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Contents A u g u s t 2 0 1 2
Couples Questions
By LifeStyle Counselor ..................................2
Letters From Our Readers ....................4 ....................4 Hospitality Suites By Brian D. ........................... ........................................ .....................5 ........5 LieStyle Interview Joe & Shelley .......................... ........................................ ...................6 .....6 You Are What You Eat .........................8 Topless Travel Takes Over Caribe Resort By John Davis .......................... ........................................ ...................9 .....9 Practice Makes Perect
By Aaron Bailey ......................... ....................................... ...............10 .10
International Swingers’ Day The Convention
Hot Destinations with Topless Travel Travel By Joe Giantonio .......................... ......................................14 ............14 Fabulous Firsts What A Site, What A Night By David Lawrence .......................... ....................................16 ..........16
SwingLieStyle On Location ..............18 ..............18 Club Listings ........................... .......................................20 ............20 Events & Conventions........................26 Conventions........................26 Coming Up.................................. ..........................................28 ........28 Publishers Brian & Olga ino@LieStyleMagazine.com
NCSF Is Here For You..........................11 You..........................11 Healthy Swinging Have More LifeStyle Fun By Getting Lean & Healthy By Dr. Mike ........................... ........................................ ...................12 ......12
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Questions OUPLES C Q
By LieStyle Counselor
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A R O L E S N U O C E L Y T S E F I L h t i w S N O I T S E U Q
Dear LieStyle Counselor, My wie and I have been in the liestyle or a while now and we have recently joined one o those social sites. To make a long story short, we are a member on this social site to connect with amily and riends. However we have posted some o our parties inviting other like minded couples. Our son who is now 21 years old has a girlriend his same age both ound out about our party we were throwing and my son asked how long we have been swingers? My son also asked i I was his real dad. What should we say to our son? Signed Social Couple
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Dear Social Couple, You are not alone with the ever growing concern o the internet and the inormation it can provide. Some couples choose to come out and admit it , whereas others may want to keep it quiet. Since you and your wie choose to publicly display your party, then you are obviously ready to disclose to your amily about your activities. First up I think you know the answer is simple, tell your son that you are his ather, and you may want to explain the LieStyle to him so he and his girlriend understand. Remember the Liestyle is not about cheating and most swingers engage in protected sex, so make this clear. Explain to your son that you and your wie are very much in love and the liestyle can be rewarding. Your son is old enough and I am sure he knows a lot about swinging, especially i you publicly displayed this. You may also want to disclose your LieStyle to the rest o the amily soon i you have not already, because as most social sites, what you post can easily be tracked. Sincerely, LC
Dear LieStyle Counselor, I love your posts you have written on SwingLieStyle’s swinger blog. I have never written in to anything beore but me and my wie need your help desperately. The wie and I have been secret swingers or more than 7 years, we enjoy the liestyle but are conused, as I am a Pastor at our church. We attend swingers club’s and meet people online and are very discreet. One time at a swinger’s party we ran into a couple rom church and it was awkward, should we talk to them soon? Please help and thanks in advance. Signed The Swinging Preacher Dear Preacher, First o, you don’t need to eel bad about embracing the liestyle. Second this is not uncommon, I know o two Pastors in two dierent states that are swinging couples. I would address your concerns with the couple that you want to be discreet about the liestyle, as I am sure they want to be discreet as well. You may want to address them in person or maybe a simple phone call would suce. Because you ran into them at a swinger’s party, you both were there or the obvious same reason. You can always come clean and admit it or you can always say “wow I didn’t know what kind o party this was, I thought it was swing dancing”. Sincerely, LC
SEX Pleasing Her TIP Move your entire body up about two inches. Your pubic bone will rest on top of her’s so that the base of your penis presses on her clit.
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Dear LieStyle Counselor, My husband and I are airly new to the liestyle and have had a ew sot swaps and recently a couple o ull swaps. My questions are, “Are STD’s a problem with swinging and we have not encountered jealousy yet, should we?” Signed Curious Wie Dear Curious Wie, Two very good questions, let me start o with the STD’s. I have read conficting research on the issue o swinging and STD’s in general. I have read that the swinging community has ewer STD’s and I would agree with this. However I read a survey which showed most people in the liestyle do use condoms and the prevalence o STD’s are lower or any group including monogamous and heterosexuals. Why is it lower, I would guess it is because Swingers do not cheat, and recent studies show over 50% o married couples not in the liestyle cheat. When you cheat you take the risk o an STD and bringing it back to your partner. In the liestyle couples are open and honest and do not cheat. Rule o thumb, you and your partner do not want to catch anything so I would recommend always using protection. As ar as jealousy, you can and may encounter it. It is normal to be a little jealous every time you swing. The stronger your relationship is and the closer you are in being honest, the better you will bond in your relationship. Sincerely, LC
SEX Pleasing TIP Him Surprise your man by occasionally removing your pubic hair completely (depilatory
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Dear LieStyle Counselor, My husband and I are new to the liestyle and I have been watching pornographic videos o women having multiple men penetrate them at once. We started out as a sot swap and then graduated to a ull swap. I am a 32 year old woman in my sexual peak, and I was wondering how oten women antasize about being double penetrated or even to be gang banged. I have not told my husband o this yet because I do not know how normal it is. I really enjoy anal sex, and like the attention two men can give me. I am wondering how to bring it up to my husband and how to go about setting up a gang bang, and wondering how many men I should start out with and how to ease into double penetration? Signed DP or Not DP, that is the question Dear DP, It is perectly normal or a woman, especially going through her sexual peak, to antasize and even live out these antasies. The beauty o it is that you are in the liestyle; remember people do not judge you and I believe your husband would be totally supportive o it. The liestyle is about exploring your sexual desires with your spouse. I am sure i he wanted a threesome with another woman you would be supportive. By all means express to your husband that this turns you on and you want to try it out. As ar as setting it up, I would recommend a double penetration, beore a gang bang, because you may be double penetrated in a gang bang with more than two men. To start out, make sure the man doing the anal penetration perorms analingus on you (licking his tongue around the opening o your anus) getting you aroused or the penetration. Most women nd this as a perec t ease into the anal penetration. Once this is perormed both penises can enter with maximum enjoyment. As ar as a gang bang, once you have been double penetrated you can probably gauge how many men you want on you at once. They are very easy to set up. A riend o mine sets up gang bangs on SwingLieStyle.com and they are up ront and honest how many guys etc. Be true to the ad post and take it rom there. Remember you can screen the guys you want and don’t want. Sincerely, LC
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Questions OUPLES C Q
By LieStyle Counselor
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A R O L E S N U O C E L Y T S E F I L h t i w S N O I T S E U Q S E L P U O C2
Dear LieStyle Counselor, My wie and I have been in the liestyle or a while now and we have recently joined one o those social sites. To make a long story short, we are a member on this social site to connect with amily and riends. However we have posted some o our parties inviting other like minded couples. Our son who is now 21 years old has a girlriend his same age both ound out about our party we were throwing and my son asked how long we have been swingers? My son also asked i I was his real dad. What should we say to our son?
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Signed Social Couple Dear Social Couple,
You are not alone with the ever growing concern o the internet and the inormation it can provide. Some couples choose to come out and admit it , whereas others may want to keep it quiet. Since you and your wie choose to publicly display your party, then you are obviously ready to disclose to your amily about your activities. First up I think you know the answer is simple, tell your son that you are his ather, and you may want to explain the LieStyle to him so he and his girlriend understand. Remember the Liestyle is not about cheating and most swingers engage in protected sex, so make this clear. Explain to your son that you and your wie are very much in love and the liestyle can be rewarding. Your son is old enough and I am sure he knows a lot about swinging, especially i you publicly displayed this. You may also want to disclose your LieStyle to the rest o the amily soon i you have not already, because as most social sites, what you post can easily be tracked.
I love your posts you have written on SwingLieStyle’s swinger blog. I have never written in to anything beore but me and my wie need your help desperately. The wie and I have been secret swingers or more than 7 years, we enjoy the liestyle but are conused, as I am a Pastor at our church. We attend swingers club’s and meet people online and are very discreet. One time at a swinger’s party we ran into a couple rom church and it was awkward, should we talk to them soon? Please help and thanks in advance. Signed The Swinging Preacher Dear Preacher, First o, you don’t need to eel bad about embracing the liestyle. Second this is not uncommon, I know o two Pastors in two dierent states that are swinging couples. I would address your concerns with the couple that you want to be discreet about the liestyle, as I am sure they want to be discreet as well. You may want to address them in person or maybe a simple phone call would suce. Because you ran into them at a swinger’s party, you both were there or the obvious same reason. You can always come clean and admit it or you can always say “wow I didn’t know what kind o party this was, I thought it was swing dancing”. Sincerely, LC
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Signed Curious Wie Dear Curious Wie, Two very good questions, let me start o with the STD’s. I have read conficting research on the issue o swinging and STD’s in general. I have read that the swinging community has ewer STD’s and I would agree with this. However I read a survey which showed most people in the liestyle do use condoms and the prevalence o STD’s are lower or any group including monogamous and heterosexuals. Why is it lower, I would guess it is because Swingers do not cheat, and recent studies show over 50% o married couples not in the liestyle cheat. When you cheat you take the risk o an STD and bringing it back to your partner. In the liestyle couples are open and honest and do not cheat. Rule o thumb, you and your partner do not want to catch anything so I would recommend always using protection. As ar as jealousy, you can and may encounter it. It is normal to be a little jealous every time you swing. The stronger your relationship is and the closer you are in being honest, the better you will bond in your relationship.
Greetings LieStyle Magazine Hey LieStyle Magazine, I have never written in to anything beore I want you to know that I will be
relaunching the magazine again. I remember
displaying your magazine in my barber shop.
the older issues I saw at a club a ew years
I don’t care about being discreet, my wie and
back and I loved it. I really enjoy your articles
I are open and have been or many years.
and even the ads because they are all
I intend to place your magazine down in
liestyle related in nature. I am so glad I
the waiting area, I am sure some men have
signed up to receive your magazine. I frst
swinger wives, i not I am sure they will enjoy
saw you guys post it on Facebook, although
the read. Thanks again or publishing a great
I use the internet daily in my job, I always
magazine catered to a group o people that
love a good magazine. I will defnitely tell my
continues to grow.
riends about this and I know they will sign up, I am going to buy my swinger riends
– James and Jodi
a subscription and send it to them or a Christmas present. Thanks again – Clarence
LieStyle Magazine, I just talked to my local swing club and they will be carrying your magazine. I just gotta
Thank You LieStyle Magazine
say thanks or putting this magazine out. The club owner said you guys were taking letters
My husband loves magazines and I
to print and I hope you print this. My wie
wanted to thank you or a complementary
and our riends are looking orward to your
issue o the magazine. I read through some
magazine. I had a chance to read through the
o the older magazine articles and I know
past issues, they are very entertaining and I
my husband will be thrilled when he receives
love that it is all about the liestyle. Great luck
his frst issue. What I enjoy most is that the
and much success to you, LieStyle Magazine.
articles are about the liestyle in general and I love that you deliver it to us discreetly. Thank you again and really looking orward
A
SEX Pleasing TIP Him Surprise your man by occasionally removing your pubic hair completely (depilatory cream is best; no itchy regrowth). This simple trick is audacious — and mesmerizing.
