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I've met a lot of guysin this community.And somearejust I{ERB,

il READINGALL THE TIME. But they still haveNOT hada girlfiiendin

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l. Not having a camed openerthat you canusein any situation.

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2. Not learningthe Cubein additionto a value-demonslrating skill

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(palmreading,hw analysis, runes,etc.)

I lfyou cando theseTWO, you shouldbe ableto walk to anyoneandbe INTERESTING.IMHO, that is AIL you needto get yourself startedon the b6sics.I meetpeoplewho havebeenon nASF for a year,but STILL do

NOT what to saywhen they speakto a girl. Get the aboveshit down' Sure,you cango to boot campandstoplisteningto Barry Manilow songs.But alsoLEARN someshi1.STUDYAND IMPLEMENTit Onceyou get thesedown,you should:

3. Havea systemfor getting a #close onceyou realizethat 4. Be ableto *closewithoutfearor nervousness thetime is ripeto do so. screentng' into your game:c/f, challenges, 5. Workthe subtleties rapport,etc.

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sP-Inner:

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game ard gave them tactics

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people

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example.

help

in

got

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a while.

change. in

person

a third llBs

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sexuality, tnat

you're

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ever being

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(if

to

have

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thir*

paying

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or

you

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have

we need ro -nqnge.

is

is

guy.

fearless and learned

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his

betief

thaE j1e

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be living

back into

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to take

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a hard

look

NOT working. you nor

expressing

boring,

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to her,

do you get

ask your

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lvhy are

altention

and judged?

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deservedness.

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friends

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them

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your

mind

wonder what a 10

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internal

so stuck

do you real]y

tike

you not

atrracling

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at

feel

a trusted

like

wing),

you

you

could

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I

knov, if

don't

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possible

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all

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just

time,

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in

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to know how it'6

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not

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as you reach

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and gimnicks

words,

and walk-ups

made you a more interesting

point'

person'

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has taught

the fevel

of

these you a 1ot

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turbulence

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identity

rather

time,

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routines

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mastery

women

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in

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figures,

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to people

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post

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interesting.

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thoughLs I had about you.

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misslng

Before

I even click

I can always guess LhaL iL's f^y

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you

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instead just

and ends up

people

other

bums them off

as much.

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IN YOURSELFto

respond

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Iight

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and practicing

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him very

interesting.

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of

a lot

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us to what,

here:

find is

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out .

find

on to Your sticking

Aiyway,

Regarding

your

problems

too.

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every

great.

of ltouth

furl'l

itrs

once I did,

brings

THE TIME.

way'

A guy who I would have to

but

stuff

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you as a guy in

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to,

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of

a wing;

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himself.

talk

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more

the book sleight

buying

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into

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greediness

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coNFIDENcE

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don't

is

interesting

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metaphor:

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the

You WANT to give.

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to

any more cigarettes'

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gym, dates,

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gettiog

time,

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or

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like

people

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or

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furl or

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interesting

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just

of

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time wibh my friends,

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people.

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yourself,

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Even as you write You just things

worry in

you.

that

this,

you I(NOWyour

others

won,t

You know you are

RECOGNIZEthe special

special

and interesting,

dude.

It's

part

worry

that

others

a r^ray to

won't

when the

rare

right

to

say about

in people,

riding .fu6t

life.

relax;

about

ENTERTAIN all person

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if

it

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the

You

what they fire

kazoo to get people.

have

while

alcent1olt.

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If

CENTER OF ATTENTIOIiI

going

to

come off

as a flawed

A11 you have to d o i s :

eome naturally.

doeen't

learn

and admiration.

be the

you're

time,

to

rn other

and eniov the attention

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or gimmick you know comes up, J

a routine

for

take

normal.

need to be juggling

playing

while

to

perfectly

you like

and be interested

opportunity share it

away- And not

you're

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a unicycle

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an ego.

away. You have to

GET IT right

them GET II

help

personally

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of being

BE INTERESTED AND II{IEREST]NG.

Like

I

said

in

a post

and make them part that

good lines

Dude, if

of

your

you think

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write

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people,

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have more experience:

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get

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others

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stop

to

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is

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If

no one else

will. I

I want to

see you start

contributing

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what's E

special

right

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books the

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book for

think

out

good qualit.ies

the

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of about

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yourseff,

and focus

on them.

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be surprised

when I

someone DOESNTTTrIKE you instead

of

being

surprised

when I

they DO.

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don't

get

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you are a hard case, man. I wAMf

of Special.

see you improve.

in

But you're

going

to get

nowhere if

I

you must nake that

insecurities.

you

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a I

prlority

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takes.

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know ho\,7 hard

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year:

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dance classes, Itrs

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posture

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speech

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to the game, but

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person.

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f'm

ael f - improvement, everyone

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me

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some reason

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meditation,

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I have sex srith will

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the woman

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a chick

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to BECOMEyou.

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you are ejecting

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have her and CHOOSEnot

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fine,

her and succeeded then.

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and geL iL.

SP. It's

what drives

you,

parent you your

who was either

(a wild

have to

and ELIMINATE the

effective.

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which

is

seff

sabotaging,

that

masochistic

just

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crltical

of

re examine

are not

and KEEp the

of the things

keep you interesting

ones that complicate

behaviors.

and successful.

are your

Keep the

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which.

Reading this, seduction

tine

ones that

t

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had one strong

guess) . So, IMO, you just

and \,iaste your

ones that

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behaviors

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hard to please

productive

life:

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problem.

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answered you pretty

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know that

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this

a fear

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the

here.

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approaching.

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well

you say that

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you on

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answer here

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is the

to

SHUT UP THAT LITTLE SELF-

back of your

head.

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i n y o u r h e a d a n d c O A P P R O A C H .I t , s

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vill

go dry.

fear

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dissipate.

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pound with

will

in

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your

fear,

openers

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yourself

to thi,nk,

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it.

that

is

there

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away YOUR POWERto she'11

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you and that

reject

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practice,

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meeting

say "pleasure

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or

newbie mission

and REDO the

a favor

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afraid

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your

make you question

concept of Yoursef f --c rmon)

so,

wibh your

something

she'is REALLY doing and you can thank or

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her.

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f you

tell

noL your

you later

she may even reapproach

failure;

apologize.

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happen

f

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doing'

she'11

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more

say is

you have to

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and more interesting

important

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anything

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and

an excuse?

to do for

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groups

guys and girls

with

thing

the hardest

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in

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a group ! .Tust befriend

them

in

the wor1d. but

yourre

think

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actually

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getting

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proper

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scared

state,

approach.

to

some warm up sets

you NEVER will

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under your

if

you sit

you approach

(as in

belt

if

afmost

and

every

here).

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how you get

rid

of

the problem'

EVERY TIME you see a HB who you are

It's

interested

how I did: in but

don't

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q

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approachr

it

a FAfLURE- you know what I,m

is

because you feel out

and don't

sense of

approach.

you Do NOT fail

fail.

chance.

only

experierrce

way you will

Eawe you ever

calr do it.

eorking

out

when you go in

lize :IT!

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and will

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like

time

you s t a l e

a failure.

regret

later.

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in

when the

you

the voice

the

they

firea

say ,,just is

that

voice

on AsF,

last

and hear rep.

sayinq

T H R X ES E C O N DR U I , B! G O ! ! I ! I

c@fortable Dake lhat

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me, do you witb

leap

1e respondE:

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think

I had a problero

Ey oren Eexualitl,? to

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physical.

f often

and

gone and you,re

you do that

of us here,

one norel

THREE SECOND RULE! GOI ! ! ! ! N

you &et

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the

gym? Do you know how when

trainer

fNTERNAIIZE

',one more" ald

SP-Inner:

a

a

game better.

gttiteg

ect:

Dontt

and open and take

make your

exhausted,

alone?

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every

about,

learn-

completely

I.ou're

failure

So DoN,T feet

THEN, you have nothing

learning

L)u

that

talking

get

beiBg Ecarod

So

the

I might

come to

agree.

you were talking enj oying

your

progress

to get

interesting

to

think

it,

of

one girl

that

physical,

real

because you didn't

out

Later,

some Spani.sh guy who was vj-siting

table.

When I1eft,

him.

That

comfortable.

town

came up to

ehe was going

eeemed like

it

feel

you were

you:

But she liked

and made her

and different

example,

She was

our table,

at

company. You staled

Fol

I do agree.

the

home with

have been you.

could

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just

got

talking refer

it's

Before,

solved. to

to

same problem

I had the

Actually,

suddenLf.i;

Even you

to kissing.

initially,

which helps us as the

And then we must turn up the sexuality

initially.

a leap:

no longer

f1ow. You and I

of the natural

are both non-threatening

But

me, it's

as a 1eap. Now, for

part

first.

was such a LEAP to go from

it

from touching

touching,

it

just

at

sarge progresses and the IOIS increase-

So how do you

it

turn

fron

LEAP to

to practice.

do ROurINES first

After

for

So, be a machine:

phase shift.

