with reality to see that what they are doing just doesn't work. And rather than change, they blame the women. So let me draw an important distinction here: There is "nice" which women do NOT favorably respond to. And then there is "pleasant" which the sane, self-respecting women LOVE . (I won't get into the women who want to be hurt, abused or punished. I do not personally use nor will I teach how to use the language of abuse. You can go to my competitors to learn that. That's not what I teach here.)

A "nice" man only knows how to be agreeable. He doesn't know how to challenge women and he can't or won't set the lead. And he filters everything he says through the belief that women are fragile little flowers who need to handled with OH so much care lest they be broken. YUUCH. One more thing: women don't trust his communication because he just won't dare say anything that might offend them. 5 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

Now a pleasant man is something quite different. Pleasant is power, held in proper restraint and exercised with precision and elegance. A pleasant man will speak his mind, set the lead, but he also knows how to listen and show the proper degree of interest and respect . He may put himself first, but he also genuinely cares for and cares about his woman (or women). They are of great importance to him as long as they treat him right and work within the rules that he has made very clear. Most important: his world is his own. He never, NEVER makes the WOMAN his world, around which he orbits. He does allow her to come into his world and occasionally even be at the center WITH him. When you get these distinctions you will move into a powerful life with women. You will never be "nice" again. But you will also never have to bully, beg or buy.

But now I'm sure, you're asking...

... What Does Being "Pleasant" Instead of "Nice" Have To Do With Avoiding The "F" Bomb??? As we work through the rest of this e-book, I'm going to give you all of the practical knowledge you need to avoid the "friend" trap and be the intriguing, interesting, fascinating male she tells all her "guy friends" about... while they wish THEY were banging her... and they wish they were you. I'm going to show you:


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Why, if you ARE trying to be "nice" to her, she just doesn't appreciate your kindness - so you shouldn't even bother

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Why you should kiss a woman within the first 20 minutes of talking with her - because this sets aside any notion that you just want to be friends

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The story of my student who wanted a "female friend" of his for seven years... and how he used my teachings to get her to dump her "borefriend" and come over to him!

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The foolproof, play-by-play pattern that turns that female "friend" into , effortlessly and seamlessly your devoted lover

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How my student nailed the girl who tried to drop the "F-bomb" on him by saying oh-so-sweetly, "Let's Just Be Friends"

Ready to get started? Not a moment to wait... let's do this thing, buddy! Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries Founder, Speed Seduction

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Why She Doesn't Appreciate Your "Kindness" Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Recently, I got into a big argument / debate on whether you can ever be "kind" or "nice" to women. Since this is a major sore spot for most men, I thought I'd share the discussion. The following was posted by Mr. X who is a professional soldier who has traveled the world and Sarged on more women than most men will ever meet... and a long time Speed Seduction® student. Mr. X had this to say: I can say from personal experience that women of Russian origin are similar to Asian women in that they view niceness and acts of kindness as indicators of strength, whereas American women view niceness and acts kindness as indicators of weakness.

Here is MY answer: Uh uh uh...depends Depends. Depends. If it reeks of need or pressure, they don't want it. If it's freely given or given from a place of abundance AND you have established authority and respect , it's usually a-ok. Most unappreciated "kindness" is unappreciated because: 1. You didn't establish respect/authority or in get any investment from her the interaction/transaction BEFORE the kindness. 9 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

2. She's a twist and just doesn't trust any kindness. Ok. They are out there. Best to run away or play the villain only a VERY short while. But be aware, please: if you stare into the abyss to get your cues and clues on how to respond and behave, the abyss also stares long and hard into you. And what it gazes at it molds and shapes.So don't look long. 3. It wasn't really kindness but "need" or pressure. 4. She's a super-twist and not only doesn't trust kindness, she WANTS to be punished. Run, RUN, R-U-N away. 5. She doesn't like the psychological pressure of having to live up to the ideal you think of her as; putting her on a pedestal gives her cramps, a nose bleed and a nasty migraine, so she kicks you in the face as she steps off to be human. 6. You are giving her the kindness you THINK she wants or that YOU enjoy giving and not what the kindness she really needs. If she craves physical affection and you buy her gifts, it isn't her fault that you aren't paying attention. Given the right context and a reasonably ok psyche (and it isn't that rare) most women will soak up appropriate, NON NEEDY, NON PUSHY kindness .