Signed DP or Not DP, that is the question Dear DP, It is perectly normal or a woman, especially going through her sexual peak, to antasize and even live out these antasies. The beauty o it is that you are in the liestyle; remember people do not judge you and I believe your husband would be totally supportive o it. The liestyle is about exploring your sexual desires with your spouse. I am sure i he wanted a threesome with another woman you would be supportive. By all means express to your husband that this turns you on and you want to try it out. As ar as setting it up, I would recommend a double penetration, beore a gang bang, because you may be double penetrated in a gang bang with more than two men. To start out, make sure the man doing the anal penetration perorms analingus on you (licking his tongue around the opening o your anus) getting you aroused or the penetration. Most women nd this as a perec t ease into the anal penetration. Once this is perormed both penises can enter with maximum enjoyment. As ar as a gang bang, once you have been double penetrated you can probably gauge how many men you want on you at once. They are very easy to set up. A riend o mine sets up gang bangs on SwingLieStyle.com and they are up ront and honest how many guys etc. Be true to the ad post and take it rom there. Remember you can screen the guys you want and don’t want.
– Bill and Mimi
C O U P L E S Q U E S T I O N S w i t h L I F E S T Y L E C O U N S E L O
Sincerely, LC
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but I wanted to congratulate you guys on
My husband and I are new to the liestyle and I have been watching pornographic videos o women having multiple men penetrate them at once. We started out as a sot swap and then graduated to a ull swap. I am a 32 year old woman in my sexual peak, and I was wondering how oten women antasize about being double penetrated or even to be gang banged. I have not told my husband o this yet because I do not know how normal it is. I really enjoy anal sex, and like the attention two men can give me. I am wondering how to bring it up to my husband and how to go about setting up a gang bang, and wondering how many men I should start out with and how to ease into double penetration?
My husband and I are airly new to the liestyle and have had a ew sot swaps and recently a couple o ull swaps. My questions are, “Are STD’s a problem with swinging and we have not encountered jealousy yet, should we?”
Start Your Sexual Revolution ®
Letters from our Read Readers ers
to reading the articles.
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Dear LieStyle Counselor,
Dear LieStyle Counselor,
Sincerely, LC
SEX Pleasing Her TIP
Sincerely, LC
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You’ve heard about all the LieStyle conventions and cruises and have probably noticed that they usually oer hospitality suites, but you’re not quite sure what that means. Here is everything you need to know. Hospitality Suites are generally the on premise areas at a convention. Rooms or areas designated or sexual play,other play, other than your personal room. The hallways and possibly one or two o the rooms are where you can mix and mingle and get a snack or a drink. The rest o the hospitality suites are usually themed, below are several o the common common themes and what they generally are or.
Tantra Room Tantra is the act o making love without without orgasm, or with a delayed orgasm. I you want a long lasting session without a climax, this is the place or you. Even Even i you just want to participate, but save your orgasm or later, later, this is the place to be. Women usually preer to have the man man they are with come to orgasm (and vice-verse), but i you want want to rack up some numbers without blowing your wad, give this room a try.
Chocolate Room Chocolate reers to Arican Americans. The Chocolate Ch ocolate room is or the ladies that want to give it a try. There There are usually several Males (sometimes single males brought brought in special) available or that special treat. It is generally acceptable or the white males to watch, but participa tion is notencouraged, notencouraged, just watch and enjoy.
Dar Room The dark room is pitch black and no one can see anything. anything. This can be a very reeing experience where one can lick, suck or ’ck all manner o things. I you’re a bit shy or not not sure what your looking or, or you just can’t seem to nd someone you like, give this room a try and you’re sure to nd something. something. Be warned, i you’re a homophobe, keep out because when no one can see, things get touched and all sorts o things start to happen. People oten ask i the dark room room is or Bi males that are in the closet. Well, yes and no. The dark room isn’t specically or Bi males, but i that’s what you’re looking or, you’ll probably nd it.
Red Light Room (watch and /or be watched) (Could also be the Bi Room - Male/ Female) There is a bit o conusion about what the Red Light Room is. Some say say it’s or watching and/or being watched (with your spouse). Others Others say it like the Red Light District or Bi couples. Our advice is to either ask or watch or a ew minutes beore you decide to enter.
Electric Room Erotic Electro-stimulation Electro-stimulation can be quite a lot o un or some people, and not so much much or others. It might be sexual in nature or just some shocks up your leg, one thing is or certain, you’ll denitely eel it.
Massage Room Room This might be your your chance to have the erotic massage you’ve always heard about but didn’t want to ask your regular masseuse about about or ear o some time behind bars. Since you’re not paying or or it, that erotic massage is more than than OK here. O course you might might have to give one beore you get one.
Group Room Room I you don’t know what this room is or, maybe you’re reading the wrong magazine. magazine. It’s not a gang bang, but a group. You might want to share, or not, but you’ll certainly hear and see a lot in this room. room.
Dungeon A Dungeon on all those Internet sites conjures up images o hot babes getting ge tting twisted up in knots and tortured. That’s not realistic at all and not what this room is all about. It’s about allowing someone else control over you and the sweet surprise o something unexpected. It might be a slap on the ass or a eather in the ear. Pain and pleasure mixed together to get you wetter and harder than ever. Sensory overload can be a wonderul thing.
Sybian Room
Naughty Room
Sybian is a sexual device much larger than a standard vibrator that a woman can mount and produces amazing orgasms. There is also a product or men, Venus 2000, which is a masturbation aid. Sybian has been THE name or emale emale sexual aids or almost 25 years. This is your chance to try it out and see i it’s worth investing in one o your own.
I’ve never actually seen this room anywhere, but maybe one day it will appear. This would be the no rules room. Enter here with an open mind because it’s a ree or all inside.
Oral Room (Sot-Swap) When you’re not quite ready to do the ull swap thing, this is
....
Letters from our Read Readers ers Greetings LieStyle Magazine Hey LieStyle Magazine, I have never written in to anything beore
I want you to know that I will be
but I wanted to congratulate you guys on relaunching the magazine again. I remember
displaying your magazine in my barber shop.
the older issues I saw at a club a ew years
I don’t care about being discreet, my wie and
back and I loved it. I really enjoy your articles
I are open and have been or many years.
and even the ads because they are all
I intend to place your magazine down in
liestyle related in nature. I am so glad I
the waiting area, I am sure some men have
signed up to receive your magazine. I frst
swinger wives, i not I am sure they will enjoy
saw you guys post it on Facebook, although
the read. Thanks again or publishing a great
I use the internet daily in my job, I always
magazine catered to a group o people that
love a good magazine. I will defnitely tell my
continues to grow.
riends about this and I know they will sign – James and Jodi
up, I am going to buy my swinger riends
LieStyle Magazine,
Thanks again – Clarence
I just talked to my local swing club and they will be carrying your magazine. I just gotta say thanks or putting this magazine out. The
Thank You LieStyle Magazine
club owner said you guys were taking letters My husband loves magazines and I
to print and I hope you print this. My wie
wanted to thank you or a complementary
and our riends are looking orward to your
issue o the magazine. I read through some
magazine. I had a chance to read through the
o the older magazine articles and I know
past issues, they are very entertaining and I
my husband will be thrilled when he receives
love that it is all about the liestyle. Great luck
his frst issue. What I enjoy most is that the
and much success to you, LieStyle Magazine.
articles are about the liestyle in general – Bill and Mimi
and I love that you deliver it to us discreetly. Thank you again and really looking orward to reading the articles.
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– Discreet Doesn’t Matter
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You’ve heard about all the LieStyle conventions and cruises and have probably noticed that they usually oer hospitality suites, but you’re not quite sure what that means. Here is everything you need to know. Hospitality Suites are generally the on premise areas at a convention. Rooms or areas designated or sexual play,other play, other than your personal room. The hallways and possibly one or two o the rooms are where you can mix and mingle and get a snack or a drink. The rest o the hospitality suites are usually themed, below are several o the common common themes and what they generally are or.
Tantra Room Tantra is the act o making love without without orgasm, or with a delayed orgasm. I you want a long lasting session without a climax, this is the place or you. Even Even i you just want to participate, but save your orgasm or later, later, this is the place to be. Women usually preer to have the man man they are with come to orgasm (and vice-verse), but i you want want to rack up some numbers without blowing your wad, give this room a try.
Chocolate Room
a subscription and send it to them or a Christmas present.
By Brian SwingLieStyle.com
Chocolate reers to Arican Americans. The Chocolate Ch ocolate room is or the ladies that want to give it a try. There There are usually several Males (sometimes single males brought brought in special) available or that special treat. It is generally acceptable or the white males to watch, but participa tion is notencouraged, notencouraged, just watch and enjoy.
Dar Room The dark room is pitch black and no one can see anything. anything. This can be a very reeing experience where one can lick, suck or ’ck all manner o things. I you’re a bit shy or not not sure what your looking or, or you just can’t seem to nd someone you like, give this room a try and you’re sure to nd something. something. Be warned, i you’re a homophobe, keep out because when no one can see, things get touched and all sorts o things start to happen. People oten ask i the dark room room is or Bi males that are in the closet. Well, yes and no. The dark room isn’t specically or Bi males, but i that’s what you’re looking or, you’ll probably nd it.
Red Light Room (watch and /or be watched) (Could also be the Bi Room - Male/ Female) There is a bit o conusion about what the Red Light Room is. Some say say it’s or watching and/or being watched (with your spouse). Others Others say it like the Red Light District or Bi couples. Our advice is to either ask or watch or a ew minutes beore you decide to enter.
Electric Room Erotic Electro-stimulation Electro-stimulation can be quite a lot o un or some people, and not so much much or others. It might be sexual in nature or just some shocks up your leg, one thing is or certain, you’ll denitely eel it.
Massage Room Room This might be your your chance to have the erotic massage you’ve always heard about but didn’t want to ask your regular masseuse about about or ear o some time behind bars. Since you’re not paying or or it, that erotic massage is more than than OK here. O course you might might have to give one beore you get one.