Do you have a phase-shiftj.ng

IOIS-

cive

If

not,

srrite

yourself

you have them.

three

will

it

successes,

become fIo!,r.

routine?

wait

you have to

FLoW? we1l,

IoIs,

pattern

then or

some down and use thein once you geb

kino

soon they'll

moves to use too. become natural

write for

them out you.

if

In addition into

the

your

life

it

be rated?"

it

si-tuation,

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of-

of your

uniqueness

in

guts

in

alld funny

and in

you,

you could

that

particular

makes you MORE

it

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you have

to

r4rorks. Do it

it

not

control

in

David

D's

being

a jerk,

of

your

have this

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be otherwise.

easy.

what

and get

posts

respect,

it's

too.

way, yourre

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it.

hurdfe

thaE BECAUSE

is

particular

a journey

do is

that

TRY oN this

out

to get

you're

a feel

being

I new

way:

a cocky/funny

emails

wotld-

brings

on. Anl,'I,iay, to get

you can capitalize

or? and see if zan's

a moviel

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considering

I think

you might

them that

through

but

this

to be ballsy,

going

"rf

thread.

because of your

thaL,

to HBs than

something

Juggler's

AIVIAZINGwhat you can do and \^that yourre

is

capable

attractive

conwo

the

book was made into

discussion

with

deal

transition

a good one is

you ARE incredible.

dude,

YoU have to

read

ways to

find

was a book and that

Overa11,

tlrc

above,

For example,

sexual.

what would

that

the

to

for

arrogant

knowing

1 think, problem

licked

in

@!e month.

There or

are times

like

when ALL of us here

we should

be nore

know whatts possible aituation, Iay,

of

feel

powerless

a fittle

a MAN. We read

FRs here

the

and then when we DON'T do it

werre very hard on ourselwes.

man. This is just

a tiny

roadblock

You've you'11

in

and

a

come a long get past.

-E E -E E

See you soon.

Scyle

la,rites - I'm

Re: SP_Inner

You got

some good responses

long

is:

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just

all

the

your

T

your

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point

stories

donrt

buy

and game' They

to your

by her hair"'

dancefloor

so

for

skills?

and pointing

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an HB off

dragging

seen you post

community

this

REAL sticking

your

What's

somehow. 1've

weren't

and improve

learn

to

not

if

I

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why have you been in

otherwise,

nean,

here--from

ToTALLY buy what you say here:

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Plus,

etc.

spirit

on my appearance

l-azy and rely

subject.

dick

and

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as you put

ir.

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I {

take

or do nagic

post

this tricks

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literal1y'

or have a girnmick if

are you getting

you arje, you have no sP' do differently

you donrt

to get

If

those

the

you are not'

NEED to pafm read

you don't

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what could

results?

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an ideal

state

his

heart

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for

engaged in

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it

reread in

attitude

not

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your

them that your

readdress

to go on. both

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posts.

but

is

nice

to

You have an

both

helps

compficated

a unique,

and hurts

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SP later,

and scares

attracts

covering

hov,r I work, SP. It

can be

aqray the

aot

guy and

HBs

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s newsgroup.

to

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life--.

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game. So I will

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howewer, a personal

is.

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plate.

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"emotional

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some. It

interesting,

say your

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so

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the

let

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9oa1s.

everyone

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here

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rr^rrr-a

are

a car

behind

traffic

and

rubber-neeking

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slow down, and

I f

I gathet

ideas

the

with

relationship

conflicted

in

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up traffic.

you.

goa1s.

different

everyone

about

OWN

newsgroup influence

this

has slightly

here

and complains

holding

of

trends

guy i^tho's caught

I see you as the accident

want to be a PUA. Set your

you don't

good that

It's

from the

post

your

coffnunity

about

and its

ideology: ie

Lil i
2, Hl4)ocrisy is nisery 3. You think

too much,

4. You have internal

conflicts

that,

in the big picture,

are

BS.

total

My advice: tet

go and efiLbrace your are you otr the

decide: to

yourself

hurt

tlle

Stylo

staircase

if

self-

nature.

the

You're

bus or off

you

and the

Embrace your

stand

other

in

the

dangling

bus.

doorway in

the

itith

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one leg

street.

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SP-Inner

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opposite

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knolr lrm not.

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it's

interesting

how everyone,s

REAL Sp-INNERS

=

ar.e all

pretty

similar.

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it

ALL has to do with

a

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quote

from

the Huna book:

THE WORLD15 WHAT YOU THINK IT IS.

-

You live

in

the

you believe

reality

in

and create.

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think

we could

all

stand

to

create

a better

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are receded

back into

their

own heads,

they

don,t

do well

in

the

when I meet gnrys who project

fie1d.

your

sou1,

for

soul

reside?

your

body,

lack If

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a glow

of

penetrating is

that

then

on fire.

but

sounds new-agey,

I can't

think

of

any better

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it.

explain

been a pleasure.

Anyway, itls

Thanks for your honesty_ we'11

sP thread sometime in the near future,

to our regular

return

because I have tons of new laetics

style

with

or magnetism,

the middle

a halo

When it's it

body and

where does your

shadow in

litt1e

and surrounding

charisma

your

metaphor,

a better

a tioy

it's

body

sometimes called youtre

of

you must work on it-

your

through

you imagine

so if

do we1l.

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outward,

energy

their

to share.

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Re3 sP-Ioner:

Your SP is

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that

read

the

your

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through

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afraid

someone

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face.

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coo1,

fun,

humorous guy who people

meffow,

love

to be

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guy at

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of

beginning

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workshop

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parenEs

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Re: SP Inner:

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thread,

you saved roy ASS when I

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for

had to

saw you in

perfection

respond ltaly.

to you.

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all,

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as if

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for

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canned

opener

constraint

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bu!

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opener

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friends

test

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inctuded

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cballenges

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option

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routine,

srep

four)

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magic,

psychic

rouline,

humor,

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her

email,

to

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frame here

home and mobile

numlcerE.

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actually,

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i know,I said no more postingon asf for a while,But here I am on Sundayni9ht, browsing.So sue me. Here'sthe answerto your probleml

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In otherwords,if you catchthem lookingat your teeth, say, i know. as you can. Endwith, Thentell the story: make it as fascinating "Eversincethen, I've felt no fear. I'm not afraidof anything." (It's from the romance novel Bad Boy that someonerecommendedhere--an ok book.)

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Then,add, "Whenmy girlfriend(or say'girlfriendat the time,'your call but I prefer the idea of you with a girlfriend) saw what happened to my teeth, she was heartbroken. But when she felt what i can do with them now, she pretty quicklychangedher mind {smile}"

Shewill then ask. "WhatCANvou do with them now?"

This is whenyou give her a big teasing smileand say/ "Hey,I don't knowyou well enoughyet. That comes laterin the relationship."

Now,EVERY time sheseesyou smileor seesyourmissing teeth,she'll bethinkingaboutyousexually andwhatyou'relikein bedl

I guessit's a form of anchoring.

Try it for me, and reportback.Plus,moreimportantly.it'll reframe YoUaboutyourteeth,andyouwon'tbeso selfconscious aboutthem. just whatshe'sthinkingl Whena chicklooksat them,nowyou'llKNOW

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Anyway, last nighl I went out with the SHB andrealizeda major sticking point I still have.lfs that I can'tgo Tunnces.WhenI read thatdude'sfield reports,he'sfuckingballsy:hejumpsintothe beds ofchicks nakedwho he hasn'tevenkissedyet and shit. My seductions progressmore alongmutual lines.Anyway, here'sthe story:

We'll call her HBHumorless.I pick her up, runninghalf an hour lale asusual.She'slooking goodin a shortskirt, long legs,tan soft skin, andlong blondeo(tensions.I of couse neg instantlyandask her what scentshe'sweadng,andthentell her it smellslike tanning oil. Shesayssheactuallyusesa bronzingcream.And I say,"Busted!"

We go to a concert.Shetalks abouthow shehatesgoing to shows becauseguys alwayshit on her, so I instantly go into "beautyis colnmon"pattems.I talk abouthow everyonethoughtthings cameeasy to my ex gfbecauseshewas so gorgeous,but the futh is that shehad to work twice ashard for ever;.tling becauseno onegaveh€I a break

I T andshealwayshadto proveherselfAnyv'ayshelovedthis.ThenI talked abouthow peoplemustthink she'sa bitch but in truth she's just shy.Shetotallyagreedhere.OfcouNe,assoonasshementions modeling,I ask,"Handmodeling?"

Anyway,at the show,I takeMaddast/TD'sadvice,andtum my body languageaway.I forcedher to initiate convo ifshe wantedto talk, but everytime it wasa BORING FLUFF questionthat didn't takethe conversationanywhere.The tuth hereis that sheis not a comfofiable personto bewith, becaus€ sheis quiet,shy,anddoesn'thavea great senseofhumor.

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At this point, I'm kind of frustrated.My problemis that I'm hying to get her to just openup and all of a suddenbe warm andinviting and andkino-ing.But thatis NEVERgoingto happen'I mustjustLEAD TAKE. But it's hard for me to do it without concreteIOIS And that's MY problem,not HERS.

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We run into Gdmble.I want to showhim what I'm working with, so I teaseher abouther hair extensionsin ftont ofhim andaboutnot beingable to pretendlike she'sa garbagewoman. I tell her that her new nicknameis the Michigan Frog, after the WamerBros. cartoon *here the frog singsanddancesto showtunesin pdvale but clamsup in publicandjustribets.Thefactis, at thispointI'm negging/teasing, when I shouldbe amplifying andphaseshifting: but it's so hardto get a darnnREACTION ftom her.

We leave,andGrimblecallsme."You'rein," he says."Justgo caveman."

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The importance of LIFESTYLE...