Some are twists. Some just crave excitement and drama and dominance more than the cuddlies, wuddlies and warm fuzzies. The most confusing ones crave one over the other depending on their mood of the day or time of the month. 10 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

Bottom line: 1. Screen your women as you Sarge on them. 2. Establish boundaries, self-respect/authority in her world. 3. Those who require punishment, or who never trust kindness, need to be left behind. After some experiences (some painful ones probably)you will develop the intuition to quickly tell who's who in this regard 4. Get a good initial read, if you can, on whether they more strongly prefer excitement, drama and being dominated to being cared for and looked after, or in what proportion they want each. I prefer a woman who is a good mix of both; if she doesn't like excitement, she's probably a lousy f@@k. If she can't take kindness, then I can't open my heart to her and the sex becomes nothing more than an energy dump; fun, but numbing and draining. Hint: Learn toread the chakra at the hara or t'an t'ien . which relates to power and will issues and you will get an idea of where they are at. And EXPECT the unexpected because with women , it IS going to happen. OK, now that we have that established, let's move on fellas. In our next segment, I will give you a critical, must-do and easy-to-do-by-you technique that gets her finger off the "FIRE" button for her "F-bomb" and puts you on the path to a long, exciting ride on the carnal carousel . Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries Founder, Speed Seduction

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Why You Should Kiss Her In The First 20 Minutes Of Talking With Her! Dear Speed Seduction® Student, My new rule for women is: I don't go out with a woman (even for coffee) until AFTER I have . kissed her Listen: the last 2 days, I've met and picked up women and wound up kissing them within the first 20 minutes of meeting them. No, I'm not kidding. How as I able to do this? You know, I'm not totally sure myself, except this: when I sensed or "felt" down the center line of my body that they were ready to be kissed, I INSTANTLY obeyed my instinct and without hesitation, did so. Now, I'm not talking about a passionate, locked tongue to tongue, tonsil-hockey session. But once I sensed sufficient comfort and INTRIGUE on her part, I just leaned in and kissed her. Here is the larger point: a huge part of success with women is to do things that feel right TO YOU, outside of the traditional time tables and frame works. If you are being strong, open, courageous, and grounded with women, and a bit playful and funny too, you'd be surprised at the comfort and emotional openness this creates. And once that is there, all sorts of things canbecome possible. Here is one thing I would urge you to do: everyday, stretch yourself just a little bit further than what you are used to doing. Learn to follow your instinctive "go for it" voice instead of your second guessing and your fear. 12 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

For example, if you see a super-hot woman sunning herself in a bikini (hey, I live in So Cal and can be VERY sunny and hot in the winter!), why not test yourself? Just walk up and say, "Hi, I wanted to see what happened if I just walked up and started talking and how you would respond. I've only got 3 1/2 minutes…..I'm Butchnik (or whatever name you want to make up)" Then just stand there, breath deep into your belly, feel your feet on the ground and watch what she does. Start pushing yourself to stay present and stretch. Pretty soon the habit will become addictive and you will be off to the races .

life as an adventure to be lived-being willing to go out on a limb is This sense of VERY attractive. See if you can get to the point where you really, honestly don't care how she responds , one way or the other. So when you are talking to a woman for about 30 minutes and you sense her interest, intrigue and comfort, just lean in and kiss her . Don't make any comment about it before or afterward. Just do it.

... So What Does Kissing Her Have To Do With Avoiding The "Friend" Trap? It's pretty elementary. A "friend" would be asking her how her day went, what her interests are, what movies she likes, and what her favorite sports team is. A master of Speed Seduction® creates excitement. 13 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

He takes risks. He approaches life as an adventure , not as a process. He "goes for it" and powerfully claims his success with women . He lives by this mantra: My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine. Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries Founder, Speed Seduction P.S. Turn the page now and I'll show you where you can get lots more teaching on how to put behind everything that, up until now, stopped you from taking risks, approaching life as an adventure , "going for it," and powerfully claiming your success with women :