Group Room Room I you don’t know what this room is or, maybe you’re reading the wrong magazine. magazine. It’s not a gang bang, but a group. You might want to share, or not, but you’ll certainly hear and see a lot in this room. room.
Dungeon A Dungeon on all those Internet sites conjures up images o hot babes getting ge tting twisted up in knots and tortured. That’s not realistic at all and not what this room is all about. It’s about allowing someone else control over you and the sweet surprise o something unexpected. It might be a slap on the ass or a eather in the ear. Pain and pleasure mixed together to get you wetter and harder than ever. Sensory overload can be a wonderul thing.
Sybian Room
Naughty Room
Sybian is a sexual device much larger than a standard vibrator that a woman can mount and produces amazing orgasms. There is also a product or men, Venus 2000, which is a masturbation aid. Sybian has been THE name or emale emale sexual aids or almost 25 years. This is your chance to try it out and see i it’s worth investing in one o your own.
I’ve never actually seen this room anywhere, but maybe one day it will appear. This would be the no rules room. Enter here with an open mind because it’s a ree or all inside.
Ladies Room or Pin Room Ladies only, I’ve never been able to get inside to see what’s happening in there, but I imagine it’s just pillow ghts in panties.
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Oral Room (Sot-Swap) When you’re not quite ready to do the ull swap thing, this is a great place to be. There isn’t the pressure to perorm ull swap so you can be more relaxed. relaxed. Or, maybe you just eel like slowing things down and getting back to basics. However you look at it, the oral room is sure to please.
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special eature
LifeStyle Interview Joe
& Shelley
owned property together, there has always been some concern about what would happen i we had any legal issues arise like medical powers o attorney or a lie and death situation, so we elt it was more prudent to get married. We are happy we did and it has been better than ever.
How did you get started?
LieStyle Nicnames: We don’t use nick names, we use our real names. We eel that we don’t want to hide who we are and are proud o the liestyle we have chosen. Our amily members all know what we do and ater the initial shock it has become a non issue. All o our “vanilla” riends know about us and only one o them decided to not associate with us ater they ound out. We elt that they weren’t really true riends i they were unable to accept that this was how we chose to live our lives. We never tried to impose this on anyone.
How long in the LieStyle? We met and started dating casually about 15 years ago right ater Shelley nished college. We started to experiment with some girl/girl action just a ew months into our relationship, then with other couples sometime ater that. That was 15 years ago and we’ve been involved in the liestyle both personally and in various businesses ever since. We love the riends that we have met and most are as close to us as amily are. Ater all, we share our spouses so this requires a level o intimacy that goes ar beyond what people would call the “normal” riendship.
What is your relationship?
Well, that is a story unto itsel. We had been playing with women only or quite some time and then by chance we drove by a swinger club with a big billboard sign and Shelley suggested that we try it sometime. I had no real desire to do so since I was getting all the girl/girl action and never really wanted to share Shelley with another guy; however I had a certain curiosity about it and ater a couple weeks o talking about it we both decided to try out the club. We walked i nto this swing club and to our surprise we ran into a group o riends we both knew rom the “straight” world and immediately had a group to hang out with that had a bit o experience. We ended up going back to this club a week later and while watching some couples having sex in the play room and commenting about how “hot” it was, another couple approached us and asked us to join them in the play room which ater looking at each other or a ew seconds, we decided to jump right in and go or it. We immediately went home and did lots o research about swinging on the internet. Beore we knew it we were going to every swinger related convention and club we could nd. We’ve been totally involved ever since.
What do you enjoy most about the LieStyle? We like the act that everyone we meet s tarts rom a similar place intellectually. People in the liestyle tend to have an open-mindedness that vanilla people just don’t seem to have, otherwise they wouldn’t have the thoughts to begin with. The average public is so critical that we just can’t hang with mainstream people because they are so close minded. We love developing intimate
What do you enjoy least about the LieStyle? Well there are many phases that couples go through to arrive at a place where they are ully comortable with swapping their mate with someone else, and many times there are bumps in the road or couples. We don’t like it when a husband or a wie gets involved to please their partner. It never works unless both parties get involved or themselves and oten times when this occurs there is riction between the partners and we never like to be around when that happens. It’s not that oten that people show that side o themselves in public as they usually reserve that or when they leave a swi nger situation, but sometimes emotions get the best o people and a couple will make a scene and we end up leaving a party or event on a bit o a sour note. We never like to see that happen and wish couples would communicate clearly with each other what is expected beore hand.
What’s the most exciting place you’ve done it? There really isn’t anything we haven’t done in the li estyle and there is so much o it that is really exciting but our avorite place we’ve been to is a clothing optional resort called Caribe in the Dominican republic. As long as you go there while there is a liestyle group booked that has the “run” o the resort, then it is as exciting as it gets. It’s the only place that actually permits people to have “Sex on the Beach” ....and we’re not talking about the cocktail. ToplessTravel.com ToplessTravel.com organizes such events twice a year.
Which do you preer in others, a Friendship or a Sexship? That is a loaded question.... we love to meet new people to “play” with, or just have sex with; however when we have really good sex on a rst encounter, we generally become REALLY good riends with those couples and then over time the riendship becomes more important. We actually use sex as an introduction. When we nd couples that can just walk up to us, or visa
guys are hot” and then just jump in bed with them and have a really sexy time, then w e eel as though they are people that are as uninhibited and honest about their sexuality and personality as we are. I the encounter is both physically and emotionally satisying then we oten become close riends with these people even to the point where sex may or may not continue into the relationship, but our bond o riendship remains super strong.
Any advice or others, or those new to the LieStyle? What has worked best or us is to be TOTALLY honest honest with each other. I there is anything that one is not comortable with doing then they need to tell their partner.; OR i there is some antasy that one wants to indulge in then they should share it with their spouse. Don’t be jealous but i that ugliness rears it’s head then use the jealousy as a tool to get better connected and not reak out. Know that swinging is j ust to enhance your relationship not be a substitute or something missing i n the relationship. This is not to be the ocal point o but rather the catalyst or renewing and enhancing the bond with your partner.
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owned property together, there has always been some concern about what would happen i we had any legal issues arise like medical powers o attorney or a lie and death situation, so we elt it was more prudent to get married. We are happy we did and it has been better than ever.
How did you get started?
LieStyle Nicnames: We don’t use nick names, we use our real names. We eel that we don’t want to hide who we are and are proud o the liestyle we have chosen. Our amily members all know what we do and ater the initial shock it has become a non issue. All o our “vanilla” riends know about us and only one o them decided to not associate with us ater they ound out. We elt that they weren’t really true riends i they were unable to accept that this was how we chose to live our lives. We never tried to impose this on anyone.
How long in the LieStyle? We met and started dating casually about 15 years ago right ater Shelley nished college. We started to experiment with some girl/girl action just a ew months into our relationship, then with other couples sometime ater that. That was 15 years ago and we’ve been involved in the liestyle both personally and in various businesses ever since. We love the riends that we have met and most are as close to us as amily are. Ater all, we share our spouses so this requires a level o intimacy that goes ar beyond what people would call the “normal” riendship.
What is your relationship? We have a wonderul relationship. We lived together or more than 10 years beore we decided to make it legal and get married. We never elt that a piece o paper gave us more o a commitment. However, since we
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Well, that is a story unto itsel. We had been playing with women only or quite some time and then by chance we drove by a swinger club with a big billboard sign and Shelley suggested that we try it sometime. I had no real desire to do so since I was getting all the girl/girl action and never really wanted to share Shelley with another guy; however I had a certain curiosity about it and ater a couple weeks o talking about it we both decided to try out the club. We walked i nto this swing club and to our surprise we ran into a group o riends we both knew rom the “straight” world and immediately had a group to hang out with that had a bit o experience. We ended up going back to this club a week later and while watching some couples having sex in the play room and commenting about how “hot” it was, another couple approached us and asked us to join them in the play room which ater looking at each other or a ew seconds, we decided to jump right in and go or it. We immediately went home and did lots o research about swinging on the internet. Beore we knew it we were going to every swinger related convention and club we could nd. We’ve been totally involved ever since.
What do you enjoy most about the LieStyle? We like the act that everyone we meet s tarts rom a similar place intellectually. People in the liestyle tend to have an open-mindedness that vanilla people just don’t seem to have, otherwise they wouldn’t have the thoughts to begin with. The average public is so critical that we just can’t hang with mainstream people because they are so close minded. We love developing intimate relationships with other liestylers that are more than just simple riendships.
Well there are many phases that couples go through to arrive at a place where they are ully comortable with swapping their mate with someone else, and many times there are bumps in the road or couples. We don’t like it when a husband or a wie gets involved to please their partner. It never works unless both parties get involved or themselves and oten times when this occurs there is riction between the partners and we never like to be around when that happens. It’s not that oten that people show that side o themselves in public as they usually reserve that or when they leave a swi nger situation, but sometimes emotions get the best o people and a couple will make a scene and we end up leaving a party or event on a bit o a sour note. We never like to see that happen and wish couples would communicate clearly with each other what is expected beore hand.
What’s the most exciting place you’ve done it? There really isn’t anything we haven’t done in the li estyle and there is so much o it that is really exciting but our avorite place we’ve been to is a clothing optional resort called Caribe in the Dominican republic. As long as you go there while there is a liestyle group booked that has the “run” o the resort, then it is as exciting as it gets. It’s the only place that actually permits people to have “Sex on the Beach” ....and we’re not talking about the cocktail. ToplessTravel.com ToplessTravel.com organizes such events twice a year.
Which do you preer in others, a Friendship or a Sexship? That is a loaded question.... we love to meet new people to “play” with, or just have sex with; however when we have really good sex on a rst encounter, we generally become REALLY good riends with those couples and then over time the riendship becomes more important. We actually use sex as an introduction. When we nd couples that can just walk up to us, or visa versa, and say “hey you
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guys are hot” and then just jump in bed with them and have a really sexy time, then w e eel as though they are people that are as uninhibited and honest about their sexuality and personality as we are. I the encounter is both physically and emotionally satisying then we oten become close riends with these people even to the point where sex may or may not continue into the relationship, but our bond o riendship remains super strong.
Any advice or others, or those new to the LieStyle? What has worked best or us is to be TOTALLY honest honest with each other. I there is anything that one is not comortable with doing then they need to tell their partner.; OR i there is some antasy that one wants to indulge in then they should share it with their spouse. Don’t be jealous but i that ugliness rears it’s head then use the jealousy as a tool to get better connected and not reak out. Know that swinging is j ust to enhance your relationship not be a substitute or something missing i n the relationship. This is not to be the ocal point o but rather the catalyst or renewing and enhancing the bond with your partner.