A friend ofmine is a club prcmoter.Sowe decidedto thow a party. 500peopleshowedup.

And halfwaythough it, I hada epiphany:SARGINGIS NOT FORPUAS. I've postedon this before,but now I tmly undeNtandit. Ifyou are in the Leamingphase,by all means,go sargein that greatholodeckout there. But the whole conceptof going out with a wing to a bar i,rll of strangers guysdo. lt is to pick up chicksis not rcallywhatCOOL,SUCCESSFUL fun ashell. But, evenifyou are successflrl,sowhat? Soyou went out, playedthe field, did somecrashandbums,maybegot a phone#, or even

, t pickedup somehashedparrygiri andhadsexwith her.Great.This makes you a cheesyplayer-type.And it's bettorthan beingthe walillower you werebeforeASF,but it's not reallyfirlfilling you,is i1?

whatw€ needto be doingis designinga lifestylein Thisis because which we arealwaysaccompaniedby beautifui wornen.A lifestyle in and *hich you arealwaysthemanofthe room,whereyouknow everyone get VIP tleatment.And I don't think fiis lifestyle takesmuch more than:

I . Knowing what the hot pafy/club/whateverof the night is, and for youselfand guests. havingVIP access 2. Having your own after pafiy or accessto the affer parly. 3. A willingnessto spendlonghoursandlatenightsgoingout without a time constraint.

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4. An ability to work a room: to know or get10know everyone,to make

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a briefinteresting conversationandthen move on, andto be ableto

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holdcourtwhennecessary.

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5. A willingnessto be arounddrugs,or knowpeoplewith them,evenif you don'tdo themyourself.(Personally,Ido not do dmgs,ol ever drinkmorethana cocktailor two.)

To usea metaphor,sargingis a iittle like being a waiier. Every day

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stats over new, from scratch.You walk in the restaurantandmust dealwith a wholenew setolcustomersandtheirproblems.Sure,along the way perhapsyou becomea betterselverandget betterat dealing &'ith people,but it is not CUMULATIVE. Whenyou'reworking asan intem or a paralegalor a smallrole in a play or a entepreneur this is all CUMULATIVE.Everythingyou do buildingyour ownbusiness, everydaycountsandbringsyou closerto yourgoal.

So,to closeout this melaphor,what you want to be doing everynight you go out is havingthegoalofbuildingthatlifestyle.So,ifthat lifestyle is in the club scene,you shouldbe makingconnectionswith list for promoters anddoorp€ople or buildinga mailing/contact throwingyourown pafiy or tying to getthatjob asa clubDJ or befiiendingtlle guyswho havethe after-partiesor befriending the guyswho hangout in the scene.But it is not enoughto just be liiendly, you alsomust OFFERsomefting.You must figure out what YOUR valueis to tlem: whetherlhatbe materialor social(your personalityis sofun that it makeseveryonearoundyou comfortable andhavea goodtime,andhelpsotherguysmeetwomen).

this]'ith Grimble,andhe madethepoint: "Why do girls I discussed want to screwloser club promoterswho live with their mom?Because they want to be part oflhe cool crowd. Setit up so that alwayswant

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to seekyourvalidation."

Obviously,my ideasherecomefrom my owa perspective, fiom sarging in urbancenters. And, I n'tustnotethatthis is NOT for everyone.

PSAm I donewith tlis game?HaveI mastered it? Ilell no. Thereis so muchstill to leamthatI havealmostzeroexperience in: dancelloor PUs(whichPapshasstartedto teachme),streetapproaches, driving

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everyone

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quality

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practice

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also to her

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was so RIGHT oN. And why was

because you FLIPPED every

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This explainsso much,man.Thanks.Funnyhow we l'nrdly eventalked aboutall this, or anyPU really. I am going to print it out andread it whenI work out today,andconlnentmorein depthifnecessary.

Also,here'sanupdateon someofthe girlsfton theweekend,for fiur:

#i The cutebig-teethgirl thathadJapanese lbod with us.Theone liom theBadboy-style reportthatyou keptinvitingout with uswhen I hada date*ith HBRed,LOLI Anyway,sawhe. tonight,andspent the night at her place.Finally. I really like her for somecrazyreason.

E E E E E E E E E E E E E

E E E

Also solvedwhateverwent rl{ons last time.

Style: Let me askyou something. Whenyou left my housein the moming last time, did you get all weird afterwardsbecauseyou thoughtI was a player or becauseyou thoughtI liked you too much. HB: Both,I guess. Style:Well,they'rebothtrue(rollingoveron top ofher, and tickling her andkissing her).

#2 The shortfirebrandI mel at the Easterpafy, andinvited myself to her housethat samenight when we were in the caJ.Al1,the memo es. Anlaray, you'll neverbelievethis, but nothinghappened.Shewould NOT get within proximib/ ofme at all for the enlire night. It was bizarre.It was so on before.This time, shejust talked my ear off throughoutthe endremovie, but the sexualgreenlights were all gone.Bizane. Justwhen I wasaboutto tbint I was a super-stud,I comecrashingto earth.

#3 The Asian girl who I got hot andhealy with in the bathroomofthe divebar...I mayachully seeher again,believeit or no1.

Anlway, goodtimes.Will respondin detail later, but I generally agreewith what you wrote. Greatpost andexplanationand

I E E E I I I

cladfication.

Style

writes: At rrhat poinl

Subject:

corr|

b.dd/,

do you

b, L LfF orsver

"know" enough about

Ino

to your quesrron -s

seduction

yol

Exanple: Lasr nigh., 30 minutes

Lh Juogler, of

meeling

I go to

Today,

watch a video

a party with

pretext

obvious

for nli.A

hol

shit

Non I

what I this.

I

this

girl

cutest

sleeping I

li

r

odrl roor trrr hin

Lhat

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same nrght. So I

shower, -'

d-

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1 make a plan seems like

grab

to

an

condoms, and

,inL,

an.

am home from her place:

should But

girls.

four

logether. zq

-n-

girl.

Asian

and #close

the

and 9or a BJ -n

do nexl

she wouldnrt

lime.

nothing

If

happened.

anyLhing

even eit

on the

So I'm

seemed like

back looking

a sure

same couch next

tbing,

over

it

sas

!o me, and talked -p-ove .

style

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going

can't

to

yet

tell

if

mat.erial.

I

sometime,

which

add lhat

flnd

a girl e/

this

guess

llusl

the

you to

call

I,d

I,d

is

real

have

to

love

to

personatty,

dude.

and drama-free sit

do.

to ny arsenal.

you are

ent

discuss,

do&r'] with

interested

and rrue you both

she does ROCK for

Holy

shir!

in

And lhe

for

I've

as tong

happy narrrage

and have dinner

the

facr

mer tiB11, anat

ftovers is,

it

thrng. is

RARE to

as you have been and to

HB 1.

you ndvF been in

-

F

Four things

!o

I

1. once she is

a

fade?

I -

T I

a z

consider: YOURS, wilt

2.

The ex husband

3.

The child

4.

The fact

part

of

that

your

the

life

some of

chitd

lhe

attraction/chase/aos

means rha!

lhe

will

have

to

De

too-

[NOTE FROM STYLE, 2O0G: He rnarried together.

ex husband

thrills

her,

and they

had a child

l

-

z 2 il

StyTe vtites, Subjeclr

IIow would

YOU have ptayed

this?

F

F F

F

F

Saw the lo

girl

from

be flaking.

tried

lo

play

otber

people

Afl it to

7 I

Bailboy-slyle

night, cool.

try

her game like

the

a player

just

wen! !o get

to

house, in

I

thoughr a rock

a mosh pit

spent

the

l:eporr

the

morning.

Lonighr about

concerrr going,

nighrr

rhe

one l,iho seened

how nuch

I

and kepr

pushing

tiked

her.

Bur

her

inro

LOL.

and then,

finalty.

ptayed

lhe

EB: Are you sleeping Style:

lel

out.

Il

Irve

other

counring

years,

including

(seeing up rith

romen?

on my fingersr

depends on how you deflne

IiB: Yeah,

broke

of

tlke

3 0 w o m e n .)

Seriously.

knovn for

slyle

lots

(Starr

me see.

EB: Cut it Style:

wirh

I I I I I I I I I I I

but

onty

ir:

steep

r mean, there

wirh

every

six

are

some girls

months.

lhose.

that

she's

IiBRed,

going

nor

so only

ro arrop rhe

one orher

righr

issue):

r{e1t,

r jusr

now.

HB: ttho, s she? Slyle:

Ar} oldex

wonan who,s using

HB: When I \ras living

in

people,

fu1fi1ling.

and it

wasn't

want to be so head over (shortened

Slyle sels

ils

going

to

San Francisco,

heels

version

of

o\4:n course,

anal

aith

rt,s

interfering

it.

be like

wirh

me for

I

in

my body.... r was seeing

oever

tove

tonger

l,'anr !o

wirh

just

nor

in

someone.

do rhat

my conlrot

They have

!o

again.

Now I

one person.

speech) : wet1, you have

a few different

every

retarionsnp

er.pectations

you

srarr

wha! my r:etationship

is

earn

of

and inspire

att

ny

I I I I I E E

E Slyle:

Iiey,

how many guys

HB: One other, Style:

but

have you

he didn,t

stepr

vith

since

you moveal to

I

!A?

courL.

Why's lhat?