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The Girl He Wanted For Seven Years! Dear Speed Seduction® Student, People get involved with Speed Seduction® for a variety of reasons. Many times, a guy has just gotten divorced or otherwise just gotten out of a long term "real-hate-shun-ship" and is looking to get back in the game. Often, a guy who has done "ok" with women really sees his time to be single running out and wants to get really good at it and enjoy variety, selection and choice. And then we get guys who have always wanted ONE special girl, and use Speed Seduction® to get that job done . Personally, I don't recommend the "help me get this one girl" routine. I have found that putting too much importance on any one person can take away from mastery of the skills and it is the skills that really count . However, not everyone agrees with me and it is not up to me to decide how a student uses the material, as long as he uses it with success and does no harm. Now, here is an email from a student who is also a member of the Speed Seduction® Coaching Program. He, along with a lot of other guys like you, participates in our online forum, participates in our twice-monthly Ask Me Anything Calls, and gets first-peek access to five brand-spanking-new video girlgetting lessons each month. (For your exclusive trial membership - just $1 for the first 30 days - sign up now at http://www.RJcoaching.com ) Anyway, this student got the woman he had been after for seven years (WOW..now, that to me is NUTS, but God bless him) and along the way, got some other women too! 16 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

Dear Ross, I just wanted to send you an email to update you on the success of you Speed Seduction® Techniques over the last few weeks. Before I start I will tell you that the content of this email is 100% truthful. I say this because it seems hard to believe even writing it. Now, to be honest, the only reason I purchased the deluxe package was because there was a girl I had wanted for literally eleven years! Yes, now that's a long time to like someone and them not show the slightest bit of interest in you! Besides this girl (who has been a friend of mine for a long time) had been in a long term relationship with her boyfriend for years. I did what we discussed in our phone call during our "office hours" and decided to put it into action. My first attempt was in a bar, a cute slim brunette with an amazing body. The first time I did I was so nervous I felt like a complete dork running the "blammo" pattern on her. What I noticed was that as I did it she just went silent and I was thinking, this is how Ross said a girl would go on these patterns so I carried on. By the end of the pattern I started talking about how some guys are so crude and how one person I knew walked up to a girl and said 'I want to spend the whole night between your legs, giving you the most deep incredible pleasure". By this time it was clear she was turned on and her breathing was going haywire. To cut a long story short I ran some more of this and I had her in bed within one hour and she was wild. I have never experienced anything like that. Now, this was unbelievable to me - I could never in a million years have guessed that this could have 17 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

happened and it made me feel invincible. The following Saturday night I went out and did 10 approaches and I did it with the idea that no matter what happens I will make this woman feel good about herself. I didn't get one negative response. Ross, that night I felt like a celebrity - I made women feel good, and they flocked around. I got 4 telephone numbers. Now this may sound good but wait for this. I spotted this amazing girl with incredible breasts and a beautiful body and after an initial approach using (you have the most incredible hair!) I ran the instant connection pattern and then the "blammo" pattern. She was all over me and I got her number. Over the last 2 weeks I have used a combination of patterns on the girl of my life - the girl I talked about in the first paragraph. Within 2 weeks, this girl has left her boyfriend and is texting me everyday asking me when I am going to make love to her. She responded to the patterns better than anybody. Your teaching has changed my life and I will never be the same again. The work that you do changes lives but then you know that already.

Wow, What can I say. Congrats on your success right out of the box! Now, note the key here. He turned this "friend" into a woman who wants him to f@@k him silly by making her feel WONDERFUL. He didn't have to bully. He certainly didn't have to beg or his way in. buy When you capture and lead a woman's imagination and emotions YOU are truly the one in charge . And that is the way it really should be. 18 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

In the next section, I will show the "exactly-how-to" that, when you follow it, turns . that "friend" into your devoted lover Get ready for this!

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries Founder, Speed Seduction P.S. Because I want to make sure you have EVERYTHING to succeed with her when you Sarge, I've cobbled together a quick, no-frills, cut-to-the-chase, I-justneed-the-raw-basics, lay-it-out-for-me, "Cliff Notes", "crash course" on the most common practical techniques of Speed Seduction® for you...

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How To Turn That "Friend" Into Your Devoted Lover! Dear Speed Seduction® Student, My girl-getting teaching goes around the world and reaches guys from every walk of life, from every kind of culture, in every age range. You'd think guys have different problems with women. But when it comes to women, I've learned, we are pretty much the same. We all face pretty much the same challenges. We are all pretty much trying to figure out the same puzzles. And one of those puzzles is: "How Do I Turn My 'Friend' Into My Devoted Lover?" Now, here is a question I have seen many times. I'll let the student speak in his own voice: Hi Ross: My name is XXX. I think your material is absolutely fantastic and it has thought me so many little things in which you should never, ever do with women! And for that I thank you most grateful. I don't know where you learned all of this but it really is great. I have a problem though. I am completely falling for one of my friends. I feel a very strong sexual attraction towards her, perhaps stronger than I have ever felt before. I have never been closer to a girl. We talk for hours, we are very physically close when we are with each other but I think she may be afraid of abandoning friendship. This is a serious gripe in my side. Is there anything I could do effectively to bring out her true feelings and desires without blatantly asking 20 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

her? I suppose I want to know how do you tell when a girl gets close to you whether she is a friend or something more.