Interested in being our eatured couple? Just send an e-mail to ino@LieStyleMagazine.com Make sure you answer all o the above questions with as much detail as possible.
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A narrative review by John Davis world traveler.
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What you put into your body is what will come out, we have all heard the expression “you are what you eat”. This statement could not be truer. On MTV’s Loveline back in the early 90’s, Dr. Drew covered the topic o how to make semen taste better. It was revealed that pineapple juice will improve the taste o s emen. Since the airing there have been much discussion and extensive testing into the subject. It was discovered that a couple dierent ruits can improve the taste o semen and cutting back on certain types o ood will also improve the taste.
FOODS TO AVOID It is important to be healthy and live a healthy liestyle, and monitor what goes into your body. For instance alcohol and smoking are two habits that go hand in hand and actually can make your semen taste very bitter. Coee and dairy products should be avoided because they will also make the semen taste very bitter and may leave a thick consistency. We all like a good steak right? Well the next time you eat a steak you may want to know that red meat will make your semen taste extremely salty or up to 24 hours. Garlic and onions should be avoided as well, as they secrete through the pores in
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FOODS TO CONSUME One must realize that just by eating ruits that are high in natural sugar, your semen will not magically taste better in a ew hours. Your digestive system takes about 12-24 hours to secrete out. This means whatever you consumed, within the last 12-24 hours will be coming out. This is important to understand i you would like to make your semen taste sweet or a next encounter. Rule o thumb, i you want your semen to taste sweet, you may want to start living a healthy liestyle. It is true that vegetarians usually have the best tasting semen, so long as they avoid the bitter oods, and have a high dose o natural sugar. You may have heard that pineapple is the number one ruit to make semen taste sweet. Pineapple is only the tip o the iceberg, there are several other ruits to take with pineapple or alone to
cranberry, melons, mangoes, apples and grapes. Believe it or not the ruit highest in natural sugar is the date and the persimmon. The good news is that by incorporating the above mentioned ruit, it will make your semen taste sweet but also get you in shape. When you eat resh ruits or 36 hours, you go into a at-burning mode. By doing this or 3 days wit h this ruit fush, your system is relieved o the digestive burden o eating other oods and can clean out its system. All this while burning at, because ruit is nature’s perect cleansing ood. In closing, there are a ew spices to keep in mind that improve the taste o semen. Cinnamon, peppermint and lemon are denitely recommended or or making semen taste better. I you consume these ruits and spices or 24 hours, your semen should taste better. I you change your diet and your semen has a strong smell to it, you could have
“Did you ever dream o a antasy resort where the grounds and views are breathtaking and there are lots o pretty people there that can’t wait to meet you? “There is a private oasis unlike anything else in liestyle travel where couples who have visited call it a Haven o Heaven!” That quote was taken rom Topless Travel’s Travel’s advertisements that promise a paradise that “you will never want to leave”: a place where attractive, sexy, couples are completely open and actively looking to meet other like minded people or sexy un and games. My wie Linda and I had been to all the liestyle resorts but this one, and we were a little hesitant because there was so little written about this resort. We booked the trip a bit late and thereore couldn’t get acceptable airare into the Resort’s designated airport o Puerto Plata so we had to fy to the capitol city o Santo Domingo (SDQ). This posed a small problem in that the ride is about 30 minutes urther rom Puerto Plata and we incurred a modest transer cost rom that airport to the resort. All in all though, the airare to SDQ was so much cheaper that it made up or the small inconvenience and extra cost. We arrived at the resort just beore noon and there were Joe and Shelley at the Topless Travel check in desk along with their sta that gave us an arrival package that included a T-shirt, a beaded name necklace, and a schedule o events. They also gave us a brie orientation o how the resort ran. We were very surprised when they turned us over to the resort manager to give us the penny tour o the resort beore taking us to our room so we could reshen up. The resort grounds are spectacular! There are 3 pools and 2 very large Jacuzzis that can accommodate up to about 20 people. We spent a little extra money and got one o the ocean ront villas and we were in #5 which was right across rom the lower pool. We were very impressed with the accommodations! Living room, dining room, kitchen, bathroom, and bedroom with a large King bed with lovely bedding and draperies. During the tour o the resort we ound out that the “lower” section o the resort is an “open play” area. Now this was a rst or us. We knew that the whole resort was clothing optional but what made this place unique was that it was divided in hal much like
guests can “play” openly on the beach or at the pool, or even at the Tiki bar i they want. The upper portion where the oce, main restaurant, and the big pool with the swim up bar is a “no play” zone. Meaning you can go nude but ooling around is o limits. We couldn’t wait to get naked and hit the crystal clear blue/ green water! Thirty minutes later we were skinny dipping in the ocean. Seeing Linda naked in the aquamarine Caribbean waters got me so aroused that I just couldn’t keep mysel rom grabbing her and making our way back to the beach or some “aternoon delight”. We laid there aterwards basking in the sun, sand, and sur until we heard music and games going on at the beach pool. The Topless Travel DJ was blasting it out with contemporary sounds and organizing groups to take part the nightly entertainment that takes place ater diner on the main stage. The ood at Caribe is unparalleled to any o the other liestyle resorts. All meals are cooked to order and you choose rom a well appointed menu. Portions are European sized but you can order as many entrees as you want. Breakast was served rom 7-11, Lunch rom 11:30 to 4pm, and Dinner in the Main dining room rom 7 to 10:30. Seating is open and everyone is invited to come dressed in themed attire rom Pirates and Togas, to Sexy lingerie and Luau nights. Ater dinner the main stage was lit up and we all turned our attention to the show. Ater the show most everyone made their way to Club Colette, an on site swingers club that the resort hosts. It is one o the most elegant clubs we’ve been to. The highlight was the masquerade party where many people were getting risky in the community play room with their Mardi Gras masks on so no one could tell who was who, but the crowd was all so attractive we were happy to jump in the mix. By week’s end we had met so many new riendly people rom all over the country, and had such a great time at this resort, that we have now vowed to go back every year and bring all our local riends so they can experience this obscure paradise in the Dominican Republic that no one seems to know about. All in all, my ndings were this; Every liestyle resort that we have been to, has pros and cons to them. When it comes to the review o Caribe, at least when there is a takeover going on, the pros so ar outweigh the cons that we may never go to another resort or one o our liestyle vacations.
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A narrative review by John Davis world traveler.
Eat
D
Tips To Mae Your Semen Taste Sweet!
W
What you put into your body is what will come out, we have all heard the expression “you are what you eat”. This statement could not be truer. On MTV’s Loveline back in the early 90’s, Dr. Drew covered the topic o how to make semen taste better. It was revealed that pineapple juice will improve the taste o s emen. Since the airing there have been much discussion and extensive testing into the subject. It was discovered that a couple dierent ruits can improve the taste o semen and cutting back on certain types o ood will also improve the taste.
FOODS TO AVOID It is important to be healthy and live a healthy liestyle, and monitor what goes into your body. For instance alcohol and smoking are two habits that go hand in hand and actually can make your semen taste very bitter. Coee and dairy products should be avoided because they will also make the semen taste very bitter and may leave a thick consistency. We all like a good steak right? Well the next time you eat a steak you may want to know that red meat will make your semen taste extremely salty or up to 24 hours. Garlic and onions should be avoided as well, as they secrete through the pores in your skin and also make semen horribly bitter and extremely salty.
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FOODS TO CONSUME One must realize that just by eating ruits that are high in natural sugar, your semen will not magically taste better in a ew hours. Your digestive system takes about 12-24 hours to secrete out. This means whatever you consumed, within the last 12-24 hours will be coming out. This is important to understand i you would like to make your semen taste sweet or a next encounter. Rule o thumb, i you want your semen to taste sweet, you may want to start living a healthy liestyle. It is true that vegetarians usually have the best tasting semen, so long as they avoid the bitter oods, and have a high dose o natural sugar. You may have heard that pineapple is the number one ruit to make semen taste sweet. Pineapple is only the tip o the iceberg, there are several other ruits to take with pineapple or alone to help improve the taste even more. Fruits that are high in natural sugar will make your semen taste sweet. The ollowing ruits are great or improving the taste o your semen: pineapple, papaya,
cranberry, melons, mangoes, apples and grapes. Believe it or not the ruit highest in natural sugar is the date and the persimmon. The good news is that by incorporating the above mentioned ruit, it will make your semen taste sweet but also get you in shape. When you eat resh ruits or 36 hours, you go into a at-burning mode. By doing this or 3 days wit h this ruit fush, your system is relieved o the digestive burden o eating other oods and can clean out its system. All this while burning at, because ruit is nature’s perect cleansing ood. In closing, there are a ew spices to keep in mind that improve the taste o semen. Cinnamon, peppermint and lemon are denitely recommended or or making semen taste better. I you consume these ruits and spices or 24 hours, your semen should taste better. I you change your diet and your semen has a strong smell to it, you could have an inection, and you should probably go to a doctor to have it checked out.
“Did you ever dream o a antasy resort where the grounds and views are breathtaking and there are lots o pretty people there that can’t wait to meet you? “There is a private oasis unlike anything else in liestyle travel where couples who have visited call it a Haven o Heaven!” That quote was taken rom Topless Travel’s Travel’s advertisements that promise a paradise that “you will never want to leave”: a place where attractive, sexy, couples are completely open and actively looking to meet other like minded people or sexy un and games. My wie Linda and I had been to all the liestyle resorts but this one, and we were a little hesitant because there was so little written about this resort. We booked the trip a bit late and thereore couldn’t get acceptable airare into the Resort’s designated airport o Puerto Plata so we had to fy to the capitol city o Santo Domingo (SDQ). This posed a small problem in that the ride is about 30 minutes urther rom Puerto Plata and we incurred a modest transer cost rom that airport to the resort. All in all though, the airare to SDQ was so much cheaper that it made up or the small inconvenience and extra cost. We arrived at the resort just beore noon and there were Joe and Shelley at the Topless Travel check in desk along with their sta that gave us an arrival package that included a T-shirt, a beaded name necklace, and a schedule o events. They also gave us a brie orientation o how the resort ran. We were very surprised when they turned us over to the resort manager to give us the penny tour o the resort beore taking us to our room so we could reshen up. The resort grounds are spectacular! There are 3 pools and 2 very large Jacuzzis that can accommodate up to about 20 people. We spent a little extra money and got one o the ocean ront villas and we were in #5 which was right across rom the lower pool. We were very impressed with the accommodations! Living room, dining room, kitchen, bathroom, and bedroom with a large King bed with lovely bedding and draperies. During the tour o the resort we ound out that the “lower” section o the resort is an “open play” area. Now this was a rst or us. We knew that the whole resort was clothing optional but what made this place unique was that it was divided in hal much like Hedo has a “Nude” and a “Prude” side, there is an “open play” area at the lower portion o the resort where
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Practice talking to women on the street and nding out what technique works to get them to open up to you while at a bus stop or in line at a supermarket. Don’t try to pick them up, just try to start a light conversation. Then do the same with men you don’t know, then, most importantly, couples. Once you can approach a strange couple on the street and
Ater dinner the main stage was lit up and we all turned our attention to the show. Ater the show most everyone made their way to Club Colette, an on site swingers club that the resort hosts. It is one o the most elegant clubs we’ve been to. The highlight was the masquerade party where many people were getting risky in the community play room with their Mardi Gras masks on so no one could tell who was who, but the crowd was all so attractive we were happy to jump in the mix. By week’s end we had met so many new riendly people rom all over the country, and had such a great time at this resort, that we have now vowed to go back every year and bring all our local riends so they can experience this obscure paradise in the Dominican Republic that no one seems to know about. All in all, my ndings were this; Every liestyle resort that we have been to, has pros and cons to them. When it comes to the review o Caribe, at least when there is a takeover going on, the pros so ar outweigh the cons that we may never go to another resort or one o our liestyle vacations. For more inormation regarding a Topless Travel group event go to www.ToplessTravel.com o call them at 877-90-SWING.
