Mystery Method Outline – by Max Weiss, author of “ The Zen of Meeting Women”, Women”, available now at http://ZenPUA.com This outline is based upon “The Mystery Method” which is available at http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/A http://www. amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0312360118/severenetA SIN/0312360118/severenetA If you don’t have a copy or aren’t very familiar with Mystery’s Method, this outline will be of little use to you. I suggest you get my book and Mystery’s book. Good luck.
I. Approach and Open A. Open set, reach social hook hook B. Don’t seem needy or interested in the “target” “target” C. False time constraint D. Demonstrate Higher Value and cross social hook point 1.The set decides they enjoy talking to you and want you to stay
II. She’s into you – DHV and female IOI A. Demonstrate higher value. value. This This can include: 1.Stories 2.Humor 3.Patterns 4.Games 5.Routines 6.Palm reading 7.Anything that shows: •
Pre-selection from other women •
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Leader of men Supporter and protector of those close to you
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Not needy
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Unaffected
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Social intelligence
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Negging her
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Strong frame
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Interesting and fun Humor Emotional stimulation Socially “in demand” Connecting converstaional ly
B. Show disinterest in her 1.Throw negs like pebbles 2.False disqualifiers
C. She shows Indicators of Interest 1.She laughs at your jokes 2.She turns to face you 3.She makes eye contact 4.She touches you 5.She asks your name 6.She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking 7.She plays with her hair 8.Etc. (see page 94 Mystery Method - Venusian Arts Handbook)
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Ask, “so how do you all know each other?”
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Multiple conversational threads
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Role playing
G. At some point lock in the set. Lean back, facing the whole group. You are the comfortable focal point of the group. Can use a lock in prop like hat or scarf.
III. You’re into her – Male IOI A. Bait her into investing in the interaction, chasing after you to earn your affection 1.Frame control 2.Hoop theory 3.Role reversal – you are screening her •
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I don’t want to rush into things Hands off the merchandise, this stuff isn’t free you know Is there more to you than meets the eye? What are your three best qualities
Reward her efforts with Indicators of Interest 1.Kino escalation 2.Take aways – pretend to leave, when she pulls you back reward her with IOI
3.Compliance test 4.Statement of interest •
When we first met I thought you were so-so, but now that I get to know you, you’re incredible Don’t mention her looks!
5.Bait, hook, reel, release •
DHV, chase, comply, qualify •
Challenge her, She DHVs for you, Give her an SOI, False disqualifier
C. Move to quiet area of bar or venue where you begin building comfort
IV. Conversation A. Grow from comfort and rapport to connection B. Use freeze out when she’s not responding or if she busts on you C. Be talkative D. Don’t explicitly try to impress or show off E. Don’t ask a bunch of questions F. Talk about fun interesting emotionally compelling topics
V. Connection A. Both of you feel good “vibe” B. Kissing
C. Can bounce to nearby location or time bridge (set up time in future to get together) D. Phone Game E. This phase can last several days F. Eventually bounce to your apartment (seduction location)
VI. Intimacy A. Make out at seduction location B. Move to bedroom or other sex location
VII. Foreplay A. Physical escalation towards sex
VIII. Last Minute Resistance A. Overcoming last minute resistance 1.You’ve hijacked my brain 2.We should stop 3.Play solid game in the first place and there won’t be LMR 4.Persistence (retreat, then continue) 5.Freeze-outs 6.Just go to sleep