Ok, Mr. X. The first thing to realize is, even if this girl is totally attracted to you, to the point where she is having nightly fantasies about you and her doing the nasty "grown-up" thang, there is just about zero chance that she is going to make the first physical move. Sorry, but that just isn't the way it works. I really wish it weren't the case that we guys almost always have to go first. But that is how it works. So if you were hoping for her to make a move, or tell you herself, it's unlikely to happen. Now, even if she is afraid of "losing the friendship" that doesn't mean you have to let her fears dictate where you or her are going to go. As I have said before, one of the key aspects of being a leader with women, is to see where they are at, without having to go there for yourself. That is, you can understand her emotions, without having to take them on for yourself. Her fear is just that; H-E-R-S. Stand your ground, and set the lead.

Does that make sense? Now, having said that, there are some things you can do to accelerate this sexually and see just where you really stand. First of all, let me tell you what I do NOT recommend. I do NOT recommend suddenly grabbing and kissing her.

Why? 21 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

It's too rough a jump. To go from zero contact to erotic contact (like kissing) is just too abrupt. So I would recommend you do some testing of her physical boundaries first. Now, it just so happens, women have 3 "erotic hot spots" that seem like totally innocent places to touch. These are: 1. The back of the neck 2. The small of the back 3. The palm (and thumb) (By the way, to see free video clips of me demonstrating the first two spots on a very hot female subject, just go to: http://www.seduction.com/resources.php) Anyway, here is what you can do: 1) When you are talking to her, get up to go to the bathroom, but as you do, reach out, and with the palm of your hand, gently rub the back of her neck (as I illustrate on the free video on the website). Notice her response. If she inhales sharply, moans with pleasure, melts under your touch, then you are on your way ! 2) Another thing you can do is to offer to read her palm. Don't ask me how to do palm reading; go to the library and get a book on it. her palm shows she is lonely . Anyway, you can mostly make it up. Tell her Trace your finger on her palm and tell her that her love line is very strong , that she has strong desires. Explain also that the palm is a strong energy center, then take your thumb and rub her palm with your thumb. If you see her get the "doggy dinner bowl" look; the look that says, "kiss me now" then lean in and kiss her !


If she pulls back, don't apologize! Just look at her and say, "hmmm…it just seemed like you needed it"!

Another thing to do (also illustrated on the website) is to put your palm briefly on the small of her back when you are walking somewhere. Don't keep it there. Just use it to guide her briefly and then take it away. The small of the back is a strong sexual energy center. The best advice is: learn from this. Don't be too attached to this outcome with this girl. Remember this belief;

I either get what I want, or learn what I need to in order to get what I want or even BETER, next time. If you see all of this through the filter of THAT belief, you will do way better with this girl than if you HAVE to "win." Sounds like pretty "stealth" stuff? It's proven, and it works. And, if it turns out that she really isn't going to want to be more than "just friends" you can easily "Exit, Stage Left" from the Sarge without jeopardizing anything. In the next segment, we're going to hear from a student who had the "F-bomb" lobbed at him... then not only dodged it, but nailed the chick who threw it at him! Peace and piece,


P.S. Now, let me ask you... (turn to next page)...