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I you are a single man or woman just getting into swinging you have to hone your conversational skills past the point needed or just dating or regular socializing. Unlike a couple, you don’t have someone else or moral support or security. Its just you, and you have to be able to tell which way is up beore your potential playmate(s) have a chance to pull the wool over your eyes (yes, couples will try to deceive you as ast as those evil single men and attention starved single women). The way to do this is to become so comortable talking to total strangers that they leave thinking they have known you orever but orgot your name.
The ood at Caribe is unparalleled to any o the other liestyle resorts. All meals are cooked to order and you choose rom a well appointed menu. Portions are European sized but you can order as many entrees as you want. Breakast was served rom 7-11, Lunch rom 11:30 to 4pm, and Dinner in the Main dining room rom 7 to 10:30. Seating is open and everyone is invited to come dressed in themed attire rom Pirates and Togas, to Sexy lingerie and Luau nights.
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No, not practicing piano or your sexual technique (that can help), but practice talking to people you DON’T know. That is one o the hardest things to do, especially or singles, particularly or some single men.
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We couldn’t wait to get naked and hit the crystal clear blue/ green water! Thirty minutes later we were skinny dipping in the ocean. Seeing Linda naked in the aquamarine Caribbean waters got me so aroused that I just couldn’t keep mysel rom grabbing her and making our way back to the beach or some “aternoon delight”. We laid there aterwards basking in the sun, sand, and sur until we heard music and games going on at the beach pool. The Topless Travel DJ was blasting it out with contemporary sounds and organizing groups to take part the nightly entertainment that takes place ater diner on the main stage.
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Talking to people is the rst step to knowing i you really want to become involved with them. However, starting that conversation is an art that must be developed. It took me a lot longer to develop that skill because I come rom a small town and I knew almost everything about almost everyone beore I ever met them. There were no strangers in the ve surrounding communities, and that acutally hindered (and still hinders) my personal lie. Just like I knew the bad habits o people I had never met, people I never met knew mine. And when you are the only person who knows every Star Trek or Lost in Space episode and can quote any line just by hearing a short description o what happened, you are considered wierd. Funny that being able to tell how many points a particular athlete scored is considered useul inormation but... Where was I?
guests can “play” openly on the beach or at the pool, or even at the Tiki bar i they want. The upper portion where the oce, main restaurant, and the big pool with the swim up bar is a “no play” zone. Meaning you can go nude but ooling around is o limits.
get them to talk to you, you will have the condence needed to make others have condence in you. For singles, especially single men, that is one o the biggest roadblocks to swinging: making others eel you are here or un, not because its your last resort or sex or socialization. Again, knowing how to start a conversation with a couple you don’t know in a non-sexual environment will go a long way to meeting couples when you go to clubs. First o all, i you are a single man who is practicing meeting couples on the street, you will almost automatically talk to the man and build some kind o rapport with him. I you are a single woman, you will most likely start by talking to the woman. I you do this enough, when you go to a swing club you will automatically all into that mode. Sure, everyone knows you are there hoping to eventually have sex, but by approaching the same sex member o a couple and talking to them instead o approaching the opposite sex partner will go a long way making the couple comortable with you. Once you get to the joking and firting part o the conversation, THEY will be the ones asking you to join them, not you asking i you can join them. Lastly, the condence thing again. Why do basketball players practice reethrows? So they know what works. Why do they practice jumpshots? So it becomes natural. Once something becomes natural, you will have condence in doing it. I you are a single used to talking to couples, it will go a long way to making couples comortable around you. Because they will see you are comortable talking to them. Once you have condence in yoursel, others will have condence in you. When others have condence in you, they are more likely to think o you avorably. avorably. When that happens, guys, “Nice tits Mrs. O” becomes a compliment, not a come on.
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482 individuals, groups, attorneys, prosecutors, and businesses contacted NCSF or help in 2009. Each incident sometimes required only one or two phone calls, but some evolved into much larger projects. What is NCSF?
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The National Coalition or Sexual Freedom (NCSF) was ormed in 1997 by a small group led by Susan Wright under the auspices o the New York SM Activists. The goal was to ght or sexual reedom and privacy rights or all adults who engage in sae, sane and consensual behavior. The National Coalition or Sexual Freedom is a national organization organization committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances equal rights o consenting adults who practice orms o alternative sexual expression. NCSF is primarily ocused on the rights o consenting adults in the SM-leather-etish, swing, and polyamory communities, who oten ace discrimination because o their sexual expression.
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Over the years, distinct inquiries were made between NCSF and individuals, groups, attorneys, prosecutors, and businesses who requested assistance. In 2010, the National Coalition or Sexual Freedom (NCSF) again took the lead in deending the rights o individuals and groups in the SM,leather,etish, swing and polyamory communities. NCSF’s coalition o over 40 educational and social groups is committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United
In 2010, NCSF received 526 distinct inquiries/requests or assistance. 307 required more than one contact/response to resolve, oten requiring multiple contacts. It is dicult to categorize many incident requests as clearly alling into one camp or another. Many overlap in categories. For example, many o our custody/divorce related issues involve at least 2 o our core constituent groups (i.e. SM/leather/etish and poly or example). In trying to do a statistical breakdown o the requests, we placed it in the category it most clearly matched. 9% or 47 were requests regarding SM 39% or 204 were regarding criminal complaint issues 3% or 15 were regarding employment discrimination 24 % or 125 were regarding child custody/divorce custody/divorce issues 15.5% or 81 were related to SM/ leather/etish group issues 2% or 10 were classed as non employment discrimination 4% or 21 were related to swing community issues 1% or 10 were regarding online obscenity issues 2.5% or 13 were classed as “other” 2010 saw an increased number o requests around criminal and domestic violence or SM/abuse related issues. NCSF worked with more than 53 attorneys representing deendants in criminal cases. In addition, we worked with more than 17 district attorneys and prosecutors related to SM issues. The vast majority o these criminal cases revolved around domestic abuse or consensual sex/play issues. There is a clear need or education within our own communities about
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Now, more than ever, NCSF needs you. This country’s radical shit back to “traditional values” will only mean more diculties or those o us who practice alternative orms o sexual expression. You can help by making a nancial donation; you can help by donating your time. We need members, coalition partners, and volunteers. Membership lists are condential, as are donations. The time you spend helping can be on the privacy o your own computer or in a more public orum. The choice is yours.
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What would YOU do i you lost your job because your employer ound out you swing? What would YOU do i your children were removed by Social Services because your amily ound out you swing?
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NCSF is where you go when you need help in responding to incidents just like these and we can’t do it without you. Be a part o this growing organization and join us in the ght or your right to alternative sexual expression.
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No, not practicing piano or your sexual technique (that can help), but practice talking to people you DON’T know. That is one o the hardest things to do, especially or singles, particularly or some single men. Written by Aaron Bailey - Reprinted rom SwingersBoard.com
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Talking to people is the rst step to knowing i you really want to become involved with them. However, starting that conversation is an art that must be developed. It took me a lot longer to develop that skill because I come rom a small town and I knew almost everything about almost everyone beore I ever met them. There were no strangers in the ve surrounding communities, and that acutally hindered (and still hinders) my personal lie. Just like I knew the bad habits o people I had never met, people I never met knew mine. And when you are the only person who knows every Star Trek or Lost in Space episode and can quote any line just by hearing a short description o what happened, you are considered wierd. Funny that being able to tell how many points a particular athlete scored is considered useul inormation but... Where was I? I you are a single man or woman just getting into swinging you have to hone your conversational skills past the point needed or just dating or regular socializing. Unlike a couple, you don’t have someone else or moral support or security. Its just you, and you have to be able to tell which way is up beore your potential playmate(s) have a chance to pull the wool over your eyes (yes, couples will try to deceive you as ast as those evil single men and attention starved single women). The way to do this is to become so comortable talking to total strangers that they leave thinking they have known you orever but orgot your name. Practice talking to women on the street and nding out what technique works to get them to open up to you while at a bus stop or in line at a supermarket. Don’t try to pick them up, just try to start a light conversation. Then do the same with men you don’t know, then, most importantly, couples. Once you can approach a strange couple on the street and
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get them to talk to you, you will have the condence needed to make others have condence in you. For singles, especially single men, that is one o the biggest roadblocks to swinging: making others eel you are here or un, not because its your last resort or sex or socialization. Again, knowing how to start a conversation with a couple you don’t know in a non-sexual environment will go a long way to meeting couples when you go to clubs. First o all, i you are a single man who is practicing meeting couples on the street, you will almost automatically talk to the man and build some kind o rapport with him. I you are a single woman, you will most likely start by talking to the woman. I you do this enough, when you go to a swing club you will automatically all into that mode. Sure, everyone knows you are there hoping to eventually have sex, but by approaching the same sex member o a couple and talking to them instead o approaching the opposite sex partner will go a long way making the couple comortable with you. Once you get to the joking and firting part o the conversation, THEY will be the ones asking you to join them, not you asking i you can join them. Lastly, the condence thing again. Why do basketball players practice reethrows? So they know what works. Why do they practice jumpshots? So it becomes natural. Once something becomes natural, you will have condence in doing it. I you are a single used to talking to couples, it will go a long way to making couples comortable around you. Because they will see you are comortable talking to them. Once you have condence in yoursel, others will have condence in you. When others have condence in you, they are more likely to think o you avorably. avorably. When that happens, guys, “Nice tits Mrs. O” becomes a compliment, not a come on.