HB: I had slept

wilh

him before

he moved here,

and he had a real

1iErle

dick. Style:

Let

me ask you sonething.

you gel

all

weird

thought

I

EB: Both, Style: ber

liked I

we1l,

because you

roo

when you tef!

you thought

ny house ]asr

I was a player

or

time,

because

did

you

much.

guess, they're

and kissing

her) .

borh

rrue

(rotting

over

on top

of

her,

and tickting

E E E E E E E E E E

Ah,

all

is

good for

are perfect, both

but

now.

rhey

don L know if

I

seened to wor:k: plenty

May go away with

ne and her.

about

has me lhinking

her

writes

subj ecl:

her

chis

of

I

nixed

weekend.

much. Sbe has all

too

personality/looks/mannerisms

StyLe

abowe convo

lhe

lhe

and responses

meEsages, fron

Fuck,

she kind

'cute

girlr

of

so much.

like

t

Puing older

women - f 6 t h e p r o c e s s d i f f e r e n t ?

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younger

guy,

I

find

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booly ca]],

they

boy loy.

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a

lhem that

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want

never

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the

rr.l:7F

them,

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to

teaee

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Is

Time, Lifeetyle:

cirlE,

thi6

a normal week for

you too?

cenerally,

I,m

sar.ging a lot PUA (that 9ir1s

life

jusgling latelylhat

department,

a lot So it

girls

ad

#closes,

makes me !,ondei

I wanted). despile

of

the

because wariety.

I

if

s!i1l

Iim feel

and hawen' t been living

the

uafulfilled

life in

of the

a

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girl

star up/

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i

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who was with ould

have to

wiih

Juggler,

I

J.rrJ,

he.

super

slowly

-

t

) _s

o*r

geeky husband.

seduce her

oul

omozrn9

so may or nLay no!

from under

his

follow

nose.

FRIDAY I,len! ou!

nBRed Epe-d

h-

IlBRed, and Myster:yrs

girlfriend.

neu stripper

Had

n.ghL aE my hous..

SATIJ?DAY r dive ''-

'-_received kept

oral

accusing

whole

SI'NDAY

set

I

sex, me of

anlvay.

but

didnrt

being

ihe brtng

gay the

set

in

lhe

i_I

couldnr!

lime--whatever

-

'tlh

!re

Gave and

balhroom-

a condom so I

whole

q

but

have sex. *closed

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I I E E I E E E

t

E I E E I T I

l,renl lo

afrernoon

parly.

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gorgeous

Tons of

gir1s.

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was very _. r6nL :on

^. from girls.

grr]

another

$cloqed

girl

First

Five

the

massaged ne/

A! hone,

I

sure

kino

for

]'m

distance

ro.

'I

the

wou

love

game. Then I used a new rechnique

frane

a massage from a pivot.

to win

already

and,

r a short,

her

enailed

taking

super

going

^h^i

^4

aF

arrive

natch the movie. A11 rhe

in

advice,

say,

of

while

she

confideni

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call

need to watch

"I

do you want

lihich

n

lhere.

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she will

bul

'lusl

my ear off,

lalks

froa

IOI5'

"physical

there-

one ower.

Lo bring

four.

night.

all

me- so I'm

LTuggler's

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when I

of

usinq

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work.

in

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sarged HBTalkativeMidget

HBspaceyGirl

some novies

lo,

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Bet,

Questions

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we vere

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rut,oo,

lalked

push-pull

uncondilionally" nine,

I

within

so r canrt

even

a.e gore.

befo.e

MOTiIDAY Go to

with

concert

I{BBigTeeth,

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fldk;ng

(as reporred

spending

who I

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in

night

the

j .c- r^

i--

aftpr

look a.oud

a good pldyer,

and gives

Lhe ].sL

(and telling

house

for la).

her

some crazy

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me r'xed

Thread)

Mayoe iL'6

r

ui

other

r6rr ion ro

I 16l becaLse 6he 6

sig-"1s.

TUESDAY EBRed cones tha! dj*-c

over.

we see a movie.

I never: nake enough tine -

d^n'-

relationship,

,i-rv

buc I

i-

r

iIF-

do enjoy

for

Then, her

rpl-

seeing

back

at

my house,

and asks if

I'm

h-.

-rr.i

her

once a lreek.

'n

,^-

she complains

seeing 'e.ir''

I

othei .

h

and with

sleeping .r

aL oche. 9i_.s.

reason.

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,,'.-,

rF-

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like

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IIow would

at her

really

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we have sex,

l)

l-or

and a

t

I

-

handjob sp-rd

in ,g

the

morning.

re rjohr

WEDNESDAY (Tonigh! rBPe' so als w'-l

probably

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o- 1y house. b-(

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the

tine

she,ll

be

's

i

r t I I

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cdme back

and molest

be her Boy Tor Lon-ghr.

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lasl

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lr

before

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I

me. So I

will

she comes over

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r

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Roadking's

m.6Eages. Fcod

pt.

erench warfare,

e oos!'s. Cood sruff.

".

very

helpful

to your

what and nho she did Now, il's she ever

up lo could.

I

a way is

was amazing.

sure

YOU, bro,

and you proved

YoL snoulo pos,

n---in-

game, buE now in I'm

3 (long once more)

-r

detrimental.

she nade for

that

_!--,

|

I

lRE rora

ehe,^as

belter

E

E E E E E .

m sure

Lhe IDEAi pivot.

you can do it,

E E E

than

E E E E E

Dude, this

POST II:

so many of

by reading

girl:

POST III: it.

you.

she loves

Praccice

Ever:y time

cancer

ie's

atl

anyone/everyone I

and keep it

up,

successful,

it

spot is

new responses/routines

wilh

love

Style

the

girls

telling

is

this

lately

jusl

to

BE in

your

the

field

ie

you'

of

I,ove lhe

WTF COIII,D TIIAT cone up

way to Do lhis

dance card will

"ny dance card

that

Keep doing

internalized.

See, irhe best

thirtring.

soon,

tine.

it's

"THE CANCER IINE"?I

on

be full-

{Brw,

fu]l.rr)

wtiteg,

okay, lhis

is not very 'PuA' advice,

r,ten! great

b1e1,'it

here, of course:

Tn your

situation,

mislake

to

give

if

is

response

ansvrer.

(which

true

is

for

an emotional sex,

it

make a joke

isnrt

I'd

give

ne):

that

comection that

answer. laugh

good without

you're

If

rules

her,

Yes, vou

it

because

even

if

comection.

was a the

noL suxe,

she wanted

Then if and !e1l

around \titsh people

fool

thal

for

togethex-

three

Riker's

q,ilh,

my thought

I had feelings

and then

I don't

the LMR

bul here's

unsure

her

for

excepl

she asked if

a wishy-washy.

a serious

the

up wilh

becomes more a part

FR - It

have

You must follou

just

lhink This

up subconsciously.

unlil

su.bjecE:

besl

FR. LOL. I

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POSSIBLY BE?!l

il

sarge.

classic

INOTE FROM STYLE. 2006:

line.

Durden/Paps

you picked

them,

hilarious

such a fuckins

a TYIer

READS like

I was just

her

lhis

I

donrt in

it

for

F

Anyra!,

she cle"

have to

decide.

s h e _ L 6 t w d n . s some reassurance.

/ I kes you: Do you:

'-r'r-

JUsr navc ts

' c , a d v s e I C A I N S T d o i n g it,

lrue,

B. Want !o have her and give ae

-

as a FB or

her

-:

- -

because yourll

a MLTR: in

this

case,

and work on settlng

ianshin

so you

.hlorrdh


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ll

c,

,ll

just

hurt

just

see her again

your

clFFn

ui'

thls

frame

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for

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lo.

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er,

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just

lhis

When you're

read Style'B

will

ju6t

upfront

and open about

'Eow woulal YOU have played

be effectiwe

with

lhe

9ir1

or

if

lhig?"

she'11

poEt.

MLTR

I wonder if

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hin

af!e!

lhis.

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hi6 9i

l.

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a L

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I I

r

weekend at

9 a.m.

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,. probably

HE. Thal's

oh ny god,

slyle:

because you've

have

been vith

to

drive.

your

other

three

Irm so offended.

HBi Irm sorry. SLlle:

Se' iorsly.

didn't

somelhing

really

smart,

thing

is

and tir.ed

that just

of

Yum, I'd

^

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---.

this

a girl

is

who says she's

soid

.qi. kers.

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I,m

looking

for

true

playing uould a.

the i-

to

I

o i
her

see how yours

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she is

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works

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backwdrds, which 's'

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this.

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emotionally

are

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attached,

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you

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and

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pronote

to

lowe

six

cone uP again,

really

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do yo,

o'pFrso,

- always have aL -eds.

9--.lIriends?

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ha-"..se

like...

it

on

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r Good rh-or):

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or he!

fh i s

^ome . .

her some hing

krow as early

s

a s p o s q i o L e that

frame.

lo so.\

The reason

.owa.ds. a plorline,

is

a goal,

you are

because

and/

at

E E E E

seeing gives

it

the

same

-

t Style

E E E

writeE t

Su.bject:

GirlE,

Time,

Lifestyle:

Is

this

a normal

week for

r r

you !oo?

Eweryone's

goal

here

lifeslyle

is

the

to neet

ski1l

is

different,

advocated.

However,

I beliewe.