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How He Nailed That Girl Who Said, "Let's Just Be Friends" Dear Speed Seduction® Student, A very brilliant science fiction writer once said, "Any sufficiently developed technology would be indistinguishable from magic". Sometimes the things you can do with Speed Seduction® SEEM like magic. Like an old, ugly, skinny guy getting beautiful women scandalously younger than him (I won't name any names..ahemm, ahemm). Or a guy getting a girl to dump her boyfriend for him. But perhaps the most "magic" of all is when a guy turns it all around and gets a girl who told him, "I just want to be friends " and uses Speed Seduction® to have her riding his one-eyed trouser hog! There really is something SOOOO fulfilling about having the person who formerly rejected you now giving you the ultimate in embraces; the good old "cootchie handshaking." Here is how one student of mine made it happen. I'll let him tell you in his own words. Note how he applies the teachings in a way that apply to HIS situation and doesn't get phased when things don't quite go his way (at first): Dear Ross, In this post I will detail how I managed to seduce a woman who flaked, stood me up and eventually f@@ked me. Understandably this hot babe gutted my self esteem and played a large role in me reaching the stage where I was willing to invest in the BHSC and give SS a shot. Previously before I started SS I had gotten along very well with this HB on an at times frustrating platonic 25 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

level; she enjoyed my company and we hadn't met since she went on holidays 3 months ago. We organized to go for drinks at a bar and I started with some small talk about her holiday, encouraging her to vividly describe events with positive responses. After lifting her mood significantly she asked me how my job was going. Fortunately my job affords me some exciting stories to relate to people when they ask and I concentrated on emphasizing the excitement and spontaneous-ness of events. By this stage I had drank a lot more than this HB and I began losing control of the rhythm and direction of the conversation as she started talking about her family. Once I realized what was happening I decided to retake control and use what she said so far to bring the conversation in the direction of people and relationships. Leaving her with that thought I left to get a drink and returned to start a peak experience pattern that worked pleasingly well. She then started talking about sex with women quite spontaneously that entered a discussion about homosexuality that I wasn't thrilled about because it seemed like things were getting derailed again. I proceeded to ask her about men she admired and she asked me what I admired about her. I felt this was on the right track and told her she was an intelligent, career minded, goal orientated person and that I really admired that. She then asked me if that was all so I dug a little deeper and talked about how people appreciate her depth, genuine feelings and how when we talk rather than hear, we listen. This went down well and I proceeded to ask her what she admired about me. The bartender made last call and I suddenly felt the pressure to make my move or walk away empty handed.


I regret to say I almost failed to act because at this stage I wasn't completely satisfied with my Sarge so far, feeling as though I should have patterned more and almost lost things when the conversation got derailed twice. I thought quickly about an opener for a kiss and came up with "you know we haven't ever kissed before." My hesitation was relieved by the confidence that throughout my Sarge so far I have built a very open rapport and that if she denied my advance I would be able to amend matters. She responded with surprise and said "where did that come from?" and with a warm smile I responded "hmmm, I dunno but how about it?" She replied "I don't know if I should" without much hesitation and without thinking I replied "well maybe you shouldn't" and leaned in to kiss her. We started furiously making out and left the bar just before it shut. She then asked me how I was getting home and I replied that I didn't know because the last bus service has ended and suggested that I just walk home. She said she considered it herself but would rather take a taxi and asked me what I would do. I replied smiling "well I could go home with you in the taxi or I could walk home." She smiled and slapped my arm saying "oooh, you're naughty I have never seen this side of you before". She was right - before this night I was a complete AFC supplicator to her. She continued "You're more than welcome to stay at my place if you like" and we caught a taxi back to her place. When we arrived at her place I followed her into her room, took my shoes off, and sat on her bed. She sat on a swivel chair with wheels close to the bed and said "I don't know if we should sleep together." I smiled at her and dragged her chair to the edge of the bed until she was close to me and kissed her passionately, as she yielded I picked her up and 27 Dodging The "F" Bomb! The "Exactly How To" That Springs You Out Of The "Friend Trap"... Or Helps You Avoid It In The First Place!  1988-2010, Ghita Services, Inc. All Rights Reserved. www.seduction.com

leaned backwards as she fell on top of me and we threw in each other's caress on the bed. Let's just say the rest was satisfying. I hope this post inspires some of you who are experiencing difficulties to try things with a renewed enthusiasm and any comments or suggestions on how I could have done things better are more than welcome. Lastly to everybody who feels that once a girl flakes or burns you that things are over I say shame on you and your lack of faith in SS. Commit to practicing at every opportunity and study your materials and virtually anything is possible.

Nice going, brother! I think what really made this work is regaining control of your state when you felt it was slipping and moving in a strong direction to stay in control of yourself and of the situation. getting her to talk about her holiday : the theme of vacations Nice use also of is a good one to get women into the part of their mind that dwells on fantasy, excitement, fulfillment of repressed desires, indulgence, etc. Peace and piece,


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