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Over 70% o people are now overweight, nearly 40% are obese and these numbers are increasing each year. year. This adversely aects our health, energy level, sexual perormance, sel condence and attractiveness to other swingers.
Being overweight dramatically increases our risk o developing many avoidable diseases. Smoking shortens lie by an average o 4 years while obesity shortens lie by an average o 10 years! It was recently reported that U.S. lie expectanc y is now declining. Now, more than ever, it is crucial that we each learn all we can about improving and protecting our health in order to live successully into old age…not just decline until we die. Staying thin and healthy today seems dicult and conusing to many because o the large number o approaches to weight control and health on the market today. There seem to be as many opinions as there are overweight people, including surgically making the stomach smaller, taking pregnancy hormones or prescription appetite suppressants and a plethora o other portion control gimmicks. All o these approaches ail sooner or later because they do not address the main causes o the problem.
The solution to weight gain, obesity and Here are 10 things you can begin doing premature aging is actually very simple immediately. I you can’t do them all, start when you understand the main reasons with one or a ew and gradually add more. why we’re getting sicker and atter than 1. Choose healthy oods that are denser ever beore. O ur arming and ood in nutrients. Shop or your oods oods on the processing practices produce oods that outer aisles o your grocery store and spend lack many key nutrients. Our brain is the most o your time in the organic ruits and vegetables sections. organ that determines whether or not we’re hungry…not our stomach…and 2. Enable your body to continuously cleanse out environmental toxins using botanicals it is constantly testing our blood or the and ingredients shown to assist in the presence o nutrients. When we eat meals removal o toxins. that don’t provide the nutrients we need, 3. Drink at least hal your body weight (in our brain sends out strong hunger signals pounds) in ounces o purifed water. water. It’s and we remain hungry, have cravings better to get a purifer and make your own and snack all day and end up consuming than it is to buy bottled water. enormous numbers o calories, yet we 4. Quit smoking. remain malnourished. As a result, we eat 5. Take supplements o antioxidants, ar more than we can burn o which leads botanicals, omega-3s, vitamins, minerals and other quality nutrients that fght aging and to gradually increasing body at. support your body.
At the same time, we’re being exposed to more and more chemicals and live in an increasingly polluted and poisonous world. These toxins build up in our fesh and cause diseases and hormonal disruptions that cause our bodies to store at (Google the term ‘obesogen’). And we’ve learned to tolerate chronic dehydration, which causes all our body systems to unction less than optimally. The very simple solution to low energy, excess body at, premature aging and other health challenges is to continuously food our bodies with the hundreds o nutrients we’re not predictably getting rom our ood so we can be very well nourished while receiving these nutrients in a low calorie ormat. ormat. This provides large amount o energy and shuts o between-meal hunger and cravings. We must also continuously continuously cleanse rom our bodies the toxic impurities that we can’t avoid and we must drink plenty o puried water.
482 individuals, groups, attorneys, prosecutors, and businesses contacted NCSF or help in 2009. Each incident sometimes required only one or two phone calls, but some evolved into much larger projects. What is NCSF?
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The National Coalition or Sexual Freedom (NCSF) was ormed in 1997 by a small group led by Susan Wright under the auspices o the New York SM Activists. The goal was to ght or sexual reedom and privacy rights or all adults who engage in sae, sane and consensual behavior. The National Coalition or Sexual Freedom is a national organization organization committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances equal rights o consenting adults who practice orms o alternative sexual expression. NCSF is primarily ocused on the rights o consenting adults in the SM-leather-etish, swing, and polyamory communities, who oten ace discrimination because o their sexual expression.
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It means we are the only organization organization dedicated specically to making the United States a better place or people in the LieStyle.
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What has NCSF done or us?
Over the years, distinct inquiries were made between NCSF and individuals, groups, attorneys, prosecutors, and businesses who requested assistance. In 2010, the National Coalition or Sexual Freedom (NCSF) again took the lead in deending the rights o individuals and groups in the SM,leather,etish, swing and polyamory communities. NCSF’s coalition o over 40 educational and social groups is committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances equal rights o consenting adults who practice orms o alternative sexual expression. NCSF’s Incident Response team is directed by Director Leigha Fleming. In total, over
In 2010, NCSF received 526 distinct inquiries/requests or assistance. 307 required more than one contact/response to resolve, oten requiring multiple contacts. It is dicult to categorize many incident requests as clearly alling into one camp or another. Many overlap in categories. For example, many o our custody/divorce related issues involve at least 2 o our core constituent groups (i.e. SM/leather/etish and poly or example). In trying to do a statistical breakdown o the requests, we placed it in the category it most clearly matched. 9% or 47 were requests regarding SM 39% or 204 were regarding criminal complaint issues 3% or 15 were regarding employment discrimination 24 % or 125 were regarding child custody/divorce custody/divorce issues 15.5% or 81 were related to SM/ leather/etish group issues 2% or 10 were classed as non employment discrimination 4% or 21 were related to swing community issues 1% or 10 were regarding online obscenity issues 2.5% or 13 were classed as “other” 2010 saw an increased number o requests around criminal and domestic violence or SM/abuse related issues. NCSF worked with more than 53 attorneys representing deendants in criminal cases. In addition, we worked with more than 17 district attorneys and prosecutors related to SM issues. The vast majority o these criminal cases revolved around domestic abuse or consensual sex/play issues. There is a clear need or education within our own communities about the role and limits o consent and or education to police authorities on the dierences between SM and abuse. Our Consent Counts project hopes to address some o these issues.
Q. What can I do? I don’t want the whole world to know what I do in my own bedroom. A.
Now, more than ever, NCSF needs you. This country’s radical shit back to “traditional values” will only mean more diculties or those o us who practice alternative orms o sexual expression. You can help by making a nancial donation; you can help by donating your time. We need members, coalition partners, and volunteers. Membership lists are condential, as are donations. The time you spend helping can be on the privacy o your own computer or in a more public orum. The choice is yours.
Q.
What would YOU do i you lost your job because your employer ound out you swing? What would YOU do i your children were removed by Social Services because your amily ound out you swing?
A.
NCSF is where you go when you need help in responding to incidents just like these and we can’t do it without you. Be a part o this growing organization and join us in the ght or your right to alternative sexual expression. National Coalition or Sexual Freedom 822 Guilord Avenue, Box 127 Baltimore, MD 21202-3707 ncsreedom@ncsreedom.org 410-539-4824
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6. Add at least 1 to 2 nutritionally dense protein shakes to your daily regimen to replace meals. It’s proven that nutrient density and low caloric intake is helpul in slowing aging and ensuring proper weight control. 7. Cut way back on coee, soda and other caeinated and highly acidic drinks and ease up on the alcohol c onsumption. 8. Practice healthy sleep habits. Eight hours a night is best. 9. Reduce stress. This is not easy sometimes, but fnding ways to handle stress is critic al to prevent premature aging. 10. Exercise daily, aiming or at least 30 minutes o activity.
I you will adopt this healthier liestyle the excess at will literally fy o your body and your lean muscle mass and energy will increase. You’ll eel and look better, eel better about yoursel and you’ll be well on your way to slowing down the aging process. There are several nutritional cleansing liestyle programs available that very eectively address these main causes o weight gain and health challenges (overeating because o nutritionally bankrupt oods and toxic overload because o environmental toxicity) while providing an easy way to adopt a healthier nutritional liestyle. I you’d like to learn more about one, visit yougohealthy.com and read the ino
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Over 70% o people are now overweight, nearly 40% are obese and these numbers are increasing each year. year. This adversely aects our health, energy level, sexual perormance, sel condence and attractiveness to other swingers.
Being overweight dramatically increases our risk o developing many avoidable diseases. Smoking shortens lie by an average o 4 years while obesity shortens lie by an average o 10 years! It was recently reported that U.S. lie expectanc y is now declining. Now, more than ever, it is crucial that we each learn all we can about improving and protecting our health in order to live successully into old age…not just decline until we die. Staying thin and healthy today seems dicult and conusing to many because o the large number o approaches to weight control and health on the market today. There seem to be as many opinions as there are overweight people, including surgically making the stomach smaller, taking pregnancy hormones or prescription appetite suppressants and a plethora o other portion control gimmicks. All o these approaches ail sooner or later because they do not address the main causes o the problem.
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The solution to weight gain, obesity and Here are 10 things you can begin doing premature aging is actually very simple immediately. I you can’t do them all, start when you understand the main reasons with one or a ew and gradually add more. why we’re getting sicker and atter than 1. Choose healthy oods that are denser ever beore. O ur arming and ood in nutrients. Shop or your oods oods on the processing practices produce oods that outer aisles o your grocery store and spend lack many key nutrients. Our brain is the most o your time in the organic ruits and vegetables sections. organ that determines whether or not we’re hungry…not our stomach…and 2. Enable your body to continuously cleanse out environmental toxins using botanicals it is constantly testing our blood or the and ingredients shown to assist in the presence o nutrients. When we eat meals removal o toxins. that don’t provide the nutrients we need, 3. Drink at least hal your body weight (in our brain sends out strong hunger signals pounds) in ounces o purifed water. water. It’s and we remain hungry, have cravings better to get a purifer and make your own and snack all day and end up consuming than it is to buy bottled water. enormous numbers o calories, yet we 4. Quit smoking. remain malnourished. As a result, we eat 5. Take supplements o antioxidants, ar more than we can burn o which leads botanicals, omega-3s, vitamins, minerals and other quality nutrients that fght aging and to gradually increasing body at. support your body.
At the same time, we’re being exposed to more and more chemicals and live in an increasingly polluted and poisonous world. These toxins build up in our fesh and cause diseases and hormonal disruptions that cause our bodies to store at (Google the term ‘obesogen’). And we’ve learned to tolerate chronic dehydration, which causes all our body systems to unction less than optimally. The very simple solution to low energy, excess body at, premature aging and other health challenges is to continuously food our bodies with the hundreds o nutrients we’re not predictably getting rom our ood so we can be very well nourished while receiving these nutrients in a low calorie ormat. ormat. This provides large amount o energy and shuts o between-meal hunger and cravings. We must also continuously continuously cleanse rom our bodies the toxic impurities that we can’t avoid and we must drink plenty o puried water.
6. Add at least 1 to 2 nutritionally dense protein shakes to your daily regimen to replace meals. It’s proven that nutrient density and low caloric intake is helpul in slowing aging and ensuring proper weight control. 7. Cut way back on coee, soda and other caeinated and highly acidic drinks and ease up on the alcohol c onsumption. 8. Practice healthy sleep habits. Eight hours a night is best. 9. Reduce stress. This is not easy sometimes, but fnding ways to handle stress is critic al to prevent premature aging. 10. Exercise daily, aiming or at least 30 minutes o activity.