I

one skillset

don,t

ls

just

lhink

and that

advocaled,

any woman you see and have the

of

a celeb,

goals

us have other some li'ant

mar:riage,

here besides others

gelting

way, and can talk

aboul

lhese

1aid.

qnytnlng

tangenrially

PU r:elared ...

--

rich/famous

lhinking.

h6lnc

It's

v.r'

^^.

to set

an optional

-

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sirls

is

piece

n.-tFrre

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a rewersion in

the

7-,-i'Fq

to

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the

Pu puzzle:

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ile_

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issuee

-. being

want

and olhers h.-dFd

to

Some want to be

want fi- La--p 1t-

is

chance possible

best

o!

A lot

one

old

each

.--p lF

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,e who e

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you donrt

lel^

wirh

v-,

need weallh

don'r

T E E E E E

q

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I

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need to it

a tongue

have

I

life.

caD't

find

of

rearning,

srriving, nysl:cs

Indidr

says

but

John Holmes,

alone

joy,

the

best

Dr:. Jay

about

wanled

my expectations aboua what

doren anal thought

problem

another going

is

that

the

opposite

varieEy.

Itm

shallo\t

tried

make out

girl

in

to vrith

conwince

alienaling just

r rea11y

{ant.

though

I want

direction.

I

and patheric.

with

a chubby

and it

a quality

a strange

the

be a PUA, but

Why? Probably

love

an o1d woman she needed

laziness

lo

lhe

clawing. meanlame,

poinls

three

changed.

even

acne a passionate

indiscr ir:naLe,

ilis

see thal

h

path

the

totallv

r

now lhat

t[hy?

happy.

The answer:

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Style writes: SLrbject: Max Power and HBLexus: A Sotution to Slow Moving Chicks

I know I'm respondingto this FR like one month late, but I've been catchingup on some reading here. I recently had to deal with a girl

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who sounds a lot like HBLex!s here. And the solutjon was very easy:

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Here'swhat I did, and I believeit wouldwork with HBLexus.My HB was HBBigTeeth.I got her # at a party, and met her the next week. I reallylikedher a lot: totallymy type. But I'm impatient.I don,t like waiting. So what I did was just take her on an adventure.And each time we returned to my house, it was like returning home from a new date and we went further each time.

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times and went a ljttle further each time? All you have to do is to

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make your apartment a HOMEBASEfor the day, and keep returning there

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betweenevents.

The mistake you made was just showing her a good time then taking her home and expeding the full monty. What if you took her home FOUR

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Readbelowand see if this wouldhave worked.

DATEONE(noon.):

We meetat my housein the afternoon,I don't makea move. I take her for a walk nearmy house.I just ASSUME that she'smy girlfriend and holdher hand,and treat her accordingly. Thenwe go backupstairs and makeout for a while.I don't pushit, becauseI knowshe is used

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to dat ng guys for I I,e weeksbeforehav lg sex with them. and doesn't have a lor of experience. lLst a rlirl, really,who makesout with guys and then frustrates thern to no end,

DATETWO(2 p.m.)

Wego to an afternoonbbq-typeparty.we comebackto my house.I

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Wemakeout more.Thistime, thinkthe reason wasto changeclothes. I stopit againbeforeshedoes. shirtoff andheavygrinding.

DATETHREE(6 p.m.)

We 9o to a party that some wanna-be actressfriends of mine are having. Lots of social proof again. Then we go back to my house so that I can get the addressof the next pa.ty. This time, we go even

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further. But no sex Yet,

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DATEFOUR(11 p.m.)

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We go to a partythat sometotal hip-hopguys are having.A totally d;fferent scene. I\4oresocial proof for me, on the way back, she asks if she can just sleep over becauseshe's tired and doesn't feel like drivinghome.So I know it's all good.Thistime, we sleeptogether, with only a little LIYR.

Doesthis make sense?It's a great Mo, in my opinion.All you haveto do is to figure out a scheduleof events. No other game reaily necessary. otherthan simplybeinginterestingand enticing.

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knowing

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a fun nev opener

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for

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awdy. l,

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if

say you could seemed so

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this

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or

my bed.

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a ful]-on

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days.

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out

tried

inleresting lhe

today: cars. bar

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they can o,a)

cockylfrmy

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snit

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parking

and try it

to

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who I nodeled

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so fd'

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sleeping

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far.

already

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WhenI readthis, it is SO easyto read betweenthe ines.Hereare

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A IIENTALNOTEoF THIS: Whena chickis INTo US 1. AND LET'SALL |'4AKE

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but is behavingFLAKY,it meansone thing: She has a boyfriend(or at leasta man on the side).That is why she keepscancelingat the last minute(BFgets priorityover you) and waitinga whileto call you adlivity back(can'tget awayfrom BF).You are her extra-curricular Now,suddenly,doesn'ther behaviormakesense?

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2. Stop apologzing: You don't needto tell us you get laid/you dont needto tell us how highyour standardsare, you don't needto tell us \Nho cares\\hai Ne tliaK that your lce cream llne came trom exper\ence you of you? lf you pretendto be MOREOF A ladiesman than you are/ will neverget the helpyou need Just relax Postyour field report, and don't worry aboutthe context-we've all had sex before(well most of us), and we'veall had shit go wrong.But we're all hereto learn,

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3. Yourstickingpoint is the sameas mine when I first got here: you are too chickento make the boldmove. (I knowyou want to respond

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herewith a protest,abolt the tirnesyou DID do this. And that's why

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kisscloseshere-_myevolutionphaseshift routineand Mystery's

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*close.You needto make boldermovesand phaseshift (readGunwitch's guide)onceyou get the IOIS.My theoryon you is this: girlsare surprisedwhen you'regood in bed.This happensbecauseyou'retimid your sexualityuntil you'reactuallyin bed with her' aboutexpressing Workon thisl Onceshe'smet you and you'vegot rapportand she's showingyou IOIS(as she did hereat the lounge),she is yours.You can stop worrying about trying to kiss her' You can just kiss her at

Hopethis helpsand isn'ttoo blunt

Lookingforward to reading about your future successes,becauseyou soundlike an interestingguy (but one who sometimesthinkstoo much for his own good).

Style writes: SubjectiIntroducing...TheJealousGirlfriend Opener

This is a:r openerI madeup andhavebeenusingfor a few months It is FIELD TESTEDsoMANY times.And, IMHO, it is gold.Why is it not only doesit openbut,for newbieshere,it getsthe gold?Because

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girlstalkingfor a goodtenminuGs.I lovethis opener,andit almost paiDsmeto setit looseon theworld.But at the sametime ifsomething is goodandeffective,it painsmenot to shareit here.Soplease,the T&T sectionhasbeenpretf weakthesedays:sharewhat'sworking for you!

Anyway, the JeaiousGirlfriend Openerworks bestin groupswith more than onewoman.

not only And, peoplelike Rio shouldespeciallyLOVE this,because You will quicklyseeby the responses doesit open,bul it screens. who in this groupyou want to avoid.

Style:Hey guys,let me get yow opinior on something.I'm trying to give my friend over thereadvice,but w€'rcjust a bunchof guysand not qualified to corrunenton thesematters. HBs: What?

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threemonths.And shejust movedin with him. Now, this is a two part

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question.So,imagineyou'vebeendating someonelor threemonths.And

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Style:Okay,seeWing overthere.Well,he hasbeendatinga girl for

.

he is still fiiendswith his old girlfriendftom collegeHow do you feel aboutthat? HBs:blahblahblaharetheyjust friendsblahblahblah Sryle:Yes,they'reruST friends.There'snothingelsegoingon.They

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talk like oncea weekat most. HBs: I think it's fine/I don't drinl they shouldbe talking/whatever Style: Okay,now let's saythat he hasa dmwerin his apartment.And in that drawerhe keepsall ofhis old photographsandletters.Now, someofthoselett€rshappento be fiom ex'sandsomeofthe photog.aphshappento be with ex's. HBs:blahblahblahconcemed conrnentblahblahquestion Style:It's not like he everlooksat them.Theyarejustthere,like old souvenirs andmemoriesofhis past. HBs: I think it's fine/I think he shouldput them awayin a closett{e shoulddestroythen'/whatever Style:Okay,thereasonI'm askingis because WNG's girlfriendsays doesn'tRanthim to talk to his ex from collegeat all. Shewantshim to cut it off completely.And shewantshim to destroyall of his old photosandlettersfrom ex's.Shesaysit'sjustholdingontothe past,andhe shouldlet go ofit now.Personally, I thoughtit rvas exilemeanda bit insecure. But whatdo I know.l'm a guy.And, aswe all know,guysthink differentlyliom girls...

It's an effective openerbecause: A. Womenlovetalkingaboutrelationships. B. You cannegthemwhenthey get all excitedto talk aboutit and say thingslike, "Oh my God,it's like theView here"(grcatline to use

anyway). C. It canlasta good15minutesastheyall chimein. (lfguys are there,I usuallysay,"Whatthe hell,let'sgetyouropinjontoo.") D. You screenout thejealouspsychos*ho thinl your friel1dshouldnot how much talk to his ex anddestroyhis old photos.You'dbe surprised tell you aboutthe girls in theset. theanswers

Enjoy,andrepot back.