I you will adopt this healthier liestyle the excess at will literally fy o your body and your lean muscle mass and energy will increase. You’ll eel and look better, eel better about yoursel and you’ll be well on your way to slowing down the aging process. There are several nutritional cleansing liestyle programs available that very eectively address these main causes o weight gain and health challenges (overeating because o nutritionally bankrupt oods and toxic overload because o environmental toxicity) while providing an easy way to adopt a healthier nutritional liestyle. I you’d like to learn more about one, visit yougohealthy.com and read the ino there. You can place your order or send an email requesting more inormation.
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Barb and Alan relied on the Internet or everything rom Automobile rating services to Zebra protection oundations. They described themselves as “savvy surers.” They were also a typical married couple who kept their sex lives very private. Behind their bedroom door, door, they stashed a ew magazines in the closet and a ew, choice X-rated DVDs in the night stand. Oh, and there was also one wonderul mega-dildo Barb would bring out when the mood got really playul.
To bring about a really playul mood one night, they fipped through their “adult” mags and spotted an ad or a LieStyle site. “I though it might be un to browse together,” Alan says. So o they went to their home-oce to re up the PC. The site they sured oered ree personal proles o couples as well as paid memberships with dierent levels o benets. “We were amazed,” Barb says. “Not by how many proles there were, but how many seemed ‘real.’ So we gured it might be a blast to t ry and e-mail some we ound attractive. And that’s exactly what we did. It all seemed so sae at ‘virtual’ distance.” Ater lling in the required registration and prole data or a ree membership, Alan says they sent out six e-mails that night, with simple Hello, introductory messages. Checking the next evening, they received two responses, including one very appealing response rom Vicki and Ted. “They sounded intelligent, humorous, and easy-going” Barb says. “Not at all pushy.” With Barb’s agreement, Alan wrote back, adding more details about who they were and their reasons or writing, which, at that point, was purely
the ollowing night. “We all just hit it o during the conversation,” Alan says, “and Barb and I elt comortable about the next step.” Fueled by a mix o new realities and instant antasies, they set a date wi th Vicki and Ted.
8 p.m. A restaurant located conveniently mid-point. mid-point. Our two couples meet. Physical attractions grow. Conversation ows. Sexual tension overows. Vicki and Ted oer oer an invitation to their apartment –– Barb and Alan enter the LieStyle! “I certainly don’t recommend that everyone should run o to a strange apartment with almost complete strangers,” Barb says, “But we had good eelings rom our phone conversations and our dinner meeting; lots o laughs, lots o common ground, and no heavy come-ons. So we let spontaneity take its course.” Once at Vicki and Ted’s, conversation about the LieStyle intensied into a more ocused exchange o interests and desires. Vicki and Ted enthusiastically covered a ew experiences they had at clubs, and with another couple they’d met through the Web site. They explained a ew basics about LieStyle etiquette: participate only as you wish, and only when mutually agreeable, and No means No. When Barb and Alan asked how things evolved at clubs,
“We got up to dance at Vicki’s invitation,” Barb says. “Frankly, I was primed rom the conversation, so the thought o holding Alan and eeling him all over me was something I craved. But I wasn’t sure what was going to happen.” “And I was just plain horny,” says Alan.
Since that memorable evening, Barb and Alan have “dated” Vicki and Ted and others they’ve met rom their new-ound Web resource. They’ve also discovered local club listings and reviews, and even lined up a LieStyle r elated travel destination or their summer vacation.
The oursome danced as respective couples or one, discoish song. Following the upbeat number, a slow, grinding ballad drited rom the CD player, and Barb and Alan soon elt Vicki’s hand sotly placed between them, ondling one, then the other. Beore long, both Vicki’s hands were going at it. She leaned in with her whole body, alternating kisses on Barb’s neck and then Alan’s neck. Within a minute, they were in a three-way embrace. Then Ted joined behind Barb or a our-way sex-clutch. They ondled away. Fabulously! The two men played up and down with the two women. The two women played up and down with the two men. And the two women played up and down with each other.
“We’ve ound that, with certain precautions, the site is a terric way to ease into the LieStyle, meeting people we eel are right or us,” Barb says. “So, now, we’re not only savvy surers, we’re sexy surers, too!”
“The evening unolded so naturally, so easily,” Barb says. “Ted wasn’t rude or rough, just gently eeling my body all over. And though I had never played with a woman beore, Vicki was so sensual. I just drited into the moment, it all elt so good.” Any lingering reservations drited away once an initial layer o clothing came o and amiliarity grew. “We laid down on their livingroom carpet, and the level o caressing really intensied,” Barb says. “I ound mysel enjoying, and being enjoyed, by my husband, and by Vicki and Ted. It was an entirely new and pleasurable experience, rom my head to my toes, in ront and in back. Hands, legs, tongues were everywhere. It was simply a l ong session o hot, hot sex.” That long session o torrid sex led to happy endings or all. Alan says, “And I have to say, the bagel bagel and coee conversation at day-break sure beat the usual review o the
A Quick Guide to Sexy Surfng • Once you select a LifeStlye Website, read couples’ (or individual’s) proles to gain an idea o the language, tone, and style you nd appealing or your own prole. • When writing your prole, provide only information you eel is appropriately relevant or others to know: use only rst names, nick names or initials, briefy describe your sexy characteristics, relate your LieStyle interests and expectations. Make sure you’re emphatic about wishing to meet couples only, or i you’re open to meeting single woman or single men. • After several comfortable e-mail exchanges via the site, you should arrange a phone conversation or webcam with all the potential participants. • Set up a date with those you are attracted to at a neutral, non-LifeStyle, public place (perhaps a bar or restaurant) for drinks or a dinner. If all goes well, plan a follow-up, maybe at a club rather than a more private venue. • Most importantly, maintain the proven, good rules of LifeStyle etiquette. Among the most important: do only what’s comortable or you and your partner, and No means
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Barb and Alan relied on the Internet or everything rom Automobile rating services to Zebra protection oundations. They described themselves as “savvy surers.” They were also a typical married couple who kept their sex lives very private. Behind their bedroom door, door, they stashed a ew magazines in the closet and a ew, choice X-rated DVDs in the night stand. Oh, and there was also one wonderul mega-dildo Barb would bring out when the mood got really playul.
To bring about a really playul mood one night, they fipped through their “adult” mags and spotted an ad or a LieStyle site. “I though it might be un to browse together,” Alan says. So o they went to their home-oce to re up the PC. The site they sured oered ree personal proles o couples as well as paid memberships with dierent levels o benets. “We were amazed,” Barb says. “Not by how many proles there were, but how many seemed ‘real.’ So we gured it might be a blast to t ry and e-mail some we ound attractive. And that’s exactly what we did. It all seemed so sae at ‘virtual’ distance.” Ater lling in the required registration and prole data or a ree membership, Alan says they sent out six e-mails that night, with simple Hello, introductory messages. Checking the next evening, they received two responses, including one very appealing response rom Vicki and Ted. “They sounded intelligent, humorous, and easy-going” Barb says. “Not at all pushy.” With Barb’s agreement, Alan wrote back, adding more details about who they were and their reasons or writing, which, at that point, was purely exploratory. Vicki and Ted replied, in turn, suggesting a our-way phone conversation. That call happened
the ollowing night. “We all just hit it o during the conversation,” Alan says, “and Barb and I elt comortable about the next step.” Fueled by a mix o new realities and instant antasies, they set a date wi th Vicki and Ted.
8 p.m. A restaurant located conveniently mid-point. mid-point. Our two couples meet. Physical attractions grow. Conversation ows. Sexual tension overows. Vicki and Ted oer oer an invitation to their apartment –– Barb and Alan enter the LieStyle! “I certainly don’t recommend that everyone should run o to a strange apartment with almost complete strangers,” Barb says, “But we had good eelings rom our phone conversations and our dinner meeting; lots o laughs, lots o common ground, and no heavy come-ons. So we let spontaneity take its course.” Once at Vicki and Ted’s, conversation about the LieStyle intensied into a more ocused exchange o interests and desires. Vicki and Ted enthusiastically covered a ew experiences they had at clubs, and with another couple they’d met through the Web site. They explained a ew basics about LieStyle etiquette: participate only as you wish, and only when mutually agreeable, and No means No. When Barb and Alan asked how things evolved at clubs, Ted cued up some appropriately sexy music and the context changed rom a lecture to a lab!
“We got up to dance at Vicki’s invitation,” Barb says. “Frankly, I was primed rom the conversation, so the thought o holding Alan and eeling him all over me was something I craved. But I wasn’t sure what was going to happen.” “And I was just plain horny,” says Alan.
Since that memorable evening, Barb and Alan have “dated” Vicki and Ted and others they’ve met rom their new-ound Web resource. They’ve also discovered local club listings and reviews, and even lined up a LieStyle r elated travel destination or their summer vacation.
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Travel Events Events & Conventions C onventions 2011 - 2012 LieStyle Cruises Windstar Caribbean Cruise rom St. Martin January 21 - 28, 2012 The largest sailing ship in the world, the Wind Sur is a sleek, ve-masted sailing yacht that is also a ully stablized cruise ship accommodating 312 guests. Explore wonderul beaches, Caribbean Villages and other exciting shore excursions. You might choose to skip the shore excursions and opted or a day at the spa. The Wind Sur oers a dazzling array o water sports and toys. When she pulls into one o the many secluded anchorages we will visit she drops the rear swim platorm and... voila! Instant marina with all o the toys. www.ToplessTravel.com
Jewel o the Seas January 28 - February 2, 2013 6 Days and 5 Nights Tampa - Grand Cayman - Mexico - Tampa
April 29 - May 6, 2012 Exotic and intimate, a select group o liestyle couples will cruise the Galapagos Islands on the Celebrity Xpedition. The Celebrity Xpedition is a smaller cruise ship by today’s standards, but one o the largest to navigate the Galapagos Islands. It will make multiple stops or everyone to see some o nature’s most unique wildlie and auna, as well as indulge in its rich history. Cabins start as low as $4,250.00 per/person, double occupancy plus additional ees.
www.ToplessTravel.com
877-90-SWING
April 13 - 20, 2013 Join over 2,100 people on one o the most impressive cruise ships in the world or another Full Ship Charter, Couples Only, Clothing Optional Cruise. We will be leaving rom beautiul San Juan, Puerto Rico on a Southern Caribbean Journey that will include Aruba & Curacao beore heading back north so we can visit St. Kitts & St. Maarten. Book today so you can add these great islands to your list o places you have visited. Cabins start as low as $775.00 per/person, double occupancy plus taxes, gratuities and admin ees. www.ToplessTravel.com
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Spring 2012 Splash
November 5 - 12, 12, 2011 (8 day event) event) SwingLieStyle is Hosting the 2nd annual week-long Meet & Greet or couples only, at the world-amous Hedonism II. Meet your avorite couples and invite them to join you along with other members rom SLS! Only 100 rooms so don’t hesitate to book this all-inclusive private event - Food, Booze, 5 Restaurants, Water Sports, Theme-Parties every night, and sexy games during the day on the beach and by the pool. It’s the ultimate guilty vacation without the guilt!
May 17-19, 2012 Dixie’s Clothing Optional Florida Fall Splash Party, May 17 - 19, 2012. Join us or 3 days o un or our Hotel Takeover! Live Pool Entertainment, Theme Dances, Party Rooms, Body Painting, Meet n Greet Hookup Play Shop, Specialty Vendors. Selective meals included along with Breakast & Appetizers. Prizes and Drawings or Liestyle events. Contact us to make your reservation at 888-278-2483 or 954-781-1750. We are giving you Loads o Advance notice this time, so no excuses or not getting there. This party lls up ast so book today!
877-90-SWING
www.dixiedoesorida.com/
Join 2,000+ Swingers. Couples Only, Clothing Optional Cruise. NO Kids. Couples Only. Great Entertainment Erotic Theme Nights. Workshops. Meet & Greets Pool Parties. Adult Games. Comedians and More.
Brilliance o the Seas Galapagos Islands Adventure Cruise
C on ve nt i o ns
Hedonism II
www.ToplessTravel.com
877-90-SWING
Costa Rica January 11 - 15, 2012 (5 day event) - Couples Only Liestyle Adventure Weekend A Swinger’s event unlike any other. Meet lots o likeminded couples and many local Latin Ladies! We are limited to 25 couples to the Exotic Country o Costa Rica where the daytime adventures are World Class and the Adult Night-Lie is Smokin’ Hot. Hosted by SwingLieStyle and ToplessTravel ToplessTravel www.ToplessTravel.com
877-90-SWING
877-90-SWING
www.ToplessTravel.com
877-90-SWING
January 28 - Feb 4, 2012 SwingLieStyle and Topless Travel has s ecured a PRIVATE OASIS unlike anything else in Liestyle travel! Be part o the “It Crowd” that calls this place the “Haven o Heaven”! Clothing-optional resort located on the unspoiled coast o the Dominican Republic in the Caribbean. Where tropical orests and mountains meet the aquamarine sea and a private nude beach! www.ToplessTravel.com
July 26-29, 2012 We’ve sold out completely each year. Every room and over 240 people or 3 days and 3 nights o un, sensuality, games, play shops, prizes, playrooms, ood, dances, entertainment & (optional) Debauchery. Thank you so much or the tremendous response! Every year has been one hell o a party! But sadly, we’ve had to turn down many couples who just called too late. So please, don’t be closed out. Call us now to reserve your room www.tampabayescapes.com/
813-293-7663
International Swingers Day The Convention August 8 - 12, 2012 Caliente Caribe, Dominican Republic. Celebrate International Swingers’ Day World-Wide on August 11th. International Swingers Day (ISD) is a celebration or swingers worldwide. The purpose o ISD is to honor the growing sexual revolution among the swinging community while addressing the needs o the industry via a Liestyle convention. Visit www. InternationalSwingersDay.com to book your room.
Caribe Resort
November 11 - 18, 2012 Are you ready or the biggest swinger cruise o 2012? It’s time to start making your reservations or the top swingers cruise o 2012. The swinger cruise ship “Freedom o the Seas” will set sail in November 2012 or sun and un in exotic Caribbean destinations. The best rooms sell out quickly or this highseas swinging adventure so get started by checking cabin availability now! Cabins start as low as $790.00 per/person, double occupancy plus taxes, gratuities and admin ees.
888-278-2483
TampaBayEscapes 4 National Swingers’ Convention
877-90-SWING
Freedom o the Seas
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www.InternationalSwingersDay.com
877-90-SWING
Tr a v e l E v e n t s
Travel Events Events & Conventions C onventions 2011 - 2012 LieStyle Cruises Windstar Caribbean Cruise rom St. Martin January 21 - 28, 2012 The largest sailing ship in the world, the Wind Sur is a sleek, ve-masted sailing yacht that is also a ully stablized cruise ship accommodating 312 guests. Explore wonderul beaches, Caribbean Villages and other exciting shore excursions. You might choose to skip the shore excursions and opted or a day at the spa. The Wind Sur oers a dazzling array o water sports and toys. When she pulls into one o the many secluded anchorages we will visit she drops the rear swim platorm and... voila! Instant marina with all o the toys. www.ToplessTravel.com
Jewel o the Seas January 28 - February 2, 2013 6 Days and 5 Nights Tampa - Grand Cayman - Mexico - Tampa
www.ToplessTravel.com
877-90-SWING
April 13 - 20, 2013 Join over 2,100 people on one o the most impressive cruise ships in the world or another Full Ship Charter, Couples Only, Clothing Optional Cruise. We will be leaving rom beautiul San Juan, Puerto Rico on a Southern Caribbean Journey that will include Aruba & Curacao beore heading back north so we can visit St. Kitts & St. Maarten. Book today so you can add these great islands to your list o places you have visited. Cabins start as low as $775.00 per/person, double occupancy plus taxes, gratuities and admin ees. www.ToplessTravel.com
www.ToplessTravel.com
Spring 2012 Splash
November 5 - 12, 12, 2011 (8 day event) event) SwingLieStyle is Hosting the 2nd annual week-long Meet & Greet or couples only, at the world-amous Hedonism II. Meet your avorite couples and invite them to join you along with other members rom SLS! Only 100 rooms so don’t hesitate to book this all-inclusive private event - Food, Booze, 5 Restaurants, Water Sports, Theme-Parties every night, and sexy games during the day on the beach and by the pool. It’s the ultimate guilty vacation without the guilt!
May 17-19, 2012 Dixie’s Clothing Optional Florida Fall Splash Party, May 17 - 19, 2012. Join us or 3 days o un or our Hotel Takeover! Live Pool Entertainment, Theme Dances, Party Rooms, Body Painting, Meet n Greet Hookup Play Shop, Specialty Vendors. Selective meals included along with Breakast & Appetizers. Prizes and Drawings or Liestyle events. Contact us to make your reservation at 888-278-2483 or 954-781-1750. We are giving you Loads o Advance notice this time, so no excuses or not getting there. This party lls up ast so book today!
877-90-SWING
www.dixiedoesorida.com/
Join 2,000+ Swingers. Couples Only, Clothing Optional Cruise. NO Kids. Couples Only. Great Entertainment Erotic Theme Nights. Workshops. Meet & Greets Pool Parties. Adult Games. Comedians and More.
Brilliance o the Seas
April 29 - May 6, 2012 Exotic and intimate, a select group o liestyle couples will cruise the Galapagos Islands on the Celebrity Xpedition. The Celebrity Xpedition is a smaller cruise ship by today’s standards, but one o the largest to navigate the Galapagos Islands. It will make multiple stops or everyone to see some o nature’s most unique wildlie and auna, as well as indulge in its rich history. Cabins start as low as $4,250.00 per/person, double occupancy plus additional ees.
Hedonism II
www.ToplessTravel.com
877-90-SWING
Galapagos Islands Adventure Cruise
C on ve nt i o ns
Costa Rica January 11 - 15, 2012 (5 day event) - Couples Only Liestyle Adventure Weekend A Swinger’s event unlike any other. Meet lots o likeminded couples and many local Latin Ladies! We are limited to 25 couples to the Exotic Country o Costa Rica where the daytime adventures are World Class and the Adult Night-Lie is Smokin’ Hot. Hosted by SwingLieStyle and ToplessTravel ToplessTravel www.ToplessTravel.com
877-90-SWING
877-90-SWING
Caribe Resort January 28 - Feb 4, 2012 SwingLieStyle and Topless Travel has s ecured a PRIVATE OASIS unlike anything else in Liestyle travel! Be part o the “It Crowd” that calls this place the “Haven o Heaven”! Clothing-optional resort located on the unspoiled coast o the Dominican Republic in the Caribbean. Where tropical orests and mountains meet the aquamarine sea and a private nude beach!
November 11 - 18, 2012 Are you ready or the biggest swinger cruise o 2012? It’s time to start making your reservations or the top swingers cruise o 2012. The swinger cruise ship “Freedom o the Seas” will set sail in November 2012 or sun and un in exotic Caribbean destinations. The best rooms sell out quickly or this highseas swinging adventure so get started by checking cabin availability now! Cabins start as low as $790.00 per/person, double occupancy plus taxes, gratuities and admin ees. www.ToplessTravel.com
www.ToplessTravel.com
July 26-29, 2012 We’ve sold out completely each year. Every room and over 240 people or 3 days and 3 nights o un, sensuality, games, play shops, prizes, playrooms, ood, dances, entertainment & (optional) Debauchery. Thank you so much or the tremendous response! Every year has been one hell o a party! But sadly, we’ve had to turn down many couples who just called too late. So please, don’t be closed out. Call us now to reserve your room www.tampabayescapes.com/
813-293-7663
International Swingers Day The Convention August 8 - 12, 2012 Caliente Caribe, Dominican Republic. Celebrate International Swingers’ Day World-Wide on August 11th. International Swingers Day (ISD) is a celebration or swingers worldwide. The purpose o ISD is to honor the growing sexual revolution among the swinging community while addressing the needs o the industry via a Liestyle convention. Visit www. InternationalSwingersDay.com to book your room.
877-90-SWING
Freedom o the Seas
888-278-2483
TampaBayEscapes 4 National Swingers’ Convention
www.InternationalSwingersDay.com
877-90-SWING
877-90-SWING
877-90-SWING
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readers. I you are interested in contributing, contact us to discuss your project. Plus, let us know what you think about our publication. Remember, this is your magazine and you can help make it great. More inormation call 754-300 2436 or email at:
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Sot or Full Swap Swinging What’s right or you?
Help Wanted LieStyle Magazine is produced by swingers, or swingers. We are always looking or volunteers in editorial, photographic, artistic, and poetic submissions rom our
Mingles The dierence between swinging and cheating.
readers. I you are interested in contributing, contact us to discuss your project. Plus, let us know what you think about our publication. Remember, this is your magazine and you can help make it great. More inormation call 754-300 2436 or email at:
You Might Be a Swinger i...
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