E E E E E E E E E E E E E

r Style writes: Subjecti Two Lines That Work For Some Reason

I usehavebeenworkiltg I noticedlately that two very short sentences well for somereason.l'm sharingthemherenot only sothatyou all canaddthemto your game,but alsohopingthatmaybeyou canhelp the secondone). explainwhy theywork (especially

anywhere, or evenifl got 1.I don'tknowifthis hasbeenmentioned it from someone else.Thisis generallyfor casualdaytimesarging,or thatmaynot ifyou needto transitioninto an SOI from anencounter yethavesexualovertones. Earlyon (somerherebetweenfive and15 I just metat a partyor in the street minutesoftalking to someone

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or on a planeor whercver,I wait until they saysomethingthat can be perceivedasa negativetrait aboutthem,andthen I say,asI Fetend like I'm witing on my hand,"Note to self: Do not datethis girl." Ifthere hasnot beenanykind ofSOI previously,you cansee their whole expressionchange.First, they seethat you WERE interested.Thenthey seethat you are disqualifuingthem.Eventhough it'sjokinglydoingso.It changes the wholetoneofconversalion in a greatway that givesyou the power asthe persondoing the screening.

Example(from recentairylane#closewith icy HB): HB: I think too much sometimes.I cant help it. Style:Noleto self-"donordatethisgirl HB: (laughs,blushes,ard finally rela\es) You're right-I do start picking apat little things in a relationshipfor no reason.

2. Ard this oneis an evenbiggermystery.But I find that ifl'm ableto slip in the phrase"I CAN'T HELP IT, MY MOTHER RAISED ME WELL" somewhere,in the right tone, it is gold. I haveno ideawhy, especiallywhenit is accompaniedby a physicalact that is somewhal gentlernanly or well-mannered.

Example: At a meeting,a womanwalked in the room late. I stoodup asshe

walkedin, to shakeher handand introducemysell. HB: You doD'thaveto standup. Style:I can'thelpit. My motherraisedme\\'eil.

I gottonsoflols from heral themeeting,soI numberclosed.Later, whenwe weremaking out the next night. I asked(of course)rvhenshe first knew shewasatuactedto me. andshesaidthat it waswhenI saidthat line.

I've field testedthis elsewhere. lt is especially effective,I think, because I don'tcomeoffas a gentleman or suaveloveror anything,so it showsanotherside.Thercare otherreasonswhy this is effective too,I believe,but it hasto do with somekind ofchick-logicmystery thatI'm completelyunawareof. Like I saidabove,I'd be curiousfor oihersto te.t rhisoul andletmekrou lheire\per'ence.

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Been really

My feasing

busy

Lately

As Affection

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girls

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bul nore

they

give

up.

chase me, so it's At

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here's

gels

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lhats nighl

you were a jerk

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words,

going

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joking/teasing

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EVERY time

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the

all

sisters leave

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thing

is

of

to

affection.

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is

because vou

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now),

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side

of push-pu]1

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te1l

her

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wav,

lhis

mind if

in

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get

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after

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tease

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that

the

balle,

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(so keep that

my parents

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their

us bv

love for

jus- my wdy ot ehowins my affe-Lion.

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renix:

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also

these

way I was brought

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some reason

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to

an asshole.

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on her.

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realize

how my parents

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ne and mv brolhers

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in my house,

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of

for

them

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ltas a fdrm

teasing

love

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us

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I

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you,

for

showing my affection

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vou.

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old

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situation,

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once

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past

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few months,

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nev sewen step

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this

into

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enbarr.asBment

and jealousy

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they

take

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technical putting

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definilion lhem back

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and lhreatened.

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in,

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altraclion

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(or

situation. in

up or

get

moment to

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rf

where r neeal !o go nexl

an HB, and exactly

to

next

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is

state

my anternal

sometlnes

in

stage

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tool/ractic/tecruique

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perspectiwe.

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between me and an HB fron

see anv situation

to

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one of

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chat

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has led alo it

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me !o

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is

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as ltelL.

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do all

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is

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her

opporlunilY

to

open ne first

the

opportunity

to

#close

lhe

opportunily

to

call

ne first

the

opportunity

to kiss

me first

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to

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going

this

know if

ne pl"ne

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will

enjoy

there. lhe

makes sense,

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Style writes: Subject: Kill Your ldols: Thoughts on PUASand the Mystery, Formhandle, and TD Debate

Let's begin with a litde reality check:BEING A PUA IS NOT DEPENDENT ON WHAT OTIIER GUYS (espthe guyshere)THINK OF YOU. IT lS DEPENDENT ON W]]AT GIRLS THINK OF YOU.

I noticethat whennew peoplecometo the boards,readup on the

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theyall of a suddenbecome material,andthenclaima few successes, heroes.And two thingshappen:oneis thattheytakeon a god-like statusto someofthosehere.And, at thesametime,theystopasking for help andtrying to leam from others.Instead,they enjoy feeling a challenge to it becomes like a heroto theconmunity.And sometimes sinceone'sKNOWLEDGEof live up to thatstatusin person,especially PU increases heremuchfasterthanone'sABILITY to PU.

I'm not talkingaboutanyonein padicularhere,but a lot ofpeople over the yeals.

Ald, f,ulhermore,somepeopleherearevery honestandopen.Others with womenin theiroqn liarswho areonly successful arepathological imaginations. And othershavea warpedview ofthings, in whicha peckon the cheekmightbe a *ciosein theirimaginations or a girl smiiingat themmeansshewants10sleepwith him.

Thereis a hendon ASF to idolizethose\!ho postoften,andwith And this is $'hy andmakegreatclaimsfor themselves. confidence, neq'biesand a lot ofpostershere,because Formhandle challenges othersaregoingtojust idolizeandobeysomepeopleandmethodshere He'salsotheonly onewith the guts withoutthinkingfor themselves. to do it. His poirt is thatoneshouldreadposts,LRs,andFRswith a

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eyesometimes. critical,evaluating

Here'san example:the 100percentpedectrnakeoutspin+close rcutine, which Papsadaptedfrom a Craig move.It is not somekind of amazingmovethat is going to makeany girl you meeton the street somenot. kissyou.I've seenPaps'videosof them:somesuccessful, And I am convincedthat it is not a mlacle move.It is JUST a *close, andthat'sall. And it is to be donewhen sheis READY to kiss you, youwill fail. It'sjust a wordless andyou havetheIOIs. Otherwise *closeoptionifyou don'twatrtto usea line like "l'm trying sohard not to kissyou right now" or "Wouldyou like to kissme?"

I havea theory aboutmethods.WhenI first found the board,SSwas the dominantmodel. ThenMystery starteddoing workshops,and it was all aboutMM here.ThenDavid D staxteddoing seminars,andevery LR wasaboutcocky/funny.Then TD andPapsstaltedtaveling together, andall of a suddentheir style is dominant.And do you know what?It all fucking works. Becauseit is betterto do somethingthannothing. And theseare alt ways ofdoing somethingwhenyou can'tthint of anything.

So,to thosehere,you NEED to makean effective learningmethodfor yourself.It is not enoughto just read.You must organizeyour

It anderror.You \r'ill soonfind outwho hereis full ofshit andwho

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whatworksarrdwhatdoesn't' isn'tsimplyby discovedng

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thoughtsandgame.andthengetin thefield andimprovethroughtrial

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Yes,I've beengonefor a t'hile. I foundthatI speDt1oomuchtime READINGandnot enoughtime DOING.But I will ofcoursealwayspost ofvaiueto shareor wantadviceoljust here\!hen I havesomething missyou fuckers.

Aryway, thereis nobodyI kno* in this communitywho doesn'thave stickingpoints,problems,andoff days EverytimeI talk \tith focusedon Mystery,RossJ, or Grimble'we areall constantly

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thjsthingcalled gettingbetter'andrnastedng improvingourselves,

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love.

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So,aftera mediocrenightout lastnight(two #'sbut I \lasjust OFF),I compileda list of*hat I feelarebig-picturestickingpoints that probablyanyone\lho's beenin this communityfor a rvhile has

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I, APPROACHING

The funny thing aboutthis gameis that eventhe BEST havedayswhen they don't approach.Why is that?

A. SUCCESS EXPECTATIONS: WhenI first started,the goalwasjustto havean opener.Soyou'd walk into a set,deliver an opener,andif is no youweren'trebukedit worked.Now, it is not enough.Success longeropeninga set.It is gettingyour targetattractedto you and givingyou IOIs.Thatis theminimumyou expect.And that'sa lot of pressueto put on yourself'-

B. STATE:Thekey to a successful openeris simply10be moreFLINor INTERESTINGthan whateveryour targevgroupis doing at the moment That'sall you needto do. Sowhenyour energyis iow or youjust feel out of it or it's really loud sothat you'restrugglingto be heard, the openersthat work everytime will fall flat.

Sothesolutionshereareeasy:A. Expectnodring.B. Warmup in so whateverway you needto beforeenteringa club,/bar/sarging-area that your mojo is on. Don't expectit to just magicallyhappenafter a few sets(althoughit often does).And, overall, don'tthint. walk in

and do.

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II. SHEDOESN'TLOVE YOU RIGHTAWAY

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A problemI oftenhaveis thatI walk intoa setor a groupol meet andjustexpectthemto KNOW thatI'm Stylethe PUA Whenshe someone, doesn'tpayattentionto medght off, thenitjust gutsme.I feel like I'm doing somethingurong. But the fact is that I haven'tdone anythingyet.

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r event,andyou're Solution:Realizethateverygirl is an independent stafiing ftom scratch.

III. CANNEDVS SPONTANEOUS

Tonight,and othernights,l'11go oul with nothing: no prepared material,no pen,no paper,no gum,no gimmicks.And do you know what Ard I'm not hereto just Thenightis left opento chance. happens? leavemy love life to chance.I want to be a total natural.Arld therearenightswhenitjust doeshappenlike clockworkwit}toutme

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doingany "material."But,overall,thenightgoesa lot betterifl

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I want preparetwo opene$I want to use,anda few subjects/stodes

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to getinto.You mustHAVE SOMETHINGTO SAY, or you'regoingto get

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nowhere.

Solution:Take15minutesbeforeyou go out,collectsomematerial, print it out, andput it in your backpocket.Also, keepthe itemsyou needfor PUA'ing in a box or bowl nearthe door, soyou canjust grab them andstick them in my pock€ton the way oul.

IV. HEIGHTENED AWARENESSOF SIGNALS

IfI am talking to a girl, andher mind is elsewhere,I pick up on it right away.If shelikes someoneelseis in the room, I seeit dght away.If she'sboredandthinks I'm a conveNationterrorist,I seeit instanlly. And often this makesmejust stopwastingmy time with here.ArId this is a key mistake.In the old days,beforeI knew anything, I'd banel though- One girl I met tonight I was sarging,then she went to hit on someguy so I just left the pafy. An hour later, she callsmy phonefor a bootycall.(I didn'thearit ring.)Othertimes, I just ejectas soonasI feel the energyflag. This is a crucial mistake.I'm calibratingtoo much.

Solution:Stick with it. Also, usenegsand challengesto rctum her focus.If she'stalking rvith a cuterguy, enterthe setandblow away the competition.

V. KNOWNG VS DOING

TD fleld repof about We all havethis problem.You readan awesome aboutjustbeinga cocky/funny beinga maniacor a DavidD newsletter girl-tease. And you say,That'seasy.Thenyou go out,andyou're still YOU. After all that readingandsarging,you arenot JamesBond

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or Wolverineor Enriqueor Bugs Bunny or whoeverthe fuck ).ou want to -

model.And you haveon papertheEXACT linesandroutinesneededto instantlyfascinateany woman,but for somercasonthey don't cometo is ignorance yourmouth.And thisjustruinsyour statemore,because bliss.Knowingwhafspossibleis toltulewhenit's not actually happening.

Solution:Getoffline.Getin thefield. You can'tgrowmuscleby You mustgo to the gym.And you must readingbooksaboutbodybuilding. go regularly.lfyou stopfor a while,yourbodywill springright backto its nomal everydayshape.Acceptthis asfact.You will have on nightsandoffnights,but ifyou're goingout regularlyto sarge the ratio of ON 10OFF nightswill increase.

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OnceI feel that it is on, I often drop my gamebecauseI don,twant

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to "fuck it up." And I getftustratedr lt's 1ike,"I knowyou like me

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andwart to sleepwith me,sowhy botherwith all this othershit.

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Let'sjust do it andget it over with, andthenwe canbe real with

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eachother."So,in doingall this,a frameis createdofBOY \aants sex,GIRL decidesifshe watrtsto give it to him or not.It is a scary thing to PUSH a girl awaywhen you'regetting somewherephysicalwith her or to FREEZEHER OUT whenyou'reclosebut not quite the.eyet. You worry aboutblowing it, but this thoughtultimately landsyou back in AFC land.

Solution:Playhardballall theway. Stayin control.Know,asCraig posted,that shewantsyou-and play with her, teas€her, ampher up unlilshecan\conlrolherself. CallheoD.

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P.S. I metthebestbisexualpickupartist(a woman)I haveeverseen

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in my life. Putsany guy I've seento shame:a sexualpredatorwith a voraciousappetite, andwho thinkseverychickis hot (I've seenher

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witl ALL typesofwomen). Shehits on girls right away(but from a

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perspectiveof sexualconidence, not desperatehominess).And her ROUTINE is that shehasa sybianin her room andinvites girls in to uselt...

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askedaboutusinga negasanopenerin a recentthread.The Someone or you wont get replyis: Yes,in factyouMUST negto opensometimes in. ln the scenel've beer sargingin lalely, with highly socially proofedgirls,negsaretheONLY way to open.I'11explainin a mini FR anythingyou say(opinion everygirl assumes below.It's unbelievable: she'ssousedto it. openers, C&F. whatever)is hittingon her,because

Sothebestwayto sargeis to have: SocialProof A GoodLookingPivot Negright away-makeherNOT like you first.

I've foundthat*jth anHB, ifyou cangetherto NOT like you and thenREFRAME and get her to really like you within a coupleminutes' you aresoIN it'sddiculous.

I recentlyhad an epiphany,andI'11shareit here:I realizedthat I REALLY ruong for a while.Normally,in a havebeendoingsomething stdpclubor at a partywith a SHB,I'djust ignoreher.Then,after

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sometime, I'd eventuallywork my way aroundto doing my material.

But,whatworkswith thesegiris,is conveyingACTIVE DISINTEREST. And this doesn'tmeanjusttbrowing a neg in there.It meanstotally being obnoxiousandrudeto them.The challengeis tha! as soonasyou meet oneofthese girls, you MUST talk right away.But for most ofthese girls, simply talking to them is an IOI in its€lf. So you must give themar activeIOD. I've realizedthat the stepsarethis to get in -ard this is all pre-opener.

I. You must comein stong, with greatbody language,andbe so non-needy.You must totally shoother down beforesheevenopensher mouth.This meansnot ignoring her, but talking instantlyandtalking down to her.

IL Then a shit testwill follow You mustpassthis. And to do it you must not backtrackon yow earlier statement.You may reframeit, but you cannot underany circumstances takeit back or apologizefor it.

III. Onceyou passthe shit test,you arepietty much in. Hereyou can reframeyour relationship("we are so different" -- pacing--- "we're like two charactersin a romanticcomedy,like Audrey HepbumandCary Grant" - reframing.)

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IV. Now you cango into youropener.

I'vejustnoticedwith sociallyproofedactress/models wanna-bes,their self-esteemis simultaneouslySUPER-LOWand SLIPER-HIGHat the sametime. And this is a hugeepiphany,becauseyou must feed into her low self esteemwithout tdggering her high self-esteem.If you let her know shehasyou, you've lost.

This hasbeenon my mind lately becauseI had two interesting experiences theotherday.

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L I was introducedto oneofthese women.I stafiedto demonstratevalue,and shejust lvasnot listening.It wasn'tgoing in her ears.I walked away

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and stafiedtalking to her friends.Again, without being rude at all, theyjust wereNOT listening -- eventhoughmomentsbeforewe had all exchangednamesandbeenintroduced.(In retrospect,I shouldhave just CAILED THEM on their shitty manners.)

II. I was introducedto anotheroneofthese girls. Within minutes,I called her retarded.Shegot pissed.I did my teasingis affectionroutine. Shewas still pissed.I told her "I refuseto apologize,it's the way I am. Everyoneis my bratty little sisteruntil they prove otherwise."

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tlat I shouldget her number.I completelyignoredher hint. Then la1ershejust gaveit to me.

So,anyway,I'd like to discussotherwaysofconveyingACTIVE like thatold DISINTEREST.Especiallycasualopenersandnegopeners, sargewhenI askedthe girls in Miami iftheir hair wasreal, LOL. Would loveto healotherideas!

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guys.

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why.

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potato I

as Kooper said,

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feel

or

reason,

sruff

use.

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is

think

tha!,

say and use closing

the

wilt

if

such

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her

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such hardcore say it

what is

romantic

gir:ls

to

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get

know

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inter:nalize

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inlensety

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advice,

to

give

guys.

at

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her

house

salad to

me a ride

is

to

her

isolalion

sor!

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it

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mysetf.

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advenrure!)

dandy

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friend hit

her

ro pick {or,

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guys)

of

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by phase

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rt

would be untikely

accompany

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rhink

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r don.E

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of

on herr

feet

a French

last

there

have upped

offerins

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our

status

should

potato

and then

she promises

you since

don,t

I

say

oFf

novel/

on romance

she had that

I now seer

elsewher.e,

to

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can read

Phase shifting

constraint

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thrnk

a ronance

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time

|

you to

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because

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I

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a gir1.

ro

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because

a book I

like

talk

you.

vith

that

there

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(dying

do agree

srnger)

is

enables

language

with.

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is,

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9e!

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romanric

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rhat

seductive

sleeping

lame as it

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too

cheesy.

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could

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stages.

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book,

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giving

like

makes me l,.ulnerable this

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going

phoros

take

if

me nome

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Styl-e writee t FR: Two Houra to Close

Subject:

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got

back from tr:aveling.

juEE didn't rhere

I

sas a bi!

Il

nave rhe rrme Eo foIlow

in

rouch vra

eno . yoF.

|

because

o n o . v o r e . [ ' l/ I i r E t

rL'ougl

a EoEal new wdve gir-

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frustrating,

nighE

o, L she had co leave

e r . a _I . v y s e c o r d

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a 9-!I

.. happened.

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coke & grindrng

her

rhe phone +s of

tvo

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who s"s -\6

our

ro be a total

leetb

all

night.

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night,

and maoe out uiL

vent

to

ore

rF"l

ike o pLppr dog. BuE, again.

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tre.ker

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Buc,

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on my lasl

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nighl,

an Lsler

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even posting

confirmed

Anlnqay,

up to my room in

this?

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t.he sonan

says

the in

my and TD's belief

chunky. I

res,

answer is

she recognizes

her walues

elicit

u'tsh h.7

rif6r

:rd

..ir6

an hour shirt

later,

and black

appear dressed

!o

te]l

her

ihFn tFlr

be.a-se

I

she $alks

in.

sweatpants in

casual

of

something

oper-

aboul

clothes,

of I

jusl

slighlly

out

1-vl

Ii

vr

we do hawe s

the hotel,s

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(instead

tooking

turns

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io

be doing

"common

rh-r-.

and is

wearing

a dress) . As soon as r K N O Wl h a t

so !h/

e:perience

what she should

hFr to meet ne in

she has changed,

'l

sugal-cooi

because lhe

me. And i! qn

elevalor

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the

1l

is

on.

a black

t

see her so l

make

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t I

q

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roorn for her on rhe couch (thus she musr sir

Stylets

there),

prepare us drin|s,

EV

fluff/rapport Cube Make more drinks; lralr;

she likes

she says

something

fumy,

anat r pult

the

back

of

her

ir

fluff/rapport Mlndreading fluff/rapporr

ll

P P

I can retl will

nolr that

get too rired

balhroom,

iC is getting anal this

but don't

t

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she hesitares, import.ant

I say I have ro

me. (r can rett

she,s manang an

here to come Eo j1er roon wirh me.) I So to her room, and use the barhroom. When I return, she is sirting on rhe corner or the bed. I sit behind her and massage her neck. Then r pull back- She l1es, face dom, we talk

on the bed. Now I rC{OWit's

and put pillows

tI I

I ger

l

I'm

a little

r have

the

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nexL

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and

r stroke hei naar.

She responds and werre making our passionarely.

We shoutdn't

to

leave

in

and 6he says,

do this.,

five

minutes

I

tetl

,'I vant her,

and do finish

you

I'That's

Lo know thar okay,

my work

before

my

day. 'r

make out, out

on. I 1ay do\rn nexr ro her,

under oux chins.

LMR when we pause,

a good 9ir1_

because plane

I

a nove

decision

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I

be over.

and rhen gers up ro join

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t

anal untess

vrant to wake up ny roommare. can r use

I

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will

tate,

more

top

off,

and do i t

pants again.

off, And,

sne gets

condons,

you l
sure,

done.

And thet

she's

not

a

knockoul,

bue she is

smart

& coo1,

and owa.eness to b6 oo:19 tl 's

Of course, Sly1e: IiB.

I

you first

EB: We]l,

I

I

.-and

think

I

where the

guy.

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thought, Style:

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what

the

parl

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skil1s

'egrers.

attracted

ro me?

rhing.

my room,

I

lousher

r

thoughc

to myself,

or a killer.,'

lhan

was lhat

Tade in HER mind

#1:

Coming do&nstairs

Decision

#2:

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with

nc.iei^h

{?


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Decision

#4:

Lying

Decision

#5:

Making out,

ro

don,r

"I

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I

me, huh?

were

hat .l-owed the

ne for

tsL6

there

her

a ron

of

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sex,

t t E E -

E

Ehis Lo happ-r.

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common room ro neeL me. room.

ha^

down on the

-

bed.

;

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E

And every

success

questions.

And if

with

you-

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these:

the

a S I N G T , Eo n e o f

Something

StyTe wtites Subjecl:

has

to

thiik

girl then

makes a dozen is

No,

lhen

TEENY binary she doesn,r

yes/no steep

about...

t

My Favorite

Line

of

l

E

him?,' you'xe

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t

kitchen.

cones inl

be a psycho

was inreresting

'-EucIAL de.is.ons Deciaion

come to

so you lhink

oh,

to have rhe

ear1ier...

Ee could

lake

nindreading

netrosexual

vhen you asked lo

even know this

that

had a monent in

was inlerested

tAad here's

frD

rwo holrs.

you vere

realize

You bad me when you did Yes,

wirhin

dam

do a breakdom.

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Style.

and it,6

the Moment and a new LMR

r

E E E

F F

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nolice

lines

up.

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My new faworite

line,

HB (calls

I

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t

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all

our

love

You're

(Say it

P P P F I I t

comins. )

A1so,

not

HB: I'11 Styler

our

This

bullshit.

is

for

rel1

are

be playfut

wanr ro ge!

have to

yes,

its'

rhe

with

ones

rhat

any girt

EAT our

and banter

away from cause it's Just

a lhoughr.

with

and do

no fun.

we

onward...

you lrAvEN'T stepr

with

yET.

you something...

an imnaculare

a question,

like

while

nost

pregnant.

(1au9hin9)

T

I

who love

you):

rhe

we can't

v,e just

stuff

girls

the

HBs we enjoy

The ones that

c/f

Style: HB:

hov the

we,re

at

ir.

but

i

from the

conceprion.

s tike

a fac!

lhar

you knev wae

sane phone convo rodav.

you later.

call

Do you have my cell

phone

nuniber?

HB: No. Style:

Okay.

HB: Is

it?

slyle:

No.

I,11

giwe it

ro you.

But thls

is

a big

step?

(laughing)

I

Oh hell, fooled

here's around

itrrpossible. ultimately

Style:

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is

This

lhe just bur

same HB, r ven!

first

time,

stole

her

r

enjoyed

making iC very

being

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frame. ir.

hard

r

!o her

I

6aid

don,! things

on,

she accepred rhis

house tast going

know if liker

ro be a gooal boy.

good?

Your pants are still

s rrprising,y.

I

for

So I

You're

HB: This

more.

aren,L

Lhey?

as being good.

nighr.

further it

witl

was

we

I

wait

couldn'i

to

vith

be nauqhly

her,

setting

uP next

trme as a

presupposaraon.

LMD Lechnique.

a 9. edr hand away from

che moves yoL'

tu yL le

A S K I F T H E R E I S S O M E T H I N GW R O N GW I T I 1 I T .

a body part,

r r

Example:

HB moves my hands Style:

Is

away from

something

there

HB: No lshows ne her

It's

a great

frane,

her

E

bra.

wrong with

r r

then?

breasts)

as if

you don't

why she'd

underslaBd

be moving vour

hand away othervise.

enjoy. . .

okay,

E E I T E E E

E E E E E

t StyLe wtiEes t New Approach

subjecE:

on,

about

to

:.rrr:]rv

where

erplode, n:ir

knew how they that

braking

t6

they

waat

you

and THEN they

girls?

mechanism built

The facE tha! where

so badty, can hold

have sex Dntil

lrere abLe to

and I

E

!o LMR Techniques

Do you know what amazes me about turned

E E E E E

lhe

do this, into

next

oul lime

they

lhev are

and resist lhey

me.

and

screaning temptation

see you.

and why. Certainly,

can geE so

l

I don'!

I N o T E F R O MS T Y L E , 2 0 0 6 :

wish

hawe TI]E REASoN

IS BECAUSE, AS MYSTERY IIAS POINTED OUT SINCE, T1IEY ARE EVOLUTIONARILY

E E E E

P E WIRED TO BIIAKE Al.iD WAIT,

TO MAKE SURE THAT TI]E I1AN WILL

BE AROUND

PROVIDE FOR TIIEM ATiID THE POSSIB],E BABY . I

Arwav.

F F P P F F F F E

P P E

we've discLssed velba]

L

Stealing

2.

R-ke-

frame'trlre shou o oe dorng ch_s...

Lhei-

rthe

s i.hree rules

h..

woxds/ turn

if

her

contr.ol

you're

herself.

people.

never

discussed:

grind tums

2 . while

gelting

on so much that

other

1 . Flip

_

rria,.r

her

ric_

ev.r ,

Maybe it's

over

against herself

so tbat

^f

xesistance animal

These are

now/ the

insEincr

sone of

obvious,

she's

me. This

the it

rakes things

is

sitting

way shels

way to

t.o ne,

on top the

ger pasr

ower I

is

ro

and she can'c

do.

I'm

bur

of

ir

I

wondering

realized

me, then

was

encourage

and not

"aggressor/r

it

abou!

her

me, so lhus

on.

passionarely

biting

obvious,

I

her

neck,

but rubbing

I

find

tha!

she is

her do\4n throush

more receprive

her pants,

going

s o m e lj n - s r u s t p l a c - n g h e . h a rd o w e r y o L r c _ o l c h .

t

4. Un, some other

Lastly, you fool

I find

and vi1l

Lhirgs

lhat

around with

I always talk

rhaE I

with girls

can L.eredrer

nos.

r,,howon,t go AtL the way the firsr

about how amazing it,s

descxibe it

righc

them, somerhing r Ar,WAySdo now is

in detail.

wait to....'r

I

ros!. 9o1d lines

3. Freeze-out.

b I t

LMR .ecriques:

ro furure

goang !o be to finatly

Anorher nice !,ay ro do ir

(inserl sexual act here) .

time pace.

have sex, is jusr

to say

I

Does this slop

help?

posting

here

to,

so excited

because I'n rate

I

Should

your

mood today, to?

would you compaf,e vourself

animal

of

just

obvious?

loo

this

How do you

women lalely? kind

Is

just

go !o bed noq and

that

itrs

from If

been raining

one to

ien?

vou had to,

whaL

had to'

would you?

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rhe

queslions

ny new lhing

above is like

the

latter

in

email.

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three.-

but

fun

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r

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